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Exporting & Importing Goods: importing from china, importing from china, usa market
importing from china, usa market, necessary condition: Dear Dan, As my know,UL certifice is suitable in USA market,I am unclear if you can sale the products with CE in USA, normally,UL certificate is a key for electric products to sale in US market,I am working in a electric equipment company,because most of...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing electronics from china, small mp3 players, importing electronics
small mp3 players, importing electronics, small electronics: Hi, If they re really samples, the best way is simply by FedEx or UPS. Any and all documentation should be marked as SAMPLES and a very very low commercial value. the actual invoice amount shouldn t be all that much. Ask the exporter how they want the funds....

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing electronics frm China, importing electronics, dear pete
importing electronics, dear pete, pete rodriguez: Dear Pete Rodriguez, I am glad to receive your letter! Normally,the government charge the custom fee according to the worth of the goods (the price you fill in the export document),no matter the parts labeled samples or not,so if you want to decrease...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing eternal hard disk drives from china to india, gurpreet singh, external hard disks
gurpreet singh, external hard disks, chinese port: Dear Gurpreet Sigh, The whole process for international trade almost is the same,the following information I sent other person for your reference. The first step in international trade,you should find a good supplier,the suppliers offer good products...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing gifts, commercial samples, import fees
commercial samples, import fees, true gifts: If they are true gifts, then you can tell US Customs that they are gifts. You will be allowed a certain amount of value to the total goods you plan on brining into the country. If you are bringing them in personally when you arrive in the US, then...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing good from china, chinese businessmen, garment business
chinese businessmen, garment business, quality garments: Hi Edouard, First, I think Arbitration terms are very popular now in China and can be found in many of formated documents. Usually it s not a key point of the agreement and the suppliers should accept such kind of terms. Of course, Chinese like to say ...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing goods, export duties, importing goods
export duties, importing goods, sending money: To my knowledge there is no customs tax payable by the Chinese supplier when exporting electronic games. I could be wrong, since the laws in China are always changing, but the point is: why didn t the supplier tell your son about the 240 euros tax fee BEFORE...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing goods into Canada from Mexico, importing goods into canada, dual country
importing goods into canada, dual country, federal taxpayers: Hi Sarah, You need to get a dual country Customs Broker. They will arrange for any dutiable payments, etc. I would suggest contacting the local Schenker International office - www.schenker.com You will be charged for their services, however, you...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing goods from china to Canada, importing goods from china, furniture supplier
importing goods from china, furniture supplier, import goods: Hi,Michelle, I am glad to receive your email. Have you found supplier already? Regarding the freight for a container,there are different charges at different port,if you do not find furniture supplier,I can recommend the supplier to you for your reference....

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing goods, importing from china, importing goods
importing from china, importing goods, hairdressing supplies: Dear Cheers, Sorry I almost forget your question for so long a time. I should answer it once I received but at that time I was in a business trip. To start a small business of importing from China, I think you need to realize: 1) How much you will and...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing granite, granite products, granite block
granite products, granite block, working in china: Hi Sakander, I don t know the tax and tariffs,even the licenses in U.K,I am working in China,our uk customers buy from us,they only ask us to prepare the products,I don t know the stipulate in uk,I am sorry. But,in china,our granite products have good...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing from india, importing from india, ebay
importing from india, ebay, e mail: Hi Surj. I have an agent in India who may be able to help you. Let me know exactly what it is that you would like to bring in and the quantities. It will take me a little while to respond to you as I am traveling in Brazil. You can send me an e-mail...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing items, jiangsu china, shanghai port
jiangsu china, shanghai port, motocross tires: Dear Adele, Sorry for late reply,I am on holiday day from 1st Oct to 7th Oct. Why not you connect with the supplier for this question directly? I think they will arrange all of export issue in China,there are two port in China where near WUXI city, Shanghai...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing ivory into the US, canadian wildlife service, elephant ivory
canadian wildlife service, elephant ivory, antique ivory: Dear Rebecca, To import antique (over 100 years old) elephant ivory, you must obtain a CITES pre-Convention certificate from the CITES Management Authority for the country where the piece containing ivory is located. The permit must clearly state that the...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing laws, importing laws, net weights
importing laws, net weights, commercial invoice: Dear Donna, Customs has no special requirements to import shoes from Spain. Only the general rules of importing apply. Required documents: 1. Commercial invoice with a description of the products, their value, and the gross and net weights. 2....

Exporting & Importing Goods: How to get an importing license?, diffrent place, export goods
diffrent place, export goods, import and export: Dear Eddie, I am pleased to receive your email. I would like to know which country you are living in,I am in China,the company just apply for right to import and export goods,but the government just licensed to the company which have stated capital....

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing machinary from the US, laser screed, customs and excise
laser screed, customs and excise, machinary: Dear Helen, The rate of duty will be based on the classification of your laser. I am not familiar with the duties and taxes that are applied in the UK. You should contact a broker there and provide them with as much info as you can about your import....

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing private label shoes, full time business, steve madden shoes
full time business, steve madden shoes, brand name shoes: Most companies, entrepreneurs and inventors who need a China sourcing professional start by asking everyone they know for a referral -- family members, friends of friends, colleagues and associates... If they can t get a referral through someone they know...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing silk from India, starting an import business, bedding accessories
starting an import business, bedding accessories, import requirements: Dear Susan, The U.S. Customs website has information regarding starting an import business. Go to www.cbp.gov and click on the Import tab at the top of the page. Then click on Trade Rules and Regulations at the lower right of this page. At the bottom...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing soap, organic soap, customs broker
organic soap, customs broker, going in the right direction: Hi George, I need a bit more information with respect to classifying your soap - It may or may not require FDA approval, (most likely not), but we need to answer a series of questions in order to classify it properly. With respect to comparing shippers,...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing from southeast asia, better business bureaus, business agency
better business bureaus, business agency, question test: There is no online database to check , you only can call local registration to check ,but they don t speak English . Or you can requre that company provide you the register documents for reference . BTW, My company provide verify service , if you need...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing from UK, how to start an import business, starting an import business
how to start an import business, starting an import business, surety bonds: Dear Sasha, If you are interested in starting an import business the first step is to make yourself familiar with a basic understanding of importing. If you go to the U.S. Customs website you can find out how to start an import business. www.cbp.gov...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing from Ukraine, us customs broker, harmonized tariff
us customs broker, harmonized tariff, handcrafted cards: Dear Aaron, In order to answer all of your questions thoroughly, I would need to have more details on the exact products you would like to bring in. Basically, importation is as follows: 1. You have your goods manufactured and packed for shipping...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing into the u.s, us customs service, jfk new york
us customs service, jfk new york, import regulations: Hi Tal, Living in Israel. I m not an expert on the U.S. import regulations. However if you click over to the US Customs Service. http://www.customs.gov/xp/cgov/import/infrequent_importer_info/ They have all the information your looking for in this specific...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing from uk, export declarations, customs broker
export declarations, customs broker, import regulations: Hi Arturo, I am not completely familiar with the import regulations in Mexico - I would suggest contacting a Schenker office, (you can find them at http://www.schenker.com ). They will be able to give you the name of a customs broker in Mexico, who...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing upholstery leather hide to australia frm india, australian import regulations, tnt worldwide
australian import regulations, tnt worldwide, tnt world: dear muzamil, the best for your cousin is to get in touch with any customs clearing agent in australia. clearing agent will arrange for all procedures to be fulfilled to comply with australian import regulations. qurantine cert is required in all transactions...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing wine from Italty, wine and cheese, naples italy
wine and cheese, naples italy, italty: Dear John, Thank you for the question. In the fact, I don t know what you d like to ask me. Will you please give some detailed informations? Besides, I also have a friend in Italy (Forli) in business of food, including cheese, do you have interest...

Exporting & Importing Goods: importing, brother lives, finance dept
brother lives, finance dept, foreign banks: dear lily there are many local formalities under local laws so the best way to get these details is to visit any main brand of foreign banks in your area or call trade finance dept of any big bank and ask them to guide you.......... this is the best...

Exporting & Importing Goods: incoterm, tansen marg, amit mitra
tansen marg, amit mitra, hotmail: What exactly do u mean by data about the term of 2000 etc.? There are a huge number of INCOTERMS definitions. If u have a query about one or two particular terms, I can tell u the definitions (hopefully). If, however, u wish to buy the INCOTERMS publication,...

Exporting & Importing Goods: info on importing, plastic raw material, work pls
plastic raw material, work pls, specialisation: Firstly, my area of specialisation is leather goods export from India. However, for importing anything from India (to which country?), you need to know the laws of the importing country, not so much the laws of India. The concerned exporter, of course,...

Exporting & Importing Goods: information on import/export, import export business, customs brokers
import export business, customs brokers, local customs: Hi David, There are some mighty big questions you re asking. If you live in the USA and are bring goods into it, that puts you into Import. If on the other hand you live in Asia with your eye on selling to the USA that puts you on the export side of the...

Exporting & Importing Goods: jewelry import, diamonds and gold, customs broker
diamonds and gold, customs broker, customs brokers: You will need an import license. I am not certain of the requirements for bringing them back with you. The Customs web site has a section for travelers that you might read prior to your trip. Go to www.cbp.gov. You may want to enlist the help of a Customs...

Exporting & Importing Goods: joint venture, printing offset machine, pesident
printing offset machine, pesident, chinese company: Dear Harish, I am back office now,sorry for late reply. I have touched the communication process of Joint Venture,it is Amercian company who want to invest Chinese company in field of Environment Protection Equipment. I am sorry to say I confuse...

Exporting & Importing Goods: kids licensed clothes, risk assumption, china price
risk assumption, china price, manufacturer in china: If you are selling them already, then you must also be buying them from somewhere. I assume you are buying from an importer or wholesaler, and now you want to go direct to the manufacturer in China in order to reduce your costs? That sounds great, but keep...

Exporting & Importing Goods: could you let me know about this company?, fujian china, china mainland
fujian china, china mainland, target price: Yes, I must understand your requirements then I can help you . Please adise your purchase ability , target price ,etc, more details info to me .Please contact info@sinosourcing.com.cn for more details . Thank you . Regards, www.sinosourcing.com.c...

Exporting & Importing Goods: How to know if a company that your placing a order with and giving money to exists?, mei zhou, overseas manufacturer
mei zhou, overseas manufacturer, binkey: Hi Brenda, You could ask that a Letter of Credit be used if you don t trust the company. It ll reduce the risk by a great deal but it can be a bit pricy and doesn t eliminate risk entirely. You could also correspond with the firm and ask for client references....

Exporting & Importing Goods: to know about import goods, import goods, import products
import goods, import products, bussiness: Dear Ajay, It s really a big question because there re so many products you can import and sell. I suggest go to www.alibaba.com to check what you have interest and I think they also have a very complete list for all the goods. Sincerely Yours, Mar...

Exporting & Importing Goods: L/C Payment, insight points, brooke wunnicke
insight points, brooke wunnicke, acts of god: Hi Richard, Following appeared in press few days back. I had already forwaded this article to more than 20 friends. I think it would also be helpful for you ========================================================== The 11 September attacks on the United...

Exporting & Importing Goods: L/Cs, c lines, 30 million
c lines, 30 million, dubai: Hi Paul, The easiest path to take is straight to your current bank in Dubai. If they are not able to assist you, move banks to one that can. Also, once you have discussed your needs with a bank, take the offer to another bank and start shopping around until...

Exporting & Importing Goods: about L/Cs, import export agent, middle man
import export agent, middle man, matchmaker: Hi Joseph, Yes, but either side s bank may not agree to cooperate. A lot of banks do not like complex L/C transactions and you ve added just a little extra layer that banks don t like. So get both sides OK before doing that. Personally I wouldn t do it...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Labeling Requirements, reflective safety vest, paper towels
reflective safety vest, paper towels, private brand: Michael, Unless excepted, every article of foreign origin imported into the U.S. must be marked in a conspicuous place as legibly, indelibly, and permanently as the nature of the article (or container) will permit, in such a manner as to indicate to the...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Labeling Requirements, reflective safety vest, products made in china
reflective safety vest, products made in china, private brand: Dear Michael, Sorry for the delay since I m in holiday now. Usually the products made in china should be labelled made in China instead of anything else. It s controlled very strickly at the both customs. There s is also a way out: Make a blanket...

Exporting & Importing Goods: LED lighting, led lighting, factories
led lighting, factories, email: Dear Floyd, Yes, I can find for you many of these companies. Please send me the detailed information of what you need, such as where to deliver, quantity, specification, and what kind of certification required. I will send you a list of factories after...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Leather goods from Guatemala, lab test results, cattle ranch
lab test results, cattle ranch, surety bond: Dear Augusto, To start make sure there is a market for the hides or beef. Determine your cost to import and if you will be making any profit. To import hides if they are not tanned you will be able to enter them duty free. If tanned they are considered...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Leather goods Import into UK, azo dyes, quality certifications
azo dyes, quality certifications, hazardous chemicals: 1] No quality certificate is mandatory under the laws of the UK or India. However, you must instruct the supplier (who is, of course, already aware) to ensure that the finished leather goods or any components thereof do not contain the banned AZO Dyes, PCP...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Legitimacy of chinese company, hebei china, ec trade
hebei china, ec trade, living in beijing: Dear Bianca, You can send it to me by fax 0086 10 80703388, please write my full name (Shen Fang) on the copy of document,because there are a lot of people in company.please inform me by mail lelandfang@hotmail,after you sent it. I will translate it...

Exporting & Importing Goods: LOI,POP,PB QUESTION, finance dept, performance bond
finance dept, performance bond, trade finance: sir frankly, i could not get what you are asking. but this is a specifically high volume trade and it has its own norms. we can not tell you something for sure because the steel industry has adopted its own way of dealing with transactions. however, i...

Exporting & Importing Goods: labeling requirements for products made in China, products made in china, business laws
products made in china, business laws, thanks in advance: Dear Pete, I m not familar with the local regulation but usually every product need to have to label showing where it is made from. In most of the business laws, if the cost of the assembling or installing reaches a certain percentage of the total cost,...

Exporting & Importing Goods: labeling requirements, customs and border protection, one penn plaza
customs and border protection, one penn plaza, u s customs and border protection: Randy, In my experience when items are too small to label individually they are packaged separately in clear plastic bags that have the country of origin printed on the bag or on a sticker that is attached to the bag. There would be additional costs but...

Exporting & Importing Goods: legal aspcts of export sales, export contract, transport bill
export contract, transport bill, written agreements: It would depend on what your situation is, but as far as collecting payment your requirements should appear on the transport bill of lading. Never ship anything on a waybill unless you know the consignee is reliable to pay or you have been paid up front....

Exporting & Importing Goods: looking for an agency of a reputable co., dear colleague, chinese manufacturers
dear colleague, chinese manufacturers, pharmaceutical company: Dear Hamid, Please look into the site http://www.alibaba.com to found all kinds of chinese manufacturers. Most of them can sale directly to the overseas and this site is the biggest in china I think, for business. Or if you can t find what you need,...

Exporting & Importing Goods: looking for contacts, import export business, beauty supplies
import export business, beauty supplies, watches: Hi Jasmaine, I think Alibaba (www.alibaba.com) is where you can find all the suppliers you need. Please try to find some you are interested. If you have any problem between the communications, please feel free to contact with me. Regards Mar...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Making sure the goods are in the box, fly by night, products made in china
fly by night, products made in china, money transfer: Hi Curtiss, That depends on valuable the contents are and how much you re willing to pay for it. You can always have the goods inspected a company that specializes in shipment inspections but it s very expensive. One such company is Veritas (sp?). More importantly,...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Meaningf of PI, quantity unit, buyer seller
quantity unit, buyer seller, invoice: Dear Shannon, It means Proforma Invoice. Usually you need to show the details of the buyer, seller, description of the goods, quantity, unit price, total amount as well as important sales terms on it. At the bottom of the PI, please also add your signature...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Mushrooms, canned mushrooms, kinds of mushrooms
canned mushrooms, kinds of mushrooms, mr wang: Hi Claude, Thank you for your question. What s the scientific name/formal name of your black mushrooms? What s your package of the products, the processiong way of the products,it is dried or canned mushrooms? The quality classification ......The better...

Exporting & Importing Goods: medical devices, heart pumps blood, quality system requirements
heart pumps blood, quality system requirements, patagonia arizona: Greetings Glenn, I apologize for the delay in my response, I ve been extremely busy and did not receive email notification of your question. Though I have no direct experience with securing FDA approval for medical devices, I have always found that the...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Need some career advice, dumb blind luck, international slant
dumb blind luck, international slant, overseas banks: Hi Karen, I m flatered that you look at me as an inspiration. I m not sure I m actually worthy of that though. You re in a good position to start moving toward your goal. Just don t expect to achieve it instantly as it s usually a slow series of calculated...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Need to verify supplier, apple iphone, sdn bhd
apple iphone, sdn bhd, open delivery: I answered your question earlier (as follows). One David has meanwhile sent me the following info: Wondering if the person you answered this question for confirmed whether or not the supplier was a scam. I also contacted this same party and want to ensure...

Exporting & Importing Goods: New Business in UK, chinese factories, master in business administration
chinese factories, master in business administration, business in uk: Dear Alaa, You would register your brand in China,It s necessary to prevent other factory in china to manufacture your brand. Regarding the mobile phone quality control,I don t know the products ,so I could t give you any idea,you would ask the technician...

Exporting & Importing Goods: New to Export Busniess, export arrangements, export documentation
export arrangements, export documentation, export documents: EX-WORKS (.... NAMED PLACE) =========================== Ex-Works is the term of sale most suited to the seller. Under the ex-works the seller only has to make the goods ready for pick-up at his warehouse. The seller is not responsible for loading of...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Nominated Cargo Agent, telex release, shipping forwarder
telex release, shipping forwarder, mutual cooperation: Dear Lftikhar, I am glad to receive your email. Regarding the cargo shipments,I am not familiar with Pakistan shipping company,normally,my merchandise is shipped to oversea countries via Chinese shipping forwarder. Master bill of lading mean the bill...

Exporting & Importing Goods: it need advice, custom duty, exporting goods
custom duty, exporting goods, commiting: Hi Shalom, It depends on what you want to import, quantities involved, and other factors. If you send me an e-mail to steve@machineimports.com I will reply with my contact information so you can call my office. We also have a local sales office in...

Exporting & Importing Goods: need to ask, export import business, products from china
export import business, products from china, onlinebusiness: Hi,Roger, I am glad to receive your email. There is a business model named drop shipping,you could know something about that business model from website http://onlinebusiness.about.com/od/startingup/a/dropshipping.htm and www.doba.com. I think that business...

Exporting & Importing Goods: need to ask, export import business, business program
export import business, business program, home based business: Dear Roger, I think you can try to collect some local demands of the business and find a partner in the other side of the world. Please visit www.pt5.cn to see how we are doing in commission base. And how we cooperated with overseas agent at www.pt5meb.com....

Exporting & Importing Goods: need to ask, export import business, digital photo frame
export import business, digital photo frame, import export business: Dear Ao, Sorry again for the delay. I thought I d answered your question on 30th or 31st Dec but couldn t find it! Question 1: I suggest you find what you have interest on www.alibaba.com. The site has all kinds of products from China and I m sure you...

Exporting & Importing Goods: need to ask, hong kong and mainland china, singaphore
hong kong and mainland china, singaphore, communication engineer: Read my profile - I specialize in China, not the other countries you listed. If you want to find manufacturers in China, use Alibaba.com, GlobalSources.com and Made-In-China.com. To find trade shows taking place in Hong Kong and Mainland China, use: ...

Exporting & Importing Goods: need to ask, singaphore, communication engineer
singaphore, communication engineer, malysia: it depends on how much you will invest , if you want to be a agent for a good product, it need lots of money . I suggest you go to some electronics shows in China or Hongkong to meet some factories to talk directly . Regards, www.sinosourcing.com.c...

Exporting & Importing Goods: need to ask, countery, gmail
countery, gmail, advantage products: Dear Jackie, If you want to engaging on the export,you should find out what kinds of products are advantage in your country,usually we could get the information from the local government s commerce website,government may state the factory s information...

Exporting & Importing Goods: need help, export import business, import export business
export import business, import export business, quartz clock: sorry for reply so late,that s because we can t log in oversea website due to the earthquake happened on Dec 26. maybe you would study on the mp3/mp4, LED flashlight,quartz clock/watch,wireless phone which to be used at home, computer USB camera/vidicon,electron...

Exporting & Importing Goods: I need help & fast (my shipment arrives from China Sept. 21st)!, guangzhou china, binex line
guangzhou china, binex line, customs office: Dear John, This is in follow up to my last reply. I have learned that you can pick up your freight at the warehouse when it get released. You will need to do all the following before you can pick up the freight. 1. Pay the carrier the charges due...

Exporting & Importing Goods: i need your help, gmail, djamel
gmail, djamel, dear mr: Dear Mr.Djamel, I am sorry for reply so late,as I am just back from business trip. You would surf on the B2C web site,they offer thousands of information about the trade leads.There also have many free website about this,if you need information about...

Exporting & Importing Goods: need to know, arab republic of egypt, household textile
arab republic of egypt, household textile, cotton yarn: Dear Ao, Thanks for your mail again,I just received one message from one person who is looking for cotton products,the message as following,I will send you message to him.the message he sent me is for your reference: (We are looking for an Honest, hardworking,...

Exporting & Importing Goods: need to know, export import business, import export business
export import business, import export business, target market: To be frankly,I think you know more than me in field of communication and electronics from your email,my help is limited. As a businessman,it is important thing to find which products will sell well,before every business you want to involve in,you should...

Exporting & Importing Goods: order financing, transferable letter of credit, mr barr
transferable letter of credit, mr barr, issuing bank: Hi Bianca, According to the opinion of the International Chamber of Commerce, they say When a letter of credit is transferred, there is a risk that the second beneficiary may choose to by-pass the first beneficiary and present his documents directly to...

Exporting & Importing Goods: outport entries, shelly shelly, customs broker
shelly shelly, customs broker, clearance procedures: Shelly, To set up and do outport entries you must be a licensed broker. If you are an importer who clears their own entries and there is no officer in your company who is a licensed broker, your only option is to use a Customs broker. I can recommend...

Exporting & Importing Goods: overseas purchase through attorney, china funds, escrow account
china funds, escrow account, overseas purchases: Hi Bianca, Yes, the method of using an attorney (& escrow account) is feasable and acceptable for overseas purchases. Your problem is that this attorney is retained by the supplier, which means he s looking out after the supplier s interests and not yours....

Exporting & Importing Goods: PAYMENT FOR GOODS, chinese suppliers, sea freight
chinese suppliers, sea freight, shari: Dear Shari, Usually we need to discuss the payment terms before placing the order. In your case, it seems that the factory asked for the terms payment before the shipment . Please check if they had told you like this before. As I know, most of Chinese...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Payment overseas, wiggle room, escrow account
wiggle room, escrow account, lawers: The internet is a wonderful tool. I always start by searching through the web. Get as much information as possible on the supplier by searching the internet. But that s not enough. You should ask for references. Satisfied customers of the supplier should be...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Payment Terms: International Trade, open delivery, overseas buyer
open delivery, overseas buyer, monetary transactions: Most of the terms, such as DA and CAD are rarely used. Banks charge a fee for this. I personally import and export over $20M in goods around the globe - My answers are all geared towards protecting the purchaser of the goods. Unless you have an established...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Please help me with this company, I think I have been a victim of fraud, ebay ca, video consoles
ebay ca, video consoles, reputable supplier: Hi Roger, I am so sorry to hear your stories . Obviously you are in big troubles this time . I just wonder why you wire so much money to them in advance ? normally you need order one sample first , even for big order , you need pay 30% deposit in advance...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Poor quality of goods, nut shell, reputable manufacturer
nut shell, reputable manufacturer, defective products: Dear Philip, Did you ask for the sample of hot tubs? or have contract between you and the suppliers? normally,we set the test standard for the products before the deal,after I get the products,I will test it and offer the test report,if the products can...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Preadvice, short answer, dlc
short answer, dlc, stumbling block: The short answer is no. It s probably better. The bank is simply not willing to risk its reputation on a maybe, and that s exactly what a preadvice is. Before an actual operative L/C is issued, it doesn t really have anything substantive. Many times,...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Presence in USA, joint ventures in china, living in china
joint ventures in china, living in china, china market: Dear ASh Weaver, I am pleased to receive your email. I would like to tell you that I am living in China,I am familiar with China market,but for USA market,I do not know well.I know a person who help the company to set up presence in US.if you like to...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Process of Importing from China, importing from china, china mark
importing from china, china mark, products from china: Hi, I ve just seen your question and sorry for the delay. To make sure if you need any license to import please inform the products names you re importing from China. Normally seldom products need these since Chinese government push the factories to...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Product Labelling, product labelling, annette
product labelling, annette, packing: Dear Annette, In our experience, we can sell products without any label that called in blank packing. I really can t say if a label in required not being sold retail. I think it depends where you are and what your buyer will do on the product. Sincerely...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Proposal from Haiti, garlic onion, doing business with china
garlic onion, doing business with china, fragrant soaps: Hi Claude, Thanks for asking me this question! From it I can see you are very ambitious and want to expand your business promptly and in the right way. Speaking of the access of the good database,I started my own business from zero, I sold clothes suchchildren...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Proposal from haiti, industrial engineer, mail box
industrial engineer, mail box, china export: Dear Sthane Laroche, Thanks for your letter and I am pleased you desire to cooperate with me. China is a large manufactory in world,most of products in market are cheaper than North America and Europe,however,as you know,different quality for products...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Protecting my sources, fool proof, customs broker
fool proof, customs broker, exworks: Hi Michael, A very interesting question. There s not a 100% fool proof guarenteed way to do what you want but if you re willing to take a minimum risk, it s certainly possible. The easiest solution is to have the goods purchased exworks, which means...

Exporting & Importing Goods: paperwork needed to import into Canada, pst exemption certificate, coffe maker
pst exemption certificate, coffe maker, certificate of origin: If this is for your own use...you will only need the bill of sale If this is for resale in canada, you will need the original invoice showing the cost and certificate of origin, your PST exemption certificate, and you may need CSA approval to sell it in...

Exporting & Importing Goods: paying for goods in Hong Kong/China, documentary collections, credit worthiness
documentary collections, credit worthiness, payment obligation: Hi Martin, A bank transfer, also called a (telegraphic transfer (T/T), is only as safe as the seller. Do you trust the seller? Have you checked references? It s the same as giving your corner shop some cash and getting the goods ordered in a week or two....

Exporting & Importing Goods: payment method, import export business, payment guarantee
import export business, payment guarantee, advance payments: I am sorry for a very delayed reply. But I was out of country for a longer period and did t had access to internet. re yr query. no hard and fast rules. I myself send advance payments around the globe depending on the level of relationship. In practical...

Exporting & Importing Goods: payment modes, documentary collections, credit worthiness
documentary collections, credit worthiness, payment obligation: Ibnemansoor, you have several options in terms of trade finance. I ll discuss a few of them here. Based on my answer, you may have more specific questions concerning the individual methods, but this is a good solid start. The methods of payment for...

Exporting & Importing Goods: pizza boxes, food packing, pizza boxes
food packing, pizza boxes, import policy: Dear Shaz, I advise you figure out the food packing standard in UK firstly,I just know the state in China. The general procedure during international trade for your reference. The first step in international trade,you should find a good supplier,the...

Exporting & Importing Goods: what is price FOB, transport insurance, shipping company
transport insurance, shipping company, possesion: Hi Ryan - The term FOB means Free on Board. It has more to do with the title / possesion of the goods than shipping. When the goods are marked FOB, it means that once the goods are loaded onto a vessel, they are your responsibility. I would make...

Exporting & Importing Goods: The process when a container comes off a ship, customs regulations, non alcoholic beverage
customs regulations, non alcoholic beverage, warehouses: sir it entirely depend on US customs regulations. i do not want to give you any info on my own that may cause delay in your processing of transaction. so best way is to provide complete info to US customs up-front so they will guide you about the whole...

Exporting & Importing Goods: products to buy, learning games, private conversation
learning games, private conversation, business trip: Hello! It s a pleasure to have your message again. I will suggest you some kinds of products in this area with some weblinks in this two days. But will you please sent your email again to my mark4all@gmail.com? I think it will be a private conversation....

Exporting & Importing Goods: Question about exporting an antique painting, tourist visa, time ray
tourist visa, time ray, family member: Hi Raymond - While you may not have purchased it, you must declare a value. Personally, if it were my antique painting, I would make sure to ship it via an insured carrier. That way, if anything happens to it, it will be financially protected. For...

Exporting & Importing Goods: question revised, local customs, freight broker
local customs, freight broker, recycling: Good afternoon, Sir. I would suggest contacting a local freight broker such as Schenker, http://www.schenker.com They will be able to help you with the freight arrangements and also with the local customs brokering and planning. Best regards, Steve...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Re: Is Beneficiary shall responsible ?, m sdn bhd, china company
m sdn bhd, china company, thailand company: Hi Desmond, The answer is short as I do not want to obscure it in detail. If you are the beneficiary of the L/C, that is what will appear on the documents. These documents are what will be used in court to prove negligence or fraud. You should therefore...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Receiving payment / protecting your account info, hi mike, finance tools
hi mike, finance tools, trade finance: Hi Mike, With a T/T, you do not have to give your account number but it helps. You must give your bank and branch through, otherwise they won t know how to direct the money. If you don t even want to give that, you could try Western Union. If you re not...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Remittance TT, sending money, anjali
sending money, anjali, tt: Hi Anjali, T/T is always not safe but only based on commercial credit. If you are not sure about supplier or it s the first time of the dealing, you d better consider other ways of payment. Of course, many buyer use T/T at the first time just because most...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Round Box, ddu, small business
ddu, small business, china: Hi katy, The freight, as you mentioned carriage, depends on the way you ship the goods. Usually you can send them by courier, or by air, or by vessel. The freight will be top expensive, expensive and cheap, but time spent will be 3 days, 1 week and 1 month....

Exporting & Importing Goods: RTGS, rtgs systems, message standards
rtgs systems, message standards, thier system: An interesting question. The vast majority of RTGS systems do indeed use SWIFT as thier standard. However, there are exceptions. A prime exception is the USA. Thier system until recently was 100% independant of SWIFT & SWIFT standard. This has started to change....

Exporting & Importing Goods: re: Payments and collections, customs agent, money collector
customs agent, money collector, product storage: Hi, I know some chinese sellers on ebay need someone in US collecting money for them because: 1) They can only use paypal on ebay to receive money. 2) According to chinese law, they can not withdraw money directly from paypal but have to go through some...

Exporting & Importing Goods: re: Payments & collections, customs agent, oversea customers
customs agent, oversea customers, product storage: Dear Michael, In my mind, it seem that I replied your email before. I never met this situation before.normally,if we set up business relationship with our oversea customers in short time or the client have bad credit.we choose T/T in advance or C/L as...

Exporting & Importing Goods: re: Payments and collections, customs agent, hard currency
customs agent, hard currency, nigerian money: Hi Michael, Yes, I have an Idea. Remember the old proverb If it s too good to be true, it probably is ? The offer you recieved is a SCAM! This is one scam only once removed from the Nigerian Money Laundering SCAM. Best case, they only take you for a couple...

Exporting & Importing Goods: re : procedures & legal formalities about importing goods from china, ups courier service, international courier service
ups courier service, international courier service, importing goods from china: Hi Archit, You can ask for the bank details from the supplier so that you can pay from your bank the freight charges in advance. After you receive their samples, you can place an order. Usually the supplier will requrest 30% deposit and the balance prior...

Exporting & Importing Goods: being registered and importing, faulty logic, web sight
faulty logic, web sight, freind: It seems the question is asked for one of two reasons. Either the company has a different price for the product depending on your country (western countries have more money to burn goes the faulty logic) OR they want to quote the shipping in the price. Good...

Exporting & Importing Goods: What requirements do I need to start importing from China?, importing electronics, importing from china
importing electronics, importing from china, chinavasion: The answer to your question, is it hard to import electronics from China to the US and start selling them on my website? is YES. The first part, importing electronics from China, is easy when you re using a service like Chinavasion (I haven t used them personally...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Sending bags to Holland, dutch customs, euros dollars
dutch customs, euros dollars, time pressures: Hi Bryan, you never said the bags were purchased in China, so I am just assuming they were. As an American I am unfamiliar with the relevant laws in Holland, but what you are trying to do is certainly not in violation of any laws. Yes, label the bags samples...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Sending DVDs To My US Customers, market access database, uk postal service
market access database, uk postal service, royal mail: Hi Phil, Here is the link to the US Harmonized Tariff Schedule - as I am not 100% sure of your product, I am hesitant to tell you what your duty rate would be. http://www.usitc.gov/tata/hts/bychapter/index.htm Sending goods via Postal Service is usually...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Sending samples of my jewelry to the US, harmonized tariff schedule, us customs broker
harmonized tariff schedule, us customs broker, irs number: Hi Barry, To find out how much duty you have to pay, classify your jewelry according to the harmonized tarriff link below: http://hotdocs.usitc.gov/docs/tata/hts/bychapter/0701C71.pdf Yes - you can carry the goods with you, but they must be declared...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Setup U.S. Presence, automobile insurance, product storage
automobile insurance, product storage, accounting banking: Dear Michael, I met a person who had a company in Australia,he want to set up a U.S. presence,his main business is selling and producing sports material.do you interest in that? if yes,please send your contract information to me.by the way,do you have eamil...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Shipping from China, importing from china, cel phones
importing from china, cel phones, china question: Yes, most are copy, becasue only the authorized distributor can export the brand one, they are filed in Customs. Small shipment can be workable sometimes, because customs can t inspect every package, but if they find it , they will not return to shipper...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Shipping from China to U.S., ningbo china, sampling time
ningbo china, sampling time, steve thanks: Dear Scott, I can t believe I actually have received a decent, well thought out question from somebody with details I can actually use to give an answer!! It would be much easier to discuss this with you as opposed to writing it all out. Send an e-mail...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Shipping from China, elizabeth new jersey, lisa barr
elizabeth new jersey, lisa barr, china side: Hi Lisa, Usually in our experience, it will be USD100.00 cheaper and 1 week quicker for a 40 container ship from china to west USA and then move by rail to the east. But price always quite different depends on different shipping companies and different...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Shipping Cost., harmonized tariff schedule, us customs broker
harmonized tariff schedule, us customs broker, air freight company: Good morning, Gina. I need a little bit more information to answer your question thoroughly. I can give you some general details, however. 1. Whenever you import something into the US, you will have Duty Charges - most of the time this charge is not...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Shipping a computer to China from the US, commercial invoice, current market value
commercial invoice, current market value, customs broker: Good morning, Ken. Basically, the Chinese are going to charge you Duty - Regardless of what you ship, they are going to ask you to pay something. If these are used computers, send them over with the current market value, (what they are currently worth)....

Exporting & Importing Goods: Shipping fees, e mail address, ship fedex
e mail address, ship fedex, customs and duties: Hi Carlo, $300 is about right for FedEx. Yes, you can ship a car for a thousand dollars, however, it is coming by ship. FedEx is airfreight and arrives in 3 days as opposed to 5 weeks. Just as an example, it can cost up to six thousand to ship a container...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Shipping Rates, shipping company, shipping companies
shipping company, shipping companies, east coast port: Dear Craig, I checked some quotation from shipping company about the line for west coast and east coast,I found different shipping companies offer different quotation for both of them,in some companies ,the freight for west coast port is cheaper that east...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Shoe Manufacturers, manufacturer in china, start ups
manufacturer in china, start ups, shoe manufacturers: Hi Winna, starting your own line of shoes is like starting any business: it requires an up-front investment. China can make any shoe. But no manufacturer in China will develop a new shoe or any other new product unless the client either (1) pays thousands...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Sourcing Chinese electronic supplier who will customise requirement, target price, chip suppliers
target price, chip suppliers, assembly operations: These suppliers are simply assembly operations that procure the components and raw materials and assemble the MP3s. The firmware probably comes pre-written on the purchased chips. These suppliers might be able to find the information you need from their chip...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Sourcing Products from China, kitchenaid stand mixers, western union money
kitchenaid stand mixers, western union money, western union money transfer: Hi Kimberly, I checked out the supplier s Alibaba page. In my opinion there is no reason to believe this is a legitimate supplier. They are new to the Alibaba system, and their information has not been authenticated by Alibaba. This doesn t mean they are...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Standby L/C, usa banks, american banks
usa banks, american banks, time and patience: Hi Cedric, Unfortunately, American banks are really behind the times in Trade Finance. They re so advanved in areas like investment banking and mortgages but Trade Finance really throws them for a loop. Here s a site where the fellow explains stand-by...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Starting a Import business, sterling silver jewelry, www irs gov
sterling silver jewelry, www irs gov, irs number: Dear Vipinchandra, I have taken a little time to answer because I wanted to look up some information for you. Sterling silver jewelry falls under chapter 71 in the HTSUS. Without actually seeing the jewelry or knowing the value I am estimating these...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Starting out in Importing goods, importing goods, starting a small business
importing goods, starting a small business, right direction: Hi Rob, First you need research what you can sell in UK ? then you need find the suppliers. If you know what you want deal then you can ask help for SinoSourcing , we can help you to make your customized purchase plan . Regards, www.sinosourcing.com.c...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Starting a Jewellry Business in England, uk customs, customs broker
uk customs, customs broker, business in england: Hi Kristin, Getting a residency permit and a permit to work in the UK can be a very complicated process. Usually, if you have a company which is based in the UK that can state you are an invaluable assett, they will expedite the process. First, I would...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Starting a small buisness, starting a small buisness, small buisness grant
starting a small buisness, small buisness grant, new comers: dear sadie good to hear that you want to start business. to figure out the cost you need to know the following: cost of item+freight to uk+customs duty+vat+taxes at port+banking costs for customs duty please contact any goods clearing agents who...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Supplier wants Shipping Terms, dear sir or madam, choice wood
dear sir or madam, choice wood, fumigation: Dear Sir or Madam, I am glad to receive your information and send my advise to you! Normally,we deliver the goods which is easy to break and damage, we choice wood box as the packing way and add this condition to our contract or shipping terms,but you...

Exporting & Importing Goods: safe payment options, documentary collections, credit worthiness
documentary collections, credit worthiness, consumer protection laws: you have several options in terms of trade finance. I ll discuss a few of them here. Based on my answer, you may have more specific questions concerning the individual methods, but this is a good solid start. Using Mastercard or Visa for an international...

Exporting & Importing Goods: safest payments terms, escrow accounts, escrow account
escrow accounts, escrow account, risk reduction: Hi Ramon, It s an interesting question that I m ask quite often. The answer depends on several factors. The question the immediately pops into my head is; Safest for whom? Safest for the buyer, the seller, or even one or more involved banks? All these parties...

Exporting & Importing Goods: shipping to india, unlocked iphone, packing list
unlocked iphone, packing list, international shipment: Good morning, Brian. People ask you to undervalue items so they can pay less duty on their end. In my opinion, I would not do it. When doing an international shipment, you need the following documents: 1. Commercial Invoice - (states the value of...

Exporting & Importing Goods: small business export, chinese shoes, chinese port
chinese shoes, chinese port, saeid: Hi,Saeid, The following steps for your reference. In China,we must get the import and export permit to run international business,I am unclear the international trade policy in U.A.E. The first step in international trade,you should find a good...

Exporting & Importing Goods: small exports from australia, christian greetings, backpacker essentials
christian greetings, backpacker essentials, credits cards: Greetings Christian, Unfortunately, endeavors such as the one you are contemplating present all of the problems associated with exporting (i.e., compliance with the regulatory requirements of the involved markets), while offering few of the benefits (recurring...

Exporting & Importing Goods: solas convention, certificate of conformity, jakarta indonesia
certificate of conformity, jakarta indonesia, cloth manufacturer: Good to see you jen SOLAS is so wide and comprehensive that it is almost impossible for any any shipping line to cover it practically. so they are always hesitant to certify its compliance. why not ask APL if they can issue SOLAC compliance.....just...

Exporting & Importing Goods: solas convention, certificate of conformity, jakarta indonesia
certificate of conformity, jakarta indonesia, cloth manufacturer: Dear Jenny, Sorry for my delay in responding, it was a holiday weekend here in the states. I would need a little more information to your particular case to answer specifically you question regarding shippers refusing to ship through their lines with...

Exporting & Importing Goods: start business, b2b website, chinese company
b2b website, chinese company, import business: Dear Zoltan, Thanks for you email. What s alibaba.com alibaba.com is an B2B website,many Chinese company put their products information on it, you would find many sellers information from it. All the sellers on alibaba.com are trying to sell their...

Exporting & Importing Goods: start business, acohol, import business
acohol, import business, middle man: Dear Zoltan, Below is my suggestions of your questions: 1) Usually you need not any license except some special products like drugs, acohol or weapons. 2) It s better to have a company to do some trade or take commissions in the middle. It costs little...

Exporting & Importing Goods: start business, import business, start business
import business, start business, different products: Hi Zoltan, first of all you need to be over 18. Let s assume you are. First get an accountant and establish an LLC. You say you found some company who are looking for different products in the US . Do you KNOW anyone who works in these companies? You...

Exporting & Importing Goods: start import business, how to start an import business, starting an import business
how to start an import business, starting an import business, textiles products: Dear Kasun, If you are interested in starting an import business the first step is to make yourself familiar with a basic understanding of importing. If you go to the U.S. Customs website you can find out how to start an import business. www.cbp.gov...

Exporting & Importing Goods: starting a small business, recordkeeping requirements, surety bond
recordkeeping requirements, surety bond, business question: Dear Leslie, Each state has its own requirements for having a business. This is not something I would be able to assist you with. I would suggest you start with the Arizona Department of Commerce. They should have a web site that would offer information...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Tips- Business in China, clothing production, mr barr
clothing production, mr barr, business in china: That one is very clear as is the answer. Make sure everything important is documented in writing. It s critical that breakdown in dialogue is prevented and if it should occur, having everything documented will help trace the point of breakdown. Good luck,...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Trade Finance S/W company, finance module, finance transactions
finance module, finance transactions, finance systems: Hi Barr Fan, I don t have a lot of experience with multiple trade finance systems but yes, Surecomp has a wonderful product in IMEX. Look them up at www.surecomp.com Also some of the payment systems can handle simple trade finance transactions so look...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Trade Terms, english sentences, air shipment
english sentences, air shipment, china exporter: Hi Dave - Looks good to me. I would, however, still use English sentences to back up what you are doing. That way, there is no confusion. Also, make sure that your sales confirmation matches the quotation, P.O. etc, Best regards, Steve Van Duze...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Transfer of Title, minimum coverage, marine insurance
minimum coverage, marine insurance, term c: Hi,Rocco, How do you know I will read your email in the morning? it is morning in Beijing;). FOB mean free on board. The trade term requiring the seller to deliver goods on board a vessel designated by the buyer. The seller fulfills its obligations...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Transferable LC Pre-Advice, standby letter of credit, documentary letter of credit
standby letter of credit, documentary letter of credit, bank assurance: Hi Paul, The short answer is no. Your bank is simply not willing to risk its reputation on a maybe. Before it gets the actual operative L/C in hand, it doesn t really have anything substantive. Many times, I ve seen a preadvice where the actual L/C never...

Exporting & Importing Goods: trading paterner, exporting goods, whon
exporting goods, whon, mail: Dear Lucy, I am glad to receive your mail.I think you main problem is to find oversea customer. I advise you find it from some international trade website and some oversea unions for garments products,make contact with them. Best regards, Fan...

Exporting & Importing Goods: U.S. import from India, shipping broker, customs broker
shipping broker, customs broker, customs clearance: 1. Import licenses are only for certain items - I do not believe your items require an importers license. You may want to consider getting an import bond, however. 2. I do not know the export laws of India - Your shipping broker in India should know this....

Exporting & Importing Goods: UK import and export policies, hot target, free trade agreements
hot target, free trade agreements, uk customs: Hi Loreena, I would contact a UK Customs Broker - usually they can be found by calling a freight forwarder such as Schenker or Greenline - (both can be found on Google). After that, I would try and get into contact with the British Trade Office - They...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Ukranian export laws, kiev office, customs broker
kiev office, customs broker, export specialist: Good day, Andrew. When exporting alcohol, spirits, and other edible or consumable products, a wide range of restrictions can pop up. Some restrictions are totally useless, and others are for the protection of the consumer. Most countries require only...

Exporting & Importing Goods: UL Certificate, what's applicable?, chinese equivalent, ul mark
chinese equivalent, ul mark, importing goods: Hi, You can t sell your goods if you buy without UL. Chinese products can also apply UL certification since there re many UL agents in China doing this. Of course, China have also many other electric certifications sililar to UL but not recognized by US...

Exporting & Importing Goods: UL label required?, magnifying lamps, electrical products
magnifying lamps, electrical products, mail: Dear Dennis, I am glad to receive your mail. According to my experience,it is possible to import the electrical products without UL approval into American,but it is difficult to sell it in American,because UL approval is safe standard for electrical...

Exporting & Importing Goods: urgent information required if you can answer thankyou, port qasim karachi, karachi pakistan
port qasim karachi, karachi pakistan, money b: Dear Khuda, 1) Usually a Chinese supplier only receive the payment of L/C at sight or T/T prior to shipment, especially at the first several deals. If you are in the middle, probably you can use back to back L/C to solve this problem. 2) Till now, I didn...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Value for customs exporting in a service industry?, paul horner, static converters
paul horner, static converters, duty drawback: Dear Paul: The value can be calculated three different ways (deductive value, calculated or transaction value) More information can be found at http://www.customs.gov/imp-exp1/comply/icp001r2.pdf In your example, the value would be the fair market...

Exporting & Importing Goods: HOW TO VERIFY THE IMPORT, products from china, bill of lading
products from china, bill of lading, shipping company: stop never send your money before you get proof of shipment now it depend on products that what kind of goods you need and how the girl will send it to you. if it is ocean shipment than she will handover the goods to shipping company and get bill of...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Video Game Imports, us customs broker, video game consoles
us customs broker, video game consoles, air logistics: Hi William, You dont necessarily need a license to import these consoles, however, you will have to make sure that Duty is paid, and they do not fall into any sort of anti-dumping legislation. I would contact a US Customs Broker - Vandegrift Inc. is...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Waste Paper importing to USA, waste management company, tina tina
waste management company, tina tina, tsca hotline: Tina, There are no restrictions that I am aware of to import waste paper into the U.S. As of July 2007 the EU requires an Annex VII form to be placed inside the shipping container for any waste products that are shipped. It is a good idea to forward a...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Wine Importing, liquor sales, liquor license
liquor sales, liquor license, wine: Hello, Well local liquor sales laws would prevent you from selling anything without a liquor license. As far as importing, as long as you pay duties no one should care. Its when you make a profit and sell to the public without a license that would cause...

Exporting & Importing Goods: Wine Imports, atf treas gov, alcohol tobacco and firearms
atf treas gov, alcohol tobacco and firearms, portuguese wines: Hi Riana Sorry I fell behind answering your question. I have been thinking a lot about it but did not start writing anything before I got a reminder from AllExperts... Part of my heart is in Portugal, it s one of my favorite places with Southern France...

Exporting & Importing Goods: worried, buyer protection, american express
buyer protection, american express, two kinds: Hi Greg, The suppliers in China usually only accept two kinds of payment. One is T/T prior to shipment. It will happened when the amount is not so big, or the buyers had boughter before. Another one is L/C at sight. Usually we use it when it s the first...

Expressing Yourself to Others: does 1 like me?, playscape, twin sisters
playscape, twin sisters, out of the blue: Hi Mike, I suspect they know that you aren t married as that would be obvious when they were at your house. Also, they may have asked around about you as well. Your problem is- which one? One may be interested and asked the other to come with her to help...

Expressing Yourself to Others: My crush is not going away! Is it Love?, Relationship, Dr Dan
Relationship, Dr Dan, Ardebili: Alyssa, thanks for taking the time to write in and ask for help. Since you are under 18 I cant tell you what to do, but I can tell you what I would do if it was me. I know its not what you want to hear but it is the truth and 99% the western world has not...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Should I end this friendship?, dr dan, ardebili
dr dan, ardebili, Relationship: Hi Gayathri, I want to thank you for taking the time to write in for help. I am also going to ask that you not make this private so others with the same issue can learn from this. This is called giving back. Now, onto your question. I dont know all the...

Expressing Yourself to Others: My Man Had an Orgy! What Do I Do?, confused, dr dan
confused, dr dan, orgy: Hey Sarah thanks for taking the time to write in and ask for help. Im gonna ask that you allow us to post this on the site so that it can help others out there going through the same thing. I was going to wait until tomorrow to answer this since I just...

Expressing Yourself to Others: I have to tell my husband when I have to go pee!, Relationship, commitment
Relationship, commitment, annoying: Hi Danielle, thanks for taking the time to write in and ask for help. I feel for you on this one because i have worked with many couples with this issue. I would need to know more details to really understand what is going on with him. Obviously there is some...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Asking for help, Relationship, Marriage
Relationship, Marriage, Dr Dan: Rachel I know it must be tough. But being prideful is something that is conditioned into us from society and school. dont ask for help, dont look at your neighbors answers etc. figure out the problem yourself. but this is not how real life works. those who...

Expressing Yourself to Others: friend help, Dr. dan, relationship coach
Dr. dan, relationship coach, love: Dear Bob, This is Siri. My husband Dr. Dan and I do much of our work together and I wanted to respond to you. We both totally understand what you re talking about. It s nice to have a persons full attention when speaking to them over the phone. But...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Guy in elevator caught my attention, date, attract
date, attract, relationship: Made, thanks for taking the time to write in and ask for my help. I apologize for the late response. I am trying to keep up with all the questions here (10+ daily) and dont want to turn anyone away. I am going to keep this short and straight to the point....

Expressing Yourself to Others: how to let her know I care w/o being too intrusive?, intrusive, dr dan
intrusive, dr dan, dating: Dear Yav, This is Siri Shakti. My husband Dr. Dan and I do much of our work together and I wanted to respond to your situation. It sounds like she has somethings going on in her own life. We can only guess but from what you told me, she sounds like...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Like/Love, Dr. dan, relationship coach
Dr. dan, relationship coach, love: Dear Cheyenne, This is Siri Shakti. My husband Dr. Dan and I work together and I wanted to help you with this. Men are much more obvious than a woman. We tent to be more inconspicuous. Most men will look at you, give you attention, and want to be...

Expressing Yourself to Others: my mom's remarks, Dr. dan, relationship coach
Dr. dan, relationship coach, love: Dear Debbie, This is Siri Shakti. My husband Dr. Dan and I do much of our work together and I wanted to help you with your situation. My father used to do the same thing. I know how much you love your mom and want to share the things you like with her....

Expressing Yourself to Others: sticking to my decisions, Dr. dan, relationship coach
Dr. dan, relationship coach, new years resolution: Dear Gloria, This is Siri Shakti, My husband Dr. Dan and I do all our work together so I wanted to help you out with this. This is what we suggest. Sit down with a schedule. It s very important for a woman to have consistency in her life. So write down...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Should I tell her how she's making me feel?, Dr. dan, relationship coach
Dr. dan, relationship coach, love: Dear Sam, This is Siri. My husband Dr. Dan and I work together and I wanted to respond to you about this. So Sam it sounds like you re a great guy. I m sure she s wonderful too but she obviously has some things going on with her or she wouldn t be so...

Expressing Yourself to Others: saying sorry, best apologies, saad
best apologies, saad, close friends: Saad, you ve practically written the words in your question. Keep it simple and be sincere. If you are truly sorry for your error and not just the fact that you are suffering the consequences of being caught in your mistake, your sincerity will come through....

Expressing Yourself to Others: Opening up in a relationship, Dr. dan, relationship coach
Dr. dan, relationship coach, trust: Dear Aniya, Sometimes we just have to have faith and trust. Faith that it will all turn out and trust in the our partners. It would hold a relationship back when you are holding back your feelings and your true self, out of fear. The only advice I can...

Expressing Yourself to Others: I have trouble with men, Dr. dan, relationship coach
Dr. dan, relationship coach, sexual abuse: Dear Bazhena, You re a 20 year old woman and have been through a lot. You were sexually assaulted, you re a young mother, and now you have issues with relationships. It s no wonder you have issues with relationships. You say that you want someone to...

Expressing Yourself to Others: DOUBLE DATING, relationships, dating
relationships, dating, Dr. Dan: Hi Lisa, You did the right thing. This is a touchy subject. You don t want to hurt anyone s feelings and that is why you feel unsure about the situation. You re being a good friend by standing up for what you believe. It does sound like she s stuck in...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Is this a good idea?!, relationships, dating
relationships, dating, crush: Hi Brittainy, Being that you don t know him all that well, I think the card would be fine but not so sure about the gift. I honestly think the best idea would be to communicate with him. Ask him if he wants to hang out. There s nothing that tells a guy...

Expressing Yourself to Others: How do I (age 54) get closure from moms (age 83) remark? Is there a way to confront her without a fight?, lord taylors, half hour
lord taylors, half hour, closure: I didn t say that you should give your clothes away. They belong to you and you should decide what to do with them. Keeping or giving them is up to you. What I am saying is there are more important things than clothes such as a human life. For example, what...

Expressing Yourself to Others: I don't want to make a mistake, Dr. Dan, relationships
Dr. Dan, relationships, dating: Of course you could ask her out. A woman would not hang out with you if she didn t enjoy being around you. Why don t you ask if she wants to get together some time and go to dinner or something else you enjoy doing. She will know you are interested. That...

Expressing Yourself to Others: You look great... ?, artical, pink girl
Expressing Yourself to Others: You look great... ?, artical, pink girl, compliment

Expressing Yourself to Others: Are we friends ?, Dr. Dan, best friends
Dr. Dan, best friends, relationships: Hi Angel, It sound like your friend is going through something and she isn t willing to open up about it just yet. I would be totally honest with her and let her know you want to know if she s ok. Let her know how her behavior is making you feel, she may...

Expressing Yourself to Others: You look great... ?, Dr. Dan, relationships
Dr. Dan, relationships, dating: Hello, My name is Siri Shakti, I m Dr. Dan s wife. I saw your question and thought I could help, being that I m a woman. Well all girls are different, but I d say most girls don t like sexual comments unless you are in a relationship with them. Something...

Expressing Yourself to Others: love a girl, Dr. Dan, relationships
Dr. Dan, relationships, dating: Hello again! Thank you for your clarification and I apologize for the late response, we had been away on business. I believe you should go and introduce yourself to her. Find a way to talk to her or be brave and go say hello. Once you have had an introduction...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Talking to my teacher..., improving self confidence, self improvement and motivation
improving self confidence, self improvement and motivation: Sorry about that naked part? I dont know how that got there? Must be the computer gremlins. Ok I got it now... Since you are under 18 I cant tell you what to do. I can just tell you what I would do. It is obvious that she does care for you and that...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Hmm, Dr. dan, relationship coach
Dr. dan, relationship coach, X girl freind: Dear Brandon, It s obvious that she has some things going on. Since you live far from each other I would take the initiative to meet other people. Her behavior is immature and that s not what you need. I know you still have feeling for her but don t...

Expressing Yourself to Others: relationships, Dr. dan, relationship coach
Dr. dan, relationship coach, attraction: Dear Anon, Are you two still friends? It depends on what terms you are on. But if I were you and I had been broken up with someone for three months then I wouldn t voice my missing him. I think it might make it harder for both of you to move on. If...

Expressing Yourself to Others: lenten crossword, second guess, letter word
second guess, letter word, first thought: Hi Sabine! My area of expertise is writing thank you notes so I m not sure why you chose me. Here s a guess: My first thought is a seven letter word for being sorry for hurting others would be remorse. However, if the fourth letter must be an a my...

Expressing Yourself to Others: too shy....., local music scene, artistic voice
local music scene, artistic voice, kinds of music: Hi Brian! Firstly, while you re still finding your artistic voice and outlet, it may suit you to not talk to too many other people about your ideas. Write your ideas down as they come to you and take the pressure off of yourself as to what you will do with...

Expressing Yourself to Others: a little curious now, voice, voice exercises
voice, voice exercises, articulation: Hi Jordan, I really appreciate your question for several reasons. One, that many people don t think about the impact their voice has on others. Two, that you can actually do something about it. Three, people are not even sure where to start when working to...

Expressing Yourself to Others: I want to be heard, soft voice, voice exercises
soft voice, voice exercises, not being heard: Hi Yssebelle, You ve made a great observation on how your voice can have people ignore you or not take you seriously. It s a fact that people judge others (how smart they are, if they re social able) by the sound of your voice. Here are some tips: 1.) Find...

Expressing Yourself to Others: How Bring up the Subject of Cellulite to My Wife, good mood, cellulite
good mood, cellulite, buttocks: I dont see how this wont bother her especially since she is pregnant ( you know how miserable pregnant women can get). Wait until she is in a very good mood then, just casually mention How much you love the way she looks but worries that the cellulite will...

Expressing Yourself to Others: My crushhh, heart on a sleeve, facebook
heart on a sleeve, facebook, black girl: When you are talking to him pretend that it is someone else that you are totally comfortable with. It also helps if you try not to maintain eye contact too much. You can also stand adjacently to him (that is beside him so that you are not directly looking...

Expressing Yourself to Others: hello, fantastic life, defense mode
fantastic life, defense mode, crazy story: It is normal to feel nervous when relationships are new. It is also normal too to panic and come up with all sorts of defense systems to deal with that panic. In your case it is reverting to telling stories. For some of us it is stuttering or biting our nails...

Expressing Yourself to Others: I love you, local community college, proper relationship
local community college, proper relationship, two and a half years: Jayn the thing is with love there are really no guarantees. Even with the best of our intentions we do end up feeling and being hurt. However, this is just what life is all about. It is about pain and laughter and sadness and joy. It is a packaged deal. Hurt...

Expressing Yourself to Others: mentor, personal issues, 19 years
personal issues, 19 years, mentor: If it is someone who you can trust then there should be no problem in just saying exactly what you are looking for. Remember that this mentor should be someone you can express yourself to without fearing being judged. If you have reservation just asking the...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Is it too soon..?, disrespect, pict
disrespect, pict, lunch: First off yes it is too soon. Not just for her but for you also. You both have been spending much time together so it isnít difficult to see why you have developed these feelings for each other. It is my suggestion that you both take a break from each other...

Expressing Yourself to Others: communicating with boss, apron pocket, shift problem
apron pocket, shift problem, ridiculous reason: Jen, Thank you for writing. Your boss is definitely inappropriate in the described situation. You have to weigh the risk of being fired vs. how her behavior is affecting your self-esteem. If you have had past issues with abuse, it may be difficult for you...

Expressing Yourself to Others: love, mild interest, semesters
mild interest, semesters, vibe: I understand why you might have developed feelings for this guy However you have to consider moving with caution. Why dont you ask him to define his feelings for you..as in tell you exactly how he feels about you. If he really cares about you the way you...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Problem with babysitter's father, stay at home mom, mom and dad
stay at home mom, mom and dad, sensitive situation: Dear Cynthia~ So sorry for the delay ~ I am still not able to answer this fully and I do apologize. Just wanted to say you have been so honest and clear in your intentions that it s unfair that you have to deal with this alone. You have so many ways...

Expressing Yourself to Others: If I am right, how do I let him know what I feel, lack of sleep, trust issues
lack of sleep, trust issues, major surgery: Wow, take a breather! You do not have to tell this guy how you feel just yet...how about letting him explain how he feels? First off, he started this whole drama and therefore does owe you an explanation for his behaviour. Be straight and frank. Worst case...

Expressing Yourself to Others: How to show my mom that I am responsible?, separate cars, nicley
separate cars, nicley, own pace: It sounds like you have it under control. Your suggestions are good but you shouldn t over do it. You can help out around the house and so forth more but not everyday as this will certainly frustrate and drain you specially with you hectic study schedule....

Expressing Yourself to Others: Telling how I feel, mixed messages, blessings
mixed messages, blessings, clarity: Perhaps you should really try to find out how he feels about you. Ask him why he did what he did and that it sent you mixed messages. Before you let him know how you feel (to prevent things from feeling awkward in case you interpreted his behaviour wrongly)...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Should I add him on MSN?, online IM, dating
online IM, dating, crush: Hi Penelope, The answer is hard. My suggestions are not to do it indirectly like you want to. Go up to him and tell him your email popped up through a friend s list. Are you connected to a social network? something general like that, and watch his response....

Expressing Yourself to Others: Conflicting feelings, relationships, break-ups
relationships, break-ups, anger: Dear Mariano, I m apologize if you thought my response below was meant as advise. I needed a bit more information to help you with your conflicting feelings. As for what to say, you can directly ask your friend what she needs from you in the form of...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Conflicting feelings, sensitive area, text messages
sensitive area, text messages, limo: Dear Mariano My thoughts honestly are that if this woman is not worth losing then don t! Find a way, whatever it takes not to lose her, forever ~ love is amazing and it s worth being very clear about what you both want ~ Why don t you just arrange...

Expressing Yourself to Others: communicating with parents, parentzs, in the middle
parentzs, in the middle, venting: David, You are wise not to get pulled into his marital problems. It is inappropriate and a violation of your boundaries. Do not become their therapist - you cannot solve their problems, nor should you. Tell him that you don t know what he should do, that...

Expressing Yourself to Others: dating, dating
dating: Valentino, I don t understand what you want to tell her about. Please clarify and state your age and duration of the relationship. Thank you. Darlene Lancer, MFT PS You can also call into blogtalkradio.com/sosdarlenelancer Saturday 8pm PST for more help...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Losing it, rude customers, demanding people
rude customers, demanding people: Bud, This is a tough one. Maybe you d prefer being a trucker! (Just joking.) You will have a problem trying control all sorts of unreasonable passengers. The old broken record eventually works. People tire of asking the same question with no results. If...

Expressing Yourself to Others: renewed, dating, age difference
dating, age difference, lust: Brad, I cannot tell you what to do. I don t know how she or HER PARENTS might react. It also might be confusing to your grandchildren to be having a sexual relationship with their babysitter. Do you want to raise more young children? She may and most...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Teachers, teacher appreciation day, teacher appreciation week
teacher appreciation day, teacher appreciation week, teacher shares: Allie, What a wonderful question! You are a very sweet person for taking the time to thank your teacher and also being mindful of the feelings of your current teacher. Know that you have done nothing wrong by thanking your former teacher. If you feel bad...

Expressing Yourself to Others: When to tell, dating
dating: Hi Meg, Thanks for writing. It s always tricky to be the first to open such a conversation for either gender. I m sure he likes you, too, since you obviously enjoy each others company. Ask yourself what you hope to change or be different by telling him....

Expressing Yourself to Others: marital problems, herpes, bathrooms
herpes, bathrooms, boundaries: Hi Trisha, If I may reply, please contact me at info@darlenelancer.com. First, I don t think you have to worry about herpes, but if you re very concerned you can Lysol the toilet seat. The main issue is that you don t want him using your bathroom. This...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Weather to send another message, dating, singles websites
dating, singles websites, flirting: Hi Michelle, Sounds like you got his attention already with your smiles and message. Whether he is interested is up to him. More messages will have a counterproductive effect. You don t know if he is involved with someone, busy with work, or perhaps not checking...

Expressing Yourself to Others: How do you chat it up with a girl you hardly know?, good conversation topics, tips on how to talk to a girl
good conversation topics, tips on how to talk to a girl, grocery lines: The best opener in the world is to say, Hello. A confident Hello and introducing yourself with something as simple as, I m Sam, said while smiling. If you re feeling particularly bold you can follow with a handshake. You can skip the handshake if it seems...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Am I too late after all?, definite sign, mutual attraction
definite sign, mutual attraction, fri: I dont think it is too late but rather the contrary. It is too early. The fact is that its only been one month. If you could get over the girl you chose over her in one month, how do you expect her to seriously consider you? Yes, your feelings could be genuine...

Expressing Yourself to Others: clarification, long distance relationship, summer holidays
long distance relationship, summer holidays, cold feet: Indeed it must be very confusing to have him reacting so suddenly. It sounds like he has cold feet about the whole situation ( moving in together and such).This is usually a very bi g deal to a man because it would mean someone is now coming into his personal...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Are girls interested in me ?, persian festival, self concious
persian festival, self concious, nice body: If someone stares at you repetitively then there is reason to believe that the person may be interested. If you are all those things you described then i don t see why they wouldn t stare. Anyways the best way to be certain is to actually go over and start...

Expressing Yourself to Others: hey, blah blah, serious relationship
blah blah, serious relationship, decent guy: Once you begin spending time with someone, it is normal to become attached to them. Unfortunately, a lot of us women are more prone to fall in that trap since we melt when we find a man who is wiling to listen to us and actually play a part in our conversations....

Expressing Yourself to Others: Purpose, being a team player, math class
being a team player, math class, brilliant student: You seem to be a very outstanding young man who knows what he wants. It is good to know that such persons still exists in high school. You can breathe a little...you did ask for help so you are one step closer to being a team player. Practice asking for help...

Expressing Yourself to Others: what to do, correspondence, feelings
correspondence, feelings, long distance: I can see how difficult this must be for you. I wish there was an easy solution that i could just give you but it isnt that way. It will be difficult but if you really want to let it go then just come out and say it. The fact is that you do have strong feelings...

Expressing Yourself to Others: aggressive personality, aggressive personality, flirting with guys
aggressive personality, flirting with guys, self confidence: Kellie it isnt always easy to start a conversation with complete strangers. However you can keep in mind that in reality you really have nothing to loose. The either likes you or he doesnt. If he doesnt then you will be in the same position as you were before...

Expressing Yourself to Others: how to attract, girl of my dreams, negative thoughts
girl of my dreams, negative thoughts, good conversation: Hi waqas 1 You feel that she will not like you in the way you like her. In some ways you feel intimidated by her and perhaps feel undeserving of her . 2. You doubt yourself very much 3. You know how you feel but just dont know how to explain it to her....

Expressing Yourself to Others: How to Quit Being Intimidating and Awkward, personality makeover, first kiss
personality makeover, first kiss, conversation skills: It sounds like you already know the answer to that. You mention that you want to be more carefree and stress free and those are good things to want as long as it makes you happy. You could start being less intimidating by being more empathetic to others. Before...

Expressing Yourself to Others: How to Quit Being Intimidating and Awkward, first kiss, hi thanks
first kiss, hi thanks, shana: Hi, thanks for your question. Twice in your note you referred to being stressed out a lot. That would certainly have an impact on how you see life and how other people see you. If you were able to sort out what was causing the distress/stress, you may feel...

Expressing Yourself to Others: question, phobia 2, conversation skills
phobia 2, conversation skills, self confidence: All your questions can be answered as this, you are shy but it is not a genetical problem. It is more of a social problem than anything else. The trouble is that you have some difficulty expressing yourself to others and this causes you to doubt your ability...

Expressing Yourself to Others: lonliness because of persnality problems, angry mood, male friends
angry mood, male friends, kannur: Hi Ajay, I am very impressed by your open and honest letter. It take a very brave and determined person to reach out for help on such a personal issue. There s a chance that the advice I am going to provide may not go deep enough to help you. If this is...

Expressing Yourself to Others: family or not???, dumb stuff, old maid
dumb stuff, old maid, happy family: Your question is quit reasonable to ask. it seem as though he might be having some problems regarding his perception of marriage. He needs to work on this before he can commit to you in the way that you want him to. Is there something in his past that would...

Expressing Yourself to Others: a guy at work, jerks at work, work question
jerks at work, work question, subtle hints: Good for you. If can find the courage to tell him straight out you re not interested in knowing him if/when he asks you out or bothers you, (instead of telling him you re seeing someone when you re not), it really can save you a lot of trouble down the line...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Hey there, smile on your face, blessings
smile on your face, blessings, suggestion: Why cant you ask her? Is it that you have problems expressing yourself? Here is a suggestion; Find out her favourite flowers and get her some with a note that says, Didnt know how to ask in person but will you go out with me friday? It will put a smile...

Expressing Yourself to Others: talking to a boy, sending signals, weird situation
sending signals, weird situation, school year: Hi Tiffany! I ve got some very, very, daring advice for you. From what I can tell from your short note is that you already know how to talk to this boy, because you have talked to him in the past. But now, you want to talk to him to give him an opportunity...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Future mother in law, fake person, happy thoughts
fake person, happy thoughts, mother in law: Quick answer Oscar ~ if that is OK~ then maybe you could ask others on here! But really wanted to send this amazing link, think it may well be just what your looking for ~ http://www.thework.com/watch.php?cat=RnF all the best to you and happy thoughts...

Expressing Yourself to Others: I feel like no one appreciates me., loving yourself, trusting
loving yourself, trusting, hope: Hello Jeff Good to hear from you~ I ve been thinking about your question a fair bit as I wanted to be able to answer you in detail. I am so sorry you feel sad and that you feel no one appreciates you! Are you sure that is true? Do you appreciate...

Expressing Yourself to Others: How to say i love you without saying it., blood vampires, little vampire
blood vampires, little vampire, shaped cookies: Hey Jason Thanks for your question but I m not sure I can come up with a answer as one of the most romantic ways to tell someone you love them is to ~ Just say it! Maybe by thinking of ways she could say I love you to you would help you in your quest...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Building Friendships and Social Connections, building friendships, social protocol
building friendships, social protocol, getting along with others: I know how difficult it can be to put yourself out there on the line, to trust others when you have no reason at all to do so. However, we were meant to socialize and to give of ourselves to others. This is how we are and when we fail to do so somehow we know....

Expressing Yourself to Others: Should I tell my girlfriend I am in love with her?, dating, love
dating, love, romance: Hi Ryan, Congratulations. True love includes loving the not so attractive parts of someone, and you can t know that so soon, because sexual energy blinds you and because people are on the best behavior in the beginning. Romance brings out the best in people....

Expressing Yourself to Others: fear of connection, querries, understanding society
querries, understanding society, meaningful conversation: Hi my name is Joe Burgett, I m a new expert to these categories. Your problem is not uncommon my friend, so, know you aren t alone. Btw, you communicated your problem with me just fine, so you have proven to me and yourself just by doing this, that you...

Expressing Yourself to Others: I kind of want to never see my family again, mom and dad, dealing with stress
mom and dad, dealing with stress, attitude problem: Hey Alex, I m Joe Burgett, a new expert to these categories. Obviously from what you have mentioned here, you have had a troubled life. The cheating your Mom did was obviously something that happened when she least expected it to. A lot of men love to see...

Expressing Yourself to Others: lost love, romantic person, men ages
romantic person, men ages, time men: A lot of the time men get pressured from work and it just clouds things up a bit. It can really be an issue when it comes to relationships. I m sure he is not seeing someone else on the side and still loves you. Usually due to work pressure, stress builds...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Problem in relationship, serious relationship, sex affair
serious relationship, sex affair, hard time: Hello Mike and Lisa. There is obviously some issues going on in your relationship, and I would seek a marriage/couple s counselor who would be a better help with these types of situations. However, I am a new expert here in the expressing yourself to others...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Strange behavior, problem situation, strange behavior
problem situation, strange behavior, burgett: Hey Prashant, my name is Joe Burgett. I m a new expert to these categories and the one and only one for the expressing to others category, there was a ton of questions so I m answering them as quick and best I can. I apologize for your wait on an answer, but...

Expressing Yourself to Others: telling him the truth about me, acute anxiety disorder, manic depression
acute anxiety disorder, manic depression, anti depressants: Hello Courtney. My name is Joe Burgett, Tracey may or may not have gotten back to you on this. I am a new expert here and specialize in expressing yourself to others. AllExperts needed an expert just for this category and I got the job. So, let s see if I...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Financial Discussion, food drinks, food issues
food drinks, food issues, tv bill: This is an issue that comes up with roomies all the time. Not so much with the cats, but, with food, drinks, tv bill, etc. So really, this falls just under a certain category that you aren t except from. Now, my opinion would be to do this. Your roommate...

Expressing Yourself to Others: help, elses, grabs
elses, grabs, job: Well of course it is rude. If he asks for it and you give it to him and he grabs it, then it s not really rude. But because he pretty much just took it without asking while you were holding it, then it was very rude and he needs to be told not to do it agai...

Expressing Yourself to Others: help, stares, lunch
stares, lunch: Maybe try to talk with him about work, like something you need help with that he could possibly assist with. As you mentioned. It would be an easier way to talk and no pressure would come about. Maybe then ask him if he would want to talk about it over lunch...

Expressing Yourself to Others: help with showing my feelings, step dad, freak out
step dad, freak out, don t cry: Hey Paige, I actually know about this very much so. My mother s side of the family was not very affectionate and neither was my Dad s side really. However, my step-dad s side of the family was very loving. Kinda weird, I know. Emotions cannot be controlled,...

Expressing Yourself to Others: my parents, swimsuit model, backroom
swimsuit model, backroom, mak: Ah, now you ve given me a lot to work with Gio. First off, I don t know your Mom s name to know how pretty she is and what all she used to model. She probably modeled several things involving swimwear. I know a few models that use that label but also model...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Relationship, heart of hearts, boyfriend girlfriend
heart of hearts, boyfriend girlfriend, loving relationship: Hi Rickson! Women of course always want attention, especially the younger girls. It s just how they are wired. They especially want attention from their boyfriend. Thing is, you seem to not really be having so much of an issue with that, it s more about...

Expressing Yourself to Others: sleeping together, pelvic area, closeness
pelvic area, closeness, nice guy: Well Mercury, he obviously likes you, may love you too. He seems to be a nice guy from what little you ve told me. He really just likes to be close to you in some way, no matter what little it is. He likes the closeness of course, and due to that, he likes...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Awkward, english majors, awkward question
english majors, awkward question, friend tim: Really, when a guy gets out of a relationship, most of the time they don t wanna jump right into another. Especially those who are religious, like this guy. Also, with him being shy things are done differently with him. He may have only refused the date,...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Confrontation, bad manners, inevitable day
bad manners, inevitable day, patient person: Well Mia, luckily they aren t living with you. And you only see them off and on throughout the year. The best thing to do is, if you re asked directly from them about something. Tell them that you do like them and anything otherwise is far from the truth....

Expressing Yourself to Others: Fallen into Routine, freelance photography job, part time jobs
freelance photography job, part time jobs, college diploma: Well Eva, I read your very long post! ;) I have to say from what you ve told me, I could be frustrated too from it all. But, maybe see where he comes from as well. It seems that you ve done well by talking to him, but maybe you haven t been communicating...

Expressing Yourself to Others: in-law conflict 2nd installement, safe food handling, food borne illness
safe food handling, food borne illness, germ theory: Well basically how to communicate it can be done various ways. It s a bit difficult, as you have probably gone about it as many ways as possible. I would recommend simply telling them that you just cannot get past these issues and do not want your kids exposed...

Expressing Yourself to Others: shakyamuni, suicidal tendencies, friends at school
suicidal tendencies, friends at school, good conversation: Usually a side effect from psychological medications such as the one you re on for bipolar disorder, can make it to where you have difficulty communicating. Mainly because the medication is designed to work with your neurological area, where of course the...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Goodbye, head over heels, do the right thing
head over heels, do the right thing, wrong way: It is very normal to have feelings for someone you spend time with. Nothing strange there.How can you be attracted to him a little? Its either you are or you are not. You need to figure our all this. It sounds as though you are both sending each other a lot...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Making fun of myself?, giving compliments, ladykiller
giving compliments, ladykiller, compliment: Hey Frank, You sound fun and in a way it s good to have a laugh but if you feel like you are hurting yourself then maybe it s not so funny ~ why don t you just try taking a compliment to see how that feels. Saying thank you is a kind of acknowledgement...

Expressing Yourself to Others: My awkward status, comedy piece, jolly guy
comedy piece, jolly guy, care taker: Perhaps you should try and explain yourself to them. Let them know how you feel and that you want to be treated with respect. If they are truly your friends then they should have no problem treating you well. Otherwise, you would be better off without them....

Expressing Yourself to Others: divorce silent treatment, treatment question, drastic decision
treatment question, drastic decision, silent treatment: I see. Have you guys tried counseling? If you really mean to leave her then do not wait around. You still staying in the same house does not give a clear message. As long as you are living with her then there is still a chance that you might want to be with...

Expressing Yourself to Others: I'm Beyond Confused
Expressing Yourself to Others: I'm Beyond Confused

Expressing Yourself to Others: Not sure why my family is so worried about me, search movers, wise money
search movers, wise money, moving cause: It sounds like you have gotten so independent that you feel you do not need most of their help, Although, i can see how it might be annoying to have everyone worrying and intruding on every end. The truth is that most people want to feel that they are useful...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Misunderstanding or deal breaker?, full time job, middle class income
full time job, middle class income, part time job: Dear Daniea, When you wrote, I want to discover what his true feelings and intentions are so I can decide if I really will move in with him, you completely have the right IDEA. Unfortunately there is no answer to the part of your question regarding...

Expressing Yourself to Others: I'm Beyond Confused, rough patches, little kiss
rough patches, little kiss, first kiss: Hey KC It s great that you 2 have clicked and can think about being lovers or partners or whatever you want to call it~ you are lucky to have met so many people and also have a fab friend just like him! My instinct is why does it have to be full of commitment...

Expressing Yourself to Others: question, neutral location, communication problems
neutral location, communication problems, role play: It sounds like you are worrying a little too much.Have you tried practicing to talk to someone? Role play can be a good way to get yourself into starting a conversation. You can do this with another person or by yourself. Mostly you can keep the conversation...

Expressing Yourself to Others: question, commitment phobe, sustainable relationship
commitment phobe, sustainable relationship, commitment issues: He sounds like he has major commitment issues. These he needs to work on before he can truly appreciate a real and sustainable relationship. I hope that you are not bent on trying to fix him. I suggest that you try to find out why he holds these beliefs...

Expressing Yourself to Others: question, communication problems, taking your time
communication problems, taking your time, fab: Kitty ~ Firstly I would like to say your communicated this very well so can t have serious communication problems! Everyone you knows how this feels, sometimes the trick is to ask questions of others show your interested and then you can easily make it...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Conversation Starters?, chat smile, conversation starters
chat smile, conversation starters, flirty: Awww Dana, maybe just try and be yourself relax and ask questions about others! that way you will have something to listen to and then follow on with more chat! Smile and enjoy......try to think what others would like if it was the other way round and...

Expressing Yourself to Others: assessment of personality, personality assessment
personality assessment: Ok... I have read your question and watched the videos several times. If Ryan was exactly like Ricky, Ryan sounds like a pompous ass. The Ricky guy was extremely rude, as were all the women. I do not think that the woman he chose was ugly. All of them...

Expressing Yourself to Others: don't know where it fits, converstations, church group
converstations, church group, three kids: Hi Andrea..........thanks for your question....it seems to me that this is causing you concern and I can t help wondering why......if you just let it be maybe there is no problem at all. Or you can keep try to fathom out what is going on in his head and...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Friends, joy and peace, little at a time
joy and peace, little at a time, negative thoughts: James......you don t need friends to show others that you have them at all! you need friends to love and share and cherish any times together...you say when you get girlfriend! Does that mean you don t have one ? And when you do will she also not be your friend...

Expressing Yourself to Others: no idea what i should do, sister c, light sleeper
sister c, light sleeper, exact time: Damien what a thing to happen :-) guess if you were drunk and really thought it was your wife then you have done nothing wrong..and as soon as you relised you up & left the room and a pleasurable time by the sound of it! We all make mistakes and I guess...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Kissing, long distance relationship, first real kiss
long distance relationship, first real kiss, two and a half years: Why do anything you both don t feel ready for...... don t listen to anyone but yourself.If it causes you pain then sort it if it don t then leave it well alone. A kiss is just a kiss and I guess its a really beautiful way of showing you love each other.....most...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Just a slight problem, first forum, forum leader
first forum, forum leader, open forum: Not really sure what the problem is Alex ~ but my advice is just trust your instincts if it feels rather large project to manage or be part off then just don t. Try not to let any one push you into something your not keen on......or maybe just need more...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Tell a girl that i like her, best friend, crush
best friend, crush, feelings: Well, there are pros and cons to telling her. You could say, I like you more than a friend. She will be disgusted and hate you, feel the same about you, or be neutral. You re obviously hoping for the latter rather than the former. However, there...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Not sure what to do, cute laugh, box of candy
cute laugh, box of candy, emotional distress: Well, why don t you try writing your thoughts onto paper? When you think of your girlfriend, write everything that comes to mind. They can be descriptive or just thoughts. For example: has blue eyes has a cute laugh gave me a box of candy on my...

Expressing Yourself to Others: What's going on?, genuine feelings, teenage relationships
genuine feelings, teenage relationships, adult women: Here s the good news: YES she definitely likes you. Here s the bad news: you re teenagers. I hate to say it that way. Generally, teenage relationships do not last. You will grow up, grow apart, move away, meet new people, new potential mates. The...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Crush help?, sailing program, facebook
sailing program, facebook, few words: No, you re asking him to be your friend. Friends can develop into more than friends. If you say you just want to be friends and you have no interest in anything else, then yea he would probably give up. But all you d be asking if is you could get his info...

Expressing Yourself to Others: E-mail., networks and groups, ulterior motive
networks and groups, ulterior motive, yahoo groups: I wish you would just go out and enjoy the world being so young, find a friend and share with them. Unfortunately its not always that easy. There are many social networks and groups that allows others to communicate via email. You can search through yahoo...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Leaving, quiet place, wrong time
quiet place, wrong time, favour: There is no right or wrong time to tell someone this news. However you need to tell him as soon as possible. whatever your normal routine is with him, just find a quiet place in the midst of it to sit him down and tell him. Explain to him how important it...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Negative thinking, weird person, personal struggles
weird person, personal struggles, negative thinking: It sounds though you have answered your own question. You said that you are tryin to be honest and positive about life andt this is a good step forward. Have you tried verbalizin how you feel to your family? If you plan on changing then your should probably...

Expressing Yourself to Others: What to do?, bind, joke
bind, joke, feelings: First of all if this guy is really great then he wouldn t continue doing things that hurt you. There is no right way to say i don t like what you are doing and i want you to stop. Tell him! He is your boyfriend and that should count for a lot.Are you sure...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Will discussing my abortion with my ex offer me closure?, friends with benefits, personal beliefs
friends with benefits, personal beliefs, med school: Well first Melissa, I ve never been for abortion myself really. I don t have a problem with it if it s for two reasons, Rape or Medical Condition. If you are raped and an awful man does things to you that you are so mad about and harmed emotionally and physically,...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Don't know what to do., abortion pill, relationship work
abortion pill, relationship work, good relationship: It doesn t seem like you have a hard time to me knowing how you feel about your boyfriend. Re-read your letter. You re fed up. To put it plainly, it s time to take responsibility for your own life and happiness and stop worrying about you relationships with...

Expressing Yourself to Others: My JROTC Teacher picks on me a lot!?, quiet person, t text
quiet person, t text, troublemaker: Well I am not totally familiar with JROTC. So I don t know what all you guys/gals do in it. all I know is that it s a part of the military act for a higher education. In any case, from what I do know about it, ROTC teachers are always hard on their cadets,...

Expressing Yourself to Others: respectful, attuide, better person
attuide, better person, abit: Well if you re on your period and overreact on things, that s not always something you can control. Many girls have issues with attitude while on it. It makes you gals feel horrible. So obviously that is not something you can change unless you get the birth...

Expressing Yourself to Others: How to respond, second chance, moron
second chance, moron, bf: Well, do everything like you did before. Try not changing much of that unless it seemed like gf/bf stuff. If she still wants to do something with you, then go do it. If you re normally sitting in class by each other, continue it. If you text her off and on...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Dating/Relationships, recovering from depression, fragile state
recovering from depression, fragile state, medical issue: If you had not mentioned that you had been so hurt and broken lately and that more rejection would crush me, I would say be honest with him and take it from there. However, you are obviously in an emotionally fragile state. You may be still in the throes...

Expressing Yourself to Others: arranged marriage, awkward silences, marital relationship
awkward silences, marital relationship, sure what kind: Hellos Sara, Good to see a revert back from your end and am happy my advice was of some help to you. Good to know things started on good note for you and you also taking interest in being expressive with your fiancee and make him feel nice. First of...

Expressing Yourself to Others: should i break up and how should i get over this., dependent parents, sustainging relationship
dependent parents, sustainging relationship, love: Hello Dhanya, Apologies afront for delay in reverting back to you. I appreciate your gesture of dropping a word and sharing your heart felt feelings and it takes a toll on a person while penning down. But really shows, your strong desire to make things...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Dating, reltionship, gay
reltionship, gay, love: Hello there, Thanks for writing in and sharing your personal relationship issues across. It takes a lot to pen down such heart felt feelings which have been bothering us and I appreciate your efforts in taking a step ahead and seeking help, which shows...

Expressing Yourself to Others: please help so lost and hurt, abusive, love relationship
abusive, love relationship, depressed: Hello Heather, Apologies afront for delay in reverting back to you. I appreciate your gesture of dropping a word and sharing your heart felt feelings and it takes a toll on a person while penning down. But really shows, your strong desire to make things...

Expressing Yourself to Others: crushing again, thin girls, prettiest girl
thin girls, prettiest girl, flawless skin: Hi Natasha, Thanks for coming to me with your question. First of all, I d like to start of by saying that guys are simple creatures. If he liked you and was physically attracted to you a year ago, it s highly unlikely he s changed. In fact I suspect that...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Expressing my self., random stranger, conversation skills
random stranger, conversation skills, candid advice: Hi Bryan, The problem here is your perception. As much as hollywood tries to play it out, very few can walk up to a random stranger and directly ask them out. I know because it s happen to me a couple times and to be honest, it s more creepy than flattering....

Expressing Yourself to Others: Expressing my feelings to my manager, hard feelings, speaking my mind
hard feelings, speaking my mind, main man: It sounds to me like the night time manager isn t in the position to or is unwilling to make the scheduling change. A new job is definitely in order. Although, if you are quitting anyway, you have nothing to lose by going to the manager you originally suspect...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Don't know how to feel.
Hey Brooke, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in...

Expressing Yourself to Others: tense mode
Hey Chris, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Expressing Yourself to Others: What to do?
Hi, Thanks for your question. That is a bit of a dilemma!! I don t know that you can really solve this in the way that you want. Her little girl is being violated ( her thoughts I m guessing) and that is going to hard for a parent to handle. It will also...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Feelings.
The first thing you need to do in order to avoid being clingy is trust the other person totally. They are not like your ex, and will not do the same thing to you. Not every man or every woman is out to break your heart or steal your money. Relax and do not...

Expressing Yourself to Others: communication, casual fling, best of both worlds
casual fling, best of both worlds, dinner drinks: Hi Joanna, thx for your question. I think you ve said it pretty clearly as you said it twice in your short email, I drive down, waste gas, etc. Sounds like it s pretty one-sided relationship. I don t get the sense there s a lot of effort put in on his part....

Expressing Yourself to Others: Showing Affection, physical affection, emotional piece
physical affection, emotional piece, breaking the ice: Hi Nikki, thx for your question. It sounds like your heart/emotions are telling you one thing but you then analyze everything to the point where you lose the emotional piece. Try and stay with your feelings/ emotions and the rest will come naturally. Communication...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Communication, converstaion, time communication
converstaion, time communication, couple of days: Hi Brittanie, communication is key in any relationship (as you obviously are aware). It sounds like you two have become quite disconnected . You may find it helpful to have specific time set aside every couple of days or every night if you can manage that....

Expressing Yourself to Others: telling someone who is spoken for that you love them, attractive women, sweet things
attractive women, sweet things, fiance: Matt, You re not going to like what I have to say. When I said tell her how you feel, I meant TELL her how you feel--not make her a mixed tape of songs for her to maybe vibe or decipher or guess your true feelings about her from. How is that being clear...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Family, inferiority complex, family fight
inferiority complex, family fight, acre piece: Hey Lesli, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Girl Stalking me for seven years
Hey Ramantu, Apologies afront for delay in reverting to you. I understand that how difficult it s getting for you and stepping in your shoes, I very well can relate how the situation would be. But trust me, its not worse as it may appear like. As I mentioned...

Expressing Yourself to Others: parents acceptance, transgender
transgender: Now you feel like you canít have the life you want as the person you want to be without your family collapsing. And thatís not fair or healthy. I think you may have reached a point where you have to let your family take responsibility for themselves while...

Expressing Yourself to Others: My friend and the "creepy" guy
i would tell her the truth no matter the outcome,he is creepy and up to no good,i can just feel it in my gut from reading ur post,reasons the people blanked when they discovered u knew them,please intervene,feel free to email me back.right now she is needy,...

Expressing Yourself to Others: please help,save my life, prayer, low self esteem
prayer, low self esteem, help: Heavenly Father, I look up to you in this time of change. Allow me to have the courage to change my life for the better. Allow all my burdens to be risen up to you as I know that You will see me through. Forgive those who have done evil and allow me to do...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Being Assertive and Dealing With Guilt, people pleaser
people pleaser: believe in yourself and do not be a people pleaser.If you re a people pleaser, then people are always taking advantage of you. You re also probably not getting what you want out of life. Stop thinking about what would make others happy and focus on what...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Communicating with Veterinarian, difficult people
difficult people: Effective communication is often considered the cornerstone of a successful business. However, that skill may be more challenging when dealing with difficult people. A difficult person may be defensive, aggressive or excessively needy. As you try to maintain...

Expressing Yourself to Others: express
Effective communication skills #1: Listening Listening is one of the most important aspects of effective communication. Successful listening means not just understanding the words or the information being communicated, but also understanding how the speaker...

Expressing Yourself to Others: about height increase, height
height: www.gettall.com/increase_height.html www.viprahealthcare.com/heightomax.htm www.ymedicine.blogspot.com/2012/11/which-is-best... Discover The Secret To Growing Taller Is Special Height Increasing Exercises & Natural Supplements! 1, Youíll learn...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Acting shy, mutual friends, nervousness
mutual friends, nervousness, rehearsal: ALICE; it s called hormones and focus. ON the stage, you are presenting a canned thing to the public. WHEN YOU talk to him, it is spontaneous. YOU WILL overcome the nervousness. ALL kids get it when they are excited by members of the opposite sex....

Expressing Yourself to Others: Although my inlaws don't with..., feedback section, inlaws
feedback section, inlaws, who is the boss: Hi Lynn, Part of the problem is that you are doing everything they want. They are therefore getting the message that all their requests are reasonable. You need to set limits- strongly and your husband needs to do it as well. It can be done in a nice way...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Annoying Friend, phone person, male friend
phone person, male friend, mutual friends: Hi Sarah, Wow that is something. I would say that your new friend has some problems, but that is beside the point. I suspect what has happened is that you verbally set the limits, she pushed those boundaries and was successful so she really doesn t see...

Expressing Yourself to Others: to act or not to act, power imbalance, resident advisor
power imbalance, resident advisor, ocassions: Hi Jessica, A couple things come to mind. Is there any rules in his job description that talk about his relationships with students. Sometimes there are clear rules that would forbid that if it s believed that there is a power imbalance between you and...

Expressing Yourself to Others: advice???, photo class, couple weeks
photo class, couple weeks, flirts: well chanel, it seems as if there is two possibilities for this situation. This guy sort of seems like the kind of guy that flirts with every girl and wouldnt be a very good boyfriend, but i dont know him so i cant make that decision. If you really like him,...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Any advices. What do I have to do?, teenager girl, advices
teenager girl, advices, love: Well, i really dont know whether he is in love with you. I m pretty sure that he isnt: but thats ok: he still can like you, or be interested in you, ect. I suggest you stop and wait for him to do your part: you did yours. Now that you started it, just wait...

Expressing Yourself to Others: affection?, waist head, hold hands
waist head, hold hands, gfs: Talk to her. I have a similar problem with my boyfriend, except it s like you. I am the one wanting more affection. I suggest you talk to her. That s the number one step you can take. Ask her what she wants you to do, and you will have a 100% correct answer....

Expressing Yourself to Others: more affection?, affection, 17 years
affection, 17 years, girlfriend: Kyle: you can show her affection in SO many ways, it is hard to name them all. When you are together, always smile at her...hold her hand, hug her often, tell her that you care, and always LET HER KNOW that you are crazy about her. just do things that will...

Expressing Yourself to Others: annoying friend, being friends, great friends
being friends, great friends, second thought: Talk to her about it. Communication is the #1 key to friendships and relationships. Of course, dont flat out say you re being too clingy. break it to her slowly. Say something like, So-and-so, i really like you, and you are one of my GREAT friends, but...

Expressing Yourself to Others: how to ask, text message, 6 years
text message, 6 years, whole lot: So wat do you want help with? Asking her out? If so, just say something like hey, you wanna go to the movies sometime or Can I take you out for dinner? It gets the message out there without you really saying anything. If it goes well, and seh looks like...

Expressing Yourself to Others: how to ask a girl out, first girlfriend, first move
first girlfriend, first move, good luck: The best way to ask a girl to be your girlfriend is to ask her out first. Ask her to go to a movie, or a dinner, or to just plain hang out just the two of you. After a while, it will be pretty much official she is your girlfriend. But she cannot be your girlfriend...

Expressing Yourself to Others: how to ask a woman
Hi Mike, I believe that you can say almost anything to someone, it just depends HOW you say it. You have given me such little information that I really can t help you beyond that. If you want to be more specific I may have some suggestions. Shan...

Expressing Yourself to Others: How do I ask him out?, fear of rejection, changes in life
fear of rejection, changes in life, section thanks: Hi Tyanne, Fear of rejection is what holds ALL of us back from taking chances. I don t think that having your friend ask him out is a good idea. It s not the best way to start out a relationship. If you need more certainty about whether he will say yes...

Expressing Yourself to Others: asking..., friendly relationship, peice
friendly relationship, peice: If you dont know them at all, then the best way to do this is gradually. Get to know them, talk to them at school or whenever you see them, and build a friendly relationship. (if you already know them and are acquaintances you dont have to do this, of course.)...

Expressing Yourself to Others: asking him out, good looking guys, hot guys
good looking guys, hot guys, hot guy: Dear Lauren, Hey... sorry i took so long to reply, some stuff happened over at my end and i just couldnt find time to reply. Sorry! Anyways, i hope this reply isnt too late, that is, u havent already approached him and asked him out. (heh) ...

Expressing Yourself to Others: attitude problems, nasty argument, attitude problems
nasty argument, attitude problems, counsellor: Hi Shenyka, Wow big question with very little information and a small space in which to reply. It sounds like you have some insight and that s 75% of the battle. You need to figure out what that moodiness is all about. If you don t know the answer to that,...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Best advice from your topic of expertise, personal research project, thanks in advance
personal research project, thanks in advance, peak performance: Hi Brian, it sounds like you are asking me for advice on intelligence, genius and peak performance. How can you make those points into a question that requires advice? Standing alone, as they do, there is no advice required. I m unclear on what you want....

Expressing Yourself to Others: Best advice from your topic of expertise, personal research project, thanks in advance
personal research project, thanks in advance, peak performance: Hello Brian, I am not sure what you are asking me but I would like to let you know that I do not see myself as an expert at anything, I just give advice based on things that I have experienced and what I have seen others go through. I enjoy listening to others...

Expressing Yourself to Others: My Best Friend Hates Me!!, back rubs, romantic feelings
back rubs, romantic feelings, prostitute: hello phill, i am sorry it took me so long to get back to you. i dont know the entire situation but from what you are saying it makes me wonder if you actually do have some strong feelings for her and dont want to admit it. or it could just be that you feel...

Expressing Yourself to Others: My Best Friend Hates Me!!, back rubs, romantic feelings
back rubs, romantic feelings, prostitute: Hi Phill, the problem started because you weren t honest. All you can do is be honest, as you were with me, and hope that you can work things out (if that s what you want). You need to be able to truly communicate with the people who are important to you...

Expressing Yourself to Others: My Best Friend Hates Me!!, back rubs, romantic feelings
back rubs, romantic feelings, prostitute: hello phil you already have made many mistakes with her and another one would be to continue on with this lies and charades relationship you have gotten yourself into. at this point in time it will be very difficult for you two just to be friends or being...

Expressing Yourself to Others: My Best Friend Hates Me!!, back rubs, romantic feelings
back rubs, romantic feelings, prostitute: Just say the truth thats all i can say.. say that u want to be friends but u need ur space and u dont wanna hang 4 days a week. Say that u like her but not in that way. GOod Luck i kno how u feel so dont get upset over this if u liked what i...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Bestfriends bad dating habits, physical affection, going in the right direction
physical affection, going in the right direction, bestfriend: Angelina: It all depends on time. If he proves to have straightened his ways and is truly a nice person, then in time you must learn to forgive and forget. All that matters is whether he will treat her well or not. Give him time: but if he shows no signs...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Breaking up when we aren't even dating yet, politeness, confrontation
politeness, confrontation, roommate: Hi Confrontationless, I was just in the exact same situation... having to break up with my non-boyfriend... just be honest with him. tell him over or text if you have, not recommended but better than dragging it out.. you have to be fair and tell him......

Expressing Yourself to Others: Is his battle my battle, hospital emergency room, signs of depression
hospital emergency room, signs of depression, famliy history: has a excellent job at a local hospital... my suggestion--contact his boss and suggest that as part of their continuing hiring process, that all employees see the hospital shrink; psychologist. NEVER become co-dependent on anyone for anything. ...

Expressing Yourself to Others: my best friend hates me, wenever, tlk
wenever, tlk, wut: Thats ok. Well this might be why; she might think that you like her. And that is OK; relationships (especially that of friends) can easily be rebuilt once misunderstandings are cleared up. Just get her by herself, and try to make it as clear as you can. Tell...

Expressing Yourself to Others: My best friend the man stealer, male friendship, bad reputation
male friendship, bad reputation, girlfriends: Well, this is your best friend we re talking about. You should definately talk to her. If she learns the hard way and finds out that you coulda told her about it, before she learns, then she ll probably get really mad. Or hurt. If it explodes in your face,...

Expressing Yourself to Others: best friend, nutrition lecture, xerox machine
nutrition lecture, xerox machine, collette: I think the reason Shelly said Well... at first was because she had only seen Collette sitting down. That is what I think, though I am not always right. If I am not right, then Shelly was being sarcastic when she said My God Collette you are so thin ...

Expressing Yourself to Others: body language, well communication, hi amy
well communication, hi amy, good relationship: Hi Amy, body language can be confusing as it isn t always clear, as you have noticed. When in doubt or when you think you may be sending a mixed message- SPEAK! It works much better. You need to pass this on to your boyfriend as well. Communication is...

Expressing Yourself to Others: my boifriend cheated n soppose to have a girl pregnant, soppose, fact of the matter
soppose, fact of the matter, neva: I think you know what my answer to this question is going to be, and I think that you will find that the answer is what you are saying to yourself in your head. You should end it with him now, even if the child is not his he cheated on you. I know your heart...

Expressing Yourself to Others: How do I get the boy of my dreams?, boy of my dreams, true friends
boy of my dreams, true friends, loser: If you really like a boy, and in your heart you know that you will be happy with him, it does not matter what your friends might think. All that matters is if you are happy and if he is happy; if your friends laugh at you and call you a loser for having a...

Expressing Yourself to Others: The boy, having sex, bf
having sex, bf, wit: hello DeDe, just be yourself and flirt with him but not to the point where it will lead him to think that you want to have sex with him. or u can just come right out and tell him that you think he is cute and all and would like the chance to spend time with...

Expressing Yourself to Others: build relationships, gate keeper, gatekeeper
gate keeper, gatekeeper, fax machine: Hi Rizwan, YOu need to only own up for mistakes that are really your fault, don t hold the rest against you, that kind of stress is not healthy for you... As for personal use, that depends on the workplace. you should check with your boss on that ...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Chemistry, great personality, high priority
great personality, high priority, objective look: Augusto, every person has a different set of priorities for finding a match. While with men looks rates usually as a very high priority, with women it is much less so. Women look for someone who will be gentle, someone who will be a good companion, someone...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Children/to have or not to have, intense career, feedback section
intense career, feedback section, well thanks: Hi K, I don t think you have much choice but to tell him as this is something that you really want and you would have a hard time keeping such an issue, hidden. I think that you tell him the same way that you have told me. Be honest and see how he responds....

Expressing Yourself to Others: Christian/non-Christian relationship, christian relationship, skeptism
christian relationship, skeptism, romantic relationship: Dear Mimi, Well religion is a sensitive issue and ppl can be dogmatic about it. I think its sad to break a relationship up cos of religion as well, esp since u believe that your personalities match. Have u ever asked him why its so imp to him? Just besides...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Class Reunion Greeting Etiquette, personal friendships, high school reunion
personal friendships, high school reunion, class reunions: Let me ask you a question, are you comfortable with yourself and your relationship with your wife? Do you trust your wife? If the answers are yes, then you should not be worried about this up and comming schmooze fest. Did you attend your wife s 20th high...

Expressing Yourself to Others: CONFUSED, dance floor, 3 years
dance floor, 3 years, last time: Hi Karina, you are pretty CLEAR, you aren t wanting to be in this relationship at the moment. If you are only reflecting on yourself, that s what you would say. You are thinking of him (first) and are therefore holding your own needs back. One of the biggest...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Commitment Phobic, distinct possibility, gut feeling
distinct possibility, gut feeling, wonderful man: Hi Yvonne, that is a distinct possibility but without knowing him and his past, etc. it s too hard to say. If that is what your gut feeling is telling you, you are probably correct. Irregardless, it doesn t sound like he is the guy for you. Thank you for...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Communicating with Others, communication tips, stupid questions
communication tips, stupid questions, nervousness: Hi Jazz, if you had no friends and didn t communicate at all, there would be reason for concern. That is not the case. It actually sounds like you are focusing too much attention on communication and too concerned what people are thinking. If you can drop...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Communicating to Three different People, hard feelings, break ups
hard feelings, break ups, taking your time: Honesty combined with gentleness. Write a note or take each one aside and speak softly and gently to him. Tell him that you value their friendship a lot and don t want to lose that, but that you have feelings for someone else, and that it s important that...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Communication, vulnerable position, bset
vulnerable position, bset, guts: Hi Jamie, usually people are afraid of opening up because it puts them in a vulnerable position and that is scary. By that I mean, what if you spill your guts and he says he doesn t feel the same or isn t into the relationship as much, etc. That s why it...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Confidence Deficiency, increasing confidence, bathroom mirror
increasing confidence, bathroom mirror, negative thoughts: Hi Ben, Try this out for an exercise. Take a piece of paper. Start by writing out a list of things you don t like about yourself. Next write a list of things that you do like about yourself. With the list about what you don t like yourself, throw that out....

Expressing Yourself to Others: Confidence., freshman year, catholic schools
freshman year, catholic schools, catholic school: Ciara: I know EXACTLY how you feel. In my freshman year, i went to a catholic school where everyone came from other catholic schools and had their little groups that they had known for 10 years. I came from a public school and only knew one person, and...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Confused about advance from woman, those shoes, gleem
those shoes, gleem, front desk: Hi Peter, I can t say that I know whether she was interested or not- it s hard to tell from such a comment. It could go either way. I always think it s best to be yourself. Small chitchat is a good way to start and then when you get up enough confidence,...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Confused in Love, three valentines, older women
three valentines, older women, half years: This situation sounds serious from my end. It looks as if he is trying to control you, and as if he is starting to become a posessive boyfriend. He is blaming you for everything that HE did, and is keeping you away from your friends and other people. This...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Confused! ;(, arent worth, good kid
arent worth, good kid, ambition: Hey Michelle: Two words: ignore her. Really, thats all you have to do. Girls like that arent worth your time and consideration: the only reason she is teasing you is to see your reaction. They WANT you to get mad: it s like their entire ambition in life,...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Confusing Girl Problems, eagle scout award, varsity tennis team
eagle scout award, varsity tennis team, lazy bum: if it is sincerely bothering you (and I can see why it does, I understand), then you have to break the news to her very casually. Just bring up the subject of her boyfriend, and casually say, So how is your relationship with whatsisname going? If she replies...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Conversating, awkward silences, confident person
awkward silences, confident person, female friends: Zack: Thank you, you brought up some points that are really realistic. So i will answer each of your questions in turn. How do you take the conversation further than a sport: Just change the subject. I know it may be pretty random, but sometimes it is...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Crush ??, werent, eachother
werent, eachother, good luck: Well, first of all, i dont think it would be a good idea just to go up to her and randomly talk to her. That would invoke the most Awkward conversation you could possibly ever have. One day, if your walking at school or wherever you see her, just say hi and...

Expressing Yourself to Others: call him?, mid semester, soemthing
mid semester, soemthing, tiem: hello tara, the way you describe things, it seems like there may be something there between you. if you are wondering so much about all of this, call him so that you can give him your number and discuss hanging out. i have learned that the only way to get...

Expressing Yourself to Others: call him?, mid semester, soemthing
mid semester, soemthing, tiem: Hi Tara, it sounds like the real problem here is your fear of rejection (which is normal). It sounds like he may have the same fears. It sounds like you are both waiting for each other to make the first move. So.... who is going to move first? As you are...

Expressing Yourself to Others: my so called best friend, ur friends, bff
ur friends, bff, experiance: i know it must be hard to move and leave all of ur friends behind. I think honestly that ur old bff has forgotten that u guys were so close and that u meant a lot to her. I do not think her bf is the problem here at all butt try to talk to her more and invite...

Expressing Yourself to Others: cheating friend, dear abby, girl jamie
dear abby, girl jamie, stupid guy: DEAR abby has fought with this problem for 60 yrs. She claims and I agree, this is the best way to volunteer for shoot the messenger service there is. IF you want to be a detective or Helper , the only person you ought to talk to is the girl. I...

Expressing Yourself to Others: On cheating, girs, truth or dare game
girs, truth or dare game, ambien: It is a good thing that she told you about it; it shows that your relationship is an honest one. But first of all; how long have you two been together? And how old are you? Because the answer to those questions will answer your problems. When you reply with...

Expressing Yourself to Others: how to commit, lifetime thing, jumping the gun
lifetime thing, jumping the gun, one day at a time: Hi Rachel, CHILL! DOn t you think you re jumping the gun here. It s been 3 weeks, that doesn t mean it s going to be a lifetime. TAke one day at a time, SLOWLY. If you ge to the point where you want it to be a lifetime thing, you will be ready. Right...

Expressing Yourself to Others: communication, college roomate, hannibal lecter
college roomate, hannibal lecter, pleasantries: Johann: You, of course, were just expressing your honest opinion. As ironic as this is, you and your girlfriend are actually going through a small argument yourself. It is ok for you to express your opinion, and it is also OK for her to disagree with it....

Expressing Yourself to Others: communication skills, scientology center, spirit www
scientology center, spirit www, good conversationalist: Hello Tim; I have the exact answer to your question. There is a short course entitled Success Through Communication . You can take it at any Scientology Center, find one in your area in the Yellow Pages or by going to http://www.scientology.org ...

Expressing Yourself to Others: communication, last ditch, traumatic times
last ditch, traumatic times, loving aunt: Bonnie; I am flattered that you have sought my advice for what you feel will be the last communication with a dear relative. I have no father or mother and the last letter I wrote to my mom was not flattering--but she died by drinking too much at one...

Expressing Yourself to Others: compassion, chronic complainers, positve outlook
chronic complainers, positve outlook, misery loves company: Mary; ever heard of Mary Poppins or Pollyanna? first; get posters that make you smile and put them up througout your cubicle. if allowed to play music quietly, get some CDs and play the Beach Boys and others who always have positive music. AND UPBEAT...

Expressing Yourself to Others: how to be more confident, hi amy, self confidence
hi amy, self confidence, accent: your unique because you have an accent. the probability of people laughing at you is very low. dont ever let that shut you down. if they laugh at you thats stupid, and it just shows how immature they are, so those kind of people shouldnt matter to you...

Expressing Yourself to Others: confused, popular crowd, confusing problem
popular crowd, confusing problem, best friends: okay. You could go up to her with her friends around, but that would just be awkward, tell her that you want to talk to her alone. If she doesn t listen, get your friends to distract her friends. if she rejects you, you might look stupid, but you ll have...

Expressing Yourself to Others: confused, decison, piece of advice
decison, piece of advice, collage: Well I know this is not what you want to hear, but if she has already made her decison not to date anyone until college, then I think you need to respect that. That does not mean you shouldn t NOT tell her how you feel, infact I advise you to, especially...

Expressing Yourself to Others: confused, bad habit, friend taylor
bad habit, friend taylor, frusterated: Chelsea: First of all, sorry for replying so late. I was out of town and didnt have access to the internet. As for your question, there really is only one way to help it. And it may seem totally obvious and unhelpful, but there it is. You have to just...

Expressing Yourself to Others: confuzzled and frustrated, instant messengers, confuzzled
instant messengers, confuzzled, aspiring writer: Hi Sarah, I think you should write him a letter and tell him how you feel in a letter, as starts. Then when you give it to him, you should ask him to read it there, in front of you. That way, he ll probably respond to you verbally and maybe it will help...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Should I continue??, classmate, classmates
classmate, classmates, girlfriend: Well this is a tricky thing, she says that she does not want a boyfriend until she goes to college... Now in my opinion she should wait until college to focus on school, but that is me. If you want her to become your girlfriend, then you need to build up that...

Expressing Yourself to Others: crushing on my neighbor, nephew, taking the time
nephew, taking the time, neighbor: Ya, either give him your phone number or your email address, then you will be able to talk more. Just remember, that if you give him your phone number, he may call you alot, but he may not. It just depends on the kind of guy he is. If he doesn t, don t think...

Expressing Yourself to Others: curiousity, inacurate, coworker
inacurate, coworker, self confidence: Debbie: First of all, let me say how proud of you i am. You are one of the few who notice how actually wrong this behavior is: it is selfish, and even though the remarks seem so TRIVIAL, they hurt peoples feelings emmensely. You are 100% right: why DO people...

Expressing Yourself to Others: How To Date, interpersonal relationship, sense of humour
interpersonal relationship, sense of humour, hi tim: Hi Tim, I will do my best but there is lots to say about this. As for asking her out on a date- it may be best to ask her for coffee the first time if you really don t know her. It would not be very typical to ask a girl to be friends. A friendship is something...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Dating, fear of rejection, bestfriend
fear of rejection, bestfriend, being friends: It seems like he likes you and since you are in love with him you won t feel right just being friends, so try to find out directly from him if he likes you or not. Just be very casual and tell him one of your friends said he liked you, and you wondered if...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Dating questions, american jokes, starter questions
american jokes, starter questions, baseball basketball: Jennifer, I have only one resonse for you; like the butterfly; if it returns to you, it is meant to. QUIT trying to be perfect for him; be you. Why? Cause you are being unfair and A CHEATER. People around you want to know you. Who you are and why...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Dating, touchy feely, incounter
touchy feely, incounter, trust your gut: Hi Vanessa, thanks for the question. I think you are asking yourself all the right questions. it also sounds like you have lots of insight and that s great. I always go with the trust your gut . If you feel there isn t a great connection, I would trust...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Depression and my boyfriend, anxiety and depression, first mistake
anxiety and depression, first mistake, doing the right thing: Hi Lissa, You certainly have had a rough year and I give you lots of credit for deciding that you need to take care of yourself. I don t think that the am I doing the right thing is directly connected to your anxiety and depression. I suspect what has...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Dining with Friends + Peanut allergy and Epipen = ugh :( !, peanut allergy, fanny pack
peanut allergy, fanny pack, henry bars: Hi Sash, This is a really hard one for me to respond to since I have no ideas... but have you thought about getting a medical bracelet or better yet, having it tatooed on your wrist? It ll show people that you have an allergy, and hopefully not be so much...

Expressing Yourself to Others: I DONT GET IT, romantic girl, time and place
romantic girl, time and place, good luck: There really is no right way to ask a girl out...and there is no way you are supposed to do it. IT all depends on the girls personality and your personality, and how they match. if shes a romantic girl, make it romantic, if shes casual, make it casual,...

Expressing Yourself to Others: between dates, terrific lady, spirit www
terrific lady, spirit www, bad manners: I think that after three days of not hearing back, you re entitled to placing ONE phonecall, and telling her (in a positive, friendly and warm way): I had fun in our date, and I d like to see you again. But I respect you and don t want to crowd you - so...

Expressing Yourself to Others: dating question, actions speak louder than words, kissy
actions speak louder than words, kissy, louder than words: Hi Marla, I always say that actions speak louder than words and they do. I surprised to read down your letter and then get to the part that you hadn t talked to him in a few MONTHS! He wasn t away that long so what was that about. It almost sounds like...

Expressing Yourself to Others: dating...., losing my virginity, intellectual conversations
losing my virginity, intellectual conversations, touchy feely: dearest Holly; you are being casually used. You are buying a boyfriend. and your gut knows it. stop. ACCEPT the gut wrenching and horrible feeling that you will have for 1-12 weeks and walk away. u experienced some good stuff and some bad stuff....

Expressing Yourself to Others: how to deal with dating, christiana, twin sister
christiana, twin sister, good luck: Christiana: This is a situation that mostly involves communication. You must talk to your sister: If you are really botthered by this situation, talk to her! Ask her what she does to get guys to ask her out, how she flirts, how she does her hair, ect. That...

Expressing Yourself to Others: how to deal with past issues, broken marriage, husban
broken marriage, husban, old stuff: will not talk about things that are not relevant if not probed deeply...but is that wrong? he says that i have not dealt with my past and i need to do so...that is the reason i have written to ask for some advice...please--- old stuff has to be converted...

Expressing Yourself to Others: How to deal with..., hannah hannah, center of attention
hannah hannah, center of attention, single parent: Hannah, I have recently been in a fight with my best friend. It was the day before we were spending an entire weekend together, so this should work. What I did, and what I advise you to do, is talk to her. Words can do so much good if you choose the right...

Expressing Yourself to Others: my deteriorating relationship, eight months, wrong way
eight months, wrong way, buddies: Lola: Everyone has relationship problems: this is totally normal and you will be able to work through it. You just have to have his help. I m glad that you re trying to work things out without getting angry: thats always the first step to improving a relationship....

Expressing Yourself to Others: She has a difficult past.........., long term relationship, patient guy
long term relationship, patient guy, hi chris: Hi Chris, what you haven t said in your question is whether you have spoken to her about all of this or not. That would be the first step. From your description, it sounds like she is still grieving/getting over her past boyfriend and it s quite different...

Expressing Yourself to Others: difficulty in communicating with my wife, employee assistance program, hi chris
employee assistance program, hi chris, poor communication: Hi Chris, I appreciate the extra info. Sometimes people write and say things like- I am unhappy and my life is chaotic, what should I do? How can anyone answer that! Anyway, first of all, I think you have nailed it when you said that you have trouble being...

Expressing Yourself to Others: difficulty understanding, uncomfortable silences, interpersonal relationships
uncomfortable silences, interpersonal relationships, social functions: Hmm. Well, for your first question, sometimes, people show annoyance during conversations for absolutely no reason pertaining to you. Maybe they remembered something they had todo when they got home (like cleaning, or doing the laundry) that they don t like...

Expressing Yourself to Others: i don't know what to do, volleyball player, coward
volleyball player, coward, guts: The best way that you can express your feelings for this girl is IN PERSON. Trust me; as a girl who had just been through almost this same EXACT thing just an hour ago or so, I know that the best way to handle this situation is to tell her how you feel in...

Expressing Yourself to Others: I don't know how to talk to her, breaking the ice, oppertunity
breaking the ice, oppertunity, lol thanks: Actually, that is a really good way of greeting her. It s honest and straightforward. She will apreciate that instead of you starting off with oh i m adding you cause you re hot. Most girls hate that. So just be honest with her, but also dont take the honesty...

Expressing Yourself to Others: i don't know, reply asap, pe lesson
reply asap, pe lesson, music lesson: Hi Laura, Well there are a couple of suggestions (1) get together a group of people, including him, and go do something as a group and then you can spend some time with him without too much pressure. (2) ask him out. I am a believer in being up front because...

Expressing Yourself to Others: i don't think i can do this anymore, school dances, great first impression
school dances, great first impression, quiet kid: Don t worry, I hate it when people say be yourself. In these times, with all the prejudice and whatnot, it s kind of scary, and usually people who are outgoing don t care about what other people think, so it works for them. I ll tell you a story and see...

Expressing Yourself to Others: i dont know what to say, third time, bottom line
third time, bottom line, good luck: Hi Bobby, You probably are like many guys your age, it s hard the first time and even the second or third time. The thing is, you might as well assume that you will occassionally get rejected in your life-that s just the way it goes. You won t be attracted...

Expressing Yourself to Others: I dont know what to do with her!, physical attraction, intimacy
physical attraction, intimacy, having sex: Hi Carven, thanks for the question. There is nothing wrong with being cautious, and that sounds like what is going on with you. When you start to tell her your feelings and then ask her and she bounces it back to you, call her on that right then. Something...

Expressing Yourself to Others: dress code, work clothes, singles party
work clothes, singles party, party host: Hi Augusto, I think that was rude of the host. Clearly you had just come from work. I don t think there was anything wrong with wearing a suit. He scheduled the party for after work- what did he think everyone was going to wear? On another topic, based...

Expressing Yourself to Others: dress code, work clothes, collar button
work clothes, collar button, singles party: Hi Augusto; I believe the host exaggerated. One recommendation I can make in such a situation is simply to remove the tie, and unbutton your collar button. This clearly sends the message of look, I m coming straight from work, but I ve loosened up now and...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Emancipation or other posabilities of freedom, seeing eye to eye, therpy
seeing eye to eye, therpy, sole fact: This a common issues with a lot of girls in their early teenage years. Parents have an extremely hard time letting their little girl go, and it might take them a bit too long to finally let loose. Sometimes girls are held within their parents grasp until...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Emotional Distance, terrible feeling, being cold
terrible feeling, being cold, emotions: Leah: I know that this is a terrible feeling, and it s really difficult to get through it. And although it may not seem like it, the answer is simple: be YOURSELF. That is way too vague, so i ll explain. Whenever you are out with people, whether you know...

Expressing Yourself to Others: EXPRESS, share feelings, poem song
share feelings, poem song, best of luck: Hi Jasmine, I guess there is always the option of writing a poem, song, sending a letter or a note. Sometimes sharing feelings is very difficult because you aren t sure how the person will respond. You make yourself vulnerable when you share feelings and...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Ex boyfriend, better person, best of luck
better person, best of luck, chick: Hi, you were certainly able to explain, in your question to me, what has gone on for you. Given that, I suspect you would be able to talk to your ex without sounding weird . Another option may be to write him letter as sometimes it s easier to express ourselves...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Expert! Help!, expert login, enquires
expert login, enquires, good reason: Hey, Real sorry cos im not 100% sure how this thing works either. U might want to send an email to ALLEXPERTS and get them to fix your problem. If u dont see your name on the allexperts board, i dont actually think u got accepted...could be the system...

Expressing Yourself to Others: How To Express My Interest, e mail address, initial complaint
e mail address, initial complaint, written complaint: Dear Tima; It s interesting that we are so professional and meticulous about pursuing our career lives, but we are usually conditioned to fly by the seat of our pants when it comes to our personal lives. That s where Scientology comes in. It consists of...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Expressing myself, first girlfriend, experimental nature
first girlfriend, experimental nature, peice: Since she is your first girlfriend, it is ok to try and experience different things, and experiment on how to express yourself to her. It is ok to be shy, ok to be reserved. She will appreciate this in time. However, if i could offer one peice of advice, it...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Expressing myself to my love, trust issues, girlfriends
trust issues, girlfriends, girlfriend: Cole; I KNOW you need to postpone the marriage--or ? YOU have trust issues and that IS understandable. But you CANNOT enter a marriage having trust issues; won t work. YOU would doubt her all the time. WAIT for a few more months and if need be, years....

Expressing Yourself to Others: Expressing Myself To Others, ang mo kio, self help books
ang mo kio, self help books, institute of technical education: there is no right or wrong. this is not an exercise in 2 + 2 = it is about life. I do not live where you live and I have not met your family. I suggest visiting a college and ask them what options they see for you. perhaps visit other relatives....

Expressing Yourself to Others: Expressing myself, afraid of commitment, relationship problems
afraid of commitment, relationship problems, stay friends: STARTING off a relationship with a lady who has had a pregnancy eliminated has more hurt than you will likely want to take on. stay friends with her. DATE other girls/ladies. Go out casually. she how she matures. Stay in college and do well. ...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Expression, extravert, hillary
extravert, hillary, good luck: Hi Hillary, Some people are just naturally outspoken. Do you feel comfortable hanging out with those people? Do you find that you have things in common with them? If you do, bring up something that you have in common and start a conversation up with them...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Is it too early?, commited relationship, boyfriend james
commited relationship, boyfriend james, section thanks: Hi Nicole, That is such an individual decision. I am thinking that if you are asking that question then you think it s a bit early. On the other hand, you said you were just trying to get to know each other and there certainly isn t anything wrong with...

Expressing Yourself to Others: They either move fast, or I'm slow, cute girls, still friends
cute girls, still friends, cute girl: hello neil, i am not sure what your age is but i hate to say this, you are asking for trouble if you end up dating your ex s friend. no matter if she says she is ok with it, she never will be. i steer my kids away from that all the time, because what i tell...

Expressing Yourself to Others: will she be embarrassed, odd names, alphonso
odd names, alphonso, spelt: I have never heard of a truck named Camion. I think you should remember forever why you named a child and love the name if it was arrived at with love and a positive purpose. Gertrude, Alphonso, etc are odd names TO ME but not to the parents that gave...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Am I an emotional flake?, walking to school, flake
walking to school, flake, signals: Hi Elin, Don t beat yourself up about this. There is nothing wrong, you aren t a flake. This is the fantasy is better than reality situation. You didn t know the guy at all while you had a crush on him. YOu said hi a couple of times and that was it....

Expressing Yourself to Others: emotions, drop of a dime, emotional person
drop of a dime, emotional person, family doctor: Well, I m not a doctor, but my mom is basically the same way. It s nothing to be embarassed about. If the people around you are really your friends and they care about you, then they ll understand. If you don t really know them, but they think you re a baby,...

Expressing Yourself to Others: How can I express myself without pressuring him?, emotional subject, serious relationship
emotional subject, serious relationship, eachother: Dear Elizabeth: You and your boyfriend have a healthy relationship. You talk about things, dont rush into love, and are not entirely dependant on eachother. that is the mark of a healthy, great relationship. And another thing: you do NOT need a counselor!...

Expressing Yourself to Others: how can i express my self without making her scared?, playing tennis, five minutes
playing tennis, five minutes, summe: Okay, so there in lies your problem. Her parents, as you said will not let her date, so after he called you he probably told her the same thing only saying not to talk to you ever again... so that is why she is doing the things she is doing. For this particular...

Expressing Yourself to Others: How to express my self, conversations, compliments
conversations, compliments: Well are you guys friends? As in do you talk often or hang out? If so, it may be easier to understand if she is into you or not cuz u know her better. bringing it up in a conversation just say something that compliments her, like i like your shirt or hair...

Expressing Yourself to Others: why should you express yourself?, self esteem, confidence
self esteem, confidence: hello rosa, expressing yourself prevents things from getting bottled up inside and making it difficult to deal with day to day activities, it allows you to gain more confidence in yourself and boosts your self-esteem, and it also allows others to get to know...

Expressing Yourself to Others: How to express ?, convo starters, right move
convo starters, right move, fav color: Hm. Well, for when - if she s crouded by a group of friends, don t do anything. Because she ll usually just do something to impress them and you PROBABLY won t get the answer you want. Or response. Or something...hm. And how- just walk up to her, say Hi,...

Expressing Yourself to Others: expressing myself to my boyfriend, spirit www, mutual respect
spirit www, mutual respect, alexis: Dear Alexis; When two people are in a relationship, there should be no fear of expressing your needs and desires, there should be a sense of trust and mutual respect and tolerance where you can share anything that you re feeling and it s no big deal. ...

Expressing Yourself to Others: expressing my feelings to a friend, lesbian tendencies, sex with a man
lesbian tendencies, sex with a man, tendancies: Hi B, well if you don t tell her you will regret it in the future, when she finds someone else and you are left there kicking yourself for being afraid. It sounds like she may be confused so I would suggest that you put your feelings out there and give her...

Expressing Yourself to Others: expressing myself to others i trust, guidence counselor, fool
guidence counselor, fool: There is really no solution to this except for to just LET GO. you have to remember that these people only care about you, and anything you say they will not make fun of because they care for you. Just let it all out to your counselor: She is trying to help...

Expressing Yourself to Others: expressing myself, mind game, writing a letter
mind game, writing a letter, next level: Hi Ambi, be honest. I think you will feel vulnerable the first few times, but that s to be expected. That is also what takes people to the next level in their relationship. You just need to be honest. If you don t think you can do that verbally, try writing...

Expressing Yourself to Others: expression, buffy the vampire slayer, spirit www
buffy the vampire slayer, spirit www, sharing knowledge: Sorry, beats me. From what I found on the Net, it was an odd expression used once on Buffy, The Vampire Slayer and it s not defined even then. When someone asks what is it the reply is that s the point, no one knows . Pretty lame, if you ask me. I m...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Female :((, work relation, weird sort
work relation, weird sort, fella: Hi Sam, You should not blame yourself for Carmen leaving... people make decisions on their own. I would also give up on pursuing her. Given that she s trying to get with this person and that person, it sounds like she s very confused. I would suggest distracting...

Expressing Yourself to Others: First Boyfriend, two friends, sake
two friends, sake, feelings: This depends on just one thing; do you like HIM back? If you do, next time he tells you that he likes you - and if he really does, there will be a next time - return his feelings in a suttle way. Just say something that you know would be the right thing for...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Friend has made me 3rd party to marriage, long term relationships, panic mode
long term relationships, panic mode, confidante: Telling her nicely really hasn t worked so far, from what I understand. I think this time around you ve got to be clear with her and tell her exactly what you think about her involving you so deeply in her marriage; it s not your place to talk to her about...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Friends...Family, best of luck, tiff
best of luck, tiff, spending time: hello tiff, it seems that you care about your dad alot and he loves you. well you need to consider this, if your friends get upset because you spending time with your dad, then they need to grow up. you can explain to your dad exactly what you told me and...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Friendship problem, apartment building, cup of coffee
apartment building, cup of coffee, mutual friend: You should NOT just go on pretending to like her. That will make your life even worse (excuse me if that sounds rude, but it is true). the only way to ensure your friendship with Teddy, Nia and their mother is to tell Nia the truth. NICELY. Tell her that you...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Fun and Healthy Mom, religious practice, broken bone
religious practice, broken bone, psychologist: I am not there; you wish to help out your mom. YOU want her to get excited. AS a counselor, I need to find out what state of health and mind she is in first. YOu have temporarily ignored that part of why people act as they do. Example; a man enters...

Expressing Yourself to Others: how to ask a girl out, secret admirer, flowers
Expressing Yourself to Others: how to ask a girl out, secret admirer, flowers

Expressing Yourself to Others: my boifriend cheated n soppose to have a girl pregnant, going to jail
Expressing Yourself to Others: my boifriend cheated n soppose to have a girl pregnant, going to jail

Expressing Yourself to Others: Christian/non-Christian relationship, christianty, change of heart
Expressing Yourself to Others: Christian/non-Christian relationship, christianty, change of heart, savior

Expressing Yourself to Others: Dining with Friends + Peanut allergy and Epipen = ugh :( !, fannypack, belt loop
Expressing Yourself to Others: Dining with Friends + Peanut allergy and Epipen = ugh :( !, fannypack, belt loop, soft case

Expressing Yourself to Others: how to deal with past issues, possibilities, relationship
Expressing Yourself to Others: how to deal with past issues, possibilities, relationship, whole new world

Expressing Yourself to Others: I don't know how to talk to her, girl smile, heyy
Expressing Yourself to Others: I don't know how to talk to her, girl smile, heyy, beautiful girl

Expressing Yourself to Others: Emancipation or other posabilities of freedom, sufferings, spelling
Expressing Yourself to Others: Emancipation or other posabilities of freedom, sufferings, spelling, blog

Expressing Yourself to Others: no subject, football player, basketball
Expressing Yourself to Others: no subject, football player, basketball, girls

Expressing Yourself to Others: im very shy, google
Expressing Yourself to Others: im very shy, google

Expressing Yourself to Others: Karma, black mail, insults
Expressing Yourself to Others: Karma, black mail, insults, psychologist

Expressing Yourself to Others: Lies, social worker, mental illness
Expressing Yourself to Others: Lies, social worker, mental illness, psych

Expressing Yourself to Others: making out..help!, gf, bf
Expressing Yourself to Others: making out..help!, gf, bf, girls

Expressing Yourself to Others: mixed signals, feminine energy, masculine energy
Expressing Yourself to Others: mixed signals, feminine energy, masculine energy, energy points

Expressing Yourself to Others: opening up, scientology is a cult, charlene
Expressing Yourself to Others: opening up, scientology is a cult, charlene, help section

Expressing Yourself to Others: Sister-in-law causing family problems, exact spelling, proxy
Expressing Yourself to Others: Sister-in-law causing family problems, exact spelling, proxy

Expressing Yourself to Others: Socialization Problems, socialization skills, example of socialization
Expressing Yourself to Others: Socialization Problems, socialization skills, example of socialization, game problems

Expressing Yourself to Others: Struggling w/ unmotivated boyfriend, escape from reality, old boyfriend
Expressing Yourself to Others: Struggling w/ unmotivated boyfriend, escape from reality, old boyfriend, minor hockey

Expressing Yourself to Others: can't leave boyfriend, not sure I want to :S, yo yo, swings
Expressing Yourself to Others: can't leave boyfriend, not sure I want to :S, yo yo, swings, feelings

Expressing Yourself to Others: Weight Issues, fitness plan, happy new year
Expressing Yourself to Others: Weight Issues, fitness plan, happy new year, bike ride

Expressing Yourself to Others: How fast?, box of chocolates, attractive female
box of chocolates, attractive female, just friends: Hi PJ; Overall, from your letter, it seems that things are going well and that she s interested in you. However, there is the possibility that she wants you just as a friend. If this is the case, it really should be defined right away so you know where you...

Expressing Yourself to Others: i feel i will loose everything in my life, vergin, familly
vergin, familly, bloke: Why would your parents think that you are betraying them? If it is a matter if trying to help your girl, or trying to find yourself, they will understand what you are going through. Talk to them, and tell them the truth. Tell them everything that you are going...

Expressing Yourself to Others: I feel like I need a relationship, self help books, confidence building
self help books, confidence building, great organization: Hi Kate, you said unconfident at the moment . Does that mean there was a time when you felt more confident? If so, can you figure out what played a part in your increased confidence. Also, how is your self esteem- the way you feel about yourself, your...

Expressing Yourself to Others: feelings of rejection, depressed man, better wife
depressed man, better wife, intimate relationship: Hi Jeanne, I remember you! It makes sense for him, as that is the way it is. I don t know if it makes sense for anyone else, but it s his way of coping with things. Anything is possible, but the question is if/when will he be unstuck. At this time I would...

Expressing Yourself to Others: fiance still friends w/ex-girlfriend, akward, rough times
akward, rough times, nice girl: Debbie; if you are in America, we have freedoms. IF you try to tell an adult DO NOT DO THIS, and you are not a judge or a police officer, why should that person obey you? reverse the situation; would you? you are reasonable to feel jealous. I would...

Expressing Yourself to Others: first relationship, going to meet the man, man of your dreams
going to meet the man, man of your dreams, pottery class: Hi Vanessa, thanks for the question. It is not unusual that you would be a little scared going into unknown territory. It s also not a negative that you are almost 21 and just venturing out into the dating scene. I always think it s good to meet people...

Expressing Yourself to Others: my friend and her story, pregnancy issues, confidante
pregnancy issues, confidante, hard time: The first (and main) thing your friend really needs here is support. You ve got to tell her that no matter how things go; no matter what happens, you will always be there for her through good and bad times, and that no matter what happens, you will be her...

Expressing Yourself to Others: my friend., qus, hotmail
qus, hotmail, 2 ways: If you really care about this girl, than just forgeting about her should even be an option. If she doesnt want to be your girlfriend, being friends should satisfy you enough until she finally realizes (if she ever does) that she wants to be with you. If so,...

Expressing Yourself to Others: my friends, xboyfriend, great relationship
xboyfriend, great relationship, heart to heart: Hi Jaznine, Why don t you sit down and have a heart to heart with them? Sit down and tell them that you value their friendship and don t want to lose that, and that you respect their viewpoints and opinions and just want to know what you need to rectify...

Expressing Yourself to Others: no friends, lack of self esteem, keeping my distance
lack of self esteem, keeping my distance, bad attitude: most of this self-confidence issues can be, and are better handled in a conference psychologist room. If you feel you need to set up an appointment with a real life, in person professional, I can give you a couple of names and numbers. But for now, an...

Expressing Yourself to Others: friendships, answer mark, dancing lesson
answer mark, dancing lesson, personality tests: Actually, i didnt even think of that! If you consider yourself friends (and friends generally means that you are comfortable to go over and talk and laugh with them, ect, without feeling uncomfortable), than you can even ask THEM to go somewhere. But to start...

Expressing Yourself to Others: General Confusion, phone person, confusion
phone person, confusion, few days: Hi Laura, Probably the best thing to do is send him an email and tell him that you noticed he wasn t really around much anymore and that he didn t seem himself. Tell him you didn t want to pry but that if he needed anything to let you know, and that you...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Girl Friend and College, college freshman, freak out
college freshman, freak out, university of cincinnati: I dont think that it will last until summer. But if it seems to be heading in that direction, you should comfront her one more time. If she shows signs of never giving in, it is best to just let her go and get on with life. I know you re in love, and i know...

Expressing Yourself to Others: GUYS!!!!, religious education class, kisses
religious education class, kisses, stephanie: Stephanie: I think he s just trying to figure out how he feels right now. Sometimes kisses can mess things up if they happen to soon, ect. Just play it cool: talk to him as if he s just a friend, nothing more, be casual, and just be yourself. Let him figure...

Expressing Yourself to Others: general, social outcast, lots of girls
social outcast, lots of girls, quiet person: Hi Shaina, I guess my first question would be why are you the social outcast at your school? Is there anything you can do about that? There are lots of girls who prefer hanging out with boys. Usually it is because they have had some bad experiences with...

Expressing Yourself to Others: my gf changed in her talking, inute, mature style
inute, mature style, 7 months: I think that this trip to Italy has changed your girlfriends outlook on life, and that is a good thing. She is thinking not about making plans for a future that might not exist in that way, but living out the moment. And for this moment, she still loves you....

Expressing Yourself to Others: My gf and my feelings, physical attraction, beautiful lady
physical attraction, beautiful lady, beautiful thing: You are in love with her, aren t you? Love is the most open and trusting emotion in the world. The only thing I can say to you that will really help you is just be yourself. Don t ever act different than -you- with the one you love, because if you get what...

Expressing Yourself to Others: my gf and me, physical attraction, beautiful lady
physical attraction, beautiful lady, beautiful thing: Well first of all, thank you for telling me the back up story. It makes it easier to answer your question. Ok, it seems as if you really do love this woman and are trying hard to change for her. That is the most important thing in your relationship, and...

Expressing Yourself to Others: girl interfering in relationship, rudeness, new girl
rudeness, new girl, 7 months: Hi Sara, It sounds like this is becoming a bit of a drama and it likely doesn t need to be. I m not sure why you didn t want your boyfriend to tell her if the opportunity arose. Anyway, it s all in HOW you say it. If you say something nice but in a rude...

Expressing Yourself to Others: if girl likes me, steady girl, mind games
steady girl, mind games, girl friend: BLAIR: ugly was part of what you wrote about. What is ugly? What is beautiful? MOST any girl will talk to most any guy IF /when the boy/guy: is clean, SAFE, non threatening, easy to understand, fashionable [this can be gotten around], fun and ...

Expressing Yourself to Others: This girl..., paper balls, jabs
paper balls, jabs, index finger: Keep up your friendship with her, and every now and then do little things or say something to casually let you know that you care about her. Dont make it obvious, as she has a boyfriend already, but just let her know that you are interested. Eventually, if...

Expressing Yourself to Others: girlfriend, bikinni, jerk
bikinni, jerk, many things: in life, we often have to be careful of what we say or wish for . She could do one of many things; say nothing and think you are a jerk say nothing and think that is a very sexy idea laugh at you go try one on [and she could tell every girl she knows]...

Expressing Yourself to Others: my girlfriend, realtionship, hard time
realtionship, hard time, girlfriend: Chris: SHe might be going through a hard time in her life, i dont know. But if you trust her, than she probably is going through something that has nothing to do with breaking up with you. Dont bother her about it: just keep on loving her and showing her...

Expressing Yourself to Others: He has a girlfriend but wants me for sex., american girl, blonde hair
american girl, blonde hair, camilla: Truthfully? I really don t know. I think it s because, if you have a bunch of hard relationships, and you finally get a nice one, then you know they are the one. For you to marry, at least. I think you should talk to Francisco, if he doesn t dump his girl,...

Expressing Yourself to Others: my girlfriend, bump in the road, great girl
bump in the road, great girl, ofcourse: hi Xris, I m not clear on what the difficulty is. You explained yourself clearly to me. Why can t you do it to her? It might be an idea to read up on bipolar so that you are more informed. It would also be a very supportive thing for her. Then you need...

Expressing Yourself to Others: gothic, devil worship, cloes
devil worship, cloes, mood swings: Dear River; The thing is that your parents worry. You see, they love you. They ve seen you grow up from a little baby, and they have trouble adapting to the fact that you re growing older and stuff. Happens to all parents. And they worry. The goth...

Expressing Yourself to Others: gross couple, riding in my car, movie theaters
riding in my car, movie theaters, baby talk: Hi CT, one way to hang out with him alone is to initiate getting together. E.g. we haven t spent time together like we used to. Lets you and I get together for ______. If he asks if he can bring her along, say that you were hoping that this time it would...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Hate the Secrets, high school sweetheart, 50th anniversary party
high school sweetheart, 50th anniversary party, starry sky: .........How can I express my concerns to her without appearing nosy, or meddling in her affairs? Please excuse the long question. Anything you can tell me would be extremely helpful. Thank You. ........... what would DR PHIL say? he would likely...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Help!, conversation tips, paying attention
conversation tips, paying attention, 6 years: Hi Marty, The best thing you can do is talk to her about things you are interested in and compliment her. Complimenting her shows you are paying attention to her and notice changes and talking about things that you are interested in helps you build up confidence...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Help!!, shy little girl, shy girl
shy little girl, shy girl, level increases: Hi Natasha, the main thing is that you are a very chatty person on one hand which means that you know how to chat. What s happening with the mate is that you aren t yet feeling totally comfortable with him and his friends. As your comfort level increases,...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Help., food stamps, rent a center
food stamps, rent a center, difference of opinion: debbie; per Dr Phil, there is a lot more HERE I don t know than I do know. if he beat you and the kids and berated you, that is one thing, if it was just a difference of opinion....... my advice; give him the computer back and move where he can...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Help Again, kelp tablets, friend of a friend
kelp tablets, friend of a friend, partition: Yes, I do agree with Donna s friends. However - there may be another reason that he said 130. This may be untrue, but there is a possibility that it is true: Guys don t really look at how much a girl weighs. They look at if she s skinny or if she s fat (and...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Help!, internet google, conversation tips
internet google, conversation tips, google: Hi Marty, That is a huge topic. If you have something in common with her e.g. a class, some music, etc. you could talk about that. As for flirting... that is such a unique thing. Check out the internet. Google flirting and see what they say. Sorry I...

Expressing Yourself to Others: HI, i'm 19, and am going into..., white picket fence, guy tyler
white picket fence, guy tyler, back of my mind: Hi Tara, it sounds like you may ruin his relationship with his g/f if you tell him and it also sounds like you aren t ready to commit because you need to determine if there is someone else out there. Those are your two main points. Both those points, point...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Hi,I went to a bar the..., friend pete, drunk guy
friend pete, drunk guy, strange men: you want to a bar, forget classy. BAR. And Pete shined. What is your concern? YOU are you. YOU meet people wherever they are. YOU start slow and you grow. Pete is a guy who seems to fit the bill. What are you waiting for? YOU already knew...

Expressing Yourself to Others: Hi kevin,i know this is..., social intercourse, camera time
social intercourse, camera time, blowhard: are you dana the lady or man; Dana is one of those names that can be either way. Also, what grade are you in? age? state? I have found, below the age of 18, one is perhaps excessively concerned what others think of how one dresses and acts and speaks....

Expressing Yourself to Others: Husband is indiscreet, bad situation, messes
bad situation, messes, last sunday: Hi Karla, Sounds like a bad situation you re in the middle of. For what it s worth, I think you are completely right in that your husband should have respected the wife s privacy. If he was concerned about his friend, he could have brought the issue up...

Expressing Yourself to Others: hard work, confidence level, self confidence
confidence level, self confidence, large groups: shridhar self-confidence is something that a person must gain on their own. as long as you feel good about yourself then you should have a high self-confidence level. standing up in front of people and telling an answer doesnt mean that you dont have the...

Expressing Yourself to Others: hard work, mening, manual labor
mening, manual labor, average guy: hello shridhar the meaning of hard work is very broad. it just depends on what the work is. i think hard work is doing the maximum amount of work to achieve a goal. so no matter what the work is, there is always a goal to achieve whether it be school or manual...

Expressing Yourself to Others: hellohow r u ?i am Will,..., finding somebody, living in england
finding somebody, living in england, stressful situations: Hi Will, I think you should do a few things. First off, I think you should start keeping a book or some paper around, and write down how you feel when you doubt yourself. What you said and what you thought immediately afterwards. This may help you notice...

Expressing Yourself to Others: hello, gr8, jock
gr8, jock, nerd: i had many terrible/ gr8 experiances, i lived in asia and then moved to california and then moved to new jersey and now i am here in NEW york i was loved and made fun of, i was popular and a nerd i was a jock and a A+ student, i was through a lot when i was...

Expressing Yourself to Others: help!, kermit miss piggy, little paw
kermit miss piggy, little paw, fozzie: a; how old are you? b; in what state are you? c; girls get freaked out easily d; what do you tell girls?--give them a little paw hug? e; define obsessed? define young? what is wrong with being fozzie bear? I am Kermit! Miss piggy is getting sooo...

Expressing Yourself to Others: help!!!if you can., gr 10, ditz
gr 10, ditz, gramma: Katy: You are going through the totally normal, completely NOT immature, stages of adolescence. Really, thats all it is. It is TOTALLY ok to have crushes on guys. Its ok to be immature sometimes: actually, its even better, because it means you are being...

Expressing Yourself to Others: help, no doubt, good luck
no doubt, good luck, personality: Well Rob, theres no doubt that she likes you, otherwise she wouldnt be talking and laughing with you so much. Of course she may just like you as a friend, but she likes you nonetheless. If you want to tell her that you like her, just let her know by asking...

Expressing Yourself to Others: help me, girl jeans, soccer stuff
girl jeans, soccer stuff, soccer girl: Hi Soccer Girl, Clothes are a personal reflection as to who you are. There is no reason why you can t wear both. I am also a soccer player and I wear both as well, but it determines on the circumstances. I m not going to wear soccer stuff to a dinner, but...

Expressing Yourself to Others: help!!!, lunch dinner, perfect girl
lunch dinner, perfect girl, myspace: Miguel: No myspace. absolutely no myspace. If you want to tell a girl how you feel, myspace is the worst way to do it. They will not feel special whatsoever. You can call her: Ask her to hang out, go to lunch/dinner, ect. Get to know her, as friends (or...