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Hermit Crabs: Molting, molting hermit crabs, isolation tank
molting hermit crabs, isolation tank, main tank: Dear Steven, thank you for your question. I m sorry, but it does sound like the crab is dead. They start to smell like rotting fish fairly soon when dead, that s the best way to tell. I don t recommend moving molting or freshly molted crabs. I know that...

Hermit Crabs: Mystery death, fish smell, mystery death
fish smell, mystery death, two different things: you say the humidity is 65 but refer to the climate as hot. The temp and humidity are two different things. Either way the average temp/humidity need to be between 74 and 82. A low humidity will kill your crab eventually because it s hard for them to breath....

Hermit Crabs: I'm introducing a new hermit crab, tank mates, waterbowl
tank mates, waterbowl, main tank: The important thing to do is ISO your new crab for a couple of weeks to watch for mites and get the adjusted. Often they need a good diet for a few weeks to make them feel comfortable and it will make them less competitive. I do give new crabs a bath before...

Hermit Crabs: We made a big mistake with our molting crab, land hermit crabs, fish smell
land hermit crabs, fish smell, dead fish: Sorry to hear about your crab. Pet stores usually don t have the correct information to give to customers. Do you notice a bad dead fish smell? If no, he may not have passed away. Molting can be stressful to them, and they are lethargic after molting....

Hermit Crabs: mating, hermit crabs, crabber
hermit crabs, crabber, hermit crab: Don t worry, hermit crabs do not breed in captivity. In a few instances, they have been known to lay eggs but even the most experienced crabber has not yet been able to keep them alive long enough to get them grown up. Even just having them lay eggs is very...

Hermit Crabs: missing crab, cave air, empty shell
cave air, empty shell, gallon tank: Okay, first I would dig that shell back up. When a crab digs himself down, he creates a little cave/air pocket and when we cover them up with sand we just can t recreate it well enough. Dig around in the surrounding area. Are there any pieces of exoskeleton...

Hermit Crabs: !missing crab!, hermit crab, half of the day
hermit crab, half of the day, nacked: All crabs are good climbers. If you have a hole in your lid big enough for him to get out and a way for him to get to the hole they can escape. If he is naked that is very serious. How deep is your substrate? Is it possible that he is buried? They often dig...

Hermit Crabs: About to molt?, water bowl, pincher
water bowl, pincher, hime: Hello Stephanie, The black bubble you are talking about is the molt sac! You crab is going to molt very soon! The crab should be digging under the sand soon! WHen it does...leave him alone...the crab will come up on its own in a few weeks ! Depending on...

Hermit Crabs: molt?, crab shell, tiny crab
crab shell, tiny crab, hermit crab: hello no hermits bury themselfs with there shells to mout...perhaps he went streaking and passed away while he was out of shell its quite common amount hermit crabs thou it had never happened to my 20 crabs (all were rehomed...not the pet for me they did...

Hermit Crabs: molting, iso tank, breathing hole
iso tank, breathing hole, main tank: Hello Jenny, If the crab has buried itself..then just leave him alone!!! If he is molting then it may be a few weeks before you will see him again...depending on size some crabs can take over a month! It is frustrating but in the end a beautiful crab will...

Hermit Crabs: molting, land hermit crabs, crab info
land hermit crabs, crab info, exoskeleton: Dear Adam, thank you for your question. Land hermit crabs only leave their shell when they are moving into a bigger shell. They stay in their shell during the whole molt, it may look like the crab is falling out, though, but that is only the empty exoskeleton....

Hermit Crabs: molting, cholla wood, iso tank
cholla wood, iso tank, water dishes: Hello, If you only have one hermit crab there was no need to remove him if he was moulting since there arent other crabs to bother him, Hermit crabs should be kept in pairs or groups they do not like to live alone, and yes the water is ok but get the bigger...

Hermit Crabs: molting, iso tank, water bowls
iso tank, water bowls, fake plants: I would check the shell to make sure nothing got inside there that may be irritating him. Your water bowls should be alot deeper, enough to cover the crab. You cal add a few aquarium rocks to the bottom, fake plants etc to help him get out. But they need...

Hermit Crabs: molting in a bad spot/loneliness for other crab, water dish, open hole
water dish, open hole, crabs: If I had a nickel for every crab I got because my other crabs were molting ROFL!! As for the water dish molter, don t worry about him. As long as there s plenty of support and you are careful you should be able to get it in and out without disturbing it....

Hermit Crabs: molting crab/fungus gnats, hermit crabs, flying insects
hermit crabs, flying insects, empty shell: Here s a site to check out for futher information. http://hermitcrabaddiction.net/forum/ Are you certain the miolting crab is alive? Usually they do not leave their shell when they molt. Some will bury and some will molt topside, but their shell is their...

Hermit Crabs: molting crab, hermit crabs, iso tank
hermit crabs, iso tank, main tank: Molting is a very stressful time for hermit crabs. It could be that she was just too stressed to complete it. Unfortunately thats when many crabs pass away. May I ask why you ISO? I let mine molt in the main tank, as I feel it adds stress to them by moving...

Hermit Crabs: molting and dying, land hermit crabs, tank conditions
land hermit crabs, tank conditions, hermit crab: Hi, Im sorry about your loss. It could be a few reasons. Molting is a very difficult and stressful time for a hermit crab. How long have you had him? What are your tank conditions? This plays a part in it. Unfortunately we don t know all there is to know...

Hermit Crabs: molting hermit crab, crab info, hermit crab
crab info, hermit crab, molt: Dear Tammy, thank you for your question. Did your crab molt without burying first? That s always problematic and shouldn t happen, usually they dig down to molt. I don t recommend picking him up now, because crabs are very easily stressed out during a molt,...

Hermit Crabs: molting naked hermit crab, main tank, wet towel
main tank, wet towel, exoskeleton: Can your plastic box fit into the main tank where the humidity and temp are ok? If not try your best to keep the temp and humidity stable. Keep him where it s warm, wet towel over the plastic box will help with humidity. I wouldnt move him out of the box,...

Hermit Crabs: molting, exoskeleton, molt
exoskeleton, molt, shell: Dear Liam, thank you for your question. Yes, that s normal. The crab is probably still soft and the exoskeleton needs to harden, after that it will look bigger than before the molt. Leave the crab alone and don t pick it up or dig it up, they are very vulnerable...

Hermit Crabs: moss for hermit crabs, sheet moss, green moss
sheet moss, green moss, hermit crabs: Hmmm, it s hard to say without seeing what the moss looks like. Sheet moss, natural moss, hiawatha moss are all okay. Most mosses are. Spanish moss isn t though. The only thing to keep an eye on is mold and bugs. Now, most bugs can be beneficial but anytime...

Hermit Crabs: Need Help ASAP!!!!, small tank, shredded paper
small tank, shredded paper, spritzer: Shredded paper or several layers of paper towel will get you through until tomorrow. It s hard to say how they will do but it sounds like you did the best you could with the situation. If they are okay for the next week they should be fine although it...

Hermit Crabs: Need help, broken shell, hermit crabs
broken shell, hermit crabs, reserch: Dear Isabella, thank you for your question. A broken shell is not such a big problem when you have enough other shells that the crab can change into. It will do so when it feels uncomfortable in the broken shell. You may have come across these websites...

Hermit Crabs: A New Crab, tasty favorites, crabs
tasty favorites, crabs, shrimp: When a new crab comes home it often has something called PPS or Post Purchase Stress. It s normal but it is also a vunerable time for your crab. Always adopt a hands off policy for the first month your crab is at home. Try to entice him to eat with some...

Hermit Crabs: New crab owner, hermit crabs, iso tank
hermit crabs, iso tank, dry hope: I would certainly use the UTH even though it s smaller, it s always better to create temp zones anyway. Lights also help with temperature. Climbing things are a must. If you knit or crochet, you can make nets out of hemp and use suction cups to stick them....

Hermit Crabs: New Hermit Crab owner, land hermit crabs, food dish
land hermit crabs, food dish, odd questions: Hello Jen and thank you for your questions, Since you have a few questions I ll reccomend the best hermit crab site out there which is what I read when I first got hermits its great and answers the most odd questions, http://www.hermit-crabs.com/ ...

Hermit Crabs: New hermit crab losing a pincher & leg, self amputation, worst case scenario
self amputation, worst case scenario, stress coat: Olivia, This could be caused by several things. Stress could be one of them. He may not make it if this is the case. It could be self amputation because your other little one had ahold of him and he wanted...

Hermit Crabs: Newly molted hermit., egg shells, shrimp fish
egg shells, shrimp fish, fruits and veggies: Hello Renea, Congrats...on the newly molted crab. A few things that I recommend that you can do, 1.Leave your crab alone..he is very tired from molting (it takes a lot of energy to molt . 2.Please do not force you crab to go in the water..he will do it...

Hermit Crabs: A naked crab, crabs, shell
crabs, shell, greetings: If it s naked again, try the method that worked to get him back in a shell. He is vulnerable while out of a shell. There can be a few reasons why he left his shell. Too hot, stressed,surface molt. I would try to keep him isolated if you can, just to keep...

Hermit Crabs: naked hermit crab, butt end, main tank
butt end, main tank, exoskeleton: Okay, you ve got a lot going on in your crabitat. Let s see if I ve got your question right. 1. Yesterday morning you found a crab that was torn apart 2. You have a shell-less crab that you noticed last night 3. You isolated the streaker and he s not...

Hermit Crabs: naked molting hermit crab, glass cup, water bowl
glass cup, water bowl, stressful time: What are the temperature and humidity readings of the molting tank? Is he under water? Usually when they leave a shell it s becuase it s too hot or there s something irritating them in the shell. Molting is a stressful time for a crab. Some won t make...

Hermit Crabs: i need to know, coconut fibre, eco earth
coconut fibre, eco earth, earth forest: Dear Josh, thank you for your question. To molt, a crab needs substrate that s deep enough for it to bury completely, about twice the height of the crab. Moist sand or coconut fibre beeding (Eco Earth/Forest Bedding) are good substrates that keep moisture...

Hermit Crabs: I have a new Crab and he never comes out of his shell, hermit crab, crabs
hermit crab, crabs, shell: New crabs often take a little while to get use to their new home. For the first few weeks just leave him to do his own thing. After than, slowly get him use to you being nearby. Stand and watch the tank until he emerges once or twice a day. Does he have...

Hermit Crabs: my new hermie., aquarium salt, new comers
aquarium salt, new comers, wire cage: Hello Sara, Congrats on your new crabs! Well first of all sometimes a crab can be agressive at first..make sure that you are offering them some sort of protein such as fish, krill, peanut butter or shrimp . That may help! Please offer them both salt(use aquarium...

Hermit Crabs: new with questions, land hermit crabs, sea sponges
land hermit crabs, sea sponges, tank conditions: Let me begin by saying Welcome to the wonderful world of Land Hermit Crabs!!!! Also may I suggest that you get maybe one or two friends for your crab? In the wild they live in large groups or colonies of 50-100 and more and thrive with friends. You will see...

Hermit Crabs: new tank, spiral shell, food dishes
spiral shell, food dishes, new tank: Oh I see then yes 4 inches would be better suited maybe 4 1/2 to 5.....but you are suuposed to remove the crab to a different tank when its moulting anyway to pervent other crabs digging it up and harming it during that time so the crabs dont really need to...

Hermit Crabs: newly molted crab out of shell, hermit crab, exo
hermit crab, exo, fresh water: Your crabby is naked? If so, Take all of the available shells including her old one. Rinse them in dechlorinated water and put her in a tub with her shells and put the container in the tank. If that does not work after a few hours, you can use a more extreme...

Hermit Crabs: newly molted crab out of shell, shell question, hermit crabs
shell question, hermit crabs, water dish: Hello and your welcome, Yes she ll adjust just fine to group living...its much more interesting with multiples they make little sounds and can be seen gathering around food and water areas they also tend to stock pile in there favorite hiding spots. This Could...

Hermit Crabs: Odd Behavior, strange habit, odd behavior
strange habit, odd behavior, hermit crab: Digging is something a crab might do before a molt but also just for fun. Most crab enjoy digging for no particular reason (that we ve come to understand). Go ahead and let him do his thing, esp. if he is molting, he needs to be allowed to make his cave...

Hermit Crabs: Odd question =P, rock tumbler, hermit crabs
rock tumbler, hermit crabs, weird question: Jenne, I wouldn t put anything on them. It probably wouldn t be safe. You may be able to put them in a rock tumbler. You can get them at toys r us. I used to have one when i was a kid. You put rocks in...

Hermit Crabs: Odd question =P, hermit crabs, hermies
hermit crabs, hermies, weird question: Unfortunately there s nothing we can do that won t be risky for your crabs. The high heat/humidity will eventually make anything finish you paint on bubble and crack and the hermies will eat it. The only thing you can do is buff it with a buffer and no chemicals....

Hermit Crabs: Old Hermit, silly antics, hermit crab
silly antics, hermit crab, wonderful thing: Mari, I am soooooo sorry to hear about claws demise. I am sure he was very comical and full of personality. Mine are. I have a couple that to streak now an then and a few that like to change shells everyday...

Hermit Crabs: OMG OMG OMG !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, cuet, loll
cuet, loll, thay: Brittany, You have a real shock coming when you see one change their shell....loll. If you can get them to come out far enough and can look the female has a dot on either side behind their last pair of legs,...

Hermit Crabs: Other reptiles compatible with Land Crabs, land hermit crabs, land crabs
land hermit crabs, land crabs, tank conditions: Hello and thank you for writing today! I understand where you are coming from and I wish there was a positive answer for you but unfortunately there are no other reptiles or animals in general that would happily live within the crabs tank. Unfortunately...

Hermit Crabs: can i have only one Hermit Crab?, hermit crabs, crab street journal
hermit crabs, crab street journal, hermit crab: In the wild hermit crabs live in colonies in the hundreds. It is not suggested to get just one. I would suggest atleast 2 and make sure they are the same species. I d also recommend that you purchase everything you need before getting your hermit crabs....

Hermit Crabs: Pickey about shells, hermit crabs, pickey
hermit crabs, pickey, shells: Hello Katie, Some crabs are really picky... Can you offer a few more shells? It is normal for them to keep trying new ones on.. some prefer their old one better! I have one crab whom I have had for 2 years and it will not change it shell! As long as your...

Hermit Crabs: Please keep me from killing my crab!, aquarium gravel, stinky stuff
aquarium gravel, stinky stuff, coconut fiber: LOL! I like answering questions, that s why I signed us to be an expert! Cuttlebone is an excellent calcium source. you can break off an chunk and let them pick at it or grind or grate it into a powder. Do you know where he is in the tank? You could...

Hermit Crabs: painting the shell AND hermit crab friends, hermit crabs, water dishes
hermit crabs, water dishes, pretty colors: Hello, no its not a good idea the humid invroment the crabs need and with there being water dishes in the cage the paints can wash off and poision the hermits, you genrally need two or more hermits are not solitary in there wild home and ussally live in groups...

Hermit Crabs: my pet hermit crab, pet hermit crabs, internal parasites
pet hermit crabs, internal parasites, pet hermit crab: Thanks for getting back to me. This is really weird, since they died at a comparatively long interval. Normally I d ask about recent changes in the tank or food, but this wouldn t explain why one died first and the other one several weeks later. But just to...

Hermit Crabs: Question, land hermit crabs, hermit crab
land hermit crabs, hermit crab, question question: Thank you for the kind words. Hermit crabs do indeed poop and pee. Here s a great article on how hermit crabs poop. http://www.crabbytalk.com/01112006/hermit-crab-care-do-hermit-crabs-poop/ Enjoy! And you are correct about asking questions! Never stop...

Hermit Crabs: Question, ebay store, hermit crab
ebay store, hermit crab, ebay: Hello Kathy, I think you have me confused with someone else. My name is Vicki and I run The Hermit Crab Addiction site and an Ebay store called The Addiction. I m a member of CSJ s sister sites which is the Crustacean Coalition. I also belong to a few other...

Hermit Crabs: Quiet hermie, gallon tanks, random reason
gallon tanks, random reason, watt lamp: Your best option right now is to get him a good dayglo light. Match the wattage to the gallons of your tank. So a 40 gallon tanks would use a 30-45 watt lamp. You will be amazed at the difference in activity. You say that your temp/humidity is good, just a...

Hermit Crabs: question, wierd question, hermit crab
wierd question, hermit crab, pet store: What made you think that he died? I know this seems like a wierd question but sometimes they appear dead but they are actually molting. Another thing that might help me give you the best answer is if you could tell me what your humidity and temperature...

Hermit Crabs: More questions, turbo shells, fresh fruits and vegetables
turbo shells, fresh fruits and vegetables, water mouth: Tapestry turbo is brown with white small dots on it here and there. I get most of my shells through trade. I make my own food and trade for other crab supplies. Pet stores sometimes have shells sadly from the crabs that have died while being in the petstore...

Hermit Crabs: questions about my new hermit crab, wattage bulbs, hermit crabs
wattage bulbs, hermit crabs, heat mats: Please try to remember to let him destress for atleast a month. That means all you should be doing right now is giving him food and water. Don t handle him right now. The possibility of him getting PPS(post purchase stress) is very high. The less you interact...

Hermit Crabs: Replacement of cuttlebone, hermit crabs, eggshells
hermit crabs, eggshells, rummage: Dear Justin, thank you for your question. Cuttlebone or another source of calcium is absolutely necessary for the crabs, they need it to build up their exoskeleton. Crushed eggshells or crushed oysters are good substitutes for cuttlebone, the oysters are...

Hermit Crabs: re, wont move, hermit crab
wont move, hermit crab, apparent reason: Hi, thank you for your question. Sometimes crabs will leave their shell even when the conditions are perfect, they may be sick and some do it with no apparent reason at all. Put the crab with a few shells, substrate, food and water in a small container...

Hermit Crabs: re, crabs, clam
crabs, clam, stuk: Hi, thank you for your question. It depends a bit on your setup and on the individual crabs, but they are mainly nocturnal. My crabs are active during the day, even sunbathing under their basking spot, but at night they become really active. Other crabs...

Hermit Crabs: Science Fair Project for Hermit Crabs, hermit crabs, science fair project
hermit crabs, science fair project, red claw: I have many questions to anwser in many pet areas so can not take alot of time anwsering just one question, Hermit crabs do change shells outside of moulting...when they find a new shell that seems to fit and is smooth on the inside they will change...you...

Hermit Crabs: Shell selection area, coconut fiber, terrium
coconut fiber, terrium, digging holes: You can put your shells up there but I would rotate a few down on to the tank floor to accomodate your reluctant climbers. That should work just fine. Digging holes is always pretty normal behavior. If you feel like Patch is potentially aggressive make...

Hermit Crabs: Sickly crabs, salt water fish, hermit crabs
salt water fish, hermit crabs, fish tank: Hello, THe best setup is a Ten gallon blank fish tank with a wire lid covered half way with tin foil and an under the tank reptile heater on one side of the tank, two dishes large but shallow with some rocks in it so the crabs can get out easily one has declorinated...

Hermit Crabs: SOMTHING SEAMS CRABBY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, moist moss, hermit crabs
moist moss, hermit crabs, old tanks: The biggest worry about having them in a bin is keeping the temperature and humidity between 74 and 82 at all times. This can stress your crabs. Try to keep them in a warm place and add moist moss and dampen your substrate to keep your tank humid. That should...

Hermit Crabs: Species, shell change, antannae, orange eyes
antannae, orange eyes, eyes red: Congratulations! It sounds as if you have a Purple Pincher. You can assist in a shell change by providing different sizes and kinds of shells for him to choose from. Some crabs are picky, some will change alot. 3-4 shells or more per crab. There are many...

Hermit Crabs: very sad, hermit crab food, water dishes
hermit crab food, water dishes, shredded coconut: Bad conditions at the store can definitely lead to PPS. Overhandling an already stressed crab can also be problematic. I know that you have probably been told differently but you really shouldn t mist your crabs. Crabs make special mix of water in their shell...

Hermit Crabs: salt water, style salt, saline water
style salt, saline water, salt water: Hermit crabs need salt water for two reasons. 1. it helps them molt. They have a hard time with their metabolism without salt water. 2. They have saline water in their shells to keep their abdomen s moist. They mix fresh and salt water together to get it just...

Hermit Crabs: salt water needs!, saltwater fish tanks, water dish
saltwater fish tanks, water dish, hermit crabs: Hello, Both freash and salt water is a good idea I used both when I had a mix of hermit types and all of them went into the salt water dish as well as the fresh water dish. You need to use Sea Salt for saltwater Fish tanks via petshops....put about a teaspoon...

Hermit Crabs: shell, crabs, shells
crabs, shells, shell: Hi, thank you for your question. Measure the shell that your crabs are wearing now, from one end of the opening to the other. The new shells should be about 5 mm bigger than the shell the crab is currently wearing, although many crabs prefer tight shells...

Hermit Crabs: Again Out of the shell, warm tank, crabs
warm tank, crabs, abdomen: Hello David, Sorry for the delay in my answer i had a problem trying to send it! It sounds like you have been doing everything right! Some crabs can go shelless if they are stressed! Has your crab molted yet? Sometimes hanging out by the water means they...

Hermit Crabs: shell, water bowls, hermit crab
water bowls, hermit crab, substrate: With good humidity and temperature he can do well for several days. However, if he voluntarily came out of his shell, that may mean that something larger is wrong with your crab. What is your humidity/temp? What do you feed them? Do you offer water bowls?...

Hermit Crabs: shell changing, stress coat, empty shell
stress coat, empty shell, hermit crab: Rachael, I hope by the time you get this he has changed. They can dehydrate fast out of their shell. Make sure if he hasn t you are misting him alot. You can go get stress coat from the pet shop and wet his...

Hermit Crabs: He is out of his shell, hermit crabs, wood chips
hermit crabs, wood chips, sand wood: Hello, Here s a few recommendations for your tank. You should take the wood chips out. They suck the moisture out of the tank and can be potentially harmful to your hermit crabs. You can use sand, coco-fiber and moss. Those are all safe substrates. Usually...

Hermit Crabs: shells and climbing toys, flower pot, drift wood
flower pot, drift wood, tiny bugs: Hello again, This is normal from what I noticed when i had my crabs sometimes they moult and stay in the same shell I had one guy go to a new shell only to find his old one and move back a few days later! I guess its hard to get the right fit. Climbing toys...

Hermit Crabs: shelly, hermit crab, eggshells
hermit crab, eggshells, shelly: Hi Allison, Just leave the exo skeleton(crab parts) next to Shelly! She will need to eat them ! I would put a hidey log or a coco hut over her to give her some privacy! When you feed her add some crushed up eggshells and a bit of honey drizzled over the food!...

Hermit Crabs: simple recipes, crab recipes, simple recipes
crab recipes, simple recipes, unsafe food: I sure do! http://www.epicureanhermit.com/mambo/index.php There should be recipes there, if not atleast the safe and unsafe food list. You can also try my forum as people list what they feed their crabs as well. http://hermitcrabaddiction.net/forum...

Hermit Crabs: What species do I have?, spare shells, cocohut
spare shells, cocohut, hermitcrab: Ok from the pictures its hard to tell he looks like a purople pincher but I cant see the front of the big pincher in the pictures so if his big claw is purple he is a purple pincher. He needs a friend or two yest add lots of spare shells so they don t get...

Hermit Crabs: What species do I have?, cocohut, hermitcrab
cocohut, hermitcrab, small tank: It looks like you have a nice little setup there! You ve got a purple pincher or Coenobita Clypeatus. Neelix is a great name! I would get one that is the same size or smaller, not because of agression problems but because you have a small tank. They ll...

Hermit Crabs: strange behavior, butt end, special circumstances
butt end, special circumstances, strange behavior: When a crab becomes lethargic the best thing to do is to leave him alone. I would not recommend bathing crabs except in special circumstances. The same with spraying. You do not need to spray crabs. I know that petstores often tell people to do this but it...

Hermit Crabs: strawberry hermit crab house mate, land hermit crabs, air plants
land hermit crabs, air plants, poisonous plants: Hi, thank you for your question. It s best to keep at least two crabs of each species, there are some differences in behaviour between the species (for example, Es are often much more active than PPs). The size isn t that important, they usually get along...

Hermit Crabs: my strawberry hermit crab, coconut fibers, slow painful death
coconut fibers, slow painful death, purple coloring: Hello, Most pet stores dont take the proper care of all of there animals..the best kept pet stores that really care for there pets are small ones run by the people who breed the animals that are sold there....family ran ones. Moulting in every hermit I ve...

Hermit Crabs: Temperature, tank conditions, tank heater
tank conditions, tank heater, heps: Hello Crabs can lose their limbs if they are stressed out! It does not always kill them..crabs have the ability to grow new limbs ! If you did not have your crabs very long ...It probably died from PPS(post purchase syndrome) THat is where the conditions...

Hermit Crabs: Thers somthing wrong with my hermits crab(s), hermit crabs, exoskeleton
hermit crabs, exoskeleton, hermy: You can visit my website for some basic care info. (There s just too much to put here) www.naturallycrabby.com OR try www.crabstreetjournal.com for a TON of great info. The best food info still comes from www.epicureanhermit.com. Sorry about having to wonder...

Hermit Crabs: Travel, land hermit crabs, moist tissue
land hermit crabs, moist tissue, wild crab: Dear Sally, thank you for your question. Travelling is stressful for crabs. If you know any pet shops that sell crabs where you live, I would get them there. They are already very stressed when they arrive at the shops (after being caught, shipped and usually...

Hermit Crabs: Travelling, hermit crabs, glass tank
hermit crabs, glass tank, gallon tank: Congratulations! How long are you gone when you go camping? Crabs really need a minimum of a 10 gallon tank. Traveling with a glass tank can be dangerous. If you were only going to be gone on weekends it s perfectly safe to leave your crabs with food and water...

Hermit Crabs: Turning White, hermit crab, substrate
hermit crab, substrate, humidity: Hmmmm, I need a little more information if you don t mind. What kind of tank are they in and what is the substrate? What do you feed them and what kinds of water do they get? What is the humidity and temperature in your tank. With this info I ll be able...

Hermit Crabs: can't find hermit crab, fishy smell, best guess
fishy smell, best guess, thismorning: I have a few questions for you. DO you see the shell he was in? Did you check all items in the terrarium? My best guess is that he may have burried under the substrate to molt. Hopefully he took his shell with him down under. If you can, look under your...

Hermit Crabs: How to tell??, hermit crabs, water dish
hermit crabs, water dish, hermit crab: You can tell if it is a boy or girl if you flip the crab over and if it is a girl u should see two small openings. A boy does not have any. The openings are called gonopores. You can mist the crab with a spray bottle and give it a bath at least once a...

Hermit Crabs: telling the gender, dear emma, males and females
dear emma, males and females, bonnie and clyde: Dear Emma, thank you for your question. You can tell the difference between male and female when the crab is prepared to lean out of its shell, like when they are trying to climb the glass. Look at back of the last pair of walking legs: when yu see two little...

Hermit Crabs: I think my crab is dead but i'm not sure, dead crabs, internal parasites
dead crabs, internal parasites, crab info: Dear Jade, thank you for your question. It s sometimes very hard to tell if a crab is dead. The only way to tell for sure is to wait until it smells - dead crabs have a strong smell of rotting fish. If you have bought that crab in the last two months or...

Hermit Crabs: I think my hermit crab is dead, fish smell, fishy smell
fish smell, fishy smell, dead fish: Usually when a crab is out of his shell it s due to there being something in the shell thats irritating his abdomen or the temperature is too hot and he s trying to cool off. So check the shell he was in, and the other shells. Make sure you boil them for 5...

Hermit Crabs: i think my land crabe is made at me, land hermit crabs, crabe
land hermit crabs, crabe, pinches: Hello Erin, I don t think that your crab is mad at you. Some crabs do not like to be held and can be shy! Just give it some time to get use to you. It does hurt when you get pinched, so be careful how you hold your crab...they do not mean to hurt you..they...

Hermit Crabs: topside molting, hermit crabs, 10 gallon tank
hermit crabs, 10 gallon tank, exoskeleton: Additional Notes: I answered each of your questions (except the misting, now that I look back, misting is fine though). If you have additional questions please feel free to ask them. It s always easier to give specific advice after a few back and forth questions...

Hermit Crabs: What type of cuttlebone?, hermit crabs, cuttlebone
hermit crabs, cuttlebone, herps: Dear Justin, thank you for your question. The cuttlebone for birds is the same as the cuttlebone for crabs (or herps or any other animal). Cuttlebone is the skeleton of cuttlefish - here s a picture: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Cuttlefish_by_cx_ed.jpg...

Hermit Crabs: Water, sea water salinity, fresh water pond
sea water salinity, fresh water pond, stress coat: Okay, let me break it down. Ideally your water dishes would both be big enough for the crab to get their shells in half way. The onlytime you really need a pond is if you have a Strawberry crab (Perlatus). The need to be able to mix the salinity of their...

Hermit Crabs: Water, wet sponge, tap water
wet sponge, tap water, hermit crab: Hello Danielle, WOW!! Congrats on keeping your crab for so long!!! You can get him a friend if you want to.. He has been fine alone it sounds..so really the choice is up to you! In my opinion I would soak the sponge in dechlorinated water but that is up to...

Hermit Crabs: Something Weird?, tank mates, tuna fish
tank mates, tuna fish, something weird: Justin, He may have PPS. Try a little tuna fish. Don t leave it in over night it may bring him out let him meet his tank mates and loosen up. There is something wrong... did you quarantine him first and...

Hermit Crabs: Wetting sand, moist substrate, sand substrates
moist substrate, sand substrates, saran wrap: Not only is it okay, I recommend it. The moist (sand castle consistancy) sand will help when they make tunnels and cave. It should be twice as deep as your onger crab. With plastic cages (or glass), moist substrate will hold moisture. If yours still needs...

Hermit Crabs: I want to put a few other critters in the tank to make it more lively., small bugs, power rangers
small bugs, power rangers, polies: Hello Trevor, In my opinion I would never add any bugs or critters in the tank with your crabs! Your crabs will not eat them and the bugs could hurt the crabs! I am sorry you cannot coax a crab to change its shell! I have 2 crabs that have been in the same...

Hermit Crabs: water and food, hermit crabs, hermit crab
hermit crabs, hermit crab, fresh food: It is suggested by the up to date current hermit crab sites, to offer food and water daily. Here is a checklist of items and what they are used for, to help you. http://hermitcrabaddiction.net/forum/index.php?topic=427.0 And here is a site for safe and...

Hermit Crabs: weird activity., water dish, fresh foods
water dish, fresh foods, other ones: It sounds like shell fighting. Do you have plenty of other shells in the crabitat that are the right type and size? Sometimes if there are not enough shells the new guy will get picked on for his shell. If you have enough shells then the next course of action...

Hermit Crabs: weird behavior of my hermit crab, hermit crabs, weird behavior
hermit crabs, weird behavior, hermit crab: Hermit crabs will usually not come out of their shells, since it s their only protection. Please check your gauges and make sure they are reading correctly and in the right range.Overheating of the crabitat can make them want to leave their shell. You may...

Hermit Crabs: white and molting, glass tank, hermit crab
glass tank, hermit crab, white stuff: Sorry, I thought I had answered this one already. How long has his exo been off? If it s been more than a week with the exo off and you haven t seen any movement I would suspect that the white stuff is mold and that your crab has passed on. If he s still...

Hermit Crabs: white and molting, glass tank, hermit crab
glass tank, hermit crab, whiteness: Samantha, Leave the skeleton in there he will eat it. Great for him for calcium. He should come up soon.If he doesn t gently take him out and put him in a saltwater bath. I think the white flakes are just...

Hermit Crabs: A worrying case, justin chan, case hi
justin chan, case hi, hermit crab: Hi, Are you sure it s worms? Could it be mites? If they are mites it can be harmful to the other crabs. Here is alink, please visit it, as it has information about bugs in the crab tanks. http://hermitcrabaddiction.net/forum/index.php?topic=166.0 I would...

Hermit Crabs: Me...Again, hermit crabs, hermit crab
hermit crabs, hermit crab, shells: I don t have pictures, but there is a site that does http://www.crabstreetjournal.com/ Hermit crabs can be very specific about the shells they choose. You should have 3-4 shells per crab. Get a few that are alike so that it will cut down on fights. ...

Hermit Crabs: So..., hermit crabs, tank conditions
hermit crabs, tank conditions, faq section: You are welcome! Hermit crab can live 20 years+ in captivity. It all depends on their stress and tank conditions. There is so much information about what you can and can t do for hermit crabs to list here. I would suggest going to this site and taking...

Hermit Crabs: Should I get another one?, gallon fish tanks, gallon fish tank
gallon fish tanks, gallon fish tank, hermit crabs: just read your comments, well just for everyone to know you Can get ten gallno Blank tanks for 10-15 bucks and teh cover for around the same price...the wire screen covers for reptiles, these are of course canadian prices because I ve never been anywhere...

Hermit Crabs: It came in and came out!!!! what do i do?, hermit crabs, having babies
hermit crabs, having babies, answer asap: What is the temperature in your tank? Are you handling them? Both of these can play a part in why your crabs are nude and dropping limbs. Stress is the major factor for limb loss. Can you copy and paste these questions and put in your answers? Template:...

Hermit Crabs: ?, coconut fibre, hermit crabs
coconut fibre, hermit crabs, playsand: Dear Gonzalo, thank you for your question. Hermit crabs can live up to 50 years. There are two crabs that have been with their owner for more than 30 years. For bedding, you can use sand - playsand is fine, just wash it and bake it - or coconut fibre bedding:...

Hermit Crabs: ???, hermit crab, crabs
hermit crab, crabs, good luck: A hermit crab s legs only fall off when they are under some sort of stress. This could be from the cat or from being left out of the cage for too long. Some crabs do not react well to being handled. I would give your crabs some hands-off time, around 2 weeks...

Hermit Crabs: ..., land hermit crabs, hermit crab facts
land hermit crabs, hermit crab facts, exo skeleton: Well you definatly can be with hermit crabs all the time, but there are certain times they shloud not be handled and are mostly a look at type of animals at those times. You shloudn t travel with them or anyhting liek that but can be very enjoyable at all...

High School Life: 2 dreams about the same guy, dream thing, 3rd period
dream thing, 3rd period, cute guys: Hey :) Hmm, this is tricky, I m guessing you don t know whether it is what you want or not? Ok, first things first, you have to decide whether its merely a dream, or whether it is something that you want in the waking world too. Once you have decided that,...

High School Life: My 2 friends hate eachother, thier friends, 2 friends
thier friends, 2 friends, eather: Tell them both that if they can be friends with each other or even get along then tell them that you don t want to be friends with eather of them. If they not want to get along there is no reason why you have to be misable because they don t want to get along...

High School Life: Boy, confrentation, question thanks
confrentation, question thanks, word of mouth: Al, Okay, I m positive on this one. You have to go up to this guy and just start a conversation with him...then slip in By the way, *insert name here* told me you fancied me. Is that true? . That way he can t dodge the question at all, because it s so...

High School Life: cant start a convorsation, wut, homework
wut, homework, imagination: There are plenty of ways to start a conversation! The topic that most people use to spark a conversation is the weather. Make comments on the weather. You can also ask how the other person s doing. Comment on what they wear. Talk about a certain homework,...

High School Life: Ex best friend, dumb friend, friend ship
dumb friend, friend ship, social group: I think that by being a little distant, things will fall into place. You have to get over her! if she doesnt want to be with you then you will have to accept that. If you distance yourself from her, you will become increasingly independent and no longer dependent...

High School Life: Friends, confidence level, american eagle
confidence level, american eagle, losing weight: I have many tips on how to get a good friend. 1) Seek new friends 2) Do not hang out with people that make you feel bad about yourself 3) Build your confidence level up sweety! Who cares about losing weight?!?! Friends should accept you regardless of...

High School Life: Friends... or more?, confusing place, story changes
confusing place, story changes, being friends: I would say that you just go back to being friends for right now. If you got back into a relationship with her right now it would be extremely difficult for her to stay faithful and sane. She is in a confusing place right now and I think that the best way...

High School Life: questions to ask, proof plan, awkard
High School Life: questions to ask, proof plan, awkard, ruin

High School Life: want to ask a girl out, i just want to make sure there are no mixed signals, yourdays, luck man
High School Life: want to ask a girl out, i just want to make sure there are no mixed signals, yourdays, luck man, go ballistic

High School Life: hey, physics teacher, answer asap
physics teacher, answer asap, parent teachers: Ok here for your first problem study get the answers he looking for if your teacher wants to call on you then give him the answer and no just a answer but the right answer. study tips don t study after school never do that do it about 1 to 2 hrs after you...

High School Life: Prom Date Problem, local community college, homework assignment
local community college, homework assignment, older guys: YOU are the only person who can change your life around. Everyone gets so nervous about talking to other boys but in reality, they are just as nervous to talk to girls. This week you have a homework assignment from me (HAHA) I want you to go to class at the...

High School Life: questions to ask, girls and boys, good qualities
girls and boys, good qualities, best of friends: It sounds that she likes you too. Actually, the best thing to do is to be straightforward. Honesty is always the best policy when it comes to relationships. I would suggest to tell her how you really feel. Don t go right out and say You wanna go out with...

High School Life: Rejecting a Crush, being a gentlemen, entire school
being a gentlemen, entire school, sweet guy: First off I would like to say that you sound like a sweet guy for wanting to not hurt this girls feelings! Most guys would make a huge deal out of this crush and make her feel bad about herself. What you need to do is break it to her nicely. You might...

High School Life: Remembering, chemistry and biology, structure of atoms
chemistry and biology, structure of atoms, english literature: I have a hard time with History as well! What I do for memorization is to make note cards with all of the information you need. For example: get a note card and on the front write the date, and on the back write the events that happened on that date and look...

High School Life: Semiformal dance, formal dance, mutual friends
formal dance, mutual friends, enzo: Well that all depends. If she already wants to go with someone else to a dance, then she will probably wait for that person to ask her. However, if you start talking to her a little bit more, she wouldnt be able to say no because you are being persistant....

High School Life: Valentines day., hole punch, sporting goods store
hole punch, sporting goods store, mix tape: Make him a mix tape of all of the songs that remind you of him. When you have the CD made find the lyrics to every song on the CD. Then print out all of the lyrics and 3 hole punch the pages and tie them together with some ribbons! I did that for my boyfriend...

High School Life: want to ask a girl out, i just want to make sure there are no mixed signals, broom ball, mixed signals
broom ball, mixed signals, go cart: Hey Trent Well, if you re asking her out tomorrow, then this answer is too late (sorry! I just started as an expert today). I can t read minds, but from your account of what happened, it definitely seems like she likes you. Of course, she could ve also...

High School Life: i want a girlfriend, million ways, girl friend
million ways, girl friend, girlfriend: I hate it when people say that they do not fit in because that is 100% false. You are in the same boat as everyone else in high school, trying to find your place in the world. You want a girlfriend, sooo....find one. It is really easy. If you stepped back...

High School Life: weedend with BF, least three times, parental supervision
least three times, parental supervision, ski weekend: Dont beg your parents. I think that if you would just let it go and bring it up again around prom then they wont be too cautious about it. They already know that you are responsible but they might just have reserves about being alone with him and some friends....

High School Life: make-up, how to do a smoky eye, liquid eyeliner
how to do a smoky eye, liquid eyeliner, pale colours: Ashley, For acne skin, try Clearasil Ultra Deep Cleansing Wipes. You can get them quite cheap in boots, and they should help. Here s my definition of how to do a smoky eye thing: Start with the pale colours on the inside of the eye, next to the nose,...

High School Life: 2 questions, whole 9 yards, exit project
whole 9 yards, exit project, life question: Hey Mary! It seems like the product is the same thing as an abstract or summary. I can t really tell you what to put into it, but I can say that no matter what your topic is you should be able to talk about it without the use of charts and graphs and things...

High School Life: Asking Her Out, homecoming dance, freshman year
homecoming dance, freshman year, something fun: Hey Duncan! I do think that she likes you, and yes what you did does count in asking her out again (but not all the way), that just meaning that you brought it to her attention that you would like to go out again. But something fun that you two could do...

High School Life: BOY, little signs, soccer practice
little signs, soccer practice, xoxo: Hey! Honestly what happened doesn t mean that he doesn t like you, guys are just like that. Even my boyfriend does stuff like that to me sometimes, so don t give up hope. Just keep trying to talk to him, and try to get to know him better. That s way it...

High School Life: What's the big deal?, sore loser, playing video games
sore loser, playing video games, high score: Dear Meghan, I think I ve heard from you so many times on this boyfriend :P The big deal is you were being mean to him. Simple. He didn t do anything wrong this time. He was embarrassed by his friends, so he asked you to tone it down a bit so he wouldn...

High School Life: bofriend troubles, getting rid of acne, building confidence
getting rid of acne, building confidence, exfoliating cream: Haha no problem! No one should have to worry about acne nowadays with modern medicine. Um, well it s up to you. How much do you like him? Cause if you really value your friendship with him then asking him out isn t a great idea, cause if he says...

High School Life: Is she going break with me?, little smile, wont answer
little smile, wont answer, love letters: Dear tyler, I m SOOOO sorry this is late. I thought I was on vacation but it turns out it didn t work :[ Alright, let s fix this. So it s been a week, correct? Things should have cooled down with her. DON T GO FOR THE PERSONAL HEAD TO HEAD APPROACH....

High School Life: Are we going to break up over something this dumb?, honest mistake, making love
honest mistake, making love, misunderstanding: Tyler, It was a misunderstanding. Just tell her that. You probably won t break up about something this stupid, but you will fight for a little while. It d be stupid to break up over just a mis-said name. I do it all the time and so does everyone else. It...

High School Life: Childhood friend, friends with benefits, childhood friend
friends with benefits, childhood friend, 8 years: Dear Tammy, I m so super sorry for answering this late. There is the chance there is something between you. Chances are he is noticing you and is looking at you. Who knows if he is developing a crush. He might be crushing on you. It s very sweet, but...

High School Life: a close friend likes me, homecoming, good friends
homecoming, good friends, feelings: Hey Luke! You absolutely need to talk to her. It s not easy when you find out that you have feelings for a friend, and when they are not returned, it can be very hurtful. So try to talk to her and explain that you like her as a friend, but not as more...

High School Life: Drama, purpose of school, favorite shirt
purpose of school, favorite shirt, kings and queens: Hey! I found this question, and I m not sure if anyone has ever answered you back, if not I m sorry, if so, another opinion couldn t hurt lol. Well high school life is filled with drama, and honestly the only way you can stay away from it is to remain...

High School Life: I don't know what to do anymore?!?, crap load, drama class
crap load, drama class, new boyfriend: Hey there Carly, I know highschool is a crap-load of stress. However, you DO have to take on a lot of responsibility. You have to get used to the work load your mom gives you because when you go to college you won t even have the littlest bit of help to...

High School Life: What's the big deal?, sore loser, superiority complex
High School Life: What's the big deal?, sore loser, superiority complex, video game

High School Life: an outgoing person with no close friends, new friends, best friend
High School Life: an outgoing person with no close friends, new friends, best friend

High School Life: How do you feel about the youth?, platform heels, 13 year olds
platform heels, 13 year olds, 15 year olds: Hi Mia, I Am going to answer your questions in order to make it simple to understand. No I do not agree that 12 and 13 year olds should have sex.If I say 14 years olds shouldn t that would b hypocritical in a sense because I had sex for the first time...

High School Life: Is my friend sexist?, having a girl, principal office
having a girl, principal office, meghan: Dear Meghan, I m SUPER sorry this was late. I thought I was on vacation, but I wasn t. Lol, so here is your answer. He isn t sexist AT ALL. He just wanted to handle it on his own. People want that independence. If I was a guy, I wouldn t want a girl...

High School Life: Girlfriend, hot girl, maturity
hot girl, maturity, compliment: Danny, glad to hear from you again :) Maturity-shmerity. You date when your ready, not by what school you are in. Dating could be more appropriate when your enrolled at a University, but if you really like someone, take the risk and ask her. Just wait until...

High School Life: My girlfriend making herself throw up because she wants to be a model, diet pills, girlfriend
diet pills, girlfriend, parents: Jay, She is 100% going down the wrong track. You NEED to stop her before she becomes bulimic. Tell your parents or a doctor. They will tell someone or call her parents to notify her and stop her before it s too late and it becomes fatal. Hurry up, save...

High School Life: Help, crazy time, favorite shirt
crazy time, favorite shirt, place where people: Dear Rachel, I know, drama does suck. I don t like it either! Why can t the world just be a place where people can get along? Answer, we can t get along. There will always be something someone doesn t like about someone else. If there isn t anything you...

High School Life: help please, sex addict, abstinance
sex addict, abstinance, candace: Hi Candace, There Is not much that you can do for your friend.She has different beliefs than you.The most you can do is talk to her and let her know that you are there for her no matter what .You also can offer her to go to church with you sometimes.You...

High School Life: What hes problem, silly string, sense of humor
silly string, sense of humor, haha: Haha seems like your boyfriend does a lot of not talking to you . Yeah, he should chill out, but you also shouldn t put him down when he s obviously pissed. Next time just apologize instead of telling him to get a sense of humor. Just call him up and tell...

High School Life: hey, baby voice, personal questions
baby voice, personal questions, first chance: YES. Guys LOVE to talk but they always feel intimidated around girls cause they don t want to look stupid. We re always told that we have to shut up and be good listeners around girls, so as soon as you get a girl that s actually interested in what...

High School Life: Insecurity, insecurity, popularity
insecurity, popularity: I would say it does have something to do with puberty, puberty lasts for a while man, I know its kinda awkward to talk about but its the truth. I remember when I started it, I thought my life was over when it started, but in time it slows down and you will...

High School Life: Issues Amongst High School Students, high school issues
high school issues: Hi Lorraine, 1. Drugs: I think drugs are a big part of high school, they are such a big problem with students and any student can get them. They can even buy them AT school. I have seen it many times. 2. Bullies: Bullies also play a big role in high...

High School Life: Issues Amongst High School Students, school students face, cause of stress
school students face, cause of stress, drugs and sex: Hey there Lorraine, I would say the 3 top issues are peer pressure, partying, and stress. Peer pressure makes people do things they don t want to do. Everyone wants to be the cool kid, the one everyone talks about. Who can blame them? TV makes it seem...

High School Life: Issues Amongst High School Students, homework question, academic pressure
homework question, academic pressure, high school students: Hey Lorrain! I believe the top 3 issues would be peer pressure, academic pressure, and probably beginning to seriously date...but before I go any further with this question I have to ask if this is a homework question, because to me it does sound like it....

High School Life: having a life, playing video games, none of my friends
playing video games, none of my friends, drivers licence: Hey Chris, Apologies for my lateness, exams and all :) Firstly, it is great to hear you have not given in to all those horrible addictions which could either make or break your life. This is something that most young teens will experience, although...

High School Life: I'm confused., relationships
relationships: Hi Blair, To me it sounds like he is wanting something but doesn t want to take it further than just wanting something from you. If I were you, I would tell him to stop, unless he wants to be serious about it and be in a relationship with you. Sorry I...

High School Life: I'm not scare of her but do she'll do it?, girl jenny, wont move
girl jenny, wont move, wasting your time: Micheal, I m so sorry this took a while to get back to you!! Well, what can she do to you? Nothing much. Tell your girlfriend about her. Tell her the incident with her friend. If she was a good girlfriend she will understand. Then, I don t think the...

High School Life: What did he me to do nothing and look pretty?, having a girl, principal office
having a girl, principal office, ditch: Well, I have to say it s more of a guy thing. Some guys just think that that makes them weaker to have a girl protect them, and they just want to handle it themselves. All he s thinking about is that he might get picked on more if you intervene. That might...

High School Life: an outgoing person with no close friends, freshman year, outgoing person
freshman year, outgoing person, close friends: Hey Macy! Right now, all you can do is make new friends. Try to find people that are in your class or grade or if you can find a group that you could relate to, then there. Begin to try and talk to them everyday, or when you can (without being annoying,...

High School Life: Simone, attitude problem, souly
attitude problem, souly, friend rachel: Livi, Hold up. This Simone girl NEEDS a reality check. She doesn t own you or your friends. Your friend did not have to move seats for her. She should have said, I don t see your name on it, or, Do you really think it is your seat? You re not sitting...

High School Life: Study Memorising tips , studying tips, studying
studying tips, studying, tips: Hi Warm, Studying is a tough part of high school, it may seem like it is a pointless thing to do at times, but its not, and learning how to do it will greatly improve your test scores. Studying starts when the teacher lectures, listen to what they say, block...

High School Life: Studymemorising tips, teacher lessons, motivations
teacher lessons, motivations, phy: Hey, first off sorry for the ridiculously long wait, my computer was down. But for the tips, it s really what ever you feel most comfortable doing. Some things that help me is writing it out. Just writing the same thing out over and over again. Try to keep...

High School Life: Study/memorising tips, subject outline, own pace
subject outline, own pace, teacher lessons: Hello Warm, There is no easy solution or one solution to this question. It all depends on the outcome you want to achieve. If its comfort with added understanding of the subject then the only way to achieve that is if you start at least 2 weeks prior to...

High School Life: Study,memorising tips, dull hours, teacher lessons
dull hours, teacher lessons, practice questions: Heya Well first you gotta determine which your best way of learning is (eg- visual, where you learn best based on pictures, aural, etc). I think the best way to learn is to read something and then write a basic summary of what you just read. I always...

High School Life: Studying / memorising hints, index cards, teacher lessons
index cards, teacher lessons, motivations: Hi Warm, Try Writing your notes on index cards and read over them every night before bed or after you are done doing your homework for that subject.You also can jus read over your notes everyday for that specific class.You can do your homework then read...

High School Life: He could at least said thank you, communication work, tool box
communication work, tool box, mechanics: Hey there again, Meghan! Another boyfriend trouble I see :] Well let me tell you this. From what I ve seen, you and this guy really don t clique well. You always seem to be fighting, from what I hear from you. Lots of fighting means a not strong connection/communication....

High School Life: My sister's boyfriend tried to kiss me, loser boyfriend, gotta trust
loser boyfriend, gotta trust, boyfriends: Hey Well I can t answer whether she ll ever trust you again because I don t know you or her. But chances are, yeah, she will. I wouldn t be too worried. You gotta sit her down and seriously talk to her. Tell her her boyfriends lying and you would never...

High School Life: I wanted to break up with her the decent way, guy friends, advice tips
guy friends, advice tips, misunderstanding: Matt, Well, you can tell her you never ever cheated on her and the kiss was a big misunderstanding. Tell her you do care about her feelings and that you ve totally and completely have moved on from her ex. Then sau there was a reason for your ex to act...

High School Life: ...., jounior, facebook
jounior, facebook, question thanks: Your welcome! But yeah, that s what I meant. I mean that you have to start a conversation with her, if you leave it up to her to start a conversation then she probably never will. I think that she will eventually feel more comfortable talking to you after...

High School Life: 4 things, high school kids, academic pressure
high school kids, academic pressure, highschool kids: Hey! Ummm i think the 4 toughest things high school kids deal is peer pressure, self-image (or trying to fit in), academic pressure, and being that alot of relationships happen in this time, that also. If you need anything else, feel free to ask! xoxo,...

High School Life: Are we breaking up?, tube top, tomboy
tube top, tomboy, hoodie: Coby, Find her immediately and tell her you re sorry and that you didn t mean to grab at her shirt when you fell and that you feel really bad for embarrassing her in front of everyone. Simply admitting a fault is often enough to assuage any doubts she...

High School Life: California guy, long distance relationship, senior prom
long distance relationship, senior prom, good relationship: Hey Well it seems to me that you should stick with him. Don t go out looking for your other half , let them find you. There s always gonna be someone else out there for you, there are gonna be millions of other someone elses , but you gotta stick...

High School Life: Crushh Advice ?? HELP !!, pratically, good friends
pratically, good friends, msn: Hey! Thanks so much for writing in to me today. I think that it is TOTALLY possible to have a relationship with him, yes there is sometimes a risk of ruining the friendship, but that s not always the case. Take me for example, my ex and I were really...

High School Life: How Fat Is Too Fat?, booty shaking contest, body curves
booty shaking contest, body curves, thick thighs: Heya Well you can google whatever the average obesity weight is on google for anywhere in the world, but honestly, it doesn t matter that much. A little fat is unhealthier for you than a lot, and a lot is unhealthier for you than a little, but you just...

High School Life: How Fat Is Too Fat?, booty shaking contest, body curves
booty shaking contest, body curves, thick thighs: Hi Keshia You claim that you dont have low self esteem but it sounds like you do.You also said you dress like a slut.Why would you want to betray your self as such a person.You flash guys?Thats also unattractive.Boys dont Like females that carry themselves...

High School Life: How Fat Is Too Fat?, overweight, perfect shape
overweight, perfect shape, figure: Hey Keshia, Right now, no, your not too fat that it s unhealthy! But it all depends on height/weight. Find out how tall you are, then find a height/weight chart on the internet and compare your weight with your height! Its really simple actually =...

High School Life: perverted boys, christ sake, shanice
High School Life: perverted boys, christ sake, shanice, pee pee

High School Life: My gf is pregnent while im in highschool!, pregnancy test, gf
pregnancy test, gf, nikki: Hey! I ll try to help you as best as I can. First of all, you need to make sure that she is really pregnant. Periods happens sometimes randomly so just because she s late doesn t mean that she is pregnant. She could take a pregnancy test, to determine...

High School Life: My girl thinks I was cheating on her, alana, beers
alana, beers, sorry for the inconvenience: Dear Coby, Hey! Okay, first off I love your name. Haha, okay moving on, You should not talk to this friend. She obviously knew, even if she was drunk that she was doing something mean. Did you kiss your Ex back? You need to tell your girlfriend what...

High School Life: guys, flirty, good friends
flirty, good friends, urges: Hey Haha well first thing you gotta do is start hanging out with him again. I know it s weird when you like someone, but just force yourself to act normal. Push all your crazy urges down and just be cool. Hang out with him a lot and be a little flirty....

High School Life: She hasn't said a word to me since then, freak accident, frienda
freak accident, frienda, tube top: Heya Well I can t tell if you re breaking up cause I m not there, but I wouldn t think so. She s probably more embarrassed than anything. She ll probably forgive you but you ve got to be really apologetic and nice to her. Tell her how sorry you are...

High School Life: Should I help him anyway?, guy friend, alana
guy friend, alana, study group: Dear Meg, You should help him. Form a study group or something to get him motivated. You can t all of a sudden want to do better without help. Chances are he doesn t know what to do. Tell him to maybe get a tutor, or you tutor him. If he wants you to help...

High School Life: Life, dream college, great foundation
dream college, great foundation, going to college: Dear Samantha, Hey there honey! Well, you can start off by telling them you are an adult now and you are entering a world where you won t always have them right behind you. College is your offical start as an adult and you need to get out. Tell them they...

High School Life: learning french, learning french
learning french: Hi Victoria, It just depends on how hard it will be to learn. I don t think it is quite as hard as Spanish is to learn, but its still going to be a hurdle to overcome. It took me a while/multiple classes to fully understand it. The hardest part about French...

High School Life: Meeting girlfriends parents, control freaks, best of luck
control freaks, best of luck, first date: Hey Well I seriously doubt they ll ask what your intentions are with their daughter unless they re crazy control freaks, but if they do, just say that you care about her very much and you d never hurt her. They ll probably just ask you what you re doing...

High School Life: perverted boys, crazy about girls, girls body
crazy about girls, girls body, body odor: Hi Cassie Your boyfriend is not normal.Sounds like he has issues and alot of fetishs.He needs to see a phycologist or something.As for boys being preverted not all of them but some of them are jerks.But I dont kno anyone in the male species that acts...

High School Life: perverted boys, nasty, perverted
nasty, perverted, boys: Hi Cassie, Ummm.....Your boyfriend is a weirdo, NO MOST BOYS ARE NOT LIKE THAT!!! I don t know where he got his information from but he is wrong.... DEAD WRONG!! That is actually sickening to read! It makes me want to PUKE!! My help to you would be to clean...

High School Life: Should I risk my job?, new job, music store
new job, music store, boss: Hey That sounds really frustrating but honestly, I wouldn t risk it. But you have to weigh your options. How much extra do you have to do with her not helping? If it s way too much then yeah, tell your boss. But if it s not that bad then I d just leave...

High School Life: The signs, stares, hallways
stares, hallways, sophomore: Hey Well it sounds like the reason he stares at you is cause he likes you. I don t see why else he would, haha. But if he has a girlfriend, you should just leave it. You don t want to get involved in that. It ll just create conflict and end up hurting...

High School Life: My sister's boyfriend tried to kiss me, loser boyfriend, gotta trust
loser boyfriend, gotta trust, boyfriends: Hey Well I can t answer whether she ll ever trust you again because I don t know you or her. But chances are, yeah, she will. I wouldn t be too worried. You gotta sit her down and seriously talk to her. Tell her her boyfriends lying and you would never...

High School Life: sweet 16, sweet 16 party, squarefoot
sweet 16 party, squarefoot, bowling alley: HI! Maybe to throw the party you could rent out something like a community center. Usually those are not too expensive to rent out for a period of time (that is depending on where you live). I think your idea of the party is a really nice idea though....

High School Life: Teacher problems, hey sweetheart, chair person
hey sweetheart, chair person, history teacher: Hey! Okay speaking as a teacher s daughter, I do know that teachers are always under stress, especially when there students are not performing well. But I guarantee that she will not place a hand on you or anything of that sort, if that does happen you...

High School Life: Should I tell my parents that my sister is smoking?, heart cancer, mood swings
heart cancer, mood swings, doing the right thing: Meghan, GOOD JOB! I m really really proud of you. You did the BEST possible thing for your sister. You saved her LIFE. She may think she wants to be cool and smoke, but in the long run she d hurt herself so bad. She will get over her mood swings, and...

High School Life: Should I tell my parents that my sister is smoking?, heart cancer, good luck
heart cancer, good luck, parents: OMG! Oh I m so sorry, I misread the question. I thought you said she s 16 and you re 12, that s why I said you should probably leave the parents out and try talking to her first. No, if she s 12 you definitely HAVE TO tell them. She s way too young to be...

High School Life: Why am I thinking this way??!!, academic growth, opportunity cost
academic growth, opportunity cost, educational system: Hello Katie, You are lucky you don t need to study as much in order to gain successful results. However, I don t think that is the problem here. You seem to think that by studying less you will help others achieve more. This is not about being self-centered...

High School Life: A type of bullying by an upperclassman, narks, upperclassman
narks, upperclassman, black person: Hey I normally don t approve of narks , but I think you should tell someone. Maybe give him one more chance. If he bullies you again then I d say tell on him. You shouldn t have to put up with that. Just go to the principal. Anyways, best of luck!...

High School Life: I want to stand up to for him but im afraid that I might got bullied to., easy target, friends name
easy target, friends name, classmates: Hey, I think you really should just talk to him. Be cool about it. Just like randomly go to him and ask him to come sit with you and your friends. If you re friends question you, just tell them straight up, he s new to the school, give him a chance , or...

High School Life: I want to stand up to for him but im afraid that I might got bullied to., easy target, friends name
easy target, friends name, classmates: Hey Well I think you ve got to stand up for what you believe in, as cheesy as that sounds. If you like him, hang out with him! And if your friends don t accept that, then maybe they re not good enough to be your friends. If you really like him, go for...

High School Life: Why is he acting like this?, boyfriend, girlfriend
boyfriend, girlfriend, friend: Hi Megan, Sorry it took me so long to answer you, I haven t been around my pc for a few days. Sorry to hear that your friend stopped speaking to you... Maybe his girlfriend told him not to talk to other girls? This happens A LOT.. Sad to see it as I think...

High School Life: Boy troubles, you could say, dark brown hair, girl teams
dark brown hair, girl teams, winter track: Hey Well, first off, how well do you know him? It sounds like he s a bit shallow so why don t you try prettying yourself up a bit. Apparently it works. I ve done it before haha, so i know it does! You ve gotta get to be better friends with him....

High School Life: crush, easy target, eyes and ears
easy target, eyes and ears, friend cause: Hey Annie, Changing schools can be quite distressing, for many reasons. Usually everyone wants to befriend the newbie and you will become an easy target as you barely know anyone there and their behaviours and you might not know who to trust and so forth....

High School Life: Where can I find a cute girl?, girlfriend, lonely
girlfriend, lonely, nerdy: Hey Zach, Maybe you can go to the nearest mall and try to meet girls? But if you live in a place like where I live.... there isn t any malls around... The party/church idea was a pretty good one because there is usually girls at all parties....But good luck...

High School Life: How to know if my shy friend likes me????, self concious, shy friend
self concious, shy friend, open relationship: Hey Well I reckon the best way to go about it would to be flirty. It sounds like he s pretty shy so he probably won t make the first move, but if you think you stand a chance, and you like him, you should go for it. When you re with him, talk to him a...

High School Life: These signs guys like you??, actual proof, behaviours
actual proof, behaviours, rejection: Hey Maria, I understand how frustrating this situation could be, what makes it worse is this guy is denying proof such as emails. As for the hanging out, it could be possible he is generally shy, could be he has never been around females much in his...

High School Life: How I can get her to stop?, annoying, ugly
annoying, ugly, girlfriend: Hey Jackson, DO NOT AGREE WITH HER!!! That would be really bad for you! Just tell her that its getting a little old or annoying. Hopefully she will understand. There really isn t much that you can do but keep consoling her that she is not ugly. Tell...

High School Life: Twisted and Confused, rebound girl, serious relationship
rebound girl, serious relationship, current boyfriend: Hey Well, apart from switching schools and leaving town, there s not really a lot you can do except talk to him. Sit him down and say you gotta talk. Tell him you ve been feeling lately that he s a little hostile to you. I m sure it s cause there re...

High School Life: how do i talk to my teacher?, school guidance counsellor, teenage depression
school guidance counsellor, teenage depression, best of luck: Hey Well I m not sure your teacher is properly qualified for that. Do you have a school guidance counsellor? They re the best people to talk to. There s no easy way to tell people, but I personally think the best way is to just come straight out and...

High School Life: How do I talk to my teacher?, teenage depression, proper documentation
teenage depression, proper documentation, doctor who: Hey Sophie! Well first I need to ask, does your parents know? If so, they should have recommended you to a doctor, who can then help you with your condition. From there, your parents/ doctor should deal with your teacher. Most times, if you were to just...

High School Life: attire, mary jane shoes, formal dance
mary jane shoes, formal dance, knee length: It depends on where you live. If you live in the midwest, go for a longer dress. If you live in a warmer place, go for a knee length dress with mary jane shoes. Something fun!! For guys, they just need to match you. Just go with your gut. If you like a dress...

High School Life: bullying or what???, popular group, unfortunate victim
popular group, unfortunate victim, futu: Hello there :) I do believe that many issues regarding highschool relate to teens not understanding each other. In your case, you have been the unfortunate victim of a boy who has his head up his ass. There are a lot of these types of people in highschool...

High School Life: DRAMA!!!!, david beckham pictures, david beckham
david beckham pictures, david beckham, sexual orientation: Hey Brittany, I am not sure how to deal with your question because I do not know how old you are or the specifics concerning your gay friends. Being a lesbian does not happen overnight and usually teens are very reluctant to tell anyone at all. If you...

High School Life: Friends, home friends, nothing works
home friends, nothing works, toronto canada: Hey Mataya. Sorry to hear about your situation. Don t worry. Your not the only one who started out with negative friends. I moved from Los Angeles, to Toronto Canada leaving my home, friends and life in order to fit in with the new kids here. Really it...

High School Life: Friends, mobile phone number, smart guy
mobile phone number, smart guy, study time: Hi Nathan. I had some trouble understanding your question, but I will do my best to answer it! :) Life is not all about STUDYING. What is the point in having weekends when you have no time to enjoy them? True, it is very important to study, but there...

High School Life: DRAMA!!!!
High School Life: DRAMA!!!!

High School Life: i look so old
High School Life: i look so old

High School Life: High School Drama, low self esteem, feeling the same way
low self esteem, feeling the same way, school drama: Well first of all, I am really sorry to hear that you are so upset. There are many ways to fix this though. You must start with yourself. You say that the way that things are going, you will never have a boyfriend. THAT NEEDS TO GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD. With...

High School Life: she hates me, weird reason, adn
weird reason, adn, moron: Unless she said she hates you, I doubt that she does. She probably has figured out that you re jealous, but she might not have gotten that. She may think that you hate her and don t want to be friends anymore. Just remember that she can have other friends....

High School Life: hello, wild goose chase, one in a million
wild goose chase, one in a million, bday party: Heya Your story is one in a million. It s definitely happened to me before, so, don t worry, you re not alone in this. But I think the best thing to do is to sit her down and talk to her. If you re really as close as you say you are then she ll be happy...

High School Life: jealousy, slow jams, drama in my life
slow jams, drama in my life, 10th grade: FIRST OF ALL, The easiest way to get over him, is to think about the things he s done to you. Think of the girls he s been with, and how much fun he s having with them. Hard, I know. If he s played you that much, why would you still be in to him? Yeah,...

High School Life: i look so old, grade 9, embarrasing
grade 9, embarrasing, best of luck: You cannot change the way people view you but you can change the way they think about you. Like, when you start talking to people and they say you look old...just be like I know! I Wish I looked like you guys! Or something like that. No matter what people...

High School Life: i look older than everyone, school counselor, 9th grader
school counselor, 9th grader, most teens: It s actually illegal what your father has done. You need to get help from the authorities. You can go to your school counselor or principle and tell him/her what you told me. If that doesn t work, you can go to the police. They can go back and look...

High School Life: looking much older, grade 9, embarrasing
grade 9, embarrasing, fact that people: If you really have a problem with the way you look, why don t you hang out with people who are older! Make them your friends! At least this way, they ll look like you. If you can t do that, just know that there are a lot of people like you in schools these...

High School Life: i might be a lesbian but how do i tell my boyfriend!, boyfriend girlfriend, urges
boyfriend girlfriend, urges: Heya Well, what I think you need to do is sit down and have a think to yourself if you really do like this girl. Sometimes you just go through phases while you re going out with someone where you think what would it be like to be with that other person...

High School Life: need help!, grade 9, embarrasing
grade 9, embarrasing, new friends: Hello there... I can understand how starting highschool may make you feel a bit nervous and awkward at the same time, especially if your age is making you feel different from everyone else. I have thought about your question and have a few things that...

High School Life: semi formal, many different ways, strict policies
many different ways, strict policies, highschools: Hey Jennifer, Let me start off by saying that semi formal is a lot of fun, I m glad you ve decided to go. I always thought proms were overrated, since the fun was mostly had after the formal part (after-parties and what not). There are many different...

High School Life: Transferring to a new school half-way through junior year, meeting new friends, social norms
meeting new friends, social norms, intelligent girl: Hello Allie, I can tell by your e-mail that you are probably a very intelligent girl. If you think about your question for a moment, you ll realize that there are only a few options to choose from. I ve never gone to a private school, but I can imagine...

High School Life: my truth and my aim, silver star school, airhostess
silver star school, airhostess, businesswomen: I don t know how to get everyone to believe you. One reason is I don t know what they re accusing you of lying about. You can try to provide them with proof. As to what you want to be, things may change over the next few years of school. You re only 12....

High School Life: whats going on?, friendship group, friendship groups
friendship group, friendship groups, bitchy girl: I cannot tell you what is going on. YOU have to ask them yourself. Just be like, Hey, did I do something to upset you guys? If they say no, then you know that they are just being mean. You have to ask yourself if you really want these girls to be your friends...

High School Life: boy problem, older girls, shy guy
older girls, shy guy, sophomore: Why not ask him out? Don t wait around for him to make a move... by then, someone could have made a move and he could be taken. You have to go for what you want. So what if he says no? If he does, he obviously wasn t worth your time in the first place...

High School Life: boys, hey gal, skool
hey gal, skool, gals: Jade, I m sorry but I can t really help you with this one. Unless you can tell me exactly which boyfriend rumours you are talking about there is really nothing I can say to help. If you follow up with a few examples I might be able to help. Catherin...

High School Life: boy problem
High School Life: boy problem

High School Life: Inconsiderate Parents, vday, tuitions
vday, tuitions, indian girl: Since you are only 17 there is not much you can do. When you turn 18 you can move out of your house and declare yourself an adult. Until then there is really nothing that you can do except stick it out. You can prove to your parents that you are a good child....

High School Life: Jerks, light punch, followup question
light punch, followup question, upperclassmen: Hi Daniel! I can just say one thing: Who ever told you this rumor is just trying to scare you. When I was a freshman in high school, I was VERY short, I would say the shortest girl in my grade. I was so scared of being shoved into a locker, being bullied,...

High School Life: Money Troubles, swiss account, money troubles
swiss account, money troubles, serious money: If you want to tell your friends about your family s financial situation, I think it may cause more problems in the long run. No one likes to hear OH..by the way...I m going to inherit 2 million dollars..just thought you should know . THAT S weird. ...

High School Life: popularity, fashion choices, clothing choices
fashion choices, clothing choices, senior prom: Danielle- Being popular has a different significance for each different person. Some enjoy the thrill of being famous in their own little sphere. They enjoy everyone knowing their name and all about their life, their friends, their clothing choices,...

High School Life: sports pressure, soccer teams, highschool students
soccer teams, highschool students, different sports: Hey Hannah, I know exactly what you re going through! While in highschool I played on a number of different sports teams and was also training at the provincial (I m Canadian) level for soccer. It can be tough, can t it? So to answer your question, yes,...

High School Life: i want a b/f!, shy person, embarrasing
shy person, embarrasing, shyness: You need to build your self esteem!!!!! You are perfect, just the way God made you. Dont ever let this get you down. You need to realize that having a boyfriend is not the most important thing in your life. If you want a boyfriend, build up some confidence...

High School Life: bullying teacher..., french teacher, satisfaction
french teacher, satisfaction: Hey If in fact this teacher is bullying you, then go to the principal. Why does it matter if the teacher gets satisfaction out of the fact you re angry? She won t be too happy if she gets in trouble now, will she? You need to report her if you think...

High School Life: Don't fit in, sophomore
sophomore: Thanks for rating the answer. Your feedback is very important to be and it allows me to help with future questions. I remember when I was in high school and there were a hand full of students that liked me and there were others that opposed me. With this...

High School Life: going to a different school, living in new zealand, loner
living in new zealand, loner, year 11: Hey, yeah I ve been to a lot of schools and I always find the best way to be accepted is to try and blend in. Be quiet at first but talk to lots of people. Be nice and people will like you. Act like everyone else so they think you re one of them. Hope...

High School Life: Friendship, tiny step, question thanks
tiny step, question thanks, bad influence: I would suggest just playing it cool. Although you should look at why they re trying to make you not be friends with him...like, is he doing something illegal? Is he a bad influence? Consider that as well. But if you feel that they don t have any good...

High School Life: friend turned to enemy, distant memory, weird thing
distant memory, weird thing, fort knox: Kaitlyn, Maybe if you just say how you feel, and she might reply that that s a bit wierd, and then you ask (sort of desperately/curiously) if she s ever felt anything like that before. Then, in an indirect way, you could get an honest answer. Catherin...

High School Life: friends drama, jenny craig, esterday
jenny craig, esterday, skank: Ligia- Drama is tough. I was part of a crowd who talked nonstop about other people as well. But if you dish it out, you have to be able to take it back. I knew I couldn t handle it myself, so I always stuck up for people. By sticking up for people...

High School Life: high school, likable person, saying hello
likable person, saying hello, loner: Do you have friends now? If so, you must be a likable person. I m sure you ll have no trouble making friends. Try to be more confident and less shy. Take risks. Sit next to someone in your new class and try saying hello. Chances are, they ll talk back....

High School Life: lonely, and in love, three best friends, first loves
three best friends, first loves, guy friend: Hey Lauren, I will tell you that you are in the beginning stages of high school. It is almost for school to be out for most whereas others may not get out til June. However, you are in the 9th grade which is the transition year from middle school to high...

High School Life: new, slight smile, conversation starter
slight smile, conversation starter, breaking the ice: Lia- thanks for clarifying! I d be happy to help you with this. As far as social skills go, it s something that takes practice. One thing I would suggest is joining an online message board, like Teenspot.com or another place. It sounds weird, but...

High School Life: revision, last minute
last minute: Thanks for rating the answer. Your feedback is very important to be and it allows me to help with future questions. Sorry if your response came to you at the last minute or at the late moment. I saw that your question needed answering, so I answered it....

High School Life: bullying-ish situation..., cast parties, prom king
cast parties, prom king, sarcastic comments: Heya It s a hard situation you re in but we all go through it and deal with it different ways. Most teens would just go along with it because they don t want to be outcasts. Of course, standing up for the people won t do anything except give them reason...

High School Life: drama, real friends, bestfriend
real friends, bestfriend, bad stuff: Hi Rachel. The best thing for you to do is move on, and find new friends. Real friends don t do that to their friends, so it ll be better to ignore them. They sound like the type of people who just LOVE starting drama for no particular reason. Find some...

High School Life: Read it..., wont matter, whole lot
High School Life: Read it..., wont matter, whole lot, ashley

High School Life: help!, good luck darling, many different ways
good luck darling, many different ways, boyfriend girlfriend: Dear Jenny, If he was serious about breaking away from you for good, then he is a jerk. Someone like that isn t worth your time or friendship. If I were him, I d talk it out. Yet, completely breaking off is rude to you and affects you in many different...

High School Life: Love..., good luck, love
good luck, love: There are many ways to tell. To be in love with someone, you have to know them well. You have to know exactly who they are. She will drop hints to you. There is a fine line between a crush and being in love with someone. When someone is in love with you, you...

High School Life: love, question pool, keep your distance
question pool, keep your distance, nerves: Dear Donvan, Hi there! I found your question in the question pool, so I m going to attempt and answer it for you. Well, I hate to break it to you but girls sing and hug a lot of guys. I do it all the time, really. But, if she has a boyfriend who is a...

High School Life: I need a guy's view of my situation with a boyfriend, crazy passion, freshman year
crazy passion, freshman year, group basis: Heya See, thing is, I don t know how serious your boyfriend is about you. You may seem like you aren t interested in each other anymore because you ve just moved on from the stage after crazy passion. Your boyfriend could still be very much in love with...

High School Life: In need of help!, obesity problem, step mom
obesity problem, step mom, sluggishness: Okay. It sounds like you have a lot of issues to address here, but the one that s sending up the red flag is the obesity issue. Tell me more about that-ask a follow-up and tell me about your eating habits. A lot of times when you re living on take-out...

High School Life: prom 2008, minute appointment, virginia beach
minute appointment, virginia beach, alcohol: Sandy- I would say that you ask for you and your principal to sit down with your boyfriend. Ask for a 15 minute appointment so that your boyfriend could talk to the principal and prove that he s trustworthy. That s what some kids did at my school, and...

High School Life: prom, male friends, virginia beach
male friends, virginia beach, alcohol: I think you should check with your mother first. That s the best way to start. However, you should probably want to have one of your male friends to be your date, though you have a boyfriend. You should also check with the school s principal. He or she is...

High School Life: Read it..., high school kids, lawl
high school kids, lawl, funny guy: Hey Yeah, meeting new people in high school is tough, but I just put it out of my mind. I used to be really shy, but as I got older I realized that high school kids like guys that are confident- because everyone in school is so insecure that they re drawn...

High School Life: rape, sad thing, stds
sad thing, stds, cousins: Heya First of all let me say how sorry I am. This isn t my area of expertise but I ll try my best to help you out here =) This is a really tough situation and you need all the support you can get. I think you should tell your friends. If they re really...

High School Life: There is a small problem..., fulfilling relationship, dear kathy
fulfilling relationship, dear kathy, older girls: One of the hardest things about High School, and life in general, is sorting out your love life. There are lots of different things I can say to you about attitude, looks, etc...but at the end of the day, the answer is never that simple. It takes a very special...

High School Life: Time management, stress relief, time management
stress relief, time management, homework: Marion- Well, I can t really answer your question as well as I like. From what you ve told me it sounds like rugby takes up a lot of your time...have you thought about dropping that? But you probably love it, so you wouldn t want to give it up. However,...

High School Life: I may like my best friend as more than a friend, sophomore year, stupid things
sophomore year, stupid things, bro: Jon, I found your question in the question pool, so I m going to take a shot at it. You can t tell this girl you like her. I am TELLING you that. You are in the same situation I am still in. One of my guy friends told me he was in love with me. He started...

High School Life: I may like my best friend as more than a friend, judgement, idk
High School Life: I may like my best friend as more than a friend, judgement, idk, st petersburg russia

High School Life: summer is a snooze, playgrounds, elementary schools
High School Life: summer is a snooze, playgrounds, elementary schools, swings

High School Life: a fight?, community pool, private community
community pool, private community, last day of school: Hey Sounds like this guy needs a beating. Haha, I d just give it to him, it s the easiest thing to do. But don t worry your Mom. Personally, I d just leave it alone. Don t fight him. If he makes fun of you just laugh at him. You know you re right...

High School Life: should i let my friend go?, losing a friend, freshman year
losing a friend, freshman year, old friend: Hey It s always hard letting friends go but it seems like there s not really a lot you can do. You tried making contact and he didn t respond. You can ask him if he s mad at you for some reason, but otherwise I see no other choice but for you to leave...

High School Life: Graduation, sophomore year, running start
sophomore year, running start, bestfriends: Hey Vicky, I m very sorry for what is going on right now. But don t worry, I m pretty sure things will turn around [they usually do.] :) I m pretty sure you will find lots of new and great people at college who are willing to be your friend! I think...

High School Life: Graduation, sophomore year, running start
sophomore year, running start, bestfriends: Hey Vicky, I m very sorry for what is going on right now. But don t worry, I m pretty sure things will turn around [they usually do.] :) I m pretty sure you will find lots of new and great people at college who are willing to be your friend! I think...

High School Life: Graduation, sophomore year, running start
sophomore year, running start, bestfriends: What you are feeling is completely normal. As for Sarah and Pam, they are probably just getting closer because they are going to be living together in college. Trust me, you do not want to live with them. I went to college with my best friend and we ended...

High School Life: my girlfriend and her past, climbing up a mountain, relationship ideas
climbing up a mountain, relationship ideas, mini mountain: Dear Zero, Haha thanks! I try my best. Well, first off, how old are you? So, she talks about her ex s? Oh that isn t good. It means she is thinking about them. Now, listen carefully. If she thinks of them when she is with you, she could possibly be...

High School Life: New to school, teen cliques, winter boots
teen cliques, winter boots, cheerleaders: High schools in the U.S. are like typical high schools everywhere else in the world.The only difference may be the learning criteria.To make new friends just be yourself.I m sure being new and all your peers will be quick to come and take you under their wing.Most...

High School Life: new to school, social group, cliques
social group, cliques, canteen: Heya Lol, I live in New Zealand dude. Lucky for you I m American and lived there before haha. Never lived in Canada though. Well, firstly, you don t have a canteen or tuckshop there- instead you have a cafeteria. If classes in Aussie are anything like...

High School Life: Parents and Stress, writing a letter, school grades
writing a letter, school grades, years of my life: Dear Jackie, Ouch that s a pretty strict Dad! Well, first, don t write a letter to your Dad. Talk to him. Tell him that it s very difficult to keep up with such good grades and exercise as much as he wants. Tell him that you will work hard to keep up...

High School Life: Partying, drugs and alcohol, little brother
drugs and alcohol, little brother, peer pressure: Kayla, Everyone has stress. You may not even realize it. I was so stressed when I was persay, 13 or 14. There were so many tests and the transaction from Junior High to High School. I wanted to rip my hair out with everything I had to do. 8th grade is the...

High School Life: summer is a snooze, time of my life, snooze
time of my life, snooze, suntan: Rose, Summer is suppose to be fun! Your mother is right. You could always go into your backyard and suntan. Go hang out around your block. Possibly, go with your family to the mall and hang out, or go see some relatives! Anything that gets you involved...

High School Life: why can't i get a boyfriend?, man whore, t rush
man whore, t rush, first kiss: Dear Kristen, First off, you are NOT a loser for being single or not kissing anyone. It means you have goals and priorities for yourself. That s a GOOD thing. Now, being shy around guys is natural. When we are in our early years of being a teenager,...

High School Life: What Can I Do???, sexual harrasment, okay school
sexual harrasment, okay school, dirty old man: Hey Wow, this is hard, but I think you re right: you should get an id and get a job, for now. After all, you can always go back and get your high school diploma later on, right? You just need to make sure that you re sufficiently sustained for now. ...

High School Life: Boy Trouble :(, lovely 15, boy trouble
lovely 15, boy trouble, friend luke: Hi Abi As for part 1.Don t listen to the negative things other people say.They are just jealous.Just ignore them.They want you to feed into what they are saying.Don t give them that advantage.Don t let them get the best of you.As for part 2.Sit your mom...

High School Life: this dude, one of my best friends, sixth period
one of my best friends, sixth period, cute guy: Hi Personally in my point of view it sounds like he wants to get in your pants.Why would you continue to talk to him after he tried to talk to your bestfriend?That is rude and disrespectful.My advice is for you to get up and move on to someone else that...

High School Life: Finding balance, social gatherings, shy person
social gatherings, shy person, party people: Jessica, My advice to you is to call or IM one of the people that you know that is involved with the parties and social gatherings. I know that you said that you aren t friends with them, and it might seem awkward to talk to them but this is a good...

High School Life: First year of High School, sexual intercourse, shelby
sexual intercourse, shelby, abortion: Hi Shelby, Sorry for my late response.If you don t want to have sexual intercourse then you don t have to.It is okay to say no.If you do become pregnant you have options.Make sure you take care of your body so you don t make the mistake of getting pregnant.Use...

High School Life: a guy/best friend issue, benedryl, helping others
benedryl, helping others, senior year: Felicia, The only thing I can possibly say to this is: If she gives the green light, go for it. She has a boyfriend, she s feeling much better about things, and she says continuously that she wants you with him. If not her, it better be you, that...

High School Life: 12th grade, moving, new friend
moving, new friend, africa: I know how moving to a different school feels and I know how hard it is to make new friends all over again. But welcome to America! And just talk to people, you can t always expect people to just walk up and talk. You have to put yourself out there and...

High School Life: My Best Friend, having sex with boys, sexual morals
having sex with boys, sexual morals, boys dicks: Jennifer, Yeah, for a thirteen year old, that really is quite wierd. It s quite wierd for any girl of any age to be honest. Are you sure she s not doing it for the attention? She could just be thinking that it s somehow cool to be doing this and that she...

High School Life: My Best Friend, having sex with boys, sexual morals
having sex with boys, sexual morals, boys dicks: Hi Jennifer, You know something?I feel bad for your friend.She is so young.Its a phase though.Atleast that is what I believe.She just wants attention.Yes she can get a Std from what she is doing.Not to mention she can get AIDS or HIV!I have a really good...

High School Life: My Best Friend, best friend, friend
best friend, friend, slut: Well, first of all, I think you SHOULD tell her parents how you feel and what she is doing, let them see the video she sent you! Wouldn t you feel better knowing that she will get in trouble for doing it rather than her getting HIV/AIDS/STD S? If telling...

High School Life: My Best Friend, having sex with boys, sexual morals
having sex with boys, sexual morals, boys dicks: Hey Ouch, I m sad to say there s not a lot you can do hon. I mean, if she really likes it and it s not hurting anyone except her reputation, you can t really say anything. I wouldn t suggest telling your parents because that d just make her hate you and...

High School Life: College?, guidance counselor, community colleges
guidance counselor, community colleges, fastweb: Hey Alyssa! It s great to hear that you are thinking about these things now, and not waiting until senior year like so many others. Right now I believe you should focus on pulling up your GPA. A 2.3 is not bad, but trying to pull it up to a 3.0+ will...

High School Life: camping, girls school, zoe
girls school, zoe, best friends: Hey Zoe, I m sorry about what happened. But what made Mohini embarrassed? You could tell her something like Mohini, can t you see that they were trying to split us up from the start?? I would never do that to you! What makes you think I would? or...

High School Life: dressing, complection, eye liner
complection, eye liner, abby: Hi Abby No it is not necessary to wear make-up but I do by choice.Only eye liner to bring out my eyes.I find lip gloss to be a bit over rated I might wear like a glossy red one but that s about it.Don t worry about what people think.You can dress...

High School Life: Friends- or school, graduating high school, gpa
graduating high school, gpa, close friends: You just have to prioritize. Get a calendar and figure out which days your will study and which days you will hang out with your friends. You have to balance it. You will end up graduating high school with a great GPA but no close friends. Who will you celebrate...

High School Life: My Best Friend, oral sex
High School Life: My Best Friend, oral sex

High School Life: Junior year classes, ap chem, psae
ap chem, psae, precalc: Trust me when I say, you are doing very well. Like I said before, just to your best in all your classes and make sure that you join those clubs too, that s also important. Make sure that you take the real SAT or ACT whichever one you decide to take or both,...

High School Life: Why is he mad at me for doing the right thing?, bad friend, doing the right thing
bad friend, doing the right thing, bullies: Hi Maggie, I think he s only mad at you because he told you specifically not to do one thing - and you did it. He also probably thinks it s some kind of invasion of his privacy, like you re meddling in buisness that doesn t concern you, or he could be feeling...

High School Life: what does this mean, big sister, whole time
big sister, whole time, aunts: Charlie, I can almost guarantee you that she is too scared to call you. You should try to get her number and you call her, she will like that alot. In my experience girls like it when the guy takes the initiative to make the first call. I hope this helps...

High School Life: mixed, social anxity, saskatchewan canada
social anxity, saskatchewan canada, cant sleep: Hi Rikki Relax.Don t let the ignorant things people say get to your head.No matter what you do people are always going to have something negative to say about you.Take that from someone who experienced it.Work on your English.According to your writing...

High School Life: stressed out, sport, rowing
sport, rowing, stress: The sport is the cause of your problem, Try it again this year (if you want to) and if things don t change, maybe its time to look for a less demanding sport. If you don t want to change sports, Go talk to the school counselor and ask him/her if there is...

High School Life: what to do, graduate photography, pediatrican
graduate photography, pediatrican, google: Hi Emily, If photography is what you want to do as your profession please do not let anyone stop you.The money is not all that matters.If your happy with you occupation everything will fall into place.As for you finding another major.Most school s , even...

High School Life: bf, fish in the sea, standers
fish in the sea, standers, other fish in the sea: Hi Sam, Just because he made fun of the fact that you liked him doesn t mean anything.He could like you but be too shy to tell you.So don t let that intemidate you.As for the other guy.Just for get about him there are other fish in the sea.You most likely...

High School Life: boys, good vibe, highshcool
good vibe, highshcool, first impressions: Dear Rachel, Well, it s a good thing you have choices to choose from. A variety of guys with different personalities!! That s always a good thing. Now, if one approaches you, first analyze him. Who does he hang out with? Is he a bad boy , good boy...

High School Life: Will she break up with me?, boob size, wont answer
boob size, wont answer, beautiful thing: Dear Troy, Well, you shouldn t have said that in the first place. Really, the last thing a girl wants to hear is about things that make her feel insecure, one of the is bra size. She may or may not break up with you depending on how YOU handle the situation....

High School Life: I couldn't handle the guilt, life in the future, baseball bat
life in the future, baseball bat, guy friend: Dear Meghan, Aw, you poor thing! He shouldn t have even thought of putting that on you! That s so hard for one person to handle. But, I m sure with the stress he was under he had to say something to someone. HOWEVER, what he did was WRONG. The only way...

High School Life: I dont feel comfortable with it, guy friend, personal family
guy friend, personal family, moral support: Dear Meghan, Parents won t kick a son out if he s gay. I m sure of it. Parents love their kids no matter what, yes, it WILL be a shock, but it won t make them love him any less. It s shock that will pass over. He should tell his parents on his own....

High School Life: Typical high school experience, good girls, cafeteria
High School Life: Typical high school experience, good girls, cafeteria, lunch

High School Life: Should I tell him the truth?, best solution
High School Life: Should I tell him the truth?, best solution

High School Life: Uncomfortable taking my shirt off..., good sports, sports bra
High School Life: Uncomfortable taking my shirt off..., good sports, sports bra

High School Life: friends, french class, friends
french class, friends, girls: Hi Cattie, If you want to talk to the girl who has very few friends, then do so! It shouldn t matter to your original friends. If they abandon you over a new friend, then they don t seem like true friends now do they? Here is a kicker, start talking to...

High School Life: Hes acting like a robort trying to impress me, robort, boyfriend girlfriend
robort, boyfriend girlfriend, strict standards: Meghan, Congrats on the guy! Well, in the beginning of relationships guys are tense. They want to impress the girl because they want to keep them for a while. He probably really likes you. Eventually, things will get better because you will be more comfortable...

High School Life: hey, hey my friend, good friend
hey my friend, good friend, coz: Hey Well I think the only way to solve this problem is to talk to her. Just ask, Hey, what s up? And if she s a good friend she ll tell you what s bugging her. Ask her if you did something to offend her and say you re sorry if you re being boring,...

High School Life: hook upa, first kiss, heat of the moment
first kiss, heat of the moment, football game: Heya Haha, well how can you not have a crush on him and be attracted to him? A crush isn t anything serious, it just means you think he s cute and funny, doesn t mean you re in love with him. You really don t have to be nervous cause it s your first...

High School Life: It was a joke, insecurities, bruch
insecurities, bruch, joke: Alex, Your girlfriend may be a bit sensitive about her bra size - judging by the fact that she feels the need to stuff her bra tells us that. Try and make up with her by just explaining that it was a joke and you didn t mean for her to take it offensively....

High School Life: Mates, question pool, question thanks
question pool, question thanks, boy friend: Nikki, Aw! I think that s really cute! I think before you tell him online(which expressing feelings online is kinda fake because you can really say anything to anyone), you should hang out. Set aside one day just for him so you can meet. Flirt, hang...

High School Life: I need an answer, fuzzy feelings, cheesy pick up lines
fuzzy feelings, cheesy pick up lines, pick up lines: Dear John, Aw! That s really sweet to ask someone out. I just love these stories! Love stories are like something out of a fairytale, really! A lot of people these days just do stuff for fun, total waste of your life if you ask me... but enough of my rambling,...

High School Life: Paranoia, horrible time, worst time
horrible time, worst time, t cross: Hey there! Well, this guy isn t kidding. He really is out to hurt you. That is the worst thing to do. I would highly recommend talking to a counselor at your school for this issue. She might do something to help you avoid him as much as possible in school....

High School Life: Typical high school experience, semi formals, six flags
semi formals, six flags, great adventures: Hi Briana, High School is a fun experience.It includes lots of dances such as semi formals and home coming.It also consist of Prom.You go on field trips but to way better places than in middle school.You go to places such as six flags and great adventures.Even...

High School Life: teen life, one of my best friends, bestfriends
one of my best friends, bestfriends, teen life: Dear Tasha, Well, I wouldn t tell him if I were you. Saying you like one of your friends come as a shocker. It also might break a friendship. Is it really worth it to lose your friendship over if you like him? If i liked one of my best friends, I d...

High School Life: Should I tell him the truth?, safe zone, good hope
safe zone, good hope, oo: Meghan, Oo, that s a tough call. Maybe you should try telling him that it s not his best work, and that you know he could do better. That way, you aren t telling him it s bad, but you aren t saying it s good either. Staying neutral is always a safe zone...

High School Life: Uncomfortable taking my shirt off..., steven spielberg, flat chest
steven spielberg, flat chest, pe class: Heya Well first off it is possible to get rid of it if you run every day and don t eat any dessert, and do a bunch of other exercises during the day. But honestly there s not a lot else you can do. If you don t wanna look chubby, exercise and eat right....

High School Life: Did I do something wrong?, silly string, lots of luck
silly string, lots of luck, sense of humor: Dear Meghan, Um, wow. You re boyfriend needs to calm down. Your brother is 4 years old, he didn t do anything wrong, but you telling your boyfriend to get a sense of humor is a bit mean. That is probably why he was upset. You should find ANY way to talk...

High School Life: What if..., sex, drugs
sex, drugs, teens: Hi Kelsey, Honestly, don t do anything you know you will regret. If you don t want to do it, whatever it is, then don t. It s up to you what you want to do. Your question is not all that clear for me to really pull an answer out for you, but if you say...

High School Life: What should I do?, those girls, real friends
those girls, real friends, girlfriend: Hi Micheal, I think that you should talk to your girlfriend about what is going on.Those girls are not her real friends if the are doing things like that behind her back.Also fry not to hang around her friends when she is not around.Hope I Helped. ...

High School Life: Bullying, 10th grade, playing games
10th grade, playing games, metaphor: Hey Braxton, I must say I am overly impressed with the decisions you and your mates have come to. It is extremely wise of you! My suggestion would be not to say anything as he might not believe you indeed and might feel even more threatened ie as if you...

High School Life: Everyone is a backstabber, flock of sheep, backstabber
flock of sheep, backstabber, backstabbers: Hey Mariat, I guess you have experienced this a little early too...I remember always being backstabbed but as I matured I realised it was because I wasn t like them, I was different to them and they were like this massive flock of sheep...who all looked,...

High School Life: boy trouble, self esteem problems, boy trouble
self esteem problems, boy trouble, physical features: Hey Marie, Hope all is well. Sorry for the late response. So boy troubles...do they ever seem to end. The answer is most definitely! Guys are very visual (so they say scientifically)...I myself feel that many guys these days focus on physical features...

High School Life: crush, hey lena, fake girls
hey lena, fake girls, open relationship: Hey Lena, There is not much you can do except be yourself in order for him to notice you. When you start to be something you are not, you could end up disappointed with yourself and he might not like fake girls. I don t suggest you try and encourage...

High School Life: school troubles., big mouths, easy prey
High School Life: school troubles., big mouths, easy prey, cant fight

High School Life: Goody Two-Shoes?, goody two shoes, perople
goody two shoes, perople, silly side: Hey Carlee, To be ones self is easy to say, but the hard task is in the action. I have found some useful links which could help you be that person you want to be. http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Yourself http://psychology.suite101.com/article.cfm/the_confidence_to_be_yourself...

High School Life: My girlfriend and her ex, hey jon, whole time
hey jon, whole time, gf: Hey Jon, Apologies for the late response I have had no internet connection as of late...So youre furious because she lied to you about this ex who supposedly was her first. Jon basically it has to come from her, she has to be willing to move on and put...

High School Life: high skool life, time and patience, natural behaviour
time and patience, natural behaviour, goodluck: Hello Maria, Let me just start by saying that not all your fingers look the same therefore neither are people whom you go to school with. Distrusting people is natural behaviour as trust is earnt not given...which means that this requires some time and...

High School Life: school troubles., horrible situation, problems at school
horrible situation, problems at school, life skill: Hey Erick, Horrible situation but there is always a solution. The following link may be used as a guide but could be disastrous if you don t assess the situation properly. http://www.wikihow.com/Stand-up-for-Yourself Why should someone make your life...

High School Life: self-esteem, spiritual gain, crowd of people
spiritual gain, crowd of people, tracie: Hello Tracie, Body image is something no one can help you overcome except yourself. You have to completely accept it and for your mental, physical and spiritual gain, and yours ONLY! You will only be happy in the short term if you are depending on people...

High School Life: Akwardness and Misc., good lookin girls, gorgeous girls
good lookin girls, gorgeous girls, star athletes: Thank you for your question, I ll try and help you the best I can. It s great that you have confidence in yourself. If you keep that up, you will be sure to get far. As far as how to communicate with that elite group, I m not sure. Maybe just walk...

High School Life: confused., boy trouble boyfriend bf
boy trouble boyfriend bf: Hello Jordan, Considering I am probably late given the time differences...I will do my best to give some advice. Good looks = temporary Athletic = temporary Amazing = in what context? flirting with girls? You say he has had a girlfriend on and off...

High School Life: dad, sexual desires, perv
sexual desires, perv, little sweetie: Hey there! First off, this is NOT OKAY. Nothing in this situation is alright. NOTHING. Your dad should not be doing this to you. It s called incest and is illegal because it is morally and physically wrong. This is completely out of line on his part as...

High School Life: Always depressed in school, c e jordan, jordan high school
c e jordan, jordan high school, 10th grade: Anna, I would say try to make the best of what you have. Try to do better in school, apply yourself, then you will gain the respect of your teachers, peers, and parents. Maybe then you parents will consider sending you to your old school. Try to get involved...

High School Life: how to get a guy in highschool to like you, conversations
High School Life: how to get a guy in highschool to like you, conversations

High School Life: I like this guy but he's confusing me..., sophomore year, play mind games
sophomore year, play mind games, t text: The first thing you need to learn is how to NOT over analyze everything. There could be many reasons why he didn t text back: maybe he was in class, didn t get the text, or was in the middle of something. Also, there is only ONE way to find out if he likes...

High School Life: how to get a guy in highschool to like you, breath work, music share
breath work, music share, sophmore: Stop playing mind games with yourself and trying to figure out how he really feels. There s a very simple solution to your problem: go up to him and ask him out on a date. If he says no it may be a blow to your pride but at least you ll know and you ll...

High School Life: High School life in the U.S., good luck man, hey buddy
good luck man, hey buddy, exchange student: Hey buddy, Seriously, I know how cliche it sounds, but just be yourself. All those weird high school stereotypes don t even really exist anymore: and wherever you go, you re going to find friends. So what if they re not guys who like football? Find friends...

High School Life: JROTC, hair cut, pfc
hair cut, pfc, sergeant: You are clearly unhappy, so you should leave. I know you don t want to leave your best friend, but you will still be friends with him. If he s your friend, then he will want you to be happy, and you clearly aren t right now. Get out, you will feel so much...

High School Life: about missing credits and being a senior, school year, good luck
school year, good luck, stress: If you are missing credits and you are a senior- you need to go talk with your school councillor immediately. They should be able to give you solutions. Maybe you can do independent PE, or TA for another teacher. You may end up having to take summer school....

High School Life: please help, litle sister, popular guy
litle sister, popular guy, little sisters: Hey David! Well, Shanna has given no hints that she likes you. However, you can change that. Her little sister here can be used to your advantage. Try not to make it seem that you are buddy buddy with her little sister, because then if she ever does like...

High School Life: please help. crush, litle sister, popular guy
litle sister, popular guy, little sisters: David, First I would say, talk to her more, become friends. The fact that her little sister is a fan is a plus. If her little sister knows that you have a crush on her than she probably knows too, or has an idea. If she likes you too she might not necessarily...

High School Life: please help. crush, litle sister, popular guy
litle sister, popular guy, little sisters: You work out, and as a result you know that there s no easy way to build muscle and get in shape. You can t cut corners and expect great results. Well, the same thing applies to relationships. If you aren t willing to put in the work, you will never know...

High School Life: Stress, sexual innuendos, geometry class
sexual innuendos, geometry class, sophmore guy: Working out is a great way to relieve stress. You can let out anger and frustration in a safe and productive way. I also enjoy taking long walks to clear my head. Have you tried writing in a journal? I know it s hard, but you just have to ignore the people...

High School Life: Stressd over college, applying to college, application packets
applying to college, application packets, administrative office: Concern is always healthy, freaking out... not so much. The key is to stay calm, and be organized. You should apply to as many colleges as you can, and NOT just your top five choices. Why? Because it s better to have too many options than to not have enough....

High School Life: starting a team, cardboard boxes, bottle caps
cardboard boxes, bottle caps, faculty leader: Get involved with the student council at your school, ask them to bring this issue up. A lot goes into starting up any team, but football especially. Instead of accusing your school faculty leader of being lazy, do some leg work of your own. Meet with...

High School Life: superiority problem, resisting peer pressure, superiority complex
resisting peer pressure, superiority complex, jerk: Ah man don t worry about it so much. So what if you do get a little arrogant? It s better than locking yourself in your room and crying cause you re getting bullied, right? Seriously, if your response to getting bullied is developing a superiority complex...

High School Life: Teacher's Pet, pet question, transition year
pet question, transition year, mr smith: First of all, you CANNOT blame yourself for this. Your teacher was in a position of power, he has undergone extensive training and as an adult AND parent- he should have known better. I fully believe that this man is an excellent teacher and a good friend...

High School Life: troubles with girls, happy things, upperclassmen
happy things, upperclassmen, half the time: You have to focus on something OTHER than the fact that you are lonely. Go out with friends, join some clubs, have fun and stop worrying about this. Having a girlfriend will not make you happy. It may cheer you up for a bit, but the unhappiness will come back....

High School Life: Weird teacher, what your peers, baby teacher
what your peers, baby teacher, playing the victim: You have to ask yourself which is more important to you: what your peers think, or your grade in the class. Clearly this isn t the fairest (or most stable) teacher in the world. Standing up to her will most likely hurt your grade, and it probably won t win...

High School Life: backstabbing friend, harrasment
harrasment: Wow. I have to say Alex this is quite a serious matter. Now for the help. Normally I advocate patience and time here but I can see you ve tried to be as peaceful as possible. But this calls for a little more direct action I think. This friend of yours...

High School Life: Confidence and Relationships, diana ross, relationship problem
diana ross, relationship problem, relationship problems: Ah that s the million dollar question how do you go about meeting girls? It s good that you don t necessarily go for people who want bad boys . All I can say is maybe branch out in your activites? Are there any plays that your school does? Any sporting clubs...

High School Life: confusion with boys!, mabey, jacqueline
mabey, jacqueline, confusion: Forget about both of them. Guy one may light your fire, but you re just asking for trouble if you date him. Guy two may be sweet, but you aren t interested in him. If you did date him, you would quickly lose interest and he would be crushed. Stay...

High School Life: dating, school halls, constanly
school halls, constanly, junior girl: Hey Ugh, wow, that s a tough one. I guess the first thing you should do is tell your senior friend to piss off. Seriously. Maybe yell at him a bit in the school halls just to humiliate him. Threaten to report him if he touches your freshman crush. ...

High School Life: Finding friends and being more outgoing, popular girls, sad truth
popular girls, sad truth, mean girls: Hey Taylor, I accidently missed that point, apologies. As for being more extroverted well I used to be shy myself - extremely shy that I couldn t even order food from anywhere because I was just scared shy anxious nervous etc. Once I was able to find who...

High School Life: Social Boycott, real friends, ppl
High School Life: Social Boycott, real friends, ppl, enemies

High School Life: girlfriend and my friends, heavy metal music, hard rock heavy metal
heavy metal music, hard rock heavy metal, heavy metal band: Hey Charlie, My advice is to ask her to hang out with you and your friends, and tell her to invite some of hers so she is comfortable. Show her what you like, and try and be sweet. Tell your friends to not embarrass you either. If her friends like you and...

High School Life: This guy, perfect person, obsess
perfect person, obsess, being friends: Heya, Well, first things first, you ve got to make absolutely SURE that he doesn t think you re obsessing over him. You could be the most perfect person in the world, but as soon as a girl starts obsessing over a guy, they back off. That s mostly the...

High School Life: this guy that i really like is confusing me, chick flick, mini golfing
chick flick, mini golfing, hot nurse: Haha, I think I know exactly what s going on: but this is just a hunch so don t hold me to it. I m just guessing because I ve been exactly the same way with someone in the past and this situation sounds really familiar. What s probably going on is that...

High School Life: guy troubles, great foundation, millie
great foundation, millie, close friends: Hey Millie, This is common and usual for teens. You will in some point in your life feel this way about a particular someone. Let me just say one thing though, just because you guys are friends that is not a barrier to a relationship rather it is a great...

High School Life: HELP?!?, smile on your face, mabey
smile on your face, mabey, heya: Heya Ah, that s a tough one and something I can t really help with I m afraid. I ll give you my advice but think long and hard before you take it because this is a really tough decision. I see no point living life in fear. Live in the present, not...

High School Life: To be liked?, upperclassmen, party girls
upperclassmen, party girls, girls and boys: Haha, well I ve always found the best way to hang out with people not your age (and you start to as soon as high school s over), is to just completely ignore the fact they re older than you. I know it sounds weird, but just completely ignore how old they...

High School Life: Moving to U.S from Australia; high school, friendship groups, dual citizenship
friendship groups, dual citizenship, follow ups: Thank you for your question. Feel free to request any follow-ups as necessary! Tyler, Congratulations on moving back to the United States, I hope it will be an enjoyable experience. By now I m sure there are cliques and such (as you called friendship...

High School Life: new school 2, rocket science, common interests
rocket science, common interests, georgette: Georgette, Time sometimes answers your questions, and you probably wont always have friends in which you share common interests with but rather you compliment each other by different interests. You dont really need to do much to be friends, except treat...

High School Life: new school, wasting precious time, vague memories
wasting precious time, vague memories, things in motion: Hey Georgette, BE YOURSELF. Thats really the only advice that fits. Why the hell try being someone else and putting up with abusive and horrible people just to fit in a circle of friends that lasts those years and then become vague memories when you finish...

High School Life: School events, question pool, loose dress
question pool, loose dress, school spirit: Charis, I found this in the Question Pool, so I ll give it a shot... Top school events involve: 1. Dances 2. Sport games(football, basketball) 3. And grade wide events (Sophmore breakfast, Senior picnic) These events tend to spark school spirit...

High School Life: Social Boycott, extreme lengths, power and influence
extreme lengths, power and influence, acquaintances: Hey Pixie, Yikes my bad. I didn t realise that it was you in this situation. My goodness! I suggest one thing... Print it out and put it in her locker or something. Edit it and leave only the parts you want. Sounds like this girl needs some sense kicked...

High School Life: threesome with my boyfriend's best friend, sex threesome, sucking dick
sex threesome, sucking dick, perfect person: Hi Melissa, Being called names is a HUGE possibility if you do something like this. Also, you may want to decide what YOUR definition of virginity is. Many people feel that you lose your virginity by doing oral sex. Remember, a guy doesn t have a hymen...

High School Life: threesome with my boyfriend's best friend, threesome, relationship
threesome, relationship: Hello there melissa thanks for taking the time to send this to me, now let s see what I can do. Wow! Talk about variety being the spice of life, or so they say. First of all it s good you are saying no to actual intercourse, because without wanting to sound...

High School Life: upperclassmen girls?, dating girls, upperclassmen
dating girls, upperclassmen, converstaion: I m not an upperclassmen girl, but I am an upperclassmen. Asking an upperclassmen should be no different than asking a someone who isn t in the upper class . Just going and talking to one of them, especially one who is a friend, and telling them how...

High School Life: What should I do?, loving relationship, little brother
loving relationship, little brother, fella: Hello Kurt thank youfor taking the time to ask me this, now lets see what I can do. Ah yes, rejection. We all fear it don t we? You say she likes bad boys and that isn t you, well that would point to a self-esteem issue with her, she isn t confident in...

High School Life: What should I do?, hearted person, bullcrap
hearted person, bullcrap, little brother: Hey there Kurt! Sorry for the late reply~ My advice is simply this. Your brother should want the best for you, and yeah, it might be a bit awkward if you dated her at first, but the awkwardness should soon die down. Maybe you should confront him first...

High School Life: What should I do?, little brother, bad guys
little brother, bad guys, rejection: Hey, Well, first off, don t let that she only likes bad guys thing be an issue. Cause it s not. People change like the seasons and can be compatible with the craziest people. How would your brother feel? Would he care? Does it matter to you?...

High School Life: What should I do?, open wounds, little brother
open wounds, little brother, bad guys: Hey Kurt, That is definitely a tough situation. Does your brother still have feelings for her? Have you asked him? You should know 100% before you do anything. Secondly, I don t think its a bad idea to go out with your brothers friends, unless however...

High School Life: What should I do?, relationship, friends
relationship, friends: Hello Kurt, Thank you for sending your question to me. I ll try and help you the best that I can. Remember that this question is more of a what s your opinion and not a specific question, so how I feel may not be what is necessarily right for you. If...

High School Life: Addiction, quiet room, facebook
quiet room, facebook, social networks: Susana, How are you? I m a HUGE manga addict too, so I understand what you are going through. Let me help you with a few tips to stop being so distracted. 1. Use a parental blocker(password only know to parents) and BLOCK social networks during the weekday...

High School Life: not sure if i annoy people., polite remarks, winnona
polite remarks, winnona, quiet girl: Hey, That s a tough one. Teenagers are cruel, nasty people and gaining their acceptance is extremely hard. There s not really a lot you can do unless you re willing to completely change yourself into somebody they like to be around. If I were you I d...

High School Life: Clingy, dance routine, rough times
dance routine, rough times, dance class: Hey Shannon, These people are always troublesome, but, I think I can help you. I know you just want to make this girl feel better, so try finding another girl from your school who is kinda similar. Talk to them and friend them. Then, hang out the 3 of...

High School Life: in the corner, vaginal penetration, private question
vaginal penetration, private question, upperclassmen: Right Warverly you must answer honestly here, what are they doing to you when they take off your clothes (send it in a private question if you want) because if there is anything going on it is tantamount to rape. I can see why it is distracting you from your...

High School Life: French--, raging hormones, boy behavior
raging hormones, boy behavior, french family: Is this the same boy involved? In which case it may well be okay to change families, did you ask him to stop at all? Or speak to the boy s parents? I can understand in these circumstances it would be unsettling for a boy to do all of this and walking in on...

High School Life: French Family, french family, old girl
french family, old girl, freshman: Hey, I don t think that the organization would know about that- it seems really hard to believe that they d place a girl and a guy in the same room. If I were you, however, I d request another room first, because that d be a hell of a lot easier than having...

High School Life: French Family, family question, french kids
family question, french kids, novel idea: yes I do apologise for the tone earlier but your cousin has sent me an email I have sent a reply but it all depends on if this is the same boy, she merely asked if this was normal behaviour for French kids, but again that is like asking how long is a ball...

High School Life: Freshman Grades, gpa community, freshman grades
gpa community, freshman grades, cumulative gpa: Here s a cool fact: FROSH- Freshman Reaching Out For Success and Happiness Freshman grades ARE looked at by colleges, but they are not the difference between being accepted and not being accepted. They take a cumulative GPA from FROSH, Soph, and Junior...

High School Life: my pussy gets wet, girls
High School Life: my pussy gets wet, girls

High School Life: Girl problems, girl problems, facebook
girl problems, facebook, boyfriends: Heya, Well, she doesn t want a boyfriend, right? So you probably have a bit more time than you thought. She s probably just experimenting- flirting around with everyone she can. This doesn t mean she doesn t like you- it just means she likes you as well...

High School Life: Girl problems, girl problems, facebook
girl problems, facebook, boyfriends: Hey Kurt, Ok lets try and sort this one out. She talks to you She playfully hits you She chats to you online She gave you her number They are pretty strong signs that she is interested in you. However, keep in mind this is my opinion of this...

High School Life: Girl problems, girl problems, facebook
girl problems, facebook, boyfriends: Hello Kurt, nice talking to you again. Let me point something out to you. You must create attraction with this girl you like from the very start. Flirt with her as much as you can since flirting is an indicator of interest. When talking to her, talk to her...

High School Life: Girl problems, girl problems, facebook
girl problems, facebook, boyfriends: Hey Kurt, good to see that you are going out that s a good thing, as for if it is too slow, well that s up to you. It is as slow or fast as you are comfortable with and don t let your friends say otherwise. By all means go out to the movies and other places,...

High School Life: Help please!, high school sophomore, question pool
high school sophomore, question pool, random strangers: Sorry no one answered this sooner. I can relate sort of so I grabbed this from the question pool. You have to work gradually at making friends. Start by casually talking to people you sit near in class or in lunch. Once you talk to people, they ll talk...

High School Life: I have no interest in school anymore., sexual assault
sexual assault: Wow miss i have to say this is the most serious question I have had. I cannot stress enough how what you are doing is not the right way to go about this because it only forces it down. What has happened is that you have forced these feelings back and seeing...

High School Life: my pussy gets wet, crotch area, booty shorts
crotch area, booty shorts, sitting on the bench: It s difficult generally the guys I know do like it, but as to if everyone likes it, I honestly don t know it really is dependant on who the person is each time some will like it some won t, certainly a lot of porn sites will showcase their girls getting wet...

High School Life: Spain, red petals, sexual harassment
red petals, sexual harassment, host family: Jessa, First, thank you for your question and I apologize in any delay you may have had in me responding to your post. Now to your question/concern: If you DO NOT like is actions, it is VERY important that you make it clear than you do not like and...

High School Life: i think i am clingy, achool, facebook
achool, facebook, dear sarah: Dear Sarah, It s nice that you made friends at this new school, and i understand you want to keep these friends. From reading what you typed, you do seem to be a bit clingy. i have a solution to solve this problem so don t worry. You asked a question in...

High School Life: Warring Friends, what's my Next Move?, walking on thin ice, activity stream
walking on thin ice, activity stream, friend alex: Hey Chris, Sorry to hear this and sorry you have to be in the middle of what seems to me is one hell of an estrogen world war! Girls can get narky and cruel when they want to be especially when they feel they are on the short end of the stick. This is...

High School Life: yeah, regular periods, vitamins and minerals
regular periods, vitamins and minerals, healthy diet: hmm, I will admit Hayli that does seem a little strange. I will try my best but I must remind you I m not a doctor. Now the first question to ask is are you active sexually? 8.5 months is a little long to ignore a bump on your stomach so it s unlikely but...

High School Life: My brother is finding it hard to make friends, extreme denial, low self esteem
extreme denial, low self esteem, little brother: Hey Tee, I can t say he has a problem, some people enjoy their own company. I remember always being social yet just never clicked with a group of people...I ended up sitting alone working on my hobby (drawing). Is he sitting alone and looking miserable?...

High School Life: Confused, serious stuff, girl friend
serious stuff, girl friend, best of luck: Hey Well, seeing he has a girlfriend, you should probably talk to him about her. Just casually ask how things re going between them and you ll find out for sure if he really doesn t like her that much PLUS you may become the person he opens up to and tells...

High School Life: Cummed On, cum on my face, hijab
cum on my face, hijab, sleepovers: Hey Well, first off- it s not normal for boys to do that. Horny or not. If I were you I d tell your parents. I don t see what talking to them would do- they might pretend they re sorry, but that wouldn t stop them from doing it again. People shouldn...

High School Life: confused, navy guy, oky
navy guy, oky, t text: Hey Well, if you truly love both of them, then it s probably best to just stay with the boyfriend- makes things a lot easier. You should probably just give the navy guy some space- I m sure he ll come round and wanna be your friend soon, he just needs...

High School Life: Cummed On, deep trouble, true friend
High School Life: Cummed On, deep trouble, true friend, ditch

High School Life: grinding, campers, classy girl
High School Life: grinding, campers, classy girl, classy guy

High School Life: grinding, booty shake, school dances
booty shake, school dances, booty shorts: Hey Lol kids start younger and younger these days. Normally, a dance starts out as just dancing in a big group and when people start drinking then comes the grinding. I take it you guys won t be drinking so what I would suggest is that you follow the...

High School Life: This guy...., brilliant mind, flirty
brilliant mind, flirty, month and a half: Hey You re right, being too flirty might scare him off. What you wanna do is be his everything. Slowly melt his ex out of the picture and leave him with only you. When you break up your identity s shattered and you need to start from scratch. If you...

High School Life: Trying to make a friend, weird feelings, real friend
weird feelings, real friend, school year: Hey Well, first off, I m sure he doesn t hate you (unless you ve done something that really pissed him off). Twice last year a girl thought that I hated her just cause we didn t talk that much. But you ve gotta talk to him! That s the only way to...

High School Life: Accepting a date, boyfriend and girlfriend, bad situation
boyfriend and girlfriend, bad situation, good luck: Wow. That s a hard one. I guess you gotta look at it like this though- it ll either be a bad situation, or a worse situation. If you don t say anything to her it ll end up really badly when you break her heart. If you tell her straight off you just want...

High School Life: do boys like tomboys or girly girls more?, girly girls, 3 boyfriends
girly girls, 3 boyfriends, girly girl: Haha Welllllllll I can tell you straight off that it s completely split down the middle. Some guys like tomboys, some like girly girls. Some like both. Take for instance Avril Lavigne. Now many guys would say she s an awful singer, but she s still hot,...

High School Life: Confusing, friend zone, girl at school
friend zone, girl at school: Is there an easy way to find out if she still likes you? Yeah, get someone to find out for you haha. Alternatively, just flirt with her and see her response. Ask her out on a date, except don t call it a date. Leave it up to her to guess whether or not...

High School Life: deep, deep hole, obsetion, lunch period
obsetion, lunch period, lonely room: Hey Wow dude, there s probably not a lot I can say to make you feel better but I ll just try to tell it as it is. Things lll get better. Simple as that. High school sucks, worst years of your life. Terrible, terrible time. But soon everything ll...

High School Life: Expressing myself, begining, matter of time
begining, matter of time, close friends: Hey Haha finding things to talk about isn t that hard. There ve been so many times when I ve been left out of a conversation because I hadn t seen that movie, or knew of that band, etc. But it shouldn t stop you from communicating with people. You ll...

High School Life: do boys like tomboys or girly girls more?, tomboy, good friends
High School Life: do boys like tomboys or girly girls more?, tomboy, good friends, tad

High School Life: deep, deep hole, timetable, parents
High School Life: deep, deep hole, timetable, parents

High School Life: Need Advice!!!!!!, walking down the hall, perfect time
High School Life: Need Advice!!!!!!, walking down the hall, perfect time

High School Life: this guy, love life, good luck
love life, good luck: Hey Well it shouldn t really matter to you if your friend likes him or not. Do you like him? That s all that matters- don t let anyone monitor your love life or you ll never be happy. Just ask him out. Ask him for his number and start texting him. ...

High School Life: after high school, high school romance, scollarships
high school romance, scollarships, long periods of time: Hey Well I m not sure about scholarships in wherever you live, but where I live it doesn t matter if you use them that year or next. I guess it depends how much you like him. I don t see why you can t just go to college and wait for him there. I personally...

High School Life: after high school, construction manager, car company
construction manager, car company, construction work: Cash, My only advice to you is to take what you love to do and make a career out of it. You like math? Go to college for mathematics and business. You like construction? Work in construction. Love cars? Work for a car company or become a mechanic....

High School Life: am i a lesbian?, guys dicks, pantless
guys dicks, pantless, straight girl: Diana, Just because you don t like looking at penises doesn t mean you re a lesbian. From what I can tell in your message, you are sexually attracted to good-looking men. The human sex organs are meant for one purpose--reproduction. They re not meant...

High School Life: am i a lesbian?, guys dicks, pantless
guys dicks, pantless, completel: Hey No, just because you don t like dicks doesn t make you a lesbian. It s completely normal for a girl of 14 to not be turned on by the thought of them, in fact, I think most girl probably aren t (it goes both ways, actually. Lots of guys aren t really...

High School Life: Need Advice!!!!!!, freshman girl, chubby side
freshman girl, chubby side, pet name: Well, if you wanna get the guy you can t be shy. At least not around him. Let him know you re interested by flirting with him. Call him by a pet name teasingly, come up behind him and cover his eyes and make him guess who . Stuff like that. Outside beauty...

High School Life: How Do you tell, personal questions, personal stuff
personal questions, personal stuff, eyelashes: Hey Haha, well that s a pretty broad question. 1. If she flirts with you (obviously). This includes: batting her eyelashes or winking at you, smiling at you, laughing at everything you say, staring at you across rooms, texting you a lot, sticking her...

High School Life: What should I do?, senior prom, friend zone
senior prom, friend zone, freshman year: Haha, been there my friend. All this talk about getting stuck in the friend zone is crap. I mean honestly, how often do girls hook up with a guy at a party one drunken night and then end up in a relationship with them? So don t be scared to be too...

High School Life: too much competition!!!, slight miscalculation, 1percent
slight miscalculation, 1percent, silly mistakes: Hey Well, first off you gotta chill out. Haha, seriously, it seems stupid, but it actually really helps. I m a musician and actor and I always perform so much better if I keep my nerves under control. You gotta sit down and plan out exactly what you...

High School Life: so confused....., stage actor, writin
stage actor, writin, bizz: Haha don t worry so much man!! I m in my first year of University and I still don t know what I wanna do, so it s really not a big deal. I always wanted to be a stage actor, and believe me, my parents weren t too impressed with that either, but now I m...

High School Life: are we drifting apart?, model in the world, friend whos
model in the world, friend whos, going to college: Hey Well in all honesty, there s not really a lot you can do. If you put the effort in and she doesn t respond, at least walk away knowing you gave it your best shot and it was completely out of your control. But to tell you the truth, it doesn t sound...

High School Life: feeling 'maybe im not like them', being different, different
being different, different, art: Hey Andrew, thanks for the question! No need to worry about thinking that there is something wrong with you, because there is definitely NOTHING wrong with you! And no, you are not looking at the negatives, you are looking out for YOU! I am the same way,...

High School Life: no forgiving this time!, careless mistakes, silly mistakes
careless mistakes, silly mistakes, elder brother: Well, all I can say is just be really careful about the careless mistakes. I know you probably tell yourself that all the time anyways, but seriously, just drill it into yourself. I used to lose things all the time when I was younger but I just drilled into...

High School Life: Goody two shoes?, goody two shoes, freshman friends
goody two shoes, freshman friends, personality: Haha not at all. Well, if you do well in school it really shouldn t matter to anyone as long as you have a cool personality. It s just something to make fun of somebody for. Everyone makes fun of everyone throughout high school so it s not really a big...

High School Life: is this a good idea?, lesbian cause, friend thanks
lesbian cause, friend thanks, three girls: Hey Well I can t really decide that for you. Ask yourself how strong your friendship is and if it s worth wrecking it for a girl. Because you can t have it both ways. Would you rather keep the girl as a friend or go out with one of the TLB ? Maybe...

High School Life: help?, taking drugs, wimp
taking drugs, wimp, those kids: Heya Well is there any way you could change schools? That s always the easiest option. But seriously, you should just not care what people think. I mean, honestly, why do you care if these people think you re a badass? I mean, it s better than being...

High School Life: miss noconfident!!, lack confidence, being friends
lack confidence, being friends, funny stuff: Hey Well first off, it s not that serious cause next year you ll be off to University and then you ll be around people who like the same things you do. But in any case, it s not really that hard to talk to people about their interests and pretend to be...

High School Life: I NEED HELP!, drivers ed, driving test
drivers ed, driving test, parking lot: Hey Well first off it s not really a big deal to not be able to drive right away. I m seventeen, three weeks off turning eighteen and I m only just about to take my first driving test (everyone else took it when they were 15), so yeah, not really that...

High School Life: need some help....., quite, awkward
quite, awkward, talking: Just be yourself! That is pretty much the only thing you can do. Try your hardest to not be awkward! That is easier said then done though. If you want one of your topics that you have come up with to go on further, then force them further! It s not that...

High School Life: normal or wrong?, downward spiral, ulterior motive
downward spiral, ulterior motive, painful history: Juan, What you re doing is completely normal. Actually, after my last girlfriend I told myself the same thing and it s working wonders for me--I m not actively looking for a woman to date, and it makes me much more comfortable with people and gives me...

High School Life: Presenting in front of class., embarrasment, speech
embarrasment, speech, french speech: Hey Ashley, as a French speaker myself, I know how hard it is to get up and speak it in front of a class. Preparation is the biggest part of it, stand in front of a mirror and do your speech over and over until you feel comfortable doing the speech. Second,...

High School Life: please help me!, texting, text messages
texting, text messages, recession: Hey Well I dunno how it is where you live but it s not that hard most places. Just go from shop to shop for a few hours and ask if they re hiring. You re right though, I m sure it ll be harder to find one now because of the recession. Still worth a shot....

High School Life: Reputation, whole mess of trouble, voucher system
whole mess of trouble, voucher system, missing school: Kimberley, I highly recommend talking to your parents about going to another school. Most states have a voucher system where you pay the taxes of the school you re attending instead of the school in the town you live in. Talk to your parents about it...

High School Life: getting over, new girlfriend, best of luck
new girlfriend, best of luck, seven months: Hey Well the best way to get over someone is to just reject them from your life. I went out with a girl for seven months and after she dumped me I just couldn t get over her, but then she dropped out of school and I pretty much never saw her again. Get...

High School Life: Does he like me?, valedictorian, pranks
valedictorian, pranks, good friends: Haha welllllll I can t say cause I ve never seen you two together but it definitely sounds like he does. Or else, he could. There s definitely something there. I wouldn t trash it. See if you can mold it into something beautiful. Take care, Da...

High School Life: How do I act?, pap smear, drugs and alcohol
pap smear, drugs and alcohol, risk kids: okay. my answer for this is simple. and it may sound all adult like and you may not like it. But if you have such a good thing going for you right now, DO NOT go back to something that is one hundred percent guaranteed to have problems. I know its tempting...

High School Life: me and my ex, female psyche, maturity level
female psyche, maturity level, dating girls: Hey :] okay so first of all one thing that i would advise you strongly against throughout middle school and high school is for you to date younger. A girl dating down grades almost NEVER works, because in middle school and high school one year can make a HUGE...

High School Life: girl problems., messege, prime example
High School Life: girl problems., messege, prime example

High School Life: High school freshman, freshman year, private high school
High School Life: High school freshman, freshman year, private high school

High School Life: girl problems., mad cuz, girl problems
mad cuz, girl problems, sweatheart: Im going to be honest and im not sure that this will be helpful, but i really see no problem with what you did...this girl freaked out for no reason, and your completely not at fault. I really can t think of any valid reason for this girl to trip, so obviously...

High School Life: girlfriend problems, girlfriend problems, getting a girlfriend
girlfriend problems, getting a girlfriend, debbie downer: Well, the least attractive thing in a guy to almost every girl is having no self-confidence. That seems to be your problem. you dont necessarily have to befunny strong or smart, although all of those help. If you exude self confidence, then girls will be WAYYYYmore...

High School Life: High School work, middle school textbooks, high school science
middle school textbooks, high school science, physics and chemistry: DONT WORRY. :] its not going to be a big deal. Tons of people come from different middle schools that may not have the exact same classes. Plus the first year of high school science is essentially just a fat run through of everything that you have learned...

High School Life: High school freshman, high school freshman, freshman year
high school freshman, freshman year, private high school: Okay, This is going to sound lame, but its the truth. Don t worry about fitting in. Be Yourself, and you ll find friends naturally, and have a really good time. Trying to fit in wont help, i promise. I mean i dont really have anything else to say other than...

High School Life: help..., luck bro, confidence level
luck bro, confidence level, spurts: Hey man, Don t worry, same thing happened to me when I started high school and it happened again this year when I started Uni. Eventually you ll get the feel for the system and be able to work it though. It s pretty standard for people to be confused...

High School Life: Why can't I talk to her (or anyone else for that matter)?, girl smile, good sense of humor
girl smile, good sense of humor, romantic aspect: Hey I had exactly the same problem my friend, but don t worry- things ll sort themselves out eventually. Just have patience. What you need is confidence, and you re not going to just get that overnight. It builds up over time and eventually you just...

High School Life: getting over her, whore, best friends
whore, best friends, best friend: Well, first things first. Does this girl know that you are in love with her? If not then perhaps that is the reason that she behaves the way she behaves. She could feel the same way about you and think that it is unrequited, which would lead her to do the...

High School Life: adjusting in a foreign school, sophomore year, popular girls
sophomore year, popular girls, first kiss: Hey Well, there s not a lot you can do besides sleep with him that ll make him stop. You could tell somebody, like a teacher, but I don t know your school, would that help at all? Unless he s actually seriously getting close to rape, charges wouldn t...

High School Life: adjusting in a foreign school, sophomore year, popular girls
sophomore year, popular girls, first kiss: WOW. i am so sincerely sorry that you moved to our country and this is how you get treated, please, please please, do not think this is the norm. It is not normal for any guy to do this to a girl in our country, its sick and digusting and im sorry you are...

High School Life: I Believe I'm In Love.., emotional side, religious reasons
emotional side, religious reasons, texting: Well I was in love for the first time when I was fifteen/sixteen, and I never have been since so it s perfectly possible to be when you re that age. I don t understand how physical stuff would hurt the emotional side of your relationship? I understand...

High School Life: my buddy, bits and peices, mom and dad
bits and peices, mom and dad, bffs: Hey Well if I were you I d have a serious talk with her. Tell her how much your friendship means to you and that she needs to talk with her parents and if she doesn t soon then your friendship might be ruined. If she s worth being your friend then she...

High School Life: CRUSH!!!!!!!, mum and dad, lost touch
mum and dad, lost touch, fourth grade: Haha Wellllll, if you were friends once, surely you can be friends again. Just catch up with him. It ll be easy as- you ll have so much to talk about. See if he s maybe still into you, and if not, work your womanly magic and seduce him. Haha. Best...

High School Life: change in attitude, change of attitude, playing chess
change of attitude, playing chess, popular girls: Hey Well it seems like he maybe just got sick of waiting for you. Maybe the chess game was the last straw. But I think you should talk to him. If not about that at first, then just go up and ask him how he is. Say you miss hanging out and want to see...

High School Life: confused! O_o, math lovers, computer programing
math lovers, computer programing, statistics probability: Hey Well that s a fairly simple answer. What do you enjoy doing? Doesn t matter if it scares you, in fact, that might just be because you want to do so well in it that you re scared of not performing to your best. You ve gotta do what you love to do....

High School Life: adjusting in a foreign school, religious leader, high school popularity
High School Life: adjusting in a foreign school, religious leader, high school popularity, adults

High School Life: Okay your a dude right!?, corse, good luck
High School Life: Okay your a dude right!?, corse, good luck, relationship

High School Life: my younger senior ., brutha, brotherhood
High School Life: my younger senior ., brutha, brotherhood, lol

High School Life: Should I fight?, guidance counselor, freshman year
guidance counselor, freshman year, last day of school: Okay, honestly, fight. If you win, then hell yeah! you just beat this bully, and went out with a bang on the last day of school. If you dont win then its whatever, everyone will forget about it over the summer. I mean yeah there are definitely reasons you...

High School Life: Haha, its me again., gay shit, toughie
gay shit, toughie, sleepover: okay um. moms are always a toughie. But if my mom did this here is probably what i would do.. wait a few days after the whole ordeal with her in the first place then come home from school and act abnormal, like dont talk just kind of quietly go to your room,...

High School Life: Hi again., senior prom, freshman year
senior prom, freshman year, shy type: Hey bro, Yeah, love sucks, aye? But don t worry, you just need some time to get over her. If she doesn t like you, then she just doesn t. And unless you re willing to completely change yourself, there s not a whole lot you can do. Why would you wanna...

High School Life: iam new for usa and also for high school, Foreign exchange, English problems
Foreign exchange, English problems: Hey Nati, I m sure that you will do absolutely fine in highschool here in the USA. Alot of foreign exchange students have the problem of not being able to speak English well. I m sure that you will a ton of great friends who will help you along with school....

High School Life: iam new for usa and also for high school, high school, international
high school, international, teens: Hi Nati! Just relax! Going to high school is like going to any new school ^^ Many high schools have many sport teams, student leadership and other clubs. If you would like to know what extracurricular activities are available to you, try calling the...

High School Life: iam new for usa and also for high school, usa students, usa high school
usa students, usa high school, hey don: Hey Don t worry bro, you just gotta give yourself some time to find your place in the system. Your english ll get better really soon and you ll be able to talk easily with everyone. Just hang in there and be modest and don t attract too much attention....

High School Life: Okay your a dude right!?, other crap, older girls
other crap, older girls, anywho: Sarah, If this situation happened with me, I know I would be hurt by a girl not reciprocating the feeling I verbally expressed to her. Furthermore, your ex-boyfriend probably began to think that you were lying to him because you readily said that you loved...

High School Life: my personality, spelling problems, popular crowd
spelling problems, popular crowd, confident smile: Haha so what, do you want to start hanging with the popular crowd? Well I can t really tell you how to do that, because people are popular for different reasons in different places. But you ve got to be able to talk to them and be confident. Even if you...

High School Life: tomboy in high school, masculine qualities, sussed
masculine qualities, sussed, guy friends: Hey Well, for a little while guys think they ve got things sussed and look at girls differently right around puberty, but you ll find as you grow older they don t really care how you act. You could be a tomboy, prep, whatever, all that matters is that...

High School Life: my younger senior ., goodlooking guys, freshmen
goodlooking guys, freshmen, neighbour: Okay, so definitely do not ask this girl out, she s looking for something wayyy more than a guy asking her out. This is definitely a girl thats going to take time. What you need to decided for yourself is are you willing to spend that time? And if you are...

High School Life: 8th grade grad dance/ my crush and i splitting :(, graduation dance, private highschool
graduation dance, private highschool, grade graduation: Well, I can t imagine that being a problem. So you won t see him a couple months. It just means when he gets back you ll have a lot to talk about so there won t be any awkward silences. Seriously, if you actually like this guy don t let him slip away. ...

High School Life: 8th grade graduation dance/high school, Moving on, different schools
Moving on, different schools: Hi Ahana, Thanks for the question. If he is never online or will never answer his phone then you will eventually drift away from him. There will be no stopping it, I m sorry to say. So yes, I think your best option would be to just move on and I know that...

High School Life: my best friend, guitar hero, s lake
guitar hero, s lake, brianna: Hey Well, there s not really a lot you can do. If I were you I d write her a letter and leave put it in an envelope and leave it in her mailbox. Write something cute and say you have no idea if you did anything but you apologize if you did. I m sure...

High School Life: Why Didn't He Ask Me Out?, cow appreciation day, chick fil
cow appreciation day, chick fil, chik fil: Hey Well a bunch of things could ve happened, but I reckon it s most likely because of one of two reasons. 1. He got freaked out by what everyone was saying about you guys going out. Guys hate things moving quickly. 2. He liked you but thought...

High School Life: Subject selection, study skills
High School Life: Subject selection, study skills

High School Life: high school dances, high school dance, goo goo dolls
high school dance, goo goo dolls, fancy footwork: Hey Well it s really not that bad. Not many people will judge you and think you re not cool for not being able to dance. Not like people ll judge you if you re really uncoordinated say. Just dance like you would at a club- just move around a bit. You...

High School Life: middle school to high school, band geek, most teens
band geek, most teens, soccer team: Heya Well I guess one of the major differences in high school is that everyone starts to buddy off. Most teens are really insecure in their high school years so they stick together in packs or clicks . In any case, you don t have to worry about making...

High School Life: going to a new school, c e jordan, lowe s
c e jordan, lowe s, school c: Hey You should seriously talk to a counsellor or the principal at Jordan because I m sure if you told them that they d have sympathy. They re there for you and they always make exceptions like letting people stay in. Just go have a chat to them and ask...

High School Life: Going to a new school!, girls school, old school
girls school, old school, good luck: Hey Well I d just advise being friendly. I mean, you don t have to go around introducing yourself, but just answer nicely when someone asks you a question and smile a lot. If you shut yourself out from everyone no one will want to approach you and it...

High School Life: What should I do with my room?, Decorating, Teens
Decorating, Teens: Hey Kia! Your question sounds interesting! Even though it doesn t really have a lot to do with traveling and high school ... But no worries ^^ Well first off, you re lucky that you are allowed to paint your room (make sure to thank your mom). A little/lot...

High School Life: Starting high school, High School, Nervous
High School, Nervous, Scared: Hi Claire! Cool, that you re going to High School this coming fall ^^ So, last year you were more of the convience girl? Yeah, I know how that feels ... :( But there is a simple solution to your problem: actively try to make friends! Sometimes friendship...

High School Life: Subject selection, ncea level 1, course booklet
ncea level 1, course booklet, subject selection: Hey Ah ha I remember that, so you must be going into NCEA level 1 then, aye? Or whatever your school does. Wellllll, all I can really say is, take things you find interesting because you don t want to end up studying stuff you hate. You pick like four...

High School Life: senior year, leadership academy, private christian school
leadership academy, private christian school, gas money: Heya Well I guess it really depends how terrible it is. Because changing schools, especially in senior year, is really hard. You don t know anyone and you ve gotta get used to the new system, not something I d recommend. But if things re too hard at...

High School Life: Transfer Schools??, fresh start, senior year
fresh start, senior year, surroundings: Hey Well I guess it really depends how miserable you are with your situation at the moment. I mean, if it were me I d probably do it- but I really don t mind switching surroundings and meeting new people. I enjoy it, but some people hate it. ...

High School Life: wwe, Skipping Grades, High School
Skipping Grades, High School, Los Angeles California: Hello! So you would like to skip tenth grade? Cool! I skipped 9th ... Anyways, to find out if it would be wise/if you able to skip 10th grade,you need to consult you counselor. If you don t know who he/she is then ask a few of your teachers or fellow...

High School Life: decision making, junior collage, math lovers
junior collage, math lovers, math and science: If you really love math and science, then you should definitely pursue them in Junior college. Will it be difficult? Yes. As long as you are willing to work hard and study thoroughly, you should be fine. Don t let your fear overwhelm you and control your...

High School Life: GED, daily drama, launching point
daily drama, launching point, adulted: Hi there, I m going to take a stab at answering your question. First of all, don t be ashamed of your past, it s great that you want to go back and get the education you deserve. I can understand that you are hesitant at the thought of waiting three years...

High School Life: High School, lasting impression, first impression
lasting impression, first impression, stereotype: Heya Well you re going into 9th grade, I assume that means you re gonna be starting high school? That means it s a good idea to be kinda discrete till you start fitting in. High school s just a big puzzle and you gotta find out where your piece slots...

High School Life: the "helpful" friend, new begining, middle shool
new begining, middle shool, multiple times: Hey Well, the only way you re gonna get her to stop is by sitting down and telling her firmly to do so. You don t have to be mean or hurt her feelings, just say, Listen, you seriously gotta stop telling everyone I like this guy, it s not funny anymore....

High School Life: hi!!, junior year
junior year: Ailyn, During my junior year I felt a lot of stress. Mostly stress to get good grades and also stress about taking the SAT s. Everyone says that your junior year is the most important year and I would agree. Colleges look at your junior year grades and they...

High School Life: i got rejected, one of my best friends, dream school
one of my best friends, dream school, headmistress: Hey Well, there s not really a lot you can do except reapply next year. But don t worry, it shouldn t make a difference to your education or anything- I know some people who went to terrible high schools and ended up with a bunch of scholarships to different...

High School Life: School Councilor, school counselor, youth outreach
school counselor, youth outreach, counseling office: Hi Dawn. I am not sure what the specific rules are at your school, but there is a very easy way to find out, go to the councilor s office and ask what the privacy policy is. From my understanding, sessions held between councilors and students remain confidential,...

High School Life: School grades, math homework, geomtry
math homework, geomtry, quarter grades: Hi Victoria, I actually had a similar experience in Geometry. The best advice I can give you is, talk to your teacher. Say something like, I ve been having trouble recently and I was wondering if there is any extra work I can do? If she says no, then ask...

High School Life: Shyness, warm person, freshman
warm person, freshman, confidence: Hey Well losing shyness just comes with time. Just smile a lot and let everyone know you re a warm person so people will be attracted to you. Laugh a lot in conversation and be really friendly to anyone who approaches you. Eventually you ll get your...

High School Life: Starting a new school, chess club, freshman year
chess club, freshman year, private high school: Hi Anna, I m going to answer your question if that s all right with you. First of all, everyone is going to be nervous on their first day of high school, and you ll be nervous on your first day of college, and on the first day of your new job. The key is...

High School Life: school problems, High School, Scheming
High School, Scheming, Ex: Hey Stephanie! Being in a private school can be great ... and it also be hell on earth. 400 people usually means a lot of drama, cligues, fighting, prejudices, scheming, etc. About your ex: He probably just wants you back, our wants to make a good impression...

High School Life: That weird kid in school, Awkward, weird kids
Awkward, weird kids, weird kid: Hi Jim, thanks for the question. Just be yourself man. I know the type of person you are talking about. It s gotta be hard to not act like it but you have to be yourself. You don t ever want to act anything other than yourself. That would make you feel so...

High School Life: Changing schools, high school freshman, common interests
high school freshman, common interests, sports team: Hi Anna, You are right people will have formed friend groups already, but I m sure you will be accepted in to one of them! I think the best way to meet people with common interests would be to join a club or sports team or anything that gets you involved...

High School Life: Completely New, new kid at school, hey allison
new kid at school, hey allison, new hey: Hi Ceci, No, I don t think it is to late, freshman year is a big year for all students, and there will probably be a lot of other new students there as well. So I think you will be fine making friends especially if the school is big, big schools have all...

High School Life: confusion, finding a host family, foreign exchange student
finding a host family, foreign exchange student, scholarship opportunities: Hi there, I think it s great that you want to become a foreign exchange student. I really don t know anything about programs, but I did do a search on the internet for you, and I will include several links. I am hoping these websites will give you some valuable...