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How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Perfect connection for a man, does not mean attraction like it is for a woman?, How to get the guy who has someone else...
How to get the guy who has someone else...: Dear Rachel, Hello New Friend! I am sorry this is late. I have been very busy, and have lost internet access at work, while I have also not been home much lately. Sit down and look out the window at the trees and sky; the birds and other animals. Admire...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How do we get past this?, Read about Love
Read about Love: Hi Kimberly, Thank you for writing. I am sorry you had another arguement. Eriche Fromm says that if we argue from the center of our being, honeslty, and about the real issues, we actually do some good. It is when we argue about nothing that we hurt ourselves...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I really would appreciate some advice, Saying 'I love You."
Saying 'I love You.": Dear New Friend, I apologize, but I need a bit of time before answering this; not because it is too difficult, but becasue I answered 5 questions today, and I am at work, and have to prepare for classes. I will answer your question after a few hours, so...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Does he really love me?, Meditation
Meditation: Dear Jo, How are you? It seems you are in an uncomfortable situation. I feel I can relate to you; not because I have been cheated on (I don t think I have), but because my girlfriend is younger, like your boyfriend, that sets up a little less security right...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Do I Still Love Him? Is it an emotionally abusive relationship?, abusive relationship, current boyfriend
abusive relationship, current boyfriend, wandering eye: Dear Tana, How are you? I hope you are well, happy, peaceful, and better now. Look out at nature and see how simple it is. It is complex, yes, but not complicated. Make your life like this; uncomplicated. Dump this playboy. He may have a good heart,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: trying to figure out what's right.., Love, Breaking up
Love, Breaking up, Working it Out: Dear Friend, I usually write a long letter, but this time I am going to keep it brief. You seem wise, as does your boyfriend (The die thing is understandable in an abstract sense, but in a literal sense is a bit much). Here is what I think. You seem...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: advice, own two feet, fairy tale
own two feet, fairy tale, modern woman: Dear Kajal, The only thing you can do is tell your parents that you love this man, and that as a woman, you wish to be happy. If your parents understand love, and more importantly, if they truly love you, they should want you to be happy more than anything...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: advice, elder brother, rest of your life
elder brother, rest of your life, misconceptions: Hi Kajal, There are two things which you need to be sure about. One, whether you both are EQUALLY determined to tie the knot. It shouldn t be that the girl is all determined but the guy s mind is wavery. Secondly, you have to be sure that CAN live happily...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused or scared?, msn chat logs, relashionship
msn chat logs, relashionship, baby day: Dear Ang, perhaps I did not read your letter carefully enough. I am usually very thorough. If that is the case, please forgive me. I have my own problems, from time to time, and am busy myself. So, I am not perfect. Please remember, I have no authority...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confusion, Don't Play Games
Don't Play Games: Aramesh, Congratulations on being a loving soul, and for standing by your friend. Yes, call him, and talk to him. Don t play games; follow your heart. And don t test him with those questions you ask about what if . He might have been saying he couldn...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Should we continue this relationship?, faithfulness, true love
faithfulness, true love, marriage: Dear Friend, How are you? Thank you for writing. I am direct at times, so bear with me, and know I wish you all the happiness you can have. I don t really believe in recreational dating; in other words, dating for dating s sake, or, just for fun ....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Please have a look for the below question, state of india, construction field
state of india, construction field, question question: Hi Rajib, It is great that you are not thinking about ending your life. I feel good about it. If you are going for the first option wherein you try and contact her, it is going to work. But I believe that this is going to take sometime. I rather feel...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Don't know whether to hold on or let go, True Love, Relationships
True Love, Relationships, Being Single in a Relaionship: Dear Friend, Hi there. It sounds so wonderful to hear that you and your boyfriend seem to have had such a mature and pleasant relationship. Congratulations. I hope it can continue, since that seems to be what you desire. But let s talk about it, shall...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Relationship what?
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Relationship what?

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: my fiance is COMPLETELY different for the past 4 months, Just love one another, politics
Just love one another, politics, global warming: Hello Ann! Thank you for writing. I hope you are peaceful. If you are not, I strongly recommend meditation. Thank the heavens there are men obssessed with politics. Since we live in a world where love is not the primary focus and it is not taught, politics,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: heya, Do I love him?
Do I love him?: Hi there. How are you? I saw what you wrote, and forgive me, but I feel as though you were just thinking out loud. Am I right? Basically, there is no real problem here? Do you have a question? If you feel you really need my help, why don t write...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: how do i know if im in love/ what do i do, hug kiss, wonderful girls
hug kiss, wonderful girls, peace and joy: Dear Stacy, He might be in pain, depressed, and receding from life because of disillusionment. Be gentle with him, because expecting more than he can give, for whatever reason, will only make him defensive. I know you are frustrated-and rightly so--but...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Too Little Too Late?, Love is growing, sacrificing
Love is growing, sacrificing, caring for: Dear Jill, Thanks for writing back. Love is growing, sacrificing, caring for, and sharing life wih the one you wish to experience the best and worst of times with. If you don t feel that, move on. Love, peace, and joy, Carlo http://bitnacarlo.wordpress.co...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I in Love?, Blood sugar levels
Blood sugar levels: Hey Jeff, How s it going? You write a lot; maybe you talk a lot too? Like me? It s good. Ever think of becoming a writer? And if anyone criticizes you for it, pay him or her no mind. Looks like you have things under control. Remember, have fun and...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Where's the love?, Relighting The Fire
Relighting The Fire: Dear Christine, Dear New Friend, How are you doing? I hope you are well, rested, well-fed, peaceful, and happy. If you are not peaceful, try taking a walk, or meditating. Meditation lowers the blood pressure, calms the mind, stills the nerves, and gives...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: love, Simple Answers, to vimple
Simple Answers, to vimple, vague questions about Love: Dear Jayesh, You have not told me much, so this is the best I can do: Assuming you have done or said some things that have turned her off (I am not saying you were wrong, per se, just that things you have said and done have bothered her), tell her you...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: does he love me, first lady, emotions
first lady, emotions, feelings: Hi Aisha, If the guy calls you and tells you that he cares for you then ask him if he cares then why can t be show commitment? Remember, he will try to pull you down emotionally but you have to show strength and be practical. You wouldn t want to be some...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Is she or Am I in love or simply Obsessed or Dependent, Love is growing, sacrificing
Love is growing, sacrificing, caring for: Dedar Ikem, How are you? Thanks for writing again. Love is growing, sacrificing, caring for, and sharing life wih the one you wish to experience the best and worst of times with. If you feel that, be together; if not, end it. You were dating. Any...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: moving away from the one i love and my mom can't stand him, Mom doesn't like him, Love
Mom doesn't like him, Love: Hello Problem-Free College Student! Everyone has challenges, and that includes you. Congratulations though, you have no problems . Your mother doesn t like your boyfriend? Join the club. Half of the planet or more is populated with folks whose parents...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Need insight on new love interest, How Do You Love? Is He The One?
How Do You Love? Is He The One?: Dear New Friend, Meditate. This lets you get in touch with whom and what you really are. Otherwise, you reside in the confusion of ego. Look at this: * How can I tell if this is the one ? Answer: You feel that you enjoy his company, and he...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: An Ocean Between Us, computer car, t line
computer car, t line, own computer: Dear Freind, I am enormously busy, but you are very important to me. I shall answer you in detail soon, but for now, take this advice, and please, accept my apologies: 1. Meditate, becoming peaceful. 2. Follow your heart. 3. Navigate your course toward...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Relationship what?, Love is a persoanl affair.
Love is a persoanl affair.: Dear New Friend, Rovert: Great question! Why don t You answer the question, since your experience is as valid as mine, or anyone else s? Try this: Ask someone out on a date; someone whom you feel special about, or someone you feel might be nice...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I ready for a divorce?, Living for your partner's parents is no joke; break free and get him or her to grow up.
Living for your partner's parents is no joke; break free and get him or her to grow up.: Dear Jesse, Hi there? Isn t life wonderful; I mean, if you have a roof over your head, you have your health, food, clothing, and love? Some people really suffer, right; with disease, hunger, poverty, war, physical and emotional abuse? But you have a...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: He has retracted saying "I love you", Love is all or nothing or it isn't love.
Love is all or nothing or it isn't love.: Dear Helen, Love to You! I hope you are peaceful. If you are not, meditate. Thank him for being honest and thoughtful. Suggest to him, sweetly, gently, and openly, that love is all or nothing, so all he has to do is keep an open mind. If he wants...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: uncertainity, casual friend, breakups
casual friend, breakups, short break: Hi Deepa, It seems complicated at the moment. However, all I can suggest is for you to go with the flow. If you think that staying away from each other is more painful than the relationship problems itself then you rather be together. It is difficult...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: where do i go from here?, Meditation, Talking with Compassion
Meditation, Talking with Compassion, Relationships: Dear Cheryl, I don t understand what you are saying except that you don t know what to do. I say follow your heart. If you love someone and this someone loves you, then continue to love; what else is there to do? If you have a disagreement, you can talk...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Why is David on this panel, politness, high hope
politness, high hope, bad day: Hello, Frankly speaking I shouldn t comment on why the expert cannot answer a question or ignore a question. I believe this being a free site and experts do this out of their wish without any financial gains, they somehow get the right to choose the question...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Dilemma!, doctorate degree, hurt and pain
doctorate degree, hurt and pain, adult children: Hi Ava, I read your story and one thing that was good in the entire thing was that you are able to understand what is right and what is wrong for you. Your determination is strong and you seem to be practical. Now coming back to your problem - I don...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Drop off the panel, do us a favour, homework questions, thinh
homework questions, thinh, favour: Thanks for the suggestion, but I will decline. I don t answer long questions and lists of questions. If you want an answer for something then condense into a few questions. If you don t like my responses there are plenty of other people you can ask. Keep it...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Let go or Hold On?, Just Love
Just Love: Dear Ikem, You have an interesting name. I hope you are peaceful. May I politely and respectfully suggest that you not think so much. Love her. Love is courage. If you love her, you have a much better chance than if you strategize her . Write...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Why hasnt he fallen in love with me yet?, eldest son, rest of my life
eldest son, rest of my life, 13 years: Vanessa, You are not doing the right thing. It is unfortunate you are pregnant because another child will most likely be brought into the world and introduced to a broken home. In my opinion the right thing to do now is to leave this guy and move in with...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: A little confused, stable relationship, special person
stable relationship, special person, good person: Hi Jeff, I think you should ask yourself whether you are ready to spend your life with Lori. If the answer is yes, then you should go ahead. On a different note, I would like to suggest you not to think so much about the perfect person . There is nothing...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I in love, cuddles, pees
cuddles, pees, hes: Phyllis, The problem is that you are the one that is actually afraid of intimacy. So you are blaming this guy for not having those feelings when it is you who needs to get things figured out. I would suggest you get some counseling to see why it is that you...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I in love, drastic steps, buss
drastic steps, buss, decision making: Hi Sunita, AS you had already mentioned in your message it seems that you are strongly involved with the Ajay. It will be difficult for you to imagine courting with someone else. I think if you both are equally determined to marry each other and you...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Need Your Kind Advise, girl in my office, detailed explanation
girl in my office, detailed explanation, days of the week: Thanks for your words. I do respect each and every emotion of yours and can imagine what you are going through. Let us think of the best and worst possible scenarios. Best - as per the situation above, you both get along well. Have a healthy break-off...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: need some help here, first five minutes, stable relationship
first five minutes, stable relationship, dating website: Jeff, It does sound like you are second guessing yourself. I can understand why you would be nervous this is a big decision. I would suggest you speak with people who know you and this woman and get their input. The more input you can get the better. David...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: What should i do?, frank conversation, 22 years
frank conversation, 22 years, illusions: Tony, You need to have a frank conversation with her about you not wanting to be married and committing. It would not be fair to her to make her think that she is going to be engaged when in reality you have no intention of that. I suggest you don t move...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: what to do, silly argument, male friend
silly argument, male friend, nice time: I m pretty sure he is only interested in physicality with you. It seems pretty shallow. If you are interested in this shallow type of behavior then keep on with this guy. If you are not interested in shallow activity you shouldn t make the mistake of sleeping...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Boyfriend may not be serious about us., desperate dating, serious conversation
desperate dating, serious conversation, gathering information: Casey, Don t get desperate. Dating is about getting to know someone and gathering information. You have spent two years gathering information and it seems that you have found out that this BF of yours isn t really interested in marrying you. It seems that...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Confused, alchol, spending time
alchol, spending time, relationships: Rochelle, Dating is about gathering information. You are headed in the right direction in terms of looking for husband. The part you need to add is when you have information you need to use it. You already have information about this guy that you don t care...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Difficult+times, gross manipulation, center of the storm
gross manipulation, center of the storm, trust issue: Dear Bethany, Take your child and go to a friend s or family member s house without telling him. A threat of violence is as serious as serious gets. I myself have unintentionally been violent with a woman in the past, but under the influence of alcohol...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Engaged but in love with someone else, long distance relationship, financial burdens
long distance relationship, financial burdens, sexual chemistry: Zunera, Fantasy time is over. You can t go against your beliefs so stop dating the current love and don t get married. You need to break it off with both. You need to take a do over and start again. Based on what you have said you haven t left yourself any...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: What is Love? I feel like a pendulum swinging back and forth., true mystery, imperfection
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: What is Love? I feel like a pendulum swinging back and forth., true mystery, imperfection, older man

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Can this be fixed?, perfect gentlemen, marlboro man
perfect gentlemen, marlboro man, sweet as candy: Dear Good Soul, Angie, Hi. How are you? Thank you for taking the chance to know more, the first step in loving. Sit down with a cup of tea, look out at the wonders of nature, and see how simple it is. Though it is complex, nature is not complicated....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: how do i know if i'm still in love with my partner???, treatment for depression, drug addition
treatment for depression, drug addition, kind of girl: Your focus should be on the kids right now. If he is a good dad then you should simply stay in the relationship. If you want to be with someone else there is no reason not to be. You have made no vows and thus each of you are free to do what you will in the...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Lonely & Confused, alcohol problem, medical intervention
alcohol problem, medical intervention, withdrawal symptoms: Dear Stephanie, Wonderful Soul, Sit and look out at nature. If you cannot calm yourself enough to do that, then you should meditate a while. Just sit and count your breaths, counting the breath as you exhale (not the inhalations), so you breath in, and...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Love, Peace Before Discussion, Cheating
Peace Before Discussion, Cheating, Snooping: Dear Amir, How are you? Congratulations on opening up to find solutions, and thanks for writing. Meditate. Do you know how to do that? If not, look at my page; I describe the process. In meditation you will find some peace, and then, perhaps truths...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: What is Love? I feel like a pendulum swinging back and forth., Sabotageing ourselves, The right guy
Sabotageing ourselves, The right guy: Hi! Glad you wrote! Thank you! Don t be blue and confused. You are wonderful! I can tell; thoughtful, considerate, and open. Just simplify, simplify! Sit down and realize nature is simple, though complex. The only complicated part of nature is between...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Should I wait?, soul mates, separation papers
soul mates, separation papers, facebook: Kevin, You are doing everything the wrong way with this woman. What is of the most concern to me is that there is a small child caught in the middle of all this foolish adult drama. Have you even considered what you being involved with her mother would do...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Falling in LOVE with two woman, Love Quadrangle
Love Quadrangle: Dear Friend, Love can be difficult if we don t know how to practice it. My heart is open to what you are experiencing, and I am sorry for your pain. First of all: Well for me and my fiancee everything happened really fast. we ve got engaged after...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: love?, Relationships fail and people get hurt whether they live six miles apart. ~Stella
Relationships fail and people get hurt whether they live six miles apart. ~Stella: Thank you, Stella! And, perhaps I should rephrase. Maybe it sounded a bit arrogant of me to say we do not meet intellectually. I should have said, we have different ideas at this point . And you agree, which makes me happy, for you are a human being with...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: what is love???, What is Love?
What is Love?: Dear Jenni, Love is an attraction and affection for another person backed up by honorable treatment of that person. It is also wanting to do things for that person more than others to enable him or her to grow for his or her own good, not necessarily your...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Unrequited Love (?), taking chances, women in the world
taking chances, women in the world, exhaustion: Tim, You can t have both. Either you start making attempts to date her or be her friend, which is it going to be? If you are too scared to lose her friendship because of your attempt to date her then you need to settle with that. Part of dating and courting...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: do i want it to be forever?, part time jobs, kaity
part time jobs, kaity, rough times: Kaity, Why are you so desperate to be in a long-term relationship already? You are still a teen and still have a huge future ahead of you. If you choose to staying this relationship and you want it to be successful, don t move in with one another. Studies...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Should i break up with my girlfriend if my feelings are too ambigious?, long distance relationship, pen pal service
long distance relationship, pen pal service, dear carl: Ryan, You love someone by being with her, even if she has gone away. You love someone by sacrificing for her. The one you love is the one to be with. Stop shopping. Harvard and IQs mean nothing. More on this later. Carlo http://carlatteniese.co...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Choices to make, Don't pick one, let the love pick you or don't choose at all.
Don't pick one, let the love pick you or don't choose at all.: Dear David, You seem like a very thoughtful man. So, how about this. Instead of objectivity, how about passion? Shouldn t that be the deciding factor? And I don t mean for you to sit down and decide who you are more passionate about, because that is too...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused about my feelings towards men, Fear and Hatred of Men
Fear and Hatred of Men: I am not certain about your particular situation, Nana, ...but I think that before you tell me more about your life (and you should, first, before I can really help you), I might guess that you have seen a great deal of make domination in your society,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: dating a friend, closer connection, friend thanks
closer connection, friend thanks, physical aspect: Soph, It is so unfortunate that you brought the physical aspect into your relationship. If you really think about it, you don t know each other that well despite working together. Because you gave it up so easily you have made yourself very vulnerable mentally...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't know what I'm feeling, weird feelings, exact reasons
weird feelings, exact reasons, 19 years: Hi Lindsey, To be honest, I hate the idea of a break for the exact reasons you described. It is one thing to work on your issues (actually what love is really about) and then decide your differences are irreconcilable and break up forever, but it is...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Marriage-important or not?, part time jobs, go getter
part time jobs, go getter, going to the moon: Marilyn, It s not often that I find a question refreshing, but I found yours to be so. It is well though out and not irrational. You actually are trying to figure something out and you seem willing to carefully consider both sides. I don t think you are overreacting...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: in your opinion, am i in a genuine relationship?, lazy butts, genuine relationship
lazy butts, genuine relationship, taking a nap: Natalie, The only way you will really know if things will last is to experience hardship with him. I would suggest you see each other in a variety of settings. Why not work at a homeless shelter together, volunteer somewhere, how is he with kids? How does...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: please help, unwise choice, beginging
unwise choice, beginging, car wreck: Brandon, I think what you are seeing is that the FEELING of love is much different than the BEHAVIOR of love. The feeling is what caused you two to make the unwise choice of living together after only 4 months of dating. The feeling is what caused her to...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Why has he pulled away?, hangout spots, watching sports
hangout spots, watching sports, showing affection: I can only take a guess because I don t have his perspective. I think from what you describe he may have felt too much pressure to be together all the time. So when he went away from you he felt better and then acted on that. Another option is he has another...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: relationship dilemna, Accept some things about one another.-Carl Atteneise, Volunteer Relationship Counselor
Accept some things about one another.-Carl Atteneise, Volunteer Relationship Counselor: Dear Leah, You are right about love being communication. That is all it is. I do think that you may be expecting him to clean when it suits you. I went through this with my mother as a boy, and with girlfriends in the past: She say, will you do this...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: falling out of love, krystle, would make sense
krystle, would make sense, great time: Krystle, If you read through your question you will consistently see the word I throughout what you have written. I think that right there is your problem. Instead of looking at what you can give in relationships, you probably are looking to what you can...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Is that what really happens, intimate relationship, short periods
intimate relationship, short periods, foreplay: Salim, It will be important that there is attraction in the relationship. If it isn t there because of something she has or doesn t have you should be careful in continuing the relationship. I agree with you that you shouldn t go outside of the relationship....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: broken engagement, broken engagement, mums
broken engagement, mums, doubts: Danni, It seems that you are desperate and maybe have been for a long time. I would suggest you take time during this break to re-check what you really want in a relationship. It seems based on what you have written you have been with a guy that hasn t really...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: My husband said he was no longer in love with me, whole heart, sexual contact
whole heart, sexual contact, 3 years: Tami, Something else is going on with him. I would suggest that you go to a therapist and figure out what really is going on with him. He probably won t be able to figure it out himself and thus, it will be futile to get him to figure it out. David www.help4life.ne...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: LOVE, It's all my fault.
It's all my fault.: Hi There, Wonderful Human Being, Thank you for writing. I read what you have written. What s your question? Do you just want me to give an assessment of what has happened? Sincerely wishing you love, peace and joy, Carlo Atteniese http://bitnacarlo.wordpress.co...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Stay or Go?, cook kids, kids care
cook kids, kids care, committed to one: Lynne, You have fallen into the trap of thinking things are about you. Stop talking to your friends and reading pop culture. You have 3 children who don t need a broken home. They need two parents committed to one another. So what I suggest is that you start...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Should I go or stay, To Love or Not to Love
To Love or Not to Love: Dear Friend, If you love her and she ll see you, go to her and make her your queen, make her feel like the greatest thing in the world, and make her realize you will never date another, and you will do whatever it takes to make her happy (within reason)....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Is He A Crush? Or Is It Love?, first love, craziness
first love, craziness, shivers: Melissa, I would say this is a crush. It s probably quite exciting I imagine. Just remember don t get lost in the craziness of the emotions. You will have a lot of crush s. Get done with school and figure out what you want to do in your life, before you...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I know I shouldn't get involved, but..., non verbal cues, none of my business
non verbal cues, none of my business, mid 20s: Josh, You are in a truly powerless position. You are actually torturing yourself which I think is crazy. You need to end the relationship. When you end it write or speak to the woman and clearly let her know why you are doing what you are doing. If she isn...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: commitment, great relationship, private time
great relationship, private time, bad taste: Steve, My first suggestion is that you go to individual counseling. I think you have some residual grief in your life that isn t letting you move forward. The second suggestion is that you clearly communicate with her what is going on with you so she doesn...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Do I love him??, mary love, intelligent girl
mary love, intelligent girl, difficult times: Mary, Love along will not get you through difficult times. It takes commitment, service, passion, patience. I think you are too young to be thinking about getting married right now. You need to know yourself a bit better. Once you know yourself more the better...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: In love or...?, friend dustin, guy friend
friend dustin, guy friend, sexual contact: Dear Catie, Hi there! How are you? I know what you are talking about. Hearing someone say I am IN love with you is what dreams about love are made of, what movie and storybook romance have, and what the security-seeking part of your mind wants (your...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Bf said "I think I love you", late bloomer, good oral hygiene
late bloomer, good oral hygiene, serious relationship: Liz, There are many red flags going up for me in this relationship you describe. You are young and he already has a kid and has been married or at least in some type of serious relationship? He should be busy parenting and be focused on that, but instead...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Does my boss like me?, adorable child, look in his eyes
adorable child, look in his eyes, knee injury: Hello there, I read your message and the first feeling I got from this was that your boss is physically attracted to you. All the signs he displays is more of physical attraction and not of any emotional bonding. There is no love or liking in this. ...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Confused., long term relationship, calmness
long term relationship, calmness, thought process: Lisa, You are being played. You don t have any TRUE idea except what he tells you about this other woman. I am much more concerned that you see this as okay given that fact this man has a child that is being led into this drama with you. It seems completely...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Don't know how to respond, Ffollow your heart, observe with your mind
Ffollow your heart, observe with your mind, and listen to others for perspective: Hi Liz, How re you doing? Love, peace, and Joy, to you. I have developed feelings about what you have mentioned. Sit down and relax. Look out a window, if you can, and if you don t mind, direct your thoughts to the simplicity, the complexity, and...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: i dont know what to do ..:(, "Do something every day that makes your heart dance." ~ Yoko Ono
"Do something every day that makes your heart dance." ~ Yoko Ono : Dear Jan, If you love her, that will carry on without the thought process of your mind, unless you over think it. If you want to love her and wait for her and try to visit her, I suppose you can, but i do not know your particular situation. You say you...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Is it love, talking to girls, old flame
talking to girls, old flame, fulltime job: It seems pretty clear that your husband has some mental health issues. If he is still using and dangerous as you have just described, you CAN T have your child around that. I would suggest you get a restraining order and go someplace that he can t find you....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: please help., karate classes, age gap
karate classes, age gap, mom dad: Hi, Well, I think ignorance is the best option. Just stop talking, calls, messages, emails, etc. One thing you got to do is stop thinking about this situation anymore. That is the best and most appropriate solution for the situation. However, another...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Best Friend, 12th grade, best friends
12th grade, best friends, feelings: Hey Jatin, I think at this age this kind of attraction and feelings are common and quite natural I must say. I believe telling her how you feel will be a good idea. You should tell her about your feelings and if she feels the same you will know it upfront....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Confused, use your brain, question thanks
use your brain, question thanks, nice guy: Hi, Good question. It is not about how good the guy is it is about the situation. And when he says he loves you, he means it not because he loves you but because he is in a frame of mind where anything that gives him a feeling of companionship, feeling...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused, friends with benefits, fatass
friends with benefits, fatass, snores: Heather, You aren t ready for another relationship even though you think you are. You are with a guy who only values you for the sex he can get it. Is that ok with you? If it is then keep going with this relationship. If it s not ok then stop this relationship...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused, rollar coaster, relashionship
rollar coaster, relashionship, ups and downs: Dear Friend, I believe I recall your situation. Sorry to hear things are still rough in some ways, and congratulations on the new love! This is very simple-as far as justice, compassion, and sense are concerned...TO ME, but i do not know if it will...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Emotional defence, abusive relationship, emotional response
abusive relationship, emotional response, first love: Kyah, STOP dating. If you keep dating without getting this figured out you will remain in this cycle. You don t want to be stuck. What you need to do is get to a counselor to get this figured out. If you don t I would worry that you will be with a multitude...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Can this great love work?, If it's true love, there is no need to rush. - Carl Atteniese
If it's true love, there is no need to rush. - Carl Atteniese: Dear Regnery, Hi there. How are you? Thank you for writing. First of all, let me ask you something; please don t be offended. Why do you speak English the way you do? Were you just tired? Were you under the influence? Are you just really relaxed for...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: love or crush, rajiv, scraps
rajiv, scraps, notions: Dear Rajiv, Hello! I reject the notions of love and crush . Any crush can become love. DOn t worry about being preoccupied over a girl. You are a man, and you want love. Your body wants sex. This is natural. Being well-settled has nothing...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I in love with this girl? Is she in love with me? What should I do?, attractive girls, lengthy story
attractive girls, lengthy story, what should i do question: Dear Nathan, I am sorry. Perhaps I sounded a bit negative. It s just that sometimes I think I should sound like a Dutch uncle , give ou a bit of a gentle kick in the right direction. Don t get the idea there is something wrong with you. If you like...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: i love my boyfriend but..., Love is about you and your lover, no one else.
Love is about you and your lover, no one else.: If you love him Ayley, the way you should-to be with someone forever-then you love him enough to overlook the fact that he is not a carbon copy of yourself, or a match to you, perfectly. You and your mother suffer from the same urban legend that you are...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Marriage, first girlfriend, intense passion
first girlfriend, intense passion, one and only man: Todd, I can t tell you how to experience your life. I do think passion is fueling your relationship more than actual love. That isn t necessarily a bad thing. The smart thing to do in this phase is to not make serious relationship decisions about anything....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I'm 41 and what is love anyway?, exchange numbers, facebook
exchange numbers, facebook, m 41: Nelly, OK let s come back down to earth for a moment. Now step back a moment. This seems a bit like a high school crush doesn t it? Please don t take offense I just want you to be a bit objective. I am sure there is a lot of passion and whether you want to...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Tough Love, emotional person, positive attitude
emotional person, positive attitude, tough love: Jeremy, You are not ready for a relationship. The problem is that you are trying to do a relationship when you don t even know how to live your own life effectively. Since you don t know how to find joy in your own life, there is no way that you are going...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: 16 loves 23?, old girl, whole lot
old girl, whole lot, dreams: Chelly, It s possible, but unlikely. Seriously, what do you and this guy have in common? You have genitals that match. While that is crass the point is that you don t have really too much in common. If you do that is sad. A 23 year old should be starting...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't want anyone else, leo buscaglia, kahlil gibran
leo buscaglia, kahlil gibran, mediocre minds: Hi, Meg, Thank you for letting me post your letter on http://carlatteniese.com! I edited my letter to you and added, with a specific answer to your original question of how to get everyone on board, so to speak: Love, Peace, and Joy to You! Thank...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: is it love??, Money does not make money-concerned people happy in love, but love can make the poorest people and
Money does not make money-concerned people happy in love, but love can make the poorest people and: Regina, I want to see you happy. However true that is, I have observed one thing in just looking over your letter. You do nor seem to want love. You seem to want security. And do not date married men. It is stupid, unkind, and dishonorable. Relationships...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: im feeling strange things., tight hugs, strange things
tight hugs, strange things, co worker: Vince, It means to me that you are not keeping to the vows you made to your wife. Because you are unwilling to work and work hard on your relationship you are taking the easy way to get your thrills. I suggest you love your wife in a way that turns things...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: long term relationship at a young age, Should we look for trouble in a perfect relationship?
Should we look for trouble in a perfect relationship?: Dear Angela, Hi, and how are you, New Friend? This is the most important question of our time, concerning love in the Western world. There is a sad concept which has become popular, that says we have to soil ourselves in the gritty trenches of multiple...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I still in love?, http://carlatteniese.com
http://carlatteniese.com: Dear Mary, This is gonna be straight from the hip, cuz I am human too, tired of the pop-culture perceptions of the practice of love, and fed up with how someone who loves me pretends she doesn t and enjoys me when she is lonely and ignores me when she has...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Do I still love my husband??, affectionate husband, marriage advice
affectionate husband, marriage advice, sweet person: Christy, People love in different ways. I think what most people consider love is what they see in the movies. You wrote several times about how you FEEL. So I would suggest you stop focusing on your feelings. If you continue to focus on them then you will...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I do not want to lose her, anxiety and depression, speaking terms
anxiety and depression, speaking terms, negative thoughts: Joe, I think you are on the right track for helping yourself. I guess I wonder why you would continue to stay in this relationship? This woman pretty much doesn t show a lot of compassion for you. If you are living together and hoping to get married it s...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused about own feelings.., self expression, family friends
self expression, family friends, guilt: Hi, Shewta, Thank you for writing and congratulations. Self-expression is love and it is necessary for human growth. Social rules are artificial traditions and limitations meant to make people comfortable and life livable. Often they become out-dated...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: love or infatuation, love or infatuation, last day of school
love or infatuation, last day of school, eye contact: Dear Amber, I m sorry this is late. Please forgive me. Infatuation is simply the budding flower of love. Why is this set of events from your distant past important, now? BTW: you have the same name as my beloved. Talk to you soon. Car...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Problem in Relationship, serious relationship, sex affair
serious relationship, sex affair, hard time: Hi, I didn t read the entire story but could easily get the gist of the situation from the previous few paragraphs and ending paragraphs. First thing you both must agree is that there is a big age difference between you both and that speaks for itself....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Should I jump in and ride the wave?, rough time, split up
rough time, split up, fiance: Mellie, What you need to do is break things completely off with both and have a period of time where you focus on you. If you don t you will always be second guessing yourself with this other guy. It sounds like you should gather yourself together and figure...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Fiancee's ex, pre marital counseling, wrong number
pre marital counseling, wrong number, playing a game: Rose, It seems that there are some serious questions that should be addressed in your relationship. If you have a date to be married, you should be in pre-marital counseling in order to make sure that this guy is focused on you and not on past relationships....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Should I wait for him?, logic reason, mutual friends
logic reason, mutual friends, many things: Lisa, There is NO WAY you should be waiting for him. Who knows how many other women he is stringing along. He may even be married and you are the other woman. I suggest you find someone else that has attachments and maybe even mutual friends rather than someone...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: love?, friends with benifits, first break
friends with benifits, first break, hypocracy: Justin, C mon Justin you don t love her...you may love the idea of sleeping with her...or may be scared to be the one that is dumped, but let s be honest this is not love. As I read you question I kept asking myself why in the world would you stay in this...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: marriage.love, True love wins over selfishness every time
True love wins over selfishness every time: Hello there! Thank you for writing. The first is an opportunity for growth, true love, and eventual true happiness. The second is called selling out. In the third instance, you could, of course, find a man you love in every way, but then you would...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: physical attraction, physical attraction, beautiful name
physical attraction, beautiful name, miss america: Dear Faith, You have a beautiful name. Yes, in my opinion, physical attraction is important, especially if it is important to you! But only to you. What I mean is, your love has to be attractive to you, not to anyone else, and in that way, even those...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Triangle, self introspection, two choices
self introspection, two choices, whole life: Susan, Neither. I suggest you figure out what is going on in your own head first before you try to figure out how to be in a relationship period. The two situations you describe simply aren t the only ones in the universe. You have painted yourself into a...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Unsure, loyal person, maryanne
loyal person, maryanne, good person: Maryanne, Sorry for the delay, hospital issues... You don t love this guy. You said it yourself he is a good person and you miss him when he isn t around. This tends to make it about you right? I suggest you break things off with him and really determine...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Needing to forget my past love, love triangle, loving person
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Needing to forget my past love, love triangle, loving person, stand by me

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Loving 2 women, whole nine yards, korea time
whole nine yards, korea time, genuine person: Great letter you d sent. I m answering it today (Korea- time), and I am on the way to work. My girlfriend is very sick, so I have a lot going on, but most likely, you ll have another letter from me, tonight (AM) your time, stateside. Until then, love yourself,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Loving 2 people...what should I do
Dear Kenny, If you don t want to live your life in your own personal hell, but also don t want to feel trapped, guilty or that life is passing you by, you might tell Linda that although she thinks your needs are ridiculous, they are your needs and they...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Mixed Feelings, Jealousy
Jealousy: Hi Lindsay, Good Soul, thank you for writing! I am sure my past girlfriend felt like you do, about me. But I wasn t jealous, just sort of in the dark and uncomfortable about it. Culture differences-which exist between all people according to family,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: No matter what I do, I just can't forget him, sexual assault, sex
sexual assault, sex, love: Dear Friend, Sit down and have some tea. Look out the window at a tree, or at the fish bowl, or at your dog or cat, or at a picture of nature. Nature is complex, right, but it s not complicated. So, in times of trouble, try emulating nature, and make life...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Needing to forget my past love, Love is Meditation
Love is Meditation: Dear Loving Person, I sincerely hope you are peaceful. Take time to walk In the park, have some herb tea; relax.... Love is a meditation. We have to let extraneous images, even people, disappear or blow away, like clouds in the sky; we do that in meditation,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: About my new relationship., relationships, marriage
relationships, marriage, communication: Hi, Krystal, You may feel a powerful chemical attraction to him, and if you re defining love as that initial animal response or sense of possibility, then yes. It s possible. BUT, if you are interested in a long term emotionally close relationship,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Please Help Me, rough patches, little kiss
rough patches, little kiss, first kiss: Dear Meg, Hello, How are you? Thank you, Dear New Friend, for writing! Great letter you d sent. I m answering it now, and I am on the way to work. My girlfriend is very sick, so I have a lot going on, but most likely, you ll have another letter from...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Relationship problems, relationships, marriage
relationships, marriage, communication: Hi. I was just like you. When I broke up with my first love, I decided, No more romance for me! It had betrayed me. I wanted someone I could talk about anything with. I was protective, too. I d think, This is nice. We ll see what happens in the...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Why did we break-up?, best time of my life, illegal behavior
best time of my life, illegal behavior, time of my life: Hi, Palina, I am a man. Carl is a man s name. Yes, it s normal for girls to be confused. confusion is a gift , as Melanie Beaty says. It tells us something is not right, perhaps. Meditation can help because it literally (really) slows down the...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Confused, clouds in the sky, prayer to god
clouds in the sky, prayer to god, thought train: Hi,  LeSean! Thanks for writing!  You like him and he likes you. Sit down with him in a quiet place, and gently, kindly, honestly, and peacefully-discuss your feelings. If you are worried about doing this, make peace in yourself, first; Here are steps...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How do i explain my emotions?, peace and joy, twitter
peace and joy, twitter, laughter: Hi Maygen, Hi. I m happy you re love! Tell him that for now, showing love is how you express it. After all, something s worth is not in its explanation, or disection, is it? Its worh is in its affect, its existence, its presence! :) I hope this helps....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Graham and Luca
Hi, Cheyenne, It is so, so important to know one thing about relationships. It is IMPOSSIBLE to be in a relationship, even a good one, and not have confusing feelings come up. We can t get over things when we don t know something important. In this case,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Long Term/Distance Boyfried, life philosophy, independent mind
life philosophy, independent mind, sentient beings: Answer Hi, Kim,  Thank you for the nice letter. The measure of a human being s independent mind is a measure of his or her intelligence and higher humanity because it shows how much we value ourselves and our freedom to live, think, and love ourselves...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Love and Marriage, gym shoes, dear carl
gym shoes, dear carl, time constraints: Dear Elizabeth, I ache for you. It seems to me he may be suffering depression. Find some peace within you, though that may sound cliche, then take him to a park and talk to him, never blaming him ( not yhat you would), and not while drinking or experiencing...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: psychological dating issues, funny questions, sexual relationship
funny questions, sexual relationship, sexual issues: Dear Eric-pascal, I am very sorry for this late reply. I read your letter a week go, but have been very busy with work, personal issues, and taking care of other letters of an emergeny orientation. I cannot tell if she loves you yet. I need clear information:...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Questioning my relationship, relationships, marriage
relationships, marriage, communication: Hi, Chris - The closer people are to each other, the more issues come up! Just the fact that you love each other and are engaged = problems. Or, as I like to think of it, = inevitable necessity to learn about how to do relationships. It is so, so important...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Is she really in love with me or is just a care?, happy couples, special recipe
happy couples, special recipe, life partner: Dear Venugopal, Hello, How are you? Thank you, Dear New Friend, for writing! Great letter you d sent. I m answering it now, and I am on the way to work. My girlfriend is very sick, so I have a lot going on, but most likely, you ll have another letter...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Very confused, blood glucose levels, thich nhat hanh
blood glucose levels, thich nhat hanh, dear henry: Dear Henry, Do these things: 1. Get a blood test. It is the best indicator of your health. Specifically, check for blood pressure, LDL & HDL choloesterol, blood glucose levels, and nutrient levels. 2. Look at your life. Are you at least on course...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Mr. Carlo, Gotta say brother, Love your stuff, ruff life, life in the streets
ruff life, life in the streets, calm down: Friend, How are you? Keep things simple and courageous. Take that girl out and be nice and don t worry. You don t need need all the answers. If you love her, love her. Love is not about guarantees. It is about risk. Follow me on twitter for inspiration....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Over protective dad/secret boyfriend, thich nhat hanh, being a dad
thich nhat hanh, being a dad, twitter: Dear Meagan, I know all about this kind of thing. You just described half the unmarried peoples situations in South Korea (if not most of them). Lying is the first injury in love, and so your father is forcing you to help him dammage his relationship...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How to appear more confident with girls?, hairstlye, pin striping
hairstlye, pin striping, eye candy: Dear Dan, Thanks for writing. That shows courage. The answer is to be yourself. Let the new-largely superfluous-charm you have created be highlighting, like pin-striping on a car; it matters not how good it looks next to what kind of engine is under...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Restrictions in personal life by boyfreind, case trust, intellectual capabilities
case trust, intellectual capabilities, boring lectures: Hi Natasha, I can very well understand the situation and can imagine what goes on in your mind in such a situation. However, there are few things now which you should give a thought before you take decisions for your life. Firstly, the way career progresses,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: falling out, Abuse. Over-reacting
Abuse. Over-reacting: Dear Samantha, I m so sorry this is late. How are you? Thank you for writing. Do you think you could answer the questions on my profile page? In the mean time let me ask you if yo feel the sMe as you expressed in this first letter. Let me say what...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: help, mommy and daddy, term idea
mommy and daddy, term idea, woman 2: Dear Aurax, Thank you very much for writing. When people care enough to seek outside advice, it can mean that they realize that it is hard to know what to do in the thick of things, and it shows that they have enough faith in humanity to believe that a...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: He loves me but he's changing his mind?, caller tune, december 24th
caller tune, december 24th, psychics: Hello Raina, Long distance relationships can get complicated at times - you need to be cautious. Frankly speaking I think you are too young to take such a serious decision. And even the guy is just about to start There might be various reasons for...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I'm 15 and veryyy sure I'm in love, virginty, learned person
virginty, learned person, loving place: Dear Friend! Hi! How are you, right now?  Congratulations on being in love! It s wonderful, is it not? Thank you for being so thoughtful as to share, to seek other opinions, and to not move along unmindfully! This makes the world a more loving place....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: social life drama, fist step, changing bad habits
fist step, changing bad habits, facebook: Dear Gwen, How are you, Wonderful Human Being? I am sorry this late. Please do this, as a fist step in helping yourself, and in helping me help you; 1. Please look at the questions on my profile page and answer them for me. This will help you think...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Is it worth giving her a 2nd chance?
David, unless she is willing to do some counseling on her own, and some counseling with you, I think it is dangerous to get back together with her. Something was going on in her that she started to be interested in someone else. We all have confusing feelings...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Is There Something Wrong With Me?, 3 boyfriends, guy friends
3 boyfriends, guy friends, dirty trick: Dear Rebecca, How are you? Thanks for writing. You have the strength, courage, and care to express yourself about possibly improving yourself, so I don t think there s anything wrong with you at all. Buckminster Fuller, I think it was, once said...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: What can i do, life hell, character action
life hell, character action, twitter: Dear Sara, Hello, Beautiful Human Being, Thank you for writing. It takes character, courage, and love to write about your problems. Please stay with a friend and do not return to the turmoil of your home. If you love your husband, talk to him...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: how do i know if im still in love, Love, depression
Love, depression, relationship: Hi Jezel, How are you? Thank you for writing. It s a great sign. Here is a link to your video-answer: http://m.youtube.com/?client=mv-google&rdm=4o3xzsjq2#/watch?v=e8R1OBah0lg I noticed you said you had been having a log of problems. What kind?...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Commitment problems?, commitment problems, fear of commitment
commitment problems, fear of commitment, flings: Dear Adriana, Thank you for writing.  My best advice for you is to tell you to make a b-line to Amazon.com and get this book: Being Human, by Krishnamurti You could also look into True Love, by Thich Nhat Hanh, the Road Less Travelled, by The Road...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am i in love? or infactuation?, blood sugar levels, severe depression
blood sugar levels, severe depression, hole in my heart: Dear New Friend, Get this book RIGHT AWAY: Being Happy, by Andrew Mahews. Then, after reading it cover to cover, contact me. I used try to answer peoples questions by explaining everything. I would like you to discover what s important on your own,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I still in love with my husband?, good relationship, supporting family
good relationship, supporting family, wonderful one: Dear Mary, I am sorry to hear you have been so down.  Please go to the window and look at the beauty of nature-if you can see it. Nature is complex, yes, but not comlicated. We humans make life complicated, but there s a choice. Just as you had the...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How to deserve his trust (not jealousy, trust), friend level, life dreams
friend level, life dreams, rough time: Emi, I wonder what you intend for this relationship? If you just want it to stay at a friend level then I think where you are at is fine. If you want it to go to a more romantic level then I suggest you be consistent with your questions of getting to know...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Should I move on., 7 months, single word
7 months, single word, 15 minutes: Kris, NO NO NO...Don t wait for this guy. He has told you, his mother has told you the relationship is not one that will work. If you continue to go back you will continue to get the same things. You say you are in love, but nothing in your description sounded...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused. what is this feeling?, Young friends, emotional hiding
Young friends, emotional hiding, guardianship: Dear Jaso (Jason?), As long as you are honestly pursuing a friendship/guardian role, I see no problem with your friendship to this girl, and as long you are not romantically attracted to her--I see no problem with it (the relationship itself). However,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Help me out here, living in south korea, betty boop
living in south korea, betty boop, primitive ways: Dear Tom, How are you? You are a man. Your mother wants you to be a more self-respecting man. That s why she said such a harmful thing as You re not a man. You are not an idiot; your brother is over-stating a feeling he has that you should act smarter....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: i need your help, lovey dovey, selfish act
lovey dovey, selfish act, facebook: Hi, Jeremy, How are you? Peaceful, I hope. Tell me if you re not. I can try to help with that. You took a big step in writing me. It takes courage to announce your concerns of the heart. Congratulations, and Spirit & Karma Points to ya. Your girlfriend--and...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How to know if this is the relationship to stay in, marriage and kids, dysfunctional relationships
marriage and kids, dysfunctional relationships, prude: Hi Rachel, Thank you for writing to me and giving me an opportunity to help you think it through. After reading your message it is quite challenging for me to advice accurately since I am unsure about your age (and your partners age). Hence, I will...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Does he love me just for a green card or should I divorce after my affair., male friend, poor decision
male friend, poor decision, bad behavior: Alice, You can actually have some control, it s not like you are a slave. You don t have to put up with his bad behavior just because he says you need to. I would suggest you go to counseling yourself. This would be a big thing because it would be the start...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Is this love?, relationship worth, lot of nights
relationship worth, lot of nights, eye for an eye: Kim, This is what love is about, figuring out your emotions and knowing when to learn from something and move on. I think you should move on. You are too young for all this drama. There are MANY other guys in the world that you will meet. As you get older...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Unsure whether this is love, overprotective mother, red flags
overprotective mother, red flags, mothe: Mariana, There are so many red flags in this relationship that all I can see is red. You can do MUCH better than this. Let s just say this...Love is not enough... It feels great I m sure, but there are so many other essentials to a relationship. These thoughts...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Bored in my long distance long term relationship, long term relationship, transition period
long term relationship, transition period, future plans: Hey Marissa, I believe this is expected in a relationship that has reached a point where both partners have nothing more to explore, discover or know about each other. That is the reason why you feel that the relationship has lost its passion. I believe...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: My boyfriend, rest of your life, rest of my life
rest of your life, rest of my life, appt: Valerie, If you have made up your mind to spend the rest of your life with him then this is something you have to tolerate. Now if you change your decision to ...I possible want to spend the rest of my life with him. Then that is much different. If he knows...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How do I know if I love my girlfriend?, Proper Loving, Listening
Proper Loving, Listening, growing: Dear Marco Ingrosso, Hi there, New Friend. Please pray AND meditate before talking to your girlfriend, again. The two are vastly different, though you can do them --sort of at the same time, if you wish. Meditating means sitting and breathing and...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Does he love me or Should I let go?, state of alabama, wedding band
state of alabama, wedding band, pawn: Ellene, I m sorry to break it to you, but this guy doesn t want to be in a committed relationship with you. He may interested in the physical part of the relationship and wants to keep his options open. It sounds like you are WAY MORE interested in him than...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Did I Miss My Chance., relatioship, bestfriend
relatioship, bestfriend, yrs old: Adria, I think one of the best ways to start a romantic relationship is with someone who is your best friend. Obviously I m biased because I married my best friend. I think you are still young and chances are this friend will not have this GF long-term. You...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Night & Day, long distance, adjustment
long distance, adjustment, letting go: Hello Monty, Apologies afront for delay in reverting back to you. I appreciate your gesture of dropping a word and sharing your heart felt feelings and it takes a toll on a person while penning down. But really shows, your strong desire to make things work....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: partners for life?, long term relationship, gathering information
long term relationship, gathering information, right decision: Davy, I think dating is about fun and gathering information while courting is about making sure someone is worth being with for the rest of your life. You need to determine what you are doing here. In this instance I would say that you have enough info to...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Is it tooo little too late for me?, Third Wheel, or Possible Better Lover?
Third Wheel, or Possible Better Lover?: Dear Allena, Hello and how are you, My New Friend? I wrote a response to you yesterday, but there was a problem with my phone. I will find it and resend it, but for now, please accept this temporary short answer. Please try this; 1. Respect that...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Évolution of love? or lack of passion?, Perfect Relationship A Problem?
Perfect Relationship A Problem?: Dear Veronick, Hi there. How are you? Relationships that are too perfect may rob people of the chance to learn from challenge, but then, maybe that is the challenge; to be happy without incidents. What is missing in your relationship? What would...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I dont know if I should stay with my husband?, potato harvest, couple time
potato harvest, couple time, soccer fields: Karen, The biggest losers in this situation are all the kids. You adults can t get life figured out, but yet you continue to make children. They don t have a choice in the matter but all you adults do. Doesn t that upset you, I know it infuriates me at times....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Marriage fidelity, Love, True Love
Love, True Love, honesty: Kumar, Hello! How are you?  I m sorry this is late. My Friend, If you love your wife, stop testing her; what I feel you are doing. She probably feels the same. That is likely why she is giving you polite answers. Now, I actually wonder if she hasn...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Should i say the" L" word yet?, safe in his arms, current boyfriend
safe in his arms, current boyfriend, cute stuff: Hi Renae, I believe is you have had a breakup recently it might be risky to get involved into another guy so soon. I think you should give your relationship some time. It is normal that you get attracted to the guy who was with you while your breakup and...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't know if I love him anymore, honeymoon period, sexual fulfillment
honeymoon period, sexual fulfillment, sexual relationship: Shell, This isn t love it s more about hormones and lust. I think you nailed it when you stated that you love the security . That boils it down to what is going on with you. So this is much more about you and issues you have related to insecurity than anything...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't know what I want anymore, Arranged Marriage, Love
Arranged Marriage, Love, Divorce: Dear Ruby, How are you? I made this recording on Sound Cloud for you, and thought I had asked you to send me your e-mail, so you could hear it; only you. I ve lustened to it several times this past month and realuze it is not personal and can help a...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: is he interested? chemistry?, work partner, high fives
work partner, high fives, blushes: Mary, Sure there is chemistry....AT WORK... You have no idea what s he is like outside of work. Thus the chemistry in the workplace setting may not translate to actual real life outside of work. This is why workplace relationships are discouraged. Let s say...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Should I be married?, media tv, computer game
media tv, computer game, watching tv: Hi, Natasha, Thank you for writing. How are you NOW? I hope that despite your difficulties, you have peace and happininess inside. I must say that if you don t love him, you must end the marriage. There isn t much more to say about that. ...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Troubled Teenager.........., troubled teenager, early girl
troubled teenager, early girl, female friends: Hey Dude. That s what you say. Get into the now and just say hello . In fact, I could be wrong, but I have a feeling this girl may be difficult to get close to, so do what you have inspired me to do with my girl problems; just say hi and walk away....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How to trust man i love, single man, many thanks
single man, many thanks, best friends: Georgia, I think it is very reasonable to you to have a conversation about it. If he wasn t interested in it why would he talk about it? I m not interested in sports so I don t really have conversations about sports. If he gets defensive then I think that...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: hii, Love
Love: Dear Beena, May I ask whether you are Korean? This name you use is an English transliterated version if a Korean name. It is the name of someone very special to me. If you are in India, and if you are Korean, it helps me understand a great deal. You...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: im totally confused, contraceptive pills, culture difference
contraceptive pills, culture difference, defensive mode: Romy, In my opinion this is a deal breaker. I would move on to someone with much less baggage. The first thing he should have told you is that he has a child. He was giving you the impression that he has not attachments and that a future child with you would...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How do I know if Love my live in boyfriend of 7 years, baby mama, current boyfriend
baby mama, current boyfriend, beautiful daughter: Dear Sherelle, I understand that in traditional thinking, it is normal for a woman to see a man as a solution to everything, but unless you have no other choice and are desperate, I wonder if there isn t another path for you. I also want you to consider,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Can you please help me out.......with this girl ....., Manhood, relationships
Manhood, relationships, Love: Aman, My Friend, How are you? Be present. Don t worry about your friends teasing you. That just means they like you and are jealous. If your love interest sees this doesn t phase you, she will feel that you are a man, and buddy, a man is what...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I Can't Really Identify How I Feel, new girlfriend, sexual nature
new girlfriend, sexual nature, moreso: Alice, Let s be clear up front this isn t love. Love involves so many elements that are missing here. When young people are in relationships and there is sexual activity there are often emotional consequences. I tend to think this is what is going on. There...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Should I walk away?, type of abortion, psychotropic drugs
type of abortion, psychotropic drugs, horror story: Carl, What you are telling me is that she is a drug addict. As a rule I tend not to trust what drug addicts say. They usually are trying to manipulate things into their favor most of the time. You honestly don t know if what she says happened really did happen....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I just bitter? Or am I not in love with him anymore?, Unfaithful, second chances
Unfaithful, second chances, love: Hi, Rose, How are you RIGHT NOW? I hope and entrust that you are feeling SOME peace, since you took the very courageous step of writing about your relationship. Help is on the way. You are a very a special woman, to surrender to love as you have. Congratulations!...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: A loving breakup, Suicide, visit or not visit
Suicide, visit or not visit, parental control: Dear Jo, You must be going through a lot of pain. And it has to be doubly hard, because of all the family--oriented stress you have suffered; love is confusing enough before having to deal with junior high or high-school-like dynamics and issues of over-protective...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Loving an elder woman, infidelity, poor spirituality
infidelity, poor spirituality, playing games that lead to trouble: Hello, Thank you for writing. What you are feeling may be natural, but what you are doing is spiritually wrong, unless she destined for divorce and you are actually deeply in love. As far as I know, you are not and she is not, so what you are doing...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Need advice about my relationship and where it is headed.
Hi, Aimee, I think the most concerning issue you raise is that you don t have access to him in the hospital, and there seems to be a breakdown of communication between you about what is going on. Why wouldn t he let you come to see him? If it is his decision,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Do we love each other, Love, Sex
Love, Sex, Physical Relationships: Dear Friend, I think that the age issue should be meaningless. Love is like water. It fills all containers, goes hot, goes cold, becomes a gas, becomes a solid. It knows nothing, yet is a necessary and miraculous element. Why try teaching it, controling...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Is he my soulmate, or is it too late?, The Work of Love, Making A Relationship Work
The Work of Love, Making A Relationship Work, Love: Dear Jill, Love is not just a feeling.... I hope you are peaceful, at the moment. Are you? If not, take a few slow, deep breaths, and then sit in a relaxed way, and focus on your breathing, and just breathe. When stray thoughts, images, and ideas come...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: trying my hardest, typical type, emotional baggage
typical type, emotional baggage, physical attraction: Marcellus, Physical attraction is important in a relationship. If she isn t really attracted to you then you should not be getting married to her. What will happen when someone more attractive shows up that she prefers? You catch my drift. It sounds from...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: am I wasting my time?, fish tank, hi friend
fish tank, hi friend, point don: Hi, Friend, Sometimes--as much as we hate to do it--we string people along by accident. You re bot perfect, so he s taking it day by day. He s not perfect, so he doesn t know how to say that without hurting you. We may love someone we cannot have....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: stay together or break up, long term relationships, sexual relationships
long term relationships, sexual relationships, trust issues: Dear Sisina, I am going to record an answer for you on Sound Cloud this evening. I will not use your name. I will make it so you can hear this answer again and again. For now, realize this: 1. All that matters is whether you love each other. If he...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: trying to figure out feelings for someone, men in my life, little gifts
men in my life, little gifts, mishmash: Dear Cheryl, Are you peaceful? I hope. If not, meditate. Pray, too--if you believe (which means you trust God is taking care of all, or that things are as they should be in his world). If you don t think that way, trust all things are as their causes would...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I in Love?, horrible person, quiet place
horrible person, quiet place, love: Dear Doninique, Your answer is here: Saying I Love you , When? http://t.co/R6yOGL2EvH on #SoundCloud Please be relaxed and preferably alone--in a quiet place, when you listen. Thank you, so much, for writing, and please... tell me what you think...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: 20 year flame sparked back up, #faithfulness, #love
#faithfulness, #love, #the_precepts_of_love #cheating : Dear Friend, Thank you for writing. It shows courage, open-mindedness, and willingness to change; all major elements of the proper practice of love. Let us get to the point. Of course you still love him. Your ex boyfriend is a part of your intimate emotional,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: what is the feeling?, Love, Carl Atteniese Jr.
Love, Carl Atteniese Jr., What is Love?: Jay, Thank you for writing. It takes character, honesty, courage, and a willingness to expose your feelings to do the right things. That means -- as far as I can tell -- you are a thoughtful man and possibly, quite a good one. If you speak the truth --...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Mad Love for girl in school, Love, Honesty
Love, Honesty, Asexuality: Dear Robert, How are you? I am sorry I am only seeing this, now. I have been very busy with family, and had my computer repaired so I can use it, again, finally. Love is about caring for what your partner wants which is healthy for him or her. I...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Mad Love for girl in my school, sexiest girl, soft tone
sexiest girl, soft tone, type girl: Robert, Anytime someone used the word Obsess I worry for them. After reading your description I couldn t find a question you wanted me to answer. I would suggest though that you seek someone out to talk to about life in general. You description of how you...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: recently engaged, initial doubts, religious families
initial doubts, religious families, initial impression: Janie, Since I don t know either of you I can t give you a very accurate opinion of whether or not you should marry this guy. I would suggest prior to marrying him that you seek out pre-marital counseling. This would help you and he sort out any issues and...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: We Wish Forever...I want no other..., one in six billion, anxiety problems
one in six billion, anxiety problems, doubt in my mind: Dear Coaley, Hi! How are you. Thank you for writing. Thank yourself, too. Openness and trying to look critically at yourself is ver good. You will have a better life if you remain like this: seeking selutions by asking questions, examining yourself, and...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Is This Love?, True Love, Games
True Love, Games, Insecurity: Melonde, Hello! I remember writing a long response to you, but I failed in saving it. I am sorry. I am going to be brief, this time. I am sorry; usually, I get a quick idea of a potential solution or response to a writer, but I couch it in a long letter...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Marriage confusion., Love is Certainty
Love is Certainty: Brian, Mate, You sound like a caring man. Do the hard work now--in accordance with what you are unsure about; Take a little holiday and let peace overcome you--and her; In that time all will become completely clear to you--with no doubt. ...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Do wives like to cuddle their husbands? and be affectionate ?
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Do wives like to cuddle their husbands? and be affectionate ?

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: my relationship with my husband.
Charity, I hope this message finds you well, and if you are well, I hope you are peaceful. If not, Try meditating. Meditating means not asking, not listening, not praying--just sitting and breathing and granting your mind and heart some rest. After a time,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Do wives like to cuddle their husbands? and be affectionate ?, Love, Anger
Love, Anger, Understanding: THIS is THE MOST RECENT ANSWER; EARLIER ONES ARE BELOW: November 18th, 2014: Addendum; Mauz: I should NOT answer you because of how rude your last letter was, but I do not want suffering in the world; it makes life harder for everyone, one person...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Loving two women
Allen, You didn t give me much information about the woman who moved. Obviously she didn t feel the same way about you or things would have went much differently. She may be on the rebound and thus is reaching out to you again. Where is she living, what interests...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: HELP! I am falling for someone else!
Hello Vaishali, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Why, fidelity, flirting
fidelity, flirting, cheating: Fidelity (A Letter to a recent Client): Hi there, Amber: How are you? I hope you are well--though in the situation you ve described, I see many problems--so I cannot imagine you are. Realize that I can only judge your situation by what you have...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I being Practical
Sal, I think it is a bit odd. I would suggest you have a conversation about it and specifically let him know how it makes you feel. If he isn t willing to change his behavior around it, then I think you may have something to be concerned about. Doc David...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Confused wat should I do?, honesty, coy
honesty, coy, two-timing: Hello, there: I hope you are well at this moment. In a sense of honor--in a perfect relationship--she would have told you about Him as soon as she knew you were interested in her. She did not. Therefore--she is not truly in love with her boyfriend....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: don't know who to ask
Dear Jeff, Thank you for writing. You wonder whether I am the one to ask about whether you sound gay; well, I could certainly could form a strong opinion on the subject with more information, but actually, it doesn t matter what I think you sound. It...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Is it love, or is it just in my head?, #jealousy, #habits
#jealousy, #habits, #habit_energy: Hello, Adelle, Much love, peace, joy, and enlightenment to you. I want you to realize you are a wonderful person for opening up and sharing honestly, caring deeply, and striving earnestly to improve your love. This, more than anything, will heal all...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused as to where I stand with my partner
Hello, Friend, Please sit a while imagining the nature outside your house. Or look out at it through the window. Nature is complex, but simple. When we complicate nature, that is when we get into trouble, right? That is when it ceases to be beautiful and,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Follow-Up to an Earlier Question, Dualism, Forgiveness
Dualism, Forgiveness, Love: Dear Adelle, It s so nice To hear that Love became you It s not necessary to stay In an uncomfortable love Simply because you grew to love it more Melanie Beattie said a good thing She said confusion is a gift I would tend to agree When...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Trust, Trust, jealousy
Trust, jealousy: Hi, Charity. Thanks for writing. Do you love this man? Tell me that, please. This is the beginning of my way of helping you. If you love hom, tell me how you show it. To answer your question, no; without trust there is no good relationship....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Confused, love, lack of love
love, lack of love: Hello, Nisha, Thank you for writing--it shows courage, self effacement, a love of your (and perhaps of others ) humanity, and a willingness to try and make things better. No, I don t think you loved him--not in the sense that love is something that I...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Soon to be ex wife wants to remain friends, What is this?
What is this?: Dear Andy, Thank you for writing. It s not easy, so first off, congratulate yourself for having the courage. It is a step toward being bigger than yesterday. We all grow in sharing. I don t know your wife and I don t know you, so I will go on what you...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: 22 years of tears, living with an addict, pot head
living with an addict, pot head, years of tears: Joie, Your last paragraph is very telling. Your last paragraph is why you are in the mess you are in. You are unwilling to get your hands dirty so to speak. You want things to work out in a good way or you are not willing to do what it takes to get the job...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: 5 years but all my life, joining the peace corps, life question
joining the peace corps, life question, mini vacation: There really is no easy way to tell the person you care about that they have to let you go in order for you to live your life. What you just said in that question was pefect... If you love me then you will understand that I need to do this.... Do not ask like...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Affair, 7 months, coming home
7 months, coming home, two men: Kara, You are in love with a fantasy. It has been in your mind up until now. It is outrageous that you know this is wrong and you are willing to cause such damage to your marriage and your child. You are not in love with this other man. You in lust with...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Angry and hurt...is this love for either party?, having such a hard time, wedding clothes
having such a hard time, wedding clothes, feelings of love: David, I can t really help normal. What you are experiencing in very normal. You have been betrayed and hurt and that leads to anger. I would say it is pretty natural what you feel. A different way to look at it would be to appreciate the fact that this happened...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Angry and hurt...is this love for either party?, having such a hard time, wedding clothes
having such a hard time, wedding clothes, feelings of love: Hi David, I can understand your disappointment since you were trying things to work out for betterment and it went the other way. It is sad and hard to accept. Now it is time to think over the issue in a positive way. Just answer a few questions yourself...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am i sure i actually love her?, good relationship, broken promise
good relationship, broken promise, time don: Hi Josh, Thanks for writing again. If the worst thing your girlfriend behind your back is smoke a ciagrette, count yourself lucky. Personally, I wouldn t let a broken promise over smoking get in the way of a good relationship, but only you can decide...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I actually in love?, year and four months, brink
year and four months, brink, nerves: Hi Bri, Thanks for writing to me. I am sorry to hear you are having so much trouble with your boyfriend. If you want my honest opinion, it sounds to me like you aren t really in love with your boyfriend anymore, but you are afraid of being alone. This...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: advice needed, complection, female friend
complection, female friend, closest friend: Hi Jim, Thanks for writing to me. This must be a frustrating situation to be in. The way I see it, there is a high likelihood that your friend is trying to have her cake and eat it, too. She likes all the attention you give her (she must surely sense...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: advice, dear summer, girls
dear summer, girls: Dear summer, This definitely sounds like a good beginning, don t get too far ahead of yourself though, does this sound like someone you should date? Probably. Does this sound like someone your in love with? Way too early to tell. I hope this helps...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: its charlie, change my life, smart guy
change my life, smart guy, rest of my life: Big-time Wicked-Cool Thank you Charlie! Very nice of you to say so much and so much nice stuff about me. I am just very happy that my words helped you. You sound ready to do what I do! I encourage you. Let me tell you, this work helps me too....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: advise.., girl at school, charlie charlie
girl at school, charlie charlie, new girl: Charlie, That s a real nice name, and I don t say so because it s my middle name. It sounds strong, and it sounds characterful, and at the same time, it s a friendly name. My uncle s name is Charlie, and he was always an example for everyone in the family....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I had an affair with a married man, married man, judgement
married man, judgement, apologies: Sometimes, the hardest thing we will do is push away the person we love in order to be happy. You know that this will and can NEVER work, it just cant. To many things have happened in such short of a time, in the end all that will happen is you being hurt...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I am so afraid of a realtionship that i cannt and dont want to have sex, natural feelings, honey don
natural feelings, honey don, mature friend: Good Question Honey, ( Of course it is! , you re thinking). As in all aspects of life--except when concerning the act of jumping out a window to save your back from the flames behind you in a burning house) do it when you are good and ready. It s...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: About an amazing woman thats older., reason women, best bet
reason women, best bet, weird feeling: Ask for her number, and if she doesn t give it, forget her. This shouldn t be hard, seeing you hardly know her. If she does give you her number, wait a while before you call her. For some reason women don t go for the infatuated guys who can t help themselves,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: ans.., http www myspace, trust communication
http www myspace, trust communication, ups and downs: Every relationship is going to have its ups and downs, and everyone argues at some point in time. You just have to learn to work things out together. When you feel angry or whatever instead of saying anything to her walk out the room or try and talk it out...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: What is the appropriate length of time to fall in love?, commitment phobe, real girlfriend
commitment phobe, real girlfriend, pre nuptial agreement: Dear Cin, Thanks for writing to me. It would be helpful to know how old you and your boyfriend are, the reason being that I think there s a big difference between a 30-year-old who says he doesn t ever want to get married and a 40 or 50-year-old who says...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: am i or aren i?, girl katie, married couple
girl katie, married couple, common misconception: ok the common misconception is that you think about them constantly, and you always wanna be with them, and you never fight thats not it at all have you ever watched a married couple? thats love... they take care of one another its wanting the best...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: to ask out or not to ask out, dead specimens, flying to the moon
dead specimens, flying to the moon, spice 1: Dear Friend, Be yourself, but consider this too, and if you want, season yourself with some spice; 1. It is good that you are thoughtful, but; 2. Nobody ever said it was necessary to make dating like flying to the moon. In other words, only in America...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Should I ask?, proble, neb
proble, neb, disrespect: Hi Neb, So as to not disrespect your friend, I think you should speak to him first about how he would feel if you were to ask his sister out and then take things from there. maybe he could suss out if she likes you or is just playing with your head. If...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Blinded by love, benefit of the doubt, abusive relationship
benefit of the doubt, abusive relationship, abusive man: Dear Bee, Thanks for writing to me. I was involved with and nearly became engaged to an emotionally and verbally abusive man about seven years ago, so I can definitely sympathize with your situation. You may have noticed that I said emotionally and...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Boy, sexual desires, boyfreind
sexual desires, boyfreind, freinds: Hey Jenna! Sorry for responding so late, my computer crashed! haha. It seems to me (and im sorry for being blunt:() that he s using you for his own sexual desires. If you aren t comfortable with sex you shouldn t be asked when are we gonna do it! I understand...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: My Boyfriend :), relationship experience, relationship work
relationship experience, relationship work, faith and hope: It sounds like you 2 have a great relationship. It is a very rare and special thing when people find true love at such a young age, but it certainly is possible. Just be sure not to lose yourself or compromise what you want out of life to make the relationship...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Break, long term relationship, honest relationship
long term relationship, honest relationship, little lies: Brooke, I am not a psychic so I can t know what he is thinking. What you say were little lies were not. Lying period about stuff like that is wrong. If you are doing it to avoid a fight, then you shouldn t even be in that relationship. If he is getting in...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Broken and Torn, baby adoption, great mother
baby adoption, great mother, abortions: Elizabeth, YOU have a child on the way. YOU should not be messing around worrying about your love life. You need to figure out how you are going to support this baby. The best thing to do is not focus on him and getting him involved. Focus on your baby. Adoption...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Brother's Friend, younger girls, older guys
younger girls, older guys, brother: Kelly, When I was your age I used to be completely in love with one of my older brother s friends. I understand what you are feeling. Please remember this though, not always, but a lot of times, older guys only go after younger girls with one thing...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: why his behaviour is like this?, http www myspace, control freaks
http www myspace, control freaks, abusive relationship: This is the type of guy that worries me sometimes. When guys prohibit this type of behaviour it means that they are control freaks which means that if you dont do everything that they want you to do it makes them angry and I have seen that turn into an abusive...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I believe that this is love that I am feeling, respect woman, luck david
respect woman, luck david, rmw: RMW, These feelings are normal when you like someone. Rather than focus on your feelings I think it would be important to know what kind of guy he is. Does he have good character? Does he work hard? is he the type of guy that will take care of a family. Does...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: best friend, falling in love with your best friend, boyfriend and girlfriend
falling in love with your best friend, boyfriend and girlfriend, perfect person: Truthfully, my best friend and I started out as boyfriend and girlfriend, and when we broke up, we promised to still be really good friends. Anyway, I can help you ^_^. I think you can still be friends with him. Just try to wait until he doesn t have a girlfriend,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: boyfriend trouble, maturity level, sticky situation
maturity level, sticky situation, differnt: Your in a very sticky situation. First off he probabley does love you and all, but he might not care for you like you want him to because he might not have done that before with anyone else. Also it might be a maturity level thing. He just might be in that...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: boyfriend, sweet guy, asides
sweet guy, asides, monica: hi monica. if his actions and his words dont contradict each other then i think you should belive him. if asides from his word his actions also tell you that he loves you there is no point in doubting him. let your self easy and trust people. some times...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: boyfriends, serious relationship, small stuff
serious relationship, small stuff, boyfriends: Dear Ley, About 50% of questions I get are of this nature, my advice is simple though you may not like it. You have your entire high school/collage/life-time to find your true love, too often teens try to rush into a serious relationship, believe me I was...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: my boyfriends, slow songs, rest of your life
slow songs, rest of your life, boyfriends: Sophia, When I talk about love and serious relationships I generally mean someone you can spend the rest of your life with, now love to some people doesn t just mean how you feel about them but rather how they effect your life and if they can be yours forever,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How to let a boyfrind know I do not have feelings for him., girl frind, lesbian tendencies
girl frind, lesbian tendencies, boyfrind: Dear Rachael, Thanks for writing to me. I m unsure from your letter how old you are, but it sounds to me like you re at least college-age; the reason why I m wondering about this is that if you are very young (under 18), your sexuality may not be set in...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Should I break up with him?, long term relationship, half a person
long term relationship, half a person, stupid stuff: Danielle, It seems that it would be important to get out of this relationship and focus on your schoolwork and also focus on growing yourself. Instead of volunteering for this crazy relationship why not volunteer at a local non-profit. This will mature you...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I did the breaking up!, gorgeous guy, girlfriends
gorgeous guy, girlfriends, falling out of love: I apologize if I offended you. You asked me a question, I gave my answer. I give honest, no b.s. advice. I took a lot of consideration and time into your answer. I don t believe I was anything but honest and objective and certainly did not mean to be in your...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: breakup, april april, right choice
april april, right choice, important things: April, Do you have any reason not to believe him. Has he lied to you in the past. I would go on past behavior. If he is not honest with you about other things let that be a clue to you. Maybe you can stay friends and find ways to help with his grades. I think...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: at a brick wall, two different worlds, wall ok
two different worlds, wall ok, brick wall: Melissa, Sounds like this devastated you. I want to quote you ...And my friends think I am the sweetest most patient human being... Those are really great qualities. The one missing that you need to get quick is wisdom. With Corey there were some serious...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: broken hearted, foolish behavior, stable place
foolish behavior, stable place, momma: Tatrice, Please stop having kids with this jerk. These kids learn from you and your husbands foolish behavior. This does not seem like a phase. It seems like a way of life. He would not do these things if he knew you wouldn t tolerate the behavior. The fact...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Childhood love/marriage in trouble, marriage in trouble, irrational decisions
marriage in trouble, irrational decisions, looking for love: Hi Hitesh, you certainly do need to be focusing on something else, and meditation would help to keep you focus in and control as well as calm, especially in this situation. But I cannot stress enough to you how important it is for you to focus on yourself....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Childhood love/marriage in trouble, marriage in trouble, irrational decisions
marriage in trouble, irrational decisions, living in hell: hi hitesh, i hate to feel your pain. i strongly suggest that you visit a counsellor and speak to someone one on one about what you are going through. You are certainly not in any condition to be making any irrational decisions on what to do next, as you...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Childhood love, childhood sweetheart, first move
childhood sweetheart, first move, rest of my life: Hi Jessica, I had the biggest crush on a childhood sweetheart and I could have sworn that I was madly in love with him. He was the only guy I could ever think about and the only guy I could see myself myself the rest of my life with. I used to do the same,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: CONFUSED!!!, serious relationship, good sex
serious relationship, good sex, stacy: Stacy, You are being USED. Do you really want to make him commit to you. Doesn t that sound rather controlling? The problem here is that her doesn t respect you because when you make a stand you give in. This sounds like more of a Stacy issue than a boyfriend...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: CONFUSED, cant belive, oh my goodness
cant belive, oh my goodness, serious relationship: Well as much as you do not want to hear this, My first thought to why he would do this is because possibly seeing Liz prompted him to have feelings for her which contradicted the feelings he has for you. I think that if you are putting more of your heart...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: some doubts and questions, thease, friend guy
thease, friend guy, guy friends: Im really not sure what youre trying to ask me anymore. Like I said, things about the relationship seem fishy. I can t tell you whether things will go fine or not, I don t know either of you personally. I understand you ve known each other for a long time,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: CONFUSED, 1st boyfriend, mom and dad
1st boyfriend, mom and dad, pretty girl: Lissi, I think your feeling this way since you need not get closure from the first time around. It is very hard to ebd a relationship because of parents. It was his parents who wanted an end, not the two of you, so this is where your feelings are coming...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Cold feet, maybe???, heart desires, emotional reaction
heart desires, emotional reaction, presense: Dear Stacey, You are in a tough situation, but my answer to your query is simple. It is a resounding No, you are definitely not in love! I never had an easier question to answer, (given the information you provided). Not only are you not in love, you...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Committed relationship, full time job, 4 months
full time job, 4 months, good job: Hi Curious, Thanks for writing to me. It sounds to me like you are definitely in a committed relationship (if you re not sure, why not bring it up?) At 23 and 24, however, 4 months is a brief amount of time to be contemplating marriage. It sounds like...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Complicated situation..., single mom, assistant teacher
single mom, assistant teacher, delimma: hi leigh i think there is no harm in leting the person know what you feel abt him. but you just need to tell yourself before hand that if he doesnt return your feelings you will back off and continue the relationship in the professional capacity. if you think...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Very Confused, second marriage, work sex
second marriage, work sex, emotional harm: Hi April, Thanks for writing to me. What you ve described is mental and verbal abuse. It sounds like your husband is projecting his bad traits onto you-- he is the one who is controlling, selfish, and easy to anger, not you. He is attempting to isolate...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Confused, emotions, feelings
emotions, feelings, air force: James, thinking about your ex is a fantasy. Stay away from the fantasy it will only cause problems in your current marriage. Stay focused on your wife. Write her, e-mail her, talk to her. The more you don t do those things the more you will fantasize about...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Confused, huband, baby things
huband, baby things, sweet words: Maria, Saying you won t leave him because you love him is a very foolish answer. Use your brain woman! You are in an abusive relationship. You need to leave it if not for yourself then for the sake of your child. You are showing your child that it is okay...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Confused, quarter life crisis, real friends
quarter life crisis, real friends, communicators: R. You have slowly made choices that have led you this place. You need to decide if you will start making choices to get back to a better place in your marriage. If you rely on your feelings as you have been then you will not make good choices. At some...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Confused, back of my mind, right decision
back of my mind, right decision, best friend: E, Messed up is the prefect word. You need to become single for a while and get focused on not being messed up. You need to know what you want in a relationship. You seem to think that the sex being AMAZING is important. It s important, but not the only thing....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Confused, old feelings, two females
old feelings, two females, health conditions: Laura, It is interesting you chose to marry a daddy and now don t like it because of all the complications that come with it. As long as you entertain fantasys the ex and view it as an escape hatch you will continue to experience frustration. You need...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Confused, long distance relationship, youngest girl
long distance relationship, youngest girl, normalcy: Becky, I would encourage you to disengage from this relationship. I completely agree that love is not enough. Going about things the right way. Seeing this person daily in person is important. It just seems that you have gone about things in a wrong way and...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Confused emotions, untrue rumors, threatned
untrue rumors, threatned, good qualities: Hi Daniel, Thanks for writing to me. While I have no idea what the huge thing your ex lied about was, it sounds to me like you are clinging to what clearly was an unhealthy and maybe even abusive relationship out of fear of being alone. Some of what...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Confused, Lust or Love?, seperate ways, private life
seperate ways, private life, co workers: Hi Carolyn, Thanks for writing to me. Yes, I think you should definitely move on with your life and try to put this infatuation behind you. This man is playing games with you, and he is not respecting you. He s not respecting his girlfriend at all either,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Confused and lonely, http www myspace, first love
http www myspace, first love, soft spot: I really dont want to break your heart but you will never have her just to yourself. I mean she was playing you in the beginning when she went back to the ex. Now if she really cared for you etc she would have never done that at all. I know that it is something...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Confused about a new man, deadline passes, new man
deadline passes, new man, older man: Hi Jennifer, Thanks for writing to me. I think you re right in feeling you deserve the title here. While I m not sure how long you ve been seeing each other, it sounds like you are in a committed relationship due to the amount of time you spend together....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Very Confused, playing with fire, instinct
playing with fire, instinct, half years: wow. sounds like something off a movie ya know...here what i think. as much as i hate to go against my instinct, you have to follow your heart. ive never been one for divorce i think its wrong and would never suggest it. but you have so much passion and drive....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Someone that I care very deeply for, kind heart, seperation
kind heart, seperation, temptations: Traci, I just sent a prayer up for you. I would encourage you to find a place where you can get support as you raise your kids. I understand it gets difficult. They will appreciate the commitment you have made to them when they are older and truly understand...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Will I have my chance??, nothing on my mind, personal areas
nothing on my mind, personal areas, intrested: Dear Cassie, Sounds like Kenny and you seem to really hit it off! He seems to have a lot of respect for you too, which is great! I think it s terrific that your piercings don t bother him, and I know exactly what you mean about the hours you spend together...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: who do I choose?!, successful business man, serious relationship
successful business man, serious relationship, good relationship: This is a very tough situation for you to be in, I can definitely see your confusion. It sounds to me like you really like both of them equally-which actually might help make your decision easier. Think long and hard about WHO you want to spend your life with....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Who do i choose?, new man, resentment
new man, resentment, friendships: Becky, Why do you need to start something new with someone? Are you scared to be alone. Go experience the world as a single. You will have plenty of time for relationships. Cultivate friendships that will last a lifetime, go overseas. Getting attached at...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How to commit, zen baby, japanese buddhism
zen baby, japanese buddhism, rachel rachel: Rachel, I often give serious advice, and though I consider your plea for it important, I am going to take a chance and give you the best sort of advice I can without getting heavy, for two reasons; 1. I want to impress upon you tha you are (now at least)...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: commitment, long term relationship, life peace
long term relationship, life peace, intimate relationships: Dear terry, You are thoughtful. Welcome to the best the human race has to offer. Do you realize how glorious your life is; how wonderful it can be, simply because you are thoughtful? Do you appreciate the singularity of the significance of this, in the...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: a complex relationship, different roads, premarital sex
different roads, premarital sex, rehab center: Dearest Whitney, I appologize, I am not sure how long you have been awaiting an answer to your question. Whomever you originally wanted to answer your question could not so it went to anyone who would be able to help out. I am going to make an assumption...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: A complex romance, foolish choice, premarital sex
foolish choice, premarital sex, druggie: The only lifeline I found related to sex was a place that does rehab for sex offenders. Why don t you research the place and then you can truly find out what he is being sent thier for. They or he may be telling you it is for pre-marital sex because they don...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: i am so confused.., one of my best friends, dear mike
one of my best friends, dear mike, gist: Dear Mike, Keep life simple, not easy. Always be fair, moral, and a gentleman, but get with the girl you love. Period. I wasn t to clear on your story, but the gist is this; you love someone, she likes you. The problem is she goes to a different school....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: very confused, self esteem issues, mixed feelings
self esteem issues, mixed feelings, last boyfriend: Dear Heather, It sounds like he is a very kind young man, and you are having difficulty accepting his kindness toward you. You mentioned being in some bad relationships prior to this one. I d say you have some self-esteem issues that need to be...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused!, friend zach, girl friend
friend zach, girl friend, happend: ok so i know exactly how u feel. This happend to me before too. I believe you still have feelings for charles. However, you must ask your self the question if you two got back together and went out do you think it would work out and it would magically go back...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused, suit case, finished school
suit case, finished school, foolishness: Terri, How old are you? Do you realize the foolishness of the decisions you have been making? This man was using you. If he loved you as you call it then he wouldn t have gotten married. It is time for you to acknowledge that you made a huge mistake and...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused, fantasy relationship, long periods
fantasy relationship, long periods, disrespect: Mandy, Of course you can t get over this guy because you keep talking to him. Stop talking to him. The more you focus away from your husband and marriage the more you will not love him. It doesn t matter that your wedding was arranged. You need to honor your...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused., emotional person, relationship
emotional person, relationship, queen: Lara, You need to get out of this relationship and really figure out what you want in a guy. Make a list and put some thought into it. It would be terrible to stay much longer and eventually realize that this relationship is not good for you. David www.help4life.ne...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: so confused, old boyfriend, 19 years
old boyfriend, 19 years, good friends: Marie, you are only 19. Why are you so committed to be on the path of marriage. Dating is for figuring out who is a good fit for you. An alcoholic IS NOT a good fit. Break it off and figure out what you really want and then look for it. David www.help4life.ne...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused and aching, boyfriend and girlfriend, rest of our lives
boyfriend and girlfriend, rest of our lives, day job: This is natural when you don t go about things the correct way. From what you described you plunged headlong into this very intense relationship. You didn t go into it slowly. I would imagine that you are realizing now that you should have taken your time...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused, do i love her, does she love me?, holding hands, mates
holding hands, mates, family and friends: Dave, If you are not willing to ask her then it seems from what you describe that she may like you. Yet, don t ruin this relationship by jumping in the sack with her. You don t even know what she is like. Observe her around family and friends so you get a...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused on love, long distant relationships, sth
long distant relationships, sth, obstacle: Hi Amber, they say separation for love is like a wind for the fire. if the fire is little, it ll go out, but if it s strong, the wind will make it flame up. about the last experience, it s important of course, but you mustn t let it be an obstacle for...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused relationship, amritsar india, chandigarh india
amritsar india, chandigarh india, relationship question: Dear Mukta, I am from another culture, quite different from yours. In my culture, and in my personal view, no two people should consider marriage who have not had a courtship of compatablility, understanding, emotional love, physical love, and growth-rientied...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused wife..., flirting with disaster, opposite sex friends
flirting with disaster, opposite sex friends, fantasy world: Sharon, You are flirting with disaster. You should have NO close opposite sex friends. This only potentially leads to affairs and divorces. Please don t rationalize and say you don t want to hurt feelings. When you married you made a decision to be with this...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused, simmons first, feeling the same way
simmons first, feeling the same way, arguements: Lanae, With anything the little things begin mounting to big things which is not good at all. Let me tell you though, that people do grow up and the possibility of falling out of love with someone is very possible. I have known couples that were married...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Should I contact him?, male culture, true feelings
male culture, true feelings, unlisted number: Robyn, I know how you feel. I cannot get someone out of my heart either, sometimes. Well, here is what I recommend; Realize that he is a man. That means, for better or worse, he is part of a culture of men; uncles, brothers, fathers, friends, and those...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: controlling and insecure wife, question pool, playing pool
question pool, playing pool, play pool: HI Greg, I saw that your question has not been answered by anyone in the Relationship category and was put into the Question Pool for any one to answer. I know it has been a VERY long time since you sent this, but I wanted to know if you needed any more...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Do I convert to continue my love for her?, ancient religions, fantasy novel
ancient religions, fantasy novel, greek philosopher: Marc, I could speak reams on this subject. It cuts to the heart of many of my core beliefs. However, I want to recommend that you do the following, if you can: Tell your girlfriend that you respect what she has said and that you want to go your separate...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I have a cruch on someone, brother of the bride, cruch
brother of the bride, cruch, weird situation: Dear Lina, I think this puts you in a weird situation. Why dont you try to get together the two families, even if he is not there and get to know them better. Talk to your mom and mention that they ought to invite them over and have a sort of dinner party....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: crush on supervisor, academic supervisor, father image
academic supervisor, father image, time respect: Hi Lucy! Nice letter. To the point, I think it is not playing with fire unless you keep thinking it through instead of feeling your way. Thinking is important, but over-rated. Some Buddhists like to say: Thinking is dangerous. What I really...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: crush, good first impression, monkey bars
good first impression, monkey bars, first move: Karlie, Bravo! Good for you, to many times have potential relationships gone sour because the two people were too shy to do anything about it. I am glad that you are willing to take the inititave and ask him out. I DO NOT think there is anything wrong with...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: What To D0?, horrible mistake, moment of weakness
horrible mistake, moment of weakness, guilt: Hi Kayla, Thanks for writing to me. I am sorry to hear you re in such a tough situation. I think you need to come clean with your girlfriend. Admit to her that you made a horrible mistake in a moment of weakness and that it won t happen again. Then...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Dating, wrong decision, spending time
wrong decision, spending time, emotion: It sounds to me like he has trouble with commitment, which leaves me wondering has he been hurt in the past?? That could be the reason he wont say that he loves you. Emotion is so much harder for some men than others and some just refuse to let themselves...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Dating Problems, fixing a relationship, bad temper
fixing a relationship, bad temper, counciler: Desiree, Your problems sound like the characteristics of a bad relationship. Normally I try to present events I have seen in the past and try to sway my questioner, however to be perfectly honest I cannot give you advice for fixing a relationship involving...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Dating, having an orgasm, personal problems
having an orgasm, personal problems, good friend: Hi Robert, Has she ever cheated on you to make you not trust her? If not, you re putting up a wall between you that doesn t need to be there in the first place. You would be creating problems in your relationship for no reason whatsoever. Give her the...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Daughter blinded by love, daughter lives, crapp
daughter lives, crapp, current boyfriend: Hi Deborah, Thanks for writing to me. I definitely sympathize with the difficulty of your situation. However, your daughter is now an adult (!) and ready to face the consequences of choosing to be with the wrong partner. It is, unfortunately, the only...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Depression in my 10 week pregnant girlfriend, pregnant girlfriend, lady in my life
pregnant girlfriend, lady in my life, emotional connection: Rod, I would encourage both of you to get pre-marital counseling before you marry. This is not a good start to what hopefully will be a long-term relationship. If she is unwilling to go then at least you can go and get further insight on what to do. David...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Difficulty forgetting about past love, ex girlfriend, goddess
ex girlfriend, goddess, 3 years: Vincent; Wow...I didnt think it was possible but you have presented me with an issue that I am dealing heavily with myself. I am having the exact same thoughts and in the exact same situation. I want to answer this in depth and maybe help us both out. ...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I DONT KNOW IF I AM IN LOVE, pretty good guy, cold feet
pretty good guy, cold feet, quarrels: Dear Krystal, You re completely right - it s dear old cold feet. And it s quite natural - you have to make an important decision. As far as I can inderstand, you like him as a person, but you re not sure he s the man for you. Now, think a while - you...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Doubting, change in my life, self confidence
change in my life, self confidence, eating habbits: Sarah, Read what you wrote. If you do not get out of this relationship this will be your marriage. It seems that you have all the information you need to know what to do. It is a matter of doing it. Your job is to find someone you are compatible with, not...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Like to date my former lover's sister..., true friendship, former lover
true friendship, former lover, obviosly: Hi Mikey, Yeah your situation is a tough one. Let me point out though...my belief on love is...you can t control who you fall for. Obviosly if you and your former lover have remained friends through a break-up, you have a strong relationship. If its a true...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: dating of course, christian girl, 2 girls
christian girl, 2 girls, hile: Chris, Now what is the reason your parents gave you for not being able to date??? I think an appropriate age to start dating is 16, but that does not mean that my children will not date before that, lets say that I agree with 16 being the age that they...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: dating gifts, bathing suit, gunner
bathing suit, gunner, champagne: Gunner, Sometimes its not about the gifts, especially when your short on funds. Take her somewhere special. No parks, nothing like that, but go on a trail or go biking out doors somewhere and pack a lunch (dont tell her that) perhaps if your of age, with...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: dating..., losing my virginity, intellectual conversations
losing my virginity, intellectual conversations, touchy feely: Dear Holly, What I see is your mother instinct cropping up at a very early age. You had sex with this young man, and so you are all nervous that he has to shape up and be a man to support your set image of a husband and father. Now, I am not sure,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How do I deal with a selfish man, differnt places, selfish man
differnt places, selfish man, wasting my time: Dear Kiesha, Unfortunatly integrity is something that men have an over-abundance of, especially as they get older.. IT seems the older they get, the more set in their ways they become, and they begin to have an almost zelous approach to the way things are...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: My dear friend:What can..., loving kindness, abstract nature
loving kindness, abstract nature, geocites: Dear Shannon, You already love yourself, it seems to me. You have taken a prime interest in your growth, by inquiring about loving yourself. You understand the importance of understanding yourself, for you have sought to grow, and are not ashamed of asking...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Do i deserve him?, relatioship, breakups
relatioship, breakups, wise decision: Hi.. I don t think he is an ideal match for you. If you have lost those feelings of love for him and as you say he bored you .. I feel its not a wise decision to be with him. I know one of your concerns is the upbringing of your son, but would you...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: The different types of love, emotional chemistry, true meaning of love
emotional chemistry, true meaning of love, what is the true meaning of love: This is a great question. I can start off by telling you what I think the difference between lust and love is. Lust is a temporary emotion; you might feel lustful towards someone before you even talk to them, based only on their physical appearance. You...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: should i get a divorce, should i get a divorce, sexual relationship
should i get a divorce, sexual relationship, love affair: Dear Sabrina, Thanks for writing to me. Deciding whether or not to stay with someone who has cheated on you really is up to the inidividual. Some people feel that the number of times a person has strayed, the number of years you have been married, and...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Why doesn't she let me go?, lack of respect, hindsight
lack of respect, hindsight, 5 months: Hi Ric, Thanks for giving me some more information. It sounds like this is a very unhealthy relationship. There seems to be a lot of mind games and a lack of commitment on her part. If she s gone so far as to tell you that she feels she is missing out...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: why doesnt he love me????, life isnt, guy friend
life isnt, guy friend, orkut: Maybe he just hasn t realized how he feels about you yet. Sometimes guys arent as quick to notice their feelings or the feelings of other people. The fact that you came right out and told him how you felt about him may have scared him a little. Most guys arent...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: doez he luv me, t rush, life dreams
t rush, life dreams, signz: Sonnie, Hi there? Are you peaceful? I hope so. I sent this advice and these ideas to someone today, and I hope you don t mind if I paraphrase: If I love someone, she is first and last on my mind during the day. She also comes to mind when I m...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't believe my husband really loves me., ties, divorce
ties, divorce, marriage: Hello Irene. i definatly agree with all of your points. This man you are with has issues. If he is giving all this love to this other boy and neglecting the love his natural child needs, this is a problem. How is your child gonna feel growing up. I do have...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't know what to do?, 11 years, 6 years
11 years, 6 years, good friends: Dear Friend, Listen and listen hard. You are a good person and deserve happiness. Your friends do too. You are NOT responsible for their happiness. Thinking so is what causes most problems in the world. Follow these points to the letter: 1....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't know what to do, marriage vows, good luck
marriage vows, good luck, dana: Dear Girlie, Thanks for writing to me. In my opinion, you needn t feel like you need to return the favor of your boyfriend sticking by you when you were healing from your accident. If he loves you, I m sure the idea of staying by your side did not seem...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't know what to do, massive crush, sci fi
massive crush, sci fi, couple days: I do not think she is over you, I think she is trying to be mature about this relationship and is making all the wrong mistakes. She needs you like you need her because she is afraid of losing you, she wants you in her life. I think the best thing you can...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't know what to do, concrete answer, response time
concrete answer, response time, despair: I apologize for the long response time. The best thing you can do right now for yourself to get over this is to tell her how you feel. Now you know that there is a chance she will reject you, but there is also a chance that she will tell you how she feels...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't know how I feel, long term relationship, loving person
long term relationship, loving person, interior decorating: Hi Liz, Thanks for writing to me. I think you need to go with your instinct on this and ask for a trial separation. It s probably the only way you will be able to determine how important this man is to you. As for the complications of asking him to...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't know if i love my Boy-friend anymore, good relationship, trip book
good relationship, trip book, boy friend: Evie, When you think about the person you want to spend the rest of your life with do you really imagine it with this person? I believe you are looking for a way to get out of this relationship, but are a bit embarrassed it took you 5 years to realize it....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't know, young adulthood, superficial relationships
young adulthood, superficial relationships, best friend in the world: Emily, How are you? Genius is trusting your own mind. That said, let me tell you what my mind says. Love is what it boils down to, not blessings, unless you are in a war zone, or living on a deserted island. I have no patience for people who chose...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't think he loves me any more....., at3, grown woman
at3, grown woman, marrige: Janie, Why are you doing this to your children? You have a choice in this. Your children don t. It is pretty outrageous that you would tolerate this behavior as a grown woman. Please find a place with relative to live to protect your children. They don t...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't understand, neediness, abusive father
neediness, abusive father, roommate: Hi Meghan, Thanks for writing to me. I think you did the right thing by breaking up with this guy. Needy men rarely change, and in fact, the more time you spend with them, the more demanding they become. I also think it s interesting that as soon as...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: i dont know, freind, fay
freind, fay, dana: Hi Fay, Thanks for writing to me. In order to give you the best answer I can, I will need you to tell me some more information about your relationship (such as both of your ages, how long you ve been dating, and how the relationship is in general). If...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I dont know!, uncomfortable situation, getting money
uncomfortable situation, getting money, boy friend: I can see both points of view in this situation. However, your points definitely seem valid. First of all, I never recommend getting money involved in relationships until you re married, it complicates things and puts you in an uncomfortable situation. I understand...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: i dont know what to do, relatioship, realtionship
relatioship, realtionship, loveless: Hi Maggie, Thanks for writing to me. I think, for the sake of your child and your sanity, you should leave the father of your child. Staying in a loveless relationship is not good for anyone involved. If the other guy really loves you and loves your...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: doubting love, long distance relationships, easliy
long distance relationships, easliy, nervous breakdown: Hi Boris. It sounds to me like this girl is clearly playing mind games with you. She pushes you away only to beg you to come back. People do this to test ones boundaries. Don t let this happen. Tell her upfront....do you want it all or nothing at all. You...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Should I drop her?, friend of the family, ball games
friend of the family, ball games, wasting your time: Dre, I believe you are wasting your time. She is having her cake and eating it to. You are being a party to that. I m not sure you can demand anything of her. I would encourage you to move on and find a relationship that is much more functional than this...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Ending a relationship or Taking a risk?, ending a relationship, angry person
ending a relationship, angry person, taking a risk: Well, as I can tell from this letter, this guy s sort of a wank. I mean, he cheated on a girl he went out with since they were juniors in high school. When you think about it, it s pretty sad, isn t it? If you don t feel that this relationship could ever be...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Enemy's Boyfriend, sister kelly, golden rule
sister kelly, golden rule, worst enemy: Taliya, Whats more important, your desrire for Bryan or your friendship with Taylor? You never date your friends ex s...its the golden rule us women have set in place. We just dont do things like this. I think if anything, its great to be friends with...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Is it too early to be in love?, http www myspace, guy friend
http www myspace, guy friend, light bulb: There really isnt a time frame on when to say I love you, that is something that you say when you feel right in saying it. So if you dont feel it or feel right saying it then dont say it. And if he wants to know why just tell him that you want to wait until...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: The edge of a breakup?, head brain, pleading
head brain, pleading, half years: Rosalind, I think what your head is telling you is that this is not the right relationship for you. You have been given a lot of information and what you choose to do with it could effect your life for a long time. He is close to his mother and no amount...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: emotional self protection?, emotional detachment, serious relationship
emotional detachment, serious relationship, good relationship: Steven, It seems that it would make sense to see if your relationship can work without sex. I understood that communicating over the phone is not enjoyable at times. Yes problems should be challenged I agree. Yet, do you have the time and patience to get...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: What do you do when everyhting is so confusing and nothing makes sense., walking downtown, nothing makes sense
walking downtown, nothing makes sense, everyday basis: Kee, Please have some respect for yourself and leave this guy. Do you value yourself so little that you are going to stay and take this garbage? I would tell you that fixing this relationship should not be your concern. Your concern should be finding out...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Falling in Love to fast, baby all the time, day gifts
baby all the time, day gifts, 4 months: LaTanya, You have given him the wrong message by not saying anything to him. You have taken advantage of him by not saying anything to him. The more you wait the harder it will be to deal with. I suggest you stop talking to him and let him know that you are...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Falling in love even more, deeper sense, chest pains
deeper sense, chest pains, whole heart: Dear Marie, Thanks for writing to me. To answer your question, I do think it is possible to find the one at any age. It s just not as likely to happen as a teenager. Enjoy your relationship and let yourself fall in love, but don t get too hung up on...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Falling in love..., wasting my time, 7 months
wasting my time, 7 months, little space: Megan: I know 7 months together seems like an eternity, but I also think after his marriage, being cheated on AND a divorce, he probably is going to need a little time to be alone...and I don t mean without you, but without any ties . It seems that on...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: FED UP!, exwife, question the question
exwife, question the question, personal things: Yeah, I agree that sounds fishy. There is no need for them to continually check in with each other. They really should only need to talk about things concerning their children. Talk to your boyfriend about this, because it is very odd. If it makes you that...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Do We Feel The Same, boyfriend and girlfriend, freshman year
boyfriend and girlfriend, freshman year, adn: Dear Tajah, What do you really feel about him? What does he really feel about you? Answer these questions without thinking; feeling your way to the answers. You know instinctively, just trust yourself. I think that he might love you and he might...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: First Love, empty spaces, wrong person
empty spaces, wrong person, first love: Hi there. Well first of all, everyone has certain needs that need to be met in a relationship. Theres emotional needs and physical needs. Those are obviously the two big ones. I think it is quite possible that one if not both of those needs are being satisfied...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: First Love, marrige, defenition of love
marrige, defenition of love, first love: Hi R, thanks for writing. Here it goes. Do not call your first love. He is the fixture in your dreams not the meaning of them. The dreams represent a desire to escape from your life, which may have become as all married life with time becomes all too common....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: CONFUSED ! ! ! ! !, indian men, indian culture
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: CONFUSED ! ! ! ! !, indian men, indian culture, westerners

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: A complex romance, premarital sex, rehab
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: A complex romance, premarital sex, rehab

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused on love, good luck, amber
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: confused on love, good luck, amber, absence makes the heart

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: controlling and insecure wife, poor relationships, little food
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: controlling and insecure wife, poor relationships, little food, negativity

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Difficulty forgetting about past love, beautiful boy, boy friend
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Difficulty forgetting about past love, beautiful boy, boy friend, married with children

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I DONT KNOW IF I AM IN LOVE, comming home, city person
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I DONT KNOW IF I AM IN LOVE, comming home, city person, mudd

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How do I deal with a selfish man, different light, 2am
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How do I deal with a selfish man, different light, 2am, true love

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't believe my husband really loves me., irene, marriage
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't believe my husband really loves me., irene, marriage, counseling

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't know what to do, relatioship, entire world
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I don't know what to do, relatioship, entire world, best friend

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: emotional self protection?, excuse time, fear of rejection
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: emotional self protection?, excuse time, fear of rejection, emotional intimacy

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: My fiance', fiance, good luck
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: My fiance', fiance, good luck, mom

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Help, good job, old girl
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Help, good job, old girl, whole life

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: My husband is working and other marital problems, change of attitude, immature man
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: My husband is working and other marital problems, change of attitude, immature man, work ethic

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: What kind of love?, troublesome relationship, month and a half
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: What kind of love?, troublesome relationship, month and a half, tough times

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: how do i know if my boyfriend really loves me, right time, joanna
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: how do i know if my boyfriend really loves me, right time, joanna, love

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How to know if love is true?, do the right thing
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How to know if love is true?, do the right thing

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: how to know you're in love, actions speak louder than words, 3 words
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: how to know you're in love, actions speak louder than words, 3 words, louder than words

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Do I Love Him?, collage, mates
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Do I Love Him?, collage, mates, girls

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Can Love Just Die? Help Me Please..., belive, spelling
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Can Love Just Die? Help Me Please..., belive, spelling

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Love over the Internet, honesty, truth
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Love over the Internet, honesty, truth, love

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Love, instincs, odd things
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Love, instincs, odd things, long time

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: long term boyfriend or friend?, distant relationship, dificult
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: long term boyfriend or friend?, distant relationship, dificult, self destruction

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: do i love him?, different kinds of love, things in my head
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: do i love him?, different kinds of love, things in my head, wonderful things

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: In love or not?
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: In love or not?

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Do I love my husband of 12 years?, loving something, feeling the same way
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Do I love my husband of 12 years?, loving something, feeling the same way, something out of nothing

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: is this love? how can i learn to trust?, leap of faith, mistake
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: is this love? how can i learn to trust?, leap of faith, mistake

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: In love with a Married Women, breath of fresh air, vows
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: In love with a Married Women, breath of fresh air, vows, marriage

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Do I love this other man?, disicion
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Do I love this other man?, disicion

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I in love? Ready for divorce?, spending time, true love
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I in love? Ready for divorce?, spending time, true love, marriage

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Not sure if i'm in love, child hasn, relationship
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Not sure if i'm in love, child hasn, relationship, parents

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: married to soon?, commentator, rubbish
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: married to soon?, commentator, rubbish, wit

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: meant to be?, niki, upbringing
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: meant to be?, niki, upbringing, loving woman

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Please Help!, virginity
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Please Help!, virginity

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: My partner feels she has feelings for an Ex., abusive situation, foot pole
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: My partner feels she has feelings for an Ex., abusive situation, foot pole, moms

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: polar feelings., new perspective, tough love
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: polar feelings., new perspective, tough love, predicament

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Love, special person, good chance
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Love, special person, good chance, number 3

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How do you really know?
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How do you really know?

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I really in love with two women, better person, first love
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I really in love with two women, better person, first love, new years eve

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: when to say "i love you", true feelings, bad idea
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: when to say "i love you", true feelings, bad idea, good luck

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I scared or do I just not care?, good luck
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I scared or do I just not care?, good luck

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Can't forget first love, better men, mano
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Can't forget first love, better men, mano, vitalik

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: i think my boss likes me...what do I do?, marital problems, hubby
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: i think my boss likes me...what do I do?, marital problems, hubby, happiness

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: think wife is depressed or not in love with me, 10th anniversary, ups and downs
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: think wife is depressed or not in love with me, 10th anniversary, ups and downs, good luck

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: what to do?, feelings, wine
How to Know if You`re Really in Love: what to do?, feelings, wine

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: failing marriage, failing marriage, exceptions
failing marriage, exceptions, habit: Don t stay if you re being abused. Don t stay if you know your spouse is being unfaithful. Don t stay if the children are being abused or could be abused. Don t stay if, by staying, you are enabling your spouse to continue in an illegal or harmful habit....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Did I fall out of love?, volunteer fire fighter, state cop
volunteer fire fighter, state cop, top of my lungs: Kaytie, Have you ever felt that you had that perfect relationship? The one in the movies, the relationship that blossoms like in PRETTY WOMEN... or the music that plays in the background after she leaves him and he flees his city to find her across the...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Will i fall in love?, mounths, doubt in my mind
mounths, doubt in my mind, unfortunatly: Stephen, Unfortunatly love is one of those things that you cant put your finger on even when you feel it deeply. There is no doubt in my mind that you care for your girlfriend, and yes loving someone does take time; but it also takes many more things....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: fallen for a girl with a bf, kisses and hugs, t rush
kisses and hugs, t rush, sick puppy: THIS GIRL IS USING YOU! Snap back to reality. Until she officially ends it with this other guy, don t let her string you along. If she really wants to be with you, than she would be with YOU. Also, don t rush into things so quickly, you only met her a week...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: am I falling for this guy..?, considerate man, serious relationship
considerate man, serious relationship, son 13: Harley, I think you should ask. You surely don t want to have feelings for this guy and continue building feelings only to find out that he has just been using you. If this does get serious you may want to hold off anything until your kids are all out of...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: falling out of love?, doomed relationship, marriage material
doomed relationship, marriage material, serious relationship: Chelsea, Don t lead him on. Be upfront and truthful with him. Saying you want him in your life is cruel and is leading him on. Let him know you don t want to marry him and leave it at that. If you are the glue that keeps a relationship together that is...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: falling OUT of love, first girlfriend, fish in the sea
first girlfriend, fish in the sea, teenage guy: No i do not think you are expecting too much at all, all you need is some romance in your life, it doesnt mean you need to have thousands of dollars worth of jewlery, it just means you want him to see you on a more personal level. Talk to him Emmy... =...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: falling in love too fast?, chronic neurological condition, long distance relationship
chronic neurological condition, long distance relationship, silly remarks: Hi Keller, Thanks for writing to me. No, I don t think it s silly. Figuring this out at any age is difficult, and since you are both ending marriages right now, you are probably a little apprehensive about falling in love too fast and getting hurt. ...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I falling in love or just in love with the idea of falling in love?, serious relationship, vulnerable position
serious relationship, vulnerable position, seeing other people: Hi William, Thanks for writing to me. I think that you are in an extremely vulnerable position right now. You are probably trying to convince yourself you are in love with Season because you want somebody to love. You need to give yourself some time...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: are we falling out of love?, time issue, attentiveness
time issue, attentiveness, lack of time: Cecily, This boils down to one thing for me. He has given you information by his behavior even after you have told him your concerns. So what will you do with the information he has given to you? You can keep nagging on him or hoping that he will change or...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: does he fancy me??, daily basis, affection
daily basis, affection, sheila: Dear Sheila, Thank you for writing. How are you? I hope you are fine. What s happening sounds nice. Trust your feelings and notice--because you can--what is fancying and what is simple platonic affection. I don t know, for I am not there, but it...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: not sure how to feel?, long distance relationship, good luck
long distance relationship, good luck: Hey Sarah. If Jason is truly into you, he wont let the few months go by. If you wait and let him realize he s losing something amazing, he ll run to you. If you turn back now, you ll seem as though you re afraid. If he doesn t talk to you, you can tell that...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: i feel like his cheating, gut feeling, 7 months
gut feeling, 7 months, bf: Whenever you have a gut feeling, you should definitely listen to it. Now that doesn t mean that hes cheating, but it means you should look into the situation further. Do you have any actual evidence? Or are you purely basing this on a feeling? If you tend...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: i feel crummy!, perfect time, boyfriends
perfect time, boyfriends, mates: Hi Sarah. I know exactly how you felt when i was in my teens. All my friends had boyfriends and i always felt like the odd one out (as my parents were very strict on me). Don t any of your friends have mates that are single they could set you up with? ...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Not sure how I feel, weird relationship, rocky relationship
weird relationship, rocky relationship, new girlfriend: Hi Ellie, Thanks for writing to me. This is a tough situation. On the one hand, it could go on forever without any payoff for you. On the other, it s a good thing that he is not rushing into a romantic opportunity with you to feel the void the other...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Up and down with feelings about my husband, honest conversation, roller coaster
honest conversation, roller coaster, loving wife: Dawn, Do you realize how selfish you sound? You were as large as him and now because of surgery you find out you aren t attracted to him. That is sounding pretty shallow. You say you are a different person. Are you saying your personality has changed all...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: fiance feels like a friend, kiss good night, justice of the peace
kiss good night, justice of the peace, politeness: Niki, Who is having the complications . I tend to believe actions not words. Actions are showing that someone is really not interested in marriage. Please stop having kids with this guy. Chances are he is revving up to leave you. Crying about it simply does...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: My fiance', miscommunication, wonderful man
miscommunication, wonderful man, helplessness: Dear Laura, This sounds like a case of miscommunication, I think you should try having a relaxing night, maybe dinner, and simply try discussing things with your partner before you get too into the feeling of helplessness. It may sound stupidly simple...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How do i find the answer?, hime, fling
hime, fling, little time: Hi Tammy, Thanks for writing to me. The first thing not to do is settle for what s convenient. Think about why you got back together with the father of your children-- was it because it seemed like it was the right thing to do? The easy thing is not...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: finding the one for you, word soul, soul mate
word soul, soul mate, common values: Dear Nicole, Your soulmate is one you share common values, and perhaps common interests with. There should also be a sense of inner depth common to both of you, that is why the word soul is used. Your feelings jibe. Your rhythms seem to match, I...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: when you first met your love..., fiance, several times
fiance, several times, ashley: Jamie, Well when I met my fiance I knew that it was love by the way that he treated me and the things that he did for me. Like for instance I could tell that it was love by the way that he looked into my eyes, he would just stare in them and I could see...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: My first question..., grass, hearts
grass, hearts, faith: Christine, How do we know the sky is blue? or the Grass is green? We just do, we see it and believe it. KNowing that something is the right thing is not about it being right or wrong, its about us having the faith that what we feel is going to be right...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: one foot out the door for seven years now!, new feelings, mixed feelings
new feelings, mixed feelings, breaking my heart: Dear Jamie, Please do not mistake the brevity of my answer for a lack of concern, it is not that. I merley wish to drive a point home. Please meditate on this: You do not want to be where you are. Leave for good. I have been in that situation, and...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Why do I forget his face?, short term memory, short term memory loss
short term memory, short term memory loss, physical aspects: hi Sela, I read your email and the only thought that comes to my mind as i m reading it is that even though this guy seems to be the perfect guy, he s not the one for you. I can t explain it any better than that, but i m hoping that you can understand what...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: how do i forget the past?, light smoker, girls place
light smoker, girls place, radio time: Dear Miranda, Thanks for writing to me. No need to apologize; it s my pleasure to (try) to help. Wow, there s a lot to address in your question, so I apologize if my response is a little long. First... The ex. It sounds like you know it would be better...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Me and my friend..., http www myspace, good friends
http www myspace, good friends, old girl: I really dont want to upset you but chances are when a 19/20 year old guy likes a 12 year old girl he doesnt like them for their looks they only want one thing and I think that you know what that is. I would leave them alone because in most states if someone...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: are we friends?, going to the beach, saying nothing
going to the beach, saying nothing, classmate: 8 years.. are you kidding... are you blind? cant you see she has your whole bloody heart, christ, you let 8 years go by, and you never got with her? Maybe she doesnt have the same feelings, you need to be more forward, go find her, and tell her what you feel...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: do we have a future together?, mistake of my life, life decisions
mistake of my life, life decisions, formal commitment: Hi Lisa, Thanks for writing to me. If you are feeling any doubts about the relationship, then by all means do NOT proceed into marriage or a greater commitment with this man. If you feel as if something is missing, then there probably is. I do believe...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Girlfriend troubles, relatioship, amazing sex
relatioship, amazing sex, being friends: Hi Jim, Thanks for writing to me. I think the best thing to do is to move on from this situation. She does not sound very mature and she even sounds a little cruel to be dating your friend when she knows how you feel about her. You have convinced yourself...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: GUY ISSUES, stubburn, baby mama
stubburn, baby mama, closed doors: Hi Karen, I guess you should talk to him and clear things out regarding the other female. Do you know the other female? If not then look for her and talk to her. Maybe you will get your answer there. I would suggest you something, rather than going...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: I like a girl that is not ready for a relationship., stay friends, plenty of times
stay friends, plenty of times, wasting my time: It sounds to me like shes just not ready. OR she just isn t into you. If shes interested in someone else, then it means she just doesn t see you in the same way. But stick around, stay friends, maybe you can show her why you re such a great guy and why she...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: To give up or not to give up that is the ?., wonderful person, dream job
wonderful person, dream job, new job: Dear Julie, Thanks for writing to me. I think that in this situation, you have to take what this man has said to you at face value. He cares about you enough to tell you the truth - he can t be fully involved in a relationship right now. The ball is...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Is this "IT" or am I just giving into fear?, common denominator, social self
common denominator, social self, guitar lessons: Joel, You are having a difficult time relating because he is still in his partying years and you are as you described right where you should be. He is right where he should be. So you have this information what will you do with it. You can choose to ignore...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Two good men, younger women and older men, older women and younger men
younger women and older men, older women and younger men, lifestyle bdsm: Sarah, I will address the kid issue first. You are cute, the 6 and 11 year don t see you as a threat. As they mature and realize you are a replacement for the mom your role in their lives will be viewed differently. Now you are harmless. The lifestyle...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Never a good time..., long term relationship, current boyfriend
long term relationship, current boyfriend, work friends: Jolene, The fact that you were in a long-term relationship and BOOM got back into another one and you are having problems should tell you something. You are not ready for relationships just yet. It seems that it would be very important for you to figure out...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Can you grow to love someone...?, serious relationship, human nature
serious relationship, human nature, girlfriend: If you haven t grown to love her after a year of a serious relationship, you probably never will. And you shouldn t have to. Its not fair to you, and its definitely not fair to her. Its a shame that you are attracted to her in most other areas, but physically...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: guess, gut instincts, state of consciousness
gut instincts, state of consciousness, realm of fantasy: hello vinod no one can give you a clue, a description, a question which will staisfy you because we all have our different ways of assessing what love is. the only thing we need to know probably is that there is no one definiton of love. you can fel it...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: what you guys think, petit ami, englis
petit ami, englis, stripper: Hi Lina, Thanks for writing to me. It sounds to me like your boyfriend is cheating on you. I think you should leave him. Salut Lina, Merci pour m avoir ecrit. Il me parait que ton petit ami te trompe; je crois que tu dois lui laisser. Dana ...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Hard to earn the trust, long term relationship, new girlfriend
long term relationship, new girlfriend, jealous person: I do not think she is just saying these things for you to hear, I believe she means them but because of her lack of confidence in herself, must constantly be re-assured that she is beautiful and that everyone wants her. Its hard to tell whether or not she...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Hard time feeling love., clear and present danger, having such a hard time
clear and present danger, having such a hard time, normal man: Dear Julio, You may love her, but with all due respect my friend, that--as you probably well know--does not mean you are in love with her. Listen, as you know, you were in the clutches of death in Iraq. Tell your girl that you need some time to calm...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: HELLO....I LOOKED OVER THE..., roller coaster ride, beautiful heart
roller coaster ride, beautiful heart, advice giver: Faith, Don t use this forum to communicate your ideas to my clients, please. If you want, become a volunteer couselor yourself, and an advice giver if you want. I take this work very seriously and at the moment for example--like many times before--I...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: HELP!, deep feelings, abstinence until marriage
deep feelings, abstinence until marriage, football friends: Jordan, Red flags should be going off in your head. He has known you for a little over a month and he is deeply in love with you????WOW that seems scary. Has he met your family, friends have you met his family friends? There is no way you should even be thinking...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: HELP...Im In Love and But whats with all the fighting, puppy love, long term relationships
puppy love, long term relationships, alisha: Hey Alisha, It seems to me that you are still in the puppy-love stage of your relationship, where you like attention, which is totally fine! He seems to have gotten used to the fact that you two are together. Fighting is completely normal in long term relationships,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: HELP PLZ, abusive behavior, stupid move
abusive behavior, stupid move, good luck: Hi Lasha, Thanks for writing to me. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your baby. Abusive behavior should not be tolerated under any circumstances. Ever. It s terrible that your boyfriend is taking out his anger about losing the baby on you, and...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: HELP!, coal mines, happpy
coal mines, happpy, true love: Greg, You have truly never given you wife much of a chance to love you. Do you think people that work in coal mines are happy to do it? I doubt most are, yet they do it because there is a higher purpose at stake. They love family and the people that they...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Hello,A few years before..., high school physics, family worships
high school physics, family worships, physics teacher: Dear Friend, May I call you that? I want you to imagine that as you read these words, you hear them coming from the mouth of a trusted soul; a grandfather or mother, a sister or brother, or a professor type, who has much wisdom and a kind demeanor. ...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Help!, lifetime relationship, best sex
lifetime relationship, best sex, making love: Elle, If this breakup took such a toll on you, how was it that you were able to get into another relationship so quickly? Love alone does not carry a relationship. There is much more to it. Attraction is part of it, commitment another part. It sounds like...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Help, funny poem, different girl
funny poem, different girl, serious relationship: It doesn t not mean anything significant when he says that. He is expressing a feeling to you. Feelings change, he may love a different girl next week. Funny poem, but very true. You should respect your dad. He doesn t like him because he doesn t know how...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Help!, bad behavior, coursework
bad behavior, coursework, half years: You may not want to let go, but you need to. Until you can stand up against bad behavior you SHOULD NOT be dating. When you think of a long-lasting relationship does the one your in come to mind. I understand you may be scared to be alone, but how much more...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Help me fix this, how to be a better man, million questions
how to be a better man, million questions, rough times: Dear Marie, I am sorry to hear about your pain, but, I am happy you have changed, and have found a deeper, more understanding love. Congratulations. I did this too. I was obssessed once, and it caused me to mistreat a girl, overstep my bounds, and act...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Help me forget him!!!, decisons, realtionship
decisons, realtionship, new man: Hi Grace, Thanks for writing to me. You definitely need to move on with your life. You and your ex-boyfriend have not really been together in 4 years, and there is a good reason for that. If it had been meant to be, it would have worked four years ago....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Help I am ready to give up!!!!, antisocial behavior, emotional abuse
antisocial behavior, emotional abuse, verbal abuse: Hi Debbie, Thanks for writing to me. The situation that you describe is very diffcult, and you have my sympathy, since I was seriously involved and nearly married an emotional and verbal abuser some years ago. From what you have told me, your husband...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Help on what to do about somone I love., woman at work, true feelings
woman at work, true feelings, few suggestions: Hi Graham, Thanks for writing to me. You are probably right that her radar is working, and she has not responded to your attention. This is a very GOOD thing. It would be disastrous for everyone involved if either of you acted on your feelings towards...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Help, honest relationship, cud
honest relationship, cud, sooo: hello ayehsa there arent always butterflies....and there isnt always music.. what happens in the movies doesnt always happen in real life too. donot judge your feeling by some specific signs. Just trust what you feel inside when you are with him. enjoying...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Hi, I met this guy in the..., crazy jokes, cell phone number
crazy jokes, cell phone number, incoming student: Okay Friend, How are you? You are in for it. I am in a funny mood tonight. The last guy got a letter about cavemen. Can you guess what we were talking about? Here is the deal (cut me slack; I think you are in no danger of heartbreak, or date-rape,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Hi~My mother recently..., traumatic effect, hectic time
traumatic effect, hectic time, being a doctor: Dear Friend, With Respect, I say congratulations and blessings on you for saving your mother. Permit to inquire if I may, as to what the nature of the accident was. I have to be frank; your account is rather, graphic. As such, it must have left...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Hopeless Love?, aim screen name, hallmark e card
aim screen name, hallmark e card, wasting my time: I think you might be in love. Obviously she cares about you at least a little, because she s still your friend. I think she might like you that way too. You could tell her that you think you might be developing feelings for her again (teehee- a little white...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Husband problems, headache medicine, cold medicine
headache medicine, cold medicine, happy at home: Dear Misty, Thank you for writing again. It is nice to be considered worthy and capable of helping an accomplished and busy woman and a mother. How are you right now? Can I recommend you have some green tea, and if it suits you, sit by a window with...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: What's happened to my marriage, couples therapist, marriage issues
couples therapist, marriage issues, thoughts and feelings: Brian, This is in part your fault because I assume you have not sat down with your wife and explained CLEARLY what your thoughts and feelings are. I would encourage you to not leave your family. Seek out a couples therapist and address these issues. David...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: What is happening..., deep feelings, good luck with everything
deep feelings, good luck with everything, minded guy: hey man, i believe this is what we call a crush. every now and then a girl comes a long when you lease expects it, and nocks you on your ass. You probably least expect it and so does she. I wouldnt say this is love, because your not in a relationship, but...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: What's going on in his head?, serious relationship, mother and father
serious relationship, mother and father, laid back: Renee, What do you want in a relationship. Are you dating for marriage or just to hang out with someone. It seems that as long as you are afraid to ask someone their intentions then you are not ready for a serious relationship. You need to cultivate a relationship...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: heart crushing, true feelings, friend phil
true feelings, friend phil, eachother: The decision is to make a long-term goal for yourself. What is it? Going to school. Traveling overseas? excelling in sports. It needs to be something worthwhile that YOU find to be worthwhile not your friends. Once you figure that out, then start organizing...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: help, jerry springer guest, psycho stalker
jerry springer guest, psycho stalker, touchy feely: Hi michelle, I know how you feel. I think most girls have gone through the feelings that you are now experiencing, but someone wouldn t have gone to the extent that you are now getting to. What would I do? Talk to him, let him know how you are feeling...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: help me, period of time, good luck
period of time, good luck, dana: Hi Skari, Thanks for writing to me. You became involved with your boyfriend at a young age, so it is quite possible the two of you have outgrown the relationship by now. Since this is the first real problem in your relationship, why not take a break from...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: help, heart guard, best of both worlds
heart guard, best of both worlds, failure: o trust me he cared, he just doesnt want to say it because then he would know that is exactly what you wanted him to do is get jealous. he probabley does, care but you guys want the best of both worlds, to be single and be together, or at lease one of you...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: help, ant info, first love
ant info, first love, thanks for your help: Sarah, Love isn t based on whether a person is hot or not. You have not described anything else about this boy. More than likely this boy likes the attention you give him. I would also bet you that he is not in love with you. Love has to do with commitment...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: help, male friend, being friends
male friend, being friends, holding hands: Jackie, Stop playing games. If you are not going to the take it the to the next level then you shouldn t be holding hands and kissing. This gets too confusing as you can obviously see. If he is not interested then don t let him take advantage of you. David...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: help confused, current boyfriend, casual sex
current boyfriend, casual sex, virginity: Cassie, If you feel like you are being tempted by other guys, it doesn t mean that you don t love your boyfriend. You might just need to test other waters to make sure or to reassure yourself. If you need to take a break from your boyfriend to find...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: help, jerry springer guest, psycho stalker
jerry springer guest, psycho stalker, touchy feely: Hi Michelle, do you know what I would do if I were in your shoes? I would call him up and say over the phone without hesitation: I just want you to know somthing, I have been thinking of you non-stop and I don t know why I can t stop thinking about you...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: hes gonna be 18 and i just turned 15 HELP, real feelings, little brother
real feelings, little brother, couple weeks: Dear Jen, PLease Follow the Advice in THIS Letter (LETTER 2): Don t go to bed with him. You are under-aged and he knows that. In fact, if you have real feelings for him, and he has real feelings for you, you can wait until you are older to be sexual...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: hey, emotions, consequences
emotions, consequences, choices: Mandy, Are you seriously letting someone else control your emotions so much? You need to get a hold of your emotions are they will ruin your life. Your B/F got into trouble and now has to face the consequences. Rather than getting emotionally upset, you should...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: hey, feelings, mom
feelings, mom, shopping: That is a very tough position for both you and your boyfriend. Unfortunately, there isn t much you can do about it. If your feelings are strong enough, then wait the 9 weeks until he is not punished anymore. If its too difficult for you, try to move on, or...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: hey it heather again...u gave me the best advice ever before and i was hoping you could help me w/ this too...., girlfriend heather, fiends
girlfriend heather, fiends, 7 months: Dear Heather, How are you? Is your boyfriend not appreciating you? Well, then, act appropriately. Find someone who does, and don t cheat, but have that friend be someone you can feel good with. Don t do it to make your boyfriend jealous, do it to feel good,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: hey.i want to keep it..., long distant relationship, hapiness
long distant relationship, hapiness, misunderstandings: Dear Friend, You have to do this: You have to stay kind, but be firm about your life. You have to tell her nicely, politely, and firmly, that you love her, and that: You need her to be mature, so the relationship can grow. Or, do not tell her...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: hi,i was wondering what..., jumping to conclusions, state of consciousness
jumping to conclusions, state of consciousness, realm of fantasy: hi I don t think we should try to define love. I think it s as mysterious as the stars it was written on, as elusive. Its everything it s hyped about to be. Its worth taking every risk, its worth fighting for, and the problem is if you don t risk all that...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: hi, i was just wondering what..., married couple, how do you know when your in love
married couple, how do you know when your in love, common misconception: heres what i tell everyone who wants to know what its like to be in love see what you get out of it.... ok the common misconception is that you think about them constantly, and you always wanna be with them, and you never fight thats not it at all have...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Any hope?, rough crowd, faith in god
rough crowd, faith in god, single mom: Hello my friend, Your story was quite long, but.. very... true, it s somthing that happens to the best of us, in all aspects. My choise after a very similar thing happened was to decide no more america women so i am waiting for a girl from china, asia,...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: If my husband is still in love with his ex-wife?, divc, weird things
divc, weird things, first wife: Billie, It doesn t matter if you love him with all your heart. That will not pay the bills and parent your children. So you knew this guy when you were 18 and then you married him? That was a mistake. Please don t have any more kids with him. It sounds like...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: My husband is working and other marital problems, drinking with friends, decent job
drinking with friends, decent job, marital problems: Dearest Gina, Sometimes I think that men are more emotional than women. It is very hard for a man to understand his emotions, and even harder for him to work them out. My opinion is that your husband is hurting just as much as you are, if not more. This...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Idenitfying love, profile area, dropdown menu
profile area, dropdown menu, ultimatum: Dear Chris, I am nor sure, my friend, but it strikes me wrong to make an ultimatum like the one your girlfriend is making and makes me wonder if she knows love does not include that kind of talk, regarding love, anyway! Look, take a leap, if you love...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Im really not sure if i am in love, but i know he is., conversations, relationship
conversations, relationship, love: You probably won t like my answer, but I have to be honest with you. I really think you need a break from this guy. You want to love him, and you re really attached to him, but I m concerned about some things. First of all, you have a lot of questions....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Im really stuck!, whole life, short story
whole life, short story, ashley: Ashley, Last I checked you have the right to leave a relationship. If you choose to stay then it is a choice you will be making no one will be MAKING you stay. You are not ready for a relationship if you can t make your own choices in it. Once you can make...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Important question, first cousin, sexual relationship
first cousin, sexual relationship, bestfriend: Courtney, I m pretty sure you are being used. He found out that you don t need to be serious to have sex with someone. So now he doesn t want to be serious and just wants sex. You are a mother. Focus on your son. He doesn t need him mom being preoccupied...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Its kinda about love, Im a little confused, ored, rest of the day
ored, rest of the day, predicament: Michele, You are in a predicament. He probably talked with someone and realized that he was making a mistake in being in a relationship right before he was heading off to basic. You need to figure out what you want in a relationship. It is not wise to go...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Can the idea of marriage bring up identity issues?, college schooling, daily basis
college schooling, daily basis, daniel daniel: Daniel, I m sure you heard if before, but you are a bit young to be thinking about marriage. Your ex is giving you a lot of information about her view of life right now. Yet, you still want to wait for her. That in my opinion is not wise. You should take...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: im back, awkwardness, dollar bill
awkwardness, dollar bill, couple weeks: I would encourage you no to date until you have figure out what you really desire in a girl. It seems that you are dating the type of girl that doesn t value you very much. It would be important to get that figured out before your heart gets hurt more. This...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: im so confused!!, 5 months, sex life
5 months, sex life, 19 years: Jessica, Guys are very meat and potatoes kind of people, black and white, there is no gray area. With them we need to be as blunt and up front as we can (sometimes trying NOT to hurt) when we have something bothering us, the excuses i always used to get...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: im so lost!, l word, affection
l word, affection, feelings: Tina, How are you? Look at the definition of love I provide on the profile page of this topic. Does your love fit that description? Let yourself know honbestly. Ask yourself: Do I love him. Then wait for the answer to coalesce in your daily...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: im young but could it be true?, dangerous state, wandering eye
dangerous state, wandering eye, sophomores: It sounds like you are getting bored of the relationship and its getting too comfortable. This is a dangerous state for a relationship to be in because its when you start to have a wandering eye. You seem curious about other girls but feel like you could never...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: important, flight home, holding hands
flight home, holding hands, text messages: Luigi, A difference of opinion is what my advice will be. Some people believe that in order to be boyfriend or girlfriend you must ask that person to make it official, others just assume they are together after they share intimate time. This may be a case...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I incapable of love?, habitual liar, separate lives
habitual liar, separate lives, perfect couple: Dear teqsunrise, Thanks for writing to me. To start off, I don t think you re heartless. It seems as though you are determined to make yourself unhappy by continually choosing men who are wrong for you. Even the last man you mentioned, the one to whom...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: am i inlove, married couple, common misconception
married couple, common misconception, kiss: all guys show that they like a girl in their own special way. sometimes theyll treat her special and buy her things, sometimes theyll be mean to her and pester her, or sometimes theyll be really shy around her. ok the common misconception is that you think...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: internet love, second thoughts, good luck
second thoughts, good luck, correspondence: Dear Dewayne, Have you tried asking her if she is still moving to be with you? I wish I knew the answer for certain. I will say this, if she is behaving differently now, after you started speaking about her moving, then she may be having second...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Am I Jumping the Gun, drama of your life, jumping the gun
drama of your life, jumping the gun, guest bedroom: Sarah, Whatever you do, don t involve the children. They do not need to be included in the drama of your life love. Life is difficult enough for them. Other than that are you sure you want to spend the energy on this difficult relationship? Sounds like a...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: jealous controlling wife, angry outburst, deer hunt
angry outburst, deer hunt, women at work: Hi John, Thanks for writing to me. It sounds as though your wife has some very serious psychological issues. You have put aside your happiness and your emotional needs for long enough. Since you don t want to get a divorce, I think you should demand...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How Do I Know If I Love Him?, infatuated, out of the blue
infatuated, out of the blue, girlfriend: Let me start by reminding you that only YOU know if you really love him. But the fact that you re questioning it means that its probably premature. Its very good that you both have agreed not to say it too soon, that way when you say it, you really mean it....

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: How Do I Know If I Am Ready to Love?, romantic feelings, mutual decision
romantic feelings, mutual decision, predicament: Dear Heather, Thanks for writing to me. This is a tough situation in a couple ways: first, getting divorced is tough, even though your divorce sounds as though it was fairly amicable. After the end of any relationship, I think it s very natural to experience...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: Knowing Love, white picket fence, character defect
white picket fence, character defect, sister in law: Dear Craig, This is an interesting question. I do believe that you CAN fall in love in an instant...HOWEVER...if you fail to nurture that in love feeling, it can wither and die. On the other hand, I also know that it can take months or years for...

How to Know if You`re Really in Love: What kind of love?, personality quirks, rest of my days
personality quirks, rest of my days, sex problems: christi i think you know youre in love but people telling you youre too young and things like that might be whats holding you back. if you know youre in love ignore what everyong thinks about age...love has no age limit...i think this could be something serious...