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Long Distance Relationships: College/High School Relationships, college changes, choice college
college changes, choice college, going to college: it s not like you really have a choice; college changes EVERYTHING, including relationships, and there s not alot you can do about it; your chances of still being together in 4 years aren t good; if you try to hold on too tightly, or get controlling in any...

Long Distance Relationships: College/Highschool relationship, lonely feelings, personality changes
lonely feelings, personality changes, afraid of change: Hey Aaron I don t think her personality will change too much but it will. She will mature like you said and her views and opinions will change. I doubt her personality would make much of a difference if you guys did fall out of love again. Yes the way you...

Long Distance Relationships: College/high school dating, long distance relationship, s high school
long distance relationship, s high school, hs: Hello Well you asked this question in a long distance relationship section, and this isn t really long distance. Actually it s not long distance at all, especially if one of you can drive and has a car. The only thing I can see as a problem is how you are...

Long Distance Relationships: College and a Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, boyfriend adam
long distance relationship, boyfriend adam, space and time: Hello Well an LDR between you two can work out but you have to be realistic. Generally most LDRs that involve people really young and where one or both partners ends college it tends to not work. I mean college is a different experience. Trust me, I know!...

Long Distance Relationships: College and a long distance relationship, long distance relationship, group outing
long distance relationship, group outing, guy friend: Hey Jodi! I am totally on your side; your boyfriend is being WAY too jealous and possesive. Have you told him just what you told me (about how you need him and a social life)? Just keep reminding him how you feel about him. He s probably insecure that you...

Long Distance Relationships: College Relationship, long distance relationship, sophmore
long distance relationship, sophmore, college days: Hey John I m sorry to say this but your girlfriend is right. If it is meant to be then yes it will happen. But for now maybe she needs to date other people and so do you. Trust me I went through the same thing once and we decided to break up and just remain...

Long Distance Relationships: College, good luck, cameron
good luck, cameron, rewards: Hey Paige Well this is a common problem with most people when someone goes away. Don t worry it s totally natural for you to feel this way, especially when the guy is off to college. I would give it a try. Yes you could get hurt, yes it could end horribly,...

Long Distance Relationships: Communication Breakdown, communication breakdown, call time
communication breakdown, call time, fiancee: Hello Well first of all do not do the same thing. You will only be putting yourself at her level and it will look very hypocritical, and not only that, but it is pretty immature. just do what you are doing and let her be in the wrong, but do not do it too....

Long Distance Relationships: Concerned about the future, us air force academy, us air force
us air force academy, us air force, air force academy: Hello Well honestly, the likelihood of the relationship lasting is not good. I mean it can work but that all depends on how dedicated both of the people involved are. There are so many what ifs involved with these decisions but you just have to have the faith...

Long Distance Relationships: Confirmation, long distance relationship, work mates
long distance relationship, work mates, e mail: Hey Michele Well I think you did the right thing sending him that e-mail. I think the e-mail itself could have been nicer, cause what tends to happen is when a person reads a mean e-mail they tend to lash back out at you, and they only stop once you explain...

Long Distance Relationships: Confused, lyden washington, washington dc usa
lyden washington, washington dc usa, study in nz: i don t think, at 19, it s wise to make major life decisions based largely upon a relationship built on emails with someone you ve hardly spent ANY real time with; thusly, take the guy out of the consideration process, and reconsider the pros and cons without...

Long Distance Relationships: Confused, good luck, melissa
good luck, melissa, little bit: Hey Kristi I can understand how this kind of commitment at a young age is really too much. And I do agree that it;s best for the both of you to slow down a little bit. Just tell him that things are moving a little too fast. You are only 18, and although marraige...

Long Distance Relationships: Confused, long distance relationship, victoria island
long distance relationship, victoria island, ldr: Hello First of all I m sorry to hear that this decision was just kind of surprising for you at the airport. But at least this was a mutal decision that you both agreed on. Well there s two things I think you can do. The first is thing you can do is to talk...

Long Distance Relationships: Confused, strong word, ldr
strong word, ldr, young adults: you might want to consider some changes; everyday talking could easily become routine and obligatory; suggest that it doesn t have to be that way, and just leave it up to each person, but get away from the every day routine; if that doesn t help, you should...

Long Distance Relationships: Considering long distance relationship, long distance relationship, serious conversation
long distance relationship, serious conversation, sure things: Hello No you made perfect sense and I agree with you 100%. Actually I advise people to wait at least a year before they move to be with another person and for it to be very serious. Cause as you ve already discovered it can turn out really bad if you don...

Long Distance Relationships: Coping with the distance, lonely all the time, med school
lonely all the time, med school, student loans: Hello Well all I can tell you, is the obvious, which is you both have to make the best of the situation. I know how it feels considering I m practically inseperable from my boyfriend from college but you both really just have to make the best of the situation....

Long Distance Relationships: Crazy triangle, low self esteem, coincedence
low self esteem, coincedence, strange reason: Hey Katherine Well don t jump to conclusions. It might be all a coincedence. If it s not maybe it might be something to do with them personally. It sounds like this girl has low self esteem when it comes to her husband and maybe she did that for some strange...

Long Distance Relationships: Does he care or is he just greedy??, long distance relationship, family emergency
long distance relationship, family emergency, motives: moving in would be a major mistake--there s ALWAYS other options--what would you do if the guy dumped you tomorrow??.. a few months is baely enough time to date exclusively, let alone live together; plus, you re now seeing he can be controlling, insecure,...

Long Distance Relationships: He cheated on me, dying of cancer, low self esteem
dying of cancer, low self esteem, walking papers: pain is all relative; compared to dying of cancer, your fear of loss pain is nothing; it appears your only reason for still being with him has to do with your low self-esteem, insecurity and neediness; it s not a question of right/wrong; it s what s best...

Long Distance Relationships: cheating, cheater, melissa
cheater, melissa, girlfriend: Hello Well unless you don t know 100% sure that she is cheating then you cannot tell her that she is cheating. She may actually not be cheating cause your feelings about things may not be very accurate. Also how do your friends know if she s cheating but...

Long Distance Relationships: He's cheating, I invested, now what?, loyal relationship, personal loans
loyal relationship, personal loans, sexy photos: Hello Well if you know that he s been cheating then I think you should bring it up. You are going to tell him one day that you know that he s cheating, so you might as well tell him. I m not sure what to tell you about the loans. I don t really know much...

Long Distance Relationships: cheating?, previous partners, term relationships
previous partners, term relationships, insecurities: asking people??... you can t be serious...why are you so paranoid?..you take her word for it, and stop worrying about it unless you have proveable reason to doubt her...don t let your insecurities interfere with the hopefully positive interaction you have...

Long Distance Relationships: clinging and phone calls, long distance relationship, best of luck
long distance relationship, best of luck, phone calls: Hey Brenda Well, you re going to have to deal with this step by step. I went through the same thing once and it took me a while but I had to work on being patient and what helped me out was sort of keeping busy myself. That way I wasn t worrying about when...

Long Distance Relationships: What is closure? Do I need it?, great girl, broken heart
great girl, broken heart, college career: Hey Lei Well it s natural to feel hurt over something like this for awhile. So it might not go away instantly, it may take some time. If you want you can call her again and talk to her about this again. But it really doesn;t seem like you need closure. Closure...

Long Distance Relationships: college, physical attributes, rare visits
physical attributes, rare visits, maturer: Hello Well the only things you guys can do is to just on the phone, through email, or instant messenger. Also be prepared for anything that can happen. I know you guys really love each other, and are talking about the future together, but anything can happen,...

Long Distance Relationships: she's going off to college, wonderful girl, being friends
wonderful girl, being friends, eachother: Hello Well I m glad you realize that it might be hard for her settling into college with a boyfriend back home. 90 miles really isn t that far and if one of you has a car then you both can visit each other. I think you should enjoy the relationship while...

Long Distance Relationships: going to college, arkansas pine bluff, trusting person
arkansas pine bluff, trusting person, howard university: Hello Well uh I think you should stay with him and give it a chance. If this is a guy you think you can share something special with in the future, then he s definitely worth a chance. You can t always run away from a person when things get tough. In every...

Long Distance Relationships: college, long term relationship, college changes
long term relationship, college changes, view even though: good question; college changes everything, and is best experienced unattached..my advice; essentially a relationship in suspended animation , where you agree to allow for dating others (don t ask, don t tell), yet remain in friendly contact and see each other...

Long Distance Relationships: communication problems in LDR, sexual conversation, attractive women
sexual conversation, attractive women, female friends: you have to decide if this particular type of guy meets your requirements for the kind of person you really want to be with; that means, can you accept a guy who has a higher than average interest in sexual stuff, and other women? it appears you ve made...

Long Distance Relationships: confused, long distance relationship, high school reunion
long distance relationship, high school reunion, working in singapore: Hey Rebecca I wouldn t stay with your current boyfriend. If you guys are long distance now and he s not even communicating with you or listening to you then that is a very strong sign that you guys will break up in the future. Also, him venting his anger...

Long Distance Relationships: confused, long distance relationship, christmas holidays
long distance relationship, christmas holidays, brother lives: Hey Ashley Yes if a person loves you they are willing to try anything to make it work. I m surprised you guys aren t going out right now. If you love each other then it is only natural to consider a relationship, regardless if it s long distance or not. But...

Long Distance Relationships: confused..., minute conversations, no doubt
minute conversations, no doubt, goodnight: Hello Well the easiest way to handle this situation is to buy him a phone. They only cost at least 15 dollars. I m sure you can afford it. Actually I m pretty sure he can afford his own phone. It wont kill you to wait a few more weeks until he can afford...

Long Distance Relationships: confused., what is truth, comunication
what is truth, comunication, cheaters: Hello First of all I had a hard time understanding this question, so my answer was based off of what i could understand. If you want you can send me a question that is easier to understand and I can respond to that. Thanks... anyways....um this man should...

Long Distance Relationships: confused about long distance distanceship, comittment, busy at work
comittment, busy at work, e mail: Mike - Hey, that sounds kinda rough. First of all, there is no knowing that she is hanging out with her ex boyfriend so I wouldn t jump to conlcusions about that. I think that the distance is playing a big part on this girl not wanting to continue the...

Long Distance Relationships: confused, long distance relationship, high school reunion
long distance relationship, high school reunion, working in singapore: there s issues with each one; you should INFORM your boyfriend of your feelings, and of your REQUIREMENTS for continuing a NON-exclusive arrangement (as i think you should be dating who you want, WHEN you want; 2d, you can t make life changing decisions based...

Long Distance Relationships: should i contact her?, first move, aim
first move, aim, girls: not sure who told you girls like to do the pursuing; it s up to the guy to go after what he wants; if not you relinquish all control, and are relegated to waiting for the female to make the move; don t think so; forget what friends say; if you want to see...

Long Distance Relationships: should it continue? how do i cope?, depressions, 4 months
depressions, 4 months, majors: Hello I understand that you are feeling pain and really want to be with him in person but if you both really shared something amazing then this will stand the distance. I know how it feels... personally, about 2 years ago I met a guy who I really had a connection...

Long Distance Relationships: why do i cry everytime?????, cruise ships, ldr
cruise ships, ldr, important person: Hello Well it just sounds like you cry just cause you ll miss being with him. It s really normal and just another sign among many that you love him a lot. It s really not something you can stop and not something you should try to stop either. It s just he...

Long Distance Relationships: culd I be much more of an idiot!, firendship, marriage work
firendship, marriage work, realationship: Hey Trent To answer your question and to put it as simply as possibly yes it is very possible that she still has feelings for you and seems very likely. This shows by her wanting to move to be with you. No girl or guy would move just to be with their friend....

Long Distance Relationships: Dating-college-highschool, merideth nh, arnt
merideth nh, arnt, sophmore: Hey hun! Yea i kno how u feel. If i were you i wouldnt think so far ahead of yourself. Take in every moment as it is. See for me me & this guy, we are totally in love but he lives far away & is a grade older...we feel the same way for eachother but arnt...

Long Distance Relationships: Dating/Marriage, night owl, equal exchange
night owl, equal exchange, feeling something: neither--just live your life, and see what she means by flow naturally.. you ll be able to tell by changes in her behavior if she s just letting you down easy or still has a viable interest; adjust your feelings/time/energy as to her, as necessary, continue...

Long Distance Relationships: DESPERATE, nancy ortiz, getting a visa
nancy ortiz, getting a visa, tourist visa: Hello Well I don t know very much about the process of getting a visa, but I m sure you can ask someone about it. Try to contact the people who give out the visas, and ask them why they have rejected it, and see what you can do. I wouldn t advise ending the...

Long Distance Relationships: Dealing with breakup, long distance relationship, dealing with breakup
long distance relationship, dealing with breakup, messege: Hey Mike No don t play any games with her and act like it s not bothering you. Just tell her you want to get back with her and tell her how you really feel. But stop playing games with her. It sounds like it s bothering her whenever you ignore certain things...

Long Distance Relationships: Dealing with distance and the blues, long distance relationship, kingston ontario
long distance relationship, kingston ontario, lonliness: Dear Amy Ahhhh the exact same situation as me. I can t even tell you how much I am the same way with the saying goodbye thing and then going back to everyday life. I am out of sorts for atleast a good 2 days (I just saw my boyfriend last week for the first...

Long Distance Relationships: Dealing with the distance and unknowns, long distance relationship, dealing with the distance
long distance relationship, dealing with the distance, kingston ontario: Hey Amy! It is soo frustrating to go through the ups and downs of saying good-bye! You re absolutely right- life can be pretty boring without love in it. So, yes, being alone can be a harsh letdown. I would suggest getting really involved and busy during the...

Long Distance Relationships: Dealing with the loneliness of a LDR and traveling for work, schedu, ldr
schedu, ldr, wonderful guy: Hello Well this is a LDR but it s still not too bad. Trust me, you are still pretty lucky for him to only be an hour from you. I had to deal with a bicoastal LDR and that was really difficult. The work schedule is the only real difficulty you seem to have....

Long Distance Relationships: Desperate for help..., drunk driver, new ground
drunk driver, new ground, out of the blue: Jordan, Man, that is quite a story. I hate to hear all these things happening to your girlfriend. She seems like an incredibly strong woman to have managed to do all this. First, and foremost, I want to commend you on what an amazing person you ve been,...

Long Distance Relationships: Diogene Luis, diogene, cute things
diogene, cute things, laughter: Hey Masiel Well the best way to keep him thinking about you is to just be yourself! Just be who you are and be cute with him and if he loves you he will always be thinking of you! To make your relationship strong have good communication with each other. In...

Long Distance Relationships: Distance is only problem, morals values, relationship work
morals values, relationship work, share goals: Hello I can understand why he s upset about the whole issue of driving but you both need to make sacrifices to make this relationship work. LDRs are not great but you both have to deal with it as best as you can. He doesn t have to drive there everyday to...

Long Distance Relationships: Distant Lovers, long distant relationship, gulity
long distant relationship, gulity, serious relationship: Hello I really think you should tell him the truth. I know it s a hard thing to do considering the risk you are taking but you will always have this with you and if you continue to wait to tell him the consequences will be greater. For example if my boyfriend...

Long Distance Relationships: I Don't Know What To Do, time melissa, sam lives
time melissa, sam lives, best of friends: Hello Jessica Well I wouldn t just dump your boyfriend. First of all he just moved away and I don t think he really needs his girlfriend to just break up with him. It s probably hard enough to be seperated from you and trying to get situated and make new...

Long Distance Relationships: getting a date, proffesionals, best bet
proffesionals, best bet, africans: Hey Ojukwa Reuben Agu Well unless you are going to travel out of Africa then the best way is to do it online. You may get some proffesionals and others who are not. The internet is random. Even if they had a website to meet professionals, I garauntee you...

Long Distance Relationships: he's going away again how do i deal?, skip barber racing, skip barber racing school
skip barber racing, skip barber racing school, barber racing school: Hello Well I m not sure what you want me to tell you but everything should be okay. If he actually does love you then he wont do any of that stuff with other girls. Guys know when they found someone amazing and no other girl would be able to measure up to...

Long Distance Relationships: How to deal with it?, many different ways, family background
many different ways, family background, bad situation: you stop trying to make up for his emotional deficiencies; you can t let your neediness/fear of loss, lead you to sacrifice all self-esteem in attempting to change how he feels; the distance thing is bad enough, but his waffling makes it all too much, as...

Long Distance Relationships: dealing with the long distance relationship, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, time of her life: Hey Josh Well first of all it s time to change. You are right, you cannot bring those qualities into any kind of relationship. First of all remember a lot of people are going through this. Also, you should be very lucky you even see her a few days at a time....

Long Distance Relationships: Am I not demanding enough?, serious relationship, current boyfriend
serious relationship, current boyfriend, good relationship: not sure demanding is the answer; the only possible outcomes there are that he STILL refuses and you argue about it, or he relents against his wishes and builds resentment; if he really wants to see you, he shouldn t have to be prodded; plus, if he doesn...

Long Distance Relationships: The distance between us is growing...., actions speak louder than words, louder than words
actions speak louder than words, louder than words, 4 months: Hello Well I m sure you ve heard of the phrase actions speak louder than words . I think this phrase really applies to your situation. I think him not having a phone may make it more difficult for him to call but what phone is he using? If he has access...

Long Distance Relationships: they don't call it long distance for nothing, visa issues, ldrs
visa issues, ldrs, work situation: Hey Janey My best advice is to give your guy some time to figure things out. It sounds like he is very busy with his work recently, and he is maybe a little bit stressed out. I know that it is tough to wait it out, and to be honest- I have been in your...

Long Distance Relationships: I don't want to lose him., long distance relationship, something intresting
long distance relationship, something intresting, strange conversations: Hello I m very sorry that I took awhile to respond but I am very busy with classes, working, and other things going on in my life that I just did not have the time. I hope you understand cause it really is difficult sometimes to juggle all these things. ...

Long Distance Relationships: I dont know what she wants, geometry exam, 18 years
geometry exam, 18 years, girlfriend: Hello Well there s a few things you need to understand first. The first thing you need to realize is that you both are youngˇonly 18. Now I m not saying that you both really can t truly be in love cause that s not the case. My point is is that she s probably...

Long Distance Relationships: dont know wat 2do, relatioship, enough money
relatioship, enough money, wk: Hello Well you should ask her what she did in her past. It is true that the past is the past but you should ask when you get the chance. The relationship can work but you guys still need to be able to communicate and eventually visit each other. There s only...

Long Distance Relationships: i just dont want him to leave, long distance relationship, gonna travel
long distance relationship, gonna travel, future kids: Hello I m sorry it took a few days to respond. I usually get really busy with work and school around the beginning of the week and it s a little more difficult for me to get around to questions. I hope you understand. Anyway you should just tell him and let...

Long Distance Relationships: I dont want to mess things up, break talk, breakable
break talk, breakable, thelma: Hey Thelma It sounds like you guys need some space or a break. That way you both can really think about what you both really want. It sounds like you guys should be together but then again it wouldn t hurt for you both to try being alone for a couple of weeks...

Long Distance Relationships: Emergency advice required, computer freak, emergency advice
computer freak, emergency advice, fake id: the emergency advice is to wake up, think with your mind instead of your heart, and get out of this before you ruin your life; even under the BEST of circumstances, you don t agree to marriage after seeing someone essentially twice; all that internet smooth...

Long Distance Relationships: Emotionall Seperating the Physically Seperated., puppy love, realtionship
puppy love, realtionship, worth a shot: Hello um just to let you know but it didn t come off as laughable or childlike... so no worries there! It is an important problem and I would think anyone would be very confused if this was happening to them. I m not sure about seperating yourself emotionally...

Long Distance Relationships: End it or keep trying?, minor annoyances, sexual attraction
minor annoyances, sexual attraction, better with time: Hello Actually... I hate to tell you this but the feelings you are having are not the norm. It s normal for you to miss him and perhaps have a hard time adjusting to the situation... and having minor annoyances does occur but losing attraction is not normal....

Long Distance Relationships: Ex girlfriend for 3 1/2 years moved away, strugle, ex girfriend
strugle, ex girfriend, single life: Hey Brian I hate to tell you this but it sounds like she is falling out of love with you. She pretty much told you that and if she really loved you she would try to not hurt you or give you any pain. But by her saying that you can tell that she s being honest...

Long Distance Relationships: How can we make it easier?, oppertunity, togetherness
oppertunity, togetherness, point in time: in golf, the tendency is to squeeze the club too hard, which usually results in a bad shot; in this scenario, one or both partners has a tendency to try to hold on too tightly, which ironically can have a negative affect; this space in your togetherness should...

Long Distance Relationships: emotional distance, long distance relationship, wasting precious time
long distance relationship, wasting precious time, resolving conflicts: Hey Dee! Wow- you nailed this one right on the head; emotional distance does not need to accompany physical distance. Sounds like, yes, your partner probably is a little bit selfish right now. It s good that you realize that. Do you ask him questions about...

Long Distance Relationships: ethics of long distant relationships, long distant relationships, dilemma
long distant relationships, dilemma, ethics: it s not a problem entering an interaction, but if it begins to get more involved, the departing party should, ethically, inform and discuss the issue at that time; as far as continuing, that s a decision both parties have to make, once the facts are laid...

Long Distance Relationships: when an ex comes back into the pic, stupor, lori
stupor, lori, girlfriend: Hey Lori No you don t have to compete with this at all. It s bad enough that the ex moved back on but now you can t even visit in 2 weeks. You didn t really go into too much detail on why you couldn t come in 2 weeks. But if he said you couldn t come in 2...

Long Distance Relationships: Not sure what to expect?, benefit of the doubt, cynical view
benefit of the doubt, cynical view, young guys: not really..why would he want to officially disconnect all ties when he doesn t have to?..he can keep you on the bench as it were, while he does what he wants; if he were to meet someone really special, then the final break would come into play; i realize...

Long Distance Relationships: is experience necessary?, casual date, man thanks
casual date, man thanks, yr olds: Hey hun, yea i have to say it is sorta weird he didnt date for awhile. But maybe he just wanted to settle down and not get into nething until he found someone (maybe like you)...maybe he tried gettign to know ppl but just didnt see the connection there, but...

Long Distance Relationships: Fairness, long distant relationship, girlfiend
long distant relationship, girlfiend, flordia: Hello Aggie Well if you guys have been together for over three years and you have made a sacrifice to be with her then I can understand how you would be slighly upset that she wants to move out West. I think anyone would be and agiain it is kind of not fair....

Long Distance Relationships: Follow up question, november 11, good luck
november 11, good luck, melissa: Hello Well if he took the time to get in contact with you then I think you should try and contact him. Just call him and ask to talk and see what happens. If he continues to be unsure and feels uncomofrtable talking to you then it s best to just leave him...

Long Distance Relationships: Friends after the LDR?, opporunity, right job
opporunity, right job, ldr: i don t think the friend thing is workable just yet, as i don t think you ve arrived at a neutral emotional place as to how you view him; you re still talking about keeping things open , and still reacting strongly to what he says/does; the best thing for...

Long Distance Relationships: Frustrated Feelings, guy friends, girl friend
guy friends, girl friend, disagreements: Hello Jason Well you never told me why you are needy or selfish. You or her getting jealous has nothing to do with being needy or being selfish. So unless you have something else to add I ll just talk about the jealousy issue cause you never told me any reasons...

Long Distance Relationships: Future Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, boyfriend and girlfriend
long distance relationship, boyfriend and girlfriend, missionary work: Hello Well you can try and make this work. Keep in mind that if things don t work then you both can still be friends. I feel that if to people truly love each other, then they can still be best friends without having the title of a boyfriend and girlfriend....

Long Distance Relationships: 4 year international romance, similar circumstance, saudi arabia
Long Distance Relationships: 4 year international romance, similar circumstance, saudi arabia, having fun

Long Distance Relationships: 40 days to focus on our future, foresight, oblivion
Long Distance Relationships: 40 days to focus on our future, foresight, oblivion, wisdom

Long Distance Relationships: Arguing with a tit for tat mentality, whack, mentality
Long Distance Relationships: Arguing with a tit for tat mentality, whack, mentality, resentment

Long Distance Relationships: Broken long distance relationship :(, pros cons, spending time
Long Distance Relationships: Broken long distance relationship :(, pros cons, spending time, trusting people

Long Distance Relationships: how can I get my boyfriend back?, long distance relationship, 5 months
Long Distance Relationships: how can I get my boyfriend back?, long distance relationship, 5 months, facebook

Long Distance Relationships: Is my boyfriend cheating?
Long Distance Relationships: Is my boyfriend cheating?

Long Distance Relationships: break up long distance, neediness, definitley
Long Distance Relationships: break up long distance, neediness, definitley, goodluck

Long Distance Relationships: College/High School Relationships, senior year, waste of time
Long Distance Relationships: College/High School Relationships, senior year, waste of time, bf

Long Distance Relationships: College/Highschool relationship, good luck, six months
Long Distance Relationships: College/Highschool relationship, good luck, six months, faith

Long Distance Relationships: Concerned about the future, usafa, girlfriend
Long Distance Relationships: Concerned about the future, usafa, girlfriend

Long Distance Relationships: Considering long distance relationship, completley, no doubt
Long Distance Relationships: Considering long distance relationship, completley, no doubt, fool me once shame

Long Distance Relationships: Does he care or is he just greedy??, stages of a relationship, control freak
Long Distance Relationships: Does he care or is he just greedy??, stages of a relationship, control freak, google

Long Distance Relationships: she's going off to college, yonger, half years
Long Distance Relationships: she's going off to college, yonger, half years, tho

Long Distance Relationships: should it continue? how do i cope?, chase, feelings
Long Distance Relationships: should it continue? how do i cope?, chase, feelings, priority

Long Distance Relationships: Dealing with distance and the blues, swing of things, good luck
Long Distance Relationships: Dealing with distance and the blues, swing of things, good luck, long distance relationship

Long Distance Relationships: Distant Lovers, western woman, negative person
Long Distance Relationships: Distant Lovers, western woman, negative person, western women

Long Distance Relationships: dealing with the long distance relationship, good luck with everything, ldr
Long Distance Relationships: dealing with the long distance relationship, good luck with everything, ldr, 5 months

Long Distance Relationships: Am I not demanding enough?, experience relationships, relationship experience
Long Distance Relationships: Am I not demanding enough?, experience relationships, relationship experience, longest time

Long Distance Relationships: Emergency advice required, advices, heart
Long Distance Relationships: Emergency advice required, advices, heart, love

Long Distance Relationships: Emotionall Seperating the Physically Seperated.
Long Distance Relationships: Emotionall Seperating the Physically Seperated.

Long Distance Relationships: She's far away and we still have not met yet. I'm truly into her., girl lives, realationship
Long Distance Relationships: She's far away and we still have not met yet. I'm truly into her., girl lives, realationship, south carolina

Long Distance Relationships: My Girlfriend Cheated. What should I do?, sex messages, gf
Long Distance Relationships: My Girlfriend Cheated. What should I do?, sex messages, gf, ur

Long Distance Relationships: High School/ College LDR, exact situation, winter break
Long Distance Relationships: High School/ College LDR, exact situation, winter break, insecurities

Long Distance Relationships: help me, k1 fiance visa, god
Long Distance Relationships: help me, k1 fiance visa, god

Long Distance Relationships: Why is he ignoring me?, long distance relationships, red flag
Long Distance Relationships: Why is he ignoring me?, long distance relationships, red flag, coward

Long Distance Relationships: LD relationship: Should I move on?, lots of girls, bf
Long Distance Relationships: LD relationship: Should I move on?, lots of girls, bf, lol

Long Distance Relationships: LDR boyfriend distant on the phone, anwser, little kid
Long Distance Relationships: LDR boyfriend distant on the phone, anwser, little kid, relationship

Long Distance Relationships: LDR: giving empty promises but refused to quit?, ultimatum, melissa
Long Distance Relationships: LDR: giving empty promises but refused to quit?, ultimatum, melissa

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Break up - truely love her, true answer, human history
Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Break up - truely love her, true answer, human history, jock

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance and Heartbreak, porto portugal, portuguese radio
Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance and Heartbreak, porto portugal, portuguese radio, becarefull

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship Breakup, different times, uhm
Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship Breakup, different times, uhm, different ways

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance relationship Breakup, different times, uhm
Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance relationship Breakup, different times, uhm, different ways

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship has ended, head and heart, hostile environment
Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship has ended, head and heart, hostile environment, tour of duty

Long Distance Relationships: Long distant relationship, relationship
Long Distance Relationships: Long distant relationship, relationship

Long Distance Relationships: Lost things to say, diffrent types, silly things
Long Distance Relationships: Lost things to say, diffrent types, silly things, fuit

Long Distance Relationships: lond distance relationship: help!!, great girl, due time
Long Distance Relationships: lond distance relationship: help!!, great girl, due time, time don

Long Distance Relationships: long distance confusion and lonleyness, missing the boat, destiny
Long Distance Relationships: long distance confusion and lonleyness, missing the boat, destiny

Long Distance Relationships: long distance and jealousy problems, mean time, good luck
Long Distance Relationships: long distance and jealousy problems, mean time, good luck, freedom

Long Distance Relationships: long distance meltdown, having a good time, telling the truth
Long Distance Relationships: long distance meltdown, having a good time, telling the truth

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship - first meet, single mom, precious children
Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship - first meet, single mom, precious children, omg

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships , help:(, long distance relationship, experiences
Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships , help:(, long distance relationship, experiences, love

Long Distance Relationships: long question, long distant relationship, fence
Long Distance Relationships: long question, long distant relationship, fence, grass

Long Distance Relationships: I love my boyfriend, but I keep hurting him..., long distance relationship, keeping secrets
Long Distance Relationships: I love my boyfriend, but I keep hurting him..., long distance relationship, keeping secrets, self control

Long Distance Relationships: love in a lond distance relationship, marrage, alexandria
Long Distance Relationships: love in a lond distance relationship, marrage, alexandria, three months

Long Distance Relationships: In love with a soldier., love letter, deployment
Long Distance Relationships: In love with a soldier., love letter, deployment, six months

Long Distance Relationships: Married & Having a Long Distance Affair, selfish behavior, emotional energy
Long Distance Relationships: Married & Having a Long Distance Affair, selfish behavior, emotional energy, new boyfriend

Long Distance Relationships: Missing my girlfriend., good luck man, last resort
Long Distance Relationships: Missing my girlfriend., good luck man, last resort, intimacy

Long Distance Relationships: Moving away, work environment, stresses
Long Distance Relationships: Moving away, work environment, stresses, jerk

Long Distance Relationships: Can someone get married from a long distance relationship?, long distance relationship, realtionship
Long Distance Relationships: Can someone get married from a long distance relationship?, long distance relationship, realtionship, economic situation

Long Distance Relationships: How do you not miss someone?, relationship, ldr
Long Distance Relationships: How do you not miss someone?, relationship, ldr, collage

Long Distance Relationships: Need some advice, right man, time limit
Long Distance Relationships: Need some advice, right man, time limit

Long Distance Relationships: He's from New York and im from London, goal worth, fruition
Long Distance Relationships: He's from New York and im from London, goal worth, fruition, common ground

Long Distance Relationships: In need of physical loving, but in LDR!!! HELP, long distance relationship, friend with benefits
Long Distance Relationships: In need of physical loving, but in LDR!!! HELP, long distance relationship, friend with benefits, gorgeous girls

Long Distance Relationships: online/long distance, cheaters, 3 years
Long Distance Relationships: online/long distance, cheaters, 3 years, real world

Long Distance Relationships: RuneScape...., possibilities, connecticut
Long Distance Relationships: RuneScape...., possibilities, connecticut, love of my life

Long Distance Relationships: does he really love me, long distance relationships, europe trip
Long Distance Relationships: does he really love me, long distance relationships, europe trip, video call

Long Distance Relationships: Sex: should I or shouldn't I?, religious parents
Long Distance Relationships: Sex: should I or shouldn't I?, religious parents

Long Distance Relationships: short term LDR, fianc, ldr
Long Distance Relationships: short term LDR, fianc, ldr, open communication

Long Distance Relationships: taking a break in a long distance relationship, time to say good bye, backup plan
Long Distance Relationships: taking a break in a long distance relationship, time to say good bye, backup plan, word of advice

Long Distance Relationships: temporary long distance advice needed..., bf, holidays
Long Distance Relationships: temporary long distance advice needed..., bf, holidays, 4 years

Long Distance Relationships: i think i've fallen in love, time honey, courage
Long Distance Relationships: i think i've fallen in love, time honey, courage, money

Long Distance Relationships: do you think it will work?, exact place, going to college
Long Distance Relationships: do you think it will work?, exact place, going to college, destiny

Long Distance Relationships: thinking about going in the airforce, long distance relationship, lcuk
Long Distance Relationships: thinking about going in the airforce, long distance relationship, lcuk, oher

Long Distance Relationships: failed long distance relationship, long distance relationship, relationship question
long distance relationship, relationship question, exact word: Hello I understand that it is hard to forget him but I really feel his actions are weird and he may be a generally nice guy, but he still has not treated you well. Also even nice guys can cheat. If the situation is tempting, any guy can get involved with...

Long Distance Relationships: She's far away and we still have not met yet. I'm truly into her., phone conversations, chat on line
phone conversations, chat on line, sweet voice: Hey Mariano Well how you just told me would work perfectly. You don t want to make it long and drawn out but just simple and sweet. Just tell her I m sorry about the last email and I kind of got carried away but what I really meant to say was that you mean...

Long Distance Relationships: I feel like I'm dating myself., phone person, chest cold
phone person, chest cold, friend in need: Hello Well from what you told me it doesn t sound like she s falling out of love with you or anything like that. I think she s just been pretty stressed out and doesn t feel like talking to anyone, including you. Also women can be a little unpredictable and...

Long Distance Relationships: Have my fiance's feelings changed?, text msgs, reciprocation
text msgs, reciprocation, flowers gifts: you can simply state your feelings as i discussed, quite calmly and rationally; it appears your insecurities, fear of loss, are making you hesitant to confront her; if so, you ll continue to be jerked around; as i indicated, if it were me, she d be required...

Long Distance Relationships: My fiance, precous moments, call id
precous moments, call id, tendancy: Hey Michelle First of all your not bothering me and I really don t mind talking to you or helping you out! Ok think about it like this. Would you rather your boyfriend take a break with you when he was living near you or when he was away from you? It sounds...

Long Distance Relationships: My fiancee - how to prepare for the worst, time melissa, fiancee
time melissa, fiancee, taking time: Hey Nick Yes it s good to have her manage her time and schedules. She needs to be more organized and it will probaly help tremendously with the relationship. I m very busy dealing with work and school and handling a committed relationship. Planning really...

Long Distance Relationships: My fiancee says he needs space., answe, fiancee
answe, fiancee, sidelines: i gave you the answer--sometimes the right answer isn t one we like, as in this case; if you want to make excuses for obviously unacceptable behavior indicating he s nowhere NEAR ready for an exclusive relationship, let alone marriage, be my guest; if it s...

Long Distance Relationships: A follow up, long distance relationship, ldr
long distance relationship, ldr, fiancee: Hello Well I m not sure what you want me to tell you. If you want then you can give it a try. The relationship is worth a try but as long as you both are being realistic about the situation and try your hardest to make it work, then that s all you can do....

Long Distance Relationships: forget and forgive, having faith, inconvenience
having faith, inconvenience, scandal: Hello I m very sorry I haven t replied to your question earlier but I was very busy with school and work. I had a few tests this week and a research project, and I just could not get around to allexperts, so I apologize for this inconvenience, and I hope...

Long Distance Relationships: should i just forget about him?, old girlfriends, ldr
old girlfriends, ldr, 7 months: don t chase; it turns off the guy and depletes your self-esteem; sometimes you have to bite the bullet and accept the unchangeable; let s face it, even before he ended it, all this time with friends , especially after not being with you for awhile, wasn t...

Long Distance Relationships: How do you go forward?, emotional relationship, bachelors degree
emotional relationship, bachelors degree, military wife: Hello Well I strongly recommend that you guys seek marraige counseling. counseling will open up ways for you to communicate about these issues and will really help things improve. So I strongly recommend that you guys seek marraige counseling. I really...

Long Distance Relationships: Just found out.. Now what?, two and a half years, new experiences
two and a half years, new experiences, plane tickets: my assumption is you won t/can t be seeing her in person before she comes--if that s the case, put it on the back burner until she arrives; then you sit her down and discuss the whole thing; she may say no big deal , but that s also for YOU to decide; plus,...

Long Distance Relationships: General Problems, hour and a half, girl friend
hour and a half, girl friend, roommate: Hello Well I m not sure what you want me to tell you since you already made your decision but being an hour and a half away from her is not bad. It could be worse and I really don t know how you ll be able to get out this situation unless you wait a few months...

Long Distance Relationships: Girl Trouble, long distance relationship, teen relationships
long distance relationship, teen relationships, self doubt: Since you are talking 4 to 5 times a week, I would say that seems like a decent amount of communication. I can t help you specifically with your confidence about calling her, I do think you talk a good amount how it is and you shouldn t be concerned about...

Long Distance Relationships: My Girlfriend Cheated. What should I do?, full time job, aim profile
full time job, aim profile, half hours: Hello I m very sorry that I didn t respond to this much earlier. I realize that you sent this perhaps hoping for a response before you talked to her, but unfortunately I ve been pretty busy these past few days and did not really have much time, until today...

Long Distance Relationships: Girlfriends in Iraq, present moment, 5 months
present moment, 5 months, girlfriends: the best thing to do is to try to stay in the PRESENT moment; focus on whatever it is you re doing NOW, and turn aside thoughts that make you unhappy; stay active and involved with people and interests that you like..stay patient and positive, and realize...

Long Distance Relationships: When to Give up?, high school sweetheart, spilling my guts
high school sweetheart, spilling my guts, change of attitude: you re right; you can t force or otherwise demand that someone follow the rules just out of fear of loss; it only holds meaning when both parties PREFER the other..no need to call; if anything, he should be calling YOU; as to approach, i would first ask him...

Long Distance Relationships: Giving up in NY, travel expenses, good luck
travel expenses, good luck, melissa: Hello I have to agree that he is practically making no effort and this is very unfair for you. You should not be the one to do all the traveling, all the paying, planning, etc. You shouldn t feel guilty about this either cause you are doing most of the work...

Long Distance Relationships: it gets hard!, giving time, uncertainity
giving time, uncertainity, ldr: Hello Well it sounds like you already made your decision which is probably the right one. It s good for you to focus on your career, especially when it s getting a big boost. I know you love your boyfriend but it s good to experience new things and to just...

Long Distance Relationships: My gf and I have been together..., sex drive, 9 months
sex drive, 9 months, good reason: there s a question men have been trying to answer for thousands of years...i d say it depends on how often and why she refuses...if she appears to have reason to be tired, or other good reason, and doesn t pass on it alot, and shows enough understanding to...

Long Distance Relationships: Is this girl interested in me and is it worth getting involved?, long distance relationships, holiday romances
long distance relationships, holiday romances, couple of times a year: Hey Matt First of all, try to meet the girl first. You may be worrying about this for no reason, especially if you turn out not to be interested in her or vice versa. But it does sound like she thinks your cute. I can t say that she is interested or likes...

Long Distance Relationships: Should I give up, or keepy trying?, exboyfriend, sixteen hours
exboyfriend, sixteen hours, daily basis: Hello Well I think in this situation you need to think a different alternative cause I m really not sure what s going on in his head. I really am leaning towards him feeling inadequate and feeling like you deserve better than what he can provide so he s kind...

Long Distance Relationships: i like a guy in california,..., definately worth, boyfriend lives
definately worth, boyfriend lives, coincedence: Hey Liz Well that s a coincedence! I m just saying that cause I live in Cali, my boyfriend lives in NY too and I will see him on Dec. 17th too and we are both near the same age! So kinda the same except uhh the opposite. But other than that our situations...

Long Distance Relationships: Can a guy be to sappy, one of those guys, bad boy
one of those guys, bad boy, law school: Hello Well if this is becoming a real problem with you then mention it to her. If she s an easy going person and she s someone you would want to be with then she ll understand your fears and fully explain why she is taking a long time to meet you, and she...

Long Distance Relationships: Hardships?, long distance relationship, woman of my dreams
long distance relationship, woman of my dreams, month and a half: Hello Well that s good that you were able to still get her to talk to you about it. Even if you guys aren t going out... it s still good to talk and get everything out in the open. The problems shouldn t be ignored just because they don t matter as much as...

Long Distance Relationships: HELP!!!!, insulin pump, stupid things
insulin pump, stupid things, co workers: Hello Well I think the problem here is on both of your ends. First of all I think that sometimes you should watch what you say. Realistically you are human and obviously you will say things that may come off as offensive. You can control this around co-workers...

Long Distance Relationships: HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, emotional person, money problems
emotional person, money problems, responsibilty: Hi Luke Yes you certainly did make a pretty big mistake. there s nothing you can do except tell her. You say you didn t want to hurt her but you did, and that was your mistake. Now take the responsibilty for it and tell her. Also it sounds like you should...

Long Distance Relationships: Heartbreak, long distance relationship, homemade cards
long distance relationship, homemade cards, wonderful guy: Hey Tanya! Thanks for the question. I apologize for taking so long to write back. Being away from someone you love is so hard! So here are my biggest tips... 1) Get involved with life: Make your situation in your city comfortable by having another friend...

Long Distance Relationships: Hello,A few years before..., high school physics, family worships
high school physics, family worships, physics teacher: Hey Well I am very sorry to hear about all this going on. It sounds like they are very mean and I m glad that there is at least someone in this family (you) who is very nice. Well I think you know that from now on, don t tell your husband anything. Don t...

Long Distance Relationships: Hello. How are you? Thanks..., long distance relationship, one of my best friends
long distance relationship, one of my best friends, worth the risk: Hey Liz Well if you want to stay with your boyfriend but have feelings for this other guy but still want to stay friends then to be honest with you, it sounds like you shouldn t be with anyone at the moment. you can try to stay friends with this guy but it...

Long Distance Relationships: Help!!!, hand on my shoulder, course menu
hand on my shoulder, course menu, girl name: Hey Kevin Yes it definately sounds like she likes you or at the least has some sort of feelings for you. Probaly ask her if she wants to do something soon or on New Years.From what you told me it sounds like she likes you and probaly would want to see and...

Long Distance Relationships: Help, friend circle, getting a loan
friend circle, getting a loan, mths: you re on the wrong path; it s not about him, it s about YOU; if you weren t so insecure/needy as to getting into such an addictive arrangement, you would have ended this LONG ago; he broke no rule or law; the deal is, there are NO guarantees in matters of...

Long Distance Relationships: Help me, going to chicago, melissa
going to chicago, melissa, money: Hello Well I don t know what you want me to do. Just plan to meet her sometime. It might be best to try and meet her sometime during the summer so that way there s more time to meet her and it gives you time to save up money. But until then that s all you...

Long Distance Relationships: Help, long distance relationship, place in your heart
long distance relationship, place in your heart, walker smith: Hello Well you can t prove to her that that wont happen because it hasn t happened and you guys haven t been together long enough where you could say oh remember last year, it didn t happen then so why would it happen now. The only thing you can really do...

Long Distance Relationships: Help First Long Distance Relationship & First Ever Relationship, long distance relationship, long distance relationships
long distance relationship, long distance relationships, romia: Hello Well I definitely understand your feelings about starting a long distance relationship with her. I think that it s worth a try to try and have a relationship but if you really are worried then your best bet is to just stay friends with her. Trying to...

Long Distance Relationships: Help me get her back...please..., long distance relationship, personal artifacts
long distance relationship, personal artifacts, girl worth: Hey Cody first of all you cannot rebuild her faith or her confidence. That can never happen. I hope you are aware of the reality of that quote that says that only you can help yourself. You can help her rebuild her confidence but you cannot do it for her....

Long Distance Relationships: Help i think shes trying to say goodbye, knee jerk reaction, moving to the uk
knee jerk reaction, moving to the uk, girlfreind: Hey Alexandre I would not worry just yer. I do think that your feeling about her not telling her parents that you guys were together may be true or maybe during that time she did not feel comfortable saying it because of a risk someone may hear. For example...

Long Distance Relationships: Help!!!, hand on my shoulder, course menu
hand on my shoulder, course menu, girl name: Hey Kevin! What a situation! I think she s doing one of two things. 1) She s still interested in you. If you genuinly believe this to be the case, then you should pursue her. Don t be afraid to ask her out on New Years; it came up in conversation and would...

Long Distance Relationships: Hey...., theat, young mother
theat, young mother, 9 months: Hey Sandy Well you can t run away from getting hurt all the time. If you do then it will turn out bad. Right now you think that running away from all this will prevent you from getting hurt but in the long run it wont and you will feel foolish for even sticking...

Long Distance Relationships: Heyyyyyyy, long distance relationship, how to make a long distance relationship work
long distance relationship, how to make a long distance relationship work, long distance relationships: Building trust takes a long long time. Its not really something I can help you with, its just something that happens when a couple is open and honest with each other. Long distance relationships will only work if you have A LOT of trust in each other and your...

Long Distance Relationships: Hi!i am a 21 year old female,and..., serious relationship, good man
serious relationship, good man, close friends: i don t really see how anything could come of it, without causing MAJOR problems; however, it should suggest that you might want to take a closer look at the relationship you are in, why you remain in it, if it meets your needs/requirements, or if it is in...

Long Distance Relationships: High School/ College LDR, aj taylor, relationship problems
aj taylor, relationship problems, destress: it s natural to have insecurities--after all, many relationships don t last thru college; best not to discuss all the negatives possible; better to stay in the present, be patient, positive, prepared, hoping for the best but not expecting anything.....

Long Distance Relationships: High School - College Relationship, long distance relationship, easy prey
long distance relationship, easy prey, neediness: you better start listening to her; you can t expect to go through all the college years, especially apart, without letting go ; she s indicated to you how she feels; if you love her, you will get beyond your own insecurity and neediness and allow her to be...

Long Distance Relationships: Holding hands, public displays of affection, displays of affection
public displays of affection, displays of affection, possiblity: i m not sure this is the subject you want to go to war over; neither one of you should be worried about what others think; you have a preference he hold your hand; he has a preference not to; if he s not inclined to do it naturally, GETTING him to do it really...

Long Distance Relationships: Is there a happy ending?, long periods of time, career friends
long periods of time, career friends, losing my mind: Hello Well the only way to know how Jane is feeling is to ask her. It seems like you guys are on pretty good terms where you can ask her how she is feeling. There are too many reasons why she is pulling away and I feel it would be a waste of time to list...

Long Distance Relationships: hard decision!!!, long distance relationship, initial move
long distance relationship, initial move, commitment level: Hello Well first of all if you guys are really meant to be together then your fears of not being together wont happen. Trust me on that one. I went through a very similar situation and it was scary cause I had no idea what would happen. Things were difficult,...

Long Distance Relationships: hard to give it up, fighting a losing battle, graduation day
fighting a losing battle, graduation day, rest of our lives: you re fighting a losing battle, and losing all self-esteem in the process; it s over; stop calling, stop trying to be friends, which you couldn t be anyway because of your feelings; the sooner you let go , the sooner the hurt will begin to disappear; ten...

Long Distance Relationships: hello, long distance relationship, care attitude
long distance relationship, care attitude, texted: stop chasing; it plays into his hand and ruins your self-esteem; he s getting away with this don t care attitude because either he really doesn t care or because he s gotten too comfortable and sure of you...stop writing/calling, and wait til he tries to find...

Long Distance Relationships: hello, long distant relationship, long distance relationship
long distant relationship, long distance relationship, texted: hi don t worry nothing is a silly question! Lads are hopeless when it comes to things like this, they are very complicated i think. The exact same thing happened to my long distant relationship, he just stopped chasing me, i txtd a few times and rang his...

Long Distance Relationships: help, relationship communication, miltary
relationship communication, miltary, significant others: his personality is pretty much set, so don t expect alot of change..all you can do is present to him what your needs/requirements are in terms of relationship communication, and see how he responds... you keep him on his toes by generally not accepting less...

Long Distance Relationships: help..., point option, neclace
point option, neclace, jitters: Hey Maggie! Thanks for the question. It really doesn t sound like you re asking too much; you simply want back what you re giving. You metioned that you do special little things for him. This is a great way to set a president of how you like to be treated...

Long Distance Relationships: help, neclace, jitters
neclace, jitters, maggie: Hey Maggie Yes everything is totally understandable. Sorry to hear about the necklace thing, I would hate having to wear something that was bought for an ex, I probaly wouldn t even wear it. But yes it s totally understandable how you want little presents...

Long Distance Relationships: help, neclace, pretty girls
neclace, pretty girls, jitters: usually in relationships there is one party needier, more insecure than the other; unfortunately in this case it s you; you need the things you mentioned to give you some sign of reassurance that he still cares about you; a young guy in college with loads...

Long Distance Relationships: help, neclace, jitters
neclace, jitters, maggie: Hey Maggie:) You don t sound needy at all. It s not wrong to need a little attention sometimes, like you said- something as simple as a card is not too much to ask. You see, I am very similar to you. I do lots of little things, cards, poems, and little...

Long Distance Relationships: help, good luck, last time
good luck, last time, melissa: Hello No this question wasn t long at all. Okay um just ask him normal stuff like how are, how is your day, and stuff like that. Also catch up on each other s lives like talk about school, life, family, movies, things like that. Talk about anything you want...

Long Distance Relationships: help me, filipines, procces
filipines, procces, allexperts: Hello Adam Well first of all I m not sure about any of these things. I ve never dealt with these issues but you can do the research yourself. Try to find other sources that can help you, and there may even be a source here on allexperts but under a different...

Long Distance Relationships: help please, long distant relationship, mental torture
long distant relationship, mental torture, wasting your time: your friends are probably right...the question is, why is your self-esteem so low that you put up with this?...stop chasing, calling, writing, wasting your time and money...tell him in one last email that you re done waiting for him to show he REALLY cares,...

Long Distance Relationships: help!, neediness, dropping out of school
neediness, dropping out of school, last question: let me get this straight; he wants to drop out of school, join a gang, he gets you pregnant at 16, leaves you after an abortion, then goes to date one of your friends, and you want to know if he cares and what to do??...don t see alot of caring there, do you?...as...

Long Distance Relationships: hey, short time, priorities
short time, priorities, few days: Hi Mandy! First of all I am very sorry that it took me such a long time to reply to your question. I understand that it has been a few days but I ve been very busy with coursework, my job, and other priorities in my life. I have not had much time to relax...

Long Distance Relationships: hey melissa,i'm not sure..., hyperventilating, emotional pain
hyperventilating, emotional pain, wether: Hello Ali I can defiantely understand how you are feeling. 2 years ago I went through the same exact thing when me and my boyfriend broke up. He was seeing another girl and even said he loved her and it just hurt soo much. And I even became suicidal and did...

Long Distance Relationships: is a hold healthy for our relationship?, long distance blues, main squeeze
long distance blues, main squeeze, reaching the point: i m not sure how you put a hold on feelings...usually when guys start talking about friends in this manner, it means they want to consider seeing other girls, but have the main squeeze waiting in reserve...if you re at college, don t see him much, and...

Long Distance Relationships: he just went home, commitment phobe, gut reaction
commitment phobe, gut reaction, month and a half: Hello Well I am having a hard time understanding the problem. You said he left a few days ago and both times you ve talked to him since then he seemed different. I mean that is completely normal. He was probably very tired from his trip and he probably really...

Long Distance Relationships: always hopeful, stunning woman, kind of woman
stunning woman, kind of woman, hangover: Hello I think the flowers were a good idea. It was a very sweet gesture and obviously she enjoyed it. It also showed her that you were thinking of her and that you care about her. The next thing you should do is call her a little more often and see how she...

Long Distance Relationships: husband in Iraq, dear alice, snail mail
dear alice, snail mail, outgoing messages: Dear Alice, Even though you say he trusts you completely, there are definite trust issues going on here since you felt the need to be monitoring his emails and invading his privacy. Your female intuition alerted you that some indiscretions were going on...

Long Distance Relationships: Im so confused.., roller coaster, none of my friends
roller coaster, none of my friends, knowlege: Hello First of all, I understand how you feel about this guy but do not sacrifice your academics for this guy. Go to college, and consider going to college near where he is and choose a college you like. There are many relationships who are long distance...

Long Distance Relationships: Im in FL he's in NY, long distance relationship, appreicated
long distance relationship, appreicated, love poems: Well Kate, first off, thank you very much for writing me, i really appreciate it!!! I personally think that you are doing the right thing. You fell in love with this man for specific reasons, and nothing can change that.I definitely think that you should pursue...

Long Distance Relationships: Very Important, kiss goodbye, last boyfriend
kiss goodbye, last boyfriend, counting down the days: Hello Well i can t really tell from those last few comments if she likes you. I m sure she liked you before she left to go back home but I m not sure now. There s not much evidence to support the claim that she likes you. This goes for the opposite... it...

Long Distance Relationships: Insecurites with Long Distance Relationships, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, college freshmen: Hey Well about the other girl thing. Honestly you should talk to him about it. There s a difference between being curious and showing him your a bit jealous and giving him the vibe you don t trust him. The only way he would think you don t trust him is if...

Long Distance Relationships: Insecurities and worries, long distance relationship, hottest guy
long distance relationship, hottest guy, personal issue: all you know is what he tells you--you haven t seen him, for 1 second, with you, or for 1 second, in a real live situation; you only have words; you have no plans to meet, no way to actually date..and crying isn t exactly a sign of a happy arrangement; one...

Long Distance Relationships: Interacial and long-distance, maturity levels, realtionships
maturity levels, realtionships, rational explanation: Hello With the language barriers I doubt that it can work. A relationship can only work if you both can communicate with each other, and if that cannot happen then it probably wont work. Usually age doesn t make a difference when it comes to maturity levels....

Long Distance Relationships: International LDR - kids involved, smooth talk, dream man
smooth talk, dream man, visitation rights: phone calls/emails are no substitutes for REAL interaction where you observe, touch, experience, do things together, see how each reacts in different situations; so far what you have is ALOT of smooth talk and promises of coming attractions, and 1 week of...

Long Distance Relationships: International LDR - moral issues with kids, transgendered woman, sole custody
transgendered woman, sole custody, good relationship: Hello Well you can talk to the child about it too. At the age of 4 he is probably most dependant on you but then again you have to consider how this will affect him growing up. He wont really have much contact with his father and may not be able to form a...

Long Distance Relationships: International LDR, time zone difference, geneva switzerland
time zone difference, geneva switzerland, letting go: ironically, it s the strain to keep close that works against you; beyond your half hour of communication, your focus should be on your PRESENT life; it s summer--hang out with friends, do fun stuff, focus on enjoying the moment; letting go is only detrimental...

Long Distance Relationships: iam lost, wasting my time, immediatly
wasting my time, immediatly, industrial engineering: Hey Enas No it is no problem at all. Ask as many questions as you wish. Well it s definately a good sign. I think that now that you are not around as much, he has figured out that you were really someone special in his life. Maybe he is afraid to loose you...

Long Distance Relationships: Why is he ignoring me?, sudden disappearance, female friends
sudden disappearance, female friends, hiatus: Hello I hate to tell you this but it is very likely that he is cheating on you and I m not sure why you are dealing with this terrible behavior. If he did it before it s quite possible that he s doing it again. All the signs point to it such as his sudden...

Long Distance Relationships: im afraid..., dad lives, full custody
dad lives, full custody, trouble at home: William, I am sorry to hear that you two have recently had to be so far away from each other. That can be really tough. Want some good news, though? She told you she loves you! Girls don t really take that love thing lightly. If she says that she loves...

Long Distance Relationships: im afriad, dad lives, full custody
dad lives, full custody, trouble at home: Hello I hate to say this but most likely she will find someone else before you get back. The reason I think this is because you guys haven t been going out for very long. You guys went out for less than a month according to what you told me and that s not...

Long Distance Relationships: What im i doing?, leciester, internet man
leciester, internet man, classic co: unless you make more of an effort to figure out why you are so needy and dependent on men, this problem is likely to keep re-appearing, as well as cause you to be prematurely lured into these suspect arrangements; obviously you shouldn t be moving in with...

Long Distance Relationships: impatience, long distance relationship, stress job
long distance relationship, stress job, disposable time: so i guess that means unless you live together, which could be WAY off or never, the arrangement will remain LDR; to answer, it really depends on your emotional make-up; if you re somewhat insecure, needy, dependent, this will be a harder to solve issue, as...

Long Distance Relationships: important, flight home, holding hands
flight home, holding hands, text messages: Hello Okay from what you told me, no, it doesn t sound like you guys are boyfriend and girlfriend. You guys weren t even dating... you guys just went on one very romantic outing together... which makes you more than friends but not quite boyfriend and girlfriend....

Long Distance Relationships: international long distance, new years celebration, international long distance
new years celebration, international long distance, leighann: Hello Coco I agree with you. You guys moving to be with each other at this point would not be wise and would not be appropriate. I mean this guy is not even in the U.S. It s one thing if you both were in the U.S. and discussing this but this is international...

Long Distance Relationships: issue of trust, self esteem issues, attractive person
self esteem issues, attractive person, girfriend: Hey again Maggie I can t answer that question cause that s really only something you would know. I mean people can feel like that over a guy but they might not actually truly love him. But if you would do anything for him, die for him, want to be with him...

Long Distance Relationships: Jarhead loving but struggling ..., seattle scene, absent father
seattle scene, absent father, monie: Hello I am still having aa hard time trying to figure out what the big deal is. As you said before this is a young relationship and there were no big arguements. I don t even see why you guy are breaking up. The only think I could see from this whole question...

Long Distance Relationships: Jealous Boyfriend, independent woman, answering the question
independent woman, answering the question, friendships: why are you still calling him your boyfriend??..from what you said, sounds like an ex that you ve just been talking to; in any case, the ex is WAY out of line, ESPECIALLY considering you re not even DATING (even if you were, he d STILL be); if i were you,...

Long Distance Relationships: jealousy-is this normal?, long distance relationships, independent woman
long distance relationships, independent woman, lonely days: Hey Betty anne Well jealousy for any couple, long distance or not is normal. It would be very strange if the partner did not get jealous at least once and just for a little bit. Jealousy can be a bad thing but in your case it seems ok. You sound like you...

Long Distance Relationships: jelouse of her guy friends, talk to girls, trust issues
talk to girls, trust issues, guy friends: Hello Well first of all there is nothing wrong with her wanting to look good everyday. I have boyfriends but I still like to look pretty. I don t dress up and look cute for a guy, I do it for myself. If your girlfriend is very attractive then she has the...

Long Distance Relationships: Keeping Long Distance Relationships Fun, long distance relationships, fun topics
long distance relationships, fun topics, fun websites: Eliza- Hmm, well, the only way you will be able to contact him really is via mail and occasionally on the phone. Try sending him a care package with things that mean a lot to the both of you inside. Maybe some pictures of you and him as well as some...

Long Distance Relationships: Kind of a LDR, long distance relationship, ldr
long distance relationship, ldr, going to college: Hello Well yes that isn t a long distance relationship and I m pretty sure you guys can handle the distance. I mean my mom drives 45 minutes to work everyday, so it s really not that long. It s true that in college people meet other people and things can...

Long Distance Relationships: Kissed another guy, long distance relationship, telling the truth
long distance relationship, telling the truth, cuddling: Hello Well I m glad to hear that you decided to tell him! That sounds like a good decision! You should tell him in person when you see him. The phone is just not the way to tell someone that type of news. Just tell him the weekend you see him. Meliss...

Long Distance Relationships: Kissing...., long distance relationship, romantic kiss
long distance relationship, romantic kiss, first kiss: To tell you the truth, if that was just one kiss, the kisses will turn very different. Ok that might have gone bad, but you adjust to eachothers prefrences. Y don t you play dominant, say something like ok hold on, try this, let me kiss you first then you...

Long Distance Relationships: how do i keep it going, long distance relationship, best invention
long distance relationship, best invention, great memories: It seems like you 2 may have hit a slump. If everything appears to be normal and he still talks with you regularly than you may be overanalyzining. If thats the case, heres a few ideas that helped me and my boyfriend from getting in a rut while we were long...

Long Distance Relationships: How to keep it alive when I am away?, family background, bad situation
family background, bad situation, 9 months: Hello well obviously he does want to be with you, otherwise he would not be crying when you broke up with him. Hes just confused because his dad is going through another divorce and he is probably losing hope in marriage. Because of this loss of hope he is...

Long Distance Relationships: how to keep the spark going...., long distance relationships, thoughts in my head
long distance relationships, thoughts in my head, tone of voice: Hi Bryan I have to agree that your behavior is what is causing the problem. I m not saying you are the only one at fault, because your girlfriend is not handling this well either. For example, when she yelled at you about the nap thing, she could have handled...

Long Distance Relationships: keeping interested, insecurities, first man
insecurities, first man, high risk: you have to find a way to be more centered , or be at high risk for disappointment; you re THINKING he s the only guy on the planet (he s not), will only increase your insecurities; pull yourself together, let HIM take the lead, see what naturally evolves,...

Long Distance Relationships: how do I know whether she cares and is loyal?, long distance relationship, little gifts
long distance relationship, little gifts, keeping cool: unfortunately there s no magic answer; it helps to stay in the PRESENT, focusing on whatever you re doing (hopefully stuff with other people)..if thoughts start to enter your mind about this, immediately reject them and get back to thinking only about what...

Long Distance Relationships: How can I know if my Fiance is cheating?, e mail addresses, maturity factor
e mail addresses, maturity factor, care attitude: Hello, if i was you i firstly would not panic about this situation. It may be something totally different to what you are thinking! In the beginning of a relationship honesty is the best policy, however if both of you had problems within the past, you naturally...

Long Distance Relationships: How can I make him know how he feels?, argueing, good relationship
argueing, good relationship, chatroom: Hey Kat Well I m sorry to say this but you can t make him see how he feels. He has to do that all by himself. there s nothing you can do to make him feel anyways. But what you can do is talk to him about this. Ask him why he feels this way. It might be because...

Long Distance Relationships: i know i am an idiot!, different perspectives, surfer dude
different perspectives, surfer dude, lady friend: i didn t see much problem with her email, thusly yours was an over-reaction; she sees you as a friend, only, and her response was in that vein; forget about the romantic illusions, and, if you value her friendship, apologize for your hypersensitivity....

Long Distance Relationships: How do I know it's real?, long distance relationship, honest response
long distance relationship, honest response, o clock: usually in a relationship, one person is more emotionally involved than the other--usually the needier, less secure one takes on this role--not exactly where you want to be; he knows how you feel; telling him will only make him feel awkward, as he s not ready...

Long Distance Relationships: LD break up from 7500 miles, petty differences, torrid time
petty differences, torrid time, realtionship: Hello Well I can understand her not trusting in you guys improving because of how the arguments seem to go and how things just don t seem to be improving. The best way to bring it back is to just ask her for one more chance and really try the next time. You...

Long Distance Relationships: LD relationship: Should I move on?, consolation prize, head over heals
consolation prize, head over heals, male friend: you re way over your head here...even with no other guy around, why are you doing talking about love, and commitment no less, with a 17 yr old you haven t even met, and at such a distance that there s no plan where you could even date regularly?? this guy...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR, honest truth, hi mike
honest truth, hi mike, vocational school: Hi Mike Your situation is a tough one. It sounds as though you have been very loyal to this girl, and very patient too. When you say that she isn t allowed to leave the house, I m not exactly sure what is going on with that. I think that she is going...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR, long distance relationship, hector
long distance relationship, hector, good luck: Hey Hector Well I don t know what her situation is but people do things for certain reasons. Maybe she doesn t have the money nor the time to go to school yet. She did not give you an exact date all she said was she wanted to go to school. So she might be...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR, long distant relationships, company meeting
long distant relationships, company meeting, dear lady: Hey Michael Well I can t tell you if you should move in or not. But i can tell you that it might be wise to see each other a few more times before making a big decision like moving in together. The last thiing you want is to move in with her and a week after...

Long Distance Relationships: My LDR, lucrative job, hanging over my head
lucrative job, hanging over my head, hardest time: Hello Well she is in college now so of course she might become more distracted and may lose focus with you. The same thing happened with me in college and me and this guy who I love lost some contact over time, but I had to start trying to maintain contact...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR boyfriend distant on the phone, respectful relationship, ferry ride
respectful relationship, ferry ride, moving home: if your concerns only lead to his honoring your request in some obligatory fashion, they won t be worth much to you, and he ll build resentment having to make them; the advice; give him his freedom in spades--not only don t call HIM, but let the machine pick...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR and breaking up, christing, son god
christing, son god, trust issues: Hello Christing Well first of all it sounds like you both have to make a few changes. You need to stop asking probing questions. It a ok if you want to ask him a question about something once in awhile but do not question him about everything. That s not...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR Change of feeling, professional assignment, intimacy
professional assignment, intimacy, falling out of love: it s certainly possible; indeed, the freedom allowed each other previously may have been a healthy choice; at least now if you wind up together it will be because you each PREFERRED the other, and not because of some exclusivity rule; as to whether the necessary...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR/Cheating, long distance relationship, female friend
long distance relationship, female friend, bf: Hello Well there is a chance but this might not be able to work out. He did cheat on you and that s one of the few things that a person can do that is very hard to truly forgive. You ll constantly wonder and feel more insecure about having him hang out with...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR in college in different states, state of north carolina, ldr
state of north carolina, ldr, attending college: Hello Well yes it will be difficult to get through but it s worth it to give it a try. There s no real way to deal with the grief. Honestly it will be hard for the very first couple of months but then after that things will get easier, and you ll get used...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR in college, emotional aspect, afriad
emotional aspect, afriad, ldr: Hey Lesley First of all NO it s a very bad idea to transfer schools just to be with a guy. I could understand if you didn t care about the school or the location but don t move just to be with some guy. That s immature and could turn into big mistake. It...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR Frustration, 4 months, frustration
4 months, frustration, melissa: Hello Angela Yes there s really no point to an LDR if you guys aren t able to be together at one point. I think you should give it about a year just to see what happens. But if after that time you still don t see how you guys can be together then I think...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR's and the future., surprise surprise, ldr
surprise surprise, ldr, fluke: it s a simple case of one person needing/wanting their partner more than the other; unfortunately the one most involved emotionally is the one who usually gets hurt; stick it out for the next 5 years..?? ..how bout not one more day??..the man has indicated...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR girl from holiday, proper relationship, afraid of commitment
proper relationship, afraid of commitment, great girl: Hello Well if you feel like your saying it just for the sake of it then it s probably not love. But you could be afraid of commitment or getting serious. The best way to know is to ask yourself this. Do you really care about her and is she someone you can...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR: giving empty promises but refused to quit?, long distance relationship, empty promises
long distance relationship, empty promises, general knowledge: Hello I have to admit that something has changed and a couple of things are possible here. Either he is losing feelings for you or he s gotten way too comfortable and doesn t feel the need to change anymore, especially since you aren t leaving him. Think...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR and Kids, long distance relationship, ldr
long distance relationship, ldr, cold feet: ask him the same questions; obviously, if there s no change in the circumstances, you ll probably be in the same boat next year, and beyond; once he answers regarding the future, you d have to decide what the best thing is for you; but, if it were me, i wouldn...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR + marriage, high divorce rate, long periods of time
high divorce rate, long periods of time, positive attitude: Hello Well first of all stick with what you guys have been doing. If you guys have survived about three years in an LDR then there s not much else I can really tell you. We both have to be pretty realistic here. Not many, if anyone, is involved in an LDR...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR, mixed signals, mixed signals, negative consequences
mixed signals, negative consequences, playing a game: Hello Jose It s probably something she does out of habit. I remember the same thing happened last year in my relationship. I always ended up calling my boyfriend most of the time and he would sometimes call me. Finally I got upset and asked him why I was...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR: she is on a power trip, what can I do?, long distance relationship, freshmen year
long distance relationship, freshmen year, sky is the limit: WOW, you got yourself in quite a situation. You should never have groveled and told her you would back off so much because now she thinks she can do whatever she wants. What I don t understand is, why would she want to turn off her phone at night, wouldn t...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR Thoughts?, phone person, warm weather
phone person, warm weather, romantic time: Hey Heather No you don t have to email me through this website. You can email me at mmb7018@yahoo.com if you would like. That s good that you have a positive outlook on things. I know if I was in the same situation I would probaly be scared and wouldn t even...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR - Trust, forthcoming wedding, female friends
forthcoming wedding, female friends, hesitation: Hello Well from the information you gave me it doesn t sound like he s cheating on you. It sounds like he may have a friendship with a woman and so of course he calls her and talks to her sometimes but she is nothing really special like that. So if she isn...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR timing!!!, long distance relationship, separate lives
long distance relationship, separate lives, entertainers: Hey Nilo, I m just following up to see how everything turned out. Please write back soon. :) ~Faythe faythe1215@gmail.com --------------------------------------------- Hey Nilo, I can see the problem, and I understand exactly what the two of...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR, long distance relationship, relationship material
long distance relationship, relationship material, unmarried mother: you re unfortunately in a little over your head with this; if you have to convince someone to be in love with you, you re with the wrong person; the guy is, for whatever reason, not into this as you are, and consequently not what you d call good relationship...

Long Distance Relationships: Letters, treacherous slope, budget airlines
treacherous slope, budget airlines, communication front: Hello Well I am glad that overall your relationship is going very well. You are one of the rare cases where there are not many problems with the communication. Anyway, I have heard of a partner not responding to letters like the other partner. Sometimes this...

Long Distance Relationships: Letting him know my feelings, short time, good luck
short time, good luck, melissa: Hello I think that if the situation is appropriate then you should definately tell him how you feel. Nothing bad will come out of it and it s good to just let someone know how you feel. Back home, I had a wonderful friend who I just fell for. I moved all...

Long Distance Relationships: LONG DISTANT RELATIONSHIP, long distant relationship, gut feeling
long distant relationship, gut feeling, 5 months: Hello Well tell him how you are feeling about this. You must understand that it s normal for one partner to stop calling and texting as much. At first it s easy to keep contacting each other but after awhile those become less frequent and even less talking....

Long Distance Relationships: Long Dist ance Relationship, long distance relationship, faith and trust
long distance relationship, faith and trust, girl 2: Hello Well considering what she has done in the past, I think it s important that she puts a little effort in calling you back. So let her know how you are feeling about this. Let her know that you would appreciate that if she called you back at the time...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance, long distance relationship, excitement level
long distance relationship, excitement level, one hundred miles: too soon; i don t think seeing someone almost every day gives credence to relationship success; in fact, in some ways it could be more of a detriment, perhaps not at the beginning as you saw, but as you move forward; one reason is people naturally grow comfortable,...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance, conservative culture, right girl
conservative culture, right girl, girlfriend: first, i wouldn t go there if she doesn t want you to--consideration of her feelings is important if you are interested in strengthening feelings..otherwise, you need to figure out a way of seeing each other without making anyone unhappy, as you can t expect...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance, long distance relationships, wont trust
long distance relationships, wont trust, best bet: Hey Gerard Well it has only been 3 months since you guys have been together so of course she wont trust you completely. Your best bet is to probaly wait it out for a few more months and just be patient with her. Trust will come with time. If you want to strenghen...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance, second chance, good luck
second chance, good luck, melissa: Hey Chris It sounds like either she does want to remain friends and avoid getting hurt or she s getting over this and just does not want to hurt you. I do agree that the best way to do this is to ask her straight out what is going on. She can t just ignore...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance & Much More, traumatic experience, good job
traumatic experience, good job, encouragement: first off, it s amazing how many young, insecure girls with emotional issues get themselves so involved with far away guys they haven t even MET, then start throwing the word love around to define the fantasy; all the smooth internet/phone talk in the world...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance, med school, going home
med school, going home, compromise: Hello Well it might be good to make a compromise and combine both of your ways to do this. You can talk to her a few times a week but not everyday and that will give her more time to keep busy and focus on other things. Also tell her how you are feeling....

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance, romantic situation, e mail
romantic situation, e mail, plane tickets: Hello Yes, you should ask him what the status of the friendship is. He might be afraid to ask and you don t have the time to wait around for him to do it. Yes, if he does buy plane tickets just to see you then obviously he really likes you and is interested...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance, long distance relationship, kelly aka
long distance relationship, kelly aka, lynn kelly: Kelly, There isn t a whole lot anyone can say about something like this, and I m sorry about that. I remember crying every night too. It s difficult. But the only thing that I can tell you is that if you two love each other, then the distance will just...

Long Distance Relationships: Get Her Back - Long Distance, bad memory, good relationship
bad memory, good relationship, time cause: Hello I m very sorry to have responded to this question so late. I have been tied down with finals and research papers that I just did not have the time to really respond to allexperts questions. Anyway, I apologize for this inconvenience and I hope you can...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Break-Up... ;-(, fun flirty, major break
fun flirty, major break, serious relationship: Hello Well you need to discuss this with your problem. Tell him about how you are feeling and why you felt the relationship fell apart and discuss with him about the possibility of trying to make it work. Since there were a lot of problems on your part, you...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Break-Up, summer fling, different religions
summer fling, different religions, moving across country: sometimes less is more, as in this instance--i realize your instincts are to try and change her mind-show her how you ll change, but this can easily come across as insecurity, neediness, fear of loss; she s given you the listed reasons, but who really knows...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Break-Up, summer fling, different religions
summer fling, different religions, moving across country: Hi Adam, Yep, I totally agree. She should have told you sooner, in smaller doses. Now, I would continue to change for yourself. Don t worry about her. If you change, she will notice if she even cares anymore. Let her concentrate on her studies, and you concentrate...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Break up - truely love her, long distance relationship, sexual fantasies
long distance relationship, sexual fantasies, eachother: all you can do is what you should have done long ago; become more self-sufficient, less needy, less insecure, less addicted to her...easy??..no sir, but it s really your only chance to save yourself from emotional disaster, and possibly regain her interest;...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Break Up, having a great time, rough time
having a great time, rough time, right decision: Hey Shane It sounds like your girlfriend is very confused and the best thing you can do is just deal with it. There is not much you can do to change her mind or make her not take this break. And from what you told me it sounds like she really needs this break....

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Breakup and dating again, long distance relationship, speacial
long distance relationship, speacial, gurlz: Hello Well your situation could go either way. He could have wanted you for sex or for love.But again this is my opinion, and I could be wrong. The reason I think this is because he is 17. Most things on a 17 year old guy s mind is sex and not having a loving...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance after break up, deep feelings, time off
deep feelings, time off, long distance: mixed.. ??..you may not have liked it, but i thought she was quite clear; she cares about you but at this time, she prefers not to see you; you should have just respected her wishes instead of making a big issue about it; the more conflict you create, the...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance/ Children, partial custody, valid concerns
partial custody, valid concerns, life goals: obviously with this skeletal information regarding a much more complex issue to work with, my comments cannot be very astute; sometimes love doesn t help at all; i wouldn t be doubting your decision just yet, as it appeared based on valid concerns, and if...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance/Children, partial custody, wonderful man
partial custody, wonderful man, boyfriends: Hey Laura Well maybe you should continue to stay where you are at for a few months and just see how you feel after that. I understand that you must be in pain right now and that you probaly miss him like crazy but if you go back then you may be regretting...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance/College, university of wisconsin madison, high school friends
university of wisconsin madison, high school friends, compact campus: Hello At this point i feel that Winsconsin would be a better choice for you. It offers all the benefits that you seem to be seeking. Also i feel college really is about gaining new perspectives in life and really being indepenedent and you should try going...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance, Not Coming Back, serious relationship, getting a job
serious relationship, getting a job, job offer: try to stay in the present--you re needlessly worrying about something WAY into the future; alot can change by then; you should not only not question her about it, the whole subject should be off the table; true, you re both young, and sometimes life takes...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance, Not Coming Back., serious relationship, getting a job
serious relationship, getting a job, job offer: Hello Well you said you ve been in a relationship with this girl for only a few months. That s not very long so it s completely understandable why she s not ready to promise something like that right now. There are many relationships that start out wonderful...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance and cheating, kisses and hugs, strange reason
kisses and hugs, strange reason, rest of my life: Hey Halle Well this is hard to answer without getting any details on what leads up to the arguements, but I will do my best to answer it! First of all, next time you guys talk tell him that you want to be able to communicate with him but not get in an arguement....

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance and Girl Question, long distance relationships, thanksgiving holiday
long distance relationships, thanksgiving holiday, birthday card: not being able to see each other can make every little problem worse; you can t really get on her about thanksgiving and family; after all, it was your choice to go into the military; as to the lack of appreciation, i t recommend telling her if the...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance and Heartbreak, long distance lover, pre med
long distance lover, pre med, heartbreak: Hey Anthony Really I think you guys should get back together. To me I don t find what you did something to break up about. I could understand if you guys were making out heavily or had oral sex or sex. But you were just touching her and I can understand because...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance help..., long distance relationships, romance story
long distance relationships, romance story, little romance: Hello I don t think you should quit but I think you should be upfront with her. Don t make this into some cute romantic story thing, cause that s not smart, especially when your not really feeling it. So tell her how you are willing to give it a try but because...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance - Making The Move, long distance relationship, wasting my time
long distance relationship, wasting my time, usualy: Hello Actually I think this is the right time to plan something like this. I can understand him not being ready to move at the moment or anytime soon but I don t see why he cannot plan it for sometime in the next year or so. It has been a year and a half...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Marriage, dream job, fiance
dream job, fiance, 6 years: Hello Well just tell him how you feel. You said that he goes out of town and wont call or keep you informed. Well, ask him to start doing that for you. It doesn t take much effort to pick up the phone and tell you where he is and what he s doing, so he should...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Marriage, thyroid eye disease, impossible time
thyroid eye disease, impossible time, secret lover: really?..is that why i get about 5 questions a day from people wondering if they should leave a relationship, and for ALL kinds of reasons?..and from the ratings, they seem pretty happy with my answers; so if that s not an option, he s not changing careers,...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance also Online, last nite, old friend
last nite, old friend, good friends: Hey Austin It s the complete opposite with me. He always makes fun of me cause he s 23 and I m 19. No doesn t sound weird at all. I mean I live in cali and he did live in NY but we had a connection unlike anything that I had in real life. Well good luck with...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Problems, long distance relationship, free long distance
long distance relationship, free long distance, occassionaly: Hello Bryan Well it is easy to loose interest sometime. But I ll give you some tips me and my boyfriend use. And just so you know we ve been in an LDR for almsot 2 years and we still talk for a few hours everyday and even sleep on the phone. we have free...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Problems, long distant relationships, good luck with everything
long distant relationships, good luck with everything, lack of communication: hi I think all you can do is talk to her about it, or about everything, just keep communication up and don t let it drop. Maybe you could go and see her or she could come and see you, this often helps in a relationship even though it is painful. Long distant...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Realtionships, long distance realtionships, relationship work
long distance realtionships, relationship work, o clock: Hey Monique (pretty name) Honestly I don t feel you need to continue this relationship. I could understand if he said he was busy cause orientation week can be a busy time and you don t have time to talk. But you said he doesn t want to talk to you. If he...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, freedom and independence
long distance relationship, freedom and independence, girlfriend: keep in touch, but don t be afraid to give each other the freedom and independence to live as desired; avoid being possessive, controlling, inconsiderate; she s going to meet guys, and you ll notice certain girls; if you badger her about it, she will only...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, work commitments
long distance relationship, work commitments, pray one: neither; you lower your expectations to zero, realize that at your young ages, AND with a distance issue, that these things almost NEVER work out, and become more or less friends; you refocus your life on meeting/dating those nearby, along with whatever your...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, work commitments
long distance relationship, work commitments, pray one: Hey Kat I think you guys need to make a plan. I hope this guy isn t the type who s planning to live with his parents forever. But ask him about moving in with you eventually. I don t think it would be fair for you to ask for him to move in with you immediately...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, 5 months
long distance relationship, 5 months, roommates: Hey Monica It sounds like you need to make some friends. I can understand how you miss your boyfriend and how you want to see him but you shouldn t be feeling like this. I mean you shouldn t be feeling all alone like this. There are times when a partner may...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, precious gift
long distance relationship, precious gift, chil: Hello I agree that his story does not make sense. It doesn t make any sense at all. What would you visiting his house do? If he s afraid that you will steal from him then first of all he shouldn t be with you, and second of all he just has to watch you when...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, private person
long distance relationship, private person, teenage daughter: Hello Anyway yes you should be concerned. I understand that this guy has a hard time letting people into his private life but a year and half is a very long time for him not to introduce you to his children or show you his house. The house thing especially....

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, eachother: Hey Gina Well first of all, it must have been pretty difficult to have to leave your boy at home after five years! That is wonderful that you are doing your scholarship, congratulations! Long distance relationships are not necessarily easy, but I m sure...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, arguement
long distance relationship, arguement, 7 months: Hey there! Sorry about all your troubles; it sounds like a rough situation. You mentioned that he wants space, but you still want him to know that you care about him. At this point, you should try very subtle, non-agressive ways of contacting him. E-mail and...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, long distance relationships
long distance relationship, long distance relationships, one hundred miles: Hello Aurora Long distance relationships are not the easiest thing in the world, but it sounds as though you have figured that out for yourself already. My boyfriend and I have been together for the same amount of time as you and yours, and we are living...

Long Distance Relationships: Long-Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, honest reflection
long distance relationship, honest reflection, objective perspective: Hey Aurora Well I appreciate your opinion and everything. I think you didn t get what I meant by that whole strong and non strong thing. Sure a relationship can definately grow strong when the two people see each other every day. But let s say that in that...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distant relationship, long distance relationship
long distant relationship, long distance relationship, memorial weekend: Hey Hannah Try not to feel bad about this. It s a good thing that you did tell him the relationship was hard work. Maybe you just said it wrong. But with long distance relationships it s never a good thing to just say let s just see what happens and go with...

Long Distance Relationships: ***Long Distance Relationship*****, long distance relationship, strip joints
long distance relationship, strip joints, text msgs: unless you somehow fall in love and you bring her here to live, i m not sure how this is workable; there s the great distance between you, cultural issues, motives, and only a short time of actually being together; my feeling is you don t have sufficient basis...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, verbal interaction
long distance relationship, verbal interaction, question topic: LDR s: pros; allows for spaces in togetherness (assuming they re days/weeks, not months), thereby avoiding the pitfalls of seeing each other too frequently, becoming too dependent; makes for missing the other, providing the potential for positive interaction...

Long Distance Relationships: Long-Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, long term relationship
long distance relationship, long term relationship, study exchange: Hey Flip Well why doesn t your boyfriend send you emails. It s not a good sign that he doesn t send you emails often. The only thing you can really do is talk about this with him. It s normal to feel lonely and have periods where you totally miss this guy...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship Advice =(, long distance relationship, long distance relationship advice
long distance relationship, long distance relationship advice, old photographs: Hello i hate to tell you this but most likely she is scamming you money. If I really had cancer and I knew a guy online who spent money on me and a lot of their time on me, then I would be giving them pictures of me, and even asking them to meet me. But she...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship Breakup, long distance relationship, relationship breakup
long distance relationship, relationship breakup, akward: Hello It sounds like he still loves you and cares about you. He was talking with you for quite some time and the hugging and smelling your hair gave away that he still has very strong feelings for you. Also the email saying he wanted to see you before christmas...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship - College Students, long distance relationship, primal level
long distance relationship, primal level, necessary communication: still, the bottom line is you wouldn t move there because the benefits of staying outweigh those of moving, even if it meant being near her; she has the right to make the same case, seen from HER eyes..i m not sure why there s no communication at the moment,...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship help., long distance relationship, random stranger
long distance relationship, random stranger, boyfriend and girlfriend: you say you don t necessarily have to let go, but you may have to soon enough; as hard as it may be, it s harder when you re TOLD to by your partner; the only way other girls will bother you less is to start doing what he does, doing stuff with guys, and...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship - How do I know your the one?, long distance relationship, own two feet
long distance relationship, own two feet, smuck: Hello It sounded like she might have been uncomfortable too... I m sure she was also reminded of old times and probably didn t feel comfortable with you being there with her family like that. I know she invited you but probably when it happened, she may have...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship Paper, long distant relationships, long distant relationship
long distant relationships, long distant relationship, long distance relationship: well imediately i d say it will work if you want it to work. If people go into any relationship with a negative attitude, thinking it will not work, then it won t. You have to go in thinking positive, taking it one step at a time. I recieve alot of emails...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship Question, long distance relationship, relationship question
long distance relationship, relationship question, relatioship: 5 times in a year isn t really sufficient to sustain the energy/enthusiasm of a relationship; she obviously is telling you by her words/actions, that she considers herself free to do what she wants-- only SHE knows exactly what her deal is with these guys,...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship Question, long distance relationship, relationship question
long distance relationship, relationship question, do the right thing: Hello Steve I think you did the right thing by sending that email. And of course she wants space right now. She obviously still cares about you wants to be with you but she s goiing through some difficult times and needs space. Anyways she will call you back...

Long Distance Relationships: Long-Distance Relationship Woes, long distance relationship, fairy tale
long distance relationship, fairy tale, love interest: you re getting way ahead of yourself; experience your feelings, but make decisions with your head; that means logically lowering your expectations and taking it one day at a time; at the moment all you have is a long distance arrangement with a guy who moved...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, depressed cause
long distance relationship, depressed cause, great relationship: Tyler... oh my god you are SO in love boy!!! But one of you is going to have to transfer or do something about the job so you can live next to eachother and have a great relationship together. I think you belong together and i dont even know you! And of...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationships, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, one day at a time: Hey B5beauty I think it s sensible to marry someone you love and go for it one day at a time, but I don t think it s a good idea if you have only known him for about 5 months and I think you should see how it goes with him living near you for at least a month....

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationships, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, word trust: there are various ways to use the word trust , and they all have to be earned...you can trust that he cares about you, that he ll call when he says, etc...this is all based on his previous behavior toward you regarding such issues...as to other women, there...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance relationship, long distance relationship, curiosity sake
long distance relationship, curiosity sake, apparent contradiction: a little; it s going to cost you $$ to find out, and you won t find out all that much; i don t see what the problem is contacting her; enough time has gone by so it shouldn t be any major emotional upheaval for 2 mature ex s to briefly communicate in a spirit...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance relationship, long distance relationship, ldr
long distance relationship, ldr, daily basis: hi. i know exactly what you re talking about because i have been in a similar situation. im sorry to say but it s a natural reaction from girls to feel that way especially when it s a long distance relationship. just hang in there. send her love messages or...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship Breakup, long distance relationship, relationship breakup
long distance relationship, relationship breakup, akward: Hello It sounds like he still loves you and cares about you. He was talking with you for quite some time and the hugging and smelling your hair gave away that he still has very strong feelings for you. Also the email saying he wanted to see you before christmas...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance relationship..i'm only 14, long distance relationship, sweet 16 party
long distance relationship, sweet 16 party, faith and trust: Hello I m very sorry I haven t replied to your question earlier but I was very busy with school and work. I had a few tests this week and a research project, and I just could not get around to allexperts, so I apologize for this inconvenience, and I hope...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance relationship without sex?!?!, fear of committment, long distance relationship
fear of committment, long distance relationship, losing my virginity: Hello I don t really think her not wanting to have sex is because of a fear of committment. I think she is really just afraid of becoming more attached. Committment is clearly not a problem since she has been with you for this amount of time, it seems like...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance relationship, long distance relationship, bridges of madison county
long distance relationship, bridges of madison county, bridges of madison: Hey Richard Well what you did was perfectly normal. I remember I loved some guy and a similar situation happpend and I overreacted and said angry things to him but we are friends again and he understood cause he knew I loved him and that he hurt me and being...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance relationships between college students, long distance relationships, little bit of hope
long distance relationships, little bit of hope, physical proximity: Hey Erica! Thanks for the questions- I apologize for taking so long. Here are the reasons I saw why kids in my dorm didn t make it through the first few months... 1) Loss of physical proximity. A lot of people are together because their lives just make it...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance relationships, long distance relationships, business calls
long distance relationships, business calls, time clock: Hey V I m so sorry this happened to you. I know this must be so hard for you to deal with right now. But don t get back in that hole again! Don t give up on love again! Have faith and if this guy is meant for you he ll come back to you and if not then I garauntee...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance: The last stretch, terrible feeling, 5 months
terrible feeling, 5 months, soulmate: Hello Mike I m sorry to hear about what happened but at least you learned that it s not good to date other people while being in a long term relatoionship just to satisfy phiscal cravings. Anyways I don t know what you mean aboput this question. If you both...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance "Trust Issue", right choices, trust issue
right choices, trust issue, girl friend: in any relationship, especially long distance, there s no guarantees; unfortunately, you really can t, nor should you, trust that she will make the right choices so the relationship will last , because she may not; at some point she make a choice just to...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance not going to work?, long distance relationship, different places
long distance relationship, different places, gf: Hello Nilo Well a long distance relationship like that can work but if you honestly think it s better to call it quits for a while then that s fine. You guys can always take a break and keep in contact. If the love is real and if it s really meant to be then...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance, waste of my time, taking your time
waste of my time, taking your time, sweet guy: usually in relationships one party is more insecure and needier than the other; unfortunately in this case, that appears to be you...ultimately, to keep from from this position of weakness in future arrangements, the key is an immediate attention to rebuilding...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distant Relationship, long distant relationship, sending e cards
long distant relationship, sending e cards, inbalance: Hey Kelly! Thanks for the question; sorry it took me so long to reply! This is definitely a tough call- he could be making lame excuses or he could be telling the truth. You had a good point, though, when you said that you would do all you could to speak...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distant Relationship (military), long distant relationship, long distance relationship
long distant relationship, long distance relationship, marraige: Hello LaRhonda I think that a half way relationship around the world can work. And I also understand your fears. I think that s one of the major fears when dealing with relationships like these. But you guys have been together for almost 6 years and he would...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distant Relationship, long distant relationship, long distance relationship
long distant relationship, long distance relationship, patience is a virtue: Hey Kelly Patience is a virtue. Being in a long distance relationship is not easy, but nothing in life that is worth it is easy either. Sometimes, times are tough, things come up and we just feel like letting it go all together. Don t do this with this...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance.., high school sweethearts, high school friends
high school sweethearts, high school friends, dumb text: You definitely need to trust her and let her enjoy her time. And you need to have other things to do with your time besides worrying about her all the time. Make some friends and do your own thing on the weekends so your distracted and have fun things to do....

Long Distance Relationships: Long-distance Breakup, m scott peck, talking to a stranger
m scott peck, talking to a stranger, sexual attraction: it depends on how you define real love; m scott peck, highly respected in this area, defines love as the will to extend oneself for the purpose of nurturing one s own or another s spiritual growth ..i think alot of times people think it s love when it s usually...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance break up, long distance relationship, rest of our lives
long distance relationship, rest of our lives, time and space: Hello Well it has only been 3 months and this does seem like something you guys should work on together, not seperately. Next time you guys talk, ask her why she is taking this break. Is it cause of the fight, the distance, or something else? If it s cause...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance breakup, seeing each other again, long distance relationship, staying home
long distance relationship, staying home, winter break: Hi Eric Well, I am sorry that your situation has gone this way. I imagine that you have been very upset about it, because from all of the e-mails you have sent me, it appeared as though you were quite crazy for this girl. You know what? You never know...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance breakup, long term investment, woman of my dreams
long term investment, woman of my dreams, religious factors: the odds are always against LDR S; so many things can happen; in this case, you have to accept her decision, without trying to figure it; you may never know what really happened, but you don t need to; the bottom line is the same; the one thing you cannot...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance and cheated on, negative moods, physical affection
negative moods, physical affection, mood swings: her conflict of feelings regarding him could certainly be a factor; her kissing him, calling it friends , risking everything to keep it going, indicates she may not be fully over him; i don t really buy the loneliness thing--it s not like he s the only person...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance college relationship, long distance relationships, freedom and independence
long distance relationships, freedom and independence, distance college: i d tend to agree with her; if you go overboard in an attempt to decrease the pain of missing, it takes up alot of time, energy and effort, and would be detrimental to getting the most out of the college experience; it s WAY different than high school, and...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance confusion, wonderful feeling, girl 2
wonderful feeling, girl 2, 4 months: Hey Zach I know this may be very hard for you but yes back off and leave her alone. I doubt her behavior has anything to do with you, but something to do with her. But she has made it very clear that she needs space and sometimes that is best. So give her...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance and confusion!, romantic disaster, summer in february
romantic disaster, summer in february, ski chalet: Hey Jennifer I am so sorry to hear that this guy wants to end your relationship. I know it must be hard for the both of you. Obviously he still loves you a lot. Otherwise he wouldn t be acting so upset when you don t email him. I doin t think he s even sure...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance and Inter-language, distance language, language issue
distance language, language issue, realtionships: it s natural--some people blow you away, others don t; as to working , that s another story..long distance, language issue, almost no time spent together, both young...your odds are VERY bad; stay in touch if you choose, but to get emotionally involved, have...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance.. its pain, and now this, long distance relationship, good relationship
long distance relationship, good relationship, iwant: pull yourself together; you re MUCH too young to be with just 1 girl, let alone have a relationship over the PHONE; you need to be with people you can see, touch, do things with; recapture your youth, freedom and independence--free yourself from all obligations...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance love questioned., difficult transition, anything in this world
difficult transition, anything in this world, straight answer: Hi Melissa Okay I can understand why this transition is so difficult for the both of you since the whole LDR thing is just a recent development. So here are my thoughts... first of all 3 and a half hours is really not that bad. I know it s not the ideal but...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, long distance relationship, first cousins
long distance relationship, first cousins, first love: Hey Justin Well I think you guys can wait that long to be together. It will be very difficult but if you guys are dedicated to giving it a try and making it work then it can. You guys also need to be open to each other and be able to communicate your feelings...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, long distance relationship, alexandria louisiana
long distance relationship, alexandria louisiana, headcoach: Hello Well I can t really tell you what to do cause it s your decision and everything but you need to ask yourself that if you didn t know your girlfriend or anything which school would you prefer to go to. If you really don t have a preference or if you...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship.., long distance relationship, eachother
long distance relationship, eachother, resentment: possible, but doubtful; but consider it a good thing; love needs challenge, space, flexibility; and yea he ll meet girls and like one or more of them; have no restrictions on seeing others--instead, let each choose for themselves if they want to--restrictions,...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, long distance relationship, distant relationship
long distance relationship, distant relationship, precious time: you re pining over someone you hardly see, and who s obviously seeing other women; it s over, was a long time ago; end the addictive, insecurity-based fantasy, focus on meeting people you can see, touch, do things with, get on with your life, as precious time...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, long distance relationship, septemeber
long distance relationship, septemeber, siad: Hello Well I think you guys need to communicate about these issues cause it sounds like that may be the problem. For example, you said that he was jealous and you asked him not to contact you for 3 weeks. I understand how you would be pretty fed up with that...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, long distance relationship, childrens names
long distance relationship, childrens names, unforeseen circumstances: Hello Okay before I answer any questions you have asked... I am having a difficult time believing that a stranger was able to cause you to serve 2 months in prison if you and your girlfriend both denied his accusations. I mean she is a grown woman, not like...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, person face: This is a very difficult question for me to answer. There are many reasons why she may be suddenly acting like this. It may be what you said 1) the spark is dying. 2) she can t handle the distance because she got so upset when you parted. or 3) she may be...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship has ended, long distance relationship, baghdad iraq
long distance relationship, baghdad iraq, phone time: I m very sorry to hear about that, it must be very difficult for you. What was the reason you 2 broke up? Was it the distance? Because perhaps when the long distance is over and your done with your deployment you will be able to start over fresh. If not, you...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship with a fiancee, long distance relationship, finding an email address
long distance relationship, finding an email address, trust issue: Hello I will be completely honest with you and yes it is a sign that he has been cheating on you. That doesn t mean he has but your friend was right by telling you that most likely he has been cheating or doing something that s in that category. I feel this...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship guidance, long distance relationship, relationship guidance
long distance relationship, relationship guidance, doubt in my mind: Hello Well hopefully she ll pick the college route since college is awesome and it s good to experience it right out of high school. Also she could get financial aid and maybe even scholarships if her grades are really good. So I hope she picks college over...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship...HELP!!, long distance relationship, relationship help
long distance relationship, relationship help, intimate time: be confused no longer; your wasting yours; time waits for no one, and neither should you; in your own words, if he cared about me he would make time for me.. ..you re also right about actions speaking louder than words...you re trying to hang on to pieces...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship / marriage, long distance relationship, relationship marriage
long distance relationship, relationship marriage, guy friend: Hello Well the first thing you should do is talk to her about this. Sometimes things really don t seem obvious to the other partner. She may not even know that this is a problem. It doesn t sound like she s cheating on you but she may not be aware of how...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, what does she really want?, long distance relationship, good luck
long distance relationship, good luck, melissa: Hey Scott Well I owuldn t just wait for her and not ignore every girl you talk to. But I think it s a good idea that you wait for her but if you do meet a girl who you really click with then give iit a try. Bu if you don t meet anyone then definately keep...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, long distance relationship, romantic disaster
long distance relationship, romantic disaster, summer in february: you re on the right track; as you re experiencing, it s very difficult to quickly shift gears from romance to friendship--keeping with the gear analogy, you need time to get your emotions to neutral , as only then is a friendship just that, and not a charade...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationships, long distance relationships, unfounded fears
long distance relationships, unfounded fears, bad mood: there s not alot you can do if she chooses to think in that manner; you can tell her that her unfounded fears are taking away from the relationship, as well as refuse to talk about the subject if she continues to bring up the same old stuff..at some point...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationships, long distance relationships, maintaining control
long distance relationships, maintaining control, sexual history: while the sex may be noteworthy to you, it s not really that relevant as to how this will play out; as to your past head/heart decisions, be careful not to generalize, as i m sure each one had unique and specific components...true; one person tends to have...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationships, long distance realtionships, long distance relationships
long distance realtionships, long distance relationships, pursuit of happiness: if you truly care about each other, you trust yourself to allow for personal growth, individual pursuit of happiness, and freedom without trying to instill guilt; partners need to lower expectations, let go to some extent, and not worry so much about what...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationships, long distance relationships, separate paths
long distance relationships, separate paths, lonely path: growing apart , meaning individual growth away from each other, is usually a GOOD thing, as the cypress and the elm grow not in each others shadow.. (gibran, the Prophet); as to meaning the relationship changing/decreasing/ending, there s not alot you can...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationships, long distance relationships, kisses and hugs
long distance relationships, kisses and hugs, thanks alot: Hey Frank Why don t you want her to miss you? Any ways there is no way she can not miss you so much. It would be pretty bad if she stopped missing you anyways. But in long distance relationships people missing each other is common and unavoidable. Just discuss...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationships, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, minor disagreement: Hello Sorry it took so long for me to reply the first time and this time. I ve just been very busy with school and work and my own problems that I haven t been able to really reply back to questions as quickly as I would like. Anyways of course it s normal...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationships - International, international flight attendant, long distance relationships
international flight attendant, long distance relationships, airline hostess: it s nowhere near a demand, it s telling her how you see it, asking her how she see it, comparing the 2 visions, seeing if there s a similar plan; as to the words, i d basically convey the same thoughts/feelings contained in your original question// ...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationships, long distance relationships, time today
long distance relationships, time today, human nature: Don t worry!!!!! :-) everybody gets angry at 1 point...its only human nature.. if he didn t then i d be worried. Just remember that he loves you, if your worried you may fall apart then do something about it. Tell him how you feel and about how much you...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance, soon to be longer..., gay issue, school time
gay issue, school time, rest of my life: Hey Mike Well first of all take a deep breath and calm down! This happens all the time but I think you are handling it the wrong way. You can t deny jealousy and although it s not good for a relationship it does happen. I can t tell you to stop being jealous...

Long Distance Relationships: Long-distance again, dear jennifer, destructive pattern
dear jennifer, destructive pattern, talk 3: Dear Jennifer Firstly, I must apologize for taking so long to return your e-mail, I have not had any access to a computer the past few days, and I am very sorry for that. You have probably been waiting very patiently, and I thank you for that. I will...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distant relationship, long distant relationship, arguements
long distant relationship, arguements, 7 months: Hi Well find out what the root of the arguements is. Nobody just argues over nothing and for absolutely no reason. So try to figure out what the problem is. Are you both just stressed, tired of the distace, impatient or what? Ask each other these questions...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distant relationships, windsor ontario canada, long distant relationships
windsor ontario canada, long distant relationships, long distant relationship: Michelle, LDR s are very hard..and they take alot of work. If you love each other then work on it, write, phone, send letters, etc to one another. Cherish the time that you do get to talk to one another...but I will say...and this is from speaking from...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distant relationships, long distant relationships, boyfreind
long distant relationships, boyfreind, girlfreinds: something in the middle--chances are he s going to mess around over there, i don t care how much he denies it...i d tell him you you want to stay in touch, but you want to be free to date, and so can he...then if you still want to be together when he returns,...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distnace relationship, decmber, bottomline
decmber, bottomline, reaches: why did you promise december if you couldn t do it?...december, may, ...i don t see a few months as a big deal, especially if you have a reasonable explanation as to why you did that..bottomline; if an issue as this reaches deal-breaking level, you two shouldn...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Term Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, quiet desperation
long distance relationship, quiet desperation, pen pals: lots of times love isn t enough, and may even work against your better judgment, as it is in this case; love isn t supposed to lead you to writing someone like me looking for painkillers ; you ve already said how a real relationship is impossible, not...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Term Relationship - 2 diff continents, long term relationship, mutual friend
long term relationship, mutual friend, first dance: tough situation; many times love isn t nearly enough, nor should it be the sole basis for decisions as this one; aside from your feelings about him, the negatives are glaring; as you said, you haven t even DATED; the early days really don t count, and word-based...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Term Relationship and Other, long distance relationship, long term relationship
long distance relationship, long term relationship, step at a time: bottom line; she left you for another guy; even if you did go back to her (which i don t recommend), this could happen all over again; i d just be her friend, regardless of what happens with the other guy, and focus your romantic attentions on others....

Long Distance Relationships: Long term boyfriend long distance relationship, long distance relationship, false hope
long distance relationship, false hope, studying in china: Hello You need to do it in person. I know it s hard but either way he will be really hurt. Just get it over with and he deserves to be told in person, I m sure he would prefer that. He would like to see you when you do it. Plus you don t want him to leave...

Long Distance Relationships: Long-term/Insercurity, hour and a half, inconvenience
hour and a half, inconvenience, melissa: Hello I m very sorry I haven t replied to your question earlier but I was very busy with school and work. I had a few tests this week and a research project, and I just could not get around to allexperts, so I apologize for this inconvenience, and I hope...

Long Distance Relationships: Longer distance, serious relationship, time difference
serious relationship, time difference, great friends: ironically, the only way is to refocus on YOUR life, staying in the present, concentrating on developing old/new interests, and cultivating old/new relationships with people you like..if you dwell on the time/distance apart, it will be much harder; accept...

Long Distance Relationships: Lost..., contract job, personal issues
contract job, personal issues, insecurities: Hi, Well marriage is a very big thing as well as being with someone. If you don t feel ready, like you really are unsure and you feel like it might be time for you to move on, then I think it is probably a good idea if you do that. It a normal for people...

Long Distance Relationships: Lost feelings, long distance relationship, lost feelings
long distance relationship, lost feelings, girl situation: Hey Dustin! Sorry to hear about your problem. It sounds like you really care about this girl and want to make this work. How far from her will you be? Is it possible to see her very frequently? My high school boyfriend and I stayed together through college,...

Long Distance Relationships: Lost Love, e mail my heart, wonderful girl
e mail my heart, wonderful girl, reading music: Hey john Well you can email her or call her again but don t force her to talk to you. If she likes you she will call you. Sure maybe if she liked you then yes of course you guys will be very happy but you also have to keep in mind that she may not have feelings...

Long Distance Relationships: Lost things to say, long distance relationship, archetecture
long distance relationship, archetecture, dramatic difference: Hello Well try to find a better way to talk to her. Maybe talk to her though the internet and maybe on the phone. Just find other ways where you guys can still talk. About the talking thing well you will have to work on that. I know that after 2 months you...

Long Distance Relationships: ldr help, aim screen name, hardest thing
aim screen name, hardest thing, five months: Brittany, Hey! Sorry to hear that your friends and family aren t being very supportive. I know how hard relationships are to begin with. To have people telling you that your relationship is stupid and that it won t last just makes it harder. Let me tell...

Long Distance Relationships: ldr, great weekends, sudden change
great weekends, sudden change, bloke: Hello Yes, it is strange that he is acting like that and there is clearly something wrong. I have to agree that you are probably not being silly. If this behavior has been occuring over two weeks then something is wrong. I m glad you are going to talk to...

Long Distance Relationships: She's leaving for a year., first kiss, senior year
first kiss, senior year, doorstep: depends how you tell her; you don t want anything too heavy as she s leaving, and you say you haven t even dated; just tell her that you really enjoyed the time together, that you ll miss her, that you hope to stay in touch, wish her well, and look forward...

Long Distance Relationships: the letter, best bet, replys
best bet, replys, peter answer: Hi Peter That sounds like a good plan and I think you are handling this whole thing well. It s surprising that she s being kind of harsh with you like lying about seeing you and you going there having expectations and her not coming through at all. Also the...

Long Distance Relationships: I lied to him.., 3 years, melissa
3 years, melissa: Hello Okay well before I answer your question... I just want to let you know that your boyfriend s behavior is not good. He should not be getting mad about something like that. It s not a big deal and you should be cautious about that cause that s something...

Long Distance Relationships: I lied, going to a party, forgiveness
going to a party, forgiveness, girlfriend: i don t see it as a big deal; if you can come up with the actual, honest reason you chose to lie, that would help, but i don t believe it s necessary in order for her to get beyond it; it s not like you went out and screwed 3 girls that nite; you apologized,...

Long Distance Relationships: lond distance relationship: help!!, relationship help, distance relationship
relationship help, distance relationship, lond distance: Hello Well I can t really tell you why she is doing this but it seems like it has something to do with the baby being born and other things going on in her life. What you should do if you haven t already is try not to ignore that something is wrong and actually...

Long Distance Relationships: long dist. fidelity, casual encounter, slap in the face
casual encounter, slap in the face, having babies: Hi Marie First of all I am very sorry that it took me such a long time to reply to your question. I understand that it has been over a week but I ve been very busy with coursework, my job, and other priorities in my life. I have not had much time to relax...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance again..., destructive pattern, talk 3
destructive pattern, talk 3, two summers: Hey Jennifer We all feel confused. And if you re not happy in Cali and if you re not even sure about what will happen with your boyfriend then yes it would be much more logical to take the job just for a little while, try the long distance thing again, and...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, 9th august, nice girl
9th august, nice girl, 5 months: i think a), that he s essentially just jerking you around for reasons unknown; to have to think about the obvious distance that he s not only been aware of for MONTHS, but that he previously halted activity over, is ridiculous, and b) you should date whoever...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, togeather, insecurities
togeather, insecurities, begining: so you re planning on living with someone you ve met several times in a 6 month period, who s acting emotionally distant? this is all supposed to be telling you that you hardly know her and that the decision to live together, (perhaps based on your insecurities),...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, horror stories, boy friend
horror stories, boy friend, dangerous situation: NOOOOO!! Devin, you know the answer to your own question. Like you kept saying you re ONLY 13!! This is dangerous! DO NOT meet him! I repeat DO NOT. You are way way too young. I understand that you have been dating for 4 months, but you really cant tell a...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, long distance relationship, mature manner
long distance relationship, mature manner, missing something: Hi Sam I m very sorry to hear that things are over between the two of you. It must be very hard for you, and ending a relationship/friendship can be very painful. I m sorry you have to go through this right now, especially with someone you love so much. Anyway...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, long distance relationships, boyfriend lives
long distance relationships, boyfriend lives, clue: Hello Allie Well nobody can tell you how this relationship can go and how it works out really depends on the both of you. Like 1.5 hours really isn t that much of a distance and it s something most people wish they could have. So it s definitely something...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, unexpected surprises: I think it is FANTASTIC that you are preparing yourself ahead of time instead of having the initial shock of the long distance relationship. So you are already ahead of many people in your same situation! I know it sounds like a lot of time, but 6 months to...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, reassurance, apprenticeship
reassurance, apprenticeship, partying: Hi Karen Well I really think you should wait and see what happens. Like every relationship there is always that risk that things might end or not work out for the best. You are just going to have to take that risk and see what happens. Neither you or myself...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, cant risk, metting
cant risk, metting, wayy: Hi Candace The best thing to do is to tell him the truth, and do it now. There s no way around it and the longer you wait, the worser it will be. It s too bad you didn t do this asap because it s understandable to lie about a name and picture since it s myspace....

Long Distance Relationships: long-distance again, destructive pattern, talk 3
destructive pattern, talk 3, two summers: i haven t run into confusion alot; certainly there are times when decisions have to be made regarding two difficult choices, but i have a great trust in my ability to choose the right path; first thing is to look at the facts; you were already there, and it...

Long Distance Relationships: long-distance AGAIN!, long distance relationships, destructive pattern
long distance relationships, destructive pattern, talk 3: Hey Jennifer! Sorry I took so long to write you back. This is a tough one! I definitely think long-distance relationships are full of confusion; you are never physically with the person to read them face-to-face. I think that if your boyfriend truly cares...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, congragulations, pop the question
congragulations, pop the question, magic spell: Hey Cindy Beel Wow congragulations on your engagement! I know it must be hard dealing with this but these next 3 months will go by so fast that you wont even notice. Don t worry, just be patient. Since you know for sure you guys are getting married sooner...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, long distance relationship, talking time
long distance relationship, talking time, anyw: Hey Courtney Lol my boyfriend played that game before we were in a long distance relationship and trust me I know what you mean by it being time consuming. But he stopped now that we re in a long distance relationship. I mean in these types of relationships...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, emotional comfort, lack of sex
emotional comfort, lack of sex, good chance: Hey N I think that might be true. I used to know this guy and he was with this girl for a year and I knew they were having sex but when she got really involved in some things and was too busy to do everything they used to do, he broke up with her and he used...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, wonderful summer, ldr
wonderful summer, ldr, reassurance: Hey Lauren I definately think you should just let him go. The reason i think this is because like you think, he sounds like he doesn t care enough about the relationship to even try a long distance relationship/ It would be different if he tried it and put...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, emotional wreck, better with time
emotional wreck, better with time, boy friend: Hi Kam Well I m very sorry to hear that you guys have to be seperated now. But I m glad that you are being very positive and know that you guys will be okay and that things can work out! I know that it can work out if you bot really try. Well the first week...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, driving distances, military academy
driving distances, military academy, spring semester: Hello Maggie Well first of all be positive! Your situation is not too bad considering you guys do get to see each other at least once a month and it is only for the first semester. You both will also be very busy with college and school work and I am sure...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance becomes close, long distance relationship, different races
long distance relationship, different races, rough time: Hello I am pretty sure I already answered this question but just in case, here is the answer again. I think you need to talk to him about this and give him some space. Ask him why he doesn t want to date you anymore. Ask him what the problem is. Is...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance and break-up, long distance relationship, roomate
long distance relationship, roomate, wonderful time: Hello I m very sorry to hear that he has not contacted you yet. I think this whole thing is really not right and you did not deserve this type of treatment. I hope he realizes what a stupid thing he did, and will call you. But don t wait around too long....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance break up, ldr, melissa
ldr, melissa, long distance: Hey Well the best thing to do is to talk to him about it. Just ask him how he feels about it. Tell him you regret breaking up and that you want to know how he feels. If you both regret it then it might be a good idea to give it a try. But do it for a month...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance break up, british navy, moving to canada
british navy, moving to canada, american guys: you shouldn t have to take all the blame, as i doubt he was the perfect boyfriend; chances are he was seeing, and continues to see, many other women as well; sure he may care to some extent, but it doesn t appear to be enough to sustain a REAL relationship;...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance breakup, couple nights, med school
couple nights, med school, happy life: Hey Danielle I am really sorry to hear about what s been going on lately and I know it must be so hard for you. I guess your right cause I m not really sure what to say. I always hate to hear of break ups like this, especially the ones where people still...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance broken up, deep feelings, time off
deep feelings, time off, long distance: Hey Mike First of all I m not your girlfriend. I can t tell you why she wants to see you or not, but I can give a few likely guesses. First she might be telling the truth, she may think that since you guys aren t together anymore it may really be too stressful...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance- cheating, absolute crap, insecure person
absolute crap, insecure person, university in london: Hello Well you both are very young and I think the cheating probably had a lot to do with that alone. You guys are young, single, and this is the time in your life when you should be experimenting with different relationships and having fun. Also if you guys...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance/childhood sweetheart, childhood sweethearts, childhood sweetheart
childhood sweethearts, childhood sweetheart, time and patience: Hello I think that it s possible that this relationship can work, it all depends on how much you guys are willing to work on this. It sounds like it will be at least 4 years (assuming your boys are freshman in high school) until you guys can be together,...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance confusion and lonleyness, devistated, soul mate
devistated, soul mate, out of the blue: Hey Charlaine I am glad that you phoned and gave him an ultimatum. It is very un nerving when you just don t know where things stand. It sounds as though he has alot of stuff going on, he has his son and things like that. Who knows, you could very well...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance confusion, mean bone, emotional stress
mean bone, emotional stress, ups and downs: Hello I m very sorry it took so long for me to reply to your question. Ever since I ve gotten home, I ve been having difficulites with my own life. I figured it would be better for me to wait to answer this then to give you an answer when I m feeling emotional,...

Long Distance Relationships: long-distance difficulties, long distance relationship, going through the motions
long distance relationship, going through the motions, emotional drain: being in college, far apart, and for 4 years can be a difficult challenge; you can t realistically expect things to stay as they were; that includes emotions; unless you learn to let go to a certain extent, you will be faced with a worsening emotional drain;...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance and don't know what to do, mean bone, emotional stress
mean bone, emotional stress, ups and downs: this has been over for a long while, as many of his actions, including his ending it and moving away, have indicated; however, my feeling is there are still too many emotions involved, especially on your part, to opt for a pseudo-friendship; real friendships...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance...five years, long distance relationship, career ladder
long distance relationship, career ladder, emotional toll: Hey Monica Yes it is very important, after 5 years, that you guys start to live closer together. Me and my boyfriend have been seperated by distance but we both agreed that after 3 years he would move to Cali to be with me and get engaged. He lives in NY...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance in the future, compulsory national service, guilt trip
compulsory national service, guilt trip, gonna graduate: you really don t want to try to change her mind...even if she did, you run the risk of her resenting you for what she ll call making her do it for years to come...she knows how you feel, and what her decision means...she obviously believes in her choice...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance help, long distant relationship, distance relationships
long distant relationship, distance relationships, txt messages: Hi Good for you for getting back with this man, most people don t then regret the whole of their lives for not attempting to make it work! I suppose as in all distance relationships it is hard and does get harder, you both have to go into it with commitment....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance and jealousy problems, long distance relationship, spending time
long distance relationship, spending time, jealousy: Hello Okay um... it s not really normal for you to actually be jealous of her friends but it is normal for you to want to speak to her more often. You really don t have the right to tell her how often she spends time with her friends but if you really feel...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance + jealousy, female colleague, speedy reply
female colleague, speedy reply, phone rings: Hey Well I;m glad to know that your boyfriend finally sees what is going on with this whole thing! I think he should be completely honest with her. He needs to tell her what is going on and how he has a girlfriend. I mentioned in my last responnse about a...

Long Distance Relationships: Not so long distance LDR, sensitive situation, supportive role
sensitive situation, supportive role, ldr: i think your neediness/insecurities have led to a loss of self-esteem/objectivity, as this situation is not acceptable; i ve no idea WHY she needs to live there( almost like a wife), WHY that means you can t see her alot, go there, WHY job training has any...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, limits of fidelity, casual encounter, slap in the face
casual encounter, slap in the face, having babies: probably should tell him--he ll probably chastise your deceitfulness, make excuses for his behavior; regardless of his motivation, the bottom line remains the same; just goin there to live together/get married could easily be a mistake--inform him you need...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance love, nasty divorce, time difference
nasty divorce, time difference, 5am: Hello Stephanie Well I can understand how this must be very difficult for you. First and foremost you shouuldn t be waking up early when you have exams and your education to worry about. Save the talking on msn for the weekends when there isn t so much stress...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance marriage, roofing contractor, emotional security
roofing contractor, emotional security, southern girl: yes, my idea is to consider WHY you d want to maintain an almost non-existent arrangement; this is only a marriage in technical terms--everything else points to 2 individual spheres, 2 separate lives that only nominally make infrequent contact; certainly,...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance meltdown, hey julie, friend and lover
hey julie, friend and lover, horrible day: Hey Julie From what you told me it does come off as if he s not ready in general. But for someone who you ve been dating for 3 years and have known for almost half of your life, it doesn t make sense on why he s not ready. But it sounds like you guys have...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance problems, convos, great stuff
convos, great stuff, wrong way: Hey Well to be honest with you this sounds pretty bad. I went through the same thing once with an ex boyfriend and with him it was someone else. I m not saying that it s a duplicate situation but either it s someone else or he has lost interest. You are going...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance question, rough times, going to college
rough times, going to college, different times: Hey Mickey Well to me it sounds like she s thinking exactly what she s saying. She s just thinking about the future of the relationship. I would talk to her about this. Every relationship needs communication and if you guys ignore that then it wont be helping...

Long Distance Relationships: My long distance realtionship, productive life, analogy
productive life, analogy, long distance: the more bothersome it is, the more it means you re too dependent on the relationship to begin with; it s supposed to be the ICING on the cake; the cake, in this analogy, is your own unique, productive life...try to get more involved in experiencing the moment;...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relashionships, 4 months, instant messenger
4 months, instant messenger, good luck: Hello Nick Well is there any way you guys will be together in the future soon? If so then focus on that date. It s easier to deal with things when you know there will be a time when she will be near you again. Also keep communicating to each other somehow....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, guy allison
long distance relationship, guy allison, ashley: Allison, If you haven t tried being honest, totally honest with him that is a great place to start. However, if you have you just need to tell him that he needs to get better and let you help him and that you miss him too. He could be scared, you can never...

Long Distance Relationships: my long distance relationship, long distance relationship, fulfilling relationship
long distance relationship, fulfilling relationship, physical component: Hello Well I can understand your fears but I don t see how he would be happy with other women. Sure he might have more physical contact with them but that wouldn t really make him happy. Obviously a fulfilling relationship is much more than the physical component....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, hot babe
long distance relationship, hot babe, good friend: Hello Well what he says doesn t really tell you anything. It all depends on how they treat you. For example does he love talking to you. Do you guys call each other or IM each other often and talk for hours sometimes. Is he nice to you and treats you right....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, going to brazil: Hello Well I m glad to hear you guys are trying an LDR. It would have been terrible if you had not given it a chance. Yes you guys are very very far apart but I think you mentioned that this was only for a year? If that s so then it shouldn t be too bad....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, eachother
long distance relationship, eachother, hour and a half: Hello Well talk to him about this. Ask him if there are any other ways he can come out and see you when he can. Ask him why he doesn t want to. But it s understandable why he might not want because it is quite a drive and it can be a hassle if he has studying...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, neb
long distance relationship, neb, grad school: she shouldn t pick a school based on a relationship or to be close to a guy; plus, it s not healthy emotionally to try and keep someone close primarily for fear of loss; hold off on the marriage thing, let HER decide what the best school is for her future,...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, own pace
long distance relationship, own pace, good answer: Hello I had a hard time understanding what you wrote at times, but I ll try to give a good answer to this. If my answer sounds strange, then keep in mind that I had a difficult time understanding what you wrote. I think you should be cautious around this...

Long Distance Relationships: my long distance relationship, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, relationship question: Hello Well then there s the problem.... thank you for telling me that new information... because it s really not a good thing that he can say that some days he likes you and other times you annoy him. See occassionaly a couple may feel that way but this shouldn...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, group outing
long distance relationship, group outing, guy friend: Hey Jodi Well first of all, you don t need a defense for meeting new friends when you go to college, that is what college is all about! I think that your boyfriend has a hard time trusting you because he misses you, and I am sure you know how tough long...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, relationship question
long distance relationship, relationship question, ourselfs: Hello Um I m sorry... I really can t tell you what to do with that. Personally, I have phone sex and from what I ve heard it s just masturbating on the phone. Just experiment and see what happens... it probably will be fun to try to figure it out together....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, merrimack valley high school, long distance relationship
merrimack valley high school, long distance relationship, belived: Hello Honestly I think it s time that you let this guy go. You cannot try keeping up a relationship or a friendship if you are making the only effort. It sounds like you guys had something before but it sounds like he felt there was no point anymore, that...

Long Distance Relationships: can i have a long distance relationship, long distance relationship, amount of time
long distance relationship, amount of time, 3 years: Hello Well I cannot tell you what you can do and if your relationship can last but I can tell you that you guys can have a relationship while you live out there. 5 years is a long time and the odds are against you but people have done it before so it s not...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, stupid thoughts
long distance relationship, stupid thoughts, reading school: Hey Pearl Lol you re in love what can I say. Aww but the whole thing sounds so cute. Anyways we all get confused and scared and I know how it all must feel. But try to be patient and not overreact. and don t worry it s normal to want to talk to them all the...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, thanksgiving dinner: Hey Samira It s ok... I know how much it hurts. But since you guys are in the first few months it will hurt a lot but it will get better in the next few months. Well there are a lot of disadvantages to it. People get sad and experience how you feel a lot,...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, exact situation
long distance relationship, exact situation, descision: Hey Vicki You re right he may not keep all these promises. Even though he says he s just seeing how it goes with this girl, what if it got more serious with this girl. What if his feelings for her got more stronger than what would happen. It s too risky and...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, last question
long distance relationship, last question, bitterness: the answer is the same; going there to try it out is asking for trouble; if you think THIS is hard, getting out of that arrangement will be almost impossible; you dont go into marriage with all these conditions, unresolved issues, questions... it s hard...

Long Distance Relationships: my long distance relationship, long distance relationship, relationship worth
long distance relationship, relationship worth, gorgeous man: Hey Hollie I can t tell you if your relationship is worth working for cause that it completely up to you. Me and my boyfriend are in an LDR and will continue to be for awhile but he is compltely worth it to me. Nobody else can tell me if it s worth it cause...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, buit
long distance relationship, buit, wasting your time: Hey Angela Well why you do want to be with him? You haven t answered that. It sounds like there s no real trust in your relationship and as you probaly know that s one of the most important qualities of the relationships. You also have kids by other people...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, right move
long distance relationship, right move, fourth of july: Hey Mike I think you did the right thing. This girl was giving yyou way too many mixed signals and her behavior wasn t right. She could ahve at least been more direct with you. Honestly you gavve it your all and I m glad you moved on. She really wasn t worth...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship - first meet, long distance relationship, warm affection
long distance relationship, warm affection, negative feedback: Hey Bernie No you are not overreacting! This is a problem and as a mother with children this is not a risk you want to take. I can understand the man not feeling comfortable with sending a picture but it s good for you to see it somehow. He knows that if...

Long Distance Relationships: My long distance relationship is getting too hard for my girlfriend, long distance relationship, demand answers
long distance relationship, demand answers, light switch: and when meaning she can decide for herself when she feels changes in frequency of seeing each other, or committing to marriage, should be made; certainly you can voice your opinion as well, but it s in your best interest to respect her feelings on such...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship problem, long distance relationship, relationship problem
long distance relationship, relationship problem, enthusiam: Hello Well tell him how you feel. I m sorry but you cannot fix this relationship until he is willing to make the conversations a little more exciting. It s very hard for someone to improve if the other partner will not let them improve. If he does not let...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship...recent fight avoidance, long distance relationship, studying for the bar exam
long distance relationship, studying for the bar exam, email virus: has nothing to do with the bar exam; as you indicated, he s jealous, insecure, controlling, and somewhat immature; hopefully you realize that these are the traits that will follow him into any possible future with you; at this point, you have to take a stand...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship trouble, long distance relationship, inferiority complex
long distance relationship, inferiority complex, relationship trouble: Hello Well the best thing you can do for yourself and the relationship is to seek therapy. It will be very difficult for you to have a long and satisfying relationship until you learn to conquer your own issues and get past your insecurities. So definitely...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, hesperia ca
long distance relationship, hesperia ca, question thanks: I very much understand your frustrations. I myself am in a long distance relationship of an hour and a half and i love him very much. It sounds like you two share a very special love for one another, and love is stronger and can overcome anything. Even...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships, long distance relationships, 2 hearts
long distance relationships, 2 hearts, sacred times: Hey hun i know what ur talking about! It took me like over 3 months to stop crying every night. I thought i would never stop. It just takes time to get use to your new situation. I mean im sure u 2 will miss eachother alot and really do like eachother....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships, long distance relationships, proplem
long distance relationships, proplem, boy friend: Hey Lauren Well to be honest with you I don t understand why you would want to even be with a guy who dumped you AND goes out with his ex right after that. It s different if he dumped you just because of th distance but to go to an ex girlfriend obviously...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships, long distance relationships, luick
long distance relationships, luick, ldr: Hello Well there are many factors to if it can last or not. True you guys may love each other very much but love alone does not make a relationship last. You both need dedication, trust, a more efficient way of communicating with each other, and most importantly...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships, long distance relationships, airforce
long distance relationships, airforce, doubts: Brenda, This is especially difficult since he is in the Airforce. It may become harder for him to communicate with you regularly. That is, however, the key to long distance relationships. Regular communication (though it may be weeks apart) is important...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships and cheating, long distance relationships, gain experience
long distance relationships, gain experience, informed choice: it s obvious you re not ready to date exclusively, let alone have someone move a long way just to be near you; you need to explain to him you ve realized you re too young to make such a commitment and want to be free to meet/date others, and gain experience...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships , help:(, long distance relationships, face 2 face
long distance relationships, face 2 face, going on holiday: Hello Well talk to him about this. Tell him how you are worried. Honestly, if he loves you he wont fall out of love with you so quickly. So be a bit more realistic about this. If your boyfriend does care about you he wouldn t get over you so easily. So the...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, exact view: dear allison: cheer up! don t let this pull you down. one of the worst things about distance is that you can t see the person that ou love and although you might talk to him or her, you can t really get an exact view of how they are feeling. tell him how...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance reltationships, long distance relationship, young couples
long distance relationship, young couples, trust issues: Unfortunately there isn t a whole lot you can do here. It is very difficult for young couples to stay together in a long distance relationship, although it can be done. I can see how you would be uncomfortable about her staying at someone s house that you...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance trouble, esaw, realtionship
esaw, realtionship, heart and soul: Hello Well just give her her space. She s in college and probably meeting new people and these past few weeks may have caused her to have some doubt in the relationship. Plus you both are very young and she may not feel comfortable committing herself to you...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance trouble, girlfrind, jealous type
girlfrind, jealous type, going to college: Hello First and foremost his reasons are garbage!!! If he truly loves you that would not have happened! There is no excuse for that. And I think you know that too. Also how did you hurt him? The whole thing does not make sense. Let s look at this logically....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, hr drive, love lives
hr drive, love lives, 10 months: Hey Jessica. Ya my long distance love lives about a 12 hr drive from me too. First off love is a feeling u cant describe. You will just know when u meet the one & never question it, however there is no need to rush to this point. Whatever u do always...

Long Distance Relationships: long distant relationship, long distant relationship, relationship work
long distant relationship, relationship work, rocky relationship: Hey Amy Of course you should attempt to try to make your relationship work. No relationship and I mean NO relationship is like magic and just works out perfectly. ALL relationships, at least healthy relationships, require work. So work on this. Discuss with...

Long Distance Relationships: long distant relationship, long distant relationship, google
long distant relationship, google, alot: There are many things you can do to keep a long distant relationship alive and you probabley s have thought of alot of them. Writing, emailing, txtn, talking on the phone. Try typing some things into google on the net and see what comes up, alot of people...

Long Distance Relationships: long distant relationships: can they last, long distant relationships, realtionship
long distant relationships, realtionship, friend of the family: first of all, stop calling it a relationship ; it s a boy you met and hung out with for a short while; guys say alot of stuff; most of it doesn t mean much--it s behavior that counts...in this arrangement, he s indicated this is no big thing..get back to...

Long Distance Relationships: long distant relationships, long distant relationship, long distant relationships
long distant relationship, long distant relationships, long distance relationship: Kat, I would have to say that you are using your head here.....yes maintaining a long distance relationship can be expensive. I would ditch the phone thing and tell the gentleman that you are in a relationship with to invest in internet service...this...

Long Distance Relationships: I have a long question for..., togeather, airforce
togeather, airforce, out of the blue: the choice is yours, but i wouldn t consider rekindling without real specific goals/understandings in mind; that would mean regular visits, soon culminating in engagement, living together, or living a few miles apart; before anything, you would need to clearly...

Long Distance Relationships: long question, waste of my time, taking your time
waste of my time, taking your time, sweet guy: Hi firstly i do think you need to see this from an outside view. You feel something strong for this woman, she is leaving you and you are upset alot, that is a normal feeling. You are now confused which is also another normal reaction. You say that you are...

Long Distance Relationships: long term relationship, long term relationship, picnic in the park
long term relationship, picnic in the park, sweet idea: Hello Well if you guys have been together for 2 and a half years then I don t see why you giving him a promise ring would scare him away. i think it s a very sweet idea and he will probably love him. There s no real special to give it to him. just give it...

Long Distance Relationships: can we do long term, 5 months, good luck
5 months, good luck, contrary: Hello Well waiting till may shouldn t be very hard. On the contrary that should be pretty easy, since it s only a couple more months from now. So this shouldn t be that hard and I think you ll be fine in the meantime. Plus that ll give you plenty of time,...

Long Distance Relationships: longdistance and an old flame, old flame, loui
old flame, loui, old letters: hi i do feel for your dilema really.....but you have to try and ask yourself.. who can you see yourself with in the future? If the answer to this is both boys.... then the problems do begin! I suppose you need to think about who you love most.... if i was...

Long Distance Relationships: She lost interest, personal values, matrimony
personal values, matrimony, early august: Hello Sorry a bit late but I m sorry about what happened and how things didn t work out so well. It s too bad she didn t inform you of this earlier but at least she told you what was really going on. Well you never know what will happen now, and I really...

Long Distance Relationships: lost in love, on the broken road, long distance relationship, first break
long distance relationship, first break, grad school: Hello Ella Well first of there needs to be better communication in this relationship. He needs to be telling you what his intentions without there being any confusion or stress. There should be no need for you to pressure him about this. He should really...

Long Distance Relationships: I am lost please help, long distance relationship, guy tyler
long distance relationship, guy tyler, guilt trip: sounds like you haven t even SEEN this girl; i m not sure that qualifies as DATING.. .look, she s young and needs to have a REAL life, with real people she can see, touch, do things with; instead of laying the selfish guilt trip on her, tell her it was no...

Long Distance Relationships: I love him, long distance relationships, rocky relationship
long distance relationships, rocky relationship, ldr: Hello Well I think his reasoning for not talking to you so much is fine. Many people in long distance relationships find it very hard to talk everyday. The talking can get tiring and sometimes you need a break. Also I understand him wanting to hang out with...

Long Distance Relationships: I love my boyfriend, but I keep hurting him..., personal problem, freind
personal problem, freind, couple times: Hey Pauline Well if you love him so much then just stop doing this. I don t know why you are even doing it in the first place... but you need to stop or you could keep doing it but control yourself and not tell him. So either way you go you re going to have...

Long Distance Relationships: Do I love her enough?, highs and lows, center of my life
highs and lows, center of my life, soul mate: hmmm well shall i be blunt with you or not? I don t think you have treated this girl very well at all, one of the first things you said was that she didn t care about you looks yet then you judge her in the same way!! telling her about this other girl was...

Long Distance Relationships: my love lives in mexico, love lives, necessities
love lives, necessities, internship: as great as the 3 months were, unless you can figure out a way to see each other at least every couple of months or more, AND see a way of possibly being together in a couple of years, your chances of success will greatly diminish; hopefully in the meantime...

Long Distance Relationships: love in a lond distance relationship, long distance relationships, chatt rooms
long distance relationships, chatt rooms, impending marriage: Mike, Yes what you are going through is normal. I can tell that she really does love you and your relationship sounds great. The time difference and work and all that could be the reason for the drop off in emails. Just talk to her about it and ask her....

Long Distance Relationships: love or lust, long term boyfriend, little conversations
long term boyfriend, little conversations, perception changes: let s call it passion instead of lust; it can disappear in an hour or last forever; the feeling of being in love has a definite sexual component, and usually comes with distinct feelings of electric attraction; after that, sometimes loving appears, more...

Long Distance Relationships: In love with a soldier., honeymoon period, rocky period
honeymoon period, rocky period, man of my dreams: Hello This is pretty rushed especially if you guys have known each other for about 5 months. It s also not a good decision to rush marraige with this guy. I m not saying that a marraige between you and him is a bad thing, but as you probably know this is...

Long Distance Relationships: love, melissa, long distance
melissa, long distance, heart: Hello Well that s up to you. If my boyfriend said that to me i would say me too, or I would just say I love you. So say what you feel like saying. It s best not to respond though. Make sure you do give a positive response. It doesn t really matter what you...

Long Distance Relationships: Marriage Advise, empathy, good time
empathy, good time, ash: he s only getting away with it because you re allowing him to; tell him in advance you want to talk to him; don t tell him the subject matter; then inform him specifically what your requirements are for being in the marriage, making clear the ones that aren...

Long Distance Relationships: Marriage to another country, phillippenes, philippeans
phillippenes, philippeans, british citizen: Hi this does sound like a difficult situation, i m afraid i am a British citizen so i don t know anything about the laws and things like that. I m not so sure but i expect that she will need the visa and things like that, sometimes the person also needs a...