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Long Distance Relationships: girlfriend of 3 1/2 years just cheated but is still living with me what do I do?, dear sweetheart, severe depression
dear sweetheart, severe depression, girlfriend: forget the win her back idea..it leaves you as weak, insecure, needy, dependent, sufficiently fearful of loss to put up with ANYTHING; even without the cheating, the gaming addiction was a serious problem; now, she not only went with another guy, she doesn...

Long Distance Relationships: haven't talked for several days, strong hold, girlfriend
strong hold, girlfriend, long time: Its a tough situation. All you really can do now is wait until he contacts you. You need to understand that this girl must have an unbelievably strong hold on him, because he stayed with her for an entire year while she was cheating on him, and they were together...

Long Distance Relationships: Im Empty Without Him., amazing sex, cripples
amazing sex, cripples, suicidal thoughts: Hello Georgia I m glad to hear that you ve realized that and wont be doing anything life-threatening about it. Uh I don t understand why your boyfriend doesn t have a job? I know you love the guy like crazy but it s really bad that he isn t even trying to...

Long Distance Relationships: international long distance, long distance relationship, permanent visa
long distance relationship, permanent visa, brother works: Hi Davy Well I really don t know anything about these types of things and I m not sure who to direct you to. I am very glad to hear that things are going well, but I do think he might have a good chance to obtain a visa. It s better for you to ask other people...

Long Distance Relationships: Jealous of the EX-girlfriend (In a long distance relationship), long distance relationship, secrecy
long distance relationship, secrecy, honesty: Hello Brittney Well first of all, put the blame where it needs to be. You shouldn t feel hurt that she is talking to him. Like you said, she only knows what he has told her. I know that if I was in her shoes I wouldn t feel at fault because the guy didn t...

Long Distance Relationships: I kindly need your advice, typical women, senior year
typical women, senior year, ups: Good, I m glad I was able to help! Right now I think you should just stay in the background and be a good friend for her. If you really want to talk to her, then call her- but no crazy romantic stuff, it will freak her out. And if she does start acting more...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR, what to do???? :(, long distance relationships, living in a fantasy
long distance relationships, living in a fantasy, surprise gifts: Well my situation is very similar to yours actually. My boyfriend and I were together throughout high school, then he and his family moved 12 hours away to North Carolina when he graduated. He went to college there, I went to college in Connecticut. And we...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance, friend and a lover, girl version
friend and a lover, girl version, rest of your life: Hi Dan Well you are told me that this girl isn t the one for you. Although you didn t actually say those words... if you find yourself wishing that you could pursue other opportunities to date women then she really isn t the one for you. I think it s great...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Break Up, long distance relationship, graduating college
long distance relationship, graduating college, reassurance: Hi Angie, I m very sorry to hear this. This sounds like such a devastating experience for you. I agree that your boyfriend is having commitment issues. My brother went through the same thing with his wife. They are married now, but they met at the age of...

Long Distance Relationships: Long-distance, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, trust issues: Hello I m really not sure if it will work out for you guys. As you know it doesn t work out for a lot of people and it s really situational. Some people are able to communicate easily over the phone and instant messenger. These same individuals also have...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance/ ex as a friend, mutual feelings, friend peter
mutual feelings, friend peter, being friends: Hi Ashley No, I do not think you are doing anything wrong by being friends with someone you used to be physically involved with. I m glad to hear that your boyfriend is somewhat supportive of this, but as long as you are not planning to do anything with...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, two different directions, attending college
two different directions, attending college, ldr: Hi Nathalie Well neither you or myself knows what the future will entail but I do know that if you really love this guy that you should give it a good try. If things don t work out in the future then you can always break it off, but don t let go of a relationship...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, reasurance
long distance relationship, reasurance, new independence: the best way to get his attention is to disappear for awhile; he s acting like a guy who s too sure of you and of your waiting ; stop waiting, stop initiating contact, stop answering the email/phone...refocus on living/enjoying YOUR life..when he asks as...

Long Distance Relationships: In love with two girls, one west coast, one east coast., long distance relationship, different girls
long distance relationship, different girls, university in philadelphia: what s the rush ?..at 19, the single life is in its infancy; once you get bogged down with 1, you ll realize how good you currently have it; the only official designation comes when married; otherwise, you re in some sort of dating arrangement; the advice:...

Long Distance Relationships: i need some help, grad party, jessicas
grad party, jessicas, faience: Hello Yeah try everything possible because this is not something you guys should break up over. She shouldn t have to give up her dad but unfortunately this happens. Some parents do disown their family members, even though they say they love that person,...

Long Distance Relationships: Online Dating Question, relationship question, online dating service
relationship question, online dating service, sweet guy: I think its a very GOOD thing that you re going to meet each other. You obviously care about him and are interested enough to continue an online/long distance relationship when you haven t even met him yet, so there must be something there. As far as letting...

Long Distance Relationships: Online Dating Question, relationship question, online dating service
relationship question, online dating service, sweet guy: the sooner you meet, the better; these online arrangements, based on words, don t necessarily mean much until there s real interaction; at that point, feelings can change quite rapidly, many times with one or both people realizing the person was much different...

Long Distance Relationships: He's older, and he lives an hour away., platonic relationship, mature outlook
platonic relationship, mature outlook, current boyfriend: Hi Cassandra Well I would be a complete hypocrite if I told you it was wrong since I did the same thing in the past. Me and that guy are not together anymore but we lasted for 2 years and he made me realize what I really wanted in a mate and I found my next...

Long Distance Relationships: strange situation, college sweetheart, stages of a relationship
college sweetheart, stages of a relationship, breaking things: look, you haven t had anything resembling an adult dating relationship with this guy; it s been a college days based fantasy in a sense, that stayed alive thru the friendship venue; what you both did was reasonable; no one was forcing him to wait , so him...

Long Distance Relationships: Temporary Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, ldr
long distance relationship, ldr, work permit: Hello Well the first rule is to never wait aimlessly. You both have to be very involved with the relationship... nothing where you feel like you are handling this all by yourself or vice versa. This is a relationship and it takes more than one, so more than...

Long Distance Relationships: just want some advice, guarenteed, doing the right thing
guarenteed, doing the right thing, fiance: Hi Nikkoal Wow this must be so difficult for you and I think it s awesome that you guys have survived this long without seeing each other in over a year. That s very difficult and most people would not be able to do that. Although I think that s great, I...

Long Distance Relationships: What now?, ups and downs, backburner
ups and downs, backburner, realist: Hi Toni I m really not sure cause I don t know what he s really thinking or feeling but from what you told me, it sounds like he does still have feelings for you but he probably just wants to see what else is out there. He s known you for quite awhile and...

Long Distance Relationships: What now?, ups and downs, weird place
ups and downs, weird place, backburner: Good for you! I love that you said that you re not going to live your life waiting around for him! You already are in the right mind set. Its obvious that you and this guy are in a weird place right now, and I ve been there before. You care about each other...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, realistic perception: from the i love you to the cheating, and everything in between, anthing is possible, especially with someone you ve only seen 6 times and have minimal communication with; as to the glasses, i don t know how you view it, so i can t say; the realistic perception...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR feeling lefted out, vague answers, trust issue
vague answers, trust issue, thanks in advance: being not able to see her much, there s not alot you can do, as she has a right to lead her life as she pleases--you should really try to do more with your free time as well, so you don t dwell on this as much; if you badger her about it, she ll only resent...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR - its tearing me up, school part time, work fulltime
school part time, work fulltime, emotional person: sounds like he s just jerking you around and you re allowing it; he obviously likes this convenient arrangement, that gives him the freedom to do whatever he wants, make no commitment, see you when feasible; this will go on until you put an end to it; that...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Problems, game plan, sex talk
game plan, sex talk, sexual activity: so, you still see him, have sex, talk alot, while he has the freedom all the while to see others, fairly confident that you re still totally into him....why would he be motivated to change THAT deal?..the advice: to reconsider your game plan; if he s unwilling...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship Coming to an End, long distance relationship, straight days
long distance relationship, straight days, job opportunity: not something you can plan ahead for--you essentially play it by ear; keep it simple/basic..he ll know where to find you--if he s interested in getting together, he ll ask--if you re not busy/interested, you ll agree; let him lead the way, then you decide...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Temporary Break-up, countless times, sense of humor
countless times, sense of humor, month and a half: it s to be expected--she s only 17,unsure of her feelings, you re not around...the bottom line is she s way too young to be bogged down in ANY heavy relationship, let alone one where the guy isn t around; if you really care about her, you ll understand that...

Long Distance Relationships: Is he really that interested living 6 hours away?, personal cell phone, soul mate
personal cell phone, soul mate, romantic interest: objectively, i see almost all negatives, and other than the appeal of erotic flirtation, almost nothing here that merits spending time/energy/hope on..the list: this communication is almost exclusively based on smooth talk text--i see no real, relevant dating...

Long Distance Relationships: Not so sure anymore, friday and saturday night, jealous cause
friday and saturday night, jealous cause, fiance: in both cases, your time of actual dating/seeing each other, is very little, and certainly not enough to make any big commitment in either case; also, phone/internet is no substitute for time spent together; thusly, at this point there s nothing to decide;...

Long Distance Relationships: Confused with possible breakup?, life decisions, state move
life decisions, state move, fun things: emotionally, you ve put yourself in the worst possible position, that being the needier, more insecure, more dependent one; he s essentially telling you to wait on the sidelines, accept his promises of coming attractions, bite for the daily contact bone ...

Long Distance Relationships: wake up call, long distance relationship, sacrifices
Long Distance Relationships: wake up call, long distance relationship, sacrifices, good luck

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Break-Up, real feelings, rocky points
real feelings, rocky points, pronouncement: no, but her pronouncement should lead you to a place of lower expectation and changes in approach; as to her real feelings, you can only really account for YOURS...she s obviously broken up for an important reason, whether it be another guy, a change in feelings,...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, relationship question
long distance relationship, relationship question, relationship with a married man: i apologize in advance, but i m sure you re looking for an objective opinion--for all successful long distance, non-meeting, falling in love arrangements, the great majority fail miserably; here, i understand the attraction, however unhealthy; this is essentially...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance romance, smooth talk, military life
smooth talk, military life, high expectations: i wouldn t have high expectations; smooth talk over email is no substitute for REAL interaction where you see, touch, observe, do things together; stay in touch, casually, if you want, but keep heavy emotions that you can get addicted to, out of it, and keep...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, national merit scholar, long distance relationship
national merit scholar, long distance relationship, situtation: you won t like he answer but i m not here to make friends, i m here to tell you like it is; you NEVER transfer, spend $$, alter educational goals, for a relationship at 18; what s to saythat you go there and 2months into it she wants her freedom?..then what,...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance and sexual past and parents, parteners, serious relationship
parteners, serious relationship, female friend: big issues here; as to his sexual past, while i understand your feelings, however unjust, (not right to impose YOUR values on his) they are what they are, but each person is responsible for same, and accountible for whatever behavior they select that results...

Long Distance Relationships: long term in college relatinship, chip on my shoulder, college experience
chip on my shoulder, college experience, 23 years: being the needier of the 2 is not where you want to be; your insecurity/fear of loss, is leading you to rationalize what you term breaks , as somehow okay; what s REALLY goin on is that she s putting you on hold while she enjoys her freedom, knowin you...

Long Distance Relationships: Getting Past Our Differences, long distance relationship, shadow of a doubt
long distance relationship, shadow of a doubt, relationship status: i m suggesting a restructuring of the relationship until such time that being together is a reality--that means lowering expectations, avoiding imflammatory topics, and refocusing/cutting back as previously detailed..an 8 for timeliness/politeness...? i...

Long Distance Relationships: reality, niece nephew, internet talk
niece nephew, internet talk, man work: i ve no issue with moving away from the family, but a relationship based upon internet talk and 2 weeks in florida isn t sufficient time spent together to be considering life changing decisions; unless you can see, touch, observe, do things with a person over...

Long Distance Relationships: is it really over?, long distance relationship, smooth talk
long distance relationship, smooth talk, gonna move: it s over--unless you can see, touch, hold, do things with someone, all you have is a fantasy based on addictive smooth talk; people need REAL companionship of those nearby they can BE WITH regularly; he found that--so should you; waste no more precious time...

Long Distance Relationships: wake up call, sports activity, doing the right thing
sports activity, doing the right thing, soulmate: you re way too involved for the conditions--1st off, i don t buy the too busy deal--where there s a will, there s a way-if he TRUELY wanted to talk, he d find the time; so here you are pining over him while he s out living his life; the advice: lower expectations...

Long Distance Relationships: this whole....crazy thing, brain cancer, first kiss
brain cancer, first kiss, th grade: can t offer alot, except that since you can t change the realities, you d have to try to alter your perceptions.there s still alot to be thankful for, hopeful about; certainly there are those dying of brain cancer that would gladly trade places; there s FAR...

Long Distance Relationships: big change, long distance relationship, message answer
long distance relationship, message answer, music friends: you probably haven t received any help because your question is too vague; if what you say happens, you either would put up with the distance, or leave (hopefully we can rule marriage out); either way, it s not even worth discussing at this point, as i doubt...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance dating, long distance relationship, parents
Long Distance Relationships: long distance dating, long distance relationship, parents

Long Distance Relationships: Help Please...., girland, cards on the table
girland, cards on the table, shiit: Hello Steven, I understand how much her past may hurt you and how threatened you may feel by her past sex life. If I was in the situation I would probably feel the same way. But there isn t anything she could ever do to take it back, and it is hard to...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance dating, nvr, chat room
nvr, chat room, long distance: Lisa, Hi, I m not as young as you so I have not been in your shoes. However there are other teens that write on our forum. I invite you to come and ask what they have done in your situation. http://www.lovingfromadistance.com/apps/forums/ ...

Long Distance Relationships: Is this meant to be, or should i give it up?, current boyfriend, promise ring
current boyfriend, promise ring, dovey: being that young and long distance--not a good mix; you re way too emotionally involved for this shaky set-up, and with a guy who obviously isn t ready, and who s probably seeing others; either end it and confine your dating to those NEARBY, or lower expectations...

Long Distance Relationships: is he thinking about marriage?, restaraunt, couple weeks
restaraunt, couple weeks, judgement: No, I don t think he s joking around. It sounds like there is some truth behind what he is saying. He would marry you, and he wants to know if you feel the same way about him. So if you feel the same tell him. It is okay to feel like marrying him in the...

Long Distance Relationships: He Wants to Move, long distance relationship, ease of mind
long distance relationship, ease of mind, freak out: Your relationship is relatively new, so it is understandable that you d be worried about what this is going to do to your relationship. You re right, you re not in a position to tell him to not go to FL. If you love him, don t give up on the relationship...

Long Distance Relationships: going to college during long-term relationship, long term relationship, young couples
long term relationship, young couples, going away to college: Hi, That decision is completely up to you, it depends on what you are looking for out of your college experience and how strong your relationship is with your girlfriend. You need to give your girlfriend some credit though, just because she likes to get...

Long Distance Relationships: My Friend, melissa
melissa: Hi Anne Well this isn t much detail but yeah there is always a chance that you guys can meet again. Just after more talking with him, ask him about possibly visiting him sometime in the future. Either way, there is always a chance that you guys can meet up...

Long Distance Relationships: going to college during long-term relationship, loving heart, thick skin
Long Distance Relationships: going to college during long-term relationship, loving heart, thick skin

Long Distance Relationships: LDR / Study Abroad / Sudden Breakup, boyfriend girlfriend, strong commitment
Long Distance Relationships: LDR / Study Abroad / Sudden Breakup, boyfriend girlfriend, strong commitment, reverse culture shock

Long Distance Relationships: frustrated with him!, lucrative job, transitional stage
lucrative job, transitional stage, professional man: time for mr reality; it s only been a couple of months, he s a bit of a distance away, you don t really know if he sees anyone else, and he s offered nothing more than occasional pleasurable dating; thusly, under the circumstances, expectations need to be...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR--college, sophomore year, real reason
sophomore year, real reason, hes: Hi Yvonne, This sounds SO much like me and my boyfriend back a few years. The first thing you need to do, duh, is to STOP NAGGING! I understand that you want to talk to him more, but you re pushing him away. He obviously cares about you and the relationship...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR / Study Abroad / Sudden Breakup, girlfriend, happiness
girlfriend, happiness, best friend: unfortunately, it happens..she obviously saw it differently; sometimes everything looks great on paper , but something is missing; in this case, her feelings weren t sufficiently deep to continue, and feelings aren t negotiable; sure it s not an easy thing...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Heartache, long distance heartache, having a great time
long distance heartache, having a great time, proper attention: Hello Mel I don t think this is anger at him living so far away. I think like every person in a relationship you have expectations. Of course after meeting a guy and having a great time, you would hope he would be so into you and just keep calling. That s...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, explicit explanation
long distance relationship, explicit explanation, ldrs: Hi He probably just wants to get into this because he wants to get to know you. Men are not all about sex and physical things. Many crave a relationship and love. This guy probably thinks that you are a great girl and he doesn t want this opportunity to be...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance surviving, lie detector test, month old baby
lie detector test, month old baby, advice columnist: Dear Angela, If you feel you need a lie detector test to continue with the relationship and you think he s going to cheat on you with his ex, then why do you want to be with him? Without trust or a foundation of honesty, a relationship cannot survive without...

Long Distance Relationships: new relationships and second thoughs, jealous type, different perspective
jealous type, different perspective, thoughs: Hi Brandon, This is a tough one.. I can see both sides here and neither one is wrong. I think your main problem is the age difference. Being so much older than her (23 and 18 is a big difference)makes you have a much different perspective on life and relationships....

Long Distance Relationships: is he real or just another player, long distance relationship, best friend
long distance relationship, best friend, relationships: It seems like he is WAY more into you than you are into him. You THINK you like him, hes saying he would die for you. I think you need to tell him to put the breaks on and slow down. Even though hes saying that he doesn t want to rush you, he is. He is influencing...

Long Distance Relationships: Almost time to end the long distance... and maybe the relationship too???, avoidance behavior, marriage material
avoidance behavior, marriage material, step dad: Hi Lauren, I am SO sorry for not getting back to you sooner, this is very unlike me. Ok this avoidance behavior that he is displaying is a red flag. You re right, what IS the difference between staying together for the next month and starting fresh when...

Long Distance Relationships: american girl, open relationship, decemeber
open relationship, decemeber, hopeless situation: Hi Simon, Yes, you are in a tough situation. 3 years is a very VERY long time to expect someone to wait. I think its good that you are both being realistic by having an open relationship where you are free to date other people. Unfortunately, there isn...

Long Distance Relationships: confused..., long distance relationship, 9 months
long distance relationship, 9 months, hometown: he s into his own life, and so should YOU be in yours; when you hardly see someone, it s easy to drift apart; for all you know, he could easily be seeing someone else--i seriously doubt it s only about the gym . the advice: lower expectations to zero, refocus...

Long Distance Relationships: Help, dowm, last boyfriend
dowm, last boyfriend, saids: you re not bothering me--unfortunately, there s no don t love button, and no no hurt guarantee; aside from ending it, you can try to not communicate/see each other as much, refocus on your OWN life; better to have loved/lost, then to have never loved at...

Long Distance Relationships: How do I know if this is going to work?, hopeful dreams, smooth talk
hopeful dreams, smooth talk, social web: obviously, you not only have no guarantee of this working out, but the odds are against it; first off, you haven t even MET--all you have is fantasy-driven smooth talk and promises of future bliss; the reality is, until you can see, observe, interact with...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance...in the not so distant future, single motherhood, single mom
single motherhood, single mom, shift work: Hi Chris Yes, I see this as a big problem and to be honest I don t think you should go for any of these situations. This is your final year in school and you really do need to focus and you are right, you are not her mother, and you don t necessarily need...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance...in the not so distant future, single motherhood, single mom
single motherhood, single mom, shift work: understood; well, choice 1 has trouble written all over it, especially with the reasons you mentioned; choice 2 is costly, and doesn t terribly benefit the child, though slightly preferred over choice 1; choice 3 appears the most rational; his enjoyment ,...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, long distance relationship, rational thought
long distance relationship, rational thought, enjoying life: unless there s a possibility of being close enough to see each other weekly by year s end, this is most probably going nowhere; at this distance, you really know very little about each others real lives--for all you know he could be seeing 1 or 2 others...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationships, long distance relationships, hole life
long distance relationships, hole life, going away to college: Hello Well first of all this situation is really not that bad and deserves a chance. The summer thing will be okay as long as you both have some sort of transportation. A 40 minute drive is not that bad and would be worth it to see what happens. Now if you...

Long Distance Relationships: Love or College?, sad cause, melissa
sad cause, melissa, few minutes: Hi Jackie Well a common rule to abide by is college always comes before guys, especially guys you meet when you are a teenager. So I really feel you should go ahead and go to the college that you want to go to. First of all anything can happen. College is...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, long distance relationship, honeymoon phase
long distance relationship, honeymoon phase, acting this way: Hi Wes, Sorry it has taken so long to get back to you, it has been a busy week. There are several reasons why she is acting this way. She may be feeling less attracted to you- in which case you need to have a serious talk and figure out how to fix this....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance realtionships, long distance relationship, going away to college
long distance relationship, going away to college, realtionship: Wow you re VERY lucky. Compared to myself and many of my questioners, you are going to be very close to each other even when you re apart- this should make things easier on the 2 of you and hopefully you wont feel the pressures of long distance like some other...

Long Distance Relationships: My long lost friend, long lost friend, day after christmas
long lost friend, day after christmas, creepy guy: Hi Morgan Well first thing I want to say is that next time a situation like this occurs or something happens where he unexpectedly doesn t want to talk, then you need to ask him what s going on. The reason why is that there are clearly problems here and a...

Long Distance Relationships: how do i get past a long distance break-up, time math, math student
time math, math student, athens georgia: it s over--you need to stop using all this energy analyzing it; if/when you become completely NEUTRAL toward him, perhaps then something resembling a friendship can emerge, but not under the current conditions; if you d like, you can respond by asking him...

Long Distance Relationships: Serious Trust issues in a LDR, long distance relationship, first and last time
long distance relationship, first and last time, horrible names: you really need to re-evaluate the situation before going any further; you are currently putting ALOT of time/effort into a guy you hardly see; plus, his issues of insecurity, control, will not improve unless he gets counseling, and even then it s not guaranteed;...

Long Distance Relationships: what should I do?, occasional argument, mind reader
occasional argument, mind reader, 9 months: Hi Brandi I m not really sure because as you know I m not a mind reader nor am I your boyfriend so I don t really feel comfortable telling you that I think your boyfriend still loves you or not. It s clear that he still has feelings for you, and yes it s...

Long Distance Relationships: Bleeding love..., life time experience, lucky gal
life time experience, lucky gal, study in switzerland: Hello Well I m not exactly sure on what you are asking me but I can tell you that if she needs a break then I feel that s a good idea as well. With long distance relationships things can get rather difficult to deal with, and to be completely honest with...

Long Distance Relationships: Is he busy, uninterested or just want to be friends?, casual friend, facebook
casual friend, facebook, wasting your time: you re wasting your time..you re just a small part of his life, and the other girls in it; you might know him, but without real interaction, where you see, observe, touch, do things together, it s essentially a fantasy that less secure types are prone...

Long Distance Relationships: confused, long distance relationship, initial answer
long distance relationship, initial answer, ldr: Hello Well are you sure she likes you? It sounds like her initial answer was based on her thinking that you were asking if she likes you as a friend. Also what exactly are you asking me? I mean she was pretty straightforward... if she does hypothetically...

Long Distance Relationships: Follow up: breakup after czech trip., easter trip, fresh in my mind
easter trip, fresh in my mind, happy moments: Hi Doris Sorry it took me awhile to get back to you. Believe it or not, I was planning to write to you tonight, hence the very quick response. It s been a busy and rather stressful week. I ve been doing a lot of catch up on allexperts so I hope you don...

Long Distance Relationships: hey, boyfriend lives, mail
boyfriend lives, mail, melissa: Hello Well do you really want him to end things with you? I mean if he s completely fine with it, then maybe you shouldn t try making it into this big deal. I think the best thing you can do at this point is talk to him and ask him what s going on. Ask him...

Long Distance Relationships: Who knows., mild case, endometriosis
mild case, endometriosis, last sunday: Hello It really seems like she is venting out her anger on you. She can t give that type of attitude to her parents or people who generally annoy you, so she takes it out on you instead. I think you guys need to set some sort of rule with this behavior, because...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance, long distance relationship, mind reader
long distance relationship, mind reader, ldr: Hi Paula Well first of all I m really sorry to hear that this has been happening to you. It s very sad and unfair of him to treat you like this without giving an explanation. I am not a mind reader but there might be a couple of explanations to explain this...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, surprise gifts
long distance relationship, surprise gifts, love letter: Hi Peter, GET A WEBCAM! If you don t have one already. These are great little things to have because they allow you to SEE each other when you cant be together in person. They make you feel closer. You could make a tradition, every Wednesday you webcam,...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, long distance relationship, love letter
long distance relationship, love letter, eachother: Hi Bill Well if you are not okay with all the calls and texts because you guys aren t together and it makes you feel bad then you might want to ask her tone it down. To be honest, it sounds like you guys are already still in a relationship since nothing...

Long Distance Relationships: LTR will it work?, frequent trips, undergrad
frequent trips, undergrad, law school: Hi Jessica I wouldn t really know the odds but I can tell you that it can work out. For it to work out you will have to lighten up about the flirting so you guys can at least be honest with each other. At this point everything is up in the air but it s really...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, relationship question
long distance relationship, relationship question, relationship work: Hello Well if that s the case then show her that you are able to spend time with her and that she is not more of your priority. I think it s time for you to treat this as a new beginning. Just show her that you aren t the person she knew and are willing to...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance troubles, rodeo tour, russian heart
rodeo tour, russian heart, stock show: Hello First of all I really don t think this has anything to do with you. It sounds like you guys had quite an enjoyable time together, and the only real mistake you probably made was not contacting her for 3 weeks. 3 weeks is a very long time when you think...

Long Distance Relationships: Respect, long distance relationship, objective response
long distance relationship, objective response, resentment: i think it s something you have to accept; you can t expect people to live in a bubble when they hardly see their boy/girlfriend; plus, you get an attitude about it, and you ll appear weak/insecure, while her resentment will only take her closer to the sympathetic...

Long Distance Relationships: wake up call, male friends, own accord
male friends, own accord, training academy: i m not sure how/why you even allowed yourself to get in this situation; sometimes love , especially when you are the more emotionally involved, leads to questionable decision-making; right from the start, he wasn t around all the time, then he takes a job...

Long Distance Relationships: How can I make it work, man of my dreams, questioners
man of my dreams, questioners, instincts: Hi Ashley! Congratulations! That sounds great and I m very happy for both of you-it sounds like it could be the beginning of a wonderful relationship. But back to reality...you need to realize that you aren t going to be able to see each other EVERY weekend....

Long Distance Relationships: worried and not know what to do :(, crazy words, first few days
crazy words, first few days, serious relationship: Hello Yes, you are right it would be odd. So this is the hard part. This is long distance right? So there s no way to just show up at his house. What I would do if he s avoiding you is email him a message. Something that he can read and really pay attention...

Long Distance Relationships: what should i do, girl courtney, happend
girl courtney, happend, untill: you can t make good decisions about your life, especially at 18, based on feelings for a girl, and especially one you haven t even dated; you make decisions about college based upon what makes the most sense--the girl should have NOTHING to do with it....

Long Distance Relationships: Communication and emotions, long distance relationship, emotional relationship
long distance relationship, emotional relationship, rough times: Hello If you want to increase your sexual encounters with her then try and make things more romantic or spontaneous. Do things different from the typical way of doing things. Also there really is no excuse for you to cheat and having sex does not have any...

Long Distance Relationships: college, college question, hi lauren
college question, hi lauren, crazy thoughts: I m glad I could help and clarify the situation for you. If he were to cheat on you...how you handle that completely depends on you and your relationship. I personally would never stand for it. My whole mentality is that if you want to be with someone else...

Long Distance Relationships: Communication and emotions, init, flowers
Long Distance Relationships: Communication and emotions, init, flowers

Long Distance Relationships: LDR, pros cons, family friends
pros cons, family friends, pregnancy: not sure how many months is several ; i think it s entirely up to how you feel about it; certainly it might be easier having him around, but if you have a solid family/friends support system in place, you should be okay; there s no right or wrong--you just...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance, dependent person, finding a job
dependent person, finding a job, squabble: time to look at the realities, within yourself, then with him; never good to be the more needy, insecure one--it usually causes far more pain than it s worth; this months away deal is apparently what you signed up for; the issue here is more than a month...

Long Distance Relationships: Girlfriend not allowed to visit, aerospace engineer, freshman year
aerospace engineer, freshman year, car costs: not sure i understand what the problem is--you re both adults, this is 2008--why do you even have to ask PERMISSION to get married?..as to the driving, same question--why do they get to determine what she does?..that aside, a 6 hr drive, and with gas prices...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, nc aquarium
long distance relationship, nc aquarium, memorial day weekend: unfortunately there s no happy ending in sight, just a lesson to be learned; when you allow your emotions to get so carried away after knowing someone just a matter of days, you run the risk of it ending as fast as it began, as appears the case here; whether...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, sexy text
long distance relationship, sexy text, close to my heart: Hi Natasha. Could you please go to www.lovingfromadistance.com and click Have Questions? and copy & paste your question on the form there, so Frank will be able to answer your question too and your question and answers can be included on our website. Thank...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance lack of communication, writing on the wall, serious conversation
writing on the wall, serious conversation, lack of communication: the answers are in the behavior; long distance can make people lose interest quickly, especially when the time of close by dating was minimal; now she s been distracted by her new life/new people, and has lost alot of the energy/desire to keep up with the...

Long Distance Relationships: Love hurts!, long distance relationship, religious forum
long distance relationship, religious forum, garden path: the key sentence, we haven t met.. thusly, you have a tough lesson to learn, which is that REAL relationships are based on seeing each other, observing in different situations, touching, doing things together...what you had was essentially a word-based fantasy...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance & personal space, long distance relationship, considerate guy
long distance relationship, considerate guy, guilt trip: you INFORM him that it s really a REQUIREMENT that you have more personal time/space, and that you need him to accept this fact without him playing the guilt trip card, (which ultimately would work against the relationship anyway, as it would breed resentment);...

Long Distance Relationships: do i move my girlfrnd here to live together?, long distance relationship, advice
long distance relationship, advice, tips: I think it s normal for long distance couples to get anxious about making the move to finally be together. But where you have already lived with your girlfriend, and have an idea of how it is to be with her, only the two of you can determine if this is going...

Long Distance Relationships: Need objective and honest opinion and advice, long distance relationship, male friend
long distance relationship, male friend, honest opinion: some points to consider; a) it sounds like you didn t date all that much prior to his leaving--not exactly a strong base to make pledges of commitment on, even if it IS said; b) couple the above with him being MILES away, and you have even a lesser base to...

Long Distance Relationships: relationship, relationship question, loving relationship
relationship question, loving relationship, ups and downs: probably because the relationship is still of some partial value to him, but you should ask HIM the question; whatever the reason, it s not the important part--what IS, is your letting him know that the situation is no longer acceptable; you don t want to...

Long Distance Relationships: strain of the distance, long distance relationship, open arrangement
long distance relationship, open arrangement, resentment: you might want to consider making it a more open arrangement where each person is free to meet/date others if they WANT to; especially during student years, not being able to enjoy such valuable experiences can lead to resentment, frustration, argument;...

Long Distance Relationships: Best friend's ex, neccessarily, website thanks
neccessarily, website thanks, nice guy: For starters, it s really not wise to be with someone who is still in love with your best friend, let alone anyone or be with someone who your best friend is still in love with. I would let this one go. It s never wise to get caught up in best friends...

Long Distance Relationships: any chance for us?, allexperts, term time
allexperts, term time, e mail: Hello No your email address will not be shown, neither I nor anyone else will be able to see your e-mail. Next time you write a question please check the box labeled private. This question will be shown to other users unfortunately, although the likelihood...

Long Distance Relationships: Is there a chance for us?, overseas contract, angry outbursts
overseas contract, angry outbursts, dear john: Hi, thank you for your question. Could you submit it here as well? http://www.lovingfromadistance.com/longdistanceadvice.htm Frank only answers questions that are submitted to the website because he doesn t have access to this allexperts account,...

Long Distance Relationships: cont: on the edge of my ldr, long distance relationship, open arrangement
long distance relationship, open arrangement, follow ups: year or 2 ?..that s an eternity; i don t recommend even attempting to keep deeply emotionally involved utilizing these word-based methods; until if/when you can actually be together, this should be a more open arrangement where each person is free to meet/date...

Long Distance Relationships: LDRelationship w partner & cancer, long distance relationship, family bills
long distance relationship, family bills, dish network: Hi, thank you for your question. What a tough situation. I will spend some time thinking about it so I can give you the best advice I can muster. If you want Frank s advice too, he only answers questions submitted to the website because it s too hard for...

Long Distance Relationships: LiveLongLove, kirt russell, real cowboy
kirt russell, real cowboy, beautiful man: because they ve no reason to--your dependence on him renders it impossible for you to do anything about it, and his self-absorbtion, ( they just want what you have --tells me all i need to know) will certainly have him continue to service his massive ego,...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationships- How to deal with them?, long distance relationships, freak out
long distance relationships, freak out, arguements: Hi, thanks for your question. If you want Frank s advice too, he only answers questions submitted to the website because it s too hard for me to get him to answer a question the same time as me on allexperts. You can submit it here: http://www.lovingfromadistance.com/longdistanceadvice.htm...

Long Distance Relationships: My ldr boyfriend, boyfriend lives, red flags
boyfriend lives, red flags, allexperts: Hi Missy, Could you give me more details about your question? What are the reasons you believe he might be cheating? Is there any other reason other than that you feel he doesn t call you enough? Are there any other red flags? And your phone calls......

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, evryday
long distance relationship, evryday, miscommunications: Hi Rehana This sounds like a lot of miscommunications on his part. If you guys are planning to get married then this is a great step to testing out if you guys are ready to deal with many conflicts that might occur during a marriage. First thing you need...

Long Distance Relationships: trust, unfortunate thing, fresh start
unfortunate thing, fresh start, distrust: Hello I understand your worries but there are some things you need to realize. First of all he may very well be in love with you, but remember he s been married before and went through a divorce. I m actually pretty glad to hear that he s being cautious about...

Long Distance Relationships: Am I worrying for nothing?, unforseen circumstances, undue stress
unforseen circumstances, undue stress, working in the uk: no, you re worrying about SOMETHING, but it s something you can t do alot to change; worry creates undue stress/discomfort--better to accept the reality, including the fact that there are no guarantees, that anything can happen, and that the chances are still...

Long Distance Relationships: Argument in a long distance relationship, long distance relationship, web cam
long distance relationship, web cam, dubai: the advice is to forget it; a few days on the net does not make a boyfriend --what you ACTUALLY have is a guy, MILES away, that you know NOTHING about, whose main interest is having you use the cam so that he can get off seeing you naked; hopefully this isn...

Long Distance Relationships: Could he be cheating?, wont answer, neediness
wont answer, neediness, complacency: anything is possible, especially when a young guy is far away and being bugged by an insecure girlfriend; the real question is, what s happened to your self-esteem that you need this constant validation of his feelings?..those this needy/dependent usually...

Long Distance Relationships: Friend relationship, friend level, friend relationship
friend level, friend relationship, being friends: Hello First of all keep in mind that there is not much you can do about this. she informed you from the very beginning that she had a boyfriend, and it sounds like she s always kept this on a friend level. You went into this understanding that, and she understood...

Long Distance Relationships: An open relationship in a long distance relationship, honesty policy, open relationship
Long Distance Relationships: An open relationship in a long distance relationship, honesty policy, open relationship, open relationships

Long Distance Relationships: Study abroad dilemma, skype, girlfriend
Long Distance Relationships: Study abroad dilemma, skype, girlfriend, webcams

Long Distance Relationships: I feel more for her than she does for me, long distance relationship, intense weekend
long distance relationship, intense weekend, emotional bond: leave it be--she s indicated, in words and actions, she s not inclined to to get involved in a committed, obligatory arrangement; unfortunately, you want/need more than she s willing to give; so, either you lower expectations to zero and accept the casual...

Long Distance Relationships: Ldr ...., main goal, piece of paper
main goal, piece of paper, compromise: Compromise is very important in relationships. Your girlfriend seems to be very stubborn and I personally don t know how to make her better about compromising. She needs to realize that she s being very unreasonable and that it is taking a toll on your relationship...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Ex-turned to next, rendezvous, long distance
rendezvous, long distance, good luck: Hello I think at this point you guys need to discuss how often you guys should plan to see each other. I m sure if he does care for you that he does miss you and want to see you, but perhaps in his mind, there is a limit on how often you guys should see each...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, long distance relationship, relationship question
long distance relationship, relationship question, doubt in my mind: Hello I think that is a great goal. you guys cannot continue being long distance forever, eventually one of you is going to have to move to be with each other. At the moment, I feel you might want to delay mentioning this. You said he is going through a hard...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, long distance relationship, hole thing
long distance relationship, hole thing, different places: Hello I am not sure why she never calls you back. I don t want to say she s lazy but it s a possibility. Either she enjoys you calling her all the time, or she basically doesn t ever think about calling, which is also not that good. I think you need to discuss...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship- breaking my heart, long distance relationship, lonely all the time
long distance relationship, lonely all the time, breaking my heart: Hi Meredith You re welcome and thank you for the nice comments. I really appreciated that and it s nice to know that someone can benefit from anything I have to say. Anyway good luck with things. I believe this is the week where you were going to give him...

Long Distance Relationships: Not letting go, long distance relationships, bump in the road
long distance relationships, bump in the road, bad attitude: Hello No first of all this is not normal for any relationship. A break up usually means that all the other things that came with it end. I know whenever I break up with a boyfriend, we continue to talk and be friends, but that was about it. When it s over,...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance cheating, honesty is the best policy, booty call
honesty is the best policy, booty call, horrible person: Hi Eva, could you submit your question to our website? http://www.lovingfromadistance.com/longdistanceadvice.htm Frank is unable to answer questions through allexperts because it s too hard for both me and him to answer a question at the same time, since...

Long Distance Relationships: An open relationship in a long distance relationship, long distance relationship, open relationship
long distance relationship, open relationship, mixed feelings: Hello No an open relationship is a very bad idea. Not only is there a risk that she might not even want to be in the relationship after dating other people but depending on what she may do with other guys, there may be a lack of trust or there may be discomfort...

Long Distance Relationships: q, school part time, continuous demand
school part time, continuous demand, new apartment: Hello Well I am not from your culture so many of these things I am not well versed in. All I can say is that when you find a mate, you would be better off finding someone who is interested in a career in medicine. I think it would be rather rude to tell her...

Long Distance Relationships: q, school part time, continuous demand
school part time, continuous demand, new apartment: Hi, You seem to have this all thought out. But just one thing. I m a nursing student, and I can tell you that nursing is not for everyone. You may find a woman from your country to agree to come to the US and go into nursing school, but there is no guarantee...

Long Distance Relationships: Study abroad dilemma, international study experience, long distance relationship
international study experience, long distance relationship, lifetime thing: Hello, I noticed your question in the question pool. I actually have answered a similar question. Here is a link: http://www.lovingfromadistance.com/answer19.htm I do believe that an opportunity to study abroad can be a wonderful experience. It s...

Long Distance Relationships: Should I wait for him?, chef course, fone number
chef course, fone number, affluent family: Hello From what you told me, I cannot tell you why exactly you haven t heard back from him. You said you guys have only been together for 2 months right? So there are a few reasons he hasn t gotten in contact with you. the first is that he doesn t have anything...

Long Distance Relationships: how to get affection,time from a long distance lover, long distance lover, better with time
long distance lover, better with time, life goals: you re not in a good position here--you re much needier, insecure than he, more into the relationship, and he knows it; plus, don t kid yourself--this guy is almost certainly seeing one or more other women, and sees you as someone he might see when convenient;...

Long Distance Relationships: Feeling long when long distance goes the extra mile(s), journalism job, sexual chemistry
journalism job, sexual chemistry, backrubs: the lovestruck girl needs to realize that continuing to love someone that no longer loves you is a colossal waste of precious time; this was over as soon as he made a totally uncaring, selfish decision to move without even a DISCUSSION; he knew what it would...

Long Distance Relationships: Feeling long when long distance goes the extra mile(s), long distance relationship, web cam
Long Distance Relationships: Feeling long when long distance goes the extra mile(s), long distance relationship, web cam, phone calls

Long Distance Relationships: LDR, saying things, jealousy
saying things, jealousy, having sex: Hello To be honest with you it does not sound like she is trying to make you jealous. This could mean one of either things. Either she likes the attention she s getting from him and just expressed that to you without thinking about the consequences of it,...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance and Jealousy, intense jealousy, female voices
intense jealousy, female voices, phone conversations: Hello Well regardless of your feelings you have to accept the fact that he will be meeting many different people... males and females alike. I understand your feelings and with the rate of people who break up during their college years, it s not a surprise...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, mixed signals, trust issues
mixed signals, trust issues, workaholic: Hello the best way to get over your trust issues is to try and seek therapy about it. Besides that you are going to have to make a conscious effort to stop. You may even have to tell your boyfriend at the time that this is an issue and to bear with you. either...

Long Distance Relationships: does he really love me? how can I tell?, long distance relationship, 2 girls
long distance relationship, 2 girls, taking time: Hello you can tell if someone loves you by how they treat you. How often he expresses his love means little. what truly matters is what he does/sacrifices for you. Being in a long distance relationship and taking time to call you and get in contact with you,...

Long Distance Relationships: relationships in college, time melissa, concious effort
time melissa, concious effort, plan meetings: Hello Well fortunately 4 hours is not too far away so I m thinking you guys will be able to see each other a couple of times a month which will be nice. One thing you need to do is lay off trying to contact him so much. I understand how much you miss this...

Long Distance Relationships: Boyfriend is going away to college...., going away to college, staying in school
going away to college, staying in school, going to college: I think you need to decide what you feel will be best for you in the long run. Take a piece of paper and on one side write the benefits of staying in school and staying where you are, and on the other side write down the benefits of moving away and taking...

Long Distance Relationships: Break Up troubles, break up, long distance relationship
break up, long distance relationship, long distance girlfriend: I think it is time to move on. It s been two months since the break up. Your persistence and begging is only pushing her away more and more. From what you have said, she has made it clear that it is over and that she doesn t want a relationship with...

Long Distance Relationships: A boyfriend feeling fear of abandonment and insecure with my girlfriend, fear of abandonment, feeling fear
fear of abandonment, feeling fear, conversationist: a) read up on increasing self-esteem...low amounts will cause such insecurities; b) stop sharing vulnerabilities, unless someone is a non-romantic good friend; c) too early to worry about love--d) stop looking at websites--just relax, stay confident, be yourself....

Long Distance Relationships: cohabitation, long distance relationship, relationship work
long distance relationship, relationship work, good job: same answer--sure, he s right about the $$ savings, but a steep price is paid elsewhere; living together is probablythe biggest reason why excitement/passion/romance leave a relationship; without spaces in togetherness, complacency usually finds a way to ruin...

Long Distance Relationships: Dating, long distance relationships, female friends
long distance relationships, female friends, jumping the gun: Hi Rayven, Trust is very important in any relationship, but especially long distance relationships. If you are having any trouble at all trusting him now, then I don t think it will get any better. I don t blame you for feeling uneasy about him hanging...

Long Distance Relationships: I don't know if I am being crazy...., my bloody valentine, movie listing
my bloody valentine, movie listing, movie times: When you say he went to the movies at 8:45, was that when the movie started? Or was that when he left the house? If the movie started at 8:45, and you couldn t find a movie listing for 8:45 for any movie, anywhere, then that is suspicious. I don...

Long Distance Relationships: I don't understand, strong belief, belongings
strong belief, belongings, confrontation: This is a very difficult situation. Since you can t speak to him on the phone and won t reply to your email (maybe he has yours automatically sent to the junk folder), I would try sending a letter telling him you would like to have your belongings back....

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance, long distance relationship, close proximity
long distance relationship, close proximity, concrete plan: understood, but 4 months isn t 4 years...the initial connection , has nice as it may be, is now left with a lengthy void in time/space; by letting go, i mean to not let either party become emotionally addicted/dependent on investing all types of energy into...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance move, long distance relationship, two little girls
long distance relationship, two little girls, one of those guys: very questionable move; uprooting kids away from friends/family, still living apart with separate expenses, no concrete plan for anything more; usually in these situations, the best analysis asks if the move would still make sense if no guy was involved; in...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, long distance relationship, ldr
long distance relationship, ldr, personal opinion: Hi Thomas, Okay this is my very honest, very personal opinion. I love Frank with all my heart... and despite yearning for something physical, I avoid the temptation of being with someone else. I can not, in a million years, imagine being unfaithful to...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship with a married man, long distance relationship, relationship with a married man
long distance relationship, relationship with a married man, heart and soul: so you were looking for a stamp of approval from his wife?...as with most of these arrangements, the guy never leaves, and he s pretty much told you so; you would be utterly foolish to maintain an exclusive relationship with a married guy you rarely see; if...

Long Distance Relationships: Should I move to be with the woman I love?, seperate ways, guy friends
seperate ways, guy friends, local bar: would it be too impractical to date long distance for awhile?..major life changing moves based upon minimal DATING experience, regardless of number of years knowing someone, are risky..pretty, unfair--i wasn t done, as evidenced by the fact that i asked another...

Long Distance Relationships: passions fading.., friends friend, jake hes
friends friend, jake hes, passions: I think you need to break up with him and do it officially by telling him. It would be wrong to lead him on if you are interested in someone else. His feelings may be hurt, but to stay with him to avoid that would be worse than breaking up for both of...

Long Distance Relationships: Que Sera, Sera, long distance relationship, getting a job
long distance relationship, getting a job, plane ride: i think you need to lower expectations--the reality is, relationships that begin with short-lived interaction then proceed to extreme distance, don t travel well; he s the guy--let HIM lead the way, even if that means less communication; also, refocus on your...

Long Distance Relationships: Question on long distance relationship, long distance relationship, cell phone number
long distance relationship, cell phone number, new friendship: Hi Julian, Personally I would wait for her to give it to you herself, instead of asking. You don t want to seem pushy and trying to rush things with her. I m sure that is a turn off in any culture. Don t push her away if you really like her. Definitely...

Long Distance Relationships: Relationship In Distress, cdl license, nagger
cdl license, nagger, blood is thicker than water: hung out ?..1.5 years, in what is basically a very occasional sexual arrangement with a guy you argue with all the time and who doesn t include you in his future vision and can t even meet your parents...this is the easiest question in months--the answer...

Long Distance Relationships: What does this really mean?, marriage without sex, angelina jolie
marriage without sex, angelina jolie, favorite band: Okay listen, you can t tell me that you love him and want to be with him the rest of your life and then ask me if it sounds like you mean it. I have no idea. Obviously since you are saying those things, I would have to assume those are true. You are...

Long Distance Relationships: Did I do the right thing?, initial shock, concrete plan
initial shock, concrete plan, 2ce: lowering expectations means re-adjusting your mindset based on an analysis of new information and resultant conclusions; in this case, it means not expecting more out of him than what you get, and in the long term, realizing that it could work, or not; the...

Long Distance Relationships: Suffocating. :(, blood shot eyes, true happiness
blood shot eyes, true happiness, doing my own thing: that s a pretty broad question, jenna...i would need to know alot more specifics about you/your life, to answer...generally, the best course is to stay in the PRESENT MOMENT, BE loving/compassionate, don t wait for it to come to you, practice forgiveness,...

Long Distance Relationships: Too busy for a LDR, grad school applications, summer fling
grad school applications, summer fling, ldr: you re in over your head--being the needier party isn t where you want to be; no one can predict what s gonna happen, but you CAN make some adjustments to put yourself in a better position; lower expectations to zero, back off of attempts to communicate, let...

Long Distance Relationships: Cheating in Long Distance, long distance relationship, cheating on your girlfriend
long distance relationship, cheating on your girlfriend, stop cheating: 1. Tell your girlfriend. Why? Because she has a right to know. She s going to need time, she s going to be pissed, and she may or may not be willing to stay with you. You cheated on her, which is wrong. How is she supposed to trust you when you are...

Long Distance Relationships: confused, red light district in amsterdam, thigs
red light district in amsterdam, thigs, skype: The only problem I see is this: you are making a big deal out of nothing. Your guy has every right to go out with friends, he still makes time for you. It was petty of you to ignore him for three days and allow him to call you so many times. It is petty of...

Long Distance Relationships: I am going crazy, simplest things, ldr
simplest things, ldr, web chat: Well it sounds like you both are getting lots of time to communication. And that is great. But what you don t have is time to do things for yourself, outside of the relationship. You spend your free time thinking about him and worrying. But you have...

Long Distance Relationships: dating a trucker., honeymoon stage, ldr
honeymoon stage, ldr, month and a half: You could look up a few laptop options and go with him to Costco or something to look at some. If he s really resistant, then try to convince him to upgrade his cell phone. Many phones today get free internet access, and they have full keyboards for easy typing....

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance and Missing Her!, internet dates, weird hours
internet dates, weird hours, little gifts: The first thing you need to do is realize how lucky you are. Three hours, although it may seem like a lot, really isn t that big of a deal. For example, my guy lives on the other side of the country. I don t get to see him every other weekend, instead it s...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, relationship question
long distance relationship, relationship question, exchange numbers: unfortunately, this is 90 percent fantasy--all the texting in the world doesn t make up for seeing each other only ONE time; hopefully you haven t given up meeting/dating others; the bottom line is you only know what this guy wants you to know--unless you...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Unofficial Relationship, serious conversation, texting
serious conversation, texting, gut feeling: I can understand that you don t like the feeling of being stuck in limbo, so I m going to do my best to help you. There is a perfectly natural and reasonable explanation as to why she never initiates contact with you: it s because she knows YOU RE going...

Long Distance Relationships: I love her a lot shes just so far away... I cant take it anymore., puppy love, wards
puppy love, wards, second time: Hello Thomas. I m going to help you, but I ll warn you now: you probably won t like what I have to say... but that won t make my words any less true. You are not in love with this girl- you are in love with a FANTASY. You are addicted to a person you have...

Long Distance Relationships: I need some advice, exchange numbers, texting
exchange numbers, texting, easy solution: Personally, I do not like texting when it comes to relationships. It s easy to misunderstand what someone says and it s really not that exciting. I can understand why you re not happy with all the texting, and there is a very easy solution. Next time he texts...

Long Distance Relationships: Trusting my gf in an LDR, should i be worried?, college changes, social atmosphere
college changes, social atmosphere, unfortunate reality: you need to know that being away at college changes EVERYTHING, and generally it s a good thing; she has a whole new life, new people, new surroundings, totally different than the community college scene; unfortunately, you will have to endure hearing about...

Long Distance Relationships: wake up call, long distance relationship, friendly relationship
long distance relationship, friendly relationship, money education: stop wasting time, money, education, emotions, on a guy who obviously is sharing more than friendliness with his ex-girlfriend..putting your foot down won t stop anything, it ll just make it seretive...plus, what is his allegiance worth if you have to...

Long Distance Relationships: wake up call, blowout, wake up call
blowout, wake up call, dui: ok, the objective view--you are in an unhealthy, addictive arrangement that s draining your emotions and stealing precious time from your life; this guy is an alcoholic (right THERE is enough reason to run), who took advantage of your generosity (he shouldn...

Long Distance Relationships: she wants space, skyped, ldr
skyped, ldr, good word: space can mean different things, ranging from i like someone else , to my feelings have changed , to distanced based interest loss, short term, or indefinitely; it s not a very good word to use if you really have a strong desire to communicate real feelings--in...

Long Distance Relationships: Feeling insecure, long distance relationship, navy experience
long distance relationship, navy experience, personal attitude: talk isn t going to change anything--there s no words of assurance forthcoming because there s no assurance to be had; to waste another 5 years waiting for even someone MORE verbally positive, would, in my opinion, be a dreadful decision; the rational thing...

Long Distance Relationships: Hold on or let go?, better the devil, broken promises
better the devil, broken promises, precious pearl: most guys will wait as long as you let them...what s the incentive to sign up for commitment when thery re already obtaining the fruits of the relationship?..if you require more, INFORM him that there s no living together, or even better, no more dating,...

Long Distance Relationships: Who Should Move, long distance relationship, college sweetheart
long distance relationship, college sweetheart, rocky relationship: sure, if you presented your case in front of a panel of pragmatists, they d probably agree, but you re dealing with a less rational, emotional female with a different perspective, so u need a softer approach, and one that takes time; you gradually sweeten...

Long Distance Relationships: need advice, long distance relationship, having babies
long distance relationship, having babies, getting a divorce: i think you re foolish to even CONSIDER being wih him; have you forgotten?--he married/had a kid with another woman; what does that tell you as to his feelings about YOU?.. trapped ? you don t marry someone because you re worried about a last name; all this...

Long Distance Relationships: Very serious about a long distance relationship, long distance relationship, serious relationship
long distance relationship, serious relationship, wonderful time: i obviously can t say if it will work...i don t think you can ask about a serious relationship--it either naturally evolves, or it doesn t; under the circumstances, he ll have to become more involved with the kids sooner than later, otherwise this won t...

Long Distance Relationships: Can it still work?, long distance relationship, relationship work
long distance relationship, relationship work, separate lives: i could be wrong, but it s better to be prepared for the worst; from what u told me, she s getting more distant; even if you see each other over winter break, she s still goin back to her new and exciting life; even if you buy a little more time, i seriously...

Long Distance Relationships: Am I wasting my time?, long distance relationship, grad school while
long distance relationship, grad school while, time question: arrangement, i.e.,the nature of the relationship; from what you said, he likes the built in freedom and my guess is he d have no qualms (like MANY guys) of using it to his advantage; not to mention, your devotion has probably made him too sure of you, hence...

Long Distance Relationships: How a womans Dads process of dying can affect a long distance relationship, long distance relationship, emotional turmoil
long distance relationship, emotional turmoil, relationship question: you need to elicit more from her as to how she stands as to you/the relationship; certainly given the circumstances her distraction is understandable, but it shouldn t necessarily mean the relationship becomes less valueable--indeed a case could be made that...

Long Distance Relationships: Found but gone, overwhelming feelings, logical game
overwhelming feelings, logical game, s miles: good decisions are based on rational thought, not feelings; the facts are 1 month is a VERY small sample, you re only 19, still a teenager, and he s MILES away for a long time; the only logical game plan is to stay in touch but not obsessively or daily, avoid...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship coming to an end, long distance relationship, fading dream
long distance relationship, fading dream, 4 months: but most of the time he s NOT by your side--if love was enough, you wouldn t be here asking the question; real love is more a giving than a feeling--not much to give when no one is there--stay in touch with him if you choose, but lower expectations, meet/date...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance because of college, college question, freshmans
college question, freshmans, stressful time: some things to think about: 1) 3 months not a long time..obviously, especially considering his behavior, anything can happen; 2) he knows the REAL reason behind his pronouncement--he just doesn t want to tell you; certainly, his feelings are not to be counted...

Long Distance Relationships: WAKE UP, long distance relationship, neediness
long distance relationship, neediness, s miles: you re wasting your time on a fantasy; the REALITY is he s MILES away, you ve no idea who he REALLY is or what he does--all we know is that he babbles about love, you let your emotions feed into it, your neediness makes you contact HIM (when it should be HE...

Long Distance Relationships: 10 days, no diamond ring, no calls, living in a fantasy, marriage contract
living in a fantasy, marriage contract, diamond ring: the bottom line is only HE knows those answers, so only time will tell--as for now, you can INSIST that he communicate more often, and if he doesn t, stop being so available--; i gave you my opinions, you can consider them, or not, but i do think you re settling...

Long Distance Relationships: Break turned into Breakup, horrible time, great girl
horrible time, great girl, grad schools: as the needier, more insecure of the 2, you re in the worst position; your anger, coupled with practically begging her to reconsider all the way thru this has no doubt built up her resentment and made you look weak/dependent--not exactly the guy girls dream...

Long Distance Relationships: dazed and confused, long distance relationship, wise project
long distance relationship, wise project, will bring money: there s obviously no way for me to predict the future; if you feel he should be making different decisions as they affect your togetherness, you need to express that; so, your questions to me should be directed to HIM--if you feel his answers aren t acceptable,...

Long Distance Relationships: how can i be sure if my fiance cares about me or likes me or not?, facebook, engagement ring
facebook, engagement ring, fiance: I think things have moved really fast in your relationship. Is it possible to push the date of the wedding back? That way when he comes back you can get to learn more about each other before making a serious committment. You guys just haven t had enough...

Long Distance Relationships: why to find a new boyfriend??cant you give me another solutions!!!!!!!, feelings, extent
feelings, extent, circumstances: i don t know how long u knew each other/really dated, before; if it was less than a year, it was too short a time to get engaged; i m sure he cared/liked to some extent, maybe he did it so he d feel secure you wouldn t go out on him once engaged; but feeligs...

Long Distance Relationships: something happened.., neverending cycle, facebook
neverending cycle, facebook, nick name: Okay, I ve pretty much been in this situation before. Where I felt that I wasn t cared about and I didn t feel like I was getting enough attention. The first step is to just be strong and apologize. I guarantee you, that he will appreciate it very much...

Long Distance Relationships: hello.., free ebook, allexperts
free ebook, allexperts: Yeah, your friends are wrong and that would be very immature to do. I guess just try to distract yourself for now until he calls you. Have fun and try not to worry too much. If you can keep your cool about things, I think that he will like that very much....

Long Distance Relationships: hey,,welcome back, long distance relationships, crazy thoughts
long distance relationships, crazy thoughts, wut: No more ignoring him. No more cold shoulder. No more abruptly ending a conversation on facebook. No more nagging that he should give you more attention. Give him attention. Say I love you more. Say you are sorry when you have done something wrong,...

Long Distance Relationships: heyy.., expirements, ldrs
expirements, ldrs, couple weeks: If you have the control to limit your phone calls to once per day, then I don t think bothering him should be an issue. Obviously don t send him a ton of messages if he doesn t answer and don t call back more than once if he doesn t answer the first time....

Long Distance Relationships: heyyy.., facebook, relationship
facebook, relationship: Be patient, and wait for him to call you. I think if you just relax you ll be okay. I know that you want to be with him, so I don t know why you are wondering if you should give him another chance. If anything he is the one that got the most upset here,...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distace CHAOS, long distance relationship, meif
long distance relationship, meif, ups and downs: it s not about right/wrong; it s more about making the best decisions; you say the relationship is great now, but you re not even SEEING each other on a regular, weekly basis; love , as in this case, is many times not the best criteria for making life changing...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Break, good solution, second thoughts
good solution, second thoughts, committed to one: Hi Joseph, I don t know. It doesn t seem to make sense. There is a reason this has come up all of a sudden. I personally don t think having a break helps any relationship. Nothing gets fixed and you return with the same issues since you didn t...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, gut feeling, sudden change
gut feeling, sudden change, dateline: Your gut sounds right. There is definitely a reason he is acting the way he is all of a sudden. For him to pressure you this way is wrong. If you can t get there this week than he should accept that. It is a big move to move to another country. It s not...

Long Distance Relationships: long-distance relationship, long distance relationship, relationship question
long distance relationship, relationship question, 5 months: more here than meets the eye; if you re seeing each other that much, and you re planning on moving closer, i m not sure what his problem is, nor why he needs all this time to think ; my feeling is you don t have the whole story, but in any case, just the...

Long Distance Relationships: Making Up with her, exchange photos, personal matters
exchange photos, personal matters, ldr: I honestly would have been upset if Frank did the same thing to me as you did to her. I don t think I would have met someone else within a week though. If it s already been a month since all of this has happened. Then more than likely it is probably too...

Long Distance Relationships: well.., american girls, diamond ring
american girls, diamond ring, bad situation: how old are u?..10 days???....u must be kidding.. do u have a diamond ring?..your insecurities/fear of loss, have blinded you---this guy is no doubt seeing others--you have put yourself in a very bad situation, and it appears you don t have the strength to...

Long Distance Relationships: well...., facebook, compromise
facebook, compromise, good luck: I think you should do it. Tell him you want him to call 2 times a week. If he cares, he ll do it, if he doesn t do it, then call off the wedding. Send him a message via facebook and tell him to call and to really set aside some time, because you need to...

Long Distance Relationships: because, follow ups, wasting your time
follow ups, wasting your time, ups: it s a free service for a simple question and a couple of follow-ups--most experts aren t gonna cater to daily questions on the same topic..i gave u the best answers based on the info you provided--new info, new answer--until i get bored or tired with u; ...

Long Distance Relationships: also.., ulterior motive, facebook
ulterior motive, facebook, cold shoulder: You know, I think that if he didn t care about you he wouldn t be in a relationship. He wouldn t put up with arguments like this. It is what Frank used to tell me back when we had these same arguments. Michelle if I didn t care about you I wouldn t...

Long Distance Relationships: What do I do?, precious years, 24 years
precious years, 24 years, deployments: if you take leaving off the table, there s nothing to decide, as acceptance is the only alternative; sure he s being self-centered, but is also honestly conveying where he stands, which is he s committed to living his life, prefering you wait around, but yet...

Long Distance Relationships: Dealing with a breakup, long distance relationship, dealing with a breakup
long distance relationship, dealing with a breakup, lousy situation: You have a really tough situation and it seems that you are open to getting back with her since you love her so much still. But you also feel that it might just be better for the both of you if you can move on. If you want to be back with her and she...

Long Distance Relationships: If this isn't love?, college sweetheart, poor choices
college sweetheart, poor choices, wedding ideas: i d hold upon engagement plans until there s a period of time when regular weekly dating can occur; the guy is obviously making the most of his time away from you---i wouldn t rule out anything from a list of behaviors you wouldn t like; then, drinking/pissed/retaliation...these...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR with med school bf., schd, ldr
schd, ldr, actions speak louder than words: I don t know about you, but I usually always have my instant messenger logged on, even if I m not using it. Frank does the same usually. That s usually how we leave messages for each other. I may not be there when Frank writes the message, but when I open...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Love, long distance relationship, couple days
long distance relationship, couple days, laundry: Well it depends on the reasons why you think sometimes it is not worth it. But if you really want to be in this relationship, you ll have to deal with the distance for now, as well as your parents rules. Your parents minds are probably made up on your...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance girlfriend not sure about a break, couple times, 4 months
couple times, 4 months, interval: seeing each other casually for a couple of months, followed by a long separation, isn t exactly the basis for alot of expectation, especially as she seems pretty indifferent; at this point, let it lie for a couple of weeks--when you do make contact, keep the...

Long Distance Relationships: Burned out on distance., emotional side, stupid stuff
emotional side, stupid stuff, forty minutes: this has nothing to do with distance; soon, you need to schedule a conversation with him where you state what your REQUIREMENTS are for continuing; this is the time where you inform about areas that you re not satisfied with, and he does the same; at your...

Long Distance Relationships: When do I give up?, seperate entities, one of my best friends
Long Distance Relationships: When do I give up?, seperate entities, one of my best friends, pessimist

Long Distance Relationships: When do I give up?, long distance relationship, silly girl
long distance relationship, silly girl, close contact: a couple of months together and alot of emails isn t sufficient to be considering a life changing move, not to mention his ambivalence; goin back tothis constant communication will only work to continue this dependency, when it is your freedom from this that...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR Relationship starting to make me feel depressed.., living in the uk, coming attractions
living in the uk, coming attractions, going to college: sometimes what we call love inhibits us from making good decisions--here you have a relationshp based primarily on talk, and future visions of coming attractions, with actual time spent together minimal; unless you can see, touch, observe, do things together,...

Long Distance Relationships: Getting a read..., flirtations, different city
flirtations, different city, mutual friend: hard to say--your only choices are to accept what s offered, though not to your level of satisfaction, or discuss your feelings with her; you didn t say how often you d be seeing each other, but if it s less than once a month, don t expect alot here; given...

Long Distance Relationships: unsure about long distance, long distant relationship, holiday fling
long distant relationship, holiday fling, skype: stop trying---it s up to HIM to show sufficient effort in taking the lead to keep this goin--lower expectations, as this could already be over...focus on your CURRENT life, and meeting/dating those NEARBY you can see, touch, observe, do things with.. ifs ...

Long Distance Relationships: "I want to try something else to be sure that you're the one for me", time risk, new experiences
time risk, new experiences, education job: maybe you re overestimating the worth of your oil; she s put you on the sidelines while she goes off exploring, expecting you to wait around?..you need to first accept her decision, as for her, it s a sensible one, but then inform her that there s no putting...

Long Distance Relationships: WAKE UP CALL-URGENT, long distance relationship, bad attitudes
Long Distance Relationships: WAKE UP CALL-URGENT, long distance relationship, bad attitudes, many things

Long Distance Relationships: LDR Troubles, pre cancerous cells, boyfriend lives
pre cancerous cells, boyfriend lives, eharmony: your insecurities are telling us that you have some issues to consider; first off, your snooping is really an unwarranted invasion of his privacy--not exactly the behavior that healthy relationships are based on; next, you re thinking about leaving because...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Hurts, modes of communication, serious relationship
modes of communication, serious relationship, phone cards: Noemie, Now I understand how hard this must be for you. But don t give up! He s not going to be gone forever, you know he ll be back in 4 months. I think giving up and losing him would be harder than going without him for 4 months. Since there really...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, is she cheating on me?, long distance relationship, members area
long distance relationship, members area: Hi Paul. Well you didn t give many details. How about being a member on our site and asking our other members what they think? here is the link to our Loving From A Distance members area: http://www.lovingfromadistance.webs.com We have a lot of members...

Long Distance Relationships: I'm so confused., rose colored glasses, e mail account
rose colored glasses, e mail account, four states: the deal is, guys will lie to cover up interest in other women, and when you re MILES away, that interest comes easily; though you made an effort to justify it, you were wrong to invade his privacy; so, your choices are to accept the reality that you ll never...

Long Distance Relationships: Shifting from Highschoo Relationshipl to College Relationship, faith perspective, common faith
faith perspective, common faith, serious relationship: no expert can predict what will happen--college changes EVERYTHING, so what you both think/feel NOW may not mean alot next february; you ll be going against the odds, as most high school arrangements won t survive college, no matter what the strength of the...

Long Distance Relationships: Stuck on what to do., good answer, rough time
good answer, rough time, time at home: Eric, First of all, don t let her ex girlfriend get between the two of you. Don t let her hurt your relationship. She s just jealous. Second, I would suggest setting communication times with your girlfriend. It s not spontaneous, and it might sound...

Long Distance Relationships: Study abroad quandry, long distance relationship, long distance relationships
long distance relationship, long distance relationships, obstacles to communication: you re welcome---feel free to correspond---the only thing that might possibly stop the negative thought parade is getting engrossed in the moment, accepting the non-changeable..if she s the one, she ll return, and have more of who she really is to offer--if...

Long Distance Relationships: all sizzle no steak, serious relationship, mini vacation
serious relationship, mini vacation, dating website: as you said, where there s a will there s a way--the guy, for whatever reason, isn t that interested--stop wasting all this time communicating, be less available , meet/date others, lower expectations to zero, see what happens/doesn t, either way no big deal.....

Long Distance Relationships: Transition from long distance relationship, long distance relationship, piece of music
long distance relationship, piece of music, important things: it s mainly a matter of self-esteem, refocusing on your PERSONAL goals, staying PRESENT, and taking appropriate steps to accomplish tasks without thinking so much about HIM; you might consider reading books on increasing self-esteem, or even getting into short-term...

Long Distance Relationships: WAKE UP CALL, long distance relationship, personal conversation
long distance relationship, personal conversation, time of need: no wonder he s falling asleep--6-7 hours a day??...life isn t supposed to be lived on a phone--why are you wasting precious time in an addictve, dependent, unhealthy arrangement with someone you don t even SEE?...please tell me you deserve a better life than...

Long Distance Relationships: WAKE UP CALL-URGENT, long distance relationship, bad mood
long distance relationship, bad mood, 4 months: listen--you are in a dangerously unhealthy, addictive arrangement--i doubt you ve even MET this jerk, and if so, you certainly haven t seen him much; your insecurities have led you into this FANTASY where you think this guy cares and will improve--NOT; no...

Long Distance Relationships: wake up call!, long distance relationship, disney world vacation
long distance relationship, disney world vacation, dinner reservations: you re worryin about petty details--the guy isn t serious abou meeting because he s not who he pretends to be; i ve given you the big picture, which is you have alot of smooth talk---essentially nothing tangible; the choices: face reality, move on, or waste...

Long Distance Relationships: Big questions with little detail., fiscal irresponsibility, lacking confidence
fiscal irresponsibility, lacking confidence, personality traits: Here are my thoughts on your situation. I was also wondering, though I am sure you have reason for it, can she move here without being married to you in November. Does she really have to commit by November? I assume there is reason for it being that...

Long Distance Relationships: BOYFRIENDS, long distance relationship, summer family vacations
long distance relationship, summer family vacations, facebook: Hello Well I m not exactly sure what you are asking me since you never really asked me a direct question or anything. All I can tell you is that if you think this guy is worth it then definitely wait for him. It will not be easy and until you both are 18...

Long Distance Relationships: make up after breaking up in LDR, ldr, gf
ldr, gf, last time: Hello I am not him so I am not sure if he really did stop loving you or not. It is definitely possible that he lost those feelings for you over time. People cannot really control how they feel at times, and yes it is possible that he realized that he doesn...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR is killing me emotionally!, thanx melissa, flirting with girls
Long Distance Relationships: LDR is killing me emotionally!, thanx melissa, flirting with girls, quarrels

Long Distance Relationships: LDR is killing me emotionally!, intelectually, drinking with friends
intelectually, drinking with friends, frequent communication: Hi Lana This is a very big problem. To be completely honest it sounds like you guys are losing that connection and it is possible that he may be losing interest in you. If he was really serious about you and this relationship then he would make more of an...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR and moving, long distance relationship, going to college
long distance relationship, going to college, bad idea: Hello First of all you should tell your Dad as soon as possible. Ideally it would be great if you could talk to him about it sometime around now. I think you should talk to your Dad about your options and what he thinks you should do. Honestly I think moving...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, long distance relationship, boyfriend lives
long distance relationship, boyfriend lives, old girl: Hello I cannot tell you if this will last or not. Fortunately you guys are used to some degree of distance so this might not be too bad but I cannot tell you the future. I mean it s possible the distance could kill you guys, or that you both are young and...

Long Distance Relationships: Obsessing?, emotional chemistry, physical chemistry
emotional chemistry, physical chemistry, roller coaster: addictive, dependent arrangements aren t healthy and have big problems; communicate less, refocus on YOUR life, goals, friends, activities, the PRESENT MOMENT--if a thought of him begins to disrupt that moment, reject it....the cypress and the oak grow not...

Long Distance Relationships: Relationship, relationship question, concrete plan
relationship question, concrete plan, romantic interest: your distress is understandable; in deference to him, i m assuming he was fortright/honest in telling you, and i assume you believe he has no romantic interest in her; you didn t say if he empathized with your feelings--if not, he SHOULD have; you also didn...

Long Distance Relationships: didn't see it coming, loop hole, communication issues
loop hole, communication issues, ldr: You re right, whenever someone calls for a break it usually means break-up. He doesn t sound like he wants this relationship anymore. So there isn t much you can do unless he is willing to work with you to make things in your relationship better. ...

Long Distance Relationships: she dont love mr anymore what i do, realation, familey
realation, familey, sitution: Hi Raj, I will try to look on the bright side... If you have been in a loving relationship for 2 years, and all of a sudden she doesn t love you anymore, maybe it is just a phase. Think about how your relationship has changed. What was it like 1...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship...need help :, long distance relationship, new york usa
long distance relationship, new york usa, new york university: Hi, It doesn t sound like she is at the maturity level she needs to be at to maintain a strong, committed relationship. If she is better to you from here on out, you will still have trust issues with her because of the past. You have to be willing...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship that never ends its distance, long distance relationship, fustration
long distance relationship, fustration, best route: Hello I think you ve reached that point where you have to decide if this is really worth it or not. Honestly it sounds like you are absolutely tired of this and that maybe it would be best if you decided to end this and move on, and see how things go. In...

Long Distance Relationships: just met a new girl, theatre job, theatre technicians
theatre job, theatre technicians, dead in the water: i think you should come to your senses--for anyone to consider giving up a job, moving to live with someone you ve known for a few days, is beyond foolish; if you can t conduct a long distance arrangement for the time being, this is dead in the water.....

Long Distance Relationships: Online chat, internet chat room, emotional person
internet chat room, emotional person, going on holiday: Nas, So you have two options, you can either tell her now or wait till she gets back. Either way you HAVE to tell her about your feelings. So if you tell her now, and she feels the same she may make the extra effort to contact you while she is gone...

Long Distance Relationships: Just Plain Unsure, sense of humor, boyfriends
sense of humor, boyfriends, jokes: Hello Well first of all there are things you can and can t deal with with certain people. Personally I probably couldn t ever date a guy who said things like that. Other girls can relate to that sense of humor but honestly it really is something that either...

Long Distance Relationships: About Something, random guy, random friend
random guy, random friend, myspace: Hello Honestly I m not sure why you are dealing with this situation. First of all you have never even seen this person and he s really just some random guy who friended you on myspace. Also he mislead you since he told you that you guys were dating, and...

Long Distance Relationships: should he come or should i go, college education, best of luck
college education, best of luck, bad idea: Hello From what you told me it seems like a very bad idea to go to another continent just to get married and have children. It sounds like you are not old enough to really make an informed decision. Not to mention that a vacation in Egypt would not tell...

Long Distance Relationships: advice on dealing with an unhappy girlfriend in a longdistance relationship, listner, max time
listner, max time, small gifts: There s really nothing you can do to lessen your girlfriend s schedule, unfortunately. But I m curious, you say that you talk three times a day, how long do those conversations last? If you are spending a few hours on the phone with her every day, then I suggest...

Long Distance Relationships: around and around, long distance relationship, professional musician
long distance relationship, professional musician, ldr: First of all, I m so glad to hear that things have really turned around for you two! It s good that you both acknowledge your shortcomings, and I must say, I m really impressed with your boyfriend s attitude. That s a VERY positive sign, and as long as you...

Long Distance Relationships: boyfriend moved away and i dont now if he cheating, phone internet, time of day
phone internet, time of day, amount of time: The only way to find out if he is cheating is to ask him. Tell him that you re afraid that he is because he stopped talking to you as much as he used to. If he isn t cheating, then you need to set some ground rules for communication (set a time of day...

Long Distance Relationships: Confused, local community college, first kiss
local community college, first kiss, girl friend: I can understand why you are confused. Here is a woman you care about, and while she SAYS she cares about you, she sends very mixed signals. If she were serious about liking you, she wouldn t hesitate to be your girlfriend. She wouldn t toy with your emotions...

Long Distance Relationships: college dating, high school sweethearts, tips long distance relationships
high school sweethearts, tips long distance relationships, long distance relationships: Long distance relationships CAN work, but it DOES take a great deal of work. You are both going to meet new people, and have a lot on your shoulders class-wise. You should each make out a class schedule and give it to the other person. If either/both of you...

Long Distance Relationships: Torn, mixed signals, first kiss
Long Distance Relationships: Torn, mixed signals, first kiss, beautiful woman

Long Distance Relationships: Help, long distance relationship, chess books
long distance relationship, chess books, tons of time: Hi Alain, I m sorry things did not work out with this girl, and I hope you are feeling better. I m hoping that I can provide some perspective on your situation that will help make this a little bit easier for you. It s good that you realize that you are...

Long Distance Relationships: im in a LDR & dont know what to do.., communication schedule, living in florida
communication schedule, living in florida, blue in the face: Hello Ray. First of all, I think it s great that you acknowledge that you have trust issues. Many people deny they have a problem until they are blue in the face and it is very unhealthy. I think you need to put things in perspective. You have to look...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance then Marriage, living together before marriage, hi ed
living together before marriage, hi ed, reaching the point: Hi Ed, if it s all right with you, I would like to take a stab at answering your question. I understand how difficult and intricate your situation is right now, and I know that you probably want a straight definitive answer...but I really don t think that...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship!, long distance relationship, number one girl
long distance relationship, number one girl, nice boy: ithink it s foolish to begin any relationship with someone far away you can t see regularly; you wind up in this internet based addictive arrangement, more fantasy than real; stay in touch casually if u want, but focus on meeting/dating those nearby you can...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance dilemma, long distance relationship, random night
long distance relationship, random night, weird cause: Hey there. Your ex is going through a lot right now with her family. She doesn t love you any less just because she wants a break. She just doesn t want the pressure of having to make a long distance relationship work while her father is so ill. I don t blame...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, ending a marriage
long distance relationship, ending a marriage, texting: I am sorry you have experienced so much pain and agony. Unfortunately, this gentleman has made it clear to you that he is angry, confused, and not interested with dating you at this time. I know it will be hard, but if you really love him, then you should...

Long Distance Relationships: Saying Goodbye, long distance relationship, intense longing
long distance relationship, intense longing, thumb war: It s okay to feel sad after a visit. It s completely normal. If you keep a journal, write about how you feel. Don t be so hard on yourself, the pain will decrease in a week or so. Think about writing a letter to your guy, talk to him about how hard it is to...

Long Distance Relationships: Torn, local community college, first kiss
local community college, first kiss, girl friend: she s shaky, confused, you haven t even really dated, and she s leaving for college, a new life, and hundreds of new guys....not the basket u wanna put your eggs in...suggest a casual friendship, lower expectations, refocus on meeting/dating others...do whatever...

Long Distance Relationships: tough stuff, one of the girls, tough stuff
one of the girls, tough stuff, punching bag: Unfortunately, your relationship is not a healthy one. YOU are extremely dependent on this guy for all the wrong reasons. He s cheated on you in the past, you know he s talking to women on the Internet, he THREATENS to leave you. These are all signs of a bully....

Long Distance Relationships: Getting used to, long distance relationship, intense longing
long distance relationship, intense longing, stable person: 2015??...that s 6 years of your life...well, since you wrote for an objective view, here it is; the current set up is problematic at best-- a few great days, followed by months of sadness, aloneness, pain; if you knew each other with years of real dating,...

Long Distance Relationships: should i wait?, club sports team, e mail
club sports team, e mail, actions speak louder than words: Please realize that you are still VERY young. It was wrong of your ex to tell you (through another party no less) to wait for him, to hold onto him, not to forget about him... If he truly loved you, he would want you to LIVE your life and BE HAPPY (even...

Long Distance Relationships: What to do?, reaffirmation, 7 months
reaffirmation, 7 months, affirmation: If I were you, I would back off or else you are going to push him away. The way things are now, he is going to resent you - eg. missing out on a free trip to Jamaica because of you obviously doesn t put you on his good side. So just relax. You don t want...

Long Distance Relationships: Confused, long distance relationship, seduction
long distance relationship, seduction, attraction: Michael, What you re conveying right now is that you NEED her. Regardless of how you feel, if you let a woman know you NEED her, she sees you as NEEDY. When a woman sees you as NEEDY she loses interest in you. If you re really interested in having her...

Long Distance Relationships: I have cheated on my wife, health and wellbeing, slap in the face
health and wellbeing, slap in the face, many different ways: living in different parts of the world is no way to conduct a marriage; the cheating, etc is obviously an outgrowth of this; if there is no CONCRETE plan to be together in the next 6 months, i d say you d both be far happier divorced, where you d both be free...

Long Distance Relationships: Son's LDR worrying me, poor kid, summer camp
Long Distance Relationships: Son's LDR worrying me, poor kid, summer camp, relationship

Long Distance Relationships: follow up, many things, girlfriend
many things, girlfriend, friendship: If she didn t tell you that she is seeing someone else, then how do you know that she is? You are living very far away from her, so you couldn t have seen her with someone else... so how do you know for sure she is seeing another man? Do you believe she is...

Long Distance Relationships: follow up, sitution, reson
sitution, reson, good boy: There are three possible solutions: 1. You move to her city and live there 2. She moves to your city and lives with you there 3. You both move to another city The fact is, a marriage cannot work unless you know where you are BOTH going to live....

Long Distance Relationships: girlfriend went away to college, cute smile, college changes
cute smile, college changes, momment: happens all the time--college changes everything; all you can do is respect her decision, and resist all suggestion of friendship until some future time after you ve become totally neutral toward her..your only chance would be if down the line she had a change...

Long Distance Relationships: Help!, first kiss, feeling the same way
first kiss, feeling the same way, phone call: michael, you ve become the first love fanatic...you re right, college many times changes everything, and she could easily meet someone; but in life, change is not avoidable; you can t capture a moment and put it in your pocket for all time; people are like...

Long Distance Relationships: Help, long distance relationship, l word
long distance relationship, l word, 3 words: Your guy wants to take things slow, rebuild your relationship and keep everything low key. There s nothing wrong with that. Don t listen to your friends, and start working on your communication skills with your guy. It sounds like the two of you have a lot...

Long Distance Relationships: LONG distance, a planet away, going to london, korean woman
going to london, korean woman, living hell: at 23, you make your own decisions, and ask others who care about you to support them, even if they don t agree, because they care; ask her to do the same--if she can t, make the topic off limits , and do not engage in responding to such conversation, rather...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Boyfriend, Wandering Eye, things to talk about on the phone, social creatures
things to talk about on the phone, social creatures, best thing in my life: Whether you are single, in a relationship, or married, it doesn t matter: you are ALWAYS going to find other people attractive. You re human, we are social creatures and it s natural to notice the people around us. I bet your guy has had his eye wandering...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance-Cheating GF, long distance relationship, month and a half
long distance relationship, month and a half, good job: Hello Mark, I m going to try and help you through this. I know that whatever you ultimately decide to do, it will be difficult. I wish I had a solid clear cut answer for you, but unfortunately there are just too many factors to consider and in the end YOU...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance help, seduction, attraction
seduction, attraction, long distance: Kiwi, There are two questions you need to ask yourself: 1. Is this the kind of relationship I want? 2. Is this the kind of life I want? If the answer to both questions is yes, then relax -- you re living the dream. If you find either unsatisfying...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship with boyfriend that won't drive, long distance relationship, time out
long distance relationship, time out, frustration: Hi Krista, I can understand your frustration and I completely sympathize. Like your guy, I too do not enjoy driving. UNLIKE your guy, I don t let that get in the way of my relationship. My guy recently visited me for a week (he lives on the other side of the...

Long Distance Relationships: maintaining rship, long distance relationship, new friendship
long distance relationship, new friendship, hope and faith: c mon, the guy is like a kid in the candy store--you re a thousand miles away...there s no way he s being faithful --lower expectations, communicate less, reocus on YOUR life, meeting/dating those NEARBY, see what happens with this, if anything, down he road....

Long Distance Relationships: Son's LDR worrying me, teen dance clubs, loving parent
teen dance clubs, loving parent, computer car: teen crushes are understandable, but until he s 18, and while he s still living with you, you make the rules..if he s lied, he should be punished, and it should be made clear what the rules are, and the consequences if they are broken..certainly the computer/car,...

Long Distance Relationships: Taken for granted., conflicting emotions, becuse
conflicting emotions, becuse, jess: When you see him next Thursday, don t look at it as your last chance to say goodbye to him in person. Look at it instead as a great opportunity to hang out with him and have fun. Don t dwell on saying goodbye. Relish saying, hello and be in the moment...

Long Distance Relationships: urgent need help, seduction, attraction
seduction, attraction, ex: Raj, Thank you for coming to me for guidance and help. Many people in situations similar to yours make a common mistake -- they make one specific woman their obsession, and they feel like no other woman could possibly make them feel as passionate and as...

Long Distance Relationships: urgent need help, 4 months
4 months: Hello Raj, the first thing I want you to do is take a deep breath. You are very excited and upset over this, and I understand why. That said, you need to get a hold of yourself and relax a bit or you are going to drive both you and this girl insane. If you...

Long Distance Relationships: What should I do?, long distance relationship, new friendship
long distance relationship, new friendship, hope and faith: I will do my best to help you navigate your way through this problem, but it s going to take a while, and I have to warn you- you may not like everything I have to say. That said, I want to assure you that this is NOT the end of the world, and I can tell that...

Long Distance Relationships: What should i do?, new zealan, tourguide
new zealan, tourguide, simcard: sadly, you have allowed yourself to become utterly addicted to a fantasy, becoming emotionally hypotized by a guy who has shown NO true caring, and who no doubt sees 1 or more other women; you ve wasted FAR too much time on SKYPE, and all other word based...

Long Distance Relationships: what can i do?, 6th grade crush, adult interaction
6th grade crush, adult interaction, adorable man: considering you have zero dating experience with this guy, all talk of future is WAY premature; you don t just sign up to wait years without some in person, ongoing adult interaction with this guy; i can understand keeping in touch, but would advise against...

Long Distance Relationships: What to do, first kiss, feeling the same way
first kiss, feeling the same way, phone call: Most people don t like to admit when they have made a mistake, but that shouldn t stop you. Things have been rocky between you and this girl, the first thing you need to do is apologize, and then repair your friendship with her. Stay in touch with her, make...

Long Distance Relationships: He is too busy for me, exchange student, medical schools
exchange student, medical schools, 5 mins: with no real future plan, you re wasting precious time staying in this; with distance, not seeing each other, minimal communication, even the most positive feelings turn to resentment, doubt; feelings alone, without real interaction where you actually DO things...

Long Distance Relationships: college, college changes, going to college
college changes, going to college, time of your life: next year is a long time away...no need to panic, or choose to hurt now to avoid possible hurt later; the fact is, yes, big chance that college changes EVERYTHING, especially feelings...most times, it s SUPPOSED to, cause it forces you to revaluate what your...

Long Distance Relationships: college and i dont no, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, boyfriend lives: I would go with your gut feeling on this. If you know he isn t the right guy for you, and you know things with him won t last, there is no point to lead him on and stay in this relationship. Long distance relationships are for those who are in love...

Long Distance Relationships: Having Doubt with my boyfriend, mail, bf
mail, bf, doubt: not sure this arrangement, based upon months apart hotel rendevous, meets the definition of together , no matter how he looks at you...thusly, you haven t had any real dating experience with him, where you see each other regularly, see how he acts in various...

Long Distance Relationships: distance dilemma, christmas things, freshman year
christmas things, freshman year, facebook: Who says it is too late? He s still single right? From the sounds of it, you two pretty much already have a long distance relationship. It just hasn t been made official with the terms boyfriend/girlfriend. From the way things sound, I think he d...

Long Distance Relationships: Girlfriend wants a break, long distance relationship, woman of my dreams
long distance relationship, woman of my dreams, magic answer: at your ages, and with this distance/not seeing each other much, things like this are to be expected; people get involved in PRESENT MOMENT lives, and are open to interaction with those there at that moment with them; some, perhaps like you, aren t inclined...

Long Distance Relationships: Insecure in long distance relationship, long distance relationship, long term relationship
long distance relationship, long term relationship, work positions: when in doubt, don t continue forward; obviously you have mixed feelings, and it wouldn t be fair to anyone to make life changing decisions based upon high risk confusion; thusly, decisions as to where people live should not have anything to do with this shaky...

Long Distance Relationships: is he insecure?, long distance relationship, uni london
long distance relationship, uni london, scorpio: your choices--waste more time with this insensitive, self-centered jerk (including the giving up of most everything--a concept only the MOST insecure/needy of humans would even CONSIDER), then pay for 2 years of counseling after he dumps you or it just falls...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, open relationship
long distance relationship, open relationship, hearing things: Hey, hey now... don t beat yourself up over this. It was a mistake, and you don t even remember it happening. I m not saying what happened was okay, it wasn t, but I think you can vow to have it not happen again. Watch how much you drink and don t let yourself...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship., long distance relationship, ups and downs
long distance relationship, ups and downs, time line: Well really, the most you can do is wait for her. I realize how tough this is and you were hoping there was another way to get the answer you want from her, but really all you can do is wait. Like you were saying, try not to get your hopes up. This...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, wasting precious time
long distance relationship, wasting precious time, new years eve: you re not unfair, just misguided; essentially you have little more than a fantasy, with a guy you almost never see, who lives his own life, and with no future plan that says things will ever be any better; the only thing to wait for is your waking up to reality,...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, relationship question
long distance relationship, relationship question, better education: It depends on what you think will hurt more: 1. Ending things now and always wondering what could have been? 2. Ending things after trying. Hey at least you have given it a shot and didn t throw it all away. Right? I think it would be a shame...

Long Distance Relationships: long-distance relationship, long distance relationship, gut instinct
long distance relationship, gut instinct, old habits: I d listen to your gut instinct on this one. Maybe you re getting that vibe for a reason. Every relationship should have a foundation of trust. Let your boyfriend know that he can tell you anything; good or bad. Maybe he did do something with this...

Long Distance Relationships: Is this real or is it just fantasy, long distance relationship, interpersonal interaction
long distance relationship, interpersonal interaction, casual friendship: all of the above are possible, and neither of us knows the future; sure,your feelings are real , but they re certainly not a barometer of future events, a basis for good decision-making, or perhaps not even healthy; the reality is you re getting emotionally...

Long Distance Relationships: Travel to UK and SA, nice ladies, politeness
nice ladies, politeness, immaturity: my ratings speak for themselves--as far as barring their most productive volunteer in the genre, based on YOUR say, will ever happen...as stated, i have a right to comment in any way i see fit..you asked for decent/nicer forums, i gave them..it s not my...

Long Distance Relationships: How to tell Parents?, protective parents, 4 months
protective parents, 4 months, hard time: Well first, if you have siblings tell them first and see what their reaction is. They will more than likely be more open-minded than your parents. That is what I did before I broke it to my parents that I was in a long distance relationship with Frank. ...

Long Distance Relationships: trust, long distance relationship, natural instinct
long distance relationship, natural instinct, afraid of commitment: so i what exactly is the trust issue you have that isn t based on your own insecurity?..if he slept with someone when he wasn t dating you, that s not your concern; the MAIN reason you actually SHOULDN T trust him is because he s a young guy, apart from you,...

Long Distance Relationships: Whats going on?, slow fade, everafter
slow fade, everafter, fade to black: guess you didn t hear a word i said--as to friends working things out , depends on your definition--unless your them, you really don t know the deal, how healthy it is, how long it lasts; i m telling you under these circumstances, the odds aren t in your...

Long Distance Relationships: Depression in Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, social networking site
long distance relationship, social networking site, flight distance: you re wasting your time her in an addictive, unhealthy relationship that makes you more happy than sad, with someone you don t see, with no concrete fuure plan; your choices are to come to your senses, end this nonsense, focus on YOUR life, dating others...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance with my first love, intelligent girl, emotional involvement
intelligent girl, emotional involvement, type of girl: my sympathies...i know it seems like the end of the world right now, but it isn t; ironically, your best chance of rekindling with her is through letting her go for now; that means, cease all contact; your only chance is that this step will ultimately lead...

Long Distance Relationships: is it possible?, new friendship, little gifts
new friendship, little gifts, wits end: alot of precious time being lost if 4 months/year is the only time you actually DO things together; not to mention, many relationships have fallen when somebody meets/see someone who s RIGHT THERE...unless there is a concrete plan to be together in the next...

Long Distance Relationships: Rough Patch, sexual connection, rough patch
sexual connection, rough patch, life environment: let go a bit, don t force it..that is, accept the lapses in communication, don t always expect how it WAS..people learn/grow, not in each other s shadow; sometimes we need to focus on our PRESENT life/environment--hopefully you can respect these changes while...

Long Distance Relationships: He wants a break, ldr, asses
ldr, asses, monday night: problem 1--you re the more needy/dependent of the 2--not where you want to be...problem 2..problem 1 leads you to make excuses for his inconsiderate, lame behavior--NO excuse for the stuff he said, unless he means it, which means it s over; problem 3...you...

Long Distance Relationships: College Freshman, college freshman, reassurance
college freshman, reassurance, texting: i agree that such insecurities lead to co-dependent arrangements as this, and aren t very healthy; but i doubt talking to her will help, and you may lose a friend, as she will more than likely get very defensive, tell you it s not your business; usually her...

Long Distance Relationships: Distance, slipping through my fingers, college changes
slipping through my fingers, college changes, open relationship: your original info was a tad misleading--if she s calling/saying those things, there s not alot to question as to her effort--as i inferred, it probably has more to do with your insecurities; look, these college/distance things are hard; you re arguing over...

Long Distance Relationships: help!, letters and packages, military academy
letters and packages, military academy, ldr: It is totally normal! Considering he s at a military academy, which is very stressful, I think it might not be so much a lack of feelings for you that makes him not want to send you letters or packages, but rather just being busy and having that military...

Long Distance Relationships: when long distance relation gets bored, adam and eve, eart
adam and eve, eart, ex boyfriends: One thing you have to keep in mind is that LDR must resolve into relationship in which you and your gf are actually physically together most of the time! even strongest feelings are likely to fade away if your relationship doesn t have a future of becoming...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, cant sleep: Christine, First of all, it s great that your heart s open and I am sure that very soon He will get back with you, if you two are meant to have something valuable together! the thing with the long distance relationships is that you only see a very little...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, ldr
long distance relationship, ldr, good luck: Kelly, It deepends on how much commitment there is on both sides!!! Unlike normal relationship LDR lacks frequent physical contact and therefore it s harder to keep it alive! But if it s something you want to pursue, don t hesitate a second! there are wonderful...

Long Distance Relationships: Unresolved Issues, mid 20s, ldr
mid 20s, ldr, unresolved issues: i m not sure what his real issue is=-=-7 months isn t very long, especially if you re seeing each other one or 2 weekends a month; i doubt he needs consoling , and hope should already be there; also, you ve only been dating 4 months--spaces in togetherness...

Long Distance Relationships: Girlfriend spends every night with her ex husband, great girl, evenings
great girl, evenings, sacrifice: her behavior is ridiculous, inconsiderate and unacceptable; the ex shouldn t be spending time there under ANY circumstances, and i doubt this is just about the children; kids do just fine in normal divorce visitation arrangements; but it appears you re in...

Long Distance Relationships: Should i give him more time?, full time job, time question
full time job, time question, business work: so, 4 years have gone by, you ve hardly seen him, and you waste 4-6 hours daily on this, while sending him money, and not really knowing what else he s doing, and with no CONCRETE future plan or timetable; isn t it time to awaken from this fantasy before more...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Love, age gap, clinical depression
age gap, clinical depression, relapses: not sure what your question is, but there s no magic answer; you appear to be on the right track, in that you understand the need to let her go; you have to somehow refocus on YOUR life, and see how the rest plays out; in the meantime, confine your dating...

Long Distance Relationships: Love found online from a distance, how to tell my parents!, social networking sites, boyfriend and girlfriend
social networking sites, boyfriend and girlfriend, traditional thinkers: this is nothing more than a fantasy--unless you can see each other regularly, do things together, you have no real relationship, just an emotional co-dependency; you actually know very little about him, only what he tells you; my advice would be to stop wasting...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship & possible commitment issues??, long distance relationship, eternal optimist
long distance relationship, eternal optimist, commitment issues: ok, ignore my other response--i see you broke it down into 2 questions; since it s only been 3 months, and it appears you ve only seen him a very few times, it s too early to be expecting more than what he s given you; the discussion themes you mentioned...

Long Distance Relationships: ill parent, long distance relationship, asthma attack
long distance relationship, asthma attack, ill parent: I think if you want to be there for him, you should be there. Because no matter what he says, he needs you. My mom died this last September unexpectedly after a very severe asthma attack, and Frank took off a week from work to be with me the 2 days she...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, emotional feelings
long distance relationship, emotional feelings, having dreams: ironically, the best thing to do is not be afraid to let go ; you didn t say how often you see each other, but i doubt it s alot; unfortunately, falling in love in high school is by definition high school love --in 20 years you ll recognize it as such...the...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance confusion, money situation, serious relationship
money situation, serious relationship, different day: sounds to me like this is essentially all over but the shouting; 4 months isn t very long, and during that time you ve observed him in different situations, learned about his personality; unfortunately, not much of what you ve seen is good, as he appears insecure,...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance break up - is it possible to get him back?, couple of days, graduate school
couple of days, graduate school, long distance: that s too bad...when the needier party chases a dream, it can really drain self-esteem; your info reveals a guy trying to move away from the involvement, not get closer...ironically, your best chance with him would be to do just the opposite--that is, show...

Long Distance Relationships: lovebirds at different colleges, now a fight about the past, fellow peers, univerisities
fellow peers, univerisities, lovebirds: Hi Kim, I don t think you should wait to apologize. Do that as soon as possible, and if he won t talk to you then send it in an email. You said it perfectly, how things that happened in his past are the reason why he s with you. If he had stayed with...

Long Distance Relationships: Should I move to be with him?, half years, proximity
half years, proximity, 3 years: big city hustle/job opps, all have little to do with good decision-making; the main deal is making the commitment to go from occasional wknd visits to living together; as you may know, co-habitation has been problematic for even the most enthralled of star-crossed...

Long Distance Relationships: Torn, grad school, 4 months
grad school, 4 months, medical school: Hello Jen, You don t have to wait for things to blow up (which I assume is cheating) to make a decision. I think now is the time to make the decision before anything happens that would hurt your boyfriend; he wouldn t deserve that. You re right, this...

Long Distance Relationships: I think my boyfriend only likes long distance, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, wasting precious time: the more important question is why you re wasting precious time in an arrangement where you hardly see him?...relationships are meant to be LIVED with frequent interaction, touch, doings thing together, sharing life; break this dependency and use the time...

Long Distance Relationships: bf moving, best bet, job offer
best bet, job offer, good luck: Hi there, If this is serious then I can understand why you both feel it is best to move to be together. In my opinion he shouldn t have to support you while you look for a job. You said yourself that you guys have been dating for a little over a year....

Long Distance Relationships: my boyfriend is travelling for two years, continent europe, open arrangement
continent europe, open arrangement, seld: there s no way at 21 and roaming around europe, that he s gonna remain exclusive; it s something you pretty much have to accept; regardless of future plans, 2 years is a LONG TIME; i d definitely suggest a more open arrangement where each of you is free to...

Long Distance Relationships: Confused, nice ring, planning a wedding
nice ring, planning a wedding, unloved: I think your reasons for not wanting to get engaged right now are valid. You want to wait to give her the ring you believe she deserves. I don t think she can argue with that one! And another thing, you re both still in college, adding an engagement in...

Long Distance Relationships: i cant help it that i love her so much, negative feelings, ldr
negative feelings, ldr, doing the right thing: Hi I told you this is my last reply, but I really think you need to gradually lose contact with her and live your own life. Of course you can t help that you love someone but you can certainly help what you do about it. All I can tell you is to start moving...

Long Distance Relationships: I DONT KNOW IF HE STILL LOVES ME?, monthes, likelihood
monthes, likelihood, relationship: Hello I agree with you. Something is definitely wrong here. I m not sure if he s lost faith in the relationship or met someone else, but I definitely can tell that something is very off about this situation. I can t tell you if he is lying or not, but I...

Long Distance Relationships: long-dist..can i get him back?, exact situation
Long Distance Relationships: long-dist..can i get him back?, exact situation

Long Distance Relationships: HELP !!, guy friends, ldr
guy friends, ldr, time of my life: this is what you d be signing up for; he s essentially told you not to expect anything more; to put all your eggs, emotions, into this basket, would be mistake; the only way this works is if you can view it as he does--that means if/when you meet up, fine,...

Long Distance Relationships: Is He Interested When Far Away?, long distance relationship, phone person
long distance relationship, phone person, winter vacation: you have all the dots, now it s just a matter of connecting them; as you pretty much realize, you are a convenient prop within his at home time--once gone, he s back into his present life; if he truly cared about wanting more, you d have known by now; thusly,...

Long Distance Relationships: insecurities, long distance relationship, confidence issue
long distance relationship, confidence issue, low self esteem: Hello This is clearly a self confidence issue on your part that you really need to try and resolve. There are a few things I can recommend. 1. Make sure your boyfriend understands that you are overreacting. This will make things go way easier when you...

Long Distance Relationships: no known end date to long distance, time limit, medical condition
time limit, medical condition, next level: Hi there Well this is a question that I really can t give you a specific answer to. It all really depends on how you feel. Do you love this guy to really marry him? If you really love this guy then you will wait for him. It s as simple as that. I understand...

Long Distance Relationships: Long-distance girlfriend cheating, 7 months, different places
7 months, different places, personal life: Hello I agree with you as well. From what you told me it sounds like this girl has a very emotional attachment to this guy otherwise she would not have felt the need to continually lie and make up stories about the situation. It sounds like her feelings...

Long Distance Relationships: long-dist..can i get him back?, 9 months, 7 months
9 months, 7 months, bf: Hello I think anything is possible but I am not a psychic and cannot tell you what will happen in the future. I completely understand why he got a bit fed up with the situation and I understand myself that dealing with work, studies and a relationship can...

Long Distance Relationships: Mixed feelings, mixed feelings, keep your distance
mixed feelings, keep your distance, decent guy: Hello I agree with you. I think that you do want to have that companionship your boyfriend can t give you, and here comes a decent guy who you might be attracted to, and honestly I think it s normal. It doesn t even sound like you really like him, but you...

Long Distance Relationships: Mixed feelings, webcam conversations, mixed feelings
webcam conversations, mixed feelings, healthy relationships: neither of these guys may be the answer; 1st, i don t believe that healthy relationships are conducted primarily thru a webcam, and 2 visits/year; real relationships need alot of time where you actually DO THINGS TOGETHER; so, this arrangement should, if...

Long Distance Relationships: New LDR, first meeting, good times
first meeting, good times, total flop: Hi, No it doesn t make you look needy or clingy at all. If it did, then why would you want him to do the same thing to you? Does he seem needy and clingy whenever he talks to you? If you can say no to that question then you can assume that he interprets...

Long Distance Relationships: A traveling boyfriend, full time job, talented artist
full time job, talented artist, phone conversation: most of it is what you signed up for.. he s a typical musician, and when on the road, the focus is on the PRESENT; could he be more considerate, sure, but other than discussing your feelings with him, not alot you can do, other than file it in your memory...

Long Distance Relationships: WAKE UP CALL, long distance relationship, future plans
long distance relationship, future plans, wake up call: as i suspected---you ve gotten yourself caught up in a fantasy; the girl s mom did the right thing--look, u can t talk to her, she s with another guy, you re a thousand miles away, haven t even MET, no chance of meeting...is this how u want to live your life,...

Long Distance Relationships: she wants everything the same but without the "relationship title", good chance, four months
good chance, four months, taking the time: Hello Honestly the reason this is the same is probably because it s been long distance the entire time. I m sure if you guys saw each other all the time, and then suddenly broke up and had top stop then things would be dramatically different but considering...

Long Distance Relationships: how do i do this??, mind reader, myra
mind reader, myra, melissa: hi there To be honest I have no idea why he has suddenly stopped talking to you. There just aren t that many details to be able to give you a solid answer and I am not a mind reader. Here is my advice. You need to ask him what is going on. It sounds like...

Long Distance Relationships: :/, long distance relationship, future plans
long distance relationship, future plans, online multiplayer game: Hi there to be honest with you there is not much you can do on your end. I will be completely honest with you. It sounds like she is ignoring you and basically is being selfish. I think she wants you and this guy. She wants this guy because she wants to...

Long Distance Relationships: I cheated on my boyfriend with my husband, room mate, mixed feelings
room mate, mixed feelings, sexual interest: Hi there, I understand how devastating this situation must be for you and how heart breaking it is. I think your boyfriend does still care about you, but as you said he needs time to just think things through and sort of mull things over. Keep in mind...

Long Distance Relationships: Doubts, long distance relationship, concrete plan
long distance relationship, concrete plan, back of my mind: just because he might go back doesn t mean he doesn t love you; we could choose to worry about ALL the possibilities, or not; LD or not, never any guarantees; i d be more concerned about requiring a concrete plan for being together within the next 12 months,...

Long Distance Relationships: I don't want it to be over..., relationship issues, emotional person
relationship issues, emotional person, enlightment: people that are interested in continuing a relationship don t move to get out of it; whatever feeling this guy had for you has disappeared; getting back doesn t work--he has to WANT you--unless/untl he realizes he can t live without you, it s time to accept...

Long Distance Relationships: I cheated on my boyfriend with my husband, piece of mind
Long Distance Relationships: I cheated on my boyfriend with my husband, piece of mind

Long Distance Relationships: help, long distant relationship, long distance relationships
long distant relationship, long distance relationships, myspace: Hi Corey I think the options you provided are not good. For example you shouldn t leave her right now. So far you have no REAL evidence that she has done anything and considering that she is your fiancee and a woman you plan on marrying, then you shouldn...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance break-ups, break ups, best of friends
break ups, best of friends, ldr: Hi there, I am sorry to hear how things turned out but it sounds like you guys made a good decision honestly. There were many obstacles in the way and I think it s good to just take a step back and sort of approach a friendship right now. Hmm... to make...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship and moving, long distance relationship, friends family
long distance relationship, friends family, familiarity: neither--i don t believe people this young should be in a rush to live together, ESPECIALLY giving up friends/family to do so; sharing space usually only makes everything harder, and it s quite common to lose the magic due to familiarity; i d rethink your...

Long Distance Relationships: Passing, ldr, travel arrangements
ldr, travel arrangements, 3 years: Hi there, I think it would be appropriate if you go but if you are absolutely sure that if you attend that he wouldn t spend time with his family then it would probably best if you don t go. Can you still go, but maybe come after the funeral and all that....

Long Distance Relationships: now what?, freshman year, college experience
freshman year, college experience, seven hours: sounds like you ve HAD a relationship for awhile--not sure about the exclusive part; you re right, time and distance can make the strongest of feelings crumble, especially when someone else might be right there; i d keep it as is, and even allow for dating...

Long Distance Relationships: confused about the feelings my fiance have for me, wasting precious time, fiance
wasting precious time, fiance, free time: you re wasting precious time in a fantasy that is going nowhere; unless you can see, touch, observe, do things regularly with someone, all you have is an addictive, unhealthy dependency, a happily everafter dream that almost never gets to reality; you ve...

Long Distance Relationships: i dont know what to say!, mom dad, first communication
mom dad, first communication, ldr: you don t have alot of good choices--perhaps you could explain your dilemma to rose s mom, in the hope she ll keep quiet; but even then, you won t be able to hide this forever...she ll find out eventually--then your only choice would be to see her secretly,...

Long Distance Relationships: i dont know what to say!, ldr, eachother
Long Distance Relationships: i dont know what to say!, ldr, eachother, 4 months

Long Distance Relationships: Please read this, long distance relationship, things to talk about with your girlfriend
Long Distance Relationships: Please read this, long distance relationship, things to talk about with your girlfriend, couple states

Long Distance Relationships: Help!!, blow up doll, sexual frustration
blow up doll, sexual frustration, magical answer: you guess ?..so basically there s no plan in place that allows you to see each other regularly, like weekly or more...under these conditions, there s no magical answer--if seeing others is out, and masturbation isn t the answer, you re lookin at the blow...

Long Distance Relationships: Help please. LDR close to ending., t text, nine months
t text, nine months, next morning: Visits are crucial in a long distance relationship. If a couple has the ability to visit each other financially and have the free time to do so, then they should. Nothing should hold them back if they have the means. Visits keep a couple strong; they remind...

Long Distance Relationships: keeping a long distance relationship, long distance relationship, sexual exchange
long distance relationship, sexual exchange, different religions: this arrangemnent can hardly be defined as a relationship; with no sex, differing values, and barely seeing each other, you have a friendship, at most; no doubt he s dating, and so should you; as to your questions, no point playing the feelings card, unless/until...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR help!, long distance relationship, main squeeze
long distance relationship, main squeeze, lip service: i m not there, nor do i know him--your friends may be right; his statement as to his career/future sounds pretty vague; as to talking online to girls, most guys involved aren t motivated to do that just for talk.. ..at this point, september is a long time...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR about to move to her, she cheated, right decision, best of luck
right decision, best of luck, negative impact: Hello Tim, I admire the way you are handling this. A lot of people would not be able to forgive their partner for cheating. I think all you can do is tell her that you still love her, and still want to be with her. She undoubtedly feels guilty and...

Long Distance Relationships: Lots a baggage, best of luck, 22 years
best of luck, 22 years, outsider: That is a lot of baggage, and it takes a very understanding person, who is your age, to be in a relationship with someone that has kids. If you feel that you aren t getting enough attention to keep your LDR thriving, and you know your boyfriend can put...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance early into a relationship, blah blah, wednesday nights
blah blah, wednesday nights, couple weeks: no guarantees, so no way to know if he s sincere until you re able to regularly date and you can observe his behavior, not just hear words; as for trust issues, very difficult to eliminate--you might need counseling..trust certainly not gonna come when apart,...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, 5 months: only SHE knows..could be either..hardly seeing each other, you have more a fantasy than a real relationship; at your ages, you should BOTH be free to experience life and other people without feeling guilty or like you re breaking some rule; agree not to talk...

Long Distance Relationships: Please read this, bad moods, infrequent visitor
bad moods, infrequent visitor, red flag: both TOO YOUNG, you ve hardly seen each other, and soon you ll be far away; no wonder there s nothing to talk about; sometimes love doesn t help--she s 17, a kid..she needs to be free/independent, not caught up in a heavy, emotionally draining arrangement...

Long Distance Relationships: Turning point, college sweethearts, faithful relationship
college sweethearts, faithful relationship, open arrangement: i personally wouldn t wait another day, let alone YEARS...you ve been with essentially 1 guy your whole adult life, and alot of it apart while committed; rather than build more resentment, frustration, isolation, and dispassion, it appears the right time to...

Long Distance Relationships: vacation, mountain lions, self conscious
mountain lions, self conscious, houseguest: nothing ventured, nothing gained...they re just people, not mountain lions..plus, seeing how he acts in different situations like this one, will provide you with with valueable information as to who he really is...as for you, all you can do is be who you are,...

Long Distance Relationships: WAKE UP CALL, long distance relationship, how to keep a long distance relationship
long distance relationship, how to keep a long distance relationship, waiting on a dream: busy is a lame excuse--interested people MAKE time to call; but your last sentence says it all; the whole thing is not exactly real , and that s even if he called every day; healthy relationships are based on seeing, touching, observing people in different...

Long Distance Relationships: Which way do i go with this , or do i call it a day, happy mothers day, mid jan
happy mothers day, mid jan, traumatic time: there s not alot to do--she s asked for time/space, so u need to respect the request, at least for a short time; certainly, always better to discuss in person, but only if she AGREES to it; so, at this point, lower expectations, see what she has to say by...

Long Distance Relationships: Cheating in a Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, two different places
long distance relationship, two different places, wrong number: of course there s something goin on, but why would you be so surprised?..he s a guy, and with all the spaces in your togetherness, it s almost a foregone conclusion, not to mention his lame coverup attempt; but you were also wrong to invade his privacy; unless...

Long Distance Relationships: Confused, girl of my dreams, kind of game
girl of my dreams, kind of game, coffee house: you re too eager, trying too hard---she could easily percieve you as needy, get turned off; stop calling every day--wait 3-4 days, call, leave a message asking her to call back...don t call again, wait until she returns your call, not matter how long... stay...

Long Distance Relationships: confused, long distance relationship, when the last time
long distance relationship, when the last time, feelings: if you ve already discussed with him your feelings as mentioned in this letter, and that s his attitude, then stop paying for everything else.. .if he comments, remind him that you can no longer afford anything more, making it then HIS choice to accept the...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR, lack of empathy, one don
Long Distance Relationships: LDR, lack of empathy, one don, long distance

Long Distance Relationships: LDR, long distance relationship, holding hands
long distance relationship, holding hands, sixteen years: at 16, you shouldn t be in ANY heavy relationship, ESPECIALLY a long distance deal where you basically don t even SEE each other--unless u can actually do in person things together, you have an unhealthy addiction/fantasy, internet dependency; this isn t...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship Question, long distance relationship, relationship question
long distance relationship, relationship question, college breaks: well, you can hurt now or hurt later, as this girl doesn t have the feelings for you that you do for her; you can lose all self-esteem and keep hangin on for something to change (it won t), or face the reality that she s not that into you, stop wasting time,...

Long Distance Relationships: Should this long distance relationship continue?, long distance relationship, open arrangement
long distance relationship, open arrangement, concrete plan: seeing each other every few months isn t gonna cut it; unless you have a CONCRETE plan for being together within the next 3/4 months; if not, if it s not him, it ll be someone else, and you should at least suggest an open arrangement where each of u can...

Long Distance Relationships: Other guy..., hugs and kisses, sexual relationships
hugs and kisses, sexual relationships, money issues: iknow it s hard, but resist the temptation to do desperate stuff; she could easily resent your neediness which could bring her closer to the other guy; the reality is, she feels as she feels, and the person who s THERE usually as the advantage; only SHE can...

Long Distance Relationships: How can potential "Happy ever after" grown with a long distance open relationship?, high school sweetheart, open relationship
high school sweetheart, open relationship, life goals: go with the stated behavior, not the promises of future attractions; the guy has honestly told you where he s at re dating; for you to sit around and not meet/date others under this arrangement, is foolish; regardless of the smooth talk, the guy is STILL LOOKING,...

Long Distance Relationships: Can we be together?, staying friends, cumulation
staying friends, cumulation, meeting friends: long distance for that long is tough..it becomes more an addictive fantasy/dependency than a real relationship, where you see, touch, observe, DO THINGS TOGETHER; more texts/emails won t help; neither will some pseudo friendship, which is really more a way...

Long Distance Relationships: Is there any hope still for us??, ginseng roots, marriage issue
ginseng roots, marriage issue, mum and dad: you re wasting precious time chasing a fantasy; you can t conduct a real relationship over a computer, and this guy has shown no real interest in having a relationship with you; end this addiction before you lose even more time, focus on meeting/dating those...

Long Distance Relationships: University and long distant relationships, long distant relationships, music course
long distant relationships, music course, current boyfriend: 2 hrs isn t all that bad; you have to make such decisions with on-third heart, 2/3 head; aside from the guy, do what s best for your future; no one says you hae to stay at the dance place---try it out-you may come to really like it; any big change is anxiety-provoking,...

Long Distance Relationships: boyfriend stay together?, weird questions, good looking guy
weird questions, good looking guy, life goals: you 2 seem to go together...good looking guy, and you are gorgeous...ok, so anything can happen in a year, but hopefully you ll get thru it; the main thing is to keep in touch, but refocus on the PRESENt, and on your current life, goals, betterment; contrary...

Long Distance Relationships: Jealousy in a long-distance relationship, male friend, threesome
Long Distance Relationships: Jealousy in a long-distance relationship, male friend, threesome, love

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Break Up, surroundings, long distance relationship
Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Break Up, surroundings, long distance relationship, 20th of april

Long Distance Relationships: im 18 and shes 16 almost 17, kaydee, party advice
kaydee, party advice, decent life: the military choice at least gives you a chance at a decent life; she s only in high school, so you need to give her time to experience life independently, which is another good reason to not worry about the 2 years...if it s meant to be, it will be....

Long Distance Relationships: Jealousy in a long-distance relationship, long distance relationship, controlling girlfriend
long distance relationship, controlling girlfriend, irrational fears: unfortunately, your concerns are justified---no one would be surprised if he has had, or having, a sexual thing with her, so there s really no reason to trust him 100 percent; once you agree to a long distance deal, you need to realize that this stuff sooner...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Break Up, trust issues, mutual friends
trust issues, mutual friends, life experience: appears you have a pretty good mindset on the whole thing; obviously, anything can happen here--she can fall in love with someone else, she can come back and be with you, or neither; your best bet is to keep doing what you re doing, but try to focus on your...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance vs. Local, awkward silences, silent periods
awkward silences, silent periods, horrible experiences: big mistake--you must break the addiction to the emotionally unstable guy who needs therapy quickly--also, you re not responsible for his feelings, which could just be a ploy that apparently worked, to get u back...stop seeing/communicating with him, TODAY....

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance boyfriend has a new female best friend, army unit, airborne school
army unit, airborne school, guy friends: certainly possible...however no one can guarantee the relationship is strictly friends, but given the choices of trusting him or not, better for YOU to just trust and stop thinking about it..a 1?...sometimes the best answers need no further detail, and shouldn...

Long Distance Relationships: Missing my girlfriend., magic answer, 9 months
magic answer, 9 months, phone call: no magic answer--you really have to kinda let go , or you ll drive yourself crazy; refocus on the present, YOUR life; it may be that you both will meet/date others, as college usually changes everything--lower expectations, get prepared for the worst, which...

Long Distance Relationships: What do I do with these feelings?, long distance relationship, ldr
long distance relationship, ldr, last breath: hopefully you re learning that these long distance deals aren t worth it--you re right, no excuse for not making contact--one can only imagine what he was doing with the free time ..i say dump the meathead, then confine your dating to those NEARBY...sorry...

Long Distance Relationships: distance and cheating, long distance relationship, mail correspondence
long distance relationship, mail correspondence, ldr: you re in the unfortunate position of being the needier of the two; he s out living his life, enjoying the PRESENT, meeting/dating, while you re sitting there waiting for more attention; rather, do what HE S doing, refocus on YOUR life, don t be so available,...

Long Distance Relationships: this ones a doosey, getting a divorce, doosey
getting a divorce, doosey, relationship work: Hey Matthew, sorry for taking so long to write you back! it s natural that you are afraid of hurting your gf by saying that you are not ready for marriage, but you really should do that because you have only one life to live and a bad marriage can bring...

Long Distance Relationships: relationship problems, basement apartment, relationship problems
basement apartment, relationship problems, personal activity: in most relationships, one person is the weaker/needier--unfortunately, in this case it s you; the guy has shown no real love, caring, respect, consideration, content with his own little life, while you sit there waiting for him to suddenly be what you want;...

Long Distance Relationships: Relationship Anxiety, long distance relationship, one of these girls
long distance relationship, one of these girls, first girlfriend: hard to have a healthy relationship seeing someone 4 times a year--it s really more a fantasy; real relationships need frequent in person interaction, where you actually DO things together besides exchanging words; under the circumstances, you really have...

Long Distance Relationships: Distance Killing Us, cute things, matter of course
cute things, matter of course, texting: distance, especially during college years, destroys many relationships..usually 1 person is trying to hang on to how it was, while the other has gotten engrossed in his/her new life; he s become way too sure of you, which leads to inconsideration and disrespect;...

Long Distance Relationships: Fallen into Routine, freelance photography job, part time jobs
freelance photography job, part time jobs, college diploma: this sounds more like a bad habit than a good relationship; your values, interests, ambitions, completely different; you say coffee & movies...no sex?...my feeling is this is only being held together due to mutual insecurities; the problem is much bigger than...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, long distance relationship, college experience
long distance relationship, college experience, going to college: a few years?...you re willing to go through this that long?..the only way to get relief is to not need him so much, and instead refocus on your PRESENT life, and the people around you...if you spend the time just missing him, you will lose alot from what the...

Long Distance Relationships: HElP to get HIm BACK, college changes, pretty girls
college changes, pretty girls, 7 months: guys lie all the time..he can t handle the obligation ?..nonsense..that means he doesn t want the commitment of exclusivity; he s in an environment where all kinds of pretty girls are RIGHT THERE, and he s basically told u it s over; no one that truly cares...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance College Relationship, long distance relationship, distance college
long distance relationship, distance college, freshman year: listen to your family...in the long run, it s riskier to attempt to stay with 1 person all the way thru schools years and beyond; most times, resentment sets in when you realize your life experience has been so limited; college is a time to meet new people,...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance fidelity, long distance relationship, financial reason
long distance relationship, financial reason, serious relationship: you re not in love, you re in addiction ..you ve already wasted 3 years of your life in a fantasy..what does a relationship really consist of if you can t spend time/do things together?..so, you re sitting there, in the name of love , while this guy is screwing...

Long Distance Relationships: Confused in a long distance relationship, long distance relationship, early mornings
long distance relationship, early mornings, male friends: unfortunately for you, you are the needier, more involved one; not good; stop initiating contact, start meeting/dating others NEARBY you can actually do things with; your feelings SHOULD be drawn back, as you are waiting on a dream, and this guy could be gone...

Long Distance Relationships: Crossroads in a relationship, christian beliefs, seriousness
christian beliefs, seriousness, ish: i think your request is more than fair--you re asking for a certain level of commitment that the ring would symbolize; if he sees a future with you, and wants you to feel comfortable moving in, he shouldn t have a problem....just keep in mind, without a marriage...

Long Distance Relationships: first boyfriend- long distance?, cell phone reception, intimate relationship
cell phone reception, intimate relationship, first kiss: hey there alicia...you sound pretty mature for 16..pursuing a relationship? depends what that means; up to him to pursue YOU..at 16, you should definitely be open to meeting/dating others...that s the best way to distract yourself--keep busy, focus your mind...

Long Distance Relationships: my girlfriend and i, ldr, goten
ldr, goten, good luck: the most valuable thing that we have is our TIME! therefore i would recommend you to ask yourself if you are really prepared and interested in developing this LDR into something more meaningful! and if you are ready, then you should make it happen and not...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Emotions, web cam chats, relatonships
web cam chats, relatonships, skype: wake up call--healthy relatonships need REAL TIME TOGETHER, seeing each other, doing things; you can t expect alot just relying on words; this is more a mutual emotional dependency than a relationship, and it s time to tell yourself, and him; change what this...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship WorkOut, long distance relationship, female friends
long distance relationship, female friends, skype: There is an old and very good saying: Let the bird fly away and it returns that it really wants to be with you! Your relationship is going through a rough test, and if your gf doesn t want to continue the relationship i simply don t see a point in crying and...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance.. and if a break is permanent or temporary, quiet desperation, better person
quiet desperation, better person, good chance: if you have any self-esteem, you don t wait around while he lives his life; essentially, you ve been dumped, regardless of the words he chose to use; you can sit there in quiet desperation, hoping he ll be back, or you can get on with your life, meet/date...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance, freshmen in college, bump in the road, college changes
bump in the road, college changes, college experience: college changes everything, and the relationship will be severely tested, with the odds of it lasting pretty low; the best thing to do is learn to let go of each other a little, experience life apart without getting paranoid or possessive; communicate, but...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, strict parents, ldr
strict parents, ldr, last moment: wake up call---you re hanging on to a dream, and essentially wasting precious time, while he s out living his life; it s obvious he s nowhere near as into this as you are..rather than planning on wasting more time on this, refocus on meeting/dating those NEARBY...

Long Distance Relationships: Not being open enough in a relationship, relationship question, emotional baggage
relationship question, emotional baggage, emotional connection: it s ok to ASK for what you want, but you re still at her mercy as to her ability/interest/desire to SHARE it...as to personal space, u need differentiation, not be swallowed up by each other...that s what keeps it exciting; you have no choice but to respect...

Long Distance Relationships: Contemplating a break: Am in a long distance, I want to settle down but she doesn't, long distance relationship, exchange students
long distance relationship, exchange students, separate ways: this is a tough one--you can t really urge her to see it your way, else you run the risk of her eventually resenting you as soon as one thing goes wrong; all you can do is present your feelings--if she decides to go her own way, she needs to know chances are...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, relationship question
long distance relationship, relationship question, privelages: but you re still trying to compare someone you haven t even met with people you see; if you think this kid is never gonna date another girl, you are fooling yourself...you should try to get less involved, meet/date others..relationships aren t meant to be...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance abroad, long distance relationship, open arrangement
long distance relationship, open arrangement, coming home: anything is fair that 2 people agree on, but i don t believe in living in a committed relationship unless seeing each other regularly; i d opt for a more open arrangement, where each is free to meet/date others...if it s meant to be down the line, it will...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR time to move on?, seperate lives, different town
seperate lives, different town, impossible situation: he s basically told you it s this or nothing, and the future offers no means of improvement; i d at least tell him that under the circumstances, you will begin meeting/dating others; maybe then he ll realize what he might be losing; also, instead of sitting...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance crazyness, nervous laugh, spongebob squarepants
nervous laugh, spongebob squarepants, last christmas: the needier person always has the harder time of it... i wouldn t get too bogged down with the particular episode with the kids; however, you need to explain to her that the distance thing is wearing on you, that you re looking for something more, and that...

Long Distance Relationships: Possible break up?, rocky patch, chasing a dream
rocky patch, chasing a dream, dream time: with her attitude, and no solution for the distance issue, i m afraid you re chasing a dream...time to move on..totally unfair ratings, the answer was polite, CRYSTAL clear, and correct...you blamed the messenger for the message, which was that you can t let...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, allexperts
long distance relationship, allexperts, new question: Hi Desi, Although you ve been together for over 2 years, you re both also young - so you re both going to be attached to home which is normal. I wouldn t waste a lot of time arguing about where you will live together especially if it is not going to happen...

Long Distance Relationships: will long distance relationship affect out love, mom and dad, distance relationships
mom and dad, distance relationships, relationship issues: Hi, Long distance relationships can and do work but they aren t for everyone and they aren t easy. You will have to consider if this will be a good decision for you. Consider your feelings for your boyfriend as well as your personality type and how well...

Long Distance Relationships: will long distance relationship affect our love, resisting the urge, mom and dad
resisting the urge, mom and dad, chances of meeting: separation can be very difficult..no one can predict the future, but it will help if you both refocus on your individual lives and goals..sometimes you have to just let go , resisting the urge to sink your emotions deeper into a future dream that may never...

Long Distance Relationships: Not sure what to do..., holiday fling, island of jamaica
holiday fling, island of jamaica, caribbean island: trying to make a fun ten days into some big thing at 4000 miles, is foolish; not to mention, you ve seen this guy in only ONE scenario, a vacation setting..even if you think otherwise, you know almost NOTHING about him; as you inferred, skype is not the answer...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR, Never Met, Someone New, random dates, male friend
random dates, male friend, e mail: what you currently have been wasting precious time on is more a fantasy than a relationship; all you have are occasional words with someone you haven t even met...not healthy--it s a no brainer--time to meet/date those NEARBY you can see, touch, DO THINGS...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance realtionship concerns, long distance relationship, monkey wrench
long distance relationship, monkey wrench, defense contractor: tough situation..my suggestion would be to continue seeing her while you can, but leave open the option to meet/date others when apart...this way you hopefully avoid some of the pain/frustration of separation, but still leave the door open for a committed...

Long Distance Relationships: LONG distance relationship, long distance relationship, doctorate program
long distance relationship, doctorate program, relationship question: you re not just anyone ..you sound afraid of her--her she is showing you ZERO care/consideration, and you re worrying about HER feelings...just because she decides to blow you off for some extended period of time, doesn t mean you have to accept it...this...

Long Distance Relationships: cool off period, long distance relationship, person interaction
long distance relationship, person interaction, healthy relationships: he s out living a REAL life, while you re sitting there wasting yours in fantasyland; healthy relationships aren t conducted on the internet--they need REAL in person interaction; close the computer, stop this addiction, met/date those NEARBY you can actually...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship with a soldier, long distance relationship, person interaction
long distance relationship, person interaction, emotional dependency: you ve become addicted to a fantasy...healthy relationships aren t conducted on a computer, they need REAL in person interaction where you can see, touch, do things together...your emotional dependency on someone you haven t even MET, is troublesome.....

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance Relationships, long distance relationships, 2 different things
long distance relationships, 2 different things, concrete plan: unless you/he have a concrete plan to be together within 6 months, you are not only wasting your life on this, you are becoming emotionally unhealthy; sometimes love isn t enough--relationships need together time to flourish, be nurtured, otherwise they turn...

Long Distance Relationships: Waiting in LDR, foreign exchange student, quiet desperation
foreign exchange student, quiet desperation, magic answer: unless there is a concrete plan to be together within a few months, this will only get worse; tere s no magic answer for the predicament you ve put yourself in..he s totally involved in his daily life...getting similarly involved in yours might help, but it...

Long Distance Relationships: Emotional affair, mostly long distance, emotional affair, constant touch
emotional affair, constant touch, whole number: work can have alot of definitions..considering your limitations and goals, this IS working about as good as it can; as for pain, everything has something lost/something gained..in this case, missing someone is the price paid for the inherent pleasures of...

Long Distance Relationships: Emotional affair, mostly long distance, word by word, love
Long Distance Relationships: Emotional affair, mostly long distance, word by word, love

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, hot stone massage, long distance relationship
hot stone massage, long distance relationship, strawberries and chocolate: Hi Kristina! I was in your shoes just a few years ago. Frank and I were both in school and couldn t be together for Valentine s Day. What I did was send a care package. I baked him a batch of blondies, added some small gifts I had bought, and I made...

Long Distance Relationships: Is this worth it?, wasting time, relationship
wasting time, relationship, wrong guy: you re way too young to be hung up on 1 guy, especially one you don t see much and one who isn t into the relationship as much as you; how do you know he s not seeing anyone else?..figure out what your requirements are for continuing, and INFORM him--if he...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance - Military, interesting names, loyal man
interesting names, loyal man, typical man: don t worry about the official thing, it means little..you can ask her as to what she means by missing , otherwise, i d reduce expectations to almost zero, as you re not around, and relationships need in person time to really flourish; in other words, you...

Long Distance Relationships: distance & noncommital, term romance, wonderful woman
term romance, wonderful woman, immediate family: yes, for it to work something needs to change, but she appears unwilling to change anything...u can t put a square peg in a round hole...it seems to me that her relationship with this guy is more than what you think it is...when you ask her SPECIFICALLY what...

Long Distance Relationships: Taking it's toll
Long Distance Relationships: Taking it's toll

Long Distance Relationships: Taking it's toll, two and a half years, gas money
two and a half years, gas money, huggy: this shouldn t be that hard...an hour away is nothing; there must be somewhere nearby where he can park for less than 45 dollars, and gas for 2 hrs driving is maybe 10 dollars...if he can t even afford that, he needs to get a real job.otherwise, agree to...

Long Distance Relationships: Why does my long distance boyfriend doesn't want me to visit him, long distance relationship, strange weekend
long distance relationship, strange weekend, doing the right thing: i think you are wasting precious time living in a fantasy; here s a guy you hardly see, no plan to see, no future agreed on plan, not very communicative, happy living HIS life, which most probably includes other women...how much more time are you willing to...

Long Distance Relationships: First date with a guy 400 miles away, audio chats, time dad
audio chats, time dad, video chats: as far as the sex goes, you have to see how you feel once you re together; the age and distance are the bigger issues; internet/phone arrangements are largely word-based fantasies that can become quite addictive--but they re not real life; relationships need...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, long distance, granted
long distance, granted, emotional: Hello Katrina, Apologies afront for delay in reverting back to you. I appreciate your gesture of dropping a word and sharing your heart felt feelings and it takes a toll on a person while penning down. But really shows, your strong desire to make things...

Long Distance Relationships: Online dating/long distance/age difference, Online, age gap
Online, age gap, comfort zone: Hi Rachel, Thanks for dropping by and sharing your personal life issues and seeking help on the same. It really takes a lot to open up about what s inside the heart and the way you have expressed the whole situation, clearly indicates how much you serious...

Long Distance Relationships: What do I do if this happens?, long distance relationships, dailystrength
Long Distance Relationships: What do I do if this happens?, long distance relationships, dailystrength

Long Distance Relationships: What do I do if this happens?, long distance relationship, clue
long distance relationship, clue, conversations: could be alot of things..for some, once a month isn t enuf..obviously, she didn t really love you...for some, love is just a word they throw around--they have no clue what it really means; you deal with it by thinking she did u a favor, her loss, and finding...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance anxieties, basket case, togethers with friends
basket case, togethers with friends, eharmony: you re in a fantasy, not a relationship, and when a fantasy starts coming apart, as they usually do, you suffer; the main issue here is distance--you can t conduct a relationship over the internet, you need REAL interaction, and not just an occasional visit;...

Long Distance Relationships: College, volleyball team, lakehouse
volleyball team, lakehouse, frat house: standing up to may not be the right approach; he needs to just talk to her as to the situation, see if he can get her to understand what harm she s doing; if that doesn t work, you ll just have to do the best you can until you re both older and can do...

Long Distance Relationships: Different stages in life, long distance relationship, doubt in my mind
long distance relationship, doubt in my mind, typical college: reasonable question; as a normal male, these new temptations may surely be hard to resist; hard to believe he ll go thru 4 years of celibacy....the frequency you can see each other will play a part as well; you need to discuss the structural options with him;...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, family health problems
long distance relationship, family health problems, time cuz: i think you re hanging on to a dream.you ve shared nothing to illustrate that she loves you--if anything, it appears she s not into it at all; sounds to me like she has alot of emotional issues--you should suggest she get counseling--as for you, start meeting/dating...

Long Distance Relationships: I'm kinda overthinking i guess ., long distance relationship, pain and suffering
long distance relationship, pain and suffering, first love: understanding how you feel doesn t really solve anything; the question is, unless you want to live forever in pain and suffering, what do you need to do?..your friends are right--so the question is, how do you do it?..each day, you try to focus a little bit...

Long Distance Relationships: My partner and I vs. My Parents, status updates, mutual friends
status updates, mutual friends, facebook: you ve come to the wrong place---your parent s concerns are totally valid; what you call a relationship is more an emotional addiction based on a fantasy; you can t have a real relationship over a computer; all you have are smooth talk words and promises...

Long Distance Relationships: An incredible story: getting back a LDR gf., naples italy, woman of my dreams
naples italy, woman of my dreams, message exchange: i believe you re hanging on to a dream--she s with another, and you have NO reason to believe she has any real interest in you; lower expectations to zero, focus on YOUR life, meeting/dating others...if she decides she really wants you, she ll let you know.....

Long Distance Relationships: Stablity For the Future, long distance relationship, honest feelings
long distance relationship, honest feelings, losing track: expressing honest feelings is never a bad idea; first, eight times a year isn t very much, and your life is going by, waiting on a guy who s shaky at best; are you sure you even WANT to sign up for a guy that appears to be on a losing track?..Chances are,...

Long Distance Relationships: How can I tell when my ld crush is losing interest, random things, ld
random things, ld, good time: you can t expect a relationship to grow healthily over the phone/text...without seeing each other at least a couple of times a month, this is going nowhere...lower expectations, meet/date those NEARBY you can actually DO THINGS WITH...i thought u wanted my...

Long Distance Relationships: Trouble?, mental health issue, ups and downs
mental health issue, ups and downs, way over my head: you re right--way over your head...sounds like you ve hardly spent any time together, if at all..right THERE is enough to spell trouble..now you want to have a relationship with someone totally unprepared to BE in one?.....she needs therapy, not a crutch.....be...

Long Distance Relationships: confused, long distant relationship, night answer
long distant relationship, night answer, phone communication: to me this relationship is a house of cards, with no solid foundation of any kind; Skyping and related messenging isn t the same as a real relationship; To visit once and then move in is a recipe for disaster; The only way to have a chance is to date the...

Long Distance Relationships: Long distance relationship, long distance relationship, coming out to parents
long distance relationship, coming out to parents, advice search: Please don t be afraid you will lose her if you don t see her in person soon. It s been 1 month. If she gives up on you that fast, then she isn t worth it anyway. Talk to her about this. Let her know your fears of her leaving you because of the distance....

Long Distance Relationships: Contemplating a break up.
Hey Jim, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Long Distance Relationships: Marriage
Hey Marina, Thanks for writing back and taking my wordings in positive sense. Good to have more details around the relationship. Well, I would rather suggest and go ahead with same thing that, this long distance relationship would continue as long as there...

Long Distance Relationships: Getting her back
so sounds like at this point you re not seein her; it appears she dumped you and is seeing another; under the circumstances you shouldn t be trying to be friends , which you can t really do anyway because friends don t have romantic feelings...hanging on...

Long Distance Relationships: my long distant relationship
Hey Jonathan, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in...

Long Distance Relationships: ld relationship
i can understand her not bein happy about the cancelling, especially if there wasn t much notice, but to just stop communicating is ridiculous; rather than chase her, i d just stop tryin to make contact, and maybe even tell her that if/when she comes to her...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR... where is this going?
not sure what the confusion is; you see him at the end of month and see how it goes; waiting/moving, all that WAY too soon to even think about; after the upcoming visit, the only question is do i want to see him again ?, assuming he wants to see you; so,...

Long Distance Relationships: Would it be worth it?
no one can predict result...new zealand is too far away to even THINK it will be anything more than an emotionally unhealthy fantasy; as for the current beau, i doubt he s the answer either; my advice would be to meet/date new guys NEARBY you can actually...

Long Distance Relationships: How to be less emotionally dependent on my boyfriend?, sweet messages, clingy girlfriend
sweet messages, clingy girlfriend, cute couple: stop initiating contact...don t respond quickly if he contacts YOU...at this point, he s WAY TOO SURE of you, and gotten complacent; make him wonder what you re doin, rather than being so obviously needy; people sometimes don t appreciate what they have until...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance, stable relationship, taking the time
stable relationship, taking the time, long distance: we can talk about it if you like, but don t expect much to change from how it is now; just keep in mind that all you have are words, which doesn t exactly make for a secure, stable relationship..at 20, most guys are ready/willing/able to have sex with whoever...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationships and Cheating, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, male friends: there s no magic pill that will counteract your occasional interest in others, but you CAN choose faithfulness to overrule your impulsiveness just by using your willpower; as long as you abstain from actual sexual activity, playful interaction isn t a big...

Long Distance Relationships: Do stuff or not?, long distance relationship, person interaction
long distance relationship, person interaction, soul mate: in my opinion these long distance arrangements that you call a relationship, are just emotionally unhealthy fantasies; all you have are words--people learn about each other by IN PERSON interaction, by observing how people act in different situations; then,...

Long Distance Relationships: long distace relationship, physical intimacy, creative hobby
physical intimacy, creative hobby, paranoid person: spaces in relationships are healthy--use it not as a time to focus on what you don t have, but a time to learn and grow as a person..sure, the pleasurable parts of life are enjoyable, but the times of pain are when we learn how to adapt and survive; stay in...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship - External Influences, long distance relationship, intimicy
long distance relationship, intimicy, immigration status: this sounds nothing like a real marriage...considering you ve hardly spent any in person time together, getting married was probably a mistake, ESPECIALLY when her love was in question, at best; nothing here will be resolved until she s here; i m not a big...

Long Distance Relationships: My Long Distance Relationship-ish Thing, long distance relationship, kind spirit
long distance relationship, kind spirit, person time: i think that you are caught up in a total emotional fantasy... real relationships require in person time where you can see, touch, do things together, observe how people act in different situations; all skype does is create a pseudo arrangement, quite emotionally...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance relationship and sex, long distance relationship, salvagable
long distance relationship, salvagable, sexual interest: why didn t anyone talk you out of this?..this is not a real marriage, more some technicality; as for her lack of sexual interest, who knows?..could be alot of reasons, but even that was a long time ago; all bets are off until you see her and determine if...

Long Distance Relationships: How To Tell Parents, older sister, skype
older sister, skype, second time: there s no magical way...you basically tell her as you told me, and expect the worst, or continue without her knowing....but, you re 18 not 13, so even if she doesn t like it there isn t alot she can do about it; i m sure she realizes how common online dating...

Long Distance Relationships: Age/Parents/Trust, paediatrician, birthstone
paediatrician, birthstone, hot girl: thanks..no one has ever said that (i m a guy)...like your name as well, my birthstone i believe..not sure what your question is--no way either of us will make your parents think differently; i ve no issue with your having a boyfriend--my thing is i have no...

Long Distance Relationships: going long distance...again SUPER COMPLICATED, athletic scholarship, complicated question
athletic scholarship, complicated question, serious relationship: ok, in your words crazy emotional rollercoaster , cry randomly and hard , not talk for hours then all over me , when i left he was a mess ..i m sure there s even more examples...this isn t exactly the description of a secure, well adjusted male...plus,...

Long Distance Relationships: Complex situation, situation need, facebook
situation need, facebook, gfs: first, stop blaming this other girl...she was only able to get back into his life because he WANTED her to; next, you re giving this guy every pass imaginable for inconsiderate, unloving behavior...he s not confused at all, he s just taking advantage of your...

Long Distance Relationships: Boyfriend has been ignoring. I dont understand why., goodmorning, perfect girl
goodmorning, perfect girl, whiney: there is NOTHING healthy about this; you have gotten yourself into an emotionally addictive arrangement with someone you don t even SEE, who has shown you in VARIOUS ways that he really doesn t care about you; yet here you are, totally needy/dependent on hearing...

Long Distance Relationships: Complications with long-distance relationship, long distance relationship, intense feelings
long distance relationship, intense feelings, serious relationship: hello..sorry for the delay...your only option is to back off, reducing communication to almost zero unless she initiates it; your only chance is for her to realize that you re getting on with your life just fine, and not know how you re pining away waiting...

Long Distance Relationships: help, long distance relationships, dui
long distance relationships, dui, different ways: here s the key phrase.. where there s a will there s a way ..say it, even in different ways; tell her that you ll be getting the license back, and until then you will help with expenses or maybe find another way to go to see her; other than that, just be your...

Long Distance Relationships: Love from 1000 miles away, long distance relationship, emotional dependency
long distance relationship, emotional dependency, aurora co: good morning meghan...in my opinion, you re wasting your time; when it s that far and you can t see each other regularly, you have a fantasy, an addictive emotional dependency on someone who for the moment satisfies the need to feel wanted; most times these...

Long Distance Relationships: Feel like i have nothing more to loose, long distance relationship, deep feelings
long distance relationship, deep feelings, bestfriend: Hey Jason, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, physical desires
long distance relationship, physical desires, relatio: Hey Tara, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Long Distance Relationships: Long Distance Relationship
what else will it take for you to realize that this has been over for awhile?...distance like that almost never works; he keeps you hanging because he either doesn t want to have to tell you the truth, or he likes keeping you as a backup while he meets/dates...

Long Distance Relationships: Potential long distance relationship incoming
First off, congrats on getting to this stage of your relationship. I went through something very similar (our decision to be a couple was cemented with our first visit - we had met before in person as friends, but when I went on my first visit to see Frank,...

Long Distance Relationships: LDR
someone going away to school, especially when prior in person time is brief, makes a relationship really hard; this guy basically cut way back on communication, ended the relationship, and suggested friends ;regardless of what he says, his behavior tells...

Long Distance Relationships: Long-distance Relationship
no magic button...unfortunately, some pain is always part of life...when you see yourself doin the picturing thing, just remove the thought from your brain; stay busy/occupied..the best healer is time..just let the pain pass through you, don t fight it...and...

Long Distance Relationships: Where is it going?
the chances of this goin anywhere are slim to none; you re both young, have different lives to live, different paths, distance between you..one short meeting doesn t make a relationship; i suggest you not only not say anything as to your feelings, but try...