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Long Distance Relationships: long distance confusion and lonleyness, devistated, soul mate
devistated, soul mate, out of the blue: Hey Charlaine I am glad that you phoned and gave him an ultimatum. It is very un nerving when you just don t know where things stand. It sounds as though he has alot of stuff going on, he has his son and things like that. Who knows, you could very well...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance confusion, mean bone, emotional stress
mean bone, emotional stress, ups and downs: Hello I m very sorry it took so long for me to reply to your question. Ever since I ve gotten home, I ve been having difficulites with my own life. I figured it would be better for me to wait to answer this then to give you an answer when I m feeling emotional,...

Long Distance Relationships: long-distance difficulties, long distance relationship, going through the motions
long distance relationship, going through the motions, emotional drain: being in college, far apart, and for 4 years can be a difficult challenge; you can t realistically expect things to stay as they were; that includes emotions; unless you learn to let go to a certain extent, you will be faced with a worsening emotional drain;...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance and don't know what to do, mean bone, emotional stress
mean bone, emotional stress, ups and downs: this has been over for a long while, as many of his actions, including his ending it and moving away, have indicated; however, my feeling is there are still too many emotions involved, especially on your part, to opt for a pseudo-friendship; real friendships...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance...five years, long distance relationship, career ladder
long distance relationship, career ladder, emotional toll: Hey Monica Yes it is very important, after 5 years, that you guys start to live closer together. Me and my boyfriend have been seperated by distance but we both agreed that after 3 years he would move to Cali to be with me and get engaged. He lives in NY...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance in the future, compulsory national service, guilt trip
compulsory national service, guilt trip, gonna graduate: you really don t want to try to change her mind...even if she did, you run the risk of her resenting you for what she ll call making her do it for years to come...she knows how you feel, and what her decision means...she obviously believes in her choice...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance help, long distant relationship, distance relationships
long distant relationship, distance relationships, txt messages: Hi Good for you for getting back with this man, most people don t then regret the whole of their lives for not attempting to make it work! I suppose as in all distance relationships it is hard and does get harder, you both have to go into it with commitment....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance and jealousy problems, long distance relationship, spending time
long distance relationship, spending time, jealousy: Hello Okay um... it s not really normal for you to actually be jealous of her friends but it is normal for you to want to speak to her more often. You really don t have the right to tell her how often she spends time with her friends but if you really feel...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance + jealousy, female colleague, speedy reply
female colleague, speedy reply, phone rings: Hey Well I;m glad to know that your boyfriend finally sees what is going on with this whole thing! I think he should be completely honest with her. He needs to tell her what is going on and how he has a girlfriend. I mentioned in my last responnse about a...

Long Distance Relationships: Not so long distance LDR, sensitive situation, supportive role
sensitive situation, supportive role, ldr: i think your neediness/insecurities have led to a loss of self-esteem/objectivity, as this situation is not acceptable; i ve no idea WHY she needs to live there( almost like a wife), WHY that means you can t see her alot, go there, WHY job training has any...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, limits of fidelity, casual encounter, slap in the face
casual encounter, slap in the face, having babies: probably should tell him--he ll probably chastise your deceitfulness, make excuses for his behavior; regardless of his motivation, the bottom line remains the same; just goin there to live together/get married could easily be a mistake--inform him you need...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance love, nasty divorce, time difference
nasty divorce, time difference, 5am: Hello Stephanie Well I can understand how this must be very difficult for you. First and foremost you shouuldn t be waking up early when you have exams and your education to worry about. Save the talking on msn for the weekends when there isn t so much stress...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance marriage, roofing contractor, emotional security
roofing contractor, emotional security, southern girl: yes, my idea is to consider WHY you d want to maintain an almost non-existent arrangement; this is only a marriage in technical terms--everything else points to 2 individual spheres, 2 separate lives that only nominally make infrequent contact; certainly,...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance meltdown, hey julie, friend and lover
hey julie, friend and lover, horrible day: Hey Julie From what you told me it does come off as if he s not ready in general. But for someone who you ve been dating for 3 years and have known for almost half of your life, it doesn t make sense on why he s not ready. But it sounds like you guys have...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance problems, convos, great stuff
convos, great stuff, wrong way: Hey Well to be honest with you this sounds pretty bad. I went through the same thing once with an ex boyfriend and with him it was someone else. I m not saying that it s a duplicate situation but either it s someone else or he has lost interest. You are going...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance question, rough times, going to college
rough times, going to college, different times: Hey Mickey Well to me it sounds like she s thinking exactly what she s saying. She s just thinking about the future of the relationship. I would talk to her about this. Every relationship needs communication and if you guys ignore that then it wont be helping...

Long Distance Relationships: My long distance realtionship, productive life, analogy
productive life, analogy, long distance: the more bothersome it is, the more it means you re too dependent on the relationship to begin with; it s supposed to be the ICING on the cake; the cake, in this analogy, is your own unique, productive life...try to get more involved in experiencing the moment;...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relashionships, 4 months, instant messenger
4 months, instant messenger, good luck: Hello Nick Well is there any way you guys will be together in the future soon? If so then focus on that date. It s easier to deal with things when you know there will be a time when she will be near you again. Also keep communicating to each other somehow....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, guy allison
long distance relationship, guy allison, ashley: Allison, If you haven t tried being honest, totally honest with him that is a great place to start. However, if you have you just need to tell him that he needs to get better and let you help him and that you miss him too. He could be scared, you can never...

Long Distance Relationships: my long distance relationship, long distance relationship, fulfilling relationship
long distance relationship, fulfilling relationship, physical component: Hello Well I can understand your fears but I don t see how he would be happy with other women. Sure he might have more physical contact with them but that wouldn t really make him happy. Obviously a fulfilling relationship is much more than the physical component....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, hot babe
long distance relationship, hot babe, good friend: Hello Well what he says doesn t really tell you anything. It all depends on how they treat you. For example does he love talking to you. Do you guys call each other or IM each other often and talk for hours sometimes. Is he nice to you and treats you right....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, going to brazil: Hello Well I m glad to hear you guys are trying an LDR. It would have been terrible if you had not given it a chance. Yes you guys are very very far apart but I think you mentioned that this was only for a year? If that s so then it shouldn t be too bad....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, eachother
long distance relationship, eachother, hour and a half: Hello Well talk to him about this. Ask him if there are any other ways he can come out and see you when he can. Ask him why he doesn t want to. But it s understandable why he might not want because it is quite a drive and it can be a hassle if he has studying...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, neb
long distance relationship, neb, grad school: she shouldn t pick a school based on a relationship or to be close to a guy; plus, it s not healthy emotionally to try and keep someone close primarily for fear of loss; hold off on the marriage thing, let HER decide what the best school is for her future,...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, own pace
long distance relationship, own pace, good answer: Hello I had a hard time understanding what you wrote at times, but I ll try to give a good answer to this. If my answer sounds strange, then keep in mind that I had a difficult time understanding what you wrote. I think you should be cautious around this...

Long Distance Relationships: my long distance relationship, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, relationship question: Hello Well then there s the problem.... thank you for telling me that new information... because it s really not a good thing that he can say that some days he likes you and other times you annoy him. See occassionaly a couple may feel that way but this shouldn...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, group outing
long distance relationship, group outing, guy friend: Hey Jodi Well first of all, you don t need a defense for meeting new friends when you go to college, that is what college is all about! I think that your boyfriend has a hard time trusting you because he misses you, and I am sure you know how tough long...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, relationship question
long distance relationship, relationship question, ourselfs: Hello Um I m sorry... I really can t tell you what to do with that. Personally, I have phone sex and from what I ve heard it s just masturbating on the phone. Just experiment and see what happens... it probably will be fun to try to figure it out together....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, merrimack valley high school, long distance relationship
merrimack valley high school, long distance relationship, belived: Hello Honestly I think it s time that you let this guy go. You cannot try keeping up a relationship or a friendship if you are making the only effort. It sounds like you guys had something before but it sounds like he felt there was no point anymore, that...

Long Distance Relationships: can i have a long distance relationship, long distance relationship, amount of time
long distance relationship, amount of time, 3 years: Hello Well I cannot tell you what you can do and if your relationship can last but I can tell you that you guys can have a relationship while you live out there. 5 years is a long time and the odds are against you but people have done it before so it s not...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, stupid thoughts
long distance relationship, stupid thoughts, reading school: Hey Pearl Lol you re in love what can I say. Aww but the whole thing sounds so cute. Anyways we all get confused and scared and I know how it all must feel. But try to be patient and not overreact. and don t worry it s normal to want to talk to them all the...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, thanksgiving dinner: Hey Samira It s ok... I know how much it hurts. But since you guys are in the first few months it will hurt a lot but it will get better in the next few months. Well there are a lot of disadvantages to it. People get sad and experience how you feel a lot,...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, exact situation
long distance relationship, exact situation, descision: Hey Vicki You re right he may not keep all these promises. Even though he says he s just seeing how it goes with this girl, what if it got more serious with this girl. What if his feelings for her got more stronger than what would happen. It s too risky and...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, last question
long distance relationship, last question, bitterness: the answer is the same; going there to try it out is asking for trouble; if you think THIS is hard, getting out of that arrangement will be almost impossible; you dont go into marriage with all these conditions, unresolved issues, questions... it s hard...

Long Distance Relationships: my long distance relationship, long distance relationship, relationship worth
long distance relationship, relationship worth, gorgeous man: Hey Hollie I can t tell you if your relationship is worth working for cause that it completely up to you. Me and my boyfriend are in an LDR and will continue to be for awhile but he is compltely worth it to me. Nobody else can tell me if it s worth it cause...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, buit
long distance relationship, buit, wasting your time: Hey Angela Well why you do want to be with him? You haven t answered that. It sounds like there s no real trust in your relationship and as you probaly know that s one of the most important qualities of the relationships. You also have kids by other people...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, right move
long distance relationship, right move, fourth of july: Hey Mike I think you did the right thing. This girl was giving yyou way too many mixed signals and her behavior wasn t right. She could ahve at least been more direct with you. Honestly you gavve it your all and I m glad you moved on. She really wasn t worth...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship - first meet, long distance relationship, warm affection
long distance relationship, warm affection, negative feedback: Hey Bernie No you are not overreacting! This is a problem and as a mother with children this is not a risk you want to take. I can understand the man not feeling comfortable with sending a picture but it s good for you to see it somehow. He knows that if...

Long Distance Relationships: My long distance relationship is getting too hard for my girlfriend, long distance relationship, demand answers
long distance relationship, demand answers, light switch: and when meaning she can decide for herself when she feels changes in frequency of seeing each other, or committing to marriage, should be made; certainly you can voice your opinion as well, but it s in your best interest to respect her feelings on such...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship problem, long distance relationship, relationship problem
long distance relationship, relationship problem, enthusiam: Hello Well tell him how you feel. I m sorry but you cannot fix this relationship until he is willing to make the conversations a little more exciting. It s very hard for someone to improve if the other partner will not let them improve. If he does not let...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship...recent fight avoidance, long distance relationship, studying for the bar exam
long distance relationship, studying for the bar exam, email virus: has nothing to do with the bar exam; as you indicated, he s jealous, insecure, controlling, and somewhat immature; hopefully you realize that these are the traits that will follow him into any possible future with you; at this point, you have to take a stand...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship trouble, long distance relationship, inferiority complex
long distance relationship, inferiority complex, relationship trouble: Hello Well the best thing you can do for yourself and the relationship is to seek therapy. It will be very difficult for you to have a long and satisfying relationship until you learn to conquer your own issues and get past your insecurities. So definitely...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, hesperia ca
long distance relationship, hesperia ca, question thanks: I very much understand your frustrations. I myself am in a long distance relationship of an hour and a half and i love him very much. It sounds like you two share a very special love for one another, and love is stronger and can overcome anything. Even...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships, long distance relationships, 2 hearts
long distance relationships, 2 hearts, sacred times: Hey hun i know what ur talking about! It took me like over 3 months to stop crying every night. I thought i would never stop. It just takes time to get use to your new situation. I mean im sure u 2 will miss eachother alot and really do like eachother....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships, long distance relationships, proplem
long distance relationships, proplem, boy friend: Hey Lauren Well to be honest with you I don t understand why you would want to even be with a guy who dumped you AND goes out with his ex right after that. It s different if he dumped you just because of th distance but to go to an ex girlfriend obviously...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships, long distance relationships, luick
long distance relationships, luick, ldr: Hello Well there are many factors to if it can last or not. True you guys may love each other very much but love alone does not make a relationship last. You both need dedication, trust, a more efficient way of communicating with each other, and most importantly...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships, long distance relationships, airforce
long distance relationships, airforce, doubts: Brenda, This is especially difficult since he is in the Airforce. It may become harder for him to communicate with you regularly. That is, however, the key to long distance relationships. Regular communication (though it may be weeks apart) is important...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships and cheating, long distance relationships, gain experience
long distance relationships, gain experience, informed choice: it s obvious you re not ready to date exclusively, let alone have someone move a long way just to be near you; you need to explain to him you ve realized you re too young to make such a commitment and want to be free to meet/date others, and gain experience...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships , help:(, long distance relationships, face 2 face
long distance relationships, face 2 face, going on holiday: Hello Well talk to him about this. Tell him how you are worried. Honestly, if he loves you he wont fall out of love with you so quickly. So be a bit more realistic about this. If your boyfriend does care about you he wouldn t get over you so easily. So the...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance relationships, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, exact view: dear allison: cheer up! don t let this pull you down. one of the worst things about distance is that you can t see the person that ou love and although you might talk to him or her, you can t really get an exact view of how they are feeling. tell him how...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance reltationships, long distance relationship, young couples
long distance relationship, young couples, trust issues: Unfortunately there isn t a whole lot you can do here. It is very difficult for young couples to stay together in a long distance relationship, although it can be done. I can see how you would be uncomfortable about her staying at someone s house that you...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance trouble, esaw, realtionship
esaw, realtionship, heart and soul: Hello Well just give her her space. She s in college and probably meeting new people and these past few weeks may have caused her to have some doubt in the relationship. Plus you both are very young and she may not feel comfortable committing herself to you...

Long Distance Relationships: long distance trouble, girlfrind, jealous type
girlfrind, jealous type, going to college: Hello First and foremost his reasons are garbage!!! If he truly loves you that would not have happened! There is no excuse for that. And I think you know that too. Also how did you hurt him? The whole thing does not make sense. Let s look at this logically....

Long Distance Relationships: long distance, hr drive, love lives
hr drive, love lives, 10 months: Hey Jessica. Ya my long distance love lives about a 12 hr drive from me too. First off love is a feeling u cant describe. You will just know when u meet the one & never question it, however there is no need to rush to this point. Whatever u do always...

Long Distance Relationships: long distant relationship, long distant relationship, relationship work
long distant relationship, relationship work, rocky relationship: Hey Amy Of course you should attempt to try to make your relationship work. No relationship and I mean NO relationship is like magic and just works out perfectly. ALL relationships, at least healthy relationships, require work. So work on this. Discuss with...

Long Distance Relationships: long distant relationship, long distant relationship, google
long distant relationship, google, alot: There are many things you can do to keep a long distant relationship alive and you probabley s have thought of alot of them. Writing, emailing, txtn, talking on the phone. Try typing some things into google on the net and see what comes up, alot of people...

Long Distance Relationships: long distant relationships: can they last, long distant relationships, realtionship
long distant relationships, realtionship, friend of the family: first of all, stop calling it a relationship ; it s a boy you met and hung out with for a short while; guys say alot of stuff; most of it doesn t mean much--it s behavior that counts...in this arrangement, he s indicated this is no big thing..get back to...

Long Distance Relationships: long distant relationships, long distant relationship, long distant relationships
long distant relationship, long distant relationships, long distance relationship: Kat, I would have to say that you are using your head here.....yes maintaining a long distance relationship can be expensive. I would ditch the phone thing and tell the gentleman that you are in a relationship with to invest in internet service...this...

Long Distance Relationships: I have a long question for..., togeather, airforce
togeather, airforce, out of the blue: the choice is yours, but i wouldn t consider rekindling without real specific goals/understandings in mind; that would mean regular visits, soon culminating in engagement, living together, or living a few miles apart; before anything, you would need to clearly...

Long Distance Relationships: long question, waste of my time, taking your time
waste of my time, taking your time, sweet guy: Hi firstly i do think you need to see this from an outside view. You feel something strong for this woman, she is leaving you and you are upset alot, that is a normal feeling. You are now confused which is also another normal reaction. You say that you are...

Long Distance Relationships: long term relationship, long term relationship, picnic in the park
long term relationship, picnic in the park, sweet idea: Hello Well if you guys have been together for 2 and a half years then I don t see why you giving him a promise ring would scare him away. i think it s a very sweet idea and he will probably love him. There s no real special to give it to him. just give it...

Long Distance Relationships: can we do long term, 5 months, good luck
5 months, good luck, contrary: Hello Well waiting till may shouldn t be very hard. On the contrary that should be pretty easy, since it s only a couple more months from now. So this shouldn t be that hard and I think you ll be fine in the meantime. Plus that ll give you plenty of time,...

Long Distance Relationships: longdistance and an old flame, old flame, loui
old flame, loui, old letters: hi i do feel for your dilema really.....but you have to try and ask yourself.. who can you see yourself with in the future? If the answer to this is both boys.... then the problems do begin! I suppose you need to think about who you love most.... if i was...

Long Distance Relationships: She lost interest, personal values, matrimony
personal values, matrimony, early august: Hello Sorry a bit late but I m sorry about what happened and how things didn t work out so well. It s too bad she didn t inform you of this earlier but at least she told you what was really going on. Well you never know what will happen now, and I really...

Long Distance Relationships: lost in love, on the broken road, long distance relationship, first break
long distance relationship, first break, grad school: Hello Ella Well first of there needs to be better communication in this relationship. He needs to be telling you what his intentions without there being any confusion or stress. There should be no need for you to pressure him about this. He should really...

Long Distance Relationships: I am lost please help, long distance relationship, guy tyler
long distance relationship, guy tyler, guilt trip: sounds like you haven t even SEEN this girl; i m not sure that qualifies as DATING.. .look, she s young and needs to have a REAL life, with real people she can see, touch, do things with; instead of laying the selfish guilt trip on her, tell her it was no...

Long Distance Relationships: I love him, long distance relationships, rocky relationship
long distance relationships, rocky relationship, ldr: Hello Well I think his reasoning for not talking to you so much is fine. Many people in long distance relationships find it very hard to talk everyday. The talking can get tiring and sometimes you need a break. Also I understand him wanting to hang out with...

Long Distance Relationships: I love my boyfriend, but I keep hurting him..., personal problem, freind
personal problem, freind, couple times: Hey Pauline Well if you love him so much then just stop doing this. I don t know why you are even doing it in the first place... but you need to stop or you could keep doing it but control yourself and not tell him. So either way you go you re going to have...

Long Distance Relationships: Do I love her enough?, highs and lows, center of my life
highs and lows, center of my life, soul mate: hmmm well shall i be blunt with you or not? I don t think you have treated this girl very well at all, one of the first things you said was that she didn t care about you looks yet then you judge her in the same way!! telling her about this other girl was...

Long Distance Relationships: my love lives in mexico, love lives, necessities
love lives, necessities, internship: as great as the 3 months were, unless you can figure out a way to see each other at least every couple of months or more, AND see a way of possibly being together in a couple of years, your chances of success will greatly diminish; hopefully in the meantime...

Long Distance Relationships: love in a lond distance relationship, long distance relationships, chatt rooms
long distance relationships, chatt rooms, impending marriage: Mike, Yes what you are going through is normal. I can tell that she really does love you and your relationship sounds great. The time difference and work and all that could be the reason for the drop off in emails. Just talk to her about it and ask her....

Long Distance Relationships: love or lust, long term boyfriend, little conversations
long term boyfriend, little conversations, perception changes: let s call it passion instead of lust; it can disappear in an hour or last forever; the feeling of being in love has a definite sexual component, and usually comes with distinct feelings of electric attraction; after that, sometimes loving appears, more...

Long Distance Relationships: In love with a soldier., honeymoon period, rocky period
honeymoon period, rocky period, man of my dreams: Hello This is pretty rushed especially if you guys have known each other for about 5 months. It s also not a good decision to rush marraige with this guy. I m not saying that a marraige between you and him is a bad thing, but as you probably know this is...

Long Distance Relationships: love, melissa, long distance
melissa, long distance, heart: Hello Well that s up to you. If my boyfriend said that to me i would say me too, or I would just say I love you. So say what you feel like saying. It s best not to respond though. Make sure you do give a positive response. It doesn t really matter what you...

Long Distance Relationships: Marriage Advise, empathy, good time
empathy, good time, ash: he s only getting away with it because you re allowing him to; tell him in advance you want to talk to him; don t tell him the subject matter; then inform him specifically what your requirements are for being in the marriage, making clear the ones that aren...

Long Distance Relationships: Marriage to another country, phillippenes, philippeans
phillippenes, philippeans, british citizen: Hi this does sound like a difficult situation, i m afraid i am a British citizen so i don t know anything about the laws and things like that. I m not so sure but i expect that she will need the visa and things like that, sometimes the person also needs a...

Long Distance Relationships: Marriage & Visa, marriage visa, honeymoon period
marriage visa, honeymoon period, minimum knowledge: Hey Xeper About your first question, well I don t know. I have minimum knowledge in the whole visa thing but I m sure you can find out yourself. First of all asking her to marry you at this poin is not a good idea and for many many reasons. First of all...

Long Distance Relationships: Married & Having a Long Distance Affair, long distance relationship, long distance affair
long distance relationship, long distance affair, daughter lives: Hi Darlene Well it sounds like the marraige is near the end and there s no point in contuing. I m assuming that you guys tried your very hardest to make it work byut going to counseling and trying various things, and if you have tried to make it work then...

Long Distance Relationships: Married Woman, adult breast, sexual desires
adult breast, sexual desires, friend zone: Hey Fred Well if you are only into as sexul relationship with her but nothing more than that then you do have to tell her. Just tell her that you care about how she feels and that you do want to be friends but nothing else. You would rather it just be kept...

Long Distance Relationships: Missing my girlfriend., ithaca ny, relationship work
ithaca ny, relationship work, freshman year: Hey Chris! Sounds like this is a rough time for you- with your 7 abroad friends and your girlfriend. But it seems like you have a good perspective on things and realize that you may be taking out some of your lonely feelings on her. I realize that it s really...

Long Distance Relationships: Montreal girlfriend, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, vacation with my family: Hello Well you guys are quite young and honestly, it s very unlikely that a relationship between the both of you would actually work out. Also long distance relationships take a lot of time and effort. An LDR cannot survive when your guy s only communication...

Long Distance Relationships: Moving away, dead end job, unilateral decision
dead end job, unilateral decision, time and distance: you should tell him exactly as you feel, including how you are tiring of this type of arrangement; if he just EXPECTS you to passively accept the consequences of his unilateral decision, he either doesn t know you very well or is really insensitive; i d certainly...

Long Distance Relationships: I'm 22 and he is 25. We have..., excitied, monthes
excitied, monthes, long distance: why does HE get to make all the rules??..you have to decide what you want; the best he s offering is more of he same, with NOTHING definitive about the future; if this is okay with you, fine; if not, tell him it s not acceptable, and what type of future plan...

Long Distance Relationships: i'm just not sure about alot of things..., ldr, good chance
ldr, good chance, girlfriend: Hey Joey No that was just an example. You could take a break and date other people and who knows you and this girl may still end up together. There are 100 s of possiblities. But you do have to know that there is a risk when you you do date other people so...

Long Distance Relationships: I'm in college/He's in High School...., lifestyles, girlfriend
lifestyles, girlfriend, feelings: Hey Trina, thanks so much for writing me, i really appreciate it!!! Well first off lemme say that I can completely empathize with you as far as the advice you ve gotten about high school/college relationships not working out. Let me tell you something Trina,...

Long Distance Relationships: I'm in college/He's in High School...., internet journals, good fortune
internet journals, good fortune, brittany: Trina... I actually wasnt going to go straight to the college and high school relationships never work because my sister is in one right now and so am i. It is so hard i know but you see your man way more than i have so you have some good fortune there....

Long Distance Relationships: I'm in college/He's in High School...., pple, silences
pple, silences, hotmail: hI I know how hard these types of relationships.. although i m in a l/d one myelf, my friends all have the same problem as you! believe it or not but most pple do! maybe you could have him round for dinner sometimes during the week or something like that...

Long Distance Relationships: I'm confused, visual cues, brisbane australia
visual cues, brisbane australia, body language: Hello Well there s no real way to know if she feels comfortable with you through email. The only way to know is by seeing how often she replies back to you, what kind of details she gives to you, and if she answers most of your questions. For example if she...

Long Distance Relationships: i'm confused and affraid and need some help, anger and fear, good feelings
anger and fear, good feelings, decicion: Hello Well I understand how you rushed things earlier in the relationship but that doesn t mean you still can t say you love her and show her affection. Just don t be so obsessive about it. If you feel you love her then it s okay to tell her. So if you feel...

Long Distance Relationships: I'm confused..., combat photographer, air force reserve
combat photographer, air force reserve, second date: there s alot of good reasons to lower your expectations here, not the least of which is the fact that you ve only seen him four times; my feeling is you learn about what people are REALLY like by observing their behavior, and not so much by hearing or seeing...

Long Distance Relationships: I'm not sure how to proceed, ld online, month and a half
ld online, month and a half, mid twenties: Hello Well it has only been a month and a half so I can understand her being wary of the whole thing. So give it some time. If this continues for a few more months then most likely she wont be saying the same things. But it hasn t really lasted that long...

Long Distance Relationships: i'm not sure!, business hotels, rutt
business hotels, rutt, real situation: eighteen to twenty-one, in terms of relationshps, doesn t carry alot of weight; only NOW are you really starting to maturely look at the real situation and each other; in many cases, what you call love doesn t really help, and in some ways, it may actually...

Long Distance Relationships: I was with a man for 3 years...., great relationship, roller coaster
great relationship, roller coaster, soul mate: This is a hard situation you are in and i i do feel for you. I split up with my long distant boyfriend because we fell apart and he could not handle the relationship, however we still talk and this is very very difficult for me and for him. However i don t...

Long Distance Relationships: marriage, christain singles, google
christain singles, google, christian woman: Hello well I m not very sure of any specific websites. You can go on google and type in christain singles and you will probably get a lot of matches. There s a website called christiansingles.com or.net. You can try that! Good luck and I hope you find someone...

Long Distance Relationships: Can someone get married from a long distance relationship?, long distance relationship, quiet desperation
long distance relationship, quiet desperation, free arrangement: nothing you said changes my view as previously laid out; if you re as independent and secure as you say you are, you wouldn t be staying in a relationship that brings you more pain than happiness, nor fear not finding another..he s given you no tangible reason...

Long Distance Relationships: how can i get him off of my mind, long distance relationship, semptember
long distance relationship, semptember, hour and a half: Hey chrissy Yes I m dissappointed you guys had to break up over that. I m in CA and my boyfriend s in NY and I was moving about an hour and a half from him in semptember and that is not considered even long distance anymore, at least to us. But I m really...

Long Distance Relationships: I miss someone,, obsessive thoughts, seroquel
obsessive thoughts, seroquel, sweet voice: Hey Sam Well at least your able to look at this honestly and not have false hopes. I don t know what to say to you except that I hope that sometime you ll be able to see goodbye in your heart. If you don t then you ll just keep thinking about her and never...

Long Distance Relationships: How do you not miss someone?, great relationship, happy times
great relationship, happy times, missing people: Hey Caryn I hate to say this but your asking for the impossible. You will alwways miss him. there wont be times when your feelings for him stop and you just don t miss him and him being there. And missing people hurts. It is human nature. It s like trying...

Long Distance Relationships: I miss someone,, peirod, obsessive thoughts
peirod, obsessive thoughts, fond memories: what you felt was real, and your fond memories are real, and valuable, but we can t live in the past; it s over; the more you dwell on this, the more precious time that s wasted; in this world there are many you can love--start trying to find them, before...

Long Distance Relationships: missing him, full time job, sign from god
full time job, sign from god, daphane: Hey Ashley Well it sounds like your boyfriend has been going through a lot over there so I can completely understand why it is taking him awhile to go over there. First of all I would not send him money until he is for sure that this money will not get stolen....

Long Distance Relationships: move on??, long distance relationship, neighbouring country
long distance relationship, neighbouring country, software engineer: Hey Rebecca First of all tell him how you feel. Tell him how you feel about the situation and how you felt about him talking about his friends in Scotland. If you don t get it out it s just going to keep building up and getting worse. So talk to him about...

Long Distance Relationships: move on??, long distance relationship, neighbouring country
long distance relationship, neighbouring country, software engineer: Hey Rebecca! For starters, sorry this reply is long overdue; my e-mail was down. Secondly, this sounds like quite the situation. I hear you saying that you are both very deeply in love and want to make this work. You say that you are both compromising. What...

Long Distance Relationships: move on??, long distance relationship, neighbouring country
long distance relationship, neighbouring country, software engineer: Hey Rebecca Yes, no doubt about it-your situation is a tough one. From an outsiders perspective, it would seem as though you have got a big decision to make right now. Long distance is hard, and you are right-patience is so important, as is communication....

Long Distance Relationships: should i move to be with him, infatuation, friends family
infatuation, friends family, several times: don t even THINK about going; here s someone you went out with for a MONTH (4weeks) before he split, and you re actually considering leaving friends/family because of this infatuation??..pull yourself together..mistakes like that can be regretted for LIFE....

Long Distance Relationships: move on??, long distance relationship, neighbouring country
long distance relationship, neighbouring country, software engineer: sometimes love is not only not enough, but can even work against you, as in this case; be it love or perhaps some addictive dependency, you re living in an emotionally unhealthy state due to fear of loss, while he s out enjoying himself, perhaps more than...

Long Distance Relationships: Need some advice, long distance relationship, thoughtful guy
long distance relationship, thoughtful guy, single mom: Hey Erika Well I definately know people just like your boyfriend and I know it must be hard. The best thing to do is to be patient in some things but not in others. Like if he needs to come see you more then he needs to come see you more. This should not...

Long Distance Relationships: Need some Help, woman of my dreams, great memories
woman of my dreams, great memories, unknown place: making great memories means little when the winds of change come calling, and one weekend means little--it could even hasten your demise, especially if you come across as insecure, desperate and needy; your only chance is to appear confident, assured, in control...

Long Distance Relationships: New relationship, complete waste of time, waste of time
complete waste of time, waste of time, st thomas: Hey Stacia Honestly I cannot answer your question because both can turn out ok. It really depends on how serious you both are about each other and how willing you guys are to make it work. It also depends on if you guys will ever have a chance to live near...

Long Distance Relationships: He's from New York and im from London, hey sam, ldr
hey sam, ldr, types of communication: Hey Sam! What a tough decision! Have you told your boyfriend just what you wrote to me (that you don t want to loose your boyfriend or your best friend)? I think that s pretty powerful. There s a chance that he s a little insecure because you were originally...

Long Distance Relationships: need advice, long term relationships, ldr
long term relationships, ldr, 22 years: Hello Well it says a lot that you guys were able to still keep in touch for a whole year and everything worked out okay and he seeems to be really into you. I know waiting another year or 2 will be difficult but it s worth it if you really see yourself with...

Long Distance Relationships: need some advice, moore oklahoma, fiance
moore oklahoma, fiance, last chance: Hello Yes, you have certainly given him enough time to get things prepared and life is much too short and too precious to waste time waiting for a guy to get you moved up there. It s one thing if he continually updates you on the situation and you knew you...

Long Distance Relationships: I need college love advice :-), basketball team, first love
basketball team, first love, fling: prepare for the grim reality; whatever happened in h.s, when apart, or this summer, and despite the now promises of future faithfulness, college changes EVERYTHING, especially with a distance in between; the good news is, it s SUPPOSED to; single life prior...

Long Distance Relationships: i need help, long distant relationship, minimum time
long distant relationship, minimum time, 24 years: time to wake up--see reality; if you ve seen my answers, you should know i m not here to provide empathy, i m here to give you an objective, unbiased view, even if it s not pleasant; the deal is you re in way over your head here with a guy that doesn t much...

Long Distance Relationships: I need some help, best bet, wrong impression
best bet, wrong impression, better person: Hey Dustin So you lied..and you are now paying the repercussions. I can t say I blame your girl for being ticked, I would probably feel the same way. However, from an outsider s perspective, is it really a big deal if you go to a party? I can understand...

Long Distance Relationships: I need to Know, relationship work, serious relationship
relationship work, serious relationship, elder sister: Hello Well of course it can blossom into something real. You said you both have recently met so of course there s a possibility that it can turn into something real. Yes, you are young and you will meet many people in the future but that doesn t mean this...

Long Distance Relationships: need a little help, long distance relationships, person talks
long distance relationships, person talks, perfect in every way: Hey Yuriy I wouldn t worry about it. You guys live only 3 hours away and that s not very long so I m sure maybe this summer or sometime next year one of you will get the chance to see each other. But you both have the benefit of living pretty close ( even...

Long Distance Relationships: In need of physical loving, but in LDR!!! HELP, rough patch, guy friend
rough patch, guy friend, having sex: Hey Confusedbabe No I do not think this is a good thing at all to do. The reasons why first of all you are lying to your boyfriend. If you think you can cheat on your boyfriend and lie to him without feeling a hint of guilt then if he ever does the same thing...

Long Distance Relationships: nerves, faithfulness, senior year
faithfulness, senior year, grad school: Hello Yes, I completely understand how you feel since I met my boyfriend in college and ever since we ve spent most of our time, except summers, together, and college would not have been nearly the same without him around. The best thing you can do is be...

Long Distance Relationships: A new long distance relationship, long distance relationship, x girlfriend
long distance relationship, x girlfriend, wepage: Hey Christine Well at the very most I would give him one more month to agree to meeting you. And by this I mean him setting a date not neccesarily meeting you next month. But when he agrees to meeting you it should be either next month or the following month....

Long Distance Relationships: what is next?, fabulous sex, big l
fabulous sex, big l, sexual problems: Hey shelly Well first of all still being married and still having a child that is living in a home where there are two unloving parents and another guy coming around, well the first thing to do would be to get a divorce. first of all I don t know about your...

Long Distance Relationships: Old Love - New Love, final decisions, care concern
final decisions, care concern, committment: at the moment, no need to make any final decisions; keep in touch with her, offer support, understanding, care, concern; avoid discussion about the relationship s future, unless she brings it up...also, lower your expectations, as this arrangement isn t the...

Long Distance Relationships: obsessed about marriage, cherished memories, obsessive behavior
cherished memories, obsessive behavior, ldr: Hey Cindy Well first of all be patient. I could understand if you guys have been together for years but a year is a pretty short time for a person to commiting themselves to marriage. So try to understand that and to give him more time. Try to be glad about...

Long Distance Relationships: obsessed with marriage, ldr, great man
ldr, great man, perceptions: first, realize that it hasn t even been a year yet, and long distance at THAT; 2d, why even talk about rings and furniture when you re not even engaged yet?...these and other futuristic topics should really be tabled until you have some actual substance to...

Long Distance Relationships: oh boy..., program enrolment, fine girl
program enrolment, fine girl, writing this letter: you re out of line; instead of being supportive, sensitive, understanding, strong, you re being selfish, needy, inconsiderate; all you ve done is DECREASE her chances of returning; it s not that she doesn t care about your feelings, but people have to be free...

Long Distance Relationships: Is everything ok?....far from it.., long distance relationship, adorable daughters
long distance relationship, adorable daughters, adorable man: why would he be afraid of hurting your feelings by telling you about time with his kids??..time to face some realities; the fact is, you ve gotten in way over your head with someone you know very little about; he s worked it in such a way that what he does...

Long Distance Relationships: okay, this is, like, my fourth..., long distance relationship, mature relationship
long distance relationship, mature relationship, realtionship: Hey Devan Well relationships that happened at 12 don t really count anyways cause most people at that age are immature and aren t really ready for a mature relationship. And I m 17 so trust me I can relate to this very easily. Well if you want the relationship...

Long Distance Relationships: online/long distance, smooth talk, arguements
smooth talk, arguements, spokane washington: you missed the point;the question really is, why is your self-esteem so low, and insecurity so high, that you would allow yourself to become emotionally addicted to a fantasy??..this smooth talk communication, for THREE long years, NEVER meeting, has become...

Long Distance Relationships: Parents issue, long distance relationship, ba8ua
long distance relationship, ba8ua, pillow fights: Hey Hugo Well the best way to find out why she s afraid to tell her parents is to ask her why she s not. A lot of people are afraid to tell their parents about an online relationship so don t take it too seriously. My boyfriend was so afraid to tell him parents,...

Long Distance Relationships: Phone, blah blah blah, pets family
blah blah blah, pets family, events books: Hey Shelby Well whenever me and my boyfriend have hese quiet moments on the phone usually I ll try to think of something strange that happened in the past few days and comment on it. Or I ll say something like I heard such and such and do you believe that...

Long Distance Relationships: Please enlighten me, shy person, loving person
shy person, loving person, mutual friend: i really have no way of knowing of what s going on in his mind, but i wouldn t put alot of time and energy into trying to figure it out; to me, either a guy asks you out or he doesn t; all this other friendly one moment/distant the next stuff is typical confusing...

Long Distance Relationships: Please help me out...I'm having patient issues and besides that, I'm in the dark, phone conversations, patient issues
phone conversations, patient issues, chat on line: i can t read her mind, but certainly you ve gotten a little carried away, and if she s interpreted this as emotional neediness, it could cause her to back off; time to lower expectations, regain some self-esteem, and WAIT to hear from her instead of iniiating...

Long Distance Relationships: Please I need an advice. Urgent, long distance relationship, bf 3
long distance relationship, bf 3, weeks per year: Hello Well first of all what you are going through is completely normal and it s always scary to go through a long distance relationship for this reason... because you really have absolutely no idea how things will turn out. Keep in mind that it has been...

Long Distance Relationships: Pre-Long Distance, long distance relationship, first sexual experiences
long distance relationship, first sexual experiences, smart girl: Hello I m very sorry it took some time for me to reply back to you. I ve been going through some difficult times these past days and I just have not had the time nor the heart to just answer any questions recently. Anyway about your situation... I do think...

Long Distance Relationships: Promises promises, social engagements, breathing exercises
social engagements, breathing exercises, going on a trip: Hry Gutless Hounding a person is calling them multiple times a week. But this guy is being a little ridiculous if it is taking him almost a month to tell you how he is feeling. So I think it s reasonable if you call him one more time asking him if he got...

Long Distance Relationships: parent of daugther is ldr, long distance relationship, hs sophomore
long distance relationship, hs sophomore, ldr: Suzi, I think that your daughter being in this relationship is fine. I wouldnt however if you didnt approve of him, or hadnt met him yet. But since you have it will be fine. You just have to talk to your daugther and make sure that she knows what it will...

Long Distance Relationships: parents against ldr, long distance relationship, physical time
long distance relationship, physical time, wise choice: Hello I think honesty is the best policy in this situation. If they meet him then they will probably not be so against it. So give them the chance to meet him. If you are afraid they may ruin the situation for you then bring the idea up with them. Tell them...

Long Distance Relationships: partner making me angry, visa restrictions, live in london
visa restrictions, live in london, ldr: Hey Kate Yes this is defiantely a problem. And that doesn t make sense at all. If he s really thinking about you often and missing you then he would really try to talk to you more. But he s creating excuses for writing letters, emails, and calling you. Also...

Long Distance Relationships: passion or love, breaking down barriers, sexual interest
breaking down barriers, sexual interest, spiritual growth: you re probably in love , which is a feeling of passion, sexual interest, breaking down barriers..real love implies care, respect, responsibility, knowledge, concern for another s spiritual growth..you ll need alot more time together to see if that will develop......

Long Distance Relationships: How can persuade him to try?, long distance relationship, last long time
long distance relationship, last long time, time girlfriend: his feelings are what they are; if anyone needs a change of heart, it s YOU: he s basically telling you it s over, and you re trying to hang on to a dream; if he was that into it, he wouldn t be leaving, or you d be going with him; lower your expectations,...

Long Distance Relationships: possible?, life girls, relationship work
life girls, relationship work, melissa: Hey Pash I couldn t understand part of your question, so please take that into consideration when reading my reply. Yes it is very possibly to love someone who is not phsyically close to you. Anyways how do you feel cheated? You said your girlfriend is the...

Long Distance Relationships: problem in LDR, long distance relationship, losing touch
long distance relationship, losing touch, ldr: Hello Well breaking up would probably show her that there is something there. If you guys are always talking then it might be harder for her to realize that she does miss talking to you and hearing from you. So if you guys cut the contact she will realize...

Long Distance Relationships: just a problem with trust?, long distance relationship, question of marriage
long distance relationship, question of marriage, marriage and kids: both; you re talking about someone you ve hardly seen, who feels NO need to keep in touch, who may be (easily) screwing around; at best, he s taken you for granted; at worst, he doesn t really care as much as you do; the advice; lower expectations to zero,...

Long Distance Relationships: What is proper etiquette in long distance romance?, sweet yesterday, intimate relationship
sweet yesterday, intimate relationship, busy signal: the line that SHOULD have been drawn was the one between fantasy and reality; welcome to the world of internetitis, where emotional insecurities leave one vulnerable to smooth talk and the resultant addictive connection; the problem is you let youself get...

Long Distance Relationships: Question, sad at times, unfortunatly
sad at times, unfortunatly, ldr: Hello well it would be a shame to break this off because even though it;s an LDR, it s not a very difficult one to handle. I mean you guys don t live in different countries, on the opposite side of the country, or even in a different state. So the distance...

Long Distance Relationships: Question, long distance relationship, seventeen years
long distance relationship, seventeen years, mature adults: Hey James Well just keep up the communication and be best friends with each other. Probaly the one mistake many long distance couples make is communication. And I m not just talking about how much you guys talk and what you guys talk about, but also how you...

Long Distance Relationships: quick question!, long distance relationships, male friends
long distance relationships, male friends, meg: Hello Megan, Do you have female and male friends in college? If not then make some friends and spend time with them. That will probably take your mind off your boyfriend. Yes you have to keep yourself busy. If you have a chance to go and hang out you should....

Long Distance Relationships: How to Re-connect, long distance relationship, new job
long distance relationship, new job, melissa: Hey Jungle Well if you haven t already, talk to him about this. I undertsand that change is good but usually if a person has a new job, and meeting new friends then that is the perfect time for things to be getting better and for you guys to be talking about...

Long Distance Relationships: Relationship help, mother and grandmother, self satisfaction
mother and grandmother, self satisfaction, mony: it s difficult for you, or I, to do much from where we are; i doubt you ll be able to affect any change, or get the understanding you deserve, until you return; the only possibility would be if there was a close relative/mutual friend here that you trust and...

Long Distance Relationships: Relationship; Need Help, independent choices, weird relationship
independent choices, weird relationship, separate schools: lesson 1--you can t control what others do, only yourself; thusly, phrases like can t let her make you appear as possessive, controlling; if she begins to perceive you as such, her resentment will quickly lead her into the arms of some sympathetic meathead...

Long Distance Relationships: Relationships - both on different continents, long term relationship, mutual friend
long term relationship, mutual friend, first dance: Hello Well if you do love him and if this is meant to be then yes it can probably work regardless of where you live. I know where you live is very important, and I can understand how this can be a conflict but if this man is special to you, then it s still...

Long Distance Relationships: Relocating in a LDR - Kids involved, kc mo, joint custody
kc mo, joint custody, new man: so not even getting to the boyfriend, the idea of you moving is pretty much dead in the water, as i seriously doubt the ex would agree to any big move (you could always hypothetically pose the question to him)..until he does, no point in even thinking about...

Long Distance Relationships: The Rents!, life mom, negative attitude
life mom, negative attitude, closed doors: Hello Well this is an issue but fortuanately it s not really bad at this point. So i do not think you should bring it up out of nowhere. If she does something in the future that causes an arguement between her and her daughter then definately bring it up....

Long Distance Relationships: RuneScape...., online game, instant messenger
online game, instant messenger, gf: Hello You re not in any trouble because you are just his girlfriend on some game, Runescape. No big deal. Seriously, it s not a big deal. But if you want to become serious, um you guys need to plan to talk on Instant messenger, then the phone, the meet in...

Long Distance Relationships: i really dont know?, appart, 10 months
appart, 10 months, jealousy: Hello Well I m not sure if he loves you and you shouldn t assume he loves you until he actually says that he does. When he said he has the same feelings as you, or that he thinks you are special, it sounds like he thinks you are something different and something...

Long Distance Relationships: I really like this girl this is very important, college in england, smile on her face
college in england, smile on her face, monh: Hello Well this does sound like love but yes you should try to ask her out and tell her how you feel when you do see her. I m not sure what you meant by you not getting any way to contact her. How are you both meeting in Italy if you both do not have the...

Long Distance Relationships: does he really love me, nice man, doubts
nice man, doubts, feelings: Hey Well he might love you. Was he planning the trip before you guys started telling each other your feelings or what? It sounds like he has been planning this for awhile. Nobody just wakes up one day and say I m going to live in Europe then decides that...

Long Distance Relationships: Does he really mean when he said I LOVE YOU, raising kids, bf
raising kids, bf, instant message: Hey Cheron If he really loves you and if you guys really shared something special then there should be no problem asking him what the status of your relationship is. It sounds like things are definately not back to normal. From what you told me it sounded...

Long Distance Relationships: What does he really want?, patent bar, bar exam
patent bar, bar exam, e mail: your insecurities and fear of loss are putting you in a bad position here; he s told you through words/actions, that he s not into anything more than casual dating, if that; your choices are a) to inform him that that s not good enough for you to continue,...

Long Distance Relationships: "redate"/LDR, freshman year, writing letters
freshman year, writing letters, assholes: my feeling is you might be getting a litle ahead of yourself just based on some calls/emails..when it comes to talk , until there s actual behavior, it s just alot of sizzle and no steak; plus, he s away at college (where EVERYTHING changes and girls are...

Long Distance Relationships: regarding long distance breakup, graduate student life, straightforward person
graduate student life, straightforward person, sure what kind: Hello Well I m glad to hear about what you will be doing in the next few months and I agree that is best. I also agree that seeing her in the middle of July is a good plan, and everything you are doing to cope with this seems great. The emails and the phone...

Long Distance Relationships: Just a thank you and update, last tuesday, great time
last tuesday, great time, melissa: Hey Jeff well keep trying the tips I said before. The tips wont help you just once and never again. They are something you have to keep trying. Obviously this is worth it. This of it this way. Would you rather be with a girl who makes you so happy and who...

Long Distance Relationships: relationship, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, worrying about your weight
beauty is in the eye of the beholder, worrying about your weight, eye of the beholder: Hey Suezanne Well I doubt it would bother him. First of all almost everyone is aware that pictures and filming a person adds on weight. so if you look skinny in that picture to him, then you are probaly skinnier in person. Also, you don t know what his version...

Long Distance Relationships: relationship, plane fare, cross country
plane fare, cross country, homework: let me get this straight; you fly cross-country once a month to see your boyfriend , and he blows you off for homework?..why are you even referring to him as boyfriend, and why are you still considering this a relationship?..obviously this has been over for...

Long Distance Relationships: relationships, time melissa, time one
time melissa, time one, doubts: Hey Paul Well I told you pretty much all I can in the last response. But if it s been 6 months and she s still not comfortable around you then that s a sign that the feelings aren t as strong. I know how she s feeling cause with the boyfriend I m with right...

Long Distance Relationships: did i do the right thing?, long distance relationship, do the right thing
long distance relationship, do the right thing, good job: perhaps i did misunderstand; i thought you d been asking her to call; in any case, i don t think saying what you did is the answer; i m not saying to apologize, but you need to re-establish communication; arrange to meet, then try to ascertain WHY she says...

Long Distance Relationships: How to make it right, phone voice mail, financial setbacks
phone voice mail, financial setbacks, close proximity: how s that?? usually living together DECREASES individual expenses; in any case, you have some issues; chances are he s messing around, so there s really no reason to trust him; it s also not right for you to deceitfully invade his phone messages; as it...

Long Distance Relationships: WHAT'S REALLY GOING ON?, long distance relationship, gmat exam
long distance relationship, gmat exam, woman of the house: Hello Well it sounds like you are doing all you really can. This is something she needs to deal with. I mean if she s afraid to come and be with you because she thinks you might abuse her then that s something she needs to take care of , not you. It sounds...

Long Distance Relationships: Scared of long distance, long distance relationship, boyfriend justin
long distance relationship, boyfriend justin, writing letters: Hey Carina! Thanks for the question- this is a rough deicision. How far apart do you live? Is Justin planning on moving back when his father and grandmother get beter? Are you debating moving closer to him? These are big factors in your decision. Well,...

Long Distance Relationships: Scared of long distance, long distance relationship, relationship work
long distance relationship, relationship work, boyfriend justin: Hey Carina Most of the things you need to make a long distance relationship work is communication, trust, patience, and of course love! First of all try to talk to him about 5 times a week. No more than that or the conversations will start to get very boring...

Long Distance Relationships: Scared of long distance, long distance relationship, boyfriend justin
long distance relationship, boyfriend justin, resentment: there s no magic remedy; alot depends on how often you can see each other and when this arrangement will end; all you can do is try to maintain the usual qualities of consideration, respect, care; if either person feels thay want to see others during this...

Long Distance Relationships: Scared about long distance, long distance relationship, boyfriend justin
long distance relationship, boyfriend justin, communication lines: Dear Carina Communication is my best advice! I think that it is so wonderful that you have been so supportive of your boyfriend s decision to move to Utah and help his Dad and his Grandma while they are not feeling very well. I also think that him doing...

Long Distance Relationships: Setbacks and No Future, frequent thing, unhealthy relationship
frequent thing, unhealthy relationship, couple times: the fear of being alone has led you be insecure and needy, which has led to these basically destructive relationships; this guy in texas you can t really even call a boyfriend ; have you even ever seen him?..let s face it, he was just a guy who you got off...

Long Distance Relationships: Sex: should I or shouldn't I?, quiet desperation, sexual compatibility
quiet desperation, sexual compatibility, religious parents: i m not an advocate of waiting; many times you can love someone, get married, only to find there s little sexual compatibility, leaving you with a life of quiet desperation, or divorce; if you feel in love, express it to each other with passion and intimacy....

Long Distance Relationships: Sexually Inactive relationships, sexual satisfaction, teenage pregnancy
sexual satisfaction, teenage pregnancy, premarital sex: there are a few issues here, not the least of which is a) her total insensitivity, selfishness and inconsidration, and b), the level of insecurity/neediness regarding this relationship that YOU must have to continue to tolerate this; added to this is her seemingly...

Long Distance Relationships: Short Term LDR, ldr, neediness
ldr, neediness, negative thinking: consider this the slap; first of all, lower your expectations--girlfriend for only 2 months, college age, apart...if either of you doesn t mess around in some fashion, it will be quite fortunate; as to contact, listen to the voice of confidence, security,...

Long Distance Relationships: Siiigh, what to do..., long distance relationship, computer phone
long distance relationship, computer phone, fun sex: Hello i m very sorry it took so long to reply but I ve been very busy with school, work, and some other things that I just haven t had the time to reply. Anyway about your question... now in my opinion it is absolutely ridiculous that this sex thing is holding...

Long Distance Relationships: SOS!, long distance relationships, those girls
long distance relationships, those girls, good relationship: Hey Jess Well I can t really tell you if you should go with this guy or not because it s really your choice you know. If it were me I would go with him especially if he seemed like a good person and I did like him. Don t care if other people say he s desperate...

Long Distance Relationships: Stay or Leave?, realtionship, seven years
realtionship, seven years, affection: seven years is too long to wait for anyone--he could have moved closer but didn t, obviously figuring he could continue to string you along even longer; tell the long term guy the exclusive waiting is over, and that you ll be meeting/dating others; if he cares...

Long Distance Relationships: Stress & LDR, long distance relationship, relatioship
long distance relationship, relatioship, showing affection: Hello Julie Yes, I understand where you are coming from. If the conversations are just dry then I can understand why you would want to talk to him more, because you want a nice and happy conversation. So this is what you need to do, I think you need to explain...

Long Distance Relationships: A Sudden LDR Breakup, quarter life crisis, guilt trip
quarter life crisis, guilt trip, terrific time: Hello, First of all, from what you have told me, you have done nothing wrong. Please don t hold yourself responsible for any of this. She is confused, and she s going to need time to think about what has happened and what she wants to do about it. Make sure...

Long Distance Relationships: very sad, starring into space, sister in law
starring into space, sister in law, academics: Hey Mary Well as you mentioned there is nothing you can change about missing him. And even crying for him is something you cannot change at the moment. But eventually it should stop. Anyway, something you can try doing, is getting yourself involved in stuff...

Long Distance Relationships: seeing each other, odd time, eachother
odd time, eachother, bryce: Pascal - Hey, I think you definately need to get the real definition for what you are involved in. Make this guy tell you if he s being exclusive or not and if he is not, ask why and even tell him that you deserve it (if that s what you want). Seeing...

Long Distance Relationships: he seems distant, long distance relationship, best bet
long distance relationship, best bet, alls: Hello again! Well that sounds pretty spot on as well! He may just be getting comfortable and this happens pretty often with both partners in a relationship. Just show him that you do care and wont just deal with this all the time. Also again, be realistic...

Long Distance Relationships: being in seperate colleges may mess us up, long distance relationship, relationship work
long distance relationship, relationship work, hundreds of miles: you re right about most of your concerns, but you don t break up until something happens where one or both of you doesn t want to continue; that hasn t happened yet; 30-60 mins apart isn t bad compared to others hundreds of miles apart; sure there will be...

Long Distance Relationships: How serious is what we are experiencing, getting a job, finding a job
getting a job, finding a job, companionship: Hello Well this is a very complicated situation and you might want to consider not pursuing this at all as an option. I understand how you do not want to move back considering that you wont be able to find as good as a job, and I have to agree that her expecting...

Long Distance Relationships: sex, long distance relationship, relationship status
long distance relationship, relationship status, sitting in a room: Hey Steve Welll being a virgin myself I honestly have no experience in this area so I may be the wrong person to ask. This may have something to do with you being broken up and moving on. Maybe she is starting to not like you as much anymore, maybe not as...

Long Distance Relationships: short term LDR, open ticket, wedding arrangements
open ticket, wedding arrangements, ldr: Hello Well first of all congratulations on your engagement! Okay about your question... it s probably a good idea if you just asked him to come back before Christmas because most people have a hard time picking up on hints, and your fiance may not be an exception....

Long Distance Relationships: six months, valentine s day, funny poem
valentine s day, funny poem, giant cookies: Hiya this is such a pleasant question i have to say! I m dating my boyfriend for a few months now and i m trying to be creative aswell. What i m thinking of doing for him is taking a shoe box and wrapping it in wrapping paper inside and out, then filling...

Long Distance Relationships: Where do I start?, emotional dependence, college changes
emotional dependence, college changes, different girls: for the moment, but it s just a temporary reprieve unless you use the time to lower your expectations, reduce your emotional dependence, and look at this realistically; you re young, she s even younger; you only have 3 months background; you ve started college,...

Long Distance Relationships: just started a ldr, chance cause, start of something
chance cause, start of something, time cause: Hello I had a hard time understanding your question but from what I could understand it sounds like going with him is not a waste of time. I m not sure what you meant by you don t hear from him? If you saw him last weekend then give him some time cause it...

Long Distance Relationships: to stay or to go?, red flags, second thoughts
red flags, second thoughts, eight months: his reaction should have little to do with it; you don t change your life plan after knowing someone less than 4 months, regardless of feelings; if the connection with this guy is strong enough, 8 months will not destroy it; if it isn t, it would be foolhearty...

Long Distance Relationships: Should I stay in this relationship even though I'm miserable?, long distance relationship, ashley marie
long distance relationship, ashley marie, hottest guy: This is the exact situation I want people to avoid which is why I never advise people to get into long distance relationships unless they knew the person BEFORE the distance. I m sorry to say, but this is probably the hardest, most impossible relationship...

Long Distance Relationships: should i stay with her?, moving to spain, drunken sex
moving to spain, drunken sex, going to florida: depends; if you truly love her and want to spend your life with her, you give her a pass; be it an hour or a day after, if the relationship was over at that point, she could do whatever she wants; plus, i tend to believe her story; whatever the case, who s...

Long Distance Relationships: does he still love me?, ldr, fair share
ldr, fair share, relationship: Hello Well it s understandable if he wants to just hang out with his friends but he should have time set aside for you. You guys should be able to talk and discuss your problems. Like you said, communication is key and without it you cannot have a healthy...

Long Distance Relationships: struggling reaaal bad, college move, freshman year
college move, freshman year, aol: Hi Josh, Love is hard, let me tell you that from the beginning. When college comes, there is a new world and life to experience...this is what your gf is going through. She is so excited about everything occuring around her, that she has forgotten...

Long Distance Relationships: sudden silent treatment, silent treatment, men friends
silent treatment, men friends, actions speak louder than words: Hey Well how long has this silent treatment been? If it s been for just a couple of daysd then I wouldn t worry about it but from what you told me, it sounds like this has been going on for awhile. If that is the case you need to talk to him immediately about...

Long Distance Relationships: sugesstions, positive reply, peaceful life
positive reply, peaceful life, wrong decision: Hello Well no he doesn t like you. And you only made it worse for yourseldf. you dug your own hole. Emailing him a hundred times is very inappropriate. You scared him off. It s one thing if you emailed him once a month but you emailed him much more then that...

Long Distance Relationships: How to survive a long distance relationship?, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, how to survive a long distance relationship: Hello Well I think you should get over this and continue the relationship, and if you can t handle it then you should get out. Honestly I don t think you have the right to be like this. She cannot help her mistakes she made in the past. People do things when...

Long Distance Relationships: surviving long distance relationship..., long distance relationship, loving times
long distance relationship, loving times, post graduation: Hello Well actions do speak louder than words and I have to agree that she doesn t seem as serious about you as you are her. I can understand that her getting her MBA is about a year or so from now and it might be too soon to start researching into it, but...

Long Distance Relationships: Taking a break, long distance relationship, nasty divorce
long distance relationship, nasty divorce, dragging my feet: leave it be; if you knuckle under and show weakness/neediness now, he will remember and attempt to take advantage of it down the line; i don t buy the exhaustion/kids/work excuses..we ALL have stuff..what would happen if you lived together??..show him you...

Long Distance Relationships: Tell her or Not, long distance relationship, human companionship
long distance relationship, human companionship, time john: Hello If i was you i would try to tell her exactly how you feel about this situation, she can t read your mind. Be truthful about your feelings and she may appreciate it alot more. If we did not take chances in life we would never achieve anything. Ask her...

Long Distance Relationships: Tell or Not?, long distance relationship, human companionship
long distance relationship, human companionship, thoughts and feelings: share your thoughts and feelings with her as you just did with me...explain to her your desire for her to be closer and see if she feels similarly; as adults, i m sure both of you realize that proximity doesn t insure longevity..if the conversation results...

Long Distance Relationships: Tempted to Cheat, long distance relationship, spanner in the works
long distance relationship, spanner in the works, constant contact: Hello Well I don t need to tell you that you should not cheat cause I m sure you understand that yourself. If the woman you are with is truly amazing and someoen you love and want to be with, then do not throw that away for some pleasure that wont mean anything...

Long Distance Relationships: Thanksgiving, realtionship, girlfriend
realtionship, girlfriend, thanksgiving: Hey Mike Don t worry so much. Yes, a family is a very important part of a girl s relationship with her boyfriend. If you can get along with the family, you are pretty much in. You don t have to make any extra effort to shine , the best thing is to just...

Long Distance Relationships: Things turned up better than i thought, sorry melissa, things in my head
sorry melissa, things in my head, last question: Hey Thelma sorry it took me awhile to reply but I had a hard time finding your past question cause unfortanately I don t remember what you wrote in your last response. So next time could you write down the title or subject of your last question. I tried...

Long Distance Relationships: Thinking about dating someone else... But I still love him, natural inclinations, preset rules
natural inclinations, preset rules, apprecation: i d offer him a non-exclusive, dont ask-don t tell arrangement, where you could both date others casually, but agree to notify if a more serious thing develops; once you have the feelings you described, if you don t act upon your natural inclinations, you...

Long Distance Relationships: Trainwreck, romantic experience, conciously
romantic experience, conciously, relationship advice: neither one of these guys is the answer; the college guy is into a whole new life and all new people; the other guy is little more than a high school thing destined to fade; the REAL issue is your insecurity/low self esteem, creating this fear of aloneness,...

Long Distance Relationships: Transitioning into a semi-long distance relationship., long distance relationship, health scare
long distance relationship, health scare, fighting chance: just weekends for a year shouldn t be a problem--the space in your togetherness may actually be beneficial in some ways; i wouldn t be too concerned; i don t have an issue with the proposed proposal--unless you re doing it out of insecurity...wait to see...

Long Distance Relationships: Trust, music buisness, those girls
music buisness, those girls, best girl: Hello Well the best thing to do is to just tell him how you feel. Let him know how all of this bothers you and how you would like for him to spend more time with you. I doubt that all of those girls are his best friends. A best friend is supposed to be special...

Long Distance Relationships: Trust, mid forties, relationship worth
mid forties, relationship worth, trust issue: Hello Janet Well first of all you need to know if there really is damage because of this. I have a feeling that you probably didn t. Don t get wrong... he might be annoyed by it and he may be upset about this but it s probably not damaging. It would be damaging...

Long Distance Relationships: Trust,Cheating, aquaintance, second chance
aquaintance, second chance, 3 years: Hey George Of course I believe in second chances. But YOU are the one who is not getting over it. If it s just kissing then get over it. But if it s been 7 months and still an issue to you and if it s getting to the point where you are still crying over...

Long Distance Relationships: Trust, long distance relationship, having a good time
long distance relationship, having a good time, trust issue: it s really none of his business, whatever it was that you did...you re being far too patient with his immature, insecurity-based badgering; i would just tell him, one final time, that you have nothing to be ashamed of or guilty about, that it has nothing...

Long Distance Relationships: Trying again, backup plan, heaps
backup plan, heaps, close friends: Hey Nadia So, did you hear from him? I can t say anything that I haven t said already. Wait it out, and don t be in such a rush for something to happen. Sometimes, you sound a bit lonely...are you? I imagine that school must keep you busy, but it seems...

Long Distance Relationships: Trying to save a dying long distance relationship, long distance relationship, breaking my heart
long distance relationship, breaking my heart, uphill task: Hey Martin! This is such a tough situation. Honestly, you deserve better than this girl is offering you. I think you need to stand up for yourself and confront her; tell her just what you told me. Tell her that you ve spent a lot of time, effort, and money...

Long Distance Relationships: Trying again, lots of feelings, talking nonsense
lots of feelings, talking nonsense, time emailing: Hey Nadia First of all, just call him up and tell him! Say something like I love you, and I don t want to loose you, and I m willing to at least try and I know it ll work, I have this strong feeling it ll work. Say something like that but put it into your...

Long Distance Relationships: i can't live like this anymore, long distance relationship, thoughts and feelings
long distance relationship, thoughts and feelings, voice mail: Dear Eric, Trust is really one of the basic things that hold relationship. Without that, it s falling apart. To my opinion, if you re breaking up with her, do it face to face and tell her that you feel that honesty does not exist anymore between you too....

Long Distance Relationships: taking a break or break up, ebb flow, building furniture
ebb flow, building furniture, creative path: Hello Claire Well I think giving each other space is a good idea. You only have to wait about a month or so until you guys see each other and the whole thing seems pretty realistic. I think that you shouldn t just have no contact at all though. I think it...

Long Distance Relationships: taking a break in a long distance relationship, long distance relationship, space space
long distance relationship, space space, 28 years: Hey Joe It s certainly not over! I think you are overreacting about it being over so quickly! I think she really does want more experiences. She has been with you for almost 5 years and she probably just wants to have fun and experience new things before...

Long Distance Relationships: what to talk about, interesting topics, fun thing
interesting topics, fun thing, conversations: Hey Well anything can be an interesting topic. You just have to be creative. For example I used to have conversations about sweets like candy, video games, clothing, etc. You just have to be creative and make it fun. But some other topics that usually are...

Long Distance Relationships: should i talk about it?, funner place, rediculous
funner place, rediculous, going to college: Hey Sommer Well I m 17 so I agree that teenagers can fall in love and stuff, the only thing I feel about it is that with teens it is usually immature and there is not much commitment and maturity. I have no idea if it s love though. From my own personal experiences...

Long Distance Relationships: how can I tell whether she is cheating, e mail addresses, maturity factor
e mail addresses, maturity factor, care attitude: obviously it s impossible to know if she s cheating, but it sounds like you have enough questions/reservations that i would suggest lowering your expectations, especially when it comes to thinking about marriage..perhaps it s time to stop worrying about her,...

Long Distance Relationships: how to tell him to slow down, night out in glasgow, glasgow scotland
night out in glasgow, glasgow scotland, great relationship: Hi Jill Yeah, I completely understand how this situation is really freaking you out. It is a bit strange... well the best thing to do is to tell him that you do really like him, but you don t feel comfortable when he says these things to you. Tell him how,...

Long Distance Relationships: how do i tell him, long distance relationship, going to mexico
long distance relationship, going to mexico, speakerphone: Hello Well first of all never let your friends speak to him for you. Your friend really had no right to say that you wanted to lose your virginity to him without your permission. That;s not very nice and now you are in this perdicament because she wanted...

Long Distance Relationships: temporary long distance advice needed..., whle, rest of my life
whle, rest of my life, good job: Hey Mike Well first of all it sounds like your very lucky and you shouldn t be too upset about it. All you have to do is wait three or four months and then you guys are together again. I know plenty of people who have to wait years, and i still have to wait...

Long Distance Relationships: temporary long distance relationship..., long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, small apartment: Hi Stella!! Wow, sounds like an amazing experience going to Japan, so first off dont let nething ruin your moments there, you will want to have a great time and remember them forever! But i totally know what you mean about long distance relationships. What...

Long Distance Relationships: i think i've fallen in love, long distance relationships, boyfriends
long distance relationships, boyfriends, perfect man: Wow Katrina, i am so glad to see that this relationship is working out so well! I have heard from alot of ignorant people that long distance relationships won t work out for various reasons. OBVIOUSLY THEY ARE WRONG! i am so proud that you handled this situation...

Long Distance Relationships: do you think it will work?, long distance relationships, long term relationship
long distance relationships, long term relationship, honest don: Hey Laura Well 4 hours is pretty far but still it s not that far. It could be a whole lot worse so at least you guys can fit in some time to see each other. This will be hard and I hope you know how much it will be hard. I don t know if you have ever been...

Long Distance Relationships: what to think, wonderful girl, mutual friends
wonderful girl, mutual friends, 7 months: Hey Rich Yes I think things are starting to change. It doesn t sound like she s seeing anyone else or wants to see somebody else, but from what you told me it sounds like she is just losing interest or there has really been nothing to talk about lately. Keep...

Long Distance Relationships: thinking about going in the airforce, boyfriend and girlfriend, airforce
boyfriend and girlfriend, airforce, togetherness: sometimes all the caring in the world can t save unworkable situations; going into service is a big commitment that can lead ANY relationship into uncertainty; your boyfriend doesn t want to sit around waiting while you re living your chosen life, probably...

Long Distance Relationships: How much time is enough to know?, mba school, job interview
mba school, job interview, second thoughts: you have uncertainty, been dating less than a year, he appears to want/need more space than you...these general trends are more significant than the number of days here and there spent together; if he wants to be with you, he knows where to find you..rather...

Long Distance Relationships: time is a test, finishing school, nilo
finishing school, nilo, fiancee: Hello well I can t tell you want to do and I certainly don t know the right decision for you to make because it all depends on how you both feel. The best thing to do is to ask her how she really feels. What s more important? Being with you or settling. I...

Long Distance Relationships: is she tired of me?, conflicting emotions, ill intentions
conflicting emotions, ill intentions, good shape: if her dancing is your only problem, you re in good shape: you re apparently with her when she does it, and i assume you know the guys?..if so, it s just her unique way of relenting to the music; i don t think you can hypothesize that it infers anything more;...

Long Distance Relationships: getting back together, long distance relationship, mail text
long distance relationship, mail text, long term relationship: Hello Well it would be very stupid of her to throw something away for a guy she met over the weekend. I would feel she met someone if she was gone for much longer than that or she acted strangely when she was back home with you, but from what you rold me,...

Long Distance Relationships: torn between 2, long distance relationships, dumb reason
long distance relationships, dumb reason, boyfriend chris: Hey Keshia If I was in your shoes I would be with neither of them. First of all I know I deserve better than a guy who gets himself in prison for a very dumb reason and an abusive alcoholic. Second of all I would not marry the guy in prison. I believe people...

Long Distance Relationships: tough choice, england winters, steady job
england winters, steady job, graduating college: it really comes down to what is more important to you; if you do go, you should know it will decrease the odds that the relationship will stay together; there s always something lost, something gained, in every situation...it doesn t sound like he s begging...

Long Distance Relationships: a tough one..., great friends, best interest
great friends, best interest, bottom line: it s in your best interest to bite the bullet, keep your pain to yourself, and make like it s no big deal; if she were a guy, no one would have trouble understanding it; who knows, maybe the guy is a wizard in bed, but the bottom line is, she s doing it cause...

Long Distance Relationships: trust, self esteem issues, low self esteem
self esteem issues, low self esteem, chit chat: as you said, this kind of insecurity usually is rooted in low self-esteem; that means you need to build up some confidence in who and what you are; whatever you feel your weaknesses are, try working on improving them; the next step is telling yourself even...

Long Distance Relationships: trust isssues, self esteem issues, chit chat
self esteem issues, chit chat, freak out: Hey Maggie! This sounds like a tough situation. What is the minimum he can do to show you that he cares on a daily basis? Maybe you could talk to him and come up with a plan for a bedtime call or daily e-mail or something; just tell him that you like to hear...

Long Distance Relationships: trust, self esteem issues, chit chat
self esteem issues, chit chat, freak out: Hey Maggie Well, first of all the insecurity you are feeling right now isn t going to get you anywhere. If your guy has made a commitment to you, you have been dating for 5 months like you said, then part of a relationship is trusting someone. It is so...

Long Distance Relationships: Let's try this again..., college freshman, going to college
college freshman, going to college, walking distance: Hi Kortney Well try to spend as much time as you guys can together. I don t know if you mean 15 minutes walking distance or 15 minutes driving. If it s just walking distance then that is not bad at all. Driving might be a problem if neither of you can drive...

Long Distance Relationships: Unexpected Long Distance Problems, long distance relationship, independent approach
long distance relationship, independent approach, oppertunities: no choices here you ll like much; as you said, if you appear insecure, possessive, controlling, her likely resentment will only make the waiting arms of some understanding meathead even MORE attractive; as to stifling cheating fears, all you can do is consider...

Long Distance Relationships: Unhappy and Confused, oats, out of sight
oats, out of sight, waiter: Hello Kimberly Yes there is a problem here. It cannot work unless he is willing to listen to you and change his behavior. He sounds like a very nice guy but the things you are asking for are very little and it would probaly help bring more of a spark into...

Long Distance Relationships: unsure of this relationship, long distance relationship, god in my life
long distance relationship, god in my life, arangements: Hey Juliet I couldn t quite understand what you are asking me but I am going to guess it was about the sexual part and if he takes you seriously about not having sex. Anyways I completely understand what you are going through. I m a virgin and a christain...

Long Distance Relationships: updates LDRp, cell phone providers, long term goal
cell phone providers, long term goal, relationship work: Nilo, In all honesty, I m glad you two didn t break up. I m kind of rooting for you guys over here. I think the relationship you guys have is amazing and beautiful. So few people can find love like that, most just settle for what comes along. The best...

Long Distance Relationships: urgent, medicine doctors, committing suicide
medicine doctors, committing suicide, major depression: Hello Sandra Well suicide is not the answer. There are worst things going on in the world and committing suicide over this is pretty pathetic. So what to do? Well look for other options. Try to maybe have another job if you have to. Do what you have to do...

Long Distance Relationships: Is he using me?, bad motorcycle, motorcycle accident
bad motorcycle, motorcycle accident, classmates: you re reacting to sizzle , but there s no steak with it; it s actions/behavior that count, not words; men will say what they need to, to keep you in a place that s convenient for them; you can t get his address because he s worried about stalkers??..what...

Long Distance Relationships: Is She using me?, little gifts, plenty of times
little gifts, plenty of times, fresh start: Hey Martin Sharp! Personally, and in my opinion yes I think she is using you again. It sounds like she s going to do the same thing to you like she did a while back. I m only saying this cause of what happened in the past and because she s asking too much...

Long Distance Relationships: He's visiting me in Japan, casual relationships, flight to japan
casual relationships, flight to japan, college graduation: i don t see the point of having him come if you are sure this thing is over--hence you should tell him ASAP; you certainly can t tell him when he arrives, and if you wait til the end he ll chastise you for deceiving him for 10 days and exclaim how you should...

Long Distance Relationships: Wasting my time?, step brother, fortunatly
step brother, fortunatly, wasting my time: Hey Katie Well I don t see why you should end the relationship. And I don t understand why you feel your not good enough for him just cause you are far away. If he loves you and cares about him then weather your just a second away or 3000 miles away, he will...

Long Distance Relationships: Whats going to happen???, relashionship, heelo
relashionship, heelo, online dating services: Heelo Christy I m just going to be honest with you. I don t think an LDR could work with you guys. I mean he lives so near to you and you guys don t even want to hang out with each other? He would prefer to be with his friends for most if not all of the time...

Long Distance Relationships: WOOHOO, mom and daughter, career possibilities
mom and daughter, career possibilities, finacee: Hello I think you should do both. If her mother approaches you or her daughter about this, then bring up that point. But if she doesn t then do not bring it up. There s no reason to start up an arguement or hurt anyone s feelings. The best thing is just to...

Long Distance Relationships: Worries, warm fuzzy feeling, wether
warm fuzzy feeling, wether, havn: Hi again! Yes, that is normal. I mean come on, it s a picture. I think anyone would get tired of looking at the same picture over and over again. This would be a problem if she didn t effect you when you guys were together, in person but since it s a normal...

Long Distance Relationships: wants to break up for the summer., long distant relationship, money question
long distant relationship, money question, summer job: couples usually don t break-up for the summer, unless he just wants his freedom or isn t as into it as you think; i mean, 1.5 hrs away isn t THAT far, and he s not working 24 hrs each day..most times, where there s a will, there s a way; i d offer him an...

Long Distance Relationships: wants to find herself..., quiet girl, 9 months
quiet girl, 9 months, old girl: Hello I m very sorry that it took me awhile to respond to this question. I ve been tied down with finals and research papers that I just haven t had the time to really answer allexperts questions. I m sorry about this inconvenience and I hope you are able...

Long Distance Relationships: He wants a hold on our LDR is this going to help us in the long run?, long distance blues, reaching the point
long distance blues, reaching the point, ldr: Dear Adrienne: I am a big ebliever in destiny, and if it is truly meant to be it will work out, whether you are with him now or not. You need to win his confidence again, so don´t nag and just accept the just friends phase. Be the lovely girl that he fell...

Long Distance Relationships: wat should we do?, drastic move, family crisis
drastic move, family crisis, 100ml: Hey Erik Sorry it took me so long to write to you but I ve really had a busy week with finals, a family crisis, and some other issues. I know it s not an excuse but I just want to let you know, cause usually I reply to answers in a day or so but this week...

Long Distance Relationships: well is it true love or not, rare kind, first kiss
rare kind, first kiss, promise ring: Hello Thelma I can t tell you if it is true love or not. You cannot judge true love easily cause everyone in love thinks it s true love. The best way to judge if it s true love is if you guys can surcvive this long distance and have been together for a very...

Long Distance Relationships: Not sure whats going to happen, long distant relationship, long distance relationships
long distant relationship, long distance relationships, single mother: Hello Well first of remember it s been a few months. It took me and my boyfriend almost 8 months to finnally see each other in person. I know of other cases where it usually took the couple almost 2 or 3 years to finnally meet. So I would say people in extremely...

Long Distance Relationships: I am a woman. I am curious..., lusts, shyness
lusts, shyness, headlights: Hey Well does he have a girlfriend? Maybe he has a girlfriend and so that might be a reason. Another reason could be that maybe he had just broke up with someone and for now he doesn t want to be seen with another girl but maybe in the future he would. Well...

Long Distance Relationships: will this work?, long distant relationship, loving this man
long distant relationship, loving this man, building a family: Hey Faith I couldn t understand your question too easily cause of the way you wrote it but I will try my best! :) First of all your alone. this is why relationships are so exciting but yet so painful cause there is a risk. You don t know if it will end up...

Long Distance Relationships: will it work?, life without barriers, schoolboy
life without barriers, schoolboy, boarding school: i admire the letting go philosophy you presented; giving each the freedom to explore life without barriers will work to benefit your chances in the long run; but even still, keep expectations low, as, being this young, EVERYTHING is subject to change, especially...

Long Distance Relationships: will it work?, long distance relationship, reccommend
long distance relationship, reccommend, boarding school: Hello Well I really can t tell you how this whole thing will end up because many things can happen. You guys may have your dream ending and may last for 2 years and end up being near each other. You guys may meet other people and fall in love with someone....

Long Distance Relationships: how to work it out, waiting on a dream, anger issues
waiting on a dream, anger issues, self esteem issues: you basically asked the same question again; i don t think your low self-esteem. and need to stay with him, will really allow you to let go , so instead you will wait in your corner for him to come around; i don t think he lied, because in a relationship...

Long Distance Relationships: worried she's cheating, long distance relationship, parents family
long distance relationship, parents family, one nite: look, you re probably both quite young, she s FAR away, you ve only known her 2 months, and probably only have seen her once; to have any expectations here is insanity; it s ridiculous to drive each other crazy trying to have an exclusive relationship under...

Long Distance Relationships: worried of cheating, long distance relationship, parents family
long distance relationship, parents family, one nite: Hey Joe Well this is something you need to talk about with her. And by the way don t say you didn t like her outfit and who was she trying to impress, cause that would just set her offf too and the last thing you want is an arguement. So say something like...

Long Distance Relationships: is it worth it?, smooth talk, night stand
smooth talk, night stand, faith: one night, then thousands of miles--i wouldn t put much faith in this goin anywhere, regardless of any smooth talk from him; don t allow yourself to get caught up in some email fantasy; communicate CASUALLY, very occasionally, lower expectations to zero, don...

Long Distance Relationships: is it worth it?, long distance relationship, ldr
long distance relationship, ldr, insecurities: it s a tough one; only you can determine if it s worth it.. ..unless you have proof of her deceit, we d have to assume your over-reaction is caused from your personal insecurities, and you have to try to somehow get beyond it..you can tell her how you feel,...

Long Distance Relationships: I been writing a lady in the..., pervert, good luck
pervert, good luck, melissa: Hey Garland Well since you guys are talking about marraige then you might as well find out what she likes and doesn t like right now. Anyways just tell her what I just told you. Just say since there s a possibility that we might get marrried I was wondering...

Long Distance Relationships: Me and X, question thanks, mutual trust
question thanks, mutual trust, melissa: Hi Mercedes Well the only way to rebuild the trust is by being reliable. Showing that above all you will be truthful and will keep your word, and will do what you say you will do or if for some reason you cannot, it s for a good and honest reason. That is...

Long Distance Relationships: what should i do??, wasting my time, own accord
wasting my time, own accord, quiet time: you re the victim on an infatuation; just because u have a strong attraction doesn t make it love...stop chasing; that s the only way you ll know if he s interested enough to make a REAL effort to be with you...but don t count on anything big coming from this..guys...

Long Distance Relationships: will it last?, e mail adress, difrent
e mail adress, difrent, family friend: can t say for sure, but i doubt it; but to wait for someone you haven t seen, observed, done things with, and to use the label of cheating , when each should be encouraged to meet/date real people you can actually go out with, is to me, an unhealthy sign...

Long Distance Relationships: What should I do, random times, personal experiences
random times, personal experiences, second thoughts: Hey Brett I m sorry to tell you this but break ups usually involve depression. There is no real way out of it unless your girlfriend naturally falls out of love with you. But if she loves you then naturally she will be hurt and will probably cry and be broken...

Long Distance Relationships: Should we go for it?, logistical nightmare, moving to spain
logistical nightmare, moving to spain, low self esteem: hey there--nicely expressed thoughts, albeit regarding a tough situation; certainly the ultimately decision is yours, but my advice would be to try what might be called a suspended animation arrangement , where a deep caring and meaningful communication would...

Long Distance Relationships: Can we make it?, long distance relationship, time of our lives
long distance relationship, time of our lives, ldr: Hello Shaan Well it is possible but no it s not very realistic. That doesn t mean it can t happpen cause it really is possible just not very realistic. I m glad to hear you guys have lasted almost a year in this ldr but to wait 4 to 5 years is a very long...

Long Distance Relationships: What do I do?, boy friend, feb 29
boy friend, feb 29, first love: Hello Of course you guys really loved each other but sometimes relationships end. Sometimes you can share something so special with someone but there comes a time when it has to end. It sounds like you guys were very passionate about each other but it s almost...

Long Distance Relationships: what should i do with him, different games, boring life
different games, boring life, sex life: Hello Well the communication thing is pretty bad. You guys don t have to talk everyday for hours but it is important that you guys can talk for at least 20 minutes. If he feels there is nothing to talk about then try doing stuff with him. Yes I know it s...

Long Distance Relationships: What to do?, head over heals, physical attraction
head over heals, physical attraction, sophmore: Hello Brittany Well isn t it kind of early in the year to break up? You don t know what life will bring you and if you want you guys can stay together. If you really love each other and are dedicated to one another then it can work out. For example if he...

Long Distance Relationships: What should I do?, long distance relationships, distance relationship
long distance relationships, distance relationship, enough space: Hello Well if the problem was you really not giving her enough space then I think it s right that you leave her alone and don t call her as much as you used to so she can have her space. So I think it s the right thing if that was really the problem. I think...

Long Distance Relationships: What to do?, night owl, equal exchange
night owl, equal exchange, feeling something: Hello Well I think that you should continue to do whatever you are doing. She likes you and your relationship with her seems healthy. You guys are not moving too fast, but not too slow and you both are attracted to each other. So I think you should continue...

Long Distance Relationships: what should i do, plane flight, heaps
plane flight, heaps, good friends: Hello Well it is true that she might be very upset over it but she will eventually get over it. You guys have not been together too long and I m sure she ll get over it and move on. She will be sad, but there s nothing you can do about it. That typically...

Long Distance Relationships: Why?, long distant relationships, ldr
long distant relationships, ldr, lack of trust: hmmm 1 i would say lack of trust in relationship... this is real common because of the distance and its only human nature to question. Most people in long distant relationships have this problem mainly 2 lack of communication......people loose touch very...

Long Distance Relationships: What's going on with him and her?, myspace, few days
myspace, few days, mom: Hello It s very possible that something could occur between him and this girl Erika. I also think you may be a little jealous but either way someone could develop between them. I think you should really talk to him about this. What surprises me the most about...

Long Distance Relationships: What can I do?, 2 extremes, school breaks
2 extremes, school breaks, shy person: clear enough; you re already on the road to answering your own question; you ve identified the 2 extremes you want to avoid; thusly, the reasonable approach is in the middle; that means accountng for the realities of distance, keeping expectations low, staying...

Long Distance Relationships: like someone, long distance relationship, passion fades
long distance relationship, passion fades, liking: Hello Well I suppose it s okay but since this love is so fresh, you shouldn t be liking anyone at all. You should question yourself and ask if what you are feeling for this woman is really love, because if you are just starting to deeply love someone, you...

Long Distance Relationships: what should I do, hard earned money, asking for a divorce
hard earned money, asking for a divorce, yell: Hi Anna I have to agree with you. It seems like this guy is practically asking for a divorce. Also it sounds like he s really projecting all of his feelings on to you. It s clear from what you told me, that you don t deserve this type of treatment and that...

Long Distance Relationships: What should I do?, xboyfriend, marriage and kids
xboyfriend, marriage and kids, genital warts: let s recap; here s a guy you ve barely seen, lives a thousand miles away, has a reputation of being a player, has a sexually transmittable disease, while you re only 18 and have an interest in dating some other guy, and you ask if you should get married...that...

Long Distance Relationships: Is he gone?, u s army, legitimate reason
u s army, legitimate reason, real reason: why haven t you asked him, much earlier, why he s not writing more?..no matter how busy he is, i can see no excuse why he wouldn t be able to write/call if he really wanted to..as to guys, it s true that many times they take the easy way out and just fade...

Long Distance Relationships: Me AGAIN!, early monday morning, stupid things
early monday morning, stupid things, insecurity: Hey Laura Usually I don t email people so much in one day. I usually go online once a day but today I ve been going online a lot cause my friend wanted me to help see if paid surveys were a scam. I have no idea though, because some websites are convincing....

Long Distance Relationships: Going out, long distance relationship, time melissa
long distance relationship, time melissa, spare time: Hey Nishea Of course it s not wrong for you to go out and do anything. I find that a lot of guys are like this and personally I hate it. But I usually end up going out and having fun no matter what he wants me to do. He probaly just doesn t want you to go...

Long Distance Relationships: What to do what to do, long distance relationships, shy person
long distance relationships, shy person, being a girl: Hey Sako Long distance relationships are never easy, but I think you already knew that. I think it is especially hard when you are both in school, and are busy with assignments, exams and homework. That doesn t mean that you can t make time to see someone...

Long Distance Relationships: what to do, long distance relationships, long distances
long distance relationships, long distances, western wa: Hey Amber Well most long distance relationships can work if both people are very dedicated to it. They should have open communication. In other words, be able to talk about everything, and whenever an arguement or disagreement comes up, to handle it maturely....

Long Distance Relationships: what should i do, ldr, 10th grade
ldr, 10th grade, virginity: Hey Destiny Well there s not much you can do without him being dedicated to it. The best thing you can do, is to just call him up and ask him what is going on. Tell him that a relationship cannot work without communication and you guys are lacking in that...

Long Distance Relationships: What to do?, long distance relationship, phone numbers and addresses
long distance relationship, phone numbers and addresses, awkward position: Kevin, Well she seems to like you because she gave you her phone number and all that and even called you a few times. It could be that she just has gotten so busy that she doesnt have time to think about doing anything. That could always be a possibility....

Long Distance Relationships: Young love long distance, cape cod massachusetts, time melissa
cape cod massachusetts, time melissa, boston in the fall: Hello Well if you will be living very near to her in less than 4 months, then I don t see how it cannot work out. I think that it will have a better chance of working if you move near to her. I cannot tell you if it will last forever cause you both are very...

Long Island: Wedding Consulting, Wedding, Planning
Wedding, Planning, Consultant: Please feel free to use my name. Jerry Monaghan is now the former president but very active with the Association. STAN WIEST A.STAN WIEST MUSIC Member Association of Bridal Consultants www.stanwiest.com Blog www.stanwiest.com/blog Wedding Planning...

Long Island: wedding venue, Wedding, reception
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Long Island: Antique Pump Organ, cornish co, stan wiest music
cornish co, stan wiest music, pump organs: I am not terribly familiar with pump organs but I will try to help you. Call Bill Maguire (631) 261-6799 . He is an excellent piano tuner and may be able to direct you to the proper person. Also call Richard Smith of The Piano Exchange at (561) 671-6515. He...

Long Island: how to beak into planning?, new milford connecticut, becoming a wedding planner
new milford connecticut, becoming a wedding planner, stan wiest music: Dear Jennifer, Contact the Association Of Bridal Consultants 200 Chestnutland Road New Milford Connecticut 06776-2521 Phone 860-355-0464 Tell them that you are interested in becoming a wedding planner and ask them for a package of information. Ask...

Long Island: de seversky, de seversky, stan wiest music
de seversky, stan wiest music, personal band: Dear Lianne, I have been associated with De Seversky for over 20 years providing Bands, DJ s and Ceremony and Cocktail Hour music. My personal band has played close to 100 weddings at De Seversky.I cannot say enough nice things about De Seversky. The food...

Long Island: Long Island, long island newsday, stan wiest music
long island newsday, stan wiest music, wiest: Contact Long Island Newsday Newspaper.They have run several articles and series on exactly what you are looking for. Call (631) 843-2020 and ask for customer service. They will point you in the right direction andhelp you with the information you need. STAN...

Long Island: outdoor wedding, outdoor wedding, wiest
outdoor wedding, wiest, member association: I apologize for not getting back to you immediately but I was intransit yesterday - flying back from a week of giving seminars on wedding planning. Unfortunately I am not familiar with anyone who rents out their back yard for weddings.I suggest you contact...

Long Island: A small intimate ceromony, stan wiest music, joan hamburg
stan wiest music, joan hamburg, time out new york: Send me your name and address (mention this post in Allexperts)I will send you a package of information on the entertainments I provide-it might help you and you will be surprised how affordable it can be.It does not have to be incredibly expensive. There...

Long Island: Wedding Music, stan wiest music, page questionnaire
stan wiest music, page questionnaire, tuxedo attire: Dear Bob, Your best answer is to have an excellent keyboardist for the 4 hours reception. You do not need 2 musicians.My fee for a keyboardist for 4 hours is $450 - tuxedo attire no additional fees-taxes etc. I have a 5 page questionnaire that covers every...

Lord of the Rings: The Secret Garden, secret garden by frances hodgson, frances hodgson burnett
secret garden by frances hodgson, frances hodgson burnett, garden by frances hodgson: sorry, i haven t read that book since i was very small. but you can t find one theme at all in the whole book? that s quite impossible. how old are you? umm . . . i would suggest searching the net or buying the letts/york notes if you re in the uk or...

Los Angeles Dodgers: 1958 Dodgers Minor League System, st paul saints, great falls electrics
st paul saints, great falls electrics, montreal royals: I m not sure to what you are replying, but if you d like to email me, I am at spreng@acmewebpages.com. Meantime, here is the complete 1958 Dodgers Minor League System: St Paul Saints AAA American Association Montreal Royals AAA International...

Los Angeles Dodgers: 1959 dodger baseball, dodger baseball, carl erskine
dodger baseball, carl erskine, certificate of authenticity: Mark, As a dedicated Dodgers fan since 1953, I would keep it. Those guys are my childhood heros: Reese, Hodges, Snider, Erskine, Drysdale, Podres, etc. Besides, with dirt and damage, you wouldn t get much for it if you tried to sell it unless you have a...

Los Angeles Dodgers: 1959 Signed Ball??, wally moon, maury wills
wally moon, maury wills, sandy koufax: No problem. The ball can t be from 1958, because Wally Moon didn t join the club until 1959. All of those players were with the team in 59 and 60, but I would place it in 1959 because, if it were from 1960, it would probably have Maury Wills, Frank Howard...

Los Angeles Dodgers: 1962 LA Dodgers yearbook, fake signatures, la dodgers
fake signatures, la dodgers, dodger stadium: well, the yearbook itself, without an autograph, in mint condition would probably bring 60 dollars or so. the dodgers are a team that made lots of yearbooks, and it seems like there are always many available for sale. since this is the first season of dodger...

Los Angeles Dodgers: 1962 signed baseball, sports collectibles, local card
sports collectibles, local card, drysdale: It s value is only whatever someone else will pay for it. Seriously, this is outside the scope of my knowledge. I am not a collector nor am I an appraiser. There are several sites on the web which claim to provide appraisals of sports collectibles and...

Los Angeles Dodgers: 1966 Games that Koufax pitched in- including preseason exhibitions, buzzie bavasi, pre season games
buzzie bavasi, pre season games, don drysdale: In 1966 Koufax appeared in 41 games (all as starter) winning 27 and losing 9, with 27 complete games and 5 shutouts. If I remember right, he didn t pitch any pre-season games, sitting out the entire spring training as he and Don Drysdale held out together...

Los Angeles Dodgers: 1966 Season/Phil Regan, st louis cardinals, phil regan
st louis cardinals, phil regan, dodger game: Based on what you ve told me, that would have been July 1st against the St Louis Cardinals. That was the only home game Koufax started that year where the team lost 2-0 (he didn t lose any 1-0). I don t have the box score, so I don t know if Regan got the...

Los Angeles Dodgers: 1968 Season, baseball almanac, baseball reference
baseball almanac, baseball reference, game synopsis: I don t know if it has day to day standings, but the rest of that information is now available at the Baseball Almanac s web site, including daily box scores. You can go to this link for the 1968 season: http://www.baseball-almanac.com/teamstats/schedule.php?y=1968&t=LAN...

Los Angeles Dodgers: 19th century brooklyn baseball question, brooklyn atlantics, baseball question
brooklyn atlantics, baseball question, mutuals: If by same team you mean ownership, I can find no information about the owner of any Atlantic team from that era. If you mean were they the same players, then I seriously doubt it. I found a box score for a game between the Atlantics and the New York Mutuals...

Los Angeles Dodgers: 2001 Season Schedule, dodger schedule, dodger games
dodger schedule, dodger games, fox sport: Hello Richard, It depends on where you live. If you live in the LA area, the local TV schedule is available at the Dodgers Official Site: http://dodgers.mlb.com/NASApp/mlb/la/homepage/la_homepage.jsp then, under Headlines, the last entry is the 2001 KTLA...

Los Angeles Dodgers: baseball year, burt hooton, ron cey
burt hooton, ron cey, steve yeager: That would have to be 1982 -- Steve Sax s first season and Steve Garvey s last with the team. The names you don t know are Burt Hooton, Pedro Pete Guerrero and announcer Jerry Doggett. I don t do appraisals. The ball is worth nothing to me, because I...

Los Angeles Dodgers: 1959 World Series, Dodgers, Danny Kaye
Dodgers, Danny Kaye, song: Hello Cheryl, The song you remember was The D-O-D-G-E-R-S Song (Oh, Really? No, O Malley) performed by Danny Kaye. You can listen/download an MP3 file of that song at my web site: http://www.acmewebpages.com/dodgers/songs.htm Enjoy, Patric...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Manny Ramirez, lyrics
Los Angeles Dodgers: Manny Ramirez, lyrics

Los Angeles Dodgers: Manny Ramirez, Dodgers, Manny Ramirez
Dodgers, Manny Ramirez, song: Dear Yeye, There are several songs played when Manny comes to bat. It could be any of these three: Final Countdown by Europe, Cross That Line by Rick Ross, or I m a Flirt by R. Kelly. You can probably listen to clips of these songs at Amazon.com...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Dodgers/Giants song, brooklyn dodgers, brooklyn bums
brooklyn dodgers, brooklyn bums, fan dance: Jennifer There have been a lot of songs about the Dodgers -- Brooklyn Dodgers Jump, Brooklyn Dodgers Polka, Brooklyn Fan, Dem Brooklyn Bums (Baseball Bat Boogie), Follow the Dodgers, and Dodgers Fan Dance, but the one you are looking for is...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Dodgers/Giants song, radio broadcast, kewb
Los Angeles Dodgers: Dodgers/Giants song, radio broadcast, kewb, san francisco

Los Angeles Dodgers: 1959 Dodger lineup, carl furillo, clem labine
carl furillo, clem labine, maury wills: Here s the 1959 roster of everyone who appeared in at least one regular season game: C Johnny Roseboro 26 1B Gil Hodges 35 2B Charlie Neal 28 3B Jim Gilliam 30 SS Don Zimmer 28 OF Wally Moon 29 OF Don...

Los Angeles Dodgers: What year were these Dodger ball team signed., ed goodson, cey
ed goodson, cey, lasorda: Hello, Jack: The first ball is from either 1973 or 1974. Downing was not on the team in 1973, and Tommy John was not there in 1975, so that narrows it down to just 73 or 74. The second ball is from 1977. That was the only year Ed Goodson was on the...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Los Angeles Dodgers, dodgers, brooklyn
dodgers, brooklyn, o'malley: The first game in Los Angeles was played on April 18, 1958 at Los Angeles Memorial Coliseum; the Dodgers beat the San Francisco Giants, 6-5, before 78,672, a major league record crowd. On March 29th this spring they played the Boston Red Sox in an exhibition...

Los Angeles Dodgers: signed ball by whole team, dodgers, brooklyn
dodgers, brooklyn, los angeles: I m not sure what your question is, but I can tell you that ball is from 1990. The names you list are Kal Daniels, Ray Searage, Chris Gwynn, Tim Belcher(?) and Willie Randolph. Others probably include Mike Scioscia, Juan Samuel, Kirk Gibson, Mike Sharperson,...

Los Angeles Dodgers: 1960 Dodger Jersey, Dodgers, logo
Dodgers, logo, jersey: Hello Claire, I don t have a definitive answer for you. 1958 was the last year the team s road jerseys showed Dodgers and not Los Angeles. Rawlings may be right about the special event jerseys. One thing I notice, your jersey has a very unique version...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Dodger Player?, ray daugherty, baseball almanac
ray daugherty, baseball almanac, major league baseball: Not that I can find. Neither the Baseball Almanac nor the Baseball Encyclopedia show anyone by the name of Sossamon ever playing major league baseball. He could have played in the minors. There is a Harold Ray Daugherty and a Harold Ray Smith, but neither...

Los Angeles Dodgers: 1960 Dodger Jersey, minor league system, dodgers
Los Angeles Dodgers: 1960 Dodger Jersey, minor league system, dodgers

Los Angeles Dodgers: Los Angeles Dodger Signed Baseball, 1959, dodgers
1959, dodgers: Sharon, Your baseball is from 1959. That s the only year Wally Moon and Pee Wee Reese were both on the team. Moon as a player and Reese as a coach. The names you are missing or misspelled: Rip Repulski, Johnny Klippstein, Johnny Podres, Roger Craig, Chuch...

Los Angeles Dodgers: players named Doyle, new york dodgers, brooklyn dodgers
new york dodgers, brooklyn dodgers, major league baseball: No, there was not. There was a John Aloysius Doyle (? - 1915) who played three games for the St Louis Brown Stockings in 1882; and there was a William Carl Doyle (1912 - 1951) who played for the Brooklyn Dodgers in 1939 - 1940, but I could not find any Harold...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Brooklyn Dodger team signed baseball, brooklyn, dodgers
brooklyn, dodgers, o'malley: Bill, That would have been Roosevelt Stadium, a former baseball park on Route 440 and Danforth Avenue in Jersey City, New Jersey. In 1956, the Dodgers played seven games there as Walter O’Malley tried to send New York politicians a message that he was...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Dodger pre-game show theme music, dodgers, brooklyn
dodgers, brooklyn, los angeles: Rick, That would be It s a Beautiful Day for a Ball Game by R. Roberts, William Katz, Gene Piler, Harry Simeone, first published in 1963: It s a Beautiful Day for a Ball Game, for a ballgame, today. The fans are out to get a ticket or two From Walla...

Los Angeles Dodgers: what year is this baseball from?, Dodgers, autograph
Dodgers, autograph, 1977: Marla, That ball has to be from 1977. The names are Jim Gillian (coach, 1965-78), Dusty Baker (1976-83), Steve Garvey (1969-83), John Hale (1974-77), Johnny Oates (1977-79), Doug Rau (1972-79), Burt Hooton (1975-84), Ron Cey (1971-82), Steve Yeager (1972-85),...

Los Angeles Dodgers: LA Dodgers Autographed Team Ball, bob welch, team steve
Los Angeles Dodgers: LA Dodgers Autographed Team Ball, bob welch, team steve

Los Angeles Dodgers: LA Dodgers Autographed Team Ball, dodgers, baseball
dodgers, baseball, team: Bryan, That team ball could be from either 1977 or 1978. Burt Hooton, Rick Monday, Bill Russell, Doug Rau, Red Adams (coach), Johnny Oates, Bob Welch, Monte Basgall, Lee Lacy, Tom Lasorda (manager), Ben Sheets (scout), Ted Martinez, and Davey Lopes were...

Los Angeles Dodgers: baseball walk out songs, dodgers, manny
dodgers, manny, song: Dear Richard, There are several songs played when Manny comes to bat. It could be any of these three: Final Countdown by Europe, Cross That Line by Rick Ross, or I m a Flirt by R. Kelly. You can probably listen to clips of these songs at Amazon.com...

Los Angeles Dodgers: the flock, dodgers, brooklyn
dodgers, brooklyn, robins: Dave, That nickname goes back way before your time and mine. Wilbert Robinson became manager of the Brooklyn Dodgers in 1914, the year after the team moved into Ebbets Field. He saw the team through some if its more colorful, if not always successful, years....

Los Angeles Dodgers: Orlando Hudson, Danny's farm, Dodgers, Orlando Hudson
Dodgers, Orlando Hudson, song: CJ, I don t know but if you give me a couple of days, I can contact the Dodgers on their website and find out. Or you can contact them yourself at https://secure.mlb.com/help/email.jsp?c_id=la&primarySubject=Other&secondarySubject=Other&dest=fanfeedback@dodgers.mlb.com...

Los Angeles Dodgers: 1965 Dodgers Team Autograph baseball, autographed baseball
autographed baseball: Jason, I really won t be of much help to you. In my opinion, a item s value is whatever it is worth to you, not how much you might be able to sell it for. I have no idea if authentication affects the value or by how much. I hope you can enjoy it for what...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Jersey for Bishop, vin scully, sammy davis jr
Los Angeles Dodgers: Jersey for Bishop, vin scully, sammy davis jr, road jerseys

Los Angeles Dodgers: Jersey for Bishop, dodgers, players
dodgers, players: Kenneth, I ll do what I can to help you. As you have found, no one named Bishop has ever been on the active roster for the Dodgers. I doubt if the number 24 has been used in spring training, as it was retired on June 5, 1977, in honor of Walter...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Dodger Baseball vinyl record, Koufax, recording
Koufax, recording: Julie, I am the only one here and I have never heard of this record. On 8/13/66 the Dodgers beat the Chicago Cubs 6-1, with Sandy Koufax striking out 11 in winning his 19th game of the season. I don t see anything that would particularly make this a memorable...

Los Angeles Dodgers: 60's dodgers, don drysdale, consecutive scoreless innings
don drysdale, consecutive scoreless innings, orel: James, I don t know the answer to your first question, although I d wager it was Koufax. With four no-hitters in the 60 s, he s almost certain to hold that record. I assume on your second question you mean *consecutive* scoreless innings. That would...

Los Angeles Dodgers: August 30, 1959, baseball almanac, box score
baseball almanac, box score, barstow: According to the Baseball Almanac (baseball-almanac.com) the Dodgers beat the Giants 7-6 on Sunday, August 30, 1959. You can purchase a paper copy of the box score from their site for $10. For more information, you ll need to do offline research. I would start...

Los Angeles Dodgers: attendance, new yankee stadium, dodger stadium
new yankee stadium, dodger stadium, memorial coliseum: The Dodgers, by far: 133,895,323 (2,789,486 per year average) to 103,662,904 (2,159,644 per year average) for the Yankees. All of the Dodgers games were in Dodger Stadium, except for 1960 and 1961 which were in the LA s Memorial Coliseum. The Yankees played...

Los Angeles Dodgers: autagraphed baseball date ? Value?, authentic autographs, jerry reuss
authentic autographs, jerry reuss, baseball ball: Sure. My email address is spreng@acmewebpages.com. Send me digital images and I will try to decipher the names. Given the names in your question, the ball could be any year between 1983 and 1986. More names will allow me to narrow that down. As for selling...

Los Angeles Dodgers: autographed baseball, card collectibles, collectibles shop
card collectibles, collectibles shop, appraisor: I am neither a collector nor an appraisor of collectibles. I have no idea if it is worth anything, or, if so, how much. There are several baseball appraisal sites on the web, or you could take it to a local card/collectibles shop for appraisal. Sorry, ...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Brooklyn Dodgers, john roseboro, brooklyn dodgers
john roseboro, brooklyn dodgers, 35 games: John Roseboro stepped right in as permanent catcher for the Dodgers after Campanella s tragic injury. John had been the Dodger backup catcher during the 1957 season, appearing in 35 games. He would continue as the Dodger starting catcher for the next ten years,...

Los Angeles Dodgers: baseball, ron cey, steve yeager
ron cey, steve yeager, steve garvey: Here are the primary starters for the Dodgers in 1978: C Steve Yeager 1B Steve Garvey 2B Davey Lopes 3B Ron Cey SS Bill Russell OF Dusty Baker OF Reggie Smith OF Rick Monday Garvey, Lopes, Cey and Russell played together for a major league...

Los Angeles Dodgers: brooklyn vs. los angeles, los angeles dodgers, brooklyn dodgers
los angeles dodgers, brooklyn dodgers, seven more years: Not by my counts. Between 1901 and 1957 the Brooklyn Dodgers played 8,728 regular season games and 61 playoff games. Through last night, they have played 7,530 regular season games (plus 73 playoff games) as the Los Angeles Dodgers. And that doesn t include...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Dale Mitchell, don larsen, dale mitchell
don larsen, dale mitchell, perfect game: Hello Paul, Dale Mitchell was a journeyman outfielder who played most of his career in Cleveland. But he was traded to the Dodgers in 1956, where he ended his career. In the 5th game of the 1956 World Series against the Yankees, Mitchell was called out...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Dodger AAA Minors 1958-1960, jim gentile, aaa team
jim gentile, aaa team, baseball by the numbers: Hello Glen, I wish I could help, but I don t have any resources, online or off, for minor league teams that far back. I think the Dodgers AAA team was the Spokane Indians at that time. In Brooklyn, I think it was Montreal. Thanks for the offers....

Los Angeles Dodgers: Dodger move to Los Angeles, dodger, vero beach
dodger, vero beach, spring training: Ron, I think you ve asked this before, or maybe it was someone else. I don t know the exact date, but the players arrived in Los Angeles from spring training in Vero Beach the week of April 13, 1958. Opening day was Friday, April 18, against the Giants....

Los Angeles Dodgers: Dodger, trolley tracks, thename
trolley tracks, thename, baseball team: It means one who avoids or gets out of the way of something. In the 1890 s there were so many trolley tracks in Brooklyn that people in the other parts of New York called the residents Trolley Dodgers. The name was attached to the team, and eventually shortened...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Dodgers' Name, acme dodger, thename
acme dodger, thename, dodgers: John, You will find an exhaustive explanation at my ACME Dodger web site: http://www.acmewebpages.com/dodgers/thename.htm I hope you don t mine my pointing you to a web site, but I think it is better than just giving you a quick summary here. Regards,...

Los Angeles Dodgers: what's a dodger?, trolley lines, sportswriter
trolley lines, sportswriter, 1890s: i have answered this question for someone else. in the 1890s, many trolley lines converged in brooklyn, so the citizens became known as trolley dodgers . the team somehow got the nickname dodgers from that. not exactly sure if was a particular sportswriter...

Los Angeles Dodgers: 1959 Signed Ball??, john roseboro, maury wills
Los Angeles Dodgers: 1959 Signed Ball??, john roseboro, maury wills, wally moon

Los Angeles Dodgers: 19th century brooklyn baseball question, bob ferguson, baseball team
Los Angeles Dodgers: 19th century brooklyn baseball question, bob ferguson, baseball team, national champions

Los Angeles Dodgers: Intro Music to LA Dodgers Pregame show, dodgers, 60s
Los Angeles Dodgers: Intro Music to LA Dodgers Pregame show, dodgers, 60s, radio

Los Angeles Dodgers: origin of dodger's, trolley cars, trolly
Los Angeles Dodgers: origin of dodger's, trolley cars, trolly, dodger

Los Angeles Dodgers: Signed baseball What year?, jerry grote, backup catcher
Los Angeles Dodgers: Signed baseball What year?, jerry grote, backup catcher, grate

Los Angeles Dodgers: stadium music, van halen, o fortuna
Los Angeles Dodgers: stadium music, van halen, o fortuna, season tickets

Los Angeles Dodgers: Team PCT, major league baseball, tie game
Los Angeles Dodgers: Team PCT, major league baseball, tie game, statistics

Los Angeles Dodgers: My favorite bartender claims..., jim lefevre, maury wills
jim lefevre, maury wills, wes parker: Pretty close. It 1965, to be exact. That s when Parker joined Lefebvre, Wills and Gilliam as part of the only all switch-hitting infield in MLB history. In 1966, Gilliam played only part time, and then retired. The all switch-hitting infield only lasted...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Greg Gagne, greg gagne, colorado rockies
greg gagne, colorado rockies, professional baseball: If they are related, it is very distantly. Verne does have a son named Greg, born in 1948. This Greg is also a wrestler and not the Dodger pitcher, who was born in 1976. Greg (the wrestler) has a son, J P, who played for a while in the Colorado Rockies farm...

Los Angeles Dodgers: generaly, pitching and balls question., moist dirt, tom glavine
moist dirt, tom glavine, greg maddux: Hello, Moises! The last time I checked, the umpires prepare 75 baseballs before each game. Just prior to game time the umpires open the baseball packages, inspect the balls and remove their gloss by rubbing a little moist dirt into each one. I don t know...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Hee-Seop Choi, loose leaf binder, official baseball rules
loose leaf binder, official baseball rules, major league baseball: From ESPN.com: All the ins and outs of transactions are covered, sometimes in excruciating detail, in a large loose-leaf binder titled, The Official Professional Baseball Rules Book, something completely separate from the Official Baseball Rules (which...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Hi, I'm a Dodger's Fan since..., archibald moonlight graham, tim bogar
archibald moonlight graham, tim bogar, dodger fan: i hope you are enjoying your visit here in the states. as a lifelong dodger fan myself, it s always nice to meet another. as for kevin brown returning, the last i heard was unless he has any further medical setbacks with his elbow, he is supposed to...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Home Team bench location, dodger dugout, candlestick park
dodger dugout, candlestick park, dodger stadium: Hello! The Dodger dugout is on the third base line, and I know for a fact that at Candlestick Park (more boringly known as 3-COM) the home team *cough* Giants *cough* dugout is on the first base side. I am not all that familiar with other parks, but at...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Have you heard of this guy, baseball almanac, western massachusetts
baseball almanac, western massachusetts, minor league players: Sorry, but I cannot help much with this. There are very few records online about minor league players and teams. You have to go to libraries and look through newspaper archives to find anything. I can tell you that no one by that name ever played in the majors...

Los Angeles Dodgers: history, walter o malley, horace stoneham
walter o malley, horace stoneham, neil j sullivan: Aaron, There have been entire books written (The Dodgers Move West, by Neil J Sullivan) attempting to explain why Walter O Malley moved the Dodgers from Brooklyn to Los Angeles, but it all boils down to money. Even with all the pennants the Dodgers...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Intro Music to LA Dodgers Pregame show, walla walla washington, la dodgers
walla walla washington, la dodgers, song title search: That would be It s a Beautiful Day for a Ballgame… by Jon Weisman: It s a Beautiful Day for a Ballgame, for a ballgame, today. The fans are out to get a ticket or two From Walla Walla, Washington to Kalamazoo It s a beautiful day for a home run...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Jersey, sports stores, search cgi
sports stores, search cgi, dodger: Hello Sarah, Any number of sports stores -- online and off -- can sell you a Dodger Jersey with any name and number you choose, even your own. For example, I know that ProWebWear.com will personalize Dodger jerseys with the name and number of any player...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Maury Wills, maury wills, rainers
maury wills, rainers, league career: Hello, I don t have much information about Maury s minor league career. Just that he played in the minors from 1951 until mid-year 1959, mostly for the Dodgers. It s possible that he was with Seattle in 1957. I think they might have been a Dodger farm...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Minor League player, loyola marymount university, visalia oaks
loyola marymount university, visalia oaks, baseball card: There s not much online about minor league players of the past, but I have found this: Dan Henry was selected in the 20th round of the 1976 amateur draft by the Dodgers, out of Loyola Marymount University. Dan Henry s baseball card is in the 1977 TCMA...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Minor league, omaha golden spikes, kevin orie
omaha golden spikes, kevin orie, adrian beltre: Kevin Orie is not playing for Albuquerque. The Dodgers released him during spring training right after Adrian Beltre signed a three-year contract. The Kansas City Royals have signed Kevin and he is now playing for their triple-A Omaha Golden Spikes....

Los Angeles Dodgers: move to L.A., chavez ravine, dodger stadium
chavez ravine, dodger stadium, memorial coliseum: Sorry to take so long; I ve been out of town since Thursday morning. The Dodgers first season in Los Angeles was 1958, when they played the first of four years in Memorial Coliseum. They moved into Dodger Stadium for the 1962 season. This year is their...

Los Angeles Dodgers: NAME THAT SONG, dodger stadium, losangeles dodgers
dodger stadium, losangeles dodgers, e mail: No, sorry, I live in Tulsa and have not been to Dodger Stadium since 1983 and I m sure they have changed the song since then. However, you can ask your question on the form here and you should get an answer from the Dodger office within 24 hours: http://losangeles.dodgers.mlb.com/NASApp/mlb/help/email.jsp?c_id=la&primarySubject=Other&secondarySubject=Other&dest=fanfeedback@dodgers.mlb.com...

Los Angeles Dodgers: The NL West in 2006, dodger stadium, yankees fan
dodger stadium, yankees fan, colorado rockies: Welcome aboard! All I do is hope for the best. I started my ACME Dodgers web site on January 1, 1996 and I have been answering questions here since about 1999. I have been a Dodgers fan since the 1953 World Series, which I watched on TV with my father,...

Los Angeles Dodgers: origin of dodger's, trolley lines, borough of brooklyn
trolley lines, borough of brooklyn, uncle robbie: i answered this question a while ago for someone else. as far as i have known, the people of brooklyn were known as trolley dodgers, because many trolley lines converged in the borough of brooklyn. the team sort of adopted the name informally, but were...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Past Team, wally moon, sandy koufax
wally moon, sandy koufax, gil hodges: Let s see if we can narrow it down: Sandy Koufax 1955-65 Frank Howard 1958-64 Gil Hodges 1943-61 Dick Farrell 1961 Wally Moon 1959-65 Since Turk was only on the team in 1961, that s the only year it could have been. Patrick Sorry to...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Player pranks, shaving cream pie, post game interview
shaving cream pie, post game interview, major league baseball players: Jon, Since pranks aren t listed in the record books, and often go uncovered by the local papers here in Oklahoma, I won t be much help to you on this. On the current squad, the leading prankster would have to be Kevin Brown. Over the past 20 or 30 years,...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Player, major league baseball players, league baseball players
major league baseball players, league baseball players, major league baseball: There is a Cory Sullivan currently playing for the Colorado Rockies -- the only Sullivan currently in the majors. No one by the name of Kevin Sullivan has ever played major league baseball, at least not between 1876 and 2005. You can look it up for yourself...

Los Angeles Dodgers: pass dodgers player, leroy nieman, carl furillo
leroy nieman, carl furillo, steve garvey: That would be Steve Garvey, who wore #6 throughout his career from the 1969 through 1982 with the Dodgers. Before that it was worn by Ron Fairly from 1961 until he was traded to Montreal in 1969. Before that, Carl Furillo wore it from 1947 through 1960. ...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Ross Porter, ventura county star, fort wayne journal gazette
ventura county star, fort wayne journal gazette, long beach press telegram: I honestly don t know, and I don t think anyone outside of the Dodgers organization does, either. Here s what I have found in the news: whose contract was not renewed after last season. It was a messy, badly handled affair on the part of the ballclub,...

Los Angeles Dodgers: retirement of a pitcher, sandy koufax, dodger stadium
sandy koufax, dodger stadium, baltimore orioles: Sorry to take so long, I was out of town for the weekend. Sandy Koufax retired after the 1966 season because of advanced arthritis in his pitching arm. His last game was at Dodger Stadium Thursday October 6, 1966, against the Baltimore Orioles, in the...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Scully and Koufax, sports broadcasts, sandy koufax
sports broadcasts, sandy koufax, gay news: About Scully, you d have to ask him why. He didn t consult with me about it. Koufax was a MAJOR news item this spring when he announced that he would not be at Vero Beach for spring training because a News Corp writer hinted in print that our beloved Sandy...

Los Angeles Dodgers: SIGNED BALL, WHAT YEAR? VALUE?, professional appraisal service, john roseboro
professional appraisal service, john roseboro, maury wills: Michael, I can t help you with a value -- check with a professional appraisal service like Eappraisals.com for that -- but I can tell you the ball is from 1965. The names you can t make out are John Purdin, Nick Willhite and probably Willie Crawford....

Los Angeles Dodgers: Signed baseball What year?, ron cey, rick rhoden
ron cey, rick rhoden, mike scioscia: What you have is a ball from 1978. I have no idea of it s actual value, but if it were me I would love it! You have some awesome names on it. Tommy Lasorda was the manager at the time, but I couldn t find anything on Jerry Grate. Perhaps he was a coach....

Los Angeles Dodgers: Starting Line up for Dodgers in 1981, los angeles dodgers, ron cey
los angeles dodgers, ron cey, mike scioscia: Grace, The opening day lineup for the 1981 Los Angeles Dodgers was Davey Lopes 2nd base Ken Landreaux center field Dusty Baker left field Steve Garvey 1st base Ron Cey 3rd base Pedro Guerrero right field...

Los Angeles Dodgers: stadium music, dodger games, dodger stadium
dodger games, dodger stadium, opera song: No, sorry, I have not been to Dodger Stadium since 1983. But you can find out. On the Dodgers official site (www.dodgers.com) you can ask a question about the music and they will get back to you with the answer in one or two business days. I ve done it myself...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Team PCT, major league baseball, tie games
major league baseball, tie games, full game: The winning percentage (PCT) is simply the ratio of wins to games played. You compute it as PCT = WINS / (WINS + LOSSES). Prior to tonight s game, the Dodgers have a record of 62-56. Divide 62 wins by 118 games (62 wins + 56 losses) and you get .5254 which...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Thomas West, bishop kenny high school, la dodgers
bishop kenny high school, la dodgers, red birds: Scott, I did find a Thomas West who was drafted by the Cubs in the 5th round of the 1972 June amateur draft. He was drafted out of Bishop Kenny High School in Jacksonville, Florida. But this is probably too recent to have been your grandfather, and I don...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Tripp Cromer, houston astros, cromer
houston astros, cromer, funny part: The funny part about Tripp Cromer (Roy Bunyan Cromer is his full name) is that he s not a kid! He was born in 1967! He is now playing SS for the Houston Astros, and I am really glad to see his talents get used more regularly. I sure hope this helps! ...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Tripp Cromer, minor league contract, league rosters
minor league contract, league rosters, assigment: Michael, Last November Tripp Cromer refused a minor league assigment from the Dodgers and became a free agent. On December 21, 1999 the Astros signed him to a minor league contract. During spring training (March 27) this year, they assigned him to their...

Los Angeles Dodgers: team name, thename, dodger
thename, dodger, dodgers: Hello Leticia, If you don t mind, I ll point you to a web page I wrote years ago about this very question: http://www.acmewebpages.com/dodgers/thename.htm If you have any trouble getting to that site, ask me again and I will post the entire article...

Los Angeles Dodgers: Working on article for school paper, st louis cardinals, ebbets field
st louis cardinals, ebbets field, yankee studium: The first thing that comes to mind is the shot heard round the world Bobby Thompson s home run in the 1951 NL playoffs, but of course that was at the Polo Grounds. There s the four Gil Hodges hit in one game, August 31, 1950, vs. Boston Braves in Ebbets...

Los Angeles Dodgers: before, vero beach dodgers, minor league affiliates
vero beach dodgers, minor league affiliates, brooklyn dodgers: Sorry to be so late responding, but I just got home from four nights in the hospital without internet access... The answer is no, the Dodgers have only been in Brooklyn and Los Angeles, although there have been minor league affiliates using the Dodgers...

Los Angeles Dodgers: who was the youngest player..., pee wee reese, don drysdale
pee wee reese, don drysdale, brooklyn dodgers: There may be Baseball stats books that have this information, but I don t own any. Be that as it may, I ll do the best I can with what I have. Tommy Brown was 16 years & 8 months when he debuted with the 1944 Brooklyn Dodgers. Pee Wee Reese was only...

Los Angeles Lakers: 1976-1977 Lakers' Roster, kareem abdul jabbar, lakers roster
kareem abdul jabbar, lakers roster, kermit washington: Here you go Alex, Kareem Abdul-Jabbar, Cazzie Russell, Lucius Allen, Kermit Washington, Earl Tatum, Mack Calvin, Don Ford, Bo Lamar, Tom Abernathy, Don Chaney, Johnny Neumann, C.J. Kupec, Cornell Warner, Allen Murphy and Marv Roberts. Thanks for the...

Los Angeles Lakers: Lakers, lamar odom, lakers roster
lamar odom, lakers roster, polished turd: That s a very insightful question Mike (if that s your real name), Lamer s mis-shappen skull is the best thing about him. Oh, he puts up numbers, 3 in the 1st, 5 in the 2nd, 4 in the 3rd and 2 in the 4th. Whoopee!!! He may be 6 10 but he shrinks to...

Los Angeles Lakers: Please help identify these shoes, los angeles lakers, air force one basketball shoes
los angeles lakers, air force one basketball shoes, tennis shoes: Rose! You have stumped me! I have no shoe knowledge. As a matter of fact, I m not even wearing shoes! If I were to wear shoes I d certainly wear the shoes in the picture you sent but I am SHOELESS! I ve got feet, I ve got socks but I ve got no shoes....

Los Angeles Lakers: production of players, lamar odom, old folks home
lamar odom, old folks home, kobe bryant: Hi Larry, I feel your pain. Last night s game was especially hard to watch. I don t know if a bunch of seniors could have done better but hard to see how it could have gone worse. I m trying to remember where the Lakers were at the beginning of the season....

Los Angeles Lakers: Are these men Ex- LA Lakers?, portland trailblazer, ron knight
Los Angeles Lakers: Are these men Ex- LA Lakers?, portland trailblazer, ron knight, globetrotter

Los Angeles Lakers: Are these men Ex- LA Lakers?, tommie tank, rim of the world high school
tommie tank, rim of the world high school, lakers roster: Hi Sande, I don t know about Ron Knight or Tommie Davis being on the Lakers. I don t remember them at all. Larry Spriggs I certainly do remember as an excellent contributor for the Lakers back in the Magic Johnson days. I remember him very well because...

Los Angeles Lakers: KTLA, dish network satellite, television station ktla
dish network satellite, television station ktla, fox sports west: Hi Dan. Good question. The Lakers are not on KTLA. They are on KCAL. The way it works in LA is home games are on Fox Sports West and away games are on KCAL. But KCAL and FSW aren t on satellite. Here s why you should get the Dish or Direct or cable...

Los Angeles Lakers: Autograph for my son birthday, los angeles lakers, nash street
los angeles lakers, nash street, laker games: Hi Jeffrey, it sounds like your son is a Laker fan who has been through a lot this holiday season. Unfortunately I am not affiliated with the Lakers in any way and have no contact with the team. I lived in Los Angeles for over 30 years but I now reside in...

Los Angeles Lakers: Kobe Bryant, league mvp, kobe bryant
league mvp, kobe bryant, lakers: Hi Daniel. Kobe has a wife named Vanessa and I believe 2 daughters. Having a wife and kids at home while you re in the NBA and on the road all the time is probably distracting but Kobe seems to be handling it pretty well considering he s the current league...

Los Angeles Lakers: Lakers, target date, regular season games
target date, regular season games, recovery period: Hi Jay. It s frustrating to see Andrew Bynum go down again this season. It s a different type of injury this time involving the opposite knee. No surgery is scheduled and 8 weeks is thought to be the recovery period. I have no inside knowledge about...

Los Angeles Lakers: dish network kcal, laker game, nba game
laker game, nba game, dish network: Hi Paul, short answer, I don t know. Do you live outside Southern California? If so, I don t think you can get KCAL. I live in Seattle and the only way I can watch every Laker game is by subscribing to League Pass. League Pass allows me to see every...

Los Angeles Lakers: Lakers Traveling, northwest airlines, portland trailblazers
Los Angeles Lakers: Lakers Traveling, northwest airlines, portland trailblazers, interior images

Los Angeles Lakers: Lakers Traveling, charter planes, charter airlines
charter planes, charter airlines, cramped seats: Hi Stuart, good question. The Lakers fly on their own plane. It s more comfortable and it allows them to control the flight times to accommodate their schedule. I don t know if it has beds but the seats are farther apart providing better leg room. ...

Los Angeles Lakers: Derek Fisher, daron williams, shannon brown
daron williams, shannon brown, derek fisher: Hi Big Fan, I understand your frustration. Here s a short answer and a long answer. Short Answer: Fisher is the best option available. Long Answer: Let s start by looking at the record. 65 wins. #1 in the West. No reason to panic. Fisher has...

Los Angeles Lakers: Magic, jack kent cooke, magic magic
jack kent cooke, magic magic, nba titles: Hi John, fun question, thanks. I saw Magic play almost every game of his career so it s hard to compare him to other non-Lakers but I won t let that stop me from doing it anyway. Obviously picking a best player is somewhat subjective. I think out of...

Los Angeles Lakers: making a request to see a home laker game., kobe bryant, laker fan
kobe bryant, laker fan, staple center: Hi David, thanks for your question. I m not affiliated with the Lakers in any way. I grew up in Los Angeles but I live in Seattle now. I m afraid I can t help you get to a Laker game. I m surprised to hear from a Laker fan in Detroit but I m glad you...

Los Angeles Lakers: appearance from laker player, friend of the family, wish foundation
friend of the family, wish foundation, laker: Hi Charles, I m sorry to hear about the young man you speak of. I am not affiliated with the Lakers organization in any way and do not even live in the Los Angeles area. I can t be of any help to you I m afraid. Contact the Make A Wish foundation or the...

Los Angeles Lakers: Travel, charter plane, time nba
charter plane, time nba, ticket revenue: Hi Georgia, the lakers fly on a private plane. I don t know if they own a plane or lease one but they don t fly commercial. Back in the day (prior to the 80s), NBA teams flew commercial flights just like everybody else. The players had to squeeze into...

Los Angeles Lakers: Laker's FO, jerry buss, championship trophy
jerry buss, championship trophy, place thanks: Hi Brad, good question. I think the only way to ID those guys is to go back and look at the tape again and listen to the introductions. I believe they were Buss s grandsons and may not be formally attached to the team. I d never seen or heard of them....

Los Angeles Lakers: question, toney douglas, rookie center
toney douglas, rookie center, good shooting: Hi Faitalia, thank you for your question. Why did the Lakers pick the guy they picked in the draft? Hey, they had to pick somebody, it was their turn! Seriously they picked Toney Douglas from Florida State because he s a shooting guard from a good program....

Los Angeles Lakers: LA Laker Guards, professional basketball player, butch lee
professional basketball player, butch lee, california santa barbara: Hi Marty, I ripped this answer straight from Wikipedia baby! The internet is never wrong!!! Thanks for the question and write me back anytime! TODD PS 6th round draft pick? What??? Donald J. (Don) Ford (born December 31, 1952, in Santa Barbara, California)...

Los Angeles Lakers: Laker Player, nuggets roster, coby karl
Los Angeles Lakers: Laker Player, nuggets roster, coby karl, season thanks

Los Angeles Lakers: Kobe Bryant Picture, lighthouse christian academy, kobe bryant
lighthouse christian academy, kobe bryant, hurricane wv: Dawnetta, Thank you for writing me. Although I ve been a fan of the Lakers for over 30 years I have no conection with the team and have no way of contacting Kobe Bryant. The fact is, I haven t lived in Los Angeles in over a decade and Kobe must get 10,000...

Los Angeles Lakers: Laker Player, coach george karl, coby karl
coach george karl, coby karl, denver coach: Hi Richard, I hope I can answer your question. If it s a white guy it s Coby Karl, son of Denver coach George Karl. He s not on the team anymore but maybe that photo is from a previous season game against the Pacers? Coby Karl was the last player to wear...

Los Angeles Lakers: i have a official laker ball autographed by abdul jabbar,jerry west,lou hudson,adrian smith,jim price,ron carter,dave roberts,etc.stamped by la lakers/lawrence f.obrien was commissioner for nba., adrian dantley, abdul jabbar
adrian dantley, abdul jabbar, la lakers: Hi Joe, I don t recognize all those names but I m thinking it s from the 78- 79 season. I checked the rosters and only found Lou Hudson, Ron Carter and Jim Price on the 78- 79 team. Jerry West would have been an executive with the team at that time as...

Los Angeles Lakers: back to 2004, fab 4, gary payton
fab 4, gary payton, triangle offense: I think the answer is that you can t just throw a team together and expect them to win. Other teams have tried the same thing with usually disappointing results. You re much better off with about 3 really good players and a few guys that rebound, pass or...

Los Angeles Lakers: Basketball, kobe shaq, shaq and kobe
kobe shaq, shaq and kobe, lakers: Hi Anthony, The Lakers got rid of Shaq because he and Kobe didn t get along. They thought they had to get rid of one of them in order to keep the other and they decided they would rather keep Kobe. Shaq and Kobe had been fighting the whole time they were...

Los Angeles Lakers: Basketball Plays, gary payton, allen iverson
gary payton, allen iverson, offensive sets: Tough questions Joe, good questions too. I think a guy like Allen Iverson is calling his own shots. He s such a talented player that he pretty much does what he wants to do and it ususally works out. He drives the lane and figures he ll either make it...

Los Angeles Lakers: Basketball, basketball experience, lisa leslie
basketball experience, lisa leslie, college basketball: Hi Jalanda, Sorry it took me so long to get back to you. It s good to hear from a player. You re 14 and you re tall enough to dunk? Not bad...OK, so what you need to do is keep playing as much as possible and go to college. If you do well in school...

Los Angeles Lakers: Current Organizational Structure, los angeles lakers, nash street
los angeles lakers, nash street, graphic chart: Hi Winona, That sounds like a fun project. I think you might have to go to the Lakers Public Relations department for answers. Try the following address and phone number: LOS ANGELES LAKERS 555 N. NASH STREET EL SEGUNDO, CA 90245 310-426-6031 ...

Los Angeles Lakers: e-mail address for GM, e mail address, nba scout
e mail address, nba scout, nba basketball: You need an agent to represent you in the US. Sports agents shouldn t be too tough to locate by searching on the internet. Contact an agent first and send them a video of your player. If they like him, they should have no trouble getting an NBA scout to...

Los Angeles Lakers: email address for the lakers front office, staples center, center address
staples center, center address, la lakers: I don t know what the address is but Staples Center address is 1111 S. Figueroa Ave. Los Angeles CA. I forgot the zip code. If you send mail to the LA Lakers at that address I m sure they ll get it. You re not the only one upset over this deal, rest...

Los Angeles Lakers: Kevin Garnett, lakers, kobe
Los Angeles Lakers: Kevin Garnett, lakers, kobe, lamar

Los Angeles Lakers: lakers, klac am 570, loose cannons
Los Angeles Lakers: lakers, klac am 570, loose cannons, former laker

Los Angeles Lakers: Practices & Travel, kobe bryant, phil jackson
Los Angeles Lakers: Practices & Travel, kobe bryant, phil jackson, adn

Los Angeles Lakers: jersey number, retired numbers, i don t know
retired numbers, i don t know, lakers: Hi Neil, I don t know who wore 59 on their jersey. Why do you ask? It s not one of the Lakers retired numbers. I can t remember who might have worn it. Trivia like that is not my strength, sorry. The important question is: What are the Lakers going...

Los Angeles Lakers: Kevin Garnett, kobe shaq, lamar odom
kobe shaq, lamar odom, kevin garnett: Hi Henry, I totally agree that KG and Kobe would be an awesome combo. They d be unstoppable and really fun to watch. Imagine what they d do together! I love the idea, BUT: Unfortunately, KG is locked-up in Minnesota for now. He has a contract to...

Los Angeles Lakers: KOBE, vlade divac, charlotte hornets
vlade divac, charlotte hornets, kobe bryant: Hi Robert, Vlade Divac was traded to the Charlotte Hornets for the rights to sign Kobe Bryant. Jerry West took a big gamble in the off season that year. He traded a solid center (Vlade) for a high school player no one was sure would make it in the NBA....

Los Angeles Lakers: Kobe Bryant's well being, staples center, figueroa st
staples center, figueroa st, kobe bryant: Hi Marti, It s nice of you to want to help Kobe through his trying time. I really don t know a good way to contact him and I m sure he gets lots of support and mail from fans everywhere inthe world. If you want to mail something to Kobe Bryant you might...

Los Angeles Lakers: Kobe Bryant, e mail address, kobe bryant
e mail address, kobe bryant, workout routines: Hello there! As far as training, I couldn t tell you anything that Kobe does. I ve never really come across any information where Kobe discusses his pregame workout or otherwise. Sorry! Unfortunately, I ve also never come across pictures of Kobe as...

Los Angeles Lakers: L.A. Lakers, l a lakers, wilt chamberlain
l a lakers, wilt chamberlain, game: Katie, you may have stumped me. My immediate thought when I read your question was Wilt Chamberlain is the answer. I don t think he ever fouled-out of a game in his career. Unfortunately, I haven t been able to locate an official source for that information....

Los Angeles Lakers: Lakers in the Championship, philadelphia 76ers, nba championships
philadelphia 76ers, nba championships, indiana pacers: Hi Damali, thanks for your question. Last year the San Antonio Spurs won the championship for 2003. They beat the New Jersey Nets. The Lakers won in 2000, 2001 and 2002. Three in a row. They beat the Indiana Pacers in 2000, the Philadelphia 76ers in...

Los Angeles Lakers: Lakers and Community., magic johnson theaters, staples center
magic johnson theaters, staples center, garbage man: You ve tackled a subject that s fit for a doctoral thesis, if not a nonfiction book. The Lakers moved to Los Angeles in 1960 -- 43 years ago. There were 9.8 million people in the metropolitan Los Angeles area (LA/Long Beach) in 2000; there were 6 million in...

Los Angeles Lakers: Lakers Tattoo Question??? Help, mark madsen, mtv show
mark madsen, mtv show, lakers roster: Hello Rosie, I wish I could more formally help you out, but unfortunately I don t know EXACTLY which Lakers have tattoos and which ones do not. However, I can tell you that I know Kobe Bryant and Mark Madsen do NOT have tattoos. Other than that, I really...

Los Angeles Lakers: Lakers Tattoo Question???, mtv show, lakers roster
mtv show, lakers roster, statistics project: According to the users at LakersTalk.com: - Fox has a tattoo of NC on his chest and a hoop with a basketball on his right leg - Fisher has a chinese symbol on his right forearm - Kobe has none and has said he ll never get one - Shaq has a ton,...

Los Angeles Lakers: Lakers, history tab, nba
history tab, nba, minneapolis: http://www.nba.com/lakers/history/lakers_history_new.html#2 Teddy, Thanks for the question. The link above will take you right to the information you re seeking. If you can t make the link work, go to www.lakers.com and click on the HISTORY tab on the...

Los Angeles Lakers: Los Angeles Lakers, los angeles lakers, la lakers
los angeles lakers, la lakers, complete games: Hi Dennis- I m still stinging from that loss last night. The Lakers moved to LA in 1960. Where to find a picture? Good question. There is an Encyclopedia of The Lakers that was published by the LA Times just a few years ago, maybe 5, but I think it s...

Los Angeles Lakers: Luxury Tax and Salary Cap, lakers owner jerry buss, owner jerry buss
lakers owner jerry buss, owner jerry buss, player payroll: Hi Beach, I m a little foggy on financial issues but here s what I believe are the correct answers to your questions: 0 and 0. The Lakers owner Jerry Buss has been a strong proponent of fiscal responsibility among NBA owners. As such, he has mandated...

Los Angeles Lakers: lakers, flagship station, laker fans
flagship station, laker fans, laker fan: Alston, I am like you, I live in Seattle these days and I miss listening to the Laker flagship station KLAC 570 AM. I m not aware of any web-based service offering streaming audio for the Lakers. In fact, KLAC s home page says they broadcast their normal...

Los Angeles Lakers: MAgic, olympic dream team, jim magic
olympic dream team, jim magic, laker: Jim, Magic the best Laker? No question about it. Shaq, Kobe, Kareem, West and Chamberlain are close to the top but Magic is in a class by himself. Magic is on the short list of the best players ever in the NBA. Magic hated to lose. First game of the...

Los Angeles Lakers: Magic Johnson, magic johnson, correct spelling
magic johnson, correct spelling, couple books: Hi Marjorie, You ve asked me a question about my favorite player of all-time. I used to love watching Magic play. His first name is Earvin. And that IS the correct spelling. I don t know what his favorite food is though. He has a couple books out,...

Los Angeles Lakers: NBA players life, nba player, nba players
nba player, nba players, hobbies interests: Joe, your question is impossible to answer because the answer depends on the individual. Every player has his own routines, hobbies, interests, etc. Some guys have families, some guys don t. Some guys like to travel, some like to stay home. It varies from...

Los Angeles Lakers: Practices & Travel, coach phil jackson, professional basketball player
coach phil jackson, professional basketball player, gamedays: Hi Allyson, I ll try and answer your questions but my knowledge in this area is not complete. The Lakers start daily practices around September each year and the season begins in the last days of October or 1st of November (it varys year to year). The...

Los Angeles Lakers: if can go to the playoff, kobe shaq, lakers team
kobe shaq, lakers team, play offs: John, I m not sure I understand your question. Will the Lakers make the play-offs? They will be there for sure. We have to wait and see who they play. The only team that thinks they can beat the Lakers is San Antonio. Everyone else is scared of them....

Los Angeles Lakers: Most poits in a single game?, elgin baylor, george mikan
elgin baylor, george mikan, wilt chamberlain: Hi Chris- The Laker rcord for most points in a game is held by Elgin Baylor, but, as you probably know, Wilt scored 100 in a game when he played for Philadelphia. My question is: What are the Lakers going to do to improve things next season? Write...

Los Angeles Lakers: previous los laker, threatt, laker
threatt, laker, magic johnson: You re absolutely correct. Sedale Threatt spent 14 seasons in the NBA. His first year with the Lakers was in 1991-92, as he took over as the Lakers starting point guard for Magic Johnson. He spent 5 years in LA. Check out: http://www.databasebasketball.com/players/playerpage.htm?ilkid=THREASE01...

Los Angeles Lakers: RETIRED PLAYERS, benoit benjamin, la lakers
benoit benjamin, la lakers, retired players: The only center I can think of that played for the Lakers and name started with B is Benoit Benjamin. I m not sure if that s the answer you re looking for, I hope it is. Write me back if it s not who you re thinking of and I ll think a little harder.....

Los Angeles Lakers: Vlade Divac, vlade divac, la times
vlade divac, la times, lakers: Hi Nelson, According to the LA Times Vlade was not waived, he retired. He announced his retirement on Oct. 19th. As you may know, Vlade only played 15 games last season because of back problems. I think he might be too old and fragile to play anymore....

Los Angeles Lakers: whats in a name, minneapolis lakers, land of 10 000 lakes
minneapolis lakers, land of 10 000 lakes, 10 000 lakes: Hi Josh, The Lakers began in 1948 as the Minneapolis Lakers. Minnesota is known as The Land of 10,000 Lakes so those are the lakes in the name. They were purchased by new owners and moved to Los Angeles in 1960. Since they had already won 5 championships...

Losing Your Virginity: bleeding?, having sex during your period, losing your virginity
having sex during your period, losing your virginity, sex during your period: Well assuming you ve thought this through and you know you re ready for sex, you have to understand it is VERY natural for some spotting to moderate bleeding after losing your virinity. It s not something to be embarassed about at all! I promise you a time...

Losing Your Virginity: crazy issues here, losing my virginity, period blood
losing my virginity, period blood, hymen: Alrighty here we go! First, the black tissue was more likely to be period blood left over than a peice of your hymen because generally the hymen tears but doesn t fall out. And I can imagine how frustrating this is for you guys. I can relate to your issue...

Losing Your Virginity: First time, worst case scenario, pre ejaculate
worst case scenario, pre ejaculate, pregnant men: Dearest Lily, First of all I would like to tell you not so long ago I too was 14. Eager to learn all there was to being an adult, including sex. However I did decided to wait until 2 weeks prior to my 18th birthday. It is a personal choice but it is...

Losing Your Virginity: My first time and my friend's, phenominal, white knight
phenominal, white knight, hymen: Most importantly you need to first be 100% sure that this is what you both want. There s no rush. Society makes sex to be this huge, amazing, phenominal thing, and don t get me wrong, it can be a wonderful experience, but with the right person. Virginity is...

Losing Your Virginity: im having second thoughts now!, losing my virginity, exact revenge
losing my virginity, exact revenge, sure what your question: Dear Jess, I m not exactly sure what your question is so I will offer up some advice. Generally if a guy is acting the way you describe, he knows what he s doing but he probably doesn t realize the impact it s having on you. I would suggest you confront...

Losing Your Virginity: lost my virginity??, Did I lose my virginity? Hymen?
Did I lose my virginity? Hymen?: Virginity is generally considered to be lost when the hymen is broken via penitration. If there was slight to moderate blood it is possible you lost your virginity however I would bet it will feel the same to losing your virginity when you experience full...

Losing Your Virginity: Bleeding, vagina area, using tampons
vagina area, using tampons, panty liners: Depending on your body, when your hymen tears you will have light to moderate bleeding. So in comparison to your period, spotting or a light day. I would not recommend using tampons as your vagina area will be tender, however pads and/or panty liners should...

Losing Your Virginity: Confused, complicated question, sexual experience
complicated question, sexual experience, hymen: That is a very complicated question dear. Technically in order to know if your a text book virgin or not you would have to know if your hymen broke. Did you bleed at all? I suppose it would depend on the penetration, did he fully insert into you? If so, you...

Losing Your Virginity: chances of being pregnant?, bladder infection, yeast infection
bladder infection, yeast infection, pregnacy test: Dear Aubree, It is possible, however if everything is as you describe it also sounds unlikely. The fact that you have vaginal discharge could be a sign of a yeast infection, and the stomach pain, if lower than your bellybutton could be a bladder infection...

Losing Your Virginity: I dont know if Im over reacting.., hormone levels, new experience
hormone levels, new experience, intercourse: Your hormone levels could be a little out of wack due to the change in your body and the new experience. I would recommend you stop hooking up with anyone until you have calmed yourself and no longer feel upset by the act of intercourse. It could possibly...

Losing Your Virginity: Embarrassed, freak out, bed sheets
freak out, bed sheets, awkwardness: First off, it is unlikely you will bleed again, but possible. However I can promise, although it won t be AS bad, it will still cause some discomfort for the next few times. It sounds to be like he handled the situation very immaturely. Of course you re going...

Losing Your Virginity: emotions, safetly, first sex
safetly, first sex, best sex: This is a bit difficult to explain but I will do my best. Sex can be a very good feeling experience, although generally for the first few times it can be discomforting and cause soreness, eventually that goes away. However, many people put sex up on a pedistool....

Losing Your Virginity: Bleeding, 17 years, right guy
Losing Your Virginity: Bleeding, 17 years, right guy

Losing Your Virginity: Confused, penis, virgin
Losing Your Virginity: Confused, penis, virgin, sexual intercourse

Losing Your Virginity: Embarrassed, expereince, pun
Losing Your Virginity: Embarrassed, expereince, pun, virgin

Losing Your Virginity: I'm no longer "young", lad
Losing Your Virginity: I'm no longer "young", lad

Losing Your Virginity: viginity, going to jail, expecially
Losing Your Virginity: viginity, going to jail, expecially, pedophile

Losing Your Virginity: my virginty questions???, fifteen years, condom
Losing Your Virginity: my virginty questions???, fifteen years, condom, love

Losing Your Virginity: first time, losing your virginity, having sex
losing your virginity, having sex, some girls: If you read previous questions you will find the answer to the information you seek. But as a basic over view. Stay as relaxed as you can. Bleeding varies. Some girls don t bleed at all, and others bleed just spots. Some bleed like their on their period. As...

Losing Your Virginity: im worried, medical aspect, hormone level
medical aspect, hormone level, virginity: Dear Ana, First off, this feeling you are experiencing is totally normal. Unfortunatly it will not go away even after you ve lost your virginity. The feeling is your body letting you know that your hormone level is high and needs to be relieved. I respect...

Losing Your Virginity: loosing my virginity, hymen, virginity
hymen, virginity: No, nothing is wrong with you. The pain is natural. You could experience more if you have a smaller hymen, but it s going to hurt and be sore for a few times. Make sure you are well lubricated, that he goes slow, and that (despite the pain) you try and relax....

Losing Your Virginity: lots of blood after sex..., blood after sex, blood on the sheets
blood after sex, blood on the sheets, hymens: Under these circumstances I would recommend you see a doctor for a professional opinion. Every woman s physiology is different and some females have thicker hymens or have them very slightly open (some none) for menstrual blood to flow out, part of that heavy...

Losing Your Virginity: I'm no longer, special occation, virginity
special occation, virginity, life partner: It varies from person to person. Even guys have been known to have discomfort. It really all depends on how relaxed you are, how comfortable, and if you are ready or not. Unfortunatley there is no real answer for that question. I can however tell you most...

Losing Your Virginity: viginity, rape charges, statutory rape
rape charges, statutory rape, raising a baby: Unfortunately whether you want to lose your virginity to him or not it is not a LEGAL option. If you have sex with him and anyone finds out, which someone will, he will be sent to jail on statutory rape charges, regardless of consent. My advice is to wait...

Losing Your Virginity: my virginty questions???, losing your virginity, virginty
losing your virginity, virginty, calm down: First, CALM DOWN! The more tense and worked up you are prior to and during your first time, the more pain you will be in. The more you relax, the more comfortable you will be. If your boyfriend is older, he should be mature and understand bleeding is VERY...

Losing Your Virginity: A 16 year old stuck in the body of a 22 year old...
Hi Tara. You are over-thinking. If you are ready, then go for it. 6 months is ample time to get to know someone, and it is probably driving him crazy. As bad as it sounds, sex is the key to a man heart. While I m sure he loves you, sex is that next...

Losing Your Virginity: 25 and, biological need, religious values
biological need, religious values, bad idea: Hi Jenny. If you are religious, then stick to your beliefs and wait until you get married. Follow your morals, and if you think sex is right, then go for it. Sex is human nature and a biological need, so if you feel like you are ready, then I see no reason...

Losing Your Virginity: i cant get any :(, late bloomer, clinical depression
late bloomer, clinical depression, virginity: Hi Chrid. There is a girl out there for everyone. You may have to lower your standards if they are high. There are plenty of girls out there that like a nice guy and don t care about looks to much. You just got to look. Maybe join a club or something....

Losing Your Virginity: the after effects of losing your virginity, losing your virginity, obgyn
losing your virginity, obgyn, having sex: Hi Kimberly. This is possible if you have been active in sports or something physical. If you haven t been, I would consult a doctor about the pain. It is good to see your OBGYN after you lose your virginity anyway. Pain a few days after is normal, but...

Losing Your Virginity: A 16 year old stuck in the body of a 22 year old..., married couple sex, major depression
Losing Your Virginity: A 16 year old stuck in the body of a 22 year old..., married couple sex, major depression, sex objects

Losing Your Virginity: Do girls dig virgins?, virginity
Losing Your Virginity: Do girls dig virgins?, virginity

Losing Your Virginity: Do girls dig virgins?, female friends, wimp
female friends, wimp, virgins: Hi Matt. Well, it depends. If you are just hooking up, girls would like a guy with more experience for sure, but as far as having a relationship, I don t think it should matter then. Tell her after sex haha. If your good, you will get praise for...

Losing Your Virginity: hymen, hymen, time thing
hymen, time thing, menstrual cycle: Hi Jo. It wasn t your hymen, because you hymen would surely be broken after 5 times. Sometimes sex can progress your menstrual cycle early, which could be the issue. This is quite common and I wouldn t be to embarrassed. If you want to prevent this,...

Losing Your Virginity: Im a virgin or not????, thin membrane, hymen
thin membrane, hymen, vagina: No, probably not. A finger isn t going to break a hymen, a couple will though. If you really want to make sure it is broken, then use a hairbrush handle, or something to that extent. If it isn t broken, you will probably be in pain and bleed the first time...

Losing Your Virginity: Lost virginity, lost virginity, first few days
lost virginity, first few days, ejaculatory: Hi Jennifer. If he is ejaculating inside you, there is a very good possibility that is what is happening. You could very well be pregnant and you may want to by a test or so to make sure. Sometimes even pr-ejaculatory fluid can get you pregnant so it...

Losing Your Virginity: losing your virginity, losing your virginity, ejaculate
losing your virginity, ejaculate, couple days: Hi Sandy. The work out may be the issue, but if it hurt, your body just is responding to the pain. It will go away within a couple days. Take some Ibuprofen till then. If he had a condom, and he didn t ejaculate, then there is no chance you are pregnant...

Losing Your Virginity: Not sure if I lost my virginity, sex during your period, time sex
sex during your period, time sex, hymen: Hi Karen. Once a penis goes past your hymen, you are no longer a virgin, no matter the length of time. Sex can do that too; it can make your period come early sometimes if it is near that time. It can also elongate a period if you have sex during your...

Losing Your Virginity: sex with a new guy, first experience, foreplay
first experience, foreplay, erections: Hi Janet. I m glad you were able to move past the first guy and you found a good guy. =] Yes, it is normal to bleed after years of celibacy. His erections are normal too, and he probably has a lot of built up energy. He will get use to you after a...

Losing Your Virginity: Boy Friend, boy friend, virginity
boy friend, virginity, no doubt: Hi Riya. You may bleed and the pain won t be pretty, but it is bearable. Just make sure he isn t aggressive the first time and to take it slow. Use lubrication as well, this helps with the pain. You may feel sore down there for a couple days. Take some...

Losing Your Virginity: Boyfriend???, boner, condoms
boner, condoms, election day: Hi Matilda. He is probably nervous. Which would explain why he lost his erection. If you have brought him to orgasm before, he must be attracted to you. You may have to push for it if that is what you want. Not all guys are aggressive. If you ask...

Losing Your Virginity: Fast Relationship, losing virginity, three months
losing virginity, three months, long time: Hi Roxanne. I would definitely slow it down. A lot can happen within the next month or so that could make you wish you didn t do it. I would say at least wait three months into the relationship before you consider sex. Just because you guys barely know...

Losing Your Virginity: Boyfriend???, erection, having sex
Losing Your Virginity: Boyfriend???, erection, having sex, condom

Losing Your Virginity: How do I know when she's ready?, virginity, learning experience
Losing Your Virginity: How do I know when she's ready?, virginity, learning experience, virgins