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Mind Games: guy trouble, guy trouble, pregnancy test
guy trouble, pregnancy test, rough patch: Hello Okay well first of all why are you listening to your brother? I mean anyone can say MAYBE you are the reason for something but you are not the reason for anything. You are never the reason for why someone ignores someone else. This guy is ignoring that...

Mind Games: guys, love life, eachother
love life, eachother, good friends: Hi Erin well from what you told me, he sounds like he s definitely interested in you. Trust me, a male would not do that unless he liked you and was attracted to you in some way. Also guys don t feel comfortable about these things unless they are actually...

Mind Games: Why do guys use you for sex then loose interest, physical intimacy, word relationship
physical intimacy, word relationship, insecure men: I think the main reason why men will use a woman for sex and be afraid to engage in an actual relationship is because men are simply not as emotional as women tend to be. They are very overwelmed when they see the caringness and sincerity in women, and such...

Mind Games: Hard times, words of encouragement, time today
words of encouragement, time today, dumps: Hello Well I m very glad that I was able to help in any way at all. I m glad you also realized your own insecurities and I hope that one day you ll get over her and really move on from this. At least now you have an idea of what the problem is and can start...

Mind Games: HELP, blah blah, good liar
blah blah, good liar, promising marriage: Hey Debbie You didn t really ask me a question but anyways dump the guy. He is a liar and a loser. I m a christain myself, and totally in love with God, but hey people lie and some are very good at it. It sounds like your boyfriend is a very good liar. He...

Mind Games: HELP!, interent, pingpong
interent, pingpong, eachother: Hello, It sounds like this was the first fight for both of you and then both of you didn t know how to get through it. Sometimes after having a fight with somebody you care about - those feelings are still fresh and it s hard to move on and trust them. This...

Mind Games: HELP!, interent, pingpong
interent, pingpong, eachother: With all due respect, this boy sounds like a complete waste of time. It s best to just let this one going. Honestly, he probably just isn t feeling a connection with you, and isn t mature enough to just tell you so. Instead, he s dropping (very blatant)...

Mind Games: HELP, women in my life, whimp
women in my life, whimp, good person: Hey Charlie You don t have to deal with this. There s no point in you staying with her it sounds like this is all she is ever going to be with you. So just forget her it s not worth it. She s always going to be yelling at you for one thing or another and...

Mind Games: HELPPPPPPPPPPPPP, playing a game, late at night
playing a game, late at night, playing games: Hello Well I don t think he s playing games. If he said he would call you late at night and doesn t then he probably did fall asleep. I know sometimes that happens with me plus he might be tired of being the one to call you all the time. You should try and...

Mind Games: HEY AGAIN, waste of time, friends family
waste of time, friends family, clue: Hey Julia Umm I couldn t understand some parts of this email cause of how it was written, but I ll try to figure it out. Forget those questions. No it s not your fauly. I doubt you are missing anything good. You can t force anybody to like you. It sounds...

Mind Games: Head games?, physical relationship, negative attitude
physical relationship, negative attitude, greatest sex: Ok, this woman is keeping you on retainer while she plays the field. She s just keeping you around to hold her hand and be her friend until she wants more. This isn t fair to you because you waste so much time and emotions worrying about someone that doesn...

Mind Games: What The Heck is She Doing?, first move, what the heck
first move, what the heck, ims: Hello Well i think you should wait a week just to see. It has only been 3 days and it might be too soon to try and get upset with her. Give her a week and that should be enough time for her to try and put in some effort. So see what happens. She said that...

Mind Games: Hello, I've been seeing a..., stupid rules, dumb questions
stupid rules, dumb questions, double date: Hey Ryan Well she does sound like she likes you. Some girls are just strange and have weird rules. she may be like that. They are stupid rules like I can t call a guy until after 10 dates, but you would be surprised at how many girls follow them. She could...

Mind Games: Hello, seperate ways, little more time
seperate ways, little more time, new girl: Hey Julia Well I am glad that you realized that this guy isn t worth your time. He wasn t really worth all that attention you gave him and all the time you were worried about things. Anyways I m glad your moving on and that you re going to find someone new...

Mind Games: Help, first move, good friend
first move, good friend, coffee: Hey Sourgirl472 Well it sounds like he does like you especially since he said he likes you, but like he said he has given up on women and is not looking to be in a relationship right now. He s probaly just telling you about these other girls because either...

Mind Games: Help, good liar, stepdad
good liar, stepdad, m8: Hey Graham From what you re telling me, if she lies a lot and it really is true that she is a good liar then she may be making up the story about her stepdad. I can t say she is because a lot of these kind of things happen to girls so it could be true. But...

Mind Games: Help, heat of passion, valentine s day
heat of passion, valentine s day, good heart: Well, first of all I wouldn t give him the pleasure of stringing you along until Valentine s Day, because given his track record - he ll probably just cancel and spend it with the guys or his daughters. Wouldn t it be easier for his two daughters to want Daddy...

Mind Games: Help!, lovely mollie, physical signs
lovely mollie, physical signs, sexual tension: Well Mollie, He s definitely sending you all the right signals! When the two of you get a moment alone together, ask him if he d like to go out for dinner or drinks on a night you re both free. Going out for drinks and dancing is a good idea because it...

Mind Games: Help! My fiance's mind games are destroying us, mind games, large portion
mind games, large portion, fiance: hi cat a simple circumstance..the answer is inside you. would you spend the rest of your life with a man who tries to mentally play games to gain dominance? love is not just love..its a lot more.. youve got a lot of thinking to do..the only thing stopping...

Mind Games: Help Please..., time respect, emotionaly
time respect, emotionaly, physicaly: Hello Well I think it s smart of her to step back from this and figure out what s appropriate or not. I know that he abuses her and she shouldn t be with someone like that but if he has changed or is in the process of changing then it s worth it to give it...

Mind Games: Help in an relationship, abusive relationships, abusive relationship
abusive relationships, abusive relationship, mind games: Well honey, guys will do anything to get you back, including whining and pulling on your heartstrings. This guy knows he went too far with you and is trying his damndest to get back with you. See, these losers like him are all about control and once they lose...

Mind Games: Help in an relationship, collar guy, abusive relationship
collar guy, abusive relationship, fantastic things: I believe I just answered this, but let me know if you want another follow up. Seriously, it s up to you how complicated your life is. Make the choices that are best for you. Look at how this guy is making you feel about yourself. You don t know how to loosen...

Mind Games: Help, long term relationship, curtesy
long term relationship, curtesy, monthes: I have a feeling that this guy may not be interested in a long term relationship, but just wants to have fun. You have to prepare yourself for what may happen. Have you been going out for under 3 monthes? If you are it may not last any longer. If you...

Mind Games: Hey Again, heart break, deepest secrets
heart break, deepest secrets, gain experience: Hey Julia Well it can be love. I like to relate teenage love to fishing. Even if it s your first time and you don t catch anything you re still fishing just like another person who is an expert at it. The only thing I believe is that MOST teenagers are very...

Mind Games: Hey Melissa,I kinda need..., sweet chick, right girl
sweet chick, right girl, hotness: Hey Wll honestly I don t know why it s such a big deal about how attractive this girl is. People have different opinions on beauty and if he likes her the way she is then who cares how pretty she is. Plus she could be an awesome girl. So unless you know...

Mind Games: Hey, I have a question, I..., devistated, soul mate
devistated, soul mate, out of the blue: Hey Charlaine He keeps contacting you cause like you said he still loves you. But don t call him let him call you. You gave him a choice so now it s his time to act. If he doesn t do anything about it then just let it go and if he does just try to stay in...

Mind Games: Hey, personal resolution, hey julia
personal resolution, hey julia, stupid mistake: Hey Julia Don t be sooo sad and no it s not your fault. Actually I went through a similar situation before. Me and the guy loved each other and even though we loved each other we decided to take a break during the summer. Anyways he had lost it to some girl...

Mind Games: Hi, dissapointment, mind games
dissapointment, mind games, ldr: Hello Well first of all I had a bit of a difficult time understanding this message. I m just letting you know this in case there were any misinterpretations in my answer. I m trying to answer it as best as I can but if I get any facts mixed up, it was probably...

Mind Games: Home or Homeless Shelter?, compulsive liar, teenaged daughters
compulsive liar, teenaged daughters, rocky 3: Hello Well why are you with this guy. Move on from this. This guy is obviously very lazy and not doing you any good. He s causing you too much stress and if he wants to act homeless and live in that sheleter then let him. If he truly loves you and cares about...

Mind Games: Homosexuality: Flirting, team mates, one of the girls
team mates, one of the girls, good friend: Flirt back if you want, and have fun with it. Don t worry so much about what could be. Just treat her as a good friend for now and see what happens. Its that worry that is hard to let go but you can do it, just be cautious and try not to let this situation...

Mind Games: What happened, sensitive heart, mystrey
sensitive heart, mystrey, work time: Hey Toma It doesn t sound like he s messing with you. It sounds like he really likes you and it s normal for many couples to have little fights, not huge arguements. There s not much more for me to say except that it doesn t sound like he s playing games...

Mind Games: what happened?, couple weeks, fella
couple weeks, fella, booze: Hey Tracy There is probaly other things going on in his life that you don t know about yet. Even from what you told me it sounded like he liked you. Even if he didn t really like you it did sound like there was some interest in you. No I doubt he s interested...

Mind Games: What is happening for the mind of my ex girlfriend?, mind games, liar
mind games, liar, ex girlfriend: Hello Well it could be a mixture of both. If she is keeping you as a backup then she probably does have some feelings for you. I honestly feel you should move on cause this girl isn t very serious about you. I mean she cheated on you with another guy and...

Mind Games: What's happening, great feelings, future child
great feelings, future child, simple chat: Hey Fatima Well it sounds like he does have feelings for you and he may be intimidated as you think. The best thing to probaly do is just to try to hang out with him outside of the work area. Maybe while you guys are eating lunch, ask him if he wants to hang...

Mind Games: hard to get?, thin ice, party girl
thin ice, party girl, disrespect: Hello Well you can still ask for her IM but wait about a week and a half, then ask her. That way it doesn t seem like you care as much. So just wait another week, and if she doesn t IM you or call, then ask for her screen name. Anyway, just you know, remaining...

Mind Games: hard to get, cat and mouse, kitty
cat and mouse, kitty, game: Just like cat and mouse, you hesitate - hang around, the cat goes for it, and you re gone before that kitty finishes that pounce! More details would help. Also, reappearing after the pounce tells the cat that you were hanging around - and likely playing. It...

Mind Games: why hasnt he called me., effect of drugs, psychology course
effect of drugs, psychology course, effects of drugs: Hey Stephanie Well I have studied the effects of drugs in a psychology course before and it could be the effect of drugs depending on what type it is. But usually drugs don t just make you stop caring about someone, they just make the drug more important...

Mind Games: head games suck!, parents place, head games
parents place, head games, christmas shopping: Hello Well it definately sounds like he likes you and I m pretty sure he does like you. I think he may not want to though for a few reasons. First of all you just came out of a 5 year relationship. Many people don t feel comfortable about going out with someone...

Mind Games: head games?!, friend cause, head games
friend cause, head games, later days: Hello Yes, she is playing with your head. It s like she can t make up her mind. She hurts you, you guys break up, then she says she wants nothing to do with you, you guys are cool again, then she wants nothing to do with you again, and now she s saying she...

Mind Games: head turn, walking downtown, headlights
walking downtown, headlights, sidewalk: Hello Well the face turn thing could have meant that he was trying not to kiss you. I doubt it was the coughing thing because he would have started coughing after you hugged him. He could also have turned his head because he thought you were going to kiss...

Mind Games: head turn, walking downtown, silly boy
walking downtown, silly boy, great girl: Exes are stupid, I would probably just ignore him. He can t figure out that he s wanting you in his life - but not as more than a friend. Besides, a great girl like you has a billion other guys and fun things to think of besides a silly boy s little spastic...

Mind Games: head turn, increased heart rate, interpreting body language
increased heart rate, interpreting body language, walking downtown: Howdy! Oh ho ho! Yup, I think you know what it was. I believe girls have an uncanny ability when it comes to interpreting body language and subtleties like this. But since you didn t ask me this just to hear compliments, I ll answer your question. Quite...

Mind Games: help, emotional bond, decent time
emotional bond, decent time, breathing room: Hi there anonymous:) now this is a common occurence......read.. misunderstandings there could be a lot of possibilities..n u know what i mean..there could be just about any reason as to why he hasnt contacted you for a week. But i put my money on the fact...

Mind Games: can you help me?, jonathan jackson, girl friend
jonathan jackson, girl friend, 5 months: Hey Jonathan, sounds like your girl friend wants to have the fun of being in a relationship without actually being in one. One of my ex s pulled this on me after dating for a year, that he just wanted to be friends with me. I took the hard way out, I cut...

Mind Games: help, japanese lady, coffe
japanese lady, coffe, long distance: Hello Well those are pretty good signs that she does like you. Just cause she rejected your coffee doesn t mean anything. She could actually be busy. I know that if i liked a guy and he asked me to coffee when I was very busy with something, I would have...

Mind Games: help!!!, smile alot, guy alot
smile alot, guy alot, mixed signals: Well he is trying to take advantage of your feelings for him, typical male moron trick. Just ignore his moods, ignore him for awhile. Tell him you can be friends and keep things strictly friendly. And if you feel like it, flirt with his bro. But don t give...

Mind Games: help me, everynight, telling the truth
everynight, telling the truth, piece of shit: Hello Honestly if this continues you need to go ahead and break up with this man. First of all I m not even sure why you are with him because he s not really doing much. Yes, it s nice that he cooks for you but that doesn t excuse his other behavior. A lot...

Mind Games: help me please (urgent), mom lives, text message
mom lives, text message, cellphone: Hello Um I already answered this but um this was very long and very confusing to read. Anyway yes he does have a busy schedule since he works 9 hours and needs time to himself. If he does like you though he would have called you. There s a reason why other...

Mind Games: help please, mind game, getting hurt
mind game, getting hurt, playing games: Hey Andreea Well to be honest with you, there s no way you can fall in love without getting hurt. To fall in love you must be able to allow yourself to get hurt. otherwise it wouldn t be real love, if you couldn t get hurt. It would just be fake and emotionless....

Mind Games: help, unfortunate thing, homecoming
unfortunate thing, homecoming, good luck: Hey Jw I can t tell you if she likes you or not cause that really depends on her. It sounds like she likes you though. There s more to it than smiling at you and stuff but smiles is a good sign. But ask her out and see what happens! Good luck with this...and...

Mind Games: hey.i want to keep it..., long distant relationship, hapiness
long distant relationship, hapiness, misunderstandings: Hey Shash Of course you can forget her you just simply don t want to. I would leave her alone a bit though. Stop saying you re a loser too cause I don t think you are. You ll just have to talk to her about it. Say something like I love you, but you treat...

Mind Games: i hope she isn't playing mind games., mosh pits, crowd surfing
mosh pits, crowd surfing, honest advice: hey Bryan firstly..the kind of situation uve got is the kind of stuff people can avoid..but dont. And with no offence intended..get off your butt and go get soem fresh air. In case you didnt notice, the internet is nt exactly the best place to get to...

Mind Games: Important question, first cousin, sexual relationship
first cousin, sexual relationship, bestfriend: Hello Well first of all I m glad that you are trying to have more than that since it sounds like he is getting very comfortable with a just sex type of relationship. Also just a side note, but be cautious about dating this guy. It s a very bad sign that he...

Mind Games: Insecure, mind game, blue in the face
mind game, blue in the face, drop dead gorgeous: Hello Simon Well there s not much you can do about this. Either she can choose to believe you or not and it sounds like no matter what you say she will choose to not believe you. One thing you can do is to try and not hang out with her sister too much. If...

Mind Games: Internet porn, lace teddy, exhusband
lace teddy, exhusband, internet porn: Hey Patty Yep these signs are definately warning you that these guy might not be good for you. I m saying this because first of all you asked him not to look at porn multiple times and he says he wont but then repeatedly does it again.It s one thing if this...

Mind Games: Ive ruined it already., time melissa
time melissa: Hey Laura Well why would you want to be with a guy who thinks your easy? Trust me whenever I show an interest in a guy like that and when they like me they appreciate me calling and really like the attention and try to do anything possible to hang otu with...

Mind Games: I am such an idiot!!, different perspectives, surfer dude
different perspectives, surfer dude, lady friend: Hey Trent Yes that response of hers was very rude. And I could understand why you got insulted and replied back in anger. It sounds like she has some feelings for you. she sounds like she s a bit jealous that your considering dating another girl. but like...

Mind Games: idk wat to do...help!!!, girl friend, screen name
girl friend, screen name, conversations: Hi No there is not... I know there is some expensive software that you can install on her computer (not sure of the name) that would record everything she does on her computer but it s not worth the price. Other than that I m not very sure and the only way...

Mind Games: is he interested or not?, laugh alot, long periods of time
laugh alot, long periods of time, mind readers: Hello It sounds like is interested in you. He has mentioned how he wanted to go out with you and has invited you to something with his son and he does enjoy talking to you which shows he s interested. Some guys are just slow and he may be the type who s used...

Mind Games: is he interested in me or not?, honest guy, gradschool
honest guy, gradschool, wrong idea: just play it cool, and let him approach you, this guy was just looking for a hook up though, i am about 80% sure of this because he hasnt called or anything. if he was interested, he would of at least called by now. or maybe he is just playing hard to get...

Mind Games: Is he interested or not?, quiet side, friends talk
quiet side, friends talk, ample opportunity: I wouldnt straight up ask him that, but if eventually he doesnt ask to hang out with you, you can ask him. as far as the awkwardness goes, your probabley nervous and so is he or maybe your not and its him. its ok, dont let this bring you down, it will all...

Mind Games: Is she interested or not?, computer troubles, having computer
computer troubles, having computer, playing soccer: Axl, As I ve said, if you really want to find out, flat out ask her. From my perspective, it sounds like she s the kind of girl that just likes the attention--but, of course, I don t know her, so I could be wrong. Discuss this with her. Ask her...

Mind Games: Is he interested in me or not, salt in the wound, gf
salt in the wound, gf, roommate: Hello Well I go by how a person acts than by what other people say about them. But there s a couple of possibilities here. For example, if a guy likes you he would intitate conversations and he would not refuse to answer your calls. actually because that...

Mind Games: Is she not interested or am i paranoid, marlyn monroe, i love lucy
marlyn monroe, i love lucy, youth group: Hey Matt All I am trying to get you to understand is that you can t make somone do something. From all these past emails it seems like you are trying to get her to do something but you can t. Just move on and if anything just try to be friends, but leave...

Mind Games: Is he interested in me or not -part2, fone number, what the heck
fone number, what the heck, email: Hey, I am glad i have helped, if you want my email is layedback17@yahoo.com, and you can email me or you can simply just keep in contact over allexperts.com, it really doesnt matter to me! Since i trust you enough on giving you my email, where are you from,...

Mind Games: is he interested or not??, poker game, logical reason
poker game, logical reason, busy at work: Hey Karen Well it s pretty obviosu that he is interested in you. He was the one who emailed you first not the other way around. When you called him, he did call you back. Then when you called him back, he did email and gave a logical reason why he was unable...

Mind Games: Jealousy, celebrity girls, singapore idol
celebrity girls, singapore idol, travis barker: Hello Of course it s okay to get excited over your favorite celebroty. I don t understand your question though. To me getting excited over celebrities is normal. I don t see how your boyfriend could get jealous over that. He has a problem and you need to...

Mind Games: Getting a Job and Helping Pay Bills, church goer, getting a job
church goer, getting a job, saving money: Hey Marlene Really don t feel bad about asking questions, I am always glad to help. Your boyfrind is very wrong, it is not ok for him to keep money for you treating him bad. First of all you are not treating him bad. You guys may not have sex everyday and...

Mind Games: Is he a jerk? Or just a goofball?, luckiest man, goofball
luckiest man, goofball, honest opinion: Hey! Hm, that s a different situation. Well, your question was quite straightforward, so I ll give you a straightforward answer: Yes, I do believe you are overreacting. However, I don t believe your sense of humor is flawed. What I mean is, it sounds...

Mind Games: How to keep a man guessing, jealous type, bad move
jealous type, bad move, melissa: Hello Do not try to make him jealous... that would be a bad move on your part. Just try to not act as interested in him anymore. Like don t constantly keep calling him and making all the plans. Still be honest about your feelings but let him do some of the...

Mind Games: keeping an ex boyfriend from coming between my girlfriend and i., romantic lines, promise ring
romantic lines, promise ring, better man: hey justin sorry for this late response... i honestly think..ur a great guy!a better man too. the way u present your problem shows uve got great perspective thinking. this ex boyfriend crap happens to so many of us..it can turn out to be a serious...

Mind Games: what kind, mind games, emotional person
mind games, emotional person, question thanks: Hey Zack If she seems to be losing interest in you she could be cheating or if she starts to sound guilty about certain topics. Another sign is if she gets quiet around you or asks little questions like how would you react if I cheated on you. If you re friends...

Mind Games: kissing on the cheek, filipino heritage, female friends
filipino heritage, female friends, filipinos: Hey Emily No it justs sounds like he was being friendly and just gave you a kiss on the cheek. I know after me and my boyfriends had broken up some of them gave me a kiss on the cheek. But actually it may have been more than a little friendly if he kept coming...

Mind Games: I knew this guy from my old..., old job, couple times
old job, couple times, couple days: Hello Well it did sound like he was initially interested in you but obviousy something changed after he didn t call you those first couple of days. It sounds like this girl is something special to him but let s not jump to conclusions and say it s his girlfriend....

Mind Games: how do i know if he really loves me?, marrage, biscuit
marrage, biscuit, cell phone: Hey Tina Well first of all you could break up with this guy. If you really loved this guy then you would do what s best for yourself and him. Love is not dealing with his crap and following him like a dog begging for a biscuit. Love is when you recognize...

Mind Games: how do i know?, jump to conclusions, good luck
jump to conclusions, good luck, melissa: Hey Zack Well you really need to give me more information on this cause I m not sure if you suspect her of lying about something specific or what. Well I can give you a few answers to this but not a lot cause of too little information. Some signs might be...

Mind Games: Lack of Respect or Just Fear?, ovulation cycle, mind games
ovulation cycle, mind games, lack of respect: Scary, ok well you ve given up a lot for this guy and he s so insecure about things that are important to you. I think you should step back and evaluate what s really important here in your life. Your friends and activities? Or a guy that is so insecure about...

Mind Games: Lewis Subject (again) Mind Games, intimate conversations, mind games
intimate conversations, mind games, alton towers: Hello Becky honestly I think you should just drop this guy and move on. He lost you cause he didn t treat you well and obviously that didn t change anything cause he is still the same. So why would you try to be with a guy who s still sufffering from the...

Mind Games: Liar, relationship type, those girls
relationship type, those girls, friends birthday: Hello Well there are a ton of possibilities with this one. He may be interested in someone else and is trying to pursue it with that person instead of continuing this relationship. Since this is all sex, he may not want to see you unless he just really feels...

Mind Games: Long term relationship, long term relationship, relationship question
long term relationship, relationship question, ups and downs: I know what you are going through exactly. I just went through a break up myself. It s tough but you ve got to just realize that things may not be meant to be with each other. Don t worry even though it s so hard right now you have your friends to talk to...

Mind Games: Looking for Closer, old feelings, male friend
old feelings, male friend, actions speak louder than words: Girls are jealous creatures, just in different ways than guys. If you are interested in a girl and pursuing her - then talking to another girl around her is kinda demeaning. Not directly - but it can be interpreted that way. I know it sucks but that is just...

Mind Games: Lots of TROUBLE!, friend circle, lots of trouble
friend circle, lots of trouble, getting a loan: Hey Roshni Well I am very glad that you figured out that this guy is a complete loser and you are not going to give him another chance. You seem like a wonderful person and I do believe this guy prettty much lost someone special. So I am glad that you finnally...

Mind Games: Lovin yo true luv, true luv, eye contact
true luv, eye contact, true love: I m sorry, but I really don t understand what you re trying to say here. From what I gather, you have a crush on your best friend s brother and she told him that you were interested in him, and he said he liked you back...right? Now you want to know where...

Mind Games: lack of trust, lack of trust, looseness
lack of trust, looseness, vagina: Hey Juliette No your vagina should only feel different when you have been having sex for a long period of time. It sounds like you and your boyfriend have been having sex for awhile so it would make sense that your vagina may loosen up. So it really has nothing...

Mind Games: learning, real tears, emotional experience
real tears, emotional experience, ordeal: Hi Sean Well I have no idea how this really relates to mind games, and believe it or not but I am a virgin so I don t really have much experience with these things. From a guess it sounds like you may have hurt her or perhaps she felt really bad about it,...

Mind Games: this is getting a little ridiculous, blah blah, added incentive
blah blah, added incentive, syracuse ny: Hello I think she will come around again. It s clear that she has pretty strong feelings for you. If she didn t care about you she wouldn t have come back to you. I think she acts this way because she knows you will always be around. She can act mean and...

Mind Games: a little thrown off, opionion, class period
opionion, class period, couple weeks: Hey Josh Well honestly I think you are looking into this whole thing a bit more than it really is. It sounds like she s not playing hard to get or messing around. If she was doing that she would ve just said that she was busy monday and tuesday and that you...

Mind Games: long distance interest, interest question, chess club
interest question, chess club, yaaa: Hello I m not sure what you are saying. I agree to hang out with guys I talk to on facebook and that doesn t mean I am interested in pursuing a relationship. My girlfriends do similar things and it doesn t mean that they want more than a friendship. It means...

Mind Games: long term relationship, stay at home mom, long term relationship
stay at home mom, long term relationship, valid excuse: Hello Well of course nobody likes him because he sounds like a complete loser. Not only does he treat you like crap but he has also cheated on you and calls you fat. The real question you should be asking yourself is why you are with such a loser? I would...

Mind Games: is he a loser?, math class, nice eyes
math class, nice eyes, disbelief: Hey Giovana He sounds like he was shocked that you said it or something. And it also sounds like he might have been making fun of you in some way. I m only saying this cause if he laughed for 2 minutes after you said that to him then that s pretty mean. Also,...

Mind Games: lost love.... confusing song, song question, question id
song question, question id, month and a half: Hello Well I strongly recommend that you do NOT play the mind games back. That s just immature and you will most likely worsen the situation with that behavior. No matter what remain the mature and open one in this situation. I think you should be open about...

Mind Games: does he love me or am i bein insecure?, lanuge, kidney infection
lanuge, kidney infection, work part time: Hello I have to agree with you. This does not sound like someone who loves you. This guy sounds very irresponsible and honestly I don t know why you haven t left yet. First of all I can understand if he gets grumpy especially about you always moaning in pain....

Mind Games: I love you I just don't know if I am, xm satellite radio, couple pairs
xm satellite radio, couple pairs, daughter banquet: Hello Well talk to her about this again and see what she wants out of the relationshiop. She mentioned how she doesn t know who she is anymore and has some identity issues. If that is the case then it sounds like you guys just need a break and some space...

Mind Games: I love my friends boyfriend..., eyes and smiles, deep in my eyes
eyes and smiles, deep in my eyes, firend: Hello I know the situation is awkward but again if you BOTH like each other then it shouldn t be a problem to just talk about it. If you want you should try to hang out with him more. It sounds like you get your information about him from other people or...

Mind Games: love, open heart surgery, relationship god
open heart surgery, relationship god, men on the moon: Hey John Well you didn t really ask me a question but I will just comment on the stuff you did mention. First of all what is wrong with her trying to relive her younger days? I think that s a great thing for her! Just cause your body may be aging and getting...

Mind Games: does he loves me, mind reader, melissa
mind reader, melissa, mom: Hi Amanda Well if you really have to ask, then he probably doesn t. Love is something where you just know. You can feel it and you know it. There have been times where I wondered if my boyfriend loved me, but I always know he does. It s just something that...

Mind Games: Married life....moving country...., changing surname, full time job
changing surname, full time job, family identity: Hey Chris Well I wasn t quite sure what the problem was. I know that definately the surname change was an issue for you but other than that I didn t get any other questions you were trying to ask. So if I didn t answer them... then just let me know and I...

Mind Games: Melissa Its Dave Again, part time job, skool
part time job, skool, rebellion: Hello Sorry I haven t gotten back to you very quickly. I ve been very busy this week and I really did not have the time to focus on allexperts questions. Anyway about your question... I understand it s been awhile since you sent me this but I feel this girl...

Mind Games: The Merry-go-round, 7 months, whirl
7 months, whirl, melissa: Hello No, do not try and probe for a better answer. If he s really serious about you and what you guys had then he would be more honest about his feelings and make more of an effort to be with you. It sounds like he s unsure of his feelings and just wants...

Mind Games: MINDGAMES, club needles, little signs
club needles, little signs, open person: Hey Richard Thank you I m glad that I can help in any way! Really do not worry about it. Everybody does things that they regret and either way it s not your fault. It s not like you knew what she was doing until the very last minute. Trust me I have fell...

Mind Games: MInd game? or not interested?, mickey and friends, jealous type
mickey and friends, jealous type, mind game: Hey Heather I can t tell you exactly what s going on but I can tell you two things which most likely might be true. Anyways the first thing is is that the guy really does like you. He just jokes around with you all the time and is just the jealous type. Now...

Mind Games: Mind Games, broken promise, mind games
broken promise, mind games, everynight: Well let me tell you this. I have a friend who just dumped a guy for this a week ago. He always made plans to come over and never showed up, then when she asked him he would say oh I had to work late, sorry I will make it up to you. This would happen almost...

Mind Games: Mind Games., terrible feeling, mind games
terrible feeling, mind games, jerk: Hello Well some guys are really mean. It turns out that he was just mean like that. Okay he may have liked you but remember that you may have misinterpreted those signs. Most likely you didn t since when a woman suspects a guy likes her, most times they are...

Mind Games: Mind Games, dumb joke, women at work
dumb joke, women at work, mind games: Hello Well it doesn t seem like he s cheating, it sounds more like a dumb joke where he s trying to make you upset and thinks he s funny. You should ask him why he does this because the whole thing is quite immature and unnecessary. I doubt he cheated on...

Mind Games: Mind Games, women at work, mind games
women at work, mind games, couple weeks: Ok, your boyfriend is an asshole. Do not put up with that behavior, you don t HAVE TO. Ok. That said, next time he says that just leave. Spend time with other people who do NOT treat you so disrespectfully. He treats you this way and hurts you because he doesn...

Mind Games: Mind Games, mind games, cant belive
mind games, cant belive, playing games: Hey again Raf First of all you don t want a guy who doesn t care about you or doesn t listen to you. So if he s doing all this then he s not even worth your time. Also he may care about you but you may just be overreacting a bit with the whole not asking...

Mind Games: Mind Games?, low self esteem, expierences
low self esteem, expierences, last boyfriend: Hey Renae I know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend has very low self-esteem and from his past expierences with women, he has always thought that I might hurt him too. But yes this is a problem. If he is jealous, suspicious, and thinks he is unattractive...

Mind Games: Mind Games, freak out, mind game
freak out, mind game, game player: Hey Patrick Well it s ok to trust people, but not to trust people completely. In other words don t participate in get rich quick schemes. Such as putting money into gambling, some online website, or whatever. If someone tells you something, then don t believe...

Mind Games: Mind Games!, high school sweethearts, soul mates
high school sweethearts, soul mates, mind games: Hello Who knows what s going on. He may be afraid of commiting himself to you or he may not exactly know how he feels about you yet. I really think you should just have a conversation with him about this. We both can spend all day trying to guess why he does...

Mind Games: Mind Games, text conversation, mind games
text conversation, mind games, phone conversation: Hello I completely agree with you. Her tecting you seemed like an attempt to taunt you and to make you start thinking about her. If she truly wanted to talk to you she would have texted more often and tried to set up a meeeting or at least try to call you....

Mind Games: Mind Games?, peice of ass, evrything
peice of ass, evrything, piece of ass: Hello Well telling her to not hang out with you as much isn t really the best way to go about things. She will probably miss you but again it probably wont make her start telling you how she feels. It might be good for you though, so you can get over her....

Mind Games: Mind Games..., long distance relationship, gogo dancer
long distance relationship, gogo dancer, lovey dovey: Jessica, Sometimes the right thing to do is also the HARDEST thing to do. It sounds like she s taking you for granted because she knows you ll always be there for her. A lot of times people don t appreciate what they have until it s gone. Now since...

Mind Games: Mind Games, mind game, mind games
mind game, mind games, weird thing: Hello Yes, it does sound like a mind game. If she likes you then she would have gone on those dates, and she would have called you. She is definitely playing mind game, and it s possible that this is all just for attention. Maybe she s the the type who likes...

Mind Games: Mind Games after a Break up, new girls, mind games
new girls, mind games, text message: Hello Well his reason to break up with you is a good reason I think. I mean it s better than him staying with you and not being sure of if he wants to be with you. It just sounds like he needs time to really think about things and experiment and that s normal,...

Mind Games: Mind Games, new girlfriend, mind games
new girlfriend, mind games, self respect: Well if you are trying to piss her off and get her back at the same time, you are looking at things in the wrong light. Considering the way in which she has broken things off, I would suggest a possible way of going into this situation where the end...

Mind Games: Mind game? Please help., sarcastic remarks, mind game
sarcastic remarks, mind game, homeless shelter: Hello Well the question you should be asking yourself is why are you still with this guy? No offense but he sounds like a real loser. Not only has he cheated and lied on you but he s lazy and obviously has no ambitions. He s living at a homeless shelter!...

Mind Games: Mind game, mind game, mind games
mind game, mind games, boy friend: Hey Vijay No it s not mind games. Sometimes it s the way for the girl to get you to understand she is taken. When I m talking to a guy I m not interested in but who s obviously interested in me then I try to tell them in someway that I have a boyfriend, so...

Mind Games: Mind games???, heaven and earth, intelligent person
heaven and earth, intelligent person, mind games: Hello Audrey, A 31-year-old man living in the dorms? Hmmm...strange...Well anyway, let s get to the matter at hand. It sounds like this guy s got a giant case of the me, me, me s and you re better off without him. Honestly I think that you re making it...

Mind Games: Mind games, mind games, mind game
mind games, mind game, girlfriend: Ok, well your girlfriend is upset with you about something and told you that you re playing mind games. Don t pretend that you don t know what a mind game is. It s any time you try and be a little manipulative/misleading or she thinks you are. A better idea...

Mind Games: Mind games, mind games, girlfriend
mind games, girlfriend, melissa: Hello Well mind games are pretty broad and I cannot possibly list them all out. So the best thing to do is to ask your girlfriend why she is accusing you of playing mind games. The only way is to ask. But examples of mind games, is when you tell her one thing,...

Mind Games: Mind games, object of his desire, mind games
object of his desire, mind games, infatuation: It does sound like he s infatuated. The thing is - he s married so he s only leaving notes and talking to you when he feels like it. It s a no stress infatuation that he may never do anything about. But you re the object of his desire dear. So be careful but...

Mind Games: Mind games, mind games, mintues
mind games, mintues, telling the truth: Hello Well to be honest if this keeps happening then it sounds like she s not that interested in talking to you. If someone likes talking to someone then not only will they call back, but they will also message you first, and this wont happen constantly....

Mind Games: Mind games, aol screen name, acting this way
aol screen name, acting this way, mind games: Hi Jay Yes, this woman is definitely playing mind games with you. I strongly advice you to reconsider even dating her. It is a very bad sign that she is acting this way before you guys have even gone on a date. Think about it... she s already mentioned sex...

Mind Games: Mind games, work mate, shy type
work mate, shy type, power games: Hey Dani Well if I were you I would talk to him about this. Ask him why he told his friend that and that you would apprecitate him not doing it anymore. You do have to talk to him somehow though. If you guys just keep giving each other the silent treatment...

Mind Games: Mind games, mind games, serious relationship
mind games, serious relationship, broken heart: Hello Well you need to understand that playing mind games is not good for you or for anyone else. Yes this guy hurt you and yes people get hurt but that gives you no excuse to cause the same pain with others. This guy may have hurt you but you are only letting...

Mind Games: Mind games, precious car, called id
precious car, called id, serious relationship: Hello Well I agree that this guy probably does not love you. I mean he might, but not as much as he s saying he does. He did lie to you and pretty much cheated on you and used you with this other girl. Also it s very dumb that you even had conflict with this...

Mind Games: Mind games, mind games, mind game
mind games, mind game, many things: Hello Kevin You were probably not playing mind games with anyone. If you were playing mind games with your ex then you would know it. The point of playing mind games with someone is that the person tends to know that they are doing it. Anyways there are many...

Mind Games: Mind games, mind games, saying things
mind games, saying things, last spring: Hello Kay I don t think you made him mad or anything. It just sounds like he likes you only as a friend and that he might just be a flaky person. And obviosuly he doesn t truly care if he never called you. I mean if he relly cared he would have called or...

Mind Games: Mind games, spare room, mind games
spare room, mind games, single mother: Hello I must admit that this guy probably wasn t into you. If he was then he would have called and he would have put up some chase. Also it was quite clear that this whole thing was a misunderstanding. If he liked you, he would have said look, this whole...

Mind Games: Mind games..., long distance relationship, gogo dancer
long distance relationship, gogo dancer, lovey dovey: You re absolutely right. You are her safety net. She s not ready to be committed to any one relationship and always comes back to you. She knows that you love her and since you truly do love her she will continue to do this until you start to move on. I would...

Mind Games: Mind games, person deals, mind game
person deals, mind game, mind games: Mind games are any kind of interaction or communication that is indirect, vague or underhanded. They are also often called tests. When a person behaves in a way that suggests there is an underlying motivation which they are not being direct about, this...

Mind Games: Mind games please help me!, strange pattern, romantic sense
strange pattern, romantic sense, oppourtunity: Hey Lauren To be bluntly honest with you I doubt that he really likes you. He may be interested in you but he probably doesn t like you. First of all if he did he would have dumped his girlfriend for you and he would call you. Also it sounds like there s...

Mind Games: Mind games for uncommitting boyfriend, long distance relationship, heading in the right direction
long distance relationship, heading in the right direction, open relationship: I think because this is a long distance relationship, trying to keep him by making him feel as though he might lose you may not work. He seems like he does care for you and wants his career to take off, but I would give this a lot more time because the...

Mind Games: Mind games victim, ebcam, morining
ebcam, morining, chatline: Hello Well I think it s a very bad idea to get involved with this man. It sounds like he s hiding something from you and he probably does only want sex from you. The reason I feel this way is because he is very strict about when you can call. These are signs...

Mind Games: Mind games, words of wisdom, warning signs
words of wisdom, warning signs, mind games: First I want to say sorry for taking so long to reply! Well honey things happen when I was younger it happened to me once, I was heartbroken but I had an older friend and she told me to think of it as I got him in the sack so I did and I felt a whole lot...

Mind Games: Mind, short attention span, mind game
short attention span, mind game, going on a trip: Your boyfriend may either have a short attention span and gets used to and bored of things quickly, or he has taken you for granted. In your case one of the best solutions is to change things up a bit. I will give you some ideas. * Get out and go...

Mind Games: Mindgames, girlfriends boyfriends, hi friend
girlfriends boyfriends, hi friend, mind games: Hey Chris Well I m more into playing mind games on like girlfriends/boyfriends but I guess for a friend or sibling you could try messing around with them. Like you could play jokes on them or act mean and then be nice. Or you could act really depressed one...

Mind Games: Mixed Messages, mixed signals, afraid of commitment
mixed signals, afraid of commitment, fustrated: Hi Beth Well as you know, it s very obvious that this guy really does like you and he has feelings for you. This is exactly why he does not want you to know when he s dating other people, compliments you, and says certain things. So I m without a doubt that...

Mind Games: I'm confused, dumbfounded, LOST...Please help!, 4 months, girlfriend
4 months, girlfriend, feelings: It really means is that he is still in a relationship, and thats why some days he calls alot meaning his girlfriend is probabley not around alot that day and the days he calls very little means she is around alot. He is thinking he loves you but still does...

Mind Games: I'm confused here..., shy person, loving person
shy person, loving person, mutual friend: Wow, reminds me of when I was in my senior year of high school. I would say that Ted is jealous. Now that you have drawn your attention to your guy friends and whom not, now he knows you are losing interest in him and it looks like he doesn t want that. He...

Mind Games: i'm so sad, smile alot, laugh and smile
smile alot, laugh and smile, sneer: Why are there so many assholes on this planet. I would just ignore him, write him off and work on being yourself and happy. Hang out with your friends, laugh and smile alot whenever you see him and keep your feelings to yourself. If they smirk and sneer, just...

Mind Games: i'm so sad, sneer, jerk
sneer, jerk, mistake: Hello Well first of all I m very sorry to hear about this. It s terrible how some people can be so cruel and so heartless. I know how it feels to be broken hearted and to go through that pain. Nobody deserves that, especially someone like you... anyway honestly...

Mind Games: I'm VERY shy, and I want to ask a guy out, b train, strange reason
b train, strange reason, tuffy: this is a tuffy because its hard to tell if he is actually sitting closer to you on purpose or coincidental. I would say that he may be into you or think your into him. next time you see him, sit by him or stand by him or whatever it is you do on the train....

Mind Games: I'm sorry this is so long but I need ur help badly..., friend amanda, backgorund
friend amanda, backgorund, friend josh: Hey Heather The same exact thing just happened to me so I know how you feel. But look just leave it alone and let him go. Yeah leave him, if he really loves you he ll change for you and if it s meant to be he ll come back to you. Personally, I wouldn t call...

Mind Games: can a man play mind games with you by being completely honest?, long term relationship, play mind games
long term relationship, play mind games, comfort zone: Hello Well why are you trying to impress him? Also, if you are trying to impress him than you are really pushing him away. Obviously what impresses him is honesty. So if you want to really impress him then be honest about everything and just be yourself....

Mind Games: Is he married?, married person, odd times
married person, odd times, red flag: Hello I m very sorry I haven t replied to your question earlier but I was very busy with school and work. I had a few tests this week and a research project, and I just could not get around to allexperts, so I apologize for this inconvenience, and I hope...

Mind Games: What does this mean? and am i doing the right thing?, relationship work, confusing situation
relationship work, confusing situation, realationship: Hi Kyle Well I m not sure if you are doing the right thing or not cause you haven t given it enough time. Give it a couple more days and if she doesn t contact you, then I think you should contact her. I feel that playing games might hurt you so don t just...

Mind Games: men and sex, sex addict, sexist society
sex addict, sexist society, men and sex: I m glad to hear you re seeing a therapist. I think most people (at least in America) would let their problems in life build up until they becoming too debilitating. I think for every time you feel all sexy down below and think about having sex when you...

Mind Games: messed up, game question, mind game
game question, mind game, head over heels: Hi Jenn Well I know how you feel since I feel that way about many guys and trust me, it s because you really aren t into your boyfriend. Like you really don t like your boyfriend as much as you think you do. You like chasing after these guys but that s about...

Mind Games: messed up guy, pathetic loser, large penis
pathetic loser, large penis, little respect: Wow, ok. I have no idea what could be wrong with him physically. I d get away from that though, cause that s definitely not attractive...AT ALL. Neither is his attitude toward you and being the stupid dumbass cheater that he is, showed you very little...

Mind Games: messy situation, confusing situation, sleep last night
confusing situation, sleep last night, messy situation: Yeah, this guy thinks he s a player and whoever he hangs with probably accepts him like that. (You know what they say, show me your friends and I ll show you your future). Well that can be taken a couple ways, you can show yourself the door when you realize...

Mind Games: messy situation, confusing situation, sleep last night
confusing situation, sleep last night, messy situation: Hello Well I m very sorry to hear that this happened and I m glad you are not trying to get back with him and aren t going to associate with these people. This is extremely immature for people of your age and this guy is a complete jerk. There was no reason...

Mind Games: This might not be your expert topic, but I thought I would try., typical signs, playing a game
typical signs, playing a game, playing games: Hello Well from what you told me it does sound like he s playing a game or if that s not the case he s just a big flirt and can t keep track of who he is doing this with. But from this only information it s probably best if you don t just assume he s making...

Mind Games: another mind game, god ive, mind game
god ive, mind game, wits end: Hi Natalie I do not think he is being genuine. If he truly didn t want to talk to you, well he would have blocked you or he would have continued to ignore you. I agree that you did make a mistake by trying to end it. It s not a big deal if he stops complimenting...

Mind Games: Is it a mind game?, senstive, mind game
senstive, mind game, head over heels: Hey Jenny Well just so you know it s not a good thing to be dependent or totally independent. It s good for you to be dependent on this guy but not to the point where you need him for everything( And I doubt you are at that point of dependency) and independent...

Mind Games: What's with the mind games?!??!, guy josh, friend josh
guy josh, friend josh, mind games: Hey Jessica If he doesn t call you back or anything then just forget about him. I mean you could keep calling him but not too much cause it might seem a little strange. You re right, the whole thing does seem kind of strange. You guys would sleep together...

Mind Games: mind games, freshman college student, university of montana
freshman college student, university of montana, mind games: maybe she didnt realize, wow that guy is actually hot and want him, be careful she could be playing games right now, so i would just keep doing what your doing, but let her do all the work. just dont be to agressive and let her do her little thing. and just...

Mind Games: mind games???, ciggs, confusing time
ciggs, confusing time, mind game: Hello Well I don t think it s a good idea to play mind games with him. It wont get you anywhere. Honestly I feel that he doesn t care for you. And of course he would say that he does because you give him money and rent. He does not take any responsibility...

Mind Games: mind games, sitting on the fence, mind game
sitting on the fence, mind game, male friend: Hello Well if you are married then I don t understand why you aren t working more on your marraige instead of worrying about this pretty immature guy. So if this is a mind game, which it seems like it is, well don t deal with it. Your married and have other...

Mind Games: mind games, honest answer, heat of the moment
honest answer, heat of the moment, mind games: Hello I m sorry to hear things have ended. I can understand how this has hurt you a lot. You said she broke up with you in the heat of the moment so just try to talk things over her when she s bit more stable minded. I hope everything goes well and thank...

Mind Games: mind games, english today, real truth
english today, real truth, mind games: Hello Well she may like you... this is definitely not love or even lust... but she probably does like you at least a little bit. You have to understand that you are both young and she s probably still pretty immature about these relationship things. Also...

Mind Games: mind games?, sexual feelings, patient cause
sexual feelings, patient cause, mind games: Hello Well you have been going out with him for 3 weeks and at this point it s no wonder he is so guarded. I don t even like talking about my past relationships with a person until I ve been going out with that person for a couple of months. So maybe you...

Mind Games: mind games, behavior patterns, mind games
behavior patterns, mind games, 4 months: Hello Well i hate to tell you this but it sounds like he s cheating on you and actually is engaged to this other woman. First of all you have only been dating him for 4 months so you don t really know if this guy is really an honest and caring guy. Secondly...

Mind Games: mind games is this what she is doing!?!?!?!?!?!, odd day, mind games
odd day, mind games, what the heck: Hello Okay from what you told me, this girl seems to like having control over you and any other guy who goes for her. That s obvious since she can pretty much talk about any other guys, choose to call you whenever she wants, and you are still chasing after...

Mind Games: Are these mind games, mind games, best of luck
mind games, best of luck, drift: Hey Julia Carter Yeah he s playing mind games. There are either two reasons why he s doing this. One is is that he actually does want to be with you like he says but is they type who show it sometimes and don t at other times. Like they don t even know they...

Mind Games: mind games, yoga stretches, weird questions
yoga stretches, weird questions, sweat pants: Hey Todd Hecht Hmm... I m not exactly sure the whole thing kind of seemed stupid. I think she was just teasing you trying to make you think you would get some even if you weren t actually going to get any. I don t know why she would lead you on like that......

Mind Games: mind games, macho guy, mind games
macho guy, mind games, thx: Hey Sherbert He might like you, but he s just being a typical macho guy around his friends. And by him telling you he liked that girl was probaly a way that he was playing it off. But it sounds like he likes you but is just trying to play it off. Then again...

Mind Games: mind games, everyday mind, actine
everyday mind, actine, mind games: Hey Meko nel Galicinao No mind games are never very good. It sounds like you guys are not playing mind games with each other. Mind games is when lets say a guy calls you almost every day for a month and then the next month they call you twice, and then the...

Mind Games: mind games, boy friend, mind games
boy friend, mind games, winter break: Hey Josh Welll I didn t get too much information on what you did to try to make her want you more but I ll work with what you did give me. First of all try talking to her more and giving her more attention. You said you were in a relationship and for the...

Mind Games: mind games/why?, classy restaurant, nice restaurants
classy restaurant, nice restaurants, mind games: Hey Delphi Well this is very little info. to go by. From what you told me it doesn t seem like mind games. It could be a possibility but it seems unlikely. I know that I would drive out of town to see a friend and going to nice restaurants is the norm for...

Mind Games: mind games, doormate, pile of poop
doormate, pile of poop, mind games: Hey Well this is why it s never a good idea to get with someone who just broke up with their boyfriend. And of course she still pays attention to him especially if it was to the point where she loved him. And it will probably take her some more time for her...

Mind Games: mind games, beginnig, mind game
beginnig, mind game, mind games: Hello Well I think she still loves you and wants to be with you. It sounds like you both made a mistake by breaking up. It sounds like there were problems but the problems were not so bad that you guys had to break up. So what to do? I think what you should...

Mind Games: mind games/drugs, heroin habit, negative thinker
heroin habit, negative thinker, first three months: Dear Stacia, You are so into life and so aware, but I find that you are deeply disturbed over your lack of control of someone who has such conflicts in his life, a man who won teake care of himself, a man you believe loves you but can t prove it to you...

Mind Games: Is this mind games? Please help?, meaningful relationship, sickos
meaningful relationship, sickos, mind games: Hi, In order to have a meaningful relationship, you need to have a common ideology and a common long term goals. Ask yourself two questions 1 Exactly what do YOU want in a relationship 2 Can you get it from this man. The man is rather unstable and...

Mind Games: mind games in relationship ?, womens panties, porno materials
womens panties, porno materials, private locations: Hello Well I think your perspective of the situation is right. He was obviously embarrassed about being found out and when most people are put in that situation, they tend to try and put the attention on the other partner. Since you ve done nothing against...

Mind Games: mind games, mind games, friendships
mind games, friendships, starters: What i think you should do for starters is do some things for you. go hang out with your fermale friends, or make some, just for friendships sake. This will help you deal with you being so impatient. You have to let up on trying to control the situation.There...

Mind Games: mindgames, last boyfriend, new boyfriend
last boyfriend, new boyfriend, social issues: Hey Emily My last boyfriend was exactly like this and I was madly in love with him. Well I hate to tell you this, but from my experience it s not a good idea to get involved with a guy like this. He obviously has social issues as well as other issues. That...

Mind Games: mindgames verses dating rules, weeked, dating rules
weeked, dating rules, grad student: Well there aren t really any rules. You should just ask him to coffee if you think it d be worth your time. You ll make a friend if nothing else. Just let loose a little and get to know him. Keep school at school, and personal life in your personal life. It...

Mind Games: mindgames, boyfriend girlfriend, sexual relationship
boyfriend girlfriend, sexual relationship, beer bottles: Hey Well I m not this guy so I really can t tell you anything. But honestly and I hate to say this but I think it would be more likely that he was playing you and didn t really like you as much as you think. Of course I could be wrong but from what you told...

Mind Games: what are mined games and can..., mind games, good luck
mind games, good luck, melissa: Hey Cody Mind games are when you try to confuse someone and make them think one thing and then turn right around and do something that contradicts that behavior. It s just messing with somebody and making them confused. I guess you could start out with acting...

Mind Games: mixed signals from him, mixed signals, bootcamp
mixed signals, bootcamp, mail: Hello Yes that s not right that you haven t heard anything from him since the middle of september. That s a long time and it was not fair for him to do that. I mean if he really cared about being with you he would have tried to call you or something. No do...

Mind Games: mixed signals?, mixed signals, pet parade
mixed signals, pet parade, family dinner: Hi Peter Well it is possible that you still have a chance but I think you can keep in touch with her, but don t try too hard. Just call her once in awhile to see how things go and to let her know that you are there if she ever gets lonely and needs a friend...

Mind Games: mixed signals - mind games, labor day weekend, mixed signals
labor day weekend, mixed signals, long vacation: Hello I think it s stupid to try and keep a relationship like this going. It s not even a relationship. A relationship requires both people to actually communicate with each and you guys don t talk. And it sounds like when you do talk it s about why you guys...

Mind Games: mixed signals, mail telephone, deep feelings
mail telephone, deep feelings, mixed signals: Hey Emma Either two things are happening. One thing is is that you misread the guy. He didn t really love you like THAT but he loved you as a friend. So when you started emailing him everyday and telling him you love him he pretty much figured that you loved...

Mind Games: moving in?, hopes and dreams, future plans
hopes and dreams, future plans, bf: Hello Isabela Well have you been working on these problems? It sounds like there hasn t been much success if you both are agreeing that there are problems. Again, I feel you should wait maybe 6 months to a year and really work on it and try. From what you...

Mind Games: is myex playing a big game or not, big game, good luck
big game, good luck, love: You can either ignore her completely, or try and be her friend. Just take it slow either way and don t be too anxious to have a connection to her. You re playing it wisely right now. Just remember why you didn t work out the first time ok? Good luck and let...

Mind Games: being a mysterious woman..., long term relationships, dumb games
long term relationships, dumb games, sexual level: Hello Well I don t know what your friends are talking about. I have never had to be mysterious ever and I ve had many successful long term relationships before where the guy was very interested in me. So I really disagreee with that statement. Anyway, to...

Mind Games: Need alittle help here.., work cloths, mind games
work cloths, mind games, 12pm: Hello Matthew First of all I m very sorry this question came a bit delayed. I ve been pretty busy these past few days... finishing final projects, flying home for the holidays, etc. I just didn t have much time but hopefully this is still relevant to you....

Mind Games: Need Some Dating Advice, wise advice, frineds
wise advice, frineds, dinner dance: Hi Matt Yes I may have missed it cause you said this friday night which is tonight. Anyways try to be friends first. Asking for a girls number might not work with some girls. I never give my number to guys who just come up to me and ask for it. It s one thing...

Mind Games: I Need Help Please, halloween weekend, minuets
halloween weekend, minuets, month and a half: Hello I think it might have been a combination of both. I just feel if someone truly loves you, they would not put you in this type of situation where they ignore your calls and messages. I think she may have meant it at the time, and I m sure she has all...

Mind Games: Need your help badly..., expertese, those girls
expertese, those girls, father figure: Dear Debbie, Well...this isn t really my area of expertese,but I ll help you in what way I can! It seems to me that this guy isn t as great as he originally seemed.The only advice I can really give you is whatI would do in your predicament. If it were me,...

Mind Games: I Just Need Someone To Talk To, real friends, suicidal thoughts
real friends, suicidal thoughts, good friends: Hey Julia I m really sorry to hear about this. I don t know when your birthday was but whenever it is Happy birthday! I hope that it was wonderful and even if it wasn t well then that just means you get to make up that birthday and do something nice for yourself...

Mind Games: Next step, halloween party, mind game
halloween party, mind game, mind games: hello If you guys do hang out this weekend, or today, and it goes well then thats a good sign. Again, it might not mean she likes you but it is a sign ofr interest and a promise of something more in the future. Remember you guys just met a week ago so give...

Mind Games: WHY HAVE'NT CALLED, vice verca, passionate sex
vice verca, passionate sex, bes: Hello I am very sorry to hear about that happened. I just hope in the future things wont turn out like that. You really didn t deserve to go through that. I wish you the best of luck in the future and again I m really sorry you had to go through that! Meliss...

Mind Games: I need answers, mad cause, playing a game
mad cause, playing a game, baby daddy: Hey Latoya Well you can tell if a guy likes you because they always are there for you when you need them. If anyone tried to hurt you in any way they would be there to protect you. They pretty much only want you. It could be a game though if they are doing...

Mind Games: need to ask, random guesses, mind game
random guesses, mind game, mind games: Hello Sorry if I didn;t answer part of your question but I had a hard time understanding what you were trying to say. Anyways yes that is a mind you. And I have no reason why he is doing this. I could make any random guesses but if you really want to know...

Mind Games: need to ask, elder brother, mind games
elder brother, mind games, interset: Hello No he is not playing mind games on you. Mind games would be if he was acting like he liked you one day then went to the other extreme and avoided you the next day. It sounds like he either likes you as a friend or is becoming interested in you. I would...

Mind Games: need help, sri lanken, silly game
sri lanken, silly game, skin colour: I think that you shouldn t call her because you don t know who this is. It s already started off by being a silly game and she s ignoring your texts and you re already getting your feelings hurt. Are you sure this isn t one of your friends playing a prank...

Mind Games: I need help..., second date, gangster
second date, gangster, melissa: Hello Well this doesn t sound like something that will turn into anything serious but there s no harm in just dating him and seeing what happens. You don t have to agree to a relationship cause the whole thing sounds a bit immature, but you can go on a date...

Mind Games: i need help, different woman, going to france
different woman, going to france, 9 months: Hello Well the reason on why she is lying about getting drunk and having male friends is because she wants to give you this impression that she thinks YOU will like. I m not sure why she would think that but it sounds like she s really trying to maintain...

Mind Games: I need help with a male coworker..., male coworker, retail job
male coworker, retail job, temporary job: Hello Yes, clearly he is interested in you. If a male is not interested he would not go out of his way to give you any of this type of attention. So it s clear that he really does like you or is at least very attracted you and is pretty interested in dating...

Mind Games: need help, sri lanken, skin colour
sri lanken, skin colour, brown skin: Nithin, Personally, I would be careful of the encounters you have with underage strangers. Your intentions can be misconstrued and can get you into very big trouble. You may seem to be coming off too strong with all your text messages. Try this: hold...

Mind Games: need to know, mind game, elder brother
mind game, elder brother, mind games: Hello No he is not playing mind games on you. Mind games would be if he was acting like he liked you one day then went to the other extreme and avoided you the next day. It sounds like he either likes you as a friend or is becoming interested in you. I would...

Mind Games: I need some mind games., mind games, sweethearts
mind games, sweethearts, fiance: Hey Debbie Well first of all if any guy is treating you like this then you really need to ask yourself why are you dealing with this. Especially if there are children involved. Obviously this guy is hurting you and will not stop cause you let him so probaly...

Mind Games: i need a objective advice, casual conversations, objective advice
casual conversations, objective advice, biggest party: Hi Sarah! Happy new year, and I hope you also enjoyed the holiday season and had a nice weekend! He might not talk to you about the relationship because 1.) he still is holding a grudge about the whole thing ending, and I m not sure I remember the situation,...

Mind Games: I need an opinion!, juvenile center, sex issue
juvenile center, sex issue, what this means: Hello Honestly I think he really wants friend time. You guys have spent a ton of time together, and friends are very important at this stage in your life. You should never let that go for your partner and I think he s starting to realize that and he just...

Mind Games: she needs a break, clean break, footing
clean break, footing, different things: Hello Well I agree that she should take a break and try to rebuild her relationships with her sons. That is more important than anything else and I can definitely understand her feeling guilty about not having those relationships with her sons and her ex....

Mind Games: She needs space...?, gold medals, month and a half
gold medals, month and a half, 17 years: Hello Well the chance of you both being together again seems pretty high since she broke up with you for pretty much a minor reason. Many couples take breaks because they need space or feel like they are neglecting their friends. Once that whole thing is...

Mind Games: Am I going nuts?, english woman, english women
english woman, english women, mind game: Hello Well there are times when even loved ones can make mistakes and put people down. Honestly it sounds like you might be being sensitive BUT this is not all in your head. His comments about English are wrong. It s one thing if you asked for his opinion...

Mind Games: Obviously confused, career path, silliness
career path, silliness, jerk: Hey Michael First of all I am not psychic so you really can t expect me to tell you what is going on in her mind. but I can give you a few good guesses. First of all you are not getting played. that seems very unlikely to the point where I could say that...

Mind Games: OK, good friend, couple of days
good friend, couple of days, clue: Hey Julia I have no idea what he s talking about. To me it just sounds like he s giving you a big hint that he doesn t want to be a friend to you. That is pretty much how it s coming off. You say that he s started back talking to you and all and the first...

Mind Games: OOPS!, married couples, public bus
married couples, public bus, band director: Hi Julia Oh ok then i thought I told you before. I never really tell people I m high school or my age cause sometimes I give advice to like married couples or older people and I think it would weird them out and possibly not consider my advice. But about...

Mind Games: ok well this girl i really..., god friends, guy friends
god friends, guy friends, good friends: Hey Damir Well why wouldn t she talk to a good friend a lot? If you are good friends with someone don t you usually talk to them more than others? But anyways I don t think she is trying to make you jealous with that guy. They are good friends so she talks...

Mind Games: old friend? new love?, days before christmas, love connection
days before christmas, love connection, strong man: Hey Marly Yeah he definately made it pretty obvious that he s interested in being in a relationship with you. I don t know when you left the message but if it was sometime today then wait till tomorrow and give him some time. Just keep trying back and you...

Mind Games: old girl friend, girls friends, having a good time
girls friends, having a good time, weird question: Hey Josh Yeah i think she still likes you. It s pretty obvious... umm but like your dad said for now I don t think you guys will start dating again but probally in the near future. so there s my opinion on it! Hope everything will work out for the both of...

Mind Games: older man, geneva switzerland, older man
geneva switzerland, older man, fifties: Not a good idea to have him stay in your house. He should get a hotel room. I really dont know if he may just want sex or not BUT he is 50 and if he is so against staying in a hotel, then I would say that he is trying to have sex with you. Either way, it is...

Mind Games: opinion, dominant gender, subtle control
dominant gender, subtle control, personal capacity: Hi, The male is the dominant gender. Now this is not universal as you have to see humans in their own personal capacity, not in the light of their gender. There are men who know how to control their environment and they have the skills to achieve what...

Mind Games: my own annoying mind, girls weekend, single girls
girls weekend, single girls, going on a trip: Hello I think you are analyzing this way too much. And if you trust her and love her then you should know she will not do anything. For example about a week ago I just got back from a 3 week vacation in Europe with a group of my signle girl friends. Yes I...

Mind Games: Perplexed, psychological help, good woman
psychological help, good woman, occurence: I wouldn t worry too much about this. Everybody has these feelings, some more than others. One part of it could be that you have abandonment syndrome. That is when you leave someone before they get a chance to leave you which sometimes can stem from...

Mind Games: Perplexed, unconscious world, continual problem
unconscious world, continual problem, dear mike: Dear Mike, I can understand your concern...you seem to be very confused about what might be going on in the unconscious world of your relationships... this question is very deep, and while I could probably get you where you need to be, I strongly suggest...

Mind Games: Perspective, australian chat, text msgs
australian chat, text msgs, airline ticket: Hey Ed Yes this girl is not making sense at all. It is possible to fall in love with someone online and to feel you re cheating on a person who you know online but what this girl is saying sounds completely crazy. I m glad that you figured this out for yourself....

Mind Games: Pertaining to accepting non-commitment part 2, vulnerable feelings, physical gratification
vulnerable feelings, physical gratification, intimate feelings: Hey Chris Oh that was my mistake. Yes it is learned, that s why I gave the fishing example to, to show that. Sometimes I type so fast I make little mistakes like these, and I get so many questions and am usually busy that I just skim my response for errors....

Mind Games: PLAYING GAMES, sexual thing, mind games
sexual thing, mind games, flings: Hey Tamarah Maybe you guys do really care about each other or it could just be lust. This whole playing mind games with each other really isn t good for a relationship. This is what I think, it s either love or a sexual thing. Why do you guys want to date...

Mind Games: PLEASE HELP!!! THANK U SO MUCH!!!, insecurities, eight months
insecurities, eight months, ricky: Hello First of all you should just leave this guy alone. It s clear that he has feelings for you but he likes to be the one in control. It sounds like he wants to make sure you are always in love with him but he will continue to treat you like crap until...

Mind Games: Playa Played my mind?, 3day, eachother
3day, eachother, having sex: Hey Ash Oh first of all thank you for the comment! That was nice of you! To be honest with you though, about this guy, well it sounds like he might be attracted to you but I wouldn t say he liked you. I m saying this because it s been two years and he has...

Mind Games: Playing games, basic tactics, mind game
basic tactics, mind game, honest approach: Alright, here goes: 1.) You can find out what the guy you like is into and learn about it. It could help. 2.) drop something near him and see if he picks it up. great for breaking the ice. 3.) If you are talking to someone who you like, and you think...

Mind Games: Please Help, looking for a new job, trust issue
looking for a new job, trust issue, single father: Hello First of all I m very sorry that it has taken me quite some time to respond to your question. I understand that your situation is very important but I had many things going on in my life, and I literally did not have the time to answer questions. I...

Mind Games: Plz help, cardboard man, promising marriage
cardboard man, promising marriage, bytch: I only read the first paragraph or so. It sounds like you should leave this guy. He s a cheater and a liar and makes all guys look really bad. This type of question is outside my expertise though. I don t answer questions about relationships, and particularly...

Mind Games: Problem with Girlfriend, cooking meals, dissapointment
cooking meals, dissapointment, emotional health: Hey Pete I think you should wait for her but if you meet someone else then give it a chance. I can understand her wanting to figure things out. You have ot told me your age or her age but I m guessing that you guys are still young. And if she is young then...

Mind Games: I panicked., rest of my life, best of luck
rest of my life, best of luck, melissa: Hey Rachel I m not going to say if you love him or not but if you did love you wouldn t want to spend your life with anybody but him. And if you re feeling smothered and panicky over this after 3 weeks then it might not be love. Like I said before I m not...

Mind Games: personailty, brutal truth, housing office
brutal truth, housing office, upperclassmen: Hello Sorry it took awhile to respond to this question, but I had a couple of tests this week and had some issues with work. I just didn t have the time to respond to this question, and I hope you understand. Anyway, from what you told me, it sounds like...

Mind Games: personality, brutal truth, housing office
brutal truth, housing office, upperclassmen: Well it seems this guy has been so good to you but then he got scared or whatever. I will tell you this one piece of advice - there is never a perfect time to fall in love. Exams, weight, jobs, etc. They all are factors in our lives, yes. But we use them as...

Mind Games: Being played, guilt trip, wonderful girl
guilt trip, wonderful girl, mind games: This guy is a player and he doesn t care about anyone but himself. A coma for some disease and he can t tell you (his GIRLFRIEND) what this is? Are you kidding, he s lying and playing mind games with you - likely cheating too. Stay away from him and don t...

Mind Games: players, girs, one night stands
girs, one night stands, scumbag: Well, all guys don t know what they want and act like complete dogs, unfortunately for you - you dated one of these assholes. At least you didn t have sex with him and then got hurt worse. You were right to wait, and it turned out well since you found out...

Mind Games: players, time and patience, different girls
time and patience, different girls, one night stands: Hello I hate to tell you this but if he did this to you and is now having sex with 4 different girls then most likely he only wanted you for sex too. Guys are not that stupid either. They know that some girls actually require time and patience until they...

Mind Games: What is she playing at?, playing soccer, bathers
playing soccer, bathers, last minutes: Well, I think that avoiding her has worked out because now she s trying to find out. This means like I said, she s giving you signals that she s interested but doesn t want to necessarily be involved. I wouldn t avoid her entirely - just be friendly, but not...

Mind Games: is he playing with me?, ego gratification, tommarow
ego gratification, tommarow, looong time: Sounds like one of two possibilities. Either: 1. Something came up and he genuinely couldn t make it, but had no way to get in touch with you. 2. He wanted to go, but at the last minute, he decided ego gratification (selfishly making HIMSELF feel better)...

Mind Games: Is he playing me?, small kids, big hug
small kids, big hug, goodbyes: Hello Well for the first guy, it does sound like he s genuinely shy but he doesn t see you because either he s shy, doesn t even know that that s a problem, or he may have a hard time opening up to a woman. I think you should stay because he does seem like...

Mind Games: is he playing me, earning potential, fri
earning potential, fri, agony: Hello Well it can be a genuine situation but it s really hard to tell at this point. Also you should be cautious with this situation because it sounds like he will always be taking care of her. Taking courses to increase her earning potential will take a...

Mind Games: is he playing me or is he into me!!, first kiss, actions speak louder than words
first kiss, actions speak louder than words, louder than words: Hello Um... I think you shouldn t go for this. First of all... you know the quote... actions speak louder than words. If this guy really wanted to get in touch with you he would have be now. I know things are great when you guys are together but it should...

Mind Games: Is she playing games with me?, text msgs, calling me names
text msgs, calling me names, tough break: She knows that you are secure and she can count on you while not being tied to you. Just be careful with your feelings in this situation. Talk to her and ask her flat out what her actions mean. Don t say it in a mean way, maybe like Hey, you want to talk...

Mind Games: is she playing head games or not, head games, roomate
head games, roomate, telling the truth: Hey Michele I can t tell you if she s telling the truth or not cause I am not psychic butn I can tell you she is playing games. If she really loved you then she would not be with that roomate of hers. She would not have risked the relationship you guys had...

Mind Games: not sure if he's playing mind games, valentine s day, happy valentine
valentine s day, happy valentine, personal questions: Hello Do not try to seek revenge! That will only make you look crazy and will only make him tell his friends and other people that that is why he rejected you and so on. I understand why you feel this way though. It hurts to be led on and to really like someone...

Mind Games: He was playing mind games in the beginning...but I think he's decided to stop, sweet messages, sweet words
sweet messages, sweet words, mind games: Hey Fifi From what you told me I think he might have expected a little bit more and thought you weren t interested or just a user. I only think this cause from what you told me he s been callng you and texting you for nearly 2 months and you never once called...

Mind Games: is he playing mind games or am I paranoid?, type personality, mind games
type personality, mind games, wierd: Hey Kasha No I don t think your paranoid and you are right if this is happening already before you guys are even in an official relationship then it is best that you probaly don t pursue it. Sure he may have been joking, but he should know that even if it...

Mind Games: why is he playing mind games, wont answer, time span
wont answer, time span, hopes and dreams: Hello Well if he is serious about you then he would have called you and he would have emailed you back. The best thing to do is to call him one more time and tell him you want to talk to him If he loves you he will call. When he calls then ask him why he...

Mind Games: Is she playing with me?, gonna fight, lack of communication
gonna fight, lack of communication, light at the end of the tunnel: Honey, it sounds like you re in a very difficult situation. But it also seems like there is a major lack of communication here. Why is she unwilling to let you be in her life? This may be because she doesn t have feelings for you the way she did when you two...

Mind Games: please answer back...., mind games, good person
mind games, good person, jerk: Hello If you want to gain her respect then you have to actually earn it. The only way to do that is to be her friend and show her that you are a good person who cares about her, and wants her to be happy. Just show her who you are and that you are not a jerk....

Mind Games: please help me, freshman year, shy boy
freshman year, shy boy, d sound: ok, I ve never really been in this situation so I m going to help you the best I can. This to me sounds like something in a movie. It sounds to me like he may be embarrassed to call you. I know you got his email address, but is there anyway you can get...

Mind Games: please help me, freshman year, shy boy
freshman year, shy boy, d sound: Well honey email him and see what happens. If that doesn t work be blunt with him ask him if he is ever planning on calling you, if not tell him to quit wasting your time. Guys play games and pretend alot it s nothing new. Honey I am sure you are very beautiful...

Mind Games: please help me...im so confused, separate beds, casual conversation
separate beds, casual conversation, explaination: Hello I really think you should not be chasing him. You did not do anything wrong, and I hope that you understand that. you do not need to be acting like you did something wrong, by calling him constantly and making it more than obvious that you want him...

Mind Games: please help, faint idea, cadet training
faint idea, cadet training, criminal minds: Well, it seems you do have a real mind game expert here. But i think that some of his tactics are used to control you and confuse you, just like you said. One way of turning the tables is to not give in and ask too much, say too much, but don t be defensive....

Mind Games: Can this possibly work?, warning sign, wasting my time
warning sign, wasting my time, future plans: Hey Justin Well if it s been 3 months and you are feeling this way and that your goals don t match then this might be just telling you that this relationship may be a waste of time. I m not saying you guys should break up but it could just be a warning sign...

Mind Games: pregnant, baby congrats, grand parents
baby congrats, grand parents, privelage: Hey Confused First of all you have to tell the parents. You have to for a few reasons. One is is that it s not fair that you have to raise the baby on your own, and your parents have to know about it too. If he s not going to take the resposibility of being...

Mind Games: Why one of my professors is winking at me?, kind of game, strange things
kind of game, strange things, minu: Hello I highly doubt that this guy is playing games with you and that this might be all in your head. First of all professors do that sometimes... say hello... the winking thing is strange... but people do strange things when they greet people sometime. He...

Mind Games: A Quandary, girl problem, girl in my life
girl problem, girl in my life, abstract sense: Hey Ben It sounds like this girl has just moved on. It sounds like you both are teenagers and in school and honestly this happens all the time. There are times when like a guy but feelings change, especially over the span of the year. She may have some sort...

Mind Games: Quick Question Hun, rare occurence, smart remarks
rare occurence, smart remarks, occassionaly: Hey Carisse Well he may love you but there are a lot of flaws in his that he needs to change. Firstly him starting arguements and bringing up your past is not good. He needs to work on that and change that. It will only ruin the relationship and it only hurts...

Mind Games: question, commitment problems, commitment problem
commitment problems, commitment problem, boyfriend girlfriend: Hey there! Ah ha! The old commitment problem! Yup, I ve seen this one quite a few times (and, admittedly, dealt with it myself). From what you ve told me, I would say that he is in fact interested in you. Several things tell me this. First off, he seems...

Mind Games: question on the ex?, old feelings, voicemail
old feelings, voicemail, good luck: Hello Well it s obvious that your ex still is interested in you. I m not going to say he s crazy about you but probably seeing you again sparked up some old feelings and he probably got a little jealous seeing you talking to some other guy. He s also trying...

Mind Games: question, honest opinion, relat
honest opinion, relat, girlfriend: I know about the facebook / myspace thing. Unfortunately so many people are using it these days. He was hesitant to put your name up there because it means he s not single anymore. Guys have this abhorrent fear of not being independent. With the quick status...

Mind Games: REALLLLY CONFUZED!!?, mom lives, taking time
mom lives, taking time, text message: Yeah, it sounds like this guy is involved with his own life right now so let him be. Probably just try and be friends but don t demand his time or that he hang with you. Do your thing for a bit. It s a busy schedule in the fact that he doesn t schedule time...

Mind Games: Reconnecting, two and a half years, great relationship
two and a half years, great relationship, romantic relationship: Hey Nick Well just tell her that you love her and that you don t want to have your relationship end over bickering and little things like it not be exciting anymore. It has been almost 3 years and it s not worth breaking up just cause of that. I m sure you...

Mind Games: Relationship Help, anxiety attacks, relationship help
anxiety attacks, relationship help, month and a half: Hello Jamie Well it is possible for a person to love and care about someone very much but to not love them anymore. she could love you as a friend now but not in a romanitc way. that happens with some people. Sometimes they love someone so much in a romantic...

Mind Games: Relationships, phychics, relationship questions
phychics, relationship questions, psychics: Hello Well if this really bothers you that much and he cannot even give this up for you then it s probably best if you move on. I cannot believe that a guy has a problem with stopping this behavior, especially if it is hurting you. If he truly loves you then...

Mind Games: Respect or dis-respect, best of luck, single day
best of luck, single day, two ways: Hey Nikki Ok I didn t really get your question. You wrote the last part a little bit weird. But I ll answer it in the two ways I think you meant. First of all, if you were asking if you think you are asking too much if he not communicate with you for at least...

Mind Games: Is this for real or just a game she is playing, 12 red roses, human instinct
12 red roses, human instinct, realtionship: Hello A surprise visit is a definite no. Not only will that seem like stalking but it s not appropriate either. That might be fine if you guys lived like an hour away and were used to seeing each other all the time. But this has pretty much been an LDR for...

Mind Games: IS he for real or is he playing games, keep your distance, things that matter
keep your distance, things that matter, free ride: Well, keep your distance and you won t get hurt. Too bad. He s got to drop the issues and move on or confront what his real problem is. I m sorry but I ve never met a guy that really liked me and wanted to be with me that was afraid of telling everyone he...

Mind Games: is he for real, sophomore, tara
sophomore, tara, thanksgiving: Hey Tara He might be interested in a relationship but from what you told me it doesn t sound like it. It just sounds like he thinks you re someone fun to hang out with and maybe fool around with but other than that he doesn t sound too interested in you....

Mind Games: Just really confused, leaving a friend, guy friends
leaving a friend, guy friends, taking your time: Hello Well if he doesn t like you then it would seem like he should give you hints showing that he doesn t or at least treat you in a way where you know that this is just friends. It s possible that he may like you but keep in mind that you are not some strange...

Mind Games: Do we really have a strong connection, work at home job, island louisiana
work at home job, island louisiana, part time work at home: Hi There You really have no business with this couple. You stand to gain nothing from this relationship and it would never improve you as a person in anyway. You should pursue your career more fervently and forget about this couple so you can get on with...

Mind Games: really, truly confused!, whole time, what the heck
whole time, what the heck, nerd: Hey Linda Yes it sounds like he definately likes you or is interested in you a little bit more than a friend. But either way he likes you. Well just keep up the conversations and just keep being yourself. Maybe after a while you could ask him if he would...

Mind Games: What does he really want?, patent bar, bar exam
patent bar, bar exam, e mail: Hello Okay I know you love this man but obviously he has big commitment issues. You cannot force this guy to want to be in a committed relationship with you and if he slept with another woman and has been acting like this all year, then it s safe to say that...

Mind Games: Does she really like me, attractive girls, staring problem
attractive girls, staring problem, eye contact: Hello First of all sorry it took so long for me to get back to you. I had a lot of computer problems which prevented me from answering this question. Anyway, she could have a staring problem. There are people who just stare at people. Also like i said before,...

Mind Games: Am I realy the only girl he's ever been so comfortable with that he can tell me anything, private detective, running game
private detective, running game, telling the truth: It sounds like you ve got communication going on. But what I m concerned about it how you still feel the need to be reassured with a letter from him even though you talk regularly. Is there something going on that makes you not want to trust him? Some guys...

Mind Games: Am I realy the only girl he's ever been so comfortable with that he can tell me anything, romantic dates, fun things
romantic dates, fun things, compliments: Hello I know what you are talking about. And many times my friends always ask me, don t you guys ever get tired of talking. But we don t and most of the time we aren t really talking . We are just hanging out and laughing together. One of the things we love...

Mind Games: relationship commitment, relationship marriage, nasty divorce
relationship marriage, nasty divorce, marriage partner: Howdy Nadine: Wow, that s a loaded question. It could work (I know of an instanc where it did), and then again it might backfire. Not knowing this guy it s tough to say. I think in the final context of things, games never work in the long run. I would...

Mind Games: relationship, crisis point, frustrations
crisis point, frustrations, alfredo: Well Alfredo, You re right. She IS projecting her anger and frustrations with HER life on you. Rest assured, she doesn t actually hate you, and there has to be some part of her that still loves you, otherwise, she d want a divorce and not just a separation....

Mind Games: relationships, open trust, nursing school
open trust, nursing school, 10 months: Hello Well first of all you and your boyfriend need to have more communication about this. This shouldn t be something where you have to find out how he feels, he keeps things from you like how he sent her flowers, and with all these secrets lying around....

Mind Games: relatioships, emergencies, good luck
emergencies, good luck, melissa: Hello Well anything could have happened. If he loves you and feels that way then usually the guy is really attached to the girl. Like you guys will be talking all the time and this will be the stage where you guys just can t get enough of each other. But...

Mind Games: repeat offender!!!, slime ball, male friends
slime ball, male friends, exact same thing: I know you want to get rid of this guy, but don t lower yourself to his level. Remember, he s the asshole - you re not going to find a nice guy that will stick with you while you re playing games. But if you wanna do the revenge thing, nobody can really stop...

Mind Games: repeat offender!!!!, ugly things, honest opinion
ugly things, honest opinion, infidelity: Hello well you are causing all this pain to yourself. This guy is a loser so why are you letting him back in your life? You shouldn t even be thinking about suicide. There s much more worse things happening in the world and you do have a son to take care...

Mind Games: repeat offender!!!!!, sick to my stomach, new woman
sick to my stomach, new woman, darlene: Carliss, Please follow up and make the question private. This way I can respond and give you my personal e-mail without having it viewable to the public. As far as your situation--I wish I could tell you that I (or anyone else) could give you the strength...

Mind Games: No returned calls or e-mail, mind game, logical reason
mind game, logical reason, playing games: Hey Well I can t really tell you why he stopped speaking to you. I mean there could be many reasons. I doubt he is playing games with you just for the sake of playing games. Not only would that be very immature at this stage in his life but also it would...

Mind Games: How to get revenge on a neighbor, heroin addiction, realtionship
heroin addiction, realtionship, how to get revenge: Hello Honestly it sounds like he was just trying to get laid and he s not worth your time anyway. It sounds like he wanted to do all those things so he fed you that lie just so you would believe him and then of course after he gets it he goes back on his...

Mind Games: Seeing The Big Picture, happy camper, saturday nite
happy camper, saturday nite, female friend: First off, Pepper, I m sorry to hear about your mother being in the hospital. Best wishes in regards to that. Now onto the man issue, I know how frustrating it can get to be in a situation where you feel like you care more than he does. Unfortuantely,...

Mind Games: Sister-in-law from hell, saying things, sister in law
saying things, sister in law, texting: This is definitely a maturity thing. I know it sucks right now but just try and be patient with her. I am glad that he did finally say something. Just gently let him know that his family s disrespect is hurtful to you but you love him so much that you want...

Mind Games: Soap Opera of the day..., soap opera, football weekend
soap opera, football weekend, fragile state: Hello Well first of all I want to apologize for taking awhile to respond to this question. I am also busy with coursework, my job, and other priorities in my life and recently it s been very difficult to devote much time to questions. I hope you understand...

Mind Games: Soon to be ex is confusing me, lusty sex, playing with my mind
lusty sex, playing with my mind, dinner concert: Hello Well I m very glad to hear that overall things are improving and you guys are getting along great. It seems like you both should reconsider a divorce because you guys seem to be showing that you guys can make it if you both put effort into it and what...

Mind Games: STRANGE CALLS WEIRD VIBES????, weird vibes, song on the radio
weird vibes, song on the radio, private line: Hi Priscilla Wow... how old are these people? This sounds like something typical of a middle school student who has no life except to bother you. I m very glad to hear that you are ignoring these people because these people are pretty immature and you do...

Mind Games: Stay or move on..., irons in the fire, emotional relationship
irons in the fire, emotional relationship, casual relationship: Hello! It sounds like this guy is just wanting a casual relationship. If he says that he doesn t know what he wants, that means that he doesn t know what he wants. And my dear, it is up to you whether you want to stick this out and see if he changes his mind....

Mind Games: Stop????, funny guy, recess
funny guy, recess, melissa: Hi Rachel Well as you know you cannot help liking whoever you like. People don t have control over these things. For example, you could meet a nice and very funny guy anywhere, but if there is no attraction, then nothing will ever come out of it. I think...

Mind Games: Strange?, rocky times, temp job
rocky times, temp job, blah blah: Hey Debbie Well why are you with him? i have many answers to a question that you probaly can answer but I m not going to say it cause I think the most important thing is get out of this relationship. You have just given me a crapload of reasons why to get...

Mind Games: sad and frustrated, boy friend, foreigner
boy friend, foreigner, maltese: Try and tell your boyfriend that you want to earn your own things somewhat, or start applying for more responsibilities at work. That way you can start saving some money on the side - open your own account and keep it secret if you have to. But let him know...

Mind Games: sad story, horoscope compatibility, booty call
horoscope compatibility, booty call, astrologist: Hello Okay I can t tell you exactly what is going through this guy s head cause first of all I m not him and I m certainly not a mind reader. But I can tell you that this guy definitely really liked you at the time and he had a connection with you. I don...

Mind Games: sadness wont go away, cant sleep, sleep at night
cant sleep, sleep at night, cold shoulder: Hey Ron Well not to be mean about your girlfriend but I think it is a good thing you guys are breaking up. I thought for a 2 and a half year relationship, her reasons for breaking up with you were really dumb. I know how you feel I take seven classes(trying...

Mind Games: This is what she said, physical harassment, bhagya
physical harassment, bhagya, anybody can do anything: Hey Himanshu First of all you have to tell this girl about the incidents you ve been through. It sounds like the only thing she doesn t like about you, is how you are making fun of all your friends. Tell her the reason why you are doing it, and why you do...

Mind Games: What is he saying?, personal resolution, renaissance festival
personal resolution, renaissance festival, girlfreind: Hey again Julia! Ok thanks for the information that helps me understand better. Well from what I can tell it sounds like he understands what you are saying in that letter and that whole hitting you with the ball thing was a way of letting you know he got...

Mind Games: too scared to hurt me?, girl of my dreams, mind reader
girl of my dreams, mind reader, doubts: Hello Well you could fall in love with someone but still worry about breaking up with that person. Just cause you are in love does not mean that you are absolutely sure the relationship will work out and that the relationship wont end up in a break up. The...

Mind Games: I seek only your opinion., misfortunate, friends with benefits
misfortunate, friends with benefits, first date: Hey again James! It might be a major factor in it. I don t know if this was her first love too but if he is then that s probaly why too. I know that with my first love I was crazy about him even though he did crappy to about me and said stuff like she s saying...

Mind Games: Why does it seem he's avoiding me?, needy person, april first
needy person, april first, blackmail: Hi April First of all I am very sorry that it took me such a long time to reply to your question. I understand that it has been a few days but I ve been very busy with coursework, my job, and other priorities in my life. I have not had much time to relax...

Mind Games: Is he serious?, emotional feelings, intellectual level
emotional feelings, intellectual level, guy friend: Hey Janel Well I don t think he s playing mind games at all. He told you his feelings on the situation and that s that. I do think that being this close to each other only makes things even more difficult for the both of you. But it doesn t seem like he s...

Mind Games: is he shy or just not interested in me?, freind, nice things
freind, nice things, playing games: Hello I think at this point you can t really say he s playing games with you or that he does like you. From what you told me, it doesn t sound like he s giving you solid signs that he likes you yet. I mean if he just thinks of you as a friend for now then...

Mind Games: is he shy?, cold shoulder, quick response
cold shoulder, quick response, heartbreak: be a little aggressive but not to strong, email him but keep it simple and low key. let a few emails fly back and forth, to make sure he is interested, then your going to have to ask if he wants to hang out again, or he may ask you too. but more likely than...

Mind Games: sick and twisted, playing with my heart, low self esteem
playing with my heart, low self esteem, mind games: Hey Katherine Well if you continue to deal with this guy then stop complaining. I feel that if girls stick around with guys who play pointless mind games, treat them like crap, or whatever pretty much deserve it. If you want a guy who s not willing to act...

Mind Games: my situation, marriage and kids, brother jake
marriage and kids, brother jake, weird feeling: Hello Well it s clear from what you told me that you shouldn t be with Jake if you really prefer his brother Mark. It s obvious that you really should never try to resume the relationship with your ex. I really can t tell you how Mark is feeling. I m not...

Mind Games: my situation with breakup, new girlfriend, atleast
new girlfriend, atleast, parking lot: Hey Brandon Well I m glad to hear that you are at least considering breaking up with her. I don t know if she will not cheat on you in Texas but a least that ll give you time to think about things and to see if it s really worth it or not. But don t have...

Mind Games: smirks, heartbroken, good chance
heartbroken, good chance, forefront: Hey! Oh boy... yup, I know what that s about. I don t know if you want to hear it! I hope it ll be helpful to you, though. Here it goes: He knows (or at least thinks he knows) what you re doing. And what he assumes you re doing is trying to make him...

Mind Games: smirks, heartbroken, slutty
heartbroken, slutty, jealousy: Hello Yes and my answer has not changed. He may have broke up with you but that doesn t change the fact that he could still be jealous. I remember breaking up with my ex about a year ago, and even though I was over us, I would have still been a bit jealous...

Mind Games: smirks, hot boys, heartbroken
hot boys, heartbroken, earrings: He was probably smirking because he didn t know what else to do. It s good for you to be talking to hot boys especially while your ex walks by. It s great that he sees how desired you are. But the smirk - whatever. Ignore him. He lost you. Whatever his opinion...

Mind Games: **** she smoked ****, wit friends, reactin
wit friends, reactin, chocolate flavor: Did you say you d never smoke tobacco or something else? Because if I agreed not to smoke, my interpretation would be - nothing illegal. I still can have a drag off a friends cigarette once in a blue moon while I m drinking, and never more than one. But if...

Mind Games: songs, bf, good time
bf, good time, good luck: Liz, first of all is there any reason you can think of for his behavior? Like a fight or any extra stress he s going through right now? I would probably talk to him and let him know you re just a little concerned that he s been so distant lately. Ask if there...

Mind Games: Is she still interested, little butt, dayroom
little butt, dayroom, coworker: Wow...I m glad you decided to drop this girl! It s only too bad you ve wasted an entire month on her! Oh well...live, love, and have no regrets, I always say. At least you got out of it before any sexual harrassment claims came about. I guess this kind...

Mind Games: Is she still interested, work relationship, scenerio
work relationship, scenerio, private conversation: Wow, I was just reading through the comments and I was wondering what s been going on with you! What a coincidence! Since there s so much hostility there, I m thinking that she heard something hurtful about you from a third party. Unfortunately the rumor...

Mind Games: Is she still in love or mindgame?, trusting men, saying things
trusting men, saying things, space and time: Hello I agree with her mother that some of this is the result of her not trusting men as much since she met her father again. I think she still loves you but is very unsure and probably confused about her feelings. If she didn t love you she wouldn t initiate...

Mind Games: Does he still love me?, bearly, guy friends
bearly, guy friends, late at night: Wow what a tangled web we weave... Ok, well first of all look at this history of lying that you ve written me. You re not ready to be in a serious relationship honey. You need to admit that to yourself. The way you ve been acting you re not wanting to be...

Mind Games: stuck, life hell, girls head
life hell, girls head, frinds: Amanda (theres a song by a band called Boston..its called Amanda..i suggest you listen to it:)) between you n me,........whew! now that was one rant from the heart..and im glad you told me (or tried to) tell me everything that uve kept inside (i know uve...

Mind Games: My stupid husband, 5am, second opinion
5am, second opinion, 3am: Jen, Do you really suspect that he s doing drugs? Does he have a previous history of display any sort of behaviors that would make you feel this way? Have you brought up the subject of drugs to him? To be honest, I really don t know what he would be...

Mind Games: Is he just stupid or am I?, aircraft mechanic, txtx
aircraft mechanic, txtx, jealous person: Well the two of you are fighting like kids and you need to stop. If you re ever going to have a successful relationship you are going to have to put away the kid act and start acting like adults. Most people that love each other usually treat each other with...

Mind Games: All of the sudden, month and a half, text message
month and a half, text message, message saying that: Hi James I agree that you should be cautious about this situation as well. I think you can be polite and if you haven t already, respond to her text nicely. I don t think you should ignore her but you should make sure she understands that you don t want to...

Mind Games: Should I Tell Him?, motivational speaker, firm believer
motivational speaker, firm believer, summer camp: Hey Julia Well I see no reason in not saying thank you. I m a firm believer that even if a person doesn t show you any love doesn t mean that you can t show them some as well. It just makes you look better and shows that you re mature about this and that...

Mind Games: Think she needs help, self esteem confidence, depression medicine
self esteem confidence, depression medicine, second marriage: Hello First and foremost I am very sorry that it took me so long to respond to this question. I was traveling all day for the holidays when you sent this out and then I have been having a lot of computer problems which have prevented me from using the internet....

Mind Games: Tired of the emotional roller coaster, emotional roller coaster, boyfriend and girlfriend
emotional roller coaster, boyfriend and girlfriend, mixed signals: Hello Susan I feel that if this continues without any change that you should really end it. The reason I feel this way is because it is bad if he doesn t see your relationship moving anywhere. That doesn t mean you guys have to get married but the purpose...

Mind Games: Tired...REALLY Tired of Mind Games, arms of another man, low self esteem
arms of another man, low self esteem, mind game: Hey Chuck Well personally I don t blame you for wanting to scream cause even though I can tell your trying to improve upon this relationship, it sounds like she s not trying to improve at all. And you can t get very far in working all this out unless she...

Mind Games: Well this girl and I are back..., random times, 5 months
random times, 5 months, gf: Hey Tad Well if you guys are going to get married one day and are going to be living together very soon then you guys do need to discuss this as soon as possible. Tell her that you guys need to talk about some things and that she can still go out and stuff...

Mind Games: Try to find right direction, co worker, time of day
co worker, time of day, openness: Hello Well if you have to ask if you are being played, then in most cases you are being played. It s obvious that he has changed. And there must have been problems in this relationship if he felt compelled to cheat. Have you asked him why he cheated on you?...

Mind Games: She can't decide?, friends to lovers, mixed signals
friends to lovers, mixed signals, nervous breakdown: Hello Well I m not this woman so I couldn t tell you why she is so unsure about who she wants to be with, but from what you told me it sounds like she s just trying to weigh the consequences. She may love you but it sounds like you have a good friendship...

Mind Games: Can't stop thinking about her no matter what I do, new girls, crushing blow
new girls, crushing blow, melissa: Hello, First of all I am very very sorry that it took me this long to get back to you. I ve been pretty busy this past week and have done quite a bit of traveling and I guess I thought I could handle allexperts and all of that, but I guess not. I hope...

Mind Games: I Just Can't Tell, mixed messages, sophmore
mixed messages, sophmore, roommate: Hey Well it sounds like she s just flirting and is probaly wanting to get you to ask her out. That s all I can think of. It all adds up. She makes it plainly obvious that she likes you but at the same time is teasing you and getting you all confused by ignoring...

Mind Games: I can't tell if it's the truth, initial game, mind game
initial game, mind game, telling the truth: Hello Well I don t really know what kind of games you are talking about, but if she has apologized and explained herself then you should just be friends with her. Don t try to get too involved in her life, but just be friends until she has proven that she...

Mind Games: What do you think?, sportsbar, saying nothing
sportsbar, saying nothing, jack daniels: Well Jackie, It sounds to me as if you said the magic words: No Sex. He heard what he was hoping he wouldn t hear, and since he now knows that you re not going to give it up just because you wanted him to, he s done. You re better off anyway. Let...

Mind Games: i think its a mind game, mind game, playing games
mind game, playing games, girlfriend: Hello Yes this is definately a mind game she is playing wih you. It sounds like she still has feelings for you and wants to see how you feel. That s why she asked if you had a girlfriend and that s why she told you she was unhappy. She wanted to see if you...

Mind Games: I think I'm wrong, true friendship, ditches
true friendship, ditches, do the right thing: Hello I m very sorry I haven t replied to your question earlier but I was very busy with school and work. I had a few tests this week and a research project, and I just could not get around to allexperts, so I apologize for this inconvenience, and I hope...

Mind Games: I think I saw him staring at me, aisle seat, multiple times
aisle seat, multiple times, melissa: Hello I think you are making too much out of this situation. He might have been idly looking at you, like maybe he was zoning out. I do that sometimes and find myself staring at someone, but I was just zoning out. He also might not have been looking at you....

Mind Games: what do you think, akward, freind
akward, freind, holding hands: HEy Ryan Well I doubt she will always see you as a friend, there s a pretty good chance that she will see you as something more later, if she doesn t already. I think that with her just being recently dumped it might not be a good idea to ask her out and...

Mind Games: What is she thinkin?, unhealthy relationship, month and a half
unhealthy relationship, month and a half, stupid things: Hey Guy Well first of all it sounds like this behavior is coming from the fights. I know that when your fighting with someone constantly a person may think about being with another person to the point where they do. That does not make this all right but it...

Mind Games: what is he thinking?, physical attraction, subtle hint
physical attraction, subtle hint, stares: Hello It sounds like he s defginitely interested in you. I mean he s telling you he wants a girlfriend (subtle hint that he s open to dating and meeting a girl), talks to you quite a bit (he s thinking of you and enjoys having a conversation with you), and...

Mind Games: tough or sensitive?, unhappy relationship, low self esteem
unhappy relationship, low self esteem, alpha male: Hey Augusto Well personally I feel the abuser is more of a turn off. I have asked a couple of my friends and they have agreed too. I never hear much about women leaving men who are not emotionally stable. I think by the news you mean by tv. First of all it...

Mind Games: I like a toxic guy do nt know if he is the one?, little don, gina marie
little don, gina marie, moodiness: Oh yeah, and tell him you ll submit a claim to collections for the money he can pay you in person and doesn t need to mail any money. Give him a deadline. Like by Friday - read this aloud to him if you have to. If I don t have the money I m turning you in...

Mind Games: trust, short time, architect
short time, architect, excuse: Hello Well I can t tell you if he is lying or not because his excuse is a reasonable one. It s very easy to leave your cell phone somewhere... I ve done it a few times before and so have people I ve known, so we can t just say he s cheating or messing with...

Mind Games: Ugh, true thoughts, dovey
true thoughts, dovey, second thoughts: He doesn t feel the same way and he s scared to tell you the truth. So, call him on it. Just be yourself and ask what the deal is and if he feels like you re a little too close for comfort. It s best to catch this now and trust me, guys get this way sometimes....

Mind Games: UNRELIABLE, family difficulties, 8 years
family difficulties, 8 years, playing games: Hey Beverley Well you didn t really give me too much information but from what you told me it sounds like you need to go ahead and move on. You guys have been together for 8 years and nothing has progressed? It sounds like you guys don t even talk that much...

Mind Games: Unwanted love, time melissa, female friend
time melissa, female friend, couple weeks: Hey Tom Well getting rid of these feelings does take time. It sounds like you really lik her. I don t know if you love her but if you just like her then you will probably get over it in less than a month. If this is love then it may even take longer but the...

Mind Games: getting him unscared, first girlfriend, open person
first girlfriend, open person, mind game: Well, i think that he is scared because he is moving away and wants to distance himself from you by saying things and also not calling you. You did a good thing by not calling him. Some people have abandonment issues that usually stem from childhood. A person...

Mind Games: unsure??, mixed signals, close to god
mixed signals, close to god, mixed feelings: Hello I don t think she is purposely giving you mixed signals and I don t think that she is trying to tell you that she likes you either. If a woman likes a guy, the last thing they would do is introduce that guy to their boyfriend. Honestly... it just sounds...

Mind Games: Did he use me?, mutual friends, virginity
mutual friends, virginity, eachother: Hello Well it is possible that you guys may never see or talk to each other again but that is so definite. Most likely you guys will but it doesn t seem like that will be anytime soon. But if you both live near each other, and have mutual friends then yes,...

Mind Games: useless fighting!!, night shifts, wits end
night shifts, wits end, melissa: Hello Well no good will come out of interpreting his behavior. The best way to figure this out is to ask him why he is acting like this. Tell him that you feel like he wants to break up and are just scared of things ending. So ask him what is going on and...

Mind Games: Weird text msg mind game?, mind game, text msg
mind game, text msg, holla: Hello She s probably waiting for you to call her. I find it very annoying when guys try to set a date or any type of activity with me through text. It takes forever and is kind of stupid. Just call. It s easier to talk that way and better to reach me that...

Mind Games: Whats up with this?, hey julia, melissa
hey julia, melissa: Hey Julia What I meant by getting more info. is that you don t know what s going on with this guy now but if you just ignore him I m sure he will start to notice and want to get your attention and he will probaly say more stuff to you and who knows even tell...

Mind Games: Women..and understanding them, serious relationship, feel 100
serious relationship, feel 100, life isnt: Joe. well..man to man..lets be frank..you know women need men at times..and you know every man has a soft shoulder to lean on. theres love..n thats evident..you know it..i know it..the way you described everything is beautiful...and i wish you all happiness..if...

Mind Games: Won't let go, little time, relationship
little time, relationship: Because he s selfish. He doesn t want to meet your needs but he doesn t want anyone else to have you either. Move on. You can only change yourself - not anyone else. He only improves long enough to keep you around right? Then he just goes back to the same...

Mind Games: The Workplace Playboy......, undeniable chemistry, club bob
undeniable chemistry, club bob, friend girl: Hello It just sounds like he wants you to admit that you like him. It seems like he s been trying pretty immature things to get you to admit this, by trying to make you jealous by going on a date with another woman, refusing to have sex with you, and now...

Mind Games: Is It Worth Waiting?, truth this time, wasting my time
truth this time, wasting my time, wasting time: Hello No I do not think you are wasting time with her. If you are able to give up on her after just 1 and a half weeks after a break up then perhaps you guys shouldn t be together. Give it more time before you just give up on her and move on. It sounds like...

Mind Games: the waiting game, waiting game, infatuation
waiting game, infatuation, coworker: Sounds like he s playing a little game of kiss and not tell. He s leading you on and letting you imagine how much fun the two of you could have. But like you said, there s no fulfillment there. He s not meeting your needs and is more interested in himself....

Mind Games: why does he even wanna talk, new flame, nasty arguments
new flame, nasty arguments, moving in the right direction: Sadly, yes Ė he is playing games. Itís the worse kind of game. Itís the one where someoneís heart gets broken. Sometimes, I advise people how to win a lover or win them back (if need be) but this is completely different. For the sake of argument, letís...

Mind Games: What do she want, long term committment, having a moment
long term committment, having a moment, marraige: Hello Well I don t know what else you can say to her. If I was in your situation I would call her and not only repeat that I want to be with her, but that I want to know why she doesn t want to be with me. Why does she just want to be friends with no commitment?...

Mind Games: What does he want?, single mom, nice guy
single mom, nice guy, good friends: Hello It s not a good idea to be with someone who still has feelings for their ex. I would not feel comfortable dating someone who still really cared about someone. I don t think you should get involved with this either. He sounds like a nice guy but you...

Mind Games: what does he want??, face book, word answers
face book, word answers, grey area: Good advice by your friends. Seriously. I would probably keep it short and sweet to him. If you want to get back with him then you should probably tell him that you want to work through the issues you have with him. Like how you can be less jealous or controlling...

Mind Games: Am I wasting my time?, old hag, wasting my time
old hag, wasting my time, enquires: Hello Actually i think your overreacting. For one thing you have asked her out only twice and it sounds like she may have a busy weekend. If she is a young woman and is single then it s very likely that her weekends are busy. It s not like she s an old hag...

Mind Games: Getting weirder by the minute, southern cali, apointment
southern cali, apointment, head and hands: Hey Thanks! I m feeliong much better now! Well I never said he wasn t interested in you, I just said he might not really like you yet. It sounds like he s flirting with you though. He might be interested in you but doesn t like you just yet or he may like...

Mind Games: whats his problem ?? is he hiding me ???, girlfriend heather, fiends
girlfriend heather, fiends, 7 months: Hey Heather I think in a way you might be overreacting but I agree that something is weird about the whole situation. If he s treating you differently and all that and sying that you re just a friend he might be cheating. I m not saying he is but it sounds...

Mind Games: whats going on?, old school friends, new landlord
old school friends, new landlord, rocky time: Hey Em See you knew the answer for yourself! But a definate good idea. I know he s been going through a lot but there s no reason for you to stay and get hurt. Plus it wont be helping him out either cause he s already confused, like you said. So the best...

Mind Games: women's thoughts on online dating, current boyfriend, special girl
current boyfriend, special girl, dating website: Hey Steve Well I know that some girls do try online dating but it s not the best way to meet people. I have fallen in love online before and the first time I met them in a chatroom not on a dating website. The second time, with my current boyfriend, well...

Mind Games: He won the game; I want a rematch., female coworker, occassionally
female coworker, occassionally, coworkers: Hey Emily In this case it s really not a good idea to be playing mind games. It sounds like both of you have been playing mind games so much that you both got a little too caught up in it. Obviously the guy should ve not been playing games in the first place...

Mind Games: why won't he see me?, rough time, hard time
rough time, hard time, girlfriend: Because the two of you have a past and he s not sure that he wants you to be a part of his life anymore. Seeing you might just ruin the good thing he has going on with his girlfriend. Seriously. Why get hung up on this guy? If he doesn t want to see you I...

Mind Games: Was this the wrong thing to do?, rock bands, real reason
rock bands, real reason, youtube video: I know you ve got lots of questions about what is going through his head. However, I am not a mind reader. I can tell you from my experience that likely he just couldn t juggle that many girls and knew you were a good one so he dropped you. (Plus, he wasn...

Mind Games: what was that all about, fling, ricci
fling, ricci, melissa: Hey Ricci I sort of can t understand you re question but I ll try to answer it as best I can. Yep is she said why don t I go to work for Curt then yes she was thinking about him. If what you mean was was she thinking about him more than you at that time...

Mind Games: What to do??, gentleman friend, work colleague
gentleman friend, work colleague, platonic friendship: Hello Well it sounds like she does like you as more than a friend and does want to be with you. You guys should just go ahead and be in a relationship because if you guys are kissing and touching then well that s not a platonic friendship. Plus it s not like...

Mind Games: Why did he do this to me?, sudden move, nice stuff
sudden move, nice stuff, jerks: Hey, sounds like a confusing situation! Since you were talking to this guy and you were sure that he liked you then why did you change your behavior toward him. You stopped talking to him and being friendly and he took that as you lost interest in him. Then...

Mind Games: what shall I DO, physical relationship, intimate relationship
physical relationship, intimate relationship, realtionship: Well it sounds like this is your choice of how you will live your life and you have different goals and desires out of a relationship than this guy. You can t keep someone interested if he wants a more intimate relationship. If you are not in love with him...

Mind Games: what shall I do, physical relationship, girl friend
physical relationship, girl friend, kindest regards: No problem. It seems that you are deceiving yourself and not being completely honest with him. You want this man in your life but you are not seeing eye to eye with him. You both have different ideas for this relationship and you both want something different...

Mind Games: ?, cat problem, chrsitmas
cat problem, chrsitmas, questons: There isn t much else I can tell you. He is playing games with you and trying to make you feel guilty/confused/insecure. The deal about the suicide, he needs professional help if he s seriously considering that. So instead of getting mopey about it when he...

Mind Games: ?, exgirl, physical component
exgirl, physical component, answering questions: Hello First of all I m very sorry it took so long to get back to you. My computer was not working very well the past few days which prevented me from answering questions. And I was traveling all day yesterday because of the holidays. Anyway I apologize for...

Mind Games: ?, long distance relationship, long distance relationships
long distance relationship, long distance relationships, having a bad day: Jane, Don t give up on the relationship just yet. Talk this over with him. After all, isn t conversation a vital part of a long distance relationship? Are you really that opposed to going to visit him? A relationship takes TWO people...sometimes you...

Mind Games: What is going on?, shy type, mutual friend
shy type, mutual friend, freinds: Hello first and foremost I am very sorry that it took me awhile to respond to your question. The past few days I have been having big computer problems and then I was traveling for the holidays. Anyway, I apologize for that. Anyway, I m not sure why you...

Mind Games: Does he like me or not??????, good repoire, acquantance
good repoire, acquantance, good looking guys: Hey Melissa Well I can t really tell you if he likes you or not just from that. To me it just sounds like you guys are just friends and that he doesn t like you too much. He might like you but from what you told me it sounds like he just likes you as a friend....

Mind Games: what's going on?, natural behavior, malicious intent
natural behavior, malicious intent, flattery: Tiffany, It sounds to me like it s more about you and less about him. You said that you ve been cheated on in the past, and understandably, that s made you insecure. I can t blame you for having these thoughts cross your mind, especially since girls...

Mind Games: What do I do, tattoo shop, girlfriend
tattoo shop, girlfriend, occasions: Hello Well it doesn t sound like you are doing anything wrong, but it does sound like your girlfriend is the one who s doing something wrong. Honestly, it does sound like she s cheating on you or is lying to you about something. I could be wrong but that...

Mind Games: Is it me????????, marriage plans, exact situation
marriage plans, exact situation, graduating high school: Well first of all - you are only 19 and this girl is younger. You graduated and things have changed. You re in another location and not really able to do the long distance thing so much. I think she realizes this and has changed as well since you re gone....

Mind Games: Does he?, initial reluctance, army officer
initial reluctance, army officer, military family: I come from a military family myself, so I know how closed off those men can sometimes be. Honestly, I can t really tell you what he s thinking with his response. That could be his way of showing that he s hurt by your initial reluctance to live with him....

Mind Games: what to do, birthday card, being friends
birthday card, being friends, wham: Hello I m sorry to hear about this but at least you guys were only together for a couple of months, so it wasn t like you were led on for a long time. I can understand how you wouldn t want to stay friends cause it does hurt. I think you should email him...

Mind Games: what to do, birthday card, bad behavior
birthday card, bad behavior, being friends: No, do not send him a birthday card. This is one of those mental ticks we give ourselves when excusing bad behavior. He didn t give you a reason for the break up and the let s just be friends excuse - so it would be equally acceptable for you to not give him...

Mind Games: not sure, relationship questions, licensure exams
relationship questions, licensure exams, romantic kind: Well I don t know him and I don t know his motives. Sometimes people do need a break to put things into perspective. Sometimes the guys we date are complete assholes that take good women for granted. I can t tell you whether he was trying to let you down easy...

Mind Games: not sure, relationship questions, licensure exams
relationship questions, licensure exams, couple weeks: Hello He will probably come back to you eventally. It s obvious that the only reason he s not with you is because of the exams coming up and he probably doesn t have the time to devote to you at the moment. It s also clear that he still cares about you because...

Mind Games: what is it?, female perspective, cause women
female perspective, cause women, romeo and juliet: Hey Dan Thank you, I m always glad I can help in any way. Well first there s a difference between girls who like to be treated less than what they deserve and the others who actually feel they deserve bad treatment. Sometimes both of these characteristics...

Mind Games: What is going on, long term relationship, haved
long term relationship, haved, stressful time: Hello Well it does sound like she is still kind of interested but the best way to know is to just ask her and talk about it with her yourself. You said she has been hurt in the past so she may just be having doubts about the relationship. I think the stress...

Mind Games: what should I do, long term relationship, coffee date
long term relationship, coffee date, stressful time: She may just be busy, and if so - then as a guy with the time to invest in a relationship with a busy woman there are two paths you can choose. One, let go and move on - find someone that s not so busy (and perhaps boring), or two - jump into her life and...

Mind Games: Not sure what to do now...., text conversation, typical girl
text conversation, typical girl, dream wedding: You need to put your foot down and tell him to marry you or lose you. Seriously - this man, if he loved you wouldn t have broken off your life plans together TWICE if he was sure he was in love with you. I know it s hard to hear but a man that s really in...

Mind Games: me, funural, familey
funural, familey, boyfreind: Hello From the way it sounds it didn t sound like they were calling you ugly at all. It seems like they were saying that you were pretty and how did he end up with someone as good looking as you. It might just be something his family does. I know families...

Mind Games: What to do?, gold medals, silver platter
gold medals, silver platter, month and a half: Um ok, well you re probably not going to like this advice. But I m going to give it anyway. You fucked it up. Take a deep breath. Ok, you re prepared to do anything and you ve been playing mind games with her all along. You have all this confidence that you...

Mind Games: what to do now?, roomate, going to college
roomate, going to college, closeness: Hello Well I will be honest with you... if she sees you then yes, things will be difficult when she leaves you but if you guys want to continue to be friends and maintain that closeness then I think it s a good idea to see each other. It may be hurtful at...

Mind Games: What is going on with him?, driving myself crazy, awsome time
driving myself crazy, awsome time, unfortunally: Hello Okay... I wasn t aware that you didn t have his phone number. Yes, if you haven t emailed him yet, then email him now cause you never know what s been going on with his life. Anyway yes, I think it s a good idea, otherwise I wouldn t have mentioned...

Mind Games: What should I do?, random guy, screen saver
random guy, screen saver, good luck: Hello Well you didn t tell me how you reacted to these things because how you reacted would really give me a good impression of the situation. Anyway let s assume two situations. The first situation is is that she was all over you but you didn t show much...

Mind Games: What to do, happy holidays, texting
happy holidays, texting, pickle: Hello James Well I think it would be okay if you didn t say anything. She knows what she did hurt you but at the same time if you want you can make some comment, that she can t really respond to. You know... one of those comments that are like uh... what...

Mind Games: Does he like me?, good luck, melissa
good luck, melissa, girlfriend: Hello Well it sounds like he is certainly attracted to you and it s very possible that he likes you. I m not him, nobody else is, so nobody can ever tell you if he definitely likes you or not but it does sound like he s attracted to you. From what you told...

Mind Games: Does he like me?, age gap, real reason
age gap, real reason, first night: Hello Well there s no real way to ever find out if someone is interested in you without asking. You can only guess and make confident guesses, but you can never be 100% sure. It sounds like the signs are all there so obviously he is interested. Also you might...

Mind Games: What is going on??, local art show, abrupt halt
local art show, abrupt halt, type of girl: Hi Isobel Well I think you need to be direct about this and just ask him what s going on. Don t make any accusations like how you think he is ignoring you and purposely doing this, but ask him about it and mention how you feel like he s not talking as much...

Mind Games: Does she like me?, johan, melissa
johan, melissa, joke: Hi Johan Well based off the information you gave me, I really don t feel comfortable saying that she likes you. Honestly, it sounds like she does want to be on good terms with you because if someone liked you they wouldn t really block you like that. I think...

Mind Games: What Should I Do?, mixed signals, christm
mixed signals, christm, newyears: Hi Tina If you want the honest truth, I think it s time for this relationship to end. You told me this was your first relationship so it s understandable why you don t feel comfortable with ending it and perhaps that explains why you aren t seeing the obvious...

Mind Games: What Should I Do?, day before yesterday, thankyou
day before yesterday, thankyou, melissa: Hey Julia Well the last thing you want to do is get your hopes up and start forcing yourself to like other guys. Another thing you don t want to do is go up to some guy who you haaven t talked to for awhile and kiss him. I mean it may seem cool when you think...

Mind Games: What's going on?, having a great time, saying things
having a great time, saying things, good mood: Hey Tony Well that can happen. I don t know how old you are but this is typical for high school if you are in high school, I m not sure. I mean people do switch feelings like that. I remember once I was like that. Like one week I would really like a guy and...

Mind Games: my, easy target, scratch marks
easy target, scratch marks, dirty laundry: Hello Well you must have submitted the question to another expert cause I never got a question like that, or maybe you didn t really submit. Sometimes that can happen. So about your question. Forgive me if this sounds rude cause I don t want it to sound that...

Mind Games: How about this, male friend, melissa
male friend, melissa, long distance: Hello Well I have been in an LDR for 2 years now and it has worked out great! I do have to say that waiting a few months is not that long. From what you told me it sounds like your going to save money from January to April then try to move in with him. And...

Mind Games: how?, mind games
mind games: there are many ways to mess with a guys head especially because your the girl, you have the upper hand. first off ignore his calls, then 5 minutes later call him back. if he doesnt answer dont leave a message, and never leave a message ever again. he will...

Mind Games: My x girlfriend is now married and wants something., x girlfriend, having an abortion
x girlfriend, having an abortion, loving relationship: Sorry about the lateness of this reply, I ve been working way too much lately. But the bills must be paid! I think this woman has some idea in her mind that you guys can be friends. Obviously this isn t what you want, you ve taken steps to keep your distance....

Mind Games: x-long distance girlfriend, long distance relationship, incedent
long distance relationship, incedent, saying things: Hello Sisco First I wouldn t advise you to just jump into a relationship with her. It s bad enough that you guys are fighting just as friends and you are getting these mind games from her. She sounds like she s a really wonderful girl but even you have to...

Mind Games: how to get him to like me?, couple times, infront
couple times, infront, nervousness: Hey Mermaid First of all, from what you told me, it sounds like you have no problem at all trying to get his attention or for him to like you. If you have a feeling he likes you then most likely he likes you. the same thing happened to me two years ago. I...

Miniature Collecting: 28mm Vehicles, warhammer 40, recearch
warhammer 40, recearch, veichles: I found Greathallminis.com it has some vehicles. for further recearch, try searching the web for WW2 models, there is a lot of content out there. _____________________________________________________________________ For Futuristic, even though its...

Miniature Collecting: Last Forever, containers, oxygen
containers, oxygen, coins: For some specific stuff it will vary from item to item, but in general keep things in a place where its not too hot (Direct sunlight etc) and out of places with moist. Keep it clean. some things (like coins)keep in bags or containers to prevent it becoming...

Miniature Collecting: What type of miniatures are these?, chaos knights, fantasy figures
Miniature Collecting: What type of miniatures are these?, chaos knights, fantasy figures, marauders

Miniature Collecting: What type of miniatures are these?, ral partha, horse riders
ral partha, horse riders, warmaster: No clue where these miniatures fit. Looks Older than other stuff iv seen online and the scale is smaller than the miniatures for some games. The best tip i can give you is to go check some shops that sells miniatures in general and their ranges with size...

Miniature Collecting: warhammer armies
Hi. Armies cant be combined in the way you are describing. In warhammer fantasy though there is a list called the Dogs of War which contains units from different races. but getting the proper miniatures for this can be hard as they are not a official...

Miniature Collecting: Odd question about Warhammer 40,000
Hi. Let me first say i admire your guts and imagination in creating your own personal sci-fi universe. I will as best as i can try to clarify what the 40K in wh40k means. To my knowledge 40k stands for the year 40 000. In a far far future far far away....

Miniature Collecting: im looking to buy a warhammer army, war hammer 40k, army
Miniature Collecting: im looking to buy a warhammer army, war hammer 40k, army

Miniature Collecting: im looking to buy a warhammer army, games workshop online store, warhammer army
games workshop online store, warhammer army, dark elves: Well, I think buying it directly from The Games Workshop Online store would maybe be easier because you will find the entire range of miniatures. or just from a local GW store. I would go with Dark Elves beacause you get more points for the money. What...

Miniature Collecting: KUNSTLERSCHUTZ from Germany, exeption, destefano
exeption, destefano, e bay: Hi. e-bay is a good resource for buying stuff and figurines is not an exeption. but since it for the most is private persons who submit items you may never really know if its availabe any where else. on to your question: i have no idea what company...

Miniature Golf: Why is this hole so hard?, eric hartman, golf hole
eric hartman, golf hole, backstop: Eric; If the golf hole has a backstop such as brick or some other border, try hitting towards it to stop your momentum. if the hole is like a plateau or mesa where a too weak shot makes you roll back or a too strong shot puts you over the top: try working...

Miniature Golf: Miniature Golf Supplies, miniature golf supplies, miniature golf course
miniature golf supplies, miniature golf course, golf distributors: Kevin; Sorry it took so long to reply, I live in the Caribbean and the phones are horrid. I can only connect at 7.2kps sometimes! Anyway I will direct you back to the web. Search under Eastern Golf and/or Southern Golf Distributors . I believe eastern...

Miniature Golf: miniature golf, carpet adhesive, particle board
carpet adhesive, particle board, concrete course: Howie; First I m so sorry it took so long to reply in the first place...I had eye surgery and was really out of it. The problem with the glue and construction as I see it are two-fold. First your choice of substrate (particle board) - while cheap, swells...

Miniature Horses: 11 yr old horse, h show, miniature horse
h show, miniature horse, old horse: Hi Heidi and thanks for your question. All things being equal conformation and health-wise, I would opt for the 11YO. Minis can live to be 30 years old and it sounds as though she has had lots of training which is great for kids starting out. My only question...

Miniature Horses: Fencing, mini horses, fence posts
mini horses, fence posts, scratchers: Hi Michele and thanks for your question. I use fencing that is called goat fencing. It is about 4-5 ft. tall and is a wire mesh made up of squares. It can be used with metal (T) posts or wood (which I prefer). I also run a strand of barbless wire along...

Miniature Horses: ? about mini horses, pregnant mares, mini horses
pregnant mares, mini horses, stallion: Hi Leah- Thanks for your question. If it ain t broke- don t fix it. I wouldn t ever put pregnant mares in with a stallion. In fact, I wouldn t put a mare in with a stallion at all unless you were trying to pasture breed. They really just need companionship...

Miniature Horses: mini temperment, bad attitude, owner don
bad attitude, owner don, time owner: Hi Renae and thanks for your question. A couple of things come to mind. If his attitude is periodic or sporadic, he could have other medical issue such as ulcers, particularly with the colic episode. Your vet may need to come back and give him a thorough check...

Miniature Horses: Nipping, therapy horse, undesirable behavior
therapy horse, undesirable behavior, miniature horse: Hi Sydney and thanks for your question. You will probably find as many answers to this question as there are trainers. Most agree that smacking the horse is not the way to handle it. A book called the Understanding the Young Horse by Les Sellnow recommends...

Miniature Horses: Training a foal to lead, training a foal, short attention spans
training a foal, short attention spans, halter rope: Hi Billie- Thanks for your question. First of all, at 3 months, your training sessions should be short. Babies have very short attention spans and it may be his way of saying I ve had enough. Second, are you sure you are leading correctly? You should have...

Miniature Horses: Mini cart pulling on asphalt and distances, rubber soles, couple pairs
Miniature Horses: Mini cart pulling on asphalt and distances, rubber soles, couple pairs, horse boots

Miniature Horses: luxation of the patella, rebecca l frankeny, crippling arthritis
rebecca l frankeny, crippling arthritis, miniature horses: Hi Lorraine- Sorry it took so long for me to get back to you- for some reason the system wouldn t let me get 3 of my questions. Anyway, I pulled out my Veterinary Guide for Owners and Breeders of Miniature Horses (by Rebecca L. Frankeny, VMD) which was just...

Miniature Horses: Mini cart pulling on asphalt and distances, mini cart, entry cart
mini cart, entry cart, concrete answer: Hi Kristina- Sorry for the delay in answering. I have been doing some research and haven t been able to find much on this subject either. I am pretty sure that you can drive on pavement without much harm under normal circumstances. It s probably actually...

Miniature Horses: Miniature Mare, thick winter coat, miniature mare
thick winter coat, miniature mare, miniature horses: Hi Again- Well, it is possible that the people you got her from were mistaken in their dates. Also, even vets can be wrong (depending on the type of test) or she may have lost it. If she has had no bag enlargement I would really doubt she has been pregnant...

Miniature Horses: mare after giving birth(another question), foal heat, saddle horse
foal heat, saddle horse, correct word: Hi Crystal- Thanks for the question, its a good one. Normally, a mare is able to be impregnated for 5-7 days every 21 or so days. There is also the foal heat which is generally 9-10 days after birth and lasts 5-7 days, then they normally go back to their...

Miniature Horses: RE: videos are training books, miniature horses, clinton anderson
miniature horses, clinton anderson, donna smith: Hi JC- Thanks for your question. I have always recommended the book- The Book of Miniature Horses by Donna Smith available from amazon.com (now in paperback) as well as others. Training minis isn t really much different than ground training for big horses....

Miniature Horses: weanling chronic diarrehea, alfalfa grass, keopectate
alfalfa grass, keopectate, intestinal tracts: Hi Patty- A friend of mine and I both had this problem with foals about the same age as yours. We never did figure out what it was (after a lot of medical bills) but both babies did recover. Diarrhea in foals can be caused by a lot of things- disease, bacteria,...

Miniature Horses: At what age to testicles descend in a mini?, pinto colt, old pinto
pinto colt, old pinto, mares: Hi Maureen- Thanks for the question. You have been told correctly per my research. For some reason, minis sometimes drop later, particularly the smaller minis. I had a 28 stallion who did not fully descend both until he was nearly 2. Hope this helps. Best,...

Miniature Horses: horse, miniature horse registry, american miniature horse registry
miniature horse registry, american miniature horse registry, american miniature horse: Hi Virginia- Thanks for the question. They are completely different breeds, if that s what you are asking. They are related as are different breeds of horses. Here is a link to a free brochure from AMHR (American Miniature Horse Registry) that also talks...

Miniature Horses: can my horse be sick, miniature horse, nasal discharge
miniature horse, nasal discharge, fever: Hi Jordan- Thanks for your question. Yes, he could be sick or there are a lot of things that can cause coughing. Does he also have nasal discharge? Have you changed his hay or bedding lately? Is he up to date on his worming? has he been around other horses-...

Miniature Horses: Is my mare in heat?, baby teeth, small jumps
baby teeth, small jumps, vulvas: Hi Samantha- Thanks for your questions which I will try to answer. First, I doubt your horse still has her baby teeth but only your vet can tell for sure. If they are not bothering her and she eats normally, I wouldn t worry about it. Second, mares are generally...

Miniature Horses: MY PREGNANT MINIATURE MARE, donna campbell smith, rebecca l frankeny
donna campbell smith, rebecca l frankeny, miniature mare: Hi Again Sue- I guess there s a couple things to think about: 1. There is a much higher mortality rate in the wild then with domestic horses and 2. It s similar to the various things that can and do wrong at times with human births. Hope this helps. Best,...

Miniature Horses: MY PREGNANT MINIATURE MARE, first time mom, pinto mare
first time mom, pinto mare, miniature mare: Hi Sue- Thanks for your questions. I guess where I would start is www.amazon.com. They have some pretty good books about birthing horses. There is a Veterinary Guide to Miniature Horses that I own that is pretty good but really mini births are not that much...

Miniature Horses: how to prevent colic and aid digestion, alfalfa grass, white blood count
alfalfa grass, white blood count, grass mix: Hi Patty- I am so sorry about your little guy. Its so hard to lose one and colic is always bad. You know, I am not a vet so when it comes to probiotics or antibiotics for that matter, I think you may need their advice. One thing I would mention is that...

Miniature Horses: Miniature horse shows,names,height, amha, excercise
Miniature Horses: Miniature horse shows,names,height, amha, excercise, vet

Miniature Horses: My Miniature Horse Shadow, miniature horses, step moms
miniature horses, step moms, miniature horse: Hi Alysa- Thanks for the question. It sounds as though you may have a small pony rather than a miniature and if your estimates are right, you re probably not going to hurt him, particularly for short time periods. The general rule is up to about 80 lbs. on...

Miniature Horses: Miniature horse shows,names,height, wierd question, miniature horse
wierd question, miniature horse, stringent requirements: Hi Nicole- I just found these questions I didn t answer before- sorry. Miniatures can only be 34 inches or under. What you have is a pony.Some open shows have pony classes or less stringent requirements. Try 4-H. Her weight would hurt her primarily in the...

Miniature Horses: Miniature horses, little goat, miniature horses
little goat, miniature horses, miniature horse: Hi Mikaela- Thanks for the question. Yes, minis don t need much space but you will need to make sure he gets excercise, good hay and they really do better with another mini or other friend (maybe a little goat). Hope this helps. Best, Toni P.S. Check with...

Miniature Horses: mini horses, mini horses, urinate
mini horses, urinate, foal: Hi Sara- Thanks for the question. It sounds as though she has a medical condition related to her pregnancy. The foal could be putting pressure on her that makes her feel like she needs to urinate but her bladder isn t full. It could just be where its sitting....

Miniature Horses: my miniature horse, little cowboys, alyshia
little cowboys, alyshia, tougher stuff: Hi Alyshia- Thanks for your question. I think you need to invest in or borrow some horse training books or tapes to really help you. There should be someone in your 4-H group who can help you with the basics. You need to start with ground work and that means...

Miniature Horses: New Mini, hind end, little at a time
hind end, little at a time, new mini: Hi Susan- Thanks for your questions(s). This is a tough one. I m inclined to think that she may have or had an injury that caused her not to want to do that way. You may need to get a vet to check her over to rule out an injury. Once you rule that out you...

Miniature Horses: Overweigth!, glandular disorder, miniature horses
glandular disorder, miniature horses, quality hay: Hi Jacquie- Thanks for the question. You are right, I don t know all that much about miniature donkeys but I would love to have a couple. In a young, healthy but obese mini you can cut out the grain, give them high quality hay and regularly exercise them....

Miniature Horses: how to train miniature horses, miniature horses, verbal praise
miniature horses, verbal praise, clinton anderson: Hi Nicole- Thanks for your question(s). If you just got him, there will be a period of adjustment. I would suggest you invest in a ground training or starting the colt CD/DVD or book by someone like Clinton Anderson or Parellis. Even though they are for...

Miniature Horses: bad tempered gelding, understanding horse behavior, group of horses
understanding horse behavior, group of horses, domestic animals: Hi Julie- Thanks for your question. It sounds to me as though your gelding does not respect you, perhaps from too much love and praise. I know that sounds wierd but in my opinion, you have put yourself below him in the herd. Those are signs of superiority...

Miniature Horses: breeding, male horses, sexual maturity
male horses, sexual maturity, gelding: Hi Jami- Thanks for your question. Is he weaned? Are you planning on gelding him? Generally, male horses reach sexual maturity about 12-18 mos. but there are exceptions. If you are not planning on gelding him, I would separate them pretty soon but you certainly...

Miniature Horses: diarrhea in mini horse, pro biotics, pro biotic
pro biotics, pro biotic, causes of diarrhea: Hi Diane- Thanks for your question. I have heard as many answers to that as there are experts. They vary from what your dad says to monthly (which I think is too much). I am enclosing a link to a deworming schedule from Jeffers (pet and equine supplies)...

Miniature Horses: Feed, miniature horses, vitamin supplements
miniature horses, vitamin supplements, trace mineral: Hi Brenda- Thanks for your question. Platform makes a good mini feed. I have used it in the past. The trace mineral block should have most of the minerals your minis need. I also like the mineral and vitamin supplements that come in a tub- and so do the horses....

Miniature Horses: diarrhea in mini horse, inflammatory drug, pregnancy
Miniature Horses: diarrhea in mini horse, inflammatory drug, pregnancy

Miniature Horses: more than one mini?, herd animals, miniature horses
herd animals, miniature horses, pasture: Hi Krystal- Bottom line is that horses are herd animals. I firmly believe they need company. Whether you are enough company for your horse remains to be seen. It may be just fine but then again your mini may develop behavioral issues. Minis can overeat and...

Miniature Horses: mini horse, peat moss, mini horse
peat moss, mini horse, several inches: Hi Again M- I have never heard of using peat moss. My main concern would be the potential for respiratory problems, as with any bedding. You have to have several inches and if it is dry and powdery it might be inhaled. I prefer sawdust which is cheap and...

Miniature Horses: miniature donkey, tiny mites, miniature donkeys
tiny mites, miniature donkeys, miniature donkey: Hi Shannon and thanks for your question. I really don t know as much abut miniature donkeys as horses but several things come to mind. Assuming it isn t a dietary deficiency (your donkey is getting a well-balanced grain or pellet feed, adequate forage and...

Miniature Horses: miniature horse kicking, pasture area, herd animals
pasture area, herd animals, human companions: Hi Val- You are very welcome. As usual, your instincts are exactly right. My weanling quarter horse colt threatened me that way one time and that s how I corrected him. I shouted NO! so loud and smacked him on his rump and he never did it again! I think you...

Miniature Horses: Shelter for Minis, rain wind, winter blanket
rain wind, winter blanket, metal carports: Hi Krystal- I do think minis should have shelter but it doesn t have to be fancy. Basically they just need a place to get out of the rain, wind, sun, etc. They are very hardy. The only time I blanket mine is if they have been clipped (for a show) and don...

Miniature Horses: Shetland Pony, shetland ponies, shetland pony
shetland ponies, shetland pony, good starting point: Hi Ann- In all honesty, I have limited knowledge of Shetland ponies as a specific breed although I did have a mixed Shetland-miniature horse that was a real cutie. A good starting point might be: http://www.shetlandminiature.com/. My understanding is that...

Miniature Horses: Showing, showmanship classes, bridle path
showmanship classes, bridle path, quarter horses: Hi JoAnne- Thanks for the question. It kind of depends on the level of showing. The halters and tack are more like Arabians. The bad news is they need as much if not more clipping (but over less area) and its a little different than quarter horses- plus...

Miniature Horses: trailers, mini vans, size trailer
mini vans, size trailer, size horse: Hi Logan- Thanks for your question. I know it seems like overkill but since I have both size horses, I use my big horse trailer. If you intend to drive or show, it s kind of nice to have the extra room and you can always get a small big horse trailer. They...

Miniature Horses: foaling, wont move, valva
wont move, valva, tail bone: Hi Stacy- Thanks for the question. How exciting! I wish I could tell you but I ve been through this myself and the vets will tell you the same thing- no way to tell for sure without an exam. The best indicator is when she starts to drip milk but from your...

Miniature Horses: full teaining for mini foal, donna campbell smith, mini foal
donna campbell smith, mini foal, miniature horses: Hi Connie- Thanks for the question. Basically, training is just taking things a step at a time, repeating steps, rewarding the correct behavior and so on. Just as you taught Tom Cruise to lead, you should approach the next steps slowly and with great patience....

Miniature Horses: Mini's and regular horses, horse colt, rescue mission
horse colt, rescue mission, trial basis: Hi Sandy- Thanks for the question. When I got my first mini I put him out with my other horses. They spent hours chasing him which actually was pretty good for all of them as it was good exercise and he was pretty chunky. They never hurt him (in fact, he...

Miniature Horses: minature breeding, stud colt, vet college
stud colt, vet college, mini pony: Hi- Thanks for your question. I have never heard of anyone breeding a mini to a large horse. I have seen mini-pony mixes and of course pony-horse mixes but the logistics of live cover just don t seem possible to me, nor am I a sure the foal, if it could...

Miniature Horses: mini mare, pregnancy test, waiting game
pregnancy test, waiting game, sonogram: Hi Shawna- Thanks for the question but no easy answer on this one! I have one that I did a pregnancy test on (blood test purchased online, but you have to know the breeding dates) that came out negative but I really think she still may be. The problem is...

Miniature Horses: breeding miniature horses, miniature horses, responsible breeders
miniature horses, responsible breeders, miniature horse: Hi Jamie- Thanks for your questions. Stallions are considered mature between 2 and 5 years old however they can get a mare pregnant by the end of their first year. Mares may be fertile when they are two but most responsible breeders wait until they are at...

Miniature Horses: mini mare losing weight, alfalfa cubes, beet pulp
alfalfa cubes, beet pulp, feeding time: Hi Robin- Thanks for the question. Every horse is different and has a different metabolism. She may just require more feed than the other two. If possible, I would separate her from the other two at feeding time (including forage) and make sure she gets...

Miniature Horses: Pregnant horse, discharge during pregnancy, false pregnancy
discharge during pregnancy, false pregnancy, huge belly: Hi Korie- Thanks for your question. I really feel that you probably need to check with a vet. My minis have always had huge stomachs when they are pregnant. It almost sounds like you may be dealing with a case of false pregnancy. The other possibility is...

Miniature Horses: Pregnant Mare Loosing Hair, tea tree oil, pigmy goats
tea tree oil, pigmy goats, yearling filly: Hi Patty- Thanks for the question. Without seeing her it would be hard to tell. It sounds to me like one of several possibilities: hormonal changes due to the pregancy (it can happen with horses just as with people), dry skin (perhaps because of hormonal...

Miniature Horses: plugged tear ducts, fly mask, mail order
fly mask, mail order, tack stores: Hi Patty- Thanks for the question. I think a lot of us have this problem this time of year. I think it has to do with the pollen, etc. It s odd that both ducts would be plugged. There are commercial products available. I have used Clear Eyes by Farnam (about...

Miniature Horses: rainrot, tea tree oil, rain rot
tea tree oil, rain rot, ring worm: Hi Ellie- Thanks for your question. I have had a lot of luck with a product called M-T-G you can get at most tack stores, Tractor Supply, etc. for all kinds of skin problems. It also comes in a spray so that might be easier to treat him with until he gets...

Miniature Horses: Baby, yos, foals
yos, foals, colt: Hi Erin- Thanks for your question. Wow- that may be a record. It is my understanding that when it comes to breeding, it is about the same as for big horses. Most of the folks I know retire their mare by around the age of 18 at the latest (many earlier), although...

Miniature Horses: breeding minis, foal heat, time hope
foal heat, time hope, stallion: Hi Stacy- Thanks for your question. Sorry for the delay in answering but I was out of the country. Once a mare delivers, she has a post-foal heat at about 9-10 days after the baby is born. That is the first opportunity (sometimes too early if she had...

Miniature Horses: mini, mini horse, personal situation
mini horse, personal situation, gelding: Hi Gail- Thanks for your question. Sorry for the delay in answering but I was out of the country. You can wean them pretty much anytime after they start eating grain or pellets (I feed mine Senior as its softer and high fat/protein). I usually wean them around...

Miniature Horses: mini horse books, donna campbell smith, miniature horses
donna campbell smith, miniature horses, amazon: Hi Lisa- Thanks for your question. Sorry for the delay in answering but I was out of the country. Good for you! I am the same way, lots of research first. A couple of good books are: THE BOOK OF MINIATURE HORSES (Buying, Breeding, Training, Showing...

Miniature Horses: my mini being pregnant, equine vets, maiden mare
equine vets, maiden mare, mini mares: Hi Jenn- Thanks for your question. Sorry for the delay in answering but I was out of the country. I guess it depends on the tests. Some of them are not terribly accurate. I did the tests available from online suppliers on my last two mini mares: one...

Miniature Horses: Getting mini to trust you, parelli training, time and patience
parelli training, time and patience, best bet: Hi- Thanks for the question. Sorry for the delay in answering- the storms here knocked out the internet! I think your best bet is to get him in a stall or very small enclosure and start him all over like you would a baby. It will take time and patience. Start...

Miniature Horses: training a mini for pulling a cart, driving horses, time and patience
driving horses, time and patience, certain age: Hi Ali- Thanks for your question. Sorry for the delay in answering but I was out of the country. Welcome to the wonderful world of minis! 3 is perfect- you can start them at 2 but you shouldn t jump them until 3 and its probably better strength-wise...

Miniature Horses: atitude change rapidly, pat parelli, temper tantrums
pat parelli, temper tantrums, training foals: Hi- Thanks for your question. OK- my thoughts are that you have a couple of dynamics at work here. First of all, in my experience 2YO minis can be a lot like 2YO kids- willful, etc. 2nd- the herd make-up has changed and she appears to be a little herd bound....

Miniature Horses: clipping a stallion, miniature stallion, gelding
miniature stallion, gelding, show time: Hi Judy- Thanks for the question. There is no easy answer to this one. I have so been through this with more than one mini and yes, I have laid them down and sat on them as well. Until they get used to it, the only thing we have found that helps is light...

Miniature Horses: Horses, wooden wheels, amish
Miniature Horses: Horses, wooden wheels, amish, tongue

Miniature Horses: Geldings, alfalfa cubes, companion horses
alfalfa cubes, companion horses, open pasture: Hi Linda and thanks for your question. I am not concerned with the amount of land as they shouldn t have too much pasture anyway- hay and other supplements (such as alfalfa cubes) should probably be planned for. My main concern would be that you spend an adequate...

Miniature Horses: Horses, horse wagons, mini cart
horse wagons, mini cart, horse cart: Hi Alanna- Thanks for your question. Sorry for the delay in answering but I was out of the country. You can find wagons and coaches that can be converted to two-horse by switching out the shafts for a tongue-type hitch. I found many options by typing in ...

Miniature Horses: head rubbing, herd leader, miniature horse
herd leader, miniature horse, lack of respect: Hi Carmen- Thanks for your question. In my experience, head rubbing or invasion of your space can be interpreted as a lack of respect. In other words, she is not thinking of you as her herd leader but as an equal and therefore is showing her displeasure with...

Miniature Horses: Mini Horses, maiden mare, mini horses
maiden mare, mini horses, signs of labor: Hi Sandy- Thanks for your question. Horses, including miniatures, can go a month or so over their due date as well as be early. If she is a maiden mare, it is not unusual. You should check her bag or udders. They should be getting swollen soon. It actually...

Miniature Horses: My mini won't kee his fly mask on, apple cider vinegar, fly mask
apple cider vinegar, fly mask, homeopathic herbs: Hi Alanna- Thanks for the question. I don t have any sure-fire solutions to this one but do have the problems with some of mine (big horses, too). I haven t heard of bot eggs being surgically removed from the eyes although I have heard of blocked tear ducts...

Miniature Horses: skin problem, wheat germ oil, best bet
wheat germ oil, best bet, skin problem: Hi Pat- Thanks for your question. Your best bet would be to consult a vet. It sounds as if it could be an allergy, lice or some kind of fungus. I have, however, had very good luck on both my minis and big horses with a product called MTG (Mane-Tail-Groom)by...

Miniature Horses: how much space needed, quarter acre, oponion
quarter acre, oponion, paddack: Hi Kerry- Thanks for your question. Minis don t require much space and because they are prone to over-eating and foundering less can be better. I have a friend who is a breeder who has several mini paddocks with multiple minis in them that are maybe a quarter...

Miniature Horses: breaking a mini horse, donna campbell smith, breaking a horse
donna campbell smith, breaking a horse, miniature horses: Hi Again Tracy- If she has those basics, you have a good start. I really think you can handle this, particularly if you are as motivated as you seem. Start by reading as much as you can and then slowly and patiently, put it into practice. Most minis are very...

Miniature Horses: breed identification, miniature pony, amha
miniature pony, amha, miniature horse: Hi Pam- Thanks for the fun question! There are tons of breeds of ponies, many who can have mohawk-style manes including some Icelandic and Fjord ponies to name a couple. Based on her size I would guess you have a hybrid meaning a miniature/pony cross...

Miniature Horses: foundering, dry hay, bacteria
Miniature Horses: foundering, dry hay, bacteria, grass

Miniature Horses: hip popping, leg lock, stallion
Miniature Horses: hip popping, leg lock, stallion, miniatures

Miniature Horses: foundering, rich grass, pasture
rich grass, pasture, ponies: Hi Jean- Great question! The grass issue is not as much of a problem now as it is in the Spring. You are right to worry, though. Minis are like ponies in that they are very prone to founder as well as obesity which is bad for them and hard to cure. I would...

Miniature Horses: Gestation Period of my Mini, maiden mare, huge belly
maiden mare, huge belly, pregnancy test: Hi Jeni- Thanks for your question. It is not unusual for a mare to go even 12 months (particularly a maiden mare) however I do think that you may want to give your vet a call at this point, particularly given her other symptoms. I would not be surprised if...

Miniature Horses: Help!, minature horse, time bomb
minature horse, time bomb, hi thanks: Hi- Thanks for the question. How long ago did this happen? I really doubt that anything serious will come of it. Just make sure she is eating, drinking and pooping. It should work its way through if she even ate it. If she starts to have any signs of colic-...

Miniature Horses: hip popping, hind legs, miniature horse
hind legs, miniature horse, easy solution: Hi Lorraine- Thanks for your question but I think you may need a vet to look at him. I checked my resources and haven t found anything related to hips that is common. It is possible that he has a stifle or patella condition such as locked stifle. It may be...

Miniature Horses: infection in mini mule, dead bacteria, foal heat
dead bacteria, foal heat, sick baby: Dear Pat- I am so sorry. Please give the vet one more try (or a different vet). My baby who had the transfusion, although it was exepensive, did recover and is fine now and she was younger than yours. Did you check on the Biosponge? My vet gave it to me in...

Miniature Horses: Mare in heat, miniature mare, horse colt
miniature mare, horse colt, alpha status: Hi Again Mary- Thanks for your follow-up question. No way to know for sure, of course, but my guess is she has picked your daughter as she is the smallest to push around. A friend of mine has similar behavior from a gelding and her little son. She has him...

Miniature Horses: Minature horse training, feed bags, horse training
feed bags, horse training, miniatures: Hi JaLayn- Thanks for your question. The ones that I have known to have gone through training were ground driven (for bit purposes) and started much like larger horses- acclimating them to having something on their back, then a saddle and then some weight...

Miniature Horses: Mini mare and colt, quiet voices, colt
quiet voices, colt, dread: Hi Mandy- Thanks for your question. How long have you had her? It does sound as if she has had something make her head-shy, possibly abuse but it could also be a lack of handling by her previous owner. Be sure you move slowly and calmly (as possible) around...