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Teen Dating Issues: getting a girlfriend, getting a girlfriend, unusual sports
getting a girlfriend, unusual sports, school environment: I think you should hang out with her outside of school and see if you get any signals from her that make you think she might be interested and go from there. When you get people out of the school environment, they can seem like completely different people....

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriend, shallow guy, romantics
shallow guy, romantics, virginity: Just do things that neiter of you have done (or one of you hasn t done) and you really want to do. Like sky diving. That s always fun. And you know, a lot of girls dream of going to the mall with their boyfriends, or ice skating. Or dancing. Surprise...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend, fellin, realtionship
fellin, realtionship, beggin: Christian, it sounds to me like you guys are transitioning out of the everything is new phase of your relationship. Nothing is going wrong, it s just becoming a daily thing, a part of your lives. This is where couples fail the most because they think that...

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriend, private problem, fellin
private problem, fellin, private matters: Well do you tell her everything that goes on in your life? Do you tell her about family problems and private matters that would get her worrying even if she didn t have to know? She may be trying to save you from having to worry too much. I don t think your...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend, compromise, girlfriend
compromise, girlfriend, parents: To Lance, Well I must say her parents are pretty unreasonable! Unfortunately, a lot of parents are like this with their children. They don t trust their kids with dating because they re afraid of what could happen. What your girl should do is talk to her...

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriend, advice giver, 13 year olds
advice giver, 13 year olds, fyi: Hello, The law that I must go by as an advice giver states that 11 and 13 year olds should not be dating. In many areas this is illegal. The problem with dating at this age also reflects cultures. Many cultures do not like this. My advice is talk to your...

Teen Dating Issues: getting a girlfriend, getting a girlfriend, girl 6
getting a girlfriend, girl 6, eight months: Hello Colin! It sounds like you are not comfortable around her or you just don t know what to do! Why hasn t it worked out before? Do what feels right, I haven t made out with my boyfriend yet and it has been eight months! I would keep things slow, but show...

Teen Dating Issues: I like him but he has a girlfriend, guilt, girlfriend
guilt, girlfriend, feelings: Jen, The only way that you are ever going to get over him is to try and find another guy, hopefully one who is available to you at the time. Since it sounds like you are friends with him and his girlfriend, it would be very difficult to try to break them...

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriend, going psycho, sexual tension
going psycho, sexual tension, brick wall: Hey Austin- Well try talking to her again about this and let her know how she s making you feel with her being so distant from you. I mean there s got to be something going on with him to be like that towards you. So talk to her about it and be honest...

Teen Dating Issues: I like him, but he has a girlfriend., single guy, vibes
single guy, vibes, half years: Regina, I always say , if there is a girlfriend then this guy has gotta go. He has a girl which he has been with for long so why is he trying to mess with you? If he is unhappy , then he should break up. THEN he should start being with you , not the opposite....

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend, places to go on dates, real girlfriend
places to go on dates, real girlfriend, lengthy letter: Many relationships that start at school start out very casual, but it seems to me that you guys need to spend more time together. If you see her standing with her friends go over and say hi, any type of verbal communication is good. And get to know her friends...

Teen Dating Issues: I like him, but he has a girlfriend., two and a half years, vibes
two and a half years, vibes, cheek: I can t tell you what he is thinking either, but I can say that maybe you should take a chance with him. It seems that he likes you but, if you think about it, if you and him are going out for two and a half years will he do this to you? Do you know this...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend, great relationship, freshman year
great relationship, freshman year, day time: Friendship comes with time. It s not something you build in one day. Time is the main factor in a friendship. The more you guys talk to more you ll get to know each other and the closer you guys will get. Just be your self. -Remember, keep life in-between...

Teen Dating Issues: I like him but he has a girlfriend, new girlfriend, playing it by ear
new girlfriend, playing it by ear, hook up: Hello Rozee, Does this guy know how you feel about him? I know you said that you flirt all the time and see each other everyday, but does he REALLY know that you re REALLY into him? If not, you might want to try to talk to him before the beach trip and...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend, time girls, honest conversation
time girls, honest conversation, scary time: Well I think it s important to tell her how you feel, and have an open and honest conversation about everything. Let her know that it s important to you that she fully understands how she makes you feel, and that you really do care about her. Then find out...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting my girlfriend back, rough times, human beings
rough times, human beings, clue: Hello Mr. Jay, how are ya? Well you know I m going to be honest cause that s my job (as a person). I want to tell you the truth. The first thing I am going to be really honest with you, you must really need to care about her because once I tell you what I...

Teen Dating Issues: getting my girlfriend back, streached, perfect couple
streached, perfect couple, rough times: hey jay, i wish i could just say that things are going to be alright and tell you how to get her back but icant. i went through this on a much deeper level a year ago. things were fine with me and my fiance, we were happy, living together, everyone thought...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting my girlfriend back, words of encouragement, rough times
words of encouragement, rough times, sudden change: Hey Jay. I m really pleased all has gone well so far, and well done for talking to her. I hope you ve realised it was the best thing to do. I do hope all the best for you and that she realises she has feelings for you. I wish all the best in so many ways....

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriend of 8 months wants a break, break time, stupid stuff
break time, stupid stuff, best of luck: Hey Blake. Thanks for getting in touch. I will try and help the best I can. If you re girlfriend and you have been arguing a lot, I can see why she wants a break. Time apart will do you both good and make you realise what you feel for each other and could...

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriend, stis, girlfriend
stis, girlfriend, aids: You do not know what love is. You mean like. Please review this word. When we started dating, she was sixteen and had had sex with SIX guys before me ---- Be careful. I recommend her to be tested for STIs and AIDs. And I recommend you to too. You should talk...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend, long distance relationship, difficult transition
long distance relationship, difficult transition, seven months: I am in a similar situation as you in regards to the long distance relationship. Distance causes a problem for all couples no matter how long you have been dating. Arguments are bound to occur, often more now because you cannot see each other as often, yet...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend is abused by her family, tricky situation, biblegateway com passage
tricky situation, biblegateway com passage, hot day: Dear Mark! Man, this is a tricky situation. If he really is beating his daughter then the police needs to be called. I would go to talk to some law enforcement about this. But, if you push this and your girlfriend does not then it could destroy your...

Teen Dating Issues: Me and my girlfriend argue, and need to way to settle them healthier, right move, tention
right move, tention, salvage: Is this really love? How to Know if You re Really in Love --- Include ages How to Make the Right Move How to Work Out Arguments With a Loved One These are areas I recommend on this site I can also help with the other problem at hand...

Teen Dating Issues: me and my girlfriend arguing, long term relationship, girlfriend
long term relationship, girlfriend, good luck: Nick, I understand your situation and it s normally to take things out on people, especially when you re in a long-term relationship and have family problems. Maybe you and your girlfriend should consider taking a break, just while you try and get through...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend is boy crazy and im to clingy, latley, histroy
latley, histroy, cheerleading: i think you should find some friends to hang out with more. that way you are not always with her. if you keep hanging around her all the time you may drive her away from you. give her some space but continue to act the same way you always do. hope that helped!...

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriend has changed..., lunch time, last november
lunch time, last november, dismay: Hello, This is Exper Dan. I received your question in the Question Pool area. Let me review your question. First off I am glad that this site exists also. It has helped saved a lot of people. I know for a fact. A number of years ago one of the people who...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend is interested in sexual things but I'm not., emotional connection, rest of our lives
emotional connection, rest of our lives, girlfriend: Have you told her all of this? That you feel like you don t have to be intimate all the time to make things work? You should tell her that you find her attractive and you love her more than anything and this has nothing to do with you not wanting to be...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend needs to find herself., mixed signals, talk to girls
mixed signals, talk to girls, those girls: I would understand why her mixed signals are confusing you because it s making you feel like at some point she wants to be with you, wants you to hold her and stuff and then she just suddenly starts pushing you away, to me this only shows that deep down there...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend only wants to be friends now, first kiss, shy girl
first kiss, shy girl, eachother: Harris, well first of all hi, my name is Lauren, and I m sorry if it took me awhile to get to you. Well first of all to understand her feelings you kind of already did. You said she is a sensitive, energetic, and shy girl which hasnt been in a close relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting over my girlfriend's past problem, last september, girlfriend
last september, girlfriend, smile: being jeoulis is a normal feeling. you havent been dating for that long so the trust of a long relationship is not there. and this whole is based on trust. do you trust her? thats the question you have to ask yourself. people make mistakes. some people can...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend and a problem, one of the boys, different boys
one of the boys, different boys, bad thoughts: hi dylan, to be honest, these seems like a pretty heavy burden for someone so young - i m just glad that you re reaching out and finding someone to talk too. i know that it s hard to open up to your girlfriend about these things, but no matter how hard you...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend problems, girlfriend problems, chantell
girlfriend problems, chantell, little bit: Hey Max, It sounds to me like you guys don t really know each other, which is probably why it feels awkward. You guys wouldn t be dating if she didn t like you, but you both need to give the relationship a little bit more effort if it s going to work out....

Teen Dating Issues: He has a girlfriend sholud i like him, breack, girl stuff
breack, girl stuff, bad person: hey jade, from what you ve told me, i think you should be careful around this guy. i m sure he s a good person and all, but his actions could prove otherwise. he has a girlfriend yet it seems like he s flirting with you. that s not the kind of person you...

Teen Dating Issues: get back with my girlfriend....that is taken already, groupd, close friends
groupd, close friends, friendships: I mma start answering from the bottom questions come up. If you really want to find out who she feels about him it s best to go to the direct source and ask her, if you do choose to do that you will need her alone away from her friends and him. Somewhere...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend and her trip., friend nicole, out of the blue
friend nicole, out of the blue, old friend: Dear Michael, I understand why you would be nervous. However, you truly need to trust your girlfriend. She shouldn t be influenced by others and if she is than she may not be the kind of girlfriend you want. You should definately tell her how you feel regarding...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend trouble, little poem, handmade card
little poem, handmade card, cheeck: This is a tough situation and I am very sorry that you and her are going through this. I understand your pain and I also know what it is like to want to end it all, I have been in both of your shoes. When she says that she doesnt think that you dont care about...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend vs. best friend, exsisting, asking this question
exsisting, asking this question, girlfriend: No you re not out of line. If something your boyfriend is doing bugs you then you have the right to talk to be upset. If it bugs you that there spending so much time together then you should really talk to your Boyfriend about this. Maybe he doesn t realize...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend and her weight, healthy lifestyle, eating habits
healthy lifestyle, eating habits, girlfriend: Marcus, I can t say that I have dealt with an issue like that before, but my advice is that if you aren t already active, start becoming active yourself and try to get her involved. Eat healthy yourself and hope that it influences her. The worst thing...

Teen Dating Issues: How to get a girlfriend, volenter, how to get a girlfriend
volenter, how to get a girlfriend, gurl: 1. You very well could be in love with her. It wouldn t suprise me. 2. Me personally being a gurl I like the old fashoned type. Be really sweet, but not fakey, and most of all, be yourself. I know that sounds lame but seriously, dont change for anyone,...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriends parents, resposible, girlfriend
resposible, girlfriend, parents: Luke- Having been in a similar situation before, try hanging out together in front of them more and more. Once they see that you can be trusted things will hopefully change. Make sure that your girlfriend says good things about you to her parents, that...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriends, good relationship, 10th grade
good relationship, 10th grade, mackenzie: Hey Mackenzie- Well to have a good relationship just respect the girl your with. I mean if she doesn t want you to do someting dont do it. Also be honest with her.. Most importantly just be a gentlemen. I hope this helps. If you need anything else im always...

Teen Dating Issues: girlS?, places to go on dates, real girlfriend
places to go on dates, real girlfriend, first girlfriend: Well Mr. Taran hi, (like ur name) my name is Lauren Jeff, and I am really so glad that you asked me this question as your first girlfriend. Ok, well I know there is a difference between love and a first girlfriend. My friend I think she s 24 now just had her...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, places to go on dates, real girlfriend
places to go on dates, real girlfriend, lengthy letter: Taran, I believe that it is up to you to take this relationship to the next level. Even though you have little expereience in the dating field, it sounds that she is in a smiliar situation. Holding hands should be something that can be done almost right...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, places to go on dates, real girlfriend
places to go on dates, real girlfriend, 6 flags: hey taran, okay ill try to answer each and every one of your questions a wave and a smile from her and her friends is a way to acknowledge you and yes it could be taken as a sign to go join them. you should try it. cant hurt. you ll get to spend a lil...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, initial conversation, hellos
initial conversation, hellos, good luck: well hopefully she will not be into your body as much as your personlality. i think you should try and find out more about her. think about what you want to say to her before hand. start off by asking her some questions about herself. just think about how...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, bad person, savannah
bad person, savannah, girls: Hey Dylan- Do you mean go out with them as in as a date or what? If you mean as in going out with all 3 I don t think that it would be a good idea. Not only will it hurt all 3 girls but it could really make you look like a bad person for doing such a thing....

Teen Dating Issues: girls, relation ships, foot ball
relation ships, foot ball, wile: Nick, Well I wouldn t say there s something wrong with you..it s more like she needs to figure out who and hat she wnats...not because other guys like her means she has to like them back. She has to make a decision and if she chooses you then she nees to...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, instant messanger, mall restaurants
instant messanger, mall restaurants, food place: Well, these are very good questions. To your first one, I think some good places to hang out are at the mall, restaurants, bowling alleys, and a good place to hang out without it being awkward is the movie theatres. There, you don t have to talk, but you can...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, homework, relationships
homework, relationships, girls: Hello Bob! You both are very young and you both still have your high school and college years to find relationships! But I would say ask her if she needs help with the homework or if it is possible you two could go out to dinner. How are you so sure she doesn...

Teen Dating Issues: Two girls, two girls, inner circle
two girls, inner circle, choose one: well you dont want to try and get a girl into any relationship. it has to happen naturally. there is nothing wrong with dating both of them at the same time to find out which one you like better. you may find out you dont want to date either one. just dont...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, sense of humor, initials
sense of humor, initials, laughter: I know that for me me and my boyfriend met over laughter and we ve going out almost 6 months. I feel that it is important basically because I love to laugh and smile. Many girls do enjoy a guy that can make them laugh, because when you think about it there...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, clean slate, new girlfriend
clean slate, new girlfriend, serious relationship: Hello Joe, Serious relationships often take a lot of time to get over, even after we ve decided to move on. It s understandable that you still have strong feelings for your ex at this point, so try not to feel too guilty about it. That being said, I think...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, first hope, good luck
first hope, good luck, courage: Hi Anthony, Don t use drinking as a way to talk to girls. Your friends must be insecure if they have to dring in order to talk to girls. Can you start off slow and just say hello to a girl. You dont have to ask one out right away. Maybe be friends with...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, talking to girls, comfy spot
talking to girls, comfy spot, dear john: Taran- Relax and take a deep breath! Girls are one of the most confusing species around. To figure out what they are thinking would be a miracle! If her best friend mentioned something, your answer will go right back to the girl, not matter what. ...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, dession, girls
dession, girls: You are going to be scared either way, so you just need to go for it. Dont second think it, it wont help. And dont look in her eyes when you talk to her look at her nose or something just dont make it noticable. You are scared because you like her, it is perfectly...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, cuz, dedication
cuz, dedication, alex: Joe- I think guys that play any kind of instrument are interesting. It takes a lot of dedication, time, and practice to perfect your skills. I think girls will find thta cute- that you take time to pursue something. ...

Teen Dating Issues: what to do with girls, places to go on dates, real girlfriend
places to go on dates, real girlfriend, answering your questions: Hi Taran, (that s a nice name..very unique) Nothing is wrong with the letter its quite short, plus I don t mind answering all your questions. I will try my best in answering your questions one by one. First let s start with you re shyness (both of you)...If...

Teen Dating Issues: Do girls like boys who try hard or not ?, romantic feelings, different girls
romantic feelings, different girls, gorgeous girl: Hello Dani, Different girls like different things; some girls hate it when guys really go out of their way to show that they re interested, others love getting all the attention, while still others enjoy some effort but not too much. So I d say that it...

Teen Dating Issues: Do girls like boys who try hard or not ?, gorgeous girl, skl
gorgeous girl, skl, pretty face: Hey Dani, first of all, i thought your story was pretty cool. :-) about your question... girls always find attention from boys flaterring, but sometimes that attention can be a bit much and it gets downright annoying. from the way you described the guys...

Teen Dating Issues: Do girls like boys who try hard or not ?, keep your distance, gorgeous girl
keep your distance, gorgeous girl, skl: Well, it s usually said that girls like the asshole type of guy. The type that doesn t give them their full undivided attention and this could be drawing herself to you. However, something else could be drawing attention from you. Maybe she just finds that...

Teen Dating Issues: Do girls like boys who try hard or not ?, gorgeous girl, skl
gorgeous girl, skl, those guys: Well, I d say it s obvious she likes you, but it depends on which girl it is. Also, trying too hard works in some cases and IS embarrassing in others. It s not that trying too hard to not at all is the difference. It s how much confidence is...

Teen Dating Issues: Do girls like boys who try hard or not ?, straight answer, gorgeous girl
straight answer, gorgeous girl, skl: Depends on the girl. i know you re probably hating me right now because i can t give you a straight answer, but thats the truth. Some girls find it amusing and pretty much demand it that a guy tries hard and gives her attention and then other girls just want...

Teen Dating Issues: Do girls like boys who try hard or not ?, gorgeous girl, skl
gorgeous girl, skl, high expectations: Dani, I wouldnt think into what happened between you and her too much. Im glad that you dont try TOO hard, because, well, that s the mistake that all kinds of men make. You re right about not having high expectations, but don t make that about his girl...

Teen Dating Issues: Do girls like boys who try hard or not ?, gorgeous girl, skl
gorgeous girl, skl, those guys: I tell people to be them selves. But, you can ask in our psychology more about your above question. State ages in the future. Dating at certain ages could be illegal. I question why you like this person and without more information I won t say anything...

Teen Dating Issues: Do girls like boys who try hard or not ?, personal goal, gorgeous girl
personal goal, gorgeous girl, anythin: Well, i always have a lot of guys on me because I am a jock, I am a great one at that and people see and like that. Not to mention that I have a full figured body. I met my boyfriend when I got switched from Chemistry to Integrated Science II A ( which...

Teen Dating Issues: girls and dating, question thanks, rough times
question thanks, rough times, little respect: Andrew you need to leave it alone. I don t know how many times I can tell you this. She wants to hurt you, thats what she s always wanted. Clearly it s working and getting your attention which is exactly what she wants. Leave her alone. Ignore her and just...

Teen Dating Issues: girls! lol, friends talk, oppurtunity
friends talk, oppurtunity, bad mood: Because I don t have past questions or answers, I m going to say this: If you are her friend, your job is to support her. If she broke up with someone and she is in a bad mood, talk to her about this. Do not abuse your friendship to get her to want to date...

Teen Dating Issues: girls! lol, tensions, chill
tensions, chill, good luck: Hi Gerard, I reread your question, and I understand the situation more now. Start going out with her with her just as friends, just hanging out. Chill with your friends, meet her friends. It eases the tensions a little, and you will have some fun. Then, take...

Teen Dating Issues: girls lol!, bf, 3 years
bf, 3 years, good luck: sounds like your doing a fine job. wait a few days and then ask her again. if she keeps making accusses then maybe she knows and doesnt want to date. once you start dating keep in mind that if things dont work out its sometimes hard to remain friends. good...

Teen Dating Issues: girls! lol, bf, savannah
bf, savannah, 3 years: Hey Gerard- Just give her time.. I mean she did just break up with her boyfriend and Im sure she s still trying to get over him. So just give her time to do just that. I mean you still can be there for her as a friend but don t push it she needs this time...

Teen Dating Issues: girls! lol, easiest thing, good friend
easiest thing, good friend, compliment: Gerard, I m glad that even you are taking the fact that she just got out of a relationship into consideration. Because of the circumstances, I would definately continue to take things slow. It s hard to tell how she really feels about you, but one...

Teen Dating Issues: girls! lol, eachother, bf
eachother, bf, 3 years: Gerard - I think you should wait a little bit and build more of a friendship with her before making a move. Keep talking to her about whatever and when you guys get more familiar with eachother then it would be appropriate to make a move. Ashle...

Teen Dating Issues: girls only school?, girls school, e mail
girls school, e mail, lol: Ingrid, I would just try to strike up a conversation with the guy first. If things go well, either get his e-mail or phone #. It s better to get to know somebody before actually asking them out. That way, you know what it is that you re getting into....

Teen Dating Issues: girls, hey jay, breaking the ice
hey jay, breaking the ice, hey mr: Hey Jay, Way to go man! You got her number, that s great. I think that if this girl gave you her number than that s a sign of her wanting to pursue a friendship with you. Who knows after that you might want to go and catch a movie at the cinema. DOn t worry...

Teen Dating Issues: girlss, places to go on dates, real girlfriend
places to go on dates, real girlfriend, lengthy letter: Ok well lets see here...She likes you oviously!! and if shes your girl friend she wants you to come and join the group!! and she wants to talk to you!! and she wants to get to know you better!! i think that talking on the phone is a good idea!! because that...

Teen Dating Issues: girlss, places to go on dates, real girlfriend
places to go on dates, real girlfriend, things to do on a date: i think communication is very important in any relationship. if she is saying its ok to join her group of friends then i would. just dont over do it and give her her space as well. take it slow and dont worry about the little things right now. have fun and...

Teen Dating Issues: girrll, yesturday, exclusiv
yesturday, exclusiv, tho: Hey Andrew- Well just let it be her day and find out where and what she wants to do.. Just make the date revolve around her. So things she may like to do. Also take her to her favorite places. Things like that. I hope this helps. Take Care, Savanna...

Teen Dating Issues: what has he given me., warts, eachother
warts, eachother, lice: Hi, If he cared about you, he would have told you about this. And than not done that stuff. In my state if someone gives someone else AIDs and didn t tell them before hand, they could be charged with a crime. Maybe it s the same where you are and if so I...

Teen Dating Issues: gonig to college, first love, plenty of time
first love, plenty of time, girlfriend: Bryan, Wow, honey, you are intense. The first thing you need to do is calm down and realize that you are only 16. I know that, at that age, you think that your first love is the truest and the only one for you. And while that is the case for the select...

Teen Dating Issues: What am i gonna do now?, using computers, waste of time
using computers, waste of time, best time: Jason - I think you should listen to her and move on. You can still talk to her and hang out with her but you shouldn t be passing up good opportunities that could come by. You shouldn t make a move on her now because she might just be using you as a...

Teen Dating Issues: having a good conversation, bad car, good conversation
bad car, good conversation, personal issues: Well, there are different kinds of loves that one can have for another. But loving someone and being in love with someone is different. In my opinion, loving someone is where you love the person for who they are and you ll always love that person. Being in...

Teen Dating Issues: good conversations, awkward silences, phone conversations
awkward silences, phone conversations, convos: Katie, Some people just arent good at talking on the phone. So that means u have to make the most out of the conversations that u have in person. U cant make someone good at talking on the phone, really. Alot of ppl just dont like it, and they dont even...

Teen Dating Issues: Being good enough, guardian angel, ups and downs
guardian angel, ups and downs, boy friends: WEll, I understand you have had some difficulty, and not every therapist is the best. But you should find another one. And I m sure the therapist had no idea that guy would rape you. Try to find someone else, and work with your boyfriend, your other adult...

Teen Dating Issues: am I not good enough?, judo master, art exhibitions
judo master, art exhibitions, sensitive girl: I met this girl online a few months ago --- I do not promote online dating due to safety issues. How old are you all? bisexual girl --- I m not a bisexual relationship expert, yet I will attempt to help you. I do recommend our special bisexual relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this a good way to ask her out?, becca, pencil
becca, pencil, laugh: I think that it is a corny kind of cute. I think that it will work. It made me laugh and that s always a plus with girls being able to make them laugh. I like how you have it all figured out. Markeisha Barbee P.S. Go for it...let me know how it goes...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this a good way to ask her out?, becca, pencil
becca, pencil, good luck: Hello Paul, It certainly sounds like you ve given this plan a lot of thought! I like it, and the only suggestion I have would be to have an answer prepared in case she says yes when you ask for pencil A back. For example, if she says yes, then you could...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this a good way to ask her out?, becca, pencil
becca, pencil, creativity: I think it s pretty creative. A lot of guys don t factor in creativity into asking a girl out but it sounds to me like you ve got things handled man. Just make sure to deliver it with confidence and honestly and i think you ll do great. -Remember, keep...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this a good way to ask this girl on a date?, school dance, sophomore
school dance, sophomore, savannah: Everything sounds good except one thing. Maybe for now you should leave out the you re definitely broken up with your boyfriend. I am not so sure that sounds good and she may not want to be reminded of that because the pain may still be too fresh. Relationships...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this a good way to ask a girl to go on a date?, school dance, convo
school dance, convo, savannah: Hey Paul- I wouldn t really start the convo with asking her if she s definitely broken up with her boyfriend. Just simply ask her if she wants to maybe hang out and everything. Then take it from there. I hope this helps. If you need anything else im always...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this a good wayt to ask her out?, open invitation, wayt
open invitation, wayt, exact words: Paul, You seem to have most of this down. You seem pretty good at flirting, but as far as going on a date goes, I don t suggest calling it a date outright. Just maybe an open invitation. For example... Aside from all of this pencil business, just say...

Teen Dating Issues: is he good for me?, other crap, loving relationship
other crap, loving relationship, offence: Emilee, you can t let something like this control you. Our past does not define us, our present does. I can understand your trust issue, and i don t for a second blame you. But you can t do this alone. You have to let people in to get over this, as ironic...

Teen Dating Issues: great friends, should we go out?, heart break, great friends
heart break, great friends, best of luck: Do you only like her because of her body, and the hook-up, or did you like her before all of that? It s against me to date some one purely for those reasons, but I also think it makes for terrible heart break and pain. In all honesty, I am going through...

Teen Dating Issues: great looking guy but single, wrong girl, wrong impression
wrong girl, wrong impression, paris hilton: Hass, girls are human beings too, don t be afraid to approach girls you like, just be yourself and you won t make the wrong impression, you may wonder how to ask them out, all it takes is getting to know each other, as soon as she s comftable with you, just...

Teen Dating Issues: Does all great things need to end?, eigth grade, eleventh grade
eigth grade, eleventh grade, little hope: Hi David, Thanks for your question. I can only imagine how hard it must be for you. I think that through the time you were dating, you forgot to work on building attraction with her...and that may be the root cause of the situation at hand. Don t...

Teen Dating Issues: group date, guy friends, saw 4
guy friends, saw 4, sophomore: If it s just you, her, and a bunch of your guy friends then NO. Thats a huge mistake. But if they do bring along some girls and it is more of a group date type thing. if not it screams friend. If you want to ask her out then go for it. See if she wants...

Teen Dating Issues: we may grow apart from each other!, long distance relationship, relationship work
long distance relationship, relationship work, trust issue: Carven, Hello. 30-60 minutes apart is really not that bad. Chances are you will not have classes on the weekends, so as long as you are both willing to travel on weekends to see one another, there shouldn t be a major issue. If you are used to seeing...

Teen Dating Issues: Are we growing apart?, romantic feelings, going to mexico
romantic feelings, going to mexico, back of my mind: Dominique, You are on the right track yes..he may have been getting tired of waiting on you so i definitely do not suggest that you wait till February to see what happens, that may be TOO late. This need to be done as soon as possible, before you do it though...

Teen Dating Issues: just some guidance, time heidi, sweet talks
time heidi, sweet talks, rough time: people make mistakes.....sounds like you know you did and thats good. if you tought it was no big deal then that would be more of a problem. since you know you made a mistake i would just move on and learn from it. stop talking to the guy and dont give him...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting the guy back, own time, girls
own time, girls: hey Lisa, well i would talk to him and possibly show him the time of his life with you like a date or something just to show him what he is missing ;). but good could come out of it he would get his time to think and figure out everything he needed too. i...

Teen Dating Issues: there's this guy, leadership role, shy guy
leadership role, shy guy, girl power: Hey Kate! I will try and help you the best I can. First of all I don t suggest that you ask a guy out. Its much better if you let the guy take the leadership role in the relationship (I mean I m all for girl power but we deserve to be romanced). THe only...

Teen Dating Issues: This guy....., kind of hurt, happends
kind of hurt, happends, backstory: I hate to tell you this but I think you have feelings for this guy. And the only thing you can do, if hes not a terrible guy is allow him to get close to you if he wants to. You kind of blew it before (no offence everyones done it) so hopefully its not...

Teen Dating Issues: This guy....., kind of hurt, backstory
kind of hurt, backstory, nice girl: To me it sounds like the point of having all these crushes IS to get you jealous! You probubly did hurt him when you turned him down, and he wanted to test your feelings. Apparently it worked, because you have realized that you do like him. Try explaing things...

Teen Dating Issues: There's this guy..., personal questions
personal questions: Hi! Its normal for people to feel this way when they meet someone online, you should ask him whatever you feel you need to know, and let him know that you need to know more about him. I do that all the time. I let them know I need to know more, and we go...

Teen Dating Issues: There's this guy..., slow reply, home doesn
slow reply, home doesn, boundries: Eveline, Sorry for the slow reply, my computer at home doesn t seem to be sending my answer back to you, since I have tried it a couple times already. Anywho, different women want to know different things about a guy. What you expect from him and what...

Teen Dating Issues: guy, band competition, friend doesn
band competition, friend doesn, adn: Well it might not occur but some guys do recognize those things like you having your foot on his and leaning on him, he probably just played it off, played it cool. In some way I can say with surety that he does have some sort of feeling for you because you...

Teen Dating Issues: this guy, easiest thing
easiest thing: hi mya, first you should ask yourself if you think he likes you...for example does he get nervous around you? does he sound like hes talking to you as if you were just another friend of his? and then the easiest thing to do would be too just tell him that...

Teen Dating Issues: this guy, sense of humor, curiousity
sense of humor, curiousity, 17 years: Sharny, Don t worry about whether or not you have a chance with him. You can t think like that, you have to think When am I going to start up a conversation with him? Just approach him sometime and start up a friendly conversation. It doesn t have to...

Teen Dating Issues: This guy..., kiss on the lips, niceness
kiss on the lips, niceness, homeroom: Sarah, The only way he ll get over you is if you cut him off completely. Stop talking to him, don t even look at him, just be really cold. He s feeding off of your niceness and for some reason he takes anything you give him as a sign of interest. If you...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting a guy, relationship relationships, true friend
relationship relationships, true friend, martial arts club: Elise, the best way to get a guy is just to be his honest and true friend. There s a saying it goes You marry your best friend and i can t count how many times I ve seen it. Just get to be his friend first, maybe hang out with him as friends somewhere, then...

Teen Dating Issues: there's this guy . . ., times sake, hes
times sake, hes, good luck: Hey there, Hum, do you know what it was that caused you two to drift apart? Call him up again and ask if he wants to go see a movie or something for old times sake. Then flirt like MAD! Have fun with it. Laugh, giggle, punch his arm when he says something...

Teen Dating Issues: There's this guy . . ., straight truth, akward
straight truth, akward, hes: Hi Emily. This situation actually pretty welll for you. Because you re both inexperienced you both may feel kind of akward and new for you, which will make it easier on your part. It will probably be difficult for you, and you ll have to muster up some courage,...

Teen Dating Issues: this guy, small stuff, convo
small stuff, convo, comfort zone: Lori, You have to estabish a comfort zone with this guy when talking to him in person. You cant always necessarily get somebody to do something for you. It s not always going to be that easy. So you make the move. Just find a chance during the day...

Teen Dating Issues: The guy, mutual friend, definatly
mutual friend, definatly, free time: Hello again Samantha, Thanks for posting the follow-up. :) The first thing I d suggest would be to ask your mutual friend (if you haven t already done so) to tell you as much about this guy as she can. Her boyfriend might also be a valuable source of information,...

Teen Dating Issues: There's this guy I like..., childhood crush, band bus
childhood crush, band bus, guy friends: Hi Breanna, I would say he definitely likes you. I remember a childhood crush I had on a girl I grew up with, and one night I was at her house, and we were lying on the floor watching TV, and I started holding her hand, and intertwining it like he does...

Teen Dating Issues: this guy, hook up, boyfriends
hook up, boyfriends, proactive: Even text messaging is a little much if he has a girlfriend. The girlfriend may take that a little be offensive especially since you KNOW that he s with someone. You can still talk to him on e-mail, hang out as friends with people though. You have to see...

Teen Dating Issues: There's this guy..., standing in the hallway, southern gentleman
standing in the hallway, southern gentleman, strange mood: If your parents, your best friend, and a trusted teacher all who see you tow interact say that they think he likes you then chances are he probably likes you. You have to remember, their objective, and they see more form different angles then you do. If...

Teen Dating Issues: This guy..., band trip, frusterated
band trip, frusterated, sounds silly: Andrea, First off I would not disregard what everyone has told you about this boy, but I would not base everything on that either. I think you should try to get to know him. If it turns out that he is the way that everyone says he is, then you need to...

Teen Dating Issues: This guy...., daughter stephanie, lawnmower
daughter stephanie, lawnmower, flea market: First let me say I cannot tell you if someone likes you or does not like you. I can say what you told me may only be half the story and for this I do not even want to guess if he likes you or not. It s a special type of bias. It goes into the field of psychology....

Teen Dating Issues: a guy, sakes, gurl
sakes, gurl, liking: Hello there this is Lauren, sorry it took me awhile to get to you, I ve been busy trying to get school started. Ok, well first of all I REALLY know what liking somebody means, but gurl if you don t have to stick with this guy then don t. Well first of all...

Teen Dating Issues: a guy and me, homecoming dance, dating girls
homecoming dance, dating girls, guy friend: I guess you could ask him if you wanted but i think you should just wait for him to ask you. Flirt and stuff to make sure he knows you like him back, but if he cant find the guts to ask you to the homecoming dance, he probably wont be a very good boyfrien...

Teen Dating Issues: guy i like, savannah, dreams
savannah, dreams: Hey Sarah- Well just maybe try calling him or texting him asking him about how he asked you to the movies and everything and see whats going on with him. I mean ask him why he asked you to the movies and wouldn t even call you or texted you back. If you...

Teen Dating Issues: A guy, elbows, conversations
elbows, conversations, sophomore: Hey Eva! Well, it looks like this guy has finally woken up and smelt the coffee! I think that maybe he s starting to actually like you better as a friend. So just keep doing what your doing and see how he reacts, if he gets more touchy feely, then go for...

Teen Dating Issues: i like this guy, friend cristina, little kids
friend cristina, little kids, good luck: Hey Michelle. I m pleased your friend Cristina has moved on and with someone else now, but the main thing is that she s happy, and she is, so that s great! If you like this guy, then you should wave and say Hi, and in time, proceed to actually make conversation...

Teen Dating Issues: A guy's advice..., secret feelings, current boyfriend
secret feelings, current boyfriend, guy friends: Well, you re right, it s not really a question. But I see what you re getting at and I have a good idea how you feel. It s not really a paranoia since, as much as you ve told me, no one is trying to hurt you. However, it can be a little frustrating...

Teen Dating Issues: my guy cant kiss, first kiss, chickens
first kiss, chickens, lola: Hey there, Hmmm, now let me ask you something. Do you love him for him, or for a guy you can kiss and etc.? If you do love him for him, then you should be okay with waiting for him to get comfortable, but if you really think you can t wait, then maybe it...

Teen Dating Issues: Going out with a guy you dont know that well, myspace, olivia
myspace, olivia, savannah: Hey Olivia- Well just stay with him and everything. Don t stop going out with him just because you really don t know him.. Just while you two are going out just start asking him about himself that way you do get to know him better. I hope this helps. If...

Teen Dating Issues: How do i get the guy of my dreams?, sad love songs, girlies
sad love songs, girlies, best of luck: Brittany- You should let this whole thing blow over. Give yourself an ultimate boy break. Also, let him see that you re fine, and that you re super confident. It takes a lot of guts to tell a guy how you feel about him, especially something as personal as...

Teen Dating Issues: guy friend, friend hope, better friend
friend hope, better friend, guy friend: Correction: he may have ruined a good friendship and lost a potential girlfriend. Caitlin, you did not do anything wrong by telling him how you feel. In fact, what you did was best for both of you. It showed you that who you thought this boy was, isn t really...

Teen Dating Issues: my guy friend asked me out, breaking the ice, guy friend
breaking the ice, guy friend, angie: Angie - I think first you need to decide whether you want to be with him or not because that s pretty important. If you want to be with him, say yes. If not, then tell him that you don t want to ruin your friendship by dating and you re afraid that s...

Teen Dating Issues: my guy friend asked me out, guy friend, great friends
guy friend, great friends, good friends: OK your first question believe it or not. If you are good friends with this guy going out with him could be a good idea. Last year i went out with my best friend and it was amazing but when we broke up we got evening closer. Dont worry say yes because you...

Teen Dating Issues: my guy friend asked me out, guy friend, better time
guy friend, better time, last friday: you couldn t have asked me this at a better time. i am currently dealing with the aftermath of just this sort of situation. a little while ago, my great friend for 9 years kate and i started going out. at first, it was awesome. our friends all along had said...

Teen Dating Issues: my guy friend asked me out, guy friend, intrested
guy friend, intrested, angie: Hi Angie, If you like him you like him, if you don t you don t. There s no inbetweens. If your intrested, go for it. Otherwise, remain friends. The best way is just to tell them, have them meet the guy and maybe his family. Invite him over to dinner, that...

Teen Dating Issues: A guy friend.....is he REALLY a friend??, high school freshman, lots of girls
high school freshman, lots of girls, guy friend: Dear Ayesha, The woes of high school indeed! Well, I could be wrong here but I think M may have a crush on you, which is why he s acting so immature. Teenage guys tend to be immature anyway, and their immaturity comes out especially when they like a girl....

Teen Dating Issues: My guy friend, fear of rejection, ed team
fear of rejection, ed team, guy friend: Hello Chloe. I am glad you mention that you re a teen; but mentioning your ages more directly; is a bit more clear and helpful, yet I ll help you as much as I can. Since you re a teen tha likes your really good friend; I ll guess between ages 15-17? Forgive...

Teen Dating Issues: guy help, guy friend, holding hands
guy friend, holding hands, insacure: Lola, [cool name by the way i love lola bunny lol] Like I was saying from before tell him that he is moving too fast for you. That you just want to be friends. If he s calling you to much then tell him, he won t know how you feel unless you tell him. If...

Teen Dating Issues: If a guy is interested or not, 21st birthday party, strong feeling
21st birthday party, strong feeling, night shift: Well Ms. Julia my name is Lauren, and I am 22 yrs. old. Ok, well in my opinion I would say it was safe to say that he likes you. He might be shy or might be too scared to ask you. So, why don t you surprise him, (because it seems like he is always trying to...

Teen Dating Issues: This guy likes me and I am clueless!, graduation practice, soccer today
graduation practice, soccer today, mini skirts: Will your parents drive you on a date witih him or is that completely off limits? Have you considered inviting him over to have dinner at your house or asking your parents if he could go out to eat with you guys? These would be great ways for them to get...

Teen Dating Issues: guy likes me, singal, brayton
singal, brayton, couple times: First you need to ask yourself if you want to be the one who ruins that relationship. now if you honestly think hes not happy with her or you feel he likes you more than her. then id suggest you look into this guy more.just hang out with him a couple times...

Teen Dating Issues: guy problem, guy friend, gut feeling
guy friend, gut feeling, holding hands: Lola- I ve ahd the same feeling, if it doesn t feel right, then maybe the best option is to break it off before either one of you become even more miserable. You should never go out with someone if you don t feel right about doing it, and have to convince...

Teen Dating Issues: There's this guy... and it's really confusing., real girlfriend, perfect sense
real girlfriend, perfect sense, close friends: I completely understand your situation. It makes perfect sense. He probably thinks he doesn t need to, because he probably already thinks it s a give-in. The best way I ve ever heard of this being handled, is spreading a light rumor, between you, and some...

Teen Dating Issues: this guy really likes me., being friends, nice guy
being friends, nice guy, ups: It could be this: You re looking at him differently maybe for your own feelings or feelings you think are there. Maybe it s not him. Keep this in mind. However, there is a chance it could be him. We have to break this apart to find the truth and sadly...

Teen Dating Issues: My guy is shy, doesnt work, hes
doesnt work, hes, little time: hmmm, thats kinda funny cuz my xgirlfriend is having the same problem. if he s shy, try to make him more comfortable. your probably really pretty and he just doesnt know what to say. i would ask him what he likes to do for fun, or what sports he likes to play....

Teen Dating Issues: guy trouble, guy trouble, definitley
guy trouble, definitley, 10th grade: To Leah, I m sorry it s taken me so long to get to your question. This guy must certainly be special! That s a very long time to like someone. It s definitley time to do something about it. If you don t try, nothing will happen, and you ll be forever...

Teen Dating Issues: guy trouble, guy trouble, st louis mo
guy trouble, st louis mo, biggie: To Leah, Firstly, there is ABSOLUTELY nothing at all wrong with you! I bet there are several guys that like you but just won t tell you. Just because this guy doesn t seem to be interested doesn t mean there s anything wrong with you. Believe it or not,...

Teen Dating Issues: This guy, he wont leave my head!, sweet lil, first move
sweet lil, first move, eachother: In this day and age it is not uncommon for a female to ask out a male. But be careful some males rather have them selves ask out the female. Because of old customs. My advice is become his friend like I feel you are and than ask him out. So your cleared by...

Teen Dating Issues: This guy, great friends, bad mood
great friends, bad mood, disagreement: Firstly, CONGRATZ on the record deal! in this relationship, i think its best for you to explain to Kevin in details how you feel for him, and how important your record deal is. im pretty sure that you have waited long and worked hard for this deal, therefore...

Teen Dating Issues: guyfriend, guy friend, feelings
guy friend, feelings, love: i think the only way is to just sit down with him when you can have some uniterupted time together and tell him. keep it kinda light. tell him you think you might like him more then friends and was wondering how he felt. see if he is open to dating. you...

Teen Dating Issues: guys, younger girl, whatnot
younger girl, whatnot, older women: Emmy, There s no point in dating an older guy just cuz he s older. I myself am a Senior and I haven t found many younger or older women that liked me for my age. Personality is very important and you need a guy you can talk to. Plus, guys might respect...

Teen Dating Issues: guys, step in the right direction, mutual friends
step in the right direction, mutual friends, good luck: hey sandy, hmm... if i were in your situation, i think i would do my best to be visible. if he s not in any of your classes, try to find out where he hangs out after school or where he eats lunch. you don t have to talk to him right away, but if you re around...

Teen Dating Issues: guys, hed
hed: the best thing to do is tell the guy that you like him. Once he has the ok that you do he wont have to be nervous about you saying NO!! He obviously cares about you alot if he is scared of hurting you. I think that you should talk to him or get your friend...

Teen Dating Issues: guys, new girlfriend, emilee
new girlfriend, emilee, feelings: Emilee, Even though you feel very hurt at this time, you should do your best to recover and move on. You can always leave the possibility of something happening with this guy, but you shouldn t rely on it. See what other guys are out there. This guy...

Teen Dating Issues: guys!, giving oral sex, first response
giving oral sex, first response, gesture: Hi Kelly, I wasn t clear enough with my first response, and I apologize for that. While it is true that the gesture is meant to reference someone known for or suspected of giving oral sex, it is most often made as a joke. Sometimes guys even do it to each...

Teen Dating Issues: about guys, boyfreind, freind
boyfreind, freind, freinds: maybe you should not be with any of them? really. it sounds like the guy you still like is not really bf material, especially if he is a player. it also sounds like you are not very happy with your current bf. maybe its time to breakup with him and be single...

Teen Dating Issues: guys, how to be a great kisser, good kisser
how to be a great kisser, good kisser, teen advice: Hello Stephanie. This guy you like, is/was he your boyfriend? If so; then that s a sorta lame reason for him to stop liking you.. In my opinion; kissing isn t EVERYTHING, but some people may think otherwise. I m sorry to hear this; but there are a few...

Teen Dating Issues: guys, girls
girls: Well, you could see if he acts different around you then around other girls. Or you could see if he randomly steals glances at you, and only you. Or you could try flirting with him, and if he flirts back, he probably likes you. Of course, you could always...

Teen Dating Issues: Why are guys so confusing??, band trip, new boys
band trip, new boys, fluke: i suggest that you try to get over him. it was most likely just a fluke last year. you know, he thought liked you but he didnt. so he s done with you(sounds mean but thats whats going on) so find another boy. trust me theres plenty of them. just meat new boys...

Teen Dating Issues: guys are confusing..., friend craig, valentine s day
friend craig, valentine s day, friend lindsay: Emilia- Your story is very familiar. The problem may be that he sees you as more of a close friend or a sister than anything romantic. This explains why he s telling you about his other crushes. I suggest talking to him and being honest about it. ...

Teen Dating Issues: guys liking me, guy likes a girl, good eye
guy likes a girl, good eye, eye contact: Well guys usually show that they re interested by flirting. Playful joking, perhaps some touchy-feely actions. Always makes conversation with you and makes good eye contact. Stuff like that. If guys show things of that nature then they are probably at...

Teen Dating Issues: do guys mind extreme blushing?, science class, eye contact
science class, eye contact, blushes: Well, I understand completely. I don t blush too much, but it used to be hard for me to make eye contact. That s one of those things you just have to force yourself to do, it s pretty easy once you get in the habit of doing it. The blushing wouldn...

Teen Dating Issues: guys and parents, good luck, mom
good luck, mom, confidence: hello, its always a bit awkward bringing up the subject of guys and sex to your parents but in time and with confidence it will become easy. If you want to talk to them then you should no matter how weird it is believe it or not you parents where in the sam...

Teen Dating Issues: two guys,three states, guy josh, amy amy
guy josh, amy amy, honest answer: Amy- I m afraid I alone can t answer that question. It s all about what you think is best for you and for the guys. Since I m not around you and I haven t seen what has been happening, I can t give you an honest answer. Just go with what your heart...

Teen Dating Issues: how come guys are so whered, boy friend, good luck
boy friend, good luck, bet: Well, I d put my bet on that he WAS mad. It s kind of like when a girl has a problem and says She s fine, if you think there s something wrong, there probably is. Guys are weird, but so are girls. Not that it s bad, they re both weird for the same...

Teen Dating Issues: guys, younger girl, talking about sex
younger girl, talking about sex, walking home: hmm.... yea, hes pretty dense. :) he must be REALLY cute huh? lol. but if you want him to hold your hand, you could be the dominant in the relationship and grab his hand. unless your shy. then that would be kinda hard. hmmm..... all i can say about that one...

Teen Dating Issues: guysss....., freshie, pool party
freshie, pool party, cute kid: Wow.....well i ll answer your questions in the order you presented them. 1. It sounds like he at least had a good time with you. 2. With out a doubt, the jacket thing is classic. 3 probably, but he may not be the right guy to go after. It sounds to me...

Teen Dating Issues: Halp (Girl Trouble), puppy dog face, directing a play
puppy dog face, directing a play, girl trouble: Hey Paul, Dreadfully, sorry this took so long to respond, I have been having a long week directing a play. Good News is I have some advice you can use, even if it s too late for Homecoming. One thing, if you re going to ask a girl out on a date....

Teen Dating Issues: Halp, puppy dog face, bad feelings
puppy dog face, bad feelings, shy person: Ok, i ll answer your questions in the order they were provided: 1) Yeah i think there is a chance. If she doesn t like you then she s at least well on her way. 2) Leave out the part about her ex. those things can bring up bad feelings and thats the last...

Teen Dating Issues: Hands., freshman year, close proximity
freshman year, close proximity, prattle: Hey Naomi, Have you talked to your boyfriend about how you feel and what you d like him to do? Sometimes guys can be very dense (to put it bluntly) and/or overly concerned about doing something that will be offensive or disrespectful, despite all the clues...

Teen Dating Issues: What's Happening?, those girls, female friends
those girls, female friends, two girls: It s not simple per se with dating laws. In the US a 12 year old cannot kiss another 12 year old. But, is dating against the law in the US? That s really not a simple question. Understand we are on the internet, so I have to note that if I promote something...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP, general idea, next level
general idea, next level, alexandra: Hey Josh- When asking a girl out, be very confident and concise. With that, it s probably not the best idea to do it online or in an email, but in person which shows her that you re serious about the whole thing. Rehearsing what you say can be helpful,...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, music tastes, stalemate
music tastes, stalemate, fling: Hey Conor, Hmm, you seem to be stuck here. Okay, have you ever tried figuring out what things you two have in common then talking about that? Okay, what about music tastes? Foods? Little things like that. Build onto things you talk about, it ll slowly get...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, stalemate, fling
stalemate, fling, many thanks: Conor, i suggest that you turn this fling into a friendship. Sometimes when relationships are all really flirty and physical its hard for it to last. SO i suggest you just talk alot, about your pasts, things you like, things you don t like, just watch a...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, palm of her hand, sense of humor
palm of her hand, sense of humor, stalemate: Conor, This may sound stupid, but the more you try the less likely you are to get things to work. This girl thinks that she has you in the palm of her hand and that she can do whatever she wants with you. Let her come to you. Let her initiate the conversation....

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, psychology area, news school
psychology area, news school, life news: Before handling your problem: Im a 15 year old guy, and at the moment, im kind of having a fling with this girl who is also 15 - who just happens to be one of my mates --- 15 is a drop young to date. I recommend usually to be her friend until at least 16...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, stalemate, fling
stalemate, fling, many thanks: I think firstthe two of you need to sit down and figure out what the problem is. Conversation should not be hard in a relationship, it should be natural. Talk about how your week was or plans you have or something like that, it does not matter if it is a small...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, first hope, stupid stuff
first hope, stupid stuff, convo: Hi Conor, You two could talk about things going on at school, or tv, music, movies. Or something that happened that day. Me and my bf always find stupid stuff to talk about. It s a great ice breaker, and plus, you get a good laugh lol Try not to think so...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, stalemate, stupid things
stalemate, stupid things, fling: Dear Conor, Sometimes is it hard to know what to say to people that we have many different feelings for. The best thing that you can do is to be in a comfortable environment and speak honestly about how you feel. Why have you been seeing less and less...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, stalemate, fling
stalemate, fling, many thanks: Conor, I think you should talk to this girl, ask her what s going on and how she s feeling as it feels like you ve totally broken apart and tell her the stuff you ve been hearing, like what she s said etc. And she what reaction you get, talk it over with...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP, guy russell, thin air
guy russell, thin air, hallway: Hey Brianna, Sorry to disappoint you, but there really isn t a step by step guide to get a guy. If there were, we wouldn t have all these problems with getting a guy! However, I can tell you what I d do. Are you friends with Russell? Do you ever...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP ME!, brother and sister
brother and sister: Hey, well my advice in this situation would be to take a break from dating to see who you want but since you dont want to break up with him there is the possibility that you could hang out with one boy one day and the other another day that way you can...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP ME 2 DECIDE PLEAZE, real score, snitch
real score, snitch, one of these days: hi kileyn, you did the right thing by telling your friend but you can t force her to believe something she obviously doesn t want to believe. maybe you can find a way to prove to her what you saw. you could talk to the girl that you saw her boyfriend making...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP ME, sixth grade, good luck
sixth grade, good luck: Hey there, Okay, he may be avoiding your eyes because he is suspecting that you like him, but he thinks of you as a sister or something because the two of you grew up together. Just start to talk to him, like a friend, and grow close with him again. Get him...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!, choir song, morels
choir song, morels, choir practice: Marlene- Hmm, this is a tough one. A guy who keeps to himself so much is always hard to get to know. The key is to be the girl who s different . Instead of starting a conversation with so what s your favorite choir song? , which requires a lot of input...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP, class clown, self esteem issues
class clown, self esteem issues, first kiss: Kissing in most US areas is illegal below a certain age. Because I cannot give legal laws for your area, I cannot promote you to kiss her. In most US areas I believe 14 is illegal for kissing. why dwell on the bad? --- Do you have self esteem issues because...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, perfect person, back of my mind
perfect person, back of my mind, definetly: Hey Caileigh, It seems like you two are bouncing back and forth constantly. Why don t you just give the guy a chance and go on a date or something? Something small just to see if it feels right or not. Just try a little date, if it feels right and good, then...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP, relation ship
relation ship: Katie, Probably the best way for you to come out of this situation happy is to refuse to have him back if he tries this again. He only wants you when it is convinient for him. That s no way to let someone treat you. I know you want him to want you, but...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!!, grain of salt, good chance
grain of salt, good chance, freshman: If you guys talk a lot and tease each other then theres a pretty good chance he likes you. Not obviously i can t say this for sure, i can only give my opinion so take it with a grain of salt. You could just try talking to him about it. I know you re scared...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, never been kissed, time don
never been kissed, time don, cliche: Britney - As cliche as this sounds, most of your kissing instinct comes natural. I didn t really know what I was doing the first time I kissed someone but I made it work and you get better over time. Don t stick your tongue in his mouth right off the bat....

Teen Dating Issues: HELP, true way, savannah
true way, savannah: Hey Elizabeth- Well if a guy is interested in you well he would be paying a lot of attention to you and staring as well. But really the only true way to find out is just come out and ask him. There s nothing wrong with just asking him and find out. That...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, stalemate, closeness
stalemate, closeness, fling: Hello there Conor, sorry for the time it s been so crazy round here. Well you may not like my answer, but you can t make people do what they don t want to. Uh...I m guessing the only thing is the conversation because if it wasn t that I mean honestly it sounds...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, converstation, stalemate
converstation, stalemate, affections: Conor, I love your name by the way. I ve always had a thing for the name Conor. Is there something in particular that makes the conversation awkward at times? I had a thing with a guy once and the reason things were awkward between us was the fact that...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, mutual friends, first move
mutual friends, first move, stalemate: Dear Conor, You need to make the first move to get her to realize you want to keep the friendship going. Invite her over for a movie night with a lot of people so she doesn t feel like its a date or anything. If she won t go, keep trying but don t annoy...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, stalemate, fling
stalemate, fling, many thanks: Talk to her and say you feel you are growing apart and you want to rekindle it. Maybe move on to a regular relationship after things start to heat up more. If you want something more than physical, then you should be the one that makes the move. Have fun and...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, start from scratch, speaking terms
start from scratch, speaking terms, stalemate: Hey Conor, Well if you really want to re kindle what you had you need to talk to this girl and start from scratch again.Clearly somehow along the way things fell apart and now you are barely on speaking terms. You need to get back in there, talk to her,...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, creating memories, going places
creating memories, going places, stalemate: Conor, I understand what you mean by saying that you guys don t get on to saying much to each other. But that is something that you guys need to build. May be you need to quit with the just sit and talk try going places together..places where you both...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, stalemate, fling
stalemate, fling, many thanks: Hey Conor- Well while talking to her if she s one of your friends then it really shouldnt be to hard to just talk to her about things. Unless your embarrassed to say anything to her. Don t be. If she thinks what your saying to her or trying to talk to...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP ME!! does he like me? should i ask him out?, touchy feely, followup post
touchy feely, followup post, lamo: Hey Amber, Him looking at you and asking you to hang out after school are definitely good signs. It seems to me that there is a very good possibility that he does like you, but remember that I have no way of knowing what he s actually thinking. The first...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP I feel like crap, 3 years, crap
3 years, crap, ashley: Dust - If she was clingy before AND cheated on you, I d suggest not taking her back. No one said you have to take her back. What she did was lie to you but then again you WERE on a break but who knows. I m kind of confused by the situation. Ashle...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP im just a friend?, question pool, language area
question pool, language area, right move: Hi, Sorry about the delay. Overloaded here. Have you asked in our: How to make the right move area Body language area What draws you to her? What makes you feel this way near her? Do you think she is super busy? Is she in college or going to college?...

Teen Dating Issues: .. HELP SO IN "LOVE" .. SO IN WRECK, many different reasons, period class
many different reasons, period class, flirts: I don t think that you love this boy I think that you re infatuated by him which is a passion for someone. But as for her sister, I wouldn t worry too much. If you feel worried all the time about her ganging up on you, then I would simply approach her with...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP i love him!, psychology area, psycholog
psychology area, psycholog, 5 months: Your smart enough in my mind to go to Harvard. All it takes is someone to try. Now he looks as though he loves you, yet you and him never ever dated anyone else. You never tested out loving someone else and for this he may feel he likes you, yet he may not...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP: Mom Flipping Out About Me Having Sex, depo provera, burning in hell
depo provera, burning in hell, religious mother: Kathy, Hey. Thank you for making your question more clear. Okay, here s the problem. Your mom has this belief . You cannot change someone else s beliefs. If you have something that you believe in, nobody can say/do anything to change that belief...so...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP I might do something stupid, serious relationship, week 1
serious relationship, week 1, 3 years: Dust, Hey, I hope you are having a great day. Okay, I m going to be 100% straight-forward with you so please know I m just being honest. If you two were on the break then she is able to do whatever she wants to do. If she broke it off with you simply...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP ME PLEASE !!!!!!!, cj
cj: Katelyn, I think a good start would be We should go out on a date. It s really as simple as that. I think that you are making too big of a deal out of this situation and need to just realize it s not as big as you think and simply approach him about it....

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!!! (please), long time relationship, great friends
long time relationship, great friends, best friends: its hard to move into dating when you are already friends. you could just tell her that you like her more then friends and ask her out on a date. the only problem with that is she may say no and it could ruin your friendship. its a gamble you will have to...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP ME, attatchment, little brother
attatchment, little brother, playing games: Jen, Hey sweetie. How are you? I hope you are having a good day/night. I m going to be very honest with you. I think that this guy needs to make up his mind. If he tells you he only wants to be friends and then he kisses you, it is obvious that he is playing...

Teen Dating Issues: does he like me?? HELPP!, little brother, black belt
little brother, black belt, hes: I m sorry but i really couldn t tell you. It s hard to make these kind of calls when i don t know the guy. but i can say he s at least a little interested in you. If you like him, try talking to him more and getting to know him. Then just let things flow....

Teen Dating Issues: HELPP!!!, relised, useless information
relised, useless information, time commitment: Being with some one as a teenager takes a lot of effort. It takes time, commitment, and energy that most of us just don t have. Did you know that the average married couple only find twelve minutes a day to sit down and talk? If we all sat on the phones...

Teen Dating Issues: HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP, touchy feely, taking the risk
touchy feely, taking the risk, taking a risk: Rebecca- Good for you! I like to hear it when girls are doing the asking for once.. that takes a lot of confidence! Well, first, I think it s best to try to spend more time with him, and see how he reacts towards you (is he flirtatious, touchy feely,...

Teen Dating Issues: Heart Break and Depression, bad dreams, heart break
bad dreams, heart break, 9 months: Hey Christina, Okay, you really need to leave this guy. He has hurt you so so many times, and now he is cheating on his gf with you. You can t let that happen. First loves always hurt, but you need to get over him and leave him. Please, for the sake of you,...

Teen Dating Issues: Heart Broken, Want her back, speachless, differnt
speachless, differnt, rest of the week: Hey Mike, Well, if she really is bothered by you ignoring/not looking at her, then there s a good chance that she still has some feelings for you, too. I always say communication is the key, but since you ve already told her exactly how you feel, I d recommend...

Teen Dating Issues: Heartbreak, song poem, girl of my dreams
song poem, girl of my dreams, breaking my heart: it mite sound cheesy to you but you could always write something for her..a song, poem atc.! girls love that! you could also invite her to places like out in the counrty with a group of friends and take her away by herself and have a laugh! dont try anythin...

Teen Dating Issues: Height, kristel, dating advice
kristel, dating advice, restriction: Hello Kristel, How serious is your mom being when she tells you that you should date taller guys? I ask because it s rather surprising to hear that someone would want to impose such a superficial dating restriction on their daughter. I m not trying to criticize...

Teen Dating Issues: HeLp!!, good person, good friends
good person, good friends, ruin: You only have one year to go. Don t ruin something that could potentially be something amazing, just for one year. And, as well ruin yours and your mothers trust. If she suspects that you guys are messing around she won t trust you and it could delay your...

Teen Dating Issues: HeLp mE.., puppy love, friend melissa
puppy love, friend melissa, brother josh: Please ask follow ups if you need advice on the above problem still. Please talk to your parents also Please include ages and your state--- I can maybe recommend a hotline for advice. Professional help with a psychologist is needed in depression...

Teen Dating Issues: Hello, reading poems, becuse
reading poems, becuse, saterday: Without going much into the problems she had in the past, was it depression or abuse? If it was depression due to abuse, or abuse from her dad than that tells me something. Because of a divorce, I assume she has a higher chance of having depression. If you...

Teen Dating Issues: Hello, love poetry, close friends
love poetry, close friends, risk: hey, well my advice here would to be to first talk to her in a friendly way...Even though your shy take a risk because without risk there is no way of living life...and if she talks back to you make it sort of a normal routine to talk to here say hey or...

Teen Dating Issues: Hello!, treating depression, therapy session
treating depression, therapy session, guy friend: Hello, Thank you for the feedback. Please let me know how to improve my advice. Thanks sure I ll ever be able to undo them --- Remember the , Past is history. The future is what you make it mom considered that I see a counselor --- I agree you...

Teen Dating Issues: Hello John,I would really..., bottom of my heart, million things
bottom of my heart, million things, wonderful thing: Anna- Sounds like you ve got a wonderful thing happening! I wouldn t be afraid to ask him to come see you. You can politely suggest that it would be nice to see him and offer the opportunity. It sounds like he s still very fond of you so I think...

Teen Dating Issues: Hello, my name is Jennifer..., last dance, rest of the day
last dance, rest of the day, boyfriends: Hey Jennifer firsly, maybe Silina likes Shane too and she probably has a feeling that you like him. So now maybe she is trying to make you jealous. Secondly, When Shane wrote you that Will you go.. letter are u sure he meant as dates or as friends ??...

Teen Dating Issues: Hello, my name is Jennifer..., last dance, teenage years
last dance, teenage years, rest of the day: hi jennifer, i think that if shane seems to be getting close to your friend, you should move back in and remind him how much you like him. Once he sees that your interested again he will go right after you. and 25 days is plenty of time. He s given you...

Teen Dating Issues: Hello, my name is Jennifer..., longest time, last dance
longest time, last dance, rest of the day: hello jennifer, well actually, im in 8th grade as well and im 13 and to be honest with you, its not bad that you havent had a boyfriend yet. i got a boyfriend last year but he dumped me because he realized i liked someone else which i had liked for the...

Teen Dating Issues: Hello, my name is Jennifer..., last dance, rest of the day
last dance, rest of the day, boyfriends: Hey Jennifer, I am very sorry for takeing so long I have just been held up with work school an so on lol I never wait this long to answer a question its very rude of me to keep you wating but on with your question. Here it gose look don t worry what...

Teen Dating Issues: Hello, my name is Jennifer..., last dance, rest of the day
last dance, rest of the day, boyfriends: Hi Jennifer, Ok well I think you should not worry about what your friends will think of you two. They might tease you a little but if they are good friends they will come to except it. Well I think you should get his e-mail and then just ask him whom he likes...

Teen Dating Issues: Hello, ok cya, estella
ok cya, estella, girl friends: Clinton, Congrats on your graduation! College is a lot more fun than High School! Well, it is to me at least. And yes, even the experts on here need help sometimes. You should talk to Angela in person and in detail about what is going on between you...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, mutual decision, corbin
mutual decision, corbin, virginity: Hey Jessica, My only advice to you is to tell him what you told me. You need to tell him that you really really miss him and you didnt realize how much you missed him till you didnt have him. He s probably going through the same thing you are if he truly...

Teen Dating Issues: Help... followup, kiss on the lips, time don
kiss on the lips, time don, crutches: Most of the time the person you re kissing isn t going to pull away. Talk about stuff you re both interested in. Get her talking and go from there. Making out with the movies can be kind of awkward and tacky. I d suggest making out in the privacy of elsewhere...

Teen Dating Issues: Help... again, swirl, tongue
swirl, tongue, ashley: Alan - A make out can last as long as you want it to. You can swirl your tongue however you want to. Think of it as massaging her tongue with yours. You don t really move your mouth around just your lips and tongue. Does that make any sense? Ashle...

Teen Dating Issues: Help..., kisses, braces
kisses, braces, lips: Alan- Thanks for your question! If the girl doesn t pull away, enjoy the kissing and pull away if you want to. Getting alone is a challenge and I m not sure I can suggest any good place, since I don t know the environment where you live. As far as exact...

Teen Dating Issues: Help!, mental stability, second effort
mental stability, second effort, tree stump: Conor- Thanks for your question! The problem with this night is that you were drunk, therefore not in the best of mental stability. Honestly, the best thing to do is for you to talk to her one on one, no friends involved and see what could happen. ...

Teen Dating Issues: Help!, regaurdless, second effort
regaurdless, second effort, tree stump: Hey Conor, Well, heres the problem, on that night that this all happened, you were drunk. But, regaurdless of that, it seems like she does want to take you back, but doesn t want to get hurt again. I think that she kissed that one guy, after you two broke...

Teen Dating Issues: Help!, second effort, tree stump
second effort, tree stump, many thanks: Conor, In my experience, you shouldn t take anything that goes on between two people who are drunk very seriously. Because I don t know everything about your past with her, I can t tell you for sure if she really likes you again. I think it would be best...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, fish in the sea, briliant
fish in the sea, briliant, good relationship: Right, this sounds like a difficult situation right now but can be easily solved I m sure. Asking a girl out can be really hard to do, but i guess the best way to actually do it, is to just do it. It s understandable that you get nervous when you try to...

Teen Dating Issues: Help!, hot guy, family friends
hot guy, family friends, bf: Grace, First you should get to know this guy, and even then, dating can wait. Afterall your still young and have a lot to learn about the dating field. Don t be afraid to talk to a guy just because you like him. Just relax and good things will eventually...

Teen Dating Issues: Help!, goofy kid, girl at school
goofy kid, girl at school, held back: To Matt, Sorry it has taken me a bit to get onto your question. I ve been sick and haven t been able to come online much. I m happy to help you now though. Well Matt, if she s new to your school that means she s probably still a little lost and finding...

Teen Dating Issues: Help me?!!!, mistake of my life, dissapointed
mistake of my life, dissapointed, point of view: Hi George, I know you re in love, but she s hurt. She needs time to heal..still.. It might take her longer than some, but hopefully she ll come back around. Don t give up on her. Just let her know that you will always be there for her, no matter what. Hope...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, mutual decision, corbin
mutual decision, corbin, virginity: Well Jessica, they only thing you can do is to tell him how you feel. He probably feels the same way. If yall broke up on a mutual decision, then maybe yall can get back together on a mutual decision.I really hope I helped. Oh, and you may want ot wait until...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, screen name, good luck
screen name, good luck, girlfriend: Signs are they flirt, talk to you a lot, ask you to hang out maybe for your number or screen name. If you like a girl, ask them to hang out with you and maybe your friends and her group of friends. You can get to know her better and you have people to hang...

Teen Dating Issues: Help!!!, friend kelsey, birthday party
friend kelsey, birthday party, truth or dare: HI Kelsey, I m sorry this took me so long to respond, I ve been on a trip. The best idea is just to ask him to hang out and go to a movie or something sometime, so it is casual and you don t have to acutally say date and you can just see where it goes. HOpe...

Teen Dating Issues: Help!!!, perfect couple, kelsey
perfect couple, kelsey, bf: Hey Kelsey, i think you should follow your heart! Who can you see yourself with for the long run? That makes a difference! If you re not sure if this other guy likes you the way you want him to like you, maybe you should wait until you are sure. As for...

Teen Dating Issues: Help me!, love poetry, close friends
love poetry, close friends, relationship: Bill I think that for now you should get to know this girl the best you can. Become friends with her and get to know her. I think that this is the best because you say that you are not even sure that she knows you. By becoming close friends with her...

Teen Dating Issues: Help!!!, beautiful name, last hope
beautiful name, last hope, white guys: Dear Markeisha, Ok, there are a few issues that I hope I can help you with. If I understand you correctly you want tot know about Dating Parents Ethnic/Cultural issues Your Choices and Opportunities Markeisha, which by the way is a beautiful...

Teen Dating Issues: Help me, conversation starters, random subject
conversation starters, random subject, mutual friends: Hey Alice, Do you have any mutual friends with either of the guys you like? If you know anyone that they know, you could try to talk to those people and find out more about the guys - what kind of music and movies they like, what they like to do, where...

Teen Dating Issues: Help Me, one girl, savannah
one girl, savannah, best friend: Hey Taylor- Well just tell her again and let her know how you feel about her then ask her out to do something together like to hang out or something. Then just take it from there. I hope this helps if you need anything else im always here. Take Care,...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, mutual decision, corbin
mutual decision, corbin, virginity: The reason why you miss him is probably because you had intercourse with him and you knew it was a mistake and want to keep it only between you and him and if you date anyone else, it will have to be said you did it with someone else. This is why you miss...

Teen Dating Issues: Help me!, e mail address, type of girl
e mail address, type of girl, answering questions: Hello David. Yay; today I don t have as many questions as yesterday.. I was answering questions for at least 4-5 hours and today I believe it will take me maybe.. 1-2 hours.. Lets see how I can help you though if I am able to.. You say that this girl...

Teen Dating Issues: Help me let him go..., break ups, expierences
break ups, expierences, bad decisions: Jaclyn, I know I probably sound just like all of your friends that dislike this ex of yours, but I m telling you right now.....get rid of him. You don t love him. You re attracted to him, because he s a bad boy that doesn t act sensitive toward women...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, injection contraceptive, flirty
injection contraceptive, flirty, 4 months: look, guys are not the end of the world. he is not the only guy out there for you. it sounds like maybe you need to talk with a profession since you say you feel suicidal. breaking up is hard to do, i know, but there are plenty of other things in life to look...

Teen Dating Issues: Help., bros before hoes, advice comments
bros before hoes, advice comments, couple weeks: Definitely let the one you like know that you like him. If the other guy is really your friend then he will understand. Of course he may be upset, but he ll be okay. Make sure he knows that you still want to be his friend and that nothing is going to change....

Teen Dating Issues: Help, money shortage, gas money
money shortage, gas money, hardships: I would not tell you that she has no right to be angry because from your words I got a sense that you have indeed been treating her differently. However, relationships are not only about fun . If you love eachother , it is only fair that she understands what...

Teen Dating Issues: Help!, best friends, how to break up with my boyfriend
best friends, how to break up with my boyfriend, relationship: Just tell him that he has been more than great , but that you think it will not work anymore between you because he deserves someone else that wants to be in the relationship very much. After the break up , make sure he does not see you with that guy. Also...

Teen Dating Issues: Help!, better man, long time
better man, long time, worry: Don t be afraid just because she has a friend there. Just go up and say hi. I know that sounds scary and impractical but a lot of girls respect a brave approach. Just get to know ehr better man, don t worry about the girl you sued to like. Thats in the past....

Teen Dating Issues: Help, creative dates, single date
creative dates, single date, 4 months: Funny thing about creative dates, their hard to come up with. Maybe ask her what she might like to do. There s no rule saying you have to be the one to think of every single date. Tell her that you want to go out but you want to go where she what s to go....

Teen Dating Issues: Help..., one of my best friends, exact wording
one of my best friends, exact wording, male friends: Sometimes when we are so confident we lose it by just one instant display of affection for someone else. It happens, you become so cocky to the point that someone can just take that away from you. What you did was brave! Take some credit for that, it was...

Teen Dating Issues: Help me?, sexual intercourse, girlfiend
sexual intercourse, girlfiend, abdominal pains: Hi Austin, I m not sure how old both you and your girlfriend are, but if you are going to engage in sexual intercourse from this point forward, you must wear protection. As far as why she is bleeding, I doubt it s DUB. Most cases of DUB are associated with...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, mutual decision, corbin
mutual decision, corbin, virginity: Hi Jessica, I think all you can do is talk to Corbin. Explain how you feel and how much you re missing him. He obviously still cares for you, if he s still willing to go to the prom as your partner. Ask yourself why you thought breaking up was a good...

Teen Dating Issues: Help me!, freak out, ppl
freak out, ppl, aim: Ben, Hey ;) This is very common so do not freak out. You have two options: 1) You can just casually say would you like to go out to a movie? or something along those lines while you are talking to her over AIM 2) You can call her. Whichever way...

Teen Dating Issues: Help!, feelings, belief that
feelings, belief that, relationship: Alan- I m going to go out on a limb and say that she probably did not feel about you the same way that you felt about her. If in the past week you have met up and had sex 3 times and it meant nothing to her and those are the same activities that you ve...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, edis, sry
edis, sry, 4 months: Hi Nick, As far as hints go, it s easier that you are texting her. Ask her if she has met anyone while, on vacation (or wherever she is), if she likes anyone, tell her you miss her, or missing talking to her, can t wait for her to come back. The questions...

Teen Dating Issues: Help for asking a girl out., time man, alot
time man, alot, courage: She has a boyfriend Christopher. Not only would it be poor form to ask her now but it could also get you locked out forever. Give it time man. Let it play out a little more. if she does like you then she ll realize that and the boyfriend won t be around for...

Teen Dating Issues: Help I Cant Cum, medical issue, hia
medical issue, hia, puberty: Hi, Maybe you are just not into the person. Can you cum when you masturbate? How old are you? It could be that you haven t gone through puberty all the way, or have a serious medical issue that you need to get checked out ASAP. Hope that helps! Ma...

Teen Dating Issues: Help! I cant talk!, shy person, two birds
shy person, two birds, conversation starter: Sharnsi, When I was 15 I dated a girl who was 14. One of the first times she came over to my house I started getting shaky, and breathing oddly, and feeling very strange. I d never felt this feeling before and because of that it was kind of concerning....

Teen Dating Issues: Help! I cant talk!, note cards, frends
note cards, frends, arnt: Are you shy to other people or just him? Your afraid of liking him? Your not sure what to talk about? On a couple of note cards, write down notes of what you want to talk about. Whenever your mind goes blank, take a quick look at them without him seeing this....

Teen Dating Issues: Help My Daughter, daughter danielle, promise ring
daughter danielle, promise ring, alone in the dark: Deb, my name is Lauren. Well I m sure me saying he fooled you guys isn t helping. I mean all the things you were telling me as I was reading them I was in shock. I couldn t believe half the stuff as you were going. That sounds very odd to me actually what...

Teen Dating Issues: Help: dating, sophomore, girls
sophomore, girls: Hey Chris, if you don t already know her very well, start getting to know her a bit more. Take time to recognize what she likes and dislikes and then go from there. For example, if she likes movies, take her out to one. If you have never even talked to this...

Teen Dating Issues: Help with my daughter, question thanks, sex out of wedlock
question thanks, sex out of wedlock, stupid idea: Not all teens have a casual opinion of sex. I myself am in the 11th grade and still a virgin. I do have a boyfriend and we have been going out for almost 6 months yet we ve never had sex. Why, because I choose not to. My parents and family taught me at a young...

Teen Dating Issues: Help from a girl needed! Asked her out, but don't get her response., dartmouth college, thoughtful response
dartmouth college, thoughtful response, mature girl: Thanks for the fantastic rating! I truly appreciate it. :) As for your question, I don t think she s playing hard-to-get. In fact, that game is becoming outdated rather quickly. If people care for someone, they don t want to ruin their chance by turning...

Teen Dating Issues: Help needed!!, homecoming dance, wednsday
homecoming dance, wednsday, square 1: Believe it or not john, this is a good thing. A lot of couples rush into relationships with out really getting to know each other and by the time they realize they aren t really meant for each other they ve already been dating months. So this really is a good...

Teen Dating Issues: Help Please, older guys, 16 year olds
older guys, 16 year olds, barbee: If you report it, it can become illegal (the flirting) when you are talking about the older guy at the resturant are you talking around 16 or so? If so then no it is not illegal. It is not illegal for you to go out with a 16 year old just as long as they...

Teen Dating Issues: Help Please, technology class, watching the news
technology class, watching the news, sports hockey: aDAM, well it s okay and you seem to like her a lot i can tell by your writing style but firstly you need to calm down and take things a little slow- talking to a girl or asking her out doesn t have to be so difficult once you learn how to calm down and...

Teen Dating Issues: Help please?, realationship, stupid question
realationship, stupid question, good luck: you really just have to have trust in him. i know its easy to say but that is what a relationship is really based on...trust. if you know some things about this guy (like he is a player) then its probably not a good idea to date him. do you know his history?...

Teen Dating Issues: Help... please, easer, m8s
easer, m8s, rock and a hard place: I m not going to lie Mike, you really are in between a rock and a hard place here. If you like this girl Mike, then you should tell her and not care about what your friends think. But i know thats easer said then done. What you DONT want to do is let her know...

Teen Dating Issues: Help me please, college football game, sorority sisters
college football game, sorority sisters, mistake number: You are right, something like that is crazy to ignore someone over, but the fact is she isnt calling you back and that is what we need to focus on. There could be a millon reasons why she isnt calling you back and some people can get mad over the smallest...

Teen Dating Issues: Help please!, confidence thanks, weird question
confidence thanks, weird question, big hug: Taylor- I m sure you were fine at it! To tell you the truth, I ve never had a bad kiss and I ve dated several women in the past. There have been kisses that were better than others but in general, nothing bad. Just relax and enjoy your time with...

Teen Dating Issues: Help me with this plz!!!, shy girl, valid reason
shy girl, valid reason, shyness: Hi Yens. If she thinks you two are friends, like you say, then it won t be odd to ask for her phone number. Just tell her you d like to talk more. You re in your late teens it seems so you should be at a point where a crush doesn t really matter, she ll most...

Teen Dating Issues: Help me plz, wile, savannah
wile, savannah, girls: Hey Brian- Well just try to stay in contact with her like talking to her and so on but try not to be with her every min and trying to talk to her every second you ve got. Then when things start to get back to where they were just tell her how much you...

Teen Dating Issues: Help... THE SEX IS BAD!!!, ready sex, best bet
ready sex, best bet, honest answer: There are a number of reasons why this could be happening. I can tell you that it is more common than you would expect. Using lubrication could easily solve this if you already don t. Try using more, and make sure there is foreplay and build up. Too fast...

Teen Dating Issues: Help with Sex, how to get an orgasm, orgasam
how to get an orgasm, orgasam, s books: check out this link http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0966492439/ref=pd_ts_c_th_2/104-4142749-7334368?n=4754&s=books&v=glance i think its possible for anyone to have an orgasm but something not allowing that to happen for you. it could alot of things....

Teen Dating Issues: Help for Teenage Son, james windell, smooth talker
james windell, smooth talker, son tyler: Hi, Fighting is never the answer. Can I ask have you spoke to his parents about this? Can I recommend James Windell Parenting Teen expert. It seems like he wants attention. As I m not a psychologist I won t label any terms on him. It s possible it s an attention...

Teen Dating Issues: Help!, seperate ways, separate ways
seperate ways, separate ways, best of luck: Angie, It seems to me like your Ex wants to end the relationship. He wants to keep you close by in case he starts missing the elements of a relationship, in which case he will have you there for him. So in a sense, he is using you. You should not put...

Teen Dating Issues: Helping him cheat :/, girlfreind, freinds
girlfreind, freinds, freind: I m gonna say this really blunt because i think you need to hear it. He s using you. The fact that he s cheating on his girlfriend with other girls besides you proves that. He s using you and you need to break things off with him really you do. If you don...

Teen Dating Issues: Helping A Friend, togeather, going to college
togeather, going to college, rachelle: Well maybe once she goes away to college he ll realize what hes lost and want her back. Although, theres always the chance that that won t happen. Tell her to try and stay positive and not dwell on it, just tell her to enjoy the relationship as of right now,...

Teen Dating Issues: Hey, one nite, summer camp
one nite, summer camp, ups: Hello, If you want to include ages and how you met(was it the camp?) as well as a drop more information about the problem at hand(how did it really start, was it really the word that started it), I will be glad to try to help. My advice is ask in our problems...

Teen Dating Issues: Hey ashley, well u see there..., girl at school, pretty girl
girl at school, pretty girl, couple of days: Chris - Get to know her and start talking to her and then ask her for her number but don t call her every day. Start calling her every couple of days. Maybe twice a week at the most. You don t want to be too eager until you get to know her better. ...

Teen Dating Issues: Hey Chris... please help, question pool, girl friend
question pool, girl friend, ups: How old are you all? You knew this friend only from the internet? Be careful online? Made out? Talk to a doctor about the risks and be tested. Remember safety. Ok the question is why do you like your girl friend and why did you like her? Please ask follow...

Teen Dating Issues: Hey...very confused, close friends, good luck
close friends, good luck, friendship: hey steven, hmm... from what you ve told me, i do think that your crush likes you back. but sometimes girls don t want to come off as easy or too accessible. even if they like the guy and the guy makes a move, girls want to hold off a bit and play it cool...

Teen Dating Issues: Hey...First, I would like..., having dreams, first few days
having dreams, first few days, sweet messages: Hi, well yo are in a difficult situation,and i know you are stressed and you are willing to do whatever, to keep the relationship going all of this on his part could be a few things, its a possibility his eye could be on someone welse god forgid ,he could...

Teen Dating Issues: Hey...First, I would like..., having dreams, first few days
having dreams, first few days, sweet messages: hmm....maybe u should check out what this sweet talker is doin, maybe next time he calls just to check up u should bring up a convorsation topic and see what he does...and if you get into a serious convo bring up about how uve been having these bad dreams...

Teen Dating Issues: Hey jc! My bf and broke up..., commited relationship, religious convictions
commited relationship, religious convictions, smart girl: Hi Nicole, I think that you are the only one who can answer that question and it sounds to me like you ve already answered it. If you want to be with this new guy and it feels right, then it is. If you weren t ready, you would feel more nervous around him...

Teen Dating Issues: Hey Nicole,I knew this girl..., shy talk, modivation
shy talk, modivation, conversation tips: Marty, Hello. The best thing for you to do is hang out with her enough to get comfortable with her. You can start conversations by asking how her day is going. Just try to open up. You see that being shy is causing a problem, so try not to feel shy around...

Teen Dating Issues: Hey! Ok so for the past year..., t rush, fish in the sea
t rush, fish in the sea, great girl: Hey April, Heh dreams sometimes they come true sometimes they don t its up to you for that dream to come true. Well the only way your going to find out if he is the right guy for you is to talk to him an get to know him alittle better now don t rush...

Teen Dating Issues: Hey! Ok so for the past year..., t rush, true feelings
t rush, true feelings, shy guy: Hey April, Good news! The fact the you two will be working together is the perfect opportunity you need to strike up something with this guy. It will be obvious to him that you like him and likewise with you if he shares your feelings. It s really hard...

Teen Dating Issues: so it would be ok to hang..., school gym, couple days
school gym, couple days, rehearsal: I wouldn t see it as living in the past as long as both of you are comfortable with your relationship. You can do whatever you want. I have no way of knowing if she still likes you since I don t know her at all. If you want to ask her to the prom, then...

Teen Dating Issues: Hey, realation, acting this way
realation, acting this way, mintues: Hey Ivett- Well I can t really tell you if he s playing you or not. Really the only way your going to find out is if you talk to him about it. Try to get him to talk to you in person instead of the phone. Just tell him you really need to talk to him and...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi there,I am about to..., light kisses, two flowers
light kisses, two flowers, girlfrend: congrats! i think it depends on the girl. maybe start by holding her hand and see how she reacts. if you think she likes it then put your arm around her. maybe give her a kiss or two. flowers are always a nice thing to get unless you know of something she...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi there,I am about to..., light kisses, girlfrend
light kisses, girlfrend, dating tips: If you got through the first step of asking her out, you know she likes you. Now, knowing this, why act like someone else? The point is she wants you to be you. It is normal to be a drop afraid on a first date, yet you need to face this fear. About where to...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi again., relationship change, wasting your time
relationship change, wasting your time, lovey: Dear Ray, If she has changed than why do you want to be with her? She is treating you poorly so you should really try to move on from her, even though it s tough. The two of you want different things which can lead to an unstable relationship. Change can...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi, girl stealer, couger
girl stealer, couger, xxxxx: Haha, okay. Well, I hate to say it, but you can t do anything until they break up. You dont want to break them up and get the name of girl stealer thats one reputation you DONT have to build for yourself in school. Okay? Trust me on this one. Just wait until...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi,This is Angelina again...., angelina, diva
angelina, diva, confirmation: hey Angel, well sorry about the internet messing up, it sent ur question twice. but theres not much i can really say to help you. wish i could though. just dont believe anything that sounds unbelievable. this guy sounds like hes trying to be important. i m...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi, i am not sure if you answer....., friend hope, acception
friend hope, acception, freind: hey alex, Don t be her servant. Think of it like this you never know what you got till its gone. i know its hard but do what you can to forget that you love her and treat her as just a plain friend. It s possible that she likes this other guy cause she...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi, I dont know what to get..., cute kiss, hallmark store
cute kiss, hallmark store, kiss kiss: I think it would be a good idea, but just dont get her a cd and a card...girls love to get roses or even those cute kiss kiss bears from the hallmark store for valentines day it doesnt matter what kind of girl u are i know that all girls love to get that kind...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi again, this is longish, friend courtney, trust issue
friend courtney, trust issue, seperate ways: Hey Matt, I do remember you and hope that I can be helpful again. I don t think Courtney is playing with you; sometimes people act differently when they re around their friends or in certain areas, especially public places. When you guys are together outside...

Teen Dating Issues: HiI'm in desperate need..., taking a turn, family emergency
taking a turn, family emergency, romantic weekend: Move on. Don t be his friend. A friend doesn t do things like this to you. I see your very mad about this and basically the only advice I have is be an adult and move on. He s not an adult, yet you I can see are. I am sorry, that s all I have. Good luck and...

Teen Dating Issues: HiI'm in desperate need..., taking a turn, family emergency
taking a turn, family emergency, romantic weekend: It sounds like he s making more out of his relationship that what is really there. It could be just a ploy to make you jealous. He sounds very clingy and insecure. Right now I would keep him as a friend and think about dating someone else. If you want...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi,I just wanted to let..., weird feeling, family emergency
weird feeling, family emergency, saying things: Angelina, I think you made the right decision. Just stand firm and do not fold if he calls you again. If he was a true friend he would not treat you like this. I m sorry you had to go through this. You will feel so much better in a few days/weeks. I...

Teen Dating Issues: HiI'm in desperate need..., taking a turn, family emergency
taking a turn, family emergency, romantic weekend: hey, well this guy sounds like he has issues. i see no point in continuing being his friend if he is going to treat you like he owns you. hes being rude and inconsiderate and very selfish. that was very selfish of him to bitch at you because u have a family...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi there I'm SO glad I've..., oppertunity, age of consent
oppertunity, age of consent, having an affair: The first thing i would check on is the age of consent for where you are located. you want to make sure that if you get into a relationship with an older women that it is ok legally. if it is then i say go for it! it sounds like you must have stuff in commen...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi, it's matt. I have a question., friend jess, couple problems
friend jess, couple problems, th grade: While I thank you for the feedback, for it will help create more people who come to me for advice, please understand I took the advice from you and gave it back to you. You admitted you knew what the problem was and the solution. But, I ask questions sometimes...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi my names alan i am aged..., good friend, feelings
good friend, feelings, belief that: Hi Alan, Well, seeing as she just wants a good friend instead of a boyfriend, all you can really do is just be that good friend, until she is ready for a boyfriend. Tell her that, let her know that you will be there for her and that you love her. It will...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi AGAIN, Please help. (Little long), seperate ways, real fight
seperate ways, real fight, guy friends: Hey Matt, Yes, I remember you, and I hope that I m able to help you out again. I know that you re very emotional right now, but keep in mind that Courtney is still your girlfriend; if preserving your relationship with her is the most important thing to...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi there, I have a problem...., great kisser, many thanks
great kisser, many thanks, good friend: Conor - If you break them up you ll hate yourself forever. It s better to wait the relationship out and then move in. Maybe you only want her because your friend is dating her. Did you ever consider that? You turned her down when you had the chance...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi there, I have a problem...., many thanks, good friend
many thanks, good friend, good luck: I do not know why you said no to her last time, yet this time you are going to have to keep your feelings to your self for a drop of time. Why? You may want to date her because your friend is dating her. Your friend is going on a date with her right now. If...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi again.I REALLY need you're help with this Long-question, friend rachael, friend nicole
friend rachael, friend nicole, tuesday morning: Hello Matt, This is your friend Dan. Your question is on the question pool and taking up space. The question should have been removed yet Allexperts does not have an easy way to do this. For this I am declining it this way. If you have any questions please...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi again; An uncommon question., uncommon question, allexperts
uncommon question, allexperts, male teen: Hey Matt, I do remember you, but your summary helped refresh my memory, and I m glad to know that my last response was helpful. To answer your first question, yes, it is very common for people in relationships (both men and women) to find actors/actresses,...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi, niece and nephew, all sorts
niece and nephew, all sorts, clock: Dear M, don t think you re rude at all. I m here to help you not the other way around. Thanks for the wishes though and I hope your holiday was great, joyful whatever you say too. See, I don t know EVERYTHING! As to my family, we are wonderful. My niece...

Teen Dating Issues: High School Dating, maturity levels, age gap
maturity levels, age gap, background information: Steven - I would say that you re going to run into some issues later down the road because of the age gap. Where you re at maturity wise probably isn t where she s at maturity wise. You ll be going off to college in a year and she still has 3 more years...

Teen Dating Issues: High school, first kiss, spur of the moment
first kiss, spur of the moment, first dates: No sixteen is not too late to have your first kiss. Your first kiss is suppose to be a spur of the moment thing with someone who you really like.it can happen aytime. People who harrass you about it just wanna make you feel bad, don t take them on they don...

Teen Dating Issues: Hm typical love stuff, long distance relationships, teen problem
long distance relationships, teen problem, east europe: Hi Lana, So you re in love with a guy half way across the globe who doesn t have a clue you have feelings for him right? Well, it seems to me that if you truly have feelings for him than it seems right to tell him the truth. I realize that you don t have...

Teen Dating Issues: Hmmm...yep I'm hopeless, deep feelings, beautiful friendship
deep feelings, beautiful friendship, paticular: Good question! I can tell from you re question that you re very mature for your age. Usually, in high school, people really do the Hey, will you go out with me? ordeal and that works just fine. (I ll come back to this.) Going out, Dating, and ...

Teen Dating Issues: Holiday girl, long distance relationships, holiday romances
long distance relationships, holiday romances, holiday girl: Adam all I can tell you is summer romances or holiday romances in general do not work most of the time. Long distance relationships are farfetched and 5 hours away is VERY long distance. The other point is this girl s boyfriend. I do not understand what she...

Teen Dating Issues: Homecoming, having a good time, today is monday
having a good time, today is monday, homecoming: Don t worry about the followup; it s what I m here for. Anyway, yeah, I think going as friends might be a good idea, and I mean, Homecoming is a good place to try and transform a friends relationship to a more-than-friends one. Good luck. Jeff : ...

Teen Dating Issues: Homecoming Turndown, homecoming dance, grade girl
homecoming dance, grade girl, turndown: Cynthia- Thanks for your question! In order to politely turn down a guy, you need to be sensitive, especially at this age. Just simply say, thanks for the offer but I m not interested in going. It s strong and to the point. Say it as nicely as possible....

Teen Dating Issues: How Can I Be Sure He's Honest?, long distance relationship, studying in america
long distance relationship, studying in america, honest question: Hello again Desirae. Thanks for the Follow-Up with a little more information. It s almost 3:00a.m. right now and I have a few questions I haven t answered yet because I ve been busy/gone half the day. I just got home a while ago actually. So before I go...

Teen Dating Issues: Hopeless Romantic?, charity work, basketball games
charity work, basketball games, attractive person: Be yourself. You described your personality to be outgoing and friendly, I m sure you can incorporate that into your introducing yourself to him. Maybe ask him for his e-mail, his number? Someways to catch his attention is eye contact. Look him dead in eyes...

Teen Dating Issues: Hott for love, sexy beast, blue balls
sexy beast, blue balls, da bomb: hey mike, i feel sweet to be da bomb. thanks. but on to your question. okay first off why would you want to get back together with someone who got tired of you? that means she can t accept you for who you are. and if you looking to change into some wild man...

Teen Dating Issues: Hurt and Confused, cute girls, being friends
cute girls, being friends, out of the blue: Hey Katie, I m sorry to hear that you re going through this difficult situation right now. In my opinion, his first set of reasons seems mostly like B.S.; they re the kinds of things you say to someone when you can t (or simply don t want to) tell the truth....

Teen Dating Issues: Hurt feelings, time crush, ocassionally
time crush, ocassionally, being friends: I think he is just probably confused. He doesn t know if u like him as more than a friend and knows for sure that this girl does, even though she has a b/f. He doesn t know how to go about acting round you now that he has been hanging out with her and not...

Teen Dating Issues: what happened?, boy friend, bf
boy friend, bf, jerk: Hey there, Sorry, I ve been in Edmonton. Anyways, this always happens in relationships. You two have been dating for nearly a year and that s a long time. It s natural for this to be happening. It s nothing wrong with you and there isn t anything wrong with...

Teen Dating Issues: what happened?, yr boyfriend, girl at school
yr boyfriend, girl at school, fri: Brian, Well she probably did what she did because she does not get the attention she wants from her 2 yr boyfriend. she hardly gets to see him, so you come along the line and she finds her self attracted to you because you give her all the attention and caring...

Teen Dating Issues: What is happening??, family birthdays, dear max
family birthdays, dear max, different sports: Hi, I wouldn t get involved with this one. She seems like she doesn t know what she wants and very indesicive. Try moving on to another one, because giving the wrong phone number is bs. I don t think you want to call her at home, it s kind of creapy if she...

Teen Dating Issues: What is happening??, family birthdays, different sports
family birthdays, different sports, social studies class: i would not call her at home if she didnt give you that number. wait and talk to her at school. maybe she just wants to be friends. pull back and just be casual with her and say hello and stuff like that. i would not ask her out anymore. wait for her to make...

Teen Dating Issues: What happens now?, hole thing, second opinion
hole thing, second opinion, amount of time: Hey Frank- Well really sounds to me that she maybe confused about her feelings. I mean after 2 yrs you finally tell her and all and shes probably really surprised about the hole thing. So give her time but still talk to her about it and everything. Maybe...

Teen Dating Issues: Does she like me? or hate me? haha, chemistry class, outgoing guy
chemistry class, outgoing guy, sophmore: Alex, Well see this is a very interesting question. I don t really believe that she hates you i mean if she hated you would she be laughing at your jokes, and still enjoy sitting with you everytime for class? May be she does really like you and don t know...

Teen Dating Issues: i hate my life., boyfriend girlfriend, strong feeling
boyfriend girlfriend, strong feeling, committment: Ok, well, sorry this took so long. I wouldn t say she broke up with you for a good reason. There are hardly ever any GOOD reasons for breaking up with someone. A lot of people would say that middle school and high school is too early to REALLY...

Teen Dating Issues: I hate this about myself., kick push by lupe fiasco, lupe fiasco
kick push by lupe fiasco, lupe fiasco, trophy girl: well i dont look down on you for being 13 because i could tell from the beggining you are intelligent. and i know how it feels seriously. but it could go 50/50 seriously u might like him so much because you are use to dating so many guys and ur not used...

Teen Dating Issues: I haven't seen my boyfriend in 2 weeks. HELP!, close friends, whole time
close friends, whole time, milestone: Hey there, Okay, you and him have just passed a major milestone in your relationship and you re freaked out about it. BUT! If you have checked with his family members and they say he is okay, chances are, he s okay. Just give him a few days and if he still...

Teen Dating Issues: heart beating fast...and i think im in love, places to go on a date, friend tony
places to go on a date, friend tony, best friend: if your friend is no longer dating her then i think its ok to ask her out. its not like your friend was dating for a long time either. at 12 there is not a lot of places to go on a date. maybe the movies? or to the mall? or to get some ice cream? how does...

Teen Dating Issues: heart break, new girl friend, taking your mind
new girl friend, taking your mind, heart break: Hi Holly. The best thing to do right now is taking your mind off of him. Realize the bad in him, he s immature and is playing childish mind games with you. There is no reason for him to act like that. You deserve so much better. Try not to think about him...

Teen Dating Issues: heart break, new girl friend, heart break
new girl friend, heart break, few days: you have dated for over a year and have only been broken up for a few days now? your not going to get over him that quickly. unfortunantly it will take time. try and hang out with friends and even find someone to date just to get your mind off him. eventually...

Teen Dating Issues: heart broken, dimitri, gf
dimitri, gf, alot: Will, At 16 years old it s really hard to know if you re in love and be in love. As soon as she moves away, knowing you cannot see her again, you should break contact for a little while to get used to not having her, than I would look for someone...

Teen Dating Issues: heartbreak (maybe), aggressive girls, basketball team
aggressive girls, basketball team, rallys: I don t know if he likes you more than a friend, but it sounds like he does find you fun to talk with. It sounds like you have a big crush on this guy, but he may just be seeing you as a friend for now. If you want to impress him, you have to put yourself...

Teen Dating Issues: heartbroken :(, time heals, jerks
time heals, jerks, important things: Well, relationships are important in the young life. It teaches us important things for the future, it gives lets us experience. I wouldn t worry too much, although it could be devestating. Time heals all, although it may not seem like that right now. Even...

Teen Dating Issues: heartbroken x, everyday of my life, honest opinion
everyday of my life, honest opinion, jerk: Hi Lindsey. My honest opinion of Harry is that he is a jerk. He lead you on and made it seem like he liked you and just used you for sex. You need to stay strong and stop talking to him for a while. He doesn t deserve you AT ALL. Just remember that you are...

Teen Dating Issues: What the heck do I do know?!?, acting this way, little friends
acting this way, little friends, bus trip: Brie, I am sorry you are having to go through this. You might have reacted in an immature way, but you have every right to be mad. I honestly think that you and him need to sit down and have a talk. You need to tell him exactly how you feel about the entire...

Teen Dating Issues: I am in hell.. i love her so much!!, smses, jealousy
smses, jealousy, girlfriend: Hey there, Okay, first off, if you guys read each others texts, then there definetly is some trust issues there. And a relationship is built off trust, you have to have a strong foundation to go somewhere. You re right, if you two are meant to be together,...

Teen Dating Issues: hello, vibe, joke
vibe, joke: Hello, Hmmm, well, if hes stuck up, then you get the vibe where he is like: I m hot and too cool for you. Then stay away from that guy. If he is quiet and timid, then that usually means he is shy and you have to take it slow. Try to ask him questions about...

Teen Dating Issues: hello, miss kitty, little smile
miss kitty, little smile, dead giveaway: hEY MISS KITTY WELL HOW TO TELL OKAY IF HES SHY HE LL MOST LIKELY HAVE THIS TYPE OF PERSONALITY: These are tough to crack sometimes... He ll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he s looking the other way. You may feel like he s watching...

Teen Dating Issues: hello, miss kitty, jumping to conclusions
miss kitty, jumping to conclusions, joke: Dear Miss Kitty, Well if you notice hes flirting or talking to a wide range of people then he could be stuck up. But at the same time, its the worst thing you can do to just assume someone is mean. You should talk to him and get to know him before jumping...

Teen Dating Issues: hello, nice girl, first date
nice girl, first date, myspace: Hey Soheil- Well really I wouldn t try anything just yet on your first date. I mean your saying you really don t know her and all so just get to know her on this date and then take it from there. Also I think it would be okay if you brought flowers. Also...

Teen Dating Issues: hello... i hope you can help..., seven months, good luck
seven months, good luck, relationship: It seems to me like your having a problem with him. I don t know how this new feeling started, yet it is important to find out. If you don t repair this feeling, you shouldn t date him longer. So either try to repair this feeling or move on. You may feel this...

Teen Dating Issues: hello... i hope you can help..., seven months, love
seven months, love: hi mandy, your probably young and i think its ok to not be tied down to one guy right now. i dont know how much you have dated in your past but if it hasnt been much then date other guys. you dont want to end up getting married to this guy and then wish...

Teen Dating Issues: hello, miss kitty, bf
miss kitty, bf, good luck: Hey Miss.Kitty. Thanks for getting in touch. I will try and help the best I can. It sounds to me like you re just not ready for a relationship. Please don t think there is something wrong with you just because you don t want a boyfriend. It doesn t make...

Teen Dating Issues: hellp me asap, ovulation prediction kits, ovulation prediction kit
ovulation prediction kits, ovulation prediction kit, predicting ovulation: Hello Sanchez, Let me start by saying that I m somewhat skeptical as to the seriousness of this question. But just in case it IS a serious question, I ll proceed. If you are trying to get pregnant, there are certain things you can do that will help increase...

Teen Dating Issues: help, eachother, jerks
eachother, jerks, couple of days: hey i think you need to give this guy his space. if he is already involved in a relationship then you shud give it alot of time... you even need your time ti figure out why you are being hurt. its not entirly your fault as to why you are being hurt because...

Teen Dating Issues: help!!!, chat webcams, mommy and daddy
chat webcams, mommy and daddy, sweet messages: Good question. First let me say I understand your parents may be hard with rules, yet there are reasons for this. They care about you and this is how they show it. They may not need to be that hard, yet that s another story. I know you know what an emotion...

Teen Dating Issues: help!!!, chat webcams, mommy and daddy
chat webcams, mommy and daddy, sweet messages: Angelina - I think you need to let this guy go and cut off all contact with him. He sounds kind of sketchy and chances are he s not who he says he is. People online like to lie about who they really are and several girls have died from meeting their ...

Teen Dating Issues: help no one can, current boyfriend, old boyfriend
current boyfriend, old boyfriend, 7 months: hi, it sounds like he probably likes you but i think you need to just ask him. invite him over if you want. i think that would be a good way to talk to him more. maybe ask him out on a date and see what he says. that would be a great way to see if he likes...

Teen Dating Issues: help, vaginal secretions, genital herpes
vaginal secretions, genital herpes, body fluids: Aly - Yes, if he has AIDS it can be transmitted from body fluids like saliva and your vaginal secretions. If he has cold sores when he goes down on you he can give you genital herpes, which can t be cured with medication. Do you go down on him? Because...

Teen Dating Issues: help, short answer, genitals
short answer, genitals, spit: Hi, my name is Lauren. Well...this is kind of a short answer. You can get std s if he has performed it on a girl WHO has that STD. It s not from his spit it s from his mouth. And the only thing I would tell you is...find out if any of his ORAL partners have...

Teen Dating Issues: help, angelina angelina, late august
angelina angelina, late august, ashley: Angelina - I can t figure that out either. It s like he s trying to tell you that there s something about him that should make you hate him or that he s not worthy of you wanting to be friends with him. It really doesn t make any sense. But until you...

Teen Dating Issues: help, girl worth, grade 9
girl worth, grade 9, 4 months: Tyler- Here s the simple yet difficult to actually carry out, solution. When the time is right, go up to her and talk to her. Start with that first step, and go from there. Invite her to do something and if she agrees, then you are on your way. If not,...

Teen Dating Issues: help, sweet dreams, true love
sweet dreams, true love, bf: Ivett, If he doesn t say he loves you back then don t tell him you love him. This is one of those things that the don t make yourself too available rule applies to. Don t make such a big deal out of him saying he loves you or not. He probably just...

Teen Dating Issues: help, girl hugs, hallways
girl hugs, hallways, lol: That is pretty hard to say. If she does that to other guys when she hugs them, then no is doesnt mean anything. If she only does that to you, then she is mostly likely intrested. Tthen again, people do that a lot when they are passing by each other in hallways...

Teen Dating Issues: help, growth spurt, flat shoes
growth spurt, flat shoes, embarresment: im glad you like my advice :-) if hes only just 16 chances are hes still got a growth spurt to go. have alook at his family, see if his fathers tall. if he is then hang in there the guy will prob grow up to be taller. if his parents are short then he might...

Teen Dating Issues: help, t rush, own time
t rush, own time, savannah: Hey Sam- Well take it slow you two just met. Don t rush into things if it was meant to be then it will happen at its own time. So just take it slow and just be his friend for right now... Now if he likes you then you will know just by the way he s acting....

Teen Dating Issues: Can you help me?, touchy feely, darlene
touchy feely, darlene, boundaries: hey tiffany. i so feel you on this question. getting ovver your ex if u really care about him is a hard thi ng to do. im still working on totally getting over my ex and its been a year!! but as for your question.. have you been open and honest with this...

Teen Dating Issues: help, psychology area, t rush
psychology area, t rush, dance practices: She shouldn t rush to get back to together with you right now in my mind due to a number of factors. You don t understand what love is, you mean like, right? I recommend having her talk to a psychologist. This could help remove the stress. Please ask Alan...

Teen Dating Issues: help, dance practices, personal advice
dance practices, personal advice, car wreck: Hey I m sorry to hear about this. My advice to you two would be to deffinately try and work it out which it sounds like yall are doing. My personal advice to you though is to give her some space right now...talk to her and let you know you still love her...

Teen Dating Issues: help, dance practices, car wreck
dance practices, car wreck, evenings: Cody, She sounds like she cares about you. You just have to let her know that you care about her and it s up to her to decide what she wants and that you will respect whatever decision she makes. If she feels the same way about you, then things should...

Teen Dating Issues: help, dance practices, car wreck
dance practices, car wreck, best of luck: Hey Cody. Thanks for getting in touch, I will try and help the best I can. Maybe you and your girlfriend should stay on a break in your relationship just until your girlfriend is sure about things, and is much less confused. Because it sounds as though...

Teen Dating Issues: help, dance practices, time hope
dance practices, time hope, car wreck: Hi Cody! The only thing you can do is be there for her, and let her know that you are here to help whenever she needs you. She s going through a tough time, and may need time alone to figure some things out. She ll come back around eventually, just don t...

Teen Dating Issues: help, dance practices, car wreck
dance practices, car wreck, evenings: Hey there, Hmm, well, just be there for her. Be supportive, not clingy. Give her room to figure things out when she needs it, but also be there for her to cry on and talk to. Be her boyfriend, but more importantly, be her friend. Okay? Best wishes to the...

Teen Dating Issues: help, dance practices, car wreck
dance practices, car wreck, breathing space: sounds like your doing what you should. i would not preasure her anymore to get back together. just let her know you are there for her and are supportive of her. keep just enough distance from her to give her her breathing space but make sure you are visible...

Teen Dating Issues: help, dance practices, car wreck
dance practices, car wreck, evenings: Hey Cody- Well just let her take her time. If she feels rushed then she will end up just getting back together with you or something like that and she wouldnt be happy. So just let her take her time on this and also just let her know your there for her....

Teen Dating Issues: help, hallway
hallway: hey, your height should never be an issue when it comes to dating and love!!! your height is your height and thats it. you can t change it. your judging him because of his height and you are so worried about what other people thing that y ou won t let...

Teen Dating Issues: help, dance practices, car wreck
dance practices, car wreck, evenings: Well your off to a good start by saying you ll support her. Just explain to her that you ll be there for her, and you ll have paitence since you understand how hectic her life is. Let her have time to figure everything out, and most likely she ll come back...

Teen Dating Issues: help, dance practices, eeds
dance practices, eeds, positive thoughts: Cody, I agree on you being supportive to her, that is the best way to go, because she has so many things going on inside and out do not rush her into anything, take your time with her, eventhough you guys are gonna be a couple be her friend, the one who...

Teen Dating Issues: help, dance practices, great relationship
dance practices, great relationship, car wreck: Dear Cody, Youve got such a great relationship with her and it sounds like you guys really could last a long time. All I think she needs for you to do is be there for her when she calls and let her know your my her side. Dont let her slip away from...

Teen Dating Issues: help, dance practices, car wreck
dance practices, car wreck, evenings: Cody - You need to keep being supportive because that s what she needs right now. She s going through hard times and she needs someone to keep supporting her and be her friend. I m sure you can make it through this, just be strong and let her know that...

Teen Dating Issues: help me, good luck, hell
good luck, hell, heart: Well first off you should know that love isn t always fair. Maybe if she hasn t reacted to it, and you two don t really talk she just isn t as into you and you are to her. I think the best way is to avoid her, so you have time to let go.. but just listen to...

Teen Dating Issues: help, savannah
savannah: Hey Aly- Well before you do that just ask your friend again whether or not she s okay with you asking him out. Tell her to be honest with you because you plan on asking him out if she s okay with it. If she says she s okay with it then that s when you...

Teen Dating Issues: help, respiration system, short term memory
respiration system, short term memory, great grandmother: This is going to be a big question, just warning you now. --- Thanks. :(. Nah, I am OK with long questions. I just have a longer delay with handling them sometimes. Right now is not busy and you are lucky for that reason. Lets see if I can help you out....

Teen Dating Issues: help, realtionship, cuse
realtionship, cuse, school dance: Jorje, Thanks for getting in touch, I will try and help as much as I can. Personally, I think that maybe just for the time being, you could take a break. It s all really hard on both of you now, with her parents and all the pressure for school grades and...

Teen Dating Issues: help, adam and eve, time cuz
adam and eve, time cuz, stupid things: Nakita, You probably shouldn t tell him how you feel. It would be much better if you just flirted with him in a playful way. As long as you can talk to each other easily and you have a good time together, then things should start to get more serious. If...

Teen Dating Issues: help me out, hallway, good luck
hallway, good luck: Hey Miss. Jay, Believe it or not ive had the exact same problem over the exact same issue. But i have a question for you, if you already hold his hand, what would change if you were going out? well besides the title. Apparently you like this guy a lot,...

Teen Dating Issues: help, good sense of humor, heart to heart
good sense of humor, heart to heart, sense of humor: Kathryn, You don t need to know for sure if he likes you. You just said that you DID know for sure, but even if you didn t, the only way you can get an idea about what this guy is all about is if you TALK to him. You get him to notice you by showing him...

Teen Dating Issues: help, one of my best friends, boyfriend matt
one of my best friends, boyfriend matt, silent moment: Dear Chelsea, Do not think you age is insignificant. God can do anything He wants in anyone that is willing, no matter what the age, gender, culture, or any other demographic that humanity has assigned to people. You age is important to the Lord, and...

Teen Dating Issues: =], true connections, complex person
true connections, complex person, serious relationship: I just got your other email. The site requires me to reply to all emails, even if there is no question. So I have to reply to this one, and then the one you just sent in. Try and make sure there s a question in each one, or I have to reply back with an empty...

Teen Dating Issues: help, savannah
savannah: Hey Aaron- Well just talk about anything that maybe going on that day or just anything really. I mean there s always stuff to talk about. Like how he day was and how she s doing things like that. When you ask her out just be honest with her and let her...

Teen Dating Issues: help, second chance, gf
second chance, gf, jerk: Hey Matt, I think the best course of action would be to simply tell her, preferably in person, exactly how you feel. Explain to her that you really like her but didn t want to act presumptuous by kissing her at the party, and apologize (if you feel it s...

Teen Dating Issues: help, jeb, mona
jeb, mona, hasn: Well jeb throughout life whether or not welike it there are people who will turn us down, whether it s in a harsh way or gently but there s no need to get depressed about it yes the way she did it was harsh and wrong but all you gotta do is suck it up and...

Teen Dating Issues: help, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, school trip: Dear Matt, A girl just like a guy may like more than one person. Her boyfriend isn t there with her, take my word for it, long distance relationships NEVER LAST at this age. She must find you interesting and enjoy your company to be behaving like...

Teen Dating Issues: help me, school trip, close friends
school trip, close friends, good friends: Dear Matt, I think she may have just been friendly flirting and not even knowing she was doing it. What is flirting to some people maybe be not flirting to others, it really just depends on the person. But if she has metioned to you about her boyfriend than...

Teen Dating Issues: help!, fear of rejection, jeff k
fear of rejection, jeff k, time is of the essence: you have to prepare yourself for what she might say. there is nothing magical i can say to you to help you get over rejection. you just have to prepare for it. think about what you want to say to her a head of time. think about how the conversation will go...

Teen Dating Issues: help !, gunshot, leukemia
gunshot, leukemia, nightmare: listen , i strongly reccomend you to not let him down , specially right now when he s going through a big nightmare. It ll be a gunshot to his head if you let him down now , when he passes through these disease ... ask me again how to break up with him without...

Teen Dating Issues: help!, honest truth, sandi
honest truth, sandi, having sex: i believe once you turn 18 then it would be illegal to have sex with her. if your not planning on ever having sex till she turns 18 then i think its ok. but i would still be very careful. if you get in a fight and she decides to accuse you of raping her then...

Teen Dating Issues: can you help me, worst case scenario, two different things
worst case scenario, two different things, shy person: Hey Wak, Like you, I ve been pretty shy around girls myself in the past, so I understand how you feel. I would agree that there is no such thing as love at first sight ...LUST at first sight maybe, and intense infatuation maybe, but not true love. On the...

Teen Dating Issues: help!, good luck
good luck: well Lara, the first step would be just to get him to know who you are. Introduce your self to him at this camp or something, ask him to do something with you there. Just get to become friends with him and who knows maybe by the time this dance rolls along...

Teen Dating Issues: help, helpfulness, long time
helpfulness, long time: Hello Lara. Well; as much as I would love to help, can I possibly ask and recieve more details about you two?. Such as; -how old each of you are, -where/how you met this guy, -where you see him, -why you believe that he don t know you exist, -and anything...

Teen Dating Issues: help, billy ray cyrus, time love and tenderness
billy ray cyrus, time love and tenderness, armenian school: Hello again Lara. Okay; thanks for answering my questions.. I ll see if I can help now. It s not much of a long or detailed question but lets see what I can do.. So are you actually WANTING to forget about him and give it up already before it really...

Teen Dating Issues: help, teen advice, e mail
teen advice, e mail, expert advice: Hello Lara. I m not sure if this is a question; but I want to help you for future too, so I ll treat it like one.. Lets see.. Actually: I ll throw in a couple things, and I ll let our Experts deal with this shyness problem. My Advice: #1- Just...

Teen Dating Issues: help, mad cause, 7 months
mad cause, 7 months, good luck: Hey Rachel, Okay you really need to sit down with your boyfriend and re-evaluate what you two are getting from this relationship. Obviously the mom is a bit in the way so you both need to talk about that and see what you guys are going to do to work around...

Teen Dating Issues: help, stupid answer, adivce
stupid answer, adivce, jokster: Tia, Dating the other person may not be a bad idea, you re playing the jelousy game which works most of the time, on the other hand you may hurt the person that you re dating, don t date him for this reason alone, at least pretend like you re giving...

Teen Dating Issues: help, coffee date, new girlfriend
coffee date, new girlfriend, couple time: Hey Angel, well i would think just dont listen to anything he tells you that doesn t sound real. not much i can tell you to do really, just hes going to forget his lyes and thats when u will find the truth. i m sorry i dont have any advice for you, just ignore...

Teen Dating Issues: help me!!!!, rock and pop, moths
rock and pop, moths, ashley: Hello Ashley. Aww. I m sorry to hear you re going through a problem like this.. It can be a really painful thing.. Just answer me a few questions I ask below and I ll see what I can do okay? #1- How old are you, and how old was your boyfriend? #2-How...

Teen Dating Issues: help, stupid answer, adivce
stupid answer, adivce, jokster: Hi Tia. I ve thought about this question a bit, and I ve decided that I think the best thing for you to do right now is to move on. Because this boy is, in fact, deliberately trying to confuse you, he really isn t worth your time. It s going to hurt, I do...

Teen Dating Issues: how can i help him?, voice conversation, straight answer
voice conversation, straight answer, things that matter: Ok, I can t tell you if he loves you or not. That s a very hard thing to tell without being in person or having a voice conversation. I can tell you, though, that the easiest way to get a straight answer is to ask him directly. I don t mean go up to...

Teen Dating Issues: help, http www myspace, first impressions
http www myspace, first impressions, jail time: Ok, you need to sit him down and talk to him and let him know that he comes in with that type of attitude that he may ruin it for the both of you and if to be honest if he still has that attitude after you have just told him not to then he is showing you that...

Teen Dating Issues: help, ex girlfriends, butterflies
ex girlfriends, butterflies, best wishes: Hello Lakeisha! You are so young, you have time to fall in and out of love a few times before you get it right! You are going to meet many guys throughout your high school and college life! I would talk to him and ask him if he likes being single or not. Do...

Teen Dating Issues: help!, right choice, close friends
right choice, close friends, short story: Hey there, First of all, you shouldn t be kissing a guy who is dating someone else. Secondly, take a step back. Look at this guy, he runs back and forth between guys, and he doesn t know what he wants. Is that worth it? Are you willing to sit there and let...

Teen Dating Issues: help, late bloomer, great personality
late bloomer, great personality, nvr: Hey Shane- Well personality does matter. If you have a great personality well thats great. But if you do like this girl a lot well just try talking to her and get to know her. Take it slow. Just keep in mind that you need to take things slow with her and...

Teen Dating Issues: help!!!, words of wisdom, bords
words of wisdom, bords, good friend: It seems to be that he doesn t like you. He cares about you feelings but he may not like you if he said that he isn t going but agrees to go with one of your friends. it may be a hard concept to grasp but your going to have to get over him. There will be other...

Teen Dating Issues: help me, biology class, proper relationship
biology class, proper relationship, mixed signals: Your story is cute. And I m pretty sure he likes you. The fact that he choose to sit next to you rather then let another boy do so really shows that. It he s shy then maybe you should try making the first move. It s 2007 and trust me when i say that guys...

Teen Dating Issues: help, safe way, relationship
safe way, relationship: Simple, if you feel uncomfortable about how fast things are moving, then you are moving TOO fast. If you are dating, then there is no need to rush things. You arleady got somebody to commit to you, so now it s all about getting to know each other and learn...

Teen Dating Issues: help, coffee date, new girlfriend
coffee date, new girlfriend, couple time: Angelina- This guy goesn t sound like he s the most stable person in the world. He may be in a different frame of mind when he s writing to you. He also may be joking around. It s very difficult to tell when you can t hear tone of voice, etc. Just...

Teen Dating Issues: help me out, barbee, 4 months
barbee, 4 months, ultimatum: Easy answer don t get back with him. if I were you I would not even talk to him.he isn t considerate of your choices not to have sex. Instead he pressures you and gives you a ultimatum. You should be forced to do something that you don t want to do or aren...

Teen Dating Issues: help?, short time, e mail
short time, e mail, confidence: You should definitely try and see her again. If you find a like in her then I would say, try and get her on facebook. Talk over the computer and eventually start calling each other to hang out outside of this workshop. Get to know her, see where it goes from...

Teen Dating Issues: help, real girlfriend, best friends
real girlfriend, best friends, feelings: hey joe, i don t think that anyone can be taught how to be a boyfriend or a girlfriend. the best thing you can do is do what feels naturally. let your feelings guide you when you re around her. the best part about your situation is that you re best friends...

Teen Dating Issues: help me out!, shyness, hes
shyness, hes, hazel: HI Hazel, The one peace of advice I can give you, is never take anyone seriously that tells you they love you on the Internet. It s very impersonal, and frankly here is no way for him to love you without having any kind of interaction in person. Also,...

Teen Dating Issues: help!!, those girls, male friends
those girls, male friends, exact same thing: Emilee, I m having a hard time seeing what the issue is here. Your boyfriend has pictures of girls on his myspace page? So what. More likely than not they are only there so he can appear macho to all of his friends, and if you check out all of his male...

Teen Dating Issues: help, coffee date, new girlfriend
coffee date, new girlfriend, couple time: The story sounds fishy...I think that there might be lies abound here. Maybe he made up the girlfriend to make you jealous, or maybe it s true. Either way, he made it clear that a relationship couldn t happen. As for the other stuff, I don t know if it...

Teen Dating Issues: help, intercourse, good luck
intercourse, good luck, relationship: First off you are too young to have intercourse with her and you admit you are not ready. But, if she is having problems with her boyfriend and doesn t want to date him anymore, she must make that choice and tell him this. Please talk to your parents about...

Teen Dating Issues: help asap, good sense of humour, firneds
good sense of humour, firneds, sense of humour: Usually when a guy stares it s a dead giveaway that he s interested. So, if you re interested too, move in and see if u can go out with him sometime. If he s shy you may need to be the one that approaches him. Just try to be patient with him and things...

Teen Dating Issues: help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!boys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1, darlene, brittany
darlene, brittany, odds: hey brittany, i decided to ask my 15 yr old brother for help on this question. he said that if the guy tends to look at you alot or is shy when he walks around you then odds are he likes you. try to talk to the guy, find out what he likes, and just try...

Teen Dating Issues: help me!confused!, guy alot, mixed signals
guy alot, mixed signals, ok ive: Hey Stephanie, I apologize for the brief delay in getting back to you; it s been a pretty busy week for me. This guy is certainly sending you a lot of mixed signals, and it s hard for me to judge how he feels because he s so ambiguous. Since that s the...

Teen Dating Issues: help!!!confused!!, guy alot, mixed signals
guy alot, mixed signals, ok ive: Honestly, i think you should move on. It sounds like this guy is doesn t know what he wants him self and by sticking with him you re only looking to be hurt. You could also try talking with him about this whole thing. try to get on the same page with him if...

Teen Dating Issues: help.., dry forest, close friends
dry forest, close friends, circumstance: Hi Chelsea, I am sorry that your situation turned out like this. People can be weird, cruel, and confusing. You cannot force him to talk with you, and even if you could would you really want to? I think that Matt has issues with talking with you,...

Teen Dating Issues: help with dating issue, julisa, cousins
julisa, cousins, pissed: James, There is not really a good way about trying to hide a relationship at 16. In what I have seen, it only causes distance between the girl and her family. You need to respect her enough to let her make the next move. If she wants to respect her parents...

Teen Dating Issues: help with dating life, friend rachel, girl in the world
friend rachel, girl in the world, sweet girl: Chris - I think you need to ask this girl out before you die. haha No seriously. If you like her this much, you need to take a chance and absolutely go for it. Make your move before it s too late. If you have anymore questions don t hesitate to email...

Teen Dating Issues: help....dont know what to do, arguement, kwame
arguement, kwame, aight: Hello Kwame, I can t promise that you ll definitely get your girlfriend back by taking my advice, but there are some things I d suggest. Personally, I think the best way to really win her over is honest simplicity. Tell her, preferably in person but a phone...

Teen Dating Issues: help....dont know what to do, arguement, kwame
arguement, kwame, aight: Hey Kwame, It seems like you guys really do need a break. If she can t deal with being in a relationship, then you shouldn be in one with her. Look how many times you guys have been giving it a try and how many times it fails. Face it, there are other girls...

Teen Dating Issues: help i dunno what to do about my heartbreak, lil bit, heartbreak
lil bit, heartbreak, 10 months: He sounds like someone you shouldn t date. By the way this is not love. I do recommend to talk to a psychologist and help fix up the problem at hand and find truth. Please ask follow ups You have a good future ahead of you. It s going to be better without...

Teen Dating Issues: help with my first real crush, whould, good friends
whould, good friends, 18 years: Justin, first off high standards are good. The fact that you said that lets me know that you really are serious about this girl. Justin, if you really like her, and i mean really like her, then you shouldn t be thinking about finding someone else. Because...

Teen Dating Issues: help with a girl, gf, hannah
gf, hannah, point of view: Kyle, what you did was wrong. What you should have done was end it with her, even though you were the one doing the wrong, this would have saved her from a lot. Losing friends and feeling regret. I think that she was blinded by the love she has for you right...

Teen Dating Issues: help no oen can, old boyfriend, 7 months
old boyfriend, 7 months, massages: Hi, my name is Lauren and I am 22 yrs. old. I am so sorry it took me awhile to get back to you. Well about this guy, I guess you re really wondering if this new guy likes you. Well I m not sure if he likes you or not, but I can give you some assistance. First...

Teen Dating Issues: help PLEASE??????????
Hi Caroline, first of all you are not over weight! Second i seriously doubt anything is wrong with you, it is pretty common for someone your age to have never been on a date or been kissed, although it may seem that everyone else has. Feel free to ask a follow...

Teen Dating Issues: help please!, mounth, sandi
mounth, sandi, bearing: hi, have you talked to her? ask her how she feels now. dont be over bearing or act like you have to have her back. just be calm and cool about it and let her know you still care about her. leave it at that. if she wants you back it will happen in time....

Teen Dating Issues: help!!please!!, guy alot, mixed signals
guy alot, mixed signals, ok ive: Well, he is probably just trying to protect himself from more heartbreak. Next time you see him, if he doesn t call you (which, you should probably wait for him to call you) tell him that you won t hurt him, if that s what he s afraid of. I hope this helps...

Teen Dating Issues: help please, stupid answer, adivce
stupid answer, adivce, straight answer: Tia - Like you said, you can t MAKE someone like you who has no interest in you. If you can t get a straight answer out of him and he hasn t realized you exist until recently, I d say he can t really be that great of a guy. As for your second question,...

Teen Dating Issues: help please, hug goodbye, myspace
hug goodbye, myspace, wedding party: Think of it as a pre-date. It s like taking a girl out to a movie or lunch. It s not an official date all the time, but both usually at point in time think it is. It s definitely more of a friends thing, but tell her that you like her. You never know where...

Teen Dating Issues: help please, random table, cute guy
random table, cute guy, art class: Hey Marissa- Well just try talking to him about it and see what he says about his feelings towards you. If you feel more comfortable asking him through myspace then do it that way. But you should really try talking to him about it. I hope this helps. If...

Teen Dating Issues: help please!!, babygirl, saying things
babygirl, saying things, 3 years: hey there, it s natural for you to feel hurt and angry because what he did to you is horrible. i think you should listen to your friends about being strong. i understand that you re in a lot of pain but i promise that it will get better. for now, it think...

Teen Dating Issues: help please, boyfriend matt, different girl
boyfriend matt, different girl, awkward moments: Hey Chelsea, I agree that Matt probably asked you to stop talking to him for Alana s sake; either she flat out asked him to do it or just made it clear that she doesn t like him talking to other girls (or ex-girlfriends in particular), prompting him to...

Teen Dating Issues: help me please, liza, guts
liza, guts, 3 years: hey Liza, dont ask him out, guys like being in control of situations,they like the chase, if you could find the guts to ask your friend to ask him out so can he. if he doesnt then he is a looser that hasnt notice what an amazing girl you are. :) -patrici...

Teen Dating Issues: help me please, fri, sophomore
fri, sophomore, girlfriend: Gosh, now that is a long one. Surprisingly, the answer is not as long. While such behavior should point to his liking you, it appears that he already has a girlfriend. Perhaps he thought you might say no. you should not say anything to him while he still...

Teen Dating Issues: help me please, fri, sophomore
fri, sophomore, girlfriend: Okay, you have 3 options: 1. Ask him. Sure it may be embarassing and difficult but then you know. 2. Ask one his friends, or ask one of your friends to ask one of his. One of your friends could say hmm he acts like he likes her, so i think he does -...

Teen Dating Issues: help please?, loser, freak
loser, freak, sailing: How old are you all? Does she like you questions should be asked in our How to know if he or she likes you area . If she sits on your lap without you wanting to, she needs to grow up. The way you handled this with asking her made her push you away. Can...

Teen Dating Issues: Some help, please!, roller coaster, first break
roller coaster, first break, last nite: There is a topic in psychology where People will get a girl friend just to cover up their true feelings of depression . This is what I feel is going on with you. You should see a psychologist. I am sorry, yet that s what is needed. Please feel free to ask...

Teen Dating Issues: help please!!!, random groups, math class
random groups, math class, peoples names: Andrew- It sounds like you are infatuated with this girl. My advice is to ask her out to a movie or a light date, possibly with a few friends. At your age, rejection won t be as bad, especially if it s a group date thing. Take it slow and talk to her....

Teen Dating Issues: help plz!, cheating boyfriend, jeffry
cheating boyfriend, jeffry, dating advice: Well Jeffry, It sounds like you have some good reasons to do this. Just don t be suprised if things get a bit messy. Either way, here s an article that may help you with your situation... http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_150/166_dating_advice.html...

Teen Dating Issues: help plz, class clown, first kiss
class clown, first kiss, consious: Hello, I feel 14 is too young to be dating. In fact is is illegal in some areas for you to be dating. I recommend just to be her friend. Under the sexual contact law in many areas, kissing is illegal at age 14. Knowing this I cannot tell you how to kiss,...

Teen Dating Issues: help me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, 2 gether: i think this will be a great way to see how much you two really love each other and want to be together. no doubt about it, long distance relationships can be hard. communication and not being jealous are important things to remember during long distance...

Teen Dating Issues: help me a.s.a.p please, puppydog, begining
puppydog, begining, triplets: Tamara, it sounds to me like his interests have changed, towards someone else like that other girl, if i were you i would confront him and ask him whats up? its unfair for you to feel like there is competition! and its extremely tiring, i know this from experience....

Teen Dating Issues: can you help me, hard time, nerves
hard time, nerves, looking for shoes: Hello Tiffy, Sometimes I think the best thing to do in this situation is tell him the truth. Tell him that you really like him and that when you re around him you become completely speechless. It s not that you can t find anything to talk about, it s just...

Teen Dating Issues: helppp!!, few good friends, real friends
few good friends, real friends, time don: You only need one friend to give you another good friend. It takes time to find true friends. Talking and respecting eachother and being honest with eachother are important. It takes time. Don t worry about those jerks who weren t your friends. They lost...

Teen Dating Issues: helppp, mutual friend, personality
mutual friend, personality, lol: Hello Mia! It seems because you only hung out with him once you might not know his real personality. Many people act differently online. Since you two met at a party, does he party a lot? Did he ever hint in he likes you more than a friend? People are confusing...

Teen Dating Issues: helppp!!, meee, slutty
meee, slutty, good luck: Hey Lil, Alright, well, try something small first. Something like smiling to people in the halls, or saying a quick hey. There s no harm in doing that, so its subtle. And doing that won t make you seem like a slut, but if you drape yourself all over different...

Teen Dating Issues: helppppp, healthy relationships, emotional wreck
healthy relationships, emotional wreck, current boyfriend: What you have to examine is what kind of feelings you have for your ex. There are reasons why ex s are ex s. I see your major problem here, though. Your boyfriend is going to be hurt with any choice you make other than staying with him. Of that I have...

Teen Dating Issues: hes 24 imm 17, eachother, savannah
eachother, savannah: Hey Lisa- Well just let him know that you don t want him to do that. Just say that you would be happier if he were to tell you about him with someone else and still talking to you. Just let him know how you d feel if he were to just stop talking to you...

Teen Dating Issues: hes confusing.., mutual friend, rejection
mutual friend, rejection, good luck: Hey there Mia. Thank you for being patient, I have been really busy lately. There are plenty of reasons why this guy might not have asked you out yet. Does he know that you like him? Even if he does, he may be shy when it comes to asking girls out. A lot...

Teen Dating Issues: hes younger!, public display of affection, problom
public display of affection, problom, little brother: Chelly- It sounds like you are living in the town from Footloose! This can sometimes happen and it isn t always fun to deal with. The truth about PDA (public display of affection) is that sometimes it s better left alone. You get much more pleasure...

Teen Dating Issues: hey!!!, miss kitty, forgoten
miss kitty, forgoten, time hope: After a break up, it is hard for two people to stay friends. It sounds like he is moving on...I mean, he talks to you when you all see each other at school, but he doesn t seem to go out of his way to talk to you. And I think that the best thing for you...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, speaker phone, pee
speaker phone, pee, haha: Hey there, What?!! You went to tp her?! haha. thats mad. Okay, maybe just give her some room to figure things out, for right now. Okay? She needs her space to figure out where she is in life right now, let her just have her space, it ll hurt, I know. But...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, cute couple, worth a shot
cute couple, worth a shot, speaker phone: Cody, You probably are right for being suspicious, but wrong for making a big thing out of it. That may sound stupid, but hear me out. Women like men with confidence, one of their biggest turn-offs is a man that is insecure. When you get uptight about...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great time, evenings
great time, evenings, girlfriend: About the spark in your relationship? Big topic. I can maybe recommend some books, yet a friend of mine may recommend Askmen.com. I don t promote this site for I dislike some ideas on this site, yet it does have tips with dating if I recall. Talking is...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great time, evenings
great time, evenings, best wishes: Hey Cody, Okay, back up, call me crazy...but it seems like you don t trust her! Well, at least not with that guy. Trust is a key part in a relationship. If you want the relationship to work, then trust her. Alright? Just keep on being yourself, you want her...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, good relationship, bad situation
good relationship, bad situation, distractions: Cody, If you want to keep the spark alive in your relationship, then you need to start doing things together with her. Sending little notes here and there or flowers, nothing too wild. Do sweet little favors for her, occasionally take her out; either on...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great time, evenings
great time, evenings, girlfriend: Hi Cody..Sorry it s taken me so long, my computer is broke! The only thing you can do is what you re doing now! Which is appreciating and loving her. Who wouldn t want a guy like you? When it all comes down to it, she will see who s the better guy. Don t get...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great time, evenings
great time, evenings, girlfriend: Nothing will happen just cause you see her in the evening. If you guys are meant to be things will work out. If you want to keep the spark alive keep your relationship alive, have fun and try not to worry to much about everything, things will work out in tim...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great time, evenings
great time, evenings, savannah: Hey Cody- Well really what you need to do is just talk to her about all of this. Just let her know how your really feeling and how you don t want to lose her and everything. Just basically everything you told me. Also just let her know that your going...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, lunch break, romantic dinner
lunch break, romantic dinner, great time: Dear Cody, You realy should sit down with her and talk about this. Communication is the key in relationships and it helps to keep the spark alive. Maybe you could plan a romantic dinner for you guys or bring her something at lunch break so she really...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, physical standpoint, sexual tension
physical standpoint, sexual tension, good time: Cody, When you and your girlfriend are together, the best thing to do to make sure she has a good time is to always be laughing. Be unpredictable. Plan an evening with her and don t tell her what you are going to do. It doesn t always have to be dinner...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, bf, savannah
bf, savannah, girlfriend: Hey Danielle- Well I would just talk to him about it and see what he wants to do. I mean if he wants to spend time with his family then maybe you should let him. I mean it is just as important to spend that time with your family as your girlfriend or boyfriend....

Teen Dating Issues: hey, believeing, sweet note
believeing, sweet note, realtionship: The best way to keep her wanting you is not to make ureself attractive to her...she already thinks you are or she wouldn t be in the relationship with you. The way to keep her wanting the relationship is to do sweet things for her...write her a sweet note...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, nice time, evenings
nice time, evenings, great time: Hey Cody. I think you should stop worrying. I think you re just worried of loosing feelings for her and things going wrong. Don t be. Just give it time. As you said, you had a really nice time last night and it was great. Everyone has there doubts the...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great feelings, good feelings
great feelings, good feelings, good luck: I think your right, she won t know what she had until its gone. So why don t you play along with her dating other people? Try to play hard to get for a while, and see if she really does realize that she loves you more than she realized. Thats always a good...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great feelings, good feelings
great feelings, good feelings, girlfriend: Cody, If you really don t want to lose her then go to her and tell her what is on your mind. Let her know how you feel about both of you dating other people, you have to show her that you want to be with her and that you love her. Let her know how much...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great feelings, good feelings
great feelings, good feelings, rest of your life: i think its very important for people to make sure they are content and happy with the right person. you and your gf are young and your idea about what you want in life will change as you get older. you may decide you want to date someone else or you may...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great feelings, good feelings
great feelings, good feelings, girlfriend: Hi Cody, I can t really say what you re going through, but I know what your girlfriend is going through. Maybe she s starting to get a little scared, and wants to be sure that this is what she wants. And seeing that you re in college now is probably freaking...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great feelings, good feelings
great feelings, good feelings, girlfriend: Hey Cody. Thanks for getting in touch, I will try and help the best I can. Maybe, maybe you could give her some space. I know it s hard, as you love her and feel for her so much. But maybe this will make you two stronger and once you ve had space you ll...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great feelings, good feelings
great feelings, good feelings, afraid of commitment: Cody, I m really sorry to hear about this....i want to start off by saying that by what you said nothing is wrong with you. I was in a similar situation a while ago where this guy I used to date and who I really loved was kinda just very casual about things...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great feelings, good feelings
great feelings, good feelings, nice guy: Ok there I know I took forever answering you, but things have been sooo hectic with me. But I can tell you are a nice guy. You kept writing me all those times I really appreciate it. I had to put together all of those other questions and read them all together....

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great feelings, self pride
great feelings, self pride, good feelings: Cody, The answer to this situation is quite simple. See other people, at least for the time being. If she doesn t respect you and the things you do for her then find someone that does. Either she will wisen up and come back to her, or you will find happiness...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great feelings, good feelings
great feelings, good feelings, wakeup call: Hey there, Hmm, okay, its gonna be tough, but she needs her space right now, and she has a right to have her space. Now its her responsibiliy to not abuse the freedom. Think of it this way, you would want her giving you room when you wanted it, right? And...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great feelings, good feelings
great feelings, good feelings, girlfriend: Dear Cody, If you believe that you want her, you have nothing to worry about. I think shes only trying other guys on for size so to speak to compare them to you. Once she realizes that they don t make her feel the same way as you do, she ll want you back....

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great feelings, good feelings
great feelings, good feelings, freshman: She doesn t know what love is, so be careful. She meant like when she used that term. Common error. She is a jr in high school and I am a freshman in college --- Were you her first boyfriend? Is your job to make her happy? I am glad she talked to you...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, great feelings, good feelings
great feelings, good feelings, girlfriend: Hey Cody- Well really what you need to do is tell her how your feeling and how you want only her. Then from there you just need to give her, her time to what she needs to. The way I look at things is if it was meant to be then she will find a way back...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, confusing person, fear of commitment
confusing person, fear of commitment, bad situations: Well I definately know what your going through, I myself was going through that just a little while ago. You should just talk to him, tell him the whole story about you being afraid of commitment and how past relationships failed and your scared to go to fast....

Teen Dating Issues: hey, personal preference, problems at home
personal preference, problems at home, hrm: Dear Danielle, Hrm, that s odd that he would do that after 2 months of talking. If you re racked your brain and can t find any explanation for it, then it s probably nothing to do with you. I mean, it would make sense if you guys had had an argument of...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, disrespect, psychologist
disrespect, psychologist, parenting: Hi, You shouldn t promote him to disrespect and break his parents rules. Talk to your parents about what is going on. I think because of this feeling you may want to see a psychologist. How come you like him so much? How long have you been dating him? Do...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, ditch school, private school
ditch school, private school, mom: The expert in me wants to tell you to respect his parents choice and wait it out. However the Markeisha in me wants to tell you to find ways to sneak out, such has him telling his parents he is going to be studying or something of that sort...do you live...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, nine weeks, strife
nine weeks, strife, good luck: Well, what I would HONESTLY do in your situation would be to do exactly what your doing and try to contact my significant other. What advice I would give if I was in MY position would be to just let it go, but not in the way you describe. By let IT...

Teen Dating Issues: hey!, heere, fresno state
heere, fresno state, myspace: Boys boys boys!! They are soooo stupid!!! I mean honestly they really have it pretty good!! then they always find away to mess everything up!! I don t know why they act the way they act! but i do know some of them will change!! i promise!! But right now they...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, question pool, follow ups
question pool, follow ups, ups: Hi again, I haven t seen a reply email yet. Do you want to talk more about this breakup? Please email me off this site or here. Thank you, Dan Hi, You are feeling OK with this breakup? It was an agreed upon breakup? Please ask follow ups ...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, little faith, phone time
little faith, phone time, bf: Mandy, It does sound like ur bf got into a tough spot, but unfortunately that s what happens when you re young and you aren t responsible. My parents didnt let me go out when I was struggling in classes. However, if he isnt allowed phone time or to go...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, mom
mom: Hey Mandy! Well he is being punished and you cannot do anything about that nor do you deserve it . Maybe he has not been able to reach you. Next time he calls ask him what is going on. Do not worry though , it does not automatically mean he is doing something...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, negative thoughts, hardest thing
negative thoughts, hardest thing, mom: The hardest thing to do in this world is to wait on love. There s nothing really fun or easy about it. But it s worth it. Stick it out, don t let negative thoughts enter your head. Just stick it out an be strong and it ll all be worth it when it s all over....

Teen Dating Issues: hey, breaking the rules, mean time
breaking the rules, mean time, little time: hi mandy! i m glad you re not trying to take on these problems by yourself. asking for help is a good sign of maturity and for that, you should be proud. i know what it feels like to miss someone and to ache for them but right now, that s all you can do. 9...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, true feelings, distraction
true feelings, distraction, absence makes the heart: The first thing is to keep positive, although that may be hard in this world. As you ve said, he s punished for failing his classes. Give him time to get back on his feet, this is good for him and you! Believe it or not, it should show you your true feelings...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, face change, african girl
face change, african girl, school time: sounds like he is not ready for a gf. i would not go back to him and if you think you can do it just be friends with him. if he is being to touchy with you then i think you should let him know that if you are going to be friends he should not be doing that...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, face change, african girl
face change, african girl, school time: Sarah, this is going to sound very cynical but a lot of guys are complete jerks. I m not saying your guy is, i m just trying to give you things to think about. Yeah there s a very good chance he still likes you, and i think if you still like him that maybe...