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Teenage Problems: a gals problem, child psychiatrist, followup question
child psychiatrist, followup question, religious belief: Hello Hasini, You are in a tough situation. Im not a mother but what kind of questions do you have? If possible i suggest you seek out a christian church and talk to the people there and begin attending their services. That is unless you are forbidden...

Teenage Problems: Help-, step sister, school
step sister, school, won't: Hey there Mindy, Firstly, I think that you have done a really nice thing taking in your step-sister and it is a credit to you that you have tried to help her. I am sure that she appreciates it and even if she has not said it, I am sure she is far more happier...

Teenage Problems: Help with coping, whole lot of things, self injury
whole lot of things, self injury, fingernails: A lot of people have this problem and I am very proud of you for stopping. That shows how strong you are. I also know a lot of people who have a hard time with stress after they stop cutting. If you like running or sports at all, go do that when things...

Teenage Problems: High School, breaking bones, boys sex
breaking bones, boys sex, time in my life: It sounds like you are most worried about the boys/sex thing so that s what I ll mostly tell you about. Not everyone is having sex and don t think that. If all else fails, I won t have sex until I m married so there s at least two of us in the world. Just...

Teenage Problems: height problem, herbal medicines, harmones
herbal medicines, harmones, health diet: Hi Jash, Unfortunately, there is no such as medicines that can alters your height size, it depends on person s genetics and health diet, and etc. If there a claim that it can alter, then it is considered unproven by FDA. Please read all claims carefully...

Teenage Problems: hey, economy issues, rash decisions
economy issues, rash decisions, graduate from high school: Hi, Your parents is still legally responsible for you as long you are in high school regardless if your 18 or not in the most States. You can move out when you graduate from High School. They can stop you if they want to. If you want to move out, make...

Teenage Problems: hurting, sex, uncomfortable
sex, uncomfortable: Hey there, The first time that you do have sex, some people find that it can be a little bit uncomfortable but it should not be painful. If it is, then you are either not aroused enough or your partner is not being careful enough. If you try using a lubricant...

Teenage Problems: Improper thoughts, mom, mum
mom, mum, sexual: Hey there Neil, I think the reason that you are having these thoughts about your mom is not because you find her sexually attractive as your mom, but you are curious about sex and anything to do with it. If you have never seen a naked woman before, you...

Teenage Problems: im male and my nipples produce a liquid if squeezed, sweat glands, males and females
sweat glands, males and females, perspiration: Hi Anonymous, Yes its normal. Breasts and nipples are really modified sweat glands in both males and females. In females they of course produce milk after a woman gives birth. In males no. But some slight fluid is most likely some perspiration...

Teenage Problems: Loneliness and Relationships, sadness and happiness, capital letters
sadness and happiness, capital letters, avail: Hi Steve, I meant to include the lyrics to a song which Im sure you can look up on the internet. I sent it out before to guys who are shy or get put down. The original singer is Frank Sinatra but I know he is dated for you but it would be good if you can...

Teenage Problems: MOM, bad kid, old girl
bad kid, old girl, excuse: I think that it s a little of both. With her, it s trying to keep you safe and with you, it s being a teenager. It goes with the territory. My parents do it to me too. But she does have to give a little. If she won t let you go because she doesn t know your...

Teenage Problems: Mom cheated on Dad on our vacation - how do I handle this?, high spirits, sitting at the bar
high spirits, sitting at the bar, capital letters: Hi Andrew, I will make some cmments in capital letters so you will easily see my answers. Im not shouting. Hi, I m 18 years old, and live with my parents. My dad is 44 and mom is 38. They were always doing things together (especially cycling, working...

Teenage Problems: Mom cheated on dad on our vacation - do i tell him?, high spirits, sitting at the bar
high spirits, sitting at the bar, couple of minutes: Hi, WOW. I am so sorry to hear about this issue. On one side I recommend talking to your mother first and than talking to your father. This gives your mother a chance to explain her self. The problem with this is her going after you and making you look like...

Teenage Problems: Mom - improper thoughts, sexual thoughts, custodial parent
sexual thoughts, custodial parent, second thought: Hi Neil, Well I am sorry you are finding yourself in this situation. It isn t all that uncommon in divorce for one child to be living with a custodial parent....It also isn t uncommon to be attracted to your mother after all you are the man of the house...

Teenage Problems: Mom posing for artist friend - am uncomfortable, artist friend, uncomfortable position
artist friend, uncomfortable position, art school: i can understand how this would make you feel uncomfortable this does put you in an uncomfortable position i would def. reccommend you kind of just not talking about this and when subject comes up you kinda change the subject because there is nothing you can...

Teenage Problems: My Mom is posing nude for artist friend - don't like this, what do I do?, mom, behavior
mom, behavior, inappropriate: Hey there Robbie, It is completely understandable and acceptable for you to be uneasy about your mom posing nude...especially when it is for someone that you have known for a while and who is a good friend. But the thing that you have to remember is that...

Teenage Problems: Moving out at 16,, child protection agency, communication lines
child protection agency, communication lines, nice day: Hi Kaela, Yes, she can call police and report you as a run away. If she is not happy or feel down, just visit her more often. Talk with her about your feelings and issues on the table. Keep communication lines open. Tell her that you are not happy...

Teenage Problems: Mutual Masturbation, masturbation
masturbation: Hi Jessica, Thank you for this very candid question. You and your brother have hit puberty hard. You both have raging hormones, and do not fully understand the power of the things that you are doing. The Bible speaks of the sin of fornication, sex ourside...

Teenage Problems: Mutual Masturbation, sexual feelings, mutual masturbation
sexual feelings, mutual masturbation, incest: I don t want to get into this topic too much, however in my location what you are telling me is illegal. Doing such to another family member is illegal in my location at your age. Check the law in your area. I also think watching porn at your age is illegal....

Teenage Problems: might sound embarrassing, big breasts, freshman year
big breasts, freshman year, c size: First, be happy with what you have, or I guess don t have. I have big breasts and I know that s what you want but it s not all that great. Not all guys want that. They get in the way. Clothes don t fit right. It s just awkward. But I know you want to be...

Teenage Problems: mom issues, freedom, no
freedom, no: Hey Emelia, I m sorry to hear that you having a few problems at home at the minute; but rest assured you are not the only person to have these sorts of problems so you are not on your own. Your parents, as harsh as they sound, they are trying to protect...

Teenage Problems: can i move out, moving out of home, family circumstances
moving out of home, family circumstances, ploice: Hey there Dixie Martin, Sorry for the delay in getting back to you, it s been a busy week here but I ve been meaning to back to you for a couple of days. I am sorry that things are difficult for you at the moment with your dad and I am sorry that things...

Teenage Problems: mumīs issue, mamas boy, daddys girl
mamas boy, daddys girl, unequal treatment: Hi Maria, Mums sometimes devote more attention to a son than they do to a daughter. He is like a mamas boy as a daughter is a daddys girl. He can do no wrong. She may be unaware that she is treating the two of you differently. In many cultures female...

Teenage Problems: need advise, wath, boy friend
wath, boy friend, curiousity: the hard thing about this is that she HAS a boyfriend so as much as you want her to be with you (if she ALREADY knows you like her, then that s all you can do the rest if up to her) you can t that s just not fair because she is taken (at least for the time...

Teenage Problems: Overstepping the line?, sexual innuendos, males and females
sexual innuendos, males and females, adult males: Hi William, I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Imnot shouting. I m 17 years old, and live with my parents - Dad is 40, Mom is 38. I m very close to my Mom, and I often hug herOK , peck her on the cheek,OK ...

Teenage Problems: Problems between my girlfriend and her ex., jealousy
jealousy: Hello again James, Thanks for this great follow up question. You are the victim of a very old attack. Satan is known as the accuser of the Brethren. He loves to use people to spread things about people, true or not. Proverbs 16:27-28 27 An ungodly...

Teenage Problems: my parents, da streets, dad
da streets, dad, parents: You are a little young to be engaged. I don t know where you are from or anything but judging from what your parents think, you are too young. In some places, it s actually illegal for you to be with your boyfriend because he s over 18. I think you need to...

Teenage Problems: pimple, oil glands, skin doctor
oil glands, skin doctor, pimples: Well pimples in the teenage years are usually due to acne which comes about during puberty. There are some treatments and you must never squeeze them because you risk scarring your face. They do nto form because your skin is not clean. Your oil glands on...

Teenage Problems: Question about a bi friend, personal space, parents
personal space, parents: talk to her just be like hey i dont mean to be mean but i like my personal space so i d appreciate it if you wouldn t follow me around so much, you know sometimes people don t realize they are doing something until someone actually comes out and tells them...

Teenage Problems: Really need some advice on a very personal issue, age, of
age, of, consent: Hey Beth, Thank you for writing to me with your problem and I hope I can help. I ll be honest with you and up front; the law does state that sex with anyone under the age of consent, or between people of a similar age but still under the age of consent...

Teenage Problems: Relationships, out of the blue, sadness
out of the blue, sadness, guilt: i think it is you like them but then when they like you, you don t really know how to handle it so you force your feelings to be guilt, or sadness in order to stop this you need to build up your self-esteem and feel confident in yourself because you are not...

Teenage Problems: re moving out, tell, mom
tell, mom, moving: Hey there Natalie, I can completely understand you wanting to move out because you feel like everyone else is living their lives but you; and instead of being out there with your friends, you have the additional responsibilities of taking care of a sibling...

Teenage Problems: does he really love me, cus, favorite color
cus, favorite color, good friends: Usually guys don t date a girl to get to their friend. They just go for the friend. He might not love her but he s at least a little interested or he wouldn t be there at all. He would just go for you. If he s in a relationship, you need to wait. If you don...

Teenage Problems: relationship trouble, partner, moving
partner, moving, away: Hey there Niki, Firstly, if you are moving to the Middle East for the sake of being with them, then you are making a big change in your life for his sake and to make your relationship better. You are making a huge sacrifice to be near him and to prove to...

Teenage Problems: School, sexual harassment, living hell
sexual harassment, living hell, company commander: Hi Evan, You did not state your age or if you are in the US or the UK. But what you describe is like sexual harassment which in the US is illegal and may also be illegal in the UK. It is not necessary for you to say anything to your parents as I know this...

Teenage Problems: Serious Help..., drugs and alcohol, abusing drugs
drugs and alcohol, abusing drugs, welfare services: Hi Lisa, It sounds to me like things have progressed positively, only to go back to how they were before. I think that it sounds to me like you do need to get yourself out of the house and this is probably going to mean having to make difficult sacrifices...

Teenage Problems: Sex, multiple sex partners, church youth group
multiple sex partners, church youth group, relationship with god: Hi Hannah, Your friend should not be having sex period. Next she should not be having sex with someone older than she is. She is risking any number of diseases since guys tend to have multiple sex partners and can give any type of disease to a girl. All...

Teenage Problems: What is my sexual orientation?, lesbian, bisexual
lesbian, bisexual, straight: Hey there Corrina, First of all, I think that you need to stop worrying about your sexuality and seeing it as being something huge when it is not. It is certainly not worth killing yourself over or even thinking about killing yourself over; so I think that...

Teenage Problems: Teen problems, teenage depression, school counselor
teenage depression, school counselor, teen problems: You need to tell someone. The relationship with your mom could have something to do with it. She could help you get better. Go to a doctor and tell him or her that you think you are depressed. Go to a school counselor and ask for help. They are trained to...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Son, soda cans, hot stove
soda cans, hot stove, simple stuff: Hi Rebecca, Thanks for this great question. I am very sorry for my late response. You hit the nail on the head in your post. Your problem is how to motivate him to change his behavior. Many parents make the mistake that it is about teaching. In your...

Teenage Problems: Troubles with pre teen, wisdom from the bible, brother and sister
wisdom from the bible, brother and sister, king james version: Hi Heidi, Hi Judy, Thanks for this great question. I am very sorry for my late response. Things at church have been crazy here. It is natural to balme yourself when a child goes astray. I think that this may be wasted energy. You could have...

Teenage Problems: teenage love, bad kisser, clueless
bad kisser, clueless, sara: He actually said that you sucked at it? Wow. I can help you if you want. I haven t really made out with anyone but I know how to do it. You can talk to him about it. Maybe he could tell you what feels good and how to do it. Ask him to take it slow. There...

Teenage Problems: teenager moved out, good mother, sexual misconduct
good mother, sexual misconduct, disrespect: Hi, I am sorry to hear you are having the issue with your daughter in regard to your boyfriend, you do deserve to be happy and have your guy again in your life after two years of divorce. Nothing wrong with it. You need to explain your feelings and...

Teenage Problems: Should i tell my family about my bf, stupid little girl, certified phlebotomist
stupid little girl, certified phlebotomist, personal decisions: Hi Keira, You must be so proud of yourself, completed High School early and go nursing school. You are old enough to make your own choices and personal decisions, and it is problem for your father because he is racist so you say, so what? It is his problem...

Teenage Problems: How to tell Mom her behavior is inappropriate?, Mom, inappropriate
Mom, inappropriate, behavior: Hey there Mark, I can understand how this can make you feel uncomfortable but maybe your mom doesn t realize that it actually bothers you. You are a young guy and you don t want to be seeing your mom s breasts on display because it is not something you...

Teenage Problems: How do I tell my parents?, motivation issues, music jamboree
motivation issues, music jamboree, honour roll: Hi Caitlin, First of all your dad is not going to harm him and your mom will still speak to you. Your parents are there to help you and they obviously care about you and love you. Your choice of boyfriend does not sound promising. If he lacks motivation...

Teenage Problems: I think im going crazy!, modivation, crazy question
modivation, crazy question, club meeting: Hi, Thanks for your time to explain. Living with someone and living alone is big difference because living at your own means you pay and handle all of your bills yourself and take care of stuff yourself. You live with someone, you pay some of it or...

Teenage Problems: trouble with parents, parents, anger
parents, anger, out: Hey there Hannah, I m sorry to hear that your parents are getting on your nerves but you re right, it is because they care. You will always be your parents little girl even though you are getting older and they will always do and say what they think is...

Teenage Problems: Worrying, sweet person, friends at school
sweet person, friends at school, nothing wrong: there s nothing wrong with that i would suggest you start taking up a hobby, such as bowling, or joining a club or anything so you feel like when you talk its about something that you actually know you seem like such a sweet person everything will be oka...

Teenage Problems: win her heart, breathing room, girl friend
breathing room, girl friend, short time: i would back off!! i mean that nicely because i am with a guy and i feel similar a girl likes to be complicated and taken care of but only to a certain degree you need to let her have some breathing room you know you don t have to talk to her every single...

Teenage Problems: Is there anything wrong with me?, cold chills, sexual urges
cold chills, sexual urges, sex category: I m not sure what this could be. It could just be an abnormal hormonal reaction. The energy thing is probably just nerves because of all this other stuff that s going on. I would have to look this up more and I m not sure I would be able to find exactly what...

Teenage Problems: does he like me ?, begginning, weird face
begginning, weird face, jelous: It s always kind of awkward if you get asked if you like someone. It happened to me before and I didn t know what to say. I m sure he knows that you know he said no so he might now know how to react. That might make him want to stop talking to you. Go talk...

Teenage Problems: myself., virign, thinking the same thing
virign, thinking the same thing, holding hands: Just to start with, 4 months is a very short time to decide to do this. Just be careful and make sure you re ready for it. Anyway, tell him. I think he ll be understanding. If he s ready to do this with you, he should give you your time to get ready for...

Teenage Problems: what should i do ????, dumb jokes, lot one
dumb jokes, lot one, little sister: typically when girls say they see someone as a friend to a guy that is a nice way of saying hey i dont really want to date you. she has clearly told you she is not interested in you so whatever signals you are giving to her like telling her you love her...

Teenage Problems: Bad choice leading to something i regret!, wrong group, cady
wrong group, cady, having sex: Cady - It s up to you because this is your business...no one else s. I don t think you should have to tell anyone unless it s an issue that comes up because you might become sexual with someone. It s your choice whether to divulge that information. I don...

Teenage Problems: my Bestfriend, bycycling, boyfriend and girlfriend
bycycling, boyfriend and girlfriend, tennis pro: Hi Andrew, There is no such thing as play flirting. It is real and Im certain she likes you. Now is the time for you to act. Its good that she is your best friend. You know a lot about each other and do not ever mention any other girls around her. all...

Teenage Problems: BOYS !!, speaking terms, relationships
speaking terms, relationships, girls: Well, you can t really get him back unless he wants to come back. But make sure you are on at least speaking terms. That always helps relationships. Be his friend again so he knows how much he really misses you. Be your best around him so he wants to be with...

Teenage Problems: boy problem, teen relationships, younger teen
teen relationships, younger teen, intersts: Hello Star, I wish you had given your ages. If you are a younger teen and he is a younger teen this is all too common. Some people just ask someone out or want to go out or express an interest in someone and then quickly lose interest. Some young teen...

Teenage Problems: boyriend, age matters, girl in the world
age matters, girl in the world, true love: As I said, you have to make sure he means that and then wait until you are old enough. If your parents are against it, you might not be able to do it. Don t let them stand in your way but listen to their advice. They usually know what they are talking about....

Teenage Problems: boys ??, relationship, get
relationship, get, my: Hey there Soph, It sounds to me like you had it bad for this guy and really did love him. It is always difficult when you really like someone and things don t always work out, especially when you think that there is deffinately some potential for the relationship...

Teenage Problems: Circumcision, urinary tract infections, sexual intercourse
urinary tract infections, sexual intercourse, nazi germany: Hi Jim, When you have an erection the foreskin will not necessarily role back to show the glans. This is not a problem. You have to peel it back to wash under it eveery day to remove any secretions like smegma or cheese . Getting circumcized now it certain...

Teenage Problems: so confused and hurt, boyfriend, problems
boyfriend, problems, friend: Hey there Megan, You obviously care a great deal about this guy and it sounds like he cares about you but is trying to avoid hurting you. If he is suggesting an open relationship, it could be that he is trying to stay with you for all the security that...

Teenage Problems: confussed, red flag, capital letters
red flag, capital letters, lad: Hi Chloe, I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see my comments. Im not shouting. I m 16 and I have split up with my boyfriend about a month a go, and there is a few lads i like theres is a lad called George who is really shy...

Teenage Problems: My cousin at risk, cutting
cutting: Hi Irene, Thank you for this great question. I am sorry for the things that you are going through. You are doing everything that you are supposed to. I am glad that you told your dad. Make sure that you show the video to your dad right away. If there...

Teenage Problems: Depression, depression
depression: Hey there Sarah, I m a sorry to hear that you are going through a tough time at the moment and I hope that I can offer you some reassurance and advice. Firstly, we all have some down days where we feel like we can t be bothered to get up on the following...

Teenage Problems: Depression, Jelousy, low self-esteem, gorgeous girlfriends, dark circles under my eyes
gorgeous girlfriends, dark circles under my eyes, school counselor: With the dark circles, make sure you get enough sleep. I know you don t feel tired but your body might need some more rest than you think you do. Try to eat healthy and exercise. Don t get stressed out too much. You really need to just think better of...

Teenage Problems: daddy, playing video games, old fashion
playing video games, old fashion, 7 months: Hello Aditi, I m sorry about your mom :( Your father I m sure loves you very much. However, with your mom gone he may be feeling a bit protective of you because when it comes to relationships especially teen ones. Having your bf in your home with...

Teenage Problems: depression, typical teenager, one of my best friends
typical teenager, one of my best friends, bad feelings: Hi Sophie, I m sorry you are having bad feelings. What you feel in a sense is normal...You just entered your teens your body may be maturing as well...I don t know how your family life at home but if you trust a certain teacher well then home must not...

Teenage Problems: depression, typical teenager, one of my best friends
typical teenager, one of my best friends, science teacher: Tell her that you have to tell her about something. Say that you ve been having a hard time with some things and you need to talk to someone. In some places, teachers have to have some sort of counselor training or be able to deal with these kind of problems....

Teenage Problems: depression, typical teenager, one of my best friends
typical teenager, one of my best friends, science teacher: Hi, I am sorry to hear you are feeling depressed, it is very important to talk with someone you trust about your issues. Talk to your trusted teacher is a great idea and it may help you to feel better. A teacher can be your friend too. Talk about...

Teenage Problems: depression and isolation, professional counselor, smartness
professional counselor, smartness, college friends: Hi, I strongly suggest you to speak with professional counselor or with your trusted advisor. To escape it, you need to find out why you are feeling this way, sometimes with someone else help to guide you to figure things out. I believe you would be fine...

Teenage Problems: Ex Boyfriend, danielle, ashley
danielle, ashley, relationship: Danielle - Do NOT make this decision. If you do, you will ruin your relationship with your friend and will forever be known as that girl. Tell him you re not interested. Chances are that if he s willing to leave her for you, he ll leave you for the next...

Teenage Problems: Ex-Girlfriend Trouble, emotional scars, having dreams
emotional scars, having dreams, meerly: Hey there James, Relationships are never easy to come out of and there is always some lasting, short term damage that affects us when we walk away. These emotional scars don t heal easy and the signs and coincidences that take us back to how happy we once...

Teenage Problems: I Feel Alone, i, feel
i, feel, so: Hey there Savannah, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling alone and like you have nothing to look forward to; but I would like to suggest to you that things will change for the better...but not until you get these thoughts of you being worthless out of...

Teenage Problems: Friends, maturity level, friend lauren
maturity level, friend lauren, friend nicole: I understand the maturity thing perfectly. I m the same way with my age group. Talk to them and figure out what is going on. They can t just get mad at you for no reason. If you have to, find new friends. But either way, you have to find out what happened....

Teenage Problems: Friends are ogling my Mom, school soccer team, state of undress
school soccer team, state of undress, parents room: Hi Ray, You are right to be upset. Your mom may appear to be youthful to them but she is years beyond them. They are acting rude and obnoxious especially by saying things about your mom to you. The way to handle this is to tell them (next time they are...

Teenage Problems: Friends are ogling my Mom, school soccer team, parents room
school soccer team, parents room, sporting events: Hi Ray, Well I guess you are just one of a handful of boys who has an attractive mother...At least one that teen boys find attractive. Well talk to your mother tell her that she needs to dress a little less provocative and a bit more like a mother...Tell...

Teenage Problems: failing grades, softee, disapointment
softee, disapointment, time thing: I can t say if she shouldn t be able to go. But something needs to be done. She isn t respecting you at all by doing this. I d ground her until the concert, see how she does, and then see if you want her to go. You can set limits with the concerts too, like...

Teenage Problems: I like a guy & found out he is 34, high school diploma, guidance counselor
high school diploma, guidance counselor, open dance: Hi Maria, About the only thing you have in common with this guy who is 34 is that you are in the same dance class. I do not see where you have anything else in common with this person. Since you are 16 you are a minor and the possibility of any kind of relationship...

Teenage Problems: I HATE MUM SHE IS JUST LIKE DAD, typical teenager, happy family
typical teenager, happy family, older sister: Hi Miss JS Thank you for your question. I can see you are angry and frustrated. I am very sorry that you are going through this difficult time. I would like to try to give you a different perspective to consider. 1. Your mum is a single parent trying...

Teenage Problems: I HATE MUM SHE IS JUST LIKE DAD, typical teenager, happy family
typical teenager, happy family, older sister: Hey there, Divorce is always hard on the people involved, and not just the parents but the children as well. Divorce can leave people bitter and twisted but also, blaming all the wrong people for what is happened when in reality the very person to blame...

Teenage Problems: Help, pastor don, questioner
pastor don, questioner, teen advice: Hi Joshua, Welcome to All Experts! Thank you for your question. I have been with Allexperts.com for over 8 years. Here are a few things that I would suggest. 1. Answer everything as quickly as you can. I personally struggle with this, but I...

Teenage Problems: Am I a lesbian and am I saved?, strange feelings, sex with a guy
strange feelings, sex with a guy, homophobe: Hi, I can see that you must be watching a lot of porn but do you not have to pay for it? Do your parents know you watch this? There isn t much that I do not know about. So what you described is not new to me. Yes I get what you mean. You seem to have...

Teenage Problems: DOES MASTURBATION STOP HEIGHT, going through puberty, sexual frustration
going through puberty, sexual frustration, boys going through puberty: Hi Prabhjot, Your friend is wrong. Masturbation is the most common thing that teenage and many preteen boys do. It is a universal practice all over the world by all cultures. It is completely harmles and is the way you learn about what feels good to your...

Teenage Problems: Mixed Race Relationship, religious persuasion, muslim boy
religious persuasion, muslim boy, catholic parents: Hi Jo, Obviously you are of a different faith. Muslims can be very strict and the devotion tothe Koran varies. His family may be taking a very literal interpretation such as not being friends with non muslims. They see you as a threat to him being a muslim...

Teenage Problems: I'm 17 and can't get an erection?, penis, problems
penis, problems, damage: Hey there Mike, Your penis is a very complex and sensative organ and it is made up of some spongy material called the corpus vasculum. This material runs up either side of your penis and fills with blood when you get an erection. Usually, any damage will...

Teenage Problems: I'm grounded, pastor don, lost one
pastor don, lost one, stupid things: Hi Maddi, THank you for this question. I am sorry for my late response. I know that this seems harsh. Your mother is teaching you that everything you do has consequences. If you want to be ungrounded, find the stinkin key! THe whole point is that you...

Teenage Problems: need help proving friend's innocence, assault charges, deep trouble
assault charges, deep trouble, couple days: Hi, I would love to help you, however I have no say in your state. Speak to a lawyer and child services. I cannot start a case because of hear say like this. If they contacted me and told me this, I would have more say, however would it be enough? I am...

Teenage Problems: I need to know if this was just a normal phase that I grew out of., james windell, sexual freak
james windell, sexual freak, curious phase: Ok I highly recommend to talk to our Parenting Teen expert James Windell about this. I am not a psychologist, however I wouldn t call the wondering part abnormal, however what you did was illegal in my mind. So are you normal? Yes, however your action was...

Teenage Problems: overbearing parents, overbearing parents, false accusations
overbearing parents, false accusations, serious relationship: Thank you for your kind rating. I think you have what I call ICP (independence conflict with parents). The only cure for ICP is to stick up for yourself and let them know that you are a responsible person and know right from wrong and are not a gullible...

Teenage Problems: PLEASE help, park bench, front porch
park bench, front porch, gilr: Greg, all you have to do is sit next to her where you can be in a private setting like on a front porch or on a park bench and sit next to her. If you have not held her hand by now then its time you started. All you need to do is talk to her about anything...

Teenage Problems: Problems with my parents, mom, parents
mom, parents: I think both of you need to sit down and talk about things. If you are fighting about big things, that s normal. But if everything ends in a big fight when you talk, it s not good. You need to work out your problems on both sides. Say what you think is fair...

Teenage Problems: Puberty, penis, size
penis, size, grow: Hey there, Puberty affects us all in different ways and what happens when is dependent upon your natural hormonal balance. Some people will start getting armpit hair and pubic hair before any other physical changes occur, whereas others may begin to develop...

Teenage Problems: does he really love me, cus, favorite color
cus, favorite color, good friends: Usually guys don t date a girl to get to their friend. They just go for the friend. He might not love her but he s at least a little interested or he wouldn t be there at all. He would just go for you. If he s in a relationship, you need to wait. If you don...

Teenage Problems: reationships/experimentation, time fling, bi curious guy
time fling, bi curious guy, intimate encounter: Hi Jeremy, Perhaps you feel some guilt about having this fling or you feel you were not quite ready to venture into this life. Since he was the first person of the same sex you did something with naturally you are going to remember him. If you could not...

Teenage Problems: relationship problem, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, prepaid phone card: Hi, It is better to forget all about him because you are still too young to have long distance relationship, save money if you can use VOIP phone - using Internet as landline phone it will be free. If you do not have it then have him send you prepaid phone...

Teenage Problems: My School work., long distance relationship, how to handle a long distance relationship
long distance relationship, how to handle a long distance relationship, privacy reasons: Wow. I really would like to help you here. However I have to be careful due to privacy reasons. I recommend reviewing past questions and answers posted to the public part of this site. I also do see that teens who have a relationship in high school increase...

Teenage Problems: Sex with older man, little cow, parents work
little cow, parents work, lots of money: Hi Rebeca, I will anser again in capital letters QUESTION: Hi Jonathan thanks for your response and strange as it seems, I promise you that what I have written is the honest trueth. In my country the age of consent is 16IS THIS THE UK OR AUST OR NZ...

Teenage Problems: Sophie., whols, waking up in the morning
whols, waking up in the morning, returning to school: Hi Olivia, I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them . Im not shouting. Excuse any typos i do not have time to proofread. (I m 14) Well, I never really knew this girl very well but we chatted and laughed constantly! -...

Teenage Problems: Sophie, waking up in the morning, returning to school
waking up in the morning, returning to school, dance classes: First off, I am so sorry that this happened to you. I know you didn t know her very well but it still hurts. Maybe you could get your school to do some sort of memory thing about her. Talk to the principle and see if he/she would do that. It could be good...

Teenage Problems: My school work, parental disapproval, attracting the opposite sex
parental disapproval, attracting the opposite sex, high school students: www.journalchiroed.com/1999/JCEFall1999Rampacher.PDF I think that in high school you are not yet able to fully comprehend what it means to really love someone, I think in high school too many young kids focus so much on attracting the opposite sex that...

Teenage Problems: a shy guy., offline message, conversation starter
offline message, conversation starter, shy guy: Hey Mariah, Well done on making the initial contact...I hope things feels a bit more easier now and that you begin to feel like you know him a bit more and he knows you. Use MSN or Facebook to set up an opportunity for you to meet in a quiet (but public)...

Teenage Problems: shyness, social anxiety disorder, kind of social interaction
social anxiety disorder, kind of social interaction, panic situation: Joy, since you are a medical student you should have access to physicians where you are going to school. You may need to speak to a psychiatrist who might diagnose you with social anxiety disorder and prescribe some medication for it to help you relax . ...

Teenage Problems: My son, genuine interest, mom
genuine interest, mom, dad: you have to understand the position your son is in, he wants to please both it seems like your ex might be feeding your son lies about you to make you dislike you I would suggest taking your son out for lunch or something and just ask him how his life is hows...

Teenage Problems: sucking a boy's dick, boys dicks, taking a crap
boys dicks, taking a crap, playing video games: Hi, You need to talk to your doctor, your parents, and the police. Them getting you to do this is illegal in many states and needs to be reported to prevent other people from getting into such a situation. It wasn t your fault. You may also need to be...

Teenage Problems: Teenage son saw me naked, james windell, sexual thoughts
james windell, sexual thoughts, teenage sons: Hi, I do know teenage sons can get aroused by their mothers even without seeing them nude. That s not unheard of. However I am a little bit worried about the above topic. I recommend our expert James Windell Parenting Teen expert here. I think someone...

Teenage Problems: Teenage son saw me naked - is now aroused by me, son, sexual
son, sexual, arousal: Hey Karin, You are right that occasionally people will walk in on each other getting changed and it is usually just an incident that passes without much thought or consideration. But I think in this case the problem lies with the fact that as you mentioned,...

Teenage Problems: teen daughter and boyfriend, youth mentoring program, single mom
youth mentoring program, single mom, haven area: Hi Bonnie, Thank you for kind words and I am glad you tried your best to help her. I understand it is very hard. Don t give up and I will work on finding information for you after I return from my vacation. You can e-mail me a follow up so I can send...

Teenage Problems: teen problems, church counselor, talking to girls
church counselor, talking to girls, teen problems: I know you don t deserve it but don t try to end your life. It s not ever that bad. I m glad you haven t succeeded yet. Please stop trying. I knwo bad things go on and you can t explain it and it hurts but pay attention to the good times. There has to be some...

Teenage Problems: what can i tell them?, parents, not
parents, not, enough: Hey Manuel, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling this way; and it sounds understandable that you do. Parents play a big part in our development, teaching and learning, but they are also there to make sure that we stay safe and stay out of trouble. If...

Teenage Problems: unhappy with life and family want to move out, age, to
age, to, move: Hey Jordna, In the UK you are deemed old enough to move out at 16 and to also join the forces at the same age. The forces may ask for parental consent for you to join as you are under 18, but you can actually join up at 16 and do your training. I would...

Teenage Problems: i wonder if im stupid or just blind sighted, many things, nothing but drama
many things, nothing but drama, some girls: Some girls so that because they are jealous of other people. And they could just be playing. But check with him first. And with other people. Don t just ignore him, ask what s going on. See if there is something that you should be worried about. If there is,...

Teenage Problems: 12 Year Old Daughter, attention kids, clothing styles
attention kids, clothing styles, centre of attention: Hi Cannice. I m not sure what you mean by correct her thinking . What issue do you see with her dressing like a boy and being the centre of attention? Kids go through stages, and she s only 12. She s at an age where she really doesn t know who she is: she...

Teenage Problems: my 18 year old son, elite soccer, soccer training
elite soccer, soccer training, playing soccer: Hello there Olga, Thank you for writing to me and sharing your concerns and let me reassure you that Marko is a normal teenager and what s more, you are just a normal, caring mother. It is understandable as a parent that you want to give your son all...

Teenage Problems: 2 teens, child custody matters, step mom
child custody matters, step mom, court matters: Hi Shelley, I am sorry to hear that, no they are not old enough to move in and live with you legally. There are two options available. Option #1 Call Child Protection Authorities to remove them out of the house and place with you and their father s custody...

Teenage Problems: angry teenager, respidol, angry teenager
respidol, angry teenager, roaring stream: Thank you for writing. I must tell you that the fact that he is ASKING for medicine that may help him is a very good sign. That means that he is tired of the life he is living. He wants things to improve. The bottom line is that teenagers WILL get two...

Teenage Problems: asking out, good conversation, ashley
good conversation, ashley, girlfriend: Matt - Just go up and start talking to her. Find out what you two have in common and go from there. All you need is a good conversation to break the ice. Treat her like you would anyone else...even though she makes you nervous. It s easier than you think....

Teenage Problems: Boys, lack of trust, boys and girls
lack of trust, boys and girls, insecurity: Hello Lisa, Often times what a boy thinks is flirting and what a girl thinks is flirting are not the same thing....Boys sometimes are just being *nice*....I can understand your boyfriend getting mad but at the same time....You are your own person you don...

Teenage Problems: My brother and Family, emma lee, liar
emma lee, liar, charities: Hey there Emma-Lee, Firstly, thank you for coming forward to get advice about this; I know it s not easy to think about, but it s even harder to talk about...but now, you have taken the biggest and hardest step by coming forward, so well done and thank...

Teenage Problems: christian & GOTH, christian goths, christian goth
christian goths, christian goth, satanist: Hi Nayiri, Christians can be goths. There are actually quite a few websites just for Christian goths, so just type it into a search engine and you ll find a few. The Bible doesn t say Don t dress all in black, etc so being a Christian goth shouldn t be...

Teenage Problems: course, science math, math and science
science math, math and science, practice test: Hello Naina, Sometimes teachers have a practice test that you can take. Get a couple of those and see what you need to work on. You might be able to get them off the Internet. Review what you do know and try to understand what you don t. I don t strees too...

Teenage Problems: crush, girl alot, friendly relationship
girl alot, friendly relationship, touchy subject: First, why are you hesitant? Is it because you don t want to make your friends mad? If so, were your friends okay with it when your other friends began going out with her? If they were, then I wouldn t worry, they should be okay with you going out with her...

Teenage Problems: crush?, sad cause, good friends
sad cause, good friends, backpack: Sorry to burst your bubble, but this doesn t sound like the kind of guy you should be trying to date. It s not at all weird that you ve never had a boyfriend, but i certainly don t think that this guy would make a good one. I think he did like you, yes, but...

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home pregnancy test, long distance relationship, stomach pains: If ever you need my help, I will try to help you yet I must follow the law. I at this time feel no requirement to report the above, yet if you give me a future sign of a crime, I may be legally required to report such. As your friend I feel I have to say this....

Teenage Problems: depressed and need help, click health, dealing with depression
click health, dealing with depression, contemplating suicide: Up to one in three people can suffer from depression at some point, so don t be embarrassed at all. I personally am not the person to speak to; you do need to speak to your family really. They ll understand. Tell them how you feel. But, we do have experts...

Teenage Problems: I don't think i love him anymore, space in my heart, boy friend
space in my heart, boy friend, last question: Hi, Rene I cannot act like a psychologist for your above problem. A psychologist should be the one to help find the truth to your feelings. However, even though I cannot act like a psychologist for you, I can talk to you and try to help you out. Can I...

Teenage Problems: I dont think its nomal, brownish discharge, signs of an infection
brownish discharge, signs of an infection, sexual activity: No, it shouldn t be leftover blood, not from a month ago, especially as you said its only been the past few days. I d say its probably the start of a period (they re not always 100 percent predictable, so it might be early). If it doesn t clear up in a day...

Teenage Problems: Foreskin Question, piece of flesh, forskin
piece of flesh, forskin, medical term: Hey there Mike, The foreskin of the penis should be able to be comfortable rolled back to sit just below the head or glans of the penis. There may be a small string of skin on the underside which attaches the foreskin to the head of the penis and this...

Teenage Problems: forced to move schools, mum and dad, counselor
mum and dad, counselor, happiness: Corrie, Your parents do care about you. They just think that they know what is best for you better than you do, which isn t always true. Talk to them and tell them that you don t like it where you are at. You can get a scool counselor or somebody to tell...

Teenage Problems: friends with benefits?, long distance relationship, friends with benefits
long distance relationship, friends with benefits, serious relationship: Hi. First, are you doing the right thing? I would say absolutely not. Friends with benefits barely ever works. People just aren t built like that - they start to like eachother to much and get attached. Are you sure you won t get attached and then be upset...

Teenage Problems: friends with benefits?, long distance relationship, friends with benefits
long distance relationship, friends with benefits, serious relationship: i strongly advise you don t go through with this. Even if you two aren t having sex, being involved with each other like that will cause your feelings for each other to increase. Its impossible to avoid when you do stuff like that together not to get involved....

Teenage Problems: friendship, friendship
friendship: Hi Caroline. It all depends on what they did. If it s something illegal then you should talk to your friend about it, and tell them how you feel about it. If it wasn t illegal, but you just didn t agree with it then you can t really tell them not to do it,...

Teenage Problems: Gf help- this is a long one!, public displays of affection, displays of affection
public displays of affection, displays of affection, chorus group: Hi. Don t apologise for it being long! That s not a problem at all. Sorry it s taken so long to reply. A few technical problems and I ve been busy, so all in all, it s ended up that I haven t replied for quite a while. So, sorry about that. Right, well,...

Teenage Problems: Girl, girl alot, friendly relationship
girl alot, friendly relationship, theme park: Hello, Ask her to go out with you just as friends. Go to the movies or to a game or something. Where I live, we pretty much have a theme park that we go to for a non-date . It s fun and it gives you something to talk about. See if she just wants to go with...

Teenage Problems: this guy...x2, frined, certain age
frined, certain age, couple hours: I don t know if I m just out of it right now but what does his twin have to do with anything? That doesn t seem like a problem to me. I might have missed something but it doesn t seem like a big deal. Don t make it sound like a date. You said that you...

Teenage Problems: HELP!!, legal standpoint, problems at home
legal standpoint, problems at home, wit: Hi amaya. I m not exactly sure what the legal standpoint on that is, i don t have much experience with the fine points of the law. I believe that as long as your parents agree since you re under 18, it s okay. But, just to be sure, i d ask a teacher or someone...

Teenage Problems: Helping Friends., hard time, kay
hard time, kay, good luck: Hi Chelsea. First you need to ask yourself, can you keep secrets? If you have previously told your friends secrets, they may be having a hard time trusting you. If not, then you need to prove to them that you can handle it. When they mention small problems,...

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distance relationship, mind game, eliz: Matt please please please don t commit suicide. It is not a solution. Your mother cannot bear to see such, neither can I. We ve known eachother for how long? Over 1 year. You told me a while back that you would like to become a psychologist. You reminded me...

Teenage Problems: Horribly Overprotective and Controlling Mother, strict upbringing, friends in the park
strict upbringing, friends in the park, controlling mother: Hey there Mary, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and share with me, what I know (from experience) must be a difficult and frustrating time for you, especially when it seems like your mum is being incredibly unreasonable to you. Firstly,...

Teenage Problems: issues telling my parents about my brother, bottles of booze, cigar wrapper
bottles of booze, cigar wrapper, smoking pot: Hello, Thank you for writing. Iím only going to tell you what I think about this situation and how you should approach it. You love your brother and you donít want to see anything bad happen to him. So approach him and tell him how you feel about the...

Teenage Problems: jb.nate steve.aaron ashley.kati, steve aaron, boyfriend aaron
steve aaron, boyfriend aaron, cople: Hi Sarah. It sounds to me like whatever you said to him on the phone (that he dared you to say again) offended or upset him in some way, and made him angry with you. He s probably waiting for some sort of an apology. Also, if you re just playing along with...

Teenage Problems: kissing, ashley, lips
ashley, lips, tongue: Lisa - Most of your kissing skills come naturally actually. Some tips I have are don t shove your tongue down his throat right away. Instead, gently massage his tongue with yours. But remember that kissing with the lips can be just as sensual as using the...

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long distance relationship, mom dad, step dad: Hello Matt, WOW I am shocked that your parents and her parents were ok to this whole dating situation to begin with.... You are 18 about to finish high school and this little girl isn t even in high school! Matt you need to be with girls your own age...LDR...

Teenage Problems: Love, first moves, conversation piece
first moves, conversation piece, school dance: I think she might just be as confused as she is what I would do is let HER make the first moves make HER start the conversation piece, let her talk to you and come to you, I mean don t be rude you can say hi but that s it then let her do the rest of the talking...

Teenage Problems: leaving, teenage relationships, 10 months
teenage relationships, 10 months, young man: Josh - you sound like a very thoughtful and caring young man. I wish there were more like you. I understand your concern over her pain and the best thing you can do is be there for her in everyway you can. Maybe you agree to call her once a week, or...

Teenage Problems: MY MOM DONT UNDERSTAND, couple of minutes, 5 months
couple of minutes, 5 months, hes: parents are so frustrating! I completely understand where you re coming from. The only thing to do is patronize her. Bring your boyfriend to the house sometime for dinner so she can meet him. that way she can talk to him and it will be a long enough meeting...

Teenage Problems: Monthly Periods, poly cystic ovarian syndrome, exercise stress
poly cystic ovarian syndrome, exercise stress, becci: Hi Becci. It could be a number of reasons. As long as you haven t had contact with semen then we can rule pregnancy out. It could be caused by a change in weight, lots of exercise, stress, a new medication, illness, or PCOS - poly cystic ovarian syndrome....

Teenage Problems: mastubation, sexual feelings, personal preference
sexual feelings, personal preference, sex with a guy: Hey Deborah, 1. I don t know. There isn t an actual point when you lose your virginity. I would say yes to your question but some people might disagree with me. The most accepted tiem in when a girl loses her virginity is when she has sex with a guy and...

Teenage Problems: My mom is a bad parent, fafsa, tax information
fafsa, tax information, extra money: well sweetheart, you need to cut her loose, move out .. first call any kind of relatives you can think of: cousins, aunts, uncles, or even friends and if that doesn t work there s different govt organizations that will fund you money so you can live on your...

Teenage Problems: My mom &* favouritism, negative attitude, negative person
negative attitude, negative person, religious point: Hi there. A lack of good communication is one of the worst things, and makes life very difficult, as you ve no doubt worked out already! This will probably sound very corny, but I think you should try meditation. Its not from some religious point of view,...

Teenage Problems: moving out, hull uk, becca
hull uk, becca: Hey Becca, I am not sure if you can or not. I don t know a lot about the laws where you are. Check that out. I don t even know where to look to find out. If you can, I suggest that you wait for a little while. Living on your own is hard. You need to have...

Teenage Problems: moving out of parents home, definate answer, welfare services
definate answer, welfare services, legal expert: Hey there Jessica, As far as I am aware, your parents do maintain what is called Parental rights and responsibilities over you until you are 18, but in most cases (usually serious cases of abuse etc), the Police will not intervene if these are violated...

Teenage Problems: New Brother.., brother don, pastor don
brother don, pastor don, vainglory: Hi Danielle, THanks for this great question. Congratulations on the soon arrival of a new baby in the family! This is not about you, it is about your family and your mother. You will soon be moving out ( 3-4 years) when you go to college. This is temporary...

Teenage Problems: overbearing mother, skinny jeans, overbearing mother
skinny jeans, overbearing mother, bandana: Hi Max. That s really unfair of her to be doing this, and not actually explaining what her problem is. So, she ll get angry if you push it? Hmm.. that s difficult. You really need to find a way of getting her to actually give a proper reason. Perhaps tricking...

Teenage Problems: Parental Trust, steady job, anti depressants
steady job, anti depressants, high priority: Hi Kristen, I will answer in capitals so you will easily see my comments. I m not shouting. Parental Trust Question: Hi, my name is Kristen and I am 15 years old. I decided to write you after an incident that happened today. My mom seems to have...

Teenage Problems: period, doctores, hormone levels
doctores, hormone levels, medical advice: Hey Jessica, Firstly, I am not a doctor so I cannot really give out medical advice, but what I will tell you is that if the doctor has made an estimate of your height it will be because they have ran a lot of tests and have dealt with young people for a...

Teenage Problems: period, average hieght, doctors
average hieght, doctors, guess: Hi Jessica. The doctor can only give you an estimate, a guess, so its not certain that you ll grow to 5ft. 5in. But there s still plenty of time for you to grow, so you never know! Its possible that you ll stay 5ft, but the chances are more likely you ll grow...

Teenage Problems: please give me an advice, dad, good luck
dad, good luck, sleep: Hi anna. That s a hard situation. I think you need to talk to the people you re staying with. Let them know that you re sorry about what your dad did (I know it s not your fault, but it ll help them see that you care about what happened). Tell them that...

Teenage Problems: i have many problems in my life, india delhi, strong feeling
india delhi, strong feeling, buzy: Hi, Mohit, India is nice I heard. I have a few friends who came from there or live there. How many hours do you spend on the internet? What exactly is the first issue you want me to try to help you with? Can you explain to me what you mean by this: ...

Teenage Problems: question to expert, going through puberty, adult woman
going through puberty, adult woman, hormonal changes: Its because of the hormonal changes brought about by puberty. When you were younger you preferred the company of your same sex playmates. Now that you are older and going through puberty you are in transition to become an adult woman. The feelings and...

Teenage Problems: I REALLY hate my mother., first move, cup of tea
first move, cup of tea, common interests: Hi. You do sound in a bit of a mess. Mums can be really annoying - mine is at times. Some people get on okay with theirs, some don t. Some leave home and never speak to them again. The best thing to do, I think, is to try to see her as a woman for...

Teenage Problems: Re; My 15 yr old & her 1st time having sex !, 15 yr old girls, risk teenagers
15 yr old girls, risk teenagers, profile experience: Hi Joyce, I do apologize that I did indeed clicked the wrong feature button by mistake, that says this is outside of my expertise . It should have stated Email to me the question for further review . Please allow me two days to answer your question...

Teenage Problems: Relationships, innocent kids, hectic world
innocent kids, hectic world, consistancy: Hey there Tom, It is good that you and your friend have been in each other s lives for so long and that you are as close as you are; it is good to have some consistancy like that in your life, but inevitabley, there comes a time, when things may have to...

Teenage Problems: my rebellious preteen daughter, attention deficit hyperactivity, attention deficit disorder
attention deficit hyperactivity, attention deficit disorder, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder: Hello Jean, Thirteen is a strange age for the teen and the parent..Your daughter is growing up and as she does she is going to test her limits. That is do things just to see how much she can get away with....It will also give her an idea of how much you...

Teenage Problems: relationships, good relationship, virginity
good relationship, virginity, great time: Often, I think, people who really care about someone and want to be with them, can only get over them by getting them out of their mind ie. not seeing them. If you see him all the time you might find you just can t ger over him. You should maybe try again...

Teenage Problems: religious abuse, flying spaghetti monster, religious abuse
flying spaghetti monster, religious abuse, new faith: Hi Henry. This is without a doubt the most unusual question I ve ever encountered. You don t have to believe in it if you don t want to. Your parents can believe what they like, its their choice, but if you don t like it then don t believe it. Tell your parents...

Teenage Problems: :S ???, 14 yr old girls, nice bloke
14 yr old girls, nice bloke, lyk: Okay well I still think you should meet him in person. Try to pretend you aren t shy and just get to know him a bit. You re mum should be fine with you just being friends. Just spend time getting to know him in person first. Soon enough your shyness will disappear...

Teenage Problems: School, school question, bullies
school question, bullies, half hour: Aj, If, after talking to the director and with your parents being informed, nothing has been done, your only other option would be to go to the Police...but as you don t want to make things worse you probably won t want to do this. If, knowing that...

Teenage Problems: Self Injury, alexandrea, professional treatment
alexandrea, professional treatment, self injury: Hi Alex, I may be able to assist you in some ways, first of all I am little concerned about what you are doing. Even you aren t suicidal. You said I m not suicidal, I promise, but I cut myself and now I m scared I m addicted to it . And I always had...

Teenage Problems: son out of control, anger issues, play station
anger issues, play station, household: Denise; He needs order in his life. Call the police. The next time he throws something, calmly but firmly tell him that the behavior is not acceptable and, if it continues, you will call the police and he can deal with them. Give him a warning and then...

Teenage Problems: my son's lying girlfriend, little mistake, bone cancer
little mistake, bone cancer, sociopath: Hey there Maureen, I am sorry to hear that you having trouble with this girl and your son at the minute and I hope that I can offer some sort of advice. I am in agreement with you about the severity of this girl s actions; pushed or not, lying about...

Teenage Problems: Teen menstral, sexual intercourse, menstral
sexual intercourse, menstral, 7 months: When you say cycle do you mean a period? As long as you haven t had sexual intercourse then its probably nothing to worry about. At that age your periods are often irregular. If you really get worried then feel free to see a doctor, but its most likely just...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Dateing, good kid, dateing
good kid, dateing, curfew: Hi Joyce - thank you for writing. There are a couple of things to address here. First, you need to firmly establish your position as the authority figure and the one who will make the decisions. Not only is that your role, kids crave it. Whether they...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Son, laplace louisiana, one of the boys
laplace louisiana, one of the boys, lack of communication skills: Hi Beverly, It seems you did your very best handling the situation appropriately. I believe school is at fault because they did not keep you informed regarding his school progress. I am pretty surprised you did not know at least a month. Your son have...

Teenage Problems: Trouble with 13 yr old daughter, judgment call, drastic move
judgment call, drastic move, arguements: Janet - the best approach in a situation like this is direct. You need to convene a meeting (fairly brief) with your daughter, the boy, and his parent(s). Stay very calm and positive. Just say that you have high expectations for your daughter, especially...

Teenage Problems: Trouble with 16 yo daughter who cuts, purges and takes drugs., step mom, value trust
step mom, value trust, daughter erin: Hey Melissa - please don t apologize for the length of your note. I appreciate the information. Let s just focus on a couple of basic principles of teenage psychology. Teens will get two things in their lives - order and attention. And they will get...

Teenage Problems: teenage daughter, compulsive habit, parttime job
compulsive habit, parttime job, behavioural problem: Hi Sarah. You re doing the right thing with grounding and confiscating things she likes, and its a good sign that she apologised and is aware of what she s done. Its a really good sign that she s being honest about it, and shows that she is mature and that...

Teenage Problems: Should I tell her?, perv, kind of girl
perv, kind of girl, what the heck: Hey Paul, Yes you should tell her. I think that she has a right to know even if it is done on purpose. If it bothers you, you should say something. I don t think that you sound like a perv at all and if you just ask her to please pull down her shirt or pull...

Teenage Problems: Should I tell her?, perv, kind of girl
perv, kind of girl, sophomore: Paul - I think you probably should point it out to her but I ve been trying to think of a tactful way to do it. Maybe you might want to pass her a note or whisper it to her so you don t embarrass her. Try and phrase it in a way that isn t offensive....

Teenage Problems: Should I tell her?, perv, kind of girl
perv, kind of girl, sophomore: I think you might just go up to her and tell her .. how to do that, that s kind of tricky .. I d maybe just say hey I don t know if you noticed, but your underwear was kind of showing I wasn t trying to look or anything but if it was me I d want to know make...

Teenage Problems: I think i want a baby........, steady relationship, feeling unloved
steady relationship, feeling unloved, 16 yr old: Hi. Sorry itís taken so long to reply. Think about what youíve asked me. What is it you think Iíll say? If a 16 yr old asked you whether she should have baby, what would you say? ĎOh yeah, great ideaí? I donít think so. You want a baby for selfish reasons...

Teenage Problems: Ugh, first time?, intimate side, small person
intimate side, small person, rounder: Hi. Well, I don t actually get many questions like yours as they tend to go to the experts who are more of an expert on the intimate side of relationships, in particluar, whereas I m more an all-rounder who knows a bit about everything, but am not an expert...

Teenage Problems: under age sex, breaking the law, lubricant
breaking the law, lubricant, age sex: Hey there Jimmy, Firstly, it is mature and sensible of you and your girlfriend to be talking about and in the future using condoms: not only will they protect you from Sexually Transmitted Infections, but they will also reduce the risk of pregnancy too....

Teenage Problems: visiting step daughter, niece and nephew, cute games
niece and nephew, cute games, tubing down: You can talk to your neice and nephew and see if they have any friends that do have interests like your stepdaughter. Have them help throw a party so they can be the bridge between the two worlds. Talk to her and find out what she would like to do and...

Teenage Problems: How to work through finding out my 15 yr old just lost her Virginity, 15 yr old girls, questins
15 yr old girls, questins, ugly war: Hi Joyce, You are in difficult situation with your daughter, I am glad she told you that she has/had sex with this boy. You can bet on it she done it before because why in the hallway? It shows that they are having fun and decided to keep secret from...

Teenage Problems: How to work through finding out my 15 yr old just lost her Virginity, 15 yr old girls, ugly war
15 yr old girls, ugly war, virginity: Hi Joyce. I can imagine how shocked you must be, and must be having a pretty hard time coming to terms with this. One thing I d like to point out is, as you said, she seems ok with it and says she loves the boy. She also said she wants to marry him. Now, I...

Teenage Problems: What should I do?, melissa, experiences
melissa, experiences, relationships: Hey Melissa, There are no standards to meet in a relationship except those that we set ourselves: it is usually us that think we are not going to be good enough and it is usually us that criticises our behaviour, when in reality, we do not need to. ...

Teenage Problems: What shall i do?, big sister, 10 months
big sister, 10 months, good job: Good job on going to God first. Continue to pray. Be sure, though, that your prayers ask for His help, guidance and will to be done. If you re raying that you ll get to go out with this guy, then you definitely are letting your feelings get in the way. Your...

Teenage Problems: ????, positive attitude, good chance
positive attitude, good chance, summa: Hello, My advice to you would be to be yourself and everything will fall inline. Try your hardest at the tryouts and if they don t like your personality then they are missing out on a really good chance to meet someone new. If you are good at what you do...

Teenage Problems: is 15 too young?, lil girl, virginity
lil girl, virginity, slutty: No, I donít think youíre dumb at all. You were young and you made a mistake, as do most people at some time. Stop dwelling on it - young people all over the world do something stupid and end up having sex with a loser and not using protection. But, most of...

Teenage Problems: 19 year old boy, full time job, mother lives
full time job, mother lives, home mother: Hello Nancy, I did not rush to judge....I can only answer based off information I have....At 18 your son had a girlfriend who in most states is considered a minor....You stated that he had been having sex with this girl...He moved out lived with this...

Teenage Problems: age difference, having sexual intercourse, legal age of consent
having sexual intercourse, legal age of consent, age of consent: Hi, Legal advice varies for each state. I cannot give legal advice as I am not a lawyer in your state. I recommend asking a lawyer in your state. I will say that I wouldn t have intercourse with a 24 year old if I was you. I would talk to a doctor about sex...

Teenage Problems: age difference morals, bed undefiled, temple of the holy ghost
bed undefiled, temple of the holy ghost, 1 corinthians 7: Hi Kelly, Thank you for this question. I am sorry for the decision that you have made to have sex outside the holy bond of marriage. I can tell you that any sex outside of marriage is wrong according to the Bible. Hebrews 13:4 4 Marriage is honourable...

Teenage Problems: age difference morals, having sexual intercourse, legal age of consent
having sexual intercourse, legal age of consent, age of consent: Hey Kelly, Firstly and foremostly, if you think you maybe pregnant, no matter how unlikely you think it is, it is important that you take a test. The earlier you know, the greater the number of opportunities that you have and the easier the decisions will...

Teenage Problems: age differences, having sexual intercourse, statutory rape
having sexual intercourse, statutory rape, good luck with everything: Hi Kelly. If the age of consent for sex is 16 then it is fully legal for you to both have sex, as long as you are both consenting! You should be using contraception though. Anyway, if youíre both consenting and as youíre 16 there shouldnít be any legal troubles....

Teenage Problems: Maybe it's not that big of a deal..., depression problems, welcome to the twenty first century
depression problems, welcome to the twenty first century, generation gap: Kalee, Try to compromise. I know that this is anoying but the same thing will probably happen with us and our grand kids. It s just what goes on. Maybe get clothes closer to what they approve of. You don t have to give up your style but maybe take them...

Teenage Problems: College Schlarship, accumulative gpa, wyoming high school
accumulative gpa, wyoming high school, school counselor: Hello Dan, I am sorry about this. You are not the only parent that has gone through this and your son is not alone either. I m not sure what other colleges your son wants to go to but I m sure that if you explain things to a school counselor or to someone...

Teenage Problems: Confused and Scared!!, anxiety panic attacks, anxiety and panic attacks
anxiety panic attacks, anxiety and panic attacks, school counselor: Krystal, If you have been given medication for anxiety by a doctor and your parents are not letting you take either the full dose or any at all, then your parents could be doing you some harm and this needs to be stopped for the benefit of your health....

Teenage Problems: Confusing feelings, confusing feelings, loving relationship
confusing feelings, loving relationship, loving one: Hi Krystina. Itís pretty normal to have feelings for other guys when youíre in a relationship, even in a loving one. Obviously itís best if you donít act on these feelings because, as you said, you love your boyfriend and the other feelings will probably disappear...

Teenage Problems: confused and scared!, anxiety and panic attacks, school counselor
anxiety and panic attacks, school counselor, emotional trauma: Hi Krystal. Okay, get help immediately!! I do not care that your mother said not to see the counsellor. Go and see the counsellor!! Basically your mother needs help too, sheís clearly not well. No mother could honestly try to stop their child from getting...

Teenage Problems: Daughter with Inappropriate boyfriend, continuous smile, first five minutes
continuous smile, first five minutes, outgoing personality: Hey there Lauren, Sorry for the delay in getting back to you, but I ve taken a couple of days to think about your situation and to think about the best cause of action that I think would do minimal damage to all concerned; and to be honest, you are not...

Teenage Problems: dad, stepmum, new woman
stepmum, new woman, dad: Hey Tavvy, If the arrangement is a formal one, set up via the courts, then you may need to get your dad and your mum to sign something to say that they are altering the arrangements of your visits. Or, it could just be that they have to reach a decision...

Teenage Problems: how do i get over my ex that i still love?, girls night, realization
girls night, realization, logan: Hi Nikki, Okay, you are 16. There will be someone else that will make you happy. You might not find him for a while but he s there. I promise. I think that he looks at you that way because he knows that he lost you. A lot of guys are like this. They go through...

Teenage Problems: my exboyfriend, nat king cole, exboyfriend
nat king cole, exboyfriend, capital letters: Hi Morrigan, well about shyness its something you have to get over by being asserive to other people for example when waiting in line and someone tries to jump ahead of you then you immediately say EXCUSE ME BUT IM NEXT OR EXCUSE ME BUT I VE BEEN WAITING...

Teenage Problems: Friends spreading evil rumours about me, life at school, viscious
life at school, viscious, rumours: Hello there Gaz, Sorry to hear that these friends of yours are making your life at school incredibly difficult: it s not fair on you and they have no right to be able to make you feel the way they are. It is not nice when people that are supposed to...

Teenage Problems: fast ejacutation, sexual stamina, fast ejaculation
sexual stamina, fast ejaculation, pornagraphy: Hey Mark, As far as I am aware there is little or no research about this because penis size is usually only measured on men aged 18 because that is when they have supposedly stopped growing. You can search the internet but be very wary of any information...

Teenage Problems: I am findng it so hard to make friends, upperclassman, religious service
upperclassman, religious service, religious services: Isabella, you seem to have come upon a dorm hall where the relationships have already been formed. If you can move it may be the same where you move to. When they go to dinner or breakfast try to go along with them. Ask some of them if they could find some...

Teenage Problems: friends, teenage years, rejection
teenage years, rejection, emotions: You call her a friend? Yet you no longer want to be friends with her? If she is obnoxious or nosy thats one thing. But if you just do not like the person that is another. I do not know of any kind way of brushing off someone who has been a friend. You...

Teenage Problems: God? Science?, big bang theory, first law of thermodynamics
big bang theory, first law of thermodynamics, evolution evolution: Hi Gabby, Thank you so much for this incredible question! I am very sorry for my late response, but I have been sick in bed for a whole week. Let me start by giving you a verse from the Bible: 1 Timothy 6:20 20 O Timothy, keep that which is committed...

Teenage Problems: girl problems, friend zone, girl problems
friend zone, girl problems, mesd: Hey there. Obviously you can t progress things if she has a boyfriend, and if she doesn t fancy you like that anymore then that just makes it worse. I suppose that the best thing you can do at the moment is just be a good friend, but distance yourself slightly....

Teenage Problems: my girlfriend is gone, start crying, ahold
start crying, ahold, perfect man: Hi Aaron, Thank you for this great question. I am vewry sorry for my late response. I have been sick and it has been hard to get caught up with things. In any healthy relationship, each person has a life outside the couple relationship. It looks like...

Teenage Problems: Me and my girlfriend, sign of pregnancy, unwanted pregnancy
sign of pregnancy, unwanted pregnancy, having unprotected sex: Hello John, Having unprotected sex with anyone is not very wise....It is irresponsible and careless...Especially in the society we live in today....Where sexually transmitted disease and infections are prevalent not to mention you run the risk of an unwanted...

Teenage Problems: guy problems, jerk, lena
jerk, lena, sophomore: Lena - It sounds like this is his way of showing you he likes you. Boys are immature and just like they did in elementary school by pulling your hair, they show off in front of their friends by giving you crap and then when they re gone they re fine. ...

Teenage Problems: guys, realationship, new girl
realationship, new girl, lads: If you really want to know then ask some of the gals he has been out with. He might be a player who just stays with a girl long enough to get what he wants then moves on to another girl. Its very common. Some lads are only interested in sex and once they...

Teenage Problems: guys, gurls, thnx
gurls, thnx, ariana: Just say that you don t think that it s fair for you to cheat on her with you and that you don t want to do it. You don t have to make it a long sermon thing but get your point across. This has nothing do do with you cheating on him. If you don t feel good...

http://en.allexperts.com/q/Teenage-Problems-1458/2008/3/Hey-8.htm
distance relationship, mind game, eliz: Matt please please please don t commit suicide. It is not a solution. Your mother cannot bear to see such, neither can I. We ve known eachother for how long? Over 1 year. You told me a while back that you would like to become a psychologist. You reminded me...

Teenage Problems: Home Arrangements, youth fellowships, church youth group
youth fellowships, church youth group, reading problems: Emily, a change in living places is quite a change plus living with your mom and not your dad is quite a change. Changing scholls is also quite a change. Is it possible that you have not reached out to others as you need to? Have you joined any clubs or...

Teenage Problems: hating myself, black sheep, resons
black sheep, resons, elder sister: Hey Riya, I am like this sometimes too. And I hate it. I m not part of a very open family when it comes to feelings so I just hold it in. A lot of people don t realize that this is a normal way to deal with things. Sometimes you have to work through things...

Teenage Problems: help., friendship group, weekened
friendship group, weekened, drunken state: Hello there Paige, Sorry to hear that you are having a bit of a difficult time with your relationship and friendships at the minute. Friendships are the best things in the world when they are going right, but they are also incredibly fragile and sometimes,...

Teenage Problems: hey there...wtf is going on?, nothing in the universe, nice guys
nothing in the universe, nice guys, hater: Hey there Max, Sorry for the delay in getting back to you, it usually takes me about 24/36 hours but this week has been a bit hectic but I ve not forgotten you! It sounds to me that you are constantly in a thoughtful state, where you look at the World...

Teenage Problems: hi, statutory rape, sexual intercourse
statutory rape, sexual intercourse, janurary: Hi Marie. It depends if you re having sex with him. If you re just dating then its fine, but sexual intercourse with him could get you both in trouble, mainly him, because its called statutory rape . The law considers you not old enough to make the decision...

Teenage Problems: inviting friends, one friend, good friends
one friend, good friends, mistake: Hi Amanda. Itís completely unfair of this friend to invite people over to your house without your consent. Itís YOUR house, not hers! Itís up to you whether to let these people come over this time, but I think after this you should have a word with your friend....

Teenage Problems: Long distance., mom lives, ciera
mom lives, ciera, certain age: Hello there Anthony, You are right, no-one has a right to tell you that what you and Ciera are feeling isn t love: simply because no-one really knows how you both feel about each other except yourselves. There isn t a certain age you have to fall in love...

Teenage Problems: Love, long term relationship, quantum physics
long term relationship, quantum physics, girlfriend: Hey Caroline, There are other things to do in a relationship then have sex. It actually works better that way. They guy might just not be interested in sex right now. A lot of people are like that. He might just want to have a girlfriend and call it good....

Teenage Problems: my life sucks, step mom, different boys
step mom, different boys, going to the library: Do you have any relatives or friends that you could stay with and I know it sounds corny but praying might give you some security sounds like you need to work on your self-esteem (and not in a bad way) but force yourself to look at at least one thing positive...

Teenage Problems: Am I losing it??, dentist visit, doctor answer
dentist visit, doctor answer, root ca: Hey Victor, There are several causes for you to have a panic attack that can trigger these symptoms you have described and these triggers should be identified and controlled to stop them from making you feel this anxiety and anxiousness you do. Identifying...

Teenage Problems: does he love me, man seeth, abundance of the heart
man seeth, abundance of the heart, looketh on the heart: Hello Ayeda, Thank you for this great question. I can think of two Bible principles that will help you with this situation: 1. It is impossible to know exactly what is in a man s heart simply by reading external signs like whether or not he returns...

Teenage Problems: I am in love w/ my bestfriend, braw, preassure
braw, preassure, stoped: Hello, Thank you for this great question. I think that I have a few things that may help you. 1. You are young. You do not need to consider marriage yet, so you can allow this relationship to develop naturally. Do not pressure her or yourself to...

Teenage Problems: Mother Troubles, good mood, emma
good mood, emma, good luck: Hi Emma. You could try getting her when sheís not busy and in a good mood and just saying ďMum, how come you never want to talk to me?Ē If she says she does, then say ďBut you donít want to listen to my problems.Ē See what she says to that. Sheíll probably...

Teenage Problems: I'm depressed and don't have anything going for me, social fear, social phobia
social fear, social phobia, fourwheelers: Hello, I too had a social fear and was having trouble finding my talents and interests, so donít worry your not the only one that is going threw this. My advice to you is to try different things without regrets. An example would be to try out for a play...

Teenage Problems: I'm doubting my relationship., go getter, first kiss
go getter, first kiss, scholorship: Hello there Edyna, All relationships go through peaks and troughs, through their good stages and bad stages, but what you have to think about is whether or not this situation will change if your boyfriend got a job or whether or not it would actually matter....

Teenage Problems: mom, moms a whore, home agian
moms a whore, home agian, responsible parent: Hello Emma, I don t have a whole lot of info so I can only make assumptions as to what may be happening..... Just from what you are telling me I gather your mother got pregnant with you as a teen or at least when she was very young.....She was married twice...

Teenage Problems: Please help me, i cant do this anymore!, full time job, convience store
full time job, convience store, bedroom apartment: Hello there Alicia, Thank you for writing to me and I am sorry that you are having such a hard time with everything at the moment: it seems like at the moment, from what you have told me, you are extremely unhappy and if things do not change soon, then...

Teenage Problems: Please help me, i cant do this anymore!, full time job, convience store
full time job, convience store, bedroom apartment: you need to surround yourself with positive energy and positive people in your life and you dad is clearly not this, as far as the pregnancy goes you need to get tested, but you also need to ask yourself if your ready to be a mom because you can consider (key...

Teenage Problems: Please help me, i cant do this anymore!, full time job, convience store
full time job, convience store, bedroom apartment: Hi Alicia. You really shouldnít be expected to pay all of that! Especially if you are pregnant, youíll need all the money you can get. Pregnancy is expensive, whether you decide to get an abortion (costs money for that) or to keep it and raise it (obviously...

Teenage Problems: A Problem =(, financial responsability, dish boy
financial responsability, dish boy, boss lady: Hi Raymond, Thank you for this great question. Have you asked your parents about this? Do you have financial responsability at this point? It would seem to me that if you are not having to save for college, if you have no financial commitment, and if...

Teenage Problems: Problems, Problems, Problems . . ., self esteem issues, relationship problems
self esteem issues, relationship problems, outgoing person: Hello there Brooke, I think that the problems with your relationship stem from the fact that you don t like confrontation because you can t articulate how you are really feeling and rather than get out what you want to say, end up keeping quiet because...

Teenage Problems: More Problems More Problems, sexual intercorse, themself
sexual intercorse, themself, boyfriends: Hi Nawja. Just because you haven t been having sex doesn t mean that he s cheating on you. Boys don t necessarily need sex, they just need to ejaculate. They can do this by masturbating (pleasuring themself with their hand) so they don t actually need to have...

Teenage Problems: my penis, bumps on my penis, allexperts
bumps on my penis, allexperts, unlce: Hello again, So far I haven t found anything that relates to you. All of them are STD s and I don t think that you have one. I ll keep looking but right now I suggest that you talk to your dad or an unlce or some other guy that you feel comfortable talking...

Teenage Problems: will my penis grow?, small penis, hey dave
small penis, hey dave, grandpa: Hey Dave, That kind of depends on what you think is small. But you are only 14 so I think that it will probably grow more. This is kind of a genetic thing so if you want to and it s not too uncomfortable, you can ask your dad or grandpa or an uncle or someone....

Teenage Problems: penis problem, penile skin, yellow discharge
penile skin, yellow discharge, peniss: Hello Eduardo, Firstly, I am not a doctor but this problem you are describing sounds like you could be looking at something called smegma Smegma is a white substance that appears under the foreskin and all over the head of the penis (called the glans)....

Teenage Problems: please help me at this crucial stage, psalm 1, asone
psalm 1, asone, skul: Hi Vicki, Thank you for your great question. I will give you some advice by giving you a few verses of scripture to consider: Psalm 1:1-3 Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor...

Teenage Problems: relationships, close friends, google
close friends, google, relationships: I would find out for yourself first. I am pretty sure that it wouldn t be illegal but check again because laws change all the time. If it s okay, more power to you. :) It s important to know the law before you do anything because it could land you both in...

Teenage Problems: relatives prob, family gatherings, real sisters
family gatherings, real sisters, living hell: Hi Riya, Well as you say you are from India so there may be customs or laws that I am not familiar with....So I don not want to jeopardize any relationship you have with your family..So the only advice I d give to you is practical advice I d give to my...

Teenage Problems: relatives prob, real sisters, living hell
real sisters, living hell, drama queens: Hey there Riya, There is an old fashioned saying you can choose your friends but you can t choose your family and it s true. We can pick who we want in our lives to support us, but we cannot choose who we have been born related to: it is something that...

Teenage Problems: relatives prob, real sisters, living hell
real sisters, living hell, drama queens: Hey Riya, You have a right to not see your relatives if they make you uncomfortable. I haven t seen my grandma in over 2 years because I don t like the way she talks about my dad. You have no obligation to see them. But I think that you should work it out...

Teenage Problems: relatives prob, self esteem issues, real sisters
self esteem issues, real sisters, living hell: If you MUST go to the family events, then go. But you can still avoid them at those events as much as possible. And I agree that you should not cut your links. As I mentioned in my first email to you, do not burn bridges. Just stay as positive as you...

Teenage Problems: relatives prob, real sisters, living hell
real sisters, living hell, drama queens: This is the year 2008 now and its 2008 no matter where in the world you live. If you are asking me if i would continue to associate with people who treated be badly, then the answer is NO. You have to avoid people i would call Toxic people. Your relatives...

Teenage Problems: relatives prob, children obey your parents, real sisters
children obey your parents, real sisters, cambri: Hi Riya, Thank you for this great question. I am sorry that you are going through such a difficult time. There are a few things that I can tell you that might help. 1. It matters what your parents think. Do they want you to be at family functions...

Teenage Problems: relatives prob, real sisters, living hell
real sisters, living hell, drama queens: Hi Riya. I understand how you feel; I canít stand my cousinís husband. The thing is, heís never done anything. I just donít trust him. Call it a gut feeling, but I canít trust him and I just donít like him, so I understand how hard it is to pretend. Every...

Teenage Problems: relatives problem, real sisters, teenage problems
real sisters, teenage problems, living hell: Stuti I have a similar problem here in the states. I dislike a few of my relatives, yet my family has told me that they are there for me when I need them. Friends will come and go, yet relatives, well they are blood related and should stay connected somehow....

Teenage Problems: Skool, good come backs, talking trash
good come backs, talking trash, saying things: Hey Erica, School is like this. The only people that should be mad are the two guys. But everyone wants to talk about something and you are the new topic. Eventually it will blow over. Ignore it or come up with good come backs. If they aren t really good,...

Teenage Problems: MY SON'S GIRLFRIEND LYING ABOUT CANCER, mid semester, nothing works
mid semester, nothing works, emotional health: Hey there Maureen, It sounds like it s been a tough couple of weeks for you and I am genuinely sorry about your loss and about the fact that things haven t seemingly got any better with your son and his girlfriend. I know that it must be frustrating, especially...

Teenage Problems: Spring Break, first day of spring, little at a time
first day of spring, little at a time, candace: Hey Candace, My parents are teachers so they kind of let me do what I want because they are out of school too for the weekend but a lot of parents are like this. They don t realize that teenagers need a break in order to keep going through the end of the...

Teenage Problems: my son is failing at life!, substance abuse issues, military recruiter
substance abuse issues, military recruiter, roaring stream: Hi Lisa - your son will probably not make any significant changes in his life unless and until things become so uncomfortable that it motivates him to change. In other words, many teenagers simply have to bottom out before they will act. There are a...

Teenage Problems: Things about puberty, penis size, puberty
penis size, puberty, losing weight: Hey there Bob, It sounds like you have a lot of things going on that you need some advice and inforamtion on so I hope I can help; but let s take each on in turn. a) Your penis size: Bob, most lads worry about the size of their penis, about whether...

Teenage Problems: Topless Beach, free beaches, disney sea
free beaches, disney sea, vending machines: Hi. I was 10 years old when I went on a family holiday, and when we were walking along a beach we ended up walking along a nudist part of the beach. I was quite embarrassed and didn t know where to look, but if I was comfortable with nudity, it would have...

Teenage Problems: Do you think you can give me some advice?, boyfriend mike, roller coaster
boyfriend mike, roller coaster, myspace: Hey Paul, She might just mean that she is friends with him again. It might be in a relationship but just friends. Talk to her first. Get to know her. Talk more than online and between classes. Ask her to go to a movie or with you and a bunch of people to...

Teenage Problems: Do you think you can give me some advice?, boyfriend mike, myspace
boyfriend mike, myspace, sophomore: Hi Paul. So, getting more than just friends. The best way to get more than that is to act like a friend. That might sound weird, but it makes sense. Just start off by being there, and asking if she wants to talk about the break-up. That way you might be...

Teenage Problems: Do you think you can give me some advice?, friend zone, boyfriend mike
friend zone, boyfriend mike, myspace: Hi Paul, Well at your age it s kind of difficult to give out dating advice to you. For the simple fact that dating is very complex and well so are girls.....This girl likes you as a friend and that is a good thing.....However, since you are in the friend...

Teenage Problems: Do you think you can give me some advice?, boyfriend mike, something fun
boyfriend mike, something fun, myspace: that s a tough spot to me well I d ask her if she wants to go out to a movie just real casual at first say hey I m real sorry to hear about you and you if you ever need to talk I m here what do you say we do something fun this weekend like go see a movie then...

Teenage Problems: tired of everything, metaphorical sense, guy friends
metaphorical sense, guy friends, excuse: Hey there Joe, I am sorry to hear that you are having a bit of a rough time of late and that things haven t worked out as well as you would like liked with this girl; I hope I can offer you some helpful advice. Girls are confusing beings and sometimes...

Teenage Problems: torn, freshman girl, school juniors
freshman girl, school juniors, class mates: You are still in high school and he is probably not. This means he has been out in the world and you have not. My advice to you is to stick with guys in your own age group. To date someone older is not good. Guys who are even just a little older have a...

Teenage Problems: ummm, geography class, kind of girl
geography class, kind of girl, best of luck: Hey Allison, I am the kind of girl that likes the guys. I think that they are more fun to be around. Girls are too hormone-y and it s annoying sometimes. I don t like being around the guys for dates or anything. I just like them more. So, I think that you...

Teenage Problems: am i under weight, carrie, 1m
carrie, 1m, good luck: Hi Carrie. If you meant 70lb aka pounds, then yes you are under weight. If you meant 70 kilos, then that s normal. If you didn t make a mistake, and you weigh 70 pounds, then that really is under weight and can be considered unhealthy. Your friends are probably...

Teenage Problems: urges, going through puberty, target audience
going through puberty, target audience, religious faiths: Kion, first of all delete all the porn and delete all the sites. Theres always an internet trail back to your computer and what you see may not be legal. next about the girl you cannot expect any kind of relationship with someone who is not your type. Anyone...

Teenage Problems: Wicked Step Mom, golddiger, friend sandra
golddiger, friend sandra, step mom: Cho, this is a classic case of the stepdaughter being a Rival in the stepmoms head. She sees you as a competitor for the attentions of your father. She knows she has no blood relation to you while you are your dads daughter. She would like nothing better...

Teenage Problems: I want to be taken seriously, blonde cheerleader, adult thing
blonde cheerleader, adult thing, adult role: Hello there Audrie, It is a very mature and adult thing that you do want to break away from being seen as a youngster and that you do want to have more of a say in your life: a lot of young people get to 21 before they realise that they actually have to...

Teenage Problems: alot!, mood swings, roof over my head
mood swings, roof over my head, emotional balance: Mai, This is probably just your age youre in. You are in the midst of puberty so naturally you will have mood swings. There are times when you feel happy and times when you feel sad. Do not let someone convince you that you are a bi-polar type or they will...

Teenage Problems: BF question, infatuation, guts
infatuation, guts, cousins: Hello, You need to find out if you just have a crush on the new guy or if it s really feelings and more than an infatuation. Then once that is figured out, you can go from there. He s probably attached to you because he doesn t want to lose you. I know...

Teenage Problems: Boyfriend, His friends, my emotions, saying things, messes
saying things, messes, couple days: Hi Tiffany, Thank you for saying that I am the best thing out there. Sometimes I wonder if I really am helping people. So thanks for making me feel better. Anyway, this is a typical thing that happens when you go out with someone s friend. It is the original...

Teenage Problems: Boyfriend Problem, insecure feelings, lack of trust
insecure feelings, lack of trust, wonderful day: Hi Megan, You need to trust your own guts. If he keep changing stories or wouldn t be straight with you, don t start the relationship with this boy. You stated that two of you has/had relationship on and off, that shows insecure feelings and lack...

Teenage Problems: Boys!!!, tilly, close friends
tilly, close friends, feelings: Hi Tilly, First off, I have to get into the legal stuff. You can t legally date this guy until you are 18. That s just how it is in most places. Check that out before you do anything. You can become close friends. If you do go out with him be happy with...

Teenage Problems: Boys and Sex, boys and sex, sex question
boys and sex, sex question, stephanie: Do not have sex if it it just to get rid of a feeling. You should love this person like you have never loved anyone before and if you still care that a guy was your first boyfriend, then I don t think that you are ready. If you care for him as a friend, that...

Teenage Problems: boyfriend problemsss, self esteem
self esteem: DUMP him when a guy accuses YOU that USUALLY means that he is the one that is cheating on you because he feels guilty he wants an easy way out so he accuses you ........ do you really think someone accusing you and calling you a hoe is good for your self-esteem...

Teenage Problems: My boyfriend wants me to hurt him..., counselour, having sex
counselour, having sex, self esteem: well this is something you can t fix, he needs to actually see a counselour or someone that actually has a degree in this kind of behavior, that is NOT normal and he NEEDS help if he delights or gets happy when he is pain then not only is his self-esteem...

Teenage Problems: Child molestation, cause god, bad reputation
cause god, bad reputation, sex with children: Hi Jeremy, THanks for this very bizzarre question. Do not open that door! I understand that your desire to have sex is blinding, but do not feed that! If you oepn the door to homosexuality even by seducing a priest, you may never be free from that sin...

Teenage Problems: communism, john carpenter, pastor don
john carpenter, pastor don, horror movie: Hi John, I am not a fan of communism, but there are many people on this planet whith whom I disagree. THere are many who hold to dangerous beliefs. It is our mission to love them, and if possible, reach them with the truth. 2 Timothy 2:24-26 24 And...

Teenage Problems: concerns regarding my 12 year old son, ups and downs, little baby
ups and downs, little baby, pre teens: As he approaches adolesence its not unusual for a 12 or 13 year old to be moody. Their body is changing and they are feeling the effects of the increased surge in hormones. This leads to ups and downs. He is no longer the cute little baby or 5 year old...

Teenage Problems: confusion about me & my mom, doing the dishes, talking nonsense
doing the dishes, talking nonsense, silly jokes: Well Emilio from the way you articulate yourself you aren t an ignorant person....So obviously you realize that incestuous feelings are wrong....Which is part of what is going on...You are attracted to your mother in a sexual manner obviously if you continue...

Teenage Problems: confusion about me & my mom, doing the dishes, talking nonsense
doing the dishes, talking nonsense, silly jokes: when you ejaculated it was NOT becase of your mom it was because you were thinking of a girl that time and maybe you were subconsciously thinking of the thong and the little clothing your mom was wearing so you were thinking of those clothing items on ANOTHER...

Teenage Problems: confusion about me & my mom, doing the dishes, talking nonsense
doing the dishes, talking nonsense, silly jokes: Hi Emilio, I am actually kind of glad that you made this as long as you did. I would have asked questions that would have made it longer anyway so thank you for being thorough. Anyway, you said that g-strings do turn you on. It it possible that your mind...

Teenage Problems: (almost) cutting, school counselor, bad idea
school counselor, bad idea, fridge: Hi Kitty, There are better ways to get over crying. And crying isn t a bad thing. Actually, and I m not just saying this, every once in a while I will make myself break down and cry because stress builds up and I can t handle it. I just go in my room and...

Teenage Problems: My Daughter in France, daughter age, homesickness
daughter age, homesickness, tendancy: Hi Catherine. It might simply be that she is too young. She is after all only 15 years old and on the other side of the world, away from her friends and family, everything sheís ever known. Sheís bound to become homesick. Also, these losses are extremely...

Teenage Problems: DEPRESSION, blank paper, best of luck
blank paper, best of luck, loneliness: Hi Krista. You canít really be cured until youíve found out what the cause is, so you should try to find what the root of the problem actually is. A good idea is getting a big piece of blank paper and doing a Ďmind mapí. Write one word in the middle, such...

Teenage Problems: Depression Issues, binge eater, promise breaker
binge eater, promise breaker, depression issues: Hi Brianna, I am so sorry about how you are feeling. I can relate to some of it but not all of it. With your dad, either try to block what he says or, if you think you can, tell him that you don t appreciate him telling you to lose weight or whatever. If...

Teenage Problems: Dyslexic Test, free dyslexia test, uk source
free dyslexia test, uk source, learning difficulties: Hey Jim, I have managed to find an website offering a free dyslexia test, but regardless of the outcome for the condition to be diagnosed you would need to be assessed by a doctor who would have to carry out more tests. The website is: http://www.dore.co.uk/?c1=AW:UK&source=Dyslexia:Dyslexia+Symptom:S:H1&kw=symptoms%20of%20dyslexia...

Teenage Problems: dating ex's, weird post, post pardum
weird post, post pardum, exs: Hi Amanda, Thank you for saying that about me. Now the pressure s on. Okay, this could just be a weird post-pardum thing. Once you are with someone for so long, you miss them a lot when you aren t together anymore. I don t know how long you haven t been...

Teenage Problems: dating an older man, associate manager, trouble with the law
associate manager, trouble with the law, month and a half: Ok well I don t know either of you so I can only make a suggestion........If you care about each other you d wait that month in a half to see each other legally........I think that big of an age difference is too big since you are not even 18 yet if you were...

Teenage Problems: my daughter, masturbating, hawk
masturbating, hawk, addiction: Gena - Thank you for writing and I am so sorry for your pain. You seem like a great mom and I wish there were more like you. Since you are able to talk to your daughter about this issue, I suggest you take what I call a temporary approach. Let s treat...

Teenage Problems: I don't have any friends., debate team, playing soccer
debate team, playing soccer, bad luck: Hi Joe. Iíd recommend you take up another activity if you have the time. Iím not sure why you had to drop out of the debate team, but if you have the time then itíd be a good idea to take something else up. Soccer is good because you get to know your other...

Teenage Problems: my exboyfriend, nat king cole, exboyfriend
nat king cole, exboyfriend, capital letters: Hi Morrigan, well about shyness its something you have to get over by being asserive to other people for example when waiting in line and someone tries to jump ahead of you then you immediately say EXCUSE ME BUT IM NEXT OR EXCUSE ME BUT I VE BEEN WAITING...

Teenage Problems: Feeling... 'dunno', day i dread, initial effort
day i dread, initial effort, favourite tv: Hey Jessie, If watching TV is a way for you to forget about everything, find something that you and you friends can do together to forget about everything. I understand about not being very social. I am like that too. So this might take a while. But if you...

Teenage Problems: Foreskin doesn't roll over the head, sexual intercourse, phimosis
sexual intercourse, phimosis, foreskin: Hello there Andrew, The foreskin is a piece of skin that covers the head of the penis with the intention of protecting the glans from irritation and dirt. It also helps during sexual intercourse by rubbing the glans and causing stimulation. With all that...

Teenage Problems: Friend Question, college freshman, independent person
college freshman, independent person, being friends: Terri, I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see my comments. I m not shouting. Friend Question Question: Hi, and thanks for taking the time to read my question. I m a 19 year old college freshman (a girl). My question is...

Teenage Problems: Friends, awkward moments, fun sport
awkward moments, fun sport, real friends: Hey Roxane, This actually happens to a lot of people around this age. It happened to me. I know what this is like. Try to join a club or play a sport. Most of the school sports are done but you can play with the city and meet people that way and then you...

Teenage Problems: Friendship Problem, bachelors in engineering, social networking site
bachelors in engineering, social networking site, share music: Hey again. I think you should just trust in her that something is going on and offer your support. Just let her know that you are there for her if she wants to talk at all and ask her to call you if she feels lonely and needs someone to comfort her. This will...

Teenage Problems: father cheating, faithful are the wounds, work heres
faithful are the wounds, work heres, faithful are the wounds of a friend: Hi Susan, Thank you for this great question. I am very sorry for this late response. Here is a passage to consider: Proverbs 27:5-6 5 Open rebuke is better than secret love. 6 Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful....

Teenage Problems: am i a freak?, self harm, little brother
self harm, little brother, keeping a diary: Hey Kitty. No, scratching does not make you a freak, absolutely not. Itís a form of self harm and it is used as a coping strategy when youíre feeling extremely powerful emotions, usually negative ones. Itís not a very good idea because, while it makes you...

Teenage Problems: friend problems, holidays in america, friend problems
holidays in america, friend problems, dirty looks: Hey there Claire, I know how annoying it is when you are the life and soul of your group and when you become aware of someone who just doesn t seem to get you at all. But the thing that you have to remember is that it doesn t matter about this one girl...

Teenage Problems: friends drama, esterday, slut
esterday, slut, spotlight: Hello Ligia, This has happened to me before so I know that it sucks. You have to tell them that you didn t say anything wrong about them. They are most likely doing this because they like drama. There always has to be a problem with them and now you are...

Teenage Problems: GF wants to be single, moon and stars, wonderful day
moon and stars, wonderful day, roommates: Hi Eric, She needs more time and her own space. It is really has nothing do with you being good enough for her. You need to be patient and her time will come when she is ready to engage the relationship again. Don t keep pushing her or tell her stuff,...

Teenage Problems: Girl problem, perfect gentleman, girl problem
perfect gentleman, girl problem, sports event: I ask people to give their age but im guessing you are both teens . You have to get up the courage to call her on the phone or best of all see her and walk up to her and dont tell you are madly in love with her. Keep that to yourself. Instead do some homework...

Teenage Problems: gf, pussy lips, older guys
pussy lips, older guys, nipples: Well I m glad you talked to her and got your voice across, that s really good. Honestly, if she cared about your opinions then she d listen, but its probably a self-esteem thing. She probably isn t very confident about herself, whether it seems that way or...

Teenage Problems: girlfriend, boy girl relationship, meaningful relationship
boy girl relationship, meaningful relationship, quotation marks: James. Your girlfriend in quotation marks does not appear to have the desire to have a boy-girl relationship at this stage. You are just the opposite. You want a bpy-gorl relationship. She sounds more interested in her schoolwork and if that is the case...

Teenage Problems: guy problems, major gap, liking
major gap, liking, statistic: Hi Chelsea. Itís pretty tough only hearing one thing from everyone, especially when itís not necessarily what you want to hear. The problem here is that there is a major gap. Not just the age, but also mentally and emotionally. Youíre not quite 17 yet so youíre...

Teenage Problems: guys, gurls, thnx
gurls, thnx, ariana: Just say that you don t think that it s fair for you to cheat on her with you and that you don t want to do it. You don t have to make it a long sermon thing but get your point across. This has nothing do do with you cheating on him. If you don t feel good...

Teenage Problems: Help, juat, five months
juat, five months, preacher: Sarah, Do not have sex with him. You are in 8th grade. There are funner things to be doing. You don t need to be thinking about marriage right now at all. If he needs someone to be there, be his friend. You can even be his girlfriend if that s something...

Teenage Problems: Help, blending families, mends
blending families, mends, good solution: Brenda - thank you for writing. I don t think sending her to her grandparents is the solution here. What your daughter is seeking is two things: Order and attention. Give those to her. What she needs is to know that there is a place for her to go...

Teenage Problems: I hate my mom and want to die., step dad, pissed cause
step dad, pissed cause, eath: Hallie - thank you for having the courage to write. I am so sorry for what you are going through. You don t mention your age but just know that what you are going through is very temporary. It may seem like a long time away but these times will pass....

Teenage Problems: help, school counsellor, depressive illnesses
school counsellor, depressive illnesses, psychotic depression: Hi Colin. Why do you think youíre developing psychotic depression? Are you suffering from any of the symptoms? Psychotic depression is one of the most severe depressive illnesses out there, so youíd have to have some reason for considering this. It is a...

Teenage Problems: help, older guys, stacy
older guys, stacy: Hey Stacy, In most states of the US, as long as you are not sexually active under the age of 18 then there is not really a legal issue. Dating someone older than you is fine as long as it remains within the law and you do not have sex until you turn 18:...

Teenage Problems: help i dont kno what to do anymore, friends at school, underachiever
friends at school, underachiever, sophmore: Amy, I don t know where you live and laws regarding attendance in school varies from state to state.....However, if you miss one day of school you are missing a lot!!!! Forget about dating unless you are striving for an underachiever or someone who has...

Teenage Problems: im very strange, pontiac trans am, american cars
pontiac trans am, american cars, capital letters: Colin, I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see my answers. Im not shouting. hey wass up dude. i wanted to ask you a few questions.im hoping you can provide me with good answers. Q1. i have this really bad anger against...

Teenage Problems: its complicated, lonely girl, bruises
lonely girl, bruises, sarcasm: Hi Jessica, Thank you for this great question. I am very sorry for my late response. I strongly suggest that you speak with a pastor or a Christian counsellor. I cannot help you on the level that you need over the internet. Jesus died to make you a...

Teenage Problems: its complicated, lonely girl, bruises
lonely girl, bruises, sarcasm: Hey there Jessica, You sound to me like you have a lot of things going on in your mind and thoughts that keep appearing that shouldn t be: but you are not helping yourself or your state of mind by not taking the mediciation you have been prescribed. If...

Teenage Problems: this is long but can you please help?, laugh and smile, boyfriend mike
laugh and smile, boyfriend mike, twist of fate: you respect her descion at least you told her you re right and no I she doesn t like you in that way, kind of single now that depends on the girl but maybe because she got out of a long relationship she truly does like being single and not feel attached...

Teenage Problems: this is long, but can you please help?, laugh and smile, boyfriend mike
laugh and smile, boyfriend mike, twist of fate: Hey Paul, I ve had longer ones and they don t have as much stuff as you do so I end up asking for more details or who the people are they are asking about. So, your question is great. Don t worry about it. Anyway, for your first question, I think that...

Teenage Problems: The main problem is me!?!?, little mistakes, fight scenes
little mistakes, fight scenes, rough time: Hi Shelly, Thank you for this great question. I am very sorry for my late response. I am also sorry that you are having such a rough time at home. I have a couple of things that might help. 1. Find someone that you can confide in. Perhaps you could...

Teenage Problems: math, homework section, counseling center
homework section, counseling center, those guys: Hi Hannia, You can talk to your teacher and see if they can help you more before or after school. Go to the counseling center and see if you can get a study hall class. There is a homework section on Allexperts. See if any of those guys can help you. I might...

Teenage Problems: my mom & my boyfriend, open relationship, lack of communication
open relationship, lack of communication, bf: Hey, Kristin. Well it s kind of strange that she was first okay with him moving in during the summer but she s not okay with him coming over? I don t know how old you are, but, if you re planning to move in with him, maybe you should wait till you guys get...

Teenage Problems: moving out, mail telephone, compulsory education
mail telephone, compulsory education, telephone conversation: Hey there Danielle, At 16, you are old enough to make your own decisions about what it is you want from life and where it is you want to go. As long as you are safe, happy and healthy and you can complete you compulsory education, then there is not really...

Teenage Problems: moving out age????, high school education, nebraska state
high school education, nebraska state, part time job: Hi Chris, Your friend s parents are correct about age according to Nebraska state law, two ways to move out legally at 18 if she gets a part time job and still in school OR graduate high school at 18 then she can move out. State law put parents responsibility/burden...

Teenage Problems: i need immediate help not serious but please, friends dad, stupid things
friends dad, stupid things, fun games: Hey Brittany, You need to give me some information first. Where are you going? What do you like to do? Are you the kind of people that think stupid things are fun? How many games to you want? What kind of games do you want? How long are you going to be gone?...

Teenage Problems: PARENTS!!!, graduate from high school, wonderful day
graduate from high school, wonderful day, emancipation: Hi Joey, According to many states s laws, once you graduate from high school and hold a job to able to live at your own, YES you can legally move out even your not 18. She has to take you to family court to fight you if she does not want you move out. ...

Teenage Problems: Penis Erection, punjab india, relaxing music
punjab india, relaxing music, psychological effects: Hello there Pushpinder, It sounds to me like your problem could be a psychological one and that in order for you to sustain an erection you need to settle your mind and get your life in order so that you are happy. Psychological effects, that is, what you...

Teenage Problems: Please at least read this., virg, rest of the day
virg, rest of the day, hesitation: Hayley - You need to tell someone you care about what happened. He pressured you into having sex...even though you said yes, you meant no. I call that rape. Please talk to an adult or therapist or someone you care about and even see if charges are possible....

Teenage Problems: Problems with family, mom and dad, time at home
mom and dad, time at home, appetites: Hey there Samantha, Thank you for writing to me and I am sorry to hear that you are having such a tough time at home: it s never easy trying to get on with your life and your school work etc, but it can be made a hell of a lot difficult when people just...

Teenage Problems: preganacy, aneamic, symptoms of pregnancy
aneamic, symptoms of pregnancy, pregnancy test: Hey Brenda, The symptoms of pregnancy can take time to show up and it could be possible that if you have had unprotected sex with your boyfriend that you could be pregnant. There is always a risk of pregnancy occuring when a condom is not used during sex;...

Teenage Problems: pregnent and in placement, pregnent, family attorney
pregnent, family attorney, personal decision: Hi Matthew, It all depends on person s state of mind and family personal decision. You say locked up which means she can t get out of place? Please clarify. If it is true then yes it is illegal. You need to consult with family attorney who can further...

Teenage Problems: RELATIONSHIP/STEP DAUGHTER?, christian counsellor, mortgage industry
christian counsellor, mortgage industry, step daughter: Hi TFLORENCE Thank you for this great question. I am very sorry for my slow response. It is very difficult to give you what you need in this post, but I think that I can point you in the right direction. 1. You should get with your pastor or a Christian...

Teenage Problems: Now Really Confused, fun prom, new girl
fun prom, new girl, ex girlfriend: Hey Jose, I am so sorry that I haven t answered this yet. There was a family thing that was totally unexpected. Sorry again. You need to tell the girl that you like someone else. It won t be a fun prom if you don t want to be there with her and you keep...

Teenage Problems: realationship promblems, cute things, 5 months
cute things, 5 months, summer time: I would start doing role reversial the cute things that he use to do with you, you do with him like see what he wants to see in the movie call him up and say hey I got a suprise for you I got two tickets to see .... tonight what do you say maybe we could go...

Teenage Problems: i really need help, drugs and alcohol, complete trust
drugs and alcohol, complete trust, scottie: Hi, Can I ask your state? Suicide is clearly not the answer. I recommend you to speak to a psychologist. I also recommend you to speak to a doctor. I will try to help you, yet I cannot replace the above. Please ask follow ups. Please don t kill your self...

Teenage Problems: related to sex, internet search engine, lair
internet search engine, lair, prob: Hi Parvesh. It would help if I knew how old you are and how much fluid is coming out, but you said itís just when you think about it or see porn so Iím guessing itís probably just Ďpre-cumí. You can look this up on an Internet search engine to learn more about...

Teenage Problems: School, decent education, 10th grade
decent education, 10th grade, local services: Hello there Janeer, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and to share your concerns. I know that it is not easy to ask for help when you are so used to dealing with things by yourself, but I hope I can help in some way. I think it is important...

Teenage Problems: School shit, dropping out of school, krys
dropping out of school, krys, incident report: If you change schools, you can still see your friends outside of school. Avoid this teacher. I don t know what you did that made her act like this but you need to stay away from her. You can go tell the school district because they are the ones that actually...

Teenage Problems: Sex, methods of contraception, withdrawal method
methods of contraception, withdrawal method, white discharge: Hi Liz. You should have used condoms or the pill, or even both because no form of contraception is completely safe. The withdrawal method is actually very dangerous because boys can have Ďpre-cumí which basically means some pre-ejaculatatory semen that comes...

Teenage Problems: Son lies, steals has no respect, genius iq, credit card details
genius iq, credit card details, husband andy: Hi Pam. I know itís hard but you have to try really hard not to blame yourself or your husband. Andy could have turned out like this no matter how you brought him up. Thereís no manual on exactly how to raise a child, so itís a very difficult task and most...

Teenage Problems: Son using drugs, teenagers life, downward spiral
teenagers life, downward spiral, parental expectations: Hello Anita - thank you for writing and I am sorry for your pain. You already know that what you are experiencing is not terribly abnormal for teenage boys - although your son has gone further than most. It sounds to me as though there is one word here...

Teenage Problems: Everyone seems reluctant to touch this question.., dominance and submission, sadism and masochism
dominance and submission, sadism and masochism, bondage discipline: Hi Lola. There isnít anything wrong with your boyfriend, heís just into a form of BDSM. BDSM is an abbreviation of bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism. These terms are all easy to look up on the internet or in a dictionary....

Teenage Problems: sex, losing your virginity, freshman year
losing your virginity, freshman year, suicidel: Hi Elizabeth. It is really hard to deal with losing your virginity when you know you werenít ready, even if you thought you were at the time. Itís so hard to understand what they mean until you experience it because you really donít think itís going to...

Teenage Problems: sex, good experience, best friend
good experience, best friend, long time: Sam, DO NOT HAVE SEX JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOR A LONG TIME!!!!! That s not a good idea. Sex should only be done when both people love each other and are committed to staying with each other forever. In other words, marriage. My guess is...

Teenage Problems: sex/virginity, losing your virginity, teenage pregnancies
losing your virginity, teenage pregnancies, genuine feelings: Hello Olivia, I don t know how old you are but remaining a virgin is very admirable. Olivia maybe you can think about something else rather than thinking about masturbating....Perhaps you could go for a jog and listen to music ....Maybe you could...

Teenage Problems: sexuality, sexual orientation, hormonal changes
sexual orientation, hormonal changes, physical changes: Katherine, in the teenage years we all have many different feelings. Its not uncommon to think about someone of the same sex and to like them and be infatuated with them. If you are attracted to boys as well as girls thats also not an uncommon feeling. ...

Teenage Problems: how do i stop my deppression?, deppresion, deppression
deppresion, deppression, friends mom: Hi, well I can assure you that when something like this happens to someone they start acting differently & many times it affects their families. One of my really close friends mom had breast cancer (she s allright now) but during that time he was under a...

Teenage Problems: stress of mom, mom, feelings
mom, feelings, clothes: Hey Kaysha, Do you know why she got a divorce? If you don t know the whole story, you can t really understand what she is going through. This will take a long time for her to get over. Try to be understanding of her. Talk to her. Make her feel that you love...

Teenage Problems: Teen daughter out of control, delinquent juveniles, care attitude
delinquent juveniles, care attitude, patti patti: Patti - in cases like this you really have no option but to take a very hard line with her. You and your husband need to decide what you are willing to do to end this misery for you. Meet with your daughter and tell her that you are through supporting...

Teenage Problems: Tennis, tennis scholarship, tennis area
tennis scholarship, tennis area, tennis academy: Hi, A good idea is to talk to a trusted teacher. I had a problem like yours, yet with chess instead of tennis. I did take a break from chess and while it did help clear my mind, it did cause a problem with my self getting into college. I recommend our Tennis...

Teenage Problems: Why Can't I Get a Boyfriend?, tight cliques, huge boobs
tight cliques, huge boobs, popular girl: Hey there Oriane, Sorry to hear that things are not going well for you at the moment and that you are feeling a bit on your own; but hopefully I can offer some reassurance and some practical advice. Firstly, you are not on your own in the way you are...

Teenage Problems: writing, junie b jones books, mob princess
junie b jones books, mob princess, junie b jones: Hi Kitty. I personally believe that writing, reading and literature in general are some of the most important things in education and life, and you should be encouraged to read and write. Iím not sure how old you are though, and that has a big impact on things....

Teenage Problems: Me, ab workout, stomache
ab workout, stomache, being friends: If you think that your stomache is too big, you can exercise and that will tone it up. If you want a more ab-y look, do an ab workout everyday and soon your middle section will get stronger. If you think it s too small, do ab workouts. That will build muscle...

Teenage Problems: 19 and lonely, lack confidence, uni friends
lack confidence, uni friends, socialise: Hi Annie. Itís just what theyíre used to, probably from their own parents. Also they obviously really care about and are therefore worried about you and want you to be safe. The only thing you can really do is to talk to them again and really get right in...

Teenage Problems: Him :(
agoo, dickhead, hes: Hi Natasha. I think you need to talk to this boy. Just the two of you, because heís less likely to open up in front of other people. Just basically ask him why he asked you out in the first place. Wait for his answer, and then explain how much it has hurt...

Teenage Problems: Asking her out, liking someone, girlfriends
liking someone, girlfriends, girlfriend: Hello Sean, Well you actually have to be friends with someone and get to know them before they can be your girlfriend.....Maybe you should find out if you like this girl......You can have many friends but once you start labeling girls as a girlfriends...

Teenage Problems: blood tasting good, vampire freak, zillion times
vampire freak, zillion times, sodium levels: Hey Kitty, I don t think that s all the weird and I don t think that a lot of other people do either. Blood as natural salt and other flavors in it that usually taste good to people. It can even be sweet and soemtimes tangy, depending on your sugar and...

Teenage Problems: Getting a boyfriend, latino school, ugly girl
latino school, ugly girl, guy friends: Hi Danielle. If two boys that you know of have liked you then clearly it has nothing to do with colour and race. And that is only two boys that you know about, think how many others there might have been that were too shy to tell anyone! A lot of boys are...

Teenage Problems: my boyfriend, pastor don, wit
pastor don, wit, mom: Hi Taylor, THanks for these great questions. It sounds like your mother is simply trying to protect you. Do not be upset with ehr. It also sounds like your boyfriend may need some space. Give him some time and let him call you. This may tell you if...

Teenage Problems: boyfriend is being careless, problems, boyfriend
problems, boyfriend: Hey there Jenny, Sorry to hear that things are going a bit strange between you and your boyfriend; it is never nice to be in a relationship where you do not know exactly where you stand and what is happening...it is even worse when the other person is seemingly...

Teenage Problems: Cousins hurt me psychologically - HELP, female cousins, ugly duckling
female cousins, ugly duckling, toned body: Hi Dani, well, if there s absolutely no way you can avoid it then I would suggest thinking of it differently. Nobody s opinion of you should change the way you see yourself. In life you have to be able to ignore some things, you can t take everything personal...

Teenage Problems: Cousins hurt me psychologically - HELP, female cousins, ugly duckling
female cousins, ugly duckling, toned body: Hey Dani - thank you for writing. Here is what I would like to see you do - Smother them with kindness! Be loving and funny and open with them. In short, rise above their petty comments and shown them just how wrong they were. At the same time,...

Teenage Problems: Cousins hurt me psychologically - HELP, female cousins, ugly duckling
female cousins, ugly duckling, toned body: Hey Dani, Nobody deserves to be made to feel unattractive or unwelcome, by friends, by family or by anyone. Nobody is perfect and these female cousins of yours deffinately aren t. No-one has the right to make you feel like you are worthless and unwanted...

Teenage Problems: Cousins hurt me psychologically - HELP, female cousins, ugly duckling
female cousins, ugly duckling, toned body: Hi Dani. Just try to remember that they arenít worth it. It was just a load of rubbish, and you know you look good now so nothing they say should matter. It was completely immature of them to say all that stuff and youíre right, you didnít deserve it. Just...

Teenage Problems: I cant deal with my mom, stressful moment, ap tests
stressful moment, ap tests, ap test: Hey Taylor, Sorry for the delay in getting back to you: it s been a bit hectic here but I haven t forgot you. Firstly, I hope that you AP Test went OK and that you come out knowing that you did the best that you could: and at the end of the day, that...

Teenage Problems: Could this be the cause?.., severe depression, experinces
severe depression, experinces, intercourse: Dear Krystal, well this sometimes happens to people who have trouble saying no. But you should definitely talk to your boyfriend about it. Not any one else, because if you re with him you should be able to trust him. & in this situation he s the only one that...

Teenage Problems: Could this be the cause?.., severe depression, experinces
severe depression, experinces, intercourse: Hello there Krystal, Let me first just appologise for not getting back to you sooner: I usually respond within 2 days but its been really hectic here...but I ve not forgotten about your problem. Secondly, let me also say how sorry I am to hear about...

Teenage Problems: Could this be the cause?.., severe depression, experinces
severe depression, experinces, wrong idea: Hey again. Iím not actually sure, it depends on the school. Youíd probably have to ask her whether she can keep things just between the two of you and see what she says. Make it clear to her that some things you want absolutely no one to know about, and ask...

Teenage Problems: My condom broke and i didnt know till after i was done, Chances of Pregnancy
Chances of Pregnancy: Hey there Mitchell, Whenever there is a chance that semen or pre-cum comes into contact with the vagina, there is a chance of pregnancy. Condoms are quite sensative and that is why you do need to be careful when putting them on and they are usually something...

Teenage Problems: i am so confused and lost, true survivor, positive attitude
true survivor, positive attitude, christian woman: Hi Meredith. It is absolutely not your fault that your coach hurt you, and I donít see how your motherís death was your fault either but you didnít actually tell me how it happened. You should definitely get help as soon as you possibly can. Talking to...

Teenage Problems: Dating
Hi Bryon. Itís probably because these people arenít spending enough time getting to know each other so, when they start dating, they realise that they have absolutely nothing in common and canít even hold a proper conversation and so break up. Itís all very...

Teenage Problems: daughter doing her share, dinner dishes, share my wife
dinner dishes, share my wife, mom and dad: Hi Bill, She lives there, I do agree with you that she should do her chores and help around the house sometimes. Meantime, she needs to go out to look for a job not staying unemployed and do nothing. TRY find something is better than doing nothing....

Teenage Problems: daughter working, dinner dishes, mom and dad
dinner dishes, mom and dad, dining area: well does your 19 year old daugther go to school full time or anything - that is a hard one because you can t have one parent saying one thing and another saying something else you need to compromise I d start off little just say okay let s compromise how...

Teenage Problems: am i depressed, professional psychologist, supportive friends
professional psychologist, supportive friends, psychological assessment: Please donít use all capitals, use lowercase. Iím sorry, but this is an advice website. Iíve given you my opinion on what you should do, and thatís all I can do for you. Iím sorry, but I canít actually do anything to help you over the internet. I canít help...

Teenage Problems: my ex, good luck, ashley
good luck, ashley, love: Hi Ashley. Now that heís going out with someone else it is probably best to try and distract yourself. I know itís really hard, but just try not to think about him too much. You donít have to make yourself move on, but just donít go out with any other boys...

Teenage Problems: Is It My Fault?, brat, apology
brat, apology, honesty: Hello Bridgette, well I would definitely say she IS over reacting. I don t know maybe your mom is stressed out at work, or has some problems you may not know about. But I d say the best thing is to just talk to her, see what s up, maybe something is bothering...

Teenage Problems: Feeling down, popular girls, mosher
popular girls, mosher, grandad: Hi Hayley. Have you tried talking to your mum about it? Just try talking to her one on one, explaining what she does and how it makes you feel. That way sheís more likely to be aware of how it affects you and hopefully things can get better between you. ...

Teenage Problems: Friends, one of the girls, new friends
one of the girls, new friends: Hi Jackie, I think that you need to talk to Kathren and find out for sure what she thinks of you. You don t need to spend time for someone that doesn t want to spend theirs with you. Talk to her and then go from there. You might need to find some new friends...

Teenage Problems: just feel so overwhelmed, body dysmorphic disorder, body dysmorphic disorder bdd
body dysmorphic disorder, body dysmorphic disorder bdd, bad dad: Hi Abbey. Why not try talking to the psychologist? Itís often easier to talk to a stranger, and this would be an absolutely perfect opportunity. If one of your parents go in with you, just be really brave and ask the psychologist (donít address your parents,...

Teenage Problems: GRADES, advanced biology, school counselor
advanced biology, school counselor, cambrige: For me, I just tested out different times to study and different places. Usually in my room with the music on early in the morning or late at night is when I remember things the best. I just have the music on because I think that it helps me focus because...

Teenage Problems: girl problems!!, c cups, girl problems
c cups, girl problems, question thanks: Hi again. Discharge is probably the main sign; the other one is the development of your breasts. If it really has been five years with getting discharge then yes, you probably should see a doctor. I personally donít think there is anything to worry about,...

Teenage Problems: The girl that wont go away, heart ache, pastor don
heart ache, pastor don, personal question: Hi Ryan, Thank you so much for this very personal question. You cannot control how she will respond. You cannot prevent every heart ache. You can be merciful to her by being direct and truthful. You will do her no favors by making excuses and stringing...

Teenage Problems: Can you give me some advice?, homework school, one of those guys
homework school, one of those guys, cheerleading: think of girls as the female you ha I know sounds crazy but what would you be interested in if someone was talking to you for instance something like so have you seen any good movies lately, I just saw ... and it was really good or so how s your summer going,...

Teenage Problems: this guy that Ive been friends with for 2 years, hannah, few days
hannah, few days, feelings: Hey Hannah, I think that he at least likes you as a friend. If you could send me more details, I could probably tell you more but I do think that he likes you and maybe has a crush on you. If you want anything to happen from it, let me know and I ll help...

Teenage Problems: Hi., sweet p, somthing
sweet p, somthing, wasting time: Hi Ray, I found your question in the pool here and will try to answer it as best I can. what you are feeling is normal as far as how much you love and care for your mom. I think that it is so wonderful that you do. as far as the thing about believing something...

Teenage Problems: I hate my mom, pissy, mom
pissy, mom: Hey Kaylin, Talk to her. She might not realize that she is doing it. I know that sounds stupid but it could be true. Just tell her that you don t like it when she goes back on what she said. And when she says your friends can come over sometime, remind her...

Teenage Problems: help, good relationship, upbringing
good relationship, upbringing, brushes: Hi Lea, I know that this sounds stupid but you need to try to not get so frustrated. Understand that it how she was brought up. Tell her that you feel that she doesn t care. It s okay for her to see you cry too. It s not a bad thing. That will open up a...

Teenage Problems: Can you help me?, one of those guys, girl friend
one of those guys, girl friend, body language: Hey Paul, Practice. I m a girl and so far it seems that guys don t think about what they are saying when they talk to me. I m sure some of them do but it sounds natural. Practice will make it more natural for you to talk to girls. Talking on the phone can...

Teenage Problems: helping my daughters friend, gas expenses, part time job
gas expenses, part time job, girl 16: I know I already answered your question before but I was just wondering how you were doing with everythin...

Teenage Problems: How to keep my teenage brother safe, self pride, teenage brother
self pride, teenage brother, security advice: Hi, Thank you for your question. I m not sure if I am the expert for you as I am not an internet safety at this time. I do warn people of online dating and of such stuff like the above. There is nothing wrong with being gay. I do want to ask have you...

Teenage Problems: Loneliness, school group, best of luck
school group, best of luck, loneliness: Hey Scott, You just have to find someone that you can hang out with. I m sure there is a school group or something that you could join that you would fit into. Just keep looking for a club that you are interested in and you will eventually find a friend....

Teenage Problems: Is It Love !, mutual friends, ish
mutual friends, ish, best friends: Hey Gemma, Just ask him to a movie or go with a group of friends. That s innocent enough that if he doesn t like it, it won t be because of you. Go to someone s party with him or go swimming with a group of mutual friends. Don t have it be too date-ish but...

Teenage Problems: legal age to move out, high school diploma, s education
high school diploma, s education, nice day: Hi, No, you need to be at least 18 years old and/or complete your high school diploma, whatever it comes first, in some states, both are required if you live with your parents. In most states, parents are legally held responsible for their children s...

Teenage Problems: lost, vitamins and minerals, mood swings
vitamins and minerals, mood swings, migranes: Hey there Meggan, It is no surprise that you having some difficulties learning to find an identity and be happy with who you are when you have constantly been moved around. It must be difficult and I can only imagine, incredibly draining upon your energy...

Teenage Problems: My Mom, sibling, sherry
sibling, sherry, hurry: Dear Sherry, this could be because your mom is over-stressed @ work or she just has a lot of problems of her own that you may not know about. I d suggest finding another person you can always turn to (to avoid fights with your mom) like a friend, teacher,...

Teenage Problems: Mom, hey stephanie, gray hairs
hey stephanie, gray hairs, migrains: Hey Stephanie. Youíre mother is probably already feeling alone and feeling as though she has no one to talk to. Judging from the symptoms you are probably both suffering from some form of depression but youíd both have to get diagnosed properly as I canít...

Teenage Problems: My Mother, decisons, lawyer attorney
decisons, lawyer attorney, 18th birthday: Stephanie, At 18 in most places you are usually quite free to do as you please. You do not need your parents permission to join the military service and you do not need your parents permission to get married either. You might if you were not a minor (17...

Teenage Problems: men, guy friends, couple days
guy friends, couple days, chills: Hello there Jane, Firstly, let me just get this notion out of your head that you are not like the other girls, and in your own words not normal , because that is completely untrue. You are normal and you are like other girls, but you just have a couple...

Teenage Problems: mom issues, toaster waffles, pickles and ice cream
toaster waffles, pickles and ice cream, fires of hell: Oh ok, Iím following you now. Yes, doing it slowly and bit by bit is a good way to start. Also a good thing is try not to cut over everything. Just save it for when you are really, really upset, not just whenever. Also try putting an elastic band around your...

Teenage Problems: moving out in MA, law guardian, minor signs
law guardian, minor signs, unruly child: Adina, you have to be declared emancipated which is a legal term and it means you have to go before and judge and show that you are able to support yourself and have a place to live. Since in most cases landlords will not rent to minors which you are because...

Teenage Problems: I needed someone to talk to, school counsellor, professional psychologist
school counsellor, professional psychologist, pycho: Hey again Emily. Iím sorry to hear about all of that, it must be really hard for you. Your aunt really does sound like a wonderful person though and sheíd be great to talk to. I think youíre being quite hard on yourself and underestimating people a bit though;...

Teenage Problems: My Parents vs. My Friends, basketball friends, good person
basketball friends, good person, new friends: Hi Amanda. So do your parents actually know that your new friends smoke and drink? If they already know then why not trying to explain to them what you just told me? If they donít know then perhaps you should ask them why they donít trust your friends. Perhaps...

Teenage Problems: PRIVACY, crazy things, best of luck
crazy things, best of luck, cameron: Hey Cameron, It s because they are parents. It could be a way to check up on you with all the crazy things people do on their computers now days. Then again, it could just be them coming into your room. I think it s the check up one. You can tell them what...

Teenage Problems: PRIVACY, wonderful day, cyberspace
wonderful day, cyberspace, parents: Hi It is normal for parents to do that, it is their house. Especially if you are under age of 18. If it bothers you, I suggest you close the door and put up a sign up if you wish to not be disturbed. Today s computer on cyberspace is dangerous now,...

Teenage Problems: PRIVACY, fast food restaurants, earth search
fast food restaurants, earth search, keystroke logger: Cameron, you did not give your age but i am guessing you are a recent teenager maybe 13 14 or perhaps even 12. Your parents walk in your room unannounced because they want to see what you are looking at on your computer. They are trying to protect you from...

Teenage Problems: PRIVACY, teen parenting nudism masturbation sex peer pressure family issues
teen parenting nudism masturbation sex peer pressure family issues: hi cameron my name is donna. I found your question in the pool here and thought I would try to answer it as best I could. I m not really sure what your question is however. do they just walk in anytime or is it just when you are working on the computer....

Teenage Problems: PRIVACY, teen privacy
teen privacy: Hi Cameron Thanks for this great question. There are several reasons for this behavior. I will list some of them below. As a child, you do not have the right of privacy that an adult has. Your parents must protect and mentor you first of all. God has...

Teenage Problems: pregnancy, pregnancy question, getting ready for a baby
pregnancy question, getting ready for a baby, pooch: Yes I can answer that. Your breasts can start feeling tender at any point through your cycle. Usually it s a few days before you start but it can be at any time. This also happens with pregnancy. It s your body getting ready for a baby and getting ready to...

Teenage Problems: pregnancy, freak thing, pregnancy question
freak thing, pregnancy question, onece: Good idea. Like I said before, you are probably fine but just to be sure wait a little longer to take another test. It s better to be safe. But I am starting to believe that you really aren t pregnant and there s not a chance of it right now. If you need anything...

Teenage Problems: pregnancy symptoms, sore breasts, pregnancy signs
sore breasts, pregnancy signs, food cravings: I looked on a coupld of websites to make sure I told you the right thing. Yes, you can still be pregnant. There can still be sperm in you. Even if he pulled out and then ejaculated you could still be pregnant. In pre-cum, there are at least 100 sperm and you...

Teenage Problems: pregnant on period??, pregnancy tests, condom
pregnancy tests, condom, jenny: Hi Jenny. Yes, it is possible for a female to be pregnant even if she has her periods. It isnít all that common, but it can happen. Also it might not even be a period; it might be bleeding for other reasons, such as a miscarriage or other problems with pregnancy,...

Teenage Problems: Relationships, self esteem issues, real feelings
self esteem issues, real feelings, good relationship: Hi Daniel. I honestly do not recommend you date a girl who you donít feel much towards. It will only end up hurting both of you. It wouldnít be fair or considerate towards her, and it wouldnít be all that fun for you either. Things like that really can only...

Teenage Problems: (real) cutting, frindes, social time
frindes, social time, bff: Hi Kitty, It s good that you have a friend that cares this much to help you out. Not everyone is that lucky. But you should also tell your mom how you feel. I know that you ve tried it but keep trying. She will eventually see what she s doing. I know that...

Teenage Problems: running with big boobs, lingerie store, womens lingerie
lingerie store, womens lingerie, best bet: Hi Jen. Try buying a sports bra; these give you much more support and hold you in place a lot better. They are designed specifically to help with the Ďbouncingí problem. Thatís probably your best bet; get a proper fitting done at a good womenís lingerie store...

Teenage Problems: School, ap classes, trouble at home
ap classes, trouble at home, smart kid: Hey there Emily, Firstly, I do not think that there is anything psychologically wrong with you and I certainly do not believe that you are psychotic. On the contrary, you come across from your email as being a very bright and intelligent young person who...

Teenage Problems: Sexual Curiosity, websites, talk
websites, talk, child: Hello there Kellie, Firstly, let me say that you have done everything positive a parent should do with their child in regards to this issue: you have made yourself approachable, you have told your daughter that it is normal behaviour and you have also encouraged...

Teenage Problems: Summer.. =(, guidance counselor, calling me names
guidance counselor, calling me names, shell: Hi Krystal. What I think you should do is go and see your guidance counsellor ASAP and tell her exactly what is going on at home. Ask her what you should do, how you should cope, how youíre meant to survive the summer without talking to her about whatís going...

Teenage Problems: can sperm escape the condom?, ejaculates, sex clinic
ejaculates, sex clinic, tiny hole: Hi jenny. I read your question here in the pool and so I will try to answer it as best i can. yes, if I guy ejaculates into a condom there is a slight chance that his sperm can leak out if the condom is defective. as in, if there is a tiny hole in it. this...

Teenage Problems: can she still be preganant even when she went through her period?, pregnancy test, pre cum
pregnancy test, pre cum, best news: Hey Matt, This isn t the best news but yes, she can still be pregnant. There is such a thing as pre-cum that you don t always feel come out of you so you don t know to pull out. That cna get her pregnant anyway so there was always a chance. Wait for at least...

Teenage Problems: not so sweet sixteen year old, chocolate biscuit, absolute waste
chocolate biscuit, absolute waste, legal trouble: Hi Kate. It is most certainly not up to her. She is a 16 year old girl, a minor, in your care. For them to say that itís ďup to herĒ is just plain irresponsible. She is a child, taking an illegal drug. She could get in an incredible amount of trouble, including...

Teenage Problems: Teen Love/Sex, rest of our lives, somthing
rest of our lives, somthing, good sense: Hi Emily. I just really want to say that you should be careful when you do this. You can get STIís, even from oral sex, including Herpes, Gonorrhoea, Syphilis and more. To lower the risk of infection make sure your boyfriend wears a condom when youíre giving...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Boy- Respect for Mom, step mom, stepmom
step mom, stepmom, blue in the face: Hi Tina - thank you for writing. I wish more parents took an interest in their kids like you. First, leave your ex-husband out of any discussion with your son. Forget it - he does not live in your house and has no authority there. There are two things...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Boys going to prison for having sex., 15 year old girls, illegle
15 year old girls, illegle, real criminals: Hi Shelia, Thank you for this question. You can choose your sin but you cannot choose your consequences. I will use this story to warn young people about the consequences for sin. Gal 6:7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth,...

Teenage Problems: teacher problem, teacher problem, science teacher
teacher problem, science teacher, excuse: Hi Mai. I know how awful the idea sounds, but itís probably a good idea if your parents talk to her. That way she canít escape and walk away; she has to face them if they make an appointment. If she still tries to avoid it, then your parents can instead request...

Teenage Problems: unrequited love?, reading my heart, popular guy
reading my heart, popular guy, looong time: Okay, I hope that this doesn t offend you but he might be one of those guys that need to feel the wind to know that the tornado is coming. Go talk to him face to face. Apparently going through something else isn t helping. I think that it hurt him pretty bad...

Teenage Problems: He wants her..., diary entries, mates
diary entries, mates, best friends: Hi Lisa. The first step to accepting this is trying to talk to him again. Perhaps you can ask your friend to talk to Keith and see if she can find out why he wonít talk to you anymore. Or you could just text him and say something like, ĎIím really sorry...

Teenage Problems: myself, new hey, experiencing life
new hey, experiencing life, nothing in this world: Hey there Donal, Firstly, let me appologise for the delay in getting back to you: my response is usually within two days of you submitting your problem...but it s been mad here and I ve been overwhelmed. But never the less, I ve not forgotton about you....

Teenage Problems: HIM, lots of girls, sizzles
lots of girls, sizzles, erasers: Hey Kaye, Just a qick question, do you read Twilight? Anyway, maybe the way you are dressing just doesn t catch his attention. Some guys are like that. Maybe he just likes you as a friend right now so he is chosing to not notice your clothes. Until he...

Teenage Problems: being 18, puberty stage, pastor don
puberty stage, pastor don, arangement: Hi Kelly, Thank you for this great question. Just so you know I have an 18 and a 19 year old daughter.... I feel your pain! We have made the rules more like rules of the household that they choose to live in rather than parental constraint. For example,...

Teenage Problems: my 21 year old son, full time job, mental illnesses
full time job, mental illnesses, self motivation: Hi Abel, Thanks for this great question. I am very sorry for my late response. Here a a few things to consider: 1. Perhaps your son needs to be motivated by some conse3quences. If he is provided everything he needs at home, then there will be no...

Teenage Problems: Body shape issues, hips and thighs, verticle lines
hips and thighs, verticle lines, body shape: Hey Steph, Make sure you where longer shirts. Don t let them cut off at the waist. That makes you look like a box. Make sure everything is balanced. Wear verticle lines to make you look taller. Wear full skirts. Contrast the colors to make your shape more...

Teenage Problems: my best friend, double dates, shopping spree
double dates, shopping spree, male attention: Hey Ellie, I don t think that you can do a whole lot if she is okay with what s going on. One of my friends and I are like this actually and we just deal with it. You can set her up on a blind date or something but make sure you go with her and that it s...

Teenage Problems: My bf needs help telling his parents about cutting/sado-masochism, bad shape, sexual feeling
bad shape, sexual feeling, masochism: Hey. Do you think it would be better for him to tell his mother himself? That way he can really describe what he is thinking and feeling and make her understand. Iím sure that way it would be a real weight off his mind and heíd probably feel a lot better for...

Teenage Problems: boy problems, know, if
know, if, he: Hey there Rebecca, Every guy is different and every guy acts differently towards girls they like: some are calm, cool and collective, others jerk about and tease them...it depends on the guy and what stage of maturity he is at. This guy sounds like he...

Teenage Problems: boyfriend trouble, feburary, nice guy
feburary, nice guy, text message: I think you want everything to be okay with everyone and it just doesn t happen. Do NOT be a tease - you have to MAKE UP YOUR MIND you either do or do not like him, him kissing other girls obviously he was trying to make you jealous but sounds to me like...

Teenage Problems: It breaks my heart, anger and anxiety, absolute hell
anger and anxiety, absolute hell, stress problems: Hey Stephanie, I think that your mom is still going through your father s death. She might not have let go yet. She probably thinks that she has to put on a face for you to think that she s okay but she doesn t realize that you can see through it. Sit down...

Teenage Problems: It breaks my heart, anger and anxiety, absolute hell
anger and anxiety, absolute hell, stress problems: next time you leave the house don t come back that should be a red flag you need to find a relative, close friend, etc. and confide in this person and tell them exactly what is wrong and maybe they can get your mom into counesling but it sounds to me that...

Teenage Problems: It breaks my heart, anger and anxiety, absolute hell
anger and anxiety, absolute hell, stress problems: Hi Stephanie, I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see my answers. Im not shouting ever since the death of my father when i was 11 i have constantly been struggling with my mother. i m 15 now, and the past four years with...

Teenage Problems: It breaks my heart, mom, problems
mom, problems, with: Hey there Stephanie, Thank you for taking the time to share your problem with me and I am sorry for the delay in getting back to you (it s been a bit hectic here), but I ve not forgotten you and I hope that I can offer some words of advice and reassurance....

Teenage Problems: It breaks my heart, anger and anxiety, absolute hell
anger and anxiety, absolute hell, stress problems: Hi Stephanie. I think you were right; your mother clearly does really need help. This is completely unfair on you and she shouldnít be treating you this way. You mentioned that you are in therapy now; could you try telling your therapist and see if they...

Teenage Problems: Confused about my sexual orientation :S, guilty feelings, physical relationship
guilty feelings, physical relationship, losing a friend: Hi Christabel, You are at an age when you have many conflicting feelings and many of the friends of yours have these same feelings. Its no so uncommon to have feelings for memebers of the same sex. A lot of male teens i have talked to said the same thing...

Teenage Problems: Crushes, sexual fantasy, pastor don
sexual fantasy, pastor don, bible: Hi Alysse, Thank you for this great question. It is not wrong to have a crush on someone unless there are any of the following things that are true: 1. He is married. 2. He is not a Christian. 3. You are a minor and he is an adult. 4. Your crush...

Teenage Problems: I cain't satnd my mom, mom, problems
mom, problems, with: Hello there Nen, I am sorry to hear that your mom is putting you through a difficult time at the minute...it s not very nice when you feel like you are doing all you can, only to be told you should be doing more...but some parents are like that and unfortunately,...

Teenage Problems: confused..., south sea islander, buut
south sea islander, buut, grandparents: Hi Chanele. Try sitting your parents down and explaining to them how the way they act makes you feel. Explain to them that you have feelings for your boyfriend because of his wonderful personality and traits, and itís not like you can help it. No one can help...

Teenage Problems: Dating A Non-Christian, temple of the living god, walk with god
temple of the living god, walk with god, christian person: Hi Sean, Thanks for this great question. The most important thaning is that she is a born again Christian. If you are and she is not, you are asking for real trouble! There is no other way to look at at. 2Co 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together...

Teenage Problems: Dealing with braces..., getting braces, double date
getting braces, double date, espcially: Hi Leonard. It probably would have been easier if youíd told her from the start that you were going to be getting braces. Iím sure she wonít mind that much because a lot of people are getting braces these days. I think you should just tell her as soon as possible....

Teenage Problems: My Ex, exboyfriend, confident woman
exboyfriend, confident woman, living hell: You have a new boyfriend now you need to focus on him and if this new bf is such a nice guy why in the WORLD are you even associating with your ex --- you need to cut your ex off if he calls you reject the calls if he e-mails you delete the e-mails you are...

Teenage Problems: eating disorder and self harm., school counsellor, wonderful guy
school counsellor, wonderful guy, bad thoughts: Hi Brooke. Sounds like you need to find a way of distracting yourself from all those bad thoughts. Try doing something you enjoy, whether it be sport, reading, writing, whatever. Just as long as it takes your mind off things. Also you could try expressing...

Teenage Problems: Family has hurt me, home, leaving
home, leaving, parents: Hello there Comrade, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling as sad as you are and that things have seemingly got so bad that you are crying and not knowing what to do. It sounds like you are having a tough time and I hope that at least, I can offer you...

Teenage Problems: Friend related, upfront
upfront: next time he talks to you say look you ve been a real jerk lately and I need time to think things over so I m asking you nicely please leave me alone and if you continue to talk to me I will just ignore you .... you need to be UPFRONT and HONEST with him,...

Teenage Problems: Friends with benefits??, hilarious prank, friends with benefits
hilarious prank, friends with benefits, prank call: Hey Michelle, Sorry I am getting back to you so late. I was very busy yesterday. I am going to say this because I have to. Don t have sex unless you are married. But now I can answer your question. First, good job on the prank call. I ve never thought...

Teenage Problems: I feel like i am a loser, uneasy situation, filipino men
uneasy situation, filipino men, pastor don: Hi Jack, I am so glad that you are into the combat sports! I am 44 and I am training for my first MMA fight. I started as a fat old preacher. I was terrible. Every time that I could grapple, I would be tapped out in seconds... every time I would strike,...

Teenage Problems: fighting, bullying, son
bullying, son: Hello Tammy, Thank you for sharing your problem with me and I am sorry to hear that you are having concerns about this young guy s behaviour towards your son. Firstly, I think it is a credit to you and your son, that your son did not lash out majorly...

Teenage Problems: is my GF a virgen & lieing about being one? HELP MEEEEE!!, girlfriend, cheat
girlfriend, cheat, virgin: Hey there Johnny, If you really want to make things work with this girl, the best thing you can do is start ignoring what people are saying about this girl and start listening to what she has to say. Trust is a big thing in a relationship and although it...

Teenage Problems: Graduation, sophomore year, running start
sophomore year, running start, bestfriends: Hi Vicky, I am sorry for this late response. Change stinks sometimes. It is a hard process of life, but we all have to endure it, then we are better for it. The problem is you are leaving the security of what you know for the fear of what you don t know....

Teenage Problems: Graduation, sophomore year, getting a head
sophomore year, getting a head, running start: Hi Vicky, Congratulations on getting a head start in life. Well Vicky as far as your friendships go all I can tell you is this.....Friendships come and go....Very few people make friendships that truly last a lifetime.....With technology today though...

Teenage Problems: girl problem, negro girls, barnes and noble
negro girls, barnes and noble, how to treat a girlfriend: Thank you for your kind words. Glad things are better. Be sure to tell her if anyone says anything about you all she has to do is ask you and tell her you will always tell her the truth. Be nice to her like hold the door, pull out a chair for her if you...

Teenage Problems: girl problems, girl problems, cute girl
girl problems, cute girl, counsellor: Hi Mitchell. I donít see how the counsellor can just tell you to move on without any other advice. Yes, thatís the obvious answer, but they canít expect it to just happen as simple as flicking a switch. Did you ask them how you are supposed to move on?...

Teenage Problems: after our situation, selfish reason, shaky ground
selfish reason, shaky ground, gross income: I wish i knew what your ages are. If you are not teens thats ok, i will still give you my opinion. People need to talk a lot or they interpret the silence as something wrong. If you are late or forget to call people invent all kinds of things in their mind....

Teenage Problems: A guy I met., pastor don, emotional attachment
pastor don, emotional attachment, having a baby: Hi Lilliana, Thank you for this question. You are right just because he has a baby, this is not a deal breaker.... but it is a warning. You could end up the same way his girlfriend did, pregnant and unmarried. You should get the wisdom of your parents....

Teenage Problems: High School Problems, little princess, popular guy
little princess, popular guy, those girls: Just because he was smiling and stuff doesnít mean he wasnít hurt; Iím sure he was only trying to hide it and pretend it was okay. Can you call him or send him a text or email to apologise and try to start talking again? Because if he has two girls then he...

Teenage Problems: help, breast issues, missing your period
breast issues, missing your period, pregnancy symptoms: I don t have to answer everyone s questions. That expert just forwards everything to me if they are unable to answer it. It s a weird system here. Anyway, yes, missing your period can just be stress. All of the pregnancy symptoms I gave you can be caused by...

Teenage Problems: help, am I ready?, teenage parent, theyve
teenage parent, theyve, guy friends: Hi Kristin. Firstly, are you one hundred percent sure you are ready for this? You are incredibly young to be having a child, and things will be very difficult for you. If you donít graduate from school you are unlikely to get a well paid job to raise your...

Teenage Problems: homework help - a survey, b focus, letter 1
b focus, letter 1, survey question: Okay, I ll go in order so you don t get so confused. For number 13, most guys don t say anything if you look different from day to day unless it s a drastic change. I think if the guy noticed enough to say something after he said I had ample hips, I d...

Teenage Problems: kissing., time in the world, true friends
time in the world, true friends, mom: Dear Mandula, It sounds to me as if your friends have a bit of a jealous streak in them. and if that s the case, then they are not your true friends. You can t keep dividing yourself like you have been because sooner or later all the stress is going to...

Teenage Problems: kissing, lesley, instincts
lesley, instincts, braces: Hi Lesley. Kissing is completely natural so your instincts will probably take over. A bit of practise will also come into it, but itís not as difficult as it may seem. The easiest way to start out is just to let him lead it and you just follow along. Donít...

Teenage Problems: legal age, becca, google
becca, google, chamber of commerce: Hey Becca, I m not sure what the legal age is there. I live on the other side of the country. You can call the Chamber of Commerce or google it or something to find out. You can e-mail the state or write them and tell them your situation so they know the...

Teenage Problems: No longer comftorable around my old friend, friend, problem
friend, problem: Hey there Liz, It is possible that through life we meet people who we start off really close with but over time, for whatever reason, we start to drift away from them and this is a natural part of life and growing up. We do not have time to talk to and...

Teenage Problems: I loved your others answers - i need help with this, phone conversation, hannah
phone conversation, hannah, underweight: I m saying that I think that Hannah thinks that Rebecca is at a healthy weight and so she said the word thin. If she said skinny, that could mean that she was malnurished or underweight or unhealthy. Or it could just mean that she was small or petite. But...

Teenage Problems: Moving out, google search, hard time
google search, hard time, google: Hi Dan. It all depends on what country and what state you live in. The laws are different for every place. You can usually find out through a Google search. Just type in ďlegal age for moving outĒ and your state and country. It should come up with something...

Teenage Problems: i'm confused and i need help, school canteen, two girlfriends
school canteen, two girlfriends, paper stars: Hey Zack, I don t know enough to say if she liked you in a romantic kind of way but I do think she liked you as a very close friend. Just talk to her and don t be scared about it. Start fresh and do something new that she will like. Ask her to go do something...

Teenage Problems: masturbation, jesus christ our lord, romans 7
jesus christ our lord, romans 7, apostle paul: Hi Peter, Thank you for this great question. I am sorry for my late response. First of all, this desire is a normal part of your flesh. I have heard that 97% of all males admit to masturbating and the other 3% are lying. Having said that, I do believe...

Teenage Problems: I miscarried an unwanted baby but now a few weeks after I've found myself longing to have a baby, professional counselor, childhood life
professional counselor, childhood life, unwanted baby: Hi Robyn, I am sorry to hear that you miscarried your baby. One issue I do agree with you 100% about both of you being too young to be parents. Unfortunately, there is no such easy thing to get over it or a quick fix, you have to face and accept it...

Teenage Problems: moving out at 17, mail letter, colorado city
mail letter, colorado city, good advice: Hey Abby, I couldn t find anything on the internet when I looked just now. I kept getting dumb sites that were getting me no where. But you can check at the city offices and ask someone there. If there s a courthouse near-by you can go there too. You can...

Teenage Problems: moving out, mental illnesses, step dad
mental illnesses, step dad, aprove: Hi Jennifer. I sincerely hope you arenít planning on getting pregnant just so you can move out. Think of the child, what sort of life would it have? Especially if you and your boyfriend break up at some point, you wonít be able to give it a home or clothe...

Teenage Problems: I need to ask you something., trust in the lord with all thine heart, pastor don
trust in the lord with all thine heart, pastor don, trust in the lord: Hi Tria, Thanks for this great question. I am very sorry for my late response. Start with what you know. Read the Bible, pray, serve in your local church. As you do the simple things, other avenues of service will come available. Pray every day asking...

Teenage Problems: need help..again, masturbation, sex
masturbation, sex, family problems: Dear Laurelle, I found your question in the pool here and will try to answer as best I can. there is certainly nothing wrong with what you are doing. you are at an age when your hormones and curiosity are spiking. there is no reason for you to feel...

Teenage Problems: Parents, dads side, strong girl
dads side, strong girl, neices: Hi Jennifer. Have you tried sitting down with each parent individually and discussing these issues? Sometimes just talking about things can really help, because your parents might not even be aware of how they act or how it affects you. It seems like your...

Teenage Problems: Parents, free alcohol, other ones
free alcohol, other ones, margie: Hi Margie. Have you tried talking to your parents about it and discussed how it makes you feel? Have you asked them to at least cut down a bit? If that hasnít worked then perhaps try calling Alcoholics Anonymous or another free alcohol helpline in your area....

Teenage Problems: Problem with parents, waste of space, trivial things
waste of space, trivial things, drunks: Hi Kieran, You are 15 and just left school does that mean for the summer or what? Don t you have to go to secondary school until you are 18? Yes talk to your dad but he may support your mum. If so its best to try to stay away fom your mum as much as you...

Teenage Problems: paranoia., school counsellor, step mom
school counsellor, step mom, anxiety disorder: Hi Amanda. Is there anyone else you can tell? A school counsellor? Or you could tell your GP and get a referral to a psychologist who can help you out with this. It could be an anxiety disorder that youíre suffering from which needs professional treatment...

Teenage Problems: this really happened to me. mom is in her 80's, i am in my 50's, administrative assistant position, pink silk
administrative assistant position, pink silk, nasty things: I think that you are thinking too much of it. She might have just thought you looked a little dressed up for a job where you don t have to dress up. I don t think she meant anything else by it. Most jobs let you dress on the casual side so she was just pointing...

Teenage Problems: my rights to leave, age, to
age, to, move: Hey Jessica, I am sorry to hear that things are so difficult at home with your father that you feel like you cannot stay and as easy an option as it may be, running away will not always be in your best interest as there are consequences to doing so that...

Teenage Problems: Sending again. not sure if this went thru because I never received receipt, friend meredith, chevy chase
friend meredith, chevy chase, karate school: I wouldn t think too much of it. I think she was just saying you as a generic term. It didn t mean you specifically. Then when she cleared it up by saying you had a thin face and that no one would ever call you fat, she meant that you were thin. Don t thnk...

Teenage Problems: Sex, sexual person, sexual thoughts
sexual person, sexual thoughts, intellectual level: Hey April, I was raised that having sex out of marriage was also wrong. If you don t like that, then you can do what you want. I think that if you feel guilty or something when you do it it s because you either know that it s r wrong or you know that people...

Teenage Problems: Shyness, depression anxiety, quiet self
depression anxiety, quiet self, psychiatric assessment: Hi Deniz. Your mother might be a pharmacist but you should absolutely never take a prescription drug, especially one like citalopram, without a prescription from a doctor or psychiatrist. Citalopram is an SSRI and you should be being monitored by a doctor...

Teenage Problems: Stepdad, international baccalaureate program, good come backs
international baccalaureate program, good come backs, sophomore year: Hi Tori. Has your mother noticed this going on? Perhaps you should try talking to her about it and see what she has to say. If that fails then maybe you could try talking to Ben one on one about it. Just stay calm and be polite and just ask why he always gives...

Teenage Problems: sister was molested, teen siblings, performing oral sex
teen siblings, performing oral sex, sick to my stomach: Hi Jon Thank you for this very powerful personal question. I am so sorry that I am late in my response. I am sorry for what you and your sister are going through. I have several thoughts for you to consider: 1. Both you and your sister need to talk...

Teenage Problems: My son is depressed and cutting himself, mistakes parents, self conscience
mistakes parents, self conscience, anti depressants: Hi Tonya. Firstly, you mustnít blame yourself for this. It has absolutely nothing to do with your love not being enough. One of the biggest mistakes parents make is blaming themselves for this. You donít need to worry about leaving him alone as he told you...

Teenage Problems: My son and i just don't relate to each other anymore, gentle soul, computer tv
gentle soul, computer tv, wonderful man: Hi Therese. It sounds like things are very tough for you at the moment. Can you think of a particular point when things got really bad between you and your son? Was it around the time you met your partner, or some other change, such as a new school, or anything?...

Teenage Problems: how to stop masturbating..., masturbation, sex
masturbation, sex, family: Dear Rajesh, I believe that masturbating is something that a person can t stop doing. it is something that is a natural human need in us all and most be done from time to time to relieve sexual tension. there is certainly nothing wrong with doing so. as...

Teenage Problems: how to stop masturbation, male reproductive system, sex relationship
male reproductive system, sex relationship, ill effect: Rajesh, There is nothing wrong with masturbation. Its the most common practice in the world among young guys whether they are 12 or 25. Its a natural thing that eveey male goes through and is due to the increasing levels of testosterone. Its completely...

Teenage Problems: how to stop masturbation, how, to
how, to, stop: Hey Rajesh, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and to share your problem with me. I am sorry for the delay in getting back to you and I usually aim to get back to people within about 72 hours. So let me appologise for your wait and thank you for...

Teenage Problems: Out of all the stories I sent you this is the only one that happened to me, friend meredith, chevy chase
friend meredith, chevy chase, karate school: I wouldn t think too much of it. I think she was just saying you as a generic term. It didn t mean you specifically. Then when she cleared it up by saying you had a thin face and that no one would ever call you fat, she meant that you were thin. Don t thnk...

Teenage Problems: How do you support your teenager after they have been "date raped"?, smoking marijuana, custody arrangements
smoking marijuana, custody arrangements, half sisters: Hi Russell. I donít recommend you go over there and get her; her mother will obviously ask questions and your daughter doesnít want her to know so it will only cause unnecessary problems. Your daughter may tell her mother in her own time, but it has to be...

Teenage Problems: Teen mental help, disney games, child games
disney games, child games, step daughters: Read this statement outloud: The 18 year old is ABUSIVE to the 13 year old Right there before anything else should give you and your husband the RED FLAG. You both seem real sweet, loving, caring parents, but I think you are missing the obvious here. ...

Teenage Problems: Teenage boy crisis, Problem, son
Problem, son: Hey there Mom , I am sorry to hear that your sweet little son has turned into someone you barely recognised and someone who seems to have you questioning your own parenting skills. Let me firstly reassure you that I am sure his behavior has nothing to...

Teenage Problems: can't get over my girlfriend's past, college parties, straight edge
college parties, straight edge, older sister: Hi Pat. Youíre probably just a bit jealous, but you need to understand that everyone does things differently and has different views on certain issues. Just because you donít believe in drinking and smoking doesnít mean someone else canít agree with it. Just...

Teenage Problems: teen forgetfullness, stressful life, teen daughter
stressful life, teen daughter, tendancy: Hello Jeanette, This is a normal thing for teens. I know a lot of people that are very forgetful. If she has a stressful life or if she gets a lot of homework or just if a lot is going on with her. Teens have a very stressful life anyway. They are trying...

Teenage Problems: i am not a teen but i am upset, friend meredith, chevy chase
friend meredith, chevy chase, anerixic: you are thinking WAY to hard about this as long as you eat healthy and are not annorixic take what she says with a grain of salt and say well thanks I m eating good foods and trying to exercise but do NOT let her bring you down you are a beautiful young woman...

Teenage Problems: i am not a teen but i am upset, friend meredith, chevy chase
friend meredith, chevy chase, karate school: Hi Debbie. To me it does sound a bit like you are reading too far into the comments that were made. She agreed with what you said, so when she said you have a thin face it was probably just a passing comment that didnít really mean much and wasnít thought...