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Teen Dating Issues: Am I wasting my time should we work on it talk in person or am I chasing something thats not worth it, blank response, blah blah
blank response, blah blah, face book: Well, first off I ve never been for having sex incredibly early in a relationship. It leads to problems for most couples. Case in point with your issue. So, if you really want to keep things about you, then sex needs to be the last thing you guys go into....

Teen Dating Issues: what should i do, twin brother, little sister
twin brother, little sister, football team: Well, basically if you like the girl then you need to kind of do something to show her that. Maybe talking to her more would be helpful. This way, she can get to know you a little more as you can her. Don t be afraid of the brother, as all brothers are...

Teen Dating Issues: Boys Boys Boys, boys boys boys, guy is a guy
boys boys boys, guy is a guy, meaningless sex: Ugh, i ve been there :( Once a relationship goes into sex, it always gets complicated, especially if you guys aren t in a committed relationship. What i would do in this situation is sit down and talk to him about it. Explain to him how you feel, you ll...

Teen Dating Issues: boys !!!!!!!!!, bk, ashley
bk, ashley, friendship: Angle - You need to put your friend before this guy. Since they just broke up, you need to give it time so your friend can move on. You can t just jump on this guy because you like him. You need to realize that your friend will be hurt. If you really...

Teen Dating Issues: confused., being friends, such good friends
being friends, such good friends, ex girlfriend: hmmm...well it sounds like maybe he is just really confused about his feelings towards you. i would make sure you control the situations. what i mean by that is dont allow him to kiss you, dont allow him to text you when ever he wants and expect you to reply...

Teen Dating Issues: Doesn't Sit Next To Me Anymore..., Boys, Class
Boys, Class, School: Hmm tricky one Gabby! There could be lots of reasons why he isn t sitting with you anymore, please don t think you ve done anything wrong. Sometimes boys just think that flirting is fun (which it is!) and are a bit blind to how you actually feel about him....

Teen Dating Issues: dating age issues, deep trouble, repercussions
deep trouble, repercussions, having sex: Hey Matt! It s nice of you to be so concerned about your friend :) Honestly, they are only two years apart, it s not a big deal. I m dating a guy that I ve dated since i was in High School and we re five years apart. Sounds crazy, i know, but we go out...

Teen Dating Issues: I dont know what to do anymore, first loves, closed doors
first loves, closed doors, first love: Brittany, I can relate. I made the same mistake as you did by not breaking-up and making-up. It makes the guy kind of secure that no matter what you re always gonna be there, even if he treats you badly. The number one thing i learned that you HAVE to...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl i like and problem with friend, friend alice, left nut
friend alice, left nut, facebook: hello! Well... Sometimes these things happen. Try and explain to alice everything. Including the part of having feelings for her. She will appreciate the honesty. If it s meant to be it will be and if it s not meant to be then it won t. Good luck :) ......

Teen Dating Issues: Guy dosent get it?, alida, convo
alida, convo, school year: Hey Cas, Sorry about the delay, i ve just started a new school year, been pretty hectic :) Take it in your own hands to make an effort to get to know this guy, be brave! Go up and start a conversation (plan your topic before hand) and just concentrate...

Teen Dating Issues: Head or heart?, feelings, boyfriend
feelings, boyfriend, love: Scarlett, Sometimes feelings fade and sometimes they just change. There may be very little you can do. You shouldn t let yourself feel guilty, just because how you feel about him is changing. Although this is a bit confusing, not to mention upsetting, you...

Teen Dating Issues: No longer sitting nex to me.., math class, dissapointed
math class, dissapointed, truth: Okay, so one thing that boys do is they move on to something else when they are done with first thing. I know that sounds kind of harsh, but it s the truth. Now I m not saying, in anyway, that you are boring or you re doing something wrong. If he truly...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help asking a girl i really like out., t rush, realationship
t rush, realationship, unconfortable: So you guys seem to be good friends. If you re afraid of things being awkward, then take it slow. Try and start hanging out with her more often. Even try a little flirting every now and then. Give her hugs when you leave, give her compliments, stuff like...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help asking a girl i really like out., Asking a girl out, how to make a girl like you
Asking a girl out, how to make a girl like you, girlfriend: The best way to make a girl like you is to treat her like she s special. Talk to her as much as you can, find out what she s interested in and what her hobbies are. Ask her about herself (everyone likes talking about themselves!) Compliment her, touch her,...

Teen Dating Issues: opinion needed, worth a shot, sandi
worth a shot, sandi, 6 years: i think you are right in wanting to know why. it sounds like she has some issues with discussing feelings? is this the case with her? you cant force her to tell you why but all you can do is nicely and calmly tell her what you told me. let her know that you...

Teen Dating Issues: Problems, sendiks, serious relationship
sendiks, serious relationship, good relationship: ahh..yes it sucks when you like a girl and she just wants to be friends. hang in there. try to open up a bit and talk to other girls. i know its hard but just start off slow. say hi to start. maybe next time if the girl seems interested ask her some questions....

Teen Dating Issues: Prom..., douchebag, being friends
douchebag, being friends, crossing the line: You can t presume her and her boyfriend are breaking apart just because things don t seem right with them. The best thing you could do is approach her about it. Ask her where her feelings are at, but don t be surprised if she says she doesn t know (girls :P)...

Teen Dating Issues: is she playing me, few days
few days: if you are getting really fed up of waiting for her tell her that you dont want to be waiting of her to decide and that you need her to make a decision because you cant wait for her for ever. if anything this will get her to hurry up and make her choice and...

Teen Dating Issues: Religious Barrier, Religion, Dating
Religion, Dating, Inter-faith: Hey Alex, While some people (especially those of a strict religious background) will tell that you that inter-faith relationships don t work, they can and they do. They just take a little more effort than others. While there will of course be issues to work...

Teen Dating Issues: Should i say anything, work exp, dysfunctional family
work exp, dysfunctional family, family portrait: Hi, things always work out for the better in the end with relationships and you should say something. you might not care but last summer there was i guy i was really good friends with but to be honest i fancied him like mad. i told him and he through it was...

Teen Dating Issues: Should i say anything, work exp, dysfunctional family
work exp, dysfunctional family, family portrait: hey :) well... I can t tell you exactly what to do but sometimes you think you are in love with someone but then you realise you aren t. I know, i recently came out of something like that. Honestly i cannot tell you what to do. I can t get in side your head...

Teen Dating Issues: How do I start talking to him again?, high school freshman, perverted jokes
high school freshman, perverted jokes, hey stranger: Dani, nothing is ever going to be a lost cause :) If you just want to be friends with him again, go for it. Just start talking. Maybe text him, Hey stranger or something like that. Don t give any flirty hints or anything for now, keep your conversations...

Teen Dating Issues: Does she still loves meeeee???????, mutual friend, lame excuses
mutual friend, lame excuses, hiiii: Okay, so she probably ended the relationship because she just didn t feel the same as it was before. Then she was avoiding you because she felt uncomfortable about the whole thing and didn t want to make it worse. However, I think she is now trying to become...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, mature decisions, open relationship
mature decisions, open relationship, boy friends: First off, its great that she knows that she can talk to you about these things. An open relationship with her mother is the best thing for her. But since she is 13 and getting to that age where her mommy s wishes are the LAST thing she wants to deal with,...

Teen Dating Issues: What do you think my bf is reffering too, sex addict, inorder
sex addict, inorder, yah: It seems that the idea of sex is starting to hit his mind. This means that he feels really comfortable with you and wants to take it to the next level. Right now, he is just hinting at it just to see how you react. Try and let him know how you feel about...

Teen Dating Issues: i want him back!!!, long distance relationship, thanks alot
long distance relationship, thanks alot, breakups: It seems that a lot of it has to do with conflicts that he is going through with himself. Maybe he is trying to find out who he really is. He just feels like he needs to get out of the regular day-to-day routine and figure out what he needs to do. Sometimes...

Teen Dating Issues: is it worth the pain?, Cheating, Boyfriend
Cheating, Boyfriend: Sorry about the delay, I ve been really busy with school :) If I am completely honest with you Veronika (as it is my duty to be), this boy is NOT worth your time. Look at how many times he has hurt you!! Cheating is never ok. Do yourself and him a favour,...

Teen Dating Issues: ........., 15 year olds, tounge
15 year olds, tounge, kno: hellooooo :) well... I myself am a teen. I am 16 years of age and have not yet had my 1st kiss. I think that the answer to this questions differs as ages differ. You said you were a teen which can mean anything between 13 and 19. I think that for 13, 14...

Teen Dating Issues: does he like me?, college trip, hi amy
college trip, hi amy, true hope: Hi Amy, First off, does he act like that towards every girl? If he does, and it makes you uncomfortable, then maybe he s not right for you.. But then again, maybe you re over analyzing it, and its easy to do that because you re into him so you pay attention...

Teen Dating Issues: Do I take him back?, second chances, time don
second chances, time don, second chance: Well in that case it may be a different story. It s scary that he s cheating on you 3 months into the relationship. Safe-side: Break it off before you fall even more in love with him and he hurts you all over again because if he hurts you later into the...

Teen Dating Issues: Do I take him back?, cause and effect, second chance
cause and effect, second chance, chunk: When you care for someone and they hurt you, you hurt at the same level that they once made you feel loved. For example, if he made you feel loved like a 10, then when he hurt you, he hurt you like a 10. Make sense? It would be really hard to hurt someone...

Teen Dating Issues: Do I take him back?, hannah montana, second chance
hannah montana, second chance, chunk: Parents can be hard to get through to, but just remember that they have also gone through the same thing. What I would do is kind of start talking about him here and there. For example, tell them about a funny thing that they have done, but make sure it...

Teen Dating Issues: Do I take him back?, warning sign, best of luck
warning sign, best of luck, second chance: Hey I will try my best to help you. I believe he is sorry, but also it is a warning sign that he did it in the first place. I would be weary taking him back. You said that it really hurt you and if he loved you as much as you love him it is unlikely that he...

Teen Dating Issues: 13-20, yr olds, pjs
yr olds, pjs, final decision: It is not a good idea. A 20 yr old should not be calling a 13 sexy or flirting with her. I say you not go out with him, the 20 yr old should be going out with age appropriate girls. And its not just a law to be a law. 13 yr olds brains are not fully developed...

Teen Dating Issues: 3some, without me?!, first love, 4 months
first love, 4 months, girlfriend: wow....i cant believe you would tell her to just do it! :) if she really wants to do this then you shouldn t be dating her. it sounds like she still has some feelings for her ex and you dont want any part of that. the fact that she doesnt want to have a...

Teen Dating Issues: 3some, without me?!, three somes, first love
three somes, first love, 4 months: Many times people do things like three somes just to explore and see what it s like. It may just be a phase that will soon blow over. Honestly, the only thing that will help this situation is communication. Now I know that you have already talked to her,...

Teen Dating Issues: Whether/How to Ask a Girl Out, cross country, little bit
cross country, little bit, bomb: What I would try to do is try to get to know her a little bit more. Try and get to talk to her in class when you can. Just try and get comfortable with her. Don t try to drop the bomb of asking her out just yet. Just get comfortable around her. Once she...

Teen Dating Issues: WHY DOES MY BEST FRIEND LEAD ME ON, real feelings, guy joe
real feelings, guy joe, womanizers: i think you should tell him how you feel. you cant just pretend you dont have feelings for him. try to work it out with him and let him know that you get jealous because you care for him. good luck and please let me know how it goes. dont be closed to him....

Teen Dating Issues: BOYS BOYS BOYS, boys boys boys, honest reply
boys boys boys, honest reply, facebook: boys are always more confident on facebook because there not face to face with you. so talk to him on there and tell him how you feel and that your friends were lying. it is less likely to go around the school then and you are more likely to get a honest reply...

Teen Dating Issues: Boy advice, sex with a guy, starters
sex with a guy, starters, feelings: Well it depends on the situation really. For starters, do you even love him? People sometimes go into sex without even thinking about the feelings they have for someone else. This is the key part of sex. If you don t love him, then you should probably...

Teen Dating Issues: Boy issue, new kid at school, friend zone
new kid at school, friend zone, txt msg: Hi Candace. I think that the first thing you need to remember is that he is not currently in a relationship with you, so him kissing her isn t cheating. However, if you like him and want to go out with him then you need to talk to him. If it bothers you that...

Teen Dating Issues: Boy issue, new kid at school, friend zone
new kid at school, friend zone, playa playa: oh lol oh wow playa playa jk jk beware of guys that fall for girls to quick that means they can fall out of love with them to quickly i mean to me if a guy sent me all that and i just met him i would think its kinda weird personally i like to take it slow...

Teen Dating Issues: Boy issue, new kid at school, friend zone
new kid at school, friend zone, anywho: He cannot know this if you have just started to talk to him so I would suggest keeping him in the friend zone and then if he stays in love with you then I might consider letting him get closer. About him kissing another girl, he has the right to, you two...

Teen Dating Issues: Boyfriend troubles, binge drinker, ups and downs
binge drinker, ups and downs, boyfriend troubles: oh i feel like crying reading this i just got out of a relationship like this someone i known since i was 14 he was my first everything i was never put first in our relationship there was always girls he had money but he never took me out girls called my phone...

Teen Dating Issues: Me and my boyfriend, stupid things, jealousy
stupid things, jealousy, best friend: Hi Kim, my advice woudln t be to leave him, but let him do him for a while if you know what i mean. Let him focus on himself, because obviously he is struggling. You can stay with him and support him, but don t overwhelm him. You know the risk if you want...

Teen Dating Issues: boyfriend...and plagerism, plagiarism, elisa
plagiarism, elisa, best time: hmm wow i dont know what to say well if you feel a certain way dont hold off on it if you hold on to something you dont want it will no longer feel right but than again i dont know why you would break up with him over this but if its something that gets to...

Teen Dating Issues: who do i choose?, Choices decisions
Choices decisions: Hi Bree I think the first thing you need to consider is do you want to be in a relationship with both of them or at all. If you want to be with only one of them then I would choose that one, however if you want both then I would try to figure out which you...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, wink, heros
wink, heros, cheerleaders: lol...well i think guys think to much with their penis :) im not saying all guys do this but a lot do and that gets them in trouble. its ok for a guy to play hard to get sometimes. hopefully girls will see this and not try to play with guys minds either. i...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating and Boys, melissa, relationship
melissa, relationship: heeey melissa. sorry for not replying i have been very sick, havent been able to get out of bed until today. anyways... i would suggest sitting him down and telling him thatyu understand that he isnt ready for a relationship, and that you will respect...

Teen Dating Issues: Double Minded, boyfriend james, decent conversation
boyfriend james, decent conversation, friend hope: Hi Jamie, i m extremely sorry for the delayed reply. I was in this situation before. My suggestion is that you explore your feelings for James. If not, you might either regret it or your head will be filled with what ifs . UNLESS you re sure that you...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, pretty girls, facebook
pretty girls, facebook, 5 months: heey Christina, depending on what problems are that are arising, they need to be dealt with. i don t belive in letting things slip by, even if they are small they need to be talked about. Insecurity happens a lot once you are in a relationship, if you don...

Teen Dating Issues: dating trouble, girlfriend
girlfriend: A couple will always have fights, even if they are in love. However, if you two are truly in love, you guys will be able to fix it in no time. What you should probably do is just talk to her about it. Try and take her out somewhere nice where you guys can...

Teen Dating Issues: The drummer, drummers, drummer
drummers, drummer, little bit: Well now that he is back, it may be a bit easier. What you need to do is just try and get him comfortable with him. Just try and be nice and friendly with him, maybe a little bit more friendlier if you know what I mean. Just try and get a really good friendship....

Teen Dating Issues: Will my EX boyfriend ever notices that what hes doing is wrong and is hurting me?, friend alexis, new girlfriend
friend alexis, new girlfriend, freshmen: There is always that small chance in any finished relationship that one may want to go back. However, that doesn t mean you should. One thing that girls do to try and make themselves feel better is to think of stuff like, He has made a mistake and He...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex Boyfriend, hard time, last time
hard time, last time, feelings: I understand that it may be hard to let her see her ex. However, you should have some trust in her. I know it doesn t seem right to you, however, maybe they are still friends, and maybe they really don t have feelings for each other any more. So what you...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex Boyfriend, ex, trust
ex, trust, fear: Milan, I can say this is a normal feeling. It is hard to trust them together since she couldn t let him go and they have history. So you can either just trust that there is nothing between them. but i suggest talking to her. Its is the key to a good relationship....

Teen Dating Issues: First date, championship basketball game, cute outfit
championship basketball game, cute outfit, first dates: Hi Coley :) Aww, first dates are usually really enjoyable but nerve-wracking if you haven t really been on one. Pick a cute outfit (one that reflects your style), go out and have a good time with him. Definitely be yourself, cause we don t want him liking...

Teen Dating Issues: Follow Up, follow ups, ill change
follow ups, ill change, good girls: well boys at my school told me they want the fast girls right now because its easy access when they get older they want the good girls the one that got something going for themselves yeah and i broke the no contact rule i texted him and said hey i dont know...

Teen Dating Issues: follow up for a question, playing the game, ohh
playing the game, ohh, zombies: heey, so COD would be a great icebreaker, guys love their video games. and yeah that is a good way of wording it. maybe farther along in the conversation you could be like i have never played but i want to learn, maybe u could teach me. kinda show him you...

Teen Dating Issues: This girl i dated not to long ago is acting weird. Im not sure why???, new girls, smart guy
new girls, smart guy, mutual friends: heey garret, i would really love to give you a direct path into her mind, but unfortunately i cant. i will try my best to try and sort out all of the different signs she is giving out, but they may not be exactly what she is thinking. okaay... mostly...

Teen Dating Issues: What is with this girl i dated not to long ago?, new girls, smart guy
new girls, smart guy, mutual friends: There could be two explainations for her behavior. The first one is that she is testing the waters . What I mean by this is she might be prodding to see if you still like her. Have you flirted back when she has flirted? She probably is waiting to see if you...

Teen Dating Issues: What is this girl i used to date doing?, new girls, smart guy
new girls, smart guy, mutual friends: Hi Garret, First I want to apologize for taking a little while to answer. This past week has been very busy. Now to answer your question, I think that she probably has feelings for you. From what you have told me, I get the feeling that there are still feelings...

Teen Dating Issues: What is on this girls mind?, new girls, facebook
new girls, facebook, mutual friends: One thing that we must remember is that girls do the craziest things to get a guy to notice them. Sometimes they ll even try and start relationships just to get the other one to notice them, believe me, it has happened before. What is my point? Simple....

Teen Dating Issues: guy, dumb joke, stares
dumb joke, stares, jokes: hello nichole, From how you have explained this situation with this guy, and his actions while around you, i believe that he does like you. men / boys look at their shoes when they are having a conversation with a girl for many reasons, but the all point...

Teen Dating Issues: How can I get this guy to stop liking me?, serious conversation, male friends
serious conversation, male friends, half the time: heeey bianca. sorry it took me so long to reply i have been really sick and today was the first day i was actually able to get out of my bed. okaay, so since you are not able to have a face to face conversation, witch would have been what i had suggested,...

Teen Dating Issues: This isn't a typical question, but I am in need of advice, more than I ever have been., typical question, opnion
typical question, opnion, virginity: Hi anonymous.. I m so sorry about this. Unfortunately I have never experienced anything like this ever before, nor can I imagine what she or you are going through, but there are some experts on here that probably have. I m so sorry, I m sure you can find...

Teen Dating Issues: jealous all the time
If he has not done anything that has made you not trust him the I suggest trying to remember that in 17months he has not done anything. If a guy can be honest and faithful that long the he must really care about you and there is most likely no reason not to...

Teen Dating Issues: he is such a jerk iits long but please help, jerk, sad
jerk, sad, mistreated: Brittany, First off I d like to say my name is Missy. Not, Ms.Ava I didn t know if you sent this to the wrong expert but I d still like to help. By the sounds of it you know he is treating you very wrong and you know that you shouldn t have to take that....

Teen Dating Issues: Love, second thoughts, reassurance
second thoughts, reassurance, apology: Haha, thank you, i m glad i could help. Well..why did you not let her dye her hair in the first place? Think about that, and you don t have a reason other than i don t like it or i don t think it would look good on her then go to her and make a sincere...

Teen Dating Issues: Please help me, anyones feelings, best friends
anyones feelings, best friends, little bit: Hi Alex, i m sorry that my reply is a little bit late. First of all, i hope you didn t lead her friend on in any way, because that would be a problem. You don t necessarily need the best friend s approval, you just need to make sure that you aren t leading...

Teen Dating Issues: Please help!, anyones feelings, best friends
anyones feelings, best friends, best friend: I know that this is probably predictable, but I think you just need to talk to her (the girl you like). I know what you re thinking, but it s honestly the only thing that s going to work in this situation. Talk to her and see what she thinks. Tell her how...

Teen Dating Issues: Problem with my Best Guy Friend?, man of my dreams, boyfriend girlfriend
man of my dreams, boyfriend girlfriend, guy friend: I know this is a really over used answer, but you just need to talk to him. Luckily for you, it will be easier because you guys are great friends. Take him somewhere where there are some people around, but not too many, like a restaurant, and talk to him....

Teen Dating Issues: Relationship Repair, repair question, facebook
repair question, facebook, being friends: no im pretty sure that, if he wanted u to add him he would ahve adde you. i think that it took him a couple days to come to terms with u 2 being done. thats when he unblocked you. but it is still going to take him a couple weeks to a month to be able to talk...

Teen Dating Issues: I really like my friend, and have no idea whether she likes me back or not., walmart, rehearsals
walmart, rehearsals, 5 months: no problemo :] hmmm i thought about that to with a guy friend of mine but i made a rule for myself to never go out with my close guy friends because i dont really talk to my exes and i wouldnt want to break up with them and never talk to them again you know...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex:(, unsafe sex, safe sex
unsafe sex, safe sex, judgement: Hi Brookelyn, First I want to apologize for taking a little while to answer. This past week has been very busy. As for your question, I have not had to much experience in this. However, I think that the best way to tell her is to just tell her that you...

Teen Dating Issues: Trying to get a "skater" guy to like me, stares, brittany
stares, brittany, love: If i were you I would hang out with him more get to know him more now dont bug him but i mean if you want something you should go for it but if your shy just try to get to know him more try to get closer to him but you dont have to wait you know if you want...

Teen Dating Issues: how to talk to a boy, cute boy, sandi
cute boy, sandi, outkast: you just have to get the nerve up and do it! :) start off by just saying hi. next time ask him how he is doing. make the conversations short and give him something to look forward to next time. think about some topics you might want to talk to him about....

Teen Dating Issues: teen daughter, parenting advice, woman talk
parenting advice, woman talk, teen daughter: Hi Leslie, I can t give you parenting advice because I myself am not a parent, but i could definitely give you what i d want my mom to do in this situation. Obligation is the worst reason to stay in a relationship. What you need to do is support her....

Teen Dating Issues: How to tell if she likes me?, shy girl, first move
shy girl, first move, signs: Sorry my bad im using my school lab top and its acting real slow. Now ok i mean it depends i know im a shy girl but im a flirt when it comes to someone i may have a crush on but its kind of a innocent flirt i cant explain i laugh i giggle i like to be around...

Teen Dating Issues: what you think?, black ops, questin
black ops, questin, youtube: heey. sorry it took me so long to reply, i have been very sick with strep throat, not able to get out of bed. i am going to answer this and the other questin u sent me in the same answer. i cant tell u what exactly to say because even though u dont know...

Teen Dating Issues: what you think i should do with this guy i like?, bad time, few words
bad time, few words, good luck: i would start off by making small talk with him. ask him some questions about himself to get to know him better. avoid yes or no questions if you can. ask him about his family or about what music he likes, that kind of stuff. good luck! :) sand...

Teen Dating Issues: what you think i should do with this guy i like?, bad time, few words
bad time, few words, few days: It s hard to talk to a guy when you don t really get to see them a lot. However, don t let this discourage you. What you need to do is try to talk to him in person. Now I know that you really don t see him that often, but it s the best that you can do....

Teen Dating Issues: what you think i should do with this guy i like?, worth a shot, bad time
worth a shot, bad time, few words: Hi Maria. I have been there before, it s no fun but there are a few things that you could try. First you could just try to talk to him whenever you see him, I know you said that was rare but it is still worth a shot. Also just keep trying to talk to him on...

Teen Dating Issues: what you think i should do with this guy i like?, face book, bad time
face book, bad time, few words: Well I mean I honestly think its better to say hi to him when you see him in person and I dont think you should message him anymore let him message you back and you should wait a little more actually if he dosent message you msg him on face book and introduce...

Teen Dating Issues: what you think i should do with this guy i like?, person act, new girls
person act, new girls, bad time: hi maria, it sounds like this guy may either be shy or perhaps not really interested right now. sometimes guys don t know what to do when girls make the first move, even if you re not doing anything wrong or coming across as too strong. i know you ve seen...

Teen Dating Issues: what you think i should do with this guy i like?, talk about the weather, bad time
talk about the weather, bad time, facebook: I think that he is a little shy to you because you don t see him very much. I would suggest just trying to start conversations on facebook about topics you both like or know. If you see him and you have time, maybe strike up a conversation with him so he doesn...

Teen Dating Issues: what you think i should do with this guy i like?, bad time, facebook
bad time, facebook, few words: hello maria, one thing i would like to say is keep in mind that all someone has to do to go off idle on fb is move the mouse, so if he has animals the quite possibly could have put him back online, and he may not have even been there. my suggestions...

Teen Dating Issues: what you think i should do with this guy i like?, facebook, younger
facebook, younger: Maria, Facebook can be a hard place to get to know him if it s your first time meeting. I would say try and talk to him in person if you can. Maybe go with your dad if he ever goes to his house or if he ever comes to yours. It is always easier to read his...

Teen Dating Issues: what you think i should do with this guy i like?, bad time, few words
bad time, few words, few days: Hi Maria, What i would do is definitely try and contact him on something that he can get back to later; maybe on his wall so you know for sure he got the message. Facebook chat isn t reliable, don t think too much about it from there :) Either he never...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me more?, personal bubble, confident women
personal bubble, confident women, biggest mistake: What girls tend to do when they like a guy is try to change to impress them. However, this is the biggest mistake that anyone can make. Stay yourself. Believe me, it s way better than trying to be someone else you re not, cause it just pushes everyone away....

Teen Dating Issues: what to do...?, sexual refrences, jort
sexual refrences, jort, hey girl: hey girl i totally understand. 1. dont ever go out with someone just to make them happy if you dont feel a certain way about someone i mean dont go with them dont do anything to someone that you wouldnt want done to you dont lead someone on but tell t again...

Teen Dating Issues: Does she like me or not?, blank face, eye contact
blank face, eye contact, smiles: she is giving mixed signals and i cant tell you if she likes you or not because im not giving any false information that may not be true you have to find out for yourself:} maybe she may be shy because some of her friends may like you and maybe they tell...

Teen Dating Issues: what should we do ?, councilor, second time
councilor, second time, several times: It s hard to go on a break from someone when you see them on a daily basis. However, it can be done. Now, I m not talking about a whole month. I m just talking about a week, two if you feel like you need it. Breaks will differ between two people. In your...

Teen Dating Issues: what should we do ?, growing, apart
growing, apart, annoyed: Rachel, I see this happen many of times where people are at the married (i like to call it) stage of a relationship. Your guys are together but, the spark is gone really, or atleast that s what i see from what you are telling me. Try and spice it up alittle...

Teen Dating Issues: What is going on?, bump in the road, playing a game
bump in the road, playing a game, craziness: heey courtney, well from what you have told i would say that he still likes you, and that he is sorof letting this girl ac like this to make you jelous. so your friend is right especiay if he is talking shit about her and not about you. if he liked you before...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me back?, class breaks, unimportant things
class breaks, unimportant things, mutual friends: Hi Confused First off, you are not the only person who has this problem, I have been in the same situation before. Now I have to say that the entire time that I was reading your question, I could not help but think that this guy is head over heels for...

Teen Dating Issues: Not for sure..., facebook, neighbors
facebook, neighbors, mom: if you have any neighbors or friends from a school you use to go to, go out with them and meet up with them and there friends. If any like you then they will find out your single through your friends or add them on facebook to talk to the cute ones ;...

Teen Dating Issues: The Apparent Pothead, believe, bad
believe, bad, influence: Celine, This is the best time to bring your boyfriend around. Get Permission form your mom to bring him around for dinner. You need to show your dad that he is a great guy. Yea, this may be easier said then done. But, you need to try. Have your mom try and...

Teen Dating Issues: Break Up, being friends, good friends
being friends, good friends, good time: i think you need to pin him down and find a good time to talk to him when it can just be the two of you. he cant just ignore you and still ask you to do things for him. thats very rude! i think being open and honest with him is fine. just let him know...

Teen Dating Issues: Break Up, being friends, 9 months
being friends, 9 months, good friends: First of all im very sorry im late i work late now at work and im so busy im very sorry but -keep it moving move on i stopped being friends with my exes exes are exes for a reason and if you do want to be friends with them wait give eachother space to...

Teen Dating Issues: Confronting, best of friends, enemies
best of friends, enemies, texts: i think you should just leave it be and hopefully the guy wont say anything to your friend. if it happens to come up later i would tell your friend that it slipped and you didnt mean to say anything. hopefully she will understand. but hopefully you wont have...

Teen Dating Issues: A crush on a boy at school, long lasting relationships, first person
long lasting relationships, first person, first class: Sorry it took me so long to answer. What you need to do right now is just try and get to know him. Talk to him at school when he is with Ladean. This will be easier for you because you are friends with Ladean. Then, when you get to know him a little bit...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting out of friend zone, friend zone, wierdo
friend zone, wierdo, guy friend: i dont know really she may just want to stay friends cause maybe she is worried if you both break up it could ruin ur friendship thats why i never went out with my guy friend because if we broke up i know i dont talk to my exes at all maybe you should take...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriends parents disapprove me, girl friend, clue
girl friend, clue, wit: my mom didnt like my boyfriend i told him to always talk to my mom about it but he was so scared i think if he tlked to her than she would have liked him more i suggest you keep talking and than maybe you should have a talk to your girl friend about things...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, missy, good times
missy, good times, gentlemen: Jason, Just ask about her family. If she ever invites you over and if she has sibblings get to know them. Pay attention to what she has to say about them. Let her know she is a big part of your life. You have to be there for her at hard times but, still want...

Teen Dating Issues: A guy, friend ship, sandi
friend ship, sandi, close friends: if you really like him as a friend and think that dating him would ruin that then maybe you should just remain friends. this is a tuff call. maybe you should talk to him about it? you both already know you like each other so talking about what might happen...

Teen Dating Issues: guys!, wee wee, line in the sand
wee wee, line in the sand, pet peeve: Kimberly, you are right that he s behaving disrespectfully, and to not realize what he s doing? That s childish. You don t see grown men grabbing their junk at work unless they are in professions where not thinking is acceptable. And you don t see them...

Teen Dating Issues: Help with sexual urges, flashbacks, girlfriend
flashbacks, girlfriend, little bit: Well since you guys have had sex so often, now it feels like you need to have it the same amount. Changing this fast is going to make anyone go crazy. What you need to do is, and I know this may sound crazy, go back try and have sex a little more often,...

Teen Dating Issues: How to handle my first girlfriend?, first girlfriend, hormones
first girlfriend, hormones, missy: Jeremy, there is no difference in the way of acting in a relationship. Be yourself but, show her you still have feelings bring her around your family spend time with her. Your girlfriend is just like a best friend that you have feelings for and she has feelings...

Teen Dating Issues: hi, visual communication, time don
visual communication, time don, mean time: One thing you should do is not rush her. This just makes a girl nervous and closes her off from you. Just give her the time that she needs to think about this. In the mean time, try and show her that you really do care about her. This may make her mind...

Teen Dating Issues: hi, visual communication, admission
visual communication, admission, to tell the truth: i wouldnt ask again to tell the truth you told her basically how you feel and that you want her to be with you she wants to think about it so let her she will come when she is ready and if she dosent keep it moving dont wait i mean you can ask her again but...

Teen Dating Issues: hi, visual communication, couple weeks
visual communication, couple weeks, ahmad: Ahmad, You cant rush her answer she will get mad and just say no. Just wait till she knows if it takes more then a couple weeks then its a no. If you want in maybe a week and a half reminder her. But you shouldn t have to wait for an answer if she really...

Teen Dating Issues: WHY IS HE IGNORING ME?, close friends, conversations
close friends, conversations, butt: He could just be going through something right now, so just give him some time. If he doesn t come around after a few days or so, try and start the conversations yourself. This will show him that you care and may let him open up to you a little bit more....

Teen Dating Issues: Lonely, missy, couples
missy, couples, faith: Rebeca, Just because some people are dating doesn t mean you have to be. I believe there is someone for everyone but it might take time to find that one. It is only high school. The people that are together now might not even be together in a month or so....

Teen Dating Issues: Love, 10th grade, wasting time
10th grade, wasting time, gf: Alex, You have to sit him down and explain you feelings for him. Ask him what he wants out of this. Tell him you understand that he doesn t want a girlfriend but tell him that you can t have him keeping your hopes up but not wanting to be with you. Let him...

Teen Dating Issues: I love her but i dont know what to do, text face, good relationship
text face, good relationship, freshmen: sorry andrew for being so late I work now after school till like 11:00 at night but i think you sould have a serious talk wit her talk to her about how you feel and what you want out of the relationship maybe she is scared and tell her its only natural...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm not sure what to do, blank face, saying things
blank face, saying things, eye contact: Jordan, Sorry it took me so long to answer we had to put together a concert a few days ago. But, it doesnt sound like your annoying her but that she is waitng for something. Anything. to be asked to go to the out or something. If you do ask her out ask for...

Teen Dating Issues: Shy girl, sister point, facebook
sister point, facebook, shy girl: Dustin, By the sounds of it this girl likes you but is scared to say anything. She might think your only messing with her. Try again telling her how you feel. Even try showing it. Maybe ask her if she would like to got to the park some time or go to a sports...

Teen Dating Issues: sex.., pelvic exam, good girl
pelvic exam, good girl, better life: I think you should talk to her about those things i wish my mom was like that i had sex with one person in my life when my mom found out she started fussing at me judging me for all i do everything i used to cry but now i dont and when i wanted to talk...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen break ups :(, break ups, t text
break ups, t text, doing the right thing: i think your doing the right thing. you just need to stop talking to him for now. you may never totally get over him but things will get better. i heard it can take about half the time of the relationship to get over someone. hang in there....be around friends...

Teen Dating Issues: Troubled decision, intimate scene, professional actor
intimate scene, professional actor, first trust: I am a former actress myself. As a person in a field that many considered just a dream, I did not get a lot of support or encouragement. With that experience, I can assure you I think I have the best advice possible for the both of you. First, TRUST...

Teen Dating Issues: triangle??, valentine s day, kristy
valentine s day, kristy, nerve: Well i give the truth and this is what it is Sarah Derek is not boyfriend material he is wrong rude and im pretty sure you were kinda hurt when he told you that he wasnt looking for a relationship but all of a sudden was so ready to be in a relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: 13 dating, gut feeling, conversations
gut feeling, conversations: Its hard to say but you said she probably does. So your gut feeling is normally the best indicator. I think that it is a good sign she likes you when she makes physical contact and starts conversations. So I believe that if you want to ask her out or want...

Teen Dating Issues: assessment of personality, school fraternity, angel princess
school fraternity, angel princess, fraternity boy: Well, Yes...in a way. Look, I m only basing my thoughts on how I view RICKY, not your Ex!!! For all I know your Ex might have a completely different perspective of Marriage (He might be both good Boyfriend AND Husband material)!!! The reason I think RICKY...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I break up with him?, stupid reason, wits end
stupid reason, wits end, late in the day: Hi Jamie, To be honest...Boys are oblivious to this kind of thing!!! As long as you like (or love) eachother that is the most important thing!!! Boys don t worry about the texting as such, but as long as your still going out and have a good time together,...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused love, low self esteem, 4 months
low self esteem, 4 months, emotions: hi hayley. you sound very smart! :) i think your right that your are too young to really love someone. you have a lot of things left to do in your life like finishing school and maybe college. you dont want to be tied down to one guy right now. you want to...

Teen Dating Issues: Does my close friend like me?, real good friends, chapstick
real good friends, chapstick, couple times: well....with girls its really hard to tell! :) here is what I would do. continue to hang out with her. ask her again if she would like to hang out. if she says she is busy again then i would just let it be. she might be a little nervous to hang out alone...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Advice, piece of advice, dating advice
piece of advice, dating advice, good luck: Hi Hope, I have one piece of advice for you...BE YOURSELF!!! If you ve known this guy for a while, then you don t want to suddenly be someone different for your date. Just wear something Nice and smart (not to classy) be comfortable!!!! You shouldn...

Teen Dating Issues: This is driving me crazy... but I like him, volleyball games, relationship type
volleyball games, relationship type, funny guy: Hi Tori, Can I just say your story is so romantic and I think you should go after the boy!!! When summer camp comes up, just be cool and hang out like normal; when you see him casually go up and talk to him (ask him casual things like how he s been etc.)I...

Teen Dating Issues: ex is going crazy, walls scream, temper tantrums
walls scream, temper tantrums, easter night: Wow!!! I don t mean to be judgemental, but I really think his mother should sit down and talk to him. What you should do is simple, Something I like to call Music Therapy !!! When you are alone -or in a quiet place- I want you to play two songs, any...

Teen Dating Issues: Gift for girlfriend, diamond heart necklace, shell cameo
diamond heart necklace, shell cameo, cabochon jewelry: hi jacob, well you sound like a great bf :) if your girl likes jewelry then you probably cant miss with something like a bracelet or a ring. what about using that $200 to take her out to a nice romantic dinner? she sounds like a girl that would appreciate...

Teen Dating Issues: Does this girl possibly like me ?, holding hands, eye contact
holding hands, eye contact, cardigan: Wow this girl is hard to read. It seems as though she is going out of her way to ignore you. I do not know why but there are a few possible answers. If she is normally not very outgoing then she could just be shy around you. In this case you need to sit down...

Teen Dating Issues: Does this girl possibly like me ?, holding hands, cardigan
holding hands, cardigan, eye contact: Hey Daniel, Well It s good to see a man brave enough to make a move. I think this girl might be dangerous; if she was with a possible BF AND was trying to flirt with you, she might not be faithful. I would leave it if I were you, hang out with your...

Teen Dating Issues: healthy relationship?, graduation day, two and a half years
graduation day, two and a half years, trust issues: Hi Cat, I think this isn t a good thing, if this guy is making you lose your friends then he obviously doesn t think he can hold on to you, which makes him insecure. I think you should break-up with him (For good), tell him that you don t feel safe...

Teen Dating Issues: junior dating sophomore, lovey dovey, boyfriend james
lovey dovey, boyfriend james, last boyfriend: you need to not be so worried about what other people think or say. :) its your life and you need to live it like you want to. besides sophomore to junior is not a big jump. you should be proud to hang out and show affection to your attractive, outgoing,...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm not important...to him, dumb crap, catigory
dumb crap, catigory, stupid problem: Hi Elisa, Look you have every right to be angry what the guy did to you was totally wrong and stupid. You have to forget about him completely, burn all the things that remind you of him (like love letters, pictures of the two of you etc.), and turn...

Teen Dating Issues: pathetic love, pathetic lack, lack of confidence
pathetic lack, lack of confidence, self doubt: Hi Nikolas, I think you should get your self together, and call the girl!!! It s no good thinking about a girl if it s not going anywhere. Here are a few steps to get you through it... Steps: 1. Call her 2. Explain how she s been in your head...

Teen Dating Issues: rejection, good friends, rejection
good friends, rejection, excuse: Hi Matt, The best thing for you to do is to really be good friends with a girl and get to know her well enough!!! Then when you feel you are really comfortable together that s when you ask her out!! If she turns you down, try to still be friends with...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship advice, maturity levels, younger siblings
maturity levels, younger siblings, cheese burger: Thank you for such a detailed question. It helps me to help you. Ok, so first of all I need to tell you that this doesn t look good for you if you want to salvage this relationship. He is trying to control you and that trait is hardly ever changeable. I would...

Teen Dating Issues: my relationships, boyfriends name, sad at times
boyfriends name, sad at times, kids name: honestly...this is your first relationship and you really shouldnt stay in it just because it s comfortable. i also think maybe joe is not the right person to date if he is going away. personally i think you should break up with colby and not date anyone...

Teen Dating Issues: Shy Guys Finish Last, cute kind, weird kid
cute kind, weird kid, last thought: Hi Chris, Before I start I just want to say that we seem to have a lot in common (especially about music-I m a singer and saxophonist; when I play or sing I m in my zone)!!!!! Funny Huh? Anyway about your problem, I m going to give you some advice them...

Teen Dating Issues: Summer Romance, summer romance, bummer
summer romance, bummer, whole life: Well, I know not having a BF can be a bummer sometimes BUT I don t think you need a guy to notice you!!! The one thing I say to people in this situation is, DON T LOOK FOR LOVE - let it come to you. If you don t go out looking for a BF, you are more...

Teen Dating Issues: Used?, sexual activities, grade 9
sexual activities, grade 9, suggestion: If it seems unlike her then I would definitely ask her about it. But don t start the conversation off with that topic. Maybe joke around and say I guess I m too good of a friend to be a bf its just a suggestion. But if you feel like asking would help clear...

Teen Dating Issues: How to appear more confident with girls?, hairstlye, confidence
hairstlye, confidence, girls: Hi Dan, Well, I think you should just believe in yourself and if you see a girl you like, you should talk to her! Your 21, it s time you built up the confidence to talk to a girl. Just be yourself, and compliment her...also let her speak and listen to...

Teen Dating Issues: How to appear more confident with girls?, hairstlye, conversations
hairstlye, conversations, good luck: i think you just need to say hi and talk to them as much as possible. you also need to have more confidence in yourself. it must be obvious that girls are interested in you so just go with that. think about some things you might say to a girl who smiles at...

Teen Dating Issues: bouncing back from a bad impression, junior prom, young adult
junior prom, young adult, courage: Hi Chris, I think you should just forget about her and move on!! If she s not replying she might not feel for you in the same way, and it s not good to seem clingy to a girl!! I think you should carry on with your life and enjoy your time as a young...

Teen Dating Issues: THe boy, 34d, curfew
34d, curfew, moths: Don t even think of showing him your breasts! If that s all he wants then he is a real crappy guy. Don t show him just to keep his attention. I strongly suggest you forgetting about that creep and moving on to another guy because any guy that just wants to...

Teen Dating Issues: A Classic Conundrum, relationship problem, opportune moment
relationship problem, opportune moment, conundrum: hi luke, hmm...well i think since you have already been down this road before with her i would keep it just friends. telling her you like her might not end your friendship but i think if she really just wants to be friends it might make it awkward. ...

Teen Dating Issues: Commitment issues caused our breakup?, commitment issues, great relationship
commitment issues, great relationship, whole time: Hi Ashley, First off, really sorry about the delay (really busy) But,I think you should talk to him one last time; ask him what s going on with him and if he wants to get back together, if not just leave it for now and still be really good friends!! ...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused by my GF's behaviour, 10 months, gf
10 months, gf, confusion: Hi Cody, One thing you should know is that girls have the need 2 keep things to themselves, maybe something is bothering her!! What you need to do is ask her (nicely) if there s anything on her mind and re-assure her that u can be trusted!!! If nothing...

Teen Dating Issues: does my ex girlfriend still love me even though i hurt her a lot?, snowball effect, first girlfriend
snowball effect, first girlfriend, sophomore year: Hi Robin, First of all, I m really sorry about the delay in this e-mail. By reading your e-mail; I think that you and your ex have a special bond. I have a feeling that she still likes you (or just cares about you and doesn t want you to get hurt). ...

Teen Dating Issues: first girlfriend and first breakup, first girlfriend, sister my sister
first girlfriend, sister my sister, facebook: Hi Chris, Once again, sorry for the delay!! Umm, maybe cut down on the facebook stalking and just talk to her again. Dinner and a movie is nice, but I have a better idea... Go to her house; and tell her that you want to take her somewhere; if she...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy issues >.<, current boyfriend, thts
current boyfriend, thts, few differences: Hi Emily, First of all I m really sorry about the delay Before I tell you what I think, I just want to make it clear that this is my opinion only, and if you are not happy with my opinion then you should follow your heart. I think that you should...

Teen Dating Issues: High school crush/dating, school crush, year book
school crush, year book, time place: i think the year book thing is a good idea but here is what i would do.... ask him to sign your yearbook and say something like feel free to put your phone number in there too so we can continue to talk . hopefully he will and then i would call him and...

Teen Dating Issues: long distance relationship?, long distance relationship, soul mate
long distance relationship, soul mate, fun time: Hi Cole, The best thing to do is try the relationship out and see where you go from there! You don t want to not date her and find out she s your soul mate!) I think you should just talk to her, ask her out and after your date, be clear about the fact...

Teen Dating Issues: Making Out (too soon?), old girl, drift
old girl, drift, sorry for the delay: Hi Rachel First of all, I am very sorry for the delay, I haven t been able to reply to these messages for ages. To be honest, I think your not too young however you have not known him for very long. You should get to know a person before you go to the next...

Teen Dating Issues: I need to get over an ex boyfriend.., hey nicole, don t cry
hey nicole, don t cry, bf: hey nicole, sometimes we just have that special someone in our life that we will never forget. the only thing i can say about that is eventually you will find someone who you really love and your ex will seem to gradually disappear from your mind, unless...

Teen Dating Issues: Nervousness and dating., self esteem issues, physical interaction
self esteem issues, physical interaction, lonely all the time: Hi Damian, I am really sorry that my response is so late. I think that you should be more confident with yourself and make some friends (both boys and girls), and make yourself noticed. Girls like guys who are sensitive, like you have explained, but...

Teen Dating Issues: SUMMER LOVE / BLACK GIRL WHO LIKES WHITE GUYS, interracial relationships, american guys
interracial relationships, american guys, white guys: Hi Saleena, First of all I am very sorry about the delay; I have been very bust with work! And I think you need to relax, and let the world decide who you date. Don t look for love, because you are more likely to find it if you stop searching! I...

Teen Dating Issues: how do u have sex?, vergins, how do u have sex
vergins, how do u have sex, well thanks: hi ashley. its different for everyone but my advice would be to not be so big on wanting to do it all the first time. you dont have to give him a bj the first time and he doesnt have to go down on you. to make things more relaxing make sure you both talk...

Teen Dating Issues: I Worry About My Boyfriend But I'm Not Sure I Should Be, physical fights, bad habits
physical fights, bad habits, 4 months: Hi Belinda, First of all, I am very sorry for the delay, I haven t been able to reply to these messages for ages. I think you ave every right to be worried, you are part of his life at the moment and you should care for him and him for you. Don t be too...

Teen Dating Issues: 6th month anniversary, air dry clay, versatile gift
air dry clay, versatile gift, sweet note: This is a cool idea my bf and I made for our 6 months: We both got silver rings and got them engraved with the other s initial. After that, we tied them with leather strings and wear them as necklaces. So you could maybe get some sort of necklace (since having...

Teen Dating Issues: Break, back into my arms, tanning salon
back into my arms, tanning salon, couple days: i think your mother is right. give her a couple of days and then contact her. you are not the only one in the wrong here. yes you need to trust her but she also needs to make it clear to other guys that she is dating someone. that may not prevent a guy from...

Teen Dating Issues: Break, back into my arms, line of thought
back into my arms, line of thought, tanning salon: Well first of all you need to think about different scenarios here, the one thing that struck me first as I read over your question was that she maybe was unable to do anything about the flirting because as you told me, she s working. Now as an employee I...

Teen Dating Issues: cheating, septemeber, current boyfriend
septemeber, current boyfriend, hardest thing: Hi Lexis, Even though it s the hardest thing, the best thing to do is confront Dylan and tell him what happened; tell him it was a mistake and you feel really guilty because you really care about him and have NO feelings for Bryan!!! This is all I can...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting Close., serious relationship, many thanks
serious relationship, many thanks, nerves: have you talked to him about it? i think telling him how you feel and that your nervous will help you relax more when you do it. just start off slow and take it as slow as you feel comfortable doing. maybe just kiss him once or twice and leave it at that....

Teen Dating Issues: Confused like crazy!, good friends, alison
good friends, alison, freak: Hi Alison, Well you are right there is at least 4/5 years difference between you and this guy and I think that this might be a bit odd if you go out. How ever that doesn t mean you can t be good friends!!! I think you should remain friends and if...

Teen Dating Issues: Confusion, halloween celebration, fright nights
halloween celebration, fright nights, rest of the night: Heya.. Well, in my opinion, I think he is playing games with you, trying to see what you will do for him. If I were you, I would ask him what s going on, in person. See what he says, and you can be sure that he is being sincere by body language. Once you...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating issues, vacation in spain, courage
vacation in spain, courage: You could always approach them and introduce yourself like it s the most normal thing in the world, and casually say you saw her looking. There s no reason to be ashamed, and especially if you re traveling alone, you should be used to making friends. It would...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating/Relationships, good girls, dating relationships
good girls, dating relationships, never been kissed: Hey! Well, to be honest I can t think of a reason why guys wouldn t be lining up to ask you out! Sorry but I can t help you out on this one.. But it ll happen when it happens. But don t worry, I m17 and only got asked out for the first time this year,...

Teen Dating Issues: My Ex-Boyfriend, boy, love
boy, love, problems: Hi Shakira, the best thing to do is to stay AWAY from this boy. He is only talking to you for sex. Thats all, your body. He doesn t care about you or whatnot. The best thing is to stay away from him, its only going to end in tears once he gets what he wants....

Teen Dating Issues: Fell in Love with my best friend, advic, sexual relationship
advic, sexual relationship, dream guy: Well my take on this is that since you were both hypothetically speaking of relationships, he may not have meant the part about no emotions. I mean, he may be playing tough guy because let s say he thought you were trying to date someone else and he tried...

Teen Dating Issues: Fell in Love with my best friend, sexual relationship, dream guy
sexual relationship, dream guy, guy friend: Hey =) I had the EXACT same situation. And I agree with you, it s hard. I can t tell you a way of making him fall in love, or a way for you to get over him over night. But I can tell you that you WILL get over him. It might take months, but if it s not meant...

Teen Dating Issues: What does my friend mean?, definite confirmation, proper relationship
definite confirmation, proper relationship, friend hope: Hi Danielle, Well, naive is having or showing a lack of experience, judgment, or information about a subject or area. In this context I think your friend means your not sure how to be in a proper relationship, that is why boys don t take you seriously!...

Teen Dating Issues: His GF Told Him To Stop Talking To Me?, guy friend, gf
guy friend, gf, girlfriend: Hi Brooke, Ignoring a person is never the answer; you should talk to him and ask for an explanation and if he wont give you one, go to the root of the problem...The girlfriend. Talk to her nicely as ask for an explanation. It s not fair for a person...

Teen Dating Issues: my guyfriend ignoring me!, guy friend, spoils
guy friend, spoils, girlfriend: I don t know him and his personality so I can t say. All I can say is that you should act like you don t care, don t let him know that he is hurting you. Because he will take advantage of you. Maybe he has a girlfriend but doesn t want to hurt you. Sorry...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, boy, trouble
boy, trouble: Hi Rosie. If this boy calls you a cunt and a bitch, he doesn t care about you as much as you think. Hes not worth your time, a boy that likes you will never want to hurt you or call you names because he cares so much. He probably likes to talk to you, but...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, bf, confusion
bf, confusion, feelings: It is possible but I don t think it is right. It isn t right to use people to be full-filled in such ways as kissing. It is also difficult as feelings may get mixed and you aren t clear with one another. It s best to keep the dating and the friendship separate...

Teen Dating Issues: I hung out with my ex-boyfriend the first time since we split up, MIXED SIGNALS?!, mixed signals, last time
mixed signals, last time, ipod: Hi Gabby, Personally, I think that on that day, you were just broken up, so I think he was trying to be nice and not to hurt you to much, he may still like you as well, because as you said he broke up with you because of his busy life, and not you. I...

Teen Dating Issues: love, 9 months, bf
9 months, bf, best friends: i think dating is all about finding the right person for you. if you are not sure your current bf is right for you then i would break up with him. i dont know how old you are but i think you should be open to dating other people to see what you like and dont...

Teen Dating Issues: Mixed signals, confusion, hate?, halloween celebration, fright nights
halloween celebration, fright nights, mixed signals: sounds like he playing games with your head. i would confront him about all of this and see what he says. dont let him off the hook. i would also say i think you should move on and find other guys to date. it just sounds like he is not ready for a relationship....

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me? How do I move things forward?, different restaurant, completley
different restaurant, completley, leila: Hi Leila, I think you should just talk to him about it and see what he says. If he says no, just try to work around it, don t avoid eachother completley. If he (hopefully) SAYS YES, then arrange for the 2 of you to go for a date (and if you want make...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me? How do I move things forward?, first move, good luck
first move, good luck, mom: yeah dating someone or at least trying to date someone you work with can be difficult. it can also be awkward if you ask him out and he says no. i think what i would do is to continue to talk to him and maybe turn up the flirting a bit more. see if he gets...

Teen Dating Issues: Need help with boyfriend., world of warcraft, current boyfriend
world of warcraft, current boyfriend, place in my heart: The person you love is, in fact, capable of being much more, but like everything, you have to give it time. He needs to grow up, and will not suddenly change his ways but this will happen gradually. Also, you need to keep in mind that boys mature slower...

Teen Dating Issues: Need help i am very confused, texting, rest of the day
texting, rest of the day, 17 years: Hey Marissa! I m not sure if I completely understand the situation (just got back from a busy school day). But from what I understand, I think he broke up with you because he needs some time. I know a lot about psychology and how people react and I think...

Teen Dating Issues: Older, friend of a friend, 16 years old
friend of a friend, 16 years old, hes: You may not like what I am about to say but in my years of experience, you can never like someone over text. Over here in South Africa we have a texting site called Mxit. On Mxit some people are really cool and then when you see them in person it s like you...

Teen Dating Issues: older guy problem, hes 24, doing squats
hes 24, doing squats, cute guy: Hello Elizabeth! Well, I think he does like you but is just being careful because of your age. I would carry on with what you guys are doing and then when you graduate maybe he will ask you out. Sorry I wasn t much help but it is difficult to read guys...

Teen Dating Issues: Her parents, bonus tips, private lives
bonus tips, private lives, nice guy: I had the same sort of problem when I was your age (but I was the girl). What I did was I got my boyfriend to apologize to my father and then he asked my father if we could date. My father said yes and we are now together still. Try this and also show her...

Teen Dating Issues: the past re-surfesing, jacob, girlfriend
jacob, girlfriend, relationship: hey jacob. if she is lying to you then i think you need to confront her and decide if you still want to date her. i dont know your past with her but if this is not the first time she has lied then i would probably call it quiets. if it is the first time then...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship trouble, sunset picnic, relationship trouble
sunset picnic, relationship trouble, emotional wreck: Hi Devin, I m not sure what s troubling your girlfriend. What you need to do is sit down and just subtly talk to her asking her what s up . In this situation, a relationship is based on trust and safety in a relationship. What I think would be really...

Teen Dating Issues: sex unfortunately, seventeen years, having sex
seventeen years, having sex, bf: wait...so your currently having sex with your ex and dating your current bf? isnt that cheating? if thats the case then i would say STOP!!! :) i think you should try other options with your bf if he is not ready for sex. have you talked to him about other...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Love/ Confusion, boyfriends girlfriends, third girl
boyfriends girlfriends, third girl, best girl: yeah its hard when you like someone who is dating someone else. but for now you really just need to stay away from him as much as possible. be nice to him and say hello if you want but the more you are around him the more you are going to have feelings for...

Teen Dating Issues: Torn between decisions..., avail, thanks in advance
avail, thanks in advance, best friends: how do you think it would go if you told your friend that you think you might have some feelings towards her besides just friends? i dont think there is anything wrong with letting her know how you feel as long as you dont think it would ruin your friendship....

Teen Dating Issues: What's going on?, new boyfriend, close friends
new boyfriend, close friends, 9 months: Hi Brian, I don t actually know why she left you, only your ex knows that. But what I can see is that she does still like you. I suggest you go to her house and take her out for a friendly date and talk things through (it will show that you care for her)....

Teen Dating Issues: What should I do now?, new boyfriend, exact words
new boyfriend, exact words, 9 months: Well for starters in a relationship something you REALLY need is trust. You shouldn t check her messages and facebook; it s intrusive and rude and I wouldn t dare do that to a person I m together with. what happens with that is that it just leads to stressful...

Teen Dating Issues: how to get over him? :(, crying all night, cutest couple
crying all night, cutest couple, happy song: Hi Maya, This is a tough one, but I think you should distract yourself from the topic. Try something that I like to call music therapy; listen to a sad song then a happy song and repeat. You have to listen carefully to the words. When you listen...

Teen Dating Issues: 0 to 2, butterflies, two guys
butterflies, two guys, affection: I can t say for sure (because I don t know you) but it sounds to me that you only like boy B as a friend, but you like the affection. And you like boy A alot. Don t go for the guy only for what they can give you physically, sort yourself out and decide who...

Teen Dating Issues: Absence makes the heart grow fonder?, boy problems
boy problems: Hi Jessica. It seems like you both crossed a stage that wasnt meant to be crossed until you two were in a good enough relationship. What ruined it so much was the fact that you just decided to use each other for the sexual desire of it. That doesn t give him...

Teen Dating Issues: Age Differences, age differences, old boyfriend
age differences, old boyfriend, younger girl: Well, I ve always said that at that age boys are actually younger than they seem (mentally speaking). So your 12-year-old boyfriend may seem 10 to most people and that s why they make fun of you. If you say that he behaves exactly as you do, then he must be...

Teen Dating Issues: bleugh., unnecessary stress, 10 months
unnecessary stress, 10 months, neglect: There s two things I could suggest you do: The first one is to try to hang out with him and your friends at the same time. By this I mean going out to eat with your friends and boyfriend a couple of times a week, but also leaving some time alone for you and...

Teen Dating Issues: Boy trouble..., date girls, boy trouble
date girls, boy trouble, second thoughts: Hello Jenny =) Well, I think he is playing games with your head. I think he probably likes his girlfriend alot, but also has a slight crush on you. So, I m thinking that maybe he cancelled on you because of his girlfriend. Something she said. Or maybe you...

Teen Dating Issues: Boyfriend Issues, strict parents, relationship work
strict parents, relationship work, freshman year: Talk to your boyfriend, if he says he can t date you because of your conditions it could be a sign that he s not as committed as you are. Been there too, I m living in the phase when it s over and I m realizing I shouldn t have changed my ways just to meet...

Teen Dating Issues: Boys... -sigh-, messy relationship, team mates
messy relationship, team mates, wrong idea: i think you should only stop hanging out with him if after you tell him your just friends and he doesnt get it. if your really good friends with him then i would tell him the truth. tell him you dont have feelings like that for him. tell him you are not going...

Teen Dating Issues: I cant find anybody, personal secret, white kids
personal secret, white kids, white boys: Thank you for your patience with me. When you are young, the world seems like a little place. Children count on adults to get them places, so you are limited to the world your parents can expose you to. When you get older, the world gets bigger, but...

Teen Dating Issues: Commitment, long term relationship, afraid of commitment
long term relationship, afraid of commitment, serious relationship: yeah its normal. :) anything new is going to give you some level of apprehension and being afraid and scared is normal. i think this is a great opportunity to talk to him about how you feel. communication is very important in any relationship and it sounds...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused, incompatibility issue, woman in my life
incompatibility issue, woman in my life, honest man: Vanessa, your mother sounds wise, but all the wisdom in the world will not lead you to love - or to an honest man, for that matter. Flattery is a natural part of dating. Please, please, please do not equate it with lying. The two are very different. ...

Teen Dating Issues: confused., amount of time, jealousy
amount of time, jealousy, bf: I think that a relationship shouldn t be based on the amount of time that you ve been going out. You should base your relationship on what makes you happy, on whom you love. If he isn t going to make you happy then what is the point in putting yourself through...

Teen Dating Issues: my crush, juniour, idk
juniour, idk, good luck: yeah i think you should talk to him. you got nothing to loose and you wont really know if he likes you unless you start talking and see what happens. i would just take it slow and begin a friendship first to see if you even like him. good luck! :) sandi...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating problems :'(, shud, time at home
shud, time at home, gf: Well, I think that maybe she is going through a hard time at home/school. Don t get too paranoid about it. Ask her what s going on with her, but don t sound like you are accusing her, be interested in how she is. Ask her how she is, how she really is. Make...

Teen Dating Issues: The day before was so perfect, why would he break up with me?, horrible day, personal life
horrible day, personal life, best wishes: He probably wants whats best for you, he wants to protect you against feeling neglected. And he probably wanted the day before to be special because he doesn t want you to end the relationship with a horrible day. Keep you chin up, Flower! Best wishes. ...

Teen Dating Issues: How to deal with what happened, first kiss, absolute certainty
first kiss, absolute certainty, firsts: If you want me to be honest with you, her not wanting to tell you what she did or didn t do could be an indicator that she did, in fact, kiss someone else. You have to face this, or rather you have to face not knowing with absolute certainty. You also need...

Teen Dating Issues: How to deal with what happened, first kiss, hiya
first kiss, hiya, cami: Hiya Eli, So, you were apart for 4 months. Its not like you were dating apart for those months. Girls are allowed to date other boys when they are single, and its not fair for you to be angry with her if she did kiss someone else. It was her choice. And...

Teen Dating Issues: How to deal with what happened, first kiss, 4 months
first kiss, 4 months, feelings: hey! You obviously feel very strongly towards her. She may or may not have kissed a guy, and you are very botherd by this. But unfortunatly, the past is the past and cannot be changed. You should tell her your feelings and take it from there. Just don t dwell...

Teen Dating Issues: Different Highschools, Long Schedules, No Time for Anything Anymore., relationship work, hectic schedule
relationship work, hectic schedule, breaking point: Well while you have to understand that him not having time to talk to you is not a conscious decision but rather a condition, I don t see a reason why he shouldn t be able to reply to your texts. It doesn t take long. And I do understand that you are left...

Teen Dating Issues: Different Highschools & Trying to Make it Work, freshmen year, highschools
freshmen year, highschools, different city: hey! I once had a boy friend that was in a different high school to me. It is perfectly fine but there are a number of things to take into account. Such as: As much as he says he wont, guys are still tempted easily. And even the most reliable guys gets tempted....

Teen Dating Issues: two girls, caming, facebook
caming, facebook, school trip: Hiya Matt, Long distance relationships almost never work. Its a harsh fact. I mean it could, but not likely. And Madi seems more like the best choice because shes closer, and you have strong feelings for her. Sometimes you just gotta jump off the cliff...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy friend or Crush, guy friend, homecoming
guy friend, homecoming: your in a tuff spot. i guess you have to figure out if you really want to go to the homecoming or not. the right thing would be to tell your guy friend that you wanted to go with so and so. and if so and so doesnt ask you then i guess your out of luck. but...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, yeast infection, sinus infection
yeast infection, sinus infection, social reasoning: Laurel, if you have had a yeast infection for 3 to 4 years, do NOT engage in any kind of sexual activity. I hope you have been to a doctor about this. If you have, then the infection should be under control. And if you have not, go. It is not uncommon...

Teen Dating Issues: Hmm..., ditsy, bestfriend
ditsy, bestfriend, couple of days: You need to decide whether a guy is more important to you than a boy. At the moment it sounds to me like a boy is more important to you. (I m sorry but it s the truth) I think that you should tell her that you like him. But also tell her that you won t...

Teen Dating Issues: im dating my cousin, twin cousins, weird questions
twin cousins, weird questions, days of my life: Mari, you are messing around with your own family. STOP! It is incest. If that word doesn t stop you, how about JAIL? Incest is illegal. You would BOTH go to jail, and you might get your aunt into trouble, because now she knows. And imagine the strain...

Teen Dating Issues: Kissing help!, Kissing boy
Kissing boy: Hi Emily, everyone is new at the very same thing. The best thing to do is either try and take the date very slow, or just tell him straight out. Say something like, Sorry, but Im not very good at this. and it should loosen the mood and he might even try...

Teen Dating Issues: Long-Distance Relationships, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, boy friend: hello! I know for a fact that it is hard for a 6ft girl to find a taller boy friend. I, myself, am 5ft 10.. So no, height isn t an issue in my point of view.. Other people may have an issue but my boyfriend is shorter than me so it s fine for me. Long distance...

Teen Dating Issues: Mixed Feelings, mixed feelings, friend thanks
mixed feelings, friend thanks, question thanks: If you told him, that s probably enough. You ve put all your cards on the table. He knows that you have feelings, and I assume he knows that the feelings are for him. So enough has been said. If you keep bringing it up, you are pressuring him. One...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help i'm very confused, firends, facebook
firends, facebook, 17 years: Marissa, This is more of what you can do then what I can do. All I can say is don t think about it and don t even think about not thinking about it (if that makes sense). Hang out with friends and do other things and hopefully the problem shouldn t bother...

Teen Dating Issues: Please help me, firends, facebook
firends, facebook, 17 years: hi marissa. well, it just sounds like this guy is not bf material anyway you look at it. even if he was lying to you to break up with you thats real crappy on his part and not someone you want in your life anyways. ive met people who just dont communicate...

Teen Dating Issues: My Problem in the Relationship, outgoing guy, play 2
outgoing guy, play 2, sport football: it is difficult not to compare yourself to other people, particularly those whom you love. Sshe isn t perfect at all. You just love her so much that you look past her faults. And she does the same to you. Don t bring yourself down. She see s something special...

Teen Dating Issues: Not quite sure what to think, long term relationship, faith issues
long term relationship, faith issues, afraid of commitment: If someone truly cares for you, loves you, they fell into that love knowing you aren t/weren t perfect. As a matter of fact, I think it s smart to start any relationship putting all your cards on the table. Be 100% honest with him about your fears, and explain...

Teen Dating Issues: situations for teens, dun dun, sticky situation
dun dun, sticky situation, sticky situations: Hey Selest, (Cool way to spell your name btw, I really like it. :D) Anyway, down to your question! Well, one sticky situation could be about a girl who likes her best friends, ex boyfriend. The ex boyfriend had a messy breakup with the best friend,...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I text my ex?, boy, love
boy, love, problems: Hi Gabby! Yep! I think you should try and rekindle the friendship!Go ahead and send the first message, it should show that you really do want to talk and be friends again since he is always messaging you first. :) And unless you outright tell him in the first...

Teen Dating Issues: what should i do?, two girls, gf
two girls, gf, good luck: dating is all about figuring out what and what you like. i think you should ask the closer one of because you will be able to date her and find out if you like her as a gf. it might not work out and then maybe you can ask the other one out. good luck! ...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I ask my ex boyfriend to hang out with me??, t text, rough time
t text, rough time, exact same thing: You would have to consider, first of all, how the relationship ended. The exact same thing happened to me not long ago, that we broke up because he didn t have the time. And I understood that completely. Still, it didn t end well and it s an awkward situation....

Teen Dating Issues: my best friend, friend school, guy friend
friend school, guy friend, fourth grade: i guess you have to figure out if dating a bisexual guy is something your ok with. think about how you would feel if he decides to date another guy. dating is all about figuring out what you like and dont like. if your unsure just go for it and date him. see...

Teen Dating Issues: boyfriend problems, boyfriend problems, red cloud
boyfriend problems, red cloud, question number: Well I have a couple of questions. First of all, do you even know this guy? because if you do, I don t see the problem with sending him photos of yourself... unless of course you re naked in them but if you wanted to do it, you would even if I told you no...

Teen Dating Issues: can an ex regain feelings?, acquintance, rule of thumb
acquintance, rule of thumb, awkward situation: You would have to consider, first of all, how the relationship ended. The exact same thing happened to me not long ago, that we broke up because he didn t have the time. And I understood that completely. Still, it didn t end well and it s an awkward situation....

Teen Dating Issues: Helpppppp, volunteer firefighter, long wait
volunteer firefighter, long wait, having sex: First off Cassie, my name is Joe. I m a new expert here to this category. Sorry for the long wait. Now, I m not usually for teens hooking up especially just meeting each other. It s not healthy. And usually in this case, it s just the guy wanting to get...

Teen Dating Issues: Im so confused!!, friendship group, sleepover
friendship group, sleepover, holding hands: Hey Well, I think at your age and maturity, he wouldn t have just held your hand because you were there. I think he does like you. I would relax and just go with it, flirt with him a bit and just be like flirty friends. He will most probably ask you out...

Teen Dating Issues: I Like Him, He Likes Her, speak chinese, homeroom
speak chinese, homeroom, being friends: how would you feel if you could only be friends with him? you or i cant predict if this guy will like you or not. you just have to think about whether or not you can handle just being friends. if you cant then i wouldnt ask him to help you record a cd. if...

Teen Dating Issues: I Like Him, He Likes Her, speak chinese, speaking english
speak chinese, speaking english, homeroom: first of all, don t feel strange about speaking english! I used to only speak french then i moved to an english school! But you speak english perfectly! Ok, so there is nothing that you really can do, flirt a bit, bit that is about it. Sorry! But it s the...

Teen Dating Issues: I Like Him, He Likes Her, question game, romantic life
question game, romantic life, speak chinese: Hahaha it might just be a dumb and a little obvious, but you can do like... I d like to get to know you better let s play a question game! and ash him where he s from, about his pets and music, his school, favorite color, etc. and then build up to and what...

Teen Dating Issues: I Like Him, He Likes Her, speak chinese, cute guy
speak chinese, cute guy, homeroom: Well, if they are still friends, that is fine. But, I say try and pursue asking him out if his relationship is over with this other girl. Maybe ask him to just do something with friends, and you two can have a no pressure group date thing. Most guys go for...

Teen Dating Issues: i need help with my crushes!, arabian country, those girls
arabian country, those girls, boyfriends: Hello Dana! Well, firstly, you don t need to have a boyfriend! Many girls may have boyfriends but you are still young. They are being stupid and you should use boys just so that you can be cool, like what they are doing. Find the guy that you hav alot in...

Teen Dating Issues: Percussionist, harsh truth, cami
harsh truth, cami, hiya: Hiya Christyna, It probably most likely means that he cares for you as a friend. :) If he asks to hang out with you outside of band, then he probably likes you more than a friend. Seems like a bit of a harsh truth, but from what youve told me thats definitely...

Teen Dating Issues: relaitionships, smile on her face, hand shake
smile on her face, hand shake, hallways: Hello. :) You should get to know her more, and be able to sense if she really likes you or not. Romance doesnt just appear in the first couple of days or few weeks. And to get her to respond somehow that she likes you, just ask her out on a date. Thats...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen dating, bummer, bf
bummer, bf, good luck: Hello :) Well, you sound as if you have everything planned out for yourself. So I can t help you that much, to be honest. Just be careful with what you want. I am also a teenager and I have been your age a few years ago and you should really be careful with...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen-dating, lunch table, hair light
lunch table, hair light, straight hair: I can t tell you that because I don t know what he s thinking, and if you don t decide to break out of your shell a little, you might not find out either... Seriously, I say go for it. And it s not like you can do this without people finding out. At least...

Teen Dating Issues: Trust, cami, lyn
cami, lyn, liar: Hi again. :D Sorry, on this site Im a little terrified to give my phone out, but you can always reach me on here. ^^ Anyway, if you caught him lying, the boys a straight up liar. No questions asked. Its your choice to go on further with him or not, cause...

Teen Dating Issues: Age, statutory rape, boyfriend nick
statutory rape, boyfriend nick, two and a half years: Emily - If you haven t had sex, he can t be prosecuted for statutory rape especially if your family is ok with him. I wouldn t be too worried or maybe consult a local lawyer about how this falls under the law. Otherwise, you re probably better off waiting...

Teen Dating Issues: Amazing guy but having doubts??, friend tomorrow, right decision
friend tomorrow, right decision, 4 months: I think that any girl is going to go through this anytime in their life when they feel that they have found a guy that they really like. You soon start to question if this is what it really feel like. You then start to worry and wonder if this isn t really...

Teen Dating Issues: Amazing guy but having doubts?, friend tomorrow, time teens
friend tomorrow, time teens, doubts: It s all psychological really. When you re young, you re not sure what you want and sometimes things can get nerve racking. A lot of the time, teens go through this and that s why they break up off and on all the time with one person or more. Girls and guys...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, sexual situation, right move
sexual situation, right move, nervousness: Sounds like hormonal nervousness. Common issue with guys. You stress out about what to do with a girl because you don t wanna make the wrong move. Cause you feel if you do, she ll hate you and you ll lose her forever. Which would suck. Trust me, all guys...

Teen Dating Issues: Fear of the first relationship, heart breaks, cousin
heart breaks, cousin, 18 years: First of all, it is okay if you have yet to have your first relationship until now. All it means is that you have had to deal with less heart breaks which makes things a lot easier. Second, first relationships are always hard. Your not sure what it s really...

Teen Dating Issues: Was it a good idea for me to accept my ex girlfriend's friendship even though I still love her?, dealing with insecurities, emotional happiness
dealing with insecurities, emotional happiness, guilt trip: Hi Robin, I think that it is totally fine to try to be friends with her again. This may even help you get over her and stop thinking of her as more than a friend. However, if it does get too hard for you to be around her, or you feel yourself wanting more...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy/friend problem, horrible friend, friend lauren
horrible friend, friend lauren, friend julie: Okay, first of all, don t feel guilty about it, it s not YOUR fault that they changed both their minds, and it s not your fault he likes you. You can only do one thing: Be understanding towards Julie. She was by the looks of it heartbroken when their relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy/friend problem, horrible friend, friend lauren
horrible friend, friend lauren, friend julie: Reading this question only three words came to mind: Girls Night Out! Go hang out with her and hang out like you guys did before the guy came into both of your lives. Making sure that the foundation of your friendship is still there and strong, you guys...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy/friend problem, horrible friend, friend lauren
horrible friend, friend lauren, friend julie: hi maddie. it sounds like your friend is really not a friend. if she was a true friend she wouldnt have ignored your feelings and went out on a date with this guy knowing you like him. now i am not one to say get revenge on her since she did the same to...

Teen Dating Issues: Two guys..., long distance relationship, new feelings
long distance relationship, new feelings, facebook: Really, it s best to do what makes you happy and not worry about everyone else. I know having someone else s opinion matters to you, which is fine. But ultimately you need to what makes you the happiest. If the younger guy is making you happy, stay with...

Teen Dating Issues: It's hard to explain, dictionary word, touchy subject
dictionary word, touchy subject, asian woman: I have to agree with you 110%, it is completely crazy how someone can be judged just by there skin color. I think what you should do is try and set some time up where you, your family, and your boyfriend have dinner or something in that sense. It may be...

Teen Dating Issues: My heart is mean and is in pain. Advice please!?, unresolved pain, 5 months
unresolved pain, 5 months, gf: Hi Angel. It seems to me that you definitely have unresolved pain from the past. The easiest way to move on in life is to get closure which you did not get. You could call him, ask to meet him in person, or even write him a letter and pour your emotions out....

Teen Dating Issues: Help, funny name, alphabets
funny name, alphabets, 7 months: She may be pulling away so she doesn t get attached to anyone before leaving. While I am not from the Australian area, I can safely say I know it well enough to know those two areas, while considered close in comparison to places here in America, are no where...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, funny name, alphabets
funny name, alphabets, 7 months: this is what i would do. stop asking others to tell her things. stop the secret stuff and talk to her! let her know how you feel. its not like your talking all the time now and are great friends. what do you have to loose? she will either say she likes you...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, funny name, alphabets
funny name, alphabets, 7 months: When a girl loses her mother, everything just turns upside down in her world. After all, it hasn t been that long since her mother has passed away. Right now she is just trying to sort out her feelings and see what she really wants out of life. Right now,...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, funny name, alphabets
funny name, alphabets, 7 months: Talk to her about how you feel and ask her out, have courage! If you don t tell her anything there s a big chance you might lose her because you don t show her you re interested. And if she says no, then at least you have one burden off your shoulders....

Teen Dating Issues: Help, funny name, alphabets
funny name, alphabets, 7 months: Hi Jia, it really seems from what you ve told me that she has previously liked you and wanted to get to know you better. I would stop asking your friends to help you and straight up go and ask her if she wants to catch a movie with you sometime or something...

Teen Dating Issues: Help?, car door, 10 months
car door, 10 months, girlfriend: Brandon, I feel for you in this situation. We have all been there. It really sucks. In this case it seems like she is young and, after almost two years of a relationship, wants to be single. I have tons of friends who have had this done to them or have done...

Teen Dating Issues: Im confused, worth the risk, guy friend
worth the risk, guy friend, 17 years: Hi Niyati, I think that if this guy is such a good friend you may have a chance with him. You can start by telling him that you don t want this to ruin your friendship and he doesn t have to feel the same way but it s been on your mind. Then follow by explaining...

Teen Dating Issues: How to kiss a boy??, first kiss, how to kiss a boy
first kiss, how to kiss a boy, bf: hi katie. your question is actually a really hard one to answer. :) its difficult to explain here how to kiss. what i usually tell people is to let your bf or gf know that you really havent kissed before. that way you can relax a bit more. ask your bf...

Teen Dating Issues: How to kiss a guy??, freak out, bottom lip
freak out, bottom lip, kisser: Well first off, try not to freak out. It s a common problem for those with little experience, to be intimidated about doing it. The best thing to do would be to have him help to teach you. A lot of people will tell you to just pucker up and go for it....

Teen Dating Issues: Lying, chat logs, split personality
chat logs, split personality, sexual conversation: Hi Wyatt, This girl seems like really bad news. If i were you I would avoid all contact with her. She lied to you, cheated on you, spread rumors about you, and broke your heart. I think the reason she spread rumors about you was because you began to talk...

Teen Dating Issues: Puzzled, honest truth, girl at school
honest truth, girl at school, good friends: Honestly, it was the right thing to tell her that you still had feelings for her. Lying about it would have probably put you in a much worse situation. Girls go through more than guys know when they start dating someone or if they have. When you told her...

Teen Dating Issues: Did I make the right choice in accepting my ex girlfriend's friendship if I still love her?, dealing with insecurities, emotional happiness
dealing with insecurities, emotional happiness, guilt trip: What you should realized about your friendship with your ex is that it s going to be hard not to try and get her to like you back and go out with you again. There are going to be times that you are just going to want to maybe ask her out or even make a move...

Teen Dating Issues: Does it sound like he only likes me as a friend?, peppermint coffee, soccer teams
peppermint coffee, soccer teams, coffee shop: One thing that will save you a lot of trouble in the future is that you cannot read every movement that a guy makes to see if he likes you more than a friend or not. Yes, they will give you signs that can help you determine if they like you, but (especially...

Teen Dating Issues: Does it sound like he only likes me as a friend?, peppermint coffee, soccer teams
peppermint coffee, soccer teams, coffee shop: hi tasha, i think you already wrote me before? i sent you this response... is it a company policy that you can not date him? if not then i would ask him out. if it is then i would play it cool for now. maybe continue to hang out with him and go get coffee...

Teen Dating Issues: Taking a break, long distant relationship, mope
long distant relationship, mope, senior year: Well, if you feel that the college that you are currently attending is not what you need to progress in life then you should consider transferring. One really great way to get you mind off of things is to get involved into some club or find a group of friends...

Teen Dating Issues: I thought I was gay, but now I have other problems...?, girls locker room, jess lewis
girls locker room, jess lewis, male anatomy: Hey Jess, quite the story but I may be able to help you out. So many teens nowadays struggle with their sexuality because the mainstream pop culture tells them to basically experiment to figure things out. You thought you were a lesbian because you never...

Teen Dating Issues: Truth, good relationship, loser
good relationship, loser, honesty: The most important key to a good relationship is trust and honesty. If you want your relationship to last, which it sounds like you do, you must be open with your boyfriend and tell him the complete truth. I don t know what your hiding but whatever it is you...

Teen Dating Issues: Have, sophomore year, positive signs
sophomore year, positive signs, school trip: No problem, that s what I m here for. I think that since you have already told A that you like him you should not tell him again. I would try asking him if he wants to hang out, maybe go to a movie or grab a bite to eat. This way you too can really connect...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm so Clingy, bf, long time
bf, long time, friendship: your young and shouldnt be so determined to have a bf. yeah i know its easy to say and hard to do. :) i dont know why your so clingy..could be stuff that has happened when you were younger. you might want to see a therapist and talk about that with them....

Teen Dating Issues: I'm so Depressed, mutual friends, girlfriend
mutual friends, girlfriend, feelings: Hi, You should try talking to him, maybe leaving hints about how you really feel. If you have some mutual friends you can ask them how he feels about you and whether he has feelings for you too. If you know how he feels about you it will help you decide...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm torn...How do I feel?, grade homeroom, friend samantha
grade homeroom, friend samantha, great situation: first let me say that you DO need someone to talk to about this. i wouldnt keep this in and away from your mother if you think she will listen and give you some good advise personally i think its not cool for your bf to have said yes to matt. she knows...

Teen Dating Issues: Past Relationships, good liar, freshman year
good liar, freshman year, current boyfriend: was this guy your first bf? if so that can explain a lot. i also think part of the reason your feeling this way is because you didnt get any closure on why you broke up. he just broke up with you and that was it. kind of a cowardly thing to do on his part....

Teen Dating Issues: My bf do i have anything to worry about., trust issues, bf
trust issues, bf, 3 years: yes trust is very important in a relationship. you have to trust him. yes he might cheat on you or leave you for someone else. thats dating..these things sometime happen. if you really think you cant trust him or anyone else then you need to leave. you need...

Teen Dating Issues: Me & My boyfriend, virginity, marriage
virginity, marriage, relationships: Hi, You have been going out for only 3 months and are too young to be thinking about marriage. If you don t want to talk about marriage with him now you should talk with him and explain its too early or if you don t want to talk about this directly you...

Teen Dating Issues: i feel he likes me, firends, infatuation
firends, infatuation, bro: this guy sounds like someone you should just stay away from anyways. if he cant communicate with you and tell you how he is feeling then you dont want to continue a relationship with him. i would stop talking to him. maybe write him a letter or email and tell...

Teen Dating Issues: I guess i'm Jealous, bad neighborhood, jealous cause
bad neighborhood, jealous cause, best friends: have you talked to your gf about this? if you communicate with her about this and let her know that you trust her but at the time your jealous then hopefully she will be understanding to this and maybe communicate with you more. maybe you both can come to...

Teen Dating Issues: puzzled...how do i make my guy feel secure again ??, relationship work, serious relationship
relationship work, serious relationship, good luck: you cant make anyone like you or love you. communication is key in a relationship. if you want to try and make the relationship work you should try and sit down with him and find out whats really going on. maybe he just wants to breakup and is using this as...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex and advice, dry sex, self conscience
dry sex, self conscience, sexual tension: what a person calls sex and not sex is a personal choice. if you both think doing this is ok then sure why not. but dont try to convince her or force her to do anything she doesnt want to. she will resent you later on for it. but do be honest with her....

Teen Dating Issues: Getting to third base, short periods, sophomores
short periods, sophomores, handjob: hey bri...great questions! :) your right, communication is key. i dont think talking about it ahead of time obligates you to do it next time. i would talk to him about and just let him know what you would like to do and how its going to happen. when the...

Teen Dating Issues: Trying to talk/get to know this girl again., out of the blue, good luck
out of the blue, good luck, right off the bat: hi peter, i wouldnt just ask her out or tell her you like her out of the blue. i would start talking to her slowly and gradually pick it up if things go ok. maybe start a conversation about how things seem a bit awkward with you two. nothing like being...

Teen Dating Issues: I want him back, school stuff, being friends
school stuff, being friends, good friends: Hi Lydia, Maybe you should just be friends with him and see how it goes? Do you think you could handle just being friends with him if he doesnt want anything more? If not then maybe you should just continue on without being friends. Whatever you decide...

Teen Dating Issues: Boredom in a relationship, word answers, wits end
word answers, wits end, nice guy: hi emily, welcome to dating and relationship! :) communicate, communicate, communicate. thats very important in a relationship. that doesnt mean things will change either. you need to talk to your bf about this. if he doesnt want to talk or just gives...

Teen Dating Issues: Would this be inappropriate? In dire need of your help., highschool class, sweetest girl
highschool class, sweetest girl, awkard: Anders, your question is very long. I m going to touch on a few outstanding points and your list of questions. First, regarding confidence, most people feel exactly as you do. The BEST way to deal with confidence issues is this: Be 100% true to yourself....

Teen Dating Issues: Is there something more I should be doing to get her back, or is it just up to time and fate now?, freshman sophomore, true feelings
freshman sophomore, true feelings, initial response: Basically, yes. You put the ball in her court. You can still be loyal to YOUR feelings while respecting what she has clearly said, as well. BE HER FRIEND. The best romances spring from solid friendships, but not all are meant to go to the next level. ...

Teen Dating Issues: How to win her back, but she overseas.., merry christmas message, long distance relationships
merry christmas message, long distance relationships, stable relationship: She sounds like a realist, and in that regard, realists know that long distance relationships are VERY risky and lack a good track record. Almost all cheating in a good, stable relationship happens when the two stable lovers are apart for any length of...

Teen Dating Issues: asdfjlkla;, long distance relationship, burning passion
long distance relationship, burning passion, different town: First of all this guy smokes pot and drinks beer. Do you really want to be with a guy who does this stuff? If you are okay with this then the next think you have to think about is how many times you actually see him. Do you think you could handle not seeing...

Teen Dating Issues: is it me or something bigger?, sister carol, friend richard
sister carol, friend richard, yesterday and today: if your bf is not responding to you and acting different and distant then you need to find out whats wrong. if he doesnt want to talk about it then you need to decide if its time to break up. i just got finished telling someone else that communicating is very...

Teen Dating Issues: Boy Buds, boyfriend and girlfriend, life mate
boyfriend and girlfriend, life mate, college graduation: Brenna, your parents warnings are because, in many cases, friends who date do find it awkward to return to just being friends in case of a break up. In your case, you are both still very young, so a break up is almost inevitable. So they are genuinely concerned...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, sweet moments, eighth grade
sweet moments, eighth grade, bad news: First of all, you need to forget about Brandon. He is wasting his life using drugs and getting high. This is no way for anyone to live their life. Also, he ks rude to you and you deserve WAY better. Every guy has there sweet moments but you shouldn t have...

Teen Dating Issues: The Dreaded Friend Zone, friend zone, same time period
friend zone, same time period, casual friend: Ah, darn friend zone. Been there. Well, you re in a catch 22. You can tell her how you feel. She can either feel the same or not feel the same at all. And if rejected, who knows? Would you still be friends or would she back away? Thing is, to end the...

Teen Dating Issues: Emotional Melting Pot, long distance relationships, deep feelings
long distance relationships, deep feelings, melting pot: Alison, I can definitely relate to your situation. When I was leaving for college my girlfriend and I had to make a tough decision of whether to stay together or not. She had one more year of high school left and her mother was advising her to end it. Ultimately,...

Teen Dating Issues: The Friend Zone, weight on my shoulders, overwhelming desire
weight on my shoulders, overwhelming desire, friend zone: Hi Haden, okay first off this feeling of the world imploding is your overwhelming desire to have her as your girlfriend! It is very common and just means you REALLY like this girl. I know it may seem scary but the only way this will move further is if you...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend's parents (well one) don't approve, mom and dad, one don
mom and dad, one don, gf: You know, it s a tough situation here. Obviously she finds something in you that she doesn t care for. Which neither one of us know what is up. The dad usually is the one you have to worry about in most occasions. But, her Mom may be ok with you personally...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend problem, minuets, hand job
minuets, hand job, orgasm: being in a relationship requires both people to communicate. it doesnt sound like she is communicating with you about sexual stuff. maybe the next time you two are being intiment you should ask her to finger herself in front of you. tell her you want her to...

Teen Dating Issues: Not gonna date, but..., affection, ruby
affection, ruby, good luck: you could hold hands when your together and talk on the phone when your not with him. you could hug him when you see him and when you leave. i think those are all good beginner dating kind of stuff :) good luck and let me know how it goes! sandi ...

Teen Dating Issues: What should i do about this guy who likes me alot but i dont like him that way?, cute smile, sweet heart
cute smile, sweet heart, sweet guy: Angelica, As a guy I can tell you that I have made a similar mistake before. I was best friends with this girl and we mutually cared about each other. We both told each other that we loved each other. It was as true then as it is today. That said, we never...

Teen Dating Issues: idk if before sent... boy issues, brain cells, drugs and alcohol
brain cells, drugs and alcohol, embaressed: I would stop the smoking and drinking especially. Very bad for you. A lot of teens think weed is fine, but it actually causes several problems in the long run such as damaged brain cells and lung troubles. Cigarettes are worse in that they cause several issues...

Teen Dating Issues: I like him, he likes my best friend., asking a girl on a date, older guys
asking a girl on a date, older guys, thanks for your help: Well the thing is, if he doesn t know how you feel and a girl comes up that he likes, can you be mad that he goes for them? No. Because he doesn t know how you feel. So, why would be not move on, even if he may feel the same as you? Now, your friend is...

Teen Dating Issues: Need advice bad :/, hugs and kisses, arguements
hugs and kisses, arguements, out of the blue: Joan, I m so glad you contacted me. Your question is very typical of all ages, all daters. It s about a girl and a guy who like each other but don t really know how to make it work. Rather than being honest about the state of the relationship or rather than...

Teen Dating Issues: Troble dating, good friends, acquaintance
good friends, acquaintance, best friend: Sara, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you! I am 16 as well and I just got my first boyfriend. I was lucky enough to find a guy that I get along with well and we were really good friends before we started dating. You just haven t met the right guy yet...

Teen Dating Issues: Why won't he ask me out???, good luck, girlfriend
good luck, girlfriend, long time: Well there are a few reasons that he may not have asked you out yet. One, he doesn t want a girlfriend. Two, he doesn t feel the same way about you. However, if your friends says he likes you then he probably is just shy and nervous that you may say no. Do...

Teen Dating Issues: Not your average questions from a 17 year old.., student athlete, first kiss
student athlete, first kiss, guy friends: Sorry for the late response Audrey, been quite the busy week. Well at 17, obviously you have your whole life ahead of you and have plenty of time for guys and kissing. Ya know? So don t feel pressured to get started on that. It s very good to be a...

Teen Dating Issues: Me and my best friend, best of luck, beats
best of luck, beats, girlfriend: Well do you think she still has feelings for you? Does she encourage her friend to try and get together with you? I think that you should tell her how you feel. I don t think that you would lose her again. Things may temporarily become awkward, but sooner...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, freedoms, texts
freedoms, texts, relationships: Nikki, He is most likely a little annoyed. He really wants to see you but your parents are making it very hard. This is making him discouraged and he is taking it out on you. Getting around restrictive parents is not something that I really know too much...

Teen Dating Issues: First Date...Ever, time to say goodnight, everyday basis
time to say goodnight, everyday basis, inkling: No your not the only teenager out there who thinks they awkward with dating. There s nothing wrong with fearing the unknown. I understand where you are coming from win not wanting to be official since you are getting ready to graduate. Since he is your friend...

Teen Dating Issues: Friend-Zone?, friend zone, holding hands
friend zone, holding hands, close friends: Cody, Let me just tell you I have, and continue, to feel your pain. I have been in a very similar situation. I am going to tell you a quick anecdote about that just so you know where I am answering this from. Girl transferred to my school and I knew I had...

Teen Dating Issues: GF is neglecting me - what can i do?..,, romantic relationships, asian families
romantic relationships, asian families, phone battery: Thanks for contacting me, Dan. First, take texting out of the equation. Texting is an emotionless way to pass on bits and pieces of information. It should NEVER be used to gauge how a person feels (unless she says it clearly in the text). I get more...

Teen Dating Issues: GF is neglecting me - what can i do?.., telli, phone battery
telli, phone battery, personal life: It sounds like she is very self conscious around her family and doesn t want them judging her or getting into her personal life. This is nothing against you. I am very much like this myself and so I understand where she is coming from when she expresses that...

Teen Dating Issues: GF is neglecting me - what can i do?, phone battery, aunts
phone battery, aunts, uncles: So sorry for the late response, Now, I m willing to bet that due to her being around her family, and because she s from another country, she knows her family does things in a different way and you do not fit that. She may feel that her family will not...

Teen Dating Issues: GF is neglecting me - what can i do?., family leaves, reevaluate
family leaves, reevaluate, phone battery: i think you might be overreacting. her family should come first and 2 months of dating is not a lot for you to meet her family yet. i would see how things go after her family leaves and reevaluate then. it may also be that she just isnt the right person for...

Teen Dating Issues: Guilt, red flags, addiction issues
red flags, addiction issues, romantic relationship: Trust is the foundation of ANY romantic relationship. You trust this girl to be who she says she is, but you are not giving her the same consideration. If you lie about drinking or drug use, many experts agree that the lie, itself, is the beginning of a...

Teen Dating Issues: Help with a guy, benefit of the doubt, best of luck
benefit of the doubt, best of luck, conversations: Hi Sarah I think that the best thing for you to do is confront him about it. If you really want to be with him then try telling him how you feel about him and ask him why he acts the way he does. If he likes you or respects you, hopefully he will come out...

Teen Dating Issues: help plz...bf trouble, wrte, ok ive
wrte, ok ive, christian families: oh sorry :) yeah i think kissing is ok. sure you can sick from kissing someone but its not going to be anything serious. i mean i guess you need to make sure this guy doesnt have any serious diseases but people kiss all the time. and no you shouldnt wait...

Teen Dating Issues: mistake., eye contact, deep breath
eye contact, deep breath, close friends: think about a few subjects you can talk to him about ahead of time. have some questions ready when you see him. you dont have to spend a lot of time around him at first. just take it slow and see how it goes. hopefully he will show some interest in you and...

Teen Dating Issues: I need your advice!, worst case scenario, first girlfriend
worst case scenario, first girlfriend, friend with benefits: I m very sorry it took me so long to reply. I had a hectic week. I really do think she likes you, especially if you two talk until 1 am!!! Just go for it! Definitely go to a movie for the first date, and the second hang out at your house. It will give you...

Teen Dating Issues: Pregnancy, home pregnancy test, fingers
home pregnancy test, fingers, ashley: Haley No you cannot get pregnant from fingering. I guess if there was sperm on his fingers but I would say it s highly unlikely . You might be late from worrying about all this. If you re really concerned, I would get a home pregnancy test. Ashle...

Teen Dating Issues: How do I rebuild attraction with an ex girlfriend if we're friends right now?, first loves, mid winter
first loves, mid winter, winter break: It seems to me that she doesn t exactly know how she feels about you right now. I don t know why the two of you broke up so I ll assume that when she blocked you for those months it was because she was deeply hurt. Now that the two of you are friends again,...

Teen Dating Issues: Do I say yes or do I say no?, initial intention, top of my lungs
initial intention, top of my lungs, fealings: Hey Rose, sorry for the late response. We get a lot of questions here and sometimes we get to people late. Now, you didn t go wrong suddenly anywhere. You liked him initially and then things were found out about him that you did not know before. The...

Teen Dating Issues: Sperm in my eyes, open eyes, eyelids
open eyes, eyelids, bf: Alright, well I am not an expert on sperm but I am pretty sure that will really hurt you if it goes into your eyes. That is very unusual... Talk to him and tell him you love him but ask if it is really necessary to do this as it will not hurt him but that...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen relationship issues,, teen relationship, popular girls
teen relationship, popular girls, two and a half years: Alright well for starters I think the fact that Rachel s ex-boyfriend was a drug addict is a signal for you to stop using drugs. You seem like an extremely intelligent guy with a LOT of potential in life and drugs are just messing you up and you could become...

Teen Dating Issues: Trust Issues., major depression, yahoo answers
major depression, yahoo answers, lump in my throat: I didn t see your age, so judging some things based on age will be tough. But, under teen issues I d guess 18 and under. Now, what he needs to do is go to see a psychologist. The reason being, he is not mentally stable. His depression may have already been...

Teen Dating Issues: To be or not to be..., long distance relationship, anger issues
long distance relationship, anger issues, anger management: hi emmie, i wasnt sure which of the guys was the one who has an anger issue. i think it was the long distance one. anyway, i think you should break up with the one that has an anger issue. if its the long distance guy then even better. its really hard to...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me?, heart to heart, friends with benefits
heart to heart, friends with benefits, holding hands: sounds like he might yes. i would have a heart to heart with him and find out where he is at. just a simple i m having some feelings for you, how do you feel about me kind of thing is fine. find out from him if he is ready to date or does he still feel the...

Teen Dating Issues: ask a girl out that i dont know, bf, good time
bf, good time, conversations: be yourself. i wouldnt just walk up to her and ask her out either. see if you can find a good time when you can spend a few minutes around her. say hello..ask her her name..just make small talk with her. keep it short and simple. do that a few times and make...

Teen Dating Issues: Blind dating, random guy, blind date
random guy, blind date, dating sites: Hi Charlie I think that itís okay for you to blind date to an extent. I think that itís fine for you to do so, as long as these are friends you trust and they know the guy at least to an extent. Do not go if it is just a random guy, because you never know...

Teen Dating Issues: Boys, liar, bad news
liar, bad news, wit: Hey MeMe, To me, this is one of those teenage times, ya know? What do you do? Well, I cannot tell you what to do of course. You need to make this decision on your own. But based on the information you have given me, I can tell you that it seems like...

Teen Dating Issues: Boys-help, fake girl, girls school
fake girl, girls school, girl friends: I m assuming you go to an all girls school as your asking where you can meet guys, but if not, just talk to them at school! Go to the mall and start flirting! It s not too hard, all you have to do is...BE YOURSELF! A guy doesn t want to get to know a fake...

Teen Dating Issues: couple questions, sexual relationship, couple questions
sexual relationship, couple questions, eyeballs: Alright, well eating you out on your period isn t safe. You have your period because you are expelling waste out of your body. You should tell him that it s not safe for him, he could get very sick. Also, don t let him ejaculate into your eyes, that is unsafe...

Teen Dating Issues: Crush, thanks a bunch, taekwondo
thanks a bunch, taekwondo, dad: Hi Anna I think that you need to decide if you want to take the chance of pushing him or not. It may be that he just really wants to be left alone or it could be that he just needs a push to get started. If you want to keep trying I think the only thing that...

Teen Dating Issues: I have a crush on someone I don't know, drug addict, sweet things
drug addict, sweet things, nice guy: Hi Layla, I think if you want to talk to him just go for it! It sounds like it ll be one of those things you will regret if you don t. If I was in your position I would maybe send him a message saying sorry for deleting him in the first place, just explain...

Teen Dating Issues: crushing on a guy, thanks a bunch, taekwondo
thanks a bunch, taekwondo, good luck: Well if you are very outgoing and talkative he may not be the guy for you. But you never know, he could just be really shy at first. Try talking to him about something he is interested in as this will make him more comfortable when speaking to you. Have you...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating for the first time., going to the dentist, social anxiety
going to the dentist, social anxiety, beign: Well dating is not anything to worry about, just make sure you re interested in the guy and that he is a person you can see yourself being with for a while. Not every date has to be full of pressure, trying to find the guy to spend your life with. BUT, it...

Teen Dating Issues: Dilemma, whole time, online game
whole time, online game, next morning: Okay I think you two need to talk through your feelings completely. Obviously there is a lot that has been left unsaid and you guys can t continue to communicate over blogs and facebook messages. If you really were as close as you say you were you should be...

Teen Dating Issues: Dilemma., whole time, online game
whole time, online game, next morning: Hey Zhi, You have quite the dilemma here and I might have an answer for you, I ll try my best! So it s certainly obvious from the way you explained your situation to me that you liked this girl and I think she certainly had feelings for you as well....

Teen Dating Issues: Dilemma............., whole time, online game
whole time, online game, next morning: hi zhi, if you really like this girl then you need to find the courage to talk to her in person. no more Facebook or anything else like that. go to her and tell her how you feel. she may still like this other guy but your the one standing in front of her...

Teen Dating Issues: My ex, hard time, long time
hard time, long time, love: hi emily. you said something that made me really wonder why you would want to date him again. you said that he got mad at you for not hanging out with him after your mothers death. instead it seems like he should be concerned about you and make sure your ok....

Teen Dating Issues: My ex started texting me, then suddenly stopped...why?, texted, convo
texted, convo: Text him first! That will show him that you are interested in him and if he was mad at you at all for not being able to come over he will forgive you when you text him!! He most likely wants to get back together with you too so give it a shot because you could...

Teen Dating Issues: False hope, likeable person, false hope
likeable person, false hope, hand knowledge: Hi Jascha, so I am thinking the most logical explanation as to why this girl posted the status about you is because she exactly that, misses you. This may not mean as more than a friend but merely just misses talking to you and wishes you guys could hang...

Teen Dating Issues: Finger-fucking, hymens, hymen
hymens, hymen, 9 months: Hi Daniel, Yes it is possible to finger her without breaking her hymen, just remember to do it very carefully and slowly. By doing it to deep or hard there is a chance you can break it. If your girlfriend starts to feel pain stop, this can be a sign...

Teen Dating Issues: This "friend" of mine sort of stood me up. I'm confused now... what do you think?, message exchange, comedy show
message exchange, comedy show, couple days: It seems to me that he might be holding off a bit because he s leaving for 2 months. I mean, if I was going to be away for 2 months, I probably wouldn t want to develop serious feelings for someone or establish a relationship when I won t even be able to see...

Teen Dating Issues: More than friends?, friendly relationship, 7 months
friendly relationship, 7 months, best of luck: Hi Varun Personally I think that it is your decision to make, however if I were you I would tell her. If you feel that strongly and are willing to take the risks that you would be taking, then I think you have already made your decision. If there is anything...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this friendship with my ex girlfriend a smart idea? I'm starting to have second thoughts..., church youth group, sophomore year
church youth group, sophomore year, best year of my life: Hi Robin, It sounds to me like she does want a friendship with you but you have to be careful your not going to fall into the same trap. Don t always be the first to text, just think to yourself she is capable of texting and if she wants to speak to be...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I give him a chance??, false hope, crazy girl
false hope, crazy girl, being friends: Hi Kat I think that you have a few options. You can just turn him down, nicely though. Explain why you are turning him down. This way he knows from the source that nothing will happen and maybe he can start to move on. If you really want to give him a chance...

Teen Dating Issues: Help!, doesnt work, thanks a bunch
doesnt work, thanks a bunch, taekwondo: why? lol..i mean why would you want to try and get to know someone better who seems to have an attitude and doesnt want to talk to you? i guess you could joke around with him and see if you can get him to at least smile. if that doesnt work then i would forget...

Teen Dating Issues: help with boys, first move, shyness
first move, shyness, favour: Hi Amy, I think that your friends probably did you a favour, although it may not feel like it at the moment! Now you r feelings are truly out in the open, the best place for them. I think your next step is to tell him to his face. Text him and arrange...

Teen Dating Issues: help me my parents make my life a living hell!!!!!!!!!, living hell, honest opinion
living hell, honest opinion, good advice: Hi Shelly Unfortunately I am not really sure how to answer this, because in the end I think it should be what you want, need, and feel is right. No matter what you decide I think you need to just think long and hard about this because this is a major decision....

Teen Dating Issues: Should I keep this friendship with my ex girlfriend?, church youth group, sophomore year
church youth group, sophomore year, best year of my life: Hey Robin! I apologize for my untimelyness, I ve been swamped with school, but here I am! Alright so, I m going to begin by being straight forward. She s no longer romantically attracted to you. So that right there is a clear indication that she is no...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I keep this friendship with my ex girlfriend if I still love her?, church youth group, sophomore year
church youth group, sophomore year, best year of my life: Hi Robin I think that you need to think about this. Just sit back and try to decide if this is a friendship that you are willing put the work in to try to save it or if you think you feel better off without her. Unfortunately I can t answer that for you,...

Teen Dating Issues: I like her and she likes me too. But what should i do when she needs time and space before considering a relationship?, badminton player, real sisters
badminton player, real sisters, smses: Brandon, two things: Why on earth would you ask her friend what the girl you like is thinking or feeling? Why not just ask the girl who HAS THE FEELINGS? Her friend is not a relationship expert, a counselor, a babysitter. She s a friend. She s going to...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm tired of not being aloud!, having a great time, perfect moments
having a great time, perfect moments, casino slots: Okay first off, you are 18 years old and technically your parents cannot tell you what to do any longer. You need to bring it to their attention that you are an adult and they need to start treating you like one and if they don t like that maybe you should...

Teen Dating Issues: I need your help!, bakesale, helpp
bakesale, helpp, facebook: Hi, Luce. I m well, thank you. I hope you are doing the same. I wonder how it is that I get so many letters from young people in Egypt. Very curious! You probably know that I am in the United States. If you were here, I would tell you to simply take...

Teen Dating Issues: What should i do when she needs time and space?, badminton player, real sisters
badminton player, real sisters, smses: Hey, So from what I ve gathered from this, she s definitely scared and not ready for another relationship after everything thats been going on in her life, which is fair and understandable, she doesn t want to get hurt again after shes still recovering...

Teen Dating Issues: please help mee!!, bakesale, helpp
bakesale, helpp, facebook: Hi Luce, From my point of view it does sound like he has a thing for you. If I was in your shoes I would just see what happens, if your friends are right and he is just trying to make you jealous then don t let him see that you are bothered by what he...

Teen Dating Issues: almost raped, custidy, rare occasions
custidy, rare occasions, youth group: okay I would definitely try to hang out with them and make an effort to show you love them and be around them because even though at the moment you may not you still need to secure a place to live for yourself. Your family is being very selfish in that they...

Teen Dating Issues: almost raped, mom and dad, man points
mom and dad, man points, bed frame: I don t think it s wrong to still be mad at him because considering everything you have gone through it is clear that you are scared from the sexual trauma as your having nightmares and memories of what has happened to you. So it is justified that you would...

Teen Dating Issues: almost raped, switch blade, two and a half years
switch blade, two and a half years, blind side: April, I am so very sorry for what has happened to you and I am happy that I can be here to help you through this. I think the first thing you need to do is to tell your therapist and/or parents about how you were almost raped. This is not something you should...

Teen Dating Issues: This sort of "friend" sort of stood me up. Now I'm really confused about everything. What do you think?, message exchange, comedy show
message exchange, comedy show, couple days: hi tasha, i think it was really rude that he didnt even bother to message you and confirm your date , or whatever it was :) i would try to forget about him and move on. if he is interested in you then let him make the first move. i dont think you...

Teen Dating Issues: Stuck Between My Boyfriend And His Friend, best of luck, vent
best of luck, vent, relationship: Hi Camellia What you need to do is sit down and adress the situation and decide which boy it is that you really want to be with. If you want to continue to try with your boyfriend, then you need to confront him. Talk to him about how/what you are feeling...

Teen Dating Issues: what should I do about her?, personal things, t text
personal things, t text, mutual friend: I think it is mainly attention based, girls like to know they are wanted and if they feel a guy is no longer interested they will try and make him like her again... it s stupid but its an ego thing. I know this sounds harsh but I know many many girls that...

Teen Dating Issues: what should i do???, bakesale, what should i do question
bakesale, what should i do question, words in my mouth: Well in that case, I d say next time you see him at school, YOU say hey instead! And smile at him when you see him. After doing this a couple times, if you see him ask him if you can talk to him for a minute and ask him if he would want to hangout one day,...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me back?, large group, spending time
large group, spending time, little bit: Jessica, From what you have said I would not be surprised if he likes you, a lot. Guys, like girls, do things for a reason. He is investing a lot of time talking to you, spending time with you, and annoying you, or trying to by blowing on your face, that...

Teen Dating Issues: 18 years old & my father refuses to let me date, aim screen names, computer service provider
aim screen names, computer service provider, cell phone provider: Your father obviously has some attachment issues with you being his little girl and not accepting the fact that you are a grown adult, capable of making your own decisions about who you will associate with. I would suggest sitting him down and telling him...

Teen Dating Issues: Awkward Conversations, dance cruise, constant conversation
dance cruise, constant conversation, dinner dance: friends or dating, there doesnt always have to be constant conversation. some silence is good. do you know everything about him? think of some question you can maybe ask him during those times when maybe the conversation has gone dry. hopefully he is asking...

Teen Dating Issues: Backstabbed, bestfriend, couple weeks
bestfriend, couple weeks, couple days: Hey Liana, No, Natasha s actions are not justifiable at all. If she was really a good friend, she would have confronted you about it and asked you if it was okay, ATLEAST. If she was really a good friend she wouldn t have done that at all. I did the...

Teen Dating Issues: Why Does he bother me..., bundle of nerves, trust your heart
bundle of nerves, trust your heart, time bomb: Well I can t make this decision for you. But I can tell you to go with your gut. Which one makes you feel happier? Which one would you rather be with on a Saturday night? Don t just base your decision off which one is sweeter or cuter, base it off of which...

Teen Dating Issues: boy trouble, boy trouble, bad news
boy trouble, bad news, girls: I would let him know that you really do like him and want more than just sex. I could understand if you feel like you were being used as he doesn t want to be more than friends with you. If he doesn t try to fight for you and tell you he will either just be...

Teen Dating Issues: Boy trouble, friendship cause, boy trouble
friendship cause, boy trouble, relationship: Okay the reason it has been awkward between you two is because you just told him that you like him and this information is new to him, even though it is not new to you (i m assuming you ve liked him for awhile). Just give it time and things will go back to...

Teen Dating Issues: how to communicate with boyfriend, bf, phone calls
bf, phone calls, lol: Hi Suzy, to me it seems like your family is a little too religious. I know about the Christian side of religion very well as both my mother and step-father are ordained ministers. Neither have had a problem with me dating or my sister doing so. My sister...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know what to do... Please help, best friend, love
best friend, love, ex boyfriend: Hi Kendra, Thanks for writing in and sharing issues in relationship which is troubling you at present. It takes a lot to pen down feelings and express what you going through, but I must say you seem quite disturbed and wanna resolve it at the earliest....

Teen Dating Issues: My ex is being so much different, minute conversation, hypocrite
minute conversation, hypocrite, couple days: James, Very sorry about your situation. It is never fun to deal with something like this. I know, personally, my ex girlfriend saw me at a party and I did not see her. She commented to somebody that I was obviously ignoring her , which was furthest from...

Teen Dating Issues: Does my ex girlfriend still love me after 15 months?, ex gf, sustain
ex gf, sustain, relationship: Hello Robin, Apologies afront for delay in reverting back to you. I appreciate your gesture of dropping a word and sharing your heart felt feelings and it takes a toll on a person while penning down. But really shows, your strong desire to make things work....

Teen Dating Issues: I like the my ex's little sister, little sister, older sister
little sister, older sister, hell: Hey David! I d say before you go for your ex s little sister, talk to your ex and tell her Hey, I ve been seeing your sister, and I m not doing it to get back at you or anything like that, I genuinely like her. So would it bother you if I see her? if...

Teen Dating Issues: Falling Apart, having a great time, good conversation
having a great time, good conversation, good luck: hi justin. well its hard to say why she is acting like this. do you like her back? would you want to date her? i think you need to talk to her in person. find some time when you can sit down and not be distracted. tell her how you feel. be open and honest...

Teen Dating Issues: Falling Apart, distract, first kiss
distract, first kiss, dating: Hello Justin, Apologies afront for delay in reverting back to you. I appreciate your gesture of dropping a word and sharing your heart felt feelings and it takes a toll on a person while penning down. But really shows, your strong desire to make things...

Teen Dating Issues: Falling Apart, having a great time, honest answer
having a great time, honest answer, good conversation: Hey Justin! So I can definitely see why you re confused. Girls are amazing at confusing themselves and the people around them. I d say talk to her at school, after class just say Hey, can we just talk for a few minutes, you re one of my closest friends...

Teen Dating Issues: does she like me or just as a freind or not at all, friendship, love
friendship, love, impress: Hello Matthew, Apologies afront for delay in reverting back to you. I appreciate your gesture of dropping a word and sharing your heart felt feelings and it takes a toll on a person while penning down. But really shows, your strong desire to make things...

Teen Dating Issues: im in love with my cousin, first cousin, corner of my eye
first cousin, corner of my eye, rest of my life: Well you cannot stop yourself from feeling the way you do so I wouldn t try to suppress any of your feelings. However, the way he acts around you may just be because you are family and he honestly doesn t notice that he is doing these things to make you feel...

Teen Dating Issues: Knowing the Parents, perfect boyfriend, naughty boys
perfect boyfriend, naughty boys, boyfriends: Ritz, I do not recall your question about dating a polar opposite. I don t think I was the one who advised you, but I m happy to help now. Regarding dating a person who is VERY different, that s not exactly a problem. The think that is MOST important...

Teen Dating Issues: Has he lost intrested in me does he only wanna be my friend, t text, facebook
t text, facebook, fiend: I completely understand what your saying and totally agree. I think if you can t trust him or feel that he is lying to you it is not even worth trying it out with him. You should be with a guy who you feel comfortable around and know he is being honest and...

Teen Dating Issues: love issue, insecurity, friendship
insecurity, friendship, expressing: Hi Alisha, Thanks for writing in and sharing your personal life experience. It takes a lot to pen down heart felt issues and appreciate your gesture in taking a step ahead and seeking help regarding relationship issue, you facing at current stage in life....

Teen Dating Issues: I'm gay for my friend, what do I do?, reading the signs, long periods of time
reading the signs, long periods of time, one of my best friends: Hey Rob, I see your dilemma. My best friend is gay and he went through a very similar experience. I d say if you haven t told your friend that you are bisexual, then tell him. My best friend had the biggest crush on his best friend and he finally came out...

Teen Dating Issues: Mixed signals, what do i do?, mixed signals, facebook
mixed signals, facebook, heaps: Justin, it sounds as though your friend may be in one of two places: One, she s frustrated that you haven t acted on the feelings you both had, and now she feels the time has passed. Or, Two, she HAD strong feelings for you, but now she s realizing she doesn...

Teen Dating Issues: Need Help!, keep your distance, aww
keep your distance, aww, good reason: hey alex. it sounds like she really hasn t given you a good reason for breaking up. i guess she could just want some time away from you and any guy to think about stuff. its not unheard of :) either way i would keep your distance from her. say hi on occasion...

Teen Dating Issues: The Date was Awesome!, share experiences, common interests
share experiences, common interests, magic tricks: It s good news she wants to get to know you better! I would talk to her more at school, ask her questions about herself and casual bring up getting together outside of school. Maybe to a movie? Dinner? or just hanging out. But something that involves activity...

Teen Dating Issues: Parents Found Out of Long Relationship, disarray, fling
disarray, fling, apology: I think you and your girlfriend should sit down with her parents and first, apologize for keeping it a secret. But explain to them why you did so (because you love each other and were worried if you told you wouldn t be allowed to be together.) If she feels...

Teen Dating Issues: almost raped, paronia, target
paronia, target, music arts: Try to focus your mind on the future, and cleanse yourself of the past. What happened happened but now you can choose to change your future to be what you want! Whether that would be focusing really hard in school, finding your interests, music, arts, sports....

Teen Dating Issues: How soon should we...?, long distance relationship, baseball game
long distance relationship, baseball game, makeout: Rusty, starting something new while knowing it will be long distance probably isn t wise. If you had been dating her for a long time and then moved, sure, try the long distance thing. But as of right now, you don t really have anything invested in the relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating?, soccer team, two games
soccer team, two games, second time: I can definitely tell that he probably likes you. He s dropping a lot of hints, especially asking to be partners for warm up and looking out for you on the field. So I think next time you and him have a game or practice, ask for his number and text him...

Teen Dating Issues: Wall of Friends, freaks, good luck
freaks, good luck, girlfriend: I don t think you are doing anything wrong. It seems as though she wants some space which is understandable considering you guys have been dating for awhile. However, it is not healthy that you two cannot talk about this with each other if you ve been dating...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this an acceptable relationship?, legal ties, mom and dad
legal ties, mom and dad, real sisters: hi sarah. thats a tough one. i can understand both sides. she has been around for a long time and probably really does feel like this is her family. but i can also understand how you feel. if it was me i think i would try and trust my bf and not make a...

Teen Dating Issues: age problem, legal age of consent, romantic experience
legal age of consent, romantic experience, successful relationship: I cannot condone a man dating a girl who is underage. My husband and I are 8 years apart, but we met when we were both experienced. Maturity is great, but experience is mandatory for a successful relationship. I doubt a 16 year old has enough experience...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused.., social networking site, true love
social networking site, true love, melissa: hi melissa. without meeting someone and dating them you really have no idea who this person really is. i would pull back a bit and remain friends with him if thats what you want. if not i would stop talking to him. i know you think you are in love with him...

Teen Dating Issues: Confusing signals, confusing signals, social gatherings
confusing signals, social gatherings, heartbreak: I m afraid and sorry to say that guys often lie to get with girls. Now I m not sayif this guy doesn t like you but he seems like bad news from the start that he wouldn t tell you he has a girlfriend. To save yourself heartbreak and hours of crying/anger I...

Teen Dating Issues: crush, us history class, facebook
us history class, facebook, summer time: There are a few ways to go about it. I personally would try to find out where she will be at a certain day and time, and find a way to be there. Then, find a way to talk to her and ask her out. One idea would be to get your friends to possibly have a cook...

Teen Dating Issues: dating advise, step foot, bad car
step foot, bad car, drunk driver: Hello Alyssa, yes being alive today after such an incident is wonderful and you are very lucky to be here. Did your bf take a shot to the head or have any major injury to the area, like a concussion maybe? I ask just to see if psychological things may be to...

Teen Dating Issues: DATING HELP!, dating help, trust issues
dating help, trust issues, rest of your life: hi michele, you cant help what someone else might do or not do. if you think you like him and want to date him then go for it and see whats happens. maybe he is really a nice guy and wants to be there for you. if he is mean to you at times thats another...

Teen Dating Issues: I just dont know what to do, pms, boundaries
pms, boundaries: Hi Katie, if there is anything that you aren t feeling comfortable with or if you are doubting doing anything, then don t do it! I know it may be hard to tell him but if he loves you he will respect you and your boundaries. Don t do anything you don t want...

Teen Dating Issues: ex-boyfriend troubles, boyfriend troubles, ashley
boyfriend troubles, ashley, interaction: Sara, It sounds like, to me, this guy is embarrassed about what happened not because of you but because of your past with him. He may not want to be in a relationship again and does not want to sound like bad guy, even though his actions suggest that. All...

Teen Dating Issues: First Date with a complicated shy guy, what to do on a first date, first girlfriend
what to do on a first date, first girlfriend, shy guy: Maddie, I definitely remember being very apprehensive and scared when I was taking my first girlfriend out on a date. If memory serves me correctly, it was in 7th grade. I asked her what she wanted to do because I did not want to make a mistake. That is probably...

Teen Dating Issues: My guy friend, baby show, things take time
baby show, things take time, guy friend: Honestly, in this situation you may need to avoid a lot of contact with him as to not give him the wrong idea. That doesn t make you a bad person, He just needs to understand that your not interested. Then slowly you can start to talk to him like you used...

Teen Dating Issues: guys, kiss, relationships, two different things, scumbag
two different things, scumbag, funny way: Julie Is he hitting you or playfully smacking you around? Two different things If he s hit you, he s a scumbag, don t waste your time. If not and you actually like him then tell him that. Being honest is the only way you ll find the truth out...

Teen Dating Issues: Helping someone who "cannot" love or care, right direction, emotion
right direction, emotion, full time: hi grace. some people like to be the helper of others and to fix people. i have been there and i eventually decided i didnt want to be the one that always got hurt by tying to change someone else. this guy has been completely open and honest with you and...

Teen Dating Issues: Honesty, random guy, shreds
random guy, shreds, couple days: Hi Carissa, not sure what you mean by hook up . Would love to have you help me with that one to better answer this further. It means different things for different people. If you broke up for a while from your bf, you have nothing to be sorry about in...

Teen Dating Issues: Please help!!!!, finding an apartment, great distance
finding an apartment, great distance, dorms: Well, the best thing to do would be to find a way to be closer. Say you get 18 and he is too, you could go off to college in the same place and live close to each other. Or say, he goes off to college, and you don t want to go, you can find a job near him...

Teen Dating Issues: Relationship help, relationship help, opions
relationship help, opions, 15 year olds: relationships are about give and take. it sounds like your gf needs some give from you. if you really love her and want to see how things work out then give her your attention and support. if things dont get better then you might have to consider moving on....

Teen Dating Issues: Sex issue with new guy, loose girls, sex issue
loose girls, sex issue, hand jobs: Hi Madeline, sorry for the late response. Yes, it seems that if he went right for the boobs, he thinks all girls are fine with it and he s met some, shall we say loose girls in the past. lol. That said, from the get-go, you need to tell him that certain...

Teen Dating Issues: Third Chance, emotional relationship, third chance
emotional relationship, third chance, little break: Hi Katrina, with everything you ve told me, it seems like he cannot be trusted. Trust is the biggest part of any relationship. It is the cornerstone and rock for which is stands. Without trust, the whole relationship can come crashing down. He knows you...

Teen Dating Issues: third chance, emotional relationship, third chance
emotional relationship, third chance, little break: i would not give him a third chance. i am all for second chances but a third is pushing it a little too far. especially when you have found all this out about him AND he has the nerve to call you a slut. i would try as hard as you can to forget about him....

Teen Dating Issues: Am I being unreasonable?, legal ties, real sisters
legal ties, real sisters, mom and dad: Sarah, I read your letter today while I was away from my desk and could not respond. I could not WAIT to get back. Your letter filled me with something similar to panic. You do not have this right. You cannot walk into a person s life and demand that...

Teen Dating Issues: Am I being unreasonable?, legal ties, mom and dad
legal ties, mom and dad, real sisters: There must be some reason why she has been partially living at their house and has her own room since kindergarten, something with her own parents that you may not even be aware of. They really do seem like pretty much family so I wouldn t be concerned. She...

Teen Dating Issues: afraid of regret, luster, old girl
luster, old girl, taking the time: hi saige. dating is about finding the guy that is right for you. your young and shouldn t feel like you need to stay with someone because you dont want to hurt him or your afraid you will make a mistake by breaking up. two things i want to tell you...one..when...

Teen Dating Issues: Best Friend Crush, birthday dinner, frien
birthday dinner, frien, next level: so what do you think you would do if you just met this guy and wanted to date him? would you date him knowing that you are leaving for college in a few weeks? i think right now you should probably just stay friends. continue to talk to him while at college...

Teen Dating Issues: Blowjobs, mouthful of cum, unhealthy diet
mouthful of cum, unhealthy diet, seaman: Hi Ayla Every boys seaman is different, some better than others, this is down to a boys diet. Discuss this problem with you re boyfriend. Has he got an unhealthy diet? Maybe he could introduce more fruits into his diet? This should make his seaman a better...

Teen Dating Issues: cheating, choice words, wile
choice words, wile, doing the right thing: Cody, It may be tough but you probably should tell her. You would be doing the right thing by doing that. She will most likely find out regardless. Just remember, you will have to deal with the consequences so use choice words. Promise, and show, that you...

Teen Dating Issues: Cheating, romantic aspect, different perspective
romantic aspect, different perspective, wile: No worries. Have you ever spoke about the romantic aspect of your relationship? After the amount of time you have been dating,I would assume that some form of romance would have been there. If not, there must be a reason why. Is she shy? Not confident...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused :(, bf, best friend
bf, best friend, good luck: hi mikayla, dating is all about finding that right person for you. if you are unsure if your bf is the right guy then you owe it to your self and him to breakup. i wouldnt tell your bf that you want to date other people or that you like your best friend....

Teen Dating Issues: confused, spending time, age 18
spending time, age 18, rubbish: Hi, I think both are possible. You consider whether you want to be with him or not and if he can make you happy rather than if he is missing you. Break-ups are always hard on everyone but if you feel that you are not happy in a relationship it is better...

Teen Dating Issues: I like my friend, friend tori, close friends
friend tori, close friends, just friends: it sounds like he probably does like you more then friends. it could also be that he just wants to get in your pants! :) either way you just have to realize that if you start dating him and things dont go well it might ruin your friendship. its possible...

Teen Dating Issues: I am friends with my ex girlfriend, but I still love her?, female friends, romantic partner
female friends, romantic partner, awkwardness: Hi, Thanks for the question. I believe it is normal to have some lingering feelings towards your ex-girlfriend after coming out of a long relationship. Maybe you are just feeling lonely and missing her which you might be mistaking for love. You should think...

Teen Dating Issues: I am friends with my ex girlfriend, but I still love her. How do i get her back?, female friends, romantic partner
female friends, romantic partner, awkwardness: Hey Robin. My advice is simple. You need to be friends with her for a while longer, you mentioned that your friendship has gotten progressively better over the past few months (with getting the awkwardness out of the way) and this needs to continue...

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriend is bulimic, anorexic, doing the right thing
anorexic, doing the right thing, psychologist: i think your doing the right thing for now, but...you need to make sure she gets help if it doesnt stop immediately. im not a doctor but i dont think it matters if she is doing what a bulimic would do or not. she is still doing something that can cause her...

Teen Dating Issues: I'll kill myself if I loose her!, conservative family, silent mode
conservative family, silent mode, blade: first let me say that you shouldnt kill yourself over anybody. no person is worth being so desperate over. be happy with who you are. second, if you want to get to know her then take it slow. say hello and smile. ask her how she is doing. keep it to small...

Teen Dating Issues: please help me, good sense of humor, bestfriend
good sense of humor, bestfriend, t text: Hi, It might be possible that he is playing with you. You can try avoiding him for a while and see how he reacts. You might also talk with some of his to know about him better and whether he likes someone. It might also be possible that he is trying to...

Teen Dating Issues: I really love her from the core of my heart! She is the most sweetest girl I have ever met! Please help!, sweetest girl, shy guy
sweetest girl, shy guy, lovely girl: Hi Akash Just from what you have said, i am not able to tell you if she likes you or not. It does sound like a possibility though if she is talking to her friends about you. It is obviously not an option for you to go and talk to her as like you said you...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating, facebook, straight answers
facebook, straight answers, period class: Hey Juan, thanks for your question. Are you sure you read her actions correctly? You may have mis-judged the situation and she might just like to stare at people. Hence her not replying on facebook and being awkward. Either that, or she s just real shy....

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating Issue, hair etc, couple seconds
hair etc, couple seconds, freind: it sounds like you have tried all you should try for this girl. she doesnt sound very friendly and actually sounds kind of rude if she cant even say hello to you and talk to you. i would say hi to her in passing but dont go out of your way to talk to her....

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Sports Decision, teen sports, competitive sports
teen sports, competitive sports, irish dancing: hi rose, hmmm....i think any sport you do you should do because you like it and not as a competition. any sport you do can be turned into a competition. i think i would just sign up for any and all sports you possibly can and find something you like. you...

Teen Dating Issues: Advice needed..., great memory, new lover
great memory, new lover, gas bills: Not a huge obstacle. I d suggest saying, I was wondering if I could speak with you alone for just a moment. Then take her aside and say that you ve been interested in getting to know her better and were wondering if you could spend some time with her just...

Teen Dating Issues: Advice needed, new lover, new girl
new lover, new girl, own eyes: i think just a simple hello in passing to start. take it slow..dont be afraid to talk to her with her friend around. if she blows you off and is not interested then just back off and move on. if she acts interested then just start talking more to her. good...

Teen Dating Issues: Advice needed., new lover, new girl
new lover, new girl, own eyes: Hi, I think its entirely possible that you became attracted to the new girl because she resembled your old crush. It is hard to completely get an old crush out of your mind. If thinking about the new girl makes you think of your old crush, it may be harder...

Teen Dating Issues: Boyfriend's Parents, menstrual periods, college freshman
menstrual periods, college freshman, awkward questions: hi skye, what does your bf say about all this? i am just wondering why he hasn t had a talk with his family and polity ask them to stop questioning you like that. your right, it is very rude of them to ask you these things. if a talk with your bf and...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating an older guy, possiblity, sandi
possiblity, sandi, 10 years: i understand. here is the thing, if you live with your parents and your 16 then they can pretty much tell you to stop seeing him. it might a little hard for them to enforce it but they could also get this guy in trouble too. i still think you should stop...

Teen Dating Issues: Double Standards, sex before marriage, sexual acts
sex before marriage, sexual acts, pecks: if your bf believes that strongly in no sex before marriage, including not touching your breasts, then hopefully he would not loose interest in you because of it. i understand everyone believes differently about this subject but personally i think its...

Teen Dating Issues: First Base Forever, conservative environment, sexual acts
conservative environment, sexual acts, pecks: Hi, Thanks for the question. I don t think you need to worry about your relationship being in danger because of this. As long as both of you are okay with not getting physical it does not affect your relationship. He might be coming from a conservative...

Teen Dating Issues: forbidden love, talking to a brick wall, great relationship
talking to a brick wall, great relationship, loving guy: Vanessa, I would not give up. Talk to your mother and tell her you respect her wishes, but explain that you need to know when you will be allowed to date. If she can t give you an age, then ask her what she needs from you. What can you do to show her you...

Teen Dating Issues: issues with seeing my boyfriend, long distance relationship, brother works
long distance relationship, brother works, true loves: Hi, Thanks for the question. I think the best thing would be to talk to him about this and tell him you feel that you two don t see each other often enough. You two should work out ways how can meet. It is possible that he might be ignoring you for some...

Teen Dating Issues: Jealousy, control freak, low self esteem
control freak, low self esteem, boy friends: hi amber, i am not a therapist so i really cant give you ideas like a therapist might be able to. i wonder if talking to a professional about this would help. it sounds like you are already doing one of the things i was going to mention, which was spend...

Teen Dating Issues: New boyfriend???, intimate relationship, new boyfriend
intimate relationship, new boyfriend, saying things: i think the only way to approach it is to be completely honest with him. if you have been friends first then this usually makes saying things like this much easier. i know its easier said then done but i think you just need to go for it and tell him. also,...

Teen Dating Issues: New boyfriend???!, relationship websites, intimate relationship
relationship websites, intimate relationship, intimate experience: Hi, Thanks for the question. Its completely normal to feel nervous about your first intimate experience. You should not worry too much about it. If you are really scared you can talk with your friends or look up some relationship websites while will help...

Teen Dating Issues: please i need advice, traumatic situation, nightmares
traumatic situation, nightmares, different ways: hey april. i would think that even though you weren t raped, you probably were in a very traumatic situation. i would recommend you get some professional counseling to help. i dont know your age but if your young and living with your parents i would say talk...

Teen Dating Issues: problems, kerry ann, broken girl
kerry ann, broken girl, magic answer: hi, if you dont think you can trust him then i would breakup. sounds easier said then done, i know. but you dont want to be with someone you cant trust. you need to work on your trust issues before being in a relationship. if that means being single...

Teen Dating Issues: Triangle, random funny facts, courting alex
random funny facts, courting alex, childhood crush: if you think alex would be really upset that you asked him out then i wouldnt even go there. just be friends with him. if you think she would be totally cool with it then maybe you should give liam a little nudge. maybe bring up the topic about how you...

Teen Dating Issues: Troubled Teenager...., troubled teenager, early girl
troubled teenager, early girl, female friends: Aman, all you can do is try to talk to her yourself. Girls appreciate courage, and while her friend has told you the girl doesn t LIKE boys, perhaps she ll like one who cares enough to at least try to be her friend. It does sound, however, like she needs...

Teen Dating Issues: Where do I stand?, random funny facts, courting alex
random funny facts, courting alex, childhood crush: Kat, the first thing I would do is speak to Alex. Ask her how she feels about Liam. Ask her if she plans to reciprocate his courtship IF he ever makes a move. If she isn t crazy about him or doesn t plan to reciprocate, then tell her how you feel. Otherwise,...

Teen Dating Issues: Advice needed - will this work?, boys with boys, friendzone
boys with boys, friendzone, back massage: Thank you, Anders, for that sweet compliment. I hope my advice to you is as professional. First, I do not think giving a girl a massage is a good ice breaker. I agree with your friend that it is a little creepy, at least early on. I think it might be...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, senior prom, talking to girls
senior prom, talking to girls, good sense of humor: Hi, Will. I appreciate your straightforward question. I hope I can help. It sounds like you are already talking to girls, so that s a huge hurdle that many boys can seem to clear. Now, to go from there to asking a girl out, what is missing? 1. Build...

Teen Dating Issues: Does my ex girlfriend still love me after a year and a half?, emotional roller coaster, erratic behavior
emotional roller coaster, erratic behavior, early dismissal: Hi, I guess that her hanging out with you could mean that she still loves you but I would that its more possible that she has started accepting you as a friend. You two were close for around a year so its no surprise that she likes being with you, though...

Teen Dating Issues: lost in love, relif, believ
relif, believ, separate ways: Hi, Vanessa. It may be a cop out, but I m a big believer in What will be, will be. It s an old saying that means that you can t really write your fate; you can only control yourself, so what happens BEYOND that just happens. You have to accept that....

Teen Dating Issues: Please help me out with this girl..., early girl, female friends
early girl, female friends, fantasized: it sounds like you will need a lot of patience with this girl. i would just take it really slow and try to talk to her little by little. a simple hello and a smile to start. see if you can just spend a few minutes talking to her. nothing complicated just simple...

Teen Dating Issues: Am I being unreasonable?, legal ties, mom and dad
legal ties, mom and dad, real sisters: Hi, I think that since your boyfriend had known her for a long time and thinks of her as a sister, there is nothing to be jealous of. Since, she is almost a sister to him there is nothing to be jealous of. You should try to explain to him that you don t...

Teen Dating Issues: What should I do?, obstacle course, good eye
obstacle course, good eye, 1on1: i dont think you said or did anything wrong. hanging out is perfectly fine to start with. i think you should go to her work and spend some time there. maybe before your ready to leave ask her again for her number and tell her you would like to take her out...

Teen Dating Issues: What to do?, toilet seat, friends birthday
toilet seat, friends birthday, drinker: this guy doesnt sound like much of a friend if he dogs on you when your not around. especially to the girl he knows you like. i would confront him about saying these things to your crush. i think its also time to let him know you dont appreciate him saying...

Teen Dating Issues: should I ask her, trip to spain, mutual friends
trip to spain, mutual friends, financial implications: James, I don t think it s weird, not if you explain it to her like that. Just say, My other friends backed out, but I still have my reservations. I know we are still kind of early in our dating, so I m not trying to rush anything, but I d like it if you...

Teen Dating Issues: my best friend's crush likes me?, sara sara, friend sara
sara sara, friend sara, fake names: your in a tuff spot. personally i dont think any guy should come between a friendship. what do you think sara would say if you asked her if you could date jack? maybe she would be ok with it? it sounds like she realizes she doesnt have a chance with jack....

Teen Dating Issues: BF + BFF problem!, boy friend, bestfriend
boy friend, bestfriend, best friend: have you talked to your bff about this? im just wondering if would mind you dating him. if your not that close to her then i would maybe just continue to date him. if you want to be friends with her then i would have a talk and see how she feels about you...

Teen Dating Issues: boy/parent troubles, sudden deluge, female relatives
sudden deluge, female relatives, baggy clothes: Being Muslim is important. One of my best friends is Muslim, and I am not, and we do things very differently. I don t try to pretend I understand any religion, not even my own, so I stay clear of advising people on how to deal with issues in their lives...

Teen Dating Issues: boy troubles, time hope, haired girl
time hope, haired girl, first move: Hi, From what I could understand you two more of drifted apart than broke up. You should let him know that you are interested in dating him. I guess you can text him more often and suggest meeting up sometimes or have a talk in your school. If you don t...

Teen Dating Issues: Boyfriend, awkward silence, vin diesel
awkward silence, vin diesel, fantasizing: Cayla, first, it is normal for both guys and girls to fantasize about attractive, famous people. What is NOT normal is to do it while you are with your guy in a romantic setting. THAT is simply a form of mental cheating. If your boyfriend cannot turn you...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused!, high school sophomore, pet names
high school sophomore, pet names, third time: i think its time to break up. she is saying these things for a reason. dating is all about finding what you like and dont like in a person. since this is your first relationship i think its time to find someone else to date and see what else is out there....

Teen Dating Issues: Should I invite her with me?, purity of heart, church volunteer
purity of heart, church volunteer, cancer ward: It sounds like you need to find meaning in your life, something you can truly feel proud of. It will take the focus off of those surface characteristics, like looks, and put the focus on life meaning, what you are doing to contribute to a better world, your...

Teen Dating Issues: Relationships, sandi, best friends
sandi, best friends, hasn: friends can tell each other things. or at least they should be able to. sarah just needs to let jane know whats going on. jane is going to find out sooner or later anyways. its better she finds out from sarah and not from someone else. jane doesnt need to...

Teen Dating Issues: showering together, communication key, next level
communication key, next level, time period: how old are you? if you want to shower with her then i would assume you are wanting to take your relationship to the next level? i dont know how well you both communicate but this is something you just need to talk about. have you talked about sex at all with...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating, math class, nasty things
math class, nasty things, one of the guys: Do you know if your ex is saying nasty things about you? all you can really do is be yourself and let this guy make his mind up. if he is really that stupid to listen to what his friend says and not find out for himself then you probably dont want to date...

Teen Dating Issues: I want him back!, cyber sex, good luck
cyber sex, good luck, relationships: you cant make him want to get back with you. why would you want him back anyways? he doesnt believe you or trust you. relationships should be about trust and communication. it doesnt sound like he trusts you. you can only do or say so much to him. i would...

Teen Dating Issues: What to do, girl friends, hardships
girl friends, hardships, whole life: Delilah, first, I would never advise you how to have a relationship without your mom getting suspicious. Honesty is the foundation of ALL relationships, including you and the boy and you and your mother. If this boy allowed you to sneak behind your mother...

Teen Dating Issues: What are we?, waiter, golf course
waiter, golf course, shoulders: yeah i think i would consider the two of you dating. im kind of surprised he hasnt kissed you though. maybe he doesnt want to get too attached to you since he is going away. do you want to get any closer to him since he is going away? i guess you could try...

Teen Dating Issues: What to do?, 4 months, cousin
4 months, cousin, good luck: i think you should just leave her alone for now. when she gets back i think you deserve an explanation from her as to why she just stopped talking to you. maybe she found someone else in Europe..who knows. either way she needs to be open and honest with you....

Teen Dating Issues: what to do?, t text, 4 months
t text, 4 months, cousin: Hi there Kevin! hope you don t mind me answering your question! It is so darn confusing when this happens! well if you are sure that she liked you before, then feelings like that don t usually go away so quickly, so try not to doubt them..unless perhaps...

Teen Dating Issues: Boys
Hi Kiara, It sounds like your doing the right thing. I would find a good time when you can catch him alone. spend a few minutes talking to him. Nothing big or special, just a little hello how are you. That way he can get to know you better in person. Let...

Teen Dating Issues: i dont know if he likes me or not
Hey Maddie, sorry for the late reply. I can see your dilemma. I know the awkwardness must have been high and your heart possibly decided to be 100 miles per hour at the time. You might have been feeling weird all over. So trust me, we ve all be here at...

Teen Dating Issues: Hard to move on
Hi Jade, In general its hard to think about what could have been. It probably would have been easier for you if you had dated him. You might have found out that you really didn t like him as a bf. But the end result is that you really have no choice. You...

Teen Dating Issues: helping daughter with great inner turmoil
Hey Kim, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: Have boyfriend don't know how to tell people about him
Hey Kaitlyn, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in...

Teen Dating Issues: Boys
Hey Colleen, Well you are really thinking a lot and am happy atleast you sat back and struck off one name from the list. Now you are in win-win situation. Go ahead with elder brother and confess your feelings to him. Don t become an easy prey for him, else...

Teen Dating Issues: Did I creep her out?
Hi Tom, I doubt you freaked her out, but, I would start having a normal conversation with her. Spend a few minutes a day getting to know her better. Ask her questions about herself..hopefully she will ask you some questions too. Try and do this away from...

Teen Dating Issues: two guys
Hey Avada, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: i really need help
Hi How would you feel if you asked him to be bf and gf and he said yes? How would it be having a bf all the way across the usa? If your fine with it then i think you should pursue it. I have a feeling he is thinking the same thing. He may want to be more...

Teen Dating Issues: Son embarrassed by present he received
Hey Julie, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: what do you think?
Hey Maria, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: Am I too young to be in Love?
Hi Emily, Personally I think 17 is to young to truly be in love with a boy. You should be dating and finding out what you like and dont like. It doesnt mean you shouldnt or wont have feelings towards a guy. But just dont think he is the only one for you....

Teen Dating Issues: Crush jealous
Hey Tyvon, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: What's my ex doing here?, homecoming dance, o clock
homecoming dance, o clock, empty chair: Lydia, the only way to find out what he wants is to ask him. Or, you can just continue to hang in there and see where it goes. The important thing is what do YOU want? If you want something out of this, then make it happen. Some of what you describe...

Teen Dating Issues: This guy is so confusing!, friend ashley, outer shell
friend ashley, outer shell, friend jim: well it sounds like he maybe expects you to not like him so he is putting up this mean front so he doesn t get hurt. i would actually be open with him and ask him this question. it sounds like he trusts you and tell you a lot of stuff. it might also be...

Teen Dating Issues: So lost.., dirt bike, physical fight
dirt bike, physical fight, glovebox: Number one, always use condoms for sex. Only fools don t use them unless married or trying to have children. The pill is not 100% effective, even the shot. Condoms aren t either, but it s better than nothing at all. If you re not having sex at all and he has...

Teen Dating Issues: love problems, ears, couples
ears, couples, relationship: Talking to him can never hurt, he needs to know how you feel in order for him to know how to get better at something or fix any issues. If you feel neglected, he needs to know. You need to tell him that, it feels as if he isn t into the relationship as...

Teen Dating Issues: Marko..., girlfriend stephanie, insurance premiums
girlfriend stephanie, insurance premiums, capible: Hi Evan, first off, we at AllExperts do not make decisions for people. Ultimately, it s up to the person. We re just here to help shed light on stuff. Now, as you may have noticed from other questions I answered or my profile, I don t mince words. I am kind...

Teen Dating Issues: Money vs GF, girlfriend stephanie, insurance premiums
girlfriend stephanie, insurance premiums, capible: My initial response: A relationship is about trust and support. If you don t trust her enough to drive your car, why are you with her? And if you really worry about her needing you, then either allow her to use the better car or convince her it s too risky....

Teen Dating Issues: myboyfriend and i are drifting apart, different town, serious relationship
different town, serious relationship, single day: once or twice a week doesnt sound all that bad. your young and have so much more to go through in life. i dont believe he is the only person or thing that can make you happy. if thats really true then i think you should break up with him now and find yourself....

Teen Dating Issues: I need advice, eachother, 7 months
eachother, 7 months, best friends: You re very welcome! And the best thing to do is just say it naturally and in the moment, because if you plan it it could come out a bit wrong, but do whatever works and feels comfortable for you, and anyway don t worry about how you say it I m sure she...

Teen Dating Issues: I need an answer, marriage and kids, age gap
marriage and kids, age gap, power sex: Number one, while this may seem harsh, never look to heavy into every action, text, thing said, etc. Girls that are clingy or overbearing, or those who are overdramatic throw guys off. By getting rid of all that, you then can think with a clear brain, mind,...

Teen Dating Issues: I need your opinion, eachother, 7 months
eachother, 7 months, best friends: hey kevin. i understand how you feel. you are in a tuff spot. i think being open with her is a good idea. you two sound close so i think she would appreciate you telling her how you feel. now..what you need to decide is do you want to continue to try and be...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship issue, relationship issue, open conversation
relationship issue, open conversation, network chat: Hi Kumarika! Thanks for the question, really like your name by the way! Well the good thing is you know it s not a problem with you or your relationship that s causing him to act like this with you, which is more then most people know anyway! I can see why...