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Stay-at-Home Parents: stay at home mum, craft night, coffee tea
craft night, coffee tea, income at home: Hi Rosie! Your situation is not uncommon. Sometimes in order for the mother to be able to stay home with her children the father must work the long hours and full weeks to achieve the family goal. While working these hours is hard on the father, people often...

Stay-at-Home Parents: sweet problem, oxy clean, marine archaeology
oxy clean, marine archaeology, lab practicals: Hi Robert! Not exactly my field of expertise........but if it was something my kids had on their clothing and it was white clothing....I would say try Clorox Oxy Clean! (must be Clorox brand) It comes in powder form w/ directions on it. I purchase it at...

Stay-at-Home Parents: TV watching, baby einstein dvd, puppet plays
baby einstein dvd, puppet plays, baby bach: Irum, Baby Einstein was the first t.v.-viewing our now 4-year-old son really enjoyed, especially Baby Bach. However he also received plenty of stimulation from other sources and seems bright enough. I regret letting him watch superheroes though--sometimes...

Stay-at-Home Parents: tips for managing kids close in age, stay at home mom, misbehaving
stay at home mom, misbehaving, two girls: Hi Tanya, Well, you have some pluses and minuses there. Your husband can t help much... which can be really hard when you have little ones and are at home alone most of the time. I was in that position too for a couple of years when my husband had a really...

Stay-at-Home Parents: Weaning from brestfeeding, cracked nipples, breastmilk
cracked nipples, breastmilk, tiny amounts: Hi Katie, We went through something similar when our first baby was much younger: only about 6 weeks old. I tried to temporarily wean him so I could heal cracked nipples. It was horrible! He refused any alternatives, though I did manage to get him drinking...

Stay-at-Home Parents: weaning of the bottle, dr oetker, little sugar
dr oetker, little sugar, naptime: Hi Kathy, Have you tried getting her to drink out of a regular cup? I was forced to stop breastfeeding my son for a short time when he was still only a few months old, and he wouldn t drink out of a bottle or sippy cup either. Out of desperation I tried...

Stay-at-Home Parents: weaning, hunger pangs, temper tantrum
hunger pangs, temper tantrum, sippy cup: Hi Michelle, I think the thing to do is to start feeding her age-appropriate food and get her used to the sippy cup *before* you start weaning her. That way, she ll have learned to like other foods before you start depriving her of breastmilk. She ll probably...

Staying a Virgin: 19 year old virgin, viginity, real girl
viginity, real girl, virginity: I think it would be great to show up at work and ask her out or you could always call. Either way show her you have confidence in yourself and you feel like you can go have a good time with her - Take her to a movie or dinner? As long as she is happy and your...

Staying a Virgin: 19 year old virgin, fear of rejection, hell life
fear of rejection, hell life, viginity: alright man first things first its really not that hard to ask a girl out you always have to remember when you ask a girl out there can only be three answers yes,no,and maybe. its that simple. Fear of rejection keeps a lot of people from being and doing the...

Staying a Virgin: 19 year old virgin, viginity, virginity
viginity, virginity, 19 years: Hey. Its so simple, I know its nerveracking now but once its all said and done youll be happy you did it. Be smooth and casual and RELAX. You dont want to come off too strong or desperate or anything else. Just say Hey (name), would you want to go (place...

Staying a Virgin: 20 year old, serious relationship, guy friends
serious relationship, guy friends, whole life: Well, I d first like to say that my life was the same way. Your first step is to take it slow, especially since you ve been sheltered from everything your whole life. Wait until you think you re ready and talk to him about it. In a long-term serious relationship,...

Staying a Virgin: I am 20 years old and still..., inner thighs, sexual needs
inner thighs, sexual needs, darlene: hey shelley sorry it took me awhile to respond to you. first off i want to say congrats for making it to 20 and still being a virgin. i know there arent many that age who can still say that. hmm lets see.. well there is always masterbation to help you out...

Staying a Virgin: losing virginity, lubricant, dick
Staying a Virgin: losing virginity, lubricant, dick, virgin

Staying a Virgin: question, counselling, emily
Staying a Virgin: question, counselling, emily, london

Staying a Virgin: soo confused, coran
Staying a Virgin: soo confused, coran

Staying a Virgin: still a virgin, skin to skin, going all the way
Staying a Virgin: still a virgin, skin to skin, going all the way, quite some time

Staying a Virgin: Help Me, sexual relief, hand jobs
sexual relief, hand jobs, water down: You ll still be a virgin if you masturbate or get a hand/blow job from your girlfriend. If you don t want to go that far, masturbating is okay. It s all about what you are comfortable with. I really do not know what else you can do besides maybe poor cold...

Staying a Virgin: How do I know if I lost IT?, hymen, wether
hymen, wether, virginity: Well if it wasn t that painful your hymen may have been ruptured previously due to exercise, sports etc..... So when you say you felt him go all the way in wether it hurt or not is not the most important the most important is a penis was inserted inside your...

Staying a Virgin: losing virginity, pain during sexual intercourse, losing virginity
pain during sexual intercourse, losing virginity, female vagina: well i don t know how old you guys are if she is younger she may not be sexually mature enough to withstand the pain and no not all girls experience pain during sexual intercourse it varies with the girl. one thing i can tell you is the female vagina is kinda...

Staying a Virgin: I have a low sex-drive, having sex, good guy
having sex, good guy: well just think about it if you tell yourself that you don t want to have sex with your boyfriend then you won t if you tried having sex with him and got used to it you will think back and wonder why you waited so long to try it out.So don t be so reserved...

Staying a Virgin: i'm i ready to have sex, virginity, rest of your life
virginity, rest of your life, 19 years: You should wait Why?....because I am a man as you know and i can tell you first hand that after a man has sex with a girl he loses most if not all the interest he has or has had in a girl.With you being a virgin to him its nothing more than having sex with...

Staying a Virgin: obout virginity lost, inter course, virginity
inter course, virginity, coitus: Hi Priya No you did not lose your virginity. First of all, if you lost your virginity you both would have engaged in coitus which has not occurred between you guys. Second of all, the burning was probably from his finger being inside of you. This could happen...

Staying a Virgin: oral sex, technically a virgin, personal beliefs
technically a virgin, personal beliefs, hymen: Hi Laura It depends on your beliefs. Many feel that you aren t technically a virgin but if you want to go by the very technical standard of your hymen still being intact, then sure you are still a virgin. It all depends on your personal beliefs on the subject....

Staying a Virgin: ouch!, sexual incounters, web site clinic
sexual incounters, web site clinic, mayo clinic: well i have no idea my practical sense would tell me to tell you to watch what kind and how tight your pants are and also try using a softer womens soap and if these symptoms persist please consult a doctor.Maybe a visit to the Mayo clinic or another web site...

Staying a Virgin: Penis Size, perfume scent, adult websites
perfume scent, adult websites, adult movies: To me it seems like you guys are in the habit of not having sex and when you get use to not doing something its not a priority any more.I would suggest you guys talk about sex and what satisfies you both and make scheduled times to have intercourse and have...

Staying a Virgin: why is there pressure?, males and females, sexual desire
males and females, sexual desire, good relationship: Well you will be surprised to know that the average age of people loosing their virginity is 14 years and nine months.If i were you i would not worry about what my boyfriend my friends or any body says about me being a virgin.Remeber this when your married...

Staying a Virgin: question, sexual feelings, thinking about sex
sexual feelings, thinking about sex, younger girls: No you wont, nor do I see any reason why you would be. Some people might take it differently than others but it really depends. Some males could care less if the girl is a virgin or not, so therefore it wouldn t affect them. Other guys may care but then they...

Staying a Virgin: question, real man, virginity
real man, virginity, grandpa: Well i understand if you don t want to tell him what happened with you grandpa but if you don t mind if i were you i would tell him everything you just told me and maybe then he will fully understand you stance against having sex and fully respect you from...

Staying a Virgin: is she really still a virgin or what???, riding a horse, vagina
riding a horse, vagina, candy: Your friend who stuck the candy stick up her you know where is still a virgin if she hasn t had sex with a boy. I d like you to tell her that sticking things like candy sticks up there is not a good idea. You should never put something in your vagina that...

Staying a Virgin: reshine my tarnished reputation, high school girls, little girls
high school girls, little girls, grandparents: First of all, you should not tell people you re not a virgin when you are. In my experience in high school, girls who have had sex, but aren t dating the guy they had sex with weren t cool. They were called sluts and whores behind their back. This was...

Staying a Virgin: Sex, deffinitions, google
deffinitions, google, giving head: Hello First of all, don t do that. It s not the right thing, and you should wait until you are ready plus you are only showing guys that you are a slut if you are willing to have sex this early in life just because they pressure you. It s not even for a somewhat...

Staying a Virgin: Staying a virgin and stuff about sex and periods., masturbating, 19 years
masturbating, 19 years, having sex: Well first things first i dont want to give a minor advice on masturbating so i guess i will assume your at least from 17-19 years old so if i were you i would probably explore detailed masturbating i mean using toys like dildos tingling cream etc... really...

Staying a Virgin: soo confused, lap area, sexual tension
lap area, sexual tension, long distance phone: Nothing is too complicated for me.I see in you a block you want people to look at you in a certain light ie... your public face the thingis you should not have a public face or a at home face or a whatever face, you should be you all the time.The only problem...

Staying a Virgin: still a virgin, passionate moments, head above the water
passionate moments, head above the water, proper precautions: Hello Well fortunately he is aware that you don t want to go further and would like to remain a virgin. That means that he will probably be careful as well and possibly remind you that you might not want to do this, which could be the thing that stops you...

Staying a Virgin: virginity, pretty woman, virginity
pretty woman, virginity, best time: You can tell him any time you like because any time is the best time to hear a pretty woman likes you and shes also a virgin trust me he will think its christmas.I would suggest to tell him when the mood is relaxed you know.try and be humorous about it don...

Staying a Virgin: Is waiting too long bad?, hello betty, course sex
hello betty, course sex, time don: Hello Betty First of all yes, of course sex can relieve stress but the benefits of having sex are minimal compared to the consequences. For example, sex relieves stress temporarily but not long term. Having a bunch of sex to permanently and consistently relieve...

Staying a Virgin: Article for school paper on pressures of virginity, copyright, rights
copyright, rights, use: Of course you may use the information. It is not copyrighted, except with rights to me, and I hereby grant you permission to use the information I provided (if someone asks you for proof that you may use this information, search for your question on the site,...

Staying a Virgin: my daughter lost her virginity tonight, virginity, chores
virginity, chores, sex: Here is the advice that always works: Remember that she is a teenager. She thinks that she is invulnerable. That is a part of her realizing her own strength that goes with adolescence. She wants to be treated like an adult, and would even take on certain tasks...

Staying a Virgin: i dont know if i want to keep it..., virgin, waiting untill marriage
virgin, waiting untill marriage: Hey Tarashawn, Tara Shawn(?) My honest opinion is this; wait. You have come so far! There are not that many girls out there who save their virginity for marriage any more but you did! so why not go all the way? Finish what you have started and stay a virgin...

Staying a Virgin: my daughter lost her virginity tonight, unprotected sex, best of luck
Staying a Virgin: my daughter lost her virginity tonight, unprotected sex, best of luck, teenager

Staying a Virgin: girl virginity, virgin hymen
virgin hymen: Hey INAM, Good question! A girl has something that is called a hymen. It is a layer of skin that covers a girls pussy (vagina). Almost always, there is a hole in it for fluids to get out during a girl s period. A doctor could look at a girl s vagina ans...

Staying a Virgin: hi, sex, mastirbation
sex, mastirbation, benefits: Hey fish?, To start out with, this is the wrong category. Your probably would have been better off with the masturbation category. But anyways, possible. Being sexually active can in fact make you loose weight. I am not sure about masturbating itself, but...

Staying a Virgin: Lost virginity, God, forgiveness
God, forgiveness, ending sex life: Hey Mucha, Yes, God will forgive you. One of the amazing things about God is that He will forgive any sin if you confess to it and ask for forgiveness. God is a wonderful and merciful being. One way you can stop this is by telling your girlfriend this (in...

Staying a Virgin: masterbation, skinny jeans, tight underwear
skinny jeans, tight underwear, wet dreams: Hey Anthony, There is always a chance a girl can still get pregnant. I recently have had a friend who had sex and got pregnant even though she was on birth control and her boyfriend was wearing a condom. Things can always happen. Foods with zinc: ...

Staying a Virgin: Potential trip with boyfriend., in-laws
in-laws: Hey Mag, I personal think that since you guys have gone so long without sex and have withheld a strong relationship, you could/should wait till marriage. But if your ok with having premarital sex, then I would just be careful. Maybe his parents trusted him...

Staying a Virgin: sex, Premature ejacualtion
Premature ejacualtion: Hey Eric, Masturbation actually. It helps a lot in preventing premature ejaculation. Hand jobs and the works will do it too. I am sorry, but I don t quite understand your first question. Feel free to ask again. Sorry I couldn t completely help, but I hope...

Staying a Virgin: sex, hymen, precome
hymen, precome, getting it in: I don t think that you came too early. I think it was just precome. And the reason you can t get in is because of her hymen. You can either try until it breaks (most couples do that), or reach in and try to stretch it open. If you have any more questions,...

Staying a Virgin: sex no pregnancy?, condom, avoiding pregnancy
condom, avoiding pregnancy, birth control: There are a few possibilities, such as: 1) Abstinence (odds of pregnancy 0) 2) Oral sex WITH NO VAGINAL CONTACT WITH NO VAGINAL CONTACT WITH ANY PART OF THE BODY FOR THE NEXT WEEK (odds of pregnancy 0) 3) Anal sex (odds of pregnancy about 1 in 5)...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity, hymen
hymen: Hey Eliana, The hymen is located pretty close to the opening of your vagina. As for your second question, I can not answer. your entire finger should be able to go in if its broken. Was there something from stopping it from going all the way in? Thank...

Staying a Virgin: virgin break, gaand, ladki
Staying a Virgin: virgin break, gaand, ladki, apni

Staying a Virgin: My girlfriend is, but I'm not..., girlfriend rachel, size shape
girlfriend rachel, size shape, tey: I am afraid that the only category that even has some questions that I can t answer, are those that ask for a girl s opinion. But really curved, that can actually be corrected. Try to get it hard before you go to sleep. then sleep on your stomach with it to...

Staying a Virgin: Im Confused :S, molester, meet
molester, meet, sex: No, no, a million times no. You have never met this guy, you have never seen this guy, you have never truly dated this guy, and, you re only 15. I get a lot of questions like that from people, though mostly not on the Internet. I tell them all no. One didn...

Staying a Virgin: SEX, hymen
hymen: Hey Khaled, There are some girls who do not bleed. After a girl s first time having sex, her vagina does not no longer look like a vagina. It always will look like a vagina. What you are probably tihnking of is her hymen. her hymen is a thin layer of skin...

Staying a Virgin: sex in general, marriage, cheating
marriage, cheating, sinning: Hey Emily, I would love to talk on AIM with you. My sn is allvirginexpert. Please contact me whenever. I will be mobile. It has been a few days and we didn t talk so I will answer this now so you get this before your birthday. You have to remember, HES MARRIED....

Staying a Virgin: should i tell this to her?, 13 years, good luck
13 years, good luck, melissa: Hello I feel that you should tell your wife this. You should not go into a marriage with secrets like this and if she is someone that you feel so strongly about marrying with then you should be comfortable enough to tell her everything about your life. She...

Staying a Virgin: virgin break, girls pussy, shape change
girls pussy, shape change, different shapes: Hey Sunny, I had a little trouble figuring out what you are asking, but I think that you are asking me these three questions. 1) How can a girl s vagina tell how many times they have had sex? 2) How does a girl s vagina shape change after sex 3) How many...

Staying a Virgin: Is there a way for me to be less horny?, high school freshman, meditation exercise
high school freshman, meditation exercise, yoga meditation: This is probably due to hormones and stress, both leading to each other. Remember, the more stress, the more hormones released, which in turn can increase stress levels, creating a cycle. Yoga, meditation, exercise, and if needed, medication, can stop this...

Staying a Virgin: Not sure what to do, Virginity, Happiness
Virginity, Happiness, Marriage: Hey Janelle, Do NOT wait until it comes up. In the heat of the moment you wont be able to tell him you don t want to go further because you will be enjoying it to much. Tell him as soon as possible. If he is truly considerate and respectful he won t touch...

Staying a Virgin: Finding True Love and Happiness, long term relationship, beauty queen
long term relationship, beauty queen, virginity: I have put a lot of thought into this. Stating facts, that s easy. Combining it with judgement, only a bit harder. But this type of this is harder, not beyond my reach, but harder. Here is my answer: I think that you are going to find a guy that s right for...

Staying a Virgin: Finding True Love and Happiness, sexual incompatibility, personal happiness
Staying a Virgin: Finding True Love and Happiness, sexual incompatibility, personal happiness, guilty pleasure

Staying a Virgin: hymen, mail response, thinking about sex
Staying a Virgin: hymen, mail response, thinking about sex, e mail

Staying a Virgin: is it right to marry a girl who have a sexual active past?, first love, god
Staying a Virgin: is it right to marry a girl who have a sexual active past?, first love, god, girls

Staying a Virgin: Is my girl looser now then she was?, loose vagina, tight vagina
loose vagina, tight vagina, number girl: Hey Chris, Seven is only a number. Girl s are always different and always have a different number of guys they have had sex with. Yes, she can become tighter and possibly even tighter than she was before. Her being lose is up you you and her. It...

Staying a Virgin: hymen, first time having sex, hymen
first time having sex, hymen, allexperts: Hey Ivy, It is possible that your hymen is broken. It can break from anything form horseback riding to gymnastics. If it is broken, your first time should not hurt, but that does not mean you should go out and have sex. You first time will still be special,...

Staying a Virgin: is my hymen broken?, allexperts, hymen
allexperts, hymen, female masturbation: Hey Elizabeth, It is possible that your hymen is broken. It can break from anything form horseback riding to gymnastics. If it is broken, your first time should not hurt, but that does not mean you should go out and have sex. If you wish to know more...

Staying a Virgin: Will i ever loose my virginity, question pool, first kiss
question pool, first kiss, romeo and juliet: Hey Sarah, I found you question in the question pool so this was not originally my question. I am sorry your answer as taken so long to get to you. Everyone is attractive in their own special way, always believe that. It is a good thing you do not want...

Staying a Virgin: Plz. reply, broken, hymen
broken, hymen, broken hymen: Your husband should be able to trust you when you say that you are a virgin. And whether your hymen is broken or intact depends on what type of masturbation you do and if you in some activity (such as a sport) broke it when you were younger. If you masturbate...

Staying a Virgin: plz answer, sexual intercourse, hymen
sexual intercourse, hymen, 9999999999999: Hey Katie, It is possible to have broken your hymen. If you bled when you thought your hymen broke, chances are it is broken. If it did not bleed, either is possible, it may have or may not have. If your are not sure whether it is broken, you could ask...

Staying a Virgin: is it right to marry a girl who have a sexual active past?, conservative family, vulnerable state
conservative family, vulnerable state, virginity: Hey Rohit, When a girl is put in a position like she was, it is very pressuring and difficult for them. They have the choice to either loose their new boyfriend or they can keep him. Chances are, she was in a vulnerable state and was easily swayed to have...

Staying a Virgin: about in sex relationship, hey joy, relationship question
hey joy, relationship question, sex relationship: Hey Joy, Yes. The meaning of having sex is having his penis, in your vagina. If he gets sperm in your vagina, there is a good chance you will become pregnant. If you have anal sex, which is him sticking his penis in your butt instead of your vagina, there...

Staying a Virgin: am i still a virgin?, hymen, thin layer
hymen, thin layer, boyfriends: Hey Rachel, You are still a virgin. The reason it hurt so much was because you have this thing called a hymen. A hymen is a thin layer of tissue partially covering your vagina. it is located about the head of his penis in. That is why it hurt. Since you...

Staying a Virgin: Am i still a virgin? Am i at risk of contracting anything?, sex organs, open wounds
sex organs, open wounds, sexual intercourse: Hey David, You sound like a great guy. I think you just made a bad choice and sinned. Don t worry to much, God will forgive you. Just pray and ask for forgiveness. As for your girlfriends and wife. Now a days guy are doing much worse things, for insistence,...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity, virginity, hymen
virginity, hymen, legal affairs: Hey Katherine, Unfortunately, no, you are not a virgin. Even though there was no thrusting, his penis was still inside you. Also, the pain that you felt was your hymen breaking. You not only lost your physical virginity, but you also lost your mental virginity...

Staying a Virgin: 21/F still a virgin from bklyn,NY, masturbation melissa, sexual urges
masturbation melissa, sexual urges, old boyfriend: Hi Sandra Well the problem is is that you aren t expelling these urges in anyway. As you know women can relieve some of these urges besides actually engaging in sex and losing their virginities. I don t think this is cause you are getting older but this is...

Staying a Virgin: 21 virgin and pregnant.. HELP!!, getting your period, pregnancy test
getting your period, pregnancy test, hand job: well as far as the pregnant thing goes you can easily get a pregnancy test and find that out also it is not wise to let your boyfriend ejaculate anywhere around your vagina i mean doctors only know so much and anything is possible.I would also recommend that...

Staying a Virgin: So it's been 5 months, and I know he wants to.., heat of the moment, 5 months
heat of the moment, 5 months, bf: Hi Mina, I think that it s important that you wait until your body and mind both say yes, yes, yes . It s important you don t do anything in the heat of the moment. Of course your body (and his) wants to have sex, because you re both aroused! I would advise...

Staying a Virgin: 21 virgin and pregnant.. HELP!!, pregnancy test, best bet
Staying a Virgin: 21 virgin and pregnant.. HELP!!, pregnancy test, best bet, ob gyn

Staying a Virgin: masterbating, different times
Staying a Virgin: masterbating, different times

Staying a Virgin: sex?, sexual intercourse, making love
Staying a Virgin: sex?, sexual intercourse, making love, heart and soul

Staying a Virgin: How to work through finding out my 15 yr old just lost her Virginity, natural inclination, dangerous road
Staying a Virgin: How to work through finding out my 15 yr old just lost her Virginity, natural inclination, dangerous road, traumatic experience

Staying a Virgin: THIS GURL, preganet, preggers
preganet, preggers, new boyfriend: Hi there, So, some one you know says that they are pregnant but didn t have sex...that is possible. But if the boyfriend (1st one) was dead for 3 months, and shes only been preggers for 1 month and 15 days, then it s impossible. She must have gotten pregnant...

Staying a Virgin: masterbating, orgasim, sweet heart
orgasim, sweet heart, stay in school: WEll sweet heart you are too young to even think about masterbating you are not physically mature enough to do these things so stop and be 9 years old i can not give you any kind of info on this i have daughter myslef and i think you should stay off the internet...

Staying a Virgin: pls tell me something, virginity, tho
virginity, tho, vagina: I d like to start by saying I m not a professional or an OB/GYN. I don t think it makes much of a difference at all. I think you may get a little tighter, but from my understanding, you re tight because your muscles are toned. There are different exercises...

Staying a Virgin: sex, real friends, virginity
real friends, virginity, footsteps: You should just be you. You should never do things just because your friends do. If they don t like you because you don t follow in their footsteps, then they are not real friends and are not worth your time. Do you want to stay a virgin? Many choose to...

Staying a Virgin: sex?, mixed signals, virginity
mixed signals, virginity, relationship: If he treats you so badly and you think things will change after you have sex, then I would not do it. How old are you? If you re still in high school and want to lose your virginity to someone special, you d probably want to wait until you graduate. Chances...

Staying a Virgin: still a virgin and approaching 40, kabosh, 40th birthday
kabosh, 40th birthday, obstacles: Hi Paul Well I can t really make this decision for you. I m not you and my opinions aren t yours but I feel that you need to work harder to get a girlfriend. Let me tell you this... you really have no real excuse to not have been in a relationship by this...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity, riding a horse, pelvic exam
riding a horse, pelvic exam, having sex for the first time: I m sure there is a difference and your gynecologist can tell he difference. One reason he/she most likely thought that is the absence of the membrane that breaks while you re having sex for the first time. Unfortunately, this membrane can be broking by...

Staying a Virgin: virginity, dilema, moths
dilema, moths, virginity: You can t change the fact that she s not a virgin. Therefore, the only thing you really can do is learn to accept it. You may be feeling bad about this, but imagine how she feels knowing how much this is affecting your relationship. Although she s not a...

Staying a Virgin: How to work through finding out my 15 yr old just lost her Virginity, im not sure what I should do, 15 yr old girls, consiquences
15 yr old girls, consiquences, ugly war: Hi Joyce, Your daugher thinks that she is ready for sex. You can ask her not to do it again, tell her about the consiquences, or that her and her bf will probably not be together through the end of highschool, but none of that will probably change her mind!...

Staying a Virgin: How to work through finding out my 15 yr old just lost her Virginity, 15 yr old girls, ugly war
15 yr old girls, ugly war, stepdad: I hate to say it, but if teens want to have sex, they ll find a way. Locking in her room SOUNDS like a good idea, but it ll just make her rebel more. She could just be telling a tall tale . Most girls are afraid on their first time and probably wouldn...

Staying a Virgin: why..., irregular periods, hormone imbalance
irregular periods, hormone imbalance, birth control: It s just regular hormones. They ll calm down in a few years. If you think it s a bit excessive, you can possibly talk to your doctor. You could have a hormone imbalance that can be corrected with birth control. Don t worry, you don t have to have sex...

Staying a Virgin: ??????, kissin, crissy
kissin, crissy, virginity: Hello First of all if you don t feel that you should lose it at 16 then don t. You have plenty of time. I m not sure what you mean by i wanna do it while I still can..... . you are able to now and will be able to for many years after that. It s not bad if...

Staying a Virgin: 18 year old virgin, long distance relationship, losing your virginity
long distance relationship, losing your virginity, first time sex: It s completely normal to have doubts and be afraid of losing your virginity. I d just like to let you know that first-time sex does hurt some girls, but many it doesn t. Your lack of experience means nothing. God gave us the intuition to know what to...

Staying a Virgin: My cousin and Me, sexual contact, virginity
sexual contact, virginity, family member: Hi Autumn, I understand that this is a hard decision for you honey! I m glad that you are seeking help. You need to be firm, and not have any sexual contact with your cousin. Infact, the way he has been acting, I would advise that you not be alone with...

Staying a Virgin: 18 year old virgin, guilt and shame, gift from god
Staying a Virgin: 18 year old virgin, guilt and shame, gift from god, cloths

Staying a Virgin: Will I be wanted?, god cant, virgin
Staying a Virgin: Will I be wanted?, god cant, virgin, love

Staying a Virgin: Does Nauseau = pregnancy?, queasiness, hymen
queasiness, hymen, hookup: Hello First of all your hymen has nothing to do with getting pregnant. If the fluid got inside of you then yes, it s possible. The chances are very low because your vagina is very acidic and without it already being inside the chances are very low. I wouldn...

Staying a Virgin: Personal relationships, sex before marriage, personal relationships
sex before marriage, personal relationships, baby mother: First I d just like to say that all Christians are different. There are MANY people who have had sex before marriage... some even go to church three times a week (Sunday morning, Sunday night, and Wednesday night). Christians can make mistakes, too. Not...

Staying a Virgin: Sex, having sex, threesome
having sex, threesome, melissa: Hi Leah First of all tell them that you don t feel comfortable and want to wait before having sex. Just let them know, and also just so you know, you shouldn t be with someone who puts restrictions on you like that. A person who truly cares about you would...

Staying a Virgin: sex, using a condom, sex the first time
using a condom, sex the first time, intamacy: Hi Bea, It s okay honey, relax! Your first time may be a little scary, but just go with the flow! You won t get stuck when he cums, and unless your on birth control, you should be using a condom. Make sure that you use some sort of protection or even get...

Staying a Virgin: I think I'm ready but I'm not sure....., chlamydia, condom
chlamydia, condom, best friends: If you re safe, then you should be okay. Would it be worth it to you if you got pregnant at such a young age? You may not be able to do what you plan to do with your life. College may be out of the question, and your relationship with him my crumble. STD...

Staying a Virgin: am i a virgin or not ???, female anatomy, sexual intercourse
female anatomy, sexual intercourse, hymen: Hello First of all your boyfriend does not know anything about female anatomy. Inserting a finger into a woman s vagina does not show if you are a virgin or not. He would not be able to feel your hymen that way. It would actual take physical intercourse....

Staying a Virgin: virginity, relationship experience, virginity
relationship experience, virginity, rejection: Why is that? Are you afraid of rejection? Rejection happens to everybody, and I can guarantee it s not the end of the world if a girl doesn t want to go on a date. Just keep your expectations low (expect rejection), ask her out, and if she says no, it ll...

Staying a Virgin: Will I be wanted?, stay at home mom, faith in god
stay at home mom, faith in god, strong faith: Hi Andie I agree with you... if you have certain things you look for in a man and want then you need to get out of this relationship. If a man is 25 and has no career and no solid goals and a plan and motivation to get to those goals then he s never going...

Staying a Virgin: Afraid of being lonely forever, sexual person, sexual acts
sexual person, sexual acts, attractive girl: Hi Amanda, It s a smart choice to wait until marriage to have sex. Yes, it can be hard at times, but in the end it has good benifits! You just need to make it clear that you want to wait until marriage to have sex, and that you don t want to risk getting...

Staying a Virgin: why cant i lose my virginity?, guy friends, virginity
guy friends, virginity, virgin: It is hard to know if the guy is the right guy but that s apart of life. It is up to you whether you want to take the chance of someone looking at you differently. Don t go gossiping and telling people about your business. That might also help out the situation...

Staying a Virgin: why cant i lose my virginity?, innate desire, asian cultures
Staying a Virgin: why cant i lose my virginity?, innate desire, asian cultures, ancient cultures

Staying a Virgin: how will he react? and how can i avoid the teasing?, steady relationship, premarital sex
steady relationship, premarital sex, religious reasons: If he leaves you because you don t want to have sex until you re married, then he s not the guy for you. That s a clue that he was only with you FOR sex and no other reason. Let them tease. At least your not a slut, right? They re probably just jealous...

Staying a Virgin: strange?, finding a friend, real friends
finding a friend, real friends, old girl: Hi honey, First of all, your mother is right about finding a friend, but she should be encouraging you, not saying you ll end up alone! You just need to be yourself when you re with a guy! Yes, it can be hard, but just talk about basic stuff. Maybe start...

Staying a Virgin: concerned about doin it, honey don, emotional side
honey don, emotional side, going all the way: Hi Ricky, I know this is hard for you, especially when your gf is the one who wants to have sex with you. Yes it can be tempting, but as you said many things can go wrong! Besides catching STD s, the possibility of her getting pregnant, and the condom...

Staying a Virgin: dating a non-virgin, puppy love, conservative family
puppy love, conservative family, physical attraction: Hi, I know it s hard! You want your first time with her to be special and be her first, but unfortunately things don t always work out that way. Shes been around a litte more than you, but you need to focus on the fact that you re together now! Remember...

Staying a Virgin: dating a non-virgin, conservative family, virginity
conservative family, virginity, filipinos: Hello I understand your concerns but you have to keep in mind that at your age it s very rare to even meet a girl who is a virgin anymore. That s just the reality of the situation. You have to take into account that to find an ideal mate who you will love...

Staying a Virgin: im preg, true relation, eventuality
Staying a Virgin: im preg, true relation, eventuality, brother

Staying a Virgin: Need Advice, mother
Staying a Virgin: Need Advice, mother

Staying a Virgin: im preg, abortion, melissa
abortion, melissa, rape: Hello The first thing to do is figure out if this was rape or not. If this was then you need to report this to the police immediately. After this the decision is up to you. There are options for you like adoption, abortion, and keeping the baby. I can t tell...

Staying a Virgin: kdhgkl, aids hiv, sorry amy
aids hiv, sorry amy, hiv: Hi Daniel, I m not sure what the question is, but I m sorry that you do have AIDs/HIV. Do you know when you contracted it? Who have you slept with lately? Even though its hard, you need to contact them so they don t spread it to other! Again, I m sorry....

Staying a Virgin: Need Advice, losing your virginity, sex stage
losing your virginity, sex stage, course thanks: The only way you can lose your virginity is by having sex. Kissing is fine. Also, I d just like to say that your friend that had twins is not a bad influence on you just because she had babies. She is actually an example of why you should be careful (use...

Staying a Virgin: Remaining a virgin-advice please, random stranger, dublin ireland
random stranger, dublin ireland, spiritual person: Hi, I m glad that you have been able to wait so long. It takes alot of control to do so, and for that I m proud of you. You don t need to justify yourself to anyone. Guys don t always seem to understand because they aren t the ones to get pregnant, and...

Staying a Virgin: sex, shock
shock: Hi Beth, Wow, that must have been a shock for you! Have you had sex before (with him)? Either way you need to let him know that you didn t like him doing that to you while you re asleep. Yes, you do need to talk to him about this, even though it might be...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity until marriage., morals and values, sophomore
Staying a Virgin: Virginity until marriage., morals and values, sophomore, pamela

Staying a Virgin: Oral Sex, Virginity, and Homosexuality, time melissa, sexual intercourse
time melissa, sexual intercourse, sexual experimentation: Hi David Well it depends how young you are. First and foremost, as long as you haven t had sexual intercourse then you are still a virgin. Technically, oral sex doesn t count as actual sex so you are still a virgin. Also if you are below the age of 12 then...

Staying a Virgin: Pressure, intelligent guy, sex 14
intelligent guy, sex 14, lucy: Hi Lucy First and foremost if you don t want to have sex then don t have sex. 14 is a pretty young age to make that sort of commitment to someone, and I m sure that you know that if someone truly loves you then they will be fine with your decision about waiting...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity until marriage., losing your virginity, purity ring
losing your virginity, purity ring, emotional level: You should never do anything that you don t feel comfterable doing. So what if people make fun of you, atleast you are sticking up for what you believe in. And they are the ones that are cometing a sin. And you should find a boyfriend that believes in the...

Staying a Virgin: Clueless here!!, sexual intercourse, mechanical object
sexual intercourse, mechanical object, inconvinience: Hello As I said before, masturbation will not cause you to lose your virginity at all. There are different techniques such as using your fingers, a mechanical object of some kind, or rubbing with an object such as a towel or a pillow. Try doing these things...

Staying a Virgin: Clueless here!!, freind
Staying a Virgin: Clueless here!!, freind

Staying a Virgin: Heatlh!, vagina, melissa
vagina, melissa, thumb: Hello I m not a doctor so I can t help you with this. This is the wrong category to ask these types of questions. You will want to take your daughter to a hospital to see what the problem is. I don t know if this has anything to do with her sexual parts,...

Staying a Virgin: Im worried!, laughing stock, sexual relations
laughing stock, sexual relations, virginity: Hello I think you are too paranoid about this. I feel that once you find a girl who cares about you, and just not only about having sex, that she will not tell people about this. It s really nobody s business and unless you end up having sex with a slut then...

Staying a Virgin: pressure, right moment, rest of your life
Staying a Virgin: pressure, right moment, rest of your life, wonderful thing

Staying a Virgin: pressure, things take time, wasting my time
things take time, wasting my time, wasting your time: Hello First of all there should be no pressure in having sex. Not only will you regret it afterward but it s something you cannot fix and take back after awhile. You are not wasting your time by waiting for someone you love. You are 18 and still very young...

Staying a Virgin: 19 yr old virgin, virgin female, safe bet
virgin female, safe bet, decent guy: Hey, I think the sooner the better. No one can read minds, but telling a guy this at the start could give you an advantage at figuring him out. Because you are a virgin, you can find yourself a truly worthy and above decent guy. Maybe not at your age, but...

Staying a Virgin: 19 yr old virgin
Staying a Virgin: 19 yr old virgin

Staying a Virgin: wanting to loose it ??, peer pressure, having sex
Staying a Virgin: wanting to loose it ??, peer pressure, having sex, masturbation

Staying a Virgin: This guy., waiting, abstinance
waiting, abstinance, slutty side: If you start shaving down there, as you put it, it will only grow longer and more rugged, so I suggest you don t. Don t worry about it, you don t need to shave it. About the guy, having sex with someone who does drugs isn t exactly good for you. This slutty...

Staying a Virgin: i need 2 kno, attractive person, younger girls
attractive person, younger girls, older guys: Hey Lyanna, It sounds like you are having some doubt with this guy. Maybe you should think about breaking up? You sound like you are a very attractive person if many guys want to have sex with you, so I think I know how to help you. Not in all cases,...

Staying a Virgin: Resentful Virgin, marriage god, biblical beliefs
marriage god, biblical beliefs, moving to london: Hey Kim, God will not hate you for your choice. He knows how the world has changed since Biblical times. I think you should trust in God and pray for the best. He will be understanding. If you wish to give away your virginity, be careful. I do recommended...

Staying a Virgin: Is she really a virgin?, question thanks, hymen
question thanks, hymen, time thing: Hey Stephen, This is a VERY hard question to answer. The only thing you can do is talk about it. Talk to her about your worries of hings happening, but be sure to tell her that you have faith and trust in her. Tell her about how you are being faithful and...

Staying a Virgin: am i too small??, hymen, virgina
hymen, virgina, old girl: Hey Hannah, There is one answer to all of your questions, your hymen. Your hymen is a small tissue wall barely inside your vagina. In order to have sex, your hymen must be broken. In most cases, it breaks from having sex, but it is possible that yours will...

Staying a Virgin: am I too tight?, hymen, opening it up
hymen, opening it up, opening up: Work with this guy. When he tries, if he feels no resistance, then you are fine, but if he feels too much resistance, tell him to try to open it up a little. If you feel a sharp pain like ripping and stretching of skin a bit inside in that area, then you will...

Staying a Virgin: wanting to loose it ??, peer pressure, friends
peer pressure, friends, pressure: This is a very good example of peer pressure. Everyone around you wants you to do something, and you don t necessarily want to. Here s what I m telling you to do: wait. Thirteen-year-olds having sex is such an obscene thought. Wait until you really want to,...

Staying a Virgin: Just wondering......., sexual intercourse, two fingers
sexual intercourse, two fingers, hymen: Hey Ray, From what you have told me, you are a virgin still. Your friends are right, a boy must have his penis in your vagina. To see if your hymen is broken, you have to be able to see it. Your vagina may just be so tight that you can not get your finger...

Staying a Virgin: what to do??, doing sex, masters degree
doing sex, masters degree, boundries: Hey Sania, The things I am going to tell you may sound very silly or dumb, but they should work. The only reason I am resorting to using this method is because you already told him you do not want it and can not resist. Before you go out to see him,...

Staying a Virgin: desperate, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hey Amanda, Well, first thing you need to do is have a best friend that s a girl, not a guy. Girl/guy friendships are cute, they re so New Millenium and make us feel very hip and with it, but almost all eventually turn sexual or burn out. Every one says...

Staying a Virgin: what am i, medical definition, virginity
Staying a Virgin: what am i, medical definition, virginity

Staying a Virgin: Should i lose my virginity?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Stephanie, Your situation sounds wonderful. Yes, you should wait. You should always wait to have sex until you are in a life long committed relationship (marriage). My question is to you - why would you have sex with a boy friend? What are your intentions?...

Staying a Virgin: I just need some advice, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: hi alex, i m joel. don t have sex with this guy. way too much stuff going on. for starters, why do you think he s lying to you when he tells you he s a virgin? most likely he is using you. most guys under 30 view women as sex objects. he ll most likely...

Staying a Virgin: penis enters the vagina Virginity is lost, HOW CAN DEVELOP VAGINA VIRGINITY AFTER ONCE LOST !!!
Anatomically, or what happens inside when the vagina is penetrated with a penis is that a thin membrane inside a young woman s vaginal canal called the hymen breaks away, and sometimes a small amount of bleeding can be experienced. If the penis only entered...

Staying a Virgin: Remaining a virgin, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hey Brett, Well that s fantastic, you sound like you have a lot going for you already. You re tall and dark, girls love that. Slim is just fine, better to be a little under weight than a little over. So cheer up, we have a lot to work with. Now we re...

Staying a Virgin: Virgin?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: You ve got to be kidding. You know, I took a huge bite of a hamburger at McDonalds the other day, does that mean I didn t eat it? Please. Come on, Brittany , or what ever your name is, stop hoaxing. This site is for serious help. Not pre-teen pranks....

Staying a Virgin: Virginity, losing my virginity, age matters
losing my virginity, age matters, zero pressure: hey Jasmin, Well, my reasons for why you shouldnt do it is because, you are only 13 not that age matters, but maybe you should wait a little while until you have NO doubts whatso ever. Why i would say yes is because, you might not find another moment...

Staying a Virgin: viginity, virgin girl, virginity
virgin girl, virginity, 8 years: hi Yes there is a BIG difference, because the girl who was raped it wasnt her decision to loose her virginity she was forced to do it. And the other one it is her choice to have sex. There are no signs of a virgin girl, you would need to find that out...

Staying a Virgin: Am i a virgin?, virginity, jerk
virginity, jerk, loser: You are still a virgin. You only lose your virginity when a penis enters your vagina. Also, if you are still worried about it, in the future when you think you have met your future husband, you can tell him what happened. I m sure that he will understand...

Staying a Virgin: what should i do????, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: You re welcome, Shameka. I understand your feelings, but the truth is, you already have been married. Sex is marriage. That s why God says don t do it unless it s with some one you ll be with for life. So yeah, you ve already been married and divorced....

Staying a Virgin: what am i
You have asked me two questions--what are you?, and do I think you are still a virgin? To answer the first question, I think you are a naive girl of 18 who needs to stop and think about her actions. First--your concerns about virginity. Would you prefer...

Staying a Virgin: What to do?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Is it Wil or Randall? Either way, don t worry about it, buddy. Your feelings and urges are completely normal. I have to admit, you don t sound or write like any 13 year old boy I ve ever met, more like an adult. Never heard a 13 year old use words like...

Staying a Virgin: 19 year female VIRGIN!, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Crystal, Congratulations on making it to 19 with your v card intact! Being obsessed with sex is perfectly normal, we all are, baby. But that s no reason to just fling your virginity at the first guy that walks by. In large part because a guy worth really...

Staying a Virgin: I don't want to be a virgin, dancing lessons, communication problems
dancing lessons, communication problems, good job: Hello Burbo, I m happy if I ve reassured you that a man in your life is usually destiny. To make it happen isn t usually the best thing as one of you may later realize the relationship was forced and not really for the right reason. I once heard that...

Staying a Virgin: Kids?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: I don t know any married couples who don t have sex, but plenty who don t have kids, because they use birth control. Not to say there isn t any, but I just can t see too many people getting married just for companionship and nothing else. Hence my suggestion...

Staying a Virgin: can you lose your virginity this way?, virginity, donut
virginity, donut, obsession: Hi Chris, No you cannot lose your virginity this way, you will still be a virgin even if you give or receive oral sex. Virginity is only lost when you have penetrative sex. It is very normal for you to want to do this, and as you have no experience...

Staying a Virgin: Marriage vs. Sex at 19, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hey Stephanie, Congratulations on keeping your virginity until 19! You are one incredible woman. Your boy friend is the luckiest guy on the planet. All the feelings you mentioned are completely normal. Every one is curious and excited about sex. People...

Staying a Virgin: i need help, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Marie, You are soooo good for not putting it out for him. That says a HUGE amount about your self respect. Don t give in, you are absolutely doing the right thing. Your boy friend is the luckiest guy in the world having a nice virgin for a girl, and...

Staying a Virgin: nvr had sex, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Jane, Man, congratulations on holding on to your virginity! You are a rock! And my hero. It s not possible to get pregnant with out engaging in some sort of sexual activity. Do your self a favor, get a pregnancy test and put your mind at ease. Only...

Staying a Virgin: Question, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hello Farrukh, This is out side of my expertise, which is to help people stay virgins until marriage. How ever, since you, yes, women have desires for sex. Their desire depends on their age and fertility. From age 15-30, their desire is at it s peak,...

Staying a Virgin: question, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Rosio, Your cousin is evil, stay away from her. She cares nothing about any one but her self. That said, why don t you marry the guy you love, the one you used to be with? What s stopping you? Call him up, e-mail him if it s easier, and tell him you...

Staying a Virgin: Resisting Temptation, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hello Katie, Well, you certainly sound more mature than the average 17 year old. And I have the deepest respect that you ve made it this far as a virgin. Every thing so far says you are a remarkable and exceptional woman. Your boy friend is the luckiest...

Staying a Virgin: virgin, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hello Yteria, You question is missing some thing, doesn t quite make sense. Did you mean Why are they ashamed ? or Should they be ashamed ? If so, they shouldn t be ashamed of being a virgin. It s a thing to be pleased about, but our society is ruled...

Staying a Virgin: virgin, morality, reputation
morality, reputation, virgin: I would imagine that this would be the case...that perhaps they are wishing that they had remained virginal. If a person has been sexually permissive, and then tries to hide that behavior, it is very likely that they are not proud of it...especially if they...

Staying a Virgin: virginity, losing virginity, menstruation cycle
losing virginity, menstruation cycle, yaz: Dear Yaz, Here are the answers to your four questions: 1. Yes 2. No 3. You can t tell...only a doctor can be exact. 4. Not that YOU could determine. I have a few for you: 1. Is virginity very important to you? 2. Why? 3. Why Not? 4....

Staying a Virgin: virginity, losing virginity, girls vagina
losing virginity, girls vagina, menstruation cycle: hey yaz, No, fingering can not cause a woman to loose her virginity. No, you cannot tell by looking at a girls vagina to see if she is a virgin or not, and no signs as well. I dont think a vagina looks different when the menstrual cycle is on but i do...

Staying a Virgin: What do I do now?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Christa, You posted in the wrong place, I m here to help people hold on to their virginity until they get a life long commitment. Obviously it s too late for that now, and your dilemma is exactly the reason why you shouldn t have sex out side of marriage....

Staying a Virgin: Should I...?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Kelly, Yeah, you re right, it sounds bad. You re headed for the cliff, and once you go over, there s no coming back. Good for you for hanging on to your virginity. No, it s not bad to want sex. Sex is good, it s whole some, it makes people happy and...

Staying a Virgin: 25 and still virgin, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hello Steve, Well, I m not sure I m going to be able to help you. Our philosophies on sex are very different. I m firmly for not having sex unless you re married or in a committed life long relationship. Sex based solely on ones concept of love doesn...

Staying a Virgin: He just confuses me, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Anna, Wow, congratulations on making it to 21 as a virgin! Man, we should have a party for you, that is incredible! And is your boy friend the luckiest guy on the planet or what? Don t change your principles, you are totally right to wait for a life...

Staying a Virgin: Help, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hello Amanda, Well, this is exactly the reason why you shouldn t mess around with sex out side of marriage / life long commitment. So sad, I have to ask, was the fun worth all this anxiety and drama? That said, you probably aren t pregnant, but yes,...

Staying a Virgin: help, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Siso, This is out of my expertise. But since you asked, Yes, it s possible to be pregnant having done what you ve done. I hate to tell you this, but you re no longer a virgin. I mean, we re splitting hairs here on the definition. But taking your clothes...

Staying a Virgin: im scared, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Bella, Why wait until your 19? What makes that the magic number? Yeah, it will hurt, probably a lot, at your age. The older you get, the less losing your virginity will hurt, until you are mature enough to handle sex, and then it will actually feel...

Staying a Virgin: pain/ bleeding of virginity loss, couple spots, medical risks
couple spots, medical risks, preferance: Hello Matt, I am happy that you are taking full responsibility so your girlfriend does not get pregnant. Keep in mind that there are medical risks when using birth control medications--just so you know that (you can read them in the paper that comes with...

Staying a Virgin: Question, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hey Laura! You are a GODDESS! A virgin at your age, and by choice? Waiting until marriage, resisting pressure, standing firm? Absolutely, positively incredible. The guy who gets you is going to be the luckiest fella on the planet. A virgin these days is...

Staying a Virgin: RE:, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Anna, Wondering what culture your in that physically prohibits you from marrying? Where do you live? I know in mine - modern Western civilization (I live in the U.S.A.), people try to convince you to get a college degree before marrying. But it s...

Staying a Virgin: story of my life, own worst enemy, one of my best friends
own worst enemy, one of my best friends, meaningful relationship: Hello Arnell, It s refreshing to meet you--you have so many attributes that are missing with a large population of teens/young adults today. While you lack experience in dating and admittedly a certain cool affect in front of young women, if you are...

Staying a Virgin: verginity, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hello Akash, This question is out of my area of expertise. Please consult a doctor. How ever, since you asked, it s highly likely that she been penetrated before. Although it is possible she hasn t had sex. There is no way to tell 100%. Have you asked...

Staying a Virgin: wife selection, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: I ve heard of such movements, although I can t think of any off hand. I believe most, if not all, are based in some religion, such as the Purity movement. The parents and teens make pledges, rings are worn, that sort of thing. Unfortunately it doesn t really...

Staying a Virgin: wife selection, high expectation, tight vagina
high expectation, tight vagina, sexual intercourse: Hello Tesh, You sound like a sincere and thoughtful man--someone who recognizes the value of being discriminate about sexuality and his desire to save it for a life-long partner. When you do decide to have intercourse, what will happen is that your ultimate...

Staying a Virgin: Is it wrong?, first girlfriend, bad apples
first girlfriend, bad apples, empty shell: Hi Max, I m really sorry to hear how hurt you have been. Some people can be really very cruel. Most people will get hurt like this in their lifetime. Unfortunately it is the way relationships work. But as with all things. We have to go through the...

Staying a Virgin: what should i do, self gratification, sexual feelings
self gratification, sexual feelings, sexual relationship: Sean, It s called self-control. Perhaps it needs to be you who sets the stage to be abstinant, and refrain from long periods of necking right now. You have a lot of years ahead of you instead of becoming sexually involved with your girlfriend at 16. ...

Staying a Virgin: how do i?, sexual diseases, sorry mom
sexual diseases, sorry mom, carefree time: Michele, I am so proud of you. You sought advice and you are listening. Believe me, you will be so happy and proud of yourself in the future when you know you have decided not to be a follower. Hold on to your values. YOU will be a winner and have...

Staying a Virgin: What should i do?, help take care, way of the world
help take care, way of the world, unfortunatly: Hi Ann, I m so sorry it has taken me so long to answer your question. The holidays have been very busy!! I m also sorry that your boyfriend has put you in this kind of position. I cannot tell you how many questions i recieve on this subject. Unfortunatly...

Staying a Virgin: i cant tell if she wants sex, long distance relationship, old boyfriend
long distance relationship, old boyfriend, going all the way: Hey Max, First thing is first. The only reason I mention this is because you just turned 18. In the US in most states it is illegal to have sex with anyone under the age of 18. It does sound like she wants sex. Also, Having sex with out a condom is very...

Staying a Virgin: havent really enjoyed it., privet, hymen
privet, hymen, doggy style: Hey Katie, It is natural for there to be some pain. The duration of the pain can differ, but if it still hurts now, it would be best to see a doctor. As for positions, I am a summing you are both over 18, you are still new to it all, and because you...

Staying a Virgin: Intercourse, pregnancy tests, hve
pregnancy tests, hve, virginity: Hey Kanwal, Yes, you have lost your virginity. Because he penetrated you and had his penis in your vagina, that means you lost your virginity. It is possible for you to get pregnant. If he ejaculated in or around your vagina, it is very possible that...

Staying a Virgin: Maturbating, female masturbation, sexual pleasures
female masturbation, sexual pleasures, allexperts: Hey Connie, You are at an age where your hormones can go crazy. Because you are at this age, you want to experiment and have sexual pleasures. When you masturbate, it is natural to fantasize, it is actually very common. I am sorry I did not have a detailed...

Staying a Virgin: Oral sex, great god, physical appearance
great god, physical appearance, christian girl: Hey Ashley, Forgive and forget. God is a great god and forgives us all for our sin and forgets about it. Like you said, it is extremely rare to find a person of either sex to have is a virgin at your age. You are very lucky to have found this one, God has...

Staying a Virgin: sex, giving a blow job, manual sex
giving a blow job, manual sex, virginity: Hey Brenda, Yes, it is considered having sex. What you are talking about is oral and manual sex. Let me repeat, oral SEX and manual SEX. Some people say that eh only way to loose your virginity is by having penetrating sex, so some people only consider...

Staying a Virgin: virginity, great relationship, hey john
great relationship, hey john, firsts: Hey John. 1) It can be painful, but not much if it is. The only reason it would be painful is because the muscle has not been used very much. If you have masturbated before, I can almost guarantee there will be no pain, unless something else is wrong,...

Staying a Virgin: boyfriend/virginity, makeout, grade 9
makeout, grade 9, virginity: Hey Jessica, There is no way for me to tell you if you will be set and on your way to getting closer to marriage after 2 years. I can however tell you that there is a good number of people who get married after 2 years, some people take longer, some quicker....

Staying a Virgin: confused..., bf, right reasons
bf, right reasons: Hi Claire, As you have sent me this question it is quite obvious that you are not ready to have sex. If you have to think about it then i suggest you wait until it is a natural thought for you. You shouldn t have to have sex with this boy to keep him...

Staying a Virgin: Drunk, passed out, now I'm bleeding?, blood on the sheets, heavy flow
blood on the sheets, heavy flow, going to the doctor: Hey Janice, Because you were drunk, it is very possible that you had sex and did not remember. The only way to find this out is by going to the doctor and getting inspected. They will be able to tell you. As for the blood flow: If you are not experiencing...

Staying a Virgin: experience, girl girl girl, inner thighs
girl girl girl, inner thighs, passionate lover: Hey Ana, Yes, defiantly ignore them. Everyone is different and special in their own ways. You just happen to be a late bloomer and do things a little differently than some people. It is not weird and you are not a loser. You will find a guy who is just...

Staying a Virgin: Faith/Sex/Relationships - it's all a big mess, long term relationships, sexual creature
long term relationships, sexual creature, christian lifestyle: Hi Kat, Although this message is very far out of my experience (as i am not a Christian myself) i just wanted to try and help as best i can. Temptation is a very big issue for every person on this planet whether they are religious or not. Unfortunately...

Staying a Virgin: Drunk, passed out, now I'm bleeding?, rape kit, lots of girls
Staying a Virgin: Drunk, passed out, now I'm bleeding?, rape kit, lots of girls, hymens

Staying a Virgin: fingering my gf, cave man, getting a job
Staying a Virgin: fingering my gf, cave man, getting a job

Staying a Virgin: fingering my gf, hey matthew, hymen
hey matthew, hymen, girl friend: Hey Matthew, This is a natural process, the way that you do it is part of what makes it special. She should enjoy it if she enjoys kissing and making out. Also, there should be no pain for her unless you stick your fingers in far, any more that 1-2 inches...

Staying a Virgin: love, loving relationship, having sex
loving relationship, having sex, whole life: Hi Victoria, Alot of people have this same problem. The problem is not with you but with the men you chose. Unfortunately, sex is very important to alot of men. Some regard it as more important then a loving relationship. The trick to finding a...

Staying a Virgin: I'm Still A Virgin Right?, hymen, virginity
hymen, virginity, vagina: Hey Jessica, Yes, you are still a virgin. His penis must enter your vagina for you to loose your virginity. Just a little tip: The actual act of having sex is having his penis inside your vagina, not him breaking your hymen. It is possible for him to...

Staying a Virgin: Pain During Sex, pain during sex, hymen
pain during sex, hymen, closeness: Hey Shel, It might be that your hymen was not completely broken when you first had sex. You might want to try and have your boyfriend finger you a lot and just feel around as much as he can. He should probably do this a little rough in order to break it....

Staying a Virgin: Staying a virgin, sex, heartbreak
sex, heartbreak, condom: Hi Molly I have to say, (and i apologize for sounding like your mother) 13 is an extremely young age to be having sex, add to that your past sexual attack and that is not a combination for success. In order to protect yourself from any heartbreak in...

Staying a Virgin: sex, half an hour, having sex
half an hour, having sex, vagina: Hey Mike, It usually depends on the guy in the relationship. When guys have sex, most can only last at most 10 minutes before they ejaculate, women can last much longer, up to about an hour tops. To have sex, a boy must have his penis inside a girl s vagina....

Staying a Virgin: how to have sex, steady rhythm, poor men
steady rhythm, poor men, sex etc: Hi Sonia, Well the first thing i have to ask is do you want to have sex with your boyfriend? Because if not, you should not let him push you into doing something you don t want to do. Second of all, i would also suggest that you tell your boyfriend the...

Staying a Virgin: i not squriting, female masturbation, squirt
female masturbation, squirt, organism: Hey Samantha, There is a lot more to female masturbation than you probably realize. I can help you with this, but there are people on Allexperts.com who can help you even more. http://www.allexperts.com/el/Female-Masturbation/ that is the link...

Staying a Virgin: am i still a virgin, sex before marriage, virginity
sex before marriage, virginity, girlfriend: Hey Jake, You could have. As long as you did not feel a strong connection with what happened, and do not let it happen again, that special feeling that you are talking about will still be there. Now if you are talking about God s desire for you to not have...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity, talking about sex, strong feeling
talking about sex, strong feeling, virginity: Hey Yvonne, To be honest. Not completely. My girlfriend does not want to have sex at all, but I have been tempted in may other similar ways. I can still help you with temptations of sex in collage though, my advice will still be accurate. Thank you...

Staying a Virgin: about virgin, vaginal canal, hymen
vaginal canal, hymen, virginity: Hey Thulasi, The phrase breaking your hymen is actually not really true. You are not breaking your hymen you are tearing it. So the reason it bleeds is because you are basically cutting it, similar to getting a cut. It breaks the skin and blood comes...

Staying a Virgin: virgin, nappies, how to have sex for the first time
nappies, how to have sex for the first time, simple answer: Hello again! For the first time it will feel a bit strange as you haven t experienced that feeling before. It may hurt and you may bleed but please don t let this scare you as it is a very brief pain that will go away very quickly. Don t pay any...

Staying a Virgin: How can I make him wait?, friend material, sexual intercourse
friend material, sexual intercourse, model status: Hey Emily, I know that you have already tried this, but talk to him again. The last time you talked about it I m sure that he was stubborn and not willing to hear you out. This time, sit him down, tell him that it would really mean a lot to you if you waited....

Staying a Virgin: eat out, best time, girlfriend
best time, girlfriend, breasts: Hey Samantha, EVERYONE has those exact urges. They do not mean that you have to go out and have sex, all it really means is that your physical body is ready to have sex, but that does NOT mean that your mental and emotional self is ready to have sex. Only...

Staying a Virgin: eat out, sexual immaturity, good kid
Staying a Virgin: eat out, sexual immaturity, good kid, sook

Staying a Virgin: NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE, lord jesus christ, spirit soul and body
Staying a Virgin: NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE, lord jesus christ, spirit soul and body, god of peace

Staying a Virgin: What do girls think about virgin, proper relationship, virgins
proper relationship, virgins, worries: Hi Sony, Girls have different views on virgins. Some really like the idea as no one likes competition! Others find it a big pressure to be responsible for someone with no experience. The majority of girls like it, and value it. I think you should...

Staying a Virgin: Hymen fully broken!!??!??, allice, hymen
allice, hymen, rest of the day: Hey Allice, It is possible that he did not break your hymen the first time but only tore it a little, or stretched it out. You can try having sex again, eventually it will all break and sex will feel good. Thank you for your questions, I hope I helped,...

Staying a Virgin: male virginity, human anatomy, wet dreams
human anatomy, wet dreams, yahoo answers: Hey Lilly, There is no real way to tell. Some times when boys first ejaculate there is pain, but this can also occur from not ejaculating for a long time. Also, because boys ejaculate when they masturbate, so they could have masturbated and then had sex...

Staying a Virgin: Is This Normal????, pictures of hymens, gynacologist
pictures of hymens, gynacologist, heavy bleeding: Hey Allice, You are not abnormal, trust me. Every girl is different. By the way, your hymen is not the actual hole, it is the tissue about 1 inch inside. I am going to send you a link with some more pictures of hymens which might help you. www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/?article=3rF5...

Staying a Virgin: Please help!!!, gynecologist, family friend
gynecologist, family friend, thrush: Hello, Thanks for your question. To be perfectly honest i am not sure that i can be of much help. firstly, I am surprised you felt any pain in your vagina if your boyfriend did not enter you? I will answer your questions as you have asked them.....

Staying a Virgin: pregnancy and virginity, stomach upsets, ist time
stomach upsets, ist time, pregnancy test: Hey, It is okay. Calm down. If you take the morning after pill, that should work. That is the best thing that I can recommend. I am not a psychiatrist so I can not legally prescribe you anything, and I do not have the education enough to know what other...

Staying a Virgin: the pussy shape, inner lips, thin line
inner lips, thin line, vagina: Hey Fionna, You can tell by looking and by feeling. To feel it you should put your fingers in about 1-2 inches or 3-5 cm in. You should feel something blocking you from going in deeper, there should also be some pain. The look to see, you should spread...

Staying a Virgin: NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE, sex before marriage, aswell
sex before marriage, aswell, good advice: Ok... by the sounds of it, you don t want to have sex before marriage but you are feeling the pressure around you to have it. I think it was very unfair of your mum to say that God has put a call on your life not to got married. I don t think this is the...

Staying a Virgin: Sex, how do you have sex, ordeal
how do you have sex, ordeal, instincts: Hey Amanda, I know you will not like this answer, but one of the ways you know if you are ready or not to have sex if by knowing if you are scared, second guessing your decision or feel it is not a good idea. Because you are scared to have sex because you...

Staying a Virgin: all about sex, thin piece, sex first time
thin piece, sex first time, using a tampon: Hi Lalit, Thanks for your question. Women do not always bleed when they have sex for the first time. Sometimes it may not even hurt. The reason that sex hurts some women is because of their hymen. This is a very thin piece of skin which partially...

Staying a Virgin: sex still hurts, t break, vaginismus
t break, vaginismus, hymen: Hey Edgardo, It is possible that her hymen is still not broken, but it is not likely since you have had sex seven times. You can trust me on this, as long as you do not have a penis with huge girth, and it is stretching her out to much, then you are not...

Staying a Virgin: staying a virgin, loss of virginity, hymens
loss of virginity, hymens, using a tampon: Hi Leonardo, Virginity is not something that you can take yourself. It is not a physical change. The basic meaning for loss of virginity is when you have sex for the first time. You are still a virgin until the moment you have sex and a penis enters...

Staying a Virgin: Is she still a virgin??, webcite, hymens
webcite, hymens, old blood: Hey again Allice, The little hole is for the old blood and tissue to come out when you have your period. Usually when you use a tampon it goes up through there. The hole does not mean that the girl has had sex at all. Once a hymen is broken the tissue will...

Staying a Virgin: substitute for sex, girl masturbating, serious relationship
girl masturbating, serious relationship, couple weeks: Hi Jenny, Thanks for your questions. I am very glad to hear that you are so certain on what you want and what you don t want. You would be surprised to hear that alot of girls do alot of things they don t really want to be doing. Masturbation is...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity Ceremonies, local churches, eyes of the lord
local churches, eyes of the lord, girls women: Hey Calli, I am sure there are, it all depends on you sect of religion. Some sects believe that you can do this and some churches do perform those ceremonies. I recommend looking on the internet for local churches that perform it. Thank you for your...

Staying a Virgin: What do I do?, playful relationship, perfect match
playful relationship, perfect match, turn offs: Hey Natasha, My name is Wil. I am not the expert you asked to answer your question, but I found your question in the question pool, so I am sorry that it is so late. I am not sure if you can, but if you can rate me, please do not rate me negatively in timeliness....

Staying a Virgin: Aids, HIV, AIDS
HIV, AIDS, STDs: Though this question has nothing to do with staying a virgin I will answer it because it brings up AIDS. First of all, it s considered cheating for you to have sex with someone who is married. That being said... If her husband is only sleeping with...

Staying a Virgin: baby on the way, spermicidal condoms, baby on the way
spermicidal condoms, baby on the way, degree day: In theory, this is possible. However, sperm dies pretty easily. All it takes, though, is one to hit the egg and *boom*, 9 months later; Baby. It s more likely that there was an error with a condom, than what her friend told you. However, and I m sure you...

Staying a Virgin: Condoms, local drug store, day after pill
local drug store, day after pill, condom: Hey Anonymous, It could really be anything. It could be that when you ejaculated, there was so much ejaculation that it over filled it and some leaked out of the bottom. However, yes it could be her being wet, but if that was it, it would be all over the...

Staying a Virgin: Cybersex?, physical sex, virtual one
physical sex, virtual one, gmail: Hello again :-) You have given out a bit too much personal information but luckily not enough info for him to find you. Please do not give out personal information to people you do not know. What i really need you do to is give me his email address...

Staying a Virgin: Cybersex?, school counselor, physical sex
school counselor, physical sex, screen names: Yes, you did. You should never, ever give out your last name or age or even your state. Your first name is also fairly uncommon. If you do anything at school extracurricular; he could likely find you. He can easily do a search with just last name and...

Staying a Virgin: Cybersex?, physical sex, personal question
physical sex, personal question, cyber sex: Tell your parents about everything that happened. And I mean EVERYTHING. Tell them everything that you told me, and if there is anything else you didn t tell me, tell them. They will be able to provide the most security and protection for you. I promise you...

Staying a Virgin: scared; confused, whore, doubt
Staying a Virgin: scared; confused, whore, doubt, parents

Staying a Virgin: Should I sleep with him?, virginity, hearth
Staying a Virgin: Should I sleep with him?, virginity, hearth, 4 months

Staying a Virgin: Being a virgin, new image, confidence
Staying a Virgin: Being a virgin, new image, confidence, smile

Staying a Virgin: HELP MY FRIEND THIS IS URGENT, bad reputation, desision
bad reputation, desision, actions speak louder than words: Hey there, whoa, whoa, whoa, breathe! I know it can be scary when friends do something so strange and outlandish that you can t help but be like WTF!?!?! But first of all you need to take a deep breath and look at the situation. You can tell your friend...

Staying a Virgin: hello, taking pills, sexual intercourse
taking pills, sexual intercourse, irregular period: Hey Kathy, Don t worry about the other message, it is completely fine. You will get an email saying I already answered it though. I have to do that or else I will be kicked off allexperts for not responding to a question. That I mean by irritated your remaining...

Staying a Virgin: Implantation bleeding!!!, birth control pills, little butterflies
birth control pills, little butterflies, weird feelings: Hey Allice, No it is not implantation bleeding. It is most likely just an irregular period. The only way it could have been implantation bleeding is if your boyfriend had his penis inside your vagina, and he ejaculated inside. Because he didn t do this...

Staying a Virgin: Lonely and Confused, gut instincts, virgin girls
gut instincts, virgin girls, hymens: Hi Nicole, Thanks for your question. I am pleased to hear that you like to protect yourself. That is not weird at all. It is a very good quality to have. You should never do anything that you do not feel comfortable with. It is usually your gut instincts...

Staying a Virgin: oral, spice food, semen taste
spice food, semen taste, random fact: Hey Stephanie, Simply tell him. If you guys are together, you need to have communication. Tell him that you do not really like him ejaculating all over your face. Just say something like , [his name], can you please not do it on my face this time? I know...

Staying a Virgin: no period but sex, first sexual experience, condom
first sexual experience, condom, vagina: Hi Parker, The bleeding that sometimes occurs during your first sexual experience is nothing to do with your period. Their is a piece of skin which partially blocks the entrance to your vagina, which (if it has not been broken due to exercise, using a...

Staying a Virgin: scared; confused, strong belief, traditional marriage
strong belief, traditional marriage, delicate situation: Hey Melissa, This is a rather delicate situation. I would just be straight up and forward with him and tell him that you were raped, but I do now know how that will effect the ceremony. You may want to talk to your parents about it. They know you were raped...

Staying a Virgin: Should I sleep with him?, virgins, spending time
virgins, spending time, having sex: I think you ve answered your own question! If you know that sleeping with him will only be to please him; then you re not going to be doing so for the right reasons, and you seem to know this, you are very smart! Don t give in until you are ready and you...

Staying a Virgin: Virgin, virgins, virginity
virgins, virginity, fifteen years: Hi Bridgette, I used to have exactly the same problem. I was the only one of my friends to be a virgin and at times it was tough. I can see now that being a virgin is a very special thing. In a way i miss it. Men love to know that women are virgins....

Staying a Virgin: Virginity, penis in vagina, losing your virginity
penis in vagina, losing your virginity, sex penis: Hey Malorie, Losing your virginity does takes more than just breaking your hymen. If you masturbated with toys or anything that would have been like penetrating sex, then you might consider yourself a non-virgin. However, most people define loosing your...

Staying a Virgin: Being a virgin, first instance, fun and games
first instance, fun and games, emma: Emma, If you re embarrassed about being a virgin, then you really aren t mentally prepared for sex in the first instance. You need to take a deep breathe and think about this. Are you depressed because you re simply bored by staying in all the time, or...

Staying a Virgin: Is she a virgin?, dear lillian, sexual organs
dear lillian, sexual organs, four fingers: Sadaf, These things do not mean that your girlfriend was not a virgin. Some women simply have a wide-set vagina, and sometimes the labia is just like that. No two women s sexual organs are the same. Use of certain feminine care products could also have effected...

Staying a Virgin: virgin, hi john, ejaculate
hi john, ejaculate, sperm: Hi John, In answer to your questions..... 1) The chances of a girl getting pregnant by touching her vagina externally with your penis are slim but the chances of you or her contracting an sti are the same as they would be if you did insert your penis....

Staying a Virgin: Am I a virgin still?, intense feelings, hymen
intense feelings, hymen, virginity: Hey Hayle, It is all up to you whether you are sexually active or not. If you continue to do that, then yes you are sexually active, but if you stop you are not sexually active. As for your virginity: Technically speaking, because his penis was in your...

Staying a Virgin: virginity, anal virginity, vaginal sex
anal virginity, vaginal sex, boy friend: Hi Lucy, Although you are technically still a virgin you have lost your anal virginity. I am amazed that although you feel too young to have vaginal sex you agreed to have anal sex. I really hope that you used protection as there is a much higher risk...

Staying a Virgin: Wet Dreams, wet dreams, kidney problems
wet dreams, kidney problems, washing machine: Hey Dustin, To start: Yes it is completely safe to reuse the underwear. It is so safe that you do not even have to wash the underwear if you do not want. There is only one way which I know to stop wet dreams, and that is to masturbate. Because you have...

Staying a Virgin: not sure, successful relationship, million times
successful relationship, million times: Hey Brooke, You really need to just be straight up and honest with him. Tell him you are kinda scared or worried. He is your boyfriend and should understand. I know you ve probably heard it a million times, but communication is key to a successful relationship....

Staying a Virgin: Adult sites., account preferences, adult sites
account preferences, adult sites, internet history: From your computers desktop find the shortcut to your Internet Explorer. Right click it and go to properties. One of the options should be to delete your history. It will delete every site you have ever been to from your computers record. But you can still...

Staying a Virgin: Adult sites., adult sites, internet history
adult sites, internet history, chatroom: Hey Corrina, You should probably tell you mom, and just tell her that you were curious and you now think that it is stupid or something like that. She will understand. You are at a curious age. I really recommend that, but if you really must not tell her,...

Staying a Virgin: BJ, eww, infectious disease
eww, infectious disease, condom: Hey Katy, It is really your decision, but I think that you should really make sure that you are ready and that you really want this with him for the right reasons. Every person I have talked to about this has always regretted making their first time with...

Staying a Virgin: birth pills, birth control pills, beleve
birth control pills, beleve, birth control: Hey Brenda, No it is not. Birth control pills have other benefits. It helps with you skin, can clear acne, and regulates your period. It is however unhealthy to have a relationship where your mother doesn t believe you. Maybe you could try and get her to...

Staying a Virgin: Erm. Hymens, hymens, hymen
hymens, hymen, middle finger: If you can put your finger all the way up your vagina then your hymen is broken. This does not mean that you are no longer a virgin. You can only lose your virginity when a man s penis enters your vagina. Many things can break the hymen including nomral...

Staying a Virgin: birth pills, birth control pills, hormonal system
Staying a Virgin: birth pills, birth control pills, hormonal system, cervical cancer

Staying a Virgin: help
Staying a Virgin: help

Staying a Virgin: hey wil., baithing suit, planned parenthood
Staying a Virgin: hey wil., baithing suit, planned parenthood, tiny penis

Staying a Virgin: How to keep my virginity. I feel so pressured, married couple
Staying a Virgin: How to keep my virginity. I feel so pressured, married couple

Staying a Virgin: can she be pregnet?, wetness, sperm
Staying a Virgin: can she be pregnet?, wetness, sperm, orgasm

Staying a Virgin: Should I say something?, physical boundaries, perspective
Staying a Virgin: Should I say something?, physical boundaries, perspective, heart

Staying a Virgin: Talking on the phone, sexual feelings, god has a plan
Staying a Virgin: Talking on the phone, sexual feelings, god has a plan, abomination

Staying a Virgin: taking it to another level, bacteria infection, peaches and cream
Staying a Virgin: taking it to another level, bacteria infection, peaches and cream, good bacteria

Staying a Virgin: fingering, bristles, cucumbers
bristles, cucumbers, toothbrushes: Hey Mary, You can use many things. You can use vegetables such as large carrots, cucumbers, and you can buy sex toys. Also, I ve heard of girls using vibrating toothbrushes, but I would put come kind of covering over the bristles because that my hurt. ...

Staying a Virgin: Hi., personal struggle, weird feeling
personal struggle, weird feeling, peer pressure: The question is, did you say no, when you were pressured into sex? If you said no, and the guy pounced you anyway, that s rape (for starters). Peer pressure will never go away. You have to be strong and say *NO* and make it clear that NO means NO. Don...

Staying a Virgin: Hymen, hymen, excruciating pain
hymen, excruciating pain, dancer: Well Jenny, It sounds to me that your hymen is broken. With a hymen you would not be able to stick your fingers in as far as you say you can. So when you have sex for the first time, you will not bleed or feel any pain. It is normal for a dancer to break...

Staying a Virgin: help, bad smell, gynecologist
bad smell, gynecologist, first meeting: Hi Raven, To start of, i would just like to say, there is nothing wrong in being a virgin in the last of your friends, and also, if you boyfriend ever forced you to have sex with him he might not be the right guy for you, and you should never be forced...

Staying a Virgin: help, question pool, vagina
question pool, vagina, amanda: If you are sure you want to take the next step and let him finger you, then go ahead. You two will be too caught up in the moment and pleasure to care about what you look like, smell like, etc. Hope I helped! ~Amanda P.S. You re question was in...

Staying a Virgin: hey wil., hymen, hole in the middle
hymen, hole in the middle, boy friend: Hey Kathy, Guys like it when a girl is a virgin, especially if they are virgin themselves. And to make a girl virgin, she has to have never had sex. If a girl has had sex, that means that she has broken her hymen because that is what happens when you have...

Staying a Virgin: hi, hardcore sports, hymen
hardcore sports, hymen, google: Hi again, its no problem at all. So if i may ask, how old are you now? Im only asking because you said that you feel pain. I think its best that you see a gynecologist about that, and i doubt your hymen would have anything to do with that. What i would...

Staying a Virgin: hi, advie, having anal sex
advie, having anal sex, sexual experience: Hi Leyla, Firstly, im glad that you have read some of my answers/advie, that makes me really happy. :) Okay, so firstly a virgin is someone who has never had sex, and has no sexual experience. So seeing as you said that you had anal sex, that means...

Staying a Virgin: hi, loss of virginity, honesty is the best policy
loss of virginity, honesty is the best policy, hymen: Hi Sunita, Having sex really does not change your vagina that much. The only thing it may have changed is that it would have broken your hymen and unfortunatly the only way that you can resolve that problem is through surgery. Loss of virginity is not...

Staying a Virgin: How to keep my virginity. I feel so pressured, virginity, having sex
virginity, having sex, good luck: Hello No sex is not the only way out. All I know is you need to be strong and just say no. Think logically and on what you want and stick to that. You are young and obviously what you have with your boyfriend is not really love if you feel he s with you...

Staying a Virgin: Please, I need help., sex before marriage, sex with a guy
sex before marriage, sex with a guy, privet: Hey Katie, I know how you feel. It is a difficult thing to resist the desire to have sex. One of the most common ways to resist the temptation is masturbating. A huge percent (More than 60%) of people masturbate. Usually they do not realize it, but it keeps...

Staying a Virgin: can she be pregnet?, underware, orgasm
underware, orgasm, cousin: Hey Gabbriella, I m not sure I understand how that is possible. If they both had clothes on then how did they both get wet? Did they both have their own orgasm? If she had an orgasm (not likely because it was not a real moment) then it is possible she got...

Staying a Virgin: Should I say something?, hey annie, promise ring
hey annie, promise ring, best friends: Wow Annie, You guys have a great relationship! The odds that he is cheating on you is so slim if you ask me. I would have to say that he isn t. He seems like a great guy too, and so do you (Well, girl:D). I would not worry about him cheating, hes not....

Staying a Virgin: sex, morning after pill, family member
morning after pill, family member, alma: Hi Alma, It is possible that you are pregnant. I know no one knows that this happened, and because it was a family member it is even harder to tell people, but the fact is, it is better to tell at least one person, even if they are in your family. The person...

Staying a Virgin: subject, privet, sending a message
privet, sending a message, yahoo messenger: Hey Virgin, Yes, I have AIM. In my profile it also says so. My SN is allvirginexpert. You can IM me 24/7 however I may not always respond. I am always mobile, so just send me an IM and hopefully I will respond. Please remember that I can only send 160 characters...

Staying a Virgin: Talking on the phone, intament, question pool
intament, question pool, good luck: The easiest way is just to ask her. It would be better if you asked her when you were out on a date or something. That way she has to be truthful and it is more formal than over the phone. Good luck! ~Amanda P.S. You re question was in the question...

Staying a Virgin: taking it to another level, doubts, vagina
doubts, vagina, fears: If you are not comfortable with it, don t agree to it. Yeah it really is that simple. :) If you are okay with him fingering you then you can think about the other issues. You cannot help the size down there but you can buy scented lube (not lotion!!!) to...

Staying a Virgin: taking it to another level, vagina, fears
vagina, fears, virgin: Hey Raven, The size I would not worry about. Girl s vagina are usually small when they are virgin. As for the smell; If it smells funny, I would see a doctor about it. You may have a small infection. Letting him do this is entirely up to you. One of...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity, hymen, drop of blood
hymen, drop of blood, virginity: Hey Katrina, I have never heard anything about these three balls. My guess is it is false. You are still virgin. You say you have not done anything else, so you are fine. The blood was probably from when he tried and he ripped the hymen a little, and just...

Staying a Virgin: I want to lose my virginity, t rush, virginity
t rush, virginity, freek: I do not think you are ready to lose your virginity. I think this because your only reasoning for having sex is that everyone else lost their virginity. This is not a good reason. You need to be positive that sex is what you want because it is one decision...

Staying a Virgin: Is it worth., question thanks, jelous
question thanks, jelous, when it came to sex: I think that if you are proud of the fact that you are a virgin, that is all that matters. When your friends talk about sex you can lay out of the conversation unless someone speaks directly to you, then you can say something like, Nope, I haven t banged...

Staying a Virgin: what to do?, eww, sperm
eww, sperm, condom: Hi again, well i can only advise that you really really think your decision through, and imagine how the situation might be after you have had sex. And if you really want to, I can only tell you to protect yourself! And dont be pressured into doing anything...

Staying a Virgin: don't know if i'm a virgin, vaginal discharge, jasmine
vaginal discharge, jasmine, virgin: Hi Jasmine, No you are not a virgin. Not everyone bleeds on there first time. But you have had sex so no your not a virgin anymore. The creamy substance was vaginal discharge which happens to women when we are turned on. I hope this helps, if i can...

Staying a Virgin: i dont know how far to go??!, using a condom, loving boyfriend
using a condom, loving boyfriend, loving relationship: Hi Christy, Thanks for your question. I am pleased to see your in a loving relationship and are thinking very seriously about these issues. I don t think there is anything wrong with joking around , it will help you both to become closer in your relationship...

Staying a Virgin: hymen and water, hymens, many ways that women
hymens, many ways that women, hymen: Hi Sohier, No, you cannot lose your virginity to water. Virginity is only lost when a penis enters your vagina. It has nothing to do with your hymen or blood. There are so many ways that women can break their hymen without meaning too. Like exercise...

Staying a Virgin: Internet?, internet question, pasword
internet question, pasword: Hey Corrina, Ya, it is. He should not be talking to you like that. What he is doing is extremely illegal. How ever you want to deal with ending this is fine, but it really does need to be ended very soon. I know you are talking to another expert on here,...

Staying a Virgin: letting go, true test, pasts
true test, pasts, virginity: Hi Diane, Firstly, you cannot ask someone why they love you. People don t know why they love someone else. It isn t a thing you can put into words. It is a connection that is made. There are many reasons that he likes you but this has nothing to do...

Staying a Virgin: I'm humiliated to admit it..., stomach ache, signs of pregnancy
stomach ache, signs of pregnancy, head ache: Right now, I think that your mind is tricking you into thinking you have the signs of pregnancy because you are so stressed out. I would get checked out by a doctor in a few weeks though, but try not to worry. If he wants to have sex with you and makes...

Staying a Virgin: masterbating, hymens, hymen
hymens, hymen, virginity: Hi Stephanie, Please do not be scared! You cannot lose your virginity during masturbation. Virginity is only lost when a penis enters the vagina. People often think that breaking your hymen means you are no longer a virgin but this is not true. Hymens...

Staying a Virgin: Non virgin want to stay abstinent till marriage, abstinent, premarital sex
abstinent, premarital sex, virginity: Hi Jonas, I m afraid the only advice i can offer you is to take to your girlfriend. If she does not agree to your new way of life you will have to think about what is more important to you. Your girlfriend or your beliefs. Hopefully if she loves you she...

Staying a Virgin: virgin, losing your virginity, good experience
losing your virginity, good experience, dork: Hi Gabriel, Thank you for your question. I know that it seems like losing your virginity is very important right now but trust me when i say it is more important to lose it when you are ready to. It is a good experience but you are still young and...

Staying a Virgin: About virginity, loose virginity, sex before marriage
loose virginity, sex before marriage, australian culture: Hey Raj, Nothing happens when a man looses his virginity. A woman will bleed and there will be pain, but there is nothing like this for men. Now, I do not know Australian culture, but I believe it is similar to the U.S. If that is true then sex before marriage...

Staying a Virgin: I don't know what to do.., first blowjob, virginity
first blowjob, virginity, good luck: If you don t want to do it, you shouldn t. You can never give more than one first blowjob or lose your virginity more than once. Hold off and it will be even better for the both of you and if he leaves because you won t give him a blowjob, you know he...

Staying a Virgin: stayn a virgin, negative emotion, correct decision
Staying a Virgin: stayn a virgin, negative emotion, correct decision, adult life

Staying a Virgin: A fellow expert, question pool, questioners
question pool, questioners, random process: Hi! The questioners get to choose the expert they want to ask. If you want to kick-start your number of clients then you can answer questions in the question pool (on the homepage next to the category you are an expert for). If you answer a bunch of those,...

Staying a Virgin: help me, virgin, virginity
virgin, virginity, sex: Hello Haseeb, Your English is very good! Don t worry, I understand you very well. I cannot call you, but if you want to post a question here, I can help you that way. If it s private, just check the button that makes your question private before you submit...

Staying a Virgin: help, virgin, virginity
virgin, virginity, sex: Hey Sarah, I am only too happy to help. I m here for you. We ll figure this thing out together, don t worry. First, I don t think you re easy . You re just caught in a confusing, difficult situation. And yeah, the pressure is definitely real. So would...

Staying a Virgin: helpp, samee, wrks
samee, wrks, pple: Hi Sarah, Forget about age when it comes to marriage. It s all about maturity. Who decides what age is too young ? My mother was 18 when she married, and still is decades later. Yet people I know that were nearly twice her age when they married have already...

Staying a Virgin: its tough, never been kissed, moral beliefs
never been kissed, moral beliefs, self control: Hi Kara, Well, after I picked myself up off the floor from the shock... 19 and still a virgin? Never been kissed? You are not Kara, you are Super Woman! That is so incredible. To start, I am some one out there that does care about your morals and...

Staying a Virgin: Did I masturbate?, using tampons, losing virginity
using tampons, losing virginity, hymen: Hey Yvonne, You did not masturbate. Masturbation is when you are trying to please yourself through sexual arousal. You were trying to find your hymen. Using tampons usually does not break a girl s hymen but it is possible. If you can stick your finger in...

Staying a Virgin: Staying a virgin, virgin, virginity
virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Katie, So how old is this guy? His age will make a HUGE difference as to what happens to you two. Is he under 18? The vast majority of guys in that range don t talk well, especially to girls. So his silence really means nothing. Guys always talk differently...

Staying a Virgin: she says she is ready, sex, sexuality
sex, sexuality, virgin: The majority of girls don t want to give up their virginity at 14. When usually depends on the culture she grew up in, and her relationship with her immediate family. When a girl this age says yes to sex, what she really thinks is she is saying yes to love,...

Staying a Virgin: how to have sex for virgin guy, sex medicine, little piece of advice
sex medicine, little piece of advice, sexual satisfaction: Hello, Congratulations on hanging in there until marriage. Good choice. Forget the worries, you have nothing to fear my friend. Sexual satisfaction with your wife will come over time. That s why we marry for life, gives you lots of time to practice...

Staying a Virgin: stayn a virgin, last question, sexual partners
last question, sexual partners, morals: Hello I apologize for the late response. I have been on vacation for the past week. To be honest there s not much you can do to stop this. You can ask people why they call you this or ask your friends. If it s something for example, like the way you dress...

Staying a Virgin: still a virgin or not?, losing virginity, deepest condolences
losing virginity, deepest condolences, ugly world: Hello Thomas, So sorry to hear about your friend being raped, and at such a tender age. What an ugly world this can be some times. The bright side is we can change the ugliness some times, or at least make it not so ugly. So to answer your question...

Staying a Virgin: Touching my boyfriend, joel kimball, sexual urges
joel kimball, sexual urges, sex with a guy: Hi Amanda, Hard being 15 and having all those sexual urges and feelings, huh? Just here to tell you it s important, no, critical not to give in to them until you re with the guy who s going to stay with you for life. Sex is a wonderful thing when done...

Staying a Virgin: Touching my boyfriend, pant, human nature
pant, human nature, penis: Hey Amanda, I am really sorry if this response is late but I am sure if it was that things went great! If things didn t happen, here is what to do. Do what feels right. I know it seems simple and stupid, but you already know what to do. It is in your human...

Staying a Virgin: Touching., intimate relationship, kid sex
intimate relationship, kid sex, hes: Hey Precious, NO, this does not make it okay at all. you are still young, and to prove it, you even called yourself a kid. Sex and touching is intended for adults who are in a very intimate relationship and are married. You have to explain to this boy this....

Staying a Virgin: I've been so sheltered, I have lots of questions, pictures of vaginas, virgin girl
pictures of vaginas, virgin girl, masturbated: Hi Liv, Alot of people have the same fears as you. Vaginas vary drastically in their appearance, i am sure yours is perfectly normal. My best advice for you is to have a look at the website below.. http://www.channel4embarrassingillnesses.com/galleries/vulva-gallery/...

Staying a Virgin: virgin or not?, losing your virginity, accurate answer
losing your virginity, accurate answer, special moment: You are not a virgin, but since you did not want it, you can lose your virginity another time when you want to. So what I am saying is that you are technically not a virgin but because you didn t want it, it was not a special moment like losing your virginity...

Staying a Virgin: Is she virgin ?, extra marital sex, painless sex
extra marital sex, painless sex, sex with my girlfriend: Hello Ankit, Don t worry, your English is good, I understand you perfectly. But your question is in the wrong category. Regardless, here s the answer: you ll never know. Usually a woman of 23 years would be easy to have painless sex with, even...

Staying a Virgin: virginity, feminine hygiene products, having sex for the first time
feminine hygiene products, having sex for the first time, virginity: Hello Hasi, No, not every virgin bleeds after her first time. It depends largely upon her age. If she s younger and not ready, she ll most likely bleed. Also, if she s used certain feminine hygiene products, or has been very active in sports, she probably...

Staying a Virgin: About virginity, outer lips, virgin women
outer lips, virgin women, crude words: Hello Chandan, You ll need to stop using the words fuck and fucked when you speak to me, or I will no longer answer your questions. I m afraid there is no totally fool proof way to tell if a woman is a virgin. Women have used this fact to their advantage...

Staying a Virgin: virginity of a girl, virginity, girl friend
virginity, girl friend, centuries: My friend, this is a question pondered for centuries by millions of men. Sadly, there is no way to be totally certain your girl friend is a virgin. In a better world, every one would tell the truth. But people can and do lie about sex, and virginity, especially...

Staying a Virgin: want women wants, purposal, romantic relationships
purposal, romantic relationships, true feelings: Remember to let her know that your feelings in no way change the relationship between you two. If she knows you told her how you feel just because, with out any pressure on her to feel the same way towards you, she should feel completely safe in staying your...

Staying a Virgin: christian views on sex and marriage, sex before marriage, lost in translation
sex before marriage, lost in translation, adultery: Hey Kelsey, Basically what they are talking about is in the Bible is talks about adultery and remaining faithful to the one person you have had sex, usually a spouse. This subject matter seems to be one that was lost in translation. It does not actually...

Staying a Virgin: Help, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hey Ally, Congratulations on still holding on to your virginity until 16! These days, that s a real accomplishment. You should hold on to it until you get a life long commitment / marriage from a guy you intend to stay with for ever. Here s why... 1-...

Staying a Virgin: Incest, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Oh James, I am so very sorry to hear about what happened with your brother. Stuff like that can leave scars that last a life time, and some times it can be very hard to forgive some one so close who violated you. While I have been medically trained, I m...

Staying a Virgin: Should i lose it or no?, losing my virginity, last boyfriend
losing my virginity, last boyfriend, current boyfriend: You should definitely not have sex. You may want it, but later you are going to regret it. Right now, you don t want to worry about STD meds or being pregnant, you should be worrying about school. Save yourself for when you are in a very serious relationship...

Staying a Virgin: need advice, virgin, virginity
virgin, virginity, sex: Hey Nini! Very, very impressive, 19 and still a virgin? Absolutely incredible. You are doing the right thing, my dear. Well, I actually do have some advice for you. First, I ll let you in on a little secret about guys. Nothing makes a man in to a hero...

Staying a Virgin: Remaining a virgin, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hey Brett, Well that s fantastic, you sound like you have a lot going for you already. You re tall and dark, girls love that. Slim is just fine, better to be a little under weight than a little over. So cheer up, we have a lot to work with. Now we re...

Staying a Virgin: Sex: What is its Meaning and Significance?, Sex vs sexuality, choosing virginity
Sex vs sexuality, choosing virginity, underage sex: I wish you had told me your age; also your gender. I m impressed with the fact that you are giving considerable thought to the meaning and significance of sex. To be able to clarify your own thoughts and values is important in your personal development and...

Staying a Virgin: Sex: What is its Meaning and Significance?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Natalie, Well, you don t sound lost to me, quite the opposite, you re on the right path, actually, which is so incredibly refreshing, I rarely if ever meet people like you. I m glad you turned to me, and I will help you. First off, no, there is nothing...

Staying a Virgin: Do I have to say I lost my virginity?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Well, Brittany, this is a tough one. What makes it so sad is you made it all the way to college with your virginity intact, but now, who knows? Under age drinking ALWAYS leads to sex, it s the oldest tactic in the book for guys to get girls in bed with...

Staying a Virgin: sex, hymen, having sex
hymen, having sex, second time: hi kelley, You were probably bleeding because it was your first time, and since your hymen (the thing layer of skin inside your vagina) broke, you were bleeding, which is absolutely normal! It depends on your body really, for example, i bled on my...

Staying a Virgin: staying a virgin and being HIV negative, sex crazed women, christian morals
sex crazed women, christian morals, hiv status: OK Antony, glad to be of service to you, my friend. Sadly, the world can be pretty harsh. I wish I could tell whether your girl friend is telling the truth or no, but really, only she and God know at this point. And yes, people do lie about their past all...

Staying a Virgin: am still a virgin and i don't wanna lose it, ariea, vaginal penetration
ariea, vaginal penetration, head ache: Well Susan, I don t get it, you re only a technical virgin by the barest of margins now, one tiny little flap of skin is all that s left, why are you waiting until marriage for actual penetration? I mean, it s the right thing to do at this way, way too late...

Staying a Virgin: Virgin or not?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi, Congratulations on your up coming marriage. I wish you all the happiness in the world, and many years of joy together. I m sorry you feel so much guilt about such an minor incident, but I have to say, it s refreshing to meet some one who actually...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity, partial penetration, bible talks
partial penetration, bible talks, sex organs: Hey Valeria, No, but depending on how strict your beliefs are with God s opinion, it is a sin. In the Bible when it talks of adultery, God says, If your hands cause you to commit sin, then cut them off, because it is better than going to hell for eternity....

Staying a Virgin: virgin or not virgin., loss of virginity, wrong person
loss of virginity, wrong person, vagina: Hi Shamiya, No, you are not a virgin. The loss of virginity happens when a penis enters your vagina. This happened. It does not matter how far in it went. Let me know if you need any help dealing with this. Its hard getting over loosing your virginity...

Staying a Virgin: my boyfriend :|, good luck
good luck: Kambra, First thing is, talk to him about it, tell him you really do not want to have sex. My boyfriend was the same way, everyday it came up! I just had to sit him down and tell him that I was not ready for sex! Keep your ground, because he probably...

Staying a Virgin: am confused, sarah dear, sexual relationship
sarah dear, sexual relationship, matter of trust: Dear Anastacia, Don t do anything that you don t feel in your gut to be the right thing for you. And don t submit because of anyone s criticism. That is manipulation. If you claim to know he loves you, it must mean that he is sensitive to your needs...

Staying a Virgin: jw, good luck, virgin
good luck, virgin: Hey Amanda, Staying a virgin was no easy task! But what I did was stay strong when I said NO! It is as simple as that! Just say NO!(: Yes there is much pressure, but if the guy really does care for you, he will understand! If not then leave him! That...

Staying a Virgin: Loosing virginity, pre marital sex, contracting hiv
pre marital sex, contracting hiv, mature relationship: Dear Nonto, Most of the people on my site are teens, but if I were to take a guess about your age, it would certainly be that of an adult because you seem to be very informed. A physician friend of mine shared with me recently how important it is for retired...

Staying a Virgin: Losing your Virginity, losing your virginity, sex intercourse
losing your virginity, sex intercourse, self pleasure: Hi Kishaa, I m Nick and I have taken on your question. I am not a female, but am educated in this field. Does it hurt? **The first time is the most painful. It may hurt only a few seconds (when the hymen, street name is cherry, is broke) or it can...

Staying a Virgin: i need to ask a question, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Ebony, First off, this question is out of my expertise area, this is more a general question about sex rather than how to stay a virgin until marriage. Secondly, I m not a girl, so I wouldn t know personally how sex feels for a girl. That said,...

Staying a Virgin: i am only 13 the pressure is on, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Nisha, First off, you sound very mature for a 13 year old. That s great, I think you ll avoid a lot of the heart ache and trouble your friends will experience. But I have to ask, why do you have a boy friend at 13? I mean, what s your intention,...

Staying a Virgin: physical relation, using tampons, hymen
using tampons, hymen, little time: Hi Kunal, No your girlfriend is not a virgin. This has nothing to do with the fact that her ex-boyfriend broke her hymen. This can happen for all kinds of reasons like excersize and using tampons. She is no longer a virgin because her ex-boyfriend...

Staying a Virgin: What is the point to saving myself?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Being jealous of other guys (I m assuming you mean those that have sex out side of marriage) is totally normal. The truth is, they re out having fun and you aren t. Sex is fun. And no, it usually isn t about love, it s about gratifying an urge. Like hungering...

Staying a Virgin: some questions about virginty, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hello George, Nice to know at least some of the guys out there still have a conscience. Fingering is thrown around in every day conversations like people are talking about the weather or what they had for breakfast. That you find that word vile , like...

Staying a Virgin: about sex, female relationships, information thanks
female relationships, information thanks, harish: Dear Harish, It is not at all unusual to be 20 years old and still a virgin. It is normal for your hormones to be functioning as you describe--at your age. What you leave out is any information beyond your concern--such as your family, siblings, female...

Staying a Virgin: get her to have sex with me without being..., eventual marriage, long term relationship
eventual marriage, long term relationship, young virgin: Hi David, Think about what you re telling me. You think (?)both you and your girlfriend are both safe from stds. What you ve told me is that (you think# from what the other 3 young women you ve had sex with--that they have told you that they were...

Staying a Virgin: sex, physical bond, fleeting experience
physical bond, fleeting experience, procreation: David, Have you previously written me? You say nothing about yourself, your age, your relationships? Sex means so many things--it s our gender, how we feel about being male, female, what our relationships have been like, etc. etc. Please tell me more--but......

Staying a Virgin: is she still a virgin, compulsive lier, allthough
compulsive lier, allthough, hymen: Hey John, It is possible that she is still a virgin. The only reason you wouldn t be able to put our fingers in would be because of her hymen. It is possible though, that he hymen is not there anymore, but his could have been from something non-sexual....

Staying a Virgin: virginity and low self esteem, guidance dept, low self esteem
guidance dept, low self esteem, boyfreind: Yasheika, You already know the answer. That you SHOULDN T!! Knock that invisible vulture off your shoulder which you have allowed to speak to you in negative ways. Get rid of it for good by just not listening to such types of messages (it s the only...

Staying a Virgin: fingering a virgin, having an orgasm, two fingers
having an orgasm, two fingers, vaginal opening: Hello Amit, I will attempt to answer your questions--although this is not a how to pleasure oneself site. The issue discussed here is staying a virgin, and intended to assist people in their decision making. It is very normal that the insertion...

Staying a Virgin: hi, venereal diseases, technical definitions
venereal diseases, technical definitions, unplanned pregnancy: Hello Sebhat, Wow! You are a long way from the U.S. and while I cannot try to understand your culture, I understand by your question that you are interested in knowing a virgin from a non-virgin. I will try to explore those issues with you. I would like...

Staying a Virgin: My bf isnt a virgin and i dont know how to deal with it =(, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, keep: Hi Natalie, You know of Thanks Giving all the way over there? Well thank you, it s one of my favorite Holidays. Completely understand your feelings about the situation. My heart really goes out to you and him - on the one hand, he deserves a second chance,...

Staying a Virgin: My bf is not a virgin and i can't accept it =(, low self esteem, mths
low self esteem, mths, cultural differences: Hey there Natalie, I know this must be hard for you, and from what I can see, the decision that you have to make is based on how you feel. Virginity is one thing, if you feel like you really could have a nice life/relationship with this guy, then virginity...

Staying a Virgin: Sex, losing my virginity, moral value
losing my virginity, moral value, gracie: Hello Gracie, You ve stated to me that remaining a virgin is an important moral value you wish to keep until marriage. If the subject comes up, it s important that you just tell him what you believe in, the same way you said it to me. If he respect...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity, bleeding during intercourse, marker pen
bleeding during intercourse, marker pen, hymen: Dear Christina, I believe you are right, and should not be worried; however it is important for the safety of your body not to be inserting hard object which could hurt you. People use tampons, even from the early onset of menstruation, and the penetration...

Staying a Virgin: virgin with pregnacy symptoms, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Lina, First off, congratulations on holding on to your virginity! You get my Virgin Goddess of the Day award. While I am trained in Emergency Medicine, what you have sounds like a few different issues. You re period involves the movement of a microscopic...

Staying a Virgin: 18 flirty, sexual relationship, decision time
sexual relationship, decision time, flirty: Dear Kelly, I think you ve answered your own question. You ve told him you re not ready to have sex with him and you ve realized you are a tease. You re giving your boyfriend a double message. Rape can occur even with a friend. I think you need to...

Staying a Virgin: Feeling, sexual feelings, strange answer
sexual feelings, strange answer, sexual conversation: Emy, You really sound like a terrific young lady and I am sure your Mom, Dad and sisters are really proud of you. You ve listened to the problems others are encountering in your world around you and have made some mature decisions for yourself. You ve...

Staying a Virgin: Need Advice, having sex, virgin
Staying a Virgin: Need Advice, having sex, virgin, relationship

Staying a Virgin: Mastuerbation, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, keep: Hey Josh, you are incredible. A 19 year old American man who hasn t had sex before marriage, but could. Incredible. Keep it up, dude, you re doing the right thing. The short answer to your question is, no, it s totally healthy and fine to abstain out side...

Staying a Virgin: Mastuerbation, How to stop masturbating, stop
How to stop masturbating, stop, masturbating: Hey Josh, You are fine. I must admit, you must have a lot of control and willpower not to masturbate. If you wouldn t mind, because you marked thisbnot privet and I do have readers, could you please give some tips for those that want to stop? If you have...

Staying a Virgin: Need Advice, sex before marriage, 10 months
sex before marriage, 10 months, jessie: Jessie, If you re not sure you want to have sex, then don t. If you sometimes feel that you re not ready, then having sex isn t going to change that. You ve only been talking with the guy for 10 mos. Have you actually dated him or are you only writing,texting...

Staying a Virgin: Need Advice, dear jessie, unfortunate experience
dear jessie, unfortunate experience, using a tampon: Dear Jessie, I don t understand. You want to please him more than yourself and what is good for you? If you are not ready, then don t. You need to keep in mind throughout your life the expression to thine own self be true and you ll have no regrets....

Staying a Virgin: This is new 0.o, text internet, fashion designer
text internet, fashion designer, virginity: Jass, It s simple. Let him know you re a virgin, you intend to stay that way until marriage and don t apologize for your beliefs. If he doesn t respect what you are telling him, he s not for you. You are only 18 and have a lot of time ahead of you, people...

Staying a Virgin: this is new..., question pool, text internet
question pool, text internet, fashion designer: Hi Jass, Your question is in the question pool, so I am choosing to answer your question. You have many questions/concerns. When/how to tell him about your abstinence: Bring it up when the bf/gf discussion comes up. This way, you can gauge his comments....

Staying a Virgin: Almost ready to give up...., Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, keep: Hey Jessica, You may be sick of your virginity, but I love it! You don t want it, yeah, yeah, I know, but I m still giving you my Virgin Goddess of the Day award any way. I have reasons for you keeping your virginity just a little longer, but let...

Staying a Virgin: what are the signs you look for, pinky finger, clear conscience
pinky finger, clear conscience, pennis: Dear Abi, I m sorry to have to tell you that despite the fact that he did not insert his entire penis into your vagina, it is likely that the bleeding you experienced was the breaking of the hymen. Was this a mistake you made in allowing this to happen?...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity: when is it time, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, keep: Hey Emma, sorry about the delay in replying, tis the Season and all that. First off, I don t think you think too much. On the contrary, I admire you for your caution and fore sight. As to seeing a guy s thing , you re not missing out on much, they...

Staying a Virgin: WHY?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, keep: Hi Lamont, Good question. There are several reasons. First of all, sex kills. Millions of people every year contract a Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD). Of those, hundreds of thousands get one that can t EVER be cured, they have it FOR LIFE. Of those,...

Staying a Virgin: ask abt virginity, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: This is totally out of my area of expertise, but I ll try to answer your question. If your husband doesn t find out on your wedding night that you re not a virgin, he will most likely find out some day. And when he does, and realizes you ve lied to him,...

Staying a Virgin: Chastity always right?, losing my virginity, relationship ends
losing my virginity, relationship ends, sex before marriage: Hi Hannah, Plenty of people feel exactly the same way as you. I certainly do. I think that everyone should decided to have sex whenever they are ready to. I have never thought that not having sex before marriage is a good idea. I think it encourages...

Staying a Virgin: confused., Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: hi kayla, your question has sat in the general question pool for days now, so i thought i d let you know, you have to go directly to kate s profile to post a question that only she can answer. since i ve got this message open, going to throw my humble...

Staying a Virgin: dunno if im stilla virgin or not?!?! plz help, sexual intercourse, sexual fantasies
sexual intercourse, sexual fantasies, hymens: Hey Abby, you are still a virgin. So that is good. I m going to answer your other questions in order to keep it organized so I can bsur I answer all your questions. 1) yes. You are still a virgin. You must have sexual intercourse inorder to not be a virgin....

Staying a Virgin: is my girlfriend a virgin?, health discovery, serious relationship
Staying a Virgin: is my girlfriend a virgin?, health discovery, serious relationship, sexual activities

Staying a Virgin: feeling like I know nothing, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Jimmy, Well, congratulations on making it to 17 and still being a virgin. Don t give that up until you find a girl you want to spend the rest of your life with. Then get a life long promise. It s the right thing to do. OK, masturbation for guys is...

Staying a Virgin: is my girlfriend a virgin?, pre marital sex, pregnancy pregnancy
pre marital sex, pregnancy pregnancy, sexual relationships: Dear Kevin, I would have no other way of knowing except for what you have told me, and according to what you have told me...I would have to assume she is NOT a virgin....according to the technical definition of virginity and a hymen that has torn away. If...

Staying a Virgin: Herpes, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: hi lauren! well, you get my VIRGIN GODDESS of the day award! don t give that up until you have a life long promise. the guy who gets you will be one lucky devil, that s for sure. that said, you ve pushed things as far as any one should ever go. you re...

Staying a Virgin: hi, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Jenifer, Have you had sex with a man? Then you aren t a virgin. If you have never had sex with a man, you are a virgin. It s that simple. You might want to get checked out by a doctor or midwife about your female issue. Hope this helps. Joel...

Staying a Virgin: Will it hurt less?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hey, what s the rush? WHY do you want to have sex with this guy? Why would you need to lie about your virginity? If it s because your boy friend doesn t want a virgin, then he is going to use you, pure and simple. Guys typically want used women when they...

Staying a Virgin: im really lost, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Well, I hope I m not too late on this one. The short answer is - NO - you should not loose your virginity to any one except the guy you re going to spend the rest of your life with. Call him what you will - husband, boy friend, the old man, what ever, your...

Staying a Virgin: Language, shock value, true feelings
shock value, true feelings, honor students: Hi Rebecca, You know what? I think you should be really proud of yourselves. You re taking the high road. You ve obviously made a plan for yourself...you do your best at school, following family values that have made sense to you, you recognize that...

Staying a Virgin: lost virginity, bad past relationships, getting taken advatage of while drunk and high, lost virginity, buckets of water
lost virginity, buckets of water, girl school: Hey Jessica, very long message. I appreciate that:) I ask for lots of details to better help people but never get them. Thank you:) so, basically it s not your fault. In all technicality, you could file for rape against Prick. I like that name btw lol. Good...

Staying a Virgin: Marrying a non virgin girl, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Adithya! Brother! You are the best. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. You are so right. People think that sex is just sex, just a physical act. But it can and does have so many more dimensions than that. Casual sex is Crap, yes, Crap is the operative word here....

Staying a Virgin: Marrying a non virgin girl, female companionship, moral person
female companionship, moral person, virgin girl: Hello Adithya, Here s my opinion. I believe you are a sensitive and moral person who takes his values and beliefs seriously, knows who he is, and has used his ability to apply critical thinking before he makes a decision about something as important as a...

Staying a Virgin: ready, first time having sex, rumors at school
first time having sex, rumors at school, mom and dad: Hi Lillian, Being curious about sex is very common (more common among boys than girls, but still...). Just because your curious doesn t mean you should go right out and have sex. Being a virgin isn t something you can get back, so if you do it...be prepared...

Staying a Virgin: STDs, sex education classes, genital wart
sex education classes, genital wart, breast area: Lauren, If you have not engaged in sexual activity, you have nothing to hide from discussing your concern about these bumps and I am sure your Mom would understand and appreciate your openness if you asked her her opinion and showed the bumps to her. ...

Staying a Virgin: sex, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Racheal, Truth is, you shouldn t want to stay a virgin, especially not at 14. Your body is probably ready for sex, but your mind might need another year or two, hence your hesitation. Unfortunately, I m not a woman, so I can t tell you exactly how...

Staying a Virgin: am i still a virgin?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi again, Abby. Here s the answers to your questions: 1) - yes - technically you are still a virgin. But only technically, as you have had some sexual experience. But at least you haven t had penile penetration (intercourse). The best thing for you to...

Staying a Virgin: struck in a bad relationship, commited relationship, age gap
commited relationship, age gap, virginty: Hey Nicky, I would be glad to help. My honest opinion would be that you should leave him. Yes, there are other men out here that will accept you the way you are. This man seems to be abusive or empowering and you should reall really consider leaving him as...

Staying a Virgin: viginity..., virgin, virginity
virgin, virginity, sex: Wow. So, hi Catherine, how are you? I m fine, thanks. How s your day been? Wow again. Yeah, your diatribe is bordering on bitchy, but that s OK, you ve actually asked some very good questions. Your problem isn t with with virginity versus extra marital...

Staying a Virgin: afraid from having sex.., Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: What? A 27 year old virgin? Madeline, you get my Virgin Goddess award! You are the best. Dang, I just LOVE talking to virgin women. It s like walking in Paradise for just a little while. OK, so I m a guy, and I can t tell you exactly how sex, especially...

Staying a Virgin: bf, clean slate, hand jobs
clean slate, hand jobs, exper: Dear Sara, I m sorry I didn t have an answer that would satisfy you...and I wish I knew the kind of help you really want. Is it approval? I don t think I have any tips for you on keeping your bf more sexually satisfied. Perhaps you just might want...

Staying a Virgin: Dating a non virgin, marriage commitment, sex before marriage
marriage commitment, sex before marriage, celebate: Dear Ryan, It would really help if I knew your age. Are you 14, 20, 30? These ages might produce different responses regarding my advice. I m sorry that you re disappointed. But--assuming you re still a teen and under 25, you need to ask yourself...

Staying a Virgin: I don't want to loose my virginity., time intercourse, teens having sex
time intercourse, teens having sex, virginity: Dear Alyson, These are very big concerns you are having for a young pre-teen. I really question whether your parents are serious about telling you to start looking for a husband and perhaps are really teasing you. Perhaps you can joke back with them and...

Staying a Virgin: how to enlarge, long penis, large penis
long penis, large penis, breats: Hey Prakash I m sorry. There is no way to enlarge it, but 4-5 is average, so this should not concern you. Also, I don t mean to be steriotipical if I am, but I ve heard that most Indians are smaller than average, so really you are large compared to your countries...

Staying a Virgin: bf, performing oral sex, hymen
Staying a Virgin: bf, performing oral sex, hymen, props

Staying a Virgin: I don't want to loose my virginity., profound level, virginity
Staying a Virgin: I don't want to loose my virginity., profound level, virginity, perseverance

Staying a Virgin: how to enlarge, penis size, emotion
Staying a Virgin: how to enlarge, penis size, emotion, priorities

Staying a Virgin: fingering, viriginity, heman
viriginity, heman, hymen: Hey there, Well, it really depends. Did it hurt? Did you bleed a little? And how far did you go in? I your answers looked something like this: no. No. Less than an inch. Then yes, you are a virgin. And your hymen is not broken. If your answers look like this:...

Staying a Virgin: looking over the past, true beliefs, spiritual person
true beliefs, spiritual person, matter of trust: Dear Jeremy, I don t think you can forget her past. All you can do is decide at this time whether you want to continue dating this girl...and whether you want to ignore your true beliefs that you held onto before you met her. It is obvious to me that...

Staying a Virgin: did i lose my virginity?, hymen, virginity
hymen, virginity, unprotected sex: Hello Yasmin, While you have a question about virginity, perhaps you should be more concerned about the issue of sexually transmitted diseases that you could contract if your partner has had unprotected sex with others...and also the risk of pregnancy....

Staying a Virgin: marrige night nightmare, female friend, wedding night
female friend, wedding night, foreplay: Hi there You may want to ask in a different category. I understand that this must be a difficult thing for you but considering this is a category about Staying a virgin and considering that I am still a virgin myself, I do not consider myself an expert...

Staying a Virgin: somethings 2 say and some questions, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Well, don t know what to say about the lazy speech pattern, if we all just keep going down, down, down with our language, a few years from now we ll all be back to grunting and pointing. If your life is so busy you can t take time to write properly, maybe...

Staying a Virgin: twins, twins sisters, stupid problem
twins sisters, stupid problem, ppl: Hey Rob, Ya, you obviously do care what ppl think. It s okay too. Not many ppl can not care what others think of them. A problem I see for you if choosing. Remeber this, they are both people and completely different people at that. They may be twins, but...

Staying a Virgin: twins, twins sisters, stupid problem
twins sisters, stupid problem, personal level: Hi I think you need to get to know them both better before you ask them out. Just because they are twins does not mean that they are similar people and that you would be able to like them both. I think getting to know both of them on a personal level will...

Staying a Virgin: twins, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hello Rob, This isn t exactly in my field of expertise, but don t worry, I m going to try to help any way. This is a tricky problem, but could easily be solved if you think a little differently for a moment. You say maybe both of these twin sisters might...

Staying a Virgin: Is she Virgin???, natural lubricant, negative emotion
natural lubricant, negative emotion, truthful person: Dear Sanjay, It s very possible that your wife is a virgin and that she secretes a good amount of her body s natural lubricant when aroused. The tough membrane called the hymen frequently breaks if a woman or girl has been active in sports--has landed...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hey Dhitika, I missed your reply some how, sorry. You continue to impress me. I think you re going to make it through all this just fine. You sound so much more smarter and mature than women I ve met who are twice your age. And while I admire your drive...

Staying a Virgin: to decide whether to loose virginity or not., Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Chaitanya, Don t have sex with Girl X. It is wrong. In fact, don t have sex with any one you aren t married to. I know how it feels to be 22 and not have had sex. It is VERY tough. It s not fun being celibate, but if you hold to the fact that it won...

Staying a Virgin: Did she kill the friendship or it is just because she was a virgin ?, body language, crowd
Staying a Virgin: Did she kill the friendship or it is just because she was a virgin ?, body language, crowd, virgin

Staying a Virgin: hello, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hello Ami, Well, you know the old saying, if you have to ask, you probably already know the answer. And the answer is, no, you re not a virgin. You ve had sex. You should immediately get tested for Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD) and get a pregnancy...

Staying a Virgin: Did she kill the friendship or it is just because she was a virgin ?, boy meets girl, classmates
boy meets girl, classmates, classmate: Dear Mus, I cannot tell by your name which gender you are. However, it probably doesn t matter since the issue you are struggling with is about trying to make friends with someone. I also don t understand why you think that because she s a virgin, it accounts...

Staying a Virgin: Could I be pregnant?, breast soreness, false pregnancy
breast soreness, false pregnancy, lack of appetite: Dear Stephanie, I think it is EXTREMELY doubtful that you are pregnant under the conditions as described. Stress, however, can create all kinds of symptoms, affect your hormones and with extreme stress cause strange body changes. An over the counter pregnancy...

Staying a Virgin: Should I or Shouldn't I?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Happy to help, Morgan, you re doing the right thing. You re a very intelligent woman, and I think you ll do just fine. Here s hoping you find true love. Keep in touch, let me know if I can ever help again. Your friend, Joel websites@palousenet.co...

Staying a Virgin: I hate myself 4 this, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Muringo, First of all, congratulations making it all the way to 21 with your virginity intact. Absolutely incredible! You re right to wait for a committed life time relationship (note the life time - critical). Sounds like you have a great guy, 25...

Staying a Virgin: havent done anything yet, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi David, Sorry, but you ve posted in the wrong category. This is How to keep your virginity until marriage , not How do I commit adultery with my girl friend and risk getting a Sexually Transmitted Disease or worse, getting her pregnant. The only...

Staying a Virgin: we havent done much yet, girlfriend, sorts
girlfriend, sorts, amd: Hey David, you tuys soumd like a nice couple. I guess all you need is to get her in the mood. What you are doing is fine, but try to get her alone. Try to get yourselves alone amd really try to spice up ur makout session and then juet try to make the advances....

Staying a Virgin: Important of being a Virgin, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hello Glory, You have done the right thing, saving your virginity for your future husband! Very good! Your problem is the same one that most girls face today. You have found that most men just want free sex, not a wife, and they will do any thing to...

Staying a Virgin: new bf :), Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hey Steph, The answer to your question is yes . He will continue to pressure you for sexual favors until you either do one of three things: 1) give in to him partially (make out, masturbation, oral) 2) give in to him totally (penetration, intercourse)...

Staying a Virgin: new bf :), Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hey Steph, The answer to your question is yes . He will continue to pressure you for sexual favors until you either do one of three things: 1) give in to him partially (make out, masturbation, oral) 2) give in to him totally (penetration, intercourse)...

Staying a Virgin: Why am I saving myself for marriage then ?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hello Sabrina! You get my Virgin Goddess award for the day. 20 and still a virgin? And in France of all places? Lady, you are a rock! I have nothing but admiration for you. I m sorry this guy has hurt you. If I wasn t clear about men s sexual preferences,...

Staying a Virgin: virginity, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Virginity is a state of mental and physical purity. Things remain pure, that is, in their native state, as long as they come in contact with no out side thing or influence. There fore, to remain a virgin, a woman has to have no physical contact with some one,...

Staying a Virgin: virginity, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Ariyan, what a beautiful name. Well, you get my Virgin Goddess of the Day award, 17 and still a virgin? Amazing. And by choice? Even more amazing. And in spite of pressure and plenty of opportunity to lose it? You are definitely a Virgin Goddess. ...

Staying a Virgin: 20 and still a virgin, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hey Lee, you get my Virgin Goddess of the Day award! You may not value your virginity, but it s still a thing of great worth. When you ask for tips and advice, not sure what you re hoping for. I help people stay away from sex until marriage, but since you...

Staying a Virgin: I bet almost everysingle subject has this in it: Virginity, self gratification, ignorant monkey
self gratification, ignorant monkey, wellness partner: Dear Daniel, I like your research project....but the time of your written question was listed at 4:00 a.m. I hope it isn t keeping you up at night. While I can t think of a metaphor right now, it s an interesting concept but I ll try to think of an analogy...

Staying a Virgin: me and my boyfriend, guardian angel, tempting fate
guardian angel, tempting fate, sexual relationship: Dear Gabriela, Stay strong, don t allow yourself to be in a prolonged situation of necking as you already know that you are tempting fate because of youthful libido (feelings of arousal). It is natural to want to be in love but at 15 you are still a minor...

Staying a Virgin: I bet almost everysingle subject has this in it: Virginity, h j eysenck, journal of sex research
Staying a Virgin: I bet almost everysingle subject has this in it: Virginity, h j eysenck, journal of sex research, losing your virginity

Staying a Virgin: me and my boyfriend, virginity, intercourse
Staying a Virgin: me and my boyfriend, virginity, intercourse, young women

Staying a Virgin: losing my virginity, emotional experience, true intentions
Staying a Virgin: losing my virginity, emotional experience, true intentions, inconsistency

Staying a Virgin: Making it easier, browser history, sexual nature
Staying a Virgin: Making it easier, browser history, sexual nature, pornography

Staying a Virgin: Hey., Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hey Ray, If what you re saying is completely accurate, I d sue the little slut who falsely accused you for defamation of character / slander or what ever the equivalent is down under. It s a hard thing for me to say, being a Christian, I d love for you...

Staying a Virgin: losing my virginity, losing my virginity, casual sex
losing my virginity, casual sex, college education: Dear Amanda, Your note has a few clues to me which you may not recognize but I d like to point them out to you. You already know it s better for teens to wait until they are older to have sex. As you know, if you get pregnant when you re older and more...

Staying a Virgin: Making it easier, experience excitement, intense periods
experience excitement, intense periods, intense emotions: Ally, Avoiding situations of long and intense periods of necking and caressing will definitely help. You are both very wise--because allowing yourselves to experience intense emotions can definitely decrease your ability to abstain. Males hormones at...

Staying a Virgin: virginity and the ignorance., Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hello Daniel, Never a waste of time to help some one who thinks sex out side of marriage / life long commitment is wrong. Problem is, you re most likely never going to verbally persuade some one who wants to have sex to not do it. I m afraid it s deeper...

Staying a Virgin: Ways to hold off?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Lee, happy to help. Yeah, don t rush in to sex, it s a one way street - when you go down it, you can t come back. So make sure you go with a guy that will really, truly love you for the entire trip. Be careful about liars, the world is full of them,...

Staying a Virgin: why should i?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hey Kelsey! 16 and still a virgin? Incredible. In spite of the fact that you don t value your virginity, I m still giving you my Virgin Goddess award. Looks like you re only going to have it for a few more hours though - way too sad... Why should you...

Staying a Virgin: Help!, high sex drive, emotional reaction
Staying a Virgin: Help!, high sex drive, emotional reaction, fornication

Staying a Virgin: Help, abnormal sex, clarity
Staying a Virgin: Help, abnormal sex, clarity, pornography

Staying a Virgin: Virgin/non-virgin, Christian/non-Christian relationship, virginity, seduction
Staying a Virgin: Virgin/non-virgin, Christian/non-Christian relationship, virginity, seduction, virgin

Staying a Virgin: Help!, birth control pills, current boyfriend
birth control pills, current boyfriend, teenage mother: Dear Katelyn, While you ve done your part, if I were you I would not want to be the collaborator responsible for assisting her to get birth control. Unless someone is ready to have a child, or knows the sexual health of a partner and ready to be in a monogomous...

Staying a Virgin: Help, hymen, virginity
hymen, virginity, reply: Dear Taylor, I would like very much to answer the only question you really want to know--about bleeding when you have broken your own hymen. However, before I can provide you with more information, I would need to know how you may have done this and was...

Staying a Virgin: Problem with friends, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hi Lisa, Sorry about the delay, gone for the week. Well, I don t care what any one else says or thinks, you get my Virgin Goddess of the Day award. I guess I m shocked that this is what our society has come to: a woman lives a decent, healthy life, not...

Staying a Virgin: Virgin/non-virgin, Christian/non-Christian relationship, purity pledge, pre natal care
purity pledge, pre natal care, relationship question: Ariana, It was extremely nice of you to respond and I am very happy that my words were encouraging. It seems to me that while both of you are hoping for a continuing relationship, you also seem to both be aware that self control will be necessary to be practiced....

Staying a Virgin: Am I just being weird for wanting to stay a virgin until marriage?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hey Sasha (see bottom for update), Well, I know you don t value your virginity, but I do, and so, even though you ll probably just chuck it in the trash can, you get my Virgin Goddess award for the day any way. By the way, you sound incredibly intelligent...

Staying a Virgin: boundaries of being a virgin., Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Janessa, You are a technical virgin, if you haven t been penetrated as you mentioned. But you ve gone as far as you can to still be called that. You are no longer an actual virgin. Why? You need to get your self tested for Sexually Transmitted Diseases...

Staying a Virgin: female anatomy during sex,intercourse, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hello Jzubiaya, Your question is in the wrong category, but I ll try to answer it any way. No, not all women bleed during first sexual intercourse. Most especially if you are older (20 or over), as you are. It certainly could happen the 4th time. ...

Staying a Virgin: I know im young, but am i too young?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Happy to help. First off, height for girls isn t every thing, and neither are breasts. Your friends are getting hit on because they send signals to guys that they are cheap and easy to bed. Guys will always hit on any thing that moves, so it will be some...

Staying a Virgin: i m virgin, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hello Aman, Congratulations on staying a virgin until your wedding! That s fantastic! Sadly, yes, you can tear your hymen, your virginity, by doing strenuous physical activities. I m not a doctor, so the only thing I can recommend is having one check...

Staying a Virgin: pregnancy, virus hiv, aids virus
virus hiv, aids virus, pregnancy symptoms: Dear Dasika, I would suspect that your girlfriend might have a virus, the flu, or an emotional reaction to her experience. It s unlikely that she would have pregnancy symptoms the very next day. However, only YOU and SHE were there and I would have...

Staying a Virgin: saving myself for marriage, valentine s day, alpha male
valentine s day, alpha male, going to college: Hi Chris, I appreciate your sharing of your thoughts about women and your aspirations to treat them with respect. It s pretty obvious to me that despite some negative influences in your life, you ve realized how you would prefer not to be, turned these...

Staying a Virgin: small/what, small vagina, kegal excercise
small vagina, kegal excercise, 24 years: Hey Mongrish that s normal. In fact, it s highly perfered because it makes it more pleasurable for both people. Chances are it will loosen up over the years, but there are ways to tighten back up. There is something called the kegal excercise, and that should...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity, studious nature, strange situation
studious nature, strange situation, girls school: Dear Preksha, I found your letter very sad. First of all, you need to believe that one day you will meet a man who is worthy of all of your good qualities. Instead of operating out of fear of your future with a dominating person, who will control your...

Staying a Virgin: virginity, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Preksha, well, you are correct, your situation is a tough one. I don t ever recommend starting a marriage with deception, but in your case, it wouldn t be a situation where you are trying to make your husband and in laws think you are some thing you aren t...

Staying a Virgin: virginity, bicycle seat, forceful impact
bicycle seat, forceful impact, vaginal canal: Dear Preksha, As you may have read in some of my previous answers, the hymen may be broken accidentally by a forceful impact on the vagina such as coming down hard on a bicycle seat or falling and hitting your vaginal area. There is usually bleeding...

Staying a Virgin: virginity, studious nature, strange situation
studious nature, strange situation, girls school: Hello, sorry for the delay, You may want to save some period blood or somehong like that, dont cut your vagina though. That id a very risky thing to do. So, yes, your best bet would be to save some anvleavdit in easy access to put on thr sheets when you are...

Staying a Virgin: I dont know if i am still a virgin??, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Nikky , YOU said he kinda went in a little from behind a few inches, maybe just the tip . So now you re saying you lied to me? YES, you can be pregnant and YES you can have an STD, even if he was wearing a CD . And YES, you did have SEX. How exactly...

Staying a Virgin: Cannot find hymen, pink flesh, vaginal lips
pink flesh, vaginal lips, female anatomy: Lol. The female anatomy is not gross. So it s ok! And to answer your question; the location of the hymen on a girl varies. It is possible that you just can t see it because yours is too clear, or a little deeper, just past that flesh part. Generally the hymen...

Staying a Virgin: Cannot locate hymen, pink flesh, vaginal lips
pink flesh, vaginal lips, ride bikes: Dear Shaida, It appears as though you have done a lot of research on the hymen, and all of your information is correct. With the circumstances you ve mentioned, (viewing pink flesh, no heavy sports, biking, tampons, ) it s likely that your hymen is still...

Staying a Virgin: Scared, vaginal canal, hymen
vaginal canal, hymen, health clinic: Dear Jessica, I m sorry you re having this problem. There s really not much you can do about proving your virginity to him. (Read some of my previous answers on what virginity really means). While the hymen is a normal part of the anatomy, it can...

Staying a Virgin: Can't find hymen, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, sex: Hello Shayna, This is out of my expertise, and while I m medically trained, I m not a doctor. But since you asked, I ll do my best to answer. I ve never heard of a mucus hymen before. If you don t see an opening of any sort, chances are your hymen...

Staying a Virgin: virginiy, digital penetration, vaginal canal
digital penetration, vaginal canal, sexual experiences: Dear Ebrahim, A woman who is a virgin is one who has not had a sexual relationship. This is the true meaning of virginity. If you want to know how to identify a virgin, I would begin by trying to understand the person s reputation and your ability...

Staying a Virgin: HOW TO CHECK VIRGINITY, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, marriage: Ali, So sorry about the long delay in replying, my computer broke. Congratulations on your marriage! I am sorry that you are unsure if your new bride was a virgin. Sadly, there is no perfect way to tell if a woman is a virgin, you just have to trust...

Staying a Virgin: Girlfriend not a virgin, sexual act, exact number
sexual act, exact number, hymen: Dear Adam, I will try to answer your question, not really knowing your girlfriend, what she is like except for her immoral past and merely guess at some of the reasons she might have acted as she did when she was 15. You didn t reveal either of your...

Staying a Virgin: HOW CAN I KNOW MY SEXUAL ABILITY, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, keep: Hey Majed, Congratulations on making it to 22 with out having sex out side of marriage. If you have no problem getting physically excited by your self, unless your future wife is unattractive to you or you have some thing seriously physically wrong,...

Staying a Virgin: oral sex?, intact hymen, unprotected intercourse
intact hymen, unprotected intercourse, having sexual intercourse: Dear Delay, While it would help me to guide you better if I had more details, I m not going to ask you to fill me in on them--like the age of your boyfriend, whether you were talked into this, whether you felt pressured because you thought your cool friends...

Staying a Virgin: remark, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, keep: Hello Precious, Yes, I m 100% against pre-marital sex, it is WRONG in every case. There is no excuse for it, really. It IS possible to wait, and if you can t wait any more, you can get married / enter a life long, committed relationship. The problem is...

Staying a Virgin: SEX, physical reason, sexual relationship
physical reason, sexual relationship, little knowledge: Dear Maria, I usually counsel young women who are unmarried and trying to make a decision about whether or not to enter into a sexual relationship. You, on the other hand, have decided to marry and if your question is about whether or not to have a sexual...

Staying a Virgin: Am i still a virgin?, hiv virus, sexual relationship
hiv virus, sexual relationship, hymen: Dear Monalissa, Yes, the blood you saw was most likely from a torn hymen, and yes, it is usually common to feel some discomfort upon penetration of the penis since there is stretching involved with the vagina. Please read some of the previous questions by...

Staying a Virgin: about verginity, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, keep: Hello Royal, First off, referring to a girls genitals as the pussy is completely vulgar and insulting, hardly some thing a fine, upstanding man like your self would normally stoop to. That said, there is no totally accurate virginity test for a woman....

Staying a Virgin: virginity, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, keep: Happy to help. No apologies necessary about the length of your question. I don t answer personal questions about what I ve done or haven t done. I just tell people the right thing to do. And the right thing to do in if you want to wait until marriage to...

Staying a Virgin: well..., birth control devices, sexual relationship
birth control devices, sexual relationship, unwanted children: Maz, I really don t understand what you are asking...( I don t know what I want when it comes to sex ). Do you mean you don t know whether or not you re ready to have sex? A sexual relationship with a partner comes with a lot of responsibilities and at...

Staying a Virgin: blowjobs, giving a blow job, playing with fire
giving a blow job, playing with fire, worldliness: Dear Zoey, I m sorry to have to tell you that this is not a HOW TO DO IT SITE but instead a site for those who are struggling with the decision about whether to stay a virgin. I don t think that could be your concern because giving a blow job does not...

Staying a Virgin: Im a liar, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, how: Hi Dulce, First off, you are doing the right thing, staying a virgin until marriage. If you do this one thing, if you can hold out until marriage with another person who shares those same beliefs, you will be paid back the rest of your life for this one...

Staying a Virgin: is massage with happy ending wrong?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, how: Hello Jerry, You sound like a very moral man, I am encouraged by your concern about this act. I think you should follow your heart and not do this thing, go to this place. Here is why: First, after it is over, you won t feel good, you will feel bad....

Staying a Virgin: is she a virgin, long term relationship, female anatomy
long term relationship, female anatomy, vaginal canal: Dear Ahmed, From what you describe,it is likely that SHE WAS A VIRGIN WHEN YOU MARRIED HER. From your description of the female anatomy, you seem to understand the shape of the vaginal canal pretty well....which leads me to believe that might not have...

Staying a Virgin: BlowJobss, risks of oral sex, oral intercourse
risks of oral sex, oral intercourse, descision: Dear Katherine, Your friend has already told you. Who else does she need to tell....and why would she need to tell someone else? Except of course if it is bothering her and she needs to talk with a therapist, then I would suggest she gets there quickly...

Staying a Virgin: Is it wrong to want to be a virgin for life maybe?, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, how: Hello Shayda, You, my dear, get my Virgin Goddess of the Day award! Ordinarily pride is a bad thing, but in this instance, you have EVERY THING to be proud of. You are 100% in the right - sex is intended to take place ONLY inside a committed life long...

Staying a Virgin: 'Against' Pre-Marital Sex, local health departments, pre marital sex
local health departments, pre marital sex, pelvic inflammatory disease: Hello....whoever you are... To answer your question...because we care. Because, personally, as a health provider, a nurse who has actually attended children in labor, as young as 12, often 14-18, not knowing what they were going to do with the baby that...

Staying a Virgin: internal crisis...or just hormones..., personal conviction, internal crisis
personal conviction, internal crisis, sexual desire: No reason to be embarrassed. Be proud that you made it this far! Since you have saved yourself for some time, there are some issues unique to your situation you might want to consider as you navigate this time in your life. I would not recommend jumping...

Staying a Virgin: Sex At A Very Young Age, Still a Virgin?, losing your virginity, little kids
losing your virginity, little kids, hard time: Hmm... I would not consider that rape nor sex, but remember it is only WHAT you consider it to be. At that age, it is common for children to explore each other s bodies. I have a hard time; however, believing that you guys had full actual sex. Maybe...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, how: Jessi, So very sorry to hear about your tragedy. It is unbelievable the evil that is in this world. I hate to reopen old wounds, but have you been tested for Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD)? Also pregnancy, if it was recently. That said, I don t...

Staying a Virgin: virginity, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, how: Hi Erin, I m assuming by your comments that you are still a virgin, and if so, you get my Virgin Goddess of the Day award! Especially if you made it to 35. Amazing. Question 1: No, but it s highly unusual. Since you re from the U.S., you probably just...

Staying a Virgin: aaaaaah hymens?!, hymens, hypochondriac
hymens, hypochondriac, sexual experience: Hi Bronte, Could you tell me how old you are....a little more about yourself...I have no idea who I am responding to from your note to me and it really does make a difference in the advice I can offer. Do you live by yourself? Still in school? With...

Staying a Virgin: Need advice,please., sexual urges, prolonged periods
sexual urges, prolonged periods, cute name: Dear Dollie, Many people try to hide a lie...however have you ever heard what the definition is of having character? The definition of having character is what you do when no one is looking. If you can be proud of what you re doing when someone isn...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity, walking down the aisle, sexual urges
walking down the aisle, sexual urges, christian girl: Hello again Lesley, Attempting to answer your next question...consider MOVING ON!and forgiving yourself for experimenting because of immaturity. Forget what your boyfriend is erroneously advising you to do....get to a doctor immediately to take care of your...

Staying a Virgin: am i pregnant virrgin?, pre cum
Staying a Virgin: am i pregnant virrgin?, pre cum

Staying a Virgin: am i pregnant virrgin?, pregnancy tests, thigs
pregnancy tests, thigs, sperms: If your boyfriend ejaculated outside of your vagina you would not be pregnant. If some of the sperm entered your vagina, it is possible you could be pregnant. There are pregnancy tests that can be purchased at a pharmacy, over the counter. Ask your pharmacist...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity, abath, hiv aids
abath, hiv aids, heavy petting: Dear Nana, I received your reply with the additional information, happy you are continuing your education and have a serious partner. It sounds like you realize your responsibilities of marrying and supporting a family. BEST WISHES TO BOTH OF YOU. Sara...

Staying a Virgin: Virginity, hymens, surgical options
hymens, surgical options, hymen: Oh, my... I just saw you are from Lebanon. I did some quick research and see that women in your country are getting fake hymens due to this myth that women have hymens. Do not worry - if this is something that will affect a marriage for you it looks like...

Staying a Virgin: virginity doubts, virginity myths
virginity myths: I will answer your question, but your question doesn t even fit the category, trying to stay a virgin. But I m going to answer it because your email sounds a little sexist. Unfortunately I can see the country you are from and I know women there are not...

Staying a Virgin: Broken hymen, hymen, virgin
hymen, virgin: By school age, most girl s hymens are so thin and delicate anything can break or tear them (bike-riding, etc). Some aren t even fully intact, and some are stretchy (see link below). So basically you probably didn t break your hymen. Only very small children...

Staying a Virgin: Am I still a Virgin?
Staying a Virgin: Am I still a Virgin?

Staying a Virgin: Hymen, Virgin, virginity
Virgin, virginity, how: Hi Katia, This question is out of my area of expertise. But definitely, Congratulations on making it to 19 and not having sex! Save it for marriage, don t be the next sorry girl who lives a life time of regret. That said, female physiology can vary from...