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Teen Dating Issues: Grinding with some other guys..., long distance relationship, random girls
long distance relationship, random girls, trust issues: I can see why this makes you uncomfortable, but you should look at it another way: your girlfriend TOLD you about what happened. She did not kiss, make out, or sleep with these guys. The truth is, it was a party. People dance at parties. You should be more...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy Trouble, long term relationship, guy trouble
long term relationship, guy trouble, loose interest: I was exactly like you 2 years back, until I met a serious boy that I had a 2 year relationship with. I was afraid that I was going to stop liking him and get bored. But, I didn t. Because I took the risk in finding out. What I learned when looking closer...

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriends mom hates me..., james windell, ups
james windell, ups, hickey: Hi, I don t remember that post you speak of. Did you try James Windell Parenting Teen expert? Can you tell me the title of that post? Have you had intercourse with this person? If so talk to a doctor and get tested. Ages? I can try to help you more, but I...

Teen Dating Issues: girls part 3, frienship, great time
frienship, great time, feelings: Hello Again Scott, Follow what your heart is telling you to do. Which one can you see yourself dating in the long run? Which one has more in common with what you like? Who do you care about the most? It s better to ask yourself these questions before you...

Teen Dating Issues: she gives me signs that she likes me but doesn't want a boyfriend., afraid of commitment, last boyfriend
afraid of commitment, last boyfriend, sliver: Hello Vaughn, She could be afraid of commitment, or something happened with her last boyfriend that makes her just not want one at the moment. Eventually she ll open up, but I wouldn t push it too much at the moment since it seems like she already has...

Teen Dating Issues: How do i get this guy to notice me at school?, spazz, plenty of times
spazz, plenty of times, skater: Hello Vanessa, Bumping people into the hallway could be a good thing, but if you don t really know that person, you don t know what kind of reaction you might get. lol he could either think it s cute and help you if you drop your things, or he could think...

Teen Dating Issues: Help!, acne creams, playing video games
acne creams, playing video games, noxema: Be polite and don t bring up the incident unless they do. Act normally, it s not a big deal since you were only kissing. Your guy will need to shave more often so that his stubble does not irritate your skin, you should also look into getting some aloe vera,...

Teen Dating Issues: Hi again, friend zone, last question
friend zone, last question, little bit: Hey again Tyler, No it wasn t a bad idea to call at all! It was actually a very sweet gesture and it showed her that you really care, and it more than likely flattered her. The only way it could have been creepy is if you kept calling back to back, but...

Teen Dating Issues: help! does she really care?, wife struggle, first girlfriend
wife struggle, first girlfriend, first kiss: well it sounds like she has some issues between her ocd and her previous bf. i guess you need to really have a heart to heart talk with her. find out what she is really thinking and see if she wants to stay in this relationship. communication is very important...

Teen Dating Issues: A huge mess cont, guy friends, bad mood
guy friends, bad mood, piece of paper: You must be very sensitive to WANT to interpret her lack of action. The hardest thing might be wanting to but being uncertain your interpretation is correct. No one can know but her, so not getting a response only aggravates the emotions. Don t interpret...

Teen Dating Issues: im confused.., random girl, girl cam
random girl, girl cam, little trouble: You ll realize this in a few years but guys are a lot more immature than girls are. You seem mature and level-headed. Why are you with someone that s unsure about how he feels about you? I say just ignore him and the situation. You re too good for him....

Teen Dating Issues: im still in love with my ex boyfreind what should i do??, boyfreind, 7 months
boyfreind, 7 months, bianca: Hello Paris [love the name by the way :)] It all depends on what broke you guys up in the first place. If it wasn t anything major that can t be fixed, I don t see why not giving it another chance. If the breakup was bad, then you need to sit and really...

Teen Dating Issues: He introduced me to his mother! Does that mean he likes me?, funnel cake, separate ways
funnel cake, separate ways, seven months: Hello Sydney, The signs are all there :) He s def. developing a crush on you. He came to see your play TWICE, brought his mother, introduced you to his roommate, made you laugh, and implied that he would want to come to the fair everyday (to see you obviously)....

Teen Dating Issues: Kissing leading to break ups?, incompatibility issue, girl friend
incompatibility issue, girl friend, wham: It s definitely a maturity, incompatibility issue. Kissing doesn t lead to breaking up. You re young, these people either got bored, realized they weren t a good match, or started liking someone else. Don t correlate kissing with breaking up, it s only going...

Teen Dating Issues: Long Distance, long distance relationship, watchful eye
long distance relationship, watchful eye, simple solution: How did you meet her? Did you know her as a friend, and then your family moved away? How long have you been planning to stay at her house? Did you originally have her mother s permission to visit your gf and stay with them, and then she changed her mind? How...

Teen Dating Issues: Long distance relationship, long distance relationship, relationship question
long distance relationship, relationship question, grand parents: Could you write letters to another neighbor? This is a difficult situation, and I honestly don t know what s going on with your aunt. You need to talk to her and ask. be straightforward and honest. Ask her if she is feeling guilty about all of this (even if...

Teen Dating Issues: Long distance relationship problem, long distance relationship, relationship problem
long distance relationship, relationship problem, peop: You re friends... but you still say you love each other... that has to stop immediately. You aren t going out, and he can flirt/hang out with whomever he wants. You should be seeing other men, and he should be seeing other women. The fact is you are both addicted...

Teen Dating Issues: Taking a Break in a Relationship, long term relationship, relationship question
long term relationship, relationship question, taking a break in a relationship: You say that you are both fighting a lot now, what do you fight about? This other guy? I am all for taking a step back and cooling down so that a situation can be calmly evaluated. That said, I ALSO believe that one week breaks are complete bullshit. They...

Teen Dating Issues: Love...?, smoking cigarettes, 7 months
smoking cigarettes, 7 months, sleep: Hello Nychelle, It s possible that he loves you, but he s still young and has a lot of growing up to do apparently. Enjoy your life, and have fun while he s still deciding. When he s ready he will come back to you. Until then, don t sweat it too much,...

Teen Dating Issues: long distance relatonships, club sports team, outreach groups
club sports team, outreach groups, drug habit: First of all, congratulations on kicking your drug habit, that s not easy to do and you should be proud of yourself. Since you are 15, I think it would be a good idea for you to get a job, or volunteer somewhere (an animal shelter, retirement house). You should...

Teen Dating Issues: longdistance girlfriend, right choice, deb
right choice, deb, girlfriend: Dear Derek, You made the right choice. If she is the right one, you two will reconnect later on, when you are both older and out of college. It is a good thing not to get serious now, when you are still young. Both of you wil change a lot between now...

Teen Dating Issues: Did he lose interest? Or is he really too busy?, theatrical scene, jumping the gun
theatrical scene, jumping the gun, tone of voice: It obviously looks like you ve been doing your research, you ve looked back in the previous months at how he s been acting and so you took that into account before jumping the gun and making a huge, theatrical scene. I don t think you re being paranoid....

Teen Dating Issues: i love you... not, daniel age, indecisiveness
daniel age, indecisiveness, perfect moment: Hi Jessica, I think you need to pin him down and ask him why he got back together with you if he doesn t love you? And why did he say it all those times if he didn t mean it? Did he mean it at one time and just feels like he doesn t love you anymore? Unfortunately,...

Teen Dating Issues: i love you... not, daniel age, indecisiveness
daniel age, indecisiveness, tender moments: Hello Again Jessica, I can honestly say I know why you re so upset. I did the same thing to my boyfriend. I loved him very much, but after our breakup, I felt so drained, and all the arguments we had began to wear down my love for him to the point I didn...

Teen Dating Issues: Not Sure If It Was A Mistake, breaking up with your boyfriend, forest party
breaking up with your boyfriend, forest party, odd guy: Well, it s only normal to feel a sense of curiosity for a boy. But realize this, you just met this guy, do you really think you ve grown a liking in him so fast? You don t even know him - to you, he s just this random, odd guy that showed up to a forest party....

Teen Dating Issues: I'm too shy, little quiet, outgoing person
little quiet, outgoing person, scary movies: Elise, he asked you to be his girlfriend knowing you were shy, quiet, reserved. That s the girl he liked then, and it s probably the girl he likes now. But you need to be honest with him. don t EVER make up anything. Be honest. Say, I m not a very outgoing...

Teen Dating Issues: Ingore it?, names jessica, daniel age
names jessica, daniel age, jessica age: Hello Again Jessica! :) I m so happy for you, and I m glad you two talked about it and worked it out. It shows that you two really care for each other and know how to act like adults. As for his brother and the friend, pay them no mind. What goes on between...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help with my ex and these other guys, waste of time, whore
waste of time, whore, mom: Hello Kaycee, If you aren t interested in any of these guys, then don t bother. Dating them just because you like giving chances will more than likely just make YOU miserable in the end. It will just end up being a waste of time for everyone. If you still...

Teen Dating Issues: new friends, popular crowd, hard to be friends
popular crowd, hard to be friends, popular girl: Hi Sherine, It s common to be intimidated by the popular crowd in school (high school, correct?). I m very glad I am able to answer this question for you. I myself never used to be too popular. My family was never rich. But this was okay for me, because...

Teen Dating Issues: Please help me ; (, girlfriend, freshman
girlfriend, freshman, relationship: This guy is a flirt, and he s playing mind games with you. He says he likes you, yet he is DATING another woman. He compliments, flirts, gives you presents WHILE he is WITH someone else. He is a player and he should know better. He s probably banking on the...

Teen Dating Issues: parents dont understand, friends mom, additional training
friends mom, additional training, misunderstandings: This is a crappy situation, but your options are limited. How old are you? And what exactly, was this misunderstanding ? Parents don t flip out for no reason, especially three different ones. I will be better able to help you if I know all the facts. ...

Teen Dating Issues: Question, hs seniors, living in the moment
hs seniors, living in the moment, relatio: Hello, To be honest, it s not that great of a chance, unless the love you two have is SUPER strong, and BOTH of you make an effort to call and see each other when you can. If it becomes one-sided, there is no way it will ever work. I tried the long distance...

Teen Dating Issues: another question about ex. sorry if i seem needy, initiative, friendship
initiative, friendship, ups: Take the initiative and talk to her more, if you just sit back and wait, she ll take it as you not really wanting to be her friend. But don t talk to her so much that it comes off as you hounding her. If you need anymore help, you can email me at Biancawright23@yahoo.com...

Teen Dating Issues: Really need some help..., mimy, friend cause
mimy, friend cause, real friend: Hello Mimy, It s going to be tough, but you re going to have to be upfront about how you feel about this whole situation. Just let him know you love him as a friend, and you care about him and wouldn t want to mess up such a great friendship by complicating...

Teen Dating Issues: Really unsure...., supermodel girlfriend, likes and dislikes
supermodel girlfriend, likes and dislikes, girlfrend: Sean, it sounds like you just haven t found a girl who fits you. A lot of times this is because we aren t really sure what we want in a partner. As a child, we let our parents dictate what we want: wear this, eat that, believe this. As teens, we begin constructing...

Teen Dating Issues: Relationships!, sex life, expectation
sex life, expectation, great time: Hello Sarah, I know how you feel. I ve always been awkward in every relationship I ve been in until now. You just have to open up. I m sure he s not the kind of guy that would make you feel bad or weird for acting like yourself. And it will make everything...

Teen Dating Issues: Relatioship vs God, relatioship, vow to god
relatioship, vow to god, front page news: Hi, Sorry very busy over here. Just had the holiday. Ok let s go from my view, OK? I am Jewish. Jews are thought of as very ethical people. If we do something wrong, it makes front page news and it looks bad for all of us, so we try hard not to have those...

Teen Dating Issues: Is he really into me?, couple weekends, onc
couple weekends, onc, 4 months: It looks like he s really interested in you, if he s waiting and usually doesn t wait for girls then this looks pretty good to me. I say, stop beating around the bush, if you re curious as to what you two are, then ask him honestly. Ask him if he s been...

Teen Dating Issues: is he really into me?, couple weekends, onc
couple weekends, onc, 4 months: Does this guy like you? Do me a favor and read everything you wrote in your question. Then sit back and relax because the answer is a whopping YES. You seem to be worried for two reasons: 1. You don t know what the two of you are, and 2. You re worried...

Teen Dating Issues: is he really into me?, couple weekends, onc
couple weekends, onc, 4 months: Emma, yes, a guy who shows you his photo album and introduces you to his mother (not to mention the song and sweet text) is INTO you. You don t have to have the talk to be a couple. If you respect yourself - and it sounds like you do - then you can assume...

Teen Dating Issues: is he really into me?, couple weekends, onc
couple weekends, onc, 4 months: Hello Emma, I m one of the people that believe that drunken words are what that person is truly feeling. Being drunk might be the only way that he can express himself openly like that because he ll feel that it s not really him saying it, and if you...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he really like me?, girlfriend, freshman
girlfriend, freshman, relationship: Hello Kim, Honestly, it might be the age/grade difference. He might like you, but that s putting him off even trying to go there with you. Or he could just be a dog. Either way I say don t waste your time. If he s doing and saying all of this while he...

Teen Dating Issues: I really like this boy, But .., friend bianca, friendwise
friend bianca, friendwise, beating around the bush: You re welcome. I m sure he doesn t hate you. It might just be a little awkward for him because he might think that you want to take it to the next level. You just need to make it clear to him that you just want to be friends. It will make him feel more...

Teen Dating Issues: When is the right time?, dave and buster, type of girl
dave and buster, type of girl, first date: Hello Mike, You might want to give her a little more time, otherwise if you take her on a date, you ll just hear more about her ex instead of HER. :) And we don t want that. Exes are bad. For a good first date though, I d say dinner, or if you re around...

Teen Dating Issues: Son is about to turn 18 but has an under age girlfriend, using a condom, birth control pill
using a condom, birth control pill, pregnant while on the pill: Dear John, It depends upon what state you (more importantly what state your son) lives in. Even if your/his state allows teens with one year of age difference to be sexually active together, there are still some issues your son should be aware of....

Teen Dating Issues: How Can I Stop This ??, cockiness, conversation with someone
cockiness, conversation with someone: It s just a front to seem cool and big in front of you... just ignore it. Once he sees that you don t show any reaction and just occupy yourself with something else (have a conversation with someone else when he has his moments of cockiness) he ll realize...

Teen Dating Issues: Am I just a security net?, lame excuse, friend with benefits
lame excuse, friend with benefits, hook up: It s so very simple and the answer is right in front of you. You re definitely not a security net, because to be a security net you would have had to have some some sort of relationship, something serious, like he had with his previous girlfriend. We call...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, guy alot, freshman year
guy alot, freshman year, best girl: Hi Linda, As you are only 14 and it is illegal to have sex under the age of 16 I am not going to encourage you to have sex although you must understand it is your own decision so I will explain your options. Your chosen choice of protection that I am...

Teen Dating Issues: what should i do after sex?, long distance relationship, last saturday
long distance relationship, last saturday, fling: You saw/spoke to him on sunday, and you re worried cause you haven t talked to him since? You need to relax. There s nothing to worry about. Wait for him to contact you, and don t stress. To give you some perspective: I talk to my guy once a week, but if three...

Teen Dating Issues: what should i do after sex?, red flag, fling
red flag, fling, last saturday: Ok, so let us not panic here. It s only been 3 days. Not a big deal. If it s bothering you this much, why haven t you tried contacting him in some way? If you still decide NOT to contact him, then you re going to have to suck it up and wait for him to contact...

Teen Dating Issues: How do I get this skater guy to notice me at school?, mutual friend, new kid
mutual friend, new kid, hallways: Hello Macey :) Do you know any of his skater friends? If you do, maybe you can get one of them to introduce you two. If not, then there is probably no other way but to just introduce yourself. I know it sounds weird and awkward, but you want to be known...

Teen Dating Issues: how to start a conversation with a girl, whilst walking to college, south of england, saying hello
south of england, saying hello, random things: Hello Ali, You could start gradually instead of just jumping into her face lol. Try smiling at her and saying hello when you walk by..or if you see any books in her hand you could comment on one. If you just stop her and start talking about random...

Teen Dating Issues: How to make it stop hurting?, cheeks, 3 years
cheeks, 3 years, boundaries: Hello David, The only thing you can do at this point is just be her friend and respect that she has a boyfriend. If she wants to break it off to be with you, then that s fine, but until then, I wouldn t recommend crossing any boundaries because then she...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen dating, friend zone, last question
friend zone, last question, little bit: Touching during a conversation can be another form of flirting, it depends on how she did it and what was said. Good thing you paid attention to that though. :) Being nervous is normal. I normally make an excuse to get away when I m scared or nervous about...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen dating - ages, statutory rape laws, school counselor
statutory rape laws, school counselor, physical relationship: Gail, you sound like an amazing mother. To respect your daughter rather than to want to control her is commendable! Age is almost always in reference to statutory rape laws. In general, most places in the US observe the 730 day rule. If either of the...

Teen Dating Issues: How Can I Tell ?, lot one, guy friend
lot one, guy friend, ordeal: It s difficult to really tell.. Ex s break up for either big reasons or really small things that neither of you want to change but affects the relationship A LOT. One thing to really look closely at is how much effort he s putting into the whole getting...

Teen Dating Issues: I can't get over him...., saying things, virginity
saying things, virginity, grandparents: Re-read what you just wrote me: I know he s immature and he lied to me, BUT I still love him so much... . You re letting all of that out the door just because you love him? You re not an idiot. But you aren t seeing things straight. Lets just get one thing...

Teen Dating Issues: I can't get over him...., saying things, virginity
saying things, virginity, grandparents: First of all, don t feel stupid or bad about this. You have gone through a very difficult situation, and your feelings are completely validated. I know you are feeling alone and unloved and scared, but I m here to tell you that you are NOT alone. You ARE loved,...

Teen Dating Issues: talking to girls and dating, talking to girls, scean
talking to girls, scean, abusive relationship: You re still very young, don t worry about not having a girlfriend (or the fact that you ve never dated). It just means that you have standards, and that s a good thing. All you can do is be yourself, you ll meet a girl that you click with, and you won t even...

Teen Dating Issues: teenage long distance, taking a gap year, mail box
taking a gap year, mail box, internet cafes: Is he travelling around the world by himself? Or with a friend/parent? Does he have a cell phone? Does he know exactly where he s going and how long he will stay in each place? Or is he simply going to a few countries and spending more time there? Can you...

Teen Dating Issues: i think my boyfriend dosen't like me eneymore, carrieann, whor
carrieann, whor, living hell: Dear carrieann, Why would YOUR friend kk tell your boyfriend that she will make his life a living hell??? You should not be scared about a guy breaking up with you. Nothing bad will happen. You will eventually meet someone else and you will barely...

Teen Dating Issues: What is she thinking?, 7 months, hallways
7 months, hallways, laid back: In all honesty, I have no idea! I m not your girlfriend of 7 months, she is. And by now, you two should have strong communication. You make big things out of nothing, because you need SOME reaction out of her, because it seems that she s the type to be...

Teen Dating Issues: Why is he treating me like this?, acting this way, mutual friends
acting this way, mutual friends, girls: Hello Kate, It could be possible that he likes you, but you may have did or said something that made him think that you don t like him, so he s taking it out on you by not talking to you and being rude. Maybe you should pull him aside and talk to him and...

Teen Dating Issues: Should i try to work this out?, friend st, longest time
friend st, longest time, happend: Well, I managed to read your message and I m going to answer your question (although you probably won t like my answer). This guy is a player. He enjoys flirting and hooking up with whatever girl is close at hand and convenient. Do not get involved with...

Teen Dating Issues: I've loved her for so long..., paper wads, homecoming court
paper wads, homecoming court, mixed signals: Hello Matt, This would be the perfect opportunity to make your move. Just don t jump right into the girlfriend part. lol You could ask her out on a date, like out to dinner, or somewhere else quiet so the both of you can talk and get to know each other...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he want to break-up?, something shady, ploy
something shady, ploy, amount of time: Hello, It could be either. He could really be busy, or he could be over the relationship. You won t really know for certain until you sit him down and ask him. Surely if he has time to talk to these girls, he has more than enough time to talk to you so...

Teen Dating Issues: well.. does he still like me, long distance relationship, phiippines
long distance relationship, phiippines, sweet tone: Hello Stacy, It s quite obvious he still likes you. There might be days when he wants to talk to you and give you attention, and some days where he doesn t and wants to fall back a little. Since everything is so long distance he might be afraid of getting...

Teen Dating Issues: well.. does he still like me, long distance relationship, phiippines
long distance relationship, phiippines, sweet tone: Stacy, judging by what you have said, no. I don t think he s showing you much loyalty or respect. If a guy treated me that way, I d stop giving him the courtesy of my attention and would instead find someone who is loyal and attentive and respectful. ...

Teen Dating Issues: well.. does he still like me, long distance relationship, phiippines
long distance relationship, phiippines, sweet tone: Hi Stacy, It does sound like he still likes you, but it also sounds like he is very hurt that you are gone. he obviously misses you, and it seems like he doesn t know how to deal with his feleings, sometimes being sweet to you, and others he seems a bit...

Teen Dating Issues: what's going on, first girlfriend, man chris
first girlfriend, man chris, tht: Christopher, I am happy to be able to help you. I don t think I m qualified to offer advice on how to help her other than to remind you that she has to want it for herself. You cannot allow her to talk to you hurtfully, and each time she does, you need...

Teen Dating Issues: let go?, long distance relationship, guy friend
long distance relationship, guy friend, last spring: Hello Bea, Just because you love someone, doesn t mean that you have to wait for them. College is a time where you find yourself and learn from different experiences, which is what he s probably doing. Therefore, you need to just focus on you and have...

Teen Dating Issues: What to do, relationship experience, goodbye kiss
relationship experience, goodbye kiss, slow dance: Hi Mark, It sounds like she really likes you! She wouldn t want to hang out with you otherwise. As far as what to do or talk about, try not to think on it too much. Be spontaneous. If you try to get too structured or scripted, you ll come off as stiff and...

Teen Dating Issues: let go?, long distance relationship, having a good time
long distance relationship, having a good time, guy friend: Listen Mary, he s away at school and it seems that you were more genuine about the way you felt than he was for you. Which isn t the end of the world, it s just an eye opener for the way he felt about you. Take it in positively. He s doing his own thing...

Teen Dating Issues: Does she like me?, fellow worker, first job
fellow worker, first job, last time: Hello George, To be honest, if she liked you, she would actually come to work instead of calling in all the time. I met my guy at my first job as well, and he would come to work everyday. He would even stop by to see me on his off days. So if she was interested,...

Teen Dating Issues: what to do?, long distance relationship, junk box
long distance relationship, junk box, guy friend: Hi Bea I think there is 3 possiblities of what is going on here. Firstly, have you considered that he may have changed his email address and forgot to tell you or perhaps his email is not working properly for some reason and so he has tried to email...

Teen Dating Issues: Again, follow ups, wrong way
follow ups, wrong way, happy birthday: Hey Tyler, Go above and beyond. Let her know you re a guy that likes to do things for the girl he likes. Go ahead and get her work for her! And it s okay to call after the surgery to check on her. It s sweet and she ll think wow this guy really cares!...

Teen Dating Issues: Does He Like Me or What .?!, prostitute, jokes
prostitute, jokes, signs: Hello Cassidy, I apologize for taking so long! :( He definitely likes you lol He s showing all the signs and he s going out of his way to mess with you. So childish, but that s how boys show that they like you. Why didn t you answer his call though? Too...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me?, lots of girls, deb
lots of girls, deb, butterflies: Dear Mikayla, Everything in your question above sounds like he absolutely likes you except for this part: But he s kind of a player . He says sexual things to me and other people. Another confusing part is, why hasn t he formally asked you out/asked...

Teen Dating Issues: Why is he doing this to me?, french kiss, one nite
french kiss, one nite, 2gether: Hi Kayla, This information does help a little more. If you two have been friends for a while, he might have been scared of hurting your friendship with each other after kissing you. He didn t know how you felt, so if you didn t have feelings for him, a...

Teen Dating Issues: it's about me, face book, nice voice
face book, nice voice, popular girl: Sherine, I feel as though I ve found a letter I wrote about myself when I was fifteen. At the same time, the letter could also have been written by Julia Roberts, Renee Zelweiger, or any other beautiful and talented woman on the planet. WE ALL FEEL THE SAME...

Teen Dating Issues: Why does he do this to me?Does he like me at all?, freshmen year, first kisses
freshmen year, first kisses, dream boy: Hello, Whew. He sounds really confused and young minded. If you still want to be friends with him, you re gonna have to talk to him and tell him straight up how you feel about him treating you this way, and that you won t stand for it anymore. Either he...

Teen Dating Issues: what to do..., general chit chat, blah blah
general chit chat, blah blah, good nite: The best thing to do is to give her space. If you wanted to take it slow with her, then you shouldn t have gotten her SO MANY presents. Your gifts were over the top and extravagent. She may feel as though you are trying to buy her affection. Stop texting her...

Teen Dating Issues: what do to..., general chit chat, blah blah
general chit chat, blah blah, good nite: Hello Harry, You could talk to her sister to see how she really feels. (Us girls tell our sisters everything) You might have scared her a little bit with all of the gifts, while it was a nice gesture, she might think that you want something in return other...

Teen Dating Issues: what to do..., general chit chat, blah blah
general chit chat, blah blah, good nite: Don t think about it, what s done is done. No need to be irritated by something that you ve caused yourself. Unfortunately, she s probably just backing away because she doesn t want to give you the false impression that she may want to be with you, as more...

Teen Dating Issues: What should I do about this?, random text, t text
random text, t text, third time: She has your number, and she knows how to get in touch with you if she wants to chat/hang out. She s seen your three missed calls yet she hasn t answered the phone. Don t text her, and don t call her again. If she contacts you, fine. If she doesn t, then you...

Teen Dating Issues: What should I do?, legitimate excuse, random text
legitimate excuse, random text, third time: It s only normal to over analyze situations like these, she hasn t been responding which only makes you think the negative. Don t message or call her until she contacts you. These things are to be 50/50. Not 90/10. You ve been the 90, so far. Wait until...

Teen Dating Issues: y gfs mother, gfs, own time
gfs, own time, backlash: Hello again, There s no real way you can change her mind, other than letting her do this on her own time. No parent really likes the fact that their daughter wants to date an older guy. Just keep treating her nice and be respectful to her and hopefully...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I Ask Her Out?, subtle signals, gpa
subtle signals, gpa, time management: It s all about time management. You can set an hour or two each night for your studies and talk/txt her when you are done with your homework. Do you two have any classes together? You could help each other study and do your homework together. Another option...

Teen Dating Issues: Bf problems...plz help!, long distance relationship, cuddles
long distance relationship, cuddles, couple weeks: Since it has only been a few weeks you will be depressed for awhile until you get overcome the situation. If he cannot accept you for you, then you should not change for his benefit. You should not have to have an excuse for the way you act, if that is your...

Teen Dating Issues: boyfriend has ADD, meds, empathy
meds, empathy, hard time: For the few years I ve been teaching I have encountered a few students with ADD. You will often find that they do and will act completely different when they do not take their meds. The meds are very life altering for most and it is tough to deal with if you...

Teen Dating Issues: Does my boyfriend still care about me?, first girlfriend, winter storms
first girlfriend, winter storms, good afternoon: Good afternoon, welcome to the site and I appologize for the delay in my response we have had bad winter storms out here and the internet has been down at my job and at home. I can see your frustration in this situation. Have you asked him why he has been...

Teen Dating Issues: boys :(, jerk, sophomore
jerk, sophomore, three months: Lerae - Tell your friend not to bother waiting for this jerk and to move on. If he really cared, he would still be waiting for her and 2 years is a long time to wait for someone and by then he ll be a senior and I really doubt he ll want to date a Freshman....

Teen Dating Issues: boysss :/, pain and heartache, grieving process
pain and heartache, grieving process, sadness: Melanie I apologize it has taken me awhile to respond to your question. I m proud of you for not settling for a guy who cheats, and that you realized it sooner than later. It is normal and common to feel pain and heartache when you see him with other girls...

Teen Dating Issues: break up, new years eve, great girl
new years eve, great girl, good luck: wow, she doesnt feel love anymore after just a few days? well if she can turn off her feelings that quickly maybe you dont want to date her anyways? if you want you can try to explain to her one more time how you feel about her and that what you said was...

Teen Dating Issues: break up, brain drain, notebook
brain drain, notebook: I feel that you cannot cause a person to miss you. It s all on their own doing. Also you will not know if a person misses you unless they tell you. I do agree with you that if he does care and loves you then he should speak up about what he s hiding. I feel...

Teen Dating Issues: C'mon... Is dating in high school really that important?, school freshmen, teenage depression
school freshmen, teenage depression, mature relationship: Hi, I have heard of a few cases where one dates in high school and marries and lives happily ever after. I think my mother s uncle was one of those cases. But, it s not super common. Dating in high school can last longer than a year, but it varies. Most do...

Teen Dating Issues: Communication, tricky topic, happy new year
tricky topic, happy new year, ups: This is very tricky for me to answer. Each case is special. In general I don t recommend texting. I also don t recommend teens to have cell phones, but that s another topic. My advice is wait a few days and try to call her directly. Be safe. Please ask...

Teen Dating Issues: It's Complicated, new years eve, indescretion
new years eve, indescretion, boyfriend mike: Why did one of you HAVE to cheat? Since he was single at the time that you two fooled around there is no point to lie further and add to the drama pool. Just realize the things you have learned to not let this happen again. If you have any more questions...

Teen Dating Issues: Crush Jealousy, last september, jealousy
last september, jealousy, girlfriend: Hi Chloe, I m sorry but you have to see it how it is. You did miss your chance unfortunately and it s not really fair to take someone else s. You might end up hurting this girls feelings. I would recommend staying away, if this boy likes you, he should come...

Teen Dating Issues: Most common question ever. LOL, friend jacob, playing video games
friend jacob, playing video games, crossing the line: Yes, but talk to him about it. Set clear parameters to protect your friendship should the romance fail. I m sorry, but you are right that it s a common question, and the answer is equally simple. Just talk to him and be smart about crossing the line between...

Teen Dating Issues: so confused., brain drain, virginity
brain drain, virginity, jocelyn: Jocelyn, I apologize it has taken me awhile to respond to you. It is common that you will always have one person that you will be emotionally connected to. It takes longer to get over certain people than others. The feelings for your ex will not get in...

Teen Dating Issues: I like him,but he's crazy about her., beautiful girl, best friends
beautiful girl, best friends, friendship: I apologize it has taken me awhile to respond to your question. Lilith, Most guys typically flirt and are unaware about it. He may not know that you like him if you haven t given him any hints towards it. You could run the idea by him about going on...

Teen Dating Issues: crush, old girl, good friend
old girl, good friend, next morning: talk to him...tell him your sorry for what happened. tell him you want to be his friend. you need to let this guy know how you feel because he is not going to know unless you tell him. give him some time and hopefully he will realize you have changed. good...

Teen Dating Issues: A crush..., self concious, girlfriend
self concious, girlfriend, phone number: Since you know her friends quite well you can all hang out together and begin talking to her that way. If you see her at school strike up a conversation: Hey are you friends with ____? She will more than likely respond yes. Then you can continue the conversation...

Teen Dating Issues: I have a crush with a beautiful girl at school, what to do, bringer of bad news, girl at school
bringer of bad news, girl at school, daffodils: Hi Ryan, i feel bad for you. It s hard when you like someone who has a boyfriend. Firstly, I m sorry to disappoint but most girls put x s on the end of their messages, they are just trying to be friendly. Secondly if everyone knows you like her she will be...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, tht, good friend
tht, good friend, just friends: Jamie, Talk talk talk talk talk!!! Talk to them both, let them know the feeling you have for him and let her know that you don t want to mess anything up but you can t hold in the feelings. But if you and him do get back together don t let him run the relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't understand..., cheek to cheek, romance scene
cheek to cheek, romance scene, friend doesn: I apologize for taking awhile to respond to your question. Most women feel insecure when a guy isn t necessarily all over them, but I wouldn t worry too much because he could be a respectful guy which is hard to come by. He may not have held hands with...

Teen Dating Issues: I dont understand!, smart girl, frame of mind
smart girl, frame of mind, boyfriends: when will you turn 18? sorry your parents are so strict. i guess they just dont understand that this is hurting you more then its helping you. can you move out when your 18? i guess you could tell them when you turn 18, im going to date whether you like it...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex, ex girlfriend
ex girlfriend: I apologize it has taken me awhile to respond to you. Since you know she still cares you can casually ask her if she would want to be your girlfriend again. You can explain why you like her so much and why you want to have her as your girlfriend again and...

Teen Dating Issues: How do i let him down easy??, sexual harassment, pick up lines
sexual harassment, pick up lines, eachother: Hi Sandy, Although you probably know this I have to stress if you end up meeting him don t meet him alone! And now to answer your question, just tell him he is really sweet but you don t see your relationship going anywhere past friendship. Tell him the...

Teen Dating Issues: emotional abuse, nasty names, sweet moments
nasty names, sweet moments, sweet guy: A person should never have to put up with anything of that sort. That is a sign when you don t want to leave because he can be a really sweet guy when he wants to be. It sounds like you are chasing after the person you liked when you first started dating....

Teen Dating Issues: My ex, breaking my heart, term basis
breaking my heart, term basis, how to win her heart: Jack, you can t control your ex, how she feels, what she believes. All you can control is you. So my advice is to always be the best YOU possible. Don t be what she wants you to be, because then you are only faking it to get the girl. We all know no one...

Teen Dating Issues: my ex +my bff=?, gf, liking
gf, liking, best friend: personally i think its not cool for a gf to date another gf s ex. i think you should talk with her and let her know that it would hurt your feelings if she dated him. that way she knows how you feel and if she does it anyways then maybe she is not a great...

Teen Dating Issues: friends get in the way sometimes..., one of my best friends, janurary
one of my best friends, janurary, maddy: it sounds like your friends are not really your friends of they are talking to a guy who you like. tell your friends how you feel and i would pull back from hanging out with them. also, find a new guy! :) this guy sounds like a player and just wants a girl...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend getting distant, eggs in one basket, breaking things
eggs in one basket, breaking things, mixed message: talk, talk, talk :) sit down with her and tell her how you feel and ask her why she is acting like this. maybe a break would be a good idea for you now. just be prepared in case she doesn t come back. your young and i wouldnt put all my eggs in one...

Teen Dating Issues: I like a girl who's older than me, but could she like me anyway? I need help about asking her out!, church youth group, freshman 15
church youth group, freshman 15, age gap: Hey Luke, AWE! That would be soooo cute!! I don t think that age matters at all my boyfriend is two years older then I am. I actually like the age difference. But anyway... I think the pizza date would be lovely and so what if it s cheesy its adorable!...

Teen Dating Issues: guy in school, concert jazz, future thanks
concert jazz, future thanks, being friends: i dont think there is anything wrong with being friends with him (if you can handle it). he sounds like a good guy and you probably dont want to loose that. the main question is can you handle just being friends with him? he has a gf and your right, you dont...

Teen Dating Issues: Help!, negative attention, negative behavior
negative attention, negative behavior, stares: You need to explore why you like someone who isn t treating you with respect. It s a dangerous red flag. For you to still like this boy means you might be drawn to people who are either dangerous (in your mind) or harmful. It s a sign you might be prone...

Teen Dating Issues: What even happened :(, side bangs, hook ups
side bangs, hook ups, sophomore year: I apologize it has taken me awhile to respond to your question: I appreciate all the details you gave,(It s defiantly okay to write more than not enough) It s very common to change throughout high school. It seems after a summer break everyone is different....

Teen Dating Issues: hey, mixed cd, buying gifts
mixed cd, buying gifts, gut feeling: Buying gifts is always and ultimately your personal call. If you would feel bad if you don t then I would go with your gut feeling and buy him something small or you could make him something. If you don t want to spend a lot of money you could always buy him...

Teen Dating Issues: hookups, old feelings, facebook
old feelings, facebook, emotional abuse: I apologize it has taken me a few days to respond to your question: That s great that you did not do what he asked you to do at this party. I also feel that emotional abuse in a relationship is never fun nor enjoyable. I believe he didn t text or call...

Teen Dating Issues: Issues in relationship, great relationship, resoultion
great relationship, resoultion, physical aspect: The reasons why you have the feeling of being sexual when you are alone is partially because if you enjoy it then of course you are going to want to continue the action. The reason why she could be feeling the way she does could partially be due how most...

Teen Dating Issues: im in love with a him but he has a girlfriend, brother sister, infatuation
brother sister, infatuation, liking: Hi Shamin, the good old brother sister liking situation. Well, firstly could you follow up telling me if he is older or younger than you? Then I can help you further on this situation. I understand that he is asking about you and yes this does show that he...

Teen Dating Issues: kissing, gf, habit
gf, habit, good luck: Hi Jon, Right well she might feel awkward because she is quite young. I wouldn t rush her but if you leave it too long you might fall into a habit of not trying to move forward. When the time feels right just kiss her before she realizes what your doing and...

Teen Dating Issues: long distance relationship, long distance relationship, 3 years
long distance relationship, 3 years, graduation: I think this situation will depend how it looks depending on your age. How old are you? Have you two hung out in person? I see that you two have meetings over a webcam though. I only strongly caution you to a few things. Moving in with someone as I m sure...

Teen Dating Issues: I love you, local community college, proper relationship
local community college, proper relationship, two and a half years: Good afternoon Jayn I apologize it has taken me a few days to get back to you. It is completely understandable to be cautious with the L word. However, if you are not comfortable saying it that means you are not ready to say it. You may like Craig a...

Teen Dating Issues: I love him, he hates me., first day of school, whole life
first day of school, whole life, school year: you need to start pulling away from him. this guy sounds like a jerk and you dont need someone like that in your life. i know its hard but you need to stop talking to him and even find someone else you can hang out with and maybe even date. show him that he...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm so confused, pain and misery, current boyfriend
pain and misery, current boyfriend, girl down: Cody I apologize it has taken me a little while to get back to you. It is always to your discretion to wait. You have to ask yourself the question if she is worth the wait, and how long are you willing to wait? It will take time for you to get over things...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm Having Doubts, massage therapy school, massage therapy
massage therapy school, massage therapy, sex life: Hi Jocelyn, Although i can not fully answer your question I might be able to help you with your relationships sex problem. Have you ever tried to make your sexy life spontaneous? Ever try anything like dress up or experiment with different toys. You could...

Teen Dating Issues: I need advice, reputation, fellow
reputation, fellow, failure: No matter if you know his reputation that often doesn t stop an individual from perusing a relationship. It s known that if you go into the relationship expecting failure it will happen. It is also important to realize what you want and if you feel you will...

Teen Dating Issues: need advice to keep a long relationship, share your feelings, character traits
share your feelings, character traits, garrett: Garrett, the word compatible means that TWO people fit each other well enough to marry. Be careful, because you seem to see yourself able to marry a girl who doesn t share your feelings yet. What I m saying is that, as of today you aren t really compatible...

Teen Dating Issues: Oblivious?, group outings, strong point
group outings, strong point, grade 9: Sometimes guys typically do not like girls chasing after them due to a few reasons: One being that he doesn t like any of them who are chasing him. Doesn t know that they are chasing him. Doesn t want to have any drama if chooses one of them. Have you...

Teen Dating Issues: Problems...., close friends, ditch
close friends, ditch, nerves: Hi Rachel, You should try talking to him and your other friend that is acting like more then friends with him. Tell him how you feel and that you don t want the relationship to get wired. And when you talk to your other friend tell her she is really...

Teen Dating Issues: Re:, first girlfriend, aggressive thoughts
first girlfriend, aggressive thoughts, crazy stuff: There are many reasons why couples fight. Overall I think you just need to communicate with her and explain that fighting gets you no where and if you cannot get along then something needs to change. I think you need to realize that you will have many more...

Teen Dating Issues: Re:, negative attention, follow ups
negative attention, follow ups, ups: I hate how this site doesn t allow certain amount of follow ups. Too answer your question: If she has yahoo does she have an email? If so you can email her and explain you do not want to fight anymore because it is wearing you both out and putting a strain...

Teen Dating Issues: Re:, girlfriend alice, honolulu hawaii
girlfriend alice, honolulu hawaii, bad habit: Since you are only 12, why are you worried about dying? Do you not have a supportive family or decent home life? Not that I m reading too much into the situation, but normally this type of behavior means you are seeking the things you are missing at home in...

Teen Dating Issues: How to really leave, time college, pictur
time college, pictur, 4am: It sounds as if you ve had a few frustrating months. I think it s good that you want to really leave. He does not sound committed and sounds as if he feels it is okay to run all over you and then cry about it to get you back and have you feel sorry for him....

Teen Dating Issues: School's Hell, fact of life, saying things
fact of life, saying things, humiliation: yes, ignore the idiot kids who are saying things to you. if you dont react to what they are saying then they will eventually stop bugging you about it. some kids can be mean and unfortunently thats a fact of life. good luck and please let me know if you want...

Teen Dating Issues: Son's behaviour concerns us..., james windell, careers adviser
james windell, careers adviser, generous nature: Hi, As always I recommend to start with the school and his doctor. I am not sure if he needs a psychologist yet, but I am not in the setup to even say no to such. If I had to recommend one over the other, a psychologist is probably the one I would recommend,...

Teen Dating Issues: Son suspended from school over his "shameful" behaviour, careers adviser, class clown
careers adviser, class clown, therapeutic advice: I apologize it has taken me awhile to respond to your question: It sounds like your son committed this behavior to prove a point of some sort whether it was to make his teacher mad, could have lost a bet to his friends, making a point against school uniforms,...

Teen Dating Issues: She said "the word", one conversation, second date
one conversation, second date, wrong impression: Good morning Todd, I don t think she knows the meaning of the, I love you, statement. I completely understand how and why you said it back because you were caught off guard which is a normal reaction. You can always have a conversation with her. One conversation...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I say yes?, bad reputation, eigth grade
bad reputation, eigth grade, bad rap: Amanda I apologize it has taken me awhile to respond to your question. You have to ask yourself a few questions such as the following: 1. Do you care what others think? It is ultimately your decision of who you want to go out with. 2. Is your reputation...

Teen Dating Issues: school sucks, peson, winter break
peson, winter break, boyfriends: I think you need to take a step back and re-asses the situation. Just because there are a lot of girls who have boyfriends does not mean that you don t fit in. You don t need a guy to make you happy or to fit in. You should date when you feel ready and not...

Teen Dating Issues: Have we still got a chance..??, must be a reason, future children
must be a reason, future children, rough time: Jasmine I apologize it has taken me awhile to respond to your question. Don t feel ashamed about it, every relationship has struggles. Some men go through the stage of commitment jitters. Which are considered a defense mechanism. Trust is defiantly broken...

Teen Dating Issues: I can't lose my girlfriend to her parents!, blow up, girlfriend
blow up, girlfriend, few days: First, this is her problem to solve, not yours. It becomes your problem when her parents try to force her to behave in a way THEY wish. You have to let her deal with this her way. She needs to fix what is broken between her and her parents. I believe this...

Teen Dating Issues: How do I talk to her?, couple pounds, girl at school
couple pounds, girl at school, music class: No she wouldn t think you were a stalker, it s not like you re going to her house and hanging outside of her window with a note or anything like that. The note is just a simple way of saying you are a (freshman,sophmore, junior,ect) in school, and what your...

Teen Dating Issues: Am i being used?, flatmate, security blanket
flatmate, security blanket, realised: i think you should ask him straight out about whats happening. it sounds to me like he is using you for sure. tell him you will no longer have sex with him and i bet you never hear from him again. i hope i am wrong though. good luck and please let me know...

Teen Dating Issues: I've had 2 bad girlfriends, and now feel alone, having a girl, 2 girls
having a girl, 2 girls, bad person: Hi Brian I m really sorry for the delay, I ve been a bit busy for my exams. Right, You have your whole life a head of you and you will meet someone eventually. You have just been a bit un lucky with he past 2 girlfriends but don t let your hopes get crushed....

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me?, lame jokes, mixed signals
lame jokes, mixed signals, first move: Hasrat, he sounds like a boy with an amazing personality. Boys like him enjoy attention - that s why they are so outgoing. Yes, I think he likes you, but it sounds like he likes YOU and several other girls at the same time. Be patient and give him time...

Teen Dating Issues: What do I do now?, nice girl, trial and error
nice girl, trial and error, personalities: Amy I apologize it has taken me awhile to respond to your question. Ignore it and laugh it off. Don t feel rejected, it s all a trial and error process and you will encounter many other males with different personalities and ways of doing things. He could...

Teen Dating Issues: Younger guy, slice of pizza, probaby
slice of pizza, probaby, sounds silly: Hey Zaire, The age of a guy does not make a difference as long as you both that the same feelings for each other, now I m going to ask you to do something that might help you make up your mind on what to do. I know this sounds silly but it really does help....

Teen Dating Issues: 2 boys, happy relationship, science lab
happy relationship, science lab, sense of humor: Carly, I cannot really tell you who to pick but I can tell you how to make the decision for yourself. You need to think about which of these boys is more respectable and which one would make you happier. Ask yourself which one you think would make a better...

Teen Dating Issues: age difference, safe side, google
safe side, google, good friends: Laura, Well here s your problem your still considered a child until you turn 13 than you ll be considered a teenager. But no I think that the theirs like a 4 year limit between age. But you should Google the information to be on the safe side, since every...

Teen Dating Issues: I always have to ask., first girlfriend, stable relationship
first girlfriend, stable relationship, heart break: Wow Suzy, You just kinda answered your own question at the end. Teenagers aren t, because at that stage they are learning what it is (love) and nothing lasts forever even the stars. Well, the only thing you can do is just talk it over with him and see...

Teen Dating Issues: my bf, 9th grader, chav
9th grader, chav, virginity: Hi Jennifer! Okay so sex is a important point in your life, and if you are under 16 its one that you shouldn t even consider, as you are two young and so if your body. I know girls around you may have lost their virginity already, but that should not pressurize...

Teen Dating Issues: My boyfriend is pushing me away, and doesnt realize it
Halley, divorce is really hard, and sadly, people often don t recognize they are venting in destructive ways. First, he may be repeating mistakes his parents have made - though it sounds like they are absolving the marriage in a smart, compassionate way....

Teen Dating Issues: My boyfriend seems like he doesn't care
Dear Sabrina, What you must understand is that for some people, divorce can really have a bad effect on them. It can completely change their attitude and turn them into a completely different person. I think what your boyfriend needs is for someone to...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused., immature behavior, age of consent
immature behavior, age of consent, sexual encounters: Hi Katee - As for the law, I believe the age of consent in most states is 16 - so if one of your parents were to try and press charges or one of you reported being molested, then you could technically get in trouble. I think the more important issue...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused., hook ups, talking to girls
hook ups, talking to girls, random girls: Taylor, Young, immature boys are not always going to do what you want them to Taylor. I am sorry to say that he might like the way he is living right now, hooking up with and using random girls is probably his idea of having fun. I would be careful with...

Teen Dating Issues: Crushh, friend zone, casual dinner
friend zone, casual dinner, personal things: Peter, Once a relationship moves into friend zone there is sometimes nothing that you can do. In this particular situation I think that there is still a chance but you need to act fast. You need to start being more flirty and more romantic. You should buy...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, sexual activities, befor
sexual activities, befor, sexual behavior: Hey Katee, I m okay with calling him Bob. :) I do agree with you, you are young and for the mere fact that you are questioning whether or not you are ready means that you are not ready to have sex. N Nothing is wrong with not being ready. And it never...

Teen Dating Issues: confused
Dear Jenni, It is quite obvious that you are having doubts about this other guy and that alone should be a hint to you that you are not ready to be with him or that you are not even sure what his TRUE intentions are towards you. If you really ? your...

Teen Dating Issues: So confused and sad, how to get a boyfriend, good friends
how to get a boyfriend, good friends, bf: my advice would be to not try to get a bf. be happy with yourself. be happy with who you are. a guy can not and should not be the one thing that makes you happy. with that said, its certainly ok to want a bf and to look for one. i would concentrait...

Teen Dating Issues: crush crush, nice guy, sophomore
nice guy, sophomore, short time: is there anytime at all you can talk to him alone at school or even after school? i dont think i would start the conversation via text. you have a couple of options that i see. you can either call him on his cell and introduce yourself and let him know you...

Teen Dating Issues: I have a crush on a friend, friend zone, casual dinner
friend zone, casual dinner, personal things: Peter, it does sound like you are describing a platonic, friendly relationship. She probably senses you aren t into her friends or her lifestyle (at least level of partying), and since compatibility includes THESE things, she s probably also sensing you aren...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Issues, dear liz, slight difference
dear liz, slight difference, guy friends: Dear Liz, If he really makes you feel special when you are around him, if he makes you smile in ways no other guy does then you can begin to say that you like him. But if when he teases you, you want to smack him I believe that is called annoyance. Your...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Issues, positive attitude, decisiveness
positive attitude, decisiveness, time and space: Liz, it sounds by your email that you are a little negative. You use words like bad problems, only, I always seem to mess up, broken down and in pieces. I wonder if that is coming out in your relationships. Negativity is a big turn off. I love...

Teen Dating Issues: Dont know How i feel about him!?, girls school, catholic school
girls school, catholic school, disney world: Hey Kelly! Alright so it seems you guys are definitely good friends, and he might even like you. It is natural to feel that the guy who you like might fall for your friend, and it is such a nightmare! You need to tell me WHY you think he likes you back,...

Teen Dating Issues: the day i lost a friend over a boy, first chance, first day of school
first chance, first day of school, second chance: Tessa, I am sorry to say that this friend that you have is not a friend at all. No girl deserves to be cheated on, it hurts and to put yourself through it twice is horrible. You were obviously hurt by the first time this boy did it and the fact that you...

Teen Dating Issues: different guy: does he like me, ussually, shy guy
ussually, shy guy, playing a game: Hey! Okay so that shows he has feelings for you, but is not too sure if you feel the same for him. Don t worry, if he is always nice to you, and says youre beautiful he wouldnt go for the other girl! You have to be a bit more flirtatious with him, like when...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know whether I like him or not!, second guess, sticky situation
second guess, sticky situation, t text: I kinda figured that, and that was my second guess. I m pretty sure he wouldn t mind being with you if you we re with his best friend, it just depends if he likes you or not. It s just best to ask him and get it over with so this wouldn t bug you, and don...

Teen Dating Issues: my ex, break ups, interest men
break ups, interest men, horrible stuff: Hi Jennifer! Sweetheart you re probably only thirteen or something, and i ll tell you one thing, hurting yourself over a guy is useless. Break ups happen all the time, and yours was very normal. I think he got hurt by you, because he must ve thought you...

Teen Dating Issues: My ex, head games, hardest thing
head games, hardest thing, virginity: Ashley, In my opinion, I think that it is time that you forget about this boy. To me, it seems he is playing head games with you. It s like he when he wants you, he thinks he can have you but when you start to have feelings for him he bails. I think that...

Teen Dating Issues: Flirting with a flirt?, friendship line, thanks in advance
friendship line, thanks in advance, bestfriend: Scarlett, What you need to do is let him know how you feel. You have to put it out there that you share more than friendly feelings for him. He considers you to be his bestfriend, so his thoughts might not be running along the line of seeing you as a girlfriend....

Teen Dating Issues: Friends or more?, one of my best friends, cute couple
one of my best friends, cute couple, rest of your life: K - If you really like him, you should tell him how you feel so you re not always wondering What if for the rest of your life. But you also have to be willing to put your relationship on the line in order to let him know how you feel. He may be weirded...

Teen Dating Issues: first make out with a guy, sudden outburst, proper dates
sudden outburst, proper dates, peopl: Jane, This is something that comes with all boys, they get urges, it has to do with their hormones and their immaturity. Most boys learn to control and they would not explode quite like that, but everyone is different and I guess that is how he is. If you...

Teen Dating Issues: Me & My GF, positive role models, long term relationships
positive role models, long term relationships, imperfections: Jason, I d gladly read the letter if you think it will help. You can send it to my email at suzi@suzizimmerman.com. Your story sounds very typical. Many people struggle with relationships - to figure out exactly what they want, what will fulfill them,...

Teen Dating Issues: Me & My Girlfriend, long term relationships, mariam
long term relationships, mariam, hard time: Okay. one word. WOW. This was so deep, intense and heart melting. Just give her time, she d come running back in no time. She HAS to!. Resend it again, if she hasn t answered for a three days or so. Maybe leave a message on her phone? If you know where...

Teen Dating Issues: Is This a Good Idea?, ray ray, dorms
ray ray, dorms, first date: Ray, I think that it is a great idea to tell her how you feel, but I don t think that, that is a good thing to say. It might make her feel a little awkward and uncomfortable and I know you don t want to do that. I think that when you see her you should...

Teen Dating Issues: Is This a Good Idea?, fish in the sea, sea man
fish in the sea, sea man, dorms: Hello Ray, Sorry for the delay. Well, if you really like her than tell her. Don t be shy or anything just sit with her and just plain out tell her how you feel about her and maybe the reasons why. But bring it up slowly, I m sure that should have some...

Teen Dating Issues: Is This a Good Idea?, dorms, great time
dorms, great time, bust: Hi Ray! Alright so this girl might like me, but you can never be too sure in a girls case lol Since, she has just broken up i d recommend that you give her atleast a week and a half to recover or else she wouldn t take your proposal very nicely. More than...

Teen Dating Issues: Is This a Good Idea?, dorms, bust
dorms, bust, joke: Dear Ray, I actually think that sounds pretty neat. I would say to go ahead with it absolutely. Your approach is not pushy or demanding, Its best to get it out in the open so that you know where to go from there. Its good to see you know what you want...

Teen Dating Issues: what will happen if i do it ?, birth control pills, middle schooler
birth control pills, middle schooler, streach marks: Dear Jenni, Sorry for the late response. Well if you got pregnant at the age of 13 consider your social life gone. You might have to stay at home to take care of your baby. You might also need to get a job to support for your baby as well. Having a baby...

Teen Dating Issues: hi, forward momentum, actions speak louder than words
forward momentum, actions speak louder than words, louder than words: Actions speak louder than words. She s grown to depend on YOU for the forward momentum of the relationship. If you take all the action, she won t have to, and you need her actions to speak for her since she isn t very vocal with you about her own feelings....

Teen Dating Issues: hi, next level, feelings
next level, feelings: Ajao, Honestly, if you guys are friends, it is most likely the fact that she doesn t want to lose you as a friend. In this type of situation, communication is necessary. You need to tell her how you feel in person and judge her reaction. You need to ask...

Teen Dating Issues: hi, friends zone, next level
friends zone, next level, feelings: Ajao, Damn dude, I m sorry But once your friends with a girl and she s not into you than you ll never be more than friends that s what they call the friends zone. Trust me I ve been there, the only thing to do is just move on and find someone else. ...

Teen Dating Issues: hi, fish in the sea, wasting time
fish in the sea, wasting time, next level: Hey there! I m sorry but it feels as if she is not exactly interested. Ofcourse she was your friend then, but since you told her you like her, I think she feels uncomfortable which is very natural. You might try again, if she means a lot like a LOT, but...

Teen Dating Issues: hi, junk mail, next level
junk mail, next level, feelings: Dear ajao, I am really sorry if this response is coming to you late my alerts have been going to my junk mail. It seems that she may not feel the same wayas you do and so is distancing herself from you ever since you tolf her how you felt. She is keeping...

Teen Dating Issues: Im stuck between 2 Exs ...., exes, exs
exes, exs, asking for forgiveness: honestly it sounds like you shouldn t be with either one. if ex 1 is a player then you should dump him and dont look back. if es 2 has a gf then you should stay away from that too. i think you should find someone who will respect you and want to be with you....

Teen Dating Issues: idk what to do anymore, different city, girl 2
different city, girl 2, moreno valley: Dear Dominic, I know this is hard for you but you can not let thois get you done. Sometimes we go through these pain and hardship because there is a lesson there for us to learn. And sometimes when we drown ourselves in sorrow we miss out on the lesson...

Teen Dating Issues: Kiss, physical relationship, kissing tips
physical relationship, kissing tips, would like your opinion: Hi Hartley - I don t think there s too much you can do in this situation. As you said, you don t want to force her into doing anything she doesn t want to, and she doesn t seem ready to kiss. It s a big step for some people, and she is still pretty young,...

Teen Dating Issues: Kiss, kiss on the lips, walking home from school
kiss on the lips, walking home from school, second kiss: dont force her to kiss you...if its something you really think you want to do and she is not up for it then i guess its your choice whether or not you want to hang out and wait or leave and move on. kissing for first time is always a little awkward. just...

Teen Dating Issues: keeping your boyfriend a secret, denial, bench
denial, bench, girlfriend: Keeping a friend or boyfriend secret is wrong. If my boyfriend kept me secret, I d think he was embarrassed by me. Why on earth would you think it was necessary? When you care for someone, you show your pride rather than HIDING them away. Why would your...

Teen Dating Issues: how do you know if your meant to be with someone ?, t text, rest of my life
t text, rest of my life, smile: Hello Ashly, Well thats a very hard question to answer. Well, all I can say is that you will know when you ve met that person, trust me. But that does seem like you two really belong. And that sucks that you aren t together anymore. Just talk it over with...

Teen Dating Issues: longdistance relationship, anger issues, 10 mins
anger issues, 10 mins, bf: Cayla, You are 12, you have so much to look forward to you should not be hung up on this boy that you have never met before. You only talk to him for 10 minutes each day there is no way that you can really be in love with him. I don t think that this relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: Michigan Laws, michigan laws, age of consent
michigan laws, age of consent: Hey Austin, Well that could be an issue, with age of consent and all. But yes you got that right as long as you don t have sex it won t be illegal but it s always up too the parent they could have have either one of you get in trouble so just watch out....

Teen Dating Issues: i'm still crushing on my friend, brother card, sense of humor
brother card, sense of humor, new girl: No, Chris, I don t think you made a mistake by telling her. I doubt your revelation had anything to do with her moving on. That s just what happens when some people grow up - they grow apart. Be grateful that you didn t invest a lot of yourself in a full-blown...

Teen Dating Issues: mixed signals, high school dance, school dances
high school dance, school dances, mixed signals: hard to say with guys! :) do you want to ask him out? i would do that if your ok with it. there is nothing wrong with that. if your not ready to that then i would just continue to act like you normally do around him. maybe flirt with him a bit sandi...

Teen Dating Issues: Nervous..., none of my friends, childhood friend
none of my friends, childhood friend, nervousness: dating is all about finding the right person for you. you will get hurt but thats normal and it will make you a stronger person in the long run. you shouldn t be afraid to date someone because of getting hurt; it will happen at least once! :) i would not...

Teen Dating Issues: I need Help, cusion, stares
cusion, stares, smiles: Dear Jennifer, Sorry for the late response. Well since his cousin smiled at you and in no way showed that what the boy said was bad then there is a possibility that he likes you. He is after all, always smiling at you which is a good thing. Maybe you...

Teen Dating Issues: nerdy girl with a popular guy, popular guy, smart girl
popular guy, smart girl, nerdy girl: Hi Maria - I think it s worth a shot - after all you aren t sure yet if he likes you or not. I say stay friendly, try to build up a bit more of a daily relationship with him, and then if he seems friendly enough ask him out! I know that can be pretty nerve...

Teen Dating Issues: Phone sex, butterflies in your stomach, hey katie
butterflies in your stomach, hey katie, smooth road: Hey Katie! Its not a stupid question, trust me, its the MOST common question, we ve all had at least once in our lives. Okay so phone sex, is more verbal and intense then sexting . Basically, you both need to be completely alone somewhere, bedroom is the...

Teen Dating Issues: Possibility, arab country, beautiful girl
arab country, beautiful girl, down time: Hi A! Its perfectly alright if you don t want to give your name! And don t even apologize its not a long question i get questions that are even more than a page long! Okay so if she is more friendly with you then with others then she has some feelings for...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this possible?, beautiful girl, down time
beautiful girl, down time, paraphrase: Dear A, [it is quite okay not to give your name] There is a possibility that she has an interest in you. Maybe the rub on your back was her way of flirting with you. It would help if you give off signals yourself to let her know that you are interested...

Teen Dating Issues: Just have questions.., bad person, yahoo answers
bad person, yahoo answers, birth control: Ci Ci, First off, birth control usually takes a week to a full cycle to start working but if you use a condom you are being safe. The fact is after 5 days the birth control is most like not effective yet, so you could make your decision off of that. You...

Teen Dating Issues: Relationship/cheating issues, gonna break, guy friend
gonna break, guy friend, gay guy: Dear Marissa, Nothing is wrong with liking other guys, it just shows that you are not that into youe boyfriend as you would like to believe. We re human and its only natural that if we see a guy who catches our eyes because he is handsome, we will look....

Teen Dating Issues: Relationship issues, year and four months, relationship issues
year and four months, relationship issues, carefree life: May, three things: Routine is normal. It s grown up. If your boyfriend finds routine frightening or boring, then he s probably clinging to the carefree life of childhood. Since you didn t list your ages, this could be because you are both too young...

Teen Dating Issues: Relationships, one of my best friends, good friends
one of my best friends, good friends, right time: Jessica, I really don t think that they are going to last very long, there is obviously something wrong with their relationship if they keep breaking up. You should never lie, because it will only mess things up for you and make things very complicated....

Teen Dating Issues: What do I do if I really like two different girls?, different girls, strangeness
different girls, strangeness, two girls: Hey Grayson! Okay so this is not that common, usually people just like one girl/guy lol. But its not as if you re the first one to feel that. I ll tell you one single thing: One is infatuation and the other is love, you just have to figure who s the one...

Teen Dating Issues: will this relationship last, personal tips, sense of humor
personal tips, sense of humor, what i want in a guy: Dear Sweatntarts, If your guy continues to love and respect you then there is a possibility that it can last though one can not know what the future holds. He does sound like a really nice guy. Tips: [These are my personal tips - I have been in a 3...

Teen Dating Issues: Would this risk our friendship?, state of confusion, rest of your life
state of confusion, rest of your life, good friends: Hi Scarlett. You guys seem like good friends, but if you feel that you are special to him in some way, and that he does flirt with you sometimes then tell him But be subtle about it. Only tell him you like him, when he actually forces you to do so. Then...

Teen Dating Issues: To Say Something... Or Keep Quiet?, hey sarah, facebook
hey sarah, facebook, youth pastor: Luke, I think that it is very nice of you to care about what is going on in your best friends life. You are a good friend for wanting to step in and talk to her about it. It shows maturity and it shows that you truly love her. The problem is that if she...

Teen Dating Issues: Still hurting..., air force rotc, wife material
air force rotc, wife material, humanities class: Todd, first, you are extremely young, as is she. No one on the planet expects you to (A) be perfectly formed into adults at this point, (B) to marry the girl you are with today, or (C) to become someone else s ideal mate. So let s look at those three...

Teen Dating Issues: Still hurting..., air force rotc, wife material
air force rotc, wife material, humanities class: Todd, It is completely normal for you to still be upset over what happened. What she did was really not right and of course it had such an impact on you. To be honest I really think that you should end things, because I really don t think that you will...

Teen Dating Issues: Still hurting..., air force rotc, wife material
air force rotc, wife material, humanities class: Dear Todd, It is quite evident that you care about her a lot and what she didb is really having a bad effect on you. Is it stupid to be mad at her for this and be hurting for it? -No it is not stupid to be mad at her for this. You are mad because...

Teen Dating Issues: does this shy guy like me, attitude problem, shy guy
attitude problem, shy guy, good conversation: Hey sweetntart! Okay, so of course Danny likes you, but i believe Gabe has feelings for you as well. I know how sometimes friends flirt so much that people actually believe they are dating, but they are not. Happens with me all the time lol. However, the...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he still like me?, funny jokes, little distance
funny jokes, little distance, mutual friend: Hi China! I guess you are from China or is that your name? Because i think ive heard it is a name, just like America is. Anyway, if you live in china, then wow I ve always wanted to go there! Okay so back to your question. See, you are not sure that he liked...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating Long Distance Relationships, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, sexual activity: your young and shouldnt even be thinking about marriage! yes, long distance relationships are hard and dont always work out. you are seeing first hand why they are hard. for a long distance relationship to work you really need to trust each other. when...

Teen Dating Issues: Teenage Sex Query, age of consent, sex ed
age of consent, sex ed, google: Hello Andrew, Well it really depends what state or country your in. I mean certain places have different laws of Age of Consent. For example here in New Mexico I believe that for both male and female it s 17. But you could find out if you Google Age of...

Teen Dating Issues: do you think hes cheating?, one of these girls, sexual relations
one of these girls, sexual relations, couple weeks: Dear Sara, Sorry for the late response. There is a possibility that he may be hiding something from you. the fact that he goes through all those lengths of deleting his messages and his texts can mean that he is doing things that he may not want you...

Teen Dating Issues: do you think that he likes me, favorite colors, wrong person
favorite colors, wrong person, ladies man: Hey akayla! Im sorry doll, but forget him. He is only playing. I heartily apologize for the late reply i was down with cold :( Anyways, don t take it to your heart. He does find you attractive (duh)but he is also the type who doesn t care for his girlfriend,...

Teen Dating Issues: trust issues, inner feelings, curious men
inner feelings, curious men, opposit: You are now a couple. And you are almost adults. It s assumed, at this stage in your lives, that if one is invited, BOTH are invited. They are social events, and in almost every case I can imagine, couples attend social events together - few gender based...

Teen Dating Issues: is it unrequited love???, friendship group, heart pounds
friendship group, heart pounds, first kiss: Dear Arabelle, There is one thing a friend of mine told me that I like or try to share with others and that is if a guy does not treat you right and respects you then you should let him go. The way he is treating you does not sound like good and valuable...

Teen Dating Issues: worrying about the future, personal identity, 7 months
personal identity, 7 months, cousin: Sean, I am going to tell you the same thing your cousin told you, stop worrying! You are young and you should be focused on living your life and figuring out who you are. If you and your current girlfriend are meant to be together, it will fall into place....

Teen Dating Issues: why he doing like this, course duration, reply message
course duration, reply message, mini project: Geetu, VERY smart of you to not take him up on his offer of sex with no commitment. A man who would ask that of a girl is disrespectful. It sounds like he might be a hunter, a guy who likes the chase but doesn t quite know what to do with it when...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me????, sweet guy, cerise
sweet guy, cerise, school grades: Cerise, Well, if you believe he is a sweet guy then he must be. From what you have described it does sound like he is interested in you. Maybe you should try expressing how you feel towards him and see how he reacts towards you. If he reacts in a positive...

Teen Dating Issues: Bf issues., one of my best friends, desperate need
one of my best friends, desperate need, good friends: Grace, I think that it was a good idea to have sent him the letter to let hoim know how you feel. He is a guy and unfortunately for some of them they find it hard to talk about their feelings etc. If you want him to talk you need to sit with him and start...

Teen Dating Issues: Bf issues., one of my best friends, desperate need
one of my best friends, desperate need, good friends: Grace, I am sorry to hear that you are in this difficult situation but I think that he really needs time. If he is not happy with his life he needs time to figure out what can make his life better and what will make him happier. I think that letting him...

Teen Dating Issues: Bf issues., one of my best friends, desperate need
one of my best friends, desperate need, good friends: Grace, what he has told you, in so many words, is that he needs time to figure things out. You must give him this time. Any pressure at all - either to talk or to see things your way - could push him farther away. Also, you cannot convince him to be with...

Teen Dating Issues: Break Up, youth pastor, right decision
youth pastor, right decision, mona: Dear Lydia, There comes a time in our life that we have to make decisions that in the end we feel horriblea and we get distracted but when we are doing it for Christ we know that the decision is never wrong. I guess I will have to agree with your grandparents...

Teen Dating Issues: Me and my boyfriend, relation ship, holding hands
relation ship, holding hands, twin sister: Dear Nicole, It sounds like it is time for you and your boyfriend to have a talk. It is completely normal to have and want these sort of affection from your bf. It could be that your boyfriend is not of the affectionate sort. Talk to him and tell him how...

Teen Dating Issues: How to breakup with my boyfriend, french project, feeling the same way
french project, feeling the same way, kindof: Hannah, If you don t feel like this relationship is suiting you anymore, you do not have to stay in it. A month really isn t that long but there is no way to tell whether or not he will be hurt. It is impossible not to hurt someone by breaking up with them...

Teen Dating Issues: Crush!, awesome personality, frm
awesome personality, frm, text messages: Dear Confused, If you really want him to know then the best thing for you to do is tell him. You might never know what his reaction would be. Give it a try, express your feelings to him, let him know how you feel and that you value his friendship and don...

Teen Dating Issues: Crush on a guy at work,, adult career, career world
adult career, career world, co worker: Bronwyn, You need to get his number somehow and start talking to him outside of the work environment so that you can get a real feel for whether or not he likes you. At this age I don t think it really matters about dating a co-worker, that rule is more...

Teen Dating Issues: He cheated on me, should I forgive him?, hey mona, kelli
hey mona, kelli, boyfriends: Dear vanessa, I m sorry his response is coming to you so late. As a christian, I must say that forgiveness is a must. We must forgive others so that we too can be forgiven. But this is something that you must feel within your heart. How do you feel?...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, great relationship, halloween party
great relationship, halloween party, ups and downs: do you know if anything he told you was true? if it is then he probably just has a lot of stuff going on in his life right now. i would try to stick by him and be there for him as much as you can. but also you dont want to allow him to walk all over you. ...

Teen Dating Issues: Disrespect after one year, rude remark, working over time
rude remark, working over time, bipolar disorder: Marie, To be honest, jut judging from what you have told me, it sounds like your boyfriend has a mental problem. I Have sen this before and it sounds to me like he has Manic Bipolar Disorder. I do not understand why your boyfriend would lose trust for you...

Teen Dating Issues: dating.., basketball friends, express your feelings
basketball friends, express your feelings, morgan morgan: Morgan, You need to find out from your boyfriend whether or not he wants to continue this relationship with you. Let him know how you feel and how his behavior and actions are having a bad effect on you. You need to sit with your boyfriend and find out...

Teen Dating Issues: Flirting, nearest airport, 5 months
nearest airport, 5 months, jerk: Jessica, I really don t understand the situation completely but I can try to help you to step up your game over texts. It may sound immature and silly but using a lot of smiley or winky faces usually works well. Also you could flatter him by saying oh...

Teen Dating Issues: 'Friend with Benefits', sexual benefits, friends with benefits
sexual benefits, friends with benefits, friend with benefits: Amanda, I would like to apologize for the delayed response, this past week has been extremely busy and I was out of town this weekend. Anyway, I do not think that friends with benefits is a bad idea but I do think that it would be bad if you are not fully...

Teen Dating Issues: Friends, facebook, giles
facebook, giles, pointers: Dear Giles, Even though she told you that she does not know hoe to respond to you it does not necessarily mean that she does not like you it could be that she has not sorted out her feelings as yet. Since you have already told her how you felt it s a little...

Teen Dating Issues: fooled me once, fooling me again, heart pound, hurt and pain
heart pound, hurt and pain, 13 years: Dear Arabelle, You are young and smart there is no reason for you to be going through such distress. If you are aware that he is fooling you now why bother go through the hurt and pain again? You need to let him go. Stop giving him the chance to hurt you...

Teen Dating Issues: The friend zone, friend zone, facebook
friend zone, facebook, little sister: Dear Mark, If she does not feel the same way that you do or if she does not want a relationship with you then it would be best to move on from her. There is no reason to go on punishing. Yourself when she does not share the same feelings as you do. Though...

Teen Dating Issues: my friends and my boyfriend!, lunch time, sames
lunch time, sames, bf: Dear Jessica, I know this can be troubling, because you enjoy hanging out with your boyfriend as much as you do. Who wouldn t? But now your friends are feeling like you ditched which is understandable. What you need to do is whenever you decide to make...

Teen Dating Issues: Guys and Parents, girl children, sakes
girl children, sakes, parents: Dear Kali, He s probably being cautious, trying to find out whether or not your parents or strict, if they would appreciate you having a boyfriend or a guy hanging around with you. Some parents can be really tough on guys hanging around their girl children....

Teen Dating Issues: the girl, freshman year, sophmore year
freshman year, sophmore year, bery: John, I must apologize in advance because I know that this is now going to be what you want to hear. it is obvious that you have really done all that you can to be with this girl and it seems that she just wants to stay friends. I know it must have really...

Teen Dating Issues: How can i make the girl of my dreams love me again?, dear mona, two poems
dear mona, two poems, girl of my dreams: Dear Ryan, I m glad that you have found your way to seek advice on allExperts. I apologize first off for my late response due to illness. I hope the below will be of some assitance to you. I must say that you can t actually make someone fall in love...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend broke up with me......, extracurricular activities, football games
extracurricular activities, football games, football game: Matt, I know it is hard to understand but there are just some problems that cannot be worked out. It is impossible to really control your how much you feel for a person. Stress could be part of this but I don t think that it is making her confused. She...

Teen Dating Issues: guys!, flirting with girls, facebook
flirting with girls, facebook, million times: Dear Morgan, You need to find out from your boyfriend whether or not he is still interested in you and wants to be your boyfriend. Someone who loves you will not intentionally keep you in the dark while you are hurting worrying about your relationship....

Teen Dating Issues: Hello, deep breaths, eachother
deep breaths, eachother, mona: Dear Elise, Instead of trying to control the arguments what you need to first do is try controlling the anger that starts the arguments. Whenever you feel like you are getting angry and ready to lash out at him verbally, you need to try your best at remaining...

Teen Dating Issues: hand-jobs, easy choice, hand job
easy choice, hand job, hand jobs: Mandy, I am really glad that you are confident and excited to surprise your boyfriend. Communication is so important in relationships, especially with these kinds of situations. Your questions did not sound dumb at all, not even a little bit. You are free...

Teen Dating Issues: idk what to do anymore, different city, girl 2
different city, girl 2, moreno valley: Dear Dominic, I know this is hard for you but you can not let thois get you done. Sometimes we go through these pain and hardship because there is a lesson there for us to learn. And sometimes when we drown ourselves in sorrow we miss out on the lesson...

Teen Dating Issues: im not sure this girl really likes me or is just using me, boy friend, garret
boy friend, garret, fri: Dear Garret, I apologize first off for my late response due to illness. I hope the below will be of some assitance to you. I understand your reason for questioning her motives. But how do you feel about the situation. Sometimes we have to take that...

Teen Dating Issues: its been 2 years since our relationship and im not over him., sexual tension, longest time
sexual tension, longest time, holding hands: Dear Kaylee, The best thing to do is be honest with yourself and trying being honest with him. I know you have done it before but it would not hurt to do it a second time right? Just ask him if you guys will ever get a second chance at another relationship....

Teen Dating Issues: kissing plz read, lip gloss, embarrassing situations
lip gloss, embarrassing situations, first kiss: Dear Nicole, I apologize first off for my late response due to illness. I hope the below will be of some assitance to you. Normally the best and most enjoyable way to make out is when the feeling comes naturally to both of you. It becomes something...

Teen Dating Issues: Long Distance Relationships..., long distance relationships, uni 2
long distance relationships, uni 2, schoolwork: Dear Emma, I quite understand your feelings, and I can t and won t tell you that it is wrong to feel that way. Though I am not quite sure on what you mean by teenage fun. You need to talk to your boyfriend and let him know how you feel after all you have...

Teen Dating Issues: lack of crush?, high metabolism, wavy hair
high metabolism, wavy hair, closest thing: Hannah, It is normal for you to have this worry but honestly I do not think that it is a problem. Some people just aren t attracted to boys at this age and that is okay. Maybe it is a good thing because it keeps you focused on school work and your extra...

Teen Dating Issues: lack of crush?, high metabolism, proper grammar
high metabolism, proper grammar, wavy hair: Hannah, I don t think what you are experiencing - or NOT experiencing - is abnormal. A lot of people don t have the desire to date until they have taken care of other, more important things in their lives. I just answered a similar email from a 21 year old...

Teen Dating Issues: missed out, adult relationship, teen relationship
adult relationship, teen relationship, break ups: Chris, as one of those older adults who just recently fell in love myself, I see your quandary. I d never thought of it in quite those terms, but it s true that dating as a young person who hangs out with friends is different than dating as an adult who lives...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me? Is he playing with me/leading me on? Does he just wanna be friends, or nothing?!, egg baby, biology test
egg baby, biology test, baby project: Dear Lala, I think you may be over reacting some what. He has never really expressed how he feel towards you, neither have you to him so we can say that he is not leading you on or playing with you? He is being a typical guy and you a typical girl. If...

Teen Dating Issues: is she shy or just doesnt want to talk to me, hector
hector: Dear Hector, It is a bit hard to tell fully with that little information because it can be both shy and a possibility that she may not want to talk to you. You need to watch her reaction towards you. If you pass her somewhere whether it be in school or...

Teen Dating Issues: I like one of my sisters friends, I'm 2 years older., dominant guy, career university
dominant guy, career university, being a leader: Seb, it s not an unusual email. I d talk to your sister. Friends are a bit like belongings, in a weird sort of way. Your sister might embrace your crush, or she might strongly object. SHE should be your first level in your quest to date this girl. If...

Teen Dating Issues: staying faithful, partener, imani
partener, imani, self control: Imani, First you need to understand the effects that cheater has on the other partener. You can seriously hurt some one and put them trough such an emotion experience. The feelings of I wasn t good enough are the worst and anyone that has been cheated...

Teen Dating Issues: i still like her, e mail address, old feelings
e mail address, old feelings, friend karen: Dear Jose, Well maybe your feelings just went dormant because you were unable to see her and talk to her. Your feelings could have been there all the time and they became active again when you saw her. Seeing her again stored up the old feelings you had...

Teen Dating Issues: never thought this would happen, legal age of consent, tiny office
legal age of consent, tiny office, temporary job: Roxenna, if you continue with this relationship, proceed with caution. You are a seasoned dater, someone who has figured out (pretty much) what she wants. He, on the other hand, has to make some mistakes. He will need to date several types of girls to see...

Teen Dating Issues: I've asked 5 different girls out they all gave me a flat NO., different girls, better days
different girls, better days, age 18: Dear Chris, I am really sorry for the late response, but I I was ill and trying to answer the questions as soon as I can. Now it is quite normal to be reject that often. People get rejected even more times than that. Don t let this get you down. This...

Teen Dating Issues: Is it worth it... If so what should I do, junior prom, major break
junior prom, major break, current boyfriend: Dear Anthony, my apologies on the late response. After reading your letter I realize that you have everything pretty much figured out for yourself and you really don t need my help. Now I understand that you may ? this girl but that hardly means that...

Teen Dating Issues: does he like me??, getting a girlfriend, saying things
getting a girlfriend, saying things, couple days: Dear Jennifer, It could be that he is trying to make you jealous because he found himself a gf and he knows that you are interested in him and also that he feels pity for you and is making it his duty to set you up with his friend. I guess now that he...

Teen Dating Issues: Do I like him back?, feelings
feelings: Hey Katie, I won t be able too tell you if you do like him back, it would require more information that provided. But it all depends on how you feel towards him. Does he make you feel differently than other guys do? Do you look forward too seeing him and...

Teen Dating Issues: Bloody confused..., freind, mates
freind, mates, ruin: Hey. I just think you should talk to him. Or if you are too scared to then flirt back. Dress a little more sexier. Hang out just the two of you. Look into his eyes and smile. Touch him gently on the arm. Then he should pick up that something is going on....

Teen Dating Issues: Boys, joke
joke: Hey Charlotte! Maybe he wants to get closer to you. Hug you are kiss you. I really don t know!! Hahaha so why don t you ask him, but not really ask him. What I mean by this is joke around with him. Ask him why he s such a clutz next time he bumps into you....

Teen Dating Issues: Don't know what to do, or say., quiet person, conversations
quiet person, conversations, good luck: i think you need to think about a few things you can say to her before you see her. rehearse what you want to say first. try and ask her some questions so you can find out more about her. ask her if she has seen any movies lately. ask her if she has any brothers...

Teen Dating Issues: Fitting in, talkative person, roller coaster
talkative person, roller coaster, feeling the same way: Hey Bella. Truth is, everyone has a time when they feel that they don t fit in. I ve had plenty of experiance on this topic. Another truth, you cannot change who you are. You are stuck with yourself, stuck with your body so be proud of it. Don t think ...

Teen Dating Issues: More than freinds?, soccer music, freinds
soccer music, freinds, mates: you cant or shouldnt do anything to make him like you. he needs to like for who you are. do you flirt with him at all? maybe you need to give him some signals that you like him more then just friends. do you think he might like you as more then friends? ...

Teen Dating Issues: This Guy....., sweetest thing in the world, true love
sweetest thing in the world, true love, clue: yeah...stay away for now :) you definently do not want to break them up. he needs to figure out what he wants. unfortunently for you that means standing back and waiting. i wouldnt wait long though. you need to continue to date as well. sandi ...

Teen Dating Issues: i like a guy who has a gf, long distance relationship, simple hello
long distance relationship, simple hello, gf: if he has a gf then i wouldnt try to break them up. he needs to be a man and either break up with his gf before he dates you or keep things the way they are. sure you can flirt with him if you want but you really dont want to sate him when he is dating...

Teen Dating Issues: guys!, silly reason, bf
silly reason, bf, close friends: Hey Nicole! Lets get down to business. Well, maybe your bf is jealous of this other guy. Maybe you should talk to this guy you like in private. Tell him how you feel. Tell him that if he feels the same way then you will break up with your bf for him. But...

Teen Dating Issues: guys!, close friends, bf
close friends, bf, true love: yeah..its hard i know :) but unfortunently this is what dating is all about. if you really think you just dont love him like you did then maybe its time to breakup. let me say this though...relationships are always fun and good in the beginning but after...

Teen Dating Issues: guys plz read, guy friends, bf
guy friends, bf, butterflies: you dont want to date someone behind your bf s back. if you really think you want to per sure something with this guy i would break up with your bf first. yes, it may not work out and he mighty even say no, but thats life. you dont want to stay with your current...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!, friendship, love
friendship, love, teens: Hey Confused. Well first congrats for telling him you like him. I wouldn t have had the courage to do that. Uhm, if he began flirting with you then maybe he is also confused on what he thinks of you. Or maybe he has started to like you back. You should ask...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm extremely shy, so how do I talk to this guy?, elf hat, christmas eve
elf hat, christmas eve, eyelashes: Hey! Well, 1st of all you should go to this shop ON YOUR OWN!!! Then when you are there casually ask him where you can find a particular item. Then once he s shown you where it is, start a convo. Act a little flirty. Flutter your eyelashes, smile. Then when...

Teen Dating Issues: How old is too old?, web cam, conversations
web cam, conversations: have you seen him at all? like via web cam or anything? i dont know where u live but if he is 24 and your 14 then i would think he could get into some trouble. thats a pretty big age difference. if i were u i would just continue to talk to him if you want...

Teen Dating Issues: PLEASE HELPTrying to convince my girlfriend not to dump me, death anniversaries, dublin ireland
death anniversaries, dublin ireland, disater: Hey! First of all happy new year!! Well, I think you should tell her why you ve been acting strangely and that you still love her and you think you guys could still be so much more than what you are at the moment. As a girl I would love to hear this. But...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating/friendship, match made in heaven, brother and sister
match made in heaven, brother and sister, 5 months: Josie - Unfortunately if he s not into you, he s not into you and that s a fact you need to accept and move on and get over him. If he wanted to be with you he would be, but he s made it clear that he s not into you that way. I m sorry Ashle...

Teen Dating Issues: Being left out, two friends, best friends
two friends, best friends, good luck: Hey. Well, yes I know it can get rather horrible being left out. But at one point in their lives everyone feels left out. What I think you should do is get your friends in private. Even if it s just one of them. Tell them that you think it s awkward being...

Teen Dating Issues: My 16-year-old son is in a cult..., loud rock music, dangerous cult
loud rock music, dangerous cult, north west england: I know very little about cults. I do know quite a bit about rebellion, and that s basically what you are dealing with. Your son, for some reason, isn t finding acceptance outside his group, but the group is showering him with acceptance and, seemingly, a...

Teen Dating Issues: Should Age matter?, red flag, having sex
red flag, having sex, good friends: first, i dont know if having sex with him is illegal. i believe if he was 18 then it would be illegal. it sounds like this guy doesnt know what he wants and i would recommend breaking up with him until he can figure it out. if he still have feelings for...

Teen Dating Issues: Break up- did i do the right thing?, sex before marriage, desicion
sex before marriage, desicion, righ: I feel you need to look at the desicion you made and be confident with it. Its okay if a relationship does not work out there will be many more, it s important to not dwell on the things you miss because other relationships can hold the same qualities. It...

Teen Dating Issues: me and my boyfriend, focus on quality, common interests
focus on quality, common interests, danielle: Danielle, wanting to last for a long time is great, but just wanting it isn t enough. Love is a very natural thing, so it can t be forced, and it can t be drawn out just for the sake of reaching some sort of goal. Don t focus on quantity meaning...

Teen Dating Issues: should i break up with my boyfriend, cute nicknames, lovey dovey
cute nicknames, lovey dovey, four months: Hey Alexandria, I don t think you should break up with him. You are only in middle school so my guess is that he is just tto nernous to be into the lovey dovey kissy thing. Give him time. Try and hang out alone and tell him how you feel. If it s just the...

Teen Dating Issues: break ups, electronic etiquette, break ups
electronic etiquette, break ups, bad manners: I d start by teaching your son about electronic etiquette. It sounds like he s the victim of a modern day trend in bad manners. Texting is a convenience, a way to quickly relay information. It is not surveillance as many young people believe. They use...

Teen Dating Issues: Cant talk to girls, first girlfriend, talk to girls
first girlfriend, talk to girls, great relationship: Ryan, I hope my answer sets your mind at ease. For one, 15 isn t ancient. Fifteen is barely old enough to have had sex, and it s young for a relationship, too. Your sexually active friends are rushing into a way of life they will be stuck with for 60 or...

Teen Dating Issues: crush and ex bf ( confused!!!), hes, gf
hes, gf, pencils: Have you ever approached him with how you feel? It sounds like his has this gf due to him settling because he may be unaware of how you feel and was more than likely too scared to ask how you feel. Don t be afraid of rejection because you cannot help how you...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating and Flirting, self esteem issues, good listener
self esteem issues, good listener, train of thoughts: TJ, it sounds to me like you have a character in your mind that you believe you need to be in order to be successful around girls. You don t. No girl will want you because you know how to turn it on, meaning be witty or chatty. Girls want guys who know...

Teen Dating Issues: date, asian american girl, american boys
asian american girl, american boys, white guys: Yes, I think it s normal for a Caucasian/American boy to ask a girl out once he s met her three times. In this culture, because families become so spread out and because neighbors and communities aren t as closely knit as in other places, young people can...

Teen Dating Issues: dating/flirting/kissing, natural act, first move
natural act, first move, body language: It s completely normal to get the first date butterflies. It s okay if a guy knows how to kiss and you do not. You have to learn sometime, right? It s easier than you think, just try and relax. It s a very natural act. You will know the cues if he wants to...

Teen Dating Issues: depression due to crush on a teacher, intense crush, state of depression
intense crush, state of depression, approprite: Your teacher represents something to you - acceptance and adventure perhaps. So you see her as a key to the type of life you would like to have yourself. That s the admiration. But as far as a relationship goes, you must know that it is and would be...

Teen Dating Issues: Why Do I Feel This Way, whyy, pisces
whyy, pisces, cheater: There might have been an underlying reason why he cheated on this other girl. Every relationship is different. You can always ask him since you heard about him cheating on the girl before you, would it happen again, and why did it happen? The reason why you...

Teen Dating Issues: Follow-up to my son's suspension..., heart to heart talk, cult leader
heart to heart talk, cult leader, clothes shopping: Have a debate about it. Argue your points of how it is not a religion. I m not sure what relgion you are in but almost all relgions has clothing of some sort. Have him explain his point of what his religion warships and how did he become a part of it. How...

Teen Dating Issues: My Friends Fighting, brutal honesty, everyones friend
brutal honesty, everyones friend, 5th wheel: Hey Greg, Wow. Stuck in the middle much? What I would suggest is that you figure out what the ongoing fued is over. Second, they need to all sit down and figure this out. The girl and guy who cant stand each other need to figure out a way to tolerate each...

Teen Dating Issues: first love, social networking sites, weird feelings
social networking sites, weird feelings, inner child: It s just good old fashioned curiosity. And in today s world with all the social networking sites, it s easy to think, I wonder about so and so. Also, you made big plans together, and while you might look back today and say, We were just kids, they...

Teen Dating Issues: Does my friend care about me at all?, real jerk, good listener
real jerk, good listener, thrum: Michelle, it s not always important to tell people how we feel about their lives, their choices, and their personalities. There s a reason we are always reminded that we pick our friends. We do, and we also have to be mature enough to recognize when...

Teen Dating Issues: Two guys, second guess, corbin
second guess, corbin, two guys: Hey Corbin, It seems to me that you really like this other guy. And if your starting to second guess whether you want to stay with your boyfriend then you ve pretty much already made up your mind. It s also not fair to your boyfriend to be thinking about...

Teen Dating Issues: help with ex, time hope, delayed response
time hope, delayed response, five months: I apologize for the delayed response. I would say in order to get her back you can do a few things: Start building up your friendship again which means start talking to her and communicating with her. Then start inviting her out to do things and then after...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I get over him or hold on to him?, delayed response, 3 years
delayed response, 3 years, gossip: I apologize for my delayed response. How do you know that to be true that he doesn t actually love this girl? You can t always believe gossip even if it s what you want to hear. It s common for guys who cannot commit to one person they typically say the...

Teen Dating Issues: hurt and confused, hearted attempt, one at home
hearted attempt, one at home, 19 years: Jessica - You need to tell your boyfriend how you feel because if you don t it s going to just eat you up inside until it destroys you. You need to tell him how you feel because you may just be overreacting. Maybe he just wanted to hang out with his friends....

Teen Dating Issues: who should I listen to?, friend simon, sweet guy
friend simon, sweet guy, different sides: Hey, well maybe I m a little out of line to say this but your friends need to back off. You are right and neither you nor your friends know all about him. They aren t even willing to try and get to know him. No it s not wrong to have that hope and you probably...

Teen Dating Issues: I need your help please., nervious, serious relationship
nervious, serious relationship, flings: if you like him and wan to consider dating him you have to be able to talk to him about this kind of stuff. confront him about it and see what he says. if you have a bad feeling about him and you catch him in lies then he is probably not right for you sandi...

Teen Dating Issues: who should i pick? my first boyfriend or my best friend, skyler, new boyfriend
skyler, new boyfriend, first love: Lilly, don t use your last name in correspondence, please, for your own privacy. What does your new boyfriend need to protect you from? Your best friend? We women like to think our guy would protect us from harm, so when he acts a little jealous or a...

Teen Dating Issues: please help., nervious, serious relationship
nervious, serious relationship, flings: Erin, there is a reason we have something called a golden rule. Treat him the way he treats you. It s life s and romance s amazing balancing rule. It ensures that others get what they give, that all expectations are on the table, and that no one gets...

Teen Dating Issues: please help me., nervious, serious relationship
nervious, serious relationship, flings: Hey Erin, Well based on what you ve said I think that it s not a big deal. I think he likes you and that you should see how it goes. Maybe he has bad service or maybe he just doesnt keep his phone on him. It s aggrevating but it doesn t mean he doesn t...

Teen Dating Issues: Son's relationship with much older person... disturbing me., regional tv, pizza hut
regional tv, pizza hut, far corner: I feel you have every right to be concerned. Does your country have any laws concerning age differences? What age is your son considered an adult? Here in the states if an individual is under the age of 18 years old the person is considered a minor and if...

Teen Dating Issues: STUCK, sexual relationship, girlfriend
sexual relationship, girlfriend, girls: you need to first find a girl you can be friends with. i cant help you not be shy, other then tell you to just do it! think about what you want to say to a girl ahead of time. start off slow and just say hi to a girl. next time ask her a question or two. you...

Teen Dating Issues: Trouble Getting a Date, colored flags, obsessive interest
colored flags, obsessive interest, best girl: Faye, your friend is very wrong to think that your lack of obsession with boys makes you a lesbian. As a matter of fact, HER obsession with your love life throws up many more rainbow colored flags, in my opinion. Gently remind her the next time she obsesses...

Teen Dating Issues: Unwavering feelings, long distance relationship, current boyfriend
long distance relationship, current boyfriend, first love: Christine, you already have a very mature handle on it. Don t think of it as a forever situation. Learn from it, but never let it get to the point that either of these boys feels they ve been betrayed. Honesty is a must! I really don t think I have...

Teen Dating Issues: Asking out an alpha female, cynical view, intrigues
cynical view, intrigues, thanks in advance: Hello John, Ask her to prom if you feel that you will have a good time with her (so she s not always talking about men in a cynical way while she s with you). It s up to you to try and change her mind when it comes to mind; prove to her that only some...

Teen Dating Issues: Boy Trouble, boy trouble, playdough
boy trouble, playdough, how to start a conversation with a guy: Hi, My best advice would be to show an interest in what he s been doing (or doing), or pretend to be interested. Go with the flow and expand on anything that pops into your head! :D Start off with a compliment! Guys rarely receive compliments because...

Teen Dating Issues: boys!, age gap, womaniser
age gap, womaniser, good friends: Hey Lozza, Well you said you ve been good friends with him for about a year? Then YOU know the real him. If he s told others that he is interested in you then its not gonna be left at just friends for very long because he wants more. And so do you! I m...

Teen Dating Issues: breakup troubles.., valentine s day, basketball season
valentine s day, basketball season, basketball game: Hey, I know how hard it is to get over a bad break up but I think you should try. This boy seems to only be using you and he s also talking to other girls. Your only gonna get even more hurt than you already are if you dont get over him. If he hasnt asked...

Teen Dating Issues: Why cant i get a boyfriend am i too small or something?, highschool experience, small girls
highschool experience, small girls, tiny girls: Hey Lex, well first let me apologize for the late response. I know how you feel. I m 17 and 4 11 . as you said i m also not super skinny or anything. I m athletic and I work out, but for a while I had the same problems you are having. Truth is a lot...

Teen Dating Issues: First time, gonna mess, leval
gonna mess, leval, guy friend: Hey Anna, well yall have been friends for a while so theres a good chance that he does love you. And if he knows everything about you, the good and bad and still wants to date you then he obviously cares very much. Your not gonna mess up your date. Just relax...

Teen Dating Issues: More than a friend, religion teacher, couple days
religion teacher, couple days, paige: Hey, wow you in a tough spot. You really have it bad for her and she s not into you like that. You need to tell her what you ve told me and tell her how much you like her and see what she says.. If she says that she only wants to be friends you may need...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl problem, girl problem, honest conversation
girl problem, honest conversation, time jack: Jack, it sounds like you and she are not being completely honest with yourselves. If you were, you would come together to find a solution, but either one or both of you appears to be deceiving yourselves. I d suggest that you make a pact to have a totally...

Teen Dating Issues: Are girls interested in me ?, persian festival, self concious
persian festival, self concious, nice body: Hey Dany, The looks you were getting prove that yes they were into you and that your good looking. The guys viewed you as a threat and the girls wanted you and looked at you jealously if you were talking to another girl. From what you told me you shouldn...

Teen Dating Issues: My grandmother keeps flirting with me..., sexual manner, acting this way
sexual manner, acting this way, drink alcohol: Mark, it sounds like your grandmother is having some mental issues. She s together enough to know to wait until the others are out of the room, so she s competent, but she s struggling to get your attention - or perhaps to get the others attention hoping...

Teen Dating Issues: How do I know when to ask her out, yall, girlfriend
yall, girlfriend: Hey Matt, well it would be better for you to aske her out in person just because that s more sincere. The distance isnt really that far even though it seems like it. Just ham=ng out with her and the next time yall are together ask her out. Just say that...

Teen Dating Issues: Does she like me and how long should i wait?, heaps, good friends
heaps, good friends, time limit: Hey Jed, I think you should ask her out on a date to the movies or something and see what she says. Sounds like she likes you and will probably say yes. Ask her out =) I m sure it ll be good. You dont really have a time limit you have to wait, just se what...

Teen Dating Issues: Need help!!!, good friends, friendship
good friends, friendship, jon jon: if your friend and him are not officially dating then if you want to go out with him i think you should. even if they were dating i dont think there is anything wrong with you talking to him. the issue is that you are keeping it a secret. what would your friend...

Teen Dating Issues: Relationships, cocky asshole, hard working man
cocky asshole, hard working man, cold bitch: Hey, I suggest you tell him what you said in your last paragragh. That if he has a gf then you and him are nothing. Make sure he knows that you really want to be something though and see where that takes you. Its gonna be difficult for the two of you to...

Teen Dating Issues: Repeat break-ups and make-ups, break ups, poor interpretation
break ups, poor interpretation, relationship skills: Deb, I can see why you and your husband might be alarmed, but I think it s all part of the learning process. Dating, like anything else in life, requires practice. It means we must make mistakes, try to correct them (as your daughter has done), and realize...

Teen Dating Issues: Son has no ambition and gets average grades, eats all the time..., career ambitions, careers adviser
career ambitions, careers adviser, fame and fortune: I firmly believe that the best way to encourage children is to help them discover their own directions. At the same time, it seems your son is set on his dancing career and your alarm is apparent and warranted. What do you want for him in the future?...

Teen Dating Issues: Son wants to meet person offline..., uk domain names, geography assignment
uk domain names, geography assignment, geography project: Karla, it sounds like you have done your research. Your son is 18. If he were younger, I d discourage it for the simple reason that it could open doors to meeting others with less credible stories. Count yourself lucky that, at 18, he still keeps you involved...

Teen Dating Issues: Son worried about his geography teacher..., good bloke, geography teacher
good bloke, geography teacher, principal educators: I would certainly not let it go at that with the principal. Educators are (or at least should be) upheld to a strong sense of community. If freeloading is your community s standard - what they value - then I m sorry for you, but I also sincerely doubt it...

Teen Dating Issues: Stuck, girls school, 2 girls
girls school, 2 girls, music camp: HEy, I suggest that you talk to the girl you say you like and tell her that you really like her and wanna date her but would like her to give up getting drunk all the time. Dont say she has to quit drinking just ask her if she would cut back and go from...

Teen Dating Issues: scared of jail., true advice, maximum age
true advice, maximum age, age of consent: Depends on the laws specific to where you live. Where I live, the maximum age difference is 730 days. It sounds like you have exceeded that. And it also sounds like your girlfriend s parents aren t the type to ignore a few days here or there, so that should...

Teen Dating Issues: twins, twins sisters, one of my best friends
twins sisters, one of my best friends, stupid problem: This is a tough question. I think you should get to know them both as friends first. Ask them both to join you and your friends on some casual outing. Don t think of them as twins. Think of them as individuals, unique in their own way, and try to determine...

Teen Dating Issues: ugliness, greasy skin, weird face
greasy skin, weird face, smart person: Hi, I doubt you are ugly. Most 15 year olds do not date. I recommend you talk to a trusted teacher and your doctor about the above asap. Please ask follow ups. You are a smart person, I can tell by how you type. Just wondering what do you want to be when...

Teen Dating Issues: Why?, positive attitude, great time
positive attitude, great time, three months: Anna - You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. This isn t how a boyfriend treats his girlfriend. He should be treating you better and not blowing you off. Explain how you feel and see if he shows concern or not. If he doesn t seem concerned...

Teen Dating Issues: boring boyfriend, boys school, rejection
boys school, rejection, girlfriends: Felicia - If you re not into this guy, then you shouldn t be dating him. It s that simple. Just break up with him nicely and tell him you re sorry but that you re just not that into him. You shouldn t worry about hurting his feelings because it s not...

Teen Dating Issues: boyfriend problem, romantic relationship, sense of humour
romantic relationship, sense of humour, boys school: if you think he is just not right for you then i wouldnt waste anymore time and break up with him. the longer you wait the harder it will get. it sounds like you know what you want and this guy just isnt right for you. there is nothing wrong with this. :)...

Teen Dating Issues: Confuzlled., little triangle, bestfreind
little triangle, bestfreind, ericc: first off...you need to dump your friends that dont listen to you and do things behind your back. the girl that took your picture and sent it to zeke, you need to dump her as a friend too. there is nothing wrong with dating two guys at once as long as...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know if I like him or not.., cell phone games, bf
cell phone games, bf, girlfriend: if you dont think your current bf is right for you then i would break up with him now. dont wait until you have another bf. you dont need to have someone in your life all the time right? whether you decide to date this other guy or not i would break up just...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend Was Moved Away, better education, more than words
better education, more than words, boarding school: Kyel - I think the fact that you re both so young is a big factor in this. Unfortunately, as long as she s under 18, there s really not much you can do and I don t think talking to her parents is going to make things better on your behalf. It ll just...

Teen Dating Issues: this girl im confused!, trick girls, favourite music
trick girls, favourite music, myspace: Hello Tony, I ve been asked this question a lot, and here are my tried and true steps on how to figure out if a girl likes you and how to move on forward. :) If you want to know if she likes you, ask her if she wants to hangout sometime and see how things...

Teen Dating Issues: Sexual Urges, sexual urges, intercourse
sexual urges, intercourse, girlfriend: Hi, This is not unheard of. DO NOT HAVE INTERCOURSE AT YOUR AGE. Second, you need to talk to your doctor about sex risks asap. If you mention this to your doctor, he or she should be able to help you out. I cannot treat such an issue online. I have my...

Teen Dating Issues: What do you make of this situation?, maturity level, facebook
maturity level, facebook, hot guys: i wouldnt not talk to him because you think he is out of your league. i dont think he is to old for you. my concern is that he has a gf he is in luv with. you wouldnt want some girl moving in on your guy right :) i would only be friends with him if you want...

Teen Dating Issues: Unsure how to ask a girl out, good time, good luck
good time, good luck, girlfriend: i would start hanging out with her more. then after a bit (maybe a week or two) ask her out on a date. find a good time when you can talk to her when its just the two of you and go for it! ask her if she would like to go out to a movie sometime and see...

Teen Dating Issues: Best friend who i love., mixed signals, best bet
mixed signals, best bet, awkwardness: Hi Jordan, Just because she started talking to you again and things are feeling back to normal between you two doesn t necessarily mean she likes you more than a friend. After all, it s only been a week and most people don t change their minds about...

Teen Dating Issues: Break up problems, heartbroken girl, break ups
heartbroken girl, break ups, ups: Hello Christina, I m very sorry to hear about your circumstances. Firstly, I would make sure that what you heard is actually true. I would be skeptical of what his friends tell you unless you hear it from his mouth directly, you know? If you re still friends...

Teen Dating Issues: Am I that bad?, first kiss, type of girl
first kiss, type of girl, school experience: you have probably heard this before...but someone will come alone eventually. it seems to happen when you least expect it. have you tried dating web sites? they usually suck but sometimes you can find someone nice. what happens when you go out on dates...

Teen Dating Issues: boy trouble, boy trouble, probaby
boy trouble, probaby, loney: Hello Fern - If there is no possibility for you moving back to England soon, I think it would be best to let this relationship go. Keeping a relationship going with someone on another continent is something that most adults wouldn t even be able to do....

Teen Dating Issues: Me, a boyfriend, and a best friend, long distance relationship, infectious smile
long distance relationship, infectious smile, wise advice: That s too bad about your boyfriend. I don t blame you for not wanting to put up with that...what s the point in trying to make it work if he won t even talk to you and won t make the time when you ask! Maybe give him another week or two to come around, and...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I break up with my boyfriend?, pros and cons, feelings
pros and cons, feelings, kiss: i cant really tell you what to do because i dont know you or your relationship. what i will say is dont stay with someone just because he makes you feel better. have you dated a lot of other people? if not maybe its time to see what else it out there. you...

Teen Dating Issues: confusing much?, spur of the moment, bestfriend
spur of the moment, bestfriend, melanie: Hello Bella - I don t see what the problem would be. You did the right thing in asking your friend what she thought, and she said it was okay. So if he likes you, you like him, and your friend says she s okay with that, where s the problem? I say go for it!...

Teen Dating Issues: Never Had a Date, movie theater, classmate
movie theater, classmate, bookstores: Wow that is a small school. I can only think of the other places I mentioned outside of school. Perhaps ask some of the other experts for ideas as well. I m sure a sibling would understand if you were trying to get a date - have you tried telling them? They...

Teen Dating Issues: Dont know what to do or what she really thinks, someones feelings, preasure
someones feelings, preasure, posibilities: Hi Dimitri - I am sorry to hear about this. It s impossible for me to know exactly what she is thinking. It is possible, like you said, that with all her exams and stuff that she just started to feel really overwhelmed with everything and decided that having...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex girlfriend, graduation night, acting this way
graduation night, acting this way, guy friend: wow...it sounds like she is very childish by what she is doing. i guess you could contact her and ask her why she is acting this way..trying to make you jealous. let her know why you did what you did etc. open up to her and see what happens. good luck!...

Teen Dating Issues: Feelin a lil weird, jealous feelings, beautiful girl
jealous feelings, beautiful girl, gf: all you can do is trust her. sure this guy might try and make a move on your gf but there is nothing you can do about it. you have to trust your gf that she will be faithful to you. you can be open and honest with her and tell her that you were a little jealous....

Teen Dating Issues: friend, school slut, popular girls
school slut, popular girls, boyfriends: dating doesnt mean your a slut; sleeping around does. sometimes friends just drift apart. it happens. its to bad that your friend doesnt want to hang around with you anymore but is being pulled into this other crowd. i would try to find other people...

Teen Dating Issues: friends with exboyfriend, exboyfriend, feelings
exboyfriend, feelings, girls: because usually someone doesnt want to break up with the other person and then one person gets upset. i think its possible for a girl and a guy to remain friends after breaking up. as long as both people want the breakup and dont have any other feelings towards...

Teen Dating Issues: friends-who-steal-your-guy problems..., night b4, bff
night b4, bff, sweet guy: Kimberly, Oh my God, I am so sorry! This is gross behavior, and she isn t a good friend if she does this to you. She is treating you so unfairly, but I have to say, online dating never works out well. But I m not here to judge, I am here to give you advice,...

Teen Dating Issues: I gave him my first kiss and less than an hour later he wants to be just friends, mixed signals, first kiss
mixed signals, first kiss, rest of the day: Hi Mina, He did seem to be giving you some mixed signals didn t he? It sounds like he genuinely likes you, but for whatever reason, as he said, just doesn t want a girlfriend right now. People can have a lot of reasons for not wanting to be in a relationship,...

Teen Dating Issues: help, facebook, carla
facebook, carla, cousin: Hi Carla, I am not sure what the problem is here. Can he be in love with you after just one date? No, probably not. But he obviously likes you a lot and is trying to express that. If you like him too and he asked you out I don t see any reason why you...

Teen Dating Issues: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, long distance relationships
long distance relationship, long distance relationships, relationship work: Hello Jessica, Do you have any evidence to feel that he s seeing another girl, or do you think that s what might be going on? I would be wary of accusing him of seeing someone else if you don t really have any evidence of it. Instead - address the facts...

Teen Dating Issues: Long Story, great relationship, single date
great relationship, single date, first break: i really think you need to pull yourself away from all the parties involved here. stop talking about stephanie to others, stop talking to Alex, etc. start hanging out with your other friends (or make new ones) and try dating some girls. your young and...

Teen Dating Issues: Problems with this girl, shits and giggles, passionate kisses
shits and giggles, passionate kisses, word answers: Hello Matt, I think you handled the situation very well actually. You didn t swear at her or type any angry words, your responses were very calm and level headed. She obviously is just super stressed out and is in that angry state-of-mind where any little...

Teen Dating Issues: I really like my college tutor, college tutor, one in a million
college tutor, one in a million, construction college: your age difference is quite large. i dont really think a 30 year old guy should be dating a 19 year old. its not illegal and could date him if you want but the college might not think its ok either! if you feel like this is something you want to do i would...

Teen Dating Issues: do he really love me, life as a kid, januray
life as a kid, januray, teen years: Hi Brittany, It sounds like you already know what to do, trust your instinct and ask him about it. Tell him what other people have been saying to you about him and say you want to hear the truth from him. You guys are fairly young, maybe he just isn t...

Teen Dating Issues: rejected for being ugly, pubes, jerks
pubes, jerks, sasha: Hello Rihanne! I am from the U.K. too, originally, so it was cool to hear from you. First year of high school is always hard with or without guys who are jerks. Your friends are right, and he doesn t deserve you if he treats you that way. There will be another...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship confusion, long distance relationships, stress anxiety
long distance relationships, stress anxiety, rough patch: Hello Joshua, Long distance relationships can be very hard. The key thing is trust. Feeling jealous or worried and not being able to get answers from someone right away can really send the mind reeling. What you don t want to do is keep nagging her with...

Teen Dating Issues: Serious Help Needed, homosexuality issues, dumb mistake
homosexuality issues, dumb mistake, class trip: talk to him! stop sending emails and having friends talk to him. go up to him and talk to him to see if he likes you. he asked you to the dance so im sure he likes you. just go out with him and have fun. dont worry about anything else right now. sandi ...

Teen Dating Issues: Was it too soon?, sexual relationship, month and a half
sexual relationship, month and a half, couple weeks: Hello Hanna, Don t beat yourself up too much about this. It s very easy to get caught up in the moment and then have some reservations about it later on. Whether it was too soon, or if you should wait to say I love you first is really something you have...

Teen Dating Issues: i can't get over him :/, serious relationship, nate
serious relationship, nate, good luck: it doesn t sound to me you really have any reason to be mad at him, you weren t dating him. if he is not currently dating anyone then i think its fine to let him know how you feel and that you want to get back together with him. good luck! sandi ...

Teen Dating Issues: I can't tell if he likes me or not.., first move, roxy
first move, roxy, melanie: Hello roxy, This guy is definitely hard to read huh? It sounds like maybe he likes you and is just being shy...or he is worried you don t like him back so he is trying to make it seem that he doesn t really like you. Either way, it is annoying and frustrating...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I try harder for his relationship, love, relationships
love, relationships, choices: Hi Melody! I am very sorry to say that this sin t the healthiest relationship you could have. Shoving your face into the bed is a really bad sign and the fact that he ll hardly let you talk to other guys is even worse. Quite frankly, this guy is not good...

Teen Dating Issues: Should i try and win her back?, internet chat, last november
internet chat, last november, pissed: Hello kunal, It is hard to say if it was just the spying incident that caused the issue. You were teenagers when you met and are now in your early twenties, that is a time period when people do a lot of growing and changing...and it is possible that you...

Teen Dating Issues: Does she like me?, warm smiles, opening doors
warm smiles, opening doors, favourite songs: continue to be a good friend to her. relationships are built on friendships so you cant loose by being her friend. i know you really want to date her but i think for now you should just continue to be friends and see what happens. good luck and keep me updated!...

Teen Dating Issues: Boy trouble, Helping girls know if a boy likes them back
Helping girls know if a boy likes them back: Okay, I understand this can get very thrustrating and annoying as having a friend, or even a best friend who likes/loves/fancys the same lad as you can always be awkward. Firstly to deal with your friend. It is always going to be a challenge trying to find...

Teen Dating Issues: How do i break up with my boyfriend, sick jokes, lesbian activities
sick jokes, lesbian activities, life hell: i think you should break up with him sooner then later. tell him why your breaking up with him. let him know how you feel and how he makes you feel. be honest with him. once thats done i would just ignore him. if he continues to say things to you just pretend...

Teen Dating Issues: "Like a brother love" v. I "Love" You., brother love, advice giver
brother love, advice giver, grateful thanks: i think you should really try to move on. she has been really truthful and open with you which is good on her part. i know it hurts when you like someone and they don t like you back in the same way but it happens sometimes. try to find other people to date...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused!, baseball game, singing a song
baseball game, singing a song, football game: Hi Sarah - you re right, it is hard to tell what your crush may be thinking. It sounds like maybe he does like you but is really shy about it. I would THINK that his friend wouldn t keep making all those comments about you two if crushboy didn t at least...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused..., comebacks, stand by me
comebacks, stand by me, oth: Hello Zach, Sorry it took me a little while to get back to you. As you said - there s really no sure fire way to know what she s thinking or if she is interested...but from what you said I think there is a pretty good chance that she does like you as potentially...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, best of luck, stares
best of luck, stares, lad: Hi there - The way I see it you ve only got two options - ask him out or don t! Asking him out is scary I know...but think about what will happen if you don t. If you don t ask him out you ll just be wondering what he s thinking and keep getting yourself all...

Teen Dating Issues: how do i convince her (I am changed), last man on earth, 3 years
last man on earth, 3 years, good luck: i always tell people the same thing in this type of scenario. ask her! :) just ask her how she really feels about you now. if she says i wouldn t date you if you were the last person on earth then take that as what she really means and just be friends with...

Teen Dating Issues: Dear Vanessa,, young, mature
young, mature, legal: Hey, Sorry it s been a long waited reply, I have been so busy. Ok, so I ve never dated behind my parents back; I ve never had a reason to. But i still get it. I get that you re crazy about him, and I know with me (I don t know why exactly) but sometimes...

Teen Dating Issues: Drama, goodie goodie, guy friends
goodie goodie, guy friends, maddie: i think your on the right track by deleting him and removing him from your life. i also think you should talk to your guy friends and make sure they are not upset with you. hopefully they are just being stupid and trying to please their friend as well. i think...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, guys sex, little game
guys sex, little game, girls sex: Shannon, This is a hard situation, all guys are different. I am not against teenage sex. I am however a bit iffy about sex when you are not in a relationship. To girls sex means a lot, but to MOST (not all) guys, sex is just sex. When you wait until you...

Teen Dating Issues: how to deal with ex-boyfriend:), Helping, Out
Helping, Out, Girls: Hello Tiko, I m happy to hear that you have been in a relationship that you have luckily been able to still keep a friendship out of this, its very good. The only problem I suggest is if you are in the Best Friend Stage . Once your in the Best Friend Stage...

Teen Dating Issues: the first kiss...., first kiss, picnic in the park
first kiss, picnic in the park, infatuation: Hello Andrew - I think it s really sweet that you are putting so much effort into making your (and your g/f s) first kiss special. I had my first kiss when I was 17, so don t be too embarassed :) I wouldn t worry TOO much about time and place - I remember...

Teen Dating Issues: Girls at Work, attractive guy, attractive girl
attractive guy, attractive girl, returner: Hey Koonce - I can see your dilema here! I m afriad in your position most women problem wouldn t be expecting to be approached in the parking lot, and might actually get a little freaked out by it. It s interesting how someone coming up to you in a bar vs....

Teen Dating Issues: girl apologizes, hidden message, couple weeks
hidden message, couple weeks, out of the blue: I don t see any reason to believe that there is a hidden message there. Sounds like she just has a lot going on and is stressed about finals and graduation and thinks that maybe lately she hasn t been her usual happy/friendly self and is appologizing in case...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP, perfect situation, relation ship
perfect situation, relation ship, father and daughter: David, Personally, I believe that it would be a good idea to continue saying good night to her and the baby. Texting is very impersonal though and I really think you should try calling her at night, when you know she has her phone. Don t try to start a...

Teen Dating Issues: Hey its me again hurry its urgent, rough patches, teen fathers
rough patches, teen fathers, gmas: David, Sorry, I just got on my computer. At this point it is great that she has told you she missed you and being with you. She is still thinking about getting back together though. By her saying she needs more convincing and she needs to think more, I...

Teen Dating Issues: help cont, good job, ya
good job, ya: David, Its not always easy to get someone back but you are doing a great job and although i cannot say for sure, it seems to me that she will take you back sooner then later. Just keep being there for her, without smothering. You re doing a good job Davi...

Teen Dating Issues: Long Distance Relationships, jealousy, long distance
jealousy, long distance, sex: Hello, I m sorry that your having to deal with these kind of problems. It almost completely ruins a relationship when the person you are with doesn t trust you. Well, long distance relationships are difficult regardless, and it takes a lot of effort to...

Teen Dating Issues: Do i love him?, romantic feelings, real feelings
romantic feelings, real feelings, boarding school: Hi Paula - I think it should be fairly obvious why you feel the way you do - you re losing someone you care about! That s never easy, whether it s just a friend or someone you love. It s hard to find people that we truly get along with, and even more rare...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm going to college and the guy i'm liking is a senior. what do I do?, long distance relationships, stages of a relationship
long distance relationships, stages of a relationship, converstation: Erin, As i m sure you know, long distance relationships are very hard, especially when it is this early in the relationship. You haven t built up enough trust or feeling for the person to know that they wouldn t hurt you. I don t know how your high school...

Teen Dating Issues: My mom and my boyfriend, insults, boyfriends
insults, boyfriends, 10 months: so why would you want to stay with a guy who insults you? i think your mom is just looking out for you and protecting you. if i was your mom i would probably not like this guy either if you come home crying because he has verbally assaulted you. i dont know...

Teen Dating Issues: Trevor, , long distance relationship, dating
long distance relationship, dating, God: Trevor, That must have been so exciting meeting some one on a beautiful mountain vacation like that! I m happy for you. I ve been praying today for you and for this girl you have met. I think the thing that will help you is to ask God what to do. Ask him...

Teen Dating Issues: I think I'm being emotionally abused, emotional blackmail, co dependence
emotional blackmail, co dependence, graduation dress: Hi Saniya, I am really sorry to hear about your situation. Suicide threats like that are basically “emotional blackmail”. Sadly, this sort of thing is not that uncommon. It sounds to me like your boyfriend is emotionally unstable, and he’s a manipulator....

Teen Dating Issues: Wut do i do now??, good enough reason, being a girl
good enough reason, being a girl, hunch: Don t be ashamed of still liking her, because it was too sudden. Being a girl and reading this I think that she is doing this for two reasons. One would be that if she went to the party, she might be afraid of getting to know someone at this party, as you...

Teen Dating Issues: Why not me?, Helping, Boys
Helping, Boys, know: Okay, I ll start of by saying don t be sorry for the length, the more detail the better as I can understand your situation. This is a commend case with most people, boys and girls, so you are not alone. Never think that you can t get anyone, because in the...

Teen Dating Issues: after one year i cant be me?, nasty fight, danya
nasty fight, danya, taking your time: Hi there Danya, I m sorry to hear about your situation. After being with someone for so long, really caring about them and knowing that they depend on you so much, it can be very hard to even think about making a decision that might hurt their feelings....

Teen Dating Issues: Annoying Groupie - What do I do ?, trust issues, facebook
trust issues, facebook, groupie: I m sorry to say this but it does seem like the end of the road for you guys. It just sounds like he wants to mess around but still have you around for his little games. I think if he doesn t end it you should because he does not seem like a genuine guy...

Teen Dating Issues: Boyfriend doesn't like reciprocating oral =[, intense connection, meaningful communication
intense connection, meaningful communication, brazilian wax: Matilda, The best way to get the message across it to just talk it over with him. Tell him everything about how it makes you feel an all that. But, don t do it over the internet or phone, Do it in person. That s much more meaningful. Communication is the...

Teen Dating Issues: Boyfriend is away on vacation, cheating, boyfriend
cheating, boyfriend, distance: I find it to be very odd that he would cheat on you, regardless of whether or not it is a rite of passage in his family. I personally don t think that there is ever any excuse for cheating if you truly love someone. However, he does seem really confused....

Teen Dating Issues: boy confusion, Boys, Cheating
Boys, Cheating, Help: Hey Jen. I would suggest that if this is your best friends cousin s boyfriend not to go behind her back, as it will cause arguments between you and the girl and even your best friend as sooner or later they will find out. It will make the situation even more...

Teen Dating Issues: this boy....x, journey home, first move
journey home, first move, boyfriends: Hi Kelly, I am not suprised you have started to have a crush on him, as you have been spending more and more time with each other. If she is only your friend, she may just be saying it to get jelous, or she may actually be telling you the truth. Its always...

Teen Dating Issues: can i get a boyfriend?, first kiss, 9 months
first kiss, 9 months, old girl: Hi Aliyah, This is a common question I get asked, but I will not say a common problem because it is not really a problem. You are very young and I am sure you are very pretty and amazing. Finding the right guy is just about timing and destiny. However,...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I break up with him?, benefit of the doubt, freshman year
benefit of the doubt, freshman year, facebook: Hi Monica - I am a little confused by your wording in some places. You said in the last paragraph that you re dating him but prior to that you said you guys had only danced together and hung out for a few weeks. Unless there is more to the story that you...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused Crush, communication, crush
communication, crush, online: I can understand why you would be hurt and upset by him ignoring you online, but I don t think you re handling your frustration in the right way. If you act annoyed at somebody and stop talking to them without explaining why, then it accomplishes nothing...

Teen Dating Issues: Very Confused, and I'm going crazy :(, boyfriend mike, million questions
boyfriend mike, million questions, homelife: Hi Sara, I do not want you to over analyze the situation. That s one of the things I don t like about texting, you actually end up conveying very confusing messages. Apart from that, I would understand that nothing is wrong, I think he wants to move forward...

Teen Dating Issues: i cheated.., little innocence, chrissy
little innocence, chrissy, 5 months: Mike, Honestly, you made a mistake, that doesn t make you a bad person or un worthy of her. She loves you and she forgave you. Don t worry about the past, or the future. just love her now, don t cheat on her again, if she is being mean either tell her...

Teen Dating Issues: confused..., Texts
Texts: Hi Nick, Reading this I could tell up to the point of after she gave you her number she was clearly interested and liked you. I cannot now understand why she is being like this, and ignoring you. So their isn t much to say not knowing what she has said back...

Teen Dating Issues: confused about a guy's intentions, cute expression, algebra 1
cute expression, algebra 1, dumb question: Hey Elyssa, I m so sorry for the late response, family issues. Hmmm That is very hard to understand. If you like him and he knows, I m pretty sure that he s playing with you. Either playing around or like how kids do when they like someone, but don t wanna...

Teen Dating Issues: confusion over my friend, royal fashion, girly girl
royal fashion, girly girl, mutual friends: Hi Ben, Well I am the external point of view here, but from what you are saying it sounds as though she would be interested in a relationship as well! If you are afraid, which I agree with you on, why don t you suggest jokingly something of the sort. Like...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, grudges, new friend
grudges, new friend, cami: Dear Darion, You should date your new friend. Never let exs hold you down. Thats why they re called ex s. Your relationship has come and gone and he needs to understand that. Its time for him to let go, and for you to date new people. And if he still...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, long distance relationships, own medicine
long distance relationships, own medicine, trust issues: There is no standard to measure how good something is, it is up to your standards. Do YOU think this is good enough? It seems as though you have reached an agreement and both parties are happy. As long as this keeps going that way, and you feel happy, she...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Problem, tips on how to be a good kisser, how to be a good kisser
tips on how to be a good kisser, how to be a good kisser, mathematical equations: Hi Amy, You should not be pressured into anything, nor should you or your guy talk about this with others. Make sure this stays between you and him, it is private, and just take it slow. There is no right time in terms of mathematical equations, it is right...

Teen Dating Issues: Dreaded "lets just be friends", two and a half years, eye to eye
two and a half years, eye to eye, second chance: Kyle, It seems she just doesn t want to lose you if the relationship turns sour. Most girls can t find a guy that will talk to them as much as you do to her, and help her as much as you do. Its natural that she might want to stay just friends. If you two...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, best bet, school year
best bet, school year, 3 years: Mary, Your best bet would be to stop being in love with him. Even if you went out, how would you date? Going to two different schools can be a bit harsh. Most boys if they cared that much about you as you do them would try and find you also don t you think?...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, guy friends, girl friends
guy friends, girl friends, old girl: maybe they are afraid to. i would ask one of your close guy friends this question. get their perspective on it since they are close to you and know you well. i would also say, become more assertive. if guys are afraid to ask you out maybe if you ask them it...

Teen Dating Issues: How to deal with a very long distance relationship and parents who are weirded out by it, st anthony newfoundland, long distance relationship
st anthony newfoundland, long distance relationship, orlando florida usa: Amanda, I know you may not want to hear this but, I really think that you are already doing everything that you can possibly do in this relationship. Meeting up would cost too much, you would have to lie to your parents, and it s too far to keep it a secret....

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know what i should do anymore, please help, convesations, fish in the sea
convesations, fish in the sea, being friends: Hi David, Well being in the best friends stage is hard to get out of. As alot of girls having a best friend who is a lad doesn t often see them as anything else. But if she is as interested in you as you are with her she will try flirting with you or talking...

Teen Dating Issues: I dont know what to do about her!, weird feeling, time friends
weird feeling, time friends, medium length: if you think your allodoxaphobia is the problem have you looked into medication to help that? whats the worst that could happen, she says no! :) i think you should think about a few topics of conversation ahead of time and just go up to her and start talking...

Teen Dating Issues: An Ex Girlfriend, new boyfriend, boyfriends
new boyfriend, boyfriends, love life: Jacob, If you have any hope that you guys would still work, you could tell her how you feel next time you guys talk on the phone. From what you have told me though, it seems like this relationship might have run it s course, and its might be time to let...

Teen Dating Issues: An Ex Girlfriend, Ex boyfriend, Ex girlfriend
Ex boyfriend, Ex girlfriend, Issues: Hi Jacob, First of I can understand in the first year of dating your both going to be very close and connected, as your want to know everything about that person and you don t want to be apart from them. The more you hang around with a girlfriend, the more...

Teen Dating Issues: Friend issue, royal fashion, misjudgment
royal fashion, misjudgment, girly girl: Hey Dave, No worries about the long message, the more detail you give the easier it is for me to help you and hopefully give you some good advice. First of, I am generally not that suprised after the length of time you two have been friends you have started...

Teen Dating Issues: Friend problem, royal fashion, girly girl
royal fashion, girly girl, mutual friends: i think you should tell her you lied to her back when she asked you if you liked her. tell her you do like her and hope that this doesnt ruin your friendship. let her know that if she just wants to be friends with you then thats ok and you will be fine with...

Teen Dating Issues: fella trouble, best fiend, fairytale
best fiend, fairytale, bit of fun: Hi Jennifer, I will give you the advice you will not like, but that you have to do at this point. Stop seeing this guy IMMEDIATELY and cut all of the ties with him. This is a first degree player (which you have already figured out) and he is playing you,...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I make the first move?, confident women, first move
confident women, first move, self confidence: Hello Maddie, Trust me I know this may sound cliche but this is the 2000 s girls can ask guys out instead of waiting around for them to make the move, which may or may not happen. So get the idea out of your head that makes you think you can t. Well off...

Teen Dating Issues: my friend, misjudgment, jump right
misjudgment, jump right, being friends: Hello Vic, Well you said she isn t even talking to you right now, so I don t think you ve got much to lose. I wouldn t jump right into asking her out though, I would try to find out why she s been so distant with you first. You mentioned you share some...

Teen Dating Issues: my friend, royal fashion, misjudgment
royal fashion, misjudgment, girly girl: Making a physical move takes more courage than anything else, so i can understand if that is not something that you are comfortable with. Well I would say try to hang out with her alone and right when you are saying goodbye to her, I would just give her a...

Teen Dating Issues: friends with benefits, mixed signals, friends with benefits
mixed signals, friends with benefits, best of luck: Jamia, I think you should just tell her exactly how you feel because if she really likes you she will understand. I think it s better to tell her you feel uncomfortable than her getting mixed signals. When you tell her try to do it somewhere private and...

Teen Dating Issues: friends with benefits, t rush, friends with benefits
t rush, friends with benefits, shy person: i think you will become less shy with more time around her. i wouldn t rush anything and i would just make sure you communicate with her how you feel. it sounds like you already are which is good. i would let her know that you are usually a shy person when...

Teen Dating Issues: My Girlfriend is driving me insane., mean time, different things
mean time, different things, 4 months: Brad, When you are 16 years old, you are changing a lot and trying to figure out who you are. I think that is what she is doing, she is on her way to maturity, in the mean time she wants to try different things. When she brings these things up, instead...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend moving away, teen relationship advice, long distance relationship
teen relationship advice, long distance relationship, long distance relationships: Hi Tony, I am not a big fan of long distance relationships and I am sorry this has to be the situation in your case. However, when two people like each other very much then they could at least try to make it work. Some tips: a) No paranoia: You both...

Teen Dating Issues: What do i do after getting a girl's number ?, peice, persian
peice, persian, friday night: Hi Dany - I m not exactly sure what you re having a problem with here. I say call her up, maybe ask her if she s free Friday night or this weekend to get together for dinner. She gave you all her info and seemed open to the idea of you calling her, so go for...

Teen Dating Issues: What do i do after getting a girl's number ?, How to help people answer back on first text
How to help people answer back on first text: Well there would be no need to be embarrised by calling her, as she seemed to be very interested and intreged by you, and she seemed to want to get to know you. I understand that it would be awkward after only meeting her once, and trying to bring up conversation...

Teen Dating Issues: What do i do after getting a girl's number ?, peice, best of luck
peice, best of luck, phone call: Hello Dany, Well out of the choices of making a phone call or sms I would say you should make the phone call. I suggest you pick this one instead because nowadays everyone wants to text instead of talking to someone and if you suprise her with a phone...

Teen Dating Issues: What do i do after getting a girl's number ?, age gap, casual dinner
age gap, casual dinner, something else in mind: My advice to you is that you should call her because it is much more dominant to call. She won t think you are shy. Ask her out on a casual dinner date, unless you have something else in mind. The age gap is a bit large, I would try to avoid telling her your...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend, first kiss, christmas time
first kiss, christmas time, eachother: Hi Daniel, If you really care about this girl, and want to make a relationship with her, you have got to be patient. You have got to try and respect what she wants, even though it may be a bit too slow. If your finding it too hard try to be honest, but don...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend is not talking as much, communication, relationship
communication, relationship, talking: Well, the key to any relationship is communication. Try talking to her about it. Ask her if she s happy in your relationship and why she hasn t been wanting to talk as much recently. There s a chance that there s been something going on in her life keeping...

Teen Dating Issues: Two girls one confused guy!, bad feelings, outgoing girl
bad feelings, outgoing girl, games sports: Hi Taylor, The best thing for you to do is to tell Tiffany how you feel about her. Explain to her that you don t feel the same way, and that you can t be with her anymore. The worst thing you could do to her is to lead her on. Don t feel bad, feelings sometimes...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!!!, audrina patridge, good looking guys
audrina patridge, good looking guys, female stars: Hi UT, Well I will not tell you there is no such thing as good looks because this would be motivational talk that I am sure you do not want to hear. However, I will tell you that good looks are not the main criteria when evaluating a person. If they were...

Teen Dating Issues: heartbroken and confused, relationship experience, first girlfriend
relationship experience, first girlfriend, old boyfriend: Jessica, Unfortunately break ups happen, and it s sad but most everyone goes through them in life. I can understand that this boy wants to see what is out there, because he wants to know what its like to be like every other teenager. High School and College...

Teen Dating Issues: Ive hit rock bottom!, player, love
player, love, friend: This is a really tricky situation to be put into, and I m sorry that you have to deal with it. However, it sounds like the side of Colby that you know is not his entire being. Some people are really nice around their friends but completely change around...

Teen Dating Issues: idk wat to do, great personality, ofcourse
great personality, ofcourse, kickback: Hi Rocio, I am surprised this situation is not obvious for you as it is for me since you pretty much wrote your own answer in your question. This guy was lusting for you back then and when you rejected him, he moved on and maybe got a little more popular....

Teen Dating Issues: Should I leave him?, cheating, std
cheating, std, child: I understand that it would be really hard to let go of someone who has influenced your life to such an extent and that you want the best life possible for your child. However, this person obviously isn t good for you. He has obviously never once respected...

Teen Dating Issues: lots of problems, sex buddy, old sex
sex buddy, old sex, fist: Issy, I want to first apologize for the late response, I was extremely busy for the past 2 days. Issy, to be completely honest this sounds EXACTLY like a relationship I was in when I was 17. When your boyfriend cheats on you, it makes you feel like you...

Teen Dating Issues: I love someone who loves someone else., cami, girlfriend
cami, girlfriend, feelings: Hello Alex. :) The boy your after is probably feeling way too guilty to leave his girlfriend for another girl. If he liked you, and you had a boyfriend, would you just ditch your boyfriend like that? And you can always let him know your willing to wait...

Teen Dating Issues: I am in love with a wrong person., sociological facts, justin bieber
sociological facts, justin bieber, sreaming: Dacey, This is a difficult question, I know you may believe that you are in love with Justin Bieber but there are sociological facts that say that you can t be in love with someone that you have not met, or do not spend more than a certain amount of time...

Teen Dating Issues: moving out of home?, Moving out, Relationships
Moving out, Relationships, Young Love: Hey Yakira, This is a huge step you are about to make, and all I say is make sure your prepared and happy to make this step. If you are already spending a lot of time with him, and you are at a age where this is going to happen with boyfriends. Your mom will...

Teen Dating Issues: Picking up girls, picking up girls, beautiful girls
picking up girls, beautiful girls, new girl: personally i would not like a guy coming up to me and saying hey beautiful girls . be yourself, dont try and be macho or cocky. just a simple hi, my name is alex, whats yours? where do you go to school? i also think just going up to a girl and making small...

Teen Dating Issues: Public experience, liking girls, banana republic
liking girls, banana republic, tight clothes: Hello Veronica, I m not sure this is a Teen Dating Issue but I ll answer. I m sure that guy s stare at well Groomed ladies because, they like or want the chick that s hotter. If you get what I m saying. Most guys are like this and a handful of other...

Teen Dating Issues: plz help, fish in the sea, classmates
fish in the sea, classmates, car ride: Hi Varsha, I will give you the answer you do not want to hear, but it is the only way. Break up with this guy IMMEDIATELY. A guy that uses physical power is no guy to stay with. Actually, the fact that he does it while he is drunk shows that he has even...

Teen Dating Issues: Relationship Problem, shyness, shock
shyness, shock, trauma: When something traumatic happens in a person s life, oftentimes they go into a shock of sorts and have a hard time coping. Sometimes, as it seems like is the case with her, they just don t feel like talking to people. This is fairly normal, and since it...

Teen Dating Issues: Shyness in Relationship, emotional connection, shyness
emotional connection, shyness, flirty: Lulu, I really do believe that these shyness problems you are having are just because it is yours and his first relationship. It is normal for it to be a little awkward and even a bit uncomfortable in the beginning. He is probably more shy with you than...

Teen Dating Issues: I just can't stop thinkn about her, delightful vacation, saturday evening
delightful vacation, saturday evening, intuition: Hi Michael, I am glad you got that feeling, I am indeed here to help people figure out the answers to everything and I hope you will find my answer useful! First of all, the age difference you are talking about is no big deal. I would have been shocked...

Teen Dating Issues: teenage relationship problems, convesations, fish in the sea
convesations, fish in the sea, relationship problems: Hi David, Well being in the best friends stage is hard to get out of. As alot of girls having a best friend who is a lad doesn t often see them as anything else. But if she is as interested in you as you are with her she will try flirting with you or talking...

Teen Dating Issues: What do I do? how do I tell him This?, gf, doorstep
gf, doorstep, liking: Hi Kate, Well we need to take things slow here. I will tell you two things: 1) Count the times you wrote uncomfortable when explaining how you felt about this guy. 2) This part: He eventually got another gf, but for some reason i felt jealous because...

Teen Dating Issues: What do I do? how do I tell him This?, ex, love
ex, love, talk: It sounds like you re going to have a really hard time getting him to stop talking to you the way that he is now. Sometimes, when people fall hard enough in love with someone, they will always be in love with that individual, no matter how much time is between...

Teen Dating Issues: What do I do? how do I tell him This?, gf, doorstep
gf, doorstep, liking: Kate, Wow that seems like a lot. I kinda see what your getting at with what your saying. Being friend than dating always seems weird after a break up, but from the jealousy it seems like you do love him. Life is full of regrets and mistakes, but it s from...

Teen Dating Issues: Why does she treat me like this and what should I do?, romantic gestures, sexual moments
romantic gestures, sexual moments, right girl: Hi Mitch - I am sorry to hear about your troubles. We all express our emotions differently, and it s possible that your girlfriend just isn t a very outwardly emotion person. Doesn t mean she doesn t love you, just that she might not be the type of person...

Teen Dating Issues: trouble, Abroad, Help
Abroad, Help, Relationships: Hi Kyle, It is always difficult being in a relationship when atleast one person in that relationship is abroad. Being abroad it s going to be hard to always make contact with you, and also if she is studying she may want to at the moment concentrate on this...

Teen Dating Issues: Is he using me? Or do i have nothing to worry about?, harem girls, good night message
harem girls, good night message, virginity: Hi Katie, One of the reasons I have joined this website is to give girls the blunt, honest, and true opinion that they will not hear from anybody else. I am a no bullshit kind of girl and I hate guys who take advantage of girls so yes, this guy is using...

Teen Dating Issues: VAGINA PROBLEM ...hyperpigmentation, clogged sweat glands, caucasian females
clogged sweat glands, caucasian females, vagina area: Hi Ashley, I am not a dr and unfortunately have not heard of this before. So i did some research online and found the following. I hope this helps! Make sure you shower and wipe yourself gently with a washcloth after sex or other physical activity, and...

Teen Dating Issues: Way older men, control freaks, low self esteem
control freaks, low self esteem, responsible adult: Hi Sarah - This type of question is tough. My gut reaction is that there s a pretty big difference between 15 and 23. Now 8 years down the road a little isn t a big deal at all...like say a 30 year old and a 38 year old, or even a 26 year old and a 34...

Teen Dating Issues: IS SHE WRONG OR RIGHT., realtionship, frend
realtionship, frend, quarrel: It depends Tarun on how this friend is and whether you are being rational or just too jealous. Do you feel like he is trying to steal her from you? If he is a normal friend then no, you should not interfere. If you are sure he is flirting then you have the...

Teen Dating Issues: IS SHE WRONG OR RIGHT., realtionship, serious relationship
realtionship, serious relationship, frend: Right it is always good to be concerned, but you can t always get into all of your girlfriends business, as girls don t like being felt like their being watched all the time. The best thing to do is just try and let it past, as you two are in between a serious...

Teen Dating Issues: does she just want to be friends, long distance relationships, two and a half years
long distance relationships, two and a half years, buying time: There you go then. Well you can tell her that you would like to make into more (a bit more) than a friendship. It does not have to be a full on relationship, but rather a phase that leads to it. So like a pre-relationship, but not friendship like the one you...

Teen Dating Issues: does she just want to be friends, two and a half years, eye to eye
two and a half years, eye to eye, fourth of july: Hi, Sorry about late reply, I have recently been doing alot of work. I can see from that response she seems quite jelous, and thinks that you get a girlfriend the frienship you too will have will fade from you have a girlfriend. If you honestly love this...

Teen Dating Issues: does she just want to be friends, two and a half years, weird thing
two and a half years, weird thing, eye to eye: Kyle, That is a very weird thing for her to say, was anything else said? I don t understand why she would turn the conversation into talking about you and another girl when you were clearing asking about you and her. How did you bring it up exactly...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me? Should I be worried about the kiss and my ex bff? How do I flirt with him?, Distant relationships, relationships
Distant relationships, relationships, dating: Hi Kate, Firstly let me appologize about such a late reply, as lately I have been very busy at work and also with a lot of questions. Firstly I can obviously see that he has been flirting with you a lot and in so many different ways, possible trying to get...

Teen Dating Issues: Will i ever get her!?, weird feeling, time friends
weird feeling, time friends, medium length: Hi Codey, Actually, what you gave me is not close to what I would need to know. The physical description is not important and all what comes next is a blur. You said you texted her once, what did she do after that? If she gave no reaction and then smirked...

Teen Dating Issues: Can i ever get her!?, weird feeling, time friends
weird feeling, time friends, medium length: Codey the best advice I can give you is to make your move. Do not let your Allodoxaphobia hold you back and if you really can t make the move because of it I think you should go talk to your docotor. See what they can do to make these type of situations...

Teen Dating Issues: Too young to date?, eldest sister, mature girl
eldest sister, mature girl, self harm: Hi Aysh, Well there is no problem here. Your boyfriend is perfect (lucky you) and you are obviously a very mature girl. Your mom is just being overprotective, which she has the right to be and she might see that you are attractive and amazing so she is...

Teen Dating Issues: ages, age is just a number, stepmom
age is just a number, stepmom, girl friend: Evan, I m sure you have heard the saying age is just a number. And many people believe it, i do as well. But what your parents are trying to do is protect you basically. It may seem like their smothering you with the whole age deal but there just trying to...

Teen Dating Issues: Breaking up, breakup
breakup: Dear Will, I can already let you know you can never end a breakup well. Thats just a proven fact. But i can tell you some ways to approach this. I can tell you the truth will always set you free, and if you lie or try to find some other way it will only...

Teen Dating Issues: boy confusion, pacifist, chill
pacifist, chill, st john: chill out and realize you just met this guy! you really dont love him because you dont even know him. take it slow and if he doesnt respond to your messages then forget about him and move on. dating is all about finding what type of guy you like. you will...

Teen Dating Issues: Me and my boyfreind, boyfreind, lair
boyfreind, lair, mates: Jo, Honestly, trust is the most important foundation in EVERY relationship, and if he can t trust that you are telling him the truth, the foundation of your relationship is virtually non-existant. Another thing, what you have done in your past is absolutely...

Teen Dating Issues: boyfriend..kinda, ill prolly, admitt
ill prolly, admitt, cute things: Jill, I have been in the same situation before like the exact one. I was dating this guy who always feeds me the same crap like i love you, you mean everything to me, i wanna be a better person because of you,etc. etc. And what do typical girls do, they...

Teen Dating Issues: breakup, first girlfriend, couple days
first girlfriend, couple days, 19 years: Jessica, the reason your ex gave you for breaking up sounds good, but it s not very believable. People don t break up when things are good so that they won t go bad. People don t break up when things are good so that they can get together later in life,...

Teen Dating Issues: Confusing girlfriend, couple of friends, couple days
couple of friends, couple days, rodeo: Hi Beau - Her behavior is definitely confusing. As for what is going through her mind, there s no way for me to know. Could be a hundred different things. Maybe she is telling you she s not mad and really is. Maybe she is really shy and just not every...

Teen Dating Issues: Confusion about trust, whole 9 yards, perfect night
whole 9 yards, perfect night, werent: Dear Mitch, For one i am sorry. I am sorry to see such a nice guy get hurt like this. I think she should respect all you do for her and notice how you are there for her. Secondly, dont get it twisted with girls likeing bad boys. They date them for adventure....

Teen Dating Issues: Confusion about trust, whole 9 yards, perfect night
whole 9 yards, perfect night, werent: Hi Mitch - I am sorry to hear about your confusing situation. From what you have said it definitely appears that a lot is going on in this girls life that she is either lying to you about, or not telling you about. After six months, that s really not the...

Teen Dating Issues: change to my first question (sorry!), longdistance
longdistance: Stacia, Im going to be honest with you because i have been in your shoes. The longer you carry this on the harder its going to hurt you. I think you guys should take a break, at least untill things get better. You need to focus on, what is this your senior...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, coworkers, single day
coworkers, single day, worries: Warren, If you like this girl and want this relationship to make progress, you need to make a move. Girls, rarely make the first move, it s more respectful and classic for the guy to make the first move. You need to ask her to hang out, I really believe...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, friend material, coworkers
friend material, coworkers, single day: Warren, be VERY careful about playing games. When a girl talks to a good looking guy and you encourage or even play at encouraging them to be together, you send off a lot of unattractive signals: a) I m a needy guy with a low self-esteem, and I really...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, flirt, tease
flirt, tease, ignore: It s kind of hard for me to tell, especially from just secondhand accounts, if her flirtaciousness is intentional or imagined. Sometimes it is difficult to tell the difference between a close friend and someone flirting because they use the same mannerisms....

Teen Dating Issues: confusedd, right direction, nine months
right direction, nine months, good times: Hi Heather, For your first question, fighting is normal. However, I agree that this rate is a bit high and actually your second question is what made me doubt this relationship. This is possible, you might force yourself to like him only because you feel...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating /:, climbers club, rock climbers
climbers club, rock climbers, self fulfilling prophecy: Amanda, I think two bits of advice might help you. First, when we are young (like you), our world is rather small. You mention high school as your only dating pool. Think about that. Compare yourself to an adult. That would be like saying work is...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating clash, family
family: Gwen, First off i would like to let you know your not alone. I too have had my share of an abusive family and i always feel there smothering me. I know it must be hard for you and im sorry your having to deal with this kind of crisis. Especially one, you...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Issues, good person, old girl
good person, old girl, good times: No, Jake. You can t make someone feel differently about you any more than you can make your teacher give you a better grade than you earned. What you can do is (A) be the best person you can be. You are the only person you can MAKE do anything, so when...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, one night flings, current boyfriend
one night flings, current boyfriend, good relationship: i dont think you should break up with your current boyfriend just to be with your other friend. you should break up with him because your just not in love with him anymore and you dont feel like you want to be in a relationship with him now. i think you should...

Teen Dating Issues: feeling lost, long distance relationships, words of encouragement
long distance relationships, words of encouragement, second chances: Christy, I hate having to respond like this, because I know that it is not what you want to here but this situation truly hits home for me. Being cheated on is the absolute worst thing that you could possibly go through, there is so many horrible emotions...

Teen Dating Issues: friends with benefits, kiss, scared
kiss, scared, nervous: Yeah, something like that would work. As far as what to tell her, just say that you ve never really had a relationship before and you ve never been in that situation and you just got scared. Explain to her that it ll happen eventually, you re just nervous...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend cheated & i need advice, boy friend, family reunion
boy friend, family reunion, brea: Deejay, I am sorry if this is not what you want to hear but, your ex girlfriend is very immature. You are seriously better without her. It hurts now because you haven t gotten your closure yet and she is still talking to you. But honestly, the pain and...

Teen Dating Issues: my guy friend, crush, ask
crush, ask, friend: It sounds like he s just not that into the whole technological communication thing. Some people are like that, and that s fine. In fact, if you re going to tell someone that you like them, it s better to do it in person, or at least by a hand-written note,...

Teen Dating Issues: HELP!!!!!!!, great situation, little sisters
great situation, little sisters, old girls: Hi Donavan, Your message is not boring and I am here to help dear. This guy likes you and you like him so this is a great situation you must be happy about. This is an amazing guy, his autism did not stand in the way and he is great, from this you know...