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Teenage Problems: Why do I regret everything I do?, http www myspace, obsessive compulsive disorder
http www myspace, obsessive compulsive disorder, rubbish: It seems to be that you may have a little bit of the obsessive compulsive disorder going on or something more psychological. These types of things are best treated by a physician or a psychologist to really get rid of them the proper way. They have medicines...

Teenage Problems: relationship, stds, condom
stds, condom, oral sex: No, he doesn t have to wear a condom for you to perform oral sex on him, however, it is always a good idea to protect from STI/STDs... I m not sure what you mean by what happens when you give or receive oral sex so if you would like to be more specific I would...

Teenage Problems: relationship, girl friend, bk
girl friend, bk, alot: Well what you have to think about is that you re the one she s with now. You said the right thing, that was BEFORE you so they don t really matter. I m pretty sure their were girls before her in your life and she knows that but she s the one you re with now....

Teenage Problems: What should I do in my relationship?, popular guy, holding hands
popular guy, holding hands, compliment: try this - Let her be the one to do the work. Don t hold hands with her yet just act like her friend but still call her and talk to her and when she wants you to hold her hand she will tell you, I know it sounds wierd, but just smile and laugh and compliment...

Teenage Problems: my relationship/ feelings, mixed feelings, homosexual male
mixed feelings, homosexual male, sticky situation: But what you re also telling me is that you want to be with other people and you can t have it both ways. You either need to commit to your boyfriend 100% or part ways. I mean, you can be there for him as a friend can t you? You shouldn t stay with him...

Teenage Problems: relationship with my parents, breaking points, family therapist
breaking points, family therapist, compliment: Hey... I think that the best way to get someone to listen is by writing to them. That way when they read it they can t say anything back to you they just have to read it and hear what your feelings are. Tell her that you understand that she is only trying...

Teenage Problems: relationship problems, forthcoming exams, relationship problems
forthcoming exams, relationship problems, hey sarah: Hey Sarah, The problems with your relationship are only temporary and are only there because you have a lot on your plate at the minute and your boyfriend can t take the fact that you have to prioritise other things over him at the minute. Your boyfriend...

Teenage Problems: relationship problems, forthcoming exams, time becasue
forthcoming exams, time becasue, relationship problems: Hi Sarah: I think you need to really consider what you want from this relationship. Sounds like you re highly motovated and working very hard to get your education. He on the other hand isn t in school and doesn t work. On top of this he doesn t...

Teenage Problems: relationship problems, forthcoming exams, relationship problems
forthcoming exams, relationship problems, stupid little things: Dear Sarah, My boyfriend and I went through exactly the same thing a couple of months ago, also around a year to a year and a half of being together. I understand exactly how you feel. What you have to do, is find some time to yourself and try answering...

Teenage Problems: relationship???, guy friend, wile
guy friend, wile, snr: You have to decide a couple things. First you have to weigh whether the friendship is more important compared to a relationship with him. You always have to think about how much of a future in a relationship you might have, considering college and all of...

Teenage Problems: relationships, gonna break, exes
gonna break, exes, saying goodbye: Hi Brittany, Wow, that s quite a year! Honestly, it sounds like you probably need some time to grow and be out of a relationship for a while. It sounds like you went from one to another to another and those were probably more rebound relationships than...

Teenage Problems: relationships, shoe laces, strange creatures
shoe laces, strange creatures, light conversation: Hey Claire, Boys are strange creatures in their own rights and they have all these social rules and unspoken rituals that sometimes prevent them from being the most nicest people; but some guys are OK. The trick to trying to talk to a boy is to get them...

Teenage Problems: relationships, compatible mates, couple articles
compatible mates, couple articles, bad experience: Hello again Princess, Yes, I believe that is exactly what the Bible is teaching. Touch in the Greek means... touch! Girls work a bit differently than guys, so often they do not understand what is happening with physical affections. Guys are instantly...

Teenage Problems: relationships, http www myspace, acess
http www myspace, acess, http www myspace com: Yes, I talk about anything that a teen goes through. I may not always know the answer but I can try and help you out as best as I can. Sorry it took so long to get back to you, I have been without interent acess for a few days. Take care Ashley ...

Teenage Problems: relationships, one of my best friends, lizzie
one of my best friends, lizzie, feelings: Lizzie, If you already tryed dating him and it was awkward, then maybe it would be better if you stayed friends. Those situations are tough because I m sure he has feelings for you, just like you have feelings for him, but sometimes people don t go good together...

Teenage Problems: relationships, drunken night, perfect couple
drunken night, perfect couple, arguements: Maggie, If you are really wanting to see him then i think you should, because if you dont then you will just regret it and wonder what if . When you call him i am not sure what you can talk to him about but the best way not to fight is lose all your pride....

Teenage Problems: relationships, definite answer, sure what kind
definite answer, sure what kind, kind of girl: Ciaran, Sorry about the delay. My computer was down for a couple of days. It does sound as if this girl is very comfortable with you--a good sign! If she is only kissing this other boy, and she bothered to tell you this, she s probablly not attatched...

Teenage Problems: religion question, episcopal, different ways
episcopal, different ways, churches: Because not only is it classified by different ways of worshipping, but different beliefs as well. Having different churches isn t a bad thing at all. It s really good, because that way a person can fit into a church really well, and feel like they belong....

Teenage Problems: resistance, anything but the girl, sports interests
anything but the girl, sports interests, work organization: Paul, most people are happy to be in love with someone. But the state of being In Love is kind of outside of reality. As Im sure you know. In fact freud said he could think of only one other situatiuon that being in love could be compared to. Psychosis...

Teenage Problems: restriction, thinking of suicide, secretely
thinking of suicide, secretely, good answer: Shaun, how are you doing? My name is Lauren, and I am 22 yrs. old. OK SHAUN to be honest with you I can t say that I can give you a solution. I mean all I can say is I will try and you can use whatever works best for you. Well I mean Shaun there is nothing...

Teenage Problems: Which road?, hi lauren, random guy
hi lauren, random guy, 10th grade: Hi Lauren, my name is Lauren too and I am 22 yrs. old. I have also been raped as well. This is too much of a coicedence. Ok...well I was...in the...10th grade when mine happened. I never told a soul except my cousin. Once I told her that was it she told my...

Teenage Problems: rosie and her mom, friend rosie, lucy one
friend rosie, lucy one, lord taylors: Hi Debbie. Rosie s mother probably just means that she doesn t want the coworkers thinking that Rosie can t afford Bloomingdales, or doesn t want to spend lots of money on them. She just wants to keep up an image, and there s nothing wrong with that. It really...

Teenage Problems: rules for my 18 year old son, sports school, basketball team
sports school, basketball team, good kid: Hi, I disagree with your husband s actions because he is 18 years old, he can do what he wants. Since then he is doing well in sports, school and other stuff. As reward, allow him stay up late, evenually he will go bed if he feels tired. As for chores,...

Teenage Problems: rumors, xfriend, xfriends
xfriend, xfriends, life at school: Lizzy, First you need to understand that there is a line between hurting people and standing up for yourself. While you shouldn t go up to people and start screaming, if you hear that someone is saying unkind things behind your back, it is certainly acceptable...

Teenage Problems: rumours around school, german kid, cool kid
german kid, cool kid, rumours: Hey James, Um does it really matter what other people think/say? It shouldn t matter to people what you ve done in the past as long as you re a cool kid, right? Just ignore them. Honestly, it ll go away after a while if you just ignore it. Your denial and...

Teenage Problems: How do I get out of this rut?, high school diploma, correspondence courses
high school diploma, correspondence courses, mom and dad: Hi Vikki: You donˇ¦t mention how old you are now, or what kind of job you have, but I m guessing that you haven t been out of school for too long. The good news is that you re not alone in having made the choices you have. Lots of young people drop out...

Teenage Problems: A SAD QUESTION, life question, wise idea
life question, wise idea, true friend: Hi Marlene, It is real shame that he did deceived you, if he really cared enough to let you know he is married, he would come back sooner or give you a call. That is not a true friend, therefore he is using and lied to you for his own personal reasons....

Teenage Problems: DO WHAT AS I SAY 3, power struggle, personal organization
power struggle, personal organization, life coaches: Hello Cameron, If you are told to do something over again or correctly. It is obvious that whatever task you were given to do was not done properly or was not completed......Maybe you should talk to your dad and ask him exactly what it is he wants you to...

Teenage Problems: DO WHAT AS I SAY 2, bad habbits, important things
bad habbits, important things, dad: Because of the exact same reason I told you before, him procrastinating is something that has affected him in a negative way, and he doesn t want you to get into his bad habbits. Your young and he wants you to fix this problem before your older like him. It...

Teenage Problems: DO WHAT AS I SAY 2, important things, dad
important things, dad, volunteer: Well he s your father you have to listen to him anyway. My mom use to tell me that same thing but they re right. I f they say do something you do it right then and there unless you re busy or doing something then you should explain to them that you re...

Teenage Problems: Sad and confused, yia yia, girl on top
yia yia, girl on top, watever: Hey ... ok first off I have dated thugs and some guys who are hard core tough ... and guess what everysingle one of them cried. I heard them cry. Any guy who says he doesn t cry is lying or totally heartless, so know it s not gay to cry, its normal and healthy....

Teenage Problems: Sad, those memories, girl schools
those memories, girl schools, complex person: Jeff, You have a lot of time to find a girl. Especially since you are going to be in 8th grade. Just be friends with girls you have high school ahead of you and college...If you are going to have a busy summer than thats a good thing. Why not pick up a...

Teenage Problems: Salvation, whole prayer, romans 10
whole prayer, romans 10, step mom: Hi Morgan, If you truely believed and asked Jesus to save you.....then your sins are covered........even your occasional doubt. If your heart is guilty....God knows better about what really happened..Ge knows that if you truely trusted Christ. 1 John...

Teenage Problems: SCARED, goals in life, virginity
goals in life, virginity, safe sex: If you REALLY want to do this sort of thing with your boyfriend, just be safe. Use a condom, etc. There is no such thing as perfectly safe sex, so if you are that concerned about your future I would wait. There is always that chance you can get pregnant, even...

Teenage Problems: Scared, psychology area, pysch
psychology area, pysch, two answers: I would need to know more about you to say anything yet I do think you have a phobia and I do think this phobia has a lot to do with your past. I am not an expert in this field and for this you may want to ask in the psychology area, yet if you tell me more...

Teenage Problems: Scared, wonderful peace, types of feelings
wonderful peace, types of feelings, honest person: Hey, you need to not be so attached to him. Getting married right out of highschool might sound great, but it is something you should really reconsider. Are you going to go to school? If not how will you pay for the life your going to spend with him? I don...

Teenage Problems: School Attendance, high school diploma, lack of motivation
high school diploma, lack of motivation, school attendance: Amanda, As a senior in a private school where all the girls are bimbos and sluts, I can relate. You answered your question yourself, I think. If you love the atmosphere of your college classes and you re looking forward to college, high school is just...

Teenage Problems: School open house, language arts class, open house
language arts class, open house, good luck: Hey ... I am sorry but I don t even know what a language arts class is. Is it another name for Spanish, French, or German or something like that? Just explain what the class is like. How your teacher is, things that you have learned throughout the year, try...

Teenage Problems: School truancy, computer etc, tv computer
computer etc, tv computer, single parent: Hi Ms.Seager, You are doing a right thing to take away what your son loves most, it will be nasty but it is a good action you take to not allow him to attend Cadets for a while. It won t backfire because he is one who skips the school and disobey you,...

Teenage Problems: Screwed up home., bad temper, gr10
bad temper, gr10, longest time: Hi, Can I ask your country/state? Ok religious questions, I feel may be better with a coworker of mine. Can I recommend a rabbi? Because I want you to get information from another religious expert. Please ask follow ups and I ll give you their contact information....

Teenage Problems: SEX, planned parenthood, resources for parents
planned parenthood, resources for parents, vigin: Please state the state in the future. 15 is an illegal age in most US states for sex. I would say all, yet I am not a lawyer and do not know all state laws. Please ask an instate lawyer for your state law. Your DA can also help out. Your school should have...

Teenage Problems: SEX, gonorrhea, stds
gonorrhea, stds, bf: Hey Jessica, Wait to have sex. The risk of pregnancy/STDs is just way too high these days. Imagine getting pregnant so young, or getting gonorrhea or herpes or something. Not saying that you BF is diseased or anything, but you should wait. I waited until...

Teenage Problems: SEX, breaking the law, uk sex
breaking the law, uk sex, bf: Hello there Jessica, I have to warn you that in the UK sex under the age of 16 is illegal and in most states of America, sex under the age of 18 is illegal. Therefore, if your boyfriend and you do have sex, then you are breaking the law. If you do not...

Teenage Problems: SEX ADDICTION, plz mail, yoga meditation
plz mail, yoga meditation, sex addiction: Hi, my name is Lauren, and I was supposed to write you back but I have been busy. I want to take the time out now to say sorry. I know you gave me your email to reply, but if I don t reply here they re going to think I will not reply to you. Ok. Well...when...

Teenage Problems: SEX ADDICTION, sex addiction, infactuation
sex addiction, infactuation, sex etc: Hi Paul, Obviously, you feel that you have a problem, so it doesn t really matter what your friends say. But in order to differentiate between a healthy urge or an addiction is to assess various areas of your life. For example, is this addiction affecting...

Teenage Problems: SEX ADDICTION, plz mail, sex addiction
plz mail, sex addiction, infactuation: well I think that you shuld control it by using peels that there should be made to control when your sexualy active. As a man of course it is natural to get horny as we call it which means sexually active. It is natiral among men because women don t have...

Teenage Problems: SEX AND PREGNANCY, sign of pregnancy, cramps
sign of pregnancy, cramps, headaches: 1. Did you have sex with this other guy while you had a boyfriend? If so...you really need to tell your boyfriend. 2. Yes, feeling nauseous is a sign of pregnancy. As well as your boobs being bigger, headaches, and a few other things. How long ago did you...

Teenage Problems: SEX, pull out method, tiny lil
pull out method, tiny lil, sex question: How long have you been going out? It sounds like you want to have sex with him, and if you do please make him wear a condom no matter what he says. Belive me the pull out method doesn t work and i don t want you getting a disease or a baby. But if you aren...

Teenage Problems: Self confidence., self confidence, older sister
self confidence, older sister, rebekah: Hey Rebekah, Firstly, don t ever think that you come second best to your sister. You are both on the same level. No one person is better than another, because everyone is equal. You are just as good and just as pretty as your sister may be, remember that...

Teenage Problems: Self-esteem and confidence, hormonal effect, overcoming shyness
hormonal effect, overcoming shyness, remarkable person: Hey Jenny, You are right about the hormonal effect of getting older; your hormones mean that your moods will be all over the place, but sometimes, there is more to feeling like this than just hormones and sometimes the problem is far more deeply rooted....

Teenage Problems: Senior Trip, senior trip, hotmail
senior trip, hotmail, graduation: Hmmmmmmm......either go to a place you have been b4 and you really like......or go to a new place that is realisitc but sounds kewl too......I would explain to your parents definantly who all is going, and just your basic ideas for the trip.....just give them...

Teenage Problems: Senior Year Trip, beach house, senior year
beach house, senior year, countryside: HI Meg, well im guessing that your 18 and you are an adult. Your parents should be thrilled that your enjoying yourself before university as you would be split form your friends. i think a trip to a beach house would be a good idea or in the countryside? your...

Teenage Problems: Senior Year Trip, cruise line, palm springs
cruise line, palm springs, senior year: Well, personally, my favorite kind of trip involves a cruise. And better yet there is a cruise line that may be sort of spendy, but gives off the idea of family fun while actually having great people onboard and much adult entertainment, andt hat is disney....

Teenage Problems: Sex, happy relationship, forplay
happy relationship, forplay, having anal sex: Hello, thank you for your question. I think that your problem is due to nervousness, nothing physical. Rather you really noticed it or not I sure there is a level of anxiety or pressure to perform as a result of this you had the problem with erection. I...

Teenage Problems: Having Sex, teens having sex, iwannaknow
teens having sex, iwannaknow, erect penis: Third party websites are not related to me. Use at your own risk: http://www.iwannaknow.org/ The above website lists some of the problems with teens having sex. Did you know 2 out of every 5 teens have an STI? 85 people out of 100 people will get pregnant...

Teenage Problems: Sex, sex act, cybersex
sex act, cybersex, do the right thing: Hi Dan, If you love this girl to death why not do the right thing. Wait until you and her are both 18 and get married. If you have to lie sneak around or hide to do something it s usually wrong or something you shouldn t be doing....Cybersex and phone sex...

Teenage Problems: Sex, http www myspace, backrubs
http www myspace, backrubs, erogenous zones: Usually, the two areas that drive a girl crazy are the clitoris and the g-spot. To become familiar with these the best thing to do is to google them and there will be pictures on there to show you exactly where they are located. With the clitoris if you began...

Teenage Problems: Sex, sex kay, physic
sex kay, physic, party girl: first of all sorry about your mom. that really stinks. second, how old are you? when did you start having sex? have you told an adult about it? i know that dads aren t the best people to talk to about this but sometimes they re all you got. you have to tell...

Teenage Problems: Sex, t rush, wrong answer
t rush, wrong answer, lubricant: Hi again Vicki. Firstly, you should never be embarrassed to let anyone know its your first time, especially because your first time will be very important to you and you shouldn t rush into it. Never feel pressured to do anything or feel embarrassed about...

Teenage Problems: Sex, penis
penis: well u should feel something entering u sometimes especially the first time it burns like u have an infection but once sex begins it doesnt feel that bad....after sex nuttin really for the girl there r no effects from sex just make sure u use protection if...

Teenage Problems: Sex, fellings, having sex
fellings, having sex, old man: Miss Seema, You are too young to be thinking about having sex, especially with a 30-year old MAN. Tell him you re not interested because you are too young for him, and then find a guy around your age to date, and don t think about having sex until you re...

Teenage Problems: Sex, dry vagina, moist vagina
dry vagina, moist vagina, sexual stimulation: Hey Robin, Your vagina produces its own lubricant during sexual stimulation and it is this that leads to a hightened climax, moist vagina and consequently, is the thing that will help you to come . Getting a dry vagina can be a result of a number of things,...

Teenage Problems: Sex?, best behaviour, don t cry
best behaviour, don t cry, bad mother: Dear Alex, “Well yesterday, we were talking about quiting things....he wants me to quit smoking but, he ll never come out and say stop smoking . He just tells me that I should quit because it s not good for me but, it s up to me since he can t change me....

Teenage Problems: Sex help please, natural lubricant, erection problem
natural lubricant, erection problem, sex help: Okay if what i understand is, is that when you and your girlfriend try to have sex ur penis will not go into her?? if i am correct on that, you do not have an erection problem its actually her problem, what happens is if you do not do foreplay the female...

Teenage Problems: Sex and Pregnancy, ready to have a baby, mid 20s
ready to have a baby, mid 20s, prude: Hey Em, It s good that you are thinking logically and I agree that this is not the age to settle down and have children; but that doesn t mean you have to wait until you are 40 either. Pregancny usually occurs accidentally and although initially it is a...

Teenage Problems: Sex, dumb stuff, making love
dumb stuff, making love, virginity: Kendra, Your ex is back? Well well well, isn t that fun. Ex s are rarely a good thing when they come back. He wants to have sex with you? I am going to say this with as much love as I have for strangers, if you have to ask about how to know if you re ready,...

Teenage Problems: Sexual Abuse, james windell, depression problems
james windell, depression problems, ups: Hello, Expert Dan here. It was not her fault what happened. I recommend our rape area, depression area, and if you list your state I can post a hotline for advice. If she wants to talk to me, I m here. Please ask follow ups James Windell Parenting Teen...

Teenage Problems: Sexual Difficulty, smoking marijuana, pain killers
smoking marijuana, pain killers, sex with girls: Hey, Don t be embarrassed! You aren t the only person whose ever had this type of problem, trust me. First of all, are you taking any medications or health supplements that might be causing erectile dysfunction? Marijuana actually is very tolling on the...

Teenage Problems: Sexuality, one of my best friends, eachother
one of my best friends, eachother, sexuality: Hello, thanks for your question. I would tell your friend that you want to be friends with him reguardless and that he knows how you feel about him, if the friendship can ever progress to anything more, you are open to that. If not you still value him as a...

Teenage Problems: Sexuality, specail, blowjob
specail, blowjob, sexuality: You can t turn gay Bruce. If you re gay you ll know it. It is possible that you re bi-sexual, but the best thing i can tell you is that you re probably too young to know anythign for sure. Just wait a while and see which gender you fancy best. Hope...

Teenage Problems: Shaving Facial Hair, facial hair, mother daughter
facial hair, mother daughter, dad: Hey, it s hard to say without seeing it, but your Dad probably knows what he s talking about. After all, he s been through exactly the same as you are now :) Anyways, try not to worry about it being there. Just proves that you re more mature than other guys...

Teenage Problems: Shaving, lower regions, razor bumps
lower regions, razor bumps, couple reasons: 1. What hurts more waxing or shaving? Waxing, hands down. 2.WHich would you recommend? Depends on your threshold for pain, personally, shaving. 3.Are the razor lumps worse than the ones you get on your legs? Sometimes, it really depends on how aggressive...

Teenage Problems: Shy guys, believer, good luck
believer, good luck, best friend: Hey ... why does the guy have to ask the girl? If you want to go out with him then just ask him, he will be flattered and happy if you did. The only real way to let someone know how you feel is to TELL THEM. So even if you don t want to ask him to be your...

Teenage Problems: Shyness, cocoa cola, alchohal
cocoa cola, alchohal, having trouble making friends: Hi Jenn! NO there definately isn t anything wrong with you. When I was younger, I m only 18 btw and I have two younger brothers in high school, I moved around alot too. I went to 9 different elementary schools. It s hard making friends sometimes, but don...

Teenage Problems: Shyness, cocoa cola, psalm 1
cocoa cola, psalm 1, alchohal: Hi Jennifer, Thanks for this great question. Psalm 1:1-6 Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. 2 But his delight is in the law of the LORD;...

Teenage Problems: Shyness, cocoa cola, alchohal
cocoa cola, alchohal, having trouble making friends: There is nothing wrong with saying no to drugs or alcohol. In fact, its the right thing and don t do it because of pressure from others or to be cool. Its not cool to take drugs or alcohol ...its not good for you and bad for your health. That stuff...

Teenage Problems: Shyness, cocoa cola, alchohal
cocoa cola, alchohal, taking drugs: Hi Jenn! No there is nothing wrong with you! If you don t drink or take drugs other people should totally respect you for that cos they shouldn t be doing it! So good for you! Not that you would, but please don t start drinking and taking drugs just cos...

Teenage Problems: Shyness, cocoa cola, alchohal
cocoa cola, alchohal, having trouble making friends: Well Hi, my name is Lauren, and sorry it took me so long to get back to you!!! Well...I do think the reason you might be having some trouble is because you don t do none of those things you just named!!! You will find that many people in high school will do...

Teenage Problems: Shyness, cocoa cola, high school kids
cocoa cola, high school kids, rough school: Hi Jennifer, It must be really tough changing schools so much. By the sounds of it you have really good self esteem and it may be put to the test at this school. I don t know why some high school kids drink, etc and others don t. I think it has more to...

Teenage Problems: Sick, disgusting dreams., pet guinea pigs, flesh lusteth against
pet guinea pigs, flesh lusteth against, galatians 5: Hi Julia, I am sorry for this late response. Let me first tell you that God is a just God and will not hold you to blame for the dreams over which you have no control. Consider the make up of a saved individual..... you have two parts the Spirit- desires...

Teenage Problems: Sick of m-town, real friends, 13 years
real friends, 13 years, grandparents: Hello Maggie, Well try focusing on something eles, I dunno, a hobby maybe, or something that is of interest to you. That way you can go out do the things you enjoy, & maybe even meet some new people who shae the same interests with you. But theres not much...

Teenage Problems: A Silent Observer, brother mark, silent observer
brother mark, silent observer, piercing eyes: Hi Maria, In high school boys and girls often think they are in love but it isn t love really that they feel....It is a lot like love yet nothing like love at the same time.......See everyone wants to be accepted everyone wants someone in their live to...

Teenage Problems: Single Parentling my 15 year old, athletic cards, school calander
athletic cards, school calander, downward spiral: Hi Marsha, Thank you for this great question. I am sorry for my late response. I do not have an immediate or simple solution for you, but I think that there is something that you should consider. Often parents like yourself are stuck when a child starts...

Teenage Problems: My Sister, wild cherry pepsi, temper tantrum
wild cherry pepsi, temper tantrum, health area: I recommend talking to your doctor and our Teen Health area as well as our Men s Health area about caffeine. Caffeine is not good at your age. Please understand I cannot offer health answers online. I also recommend our Brother and siter problems area...

Teenage Problems: Smoking Weed, different types of drugs, smoking pot
different types of drugs, smoking pot, types of drugs: Rachel, smoking pot occasionally will not kill you, although its not good for you its not THAT bad either. Your friends are going to smoke and do what they want no matter what you say. People are incapable of change unless they are the ones who want to make...

Teenage Problems: Smoking, poisons, deep breath
poisons, deep breath, lungs: I would suggest not smoking anymore. You don t need to go to the doctor unless it persists for awhile after not smoking. Your lungs are telling you that they cannot handle having tar, nicotine, and other poisons and additives in there. If you can t take a...

Teenage Problems: SOS, ear time, inner feelings
ear time, inner feelings, word death: hi faith~ have u tried talking to someone close to u about ur inner feelings? what s bothering u? what gives u stress? what makes u cut urself more? would u be willing to go for therapy sessions- someone to listen to and talk about this with? whom are...

Teenage Problems: Socalizing, pressence, skil
pressence, skil, socialization: Hey Patrick, It s cool to feel a bit shy when it comes to socialising, it is a common problem that affects more people than you probably know. The key to it is to be confident in what you are saying and this usually means about talking about something you...

Teenage Problems: Social Anxiety, mixed emotions, social anxiety
mixed emotions, social anxiety, couns: Ok, I see you added me to msn messenger. What I think you may have a problem with is the shaking or crying. I am wondering if you have a feeling of your heart racing, and or feeling you are in danger of dying, or other worse feelings? If so it could be...

Teenage Problems: Socializing, different girls, girl on tv
different girls, girl on tv, different this time: Dear Charlie, You are an exception young man who s talent will get recognised sooner rather than later. It is good that you have the drive and determination to continue to write and persevere and it s good that you are doing your research about it. ...

Teenage Problems: My Son, staying friends, strange names
staying friends, strange names, swim team: Hi Wendi, I am sorry your son is unhappy about what s going on at the school. I would like to know what names they call your son besides weird ? Maybe it is way he dresses or things he had said to someone? It is really ashame they are avoiding him,...

Teenage Problems: SPLIT!, guardian angle, mom lives
guardian angle, mom lives, dad lives: Hi, I understand. Anyways had to offer. So do you want to talk about your relationship with your parents? Do you feel this would help you out? I may recommend a family psychologist with your parents. Were you happy with the divorce? Please ask follow ups...

Teenage Problems: Speaking Disability, shot c, lack of confidence
shot c, lack of confidence, medical cure: I think you should try pronouncing some of the hard words in front of the mirror at home. Or if your in school I know most schools have a special program called speech. I used to be in speech because i had problems with my words. Or if you have a parent or...

Teenage Problems: Spring Break, church goer, midweek service
church goer, midweek service, none of my friends: You ca surely find someone from school who is not going away and hang out with them. Since you are home alone do not have parties and invite guys who will likely take advantage of the situation and you will get into trouble when your parents return. Go shopping...

Teenage Problems: do i have an STI, signs of yeast infection, yeast infections
signs of yeast infection, yeast infections, chrissy johnson: Hi Chrissy, thanks for writing back. More than likely this is just a yeast infection. But if this continues--say a week, I would consider visiting a doctor. But you should be back to normal in a couple days :) Right now, it doesn t sound like a serious...

Teenage Problems: STUCK IN DA MIDDLE...... = [ heeellp.., stepmum, fites
stepmum, fites, fite: Hi Renee, I understand why you don t want to leave your mum all on her own, but if it gets abusive then its against the law and you really should get out. You have to think of your own safety sweety and if your mum hurts you then you should really stay, at...

Teenage Problems: Struggling, height and weight, eye contact
height and weight, eye contact, best friends: Zoey - First of all, you re not fat. Anyone who would think that you re fat is insane. I m the same height and weight as you and I m 21 years old so don t feel bad. People find my height adorable and I love being short. I wouldn t be me without it....

Teenage Problems: Stuck between friends, holly and jessica, hiya
holly and jessica, hiya, friendships: hi again! If Jessica isnt willing to make a go at being atleast civil to holly you have to tell her its either best friends or friends, you need to talk to jessica and tell her she cant make you choose and you like her and you never talk about her behind...

Teenage Problems: Surgery and parents, breast implants, waist down
breast implants, waist down, inheritance: Rachel - Once you re 18 you don t need your parents permission or really have any obligation to tell them. The money will be yours and they can t touch it so if you want breast implants you should just go ahead and do it. If they disapproved, would you...

Teenage Problems: sad, annoyed, desperate....much?, homecoming queen, homecoming dance
homecoming queen, homecoming dance, one of my best friends: Katrina, Your being wayyyyy to hard on yourself. No need. It worries me because you remind me a lot of myself at your age. I know just how you feel. 1. About never being kissed. IT S OK! Your a freshman you have so much time for that. A lot of girls your...

Teenage Problems: I am scared and confused, raping girls, front porch
raping girls, front porch, searching the internet: Katherine - It is very important that you go to the cops because what he s doing is illegal. You re telling me that he s raping girls and stalking them. The cops need to be notified of this so he can be arrested and put in jail where he belongs. You need...

Teenage Problems: i am scared, hormone changes, mothers and sons
hormone changes, mothers and sons, digusting: hey wel all i can tell you is that i have these same thopughts and i am straight as well. Its perfectly normal and a lot of people have them. ANyways, theres nothing wrong with you so you dont need to worry and if the thoughts bother you then why do u get...

Teenage Problems: scarred for life?, spanking sessions, spanking forums
spanking sessions, spanking forums, fetish porn: Hey Alex, I know for someone your age you are in an incredibly difficult position and you are trying to do what is best for all concerned, including your parents. What you found and what you saw should not have been seen by you at such a young age and nor...

Teenage Problems: school, swimsuite, kelly xxx
swimsuite, kelly xxx, those girls: Hi Kelly! I have been through that yes, as I have finished school a few years ago it was a while ago that I went through it but I understand your concerns non-the-less. I know you will be very concerned about what the boys will think about you in a swimsuite...

Teenage Problems: school, having a positive attitude, mum dad
having a positive attitude, mum dad, star sticker: Dear Cat, Truthfully, I think that the goal of getting a good report card full of sky high grades should be enough incentive to work your butt off... You just need to get you act together and straighten up your priorities! Limit the amount of programs you...

Teenage Problems: school, front teeth, words of wisdom
front teeth, words of wisdom, friends at school: I know where you are coming from. I had a few things that destroyed my confidence when I was growing up but one of my friends gave me some words of wisdom and I will share them with you today. She told me that it doesnt matter what you look like if someone...

Teenage Problems: school and church, bible study group, mr carpenter
bible study group, mr carpenter, typical teens: Hi Michael, Thank you for this great question. I am so glad that you have a burden for those at your school! Would to God that more teens would have the same heart as you seem to have. With that said I do have several words of advice for you: 1. ...

Teenage Problems: school dance, e mail address, desprit
e mail address, desprit, school dance: Hey ... I know this isn t what you want to hear ... but it s the only thing you can do ... just ask! Just go up to him and say do u want to dance ... its as simple as that ... then so u don t seem desprit or anything just wait a few days and once again just...

Teenage Problems: school dance, e mail address, school dance
e mail address, school dance, 13 year olds: Is this problem still at hands? I recommend to become friends before dating. I also cannot recommend a 13 year old to be dating. I have seen the studies that show it s not a good idea for 13 year olds to date. Becoming his friend will allow you to be able...

Teenage Problems: school dance, e mail address, hypothetical situation
e mail address, hypothetical situation, school dance: Hey Mariah, Sorry for being late getting back to you, it usually does not take me 2 days to reply, but due to the number of problems I have recieved, it has taken me a while to work my way through them. By now you will have been to the Dance and you...

Teenage Problems: school dance, e mail address, school dance
e mail address, school dance, dovey: Mariah, I think you should just do what you feel is comfortable. What s the worst that could happen, he turns you down? It s just a dance, and if he thinks it s too big of a deal to just dance with you, I don t think you should waste your time with him....

Teenage Problems: school dance, e mail address, school dance
e mail address, school dance, dovey: Mariah - Just be like hey you wanna dance? or go up with a group of your friends so you re not alone. It s just casual. Ask him during a fast song at first so there s no pressure. At the end of the night ask him if maybe you could email him sometime...

Teenage Problems: school dance, e mail address, school dance
e mail address, school dance, time difference: Mariah, This question may be coming to you late but it s dated the day after Valentines which is probably because of our time difference. But i ll just say a few things where I can like flirting. Some people might say there are steps to follow or that...

Teenage Problems: school dance, e mail address, school dance
e mail address, school dance, dovey: Sorry Im late but the best approach is the most direct approach. Just ask him for his email address or ask him for his phone number. That should get the message across quite quickly that you are interested in him. By the way boys are just as shy as girls...

Teenage Problems: school dance, e mail address, school dance
e mail address, school dance, dovey: Hey Mariah ... I m really sorry if i m too late. If you like this guy then you should totally go for it! he won t laugh at you ... he ll probasbly be just as nervous as you! As for flirting, just go up to him and start chatting away, laugh at any jokes, SMILE!...

Teenage Problems: school and family, short attention span, anger issues
short attention span, anger issues, life is a joke: Hello, Happy Thanksgiving. Your problem is a very common problem. I had the exact same problem. It has to do with psychology. Can I ask you a few questions before getting into this? Favorite hobbies? What is your normal day life like?(TV, computer, and...

Teenage Problems: school stress, google search, school stress
google search, school stress, stress and anxiety: I don t know any statistics off the top of my head, but I did a quick google search and found a few websites for you. Try: http://www.stress.org/problem.htm http://www.localaccess.com/wfwc/issue6/stress.htm A good message board is: http://www.julia-iles.com/board/ubbhtml/Forum2/HTML/000037.html...

Teenage Problems: school, having no friends, worring
having no friends, worring, facing the world: It can be kinda scary not knowing what your going to do after highschool. Are you going to college? If your planning on it but don t know what you want to be then just choose some classes that sound interesting and try them. You still have plenty of time to...

Teenage Problems: secretive, wrong answer
wrong answer: Sindel, The first thing I think you need to do is sit and decide if it s that you do like him or if you do just like the hooking up. And remember, there s no wrong answer, because it s just what you feel. Then when you do decide on something, make sure...

Teenage Problems: self esteem, self esteem problems, being a girl
self esteem problems, being a girl, ribs: Every girl compares herself to other girls...It s natural. Most of the time, you don t even realize you re comparing yourself to someone else, but you are. When you get dressed, do your hair, put on your make-up...It s to look good. And you want to look better...

Teenage Problems: my selfish gf is getting on my wick!!!!, nice night, wick
nice night, wick, 9 months: Hey Josh, I m a girl. She s TRYING to make you jealous, trust me. Ignore her. She s deliberately hurting you to make herself feel better, and each time you react she gets pleasure out of it. It s normal to still like someone after you ve broken up, but it...

Teenage Problems: I sent him a message!, myspac, exact message
myspac, exact message, lol: Hey ... that sounds good ... although i dont think you should have said sorry because you did NOTHING AT ALL to be sorry about. I think he will still want to be friends with you. which is good because then when he grows up a little maybe you guys can be more....

Teenage Problems: sex, real person, iu
real person, iu, virgin: what is mingin? ok heres the deal: if you are ready to have sex, then that is when you should have it, but not until then. and if this guy likes you, he wont care about the outside, he will care about the real person you are inside, so dont worry about any...

Teenage Problems: sex, girl 2, rest of your life
girl 2, rest of your life, group activities: messing around is one thing but sex is a big NO NO! First of all you are not of legal age and if anything happens you could be held accountable for listen you are only 16 years old you have the rest of your life to do those kinda things mess around have sex,...

Teenage Problems: sex, serious relationship, sexual relationship
serious relationship, sexual relationship, sex don: Dear Ric, Well... This is a tricky question and the answer depends on many factors. Like have you had sex before? Has she? Why don’t you want to get back together with her? Have you made your intentions clear? Does she know you re not looking for a serious...

Teenage Problems: sex, sexual feelings, girl 2
sexual feelings, girl 2, hysteria: Dear Ric, For one, depending on where you live, there could be a legal issue. In many countries the words ’sex’ and ‘underage’ in the same sentence cause immediate and violent hysteria. Still, even toddlers can have sexual feelings, and between 13 and...

Teenage Problems: sex, happy new year, virginity
happy new year, virginity, 17 years: You are 17 years old and are way too young for sex. My advice is have him keep his thing in his pants. My advice is also learn the risks of sex and learn about protection. Talk to a doctor. Happy New Year Don t throw everything away for that jerk. ...

Teenage Problems: sex, going all the way, virginity
going all the way, virginity, having sex: Clare, Well if you keep pushing him away it simply means that you just don t want to do it with him or that you re mind deep down is just not ready to do it. It s no rush at all, when you find that you re comfortable with the idea that you can actually...

Teenage Problems: sex, pubic hair, brazillian
pubic hair, brazillian, waxing: Hello Hannah, There are a lot of things you can do, you can trim it with some scissors, have most of it removed by having a Brazillian or get it shaved completely off with a razor and some gel (but preferably, waxing it). Your pubic hair does serve a...

Teenage Problems: sex, mail thanks, natural instinct
mail thanks, natural instinct, human sexuality: Its hard to believe you do not already know this if you are really 17. As to the uncle this could be seen as your uncle contributint to the delinquency of a minor. Teens and adults do not have much in common unless its a teens parents. About watching porn...

Teenage Problems: Me and sex, http www myspace, letters to god
http www myspace, letters to god, http www myspace com: I understand how frustrating it can be. It is also against my religious beliefs as well. The only suggestion that I have that may work would be trying to obtain self control. For instance, when you feel that you want to masturbate try to turn your attention...

Teenage Problems: sex, cross country team, gain popularity
cross country team, gain popularity, teen pregnancy: Hi there Mik, Well you sound like a pretty smart young man. You are right a lot of young teens are engaging in sexual activities that they are not ready for physically or emotionally and in most cases legally thats right in a lot of places it is illegal...

Teenage Problems: sex, corupted, girl girls
corupted, girl girls, e mail: I WILL ANSWER IN CAPITALS hi ive been told that woman are just as visuall as men (sexaully) and none (sexaually) so why isnt there much porn for woman and why is it harder for a man to get sex but easy for a woman?MEN ARE SIGHT ORIENTED...

Teenage Problems: sex, corupted, girl girls
corupted, girl girls, women in society: These are questions that we all question.....butsometimes we keep them inside of us because there is nothing we can do about them IT S SOCIETY...society is corrupted...and it starts back in the history of men and women. Women are seen beautiful but men are...

Teenage Problems: sex, corupted, sexual beings
corupted, sexual beings, girl girls: Women tend to not need visual stimulation (like porn) as much as guys do. While a lot of times, women do watch porn, there are probably just as many that don t. I, for instance, don t need porn. Woman are sexual beings. We dress slutty and stuff. Men are supposed...

Teenage Problems: sex, statutory rape, blood brother
statutory rape, blood brother, step brother: Hi Sue, thanks for the question. As to your question is it wrong...in my opinion this is morally wrong and of course legally it is wrong. There is a incest and statutory rape thing going on. Is it possible that you are using each other as a cructh...

Teenage Problems: sex, new feelings, good sex
new feelings, good sex, sex life: Jason - I think you should break up with your girlfriend so you don t hurt her. Be honest with her. Don t tell her that you fooled around with some guy at a party because that will just hurt her even more but you should tell her that you re realizing...

Teenage Problems: sex, time don, girlfriend
time don, girlfriend: Hey Brad buddy, If you re not ready then you don t have to have sex; just tell your girlfriend that you don t feel comfortable and maybe some other time. Do not feel pressured to do it if you don t want to or think that you are not ready. If you re just...

Teenage Problems: sex, feel 100, peer pressure
feel 100, peer pressure, love letter: Hey Natalie, If you re ready to take the next step in your relationship then you have to let your boyfriend know, and the easiest way to do this is to kiss him and then whisper in his ears if you re ready to do it, then so am I and see what he says. If...

Teenage Problems: sex, descion, aginst
descion, aginst, morals: Definitly tell her you just aren t ready for that but just tell her your not ready for sex I mean you can fool around and such and even cuddle but do NOT do something your not ready or comfortable with especially if it s against some morals you have and if...

Teenage Problems: sex addiction, sex addiction, self help groups
sex addiction, self help groups, routine life: well. masturbation is one thing i cannot give too much advice on but ill do my best. first of all, i don t know what religion you tried but im a Christian. in religion you are constantly going to mess up and fall short. you just have to try again. maybe try...

Teenage Problems: sex gone bad??? wtf, premature ejactulation, pubescent boys
premature ejactulation, pubescent boys, favorite thing: Hey Loreda, You ve probably heard of premature ejactulation which is common in older men and young pre-pubescent boys, but a similar problem that is not so common is called delayed ejaculation . This is when the man cannot ejaculate (cum) for a long period...

Teenage Problems: sex and my boy friend, gity, boy friend
gity, boy friend, wimp: hey, it sounds like you wernt ready, and when your not ready, stuff like this happens! It goes wrong! This guy is probably embarrased, but shouldnt have been so blunt about sexual things in the first place, as its made you feel rather pressured im guessing....

Teenage Problems: sex and my boyfriend, friend erin, hand job
friend erin, hand job, kayla: 14 year olds should not be dating. MOST 14 YEAR OLDS DO NOT DATE. Sex is a big big thing to do. It s something you shouldn t rush into. You shouldn t date someone at this age for sex. It s illegal in many areas at your age. You could be at a high risk for...

Teenage Problems: sex : the condom broke.., pregnancy test, contraceptive pill
pregnancy test, contraceptive pill, sperm count: Hey Kasey, Lowering your boyfriend s sperm count is not going to solve anything, afterall, it takes only one sperm to fertilise the egg; and that is why you either need to use a condom or take the contraceptive pill both of which are over 99% effective....

Teenage Problems: sex hurt me, boyfreind, time hope
boyfreind, time hope, iwas: hi, well my only advice is to try agin but have more foreplay and also buy a lubricant. maybe try a different position like you on top so you can control how deep it goes in so if it starts to hurt you can stop or go slower. since it was his first time he...

Teenage Problems: sex hurt me, boyfreind, iwas
boyfreind, iwas, foreplay: Hey Natalie, Thanks for the question. Sorry to hear about your problem. I researched a little on the web and here are some points I found that may help. *What may seem like a size issue could be a matter of readiness--foreplay wise. *If you don t...

Teenage Problems: sex topic, having an orgasm, how to make her cum
having an orgasm, how to make her cum, orgasms: if you want to masturbate for her. that is between her and you. whatever you want. making her wet is when she is excited. when she orgasms...she doesnt cum like a boy does. you will be able to tell if a girl has an orgasm but most girls dont orgasm from sex....

Teenage Problems: sex and being a virgin, best of friends, hallways
best of friends, hallways, wierd: Hey well it seems that you really like this boy so what is the problem if you are going out with him!?!? I would ask yourself these questions before you are going to have sex .... If I guy pressures you into having sex then dont because that is not a real...

Teenage Problems: sex, sports injuries, hymen
sports injuries, hymen, tampons: it hurts the first time because the vagina isn t used to something as large as a penis being inside of it, and if the girl has a hymen (some virgins don t because of tampons or sports injuries) it hurts because it breaks. eventually your body becomes accustomed...

Teenage Problems: shaking, anxiety attacks, insite
anxiety attacks, insite, shakes: It is probably from your anxiety attacks that you have.! Because at times I get those too. But there are meds. that can help you to get rid of those shakes you should contact your doctor. Your shaking because your heart is racing and your blood goes through...

Teenage Problems: shaving, constant rate, facial hair
constant rate, facial hair, hair growth: Hey there Leroy, Hair grows at a constant rate of a couple of millimeters a night and there is no way to increase the speed at which the hair grows because it is controlled by a growth hormone in the body. If you do keep shaving, it is said that it will...

Teenage Problems: shiness, good sports, great friends
good sports, great friends, admirers: Hello, Well everyone is different. You could start by joining clubs on campus....You can also get involved in sports Cross country and track are really good sports you ll meet a lot of new people and make friends in the process.....Both of these sports...

Teenage Problems: shit is fucked up, surer, empathy
surer, empathy, feelings: Hi Jack, I m sorry you are feeling down......It happens to everyone from time to time especially when you a very caring person...It sounds like you are a great friend and want your friends to be happy....What a great world we d have if everyone was happy...

Teenage Problems: will she show these pictures to my classmates?, batmitzvah, guy friends
batmitzvah, guy friends, entire school: Elana, I don t think you have anything to worry about! You kissed a guy good for you! People won t think that your a whore! And if they do they need to grow up real fast. So what if she shows people. If everyone already hates you which I m sure isn t true,...

Teenage Problems: What shuld i do?, temple of the holy ghost, king james bible
temple of the holy ghost, king james bible, apostle paul: Hi Catye, Thanks for this great question.. First of all, relax, I am very much King James only! I believe that God preserved every Word and the King James Bible is the very Word of God for English speaking people. There are several things to consider:...

Teenage Problems: How can I get a shy guy to ask me out?, thier horses, hunting season
thier horses, hunting season, o clock: Okay, this guy doesn t seem that shy to me if he s going to talk to you for hours and ask you guys to go hunting and stuff...And I don t really think hunting would be considered a date, but if that s fine with you, then I guess it s something. But about going...

Teenage Problems: a shy guy, shy guy, first move
shy guy, first move, favour: Hey Catherine, A lot of guys don t like making the first move because they feel like they will be rejected. It will probably do his and your self-esteem a huge favour if you pick up the phone and give him a ring. Just ask him how his day was and make general...

Teenage Problems: This is sick and weird., cousin kyle, images of people having sex
cousin kyle, images of people having sex, cousin sarah: Hi Jessie. Im so sorry I couldnt answer soon enough. But after I read what you said, I agree with you. And the worst thing is that she is his own sister. You really need to help Sarah through this because she might really need someone. This is really scarring...

Teenage Problems: *sigh* abandoned but not forgotton, whynot, female friends
whynot, female friends, infact: hey meg, youre quite unclear about a few things you mentioned in the question, but ill try to answer it the best i can. well..from what youve told me, i think that he probably did like you. cause a guy doesn t stare at a girl if he s completely repulsed...

Teenage Problems: His sister..., alot, ashley
alot, ashley, phone number: Brian - I think it s something you should definitely discuss with your friend before attempting because if you don t, he might get upset. Just be upfront with him and let him know how you feel and see what he says. If he s honestly bothered by it, it d...

Teenage Problems: I sit nex to this kid in band..., band director, classmate
band director, classmate, band class: Puggs, I m sorry to hear that you re having trouble with a classmate, and I can imagine how it will make that class uncomfortable. The best way to handle it, since your band director isn t too eager to step in, would be to tell the boy to stop. Don t...

Teenage Problems: site, curious questions, allexperts
curious questions, allexperts, curiosities: Hi Jeff: Actually I was wrong on 1. I get a link to go to the question via the AllExperts site and I also get the entire question, below that, although I never read that part .... cause I alwasy click on the link. As for #4 Answer this question...

Teenage Problems: sleep, computer television, sleep problems
computer television, sleep problems, sleep deprivation: Hello Lisa, I am just checking up with you to see if you have resolved your daughter s sleep issue. Leona Hello again, There are several things that you may try. We use many of these tactics for our girls here. Exercise early in the day, Free...

Teenage Problems: I slept with a married man, suprise birthday party, sister angela
suprise birthday party, sister angela, having a great time: Dear Cristine, I guess if a silly immature girl like yourself who opens her legs to any guy when she is drunk and is disloyal to her friends now hates me then I must be doing something right.I suggest you leave drinking and sex to us grown ups who know...

Teenage Problems: smoking, parents care, green stuff
parents care, green stuff, family outings: Hi Jackie how are you doing? I am so sorry it took me so long to get back to you. The thing is once we answer a question it goes into our box as answered, and sometimes if you don t remember you want to go back it wont remind you. Well anyway answers about...

Teenage Problems: socializing, none of my friends, anythin
none of my friends, anythin, stupid thing: You re whole attitude needs a makeover. Who wants to hang out with someone who thinks they re no fun? You project that vibe to everyone and they don t want to hang out with you because they don t want to be around all that negativity. Try being more positive...

Teenage Problems: sometimes i feel like killing..., one of my best friends, multi vitamins
one of my best friends, multi vitamins, ap classes: Hey Liz, You need to keep your chin up and take note of your achievements at school and personally. There are times when some of us feel really down and there are times when you just wish things would end. But for most people, this is just a phase. You...

Teenage Problems: is somthng lackin in me??, vaction, neva
vaction, neva, dawn: Hey Grace, Thanks for the question. Sorry the reply took so long, I was on vaction until today. This is so normal. But if you were wasting all your time panting over each crush that you did not have time for a life or if you were crushed badly after...

Teenage Problems: son in bad relationship, first love, right choice
first love, right choice, good luck: Hi, It is his decision and his own choice if he wants to have her come back into the relationship. He will need your support, he knows you tried to help but he needs to make his own decision and his path. Let s hope he makes the right choice and know...

Teenage Problems: My son has cut himself and is very angry I need help, uncontrollable anger, responsible friend
uncontrollable anger, responsible friend, friend adult: Hey Georgia, Sounds like a very difficult situation. My advice would be to keep him away from those other kids, maybe try and do some fun things with him like taking a day trip somewhere if you have the time or taking him shopping and just getting his mind...

Teenage Problems: my son (Dakota), supper nanny, montreal area
supper nanny, montreal area, behaviour problem: Judy, I m sorry but I do not know of anywhere like that at all. It s pretty normal that he has tryed somking pot and ciggarettes, I started at 11 with pot and smoked ciggs when I was 13, and it was stupid, but in a way I m glad I got out all of my bad stuff...

Teenage Problems: My son lies and steals from me, alcohol treatment program, drug and alcohol treatment
alcohol treatment program, drug and alcohol treatment, local community college: Hi Christine, I am sorry that you are going through this and I am sorry for my late response. I am afraid that I don t have an earth shattering word of wisdom for you. I think that I can give you a couple of points to consider. 1. Once an addict,...

Teenage Problems: my son is stealing from family members, lord loveth, hebrews 12
lord loveth, hebrews 12, positive reinforcement: Hi Wanda, Thanks for this great question. I am very sorry that you are going through this trial. I am very sorry for this late response. I have several suggestions for you to consider. 1. God wants us to do justly. It is important to have all of...

Teenage Problems: my son is viewing gay websites, born again christians, gay male porn sites
born again christians, gay male porn sites, walk with god: Hi Wanda, I am sorry that you and your son are going through such a trial. I have several suggestions for you. 1. Confront your son directly with what you found on the web site. I am not sure how close you are, but perhaps he will open up about a...

Teenage Problems: my sons, son god, ample food
son god, ample food, happy holidays: Hello and Happy Holidays, I am going to recommend our Parenting Teen expert James Windell with you. I just feel he may be better than me with this. Your question is a great question and I wish other teens read this. I will tell you that it s very common...

Teenage Problems: sperm, vitro fertilization, ivf
vitro fertilization, ivf, last resort: Hello there Pete, Sometimes, it is not possible for woman to get pregnant the traditional or conventional way, either because they have a problem with their bodies or their partner has lazy sperm that need to be implanted into an egg outside the body:...

Teenage Problems: back stabbing best friend, wrong place at the wrong time, benefit of the doubt
wrong place at the wrong time, benefit of the doubt, honest mistake: in your situation I would DEF give your friend the benefit of the doubt if she purposely was strying to mean she wouldn t go so far to ask your forgiveness I honestly do think it was just a honest mistake or a wrong place at the wrong time kinda thing but...

Teenage Problems: i started to cut myself, unplanned pregnancy, ambitions in life
unplanned pregnancy, ambitions in life, monetary benefits: Hi Jackie, So you re 3 months pregnant and because of your anxiety and stress you ve resorted to cutting yourself. You feel that everyone is angry at you and you don t want to talk to anyone but still wish to stop. First of all, let me start by saying that...

Teenage Problems: how to stay sane?, stupid games, straight days
stupid games, straight days, games tv: hey a while ago you messaged me asking how to stay sane and I just wanted to message you back and see how you were doin...

Teenage Problems: step daughter, realsolutions, step daughter
realsolutions, step daughter, wonderful man: If you both are happy and really want to work things out, you can. You both cannot let his daughter try to cause problems, at least don t let his daughter know she bothers you so much. There is a couple of websites that might help you out. http://www.realsolutions.org/parentqa.htm...

Teenage Problems: step-sister, sisters name, step sisters
sisters name, step sisters, step sister: Sorry you had to wait so long for a response...i just recieved this so...sorry. I don t think that you should tell her what you have been doing because this will indeed gross her out. You can however tall her how you feel about her...but i repeat do not tell...

Teenage Problems: stepmother, dirty panties, pervo
dirty panties, pervo, step mother: Hi, I wouldnt mind talking with you out of all-experts.com A person should always feel like they have someone to talk to. So whenever you get a chance u can find me on aol under UJDJ22@aol.com. And if you dont have AOL, just write me email under that name...

Teenage Problems: stepmotther, dirty panties, perv
dirty panties, perv, stepmother: I m SOOOOOOO sorry I didn t get to you sooner! I hope everything went okay and worked out! You can e-mail me at thewildbrat@wmconnect.com AIM-thewildbrat YAHOO-believeinmiracles03 MSN-julie93140@aol.com Hope to talk to you soon and find out how everything...

Teenage Problems: still cant forgive, few days, relationship
few days, relationship, thanks for your help: hey dylan, first off ill say what a lot of people say already and youve probably heard it a billion times.we all do things we regret but the key is to realise that sh*t happens and that we should learn from those events in our lives.you cant turn back time...

Teenage Problems: is he still on drugs?, history of alcohol, bad decisions
history of alcohol, bad decisions, bad situation: Hey ... if you haven t seen him doing anything and people say that he is clean you should deff. stay with him. It wouldn t be fair to let him go because he used to make bad decisions, you should trust him. I hope everything works out with him. Good luck! ...

Teenage Problems: still hope?, friend guy, relationship problems
friend guy, relationship problems, short messages: You have to tell him what you ve just told me. Tell him how you feel. You shouldn t give up on him he seems like a great guy. But some people do need space and time to their selves he maybe in that state right now. But no you shouldn t give up on him just...

Teenage Problems: still in love with my ex, benafits, physical relationship
benafits, physical relationship, friends with benefits: Okay, here s your problem, and I can tell you this from experience: Stop being friends with benefits! If he doesn t feel the same anymore, then why are you doing that to yourself? It s not hurting him, it s hurting you. That s the only person it s hurting....

Teenage Problems: I still love him!, new boyfriend, 3 things
new boyfriend, 3 things, obsessing: Hey... first off you are 13 and you were only together for about a month, you did not and do not love him. And thats ok! I think you should move on and find a new guy. There is no sense in obsessing over someone who already hurt you. Look for a new boyfriend,...

Teenage Problems: Should i still be with her?, girl friend, good luck
girl friend, good luck, relationship: Here s the thing: even if you did something to her to make her mad, if she forgave you then she is still with you. If she forgave you then she shouldn t be hurting you still. You never said anything about loving her either...and it s been over a year?!?!?!?...

Teenage Problems: how do i stop my suicide thoughts?, scuicide, school psychologist
scuicide, school psychologist, advice giver: Thoughts like this need professional help. Our suicide area is only so good. I want to talk to you more about this as an advice giver, yet I am not a psychologist. I highly recommend to talk to the following people: Psychologist School psychologist Doctor...

Teenage Problems: no strength to mend pain, conselor, anxiety disorder
conselor, anxiety disorder, inconvience: Actually some people do get an anxiety disorder and cling to people. Many times its after a tragic event or something like that. However you ll be fine and will have the strength to get on whether you think so or not. If its really a problem to talk to...

Teenage Problems: stress, foot steps, uncles
foot steps, uncles, faith: faith~ u are not crazy, u r a normal girl. ur twin shouldnt be telling u that, it sounds like u two are just two different kind of people. who is pushing u to work so hard and get straight a s? where do u work? how many hrs a week do u work? why are u up...

Teenage Problems: stress, high expectation, anxiety disorder
high expectation, anxiety disorder, parents friends: Hi Jackfoot, I wonder if you are unhappy about going to college and taking the class, was it your idea or parents? It sounded like you want to take test but something stopped you in the tracks. I believe you have what is called Anxiety Disorder it...

Teenage Problems: stress, professional psychologist, high expectation
professional psychologist, high expectation, parents friends: First off, I suggest going to a professional psychologist or something along those lines. Just so you have someone to talk to. It helps so much. Just having someone to vent out your frustrations on. And they ll give you advice. because people like me can only...

Teenage Problems: stress, high expectation, parents friends
high expectation, parents friends, academics: Hey Dude, Firstly, let me say that I know exactly where you are coming from in feeling like you are drowning in your work and the stress that surrounds your academics. But let me also say that no matter how bad things get or how snowed under things become,...

Teenage Problems: stress, communication issue, blabbermouth
communication issue, blabbermouth, coursework: Hello Claire, Okay, first, take a deep breath and relax. Let s handle things and make a plan. First, we ll deal with the coursework. Write down everything that you have to do, when it has to be done, and list it in the order of importance. Figure out...

Teenage Problems: stress, stress hormones, adequate sleep
stress hormones, adequate sleep, studying science: First of all, you will feel much more confident about your results if you sort of dived in to some intense studying. Science has shown us that stress / stress hormones decrease your brains capacity for memory and learning. So relax and keep taking periodic...

Teenage Problems: stress, watch tv, video game
watch tv, video game, anxiety: It can depend on why you re stressed, but what I do, is I write. I love writing. I write in my journal, I write songs, I write poetry, I write stories...it all works for me. Sometimes I ll call one of my friends and talk to them. They help to just get me okay...

Teenage Problems: stressed out, household chores, teachers names
household chores, teachers names, alternative schools: Hey Angela. Ah dear, that s difficult. Okay, was he by any chance abused when he was younger, or any time throughout his life? Also, a lot of kids steal and do this sort of thing because they are feeling lonely and ignored. Try spending time with him just...

Teenage Problems: stuck in Age!, bf, ppl
bf, ppl, honesty: Dear Mandy, ( I think that is a very nice name) Thank you for your letter.Basically you have two choices.You can either- (A) Dump him becaause of his immaturity. I know that when I was 17 if I had a nice girlfriend I would not put pictures of naked women...

Teenage Problems: student/teacher relationships, quorter, teacher relationships
quorter, teacher relationships, personal feelings: hey a while ago you talk to me about a teacher/student relationship issue and was just wondering how you were doing no...

Teenage Problems: my studies and behaviour, school nurse, emotional problem
school nurse, emotional problem, mental case: I m not saying your a mental case or anything like that, but those could be symptoms of some kind of emotional problem that you can t control alone. The best thing to do would be to talk to a doctor or school nurse or something to see if you have a disorder...

Teenage Problems: studying problems, text books, free time
text books, free time, all sorts: Hey, nothing is normal in this life! You re entitled to think however you like, and those are really good questions to be asking yourself. But maybe you should leave the questions and put them out of your mind until you ve finished exam/study. Then you can...

Teenage Problems: stupid answer i received on another website, chunky girl, digit size
chunky girl, digit size, stupid answer: I cannot believe that person s answer on the other website! 1. She has never met her or seen here, therefore doesn t even know what she looks like or how think she is. 2. That is extremely rude in the first place. 3. It definately doesn t sounds like THAT...

Teenage Problems: stupid answer i received on another website, chunky girl, digit size
chunky girl, digit size, stupid answer: Hello there Debbie, I am sorry that Mary has been given some, what sounds like, really damaging advice that is not fair and unjustifed. I cannot speak for other advisors, nor for other websites, but emphasis on weight is not important and it does not matter...

Teenage Problems: stupid friend, unlisted number, unlisted numbers
unlisted number, unlisted numbers, weirdo: Thank you for your question. Part of what I do online is report abuse. If you use AOL, you can send a report to them. I recommend however emailing the webmaster of your ISP. It s usually webmaster@your ISP. ___{com or org or such} to check out how to report...

Teenage Problems: swallowing pills, mom and dad, doctors office
mom and dad, doctors office, little brother: Not sure how I can help you with this. The only options I can think of is trying swallowing with some water. Maybe even put it in some type of food where you can swallow it. If there s away where you can still use meds but make them chewable? I would try...

Teenage Problems: i swear its love, sweaty palms, butterflys
sweaty palms, butterflys, funny feeling: Spence, Well what you would first have to do is get to talking with her and i mean alone. You know get to knowing her and what she likes, what she doesn t likes, her favorites and you know things about the future..what she wanna be. After you ve gotten...

Teenage Problems: Taking the ACT; just too hard, hs students, point fingers
hs students, point fingers, capable student: I have a pretty high GPA, but i too have problems with tests. I d never been able to figure it out until recently. I think its has to do with stress, if you put yourself under a tremendous amount of stress, the tests will mess with you, instead, you must...

Teenage Problems: Talking to Mom and Dad, mom and dad, decent money
mom and dad, decent money, child proofing: Dear Marissa, I am little concerned, because your age differences 16 and 23. It is illegal in my home state. That is may the reason your parents don t support you as long you are with him. I would like to know how you can handle without your parent...

Teenage Problems: Talking to Mom and Dad, mom and dad, decent money
mom and dad, decent money, child proofing: Marissa - I m not a parent so I can t help you out there but I figure that most of the hostility is probably from the fact that your bf is 7 years older than you and the fact that you got pregnant at 16. That s enough to set any parent off. It probably...

Teenage Problems: Talking to Mom and Dad, mom and dad, decent money
mom and dad, decent money, child proofing: Hi Marissa: I know exactley what you mean as your situation happened to me and my wife way back in acient times (LOL) There s not much you can do except to realize that you have to let time heal how your mom and dad feel Basically 16 is pretty young...

Teenage Problems: Talking to Mom and Dad, mom and dad, decent money
mom and dad, decent money, child proofing: Marissa, Firstly, you shouldn t have gotten pregnant at the age of 16, it was very irresponsible of you. However, it can t be helped now, since you have a baby on the way and due to be born in a half a month s time. At least you and the baby s father are...

Teenage Problems: Talking to Mom and Dad, mom and dad, decent money
mom and dad, decent money, child proofing: Marissa, hello how are you doing? Well my name is Lauren, and I HOPE I can help. I ve never been pregnant, so I can t attempt to imagine what you re going through, but I will try to give you insight from someone who hasn t. First of all your parents love...

Teenage Problems: Talking, serious thing, mid 20
serious thing, mid 20, great friends: Kay - The best thing I can tell you is to stop making up stories. I mean, that sounds easy but I m sure it s not for you. If this is a big problem you might want to consider talking to someone to understand why you need this attention. If you have anymore...

Teenage Problems: Tania, http www myspace, anway
http www myspace, anway, ladies room: I think that she was just saying that your face looked thinner about being sick, which most of the time it does and most of the time when people have been sick for a few days they do look pale and have lost some weight. I have done that before. I wouldnt think...

Teenage Problems: TEENAGE BOY SHOWS NO RESPECT, lavender oil, kind answer
lavender oil, kind answer, quiet kind: Ok Santie, you need to explain to him that it worries you. Tell him that if he expects to be out that late, then he should at least call you and tell you if he s staying longer so you don t get worried. You need to make him understand how upset you get. He...

Teenage Problems: Teacher/student relationships, student relationships, gym teacher
student relationships, gym teacher, girl friends: Hey Keriah, Thanks for the question. Your question slipped though. I am on vaction right now. I have so much to say on this subject! I will not be able to reply until June 1. So please feel free to write to another expert and I will reply in the am...

Teenage Problems: Teachers from Heck, guidance counselor, empty threat
guidance counselor, empty threat, bad behaviour: Hi Lily! Sorry but I don t understand the word favoritismists ! I am Italian, not American. Anyway I will try to help you with the things I understood.First of all, that bad student got really a good report, and you didn t see it well. I had a friend with...

Teenage Problems: Teaching o security, change of pace, industrial security
change of pace, industrial security, higiene: I would teach if I were you because being a firegihter and working in industries are more related then being a firefighter and teaching. I would take a change of pace and do something different such as teaching. you have to ask yourself (1) are you in finacial...

Teenage Problems: Teen Age Son School Problems, learning disability, nothing works
learning disability, nothing works, teen age: Because i am a teenager, i know that we can be stubborn, you should do a few things: one, make sure you know what s going on in his life (any problems, etc.), two, keep insisting that he needs your help, three if none of the above help, then try threatening...

Teenage Problems: Teen Anger, alcohol abuse problems, drug alcohol abuse
alcohol abuse problems, drug alcohol abuse, drug and alcohol abuse: Hi Dan: The anger issue needs professional therpy councilling. Drug & alcohol abuse is the 12 step program. There is no help there for the boy until he wants help. My suggestion is more for the parents. They need to join Tough Love or go to councilling...

Teenage Problems: Teen boy kicked out, school counselors, friends houses
school counselors, friends houses, good kid: Hi Julie, My advice would be for you to contact the local child protection services authorities because it is no place for him to go. I believe they will be able to talk and work things out with his mother. He comes first before mother s boyfriend and...

Teenage Problems: Teen issues in high school, culture class, sex drugs
culture class, sex drugs, society and culture: Hey Karlene, I have no documents on this computer that I can send you. But what I would recommend is going to the Austrialian Government s website and looking at the relevent statistics on there. They will have dates and numbers that are relevent and it...

Teenage Problems: Teen Masterbation, strange devices, masterbating
strange devices, masterbating, teenage boy: How is he wasting time? And how is he forgetting? Its totally common or usual or normal for teen boys to masturbate. It would be unusual if they did not. The question is is how often is he masturbating? Once or twice a day or three times? If so thats...

Teenage Problems: Teen with old guy!, o clock, aftr
o clock, aftr, nxt: Hi Meera: Your conscious has already answered your questions. You re only 17. You need to be at least 19 before engaging in these kinds of activities. Inside you know that you re doing wrong. Also consider the consequences of your actions … pregnancy...

Teenage Problems: Teen Son Bullied, black eye, escalation
black eye, escalation, thanks in advance: Hi Annie: He s of course best to forget it and move on. Stay away from that guy and forget the whole thing happened. Escalation of these things usually results and some one really getting hurt. If you re really bent on justice , you might consider...

Teenage Problems: My Teen was Stealing, galatians 6, man soweth
galatians 6, man soweth, negative consequences: Hi Lisa, Thank you for this very personal question. I am very sorry for what you are going through. You do not need to know WHY your son steals. He stole because he chose to steal. It you try to figure out why, that implies that there could be an...

Teenage Problems: Teen threating suicide after doing something wrong!, committing suicide, good kid
committing suicide, good kid, april 20th: Ok, im gonna answer ur last question first. When sumone is thinkin about commiting suicide (and actually end up doing it in the end) then they ll be depressed for a period of time. And when they re ready to do it ...they re whole ora and personality do a...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Curfew, younger siblings, mature person
younger siblings, mature person, football coach: Hello Sharon, I wanted to tell you a little bit about myself before I answer your question. First, I am 18, nearly 19 years old, and second, I am also a mother, and a very mature person for my age. I even raised my younger siblings. I get questions from...

Teenage Problems: Teenage curfew, mom and dad, wyou
mom and dad, wyou, football coach: Your son is highly disrespectful. That is clear. He feels because he has reached adulthood that he no longer needs to respect you as head over him. That being the case, allow him the opportunity to see what adulthood is realy like. He is of age now and...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Daughter, utmost contempt, red wine
utmost contempt, red wine, teenage daughter: Dear Jo, Your daughter is going through a rebellious phase and unfortunately, you are the person who is having to bear the brunt of her anger. It s nothing to do with you being a bad parent, or you having done anything wrong, so please don t ever think...

Teenage Problems: Teenage daughter and attitude, broken relationships, m 46
broken relationships, m 46, harder time: Dear Lucy, Thank you for your letter. It is a sad fact of life that 16 year old teenagers think they know everything. I agree with you that she should take some time to recover from her old relationship before getting into a new one. I have even seen people...

Teenage Problems: Teenage daughter's boyfriend, decisons, teenage daughter
decisons, teenage daughter, heartache: Hi Lori, You need to talk with your daughter and address your concerns and feelings with her regards this guy. She needs to make her own decisons and choices because she is an adult. Could she be feeling love sick with this guy even what he did break...

Teenage Problems: Teenage drinking and parties, vodka cruisers, brain damage
vodka cruisers, brain damage, teenage drinking: you can go to the party and here s perfect response if someone asks you to do something like drink, smoke, etc they ll say hey man you want a drink and you say not right now maybe later (and by later they will already be drunk and not remember) you can still...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Girls, teenage girls, old girl
teenage girls, old girl, youngsters: Hey Hayden s Mom, Youngsters don t half choose some strange people to hang around with and of course you are going to be worried about what you daughter may or may not be getting up to. You have to be careful how you deal with this though because teenagers...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Issues, girls friends, radio broadcast
girls friends, radio broadcast, girl problems: oh wow this is really intereesting !! ok here is just a list of sumthings that make me depress: parents, sibilings, boys, girls, friends, teacher, drama, schoool, overwieght issues, underweight issues, boy problems , girl problems, girl hormonal issues,...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Parent Rights, sinus infection, teenage parent
sinus infection, teenage parent, ear infections: Well actually they do still have control of you because you re still a minor & you re still their child so they can tell you what to do. Just because you are a mother doesn t mean they re not in charge of you. So basically you still have to do what they tell...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Pregnancy, galatians 6, heart ache
galatians 6, heart ache, man soweth: Hi Jo, Thanks for this question. I am very sorry for the heart ache that you are experiencing. There is no easy answer to your situation. I do suggest that you speak directly with the girl s parents. Find out of they would be comfortable with marriage....

Teenage Problems: Teenage Problem, welfare department, internet search engine
welfare department, internet search engine, legal obligation: Hello Julie, Thank you for getting in touch. Julie, as far as I am aware there is no legal obligation for a parent to house a young person. Parents do have a duty of care to a young person up until the age of 18 (or 21 in some states in the US) but...

Teenage Problems: Teenage pregnancy, man wear, teenage pregnancy
man wear, teenage pregnancy, likey: Hi. I am glad you asked me all logicial questions before you go into it. It really depends on a teenager point of view, not all are same. One most common they notice is missed period more than 30 to 60 days are likely pregnant and other is morning sickness....

Teenage Problems: Teenage problems, galatians 6, chemical addiction
galatians 6, chemical addiction, sex addict: Hi Karen, Thank you so much for this very personal question. Obviously it is difficult to be absolutely sure what is happening with just your post to go on. When there is a radical change in behavior it is often an indication of either addiction or...

Teenage Problems: Teenage runaway, galatians 6, pastor don
galatians 6, pastor don, privelage: Hi, Thank you for this very powerful and personal question. According to Galatians 6:7-9 you are absolutely right. There needs to be consequences for these actions. Each child has certain things that are privelages that they enjoy. Find what is close...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Sabatoge, nasty divorce, heart to heart
nasty divorce, heart to heart, silly things: Dear Michelle, Your son needs to learn some respect and manners, just because he has dyslexia it doesn t make him any more immune to punishment or the law than anyone else. His condition has nothing to do with has behaviour and you should not feel guilty...

Teenage Problems: My Teenage Sister, positive role models, support conversations
positive role models, support conversations, guidance counselor: Hi Tamara, Sorry to hear about your sisters troubles. Your sister sounds alot like me when I was 13. I had to hit rock bottom before I changed my ways. You say your sister has recently changed school, this can be so stressful. Added to the jr. high...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Sucide, suicide among teens, suicide attempts
suicide among teens, suicide attempts, experience stress: Hi Samantha, Firstly, start off with some good facts: Suicide is the ninth leading cause of death in the US with 31,204 deaths recorded in 1995. This approximates to around one death every seventeen minutes. There are more suicides than homicides each...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Sucide, hey sam, sucide
hey sam, sucide, mental disorders: hey sam~ sometimes people feel that their problems are so bad that the only way out of misery is suicide. oftentimes, those feeling suicidal dont realize they do have friends and family that care about them and want to help them. sometimes severe mental...

Teenage Problems: Teenage son's girlfriend, romantic melodrama, superficial relationships
romantic melodrama, superficial relationships, handsome son: Well howdy to a fellow southerner. I live just outside of Atlanta Georgia. Don t worry, I haven t dated your son. On a more serious note, congratulations... your blessing of having a son never in want of a girlfriend has manifested itself. With any luck...

Teenage Problems: Teenage son hormones acting up?, male family member, personal things
male family member, personal things, teenage son: Hi Christy, If your son is open and trusts you, you should address it with him in private and let him know it is okay to masturabate but do it in his own room not other places or using your stuff. If you can t do that, have someone he trusts such as...

Teenage Problems: Teenager with anger management, anger management, niece
anger management, niece, teenager: Hey Chrarita, I think that you could take your niece to a local therapist or counsellor, either one at school or a private one and see what they recommend. This behaviour does seem incredibly severe and like there is a lot more behind it than just attention...

Teenage Problems: Teenager Daughter, calm voice, mimi
calm voice, mimi, butt: Kharma, (I love your name) First I d like to tell you that everything that is going on with your daughter is pretty normal. The only thing that really worries me is that she is lying about such serious things. If the molestation thing is false than she really...

Teenage Problems: Teenager...myspace...., soft answer turneth away wrath, lord loveth
soft answer turneth away wrath, lord loveth, typical teenage girl: Hi William, Thanks for this question. Here are a few verses to consider: Ephesians 4:26 26 Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: The King James Version, (Cambridge: Cambridge) 1769. Proverbs 15:1 A soft answer...

Teenage Problems: Teenagers, james windell, todays question
james windell, todays question, eldest girl: Hi, Paul expert James Windell(author) our Parenting Teen expert can probably help you here. However, I won t refuse to try to help you. I do need to know when this started and if they met new friends at this time. Stress? Drugs(need to ask, sorry)? Anything...

Teenage Problems: Teens and drinking article, binge drink, dear emily
binge drink, dear emily, buzz magazine: Hi Donna, well i can tell you about teens and drinking from a person who has gone through this- me. now i am over the legal age limit for drinking alcohol but a couple of years ago i wasn t. i used to binge drink a lot. i used to go clubbin when i was 16 and...

Teenage Problems: Teens and friendship, school counselor, classmates
school counselor, classmates, new students: Hi Karen, I believe she may be fine but just shy because she may not know what to say or deal the topic coversation, why not you give some time for her to adjust high school. I am pretty sure she will be fine when new students get know her as classmates...

Teenage Problems: My Telephone Time, youth outings, telephone time
youth outings, telephone time, writing a letter: Allie, I am so sorry your mom wont let you talk on the phone. My name is Lauren. My cousin is 12 also, but she will be 13 March. 31st. She has a cell phone too. Well, to be honest with you, I thought she was too young to have a cell phone first of all. If...

Teenage Problems: Telling Natalie, occasionly, girl at school
occasionly, girl at school, dry throat: Hey John, Sweating and going red are signs of embarassment and the reason you get embarssed is because you don t know how to respond to this girl looking at you; you re afraid she won t like you and so, your body pumps the adrenaline with gives you the...

Teenage Problems: Telling her I like her, point answer, train wreck
point answer, train wreck, running out of time: The thing is it will take time for you to gain her trust past the friendship level. It is wise not to rush dating and it is wise to take your time to gain her trust again. Sadly I know how it is with time. It puts you in an odd area. Yet if you date her...

Teenage Problems: Tennage Issue, psychologist, bad news
psychologist, bad news, best friend: It doesn t matter who cheated. Cheating is not right. If you cheat, you are not ready for a relationship. My advice is stop dating until you are ready to date. Ask in our How to know if he or she likes you area . Talk to a psychologist about dating issues...

Teenage Problems: Thought he was my friend, one of my best friends, friend stephen
one of my best friends, friend stephen, depressed mood: Just because people at your school drink does not mean it s right. Also I am sure it s not 90 percent. People lie about drinking. I am glad you do not drink. severely depressed mood --- It s still important if you are sad to talk to an expert about this....

Teenage Problems: Threats, school counselor, classmate
school counselor, classmate, parents: Hi Clark, My advice is report it to a school counselor and your friend s parents right away. It is best course of action. If it is very serious involving with a weapon, consider file an complaint with a police right away. I hope things are going well...

Teenage Problems: Time with boys, personal cell phone, own personal computer
personal cell phone, own personal computer, wise idea: Hi Ally, I understand how you feel about your parents and I know they do care about you. You can talk to boys on cell at least about 2 - 3 hours a day (not late night), but not on computer because there are high risks online due to predators who looking...

Teenage Problems: Time spent talking to boys, personal cell phone, own personal computer
personal cell phone, own personal computer, chorse: Well, it s a common thing for parents to restrict phone/computer time just because they think you re on it too much, and their reasoning is usually, Because I said so or because they want you to do something. I know I hated it when my mom restricted...

Teenage Problems: Time spent talking to boys, personal cell phone, own personal computer
personal cell phone, own personal computer, charity work: Hi Ally: Here s what I think... A 12 year old girl shouldn t have boy friends. You should have friends that might be boys, but not boy friends. As for computer and cell usages, I wouldn t make any distiction between girls or boys that you talk...

Teenage Problems: Time spent talking to boys, personal cell phone, own personal computer
personal cell phone, own personal computer, time schedule: Ally, First of all, what kind of restrictions do your parents want to put into affect? I agree that, as long as your homework and chores are completed, you should be allowed to be on-line and on your cell phone. However, talk to your parents and ask...

Teenage Problems: Time spent talking to boys, personal cell phone, own personal computer
personal cell phone, own personal computer, children obey your parents: Hi Ally, THanks for this great question. Let us see what God s word says in this situation: Ephesians 6:1-2 Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. 2 Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise;)...

Teenage Problems: Tired Out..., wear clothes, different colors
wear clothes, different colors, pushover: Hey Kel, It is human nature to want to please everyone and have everyone like you, but sometimes this is not always possible and we end up asking questions about why people do not like us, when the problems is not us, but them. I think you need to realise...

Teenage Problems: Tolo?, high school dance, age gap
high school dance, age gap, younger girls: Hey Alana, I don t think it would be weird at all and I don t understand why he would either. Younger girls go for older guys in relationships etc simply because girls mature quicker than men and so the age has to be greater in males to account for this...

Teenage Problems: Tolo?, high school dance, age gap
high school dance, age gap, pastor don: Hi Alana, THank you for this question. There really is not a Bible verse or passage that I can point to to help you here, but I can give you my oppinion. I believe that you are in the driver s seat here. It all depends upon how openly you communicate...

Teenage Problems: Tolo?, high school dance, age gap
high school dance, age gap, d test: Honestly, it depends on the guy. If he really likes you, he ll probably just be happy that you asked him. But I d test the waters here. Bring up the Tolo and see if he has anything to say about it. If he doesn t seem too excited or says something negative,...

Teenage Problems: Tolo?, high school dance, age gap
high school dance, age gap, school friend: Hi, It is neat two of you are friends. I don t think it is weird if you ask him to a high school dance as a friend. I am sure he will appreciate it if you asked him, if he truly likes you, he may say yes. Good luck and have fun. Please let me...

Teenage Problems: Tough times, stage in life, nasty things
stage in life, nasty things, physical abuse: Hey Jenny, this is pretty much up to you but I really really encourage you to tell someone. Even the police, seriously. I doubt that he will try revenge, but tell someone that its worrying you and hopefully they can watch him for you. Please, tell them how...

Teenage Problems: Tough times, stage in life, nasty things
stage in life, nasty things, physical abuse: Jenny, Sorry this has taken so long! I ve had a lot of things to do and hadn t had enough time to actually sit down and respond. Of course there is stuff that can actually be done! All it takes is you being willing to do it. I know you said that 16 seems...

Teenage Problems: Tough times, stage in life, nasty things
stage in life, nasty things, physical abuse: Jenny, First your not bothering me at all. I m on this site because I want to help people, and I enjoy doing it. Second, I m sorry that the awful things this BOY (not even close to a man) has done to you has affected you. You can t let it. He has been doing...

Teenage Problems: TROUBLED TEEN CASE STUDY, direct email, little brother
direct email, little brother, kendal: Hey Paul, I will give you my direct email because it is quicker than using this website: daryl.taylor@unn.ac.uk. I am willing to be photographed if you just give me times and dates etc. I am 20, turning 21 on Sunday. I was born in the Lake District in...

Teenage Problems: Trouble with boyfriend, current boyfriend, very good friend of mine
current boyfriend, very good friend of mine, mobile number: Hey there Vicky, It sounds to me like you are going through a very uncertain time with this boyfriend of yours and that deep down you know what you should do, but you are torn between being with someone who hurts you in the hope that they will change or...

Teenage Problems: Troubled Teen, expert profiles, psychotic mother
expert profiles, psychotic mother, abusive partners: Hi Wendy, Thanks for this great question. The Biblical solution to your problem is much more simple than your problem is. There are two ways to change ones behavior: 1. Learn and live. Proverbs 1:7 7 The fear of the LORD is the beginning of...

Teenage Problems: Trust and confusion!, one of my best friends, trust issue
one of my best friends, trust issue, kind of girl: Jessica, To be honest, it s hard to trust anyone these days. I think you should give this boy a chance though, he s held on for so long, I think he deserves it. And about the friends, you will know when you ve found a good person who you can trust and...

Teenage Problems: why can't i get a boyfriend?, popular girls, throut
popular girls, throut, height advantage: Hi Linsey, First of all, I know exactly what it s like to go through being alone. Wondering when that special someone will walk up and introduce him/herself. Looking out at all the other people who have partners and wondering what s so great about them or...

Teenage Problems: Why can't i get a boyfriend?, conceided, good looking women
conceided, good looking women, anwer: Hi Vanessa, So you seem to be a pretty attractive girl who can t seem to get any guys to ask you out. Except for the guys that you really don t want to go out with and you don t know why. I think that the anwer is obvious. Vanessa, it s not you its them,...

Teenage Problems: Can't Follow-Up., professional psychologist, silly internet
professional psychologist, silly internet, middle person: I ll try to keep some of your posts private from her, but of course if I am the middle person for an example the 5 things you enjoy could be shared with her. That would make sense, right? It goes both ways. Talk to you later my friend, Dan P.S. After...

Teenage Problems: i can't get her out of my head!!, perfect girl
perfect girl: Well, Since you know that she s shy, you know that she is not going to come up to you.So the best thing to do is make it your first thing to do.Ask her and stop letting stuff get in the way.If you keep putting it behind you then you are never going to get...

Teenage Problems: can't move forward., eating disorder, rebecca
eating disorder, rebecca, peace: Rebecca, If your not ready your not ready. And maybe you are, but he s not the right person. Maybe it is a good thing you guys just broke up. It s hard I know, but you should look for someone new. It would make getting over him a lot easier. It s confusing...

Teenage Problems: can't sleep, theripist, pastlife
theripist, pastlife, what is the meaning of life: Hi Kristi: People who spend a lot of time thinking about the past, generally need to talk to a professional theripist. I urge you to get help as soon as possible. No one can do anything about the past. We live in today and plan for the future. Gramp...

Teenage Problems: i can't do this..., chealsea, fucking care
chealsea, fucking care, slacks: Soely sweety, I know just how you feel. I know how hard it can be to open up to someone, even your own Mother. Write her a letter telling her everything that is going on with you, about how you cry all the time, and how much her words affect you. If she doesn...

Teenage Problems: talk to my daughter about being gay, wrath of god, foolish heart
wrath of god, foolish heart, invisible things: Hi Cindy, Thanks for this very personal question. There are several things that you should communicate to her. 1. Your love for her is, always has been, and always will be unconditional. Talk to her about things that she has done that were wrong and...

Teenage Problems: how do i talk to people, poetry club, young woman
poetry club, young woman, conversations: Sorry it took me so long to reply ... Find out what you like for instance if you like poetry join a poetry club and try to start conversations something as simple as so has anyone seen any good movies lately and then move on from there but know that you are...

Teenage Problems: tampons, tampax pearl, using tampons
tampax pearl, using tampons, personal lubricant: Hello, thanks for your question. Yes, I know what you mean, so much so that I seldom use tampons. I find them a bit painful to insert and rather uncomfortable. I know many girls won t use pads and tampons don t bother them a bit, including my sister which...

Teenage Problems: teacher student relationship, teacher student relationship, crimals
teacher student relationship, crimals, courthouse records: Hi Lynne: 1. When he had sex with you, he became a criminal. Having sex with a 16 year old is statatory rape in most States or Provinces 2. Emotional scaring is a result of not being mature enough to understand the ramification of a relationship where...

Teenage Problems: teacher student relationship, teacher student relationship, sexual pleasures
teacher student relationship, sexual pleasures, teacher guidance: Hey Lynne, thanks for the question. This is a subject I feel strongly about--one of my friends went thought it. Below is my opinion on the topic. Most schools have strict rules of ethics concerning sexual misconduct and sexual harassment. This could...

Teenage Problems: teen, committing adultery, sex before marriage
committing adultery, sex before marriage, premarital sex: Premarital sex no matter what the situation is a sin and is already adultery. If they have prayed about it and have found that it honestly is God s will then they should do whatever they think he has in store for them but if it is just the strange feeling...

Teenage Problems: teen, committing adultery, sex before marriage
committing adultery, sex before marriage, unhappy life: I think that no matter what happens in life, it s not a sin if it concerns love in any way. The Lord accepts love as one of the greatest things he created for us humans to feel. I don t think that it would ever been seen as a sin to God if your inlove at the...

Teenage Problems: teen, committing adultery, bible god
committing adultery, bible god, sex before marriage: Jen, Thanks you for writing back! After a I answer a question, I am always curious about how people are doing after the fact. I m glad I could help you. I m sure whatever you do will be the right thing as long as you listen to your heart and keep faith. Good...

Teenage Problems: teen, committing adultery, christian counselor
committing adultery, christian counselor, sex before marriage: Hi Jen :) Wow those are some tuff questions. Oviously you want to do God s will. So you should pray that God will show you what s best. I m a Christian and personally if I made the mistake of having premarital sex I would marry the person I did that sin...

Teenage Problems: teen, committing adultery, sex before marriage
committing adultery, sex before marriage, premarital sex: Unfortunately you are asking the wrong person about this topic. I am not religious at all and in fact frown upon certain peoples beliefs of not doing certain things that make them happy, because the bible says not to. I believe people should do what they...

Teenage Problems: teen, committing adultery, sex before marriage
committing adultery, sex before marriage, premarital sex: jenny, i am sorry to say i really dont know how to answer that question but no it would not be commitin adultery if u marry someone else because the terms of adultery are that you are commited to this person and go behind their back and sleep with someone...

Teenage Problems: teen, committing adultery, sex before marriage
committing adultery, sex before marriage, premarital sex: hey jen, well i think that just because two people love each other it doesnt mean that its gods will for them to be together. everything happens for a reason and they could be together, go to school and still be close to god all at the same time.it is possible.it...

Teenage Problems: teen, committing adultery, god thanks
committing adultery, god thanks, sex before marriage: The best would be that if you have sex no matter what age, you shall get married because in the first place you don t have sex before merriage. Now the couple can still love eachother and not have sex, and do this for God. But if you love eachother never...

Teenage Problems: teen, committing adultery, sex before marriage
committing adultery, sex before marriage, premarital sex: hi jen, first of all, what s done is done. everyone sins, that s why we are all sinners. God is the only perfect being and we are supposed to be continually trying to better ourselves and try to live more in his image and according to his plan. having...

Teenage Problems: teen, committing adultery, catholic christians
committing adultery, catholic christians, sex before marriage: Hey Jen, This is a touchy subject because it all depends on your own relationship with God. A lot of diffrent religions believe diffrent things. I for one am luthern and I believe God forgives you always. But catholic christians believe its an eternal sin....

Teenage Problems: teen, committing adultery, bible god
committing adultery, bible god, god talks: Dear Jen, Let me first appologise for the amount of time it has taken me to reply to your problem. I understand that you have been waiting a long time, and even now, you are still probably uncertain about what is going on in inside your head. Love is...

Teenage Problems: teen, pre marital sex, committing adultery
pre marital sex, committing adultery, bible god: If you both don t think it s right to have pre-marital sex, then that s one thing, but you shouldn t just stay away from each other because you love and want to follow God. I m a strong christian myself, and don t believe in pre-marital sex, but you HAVE to...

Teenage Problems: teen, committing adultery, sex before marriage
committing adultery, sex before marriage, religious side: When a couple is not married and is having sex together, it is not considered adultery, unless you are married. Having sex before marriage is only considered a sin in a religious side. No one gets married unless they are truly in love with each other...

Teenage Problems: teen abortion, pregnancy hotline, pregnancy hotlines
pregnancy hotline, pregnancy hotlines, teen abortion: Dear Andrea, With any surgical proceedure, there are real risks to be considered. If you are pregnant there are pregnancy hotlines to help you understand the ramifications, risks, and pschological affects of abortion. As far as your question goes, I am...

Teenage Problems: teen age, mental health specialist, teenage sister
mental health specialist, teenage sister, getting a job: Roy, instead of obsessing over your sister perhaps you should focus on getting a job and going to college....Your parents are responsible for your teenage sister and her morality....Perhaps you need to go out with friends your own age....It s nice...

Teenage Problems: teen age hand job, vigorous physical exercise, orgasmic moment
vigorous physical exercise, orgasmic moment, slang term: In a male it is called Semen. What happens in a woman s body during a climax is very like what happens in a(male) body when you ejaculate. In other words, there s a feeling of increasing excitement, building up to a point where everything blows in a great...

Teenage Problems: teen baptism, profession of faith, true motivation
profession of faith, true motivation, pastor don: Hi John, Thanks for this great question. I have met with many teens for that same purpose. I think that the most important thing that you could ask them is Why do you want to be baptized? This will give you the chance to expose any misunderstanding...

Teenage Problems: teen commitment issus, happy relationship, going with the flow
happy relationship, going with the flow, 18 years old: Dear Nikki, Well, would it be rude to ask why you are getting married at such a young age?! How long have you been together? What kind of nature does you fiance have? Truthfully, if you are in a happy relationship at the moment, and are about to get...

Teenage Problems: teen dating, legal ethics, 17 years
legal ethics, 17 years, chicago illinois: You would really need to ask a lawyer in your state for this advice. As a policy I am not allowed to give really legal advice. I will state sex is illegal as you know for her. That s last time I checked. I hope you don t want such at this time. Talk to a doctor...

Teenage Problems: teen dating, encouragment, drastic change
encouragment, drastic change, lots of fun: Hello, thank you for your question. I am sory to hear about the problems you are having. I would first start by telling your daughter that you trust her and are not going to try to stop her from seeing anyone but that you can not understand the drastic change....

Teenage Problems: teen depression, teen depression, true problem
teen depression, true problem, councilor: Hello, thank you for your question. I am sorry to hear about the problems that you are having with your daughter. You may want to consider her seeing a councilor. You can call your insurance company to set up a referral. I think this would be helpful because...

Teenage Problems: teen discipline, teenage son, attitude
teenage son, attitude, monica: Monica, Sometimes giving attitude is something that teenagers just do. Sometimes they don t even realize that they re doing it. I always was a teenager that gave a lot of attitude back to my parents, sometimes for no reason at all. The main thing that...

Teenage Problems: my teen feels lost at school, school counselor, student gov
school counselor, student gov, smart kids: Hi, Attending high school as freshman will not be easy transition from middle school. I am glad she is well invovled in school activites. Maybe she could talk to her school counselor about this feeling, who knows she will feel better when she talks...

Teenage Problems: teen love, teenage lust, minf
teenage lust, minf, girlfreind: Robert, To start off, I want to remind you, you re only 14. You have MANY more years to live, so don t beat yourself up or lose sleep over something like this now. With that aside, here it goes. This girl seems to trust you a lot, calling you her best...

Teenage Problems: teen masterbation, going through puberty, sexual instinct
going through puberty, sexual instinct, wholesome values: He is just learning about human sexuality and is learning what feels good to him. Most parents or other siblings would just pretend not to notice. Masturbation is common among all peoples of the world. It is not something that should be looked upon as wrong...

Teenage Problems: A teen who is not my own, low self esteem, bad kid
low self esteem, bad kid, step sister: Hello, and thank you for your question. First know that you have already helped her by taking her out of a bad situation, and placing her in a loving home. It will take time to see any major improvements . Just tell her that you are glad she is there, and...

Teenage Problems: teen peoblems, stepdad, alex
stepdad, alex, parents: Hey Alex, There is very little that you can do in this situation apart from grin and bare it. Until you are old enough to leave home, you have to abide by the rules of your parents and like it or not, he is one of them. If he becomes abusive, you must...

Teenage Problems: teen problem, teen problem, dangerous position
teen problem, dangerous position, thanks in advance: Hi, Your relationship could be illegal right now. Removing your shirt at your age(done by him) could be illegal. If you have no talk or trust, you have a no good relationship. My advice is end this relationship and check into the law. Please ask follow...

Teenage Problems: teen problems/boys, private questions, teen problems
private questions, teen problems, ugly guys: The question are: Should you be going out to get guys to notice you? Should you be dating? Should you be making it into this type of game? I have to ask for ages for such questions and I also need to know a little about both of you. Just give me a small...

Teenage Problems: teen son, stay at home mom, slippery ice
stay at home mom, slippery ice, bright person: Hi Jaci: I certainly understand your concern for your son. You have the right attitude. Even though acting on gay thoughts is a sin, as Christians we ll still love him and be there for him. Romans is pretty clear on the subject, so I agree to some extent...

Teenage Problems: about teen suicide, sibling loss, sexual feelings
sibling loss, sexual feelings, teen suicide: There is no common reason but many. It can be due to drug use or a loss that has occurred such as an unhappy ending to a love affair. A failed exam. Not getting into the college you want to. Not having friends or a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Struggling...

Teenage Problems: teen trust problems, long distant relationships, live 105
long distant relationships, live 105, girl friend: Hi Trell, thanks for the question. Long distant relationships are rough, but many are wroth it. One thing that has to be thre is trust. I can understand the jealousy--being many miles away, you don t know if she is being faithful or not. If you-and...

Teenage Problems: teen, committing adultery, sex before marriage
committing adultery, sex before marriage, descion: Dear Jenny, I am not quite sure why the girl and the boy broke up in the first place, but perhaps they should have stayed together. If you love someone body and soul then you should marry them. As for having sex before marriage is truly a descion of your...

Teenage Problems: teenage bingeing caused by stress, bingeing, healthy diet
bingeing, healthy diet, short space: It s simply ... you stop. Pick up something else to eat. The best way to not eat bad things it too stay away from them ... clean out your fridge and cabinets etc ... Also everything is ok in moderation allow yourself a small piece of some good chocolate once...

Teenage Problems: teenage blues, teenage blues, ups and downs
teenage blues, ups and downs, laughing stock: Dear Kristan, Sometimes, for no apparent reason, you can just hit what seems to be a block in your life: it s as if, you reach a point where you are doing the same old routine, with the same old people at the same old time; and it does become boring. It...

Teenage Problems: My teenage borther?!?, borther, disturbing news
borther, disturbing news, mutual friend: Hi, You do have a right to talk with your brother as sister, tell him to hold it off until he finish school. Tell him how you feel but he may say these comments, not of your business or you do not know her, etc. Other option, you can speak with your...

Teenage Problems: teenage boy 15, seeking person, nasty side
seeking person, nasty side, teenage boy: Hey Caroline, If you haven t already, it may be worth getting your son checked out for ADD: or Attention Defficit Disorder. This disorder involves children needing to have the attention of an adult for most of the time and if they do not get it or are ignored,...

Teenage Problems: teenage boyfriends, marriage type, type relationships
marriage type, type relationships, pastor don: Hi Shormily, Thank you for your question. I do not believe that it is wise for a 12 year old to date like this. You are much to young to get married and dating like this leads to marriage type relationships and problems. You would be better off fostering...

Teenage Problems: teenage boyfriends, grown ups, boy friend
grown ups, boy friend, boys and girls: Hello Shormily, I m not sure I understand your question......However in 7th grade you really are too young to be dating.....Dating is actually something grown ups do when they are trying to find a person they want to marry.... However, most boys and...

Teenage Problems: teenage crush, teenage crush, true relation
teenage crush, true relation, teenager: I will tell you right now, if you think he is a player do not date him. I will also say I recommend to be friends before dating. Into another topic, our experts here cannot promote dating at age 15. We have seen too many studies to promote against it that...

Teenage Problems: teenage dating, teenage dating, younger girls
teenage dating, younger girls, bad intentions: First of all, be very thankful that 1. they were all so honest and 2. that the other young man came and talked to you guys about it. I know from my own experience that if you says that they can t date they will 1 sneak around, 2 be mad at you and 3 not want...

Teenage Problems: teenage dating due to peer pressure, normal adolescent development, parents friends
normal adolescent development, parents friends, wonderful things: Hi Yuan, the reality is that dating is a very normal part of adolescent development. Maybe a good idea would be to do some reading on normal adolescent development so you can get a sense of all the wonderful things that are in store for you as a parent of...

Teenage Problems: teenage dating, suicide loss, tragic suicide
suicide loss, tragic suicide, loss of a friend: Well, the problem is that WE do not know your daughter neither the young man. We do not know personalities here to be able to advise what you should or should not allow. But I dare think that if your daughter wants to date this guy, she will do so with or...

Teenage Problems: my teenage daughter, emotional turmoil, hair shop
emotional turmoil, hair shop, teenage daughter: Hey Mrs Masiko, It sounds like your daughter is giving you a bit of a hard time at the minute and has been for sometime and I think it is about time she gave you a break. Your daughter is going through a period of emotional turmoil in her life, not...

Teenage Problems: teenage daughter, parenting skills, computer etc
parenting skills, computer etc, tv computer: Very serious suggestions. As Christians, we believe in and live by discipline and respect. And what your daughter has done is outrageous and should not be tolerated. Right about now it is extremely important to show her what is and is not allowed. You...

Teenage Problems: teenage daughter acting out and depressed, borderline personality disorder, marriage counselor
borderline personality disorder, marriage counselor, messenge: Hi Tammy, Thank you for being so clear with me. I am sorry I did indeed misunderstood you. SMILE...There is only one suggestion and advice for you to attend a family thearpy between you and your daughter not your husband. I believed mother and daughter...

Teenage Problems: teenage daughter problem, loving relationship, teenage daughter
loving relationship, teenage daughter, older man: Hello Mr Dickinson, It is always hard as a parent to see your child, no matter how old they are, go through unecessary pain and hurt and as a parent you want to protect them and make them see what is happening; but quite rightly, as you said, if you interfere,...

Teenage Problems: teenage daughter ranaway, share feelings, skelley
share feelings, skelley, teenage daughter: Hi. You are a strong mom. You seem have gone through tough times. I would like to know more information about excat behaviors/actions, she had done and how long it has been going on and how often? Running away seem like she is trying to get away from the...

Teenage Problems: teenage daughter, jail warden, friends mother
jail warden, friends mother, basketball court: Hi Jessie, Thank you so much for this heart felt question! I have three girls 17, 16, and 12. I feel your pain! Let me first start by saying.... WAY TO GO!!!! Too few parents do what you are doing. Now let me help you a bit. There are two ways...

Teenage Problems: teenage girl, girl crush, shy type
girl crush, shy type, teenage girl: Janie, Well if she s not the shy type and she doesn t have problem expressing her feelings to him then yea encourage her, or if she wants to but she s shy you ll have to work on that with her help her build up some courage to do so but if she doesn t want...

Teenage Problems: teenage gossip, lorelei, gossip
lorelei, gossip: I don t exactly understand your question but let s see with this answer if I understand what you mean. Sorry to tell you but there s no way you can stop gossip. Although you can decrease it. No matter what people are going to gossip regardless. But if you...

Teenage Problems: teenage gossip, young teenage girls, stupid rumor
young teenage girls, stupid rumor, ephesians 4: I know a great Bible verse (Ephesians 4:29) and gossip hurts period, especially to young teenage girls. I know that when girls accuse other girls boyfriends of cheating on them or something and the girl beleives it then she breaks up with her boyfriend ALL...

Teenage Problems: teenage mutilation, lou nichols, step daughter
lou nichols, step daughter, mutilation: Hello Lou Nichols, I think that maybe you should just give her some space for a while, & if nothing changes then one of you has to talk to her about what s goin on in her life. She might be having problmes in school or with friends & acts this way because...

Teenage Problems: teenage oral sex, teenage oral sex, self esteem issues
teenage oral sex, self esteem issues, magic marker: Well i feel you need to speak to her about it because at the end of the day she is only 13 and oral sex is still illegal. She is probably doing it because it makes her feel wanted and anyone who comes from a home where they have not been shown any attention...

Teenage Problems: teenage outing, liklihood, teenaged daughter
liklihood, teenaged daughter, geeta: Hello there Geeta, You are naturally going to worry about your daughter and it is normal to try and make sure that she is safe. But what you have to try and aviod is making sure that you keep your daughter safe but do not limit her freedom. Depending upon...

Teenage Problems: teenage prenancy, teenage prenancy, time place
teenage prenancy, time place, best time: i think that honestly you should sit down with your parents/girlfriends parents and tell them. That way they can say what they need to, to both of you. How old are you/girlfriend? That would make a difference. and it would be best to just tell them that...

Teenage Problems: teenage problems, teenage problems, friendship
teenage problems, friendship, texts: Bob, If you want to kiss her, you should maybe just try to- what s the worst thing that could happen, she says no?? But if you don t think that you want to be with her, then you do have to break up with her. Can I say how it will effect your friendship? No....

Teenage Problems: teenage problems, teenage problems, redeeming qualities
teenage problems, redeeming qualities, stepdad: hey alex, i know this isn t the best advice and probably not something you want to hear but the only thing you can do is deal. no matter how much you dislike him, your mother seems to like him a lot. enough to marry the guy you know? just try to make the...

Teenage Problems: teenage son, dozen churches, getting closer to god
dozen churches, getting closer to god, magic formula: Hi Judy, Thanks for this great question. THere is no magic formula for this situation. I can give you a little direction, but I am not sure how much it will help. 1. Use scripture. If your son is a Christian, he will find it hard to ignore the Holy...

Teenage Problems: my teenage son, signs of depression, pulling teeth
signs of depression, pulling teeth, low self esteem: Hi Tim, I believe your son shows some signs of depression, low self-esteem, and no confidence. I strongly suggest you to seek professional help as soon as possible before it gets so deep that you can t handle him anymore. I am really glad he told you...

Teenage Problems: teenage stress/depression, teenage stress, teenage depression
teenage stress, teenage depression, teenage blues: Hello Lynn, I agree with your GP, from personel experience and from all the young people I ve worked with, it does sound a like your son is depressed, or extremely stressed. His sleep is bound to be interupted as most of the night will be spent worrying,...

Teenage Problems: teenager "borrowing without permission", pastor don, good kid
pastor don, good kid, deadbolt: Hi Patricia, Thanks for this question. Borrowing without permission is stealing, as you probably know. The consequences for going past locks to get stuff should be severe enough to teach that this is stealing. If she does this at college, she could go...

Teenage Problems: teenager withsingle mom, councler, single mom
councler, single mom, exprience: Hi Debbie, Thanks for your question. It sounds like your situation is very complecated. First of all you need to go to the Great Counsellor for help. Interceed for your friend in prayer. James 5:16 16 Confess your faults one to another, and pray...

Teenage Problems: teenagers moving out, family counseling, legal custody
family counseling, legal custody, state of missouri: Hi, The universal legal age to move out from house is at 18, however as long she is in school, her parents are legally responsible for her. She can move upon graduation from High school. She can certainly live with her brother as long parents gives...

Teenage Problems: teenagers rights, sole legal custody, unstable relationships
sole legal custody, unstable relationships, local police department: I am not exactly sure what the options are here. However, I would contact the local police department for your area or social services and see what the rights are. They are different for each state and have a different places to go in each state. I wish that...

Teenage Problems: teens, video gamers, household income
video gamers, household income, bad grades: Hello there Angie, It seems like you and your family have had a lot to cope with and that you are trying to look out for your children but don t really know how to help them. I hope that I can offer some help. Firstly Angie, as much as you love your...

Teenage Problems: teens, committing adultery, sex before marriage
committing adultery, sex before marriage, premarital sex: Jeny, Honestly, it all depends on your religious beliefs. It is my belief that sins only consist of when you hurt another person or neglect someone in need. However, this may not comply with the values that you follow. If two people love eachother,...

Teenage Problems: telephone time talking to boys, personal cell phone, dear ally
personal cell phone, dear ally, own personal computer: Dear Ally, I m in T.P. for sex, really, but I ll do my best about cell-phones. Two things come to mind. One is the cost: both internet and phones are pretty expensive, as a rule. Parents usually fret about paying for something that could ‘just as well ...

Teenage Problems: Would he tell?, feeling the same way, personal things
feeling the same way, personal things, personal stuff: hey kristen, the thing is you dont know. do you trust him? obviously you did to tell him alot of personal things. if he s a good person he would keep things quiet. if you break up and still are kind to eachother, he ll stay quiet. if you break up harshly...

Teenage Problems: how to tell my parents, calm manner, tickit
calm manner, tickit, power steering: If your parents are understanding and open people, you shouldn t fear about telling them your situation. But if there are the type of parents that may freak out, try these tips. When telling your parents your situation, act like a responsible teen. I m not...

Teenage Problems: how can you tell, wierd things, feelins
wierd things, feelins, friens: hiya! personally i like to be more chilled out with my friends and jus have loadsa fun! but there can be moments where i want to be more sharing and tel secrets but to me your friend likes u more than a friend you have to talk to her and i may be wrong as...

Teenage Problems: telling her in a letter, simple gestures, true feelings
simple gestures, true feelings, desperate man: Desperate man, If you re going to write your lady love a letter, include your true feelings and sign it so she ll know who s letter she s reading. She ll wonder who likes her if you don t sign it. Tell your lady friend exactly how you feel about her, down...

Teenage Problems: Am i th wrong one ?, trust issue, guy friends
trust issue, guy friends, girl friends: Kaitlyn - If you trust your boyfriend then you have no reason to be jealous that he hangs out with girls. If you guys have been dating for a year then I m sure he cares about you very much and his friends probably know that as well and would never do anything...

Teenage Problems: theft homework, majority age, back packs
majority age, back packs, homework: some questions can be: *what is considered stealing? *why do people steal? *what is the majority age rage that steals the most? *what are the consequences (besides imberestment and a bad record)? What % out of what % of people steal and how many of them...

Teenage Problems: so theres this boy.., ex boyfriends, ashley
ex boyfriends, ashley, girlfriend: Halley - You should talk to the guy and let him know how you feel but you shouldn t intend to break them up because that will only come back to haunt you in the long run. Maybe it s best if you keep your feelings to yourself until they do break up. Ashle...

Teenage Problems: am I or theres a chance?, home pregnancy test, signs of pregnancy
home pregnancy test, signs of pregnancy, sore breasts: Hello, thank you for your question. There is a chance you may be pregnant. I say this because while what your freind told you has some truth to it (you are at the highest chance of getting pregnant after your period) all women s cycles are different and you...

Teenage Problems: theres this girl...., sure things, cheek
sure things, cheek, good friend: Stephen - Kissing someone on the cheek doesn t fall into the category of cheating. Lots of people kiss eachother on the cheek in a way of greeting eachother. Explain to her that you don t like her as more than a friend and you still want to be her friend...

Teenage Problems: these things are getting me down, church youth group, kettle of fish
church youth group, kettle of fish, sex friends: Hi Colin, you must be from the UK or australia. Being shy and being a teen is very common and is not unusual. You also don t just turn bi-sexual anymore than you turn gay or turn straight. Its also common to have feelings for same sex friends. Boys have...

Teenage Problems: what do you think about the church going liberal in order to cater to all levels, rita thanks, lord jesus christ
rita thanks, lord jesus christ, full proof: Hi Rita, Thanks for your question. I am not exactly what you mean by liberal socializing, but I do know that truth and doctrine have been watered down in order to get bigger crowds. The seeker-sensitive movement seems to be all about compromise in order...

Teenage Problems: I think im either..., sexual preference, young girls
sexual preference, young girls, stares: Hi, Yeah, I went through the same as you. I always had people at school teasing and bullying me. I think the only things you can do are either try to hide it until you feel strong enough to deal with everyone, or stand up for yourself. Talk to a teacher...

Teenage Problems: i think im pregnant, home pregnancy test, delaying your period
home pregnancy test, delaying your period, yeast infection: Hey Klisa, You aunty may be right; if you are worrying and panicing too much, the psychological strain can affect your body and even your menstration pattern, thus delaying your period. Chill out and relax and see if your period comes, if after two weeks...

Teenage Problems: i think im pregnant, child of god, child support
child of god, child support, whore: First of all you are NOT alone ... and as far as the guy is concerned you can always request he pays child support and you are not a whore you are a sweet, nice, child of God but remember is it the baby s fault that it was born? you don t want to kill the...

Teenage Problems: i think im pregnet, early response pregnancy test, birthcontroll
early response pregnancy test, birthcontroll, planned parenthood: Sarah, First try not to worry about it because it will only make things worse. You might actually get your period later the more you worry about it. Hopefully you aren t pregnant, and if he didn t cum in you, then you should be ok. Don t do that again though...

Teenage Problems: i think i lost touch with my best friend...., cool crowd, miss sam
cool crowd, miss sam, 9th grader: Hey Raphael, you need to talk to Sam!! You have to get her alone some time and just ask her straight out why you guys hardly ever see each other anymore. Tell her you really miss her and you just want to understand why she s practically ignoring you these...

Teenage Problems: thinking about it, exercizing, hey don
exercizing, hey don, e mail: I m sure there is some sort of hockey team in your area. Just google it and see what you find. Maybe you could join so other sort of sport group. Thats the best way to meet people. I don t really no where to ttell you to meet girls though. I guess just go...

Teenage Problems: Everyone thinks Im a miss..., twenty four hours, cause trouble
twenty four hours, cause trouble, bad person: Hello Chrissy, Sorry for the time it has taken me to reply to you, but I ve been on vacation. It usually only takes about twenty-four hours to get a reply. Being spontaneous can be both good and bad. It is nice to break away from a routine every now...

Teenage Problems: getting threatend being kicked out, tattoo parlors, attitude problem
tattoo parlors, attitude problem, tbh: Hey Kerry, Feeling trapped is never fun. I know it sucks. I m in my junior year of high school and I feel like nothing I do pleases my dad or my teachers and everyone loves to find fault with me. It really isn t a good place. Just a tip- wait on the tattoo....

Teenage Problems: Being threatend to get kicked out, attitude problem, dying your hair
attitude problem, dying your hair, threatend: Hey ... at 16 dying your hair and piercing your nose shouldn t upset your parents because it won t be there forever and a tatoo will be so I can see where they are comming from on that one. I have been kicked out before and let me tell you it s not as fun...

Teenage Problems: He told his friends we're had sex..., one of my best friends, guy friend
one of my best friends, guy friend, poeple: talk to more people. see if he really has been telling people this. you gotta know what he told them. ask some other people then just ask your boyfriend why did you tell people that? its very unlikely multiple poeple are gonna tell you that same lie......

Teenage Problems: she took pictures., teen area, batmitzvah
teen area, batmitzvah, guy friends: Shalom, Why do you feel people are horrible to you? And why do you think they are kind to her when they dislike her? You won t be consindered a whore . Mind if I ask are you Jewish? I have a really good expert for you to talk to about the above question....

Teenage Problems: she took pictures., batmitzvah, guy friends
batmitzvah, guy friends, entire school: Elana, First of all I m SO sorry I didn t get back to you in time. I hope that everything was ok today. I don t think that there s too much you can do in the situation. If she does show the pictures to people then it just shows what kind of a person she...

Teenage Problems: totall guy problems, stupid crap, good luck with everything
stupid crap, good luck with everything, apperently: Sweetie, if they re not going 2 listen 2 you, you have 2 options: tell a counselor or stay out of it. But really, i would just stay out of it. You don t need to be around anyone who s gonna lie to you or maybe convince you to drink. Good luck with everything...

Teenage Problems: tough one 4 ya!, term boyfriend, secret crush
term boyfriend, secret crush, 2 girls: Dear Andrew, I understand how all these issues are distracting you from your studies, but you must remember what s really important now! Trust me, you don t want to screw these exams up and have to do them again!!! Unfortunately I know this from experience....

Teenage Problems: trapped, exmas, careers advisor
exmas, careers advisor, dropping out of college: Okay first you need to sit down, stop freaking out and think carefully. Take a you evening - do whatever you do to relax and buy lots of chocolate and just chill for the evening and stop worrying about everything. It doesn t matter that you don t know...

Teenage Problems: trichotillomania, emotional issue, care physician
emotional issue, care physician, eyelashes: It is an example of trichotillomania which has caused some people to lose all the hair on their head. This is an emotional issue which has roots (no pun intended) in something in your life. I suggest you see your primary care physician and have him or her...

Teenage Problems: trouble with my girlfriends mom and other, chit chat, exept
chit chat, exept, girlfriend: Here s just an idea: Have you, your girlfriend, and your girlfriend s mom go out to dinner. Have it just be the three of you and try to just chit chat with her mom, like Mrs. ___ Thanks for going out to dinner, I think your really going to like this place....

Teenage Problems: trust issuses, no doubt, whole lot
no doubt, whole lot, attribute: Love, the best I can. Well, everyone will have a different view on this subject, no doubt. When I think of love and what I would consider love is being with someone and just being completely satisfied with them. When you can just be with them, even doing...

Teenage Problems: When should i try to kiss her, first kiss, 5 months
first kiss, 5 months, colton: Jay, Its not really about wanting to kiss (because if you ve been going out for 5 months, I bet you both want to kiss pretty badly), its more about finding the right time to do it. Heres what I want you to do if you want a kiss. Go out on a date with...

Teenage Problems: My twin girls, 15 yr old girls, friend pam
15 yr old girls, friend pam, twin girls: Hey Susan! Its is different that the twins were doing this together with another girl, it wouldn t be as uncommon if one of the girls had been doing it with a friend but the fact that they were together is odd. The girls are most likely trying to find out...

Teenage Problems: Umm, yeah, i'm a lil creeped out by it ..., natural instinct, confuzzled
natural instinct, confuzzled, ashley: Hi Ashley, Thanks for your question. It is perfectly normal for women to want children. It is a very natural instinct. Many years ago people were married with babies at 13/14. I am slightly concerned that it makes you so angry though. I think maybe it...

Teenage Problems: Ummm...."URGENT MESSAGE!!!!", emotional roller coaster, urgent message
emotional roller coaster, urgent message, problems at home: No you re 15 you re at the state and age when you start going through things like puberty,boyfriends,problems at home or school, It s completely natural. Just try to find something that will soothe you through the time being. Tell your mom how you feel and...

Teenage Problems: An Uncommon Question, uncommon question, allexperts
uncommon question, allexperts, question question: Matt, You should defiantly talk to her about this in person, not the computer. Even calling her would be better. As far as what to say, I can t tell you that. I don t know exactly what you want from her, so just tell her whats on your mind. Like I said in...

Teenage Problems: An Uncommon Question, uncommon question, allexperts
uncommon question, allexperts, male teen: #1- Yes of course it s very common all girls are going to have a celebrity crush it s ok don t be jealous. #2- Just let her know how you feel that s the simplest way I can put it. No problem I m suppose to be here to help people and that s what I do...

Teenage Problems: An, male teen, allexperts
male teen, allexperts, younger brothers: Hey Matt, Nursing well thats cool that s a very rewarding career. I have friends in that field. I assumed she was probably serious in some aspects such as academics. As for getting her to become more romantic as you ve said she has experimented with...

Teenage Problems: Unhappy, depression medication, unhappiness
depression medication, unhappiness, wart: Maybe you could write her a note? Or if not, and you really want to just wait it out, then do it. But if it gets too bad, seek help. I waited my depression/self-mutilation out...It faded away. But I still have relapses sometimes. I guess that s with everybody...

Teenage Problems: Unhappy, med school, unhappiness
med school, unhappiness, sophie: Sophie, Sophie dear I hope I can help. Well first of all my name is Lauren and I am 22 yrs. old. I want to tell you sometimes I go through that too. I mean maybe it s not as bad as yours, but I go through it. You know what I think everyone does. Like today...

Teenage Problems: Unwanted Erection, herb tea, hot tea
herb tea, hot tea, erections: Hi, Unfortunately, you can t control unwanted erections however, you can drink hot tea, or herb tea, it will help to relax you and therefore reduce unwanted erections. Having erections is heathly because it tells you that blood is pumping and strong....

Teenage Problems: UpSeT?, stomache, piece of glass
stomache, piece of glass, time thing: Just talk to him and tell him how he shouldn t say one thing and do another.....BUT WHY DID YOU CUT YOUR STOMACHE....That is not a smart thing to do at all....If your a cutter then you totaly need to talk to someone about it but if it was a one time thing...

Teenage Problems: URGENT! sex and relationships., sex and relationships, concidering
sex and relationships, concidering, sexual relationship: Dear Andrea, I know I might have missed my chance to help you, but let me offer my opinion anyhow. I hope that you didn t do anything with him. If you said that he has been in a relationship for a long time best not be the one that interferes. If I was...

Teenage Problems: URGENT!!, personal purity, little dots
personal purity, little dots, weird shape: Hi Nicole, I am not sure what all you did...but if you did not have intercourse, and if he did not get sperm anywhere near your vagina, then that incodent will not make you pregant. HOWEVER YOU ARE PLAYING WITH FIRE AND ARE FALLING INTO THE TRAP OF...

Teenage Problems: URGH, crazy teenager, destructive tendencies
crazy teenager, destructive tendencies, counciler: Hi Cayte, I hope that I will always be a source of help and blessing. Thanks for putting confidence in me. You seem to be a tightly wired person with a lot of worries... I do not mean to criticize...just making an observation. Let your sister grow....everyone...

Teenage Problems: not sure if u can help but hope u can, anal fingering, coldsore
anal fingering, coldsore, period pains: I would say tell your mom you want to get your physical including a blood test. It sounds like you might be a diabete, I don t want you to worry; but play it safe a get yourself checked out. Also talk to the doctor, ask him questions so you know everything...

Teenage Problems: how can u tell?
Hey Gen, This isn t something you can tell by just looking at someone, nor is there anything physically different that you would notice. The most logical way of getting an answer to this question is to ask them but be careful as not everyone will like talking...

Teenage Problems: um ya, excessive hair loss, thicker hair
excessive hair loss, thicker hair, alopecia: Hey Nikki, This problem could be something to do with the shower gel or shampoo that you are using or that you are scrubbing too hard, but it s more likely down to something else, like something genetic. Have you heard of a condition called alopecia,...

Teenage Problems: unguarded teen, adult family member, oppositional defiant disorder
adult family member, oppositional defiant disorder, x box 360: Hi Myrna Colon, It is very serious problem with your nephew, it seems to me he has ODD,- Oppositional Defiant Disorder which it means his behavior is out of control. He needs to seek professional help soon. Grandmother who is his guardian should be...

Teenage Problems: unsrue, longer hair, great friends
longer hair, great friends, hair cut: Unsure, It is possible that he likes you, but it is also possible that he s just a close friend that likes longer hair on you. The only sure-fire way to know is to ask him. One day, throw into a conversation, If I wasn t mistaken, I d think you liked me,...

Teenage Problems: update, boyfriend and girlfriend, having fun
boyfriend and girlfriend, having fun, good luck: Hey ... sounds like you have a clear idea of what is going on with him and thats good. Of course it will be hard going from boyfriend/girlfriend to just friends, but time will fix that. I hope things get more comforatable with you two. Good luck! Peace. -Chelsea...

Teenage Problems: urinals, foolish question, toilet paper
foolish question, toilet paper, offering advice: Hey Sir, This is a common problem, more common than you probably are aware of. Some people can shake off one or twice then zip, leave and not think another think about it. Others shake a lot and then zip up and leave; but some of us, even though we still...

Teenage Problems: useless, doing the right thing, judgement
doing the right thing, judgement, best wishes: Hi Ellijah Everyone prays to god differently. It doesn t mean that you re not praying enough, I m sure god knows how much you care and how much it means to you. Most people pray about once or twice a day, however much you pray god will always know how much...

Teenage Problems: is he using me?, psychology area, boy friend
psychology area, boy friend, eachother: You are dating other people. Both of you are dating other people, yet you are seeing eachother. That looks like cheating. My advice is stop it. It sounds like people are using eachother here. It s not right. Please ask Alan in our psychology area for advice....

Teenage Problems: VAGINAL TASTE, oily skin types, body chemistry
oily skin types, body chemistry, plz answer: Hello there, Well I just want to say well thank you for asking me that s nice in itself. 1 Ok so your telling me two girls CANNOT taste the same even if they both live the same life styles,follow similar diets and hygiene techniques right ? Well I...

Teenage Problems: VAGINAL TASTE, soap bath, female sexuality
soap bath, female sexuality, soft tissues: Hi Paul, 1. Well, as far as my experience goes, vaginal fluids are not that nice to taste, I don t know why people say they like the taste, maybe it s just like food where individuals have different tastes and like different flavours. 2. I also don...

Teenage Problems: VAGINAL TASTE, harmones, hygienes
harmones, hygienes, plz answer: there are some vaginal powders or liquids to make the smell of vaginas go away so when you have sex it won t smell. but some people use powder...but chck in a pharmasy ..because I m a virgin but to my knowledge, when my brother and his girlfriend have sex...

Teenage Problems: VAGINAL TASTE, female vagina, plz answer
female vagina, plz answer, sweet salt: Dear Paul, To understand vaginal taste, you have to understand how we taste. We have taste receptors on our tongue that respond to bitter, sweet and salty tastes. There is debate about a fourth part of the tongue that reacts to sour tastes but this is unconfirmed....

Teenage Problems: VAGINAL TASTE, harmones, hygienes
harmones, hygienes, plz answer: 1)yes diet and all of those things are some of how girls ttaste and smell i am not sure of the % of any of this. 2) no matter how much a girl changes her deit or how clean she is it will not make much of a diffrents. 3) I dont thinks that if you eat,or...

Teenage Problems: VAGINAL TASTE, harmones, hygienes
harmones, hygienes, plz answer: 1 You re right. The main things are diet and hygiene. You can control the taste/smell to an extent. 2 It makes a pretty noticable difference...I mean, Take someone that doesn t shave, or wash, eats bad, and just doesn t take care of herself at all, and...

Teenage Problems: VAGINAL TASTE, two females, chemical balances
two females, chemical balances, kind response: I am not an expert to the above subject. I absolutely have no idea why, what and how about this and to be honest I would consider for anyone to taste or smell a vagina. In my opinion it is gross and discussing. There is another website that will answer...

Teenage Problems: VAGINAL TASTE, plz mail, vaginal secretions
plz mail, vaginal secretions, teenager boy: jeje I am sorry I don t know the answers to these uestions but I believe that a girl should have the same taste day to day no matter what she eats...I am unable to help you sorry, btu I did what you asked and I nswered these questions to the best of my ability...

Teenage Problems: VAGINAL TASTE, good personal hygiene, harmones
good personal hygiene, harmones, two females: Paul: They will taste different ....evenif you control their diet etc. This is becasue they are differnt people. They would have to be identical twins in order for you to control their taste through diet and both taste the same. You can make changes...

Teenage Problems: VAGINAL TASTE, good personal hygiene, harmones
good personal hygiene, harmones, two females: Paul - 1. Every girl is different so regardless of diets and lifestyles, it s possible that she ll still taste different. No two bodies are the same. 3. Short of trying to get her to eat sweeter fruits, there s really nothing you can do to change her...

Teenage Problems: VAGINAL TASTE, harmones, hygienes
harmones, hygienes, plz answer: your probably right about that percentage.. I tried to find it but I couldn t seem to find that anywhere. I would have to say that changing external factors would not change the taste that much. Of course twins would have extremly similar taste since they...

Teenage Problems: VAGINAL TASTE, good personal hygiene, harmones
good personal hygiene, harmones, two females: HI Paul, you re welcome and as I said before, I am not a doctor and suggest you speak to one as I suspect he/she can explain to you how the body functions work. Just another thought- everyone looks, acts, thinks, smells, smiles, cries, etc differently which...

Teenage Problems: VAGINAL TASTE, good personal hygiene, harmones
good personal hygiene, harmones, two females: Hi Paul, 1 Im not so sure diet would tend to affect the taste, but more on the side that if she has a healthy diet then all bodily fluid produced are bound to be purer than if she had an unhealthy diet. Hygiene of course would be important as i d advice...

Teenage Problems: VAGINAL TASTE, good personal hygiene, harmones
good personal hygiene, harmones, two females: hey Paul, im so sorry its taken me so long to reply, my internet connection wasnt working. okay let me answer your question. well cause you asked me that question a while ago i cant really remember what i meant.nevertheless ill try to help you out. what...

Teenage Problems: VAGINAL TASTE, good personal hygiene, harmones
good personal hygiene, harmones, two females: Hello, im glad that you came back to me again. Well the only thing that i can tell you is that eating does affect your vaginal taste. And if you do tell your girlfriend what to eat it does not guarantee that she will taste exactly the same as your previous...

Teenage Problems: VAGINAL TASTE, soap bath, female sexuality
soap bath, female sexuality, soft tissues: Paul, Each female has a different odor. Depending on how the female cares for themself (i.e. douching) it might smell more pleasant. I would not lead you to believe that the natural scent is pleasant. Bathing is good, however regular douching is even...

Teenage Problems: Vegetarian, different foods, 8 years
different foods, 8 years, mom: I ve been a vegetarian since for 7-8 years (I m 20 now) and it s not a big deal. You just need to tell your mom but most importantly back up why you are don t just say mom I m going to be a vegetairan just sit down and say hey mom I want to be a vegetarian...

Teenage Problems: I've liked this guy for a..., drama club, sophomore
drama club, sophomore, club thing: Hi Alana: I think you just have to be yourself around this guy. Over time if there is chemisrty, then you can take a next step. Until then play it cool. If its meant to be, then he ll react and hopefully want to get to know you better. If not, then move...

Teenage Problems: I've liked this guy for a..., drama club, age of consent
drama club, age of consent, lateness: Hey Alana, Soz for the lateness of this reply, I m usually very efficient, but I ve been taking time to concider your options. Firstly, age should never be an issue, with this guy, or any guy. As long as you are both of the age of consent and not hurting...

Teenage Problems: I've only been to a dance..., school dances, time plan
school dances, time plan, good time: don t worry, we all feel awkward at school dances at one time or another. the number one rule to follow- just relax and be yourself. put a smile on ur face and go into it to have a good time. plan ahead and go with friends that make u feel comfortable. this...

Teenage Problems: virginity, virginity, nervousness
virginity, nervousness, having sex: Hey there Sky, Your sexual past should not be an issue in a relationship and nor should it worry you that you have not yet had sex; it actually says a positive thing about you. In terms of whether or not your boyfriend will be able to tell, if you do...

Teenage Problems: WAKE UP, gods gift to man, religious conviction
gods gift to man, religious conviction, barwick: You may have been having a sexual dream and at the point of orgasm it causes a release and you notice it naturally as the wetness may feel like you wet your bed. After an orgasm practically everyone only wants to roll over and fall asleep. But in a wet dream...

Teenage Problems: Wanna-be...but not really., goth lifestyle, gothic genre
goth lifestyle, gothic genre, fishnet stockings: Hey Alex, My suggestion is to embrace whatever you want to be. There are no labels. Each person has their own style. Yeah, I know corny but it s the truth. You should not care about being a wannabe. To tell you the truth, I don t think anyone would critiquing...

Teenage Problems: "Want to be friendly", friendship
friendship: Hey Cesar. You probably shouldn t have told him not to talk to you. It makes you sound very unfriendly and antisocial. You know, just because you don t have the same interests, doesn t mean you can t be friends. Maybe you should apologise to him and see how...

Teenage Problems: Weight, fat person, offshoots
fat person, offshoots, negative thoughts: Hey Lizzy, There is a disorder called Bodymorphic Disorder and basically, it means that you tend to see problems with your body that aren t there. I think that one of the offshoots of this disorder is the idea that other people are viewing these problems...

Teenage Problems: Weight, fat person, eating disorder
fat person, eating disorder, infront: Lizzy - Waiting until 3pm to eat isn t healthy at all. Your body needs energy to burn so you can operate. I would suggest you go see a therapist or a counselor who you can talk to about your issues with food and eating in front of others. Ashle...

Teenage Problems: Worried i might be pregnant, tender breasts, pregnacy test
tender breasts, pregnacy test, stupid jokes: well i can tell you you can t get prenant from touching. it just cant happen even if you got seman on the out side of you vugina they woun t live long enough to get to one of you eggs so i would just stop worring because you not prenant so calm down and dont...

Teenage Problems: Worried, height and weight, eye contact
height and weight, eye contact, good friends: Are you a guy or girl? Because I m a girl...I m nearly 16 years old, and I m only 5 2 . So I don t see why you re friends would pick on you about your height. And if they were GOOD friends, they wouldn t pick on you regardless of height or gender or whatever,...

Teenage Problems: ONE WRONG MOVE AFTER ANOTHER, facility request, adult supervision
facility request, adult supervision, right choices: Hi Terri, Thanks for this great question. I feel for you and your family. These are difficult times for all of you. As I read your post, I think that it is vital for you to understand how to reach your son. There are two ways that people modify their...

Teenage Problems: I wanna help, but people use me :(, angel jesus, kindess
angel jesus, kindess, strange fact: a while back you asked me about people using you for your kindess ... hey I know that you want to help people but I was just wondering if you have done anything lately all for you not for anyone els...

Teenage Problems: I wanna know!, becoming a vet, average person
becoming a vet, average person, mean time: Well becoming a vet wouldn t mean you had to pick the insects off there are people who could do that while you did other stuff. And if you re into fashion then go for that but the average person changes there major at least 6 times during college so what...

Teenage Problems: i wanna leave, local authorities, 18 years
local authorities, 18 years, adult: Hello, as far as I am aware you must be 18 years of age before you are legally considered an adult. The only other option I could suggest for you is to get emancipated. In order to do this you must be self-sufficent. You must prove to a court that you have...

Teenage Problems: want to be with someone, social gatherings, how to talk to a girl
social gatherings, how to talk to a girl, gf: That is hard well I would do social things (do you have any nieghbors, friends, etc and if not then invite your cousin or something) and go to the movies, dinner, social gatherings (like ice skating, bowling, etc) and you are BOUND to run into a few girls...

Teenage Problems: want to be with someone, e spin the bottle, okcupid
e spin the bottle, okcupid, free personal profile: Hello Shane and thank you for your question. You are luckier than you realize, so smile! Your chances of discovering mature, teen drama free love are much better than you know! As a home schooled student you may feel like a bit of an outsider and are...

Teenage Problems: i want a bby, teen area, baby brother
teen area, baby brother, teen pregnancy: Hi, Having a child at age 14 is very very very hard work. It is also illegal in many locations. I believe England has a law against it. You may like seeing other people have children, yet you are not ready for a child at this time. I recommend talking to...

Teenage Problems: I want to be a boy, psychiatric assessments, gender change
psychiatric assessments, gender change, hormone treatments: Hey Brooke. I just wrote a reply and then my computer went all weird and I lost it just as I was about to hit send, so here goes take two! Ok, I do NOT think you are too young to be thinking like this. Its your body, and only you know how you feel. There...

Teenage Problems: I want to know if i am pregnant or not!, hcg tests, pregnancy test
hcg tests, pregnancy test, going to the doctor: Hi..if the pregnancy test says that you are not pregnant then you are most likely not, and according to your desciprtion it doesnt sound like you are. If i was you i wudnt worry too much about it, but if u still do ,then i suggest going to the doctor and asking...

Teenage Problems: i want my life back, empty promises, handphone
empty promises, handphone, theyre: Hello, Whatever this guy has over you it is nothing that you should worry about and you should remember that if he begins to make nuisance calls or harass you, this is against the law and he will be breaking the law if he starts to make trouble for you...

Teenage Problems: i want my life back.., empty promises, handphone
empty promises, handphone, theyre: HELLO, I WILL ANSWER IN CAPITAL LETTERS SO YOU EASILY SEE MY ANSWERS. IM NOT SHOUTING BY THE WAY. Hi. Im in a deep mess right now I don’t know what to do. I need help.. Im 18 yrs old this year, and I have a bf whom is 19 yrs old. We got into a relationship...

Teenage Problems: I just want to be single and my boyfriend doesn't understand, life god, bad person
life god, bad person, feelings: Hi. Yes it is perfectly normal especially if you are young. If he really loves you, he would understand and just be friends. He shouldn t made you feel bad because he should be glad two of you did have relationship for past 2 1/2 years. If he is not...

Teenage Problems: I want to transfer to a different school..., school question, freshman year
school question, freshman year, type of girl: Hi, I was trying to check on the law in your state. Kind of having problems with this as I am not in your state. It s possible because you are 14 you may have some type of legal say, but as I m not a lawyer I can t give any legal advice here. No lawyer would...

Teenage Problems: want to be with someone, psychology topic, dating game
psychology topic, dating game, dr laura: You are too young to know what love is. Now, 16 is really the beginning of the dating game. In fact, some people recommend 18. I believe Dr. Laura and correct me if I am wrong recommends 17-18. The radio host Dr. Laura if I recall recommends that. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dr._Laura...

Teenage Problems: I wasn't really sure were to ask this, heh heh., female drummer, best drummer
female drummer, best drummer, prettiest girl: Ellie - First of all, props to you for being a female drummer. The world need smore girl rockers like you. You re going to be getting flack about being a female in the music business for the rest of your life so it s best to get used to it early. You...

Teenage Problems: wat do i do?, alcohol scene, pastor don
alcohol scene, pastor don, drug and alcohol: Hello Miser, Thanks for this question. There are a lot of unknowns here. I cannot predict the future for you but I can make some observations that may help you. 1. Pretending you don t care when you do is a bad idea. You need to be honest with her...

Teenage Problems: wayward son, samrt, interupting
samrt, interupting, wayward son: Hey Chris, I know how hard it must be to watch someone you love change so dramatically in what seems such a small space of time. During adolescence both young men and women go through a rebellious phase, but with boys this is more in your face and dominates...

Teenage Problems: weight, negative calories, worrying about your weight
negative calories, worrying about your weight, thyroid stimulating hormone: Dear Sarah, Thank you very much for your question. I m not too sure what 7 1/2 stone equals to, but size eight does not seem bad at all! If you re eating well--lots of fruit and few greasy foods, you re doing well. I bet you re very healthy! (But...

Teenage Problems: weight 2, nothing is the matter, superficial layer
nothing is the matter, superficial layer, skipping meals: Hi Sarah, First and foremost, nothing is the matter with you. It is completely normal at your age to worry about your weight. But it sounds to me as if your weight is not the problem. You work out 4 times a week which is great;(you should see a doctor for...

Teenage Problems: weight, computer search engine, bmi body mass index
computer search engine, bmi body mass index, body mass index: Hello Sarah:) I too often worry about my body and weight. I am not sure exactly how much 7 1/2 stone means. I am from America and here we must weigh ourselves in different measurements. You could do a BMI (Body Mass Index) to see if your weight is healthy....

Teenage Problems: weight, relieving stress, local gym
relieving stress, local gym, googling: Keli - Eat healthy and exercise regularly. Did you just recently give birth? If you did I m sure there s probably a class at your local gym that helps women lose their post-pregnancy weight. Try some yoga. That helps with relieving stress and tension...

Teenage Problems: weight, steakums, body chemistry
steakums, body chemistry, tomato juice: Hey Fake, It sounds like you are an incredibly active and healthy person and that this weight may just be because of your metabolism; that is your body s speed at processing food. There is very little you can do about this because it is down to body chemistry,...

Teenage Problems: weight, attractive person, harder time
attractive person, harder time, crisps: hello sarah, i am very sorry for taking so long to get back to you. i had been having problems with my internet server and switched companies so i did not have internet for about 2 weeks or so. again i am very sorry. honestly, there is nothing the matter...

Teenage Problems: whats it mean?, slang word, xxxxxxxxxxx
slang word, xxxxxxxxxxx, penis: Well your friends may mean this differently as i m from Uk and you didn t state what country your from.... In uk knob is a slang word #used for a penis. So do you think your friends mean it in those terms. I hope this helps. Luv Leanne xxxxxxxxxx...

Teenage Problems: wierd moods, sense of guilt, mood change
sense of guilt, mood change, overwhelming sense: Hey Rosaline, It s probably because you feel so weird being so close to your boyfriend that you are worried that if you say the wrong thing he will think you are weird; so instead you say the minimum required and hope that he still likes you. The thing...

Teenage Problems: How do i win her heart?!, lawrence wong, random problems
lawrence wong, random problems, japanese lessons: Lawrence, Have you explained to her that the circumstances were out of your control? If not, it would be in your best interest to do so. Make sure to tell her softly and kindly. Don t put any of the blame on her. You do not deserve to be hated. Your...

Teenage Problems: witnessing, fire and brimstone, gift of god is eternal life
fire and brimstone, gift of god is eternal life, jesus christ our lord: Hey there BUG! Witnessing to a Muslum or a non-Christian is very similar to witnessing to a owrk s based christian . Use the Bible even if they do not believe it. You do not have to believe a sword is sharp for it to cut. Hebrews 4:12 12 For the...

Teenage Problems: Why won't he ask out the girl he likes?, right time, best friend
right time, best friend, signs: Kayla, Tell your friend to ask Tommy how he really feels about her. Tell her to ask that Tommy be completely honest when he gives his answer. Tommy may be hesitant to ask your friend out, because he may be unsure about how she ll react to his asking her...

Teenage Problems: why wont she believe me?, girl alot, stupid reason
girl alot, stupid reason, mind reader: Hey Matty, If you re girlfriend is still not talking to you after this amount of time, then she may need reassuring that you are not going to cheat on her. If you have already done this and she seems to not be responding or agreeing with you but not really...

Teenage Problems: Something wrong with me, low self esteem, attetion
low self esteem, attetion, male attention: Hey Carolina, Problems with confidence and self-esteem are problems that a lot of people have, not just girls but boys too and not just young people but older people too and it may stem from the fact that we don t like to let our barriers down because we...

Teenage Problems: what is wrong with me?, soda cans, health area
soda cans, health area, white stuff: Any health related question you need to ask a doctor. I recommend talking to your doctor about what teens go through at your age. I also recommend our Teen Health area. You should not be pushing large things into your body like this. You should not put...

Teenage Problems: what is wrong with me?, kick in the teeth, life flash
kick in the teeth, life flash, car crash: Hayley, It sounds to me like you could be suffering from depression. You have had a lot of bad things happen to you, and I feel for you. It s good that your able to talk about them to me. I think you should talk to your parents about seeing a therapist....

Teenage Problems: Is something wrong with me?, frequent feelings, self mutilation
frequent feelings, self mutilation, mother language: Jo, First I think you need to retire your lab top for a few days. Then only limit yourself to a hour a day or something, because sitting on the computer all the time is not healthy. Nor is it safe to be chatting with online friends. You remind me so much...

Teenage Problems: Everything is going wrong, gifted kid, smoking marijuana
gifted kid, smoking marijuana, smoking pot: Hi Devin, Well I don t doubt that you are a gifted student. You can be incredibly book smart as in be an A+ student with a 4.0 GPA or higher yet do some incredibly stupid things...Being smart academically unfortunately does not guarantee you will have...

Teenage Problems: what is wrong with my brother?, diet medication, confident person
diet medication, confident person, granddad: Hi! It may be beneficial for your brother to see a psychologist and maybe a doctor as it is clear from what you said that there is something wrong with his behaviour. A psychologist will help determine if he has any problems psychologically and a doctor will...

Teenage Problems: is there something wrong with me, low iron, help take care
low iron, help take care, playing sports: Hi Jenny, thanks for writing, I think this is normal. A lot of things can cause this, stress, low iron, playing sports,... It may be a good idea to visit your dr. (even if it s just your primary dr.) They may be able to tell you how to help this. I found...

Teenage Problems: Xfriends, texas roadhouse, feeling the same way
texas roadhouse, feeling the same way, reson: Hey ... wow this girl is a immature bitch. There really doesn t seem like there is anything else to it. Good for you for not letting her get to you. If you ignor her and her dumbness it will drive her to be even more insane then she already is. Good luck with...

Teenage Problems: down, specalist, nxt
specalist, nxt, ditto: Hi Charley, I m sorry to hear about this. I would of thought that the doctor would of given you some advice or somewhere to go. Go back and see your doctor and also ask if they know a place where you can go to get more help. Maybe if I knew why you were feeling...

Teenage Problems: What is going on?, romans 8, knife cuts
romans 8, knife cuts, occational: Hi Catye, Thanks for trusting me to give you some advise. I feel honored that you come to me. Romans 8:28 28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. The King...

Teenage Problems: me!, open manner, best friend
open manner, best friend, dad: Hi Bobbi, Your situation sounds really tough, I m concerned whether you have anyone close that you can confide in - mother, relatives, etc? The other thing I m curious about is whether you did anything that resulted in your friend becoming your enemy, also...

Teenage Problems: ..., dangerous girl, mastubating
dangerous girl, mastubating, virginity: I THINK THAT MASTUBATING IS DIRTY. But it can be healthy or not so healthy...you might loose your virginity. If you have lost your virginity...think about washing your hands before anything! You can get sick if you finger yourself...Now cyber sex is dangerous...

Teenage Problems: ., thin thread, guy friend
thin thread, guy friend, older sister: I WILL ANSWER IN CAPITALS SO YOU WILL SEE MY ANSWERS my name is Angelina and i m a 17 year old (18 in a few months) from California. The problem i have involves around my mother who s overprotective and extremely possesive, and me who is being driven...

Teenage Problems: ., shouting match, thin thread
shouting match, thin thread, guy friend: Have you actually had a talk with your mom without any shouting match? If not, its time to let her know how you feel, that you are responsible person and need space. Let her know you don t have friends because she is over protective and needs to back...

Teenage Problems: everything, crisis number, counsellor
crisis number, counsellor, hurry: Hi Hawk, sorry can t do that. If you need help desperately I would contact either the crisis number where you live, see your doctor for a referral or find a private counsellor to talk with. Shana PS If none of those options work for you. Feel free...

Teenage Problems: what to do?, long distance relationship, sex offender list
long distance relationship, sex offender list, different city: Hello there, Never forget that a relationship is only ever between two people, you and your boyfriends; it doesn t concern his dad or your dad, although I can understand your father s concerns. If you like this guy and want to continue to see him, the...

Teenage Problems: what to do?, adult films, adult content
adult films, adult content, adult websites: Hi Glenn, I am concerned about his current obbessive sexual thoughts & urges, and his behavior shows that he is very sexual active with the adult content. It is a good chance he could be invovled some type of sexual activity. I strongly suggest you to...

Teenage Problems: What shall i do ?, litle sister, dead daddy
litle sister, dead daddy, bad risk: Hi Stacy, You are right about Sally is wrong to tell little sister that daddy is dead. Believe me, you will never lose your little sister because your father is her legal father which it means he will be granted his visistion rights which it means you...

Teenage Problems: none, cause alot, frineds
cause alot, frineds, jealousy: Well, it depends on what type of a person you are... You might be one of those that can talk to a person and your jealousy be fixed or you might have to calm down before you talk to someone... But the best thing to do would be to talk to the person, that might...

Teenage Problems: everything, geography teacher, woried
geography teacher, woried, poetry book: Try not to panic! My mum once read my diary too and I was furios! but then I realised she was only looking out for me. She didn t want me to get hurt. I told her that if there was anything bothering us we would tell each other about it. And to this day we...

Teenage Problems: how to get over her, year and four months, new girls
year and four months, new girls, tho: Maybe you should talk to her. Not expecting to get back together but I m sure that if you talk to her you might be able to move on. You don t need a girl to survive. Obviously you re doing it fine without her. Maybe you should stop comparing every girl...

Teenage Problems: what should i do?, height and weight, eye contact
height and weight, eye contact, best friends: Hi Zoe how are you? Well you ve come to the right person. My name is Lauren, and I am here to help you!!! I am 22 yrs. old. Well I am an adult, but I m a fun adult. Well first of all let s talk about your friends. If your friends were real friends they wouldn...

Teenage Problems: getting over him..., aggrivating, spending time
aggrivating, spending time, fling: Hey Faith, It sounds like this guy is playing hard to get; all over you one minute and then ignoring you the next. Maybe it is to do with you not being able to tell him how you feel but the question is, do you know yourself? I d pull him to one side...

Teenage Problems: getting over him..., aggrivating, pretty woman
aggrivating, pretty woman, fling: As girls, ecspecially when just starting relationships, need to remember that as hard as guys try not to or say its not true, sometimes a kiss is just that, a kiss. However, girls read more into it. Girls put their hearts into everything that they do, guys...

Teenage Problems: What Should I Do?, chasing game, good friends
chasing game, good friends, ashley: Michael - The pursuit of obtaining her as your girlfriend. You putting in all this effort to try and get her to be your girlfriend. You know what I mean? Like I said, girls like feeling desired and they like to make mens lives miserable. haha If...

Teenage Problems: Getting over him, friend check, worst enemy
friend check, worst enemy, habit: Yes, that is very much not a good idea. You are not quite completely over this guy as you might like to believe oherwise, you would not be having this problem. Time can feel like your worst enemy but in the long run it is your best friend. Check out...

Teenage Problems: Getting over him, dream date, simple answer
dream date, simple answer, alana: Dear Alana, I have a very simple answer for you, ABSOLUTLY NOT!!! I was in the same kinda situation. I had a major crush on this guy. Followed him around school etc. He finally noticed me, and we actually did hook up for about a month, until I realized...

Teenage Problems: What to do?, happend, couple of days
happend, couple of days, gf: Dear Natasha, Sorry for not getting back to you sooner, but my computer was broken. This sounds like it has nothing to do with you. Maybe your boyfriend is moving away or his parents don t want him to date anyone... or something like that....

Teenage Problems: Getting over him, vainglory, bowels
vainglory, bowels, philippians: Hi Alana, Thanks for this great question. You are both right and wrong here. You are absolutely correct to believe that you need to replace your habit of thinking about this gut with something else. It is dangerous though, to immediately start a relationship...

Teenage Problems: Getting over him, obessesion, infactuation
obessesion, infactuation, typical guy: Hey Alana, It is common to find one person that just catches your attention and makes you wonder about whether or not you would suit in a couple. It usually ends up that this person and you never end up in a couple but they go off with someone else and...

Teenage Problems: Me being me, colorful clothes, false assumptions
colorful clothes, false assumptions, time warp: Hey Nikkiiee, People do tend to judge people on the way they dress and make common but usually false assumptions about that person; it s a shortcut to having to actually talk to a person and get to them. The problem is though that when people who share...

Teenage Problems: me again, cousin matt, true believer
cousin matt, true believer, believer in god: Dear Alex, Letting the rest of you catch up and wondering whether to have sex next Friday is the same thing - and it’s what you’re working on right now. Slow down the justforfunsex, start giving sex and love a real place in your life. Stop running away...