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Suicide Prevention: by a thred, youngg, friend steven
youngg, friend steven, crazy woman: Hello Steven! I am so sorry to hear that you are feeling like all is lost. As parents we don t know how much pain and injury we are inflicting on our children when we do what we do or don t do what we should. I want you to look back at your successes...

Suicide Prevention: I don't know how to help my friend., friend, counselling
friend, counselling, deparate: First, let me say that regardless of the outcome of your friend s situation, you are NOT RESPONSIBLE in any way whatsoever for the choices that he makes. You are NOT responsible for his actions, nor for the consequences of those actions. However - you...

Suicide Prevention: Love and Despair, help, support
help, support, suicidal: It is important that you establish boundaries with this girl, as soon as possible. My concern is that you say your work is suffering, and you can t function in a normal way while you are focused on your friend and her problems. The feelings you have for this...

Suicide Prevention: Can't stop this pain, friend stephen, hi friend
friend stephen, hi friend, seperate ways: Hi friend Stephen! I can very much relate to you and feel the pain you are going through. It is difficult when a relationship comes to an end but when children are involved it makes it even worse. Sometimes we have to let go of what we love in order to...

Suicide Prevention: Depressed 12 year old Step-Son, mom laura, son alex
mom laura, son alex, step dad: Dear Dan, First up, I want to apologise profusely for the atrociously long delay in replying to your question. I had no sooner returned home from being away, then I came down with the worst ‘flu Australia’s had in years! I feel awful keeping you waiting...

Suicide Prevention: depression, stages of grief, subjective impressions
stages of grief, subjective impressions, old mom: Hi Rosey! I must preface what I write here with a reminder that I am not a trained professional. I can only give you my subjective impressions based on my experience after losing my dad. Question #1: Is James suicidal? It seems as though there is...

Suicide Prevention: Is this guy faking his own suicide?, fake, hoax
fake, hoax, suicide: 4.00 pm, Monday July 30th, 2012 First of all.. Regardless of whether it is true or not, YOU would not be to blame. My gut feeling is he is playing with you. Whether he is alive and playing with you, or dead because of a romantic rejection, he is not a stable...

Suicide Prevention: Hopelessness, ticking time bomb, carbon monoxide inhalation
ticking time bomb, carbon monoxide inhalation, coal smoke: Dear Roger, I wonder why you are so hard on yourself..? You do not seem like a wacky schizophrenic to me. And mental illness of any kind deserves compassion and respect so judgement is the very last thing you will get from me. I am curious as to why you...

Suicide Prevention: Depression and telling a friend?, suffering from depression, feelings of depression
suffering from depression, feelings of depression, unhappy situation: Hello again Katherine, I m glad you gave me an update, and I feel encouraged that you are considering all of your options and being proactive in doing something about your problems. This tells me you will eventually work through these issues, and I believe...

Suicide Prevention: Feeling Blue, intimacy, issues
intimacy, issues, trust: Alice, it seems to me that you are an intelligent, articulate, kind and sensitive young woman. I m very sorry for the terrible things that have happened to you, and the damage that the abuse has done to your self esteem. You ask me what you did wrong. What...

Suicide Prevention: My friend wants to commit suicude, friend, support
friend, support, depression: You can not afford to waste any time. My advice would be for you to seek professional help immediately for your friend. I believe from what you have told me that he is at very real risk of acting on his words. His detached responses to your concerned questions...

Suicide Prevention: Really down lately.., decent job, good evening
decent job, good evening, bad day: Hi Matthew, I have been so much longer than I intended in giving your question the attention it deserve due to some personal reasons which have now been resolved. Thank you for your patience and understanding. Matthew, having revised your letter a number...

Suicide Prevention: helping a friend, self harm depression disclose friend harming cutting hurting feelings
self harm depression disclose friend harming cutting hurting feelings: Hi Jack, Here is the information I promised you. This article covers the question of how to help somebody who is engaging in self harming behaviour. It s important that you arm yourself with information about the condition, as well learn practical ways of...

Suicide Prevention: Home Issues, depressed, suicidal thoughts
depressed, suicidal thoughts, alone: Hi Jaemie, Sweetheart you are strong. Not because you haven t attempted to hurt yourself at this point, but because you are reaching out to somebody for help. That somebody today is Me, but it could also be a trusted school teacher, a school guidance counselor,...

Suicide Prevention: suicide, fake, hoax
fake, hoax, suicide: Dear Cindy, My asking if you would prefer to talk privately was - I confess - selfish. To do so would have allowed me to maintain a facade of being strong, wise, and having it all together, which I don t, when on the subject of my precious friend David....

Suicide Prevention: Trouble?, mental health issue, ups and downs
mental health issue, ups and downs, way over my head: Hi Tyler! Sorry it has taken me so long to reply to you inquiry. We cannot be held responsible for the actions that others take when faced with adversity. It is your responsibility to handle this situation with kindness, compassion and honesty and...

Suicide Prevention: I feel like life isn't worth living., ticking time bomb, suicide attempts
ticking time bomb, suicide attempts, brain cancer: Hi Samantha! It sure seems like you have experienced a lot of sadness in your short time here on earth. You need to seek help to learn how to grieve for your losses and realize that none of it was in your control. Unfortunately, people die in war and...

Suicide Prevention: Help asap, fake problem, phony letter
fake problem, phony letter, abuse of trust: Dear Roo, After receiving an email from your stepmother telling me that you had made up problems for the fun of it, I was initially a little annoyed at the waste of my time in talking to you privately at great length, in my own time. However having contacted...

Suicide Prevention: Helping my friend.
PS Holly please will you let me know what has happened. Your friend does need help, and soon. Having re-read your letter a few times, I strongly feel that she is in imminent danger. This is not the time to be concerned about betraying her trust. For her to...

Suicide Prevention: Lots of hellish things :(, trust, betray
trust, betray, friend: Dear Ashley, First of all.. Give yourself a big pat on the back for being such a lovely, caring person! Your letter shows me a sensitive and compassionate young woman, who is intelligent and articulate in the way you are able to express yourself through the...

Suicide Prevention: plz help
Hi Saloni, I need more information in order to help you properly, so what I have to say is basic. First, I think it was unfair and unprofessional for your stylist to tell you that you will become bald if your hair loss continues. He/she has caused you...

Suicide Prevention: Suicide
Dear Jan, I m sorry you re feeling so terrible! It sounds as though you are so very sad and in a lot of emotional pain. I d really like to help you to work through this and find a resolution to your depression. I have some wonderful resources I can share...

Suicide Prevention: early depression, connection, trust
connection, trust, friendship: I ve no doubt you will be an inspiration for your friend, Rachel. However bear in mind that Sarah may also need professional help, and counseling. Her family GP is best equipped to identify the signs of depression, and may want to consider medications in...

Suicide Prevention: Suicide Prevention, being a good friend, enormous load
Suicide Prevention: Suicide Prevention, being a good friend, enormous load, kind act

Suicide Prevention: full of nothingness, voices in my head, cynical person
voices in my head, cynical person, hopes and dreams: Dear Rose, I m so sorry you re feeling this way. Only 23 years old.. this should be a wonderful, positive time in life for you. It s not though, is it. I can feel from your letter the pain you are in, and I can only hope that together we can work through...

Suicide Prevention: Suicide Prevention, suicide prevention, committed suicide
suicide prevention, committed suicide, loss of a loved one: Hello! I m sorry you are going through so much at such a young age. I am very familiar with the scars that are left behind by the loss of a loved one to suicide. You can relay to your friend all the people she will come into contact with in the remaining...

Suicide Prevention: Boyfriend shares thoughts of suicide, loving personality, couple classes
loving personality, couple classes, life matters: Dear Darian, First let me offer my warmest condolences over the loss of your mother. She must have been very proud of you, because what a WONDERFUL, caring person you are! Your boyfriend has fallen into a victim mentality, and seems to be set in the...

Suicide Prevention: Bullying, thoughts and feelings, private thoughts
thoughts and feelings, private thoughts, innermost thoughts: Dear Josee, Please don t apologize for bothering me, you are not! it is an honor and a privilege for me to feel that you are entrusting me with your innermost thoughts and feelings, at a time when you are clearly feeling very vulnerable and low. I suspect...

Suicide Prevention: Please pray for me. I am going to Hell. God does not have a plan for me., hell god, church ranks
hell god, church ranks, relationship with god: Dear Phyllis, I am very sorry to hear of the troubles you are having. Your story really touches my heart and I am going to try to help you as best as I can. To begin with, while I do not have an extensive amount of knowledge of the Bible, I do know a...

Suicide Prevention: cutting my wrist, hurtful names, confidential matters
hurtful names, confidential matters, difficult childhood: Hi Sarah, my email is future-breeze@live.com.au I am looking forward to talking with you soon hun. Remember also that whatever we discuss private STAYS private. It is important to me that you know you can trust me to have your best interests at heart,...

Suicide Prevention: What exactly does depression cause, depression cause, single mother
depression cause, single mother, three sisters: You are indeed a credit to your mother, and I m happy to say she raised you beautifully, going by your attitude towards women and the respect you have for them! Please don t ever change that. I think sometimes when people have bad experiences in relationships...

Suicide Prevention: my girlfriend wants to commit suicide, losing a loved one, committed suicide
losing a loved one, committed suicide, negativity: William, I can tell how much you care for this girl but sometimes you have to care more for yourself. It comes down to self preservation. It sounds too like there might be a little manipulation going on by her but it is difficult to know for sure. Regardless,...

Suicide Prevention: hi, advanced math, math teacher
advanced math, math teacher, perfect friend: Hi Capitol, Sorry it s taken so long to get back to you honey. I ve just been reading over your letter again, and I have to say how much you impress me! You strike me as being a highly intelligent, sensitive, and quite driven young woman. You are really...

Suicide Prevention: not suicidal, but depressed over matter, mail carriers, stone in my shoe
mail carriers, stone in my shoe, negative feelings: Hi Greg, Hmmmm... I wonder why it is that you say you would have been a little less offended by this woman s rudeness if she was less attractive? Is it because you would prefer the approval of a woman you find attractive, and are less concerned with impressing...

Suicide Prevention: Exes & Self Harm, new girlfriend, self harming
new girlfriend, self harming, committing suicide: Dear Claudia, Honey I apologise for how long it has taken to answer you.. I ve been overseas and messed up the settings on my computer, so was unaware of your question until now. I feel badly about that.. but I m here now and I hope we can sort this. ...

Suicide Prevention: attempted suicide, attempted suicide, authorities
attempted suicide, authorities, god: Hello Beth! If your friend s family is abusing him the authorities need to know. Is there a teacher you trust that you can talk to? Or some person in authority that will help. In the meantime turn to the one authority who will never betray you and who...

Suicide Prevention: Is it wrong, future breeze, government benefits
future breeze, government benefits, mdma: Yes Tom .. It s wrong. It s wrong because it doesn t bring answers. It doesn t solve anything. It only causes more pain and turmoil than it s possible to imagine.. to others and to yourself. I have just returned from London. Having tyrouble with my keygboard...

Suicide Prevention: Depression?, health food shops, seasonal affective disorder
health food shops, seasonal affective disorder, symptoms of depression: Seasonal Affective Disorder is the condition that you speak of. Thankfully it is now recognised and accepted as a real disorder, and not all in the mind as once was thought! I did a little research, and the most interesting and informative article I could...

Suicide Prevention: Friends cutting?, responsible friend, anonymous questions
responsible friend, anonymous questions, counseller: Hi Ashley, Wow.. I am stunned! Two out of four? It shocks me how prevalent self harming has become. 13 is a confusing, difficult age for most people. It may take time before your friends feel they are ready to get help.. and may not even recognize that...

Suicide Prevention: more issues, mail carriers, mail carrier
mail carriers, mail carrier, mid section: Dear Greg, If I were you I would not hestitate to set up a reliable suveilance camera outside your house, with a wide range of visibility so that it can catch the culprit in action. You may have to invest some time going through footage that is mundane,...

Suicide Prevention: self-esteem issue, rude gesture, lack of self esteem
rude gesture, lack of self esteem, attractive girls: Dear Greg, It is difficult for me to understand what went on that day, without having been there and seen for myself the interaction you had with these girls. However, even without seeing it, it seems apparent that you are very sensitive and take to heart...

Suicide Prevention: suicidal thoughts
From what I can gather, medicaid is also able to provide you with a psychologist who could work through your issues with you. Greg, could I ask you to please entrust me with your psychiatrist s contact details, or the institution where you were evaluated at...

Suicide Prevention: trying put an incident to rest, mail man, other useful resources
mail man, other useful resources, obsessive compulsive disorder: Dear Greg, I m sorry it s taken so long to reply.. I ve been away and was unable to log in from the place I was staying. I do hope since you wrote that things have improved somewhat and you re feeling better. I m no doctor, but I would hazard a guess that...

Suicide Prevention: ego,self esteem hirted a lot
Sunny! I am at a loss for an answer for you except I can say that God doesn t make mistakes. You are His child and He loves you. In my opinion you need to seek professional help that is way beyond my expertise. I am so sorry that I can t help more than...

Suicide Prevention: Past won't go away, depressed, betrayed
depressed, betrayed, father: Hi Shauna, I hope you had a good Christmas and were with people you wanted to be with.. people whose company you feel good about yourself in and not people who are judgemental and critical. That can be hard to achieve on Christmas day when families tend to...

Suicide Prevention: Pregnant, young kids,feel suicidal, don't know what to do?
Hi Ashley.. I just wanted to give you my private email address and invite you to drop me a line if and when you need to talk. I am ALWAYS available to chat if you would like to, and am happy to continue to be there for you on an ongoing basis if you would...

Suicide Prevention: upset over small matter
Greg, I am glad that you are seeing a counseller, as it seems you still battle with the confidence issues that you first wrote to me about a while back. Is your counseller treating you for OCD? Have you had a formal diagnosis from a psychiatrist? This would...

Suicide Prevention: anything makes me want to kill myself
Dear Christie, I m glad that you wrote to me because I m hopeful that I can help you to get to the bottom of why you re feeling this way. Thank you for telling me your age - and yes, it does matter. It s relevant in that you re most likely experiencing a...

Suicide Prevention: Do some people never get better?
Hi Mary, You have raised a very interesting question, for which there is no easy one-size-fits-all answer. Please forgive my delay in responding.. I confess I had not a clue how to answer, so I decided to educate myself before attempting to help you! Due...

Suicide Prevention: Major depression
Hi Elizabeth.. Please could you let me know whether you recieved my reply to you. I am keen to send you some material I believe will be of great benefit to you, however would be better able to send as an attachment in an email. Please feel free to email...

Suicide Prevention: suicide
Hi Johannes, I do understand what it is you are saying, and you are not unusual in sometimes seeking out sad movies or songs in order to feel melancholy. Melancholia is not the same thing as depression. Some people feel more connected to others just by sympathising...

Suicide Prevention: I don't know how much longer I can keep going, blame, guilt
blame, guilt, mother: Dear precious RJ.. I feel sad for you. At 17 you should be carefree and full of the joy of self-discovery and wonder at the world and it s people. (Cue the violins!) It seldom is though, is it? In no particular order, I will address some of the points...

Suicide Prevention: I have no desire to stay, I want to go be with my baby, abortion regret, baby loss
abortion regret, baby loss, missing baby: Dear Lucy, I wish I could give you a big hug and make you a good hot pot of tea! No wonder you are down sweetheart, you have been through a terrible ordeal. You ve lost a baby that you hadn t even realised was there, hadn t expected, hadn t planned for,...

Suicide Prevention: 26 years later, suicidal patients, committing suicide
suicidal patients, committing suicide, three kids: Oh my dear Lisa! I feel your pain through your words and it reminds me of how much I hurt after my dad shot himself. You re right, it IS selfish. But stop for a minute and think about your brother s pain. In my opinion what happens is a person who is so...

Suicide Prevention: 44 and still a virgin, barnes and noble, online dating services
barnes and noble, online dating services, women at work: Well, there are lots of folks that have never been married because so many are gunshy because of the divorrce rate. Ive seen women on web sites trying to meet someone who are in their 30 s and have never been married. So it works both ways. I suggest you...

Suicide Prevention: I have already cut myself and cant stop, mhe, dabney
mhe, dabney, healing process: Alicia, Those who self-mutilate are doing so as a form of coping. If you need someone to talk to..... I m here via email to help you in whatever way I can. Calling the help lines listed in your local phone book are ways to start the healing process. ...

Suicide Prevention: An answer for the nurse ......, committing suicide, kids family
committing suicide, kids family, family and friends: You make some very good points by telling her that she has to deal with him being gone no matter by what method. However, in my opinion, she does need to face the reality of what he did and forgive him in order to move on with life. Once she gets past the...

Suicide Prevention: not sure anymore, ivy league school, guidance counselor
ivy league school, guidance counselor, suicide hotline: Greetings, Jamie: Talk to someone, and fast! Look at the good side of your life, and some people can only DREAM of going to IVY league. Talk to your guidance counselor or call a suicide hotline. Actually, things will only get worse if you did die, what about...

Suicide Prevention: attempted suicide, health proxy, proxy issue
health proxy, proxy issue, sergury: Lenny What a sad, sad story. Poor Janet! I understand more now the pain that you are going through but I still believe that backing away is the thing to do. Give it time and trust in God to heal things. There is a song by a very favorite singer of mine,...

Suicide Prevention: how do i become me again, sophomore year, speaking terms
sophomore year, speaking terms, best of friends: Hello Tessa Well first of all I m very sorry to hear that you are going through all of this pain but you probably know that things could have been worse. Seriously don t give up something that people in hospitals fight for everyday and that people in other...

Suicide Prevention: my best friend wants to kill himself..., self mutilator, sucidie
self mutilator, sucidie, dieing: Megan, First off you need to sit down with him and tell him that a girl isnt worth dieing over. He needs his life. Ask him things like will you miss me, I will miss you, wont you miss all the fun things that you have been doing in your life. Ask him questions...

Suicide Prevention: boyfriend, symptoms of depression, low self esteem
symptoms of depression, low self esteem, anti depressants: ok princess symptoms of depression are low self esteem and and sometimes suicidal thoughts. well i was depressed and i took anti depressants. sure he might look happier but they make you feel empty. and if he says that he wants to die then just hold him and...

Suicide Prevention: break down, verbal abuse, saying things
verbal abuse, saying things, tings: Hello Well you obviously did the right thing by breaking up with him. What he did was verbal abuse and he even lied to you by saying how he wouldn t do it again and then continued to do it again. You don t deserve that type of behavior from him. Anyways I...

Suicide Prevention: Concern over separated spouse, sinus headache, depressed state
sinus headache, depressed state, good relationship: Dear Mia B., I ve read your question about fifteen times now, and I think I ve put my finger on what differentiates it from the other questions I receive: firstly, you have written me a highly intelligent, rational and self-aware letter, and secondly, it...

Suicide Prevention: Very Confused., contemplating suicide, school counselor
contemplating suicide, school counselor, precious life: Hello It s important that you talk to your mother about this. Tell her you need to talk to her and tell her how you are contemplating suicide. She needs to know this so she can take you to a counselor. And it will be easier for you, if you have someone like...

Suicide Prevention: Confused, school counselor, consequences
school counselor, consequences, depression: Hello Leah Obviously your friend does not deserve everything bad that is happenign to her. Suffering is a part of life. What matters is how people handle it. You see people who have bad relationships with their parents who want to commit suicide and then...

Suicide Prevention: Constant depression...., guy friend, nika
guy friend, nika, loneliness: Hello Nika (very pretty name, btw), First, I apologize for not answering sooner. It seems my AllExperts mail went into bulk; thus, I wasn t aware of any until they notified me. What I think is important, first, to state is something that (I hope) doesn...

Suicide Prevention: Cutting, inner turmoil, productive lives
inner turmoil, productive lives, mutilate: Hello Leilani, First, let me apologize for not answering this sooner.... the board notified me I had a question.... I think my yahoo is messing up. First of all, you have to understand that you are self-mutilating in order to cover up some traumatic...

Suicide Prevention: Cutting, cutting your wrists, wrong direction
cutting your wrists, wrong direction: If your question is, can cutting your wrists kill you? then the answer is yes. If you cut too much, in the wrong place or in the wrong direction it is very possible to bleed to death. And if your question is of a more emotional sort ( can I be cutting my...

Suicide Prevention: Cutting, type a personality, minnie
type a personality, minnie, self mutilating behavior: Emily, I think people do this faking are attention-seeking. They do it as an aspect of their Type A Personality which requires, what they consider, an even greater thrill . They do not realize, nor are they compassionate to, those who are working at...

Suicide Prevention: Cutting., mental health resources, medical interventions
mental health resources, medical interventions, therapeutic tool: Hello Jerusha First, let me apologize. I ve had a lot of trouble accessing your question and had to notify the board for help. I don t know your age, but at any age, there are community resources which are available to anyone - for free. If you look...

Suicide Prevention: Cutting/depression, emotional strain, boy friend
emotional strain, boy friend, suicidal thoughts: Hi again, Leilani! Isn t it crazy what parents will do out of worry? My mother has gone through my room, read over my MSN conversations, questioned my friends and teachers, and bought a million books on dealing with teens - all of which, of course, made...

Suicide Prevention: Cutting / Suicide., help hotlines, coping mechanisms
help hotlines, coping mechanisms, coping mechanism: Dear Noelle, For one thing, cutting -or self mutilating- is a coping mechanism that is done to control the internal pain you feel and cannot control, into another form of pain which you can. It empowers you. What is needed is for you to learn other, healthier...

Suicide Prevention: Cutting, deepest fear, suicide prevention
deepest fear, suicide prevention, something in my life: DEAR LEILANI, I JUST NOTICED YOU ASKED THIS IN THE SUICIDE PREVENTION CATEGORY. YOU DID NOT MENTION THAT IN YOUR LETTER BUT PLEASE DO NOT EVEN CONSIDER THAT. IT IS NOT AN OPTION FOR A 13 YEAR OLD. IF YOU NEED TO TALK TO SOMEONE ANYTIME THERE IS USALLY A...

Suicide Prevention: i just cant take it, cant sleep, bad stuff
cant sleep, bad stuff, haig: NIK I WILL ANSWER IN CAPITALS SO YOU WILL EASILY SEE MY ANSWERS. FOr 3 years suicide would of been on my mind, if it hadnt been for getting high and making the visions and ideas of how to make it go away. i lost my dad and a couple other close relatives...

Suicide Prevention: I just cant go on, two and a half hours, half blocks
two and a half hours, half blocks, dance camp: Hello Michelle First of all calm down and relax!!!!! I know your going through a hard time right now but just take a few breaths and relax and look at this logically. First of all friends do grow a part. Trust me I have 2 best friends from preschool, my first...

Suicide Prevention: common problems, similiar questions, permanent solution
similiar questions, permanent solution, wonderful day: Where are you volunteering? You have a lot to give. There are many places that could use someone with your talents. Have you ever thought about tutoring younger students, or anything like that? Would you please make an appointment with your physician...

Suicide Prevention: cutting, suicide hotline, neddle
suicide hotline, neddle, emergency room: Greetings, Leilani: Get yourself some help NOW! Call a suicide hotline, or go to the emergency room. Or call your doctor, something, but you got to get some professional help! One of these times your going to kill yourself, and everyone who cares about you...

Suicide Prevention: cutting, foreign exchange student, self mutilation
foreign exchange student, self mutilation, proper medication: Dear Kristen, First, have you been taking your meds without fail? If so, you may need your dosage increased as your baseline may have changed (i.e., your system has now gotten used to the dosage you took and now requires an increase to minimize those feelings)....

Suicide Prevention: cutting, bad person, strate
bad person, strate, prayer: you aren t a bother to anyone, don t ever feel that way. I hope you might use some of the advice I sent you earlier and I hope it will help you out. And cutting yourself or getting pregnant does not make you a bad person. There are just things in your life...

Suicide Prevention: cutting, long term boyfriend, suicide attempt
long term boyfriend, suicide attempt, cold turkey: Hi Jessica, This is gonna be hard! When I used to cut, I didn t tell anyone either, but people found out (including my father). But the reason why answering this is going to be so hard is because i remember how hard quitting was for me! I found a reason to...

Suicide Prevention: Daughter Who Is A Trouble Maker, bad checks, car keys
bad checks, car keys, trouble maker: It sounds like you have done all that you can do. The important part now is for you to realize that and come to terms with that fact. Obviously this is bothering you way more than it is her and frankly life is waaay to short to spend it trying to help someone...

Suicide Prevention: DEPRISION, types of emotions, winning the lottery
types of emotions, winning the lottery, answerd: Hello, John, Thank you for writing me! I just had a question that was somewhat similar to yours, so I m going to just cut and paste most of it in here. - - - - - - - - - - - First of all, we need to deal with a serious issue you ve got here, in thinking...

Suicide Prevention: Dear John:I have suffered..., self help books, religious persuasion
self help books, religious persuasion, ebb and flow: Morad, I do not know what your religious persuasion is but i suggest you give the christian church a chance. It is difficult to find a church where you feel comfortable. It takes visits to many of them and limit your search to those that teach and preach...

Suicide Prevention: follow up, self help books, stage of life
self help books, stage of life, real friends: Dear Morad, I ve spent the past couple of days trying to get into your situation, and I think I may have found something which may help. Firstly we d look at what characterises your current situation. I believe we ve done that in a good amount of detail....

Suicide Prevention: Depressed/No reason, suicide hotlines, rocky patches
suicide hotlines, rocky patches, mental health professionals: Hello Chelsea, While you didn t say your age, I would think you are in your teens. In any event, there are suicide hotlines (look in the front of your phonebook) available which I recommend you call. These lines are staffed by mental health professionals,...

Suicide Prevention: Why Depression?, apartheid in africa, odd creatures
apartheid in africa, odd creatures, optimistic views: Hello No you did not anger me at all. If anything I love when people say that cause they are seeing what I m seeing. Trust me whenever someone says they are suicidal or depressed I always remind them that it can be much worse and in some cases I even tell...

Suicide Prevention: Depression, psychologist psychiatrist, cognitive behavioral model
psychologist psychiatrist, cognitive behavioral model, mental health professionals: Hello Tom, I can t recommend a psychiatrist because I don t know where you are. However, a general practitioner is not the person you should be seeing for clinical depression. You should be seeing a Clinical Psychologist/psychiatrist who can help you...

Suicide Prevention: Depression, antidepressant medication, angry person
antidepressant medication, angry person, thought life: Sorry for the delay as my computer is out of order and Im working in the library now. First of all get rid of any of the substances you mentioned. Next you must realize that many feel that anger turned inward leads to depression. You probaly need to be...

Suicide Prevention: Depression, classical jazz, major interest
classical jazz, major interest, nanna: Hello No, you should not go to an insane hospital. Listen to me, I think you just feel left out. Now I m not you and I don t know how you feel but I understand how it feels to be left out. I think that might be the case here. For example, I love a lot of...

Suicide Prevention: Depression & Suicide, depression suicide, physical checkup
depression suicide, physical checkup, treatment for depression: Kelsey! How ironic you should write to me now! I just lost a pet that had been a member of my family for 17 years. It s very tough to lose someone who is so close to you. And you have certainly had your fair share this year. I am not a trained professional...

Suicide Prevention: Depression and Suicide, mom and dad, knucles
mom and dad, knucles, damn face: You say help or not! I would love to be able to help you but unfortunately it is not in my expertise. You MUST seek counseling and help from someone though. Perhaps your school guidance counselor or a minister or priest or seek professional help on your...

Suicide Prevention: Depression, fancy houses, exact situation
fancy houses, exact situation, frieds: Dear Jenn, Your situation seems familiar to me...because I have been in the same exact situation. I have been very depressed before, so don t think you are alone or can t be helped, because there are ways to solve this. Grades are very important, but so...

Suicide Prevention: DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO, free aids, planned parenthood
free aids, planned parenthood, private lab: Just go back to the dotor and tell him or her of your concern and that you want to know if you have been exposed. Its rather improbable that you have been but in your case this is creating so much anxiety that nothing short of testing you will convince you....

Suicide Prevention: Don't know what to do, baggy clothes, dumb ass
baggy clothes, dumb ass, video tape: Hello First of all, to answer the question you pose here, no pills are going to make you feel good in the long run nor will they be an answer to your problem. Now, if you cannot go to your parents about this, you should definitely find another trusting adult...

Suicide Prevention: Don't know at all, school counselor, exuse
school counselor, exuse, excuse: Hello Well nobody has an excuse to kill themselves and the only people who would have NEAR to a justified exuse have a really messed up life and by you using the computer asking me for help, shows me you that you are not one of those people. But nobody ever...

Suicide Prevention: very depressed, school counselor, exboyfriend
school counselor, exboyfriend, disloyalty: ALI, I WILL ANSWER IN CAPITALS SO YOU WILL EASILY SEE MY COMMENTS. IM NOT SHOUTING. I am having problems with everything lately. It is my senior year, and i almost failed my first quarter of physics and English. My parents are telling me, that at this...

Suicide Prevention: still confused, sibling, whole life
sibling, whole life, counselor: Hello First of all I am very sorry that it took me such a long time to reply to your question. I understand that it has been a few days but I ve been very busy with coursework, my job, and other priorities in my life. I have not had much time to relax myself...

Suicide Prevention: I am very depressed..., great personality, pity party
great personality, pity party, life thanks: Hey Laura, You seem like you have a lot of drama in your life, and that you are in a lot of pain. But, I know exactly how you feel....I was in the same situation except I was made fun of everytime some one was mad at me....which was A LOT..I finally realized...

Suicide Prevention: depression, everyday thing, devorce
everyday thing, devorce, whole life: katie, You seem like a sweet girl. I know what yur going through, and i know you need a friend. I will be here and you can e-mail me whenever you want. If you don t want to take meds then you ll just have to wait it out, but you wont have to do it alone....

Suicide Prevention: depression, negative feelings, friend joseph
negative feelings, friend joseph, life doesn: My friend Joseph! I can feel the anger in your words. You are probably feeling guilty for being angry because she died. It s okay to feel angry but then resolve it, put it away and move on to forgiveness. You need to forgive her and yourself. The betrayal,...

Suicide Prevention: my depression, many different ways, self discipline
many different ways, self discipline, emotional release: Hi Becca I understand about what you mean with the cutting. I have cut myself so much in the past and I agree it is an emotional release and you can do it so well that you know when you aren t going to die. This isn t healthy at all and there are many different...

Suicide Prevention: depression, everyday thing, devorce
everyday thing, devorce, whole life: Every person grieves in different ways. I had 1 dog that I cherished the most of all dogs that I have had in my life. I had a dog that died in my arms on St Patricks Day over 25 years ago; and to this day I never got over her. Some people don t stop grieving...

Suicide Prevention: depression, everyday thing, devorce
everyday thing, devorce, whole life: Dear Katie, To start off, you re not alone. Thousands of kids feel the same way that you do, and hundreds of thousands can at least relate to your situation. I myself feel lonely, depressed, angry, scared, and hopeless from time to time--it s completely...

Suicide Prevention: depression, everyday thing, devorce
everyday thing, devorce, whole life: Dear Katie, I ansered your question but before i had the chance to send it my computer shut off. So I will try again. If I only send part ,I will send the rest also. So the answer may be in two parts. It will be in capital letters so you will see the answers....

Suicide Prevention: depression, everyday thing, devorce
everyday thing, devorce, whole life: Dear Katie, Thank you for your question. It took a lot of guts and trust for you to tell me, and I will do my best to not let you down. I m not a professional, so it isn t fair or wise for me to diagnose you, but I m guessing that you are depressed....

Suicide Prevention: depression, everyday thing, devorce
everyday thing, devorce, whole life: Katie, First of all I want to say that it does sound like you are depressed. You have alot going on and don t know where to start dealing with it. Let me say counseling would do wonders for you even if it is just someone too talk to. You may not even need...

Suicide Prevention: depression, everyday thing, devorce
everyday thing, devorce, whole life: Hmm. What your going through is not too abnormal. First off women get this more than men or that s what studies say and part of the reason is men are afraid to say this. You have teenage depression. And no support at home. What works well is to talk to someone...

Suicide Prevention: depression, everyday thing, devorce
everyday thing, devorce, whole life: Katie, Sorry I never got back to you..... I notified the board because I just got it *today*! Anyway, 800 (or toll free) numbers can be called from any phone, even a pay phone. I hope you try to call some because they are of great help. Minni...

Suicide Prevention: depression is ruining my friendship's, councellors, funny joke
councellors, funny joke, strong heart: Hi Tristin First of all, I think you are wrong about your friends. I really think they care a lot about you. I think they might be scared and unsure what to say. They might be afraid that what they say or do can make you more depressed, they might be unsure...

Suicide Prevention: depression, friend kristy, ninja turtles
friend kristy, ninja turtles, pokemon cards: Dear Jennifer- I was 13 when I first started feeing like you do. So I know what it s like. As for your friends, I use to have friends like that, they d make plans infrontof you and never include you. Infact I still have friends who do it. It really hurts....

Suicide Prevention: the difference between depression and sucide, suicide isnt, question and answers
suicide isnt, question and answers, sucide: The reason I m aloud to say it can be much worse is because their situation is almost never worse than a child being abused in every way. Meaning, if anyone gives me a situation other than a child being abused in every way, then I m just going to pull out...

Suicide Prevention: I don't know what to do..., bouts, depression
bouts, depression, msn: Dear Olivia, I hope you are feeling better today. Let me ask you something: if you were really a friend to someone, would you encourage them to kill themselves? (think about that). Do you understand what being a friend means? Friends uplift each...

Suicide Prevention: don't knw wha t do, self help books, ebb and flow
self help books, ebb and flow, abusive situation: I tell people life is like a road in the mountains. It has it s up and it s down. I have had a lot of downs. I had tons of problems in school and I had tons of problems in life, yet the ups are that I have done a lot of good things and I have made many people...

Suicide Prevention: don't no what to do, suffering from depression, sth
suffering from depression, sth, psychiatrist: Hi Saman: The best thing that can happen for your brother is that he is in a hospital and is, hopefully, getting the professional help that he needs to conquer the demons in his mind. I also hope that his psychiatrist or therapist or any and all of the professional...

Suicide Prevention: i dont know what to do anymore, heroin addict, anti depressents
heroin addict, anti depressents, dark circles: Hello C, First of all your not the only one with the feelings you have. Thats little consolation though. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of any pot you have around and do not buy or accept anmore from anyone especially your friends . Anyone...

Suicide Prevention: i dont know if im depressed, major depression, terrible feeling
major depression, terrible feeling, neutrality: Hello Yes, I do believe that you are depressed but it s not major depression or anything that would be a clinical problem. What you are feeling is what everyone feels. As you might know depression happens so often and with pretty much everyone that it s pretty...

Suicide Prevention: i dont know whats wrong with me, anger issues, cant sleep
anger issues, cant sleep, calling me names: Hello I am very sorry to hear about what you are going through. no girl of your age should be going through something this terrible. Well the best thing you can do for yourself is to tell someone like a school counselor or some type of authority that you...

Suicide Prevention: dont know how to get through this, ivy leauge, perfect health
ivy leauge, perfect health, 2 friends: Dear Jamie, This seems like a tough situation to be in. You don t need to kill yourself to get rid of the pain....you just have to deal with it and roll with the good and bad punches. Dumping your boyfriend after you were raped might not have been a good...

Suicide Prevention: i dont no what to do, bestest friends, jess
bestest friends, jess, passion: hey i m sorry-- i m kind of struggling myself lately and havent been good at all answering back questions. Just don t give up on yourself, your going to find out a lot of things in life aren t fair and it s a lonely trip, but it s worth it sometimes, you...

Suicide Prevention: ecstasy, ecstasy tablets, charge nurse
ecstasy tablets, charge nurse, somthing: Ecstasy is an amphetamine. Some people have died from taking only one tablet. People who take ecstasy become dehydrated. They can have seizures or worse. Your friend needs to speak to someone about how they are feeling. Your friend obviously knows the...

Suicide Prevention: Father commited suicide, traumatic stress syndrome, post traumatic stress syndrome
traumatic stress syndrome, post traumatic stress syndrome, father commited suicide: Hi Sarah: If my math is correct you were about 7 years old when your father made the choice to end his life. You are now going through exactly what I did. I m convinced there is an issue with anger, guilt, sorrow, regret and emotions we may not even realize....

Suicide Prevention: Feel so low wish I wasnt here, girl of my dreams, new girl
girl of my dreams, new girl, nice family: Hello First and foremost do not end your life over a girl. I hate to be the one to tell you but there are worst things going on in the world then losing the one you love. I mean there are starving people in the world struggling for one more day of life or...

Suicide Prevention: Feel suicidal . . . may be a bad panic attack, medication therapy, disibility
medication therapy, disibility, little ray: Sorry to hear about her condition. Also being home alone is the greatest but sometimes its needed. Don t worry about everything...take things one step at a time. Thats what we moms tell our kids. You need to start thinking positive that everything...

Suicide Prevention: MY FRIEND WANTS TO KILL HIMSELF (HELP!!!!!!) I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO OR SAY!!!!!!!!!, cap letters, algebra 1
cap letters, algebra 1, sophomore year: Hello Well there s one thing you can do. Call the suicide hotline and tell them he has a problem. You don t have to give your name or anything just give them his address and all that stuff and they will go and get him. I m sorry to hear about how he s so...

Suicide Prevention: Friend needs help, suicidal feelings, contemplating suicide
suicidal feelings, contemplating suicide, low self esteem: Hello D, First of all, let me apologize for not responding sooner.... I ve been battling Pneumonia the past 2 weeks and have just recently been able to get up the energy to sit at a computer. Secondly, the very best thing anyone can do with someone contemplating...

Suicide Prevention: Concern over separated spouse, emotional feelings, ill feelings
Suicide Prevention: Concern over separated spouse, emotional feelings, ill feelings, victimizer

Suicide Prevention: Constant depression...., visions of sugarplums, sexual frustration
Suicide Prevention: Constant depression...., visions of sugarplums, sexual frustration, ample reason

Suicide Prevention: Cutting, behavioral health, bestfriend
Suicide Prevention: Cutting, behavioral health, bestfriend, good luck

Suicide Prevention: Cutting/depression, razor knife, trustworthy friend
Suicide Prevention: Cutting/depression, razor knife, trustworthy friend, expirence

Suicide Prevention: cutting
Suicide Prevention: cutting

Suicide Prevention: Depression and Suicide, fashion designer, self harm
Suicide Prevention: Depression and Suicide, fashion designer, self harm, insults

Suicide Prevention: Don't know what to do, heart atack, phone dance
Suicide Prevention: Don't know what to do, heart atack, phone dance, converstion

Suicide Prevention: I am very depressed..., new friends
Suicide Prevention: I am very depressed..., new friends

Suicide Prevention: depression is ruining my friendship's, brain chemistry, thyroid disorders
Suicide Prevention: depression is ruining my friendship's, brain chemistry, thyroid disorders, rule of thumb

Suicide Prevention: i dont know what to do anymore, nobody cares, life friends
Suicide Prevention: i dont know what to do anymore, nobody cares, life friends, little brother

Suicide Prevention: i dont know whats wrong with me, counsellor, adult
Suicide Prevention: i dont know whats wrong with me, counsellor, adult

Suicide Prevention: MY FRIEND WANTS TO KILL HIMSELF (HELP!!!!!!) I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO OR SAY!!!!!!!!!, school counsellor, phone book
Suicide Prevention: MY FRIEND WANTS TO KILL HIMSELF (HELP!!!!!!) I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO OR SAY!!!!!!!!!, school counsellor, phone book, lame attempt

Suicide Prevention: Friend needs help, negative feelings, best friend
Suicide Prevention: Friend needs help, negative feelings, best friend, god

Suicide Prevention: feeling useless, box of tissues, crowd pleaser
Suicide Prevention: feeling useless, box of tissues, crowd pleaser, memory lane

Suicide Prevention: flying, avice, local health
Suicide Prevention: flying, avice, local health, health and human services

Suicide Prevention: i have a friend who tried to commit suicide, bad grades, beautiful face
Suicide Prevention: i have a friend who tried to commit suicide, bad grades, beautiful face, report cards

Suicide Prevention: I Hate My Life, one of two things
Suicide Prevention: I Hate My Life, one of two things

Suicide Prevention: HELP, emotional pain, feelings
Suicide Prevention: HELP, emotional pain, feelings, physical pain

Suicide Prevention: Hospitalization, psychiatric wards, red cells
Suicide Prevention: Hospitalization, psychiatric wards, red cells, responsible adult

Suicide Prevention: I hate life and myself!, stomach area, bad feelings
Suicide Prevention: I hate life and myself!, stomach area, bad feelings, hitting the bottom

Suicide Prevention: I hate living...., commit suicide, bible
Suicide Prevention: I hate living...., commit suicide, bible, religion

Suicide Prevention: Life is pain. "Happiness" is the abscence of bulk of pain. He who lives forever, suffers forever., eventual death, short answer
Suicide Prevention: Life is pain. "Happiness" is the abscence of bulk of pain. He who lives forever, suffers forever., eventual death, short answer, irony

Suicide Prevention: Losing a loved one.., father commited suicide, suicide march
Suicide Prevention: Losing a loved one.., father commited suicide, suicide march, rly

Suicide Prevention: What do I do about my Mom?, foster homes, best of luck
Suicide Prevention: What do I do about my Mom?, foster homes, best of luck, aunts

Suicide Prevention: i;m really depressed. should i kill myself, severe depression, distant point
Suicide Prevention: i;m really depressed. should i kill myself, severe depression, distant point, point in time

Suicide Prevention: i;m really depressed. should i kill myself, friend don
Suicide Prevention: i;m really depressed. should i kill myself, friend don

Suicide Prevention: I'm thinking of killing myself..., suicide helplines, suicide help
Suicide Prevention: I'm thinking of killing myself..., suicide helplines, suicide help, contemplating suicide

Suicide Prevention: my mom, suicide, heart
Suicide Prevention: my mom, suicide, heart, job

Suicide Prevention: My mother has lost the will to live, borderline personality disorder, major depression
Suicide Prevention: My mother has lost the will to live, borderline personality disorder, major depression, better off dead

Suicide Prevention: i have nothing to lose!!!, stranger
Suicide Prevention: i have nothing to lose!!!, stranger

Suicide Prevention: A pain that won't go away, restless leg syndrome, sinus infection
Suicide Prevention: A pain that won't go away, restless leg syndrome, sinus infection, chronic fatigue

Suicide Prevention: please help me, chemical imbalance in the brain, matter what your circumstances
Suicide Prevention: please help me, chemical imbalance in the brain, matter what your circumstances, negative thoughts

Suicide Prevention: No point.
Suicide Prevention: No point.

Suicide Prevention: Self harm & suicide., shame, feelings
Suicide Prevention: Self harm & suicide., shame, feelings

Suicide Prevention: Slitting Wrists, scars, freak
Suicide Prevention: Slitting Wrists, scars, freak, slitting your wrists

Suicide Prevention: Slitting, green leaf tea, many different things
Suicide Prevention: Slitting, green leaf tea, many different things, endorphin release

Suicide Prevention: how do you stop when yourve given up hope, wonderful places, tough love
Suicide Prevention: how do you stop when yourve given up hope, wonderful places, tough love, self pity

Suicide Prevention: suicide, new york state trooper, david harding
Suicide Prevention: suicide, new york state trooper, david harding, innocence project

Suicide Prevention: Last Tuesday Our mum committed suicide, sadness, despair
Suicide Prevention: Last Tuesday Our mum committed suicide, sadness, despair, demons

Suicide Prevention: I think im Manic Depressive, neat trick, contraction
Suicide Prevention: I think im Manic Depressive, neat trick, contraction, adoptee

Suicide Prevention: just want it too end, failure at life, blab
Suicide Prevention: just want it too end, failure at life, blab, backpacking

Suicide Prevention: whats wrong with me?, hormones, courage
Suicide Prevention: whats wrong with me?, hormones, courage, depression

Suicide Prevention: no one it there....., feelings of hopelessness, suffering from depression
Suicide Prevention: no one it there....., feelings of hopelessness, suffering from depression, own worst enemy

Suicide Prevention: Not sure, paul mckenna, mental exercises
Suicide Prevention: Not sure, paul mckenna, mental exercises, self hypnosis

Suicide Prevention: feeling useless, self worth, nice things
self worth, nice things, existance: Hello Well this is a pretty big problem. You are very dependent on your friends to be happy, and you shouldn t be dependent on anyone to be happy. I understand how it feels to want to help people and want to make people happy, since I m constantly doing that....

Suicide Prevention: feelings of suicide, suicide attempts, good mother
suicide attempts, good mother, child protective services: Hey April Well I m sorry to hear about what happened in your past but that is non excuse to want to kill yourself. I know you ve been through hard times but instead of looking at your past why don t you focus on the future. What matters is the future you...

Suicide Prevention: flying, golden gate bridge, dirty panties
golden gate bridge, dirty panties, inevitable fact: Ferd, Suicide is never the answer to problems and issues. You do have significant issues which need to be addressed professionally and are too intense for this format. You obviously want help or you would not have even bothered to write (anyone) on this...

Suicide Prevention: follow up ?, suicide prevention programs, suicide cult
suicide prevention programs, suicide cult, suicidal rate: Hi Ashley, I ll answer in order. 1. There are direct correlations between hard-core music and inappropriate behavior but correlation does not mean cause. People that enjoy that type of music already have a certain level of rebellion and they want to identify...

Suicide Prevention: follow up ?s, suicidal rate, harder school
suicidal rate, harder school, mental disabilities: 1. Music sometimes makes people happy and sad depending on the song. But if the music is all about satan or suicide, its giving out bad ideas. It all depends on what type of music. 2. There is just too much violence..its not fit for children anymore....

Suicide Prevention: My friend almost did it, lunch time, bandaid
lunch time, bandaid, anger frustration: Dear Dana, Kudos to you for helping your friend, despite the danger (and fallout to your friendship) it created. Since the rumors are that he hates therapy , I would guess his looks to you are of anger, but so what? He is obviously in the place he...

Suicide Prevention: friend's death wish, risk worth, work ethic
risk worth, work ethic, suicide hotline: Greetings Steve: There is another thing you can try, but it requires intervention. You can call suicide hotline or you can call the hospital and ask what you can do to get your friend some help. Admitt to the fact your friend feels suicidal and he no longer...

Suicide Prevention: friend help, mom and dad, good person
mom and dad, good person, mistake: Hi Dano Hehe it s fine. If you want you can keep asking me questions... it really doesn t bother me at all. Honestly I think this is more of a problem with maturity and the fact that you haven t had a girlfriend. I know a guy who felt that he would never...

Suicide Prevention: friend needs help, self mutilation, low self esteem
self mutilation, low self esteem, friend kate: Hi, D, This is probably the most common question I see at Allexperts. First of all, many people who attempt suicide do not tell others because they are either ashamed or convinced that no one will understand them. If Kate told others, it must mean...

Suicide Prevention: i have a friend who tried to commit suicide, signs of depression, external signs
signs of depression, external signs, sick to my stomach: I think you should stand 100% behind her. Also, I think you should see someone. I know going to a doctor and spending an hour talking to her every week helps me get through the stress and drama. You also need to ger her help. She may be mad at your for a long...

Suicide Prevention: my friend, u care, sate
u care, sate, wut: first u need to stay calm and then if ther is an older adult around that u can tell/talk to about it im sure they can find a way to contact a guardian to help her. if u cant do that then talk to her yourself and tell her the ther r ppl who care about her...

Suicide Prevention: My friends might be Cutting?, sign of depression, losing a father
sign of depression, losing a father, sweatshirts: Hello I m very sorry to hear about what your friend has been going through, and losing a father is a terrible experience. Well if you are really worried then maybe you should ask her if she has been cutting. I know it s very direct but that s the easiest...

Suicide Prevention: My girlfriend makes me want to die...., false accusations, heavy set
false accusations, heavy set, nerdy girl: Hi Kerry, Based on what you said, my opinion is there has been a great deal of wrong reasons for this relationship and when you (anyone) initiates a relationship based on wrong reasons, its outcome cannot feasibly be positive. For instance, when you said...

Suicide Prevention: I Hate My Life, thinking of suicide, shitty life
thinking of suicide, shitty life, horrible life: Hello I certainly can see (and feel) that you have had quite a lot put on your plate at such a young age, and for so long a time. It is only natural that someone would experience depression and, possibly, suicidal ideation from this experience. And for...

Suicide Prevention: HELP ME NOW, short periods, possiblity
short periods, possiblity, shambles: You seem to be setting yourself up for more pain. This does not sound very good to me. In fact it sounds like you want to punish yourself. You are too young to have your life controlled by just one thought. And yet you are too old to still be controlled...

Suicide Prevention: HELP!!!, professional counselors, therapeutic tool
professional counselors, therapeutic tool, self harm: Dear Jennifer, You are the only one who can control your actions. No one else has that power. You need to find other, more appropriate coping measures for releasing your anger, frustration, grief, depression, etc. It sounds like you have so many social...

Suicide Prevention: HELP, followup question, sexual nature
followup question, sexual nature, care physician: Why do you feel the need to cut yourself? Is there something you have done or do that makes you feel guilty and therefore you feel the need to punish yourself. The same applies to overdosing. What makes you feel so bad about yourself? Have you suffered...

Suicide Prevention: Hello again. Thank you very..., architecture class, home architecture
architecture class, home architecture, msn name: Actually she may be saying that she feels nothing because she feels no one cares about her or no one loves her and this is her way of drawing people to her. I think you need to show her and let her know you will be there for her anytime and she can call you...

Suicide Prevention: Help!!!, first thought, nerves
first thought, nerves, thankyou: Thank you for replying. My first thought is that if there really is nothing you can think of that makes you feel happy, and I m assuming you ve thought pretty hard about it, then maybe you need to look for something that you will enjoy. I agree, that sounds...

Suicide Prevention: Help!, church goer, believing in god
church goer, believing in god, pamelor: First of all you need to get on some medication which since you are a teenager will probably not be the drugs currently in vogue today like prozac, effexor, paxil etc. They seem to cause some young people to want to commit suicide. The older rugs used to...

Suicide Prevention: Help, self harming, thoughts and feelings
self harming, thoughts and feelings, anti depressants: Hello Well first of all talk to your counselor about it and see what he has to say about it. It s good that things are improving and sometimes things do go downhill for a bit. Anyway just try to calm down and whenever you get the urge to use medications......

Suicide Prevention: Help with my girlfriend, stuborn, friend friend
stuborn, friend friend, love relationships: Friend~ I can relate to you and your girlfriend. I feel that way about my mother too, you can t change how she feels and you cant pretend to understand. As much as you want to understand her home life, you won t. All I can tell you is be there for her, show...

Suicide Prevention: Help... please, herbal pills, clinical depression
herbal pills, clinical depression, lack of trust: Hello Okay first of all the main reason why you are taking these pills and cutting yourself is because they help relieve your pain. These herbal pills are only hurting your body more. You need to stop doing that NOW. Instead try doing other things that will...

Suicide Prevention: Help!!!, jaime lee, jamie lee
jaime lee, jamie lee, kiki: Jamie Lee, I am so sorry for such the delay. My computer had a virus, and I didnt have any way to see my emails. So I am sorry. Now about your problem, to be honest, I am going thru the same thing, and its hard. I want my past to go away and to stop cutting,...

Suicide Prevention: Hospital Bill, melissa, shock
melissa, shock, suicide: Hello I m really not aware of this and I m sure you could find by calling the hospital or maybe looking it up, but I really have no idea. I would expect it to be quite a bit and you would be forced to go to therapy and not to mention the shock your family...

Suicide Prevention: Hospitalization, suicide attempt, hospitalization
suicide attempt, hospitalization, good luck: Hello I really don t know many facts about that procedure so you may just want to research it yourself. I imagine that those facts wouldn t be too hard to come by, so try and see if you can find something about it yourself. Good luck and I hope you find what...

Suicide Prevention: Hurting badly and very lost.., many different things, behavorial health
many different things, behavorial health, thoughts of suicide: Hi Matthew, First, don t apologize for writing again. I m always glad to get additional responses from those I write to. It lets me know how things are going. In reading your letter, I can tell you are feeling a lot of inner pain right now. There...

Suicide Prevention: Hurting badly and very lost.., nobuo uematsu, cousin megan
nobuo uematsu, cousin megan, webpage design class: Matt! Thanks for keeping in touch with me. You are NOT bothering me or causing any problem for me at all. You sound so desperate and I m searching frantically for something to say that will help. You mentioned you listened to all kinds of music and it...

Suicide Prevention: Hurting badly and very lost.., many different things, behavorial health
many different things, behavorial health, thoughts of suicide: Hello Well it s probably best that things ended with that one 15 year old girl. 15 year old girls are very immature and it would be better if you pursued someone else who was the same age as you. Plus I think it s a problem that drinking was that important...

Suicide Prevention: Hurting badly and very lost.., many different things, behavorial health
many different things, behavorial health, thoughts of suicide: You know, I hate to be blunt about this, but...everyone has all of those exactly same problems their whole lives. I m not saying this to be mean or anything, but...it s true. You aren t the only one with these problems. The feelings of always failing? Everyone...

Suicide Prevention: Husband is depressed and suicidal, life depression, sex life
life depression, sex life, meds: My answers do not seem to go through so i will start again. When a spouse is depressed they have no interest in a sex life. Depression kills it off. You need to get in some family therapy whether he goes with you and the kids or not. He needs his own doctor...

Suicide Prevention: harmer, self mutilators, prescribed medication
self mutilators, prescribed medication, councelor: Dear Katy, First off, you are NOT crazy - you are a person with ineffective and improper coping skills which need to be eradicated in order for you to live your life to its utmost. I have worked with people (clients) who were self-mutilators. And...

Suicide Prevention: I hate life and myself!, blah blah, different life
blah blah, different life, what happens after death: Hello Well I m glad to hear that you tried to talk to your mom about this before. But you need to do it again and tell her that you need professional help. A counselor does more than just give advice they can really help you. So tell your mom you feel like...

Suicide Prevention: I hate living...., normal little girl, neo sporin
normal little girl, neo sporin, ups and downs: Hi Heather, well there are a lot of us who wish we had your youth and your potential once again. At 14 you are in the middle of puberty with all the ups and downs of mood swings that your rising hormone levels cause. So its not uncommon for the feelings...

Suicide Prevention: I hate being me!, worthlessness, familys
worthlessness, familys, good mood: What would you think about taking anti-depressants? You are a great person. You are loved. The only problem is, YOU don t see it. So how would you feel about taking anti-depressants to better your life? They could possibly be the answer to all your problems...

Suicide Prevention: healthly relationship and fulfilled life for and with a woman with suicidal thoughts, breath of fresh air, soul mate
breath of fresh air, soul mate, reading articles: Chris! What a breath of fresh air you are to all the men I ve known who can t be sensitive to the needs of the woman they love. Congratulations for finding your soulmate. You are probably onto something by saying that the depression worsens during PMS....

Suicide Prevention: hello,i am 15 years old..., medication for depression, school counselor
medication for depression, school counselor, louisisana: Greetings: I m sorry to hear that you been a victim of the hurricane. My heart goes out to you! Though it may not seem like it, I m sure that people do care about whether or not you die. Though it may not be easy, and it won t, but go see a counselor...

Suicide Prevention: help me, family memeber, suicide 2
family memeber, suicide 2, doctor tomorrow: Greetings, Sam: Get him some professional help, and FAST! Get him to an emergency room or tell a policeman about it, or tell a friend or family memeber so they can help you get help for him. But it does take pro help to make sure it might not happen again....

Suicide Prevention: help, crazy mother, painful time
crazy mother, painful time, decent job: Hello First of all, do not let your crazy mother be in control of how happy you are. There are a few things you need to do, and none of these things are related to suicide. The first thing you need to do is talk to your boyfriend. Explain to him how much...

Suicide Prevention: help, getting into college, gcses
getting into college, gcses, art college: Lee, I am sorry this answer comes so late. It was not forwarded to my email. First, you sound very depressed and have most of the classic signs of severe depression. The good news is there are millions of people out there going through the same thing. ...

Suicide Prevention: help!!, death of a parent, school clubs
death of a parent, school clubs, older sister: Gerard, its not uncommon how you feel. You have suffered one of the greatest losses a person can suffer, the death of a parent and at your age. You are still in high school I imagine and you see noone looking out for you. I too had an older sister who left...

Suicide Prevention: help, hospital emergency room, school counselor
hospital emergency room, school counselor, telephone books: Josh, you can see your primary care physician and ask for a referral to see a psychiatrist. If you have depression that is the wisest course to take. You can also call a group known as the Samaritans in most telephone books. You can also contact a school...

Suicide Prevention: help, jane jane, suicide
jane jane, suicide, god: Jane! This is such a diverse area that I really can t give you an answer without more information. But first I want you to know that I am not a trained professional but rather someone who has lost a loved one to suicide and wants to help other people get...

Suicide Prevention: help, suicide hotlines, school counselor
suicide hotlines, school counselor, terrific resources: Hello Alison, Suicide is always preventable because it is a choice. I would recommend talking to your friend and not ignoring what you may think are signs ; however, I would then let her know that because you care about her, you are taking the next step...

Suicide Prevention: help, teen suicide, thought process
teen suicide, thought process, good friend: Suicide may not be -directly- preventable but there are several little things you can do to help. I m not going to suggest medication or a counselor like everyone else because sometimes all anyone really needs is a good friend and a boost of confidence. In...

Suicide Prevention: help, time teenagers, teenage suicide
time teenagers, teenage suicide, teen suicide: Well, you could have simply asked me instead of making someone up, Alison. Now, in my experience, in order to help, you need to find out why they want to end their life. A lot of teens find it extremely hard to deal with the unbalanced hormones that come...

Suicide Prevention: can you help me?, low self esteem, right tools
low self esteem, right tools, family friends: Dear Melody, I would love to help you and it would be great if you can tell me a little more about yourself. How old you are, what you do in life, how you feel about yourself. Maybe a little about your environment, your family, friends etc... Most important,...

Suicide Prevention: help me help him, friend minnie, professional guidance
friend minnie, professional guidance, suicidology: Hi Amber, The fact that your friend is discussing it with you means he wants your attention and your help. You can be available to him to discuss his problems, but a professional in suicide needs to be helping him fully. There are various 800# hotlines...

Suicide Prevention: help me please, innermost feelings, suicide attempts
innermost feelings, suicide attempts, therapeutic tool: Nicole, No one is supposed to kill themselves. But I m wondering if you are telling your therapist your exact feelings and issues. In reading your emails, I see a term called: racing thoughts. Has this been discussed? Additionally, has your doctor...

Suicide Prevention: help !, school counselor, spolied
school counselor, spolied, brat: There is no reason in this world that can be bad enough to kill yourself. Hitting is a form of abuse but some parents say it is disiplne. I personally don t think it is because it doesn t teach a child anything. Your mom should never call you a brat and spoiled....

Suicide Prevention: hey, great feelings, good feelings
great feelings, good feelings, boyfriends: Cody, You and she were probably seeing a lot of each other while you were both in high school but now you are not there and she is probably seeing other girls in high school with boyfriends and may feel she does not have one even if you are not far away. ...

Suicide Prevention: hey, great feelings, good feelings
great feelings, good feelings, tho: Gosh Cody, Just reading your letter made me feel your pain and its also something I ve recently counseled with someone who s gone through this same experience. I m going to discuss some things in my long reply that you may not necessarily want to hear,...

Suicide Prevention: hey, great feelings, good feelings
great feelings, good feelings, wise man: Hey Cody! I know that you are hurting very badly right now. But I want you to stop and think about how smart your girlfriend is. If she feels like she needs a break and needs to test the waters elsewhere then, as difficult as it is going to be for you,...

Suicide Prevention: hi, going to meet the man, person whos
going to meet the man, person whos, whole life: Hey Mariah! I can’t imagine what you must be going through! I have a few thoughts that I would like to share with you though. I’m not saying that what I think is necessary right. You must decide for yourself. Well, here goes… Let’s say you are pregnant....

Suicide Prevention: hi John, drug addict, peopl
drug addict, peopl, single action: Paul, it sounds like you feel she is the be all end all and that without her life is not worth living. You are living for things that may never happen. We all have to adjust to what hand we are dealt in life. In this case you need to focus more on handling...

Suicide Prevention: hi......, suicide prevention hotline, dealing with depression
suicide prevention hotline, dealing with depression, awesome advice: Brittani, You should check on her every night. But you should also tell your parents and then have a talk with her parents. Tell them you are worried. If you can t work up the nerve to do that (because it can be hard, I ve done it myself) look in the yellow...

Suicide Prevention: im deeply depressed, visions and voices, step dad
visions and voices, step dad, smoking pot: Hello Nik Kwapil: You seem to have a lot of significant issues going on which would make anyone depressed. You ve suffered through a lot. But the answer is never EVER to harm yourself (or others). We have a choice in life. We either succumb to the...

Suicide Prevention: would like to know what would..., thoughts of suicide, sleep
thoughts of suicide, sleep, job: Denise: It sounds as though your son might need more expert and professional help than I can give. I m not a trained professional and someone who is entertaining thoughts of suicide needs expert help. Please seek help for him as soon as possible. Keep...

Suicide Prevention: Life is pain. "Happiness" is the abscence of bulk of pain. He who lives forever, suffers forever., varsity tennis team, asian mentality
varsity tennis team, asian mentality, debate camp: Hello I am sorry you are experiencing such depression and there are a myriad of agencies which can help you through it, so that you can experience quality of life (as well as realize its significant value). There are free resources within your community...

Suicide Prevention: Losing it, just a little, self delusion, alive tomorrow
self delusion, alive tomorrow, sole reason: Well it sounds like you could be suffering from depression but for this you need to see your primary care physician who may start you on some antidepressant meds or refer you to a psychiatrist who will make the determination and who will be much more knowledgeable...

Suicide Prevention: Losing a loved one.., heart on my sleeve, great relationship
heart on my sleeve, great relationship, losing a loved one: Hello friend! I read with great interest what you wrote. I see so much of myself in your cry for help. I, too, turned to alcohol to try to ease the pain of losing my dad. I was younger than you, though, when he made his choice and I didn t have many of...

Suicide Prevention: Lost, materialistic world, work friends
materialistic world, work friends, unimportant things: Hi Jason, You didn t really ask a question of me, but I will send my opinions, as you did yours. We are not robots . Robots do not have the capacity to think, feel, love, hate, eat, etc. I do realize, however, the reason for the comparison, but I believe...

Suicide Prevention: Lynne, I guess it's over.., last resort, mom
last resort, mom, god: Matt You keep saying no one cares but you are wrong. I care very deeply and the only one that I see who doesn t care is yourself. You have to snap yourself out of this friend, no one can do it for you. Keep fighting and communicate with your mom. Don...

Suicide Prevention: Lynne.. I HONESTLY don't think I can take it anymore now.., drinking alcohol, couple weekends
drinking alcohol, couple weekends, lack of sleep: Hi Matt! Of course I remember you my friend! I m so sorry to hear from you again under these circumstances. I do not think you are a failed useless idiot. I think you are just very confused and disappointed with life. I m going to tell you some very...

Suicide Prevention: lending a helping hand, e mail address, helping hand
e mail address, helping hand, bartlett: Jenny, I would tell him that he would be suprised what you would understand, and that you wanna get involved because you care about him. Assure him that you are there for him if he ever needs to talk, and listen to every word he says. If you show him...

Suicide Prevention: lending a helping hand, helping hand, kiki
helping hand, kiki, buddies: Jenny- Well, it sounds like he has it bad. Sometimes talking doesnt work. Even if he did tell u what was going on with him, u might not understand, maybe you would, I dunno. But what I can tell you to do is, When you talk to him and he says u wouldnt understand,...

Suicide Prevention: lending a helping hand, true happiness, professional therapist
true happiness, professional therapist, depressed teens: Hello again, Jenny, Ah, the plot thickens! If being backstabbed was a motivation behind his depression then I can certainly see why you don t think that a professional would apply here. In that case, I remind you to not see him as your responsibility for...

Suicide Prevention: lending a helping hand, counsellors, best solution
counsellors, best solution, helping hand: Hi there, I know that kind of situation, and how difficult it can seem to be. The most important thing to remember is that despite there being things which make someone more likely to commit suicide, the number that actually do are far less than the number...

Suicide Prevention: life, thyroid problems, permanent solution
thyroid problems, permanent solution, cleric: Oh my dear Keisha! My heart breaks when I read messages like yours. You ask what you can do.....you can seek professional help. I will gladly listen to you and try to give you the best advice that I can but, Keisha, I am not trained. I am someone just...

Suicide Prevention: my life just sucks, member don, keegan
member don, keegan, family member: Hi Keegan Well I can understand how you feel this way, since it really doesn t sound like life isn t going your way. But this doesn t mean you should kill yourself. Many of your problems you can resolve. So here s what you need to do, and you are going to...

Suicide Prevention: life, belief systems, melissa
belief systems, melissa, exercise: Hello Well killing yourself is not the answer and I m sure that you know that. It wont solve anything and you will only be hurting more people. First of all if you are overweight then try to become healthier by dieting and exercise. Not only will this make...

Suicide Prevention: lifelong problems, depression, lifelong problems, luck chris
lifelong problems, luck chris, social anxiety: RJ, There is hope! It sounds like you have a lot on your plate right now but finding a therapist is a great start. If you need more help or someone live to talk to please call 1.800.784-2433. I am not affiliated with this group but they do offer a referral...

Suicide Prevention: looking for a friend., melody
melody: Hi Melody! I m glad to try to be your friend. You don t say how old you are but believe me at any age we tend to get down and need someone to lean on. Some of us have just lived longer and have experienced it more often. :) Let me know how you would...

Suicide Prevention: My loss, friends dad, father in heaven
friends dad, father in heaven, physical self: Hi Jessica! Thanks for seeking help for your friend. You are very special indeed to care so much. I like to think of my father in heaven always looking out for me and watching over me. I, too, considered suicide but I believe my father spoke to me and...

Suicide Prevention: love break up, wifes relatives, strenght
wifes relatives, strenght, gist: This is hard for me to tell much. You may be of asian ancestry or muslim ancestry and therefore he may have to follow his parents wishes. In short he is not liberated yet. He has not moved to the modern age where people no longer let their parents choose...

Suicide Prevention: Medical Transcriptionist, medical transcriptionist, blood and guts
medical transcriptionist, blood and guts, starting salaries: Hi Lemas: I must say this is quite a change for me. I will be more than happy to answer any questions you have about medical transcription. Transcription is an excellent career for people who are interested in the field of medicine but cannot tolerate...

Suicide Prevention: What do I do about my Mom?, step dad, phyc
step dad, phyc, wont move: Hello Okay with this situation the odds are really against your mom having the kids. Like I m sure you can tell her psychiatrist or whoever that you think the father is one of the causes of this cause he is mentally abusing her and that might limit the contact...

Suicide Prevention: I'm losing my brother, stable person, low self esteem
stable person, low self esteem, anti depressants: Hello Well if he is recieving therapy and is on meds then that is good. He is probably doing better. Medications really do help someone feel better. Trust me, I know since I am trying to become a psychiatrist and am studying the medications they are using....

Suicide Prevention: I'm really depressed should i kill myself?, aerobic exercises, getting a job
aerobic exercises, getting a job, drastic change: Hello Okay well first of all you can never expect God or anyone to just take away all your problems. You have to try and make things better for yourself. The only way your life can improve and for people to help you, is that you need to start bettering your...

Suicide Prevention: i;m really depressed. should i kill myself, burgher king, cinder track
burgher king, cinder track, church youth group: Keisha, you have a full life ahead of you once you get through this time. The first thing I suggest is to get involved in a church youth group or youth fellowship. You will make many new friends there. You need to make some phone calls as to what churches...

Suicide Prevention: i;m really depressed. should i kill myself, harm life, adult group
harm life, adult group, beauty of life: Dear Keisha, NO! No one should ever contemplate self-harm. Life does have value, but often our perceptions are so distorted, that we don t see our true worth, value, or the beauty of life and its meaning. I have known many overweight people. Some were...

Suicide Prevention: i;m really depressed. should i kill myself, national suicide hotline, luck chris
national suicide hotline, luck chris, nearest hospital: Keisha, I am sorry you have had such a rough time of it. It sounds like you are in a terrible place right now and need immediate help. You need to go to the nearest hospital for an evaluation and treatment for your depression. Your depression sounds severe...

Suicide Prevention: i;m really depressed. should i kill myself, gift from god, child of god
gift from god, child of god, precious child: My friend Keisha! I hear your cry and so does God! After all, you reached out to me. I wish with all my heart that I was qualified to help you get the self esteem you need to realize that your life is a precious gift from God! I hear the pain in every...

Suicide Prevention: i'm sick of it, broken bones, bulimic
broken bones, bulimic, chantelle: Greetings, Chantelle: If your family would disown you for going to the hospital, then they don t care about you. You don t need them if they are going to get upset about something about that! You need the help, go ahead to the hospital. You ll be glad someday...

Suicide Prevention: I'm thinking of killing myself..., dealing with depression, care physician
dealing with depression, care physician, family doctor: Hi Kevin, First of all don t do anything to harm yourself. You did not give your age but if your mom is preventing you from seeing your girlfriend perhaps you are a young teen. Anyway you are sort of letting others set the mood you are in. This is never...

Suicide Prevention: my mom, little don, dear sarah
little don, dear sarah, place of safety: Dear Sarah! You are so young at 15 to be worrying about such things. My heart breaks that you are in that position yet what a grown up sense of responsibility you show. Is there someone at school that you can talk to like a counselor? With it being...

Suicide Prevention: My mother has lost the will to live, depressed persons, appoitment
depressed persons, appoitment, suicide attempt: I SUGGEST YOU GET YOUR MOTHER IN TO SEE A PSYCHIATRIST IF YOU HAVE NOT DONE SO ALREADY. IF NOT YOU MAY NEED TO GET HER IN TO SEE HER PRIMARY CARE DOCTOR AND YOU AND YOUR DAD NEED TO GO ALSO TO EXPLAIN WHAT YOU HAVE OBSERVED. HE MAY START YOUR MOM ON AN ANTIDEPRESSANT...

Suicide Prevention: movies and reality, suicide prevention, expertice
suicide prevention, expertice, justifications: I would really love to help you, but your question doesn t fit the topic of suicide prevention and to me it just seems like you re looking for an easy way out of doing your homework... Either redifine your question or ask someone with the suitable expertice...

Suicide Prevention: Need Advice On A Suicidal Friend, abusive realtionships, suicidal friend
abusive realtionships, suicidal friend, happy relationship: Caitlin, thanks for being such a wonderful friend and trying to get help! honestly, i think that becase of your friend s brother s uneasiness toward happy relationships, because abusive ones are all that he knows, i think he needs serious help, not from...

Suicide Prevention: I Need Help With A Friend, one of my best friends, committing suicide
one of my best friends, committing suicide, leading causes of death: Hello Well I understand how you want to help your friend and I know how important your friend is to you and if anyone was in your shoes, I m sure they would want to do the same, but you must understand that there is not much you can do about this situation....

Suicide Prevention: Neighbour's suicide, family tragedies, personal endeavor
family tragedies, personal endeavor, heartfelt sympathy: Dear Irene, First off, let me extend my heartfelt sympathy to you and her family. Tragedies such as these do nothing but overwhelm and shock, leaving us saddened - yes - but feeling so aggrieved that we cannot do what s necessary and that is to take care...

Suicide Prevention: I need help!!, third world countries, school counselor
third world countries, school counselor, oppurtunity: Hello Ashley We;ll first of all death is never a way out. There are people in the world who are struggling for another day and you are willing to just give that special gift up. I mean you see people in third world countries trying to survive and people in...

Suicide Prevention: i need some help, selflessness, good times
selflessness, good times, psychologist: Matthew, please give me a little more data. How old are you? Where are you from? Do you have any family or friends that you can turn to for help? I think that the most important thing to remember when feeling low is that sadness and despair, just like...

Suicide Prevention: I need help., thyroid medicine, mikes hard lemonade
thyroid medicine, mikes hard lemonade, stupid decisions: Dear Kelly, I knew a young girl from canada and you sound very much like her. Anyway i will answer in capitals so you will see my answers. Lately I ve just been so confused.mOST YOUNG PEOPLE ARE FROM TIME TO TIME BUT YOU NEVER KNOW IT BECAUSE PEOPLE...

Suicide Prevention: just neet to talk, countless obstacles, chemical signals
countless obstacles, chemical signals, physical matter: Phil! You have everything to lose by dying and nothing to gain. And you re right, it would destroy your family and friends. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Yes, we live, go to school, get a job, get married, have kids then eventually...

Suicide Prevention: nobody knows, school doesn, real friends
school doesn, real friends, good friends: Becka, I understand where you re coming from. High school is hard and even harder if you dont have any friends. But let me tell you something I learned from experience. I m 20 and was the same way as you in high school. But you know what high school...

Suicide Prevention: i am not normal, denial anger bargaining, stages of grief
denial anger bargaining, stages of grief, duffin: This is, believe it or not, a perfectly normal part of the grieving process and breaking up with someone. Generally the Stages of Grief are used in connection with death, but people go through the same thing with a break up. There are five stages: Denial,...

Suicide Prevention: why am i not normal?, choice one, staying at home
choice one, staying at home, sense of self: Hello Kate, Actually, what you are feeling is in fact normal , if there is such a word. Normal is relative. What is sounds like is you received a type of entity by being his g/f which you now don t have because you re not - you ve lost a sense of self...

Suicide Prevention: am i normal?, ending a relationship, breakups
ending a relationship, breakups, dear john: It is normal to feel let down or down and out after ending a relationship. You feel like you have lost someone close to you as in death except its worse because you know the person is still around. Time has always been the great healer. To get over this...

Suicide Prevention: i have nothing to lose!!!, killin spree, laundry mats
killin spree, laundry mats, walk in the rain: Quentin! You have EVERYTHING to lose. Life is not disposable friend. When we fall upon hard times in life we don t back out of it. Do you have any friends you can ride to work with? At least until you can establish some credit for yourself and get your...

Suicide Prevention: My online friend keeps having episodes! Folo-up., emotionaly, unfortunatly
emotionaly, unfortunatly, false alarm: Hey again! My thoughts on this situation are that you have tried everything possible to support her, I really can t think of something more you can do. Just be a good friend and keep on supporting her in any way possible. Just be careful that she s not...

Suicide Prevention: My online friend keeps having episodes!, crush advice, hot line
crush advice, hot line, online game: Hey there! First of all I think it s very nice of you to support her, not many people would do that. From what I know about chatting with strangers online are that many people, especially girls, dramatize their lives because they want attention, and...

Suicide Prevention: Past year, verbal fights, shoulder problem
verbal fights, shoulder problem, best years of my life: Dear Kimberly, What comes across in your letter is the essence of someone who is chronologically quite young yet; but has such a mature outlook, compassion and depth to her being. You ve certainly had a lot on your plate as of late. It s no wonder you...

Suicide Prevention: Physician-Assisted Suicide, physician assisted suicide, oral requests
physician assisted suicide, oral requests, criminal acts: Hello Stacey, These are really good questions and I ll do my best to answer them. My response may be longer than you hoped for, but I want to answer them fully. First of all, tho I m not a lawyer, I know that p-a suicides are largely considered crimes;...

Suicide Prevention: Physician-Assisted Suicide, physician assisted suicide, euthanasia
physician assisted suicide, euthanasia, tough times: Hello, Stacey! I think that physician-assisted suicide really depends on the situation. If a person just feels depressed and has a medical condition in which there is the possibility of recovery, I don t think it s right. I mean, if the person could...

Suicide Prevention: Physician-Assisted Suicide, physician assisted suicide, slow painful death
physician assisted suicide, slow painful death, us spy plane: Stacey, I always thought of euthanasia as the act of killing someone or causing life functions to cease when there is no hope of recovery from an illness or massive injury or brain fuction termination. Physician assisted suicide is when the person actively...

Suicide Prevention: Please help if you cant who can, school counselor, suicide hotline
school counselor, suicide hotline, boyfriends: Hello Well you shouldn t be with him. One of the reasons is cause you are afraid you might not love him anymore. This is a big sign that you might in the future and that your love for him is really not that strong. Another reason is that it s not possible...

Suicide Prevention: Please help me., soulmate, single day
soulmate, single day, wellbeing: Hello Amber, It certainly is hard when someone we love or care about does not share our feelings; however, we can never put ourselves in the position where one single person is our everything . That not only is devastating to us, but truly unfair to the...

Suicide Prevention: The pain never ends, learning disability, freak out
learning disability, freak out, mother and father: Hello Well I m very glad that you decided to tell your parents how you are feeling. You do not need to feel this way and your excuses do not justify you wanting to commit suicide. It sounds like you need counseling and someone needs to talk to your sister....

Suicide Prevention: A pain that won't go away, anthrax shots, military doctors
anthrax shots, military doctors, horrible pain: Hello Well it sounds like you might need to see other doctors. Maybe ask a different doctor s opinion about the situaiton. The pain also could be in your head. There are many feelings of pain that can be imagined and even cause your body to feel bad. That...

Suicide Prevention: why do people self harm themselves,..., severe trauma, unspeakable pain
severe trauma, unspeakable pain, sense of shame: Dear Katy, The reason people self-harm is twofold. First, to redirect unbearable pain from a severe trauma (emotional, physical,and usually sexual) into a different part of their being. For instance, someone grows up being sexually abused and feels a...

Suicide Prevention: please help me, boyfriends girlfriends, how to be a good mother
boyfriends girlfriends, how to be a good mother, sophomore year: Hello I apologize for taking such a long time to respond. Recently I ve been quite busy with course work, working, and other things going on this past week that I just haven t had the time. I hope you understand cause sometimes it gets difficult to balance...

Suicide Prevention: please help, school counselors, friend family
school counselors, friend family, suicidal thoughts: Hi Tara Okay there s a few things you need to do. I understand how you are hurting but you can minimize the pain by doing a few things. One of the first things you need to do is talk to your friend and tell her how she hurt your feelings. It sounds like she...

Suicide Prevention: please help me, razor blade, school counselor
razor blade, school counselor, luck chris: Jeremy, Cutting yourself is more than just a problem with being rejected by this girl. It is a problem more deeply felt by you that you do not understand right now but with help you will. You need to talk with your parents or another responsible person...

Suicide Prevention: please help me!!, anxiety attack, student visa
anxiety attack, student visa, lying on the floor: Dear Nilz, Let me start with a few questions. Where do you live? Doesn t your husband automatically get a visa because you are now married? I can see how there are lots of things on your mind right now that are worrying you. What I suggest you do is...

Suicide Prevention: please tell me, suport group, routine life
suport group, routine life, stomaches: I wrote a long response to you Velvet I dont know if it went through if it did not ill resend it. if you did not get it you can email me at Bellerophon2@cs.com Velvet,My response was lost before it was sentto you so ill try trecal wht i wrote. First off...

Suicide Prevention: please, facial expressions, negative thoughts
facial expressions, negative thoughts, mutual friends: Hello Anika, My questions would be why would you want to be friends with anyone who disrespects you in such a way? Why does she matter to your overall wellbeing? If Sophie doesn t see the value in a friendship with you, than that s her loss. It sounds...

Suicide Prevention: No point., school counselor, everyday blues
school counselor, everyday blues, clinical depression: Greetings Again, Amy: How have you been? Are things getting better for you? From, Teeie Greetings, Amy: My apologies for not having gotten back to you sooner. I m going on 30 myself, but I know the outcast status when I was in my teens. ...

Suicide Prevention: No point., friend doesn, precious life
friend doesn, precious life, nows: Dear Amy: At 12, almost 13, you are at the age when most kids are not sure exactly who they are or what they want. It makes me very sad to hear that you are in such pain and torment. I can almost guarantee that everybody does not hate you and think you...

Suicide Prevention: No point., suffering from clinical depression, free hotlines
suffering from clinical depression, free hotlines, school counselors: Amy, You are obviously suffering from clinical depression which needs professional treatment. There are school counselors who can help you and will keep things confidential. The reason you are not just ending it all and writing to someone on an all experts...

Suicide Prevention: prayer, suicide attempts, spirit of truth
suicide attempts, spirit of truth, fellowship groups: Dear Krista, Yes Krista I want to pray for you, thank you for asking, what took you so long? Dear Heavenly Father, I come to you in the name of your son our Lord Jesus. Jesus I pray that you just take your merciful hand and all the powers of your...

Suicide Prevention: pregnant and depressed, kiki, antidepressants
kiki, antidepressants, meds: Amanda- Wow. I am so sorry to hear all this! Think about your kids, if you die they wont have a mom. I am 17 and I dont really have a mom (shes an alcoholic) and it kills because I dont know how to do girly things. Your kids need you know and forever....

Suicide Prevention: Why prevent prisoner suicide?, devil s advocate, suicide prevention
devil s advocate, suicide prevention, moral point: Hi Steve, What an interesting question! I m drawing from your question that you may have some axes to grind when it comes to the penal system. I live in Canada, where the death penalty seems as faraway and ridiculous as paying for health care (absurd!)...

Suicide Prevention: Question, psychology field, dappy
psychology field, dappy, psychologist: You shouldn t leave your children. She may be forced to leave hers. If she treats you this way it is bad for the children and she may treat them bad too. My theory is she is going through some type of depression, I can take a guess, yet I rather not. Instead...

Suicide Prevention: Question, dappy, 8 years
dappy, 8 years, grandchildren: Sounds like you both need someone help in counseling. You both need to communicate and ask her why she would want something that bad to happen to you. Your kids need you the most...don t do something stupid. Get yourself some help and look forward to...

Suicide Prevention: Really hurt and totaly lost.., many different things, behavorial health
many different things, behavorial health, thoughts of suicide: Matt, first of all you are letting other people tell you how to feel. You are letting strangers dictate to you how you are living your life. The grl of 15 is too immatrure for you. The younger the girl the more likely she is o constantly change partners....

Suicide Prevention: Recovery, retarded woman, breakdancer
retarded woman, breakdancer, smart woman: Hey Giedrius Well first of all let me say you are doing a wonderful job! It seems that you show every day commitment to him and you continualy give him hope! You are doing great! anyways first of all you need to understand that there is not much a person...

Suicide Prevention: what do I do when I really feel like I might commit suicide?, suicide hotline, intonations
suicide hotline, intonations, self harm: Dear Deb: I cannot encourage you strongly enough to SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP! It is encouraging that you are reaching out to me but you really need to sit down with someone who can assess your body language, voice intonations etc. You are doing great with...

Suicide Prevention: research about suicide, canterbury new zealand, why do people commit suicide
canterbury new zealand, why do people commit suicide, university of canterbury: One main reason for trying to commit, or even commiting suicide is trying to escape the pains of life. I cut myself because when I am in emotional pain, I cut, and then I think, Wow my arm hurts not wow I was backstabbed by so-and-so . And really no one...

Suicide Prevention: did i do the right thing?, talking to a brick wall, guidance counsler
talking to a brick wall, guidance counsler, crisis clinic: Dear Jenn, The situation with your friend is an uncommon one. It doesn t fall into the normal categorization of suicide or plots to oneself. He is not in a normal frame of mind and thinks that by killing himself he will be doing the right thing. ...

Suicide Prevention: roommate suicide, councelor, physicaly
councelor, physicaly, daily basis: I don t know the extent of the problem since I m not there so you re going to have to trtust you instincts here. Obviously you re instincts say omethings wrong so try to talk to him this wont be easy for you or him but let him knowyou re there if he eeds to...

Suicide Prevention: Seeing someone suicidal, suicidal tendencies, nice girl
suicidal tendencies, nice girl, excuse: Hello I agree that you should probably end this. You should not get involved with someone who is suicidal and has all these problems. She may be a very nice girl but it s not a good idea to get with someone who has all these problems. People like this need...

Suicide Prevention: Self Harm & Suicide, self mutilation, pen and notebook
self mutilation, pen and notebook, harmful behaviors: Hello Maria, It is so refreshing to hear of your loving family. You need to use that resource of a loving family and talk to your parents about your feelings. There are all kinds of very real, biological things going on in you right now (adolescence)...

Suicide Prevention: Self harm & suicide., masters in social work, syracuse university
masters in social work, syracuse university, student director: Dear Bridget, Seriously - you must be one of the smartest people who have written to me on this topic. Not only do you have your own high credentials for what you ve accomplished in your life thus far; but you have, by your own admission, very understanding...

Suicide Prevention: Slitting Wrists, slitting wrists, rubber band
slitting wrists, rubber band, pluck: I did see on a show once that a type of therapy for ppl who cut was to have a rubber band on your wrist and when u get bored or have an urge then u were to sort of pluck at the band and it was supposed to help but u could also find sumone who is trusting...

Suicide Prevention: Slitting, types of stressors, different things
types of stressors, different things, slit: Hello You probably cut yourself to relieve other types of stressors in your life. Instead try exercising, talking to a friend who you can actually trust, doing something relaxing like swimming, painting, or hiking. try different things to do when you are...

Suicide Prevention: SUICIDAL, prevention web, suicide prevention
prevention web, suicide prevention, kiling: Hi Jackie! I am so glad that you asked me for help with this incredibly serious problem you re having. The fact that you took the time to ask me for help tells me that you do not truelly want to die. You have your whole life ahead of you...boys, college,...

Suicide Prevention: SUICIDE, falut, help with school
falut, help with school, alcholic: Daniel~ Even though it may not seem it, there r people in your life that do love you and would be lost with out u in their lives. If your were to kill yourself u would be affecting everyone u know and others that may not know u and believe me its true....

Suicide Prevention: SUICIDE, dangerous situation, helplines
dangerous situation, helplines, dad: HEY Jackie, You are witnessing a VERY seriuos situation! Do not delay...if you can t talk to or convince your ex to call one of the helplines or seek help period, you must tell someone! Especially if this involves 3 other people too! This is REALLY serious,...

Suicide Prevention: Suffering in silence, suffering in silence, unfortunatly
suffering in silence, unfortunatly, greiving: Unfortunatly people are cold and hardened. I am sorry about your situation, but I think in times like this you have to think about yourself and your child. It has to be very hard for him. Maybe you should just spend your time with him and not worry about everyone...

Suicide Prevention: Suicidal Friend, suicidal friend, ur friend
suicidal friend, ur friend, u care: i ve never been in your place or anything, so I called my friend who dealt with me when I was suicidal. I know being suicidal is hard on everyone, and it only gets worse.Ur friend needs to know she has someone to care about her. Even if she only knows u online....

Suicide Prevention: Suicide, ashley, asap
ashley, asap, suicide: Ashley, This subject is very serious. What you need to do is find an adult and tell them because he needs to get help. He is serious when he tells you that he wants to die because I have been there. Most people who tell you that they want to die is really...

Suicide Prevention: Suicide, room disruption, commited suicide
room disruption, commited suicide, classroom disruption: Hello I m very sorry to hear that since it was a situation that could have easily been helped and have been prevented. I m sorry for your loss and you must be going through a very difficult time right now. I wish the best for your family... and again, I m...

Suicide Prevention: Suicide, keeping a journal, curiosity
keeping a journal, curiosity, counselor: Hey, First off, I care that you are alive. I know how you feel though. I know what it feels like to want to die and not have anyone there to talk to or to understand. But I assure you that I understand how bad it sucks. But there are ways out of this. It...

Suicide Prevention: Suicide, precious existence, selfish act
precious existence, selfish act, loving friends: Hello! Your co-worker is very fortunate to have such loving friends who care enough to worry so much about him. He certainly has been through a very bad time. I can t think of anything any harder than finding a loved one dead especially by his or her...

Suicide Prevention: Suicide, teen suicide prevention, self mutilation
teen suicide prevention, self mutilation, homework questions: Hi Vicki, I don t usually do homework questions, but I don t see the harm in this case. I do hope that you write on your survey somewhere that www.allexperts.com s Teen Suicide Prevention section was used as a research tool. Some of the questions...

Suicide Prevention: Suicide, guilt feelings, teen suicide
guilt feelings, teen suicide, place of worship: The list is endless. Strife between a mother and daughter between a son and his mother and between step pareents and between siblings. Past instances of sexual abuse or guilt feelings about something one has done and never gotten it off their chest. Holding...

Suicide Prevention: Suicide, growth spurt, suicidal feelings
growth spurt, suicidal feelings, family trait: Hi Courtney! The first thing I want to tell you is suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. The second thing I want to tell you is I know exactly how you feel even though it was a loooong time ago when I was in school. I was teased...

Suicide Prevention: Suicide, those memories, everyday thing
those memories, everyday thing, righ: Hello Well first of all you shouldn t go to your grandparents about this right now... cause you already know the outcome. What you should do is go to therapy and talk about what s going on cause that s the problem... you need to vent this out and have someone...

Suicide Prevention: Suicide, distorted view of the world, court tv
distorted view of the world, court tv, place ive: Sharmayne, you did not say if you have been treated for depression. If not and if not now then you need to get into treatment. You do not need to be an inpatient. Your primary care doctor or family doctor should refer you to see a psychiatrist and let him...

Suicide Prevention: Suicide, health care proxy, hate letter
health care proxy, hate letter, husbands name: Hello i think it s normal for you to feel guilty. You sound like a nice man and you cannot understand why she would treat you this way. I have a very good male friend who I care about immensely. One day, he treated me terribly, and now he refuses to be my...

Suicide Prevention: Suicide sister only 11, acholic, heart to heart
acholic, heart to heart, adivce: It seems to me you have a lot to deal with. I can understand how you are feeling at this time. Your mother needs to understand what misery she is putting her daughters through. As your sister is only 11, suicide may not be a great part in her life although...

Suicide Prevention: Suicide, feelings of hopelessness, workmans comp
feelings of hopelessness, workmans comp, rough time: Dear Rhonda, You must stop NOW playing the blame and guilt game. These emotions are NOT serving you well. You must evaluate each thought and if it does not serve for a higher purpose or for good such as Love, faith, courage, calmness and determination than...

Suicide Prevention: saddened by a dude, confidents, broken heart
confidents, broken heart, self study: Hey there! I am so sorry for replying so late, I had some connection problems. It looks to me that you got too dependent on this guy, that your subconscious told you that you couldn t live without him. Plus, it seems to me that this guy was a very good...

Suicide Prevention: What I can say and what I shouldn't say, friend tara, tricky topic
friend tara, tricky topic, hospital today: Dear Rachel, This is definitely a very tricky topic. You must simply speak from the heart. I m sure she s going through quite a lot at the moment. You just have to get a clear message through that you love her, care for her and would do anything to make...

Suicide Prevention: self-mutilation, self mutilation, school psychologist
self mutilation, school psychologist, sissors: Good question. First you must tell an adult. Your parents, her parents, even a trusted teacher just anyone you think that can help you. You must get someone to get her some help. This is a serious problem. You as a friend must protect her. Here are some websites...

Suicide Prevention: very serious condition, vitamin b complex, st johns wort
vitamin b complex, st johns wort, 5 htp: Amad, by now you must know that you cannot stop taking your medication. OCD needs to be treated with meds all the time. It does not get cured just like diabetes or high blood pressure does not get cured. The supplemnts are not of much value in treating...

Suicide Prevention: so sick of it all.., antidepresant, quite some time
antidepresant, quite some time, care physician: Veronika, in the teen years its not at all unusual to be depressed. A lot more is expected of you because everyone sees you as becoming more responsible. This coupled with the onset of puberty can play havoc with your emotions. Setbacks like not doing...

Suicide Prevention: slitting, slit, counselor
slit, counselor, good luck: Hello Well first of all stop slitting yourself. You do not need to cut yourself to just feel pain. That s not good and one day you may regret it so learn to stop. There is a reason why you like pain, and maybe it s something you do to fill some other void...

Suicide Prevention: slitting, thearpy, rubber band
thearpy, rubber band, workout: Kay~ I really dont think thats the way to go I think maybe if u start writing in a journal or drawing your feelings that may help release ur pains or maybe pick up a hobby such as boxing cuz that will release stress and be a good workout! I also heard...

Suicide Prevention: how do you stop when yourve given up hope, step dads, committed suicide
step dads, committed suicide, molestation: Hi Lillade I m sorry to hear that you have been going through a hard time lately. I can understand why you are feeling pretty depressed and have thought about suicide but this doesn t mean that you should do it. You also don t want to commit suicide just...

Suicide Prevention: This is how my story goes..., christian private school, psyciatrist
christian private school, psyciatrist, eternal sleep: Hello Avi, While we cannot change (for the most part) the way other people act, we can control how we REact, and that is our responsibility. Sometimes, we need help because -for some reason (either psychological or biological) - we cannot do it on our...

Suicide Prevention: sucicide, therapist therapy, obsessive thoughts
therapist therapy, obsessive thoughts, drug overdose: Hello Well first and foremost if you feel like you are about to have a drug overdose then talk to your doctor about this. It s good to communicate with your doctor and let them know how you are really feeling. So communicate with them. Also it sounds like...

Suicide Prevention: suicide, bad habbit, friend laurel
bad habbit, friend laurel, friend emily: Sami, i became bulimic when i was about 10 (i m 16 now) because my dad s family was CONSTANTLY talking about my weight and how much i had been putting on and how i was going to be huge by the time i was 20 and so on and so forth. i was REALLY sensitive...

Suicide Prevention: suicide, ways to comit suicide, mistake of my life
ways to comit suicide, mistake of my life, terrible feeling: Hello Well do not commit suicide over a girl breaking up with you. You should know that that s not a good reason to ever end your life. There s no good reason to end one s life but over a girl is a very bad reason to end your life. Also you cheated on her...

Suicide Prevention: suicide, typical district, defense lawyer
typical district, defense lawyer, heinous crime: I think its to show revenge more than anything. They will do anything to show how this person is being punished for their crime but there are plenty of people who have been executed who were innocent. The typical district attorney who prosecutes is not really...

Suicide Prevention: Me and suicide, state of depression, depressed state
state of depression, depressed state, life is a gift: Dear Sabrina, Merry Christmas huuuuuugs :) Life is 10% of what happens to us ie: schoolwork, parents, relationships, pressure from friends AND 90% of how we choose to respond to it. Perhaps you can look for better ways to deal with these things. Instead...

Suicide Prevention: suicide, dad, suicide
dad, suicide: Hello Paige I would really love to help you but first I need to know why your angry or depressed at everyone. do you want to move away from your dad? what is the situation going on? I don t know what s going on but I know it s nothing to the extreme where...

Suicide Prevention: suicide, school counselor, pain in my heart
school counselor, pain in my heart, hearing things: Hey Brittny Well it s a good idea that you tell your parents about this. You may be suffering from a mental disorder and there are prescription drugs or other methods you can use to get rid of these hallucinations. But it s best to do it not, very earlier....

Suicide Prevention: suicide, thoughts and feelings, suicidal thoughts
thoughts and feelings, suicidal thoughts, abortion: hey Kelly I m very sorry to hear about what you have gone through. It makes me very upset that their are people who can abuse or hurt others and make them suffer for thei behaviors. You or nobody deserves that. Anyways you should tell someone as soon as possible....

Suicide Prevention: suicide, hospital emergency room, thinking of suicide
hospital emergency room, thinking of suicide, unhappy home life: Yes it can be prevented. Most people give others around them many signals that they are thinking of suicide. No not all teens show signs of suicidal behavior but there are some very common clues to lok for. Like giving away prized possessions, talking about...

Suicide Prevention: suicide, thinking of suicide, fantastic life
thinking of suicide, fantastic life, latly: Hello I have a hard time believing that everybody you hand out with wishes you were dead. Are you sure you aren t exagerrating what maybe a few people say, not everybody? And why should random people who aren t even that special to you convince you that you...

Suicide Prevention: suicide and anti-depressants, anti depressants, physical experience
anti depressants, physical experience, emotional pain: It shouldn t have been you. It shouldn t have happened. I am sorry about your brother. Withdrawing from meds can cause side effects as it tells you on the package. I do not know if the doctor or the coroner look at this information. I recommend asking in the...

Suicide Prevention: suicide/depression help, hospital emergency room, brain chemicals
hospital emergency room, brain chemicals, charge nurse: Amanda, you only need go to your primary care physician and ask for a referral to see a psychiatrist. If you are in a crisis then go to the nearest hospital emergency room and see the charge nurse and tell her you are feeling depressed and thinking of harming...

Suicide Prevention: suicide, major depressive disorder, low self esteem
major depressive disorder, low self esteem, insurance money: Almia, I ll try to answer line by line. Hi, I am a 23 yr old mother of a 2 1/2 yr old little girl, married, work full time, college half time. I was in therapy for major depressive disorder along with recently diagnosed ADD. As of right now, I m not on...

Suicide Prevention: i survided my own suicide, lot of good reasons, self harm
lot of good reasons, self harm, ordinary life: My friend Orietta! I can feel the pain in your words. There is so much hurt in you. I am NOT a trained professional and therefore I am totally unqualified to give any advice. But I will tell you what comes to mind as I read your words. The first BIG...

Suicide Prevention: surviving a loved one committing suicide, committing suicide, suffering from depression
committing suicide, suffering from depression, selfish act: Hi Karen: Many of us contemplate suicide from time to time however I find it a positive sign that you have not found the courage to take action on those feelings. I hope your doctor is discussing all of your issues with you in close follow up. Also, you...

Suicide Prevention: Talking about it, antidepressant, antidepressants
antidepressant, antidepressants, capitals: Hi Amber, I will answer in capitals so you will see my answer. Hi. I attempted suicide (unsuccessfully, obviously) in May and spent a short time in a mental facility. Since then, despite being on a stronger antidepressant, I feel worse than...

Suicide Prevention: Teen Suicide, types of suicides, altruistic suicide
types of suicides, altruistic suicide, teen suicides: Hello Yes teen suicide can be prevented with certain teens. I don t understand your question really. If you mean all teen suicides in the world can be prevented then no. No because there will always be exceptions and plus there are different types of suicides...

Suicide Prevention: Teen Suicide, resource referrals, universal signs
resource referrals, universal signs, professional suicide: Hello Alison, First, let me apologize as I ve had trouble logging on to this site for the past few days. IMO, suicidal intent is always noticeable because there are universal signs people do (for instance, behavior which is different than their normal...

Suicide Prevention: Last Tuesday Our mum committed suicide, binge drinker, loving marriage
binge drinker, loving marriage, weedkiller: My Dear Fiona: I will try my very best to help you. I feel your pain through your words. Your mum had so very many demons inside of her that she simply could not cope any longer. Do I think you will turn out like her? The chances of that are slim because...

Suicide Prevention: I can't function any more, positive feelings, time none
positive feelings, time none, suicidal thoughts: Hi Dan, More people than not have had their feelings rebuffed by someone once in their life; many have had them rebuffed several times over. People are quick to say I loved that person , and while only you (and they) know how they feel; there is one fact...

Suicide Prevention: I Can't Help it, time melissa, bad feelings
time melissa, bad feelings, emotional pain: Hello Well it really sounds like you should go back to rehab or seek therapy. The rehab did seem to help you out a lot and that s something that is worth going to again. You have to understand that getting over wanting to kill yourself takes a long time....

Suicide Prevention: teen suicide, teen suicide, suicide 2
teen suicide, suicide 2, suicidal person: Hello Well I ll try to help out as much as I can so hopefully some of this is helpful. 1. This is a pretty general question but anyway I think that teen suicide is a terrible thing and it s terrible that this is one of the leading causes of death in adolescents....

Suicide Prevention: teenage relationship problems/suicidal attitudes, emergency line, relationship problems
emergency line, relationship problems, family background: The problem with her being 17 is that, legally, her mother is the boss , so to speak. What she says goes and I m not sure I m really allowed to speak with your girlfriend. If you are seriously worried that she will harm herself, let the police know (call...

Suicide Prevention: Should I tell a friend?, dealing with depression, weird person
dealing with depression, weird person, councilor: Hello I m very glad to hear that you are seeking help from a professional and your parents. I totally understand how you want to talk to a friend. It s good to just talk to a peer and someone who you know truly cares about you. Talk to a friend who you trust...

Suicide Prevention: Can I have someone else tell them., half sister, good luck
half sister, good luck, melissa: Hey Sarah Do what you are comfortable with. If you feel it s easier for your half sister to tell them then have her tell them. Just make sure that your sister knows what you want her to tell your parents. But if you are comfortable with that then have your...

Suicide Prevention: I think im Manic Depressive, suicide 2, manic depressives
suicide 2, manic depressives, committing suicide: Hello Well it is certainly a possibility that you are a manic depressive but you cannot say you are. If you really want to know then go see a counselor a psycholgist they will let you know for certain and let you know of your options. First of all stop thinking...

Suicide Prevention: thinking about it, god doesn, permanent solution
god doesn, permanent solution, shane: Hi Shane! The very first thing I want to say to you is a statement that has been used a lot but it is so true. I want you to really think about this: suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I understand being depressed because you are overweight...

Suicide Prevention: i have been thinking about ending my life for a while and i don't know what to do, charge nurse, suffering from depression
charge nurse, suffering from depression, dear john: Do not worry about your parents not talking to you they are obligated by law to provide care for you including a home , clothing, food, and medical care. If they do not you can contact the department of social services and they will insure you get these basic...

Suicide Prevention: i am not thinking of ending my life, good friend, good friends
good friend, good friends, anorexia: Oftentimes it is difficult to find a good friend; my mother always said that you are blessed to have one truly good friend in your entire lifetime. And that is true. But there is something I must say to you, Melody. Your friends are reacting out of their...

Suicide Prevention: thinking about it, self help books, professional counselors
self help books, professional counselors, negative feelings: Hello Shane, Only you have the power to change your life. Everything is a choice. We all have the choice to lead good lives, or bad lives, hurt ourselves, take care of ourselves, etc. There are many very good self-help books out there, there are professional...

Suicide Prevention: The torment is relentless..., sports video games, social norm
sports video games, social norm, girls sports: Hello Sorry it took so long to reply, but I am in school myself, pretty busy with work, and some other things in my life so I m sorry for not replying sooner. First and foremost I m very sorry to hear about what s going on in your life. I understand how this...

Suicide Prevention: i am unhappy, probaby, occasionaly
probaby, occasionaly, endorphins: Hey Katka I m so sorry to hear that you are going through this. But thing are getting better. There s no reason to hate yourself. Give me reasons why someone should dislike you or even hate you? Have you killed someone, done something extremely harmful to...

Suicide Prevention: urgent, release god, medicine doctors
release god, medicine doctors, major depression: To begin with... God will be there for you when you least expect it (which is, whether or not you realize it, the time you need Him the most). I cannot tell you to not depend on him; so pray often and hope He heard you and realize that He knows what is best...

Suicide Prevention: urgent, medicine doctors, immigration issues
medicine doctors, immigration issues, major depression: Sandra, if you are a born again christian then you know that God will never turm his back on you. You cannot return to Nigeria and he cannot come to the US. You will just have to wait on God for a solution to this dilemna. It may be that somehow he will...

Suicide Prevention: i used to be suicidal, rope around my neck, isint
rope around my neck, isint, tatto: Hey Robbie Well I knoe you are not feeling too suicidal anymore but it might be good just to go to a few sessions of therapy to just have closure and really make sure you are over it. I think having a few sessions of therapy will be helpful. Also try to be...

Suicide Prevention: why do i wanna die so bad, steo, counselor
steo, counselor, good luck: Hey Virginia Well you don t need to kill yourself at all. Nobody wants you to die and your boyfriend is a good example of that. Also be more positive about life. Why do you want to waste something that so many people around the world are dying for in hospitals...

Suicide Prevention: just want it too end, wisdom teeth, basiclly
wisdom teeth, basiclly, wasting my life: Hi Shane, The only one who can change your behavior and make your life what you truly want it to be, is you. What you have to start internalizing is that every life has value. Every life is unique. 99% of us do not like the way we look - at whatever age,...

Suicide Prevention: i want to stop!, self mutilation, professional counselor
self mutilation, professional counselor, self harm: Shannon, I am a proponent of people who exhibit self-mutilating seeing a professional counselor, familiar with this area, as I do not believe one can stop all attempts to self harm by themselves and without professional help. But I will also share with...

Suicide Prevention: wanting to die, counting down the days, emotional pain
counting down the days, emotional pain, christmas day: Hi Lucietta You should not try to end your life. If anything, tell your friends that you are planning to kill yourself and that you don t know what to do about it. Do not try suffering this alone, talk about it with your friends. They may not be able to help...

Suicide Prevention: well., consistent treatment, councellor
consistent treatment, councellor, happy all the time: Hello Shanen, First, let me apologize. I did not get your question until just now (I ve notified the board of the problem). The reasons your friend is cutting himself go far deeper than one (non-professional) person can actually help. No one cuts...

Suicide Prevention: whats wrong with me?, sleep in peace, cant sleep
sleep in peace, cant sleep, girli: Hello Well first of all it sounds like your parents are putting pressure on you to be this perfect person which you and nobody will ever be. Being the perfect girl is something you can never be, and it s very unfortunate that your parents put this stress...

Suicide Prevention: I wish I was gone!.. Please Help.. :(, friend nicole, anti depressants
friend nicole, anti depressants, living my life: Hi Matt! That IS a long question but I m gonna give this my best effort here. What I want to tell you right away is I am NOT a trained professional. I am only someone whose father committed suicide when I was very young and I have studied the reasons why...

Suicide Prevention: what's wrong with me?, teen hotlines, mental health professionals
teen hotlines, mental health professionals, confidential access: Lydia, As I mentioned in my first response, you need to break your habit by positive self-talk which emphasizes your qualities, strengths and encourages a smile on your face. It seems simple, but it works. You are starting to believe all those ugly things...

Suicide Prevention: too much, empire state building, phycologist
empire state building, phycologist, school counselor: Greetings Dominique: I m SO sorry for being late with your question: I had to go out of town for a funeral. I just got back home a couple minutes ago. Back to your question, The first step is to talk to your school counselor or phycologist or talk to your...

Suicide Prevention: ...., suicide attempts, pulling out hair
suicide attempts, pulling out hair, baby sisters: Hello Well first of all you are not immune to recovery or anything. And also you are right in saying that your future attempts will probably be more successful. Now I don t know you or have any idea of what you are going through, but I must tell you that...

Suicide Prevention: why not, true companions, cruel joke
true companions, cruel joke, emperior: Dear Justin, I m not quite sure what the question is here and therefore not quite sure what kind of answer you are looking for. Are you weird? Maybe... But then so am I! I m sorry it took so long to reply but this topic is just a little close to my heart....

Suicide Prevention: How do I?, true affection, living hell
true affection, living hell, pound man: Hello Cristal First of all I want to say that I m soprry to hear about what you went through as a child. Nobody deserves to suffer like that and it s horible that your parents put you through so much pain like that. Yes it is possible to overcome this and...

Suicide Prevention: me, suffering from depression, complicated questions
suffering from depression, complicated questions, life thanks: Hello The answers to all of these questions is that you are depressed. That s it. You are suffering from depression. Really you shouldn t be asking these questions. What you should be asking is how to fix this. The best way to deal with this is to try and...

Suicide Prevention: Me again, personal feelings, irish catholic
personal feelings, irish catholic, dabney: Hello Bridget, I think you don t give your parents enough credit, and so often, none of us do. But your mom is formally trained in socwrk; so she even has an edge as to how to perform counseling. There is no way to deal with issues unless one is honest...

Suicide Prevention: how do I, unpleasant memory, psychiatrist
unpleasant memory, psychiatrist, hypnosis: I have heard that through hypnosis but I do not think that our minds forget anything. We can only deal with past events as they happened and try to understand them or forgive ourselves or forgive others for what they may or what we may have done. Its hardest...

Suicide Prevention: no one it there....., loving church family, local community college
loving church family, local community college, stupid mistake: Hello First of all I m very sorry that it took me so long to reply to this question. I ve been very preoccupied with college work and work that I just did not have any time to devote to allexperts. So I hope you understand that, and again, I apologize. Well...

Suicide Prevention: Not sure, negative characteristics, right girl
negative characteristics, right girl, friendships: Hello Well you need to continue trying and remember that when the right girl comes along she will come along. Believe it or not but you are not the only person who feels this way. Most people have a hard time finding someone who really loves them, so just...

Suicide Prevention: What Can I Do?, going through puberty, dealing with depression
going through puberty, dealing with depression, contemplating suicide: Wes, its not that uncommon for you to feel as you do. You are in adolescense and going through puberty and that involves lots of mood swings. I do not doubt that feel depressed and suicidal. Its good you have talked to your parents. The councilor however...

Suicide Prevention: why am i like this, borderline personality disorder, blood results
borderline personality disorder, blood results, knife cuts: Hi, Thanks for emailing me. I know the kind of emotions you re going through, I ve been through them twice before myself and I know how horrible they are. You say doing these things makes you feel better, and I understand that completely. But the situation...

Sun Operating System: Which is better - RHCE or CCNA or MCSE?, novell certification, desktop os
novell certification, desktop os, desktop systems: This is a very difficult question for me to attempt to provide you a useful answer. I can t tell what the job market is like where you are. Yes, Windows is most popular desktop OS, but it s not very popular for the data center. So, are there jobs in a data...

Sun Operating System: Operating Systems Booting through USB Tape Device, dec ultrix, sco unix
dec ultrix, sco unix, contiguous memory: Honestly, I don t see any real advantage of booting any OS via a tape, when it s so easy and so well documented to boot your OS via CD or DVD. CD/DVD has many advantages over tape: 1. It s faster. 2. It s more reliable 3. It s cheaper 4. It...

Sun Operating System: SPRING OS, java programming language, unix roots
java programming language, unix roots, object oriented operating system: Spring OS was really before my time at Sun. I Googled it, and found a number of useful links, especially the one on Wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spring_%28operating_system%28 Spring was an experimental microkernel-based object oriented operating...

Sun Operating System: Solaris, commerce graduate, administration positions
commerce graduate, administration positions, mac experience: Well, knowledge of Solaris can be very helpful in an IT environment, but that s not all you ll want or need. IT folk often end up supporting desktops, too, and those are mostly PC/Windows and MAC. It would be good to get experience there. IT also often...

Sun Operating System: Connecting to remote solaris, telnet ssh
telnet ssh: Telnet requires that the system you re communicating to have software installed and running to receive and respond to you. That s the telnet daemon . If that s not running, you will get exactly what you see when you use the standard port for telnet....

Sun Operating System: Connecting to remote, telnet ssh
telnet ssh: While this isn t strictly Solaris, I believe I can answer your question. Telnet requires that the system you re communicating to have software installed and running to receive and respond to you. That s the telnet daemon . If that s not running, you...

Sun Operating System: Operating systems, word processing program, key press
word processing program, key press, introductory course: In order to talk about what a vectored interrupt might be, we should most likely first define an interrupt. . . In any computer system more complex that a child s toy (and those are even complex enough for interrupts these days), you need a way to interrupt...

Sun Operating System: solaris, quota usage, soft target
quota usage, soft target, disk quota: How do we implement quota? First, you need to decide, soft or hard quota. Do you want a simple limit, above which users cannot write further, or do you want a soft target, and give them warnings, and permit more usage? As the root user: Create...

Sun Operating System: Computer Virus Infection
As long as you specify, any and all , I must say, no . Some virus or other malware actually infects the BIOS, and will not run on an emulated system. I imagine you may have reasonable success with products such as VirtualBox, but any and all isn t going...

Sun Operating System: abour sun os, stanford university network, university of california at berkley
stanford university network, university of california at berkley, sco unix: Here is the brief history of UNIX, with special emphasis on Sun. Late 1960s, UNIX is developed by AT&T for use on their internal systems. It is actually an acronym for Uniplexed Computing System or UniCS. This was then shortened to UNIX. Around 1970,...

Sun Operating System: Beos/Linux, linux works, dual boot
linux works, dual boot, desktop systems: Hi! Im no expert in either linux or beos, im mainly a solaris guy but I do have some opinions :) I think you are correct when you say open-source is the way to go, I dont think beos has a very bright future. But there is a new candidate though which...

Sun Operating System: very basic question, unix implementation, unix operating system
unix implementation, unix operating system, true64: Hi ! Sun is a Unix Operating System such a others like AIX, SGI, True64 .... Sun is based on the System V R4 Unix implementation. You can find more information about solaris on my website ( www.allexperts.at ) in the eBooks section. regards, mari...

Sun Operating System: boot floppy for Solaris 7 installation, boot floppies, dd command
boot floppies, dd command, dos level: Here is how I did it. The only problem I ran across is I had to rename the image file that was downloaded to something without all of those periods. I renamed it to s7_1199.dca I didn t notice until afterwards that you were using a different version...

Sun Operating System: Copying links under Solaris, link target, member icca
link target, member icca, solaris administrator: I am pretty sure this should work. I use it when copying entire directory structures to a different file system. 1) use mkdir to create the new directory where you want it. 2) cd into the directory you want to copy 3) Run this command. find...

Sun Operating System: CShell scripts under Solaris, software companion, sunblade 100
software companion, sunblade 100, 256 mb ram: First of all, script is the correct term. Is there a reason you are using the c shell? It is not very common any more. Most people use the korn(ksh) shell. it really doesn t matter, just personal preference and syntax. I do all of my work in the korn...

Sun Operating System: change the system bootup time for two OS, computer properties, sorry for the delay
computer properties, sorry for the delay, windows xp: hello ! sorry for the delay but i was on holiday.. so, to change the timeout click on my computer - properties and then advanced in the startup and recovery field click settings. here you can change boot order and timeout in seconds. hth....

Sun Operating System: copying soft links, link target, image thanks
link target, image thanks, mirror image: Hi! The easiest way to copy something like that is to use tar. Lets say you want to copy dir1 to dir2 (with symlinks and all): (both dir1 and dir2 needs to exist) cd dir1 tar cvfp - . | ( cd ../dir2; tar xvf - ) Done. Good Luck! // Kennet...

Sun Operating System: Sun Solaris OS 5.6, libc, cdrom
Sun Operating System: Sun Solaris OS 5.6, libc, cdrom

Sun Operating System: Hardware Error, sun enterprise 250, parity check
sun enterprise 250, parity check, parity error: Basically, this indicates that you are having a hardware failure. You can kind of decipher what hardware is failing by looking at the device path. WARNING: ID[SUNWpd.glm.parity_check.6010] WARNING: /pci@1f,4000/scsi@3/sd@8,0 (sd7) The pci indicates...

Sun Operating System: HELP, client server architecture, sun operating systems
client server architecture, sun operating systems, novell networks: Dear Sir! Thats a cool opening line ;) Seriously though.. Mandrake will help you into a Sun career, no matter what people say ls on mandrake = ls on solaris. Alot of the commands and daemons in Linux works the same way in solaris, there might be some...

Sun Operating System: Help with windows me, install windows 98, windows 98 second edition
install windows 98, windows 98 second edition, knoweledge: I think you have three basic questions. 1) Where do I get Windows 98 SE? 2) How do I save everything I ve done since I got my PC? 3) How do I install Windows 98 SE? Lets take these in order. 1) I do not know if Windows 98 SE is available as...

Sun Operating System: About the Installation Of Solaris 8, bootable cd rom, active partition
bootable cd rom, active partition, x86 system: Hello Abdul ! Sorry for the delay ... I would recommend you to install the Solaris 10 OS on your x86 System. Since they have improved install procedures and OS performance I would definitly go for version 10. I haven t install solaris 8 on an x86 box so...

Sun Operating System: Internet Connection Sharing - Windows 2000 to Solaris, internet connection sharing windows 2000, unix system administrator
internet connection sharing windows 2000, unix system administrator, sparcstation 20: I think this question is outside my area of expertise. I have not done a lot of work integrating Windows and UNIX. Unfortunately I do not have a whole lot of resources that I can think of directing you to that might be able to help. Just for starters,...

Sun Operating System: Ip addresses, defaultrouter, dns addresses
defaultrouter, dns addresses, router address: Hi! If you are only going to change the ip and not the name its really easy, just edit /etc/hosts and change the ip address in there, also make sure that you edit /etc/defaultrouter to the new router address. If dns addresses have changed aswell you might...

Sun Operating System: java certification course, mumbai university, oracle certification
mumbai university, oracle certification, java programmer: Hi omkar ! I´m not a Java programmer but i reckon it would be best to buy some books, program alot and take the certification afterwards. Í dont know how it is with java but you need at least a few month/years to take an Oracle certification. Advantages:...

Sun Operating System: Memory util. over a longer period, proctool, memory utilization
proctool, memory utilization, west sun: Hi! I dont know of such a tool except for in commercial packages like Patrol + Best/1. Something that I dont think would be that hard is to write some sort of script that launches memtool periodically and writing the output to a file, the file can...

Sun Operating System: netsend in other os, rsh client, netsend
rsh client, netsend, party tool: Hi ! One way is to do it the following way: printf eval echo yourmessage | wall | rsh unixsys this sends a message to all users currently logged in on unixsys. to send a message from a windows machine to unix systems you have to have either...

Sun Operating System: o/s, graphical interface, diffs
graphical interface, diffs, docu: Hi John ! Sorry, but i m not so familiar with MSDOS and NT but one big difference is that msdos is single threaded and nt multi-threaded. also msdos is only a basic operating system and nt contains a graphical interface. of course, there are heaps of diffs...

Sun Operating System: PATH Command, unix books, path command
unix books, path command, environment variables: Hello Sarosh! You have to add you path like this PATH=mypath:$PATH then your path will be checked first depends on what you want to archive ... you can set aliases, environment variables, your path for instance and other things like command...

Sun Operating System: PATH environment variable, virtual server account, unix docs
virtual server account, unix docs, apache config: Hello ! If you would like to add the path to all users on the system edit the /etc/profile and add the following entry: PATH=$PATH:MYSQLPATH if you decide to add the path only to a specifiy user, you can to this by editing the users profile as shown...

Sun Operating System: Paging in Unix, virtual address space, physical address space
virtual address space, physical address space, program accesses: Hi! Some background about how memory is handled is needed to understand why it is interesting to measure it. Snipped from Sun Performance and Tuning book by Adrian Cockroft & Richard Pettitt All the ram in a system is managed in the term of pages;...

Sun Operating System: quotas, quota commands, quota status
quota commands, quota status, os solaris: From Solaris 7 Systems Administration Guide,Volume II, Managing Quotas (Tasks): Using quotas enable system administrators to control the size of UFS file systems by limiting the amount of disk space and the number of inodes (which roughly corresponds to...

Sun Operating System: RAID, solstice disksuite, member icca
solstice disksuite, member icca, oracle dba: If your disks are mirrored, there is nothing you need to do. Mirroring basically writes the data to two disks simultaneously. The pair of disks are referred to as one name to the applications. For example, if disk A and disk B are mirrors of each other,...

Sun Operating System: Remote shares, mount nfs, help files
mount nfs, help files, hosts: 1. I dont remember if the command is available on 2.3 or not but it is called dfshares on 2.5/2.6, this command shows available shares on remote hosts. 2. mount -F nfs server:/filesystem /localpath for more information about mount options, etc try man...

Sun Operating System: Restricting CDROM access, sun sparc, group permission
sun sparc, group permission, cdrom drive: Hello Mohan ! One way to do so is to give the users only the restricted shell. This is probably the best way. Otherwise you could change the group permission on the /cdrom dir, but this is for sure not recommended i think. Regards Mario Bucsic...

Sun Operating System: SendMail, sendmail cf, mail server
sendmail cf, mail server, shareware tool: Hello, 1. if you are using a mail server that does not allow forwarding you would also get this message. Check out if you server allows forwarding. 2. if your domainname is not registered on the internet you are not able to send mails from this...

Sun Operating System: Setuid, passwd command, command chmod
passwd command, command chmod, project login: Hi Victor ! Sorry, but i´m not familiar with sccs. setuid is usefull for programs that should run under anothers uid ( i.e. passwd ). If you are user x and want to change your password you use the passwd command. Since the owner of the passwd command...

Sun Operating System: Solaris error message, single user mode, sun workstations
single user mode, sun workstations, type boot: There appears to be some sort of NFS (Network File System) problem here. lockd is a process used when you have nfs mounted file systems. It sounds to me like your system is trying to mount some file systems remotely, but it cannot find the server that...

Sun Operating System: Solaris error message, single user mode, machine boots
single user mode, machine boots, type ps: Hi Shawn, well you ll have to try a few different things here to get to the bottom of this one ! Firstly, I ll need to know exactly what version of Solaris you are running. To check this you should type uname -r at the command prompt. Now, I ll...

Sun Operating System: Solaris error message, single user mode, type boot
single user mode, type boot, computer field: Hi ! Start the workstation in singe user mode: at boot up press the stop and a key now your in the boot promt, type: boot -s the system will boot up in single user mode. now deinstall the nfs package with the pkgrm command, if you don´t want...

Sun Operating System: Solaris error message, statd daemon, command ps
statd daemon, command ps, lo0: Hi! On bootup, a machine might display the following error message: rpc.lockd: cannot contact status monitor! The machine will complete the boot process, and a login prompt will appear. It is possible to login and to work, but the message...

Sun Operating System: Solaris, network configuration files, static route
network configuration files, static route, system startup: Hello Selvan ! The Basic commands are: ifconfig InterfaceName plumb -- to configure the interface ifconfig InterfaceName IpAddress Netmask UP -- configure the interface with an IP Address and sets the status to up. route add Gateway -- to...

Sun Operating System: StarOffice 5.0, sun solaris operating system, sun web
sun solaris operating system, sun web, nice night: This is outside my area of expertise. My area is the support of the Sun Solaris Operating system. I would check out the Sun web-site. www.sun.com They have links to their StarOffice area that may be able to help. You could also check out docs.sun.com....

Sun Operating System: SUN file format to WINDOWS conversion., formatted diskette, sun station
formatted diskette, sun station, ufs: Hi, Basically you cant, the diskette has probably been formatted with UFS which windows cant read. You need to take a PC-formatted diskette (which sun can read) and save them to that diskette instead. It might work with a linux station but im not 100% sure....

Sun Operating System: Sun Certified Solaris Administrator, solaris administrator, luck john
solaris administrator, luck john, sun certified: I used the Exam Cram book for Solaris and I reviewed the documentation available at docs.sun.com. Since the tests are designed by Sun, the documentation is a good place to get the information. I did not use any sample tests except the ones that came...

Sun Operating System: Sun operating system, bill calkins, solaris admin
bill calkins, solaris admin, sun boxes: Hi ! The best method for learning solaris is to study the course material. Maybe a friend of yours has taken the solaris admin course and you could copy the materials from him. Otherwise you could buy yourself the Solaris 7 Certification Guide from...

Sun Operating System: Sun Solaris OS 5.6, sun solaris os, sparc station
sun solaris os, sparc station, sun microsystems: hi ! I recken you should contact Sun Microsystems directly and ask for OS 5.6. But this release is out of support as far as i know ... not sure if they still sell it to customers. Anyway, if they cannot help you I could send you a CD or place it somewere...

Sun Operating System: Sun Solaris, solaris 2, sun solaris
solaris 2, sun solaris, sunos: Hi! There is no difference, Solaris 2.6 is the product name. SunOS is for historical reasons, before solaris was a product name everything was called SunOS, when someone say SunOS they usually mean solaris 1.x, which in fact was SunOS 4.x. So basically...

Sun Operating System: sendmail with attached files, mailx, attache
mailx, attache, attachments: Hi! What you can do is to use the uuencode utility to create a attachable file, then in the start of that file you just enter your message, then you can use sendmail or mailx to send the whole message like the following example: uuencode file.zip file.zip...

Sun Operating System: set up to print, check queue, el mariachi
check queue, el mariachi, os solaris: The way you have your configuration it will never work. Solaris files needing to be moved to an NT platform have to have PCNFS to do that with. You ll need to install PCNFS server on your test server and PCNFS client on your print server. If you...

Sun Operating System: solaris, sorry for the delay, mario
sorry for the delay, mario: hello ! sorry for the delay... it does not matter if you use a hard or soft link, but keep in mind to remove the hard linked file from /etc/init.d also if you remove it from /etc/rc.? directory. if you use a soft link instead you do not need to delete...

Sun Operating System: system defaults, default paths, backspace key
default paths, backspace key, cshrc: Hello ! 1. you can add a path to all users if you modify the /etc/csh.login file and update it with your requirements 2. to change to backspace key to the delete key use: stty erase and press the backspace key i.e: stty erase ^? 3....

Sun Operating System: telnet connection problems, sun sparc, deamon
sun sparc, deamon, e250: Hi! Did you check /etc/inetd.conf? thats where the daemons are commented out if you want to disable them. Also something that is needed to work is dns, check /etc/resolv.conf and /etc/nsswitch.conf to see that they are setup properly (man resolv.conf...

Sun Operating System: How to use swap?, kernel parameters, memory segment
kernel parameters, memory segment, physical memory: Hello Mikael ! If there is no enough physical memory available Solaris automaticly starts swaping without any intervention of the user. Your Problem is maybe that there are not enough system resources available to spawn another process or to attatch a shared...

Sun Operating System: users, sparcstation 10, sun sparcstation
sparcstation 10, sun sparcstation, solstice adminsuite: Sun has 2 tools for administering the machines. The one included on the ordinary cd is admintool. You can use it to create users/groups if you are just using files. admintool is included in the SUNWadmap package on the solaris cd. The other tool is...

Sun Operating System: want to learn unix, unix in a nutshell, documentation unix
unix in a nutshell, documentation unix, sun stations: Hi! I d get some books first, look at www.ora.com, they have really good books if you are used to reading technical documentation. Unix in a Nutshell and Essential System Administration are 2 good books to start with I think. I think they sell used sun...

Sunset Beach: Amy, Sean and Emily, whoopi goldberg, caitlin
whoopi goldberg, caitlin, convent: Part 3 When Sean and Amy walked downstairs, Olivia was sprawled on the sofa. Olivia s response to Amy being dressed as a nun was priceless. She said, I must ve had more than I thought. What is she doing dressed as Whoopi Goldberg? Amy thanked Olivia for...

Sunset Beach: annie in the coffen, coffen, annie
coffen, annie: Chris, I think Ben found her and let her out, I don t know what s wrong with me not many people ask me questions about the show anymore so i m not as active with it anymore and i honstly can t remember, i don t know why, If it comes back to me i ll let...

Sunset Beach: BEN EVANS, e mail address, clive robertson
e mail address, clive robertson, sunset beach: Hello, If you are still watching Sunset Beach I do not want to ruin it for you, but if you continue to watch, Ben may still be your favourite when you fins out what happens. I ve heard that Clive Robertson (Ben) is very nice in real life. I do not know his...

Sunset Beach: Ben and Meg Video Clips, expecially, video clips
expecially, video clips, meg: Hello, I m sorry to say that I ve spent quite some time trying to find video clips, and I ve had the same problem all of the links are broken, but I ll keep searching, and if i find any I will let you know. If you have any further questions please feel free...

Sunset Beach: Ben and Meg, sad person, reruns
sad person, reruns, meg: Jeanne, Things will pick up soon, you wont have to wait too much longer, Annie starts to realize that ben and meg are starting to fall in love with each other and she tried to ruin it, but it wont be long before u see their love for one another. Thanx,...

Sunset Beach: Why did Ben surprised?, terror island, sunset beach
terror island, sunset beach, saga: Toni, Derek first appeared on Sunset Beach during the Terror Island saga. They never explained how he died before he came to terror island, just that he was supposedly dead. If you have any further questions please feel free to ask Thanks, Jacki...

Sunset Beach: can you buy a disc of sunset beach, daytime soap, sunset beach
daytime soap, sunset beach, thanx: Unfortunatly there is no way to still watch the show unless u go to a country where it is still being aired. They wont make DVD s of it because it was a daytime soap and there were too many episodes to make it into a DVD. If you have any further questions...

Sunset Beach: Casey and Sara, sara sara, pep talk
sara sara, pep talk, crying in the rain: Hello Heidi, How are you today? I am pretty good. Okay let me tell you everthing that happened when Casey and Sara broke up. Casey overhears Tim telling Sara that he is going to tell Casey that she kept him from going to Meg because she was afraid...

Sunset Beach: Character Question!!, michael strickland, krissy carlson
michael strickland, krissy carlson, character question: Hey Tracy, The girls name is Amy Neilson (who was played by Krissy Carlson) and the guys name is Brad Nicklaus (Michael Strickland). They went to see Mrs. Moreau. I hope this helps! If you have anymore questions please feel free to ask! Thanx- Jacki...

Sunset Beach: cast changes, cole deschanel, vanessa dorman
cole deschanel, vanessa dorman, ashley hamilton: Hi Roz, Caitlin was replaced because Vanessa Dorman (the actress that originally played her) was supposedly rude to the cast and didn t get along well with other cast and crew members. Ashley Hamilton (the actor who originally played cole) was re cast...

Sunset Beach: Dana/Maria, sunset beach, bay general hospital
sunset beach, bay general hospital, nice day: Hello Tommy, How are you today? I am pretty good. I am so sorry that this took so long to respond back. I have been down in North Carolina for a week. I hope you will forgive me. Usually it doesn t take me this long to respond back. Maria got into...

Sunset Beach: dvd's or videos, katlin, sunset beach
katlin, sunset beach, tape trading: Su, I m sorry, but I do not have the episodes on tape. You can try searching on a search engine for Sunset Beach tape trading boards or something, and maybe find someone you can buy them from. Sorry I couldn t help. If you have any further questions please...

Sunset Beach: Eddie Cibrian/Cole, eddie cibrian, exact number
eddie cibrian, exact number, stripper: Hi Julie, I don t know the exact number episode, but it was pretty early on. I believe it was one of Annie s Fantasy s, so he didn t really find himself in the situation, but hey it was great for the viewers now wasn t it :-) Hope I could help a little....

Sunset Beach: Eddie Cibrian jokes, sarah buxton, rubber snake
sarah buxton, rubber snake, surf central: Hi Katie, Eddie Cibrian played a lot of jokes, he once put a rubber snake in Kam Heskin and Sarah Buxton s dressing room toilet and he told them that they had to check something out and then they went in and saw it and screamed, they got him back by...

Sunset Beach: about the ending, ross english, double wedding
ross english, double wedding, tess: dear monique, this is what happened. it was really derek masquerading as ben,and was holding him captive. ben finally got loose and killed derek with meg s help. tess went to prison for attempted murder, and kidnapping. maria met someone named ross english...

Sunset Beach: FINALESUNSETBEACH, soap opera, love triangle
soap opera, love triangle, sunset beach: Hi, Gabi (the wife) realized that she could not be with Antonio (the priest) or Ricardo (the brother) so she left Sunset Beach, because she didn t want to ruin their relationship as brothers. Ben and Meg got married along with Vanessa and Michael. Annie...

Sunset Beach: Final Episodes, russ, meg
russ, meg, thanx: HI, Ben and Meg get married in the last episode at the same wedding as Vanessa and Michael s, and Maria meets a man named Russ English, I think it was supposed to be inturperted that they would be together. If you have any further questions please feel...

Sunset Beach: Final episode, tim truman, sunset beach
tim truman, sunset beach, wedding night: Hi Nikki, In the final episode Meg and Ben get married along with Vanessa and Michael. At the end of the wedding Meg s mother is calling to her, and she wakes up in Kansas, on the day of her wedding to Tim Truman. She goes downstairs and sees all the...

Sunset Beach: Final episode, sunset beach, air 3
sunset beach, air 3, benjy: Hello Lois, How are you? I am pretty good. Sunset beach ended: Carmen tells a flustered Maria that the man with whom she s destined to find love is none other than Ben. Annie and Jude spend a blissful day in bed together. Gabi helps a beaming Vanessa...

Sunset Beach: Finale, olivia, finale
olivia, finale, dialogue: I do have the final episode on tape somewhere at home, but i m away at school, so I really have no way of getting it to watch it. You can try looking online through a search engine or something to see if they have clips from the final episode. Sorry, Jacki...

Sunset Beach: Francesca murder, catlin, francesca
catlin, francesca, carly: Hi Carly, How are you today? I am pretty good. Greogory killed Francesca because Catlin wanted her dead. It was kind of a misunderstanding. Cole was spending a lot of time with Francesca (they use to date each other) and Catlin was getting worried that...

Sunset Beach: How did Francesca get the tape of Antonio and Gabi ?, security cameras, excellant
security cameras, excellant, francesca: hi Nicolas, First I want to say that your English is excellant! Francesca got the tape because she had put security cameras in the office to catch her seducing AJ so she could split up Olivia and AJ for Gregory. And when she watched the tape Antonio and Gabi...

Sunset Beach: annie in the coffen, screams, annie
Sunset Beach: annie in the coffen, screams, annie

Sunset Beach: can you buy a disc of sunset beach, sunset beach, dark shadows
Sunset Beach: can you buy a disc of sunset beach, sunset beach, dark shadows

Sunset Beach: dvd's or videos, child birth, olivia
Sunset Beach: dvd's or videos, child birth, olivia, reverend

Sunset Beach: Sunset Beach music, sunset beach
Sunset Beach: Sunset Beach music, sunset beach

Sunset Beach: Theme song!
Sunset Beach: Theme song!

Sunset Beach: vanessa dorman, vanessa dorman, laura haring
Sunset Beach: vanessa dorman, vanessa dorman, laura haring, nbc daytime

Sunset Beach: Where it's filmed, pacific coast highway, answer asap
pacific coast highway, answer asap, sunset beach: Hello Dario, I was in California last year and visited Seal Beach, yes Seal Beach is where the outdoor scenes of Sunset Beach were filmed. It is about 20-30 miles from LA (depending on where you are) To get there take the Pacific Coast Highway south...

Sunset Beach: final episode, double wedding, realtionship
double wedding, realtionship, whole truth: Hi AJ, How are you today? I am pretty good. Sorry it took me a long time to get back with you but I was on vacation for a couple of weeks with my family. Ben and Meg finally was able to get married and Michale and Vanassa also got married. They had...

Sunset Beach: future happenings in sunset beach, annie douglas, sunset beach
annie douglas, sunset beach, halloween party: Sean, Vanessa is pregant with Tyus baby because of Virginia. Melinda returns in a couple of fantasies that Sara has but that s pretty much it. Annie and Gregory never get an actual divorce they just hate each other. I m sorry I don t understand what...

Sunset Beach: Hi jackie,Sunset Beach..., tom cats, planet of the apes
tom cats, planet of the apes, kam heskin: Mary, In the end of Sunset Beach Ben and Meg got married. Casey and Sara got engaged, and Michael and Vanessa got married. Meg woke up and had a dream that all of sunset beach was an entire dream, then she woke up again to realize that it wasn t. Kam Heskin...

Sunset Beach: What happened?, soapnet, sunset beach
soapnet, sunset beach, thanx: Jill, Sunset Beach went off the air because of low ratings or so they say. I don t think there s a chance it will come back we (the fans) tried to get other networks to pick it up but they wouldn t. The only chance you might see re-runs of it is if...

Sunset Beach: Do you know how many episodes..., e mail, first episode
e mail, first episode: Helen, Well the first episode aired on Jan. 6, 1997 and the last epsode was Dec. 31, 1999...So that would be 774 episodes, but sometimes they skipped a day or other things happened so probably somewhere around 765-774. Hope I helped if you have anymore questions...

Sunset Beach: Multimedia, sunset beach multimedia, sunset central
sunset beach multimedia, sunset central, multimedia clips: Toni, Here are some sites with media clips: http://www.geocities.com/TelevisionCity/Stage/1217/MainPage.html http://www.geocities.com/TelevisionCity/Studio/4514/multimed.html http://www.haywired.com/loveclive/videos.html if you want to order video...

Sunset Beach: last months of sb, maria tess, benjy
maria tess, benjy, sunset beach: hi, trey s father turned out ot be cole,and ricardo found out about gabi and ricardo and tried to frame them for his murder, but he couldn t and revealed that he was alive. annie pretended to be francesca and got gregory to confess to francesca s murder....

Sunset Beach: Number Of Episdoes, thanx, first episode
thanx, first episode: Hi Alon, Well the first episode aired on Jan. 6, 1997 and the last epsode was Dec. 31, 1999...So that would be 774 episodes, but sometimes they skipped a day or other things happened so probably somewhere around 760-770. Hope I helped! If you have any...

Sunset Beach: new Caractor, sunset beach, susan ward
sunset beach, susan ward, meg: Martine, Yes Susan Ward the original Meg does come back! She left to film a movie called The IN Crowd it was a 3 month leave but she had to come back to Sunset Beach because it was in her contract. Sean and Amy kind of hook up because of something Amy...

Sunset Beach: plot?, tess, 1m
tess, 1m, meg: Your getting close to the end, but still have quite a few episodes to go. No I will tell you Meg and Casey do not get together. I could tell you more about Tess, but don t want to ruin it all for you. If you want me to spill some beans let me know. If...

Sunset Beach: Sam Behrens & Lesley-Anne Down info, lesley anne down, sam behrens
lesley anne down, sam behrens, sarah buxton: Ashley, What kinds of things would you like to know about Sam Behrens and Lesley-Anne Down? Since Sunset Beach Lesley-Anne Down has been in Bold and the Beautiful, The Meeksville Ghost, 13th Child, and is currently filming Today You Die. Sam Behrens since...

Sunset Beach: Scripts, e bay, e mail
e bay, e mail, scripts: Hi César, You can find scripts of the show on E-bay. I also have 3 scripts, I have the first episode, Gabi s shower episode, and one from august, when gregory was in hiding. I am willing to sell them to you (they are copies, i got them as copies), for $20.00...

Sunset Beach: SUNSET BEACH, lesley anne down, sarah buxton
lesley anne down, sarah buxton, rubber snake: Hi Jen, You sound like me, I watched it relogiously too! hehe Eddie Cibrian (Cole) played a lot of jokes, he once put a rubber snake in Kam Heskin and Sarah Buxton s (Caitlin, and Annie)dressing room toilet and he told them that they had to check something...

Sunset Beach: Sunset Beach, laura garcia, sunset beach
laura garcia, sunset beach, e mail: Hello Laura Garcia, How are you today? I am pretty good. Sunset Beach went off the air. It last aired December 31, 1999. Sunset Beach went off the air because there ratings were low plus all the other soaps were getting more ratings. Sorry but I don...

Sunset Beach: Sunset Beach, sunset beach, meg
sunset beach, meg, passions: Simone, Sunset Beach s last episode was a dream that Meg had until the very end. and Meg and Ben get married at the same wedding as Vanessa and Michael s everyone pretty much made up and it was all good. They took it off the air because they said that...

Sunset Beach: Sunset Beach, sunset beach, trey
sunset beach, trey, olivia: I know, I was very disapointed myself it was cancelled. Gabby and Antonio are done with. Ricardo and Gabby don t exactly get together, but they resolve some issues, and the way they left it, it s safeto assume the reuintd. Yes Shawn did learn of all Amy...

Sunset Beach: Will Sunset Beach ever be..., soapnet, sunset beach
soapnet, sunset beach, thanx: Kimberly, They ve tried to get Sunset Beach on Soapnet, but as of now, I don t think it s going to be on there, you can try e-mailing or writing or calling them, to maybe bug them and make them realize that people would watch it if it was on there. ...

Sunset Beach: Sunset Beach memorabillia, sunset beach, e bay
sunset beach, e bay, props: Hi Kelly! Actually e-bay still has things from Sunset Beach, just type in Sunset Beach under what are you looking for? and it ll take you right there. I think that s all that there is right now. But If i find anyhting else i ll let you know. Thanx,...

Sunset Beach: Sunset Beach music, sunset beach music, regina belle
sunset beach music, regina belle, lazy afternoon: Hi, I am not sure of who the singers are that sang songs from Sunset Beach, I could maybe find them if I had the titles of the song. I think the Lazy Afternoon lyric might be by Regina Belle. If you have any further questions please feel free to ask. Thanks,...

Sunset Beach: Sunset Beach music, sunset beach music, sunset paradise
sunset beach music, sunset paradise, google: Andrew, Every once and a while I ll find a sunset beach song by typing it into Kazaa or one of those music downloaders. But most of the websites that had music clips are either no longer there, or the links are broken. You can browse around the web and google...

Sunset Beach: Sunset Beach Storyline and Videos, sunset beach websites, nigeria west africa
sunset beach websites, nigeria west africa, word by word: Hi, I m sad to say that most of the Sunset Beach websites have been terminated, I haven t been able to find a website that has the full storyline. And You would have to find a still working tape trading board and trade tapes with other people. You can continue...

Sunset Beach: Sunset Beach, sunset beach, nice day
sunset beach, nice day, december 31: Hi Suzanne, How are you toda? I am pretty good. They took Sunset Beach off the air December 31, 1999 because it was got getting any ratings and the Network did not want to sign them again. I hope this information has helped you if not please e-mail me...

Sunset Beach: summary, gregory richards, caitlin
gregory richards, caitlin, olivia: Hello, In the final episode Ben and Meg got married. Maria did regain her memory. Gregory did reconcile with Olivia, and Cole did find out that Caitlin was not Trey s biologial mother. Yes Caitlin and Gregory did find out about Coles affair with Olivia. ...

Sunset Beach: sunset beach finale, sunset beach, weding
sunset beach, weding, reruns: a lot happened on the sunset beach finale so dit back and relax. meg and ben had a double weding with michael and vanessa. annie and olivia made up as did amy and emily. sara and casey were engaged and bette and a.j. finally got together. ben killed derek...

Sunset Beach: sunset beach, olivia cole, walking down the aisle
olivia cole, walking down the aisle, sunset beach: Hello Dorothy How are you today? I am pretty good. Well Ben Evans has finally picked which girl to marry...Maria or Meg...Well Ben and Meg will be walking down the aisle together at the end of Sunset Beach. Ben finally picked Meg after her and Benjy...

Sunset Beach: sunset people, ghana west africa, sam behrens
ghana west africa, sam behrens, national lampoon presents dorm daze: Vincent, Sorry it s taken me so long to get back to you. I m not sure of which cast members are christians. All the cast members got along with each other very well, some were better friends with one another than others, but they all got along very...

Sunset Beach: Theme song!, tim truman, exact titles
tim truman, exact titles, sunset beach: The original theme song to sunset beach was a saxaphone piece by Tim Truman (yes the character was named after him)And the revamped opening was composed by Dominic Messenger. I do not know the exact titles of the songs. Sorry. If you have any further questions...

Sunset Beach: Timothy Adams, bad boys ii, virgin suicides
bad boys ii, virgin suicides, sudden fear: Sandi, Tim Adams is extremely nice in real life, and just as attractive :-)He treats all his fans very well, and is very appriciative of them. I believe Tim is currently in One Life to Live. Since Sunset Beach he has been in: The Virgin Suicides, The...

Sunset Beach: I can`t remember their names., ansewer, light eyes
ansewer, light eyes, sunset beach: Hello Tracy, How are you today? I am pretty good. Well, first I have to say sorry for the wait. I went on vacation for 10 days and didn t have time to change my status on here to vacation. So I hope you understand why this is coming so late. The...