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Teenage Problems: im realy unhappy with my life...., wrong direction, fresh start
wrong direction, fresh start, friendships: So many times we may feel so down that we d feel as if our life is taking the wrong direction as we come to feel so sad, so stressed & disappointed & so annoyed from every simple thing that might occur & take place in our lives... Dear, we all face so many...

Teenage Problems: im realy unhappy with my life...., highs and lows, twentys
highs and lows, twentys, fresh start: I really can t answer this . I mean Your 16 your going to have highs and lows in your life. Your still a teenager. I am in my late twentys and I have them to. Yeah you will miss your friends and all but look on the bright side you ll meet more. Its not like...

Teenage Problems: im realy unhappy with my life...., feelings of depression, ups and downs
feelings of depression, ups and downs, fresh start: Dear Miss, I know what I am about to say may sound incredibly patronising but it is not meant to, it s just what I did when I was a few years younger and going through a similar stage in my life as you. I used to purposefully isolate myself from people...

Teenage Problems: im realy unhappy with my life...., first impressions, dead time
first impressions, dead time, positive outlook: These are perfectly normal feelings that every teen goes through. I went through all of that as well (except my parents are both divorced and remarried, which makes for bigger problems), but i ve gotten through it fine, and i have great friends and a great...

Teenage Problems: im realy unhappy with my life...., deprission, cry alot
deprission, cry alot, counsler: Hey: This happens to alot of people the problem that you are facing is a form of deprission and anxity. Sometimes people with deppresion cry alot but they think they have all these friends or they have a boyfriend but they still feel depressed .... and sometimes...

Teenage Problems: im just soooo depressed!!!, other crap, 4 friends
other crap, 4 friends, little at a time: I ve been where you are, and having friends that just bring you down, that SUCKS. You don t need that. I mean really. I had a bunch of friends that brought be down, and I just went deeper and deeper into depression. I m still trying to shed those friends,...

Teenage Problems: how do i improve my confidence, fatest person in the world, virtual hug
fatest person in the world, virtual hug, painful memory: Dear Amber, Would it be weird if I offered you a virtual hug?! Let me explain... This is kinda surreal for me. It s as if this paragraph you just wrote to me was torn out of my very own personal diary from about two years ago. The most painful memory...

Teenage Problems: incest, psychology area, great butt
psychology area, great butt, uncommon problem: Hello, Think of your sister as fat(or ugly to your standards I mean). Take a picture of her and put it on your computer if possible and make it wide. Hold it in your wallet and whenever you feel an erection coming on near her, go into another room(make sure...

Teenage Problems: is he interested, cindy, type of guy
cindy, type of guy: Cindy, in my oppinon i think he is not into you, because i have had this happen to me many times. It actually just happened like a month ago. Well i know you may like him and he may like u too but he is probably the type of guy that other things come...

Teenage Problems: ive moved to a different town..., different town, couple of friends
different town, couple of friends, special person: Hey! Firstly, don t worry - moving is hard. Almost anyone who moves towns will feel lonely and scared, guaranteed. It s great that you ve got a couple of friends already! So don t worry about not having anyone special just yet. I promise it will come...

Teenage Problems: ive moved to a different town..., exchange numbers, different town
exchange numbers, different town, life thanks: hiya~ boy o boy can i relate to you. growing up i was one of those people that was not outgoing and doesn t make close friends easily. oftentimes, when the one of the few friends i did have called to hang out, i would pass it up and just stay home....

Teenage Problems: ive moved to a different town..., different town, life thanks
different town, life thanks, couple of friends: Be very talkative and outgoing. Wave at someone you don t know and say hi. Ask someone how they re doing if they look like they re having a rough day. Smile at people. If you eat lunch on campus, then ask to sit with someone you don t know. To make life...

Teenage Problems: ive moved to a different town..., remarkable person, different town
remarkable person, different town, shy person: Hello there, Moving anywhere new is incredibly hard on anyone. You have to readjust and get used to a whole new setting, with new people, new problems and a whole new social scene. But the thing that you must accept, and it is one thing that has taken me...

Teenage Problems: ive moved to a different town..., different town, point hope
different town, point hope, couple of friends: hey i know its hard but you have to involve yourself as much as possible, if you hear someone talking about arrangements to hang out with friends, ask if you can come along or say, ooo i wudnt mind going there, dont mind if i come along do ya? the worst they...

Teenage Problems: Jealousy, self confidence, couple days
self confidence, couple days, aj: Mind if I ask what part of Indiana, I know the As. Principal to Caroll, and I also know some people at Logansport High School. I know a few others elsewhere, yet those are my main connections. I am not located in Indiana, I am just wondering around what part...

Teenage Problems: Jealousy, confusing situation, self confidence
confusing situation, self confidence, agian: Hey ... this is a very confusing situation. You can t blame AJ for not wanting you around a guy that has a crush on you, don t let it upset you that he wants someone to keep and eye on you. It just shows he cares about you, and I don t think it is so much...

Teenage Problems: Jesse, never been kissed, common interests
never been kissed, common interests, nice girl: Hey Alana, As crazy as all this seems and as much as you will probably disagree, Jesse is just another, normal teenage boy and there are millions of other guys out there, better than him and willing to have a relationship with you. There is no worse love...

Teenage Problems: Jesse, never been kissed, common interests
never been kissed, common interests, nice girl: There is such a thing as obsession and we ALL go through it at some point, and even more than once for some of us. Feelings can be controlled and changed, if you want them to change. That s why we ve been created with our own free will. If this guy liked...

Teenage Problems: Jesse, never been kissed, common interests
never been kissed, common interests, nice girl: Hi Alana: You need to understand a very important point about love. It is a mutual thing. Both people MUST freely enter into love together. You can NOT force another to love you. Jesse has made his choice. Forget him. Move on! Let it go! etc. Everytime...

Teenage Problems: Jesse, never been kissed, common interests
never been kissed, common interests, nice girl: Alana, Forget both Jesse and Korynn. Jesse loves Korynn now, and has no interest in dating you. Sorry to be so blunt, but Jesse is now un-touchable, he has a girlfriend. You need to get him out of your mind and dreams. Stop day-dreaming about him, there...

Teenage Problems: Jesse, never been kissed, common interests
never been kissed, common interests, nice girl: hey alana, lol wow ive like been there done that in your situation. sucks doesnt it? don t you wish there was a way you could a way he could magically dump his girlfriend and realizr just how great you are and you all live happily ever after? sad thing...

Teenage Problems: Junior High Dating, trun, first steps
trun, first steps, sporting events: Kinan, the best approach is the most direct one. But first you need to do your homework. By this i mean find out about all you can about what events are happening i your area. The movies, the plays, the concerts, the shows, events at the malls, sporting...

Teenage Problems: Sex, talking about sex, clothes
talking about sex, clothes, relationship: Hey Brooke, People are shy about talking about sex but not so shy about taking their clothes off. If you are ready and you think your boyfriend is ready, let him know. Just tell him that you think you are ready to move your relationship on and see what...

Teenage Problems: jealous boyfriend, jealous boyfriend, infidelity
jealous boyfriend, infidelity, grudge: Alexis, Tell your boyfriend that you are a very friendly person and you have many friends. He needs to know that you have friends that want to hang out with you, that you can t give him 100% of your attention all the time. The next time he gets angry because...

Teenage Problems: jealously issues, sensitive topic, going to college
sensitive topic, going to college, thanks john: John - I think you have a reason to be jealous and suspicious of this guy. I think you should address your concerns with her because you need to get this off your chest before it starts to ruin your relationship. You don t want to come off as jealous...

Teenage Problems: jealousy, conscious choice, pet names
conscious choice, pet names, affections: Hey Lucy, I know how annoying it is when someone you are seeing is so close to their parents, in this case his mother. The reason you find that you are getting jealous is because of the amount of time he spends with her and the fact that she has known him...

Teenage Problems: jealousy, alex nd, holiday spain
alex nd, holiday spain, wales uk: Alex, If your girlfriend has had other boyfriends and you knew this before you started dating her. Then you were well aware of the situation from the start. You can t just erase a persons past experiences but you can just forget about them and just focus...

Teenage Problems: jealousy, alex nd, wales uk
alex nd, wales uk, boyfriends: You just have to never ever ask her about any previous boyfriends. If you do and act jealous you are sure to lose her. A girl is not going to want to put up with a guy who is as jealous as you are sounding. What she did and what you did before you met has...

Teenage Problems: jealousy, jealousy problem, m8
jealousy problem, m8, good friends: Dear Nat, If you like you best friend s boyfriend then I think you could talk to either one about it. Tell your best friend your issues and tell her that you have feelings for him. You could also talk to him and tell him your feelings. If that s too hard...

Teenage Problems: jelousy, sixth sense, cheer
sixth sense, cheer, girlfriend: hey lizz, i think it s kind of weird that this girl is older than the guy and by two years. i couldn t date a guy that was that much younger than me. at the party he could have just noticed that you were upset. it annoys any guy when girls are mad and...

Teenage Problems: jitters, beating around the bush, jitters
beating around the bush, jitters, jai: Jai - You re not the only person with this problem. A lot of people come to me asking this same thing. I don t know if there s really a right answer for anyone. Obviously you need to learn to relax around girls and treat them like you do anyone else...

Teenage Problems: Being judged., psalm 37, trust in the lord with all thine heart
psalm 37, trust in the lord with all thine heart, spiritual friend: Hi Jordan, Thanks for this great question. I am very sorry that you are going through this hard time. Someone very wise once told me that any time that I use the words always or never or no one or everyone that I have probably lost perspective....

Teenage Problems: Kicked Out, cops, mom
cops, mom, weather: You can go home but the thing is Will she let you back in If she kicked you out then she doesn t want you in her house. Yes there is a difference if you run away you did that in your own free will but if she kicks you out that means she did it in her free...

Teenage Problems: Kicked out, anger problem, old augusta
anger problem, old augusta, foster mom: Augusta , Maine? If you make this post private I will post my private email address for you. Are you still seeing any psychologist? Cutting your self still? Talk to a doctor as I am required to say this. Can I ask for your future career goal? Where do...

Teenage Problems: Kids!?!?, realistic idea, smart girl
realistic idea, smart girl, goals in life: Well lets put it this way you are only a virgin once. The first time you have sex should be with the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. In order for other people to respect you, you have to respect yourself. This guy may be a nice guy...

Teenage Problems: Kiss, nice surprise, shy person
nice surprise, shy person, month and a half: Hey ... i think you should just go for it! Lean in and kiss him. Or you could do it the long way by talking him into it ... tell him that you don t care if he can kiss well or not, that you are both going to have to practice to get better. Just try and make...

Teenage Problems: How To Know When you found the one, perfect person, whatever your opinion
perfect person, whatever your opinion, personal opinion: Donna, I m not sure how to answer this for you, but I think when someone meets the criteria you set for the perfect person for you, then you have them. It s really all whatever your opinion is, I think you should be able to be happy with this person...

Teenage Problems: katlin, hold hands, 22 years
hold hands, 22 years, mean time: well I d tell her that if she s not ready to be open that (if you really love her) then you will wait for her BUT in the mean time you guys shouldn t hold hands, show affection and so on because that will give her the signal that hey she s serious I can t...

Teenage Problems: How to keep him happy?, boyfriend chris, t pay
boyfriend chris, t pay, ups: Hi, By the way you wrote the first few posts, I thought he was one of those controlling people. How come you are saying he is not now? What is love? Don t you feel you are rushing into this term? Does he give you the same respect that you give him? Isn...

Teenage Problems: kicked out!, school counselor, part time job
school counselor, part time job, single mom: Hi, I do feel you and I would do the same thing if it were in me. Smile. It was very nice of you allowing him to stay for a while however, not indefinitely. I see two options here, ask for high school school counselor or social worker for help and...

Teenage Problems: kicked Out, small computer, last monday
small computer, last monday, rme: Hey ... I don t know if it has been monday yet or not because I don t know when you sent me this e-mail. If it was last monday I am beyond sorry, I was on vacation and forgot to post that on the website. You should just ask one of your friends. If they are...

Teenage Problems: kicked out soon i think., playing computer games, teenage life
playing computer games, teenage life, water bill: Hey Michael, Try talk to them. I know you tried but I mean like deeply try more. Tell them all the things you are afraid of. Tell them how you don t want to be homeless, and how the wide world scares you. If that doesn t work, reply back with more details...

Teenage Problems: kicked out, darlene, attitude
darlene, attitude, best friend: hey kaji she needs to have a serious talk with her parents. how is her behavior with her parents? have u actually witnessed how she treats them? parents can only take so much. she needs to learn to be a lil or more than likely a lot better with her parents...

Teenage Problems: kilt for boys without underwear, legs and thighs, scottish kilts
legs and thighs, scottish kilts, upper thighs: Dear Wanda, Any oil can hold heat better than other liquids and for longer periods of time, so heated oil applied to the penis and scrotum could have some relief but you have to be careful because the skin is so sensative around that area. The only thing...

Teenage Problems: two kinds of pressure, phd in chemistry, parenting behavior
phd in chemistry, parenting behavior, info thanks: Ok I have four brothers. I am the youngest one in my family. Being the youngest my parents knew where my brothers failed and did put more pressure on me to succeed there. My second oldest brother had to always be the middle one between me and my other two...

Teenage Problems: kiss problems, girlfriend, little bit
girlfriend, little bit, kiss: well, you are only fifteen. maybe things just arent right between you two...or maybe you just took things too fast. if you are fifteen and are kissing and talking about love...maybe you just need to slow things down a little bit. i know how you prb feel...

Teenage Problems: kissing, awkward silence, thinkin bout
awkward silence, thinkin bout, kissin: Well I don t expect you to just blurt it out but if you want to somehow bring in the conversations about your past..You can start off by just asking him how many girls he s kissed before..this might seem as an odd way but really you do have the right to...

Teenage Problems: kissing, usally, tongue
usally, tongue, gap: kissing isnt always about too much tongue. dont fret about it.its usally normal for the guy to use more of his tongue then the girl. just when ur kissing just relax and let it come natrallly. everything will be fine. hope that helps. and remeber im always...

Teenage Problems: i know its wrong., thoughts and feelings, christians
thoughts and feelings, christians, crosswords: Hey Shannon. You re right about Christians not approving of it, but still a lot of people who think about suicide/cutting are Christians too. You can t help the way you feel, or what you re going through. And its not your fault you re feeling this way! I understand...

Teenage Problems: How do i know he really likes me, math and science, everywere
math and science, everywere, goup: Hey Amanda, It does sound like this guy has a crush on you, but that he s too shy to say anything. This is a common problem with young men, they like a girl but never know whether or not they should make the first move incase they get rejected. If you...

Teenage Problems: kyoko, prom pic, viriginity
prom pic, viriginity, virgins: Jimmy, You know I love you but that is the WORST IDEA I HAVE EVER HEARD! You know I m always straight up with you but that would be royally fucked up. If a guy did that to me I think I would pretend to go down on him only to bite his dick off. Loosing your...

Teenage Problems: Labelling Religion, crucification of christ, existance of god
crucification of christ, existance of god, moses in egypt: Hi Hannah, Thank you for this detailed and heart felt question. I am not sure where to start. Let me begin by answering your question about a lable. In our society, if you believe in God and Jesus, you are a Christian in the broad sense of the term....

Teenage Problems: Always Late (but worth the wait), dependence, volunteer
dependence, volunteer: Well it s really not your fault you have to explain that to her. Why didn t you arrive? Did you not have anyway of getting to her? Did you call her and tell her you couldn t make it? Just explain to her why you couldn t make it and apologize. But really you...

Teenage Problems: Legal age, age move, t rush
age move, t rush, family relationship: Hi, From someone who has went to college, I can tell you that you shouldn t rush into college. This was probably one of my biggest mistakes. However, is a year break needed for all? NO. Sometimes this is a bad idea a year break and this is why I worried about...

Teenage Problems: Legal Question, regaurding, legal question
regaurding, legal question, parental consent: Hey Ann, In most states of the US, you are classed as a minor until the age of either 18 or 21. Depending upon the state depends upon which age the laws refer to and thus what you can and cannot do. It is probably the case, that in your situation and as...

Teenage Problems: Legal Question, school counselor, regaurding
school counselor, regaurding, legal question: Ann, To be completely honest with you, I m not sure what the laws are in Penn. From what I do know, if you re still in school you ll probably have to go through the emmancipation process with your parents and the court system. Sorry I can t tell you everything...

Teenage Problems: Legal Relationships, legal relationships, statutory rape
legal relationships, statutory rape, legal ethics: Thanks for the feedback. You didn t need to. OK here is something I found online: Is Dating Legal If You re Different Ages? Also, before I was reading through some relationship things on another site and one of the questions from there was about if...

Teenage Problems: Legally Moving out, high school diploma, guidance counselor
high school diploma, guidance counselor, wise idea: Hi Sash, Guidance Counselor is correct because you are a senior student in school and live with your parents regardless if you are 18 or not. When you complete high school and obtain a high school diploma. You can move out after that. If you move out...

Teenage Problems: Letting someone go....Why can't I?, one of these days, time off
one of these days, time off, jerk: A women should not lie about having his child when they are not pregnant, so my question here is are you pregnant? My next question is what is your bond with his mother? My final question is does he do drugs, depression, or did he treat you bad because he...

Teenage Problems: Life Goals and Holding on, binge eater, foot waves
binge eater, foot waves, relationship problem: Okay, first thing I ll say is: you ve obviously changed heaps, and for the better, since you were 13/14. That s really good. Its great that you are doing volunteer work, that can be really rewarding and help you feel better about yourself too. Really impressive...

Teenage Problems: Liking someone, subtle hints, best of luck
subtle hints, best of luck, good friends: Alita, In this situation I see there is only one option. You just start talking to her, the worst that can happen is she might not be into you. And let s be honest, is one person in this world that says no to you really going to kill you? And besides,...

Teenage Problems: Liking someone, follow ups, liking someone
follow ups, liking someone, good luck: Is she this person s friend? Usually I recommend asking them out in person. And to become friends before dating. If this is not possible, on the phone is fine. Where did she meet him? How does she know him? Same age? Around the same age? I recommend her to...

Teenage Problems: Living with a stressful brother, bedroom apartment, rocky start
bedroom apartment, rocky start, teen mother: Hi Val, Thanks for this great question. I have had many questions very similar to yours in the past. I have found several truths that will help in this situation and I hope that they will help you. First of all, let us talk about how anyone becomes...

Teenage Problems: Living with a weak mother, good eating habits, rich woman
good eating habits, rich woman, esle: Hmmm Stacey, this is really hard. Ultimately its your choice whether you stay or not, but it takes a lot of thought. I think that your mother wants the best for you because she didn t have the best upbringing, and she wants to make things better for you. You...

Teenage Problems: LOVE, old girl, jealousy
old girl, jealousy, frustration: I can tell you wrote this through frustration and anger..It s best to jsut ignore him because actually studying him would only make him feel important and that you still have feeligns for him. I m guessing that he must still like you, and now that you ve moved...

Teenage Problems: Loneliness, visuality, attractive girl
visuality, attractive girl, temporary thing: Hello there Brian, Due not despair you are not on your own feeling like this and you are by no means the only young guy to write to me about this problem. The thing to remember is that you just need to look at the wider picture and realise that the guys...

Teenage Problems: Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, snail mail
long distance relationship, snail mail, communitcation: Thanks Sheri, for leaving me a rating! ~Dawn Hi Sheri! Thanks for the question. I am in a similar situation, and I know it can be tough. There are many ways to keep in touch: 1. Phone 2. Spending time together when you can (one 1 month, holidays,...)...

Teenage Problems: Lonliness, doctors office, bad boyfriend
doctors office, bad boyfriend, ugly girls: Tim, The only way you can meet new people is to go out an do it. You need to just get some confidence and talk to girls. As you know us females are around everywhere, grocery stores, your work, school, coffee shops, gyms, even the doctors office, and most...

Teenage Problems: Lonliness, lunch table, first move
lunch table, first move, brodie: Hey David! It seems to me like you re just bored with your current friends and want something new. That is totally understandable. Some teenagers change and mature more quickly than their friends and that might be a reason as to why you re so bored with...

Teenage Problems: Lost n love, jealous person, things take time
jealous person, things take time, guy friend: hi denisha~ this sounds like you had a very deep relationship that you are having trouble getting over. i don t know if he was your first serious bf or not, but these things take time. considering he moved away, i would say to you that it would probably...

Teenage Problems: Love, quiet girl, love
quiet girl, love: Hey Terry, If you can t stop thinking about this girl and think that she doesn t known you exisit, then why not go over and introduce yourself. You don t have to have a full blown conversation at first, but just begin to say Hi to her everytime you see...

Teenage Problems: Love, colton, loki
colton, loki, good friends: Loki, Are you good friends with Alison? It wasn t like you just loved her without talking to her, right? What I would do is just try to call her or find her somewhere, and ask if you can talk to her, and straighten things out. Ask her what shes feeling,...

Teenage Problems: Love :(, inparticular, couple days
inparticular, couple days, crap: yes and no actaully. You SHOULD dump him but you won t - I ve been with the same guy who flirts with other girls in front of me, drinks, smokes, been in jail - BUT what other girl/guys don t know is even though he does all this - we (meaning we are in the...

Teenage Problems: Love, infatuation, good luck
infatuation, good luck, girls: Hey Gemma. Chances are you re only infatuated with him. Infatuation feels sooo much like love and its almost impossible to tell the difference, except that with infatuation you ll move on soon enough, whereas love lasts forever. (So they say, at least!) Anyways,...

Teenage Problems: Love Life, 18th birthday party, bowling alley
18th birthday party, bowling alley, boyfriends: Jasmine, I know it may seem like ALL your friends have boyfriends or whatever, but not ALL of them do. And besides, you don t have to sit and dwell on the fact that they do have boyfriends and you don t, convince them to go out and do something in an extremely...

Teenage Problems: Love/Liking Someone, low self esteem, liking someone
low self esteem, liking someone, best friend: well,first you should start bein friends with him..but not friends like really close that it would be weird to date a close friend soo dont be like best friend.just friends and after awhile maybe you and him will get close enough to start dating. ok i hope...

Teenage Problems: Love problem...., benefit of the doubt, 17 years
benefit of the doubt, 17 years, girlfriend: Hey Jan, I think you answered your own question by saying in your question I believe she loves me . If this is true then this does not need to be an issue and you should give her the benefit of the doubt and call it a one-off. How are you supposed...

Teenage Problems: Love problems..., serious relationship, mather
serious relationship, mather, 18 years: Hey Jan, its really sweet that you guys love each other. I reckon you should talk about it with her, and decide: do you really want to wait? Or do you want to be together now? You can have a long term and serious relationship at your age, and it often works...

Teenage Problems: Love problems...., sexual harrassment, heaps
sexual harrassment, heaps, 17 years: Hey there. I don t believe you have anything to worry about. She obviously loves you heaps, and the thing is: if she told him not to kiss her but he did anyway, that is sexual harrassment. He shouldn t have done that. If he continues to call her then she should...

Teenage Problems: Love, medicince, own medicine
medicince, own medicine, friend tim: Katey, my opinon on this is that he may want to spend time with his sister but he is also using her as an excuse to hang out with other people. Maybe it s because he has been with you almost everyday and his friends are getting upset or it may be he feels...

Teenage Problems: LYK AHMiGAWSH!!!, tampons, vagina
tampons, vagina, 911: OMG!!!!! You re a girl!!! Whoa! Where d your penis go? Did you have one? Did it disappear? CALL 911!!!! OMG!!! Wow. That sucks for you. Sorry you have a vagina. Blood comes out of that thing. Be sure to buy some tampons to stop it up. Lol. (rate me...

Teenage Problems: Lying, dying of lung cancer, true feelings
dying of lung cancer, true feelings, true reality: My prayers are with you and I do know why your niece been lying just simplily to avoid facing true reality of what has been going on such as not facing family problems so instead she boast and show off by telling things to impress you or her aunt. I am not...

Teenage Problems: One of the lads, lad group, one of the boys
lad group, one of the boys, one of the lads: Wear more feminie (girl style) clothing, change your outward appearance not your inwards. Still act like you, but just change what you look like on the outside (eye shadow, makeup, etc) if that doesn t change his mind, then he really is JUST a frien...

Teenage Problems: Hopeless case :), one of my best friends, hopeless case
one of my best friends, hopeless case, sweet life: I have a few questions for you:)How come when you see her your dad is there? How come you only get to see her every once in a while? because you can t really come out and say i like u but you want her to know how special she is to you, you could maybe just...

Teenage Problems: leaving/cooperation/compromise help ASAP!, knife in my heart, kids in the city
knife in my heart, kids in the city, maniacle: Bianca, I noticed that you said ASAP, I hope this got to you soon enough because I can only check my e-mails while I m at work monday through friday 9 - 5. Now about your question. Your looking at this situation the wrong way. You know that there isn t anything...

Teenage Problems: leaving/cooperation/compromise help ASAP!, knife in my heart, kids in the city
knife in my heart, kids in the city, maniacle: Hi Bianca, I am sorry to hear about your troubles. Life is not always fair. The hard reality is that if you are not 18 and ready to move out on your own, there is nothing you can do about what your parents decide to do. The lesson that you need to learn...

Teenage Problems: leaving home, jounior, leaving home
jounior, leaving home, 17 years: If you already tried talking things over with your parents about what is happening at home, that might help get your parents to understand and to back off. Otherwise moving out would help lower the stress but question is do you have the money to support yourself...

Teenage Problems: what is the legal age that i can date a girl when im 18, troble, girls
troble, girls, united states: Steve, Right now, that you re not 18 you can date any age of girl(within reason) and after you turn 18(if you live in the United States) you can still date girls under 18, but to have sex and such you need to have consent by parental units. I hope this...

Teenage Problems: legal age limits, countries of the world, parental control
countries of the world, parental control, bf: Hey Tri, For most countries of the world, parents maintain parental control until the age of 18. This means that they have the right to keep you in the house and not allow you to move out. If there are problems of abuse though, this changes, but you would...

Teenage Problems: legal age to move out, correct manner, rude comments
correct manner, rude comments, financial burden: Hey there Jessica, Thank you for contacting me and I hope I can help. Your mom is probably being protective because she doesn t want you to get hurt and she may think that if you leave home, then she cannot keep an eye on you and therefore, you may get...

Teenage Problems: legal age to move out in IL, legal guardians, roomie
legal guardians, roomie, social services: Hey Mary, Under US law you are classified as a minor until you are over the age of 18; this means that your parents have the right to have you brought back to them if you move out. They are your legal guardians until you turn 18 and are responsible for...

Teenage Problems: legal age to move out, emotional stress, dr martin
emotional stress, dr martin, good luck: Hi KayCee, You can legally move out when you turn age of 18. Federal law permits anyone who are 18 or older can move out if you are normal and fit to make your own decisions. Teenagers with disabilities (mentally unfit make the decisions) can t move out...

Teenage Problems: is this legal?, internet magazines, close ups
internet magazines, close ups, serious things: I think its only illegal if he shows them to the public ie internet, magazines etc. This is a very serious matter I suggest you inform a parent or an elder friend so that they could warn the hotel of this man and maybe stop him taking more photo s of young...

Teenage Problems: liar, twister, imaptient, jumping to conclusions, step dad
jumping to conclusions, step dad, restraunt: Nasl, Well try finding other ways of explaining things to her from yur point of view so she can understand how you feel. If that does not work then work through your stepfather..talk to him and see if he understands and then you can have him explain to...

Teenage Problems: life, bowling league, precious life
bowling league, precious life, staying at home: Hi Mike, you are young and have a long precious life ahead of you. You need to get out and meet people by joining a club of some sort, bowling league,etc.. Alot of people talk to themselves, its normal. Instead of thinking to yourself, you express...

Teenage Problems: life, hey brother, ecclesiastes 12
hey brother, ecclesiastes 12, king solomon: Hi Luke, Here are the answers to your questions. Your first question can be summed up in the words of King Solomon: Ecclesiastes 12:13-14 13 Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole...

Teenage Problems: my life, home to mississippi, designing web sites
home to mississippi, designing web sites, profit program: Dear Kaia, I was very worried after reading your letter. There is no reason whatsoever that you should be hungry at any point of the day. However, I do believe you must start taking more interest in the value of money and ways you can budget yourself while...

Teenage Problems: my life, chronic sore throat, second hand smoke
chronic sore throat, second hand smoke, brain cells: Second hand smoke can cause a lot of health problems. Now, I am not a lawyer, yet some legal experts may recommend talking to your local police about this. Under certain laws some people may feel it can be looked at as child abuse. Each state is different,...

Teenage Problems: life, girl of my dreams, stares
girl of my dreams, stares, own business: I recommend our How to know if he or she likes you area . I also want to talk to you about the depressed feeling you have. Please ask follow ups if you want to talk about this. Thanks for using Allexperts. Include ages. I recommend talking to your parents...

Teenage Problems: my life., steff, facts of life
steff, facts of life, living at home: Steff - Unfortunately since you re under 18 and still living at home your parents CAN control what you do. Whether it s fair or not, that s just the facts of life. I doubt they re going to chance their minds about letting you stay with him and I can understand...

Teenage Problems: life, self esteem issues, worthless crap
self esteem issues, worthless crap, cute person: Hi, You need to talk to a trusted teacher about this. Those people who are bullying you probably have self esteem issues. Those people are hurting your self esteem and will cause you to get depression. Depression is very common and is not your fault. There...

Teenage Problems: life, bad kids, outsider
bad kids, outsider, 6 years: hi tompkins, i would try to do something that would kind of push you into a group. try out for a team or join a club. i m kind of like this too. i was perfectly happy but then i moved. 4 years later, i still felt like the outsider. a few months ago i joined...

Teenage Problems: my life has changed, croud, such good friends
croud, such good friends, edmonton: Well I am reall sorry for what you ve gone through....I have similar issues but I won t go into them right now...Anyways I think you need to get to know yourself before you can become such good friends with other people-do you see what I m saying? It is difficult...

Teenage Problems: life, christian professional, god so loved the world
christian professional, god so loved the world, hi mike: Hi Mike, First of all you must know that God loves you and wants to do great things through you. John 3:16 16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life....

Teenage Problems: liking people, posibility, somthing
posibility, somthing, liking: Dina, To be honest, I ve never had this problem, but then again I m a guy and I don t think ANY guy s had this problem. Well, all joking aside, I think it s quite normal...maybe at this point in life you re mind isn t looking for that sort of stuff right...

Teenage Problems: a litte off topic, exitment, college days
exitment, college days, dearie: Hello Jay(: Glad to know that you are seeking help in this aspect (: real sorry for the late reply too! (: Our vision of the future is going to affect us drastically, so i hope you can really spend time thinking about it. Well, I could help to provide you...

Teenage Problems: A little Advice, basketball baseball, play video games
basketball baseball, play video games, jumprope: Zach- Lots of ideas!! Go outside--play basketball, baseball, run, hockey, football, jumprope...lol. Its probably good you cant do any of that stuff. Im 13 too, and recently I was like addicted to my computer and now Im hardly ever on. (If you live in a...

Teenage Problems: little ball sac, butt cheeks, scrotum
butt cheeks, scrotum, ollie: Hey ollie, The testicles should sit nicely within your scrotum sac and should not feel painful or sore unless you are hit in that area. If your balls are getting sore and your skin is being stretched you may have to have surgery to stop this becoming a...

Teenage Problems: a little off topic...., melbourne cup, exitment
melbourne cup, exitment, john dear: Dear Jay, I think that Ranch Work would be ideal for you . Many ranches both in America and Ausralia (where I live)have expanded into the Tourist Industry so they are always looking for people who are willing to be guides on a horse. You could also consider...

Teenage Problems: a little off topic, math english, exitment
math english, exitment, comp2: Lots of people do not know what they want to do. I would DEF suggest that you start off at at a community college and just get basic classes done there (such as comp1/comp2, math, english, etc) then while your doing those classes it gives you that much time...

Teenage Problems: a little off topic..., biologist positions, forest rangers
biologist positions, forest rangers, police type: Jay, you did not give you age but I will try to give you some ideas. First of all I have interviewed about 5,000 people about their jobs which covered everything from scientists to engineers to technicians to medical people to machinists, to office types...

Teenage Problems: lol i'm crazy xD, violin classes, competition music
violin classes, competition music, teacher friends: Soely, Explain to your mother that seeing a therapist doesn t make you insane, it means that you are sad all the time. Tell her if she cares about you she will get you the help that you need. I m trying to understand this situation, did you tell on the girl...

Teenage Problems: long distance relationship but cant say goodbye, long distance relationship, camcorder tapes
long distance relationship, camcorder tapes, boyfriend lives: Hi Hannah, thanks for the question. Well I know what you mean. My boyfriend lives over 2,000 miles away--we live on different coasts! Is there any way the 2 of you could visit each other more? Have you tries creative communication~web cam, camcorder...

Teenage Problems: long distance relationship problems, long distance relationship, one of those guys
long distance relationship, one of those guys, relationship problems: that s really sad. i can see where she s coming from but i can see how that would be hard for you too. you can do something really sweet that only you thought of. don t have your friends tell you what to do. no offense but sometimes guys tell other guys really...

Teenage Problems: long distence relationship, family man, selfishness
family man, selfishness, eachother: Hi Shaina: When you love some one you are able to let them go so they can do the things that make them happy. If it makes you so sad that you cry for hours, there is someting wrong. True love means the other person s happiness comes before yours. In fact...

Teenage Problems: Just looking for a bit of friendly advice, few good friends, social norm
few good friends, social norm, bowling league: Andrew, The only way to meet girls is to have confidence, and to not be shy when you approach them. I know it s tough but your going to have to put your anxious feelings on the back burner, pretend to be confident. It s good you go out, because going to places...

Teenage Problems: loosing my daughter, going through puberty, uphill struggle
going through puberty, uphill struggle, experimental stage: Hey Debora, Thank you for taking the time to write to me; it is obvious that your daughters behavior is upsetting you and you are worried that she may not come back from seeing her dad. Any parent who has to face an uphill struggle with their teenagers...

Teenage Problems: how to lose weight?, chocolate sweets, eating chocolate
chocolate sweets, eating chocolate, portion size: Hey Dina, A lot of people fall down on dieting because they think it is about cutting out chocolate, sweets and crisps, but eating lots of salad and fruit: It is partly about that, but it s more about portion size and what you add to food. If you stop eating...

Teenage Problems: losing friends to alcohol, half of the time, introvert
half of the time, introvert, cookie cutter: Chris, I have been going through this problem as well. I think we have a lot in common, because what you say about yourself is pretty close to what I m experiencing as well. I had a bunch of friends that were really cool, and then once high school started,...

Teenage Problems: lost friends, benefit of the doubt, four girls
benefit of the doubt, four girls, nasty things: Hello there Carol, It is nice that your daughter has got such supportive and caring parents and from experience, it will only benefit her throughout the difficult times of growing up. The thing is with young girls is they can become incredibly clique...

Teenage Problems: lost soul, hollow space, problems at home
hollow space, problems at home, lost soul: Well i am glad that they r all a little dissapointed. I am glad that you took my advice and i hope the counsouler really helps u to understand people are out there for u even though it s kinda hard to go get help because u don t want anyone to know but once...

Teenage Problems: lost!, silly little girl, mum and dad
silly little girl, mum and dad, kieran: Helen, Well this seems to just be a phase you re going through..and eventhough you have thoughts about running away don t you mind end up regretting this..doing that you have to be able to have somewhere to stay, money sufficient enough to last you till...

Teenage Problems: love, boyfreind, sex help
boyfreind, sex help, crap: Well that sounds like a major problem. Simply break up with him, because if he s hit you and doesn t respect you, then he obviously does not care about you. If he continues to hurt you and try to rape you, tell your parents or police, or anyone that will...

Teenage Problems: I love him!
Let s see if I can help you. Did he tell you why he Just wants to be friends ? What did he have that makes you want him back? Why did he break up with you? How long ago was it when you broke up? How are you taking it? How is he taking it? Please return...

Teenage Problems: love, man seeth, looketh on the heart
man seeth, looketh on the heart, man looketh: Hi Goku, THanks for this follow up question. I wonder, did she know you loved her? How could she know if you never spoke a word? We may think that we understand what people are thinking, but only God can truely understand what is in the heart. If you...

Teenage Problems: love, question thanks, hard time
question thanks, hard time, relationship: Moving on too soon is not good.. Don t go looking for someoen else to put in your ex-boyfriend s place.. Ur replacing him for someone else.. But realy your just looking for someone to be a boyfriend to you.. But yes you need to heal then make a move ok.. Yes,...

Teenage Problems: love, kool, girlfriend
kool, girlfriend, feelings: Ok it must be hard for you.Ok you should tell her you like her and if she says she likes you back then you have a girlfriend.But if she says she doesn t say it s kool but I want to still be friends.If she is ok with friends then dont be really flirty because...

Teenage Problems: love, disco cd, valentine s day
disco cd, valentine s day, dance areas: Kevin, I can t dance either except slow dance which everyone can do. You can too. Because you don t know how does not mean you cannot learn. Girls dance with each other all the time. I suggest you ask Jessica to teach you at her house a few steps even...

Teenage Problems: love, senoir, girlfriend
senoir, girlfriend: okay wut u should do then is call him one day and me like hi its me and tell him your name and ask him how its goin tell him how school is see how he acts and be like call me sumtime heres my number talk to you later if he calls u its a good sign he may...

Teenage Problems: love, laborador retriever, wet kiss
laborador retriever, wet kiss, french kiss: Why not just let him kiss you and enjoy it. You will get used to it. Perhaps you had a bad experience with someone else who forced you to kiss them against your will. Maybe you do not even remember it. Here you are with a boy you like and he is wanting...

Teenage Problems: love, shoud, travis
shoud, travis, love: Hello there Travis, Well you think that you could like this girl, then why not get to know her a bit more and then do something outside of school together, like just hang out and see if it becomes more clear whether or not you want to go out with her....

Teenage Problems: what do i do does he love me, apple bottom, last boyfriend
apple bottom, last boyfriend, happy family: Hello there Natalie, The thing to remember in your situation is that there should only ever be two people in a relationship, not two, three or more. When you and your boyfriend are together, it should be about the two of you and where you are going, not...

Teenage Problems: love, daughters ages, god work
daughters ages, god work, serious stuff: Hi Esther, Yes these feelings are part of dating and part of growing up. Mature love is reached when you understand that love is not always a feeling but it is always a commitment to meet the other s needs before you meed your own. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7...

Teenage Problems: love and best friend ???, bad feelings, best friend
bad feelings, best friend, best friends: Kay - If you guys are truly happy, then I say you keep going with the relationship. You have no control over who likes you and it s unfortunate that his best friend likes you, but you don t like him back and so therefore you really can t take the fall for...

Teenage Problems: I love a boy, text messege, chit chat
text messege, chit chat, great relationship: This is a hard question because you haven t given much information. What you have done is a good idea IF you know the guy and you didn t meet him over the internet IF you trust him to know your number and IF you are not the only one who knows about it incase...

Teenage Problems: love friendship, true feelings, tomboy
true feelings, tomboy, rejection: This is a tough question, and I m going to try and help as best I can. Rejection is horrible and can ruin a friendship depending on how strong the friendship is. If you both really care about each other, than you should be able to just come out and tell him...

Teenage Problems: love help..., weird creatures, lawrence wong
weird creatures, lawrence wong, random problems: Dear Lawrence, You have done nothing wrong in the circumstances and you have appologised, now there is nothing more you can do but wait. You re a good friend, and she should realise this. You should give her a few days to cool off then give her a phonecall....

Teenage Problems: In love but its immoral, brain defect, social stigma
brain defect, social stigma, having some sort: Hey Kym, Firstly, I am not here to judge you. I can only ever remain good at my job by remaining impartial and honest and that s how I deal with problems. Sibling attraction is common, more common than people like to think, but it is and I can only...

Teenage Problems: love/ relationships, sweet guy, love relationships
sweet guy, love relationships, good time: Hello there Vicki, Sometimes young men flirt with girls without realising it and it is not always intentional. I am not suggesting that he isn t flirting with you but what I am suggesting is be careful that you do not see signs or things that can be miscontrued...

Teenage Problems: love shyness, good luck, courage
good luck, courage, love shyness: The next time you see this girl, muster up your courage and talk to her. Tell her how you feel about her. Be HONEST with the girl. Once you ve said what you need to say, ask her how she feels about you. If she shares your feelings, ask her what her interests...

Teenage Problems: love withmy neighbour, marriage counselor, corinthians 13
marriage counselor, corinthians 13, religious person: Nizral, How long have you and your wife been married? It has been my experience that husbands and wives that do not have sex, typically have some other problems going on in their lives. Usually, problems like these arise with communication problems. I am...

Teenage Problems: In love and going away for two years...., joyful feeling, lds mission
joyful feeling, lds mission, true respect: Dear Michael, Unfortunately, the only question I can really answer is your first one. It s true, once you fall in love with someone, no matter what happens, you will always hold a very special place in your heart for them. Apart from that, I m not quite...

Teenage Problems: love, one of those guys, xxxxxxxxxx
one of those guys, xxxxxxxxxx, true love: Hi! If i was you i d tell him how you feel if you don t you may never know how he felt just tell him you have something to say but you don t want it to ruin your friendship as you value it too much to throw it all away then just tell him how you feel i know...

Teenage Problems: loving a wierdo, experinces, wierdo
experinces, wierdo, bff: Karen, If you like this guy to the point of wanting to get to know him better, then don t worry about what other people say about him. To other people, he may come across as weird or strange. My guess is that those who see him as weird or strange, haven...

Teenage Problems: low self-esteem, elisabeth first, term friendships
elisabeth first, term friendships, popular girls: Hey Elisabeth! First of all, who says you re one of the “non-popular” girls in school?! Lots of people seem to associate popularity with being loud and the centre of attention, when really that s nonsense! One of the most popular people I know is a quiet...

Teenage Problems: Male Problem, local drug store, mrs janet
local drug store, mrs janet, concer: Hey Josh, Don t worry about it. I think it is just something that goes on with most boys at your age. If it is really a problem, you should ask a doctor about it. It isn t because you re a virgin, it s just something your body is doing. There are probably...

Teenage Problems: Marijuana Massacre, negative connotations, social stigma
negative connotations, social stigma, part time job: Yo Dude, Any substance is good in moderation and that is the key to sorting out all these problems. Marijuana itself does have a social stigma and that is because whenever you turn on a film or TV the people smoking it seemed to be lethargic and layabouts;...

Teenage Problems: Masturbation, being a girl, male masturbation
being a girl, male masturbation, personal choice: Masturbation is a perfectly normal, healthy practice, especially for guys. If you enjoy doing it, there s nothing wrong with it. My only concern would be with how often you masturbate. While I have known other boys who masturbate frequently, be careful....

Teenage Problems: Masturbation, personal question, heck
personal question, heck, three times: Derek, I m going to let you in on a little secret. Almost everyone does it. Few will admit it, (few girls anyway) but most people do it. Masterbating is a natural thing. I think the only thing you might want to consider is how often you do it. I mean, do...

Teenage Problems: Masturbation, friends computer, gay guys
friends computer, gay guys, becca: Hey i am so sorry i have not gotten a chance to respond to your letter, my computer is having problems but i am using a friends computer right now, first i think that exploring your body is fun, and it is a part of life as everyone grows up.. now are you bi,...

Teenage Problems: Masturbation, sexual tension, sexual experiences
sexual tension, sexual experiences, puberty: Yes, i think this is normal, alot of teenagers do masturbate, even if they aren t always willing to admit it. Don t feel ashamed over doing something you enjoy. Masturbation is simply a form of releasing all the sexual tension you should be feeling at your...

Teenage Problems: Masturbation, eachother, masturbating
eachother, masturbating, heck: Don t feel bad. Masturbating is normal. I d say if all of your friends and you are comfortable masturbating in front of each other then that s pretty fine too, obviously you aren t the only one who does this if your friends do it too! If you re enjoying yourself...

Teenage Problems: Masturbation, embarassed, masturbate
embarassed, masturbate, masturbation: Micheal, To my knowledge, the answer to your question is no. I don t think there s any negative affects from masturbation. Perhaps there is if you do it too often, but once, maybe twice a day isn t bad for you. But like I said, that s just from what...

Teenage Problems: Masturbation, masturbation, heck
masturbation, heck, three times: Hello Derek It s hard to answer this question for you untill I know if your a christian or not because I am and masterbating IS wrong if you lust...It s hard not to masterbate w/o lusting. if your asking if its normal...like do a lot of people do it...the...

Teenage Problems: Maturity, havn, hormones
havn, hormones, maturity: We all mature at our own rates and its very difficult to make yourself grow up as it is a natural process. However there are some steps to speed up the process...first you need to consider why you want to become more mature, is it because your friends are...

Teenage Problems: Menstural Cycle, marathon runner, menstrual cycle
marathon runner, menstrual cycle, correct time: Dear Laura, In answer to your question, exercise may effect the menstrual cycle. It all really depends on the person, and the amount of exercise. Some people can exercise a whole lot and the cycle can stay exactly the same. It just...

Teenage Problems: A Mess Sis. N Law, http www myspace, http www myspace com
http www myspace, http www myspace com, ashley: I wouldnt be mad at him unless he gives you a reason to be mad at him but I would be mad at his sister. I would sit down with your guy and talk to him about how his sister is acting and how much it hurts you and how much you wish that he would talk to her...

Teenage Problems: Messed up, graduation party, friends daughter
graduation party, friends daughter, lighters: Yeah I bet that is something. I am not sure what I would do if people showed up at the school that I work at with guns. It would scare me because the people that would show up at the school that I work at would really shoot. But at least you are getting to...

Teenage Problems: Miss him, but see him every night, night question, morning rush
night question, morning rush, youth fellowship: You can please some of your friends some of the time but you cannot please all your friends all of the time. I would not even discuss it with your best friend and about your boyfriend he will just have to realize this is a play not reality. If you try to...

Teenage Problems: MOM AND DAD, mom and dad, high blood pressure
mom and dad, high blood pressure, t pay: Hey there Joe, I am sorry that you are having a tough time at home at the minute, it is never easy when your parents are fighting and you are caught in the middle of it. When parents are fighting sometimes they use their kids as a way of spying on each...

Teenage Problems: My Mom, mom and dad, true age
mom and dad, true age, brittany: Tell your parents your boyfriend s true age before they find out the hard way. Tell your brother if you want to, but know that when you tell him, there s a 50/50 chance he will tell your parents. Your parents will be very upset about this matter if they hear...

Teenage Problems: Mom, psychology area, advice givers
psychology area, advice givers, ups: Hello, Advice giving is a hard thing to do. Some advice givers here are not good at their jobs. One must be careful who they take advice from. Your mother may feel worried that you get immoral advice or put your self in danger. Also being 81 years old,...

Teenage Problems: My Mom, manic depressant, bad moods
manic depressant, bad moods, cya: Jessica, I m so sorry it took me so long to reply. Unfortunately, there isn t much you can do while she is in her bad moods. Just try to do your chores, homework, ect before she asks, and try to stay out of her way. Remember, it isn t her fault that...

Teenage Problems: My Mother, computer troubles, delayed response
computer troubles, delayed response, 5 mins: John, I am so sorry about the delayed response. Your question is important to me, but computer troubles sometimes prevent me from answering it. If you have a close relationship with your mom, then feel free to tell her. You could even ask her to tone...

Teenage Problems: My Mother, beautiful name, good kid
beautiful name, good kid, poeple: Dear Kayla (you have a beautiful name by the way…) It is hard to evaluate this situation without hearing both sides, but from what you have told me it sounds like your mum is acting quite immaturely. I believe that the best way to deal with it is either...

Teenage Problems: Mother's Day Disaster, father didn, apparent reason
father didn, apparent reason, mother daughter: HI Molly, I strongly suggest you to do nothing. If you are right. She is one who should apoligize because you was nice to her to treat her out for a breakfast but she cancelled on you. She needs to understand you better and all of you need to work on...

Teenage Problems: Mother's that don't trust their children, james windell, drug addict
james windell, drug addict, school orchestra: Hi, Is there a teacher or someone you can talk to in person about this as a middle person? Would a family psychologist help you? I understand you may not have done things wrong, yet they did and it hurt you. It happened to me too. Please ask follow ups...

Teenage Problems: My Mother, 5 mins, yahoo
5 mins, yahoo: I think you should tell her that you can hear her. As awkward as it may be, it would probably be best...and you masturbating when she is...That s kinda weird. You shouldn t do that just because it s your MOTHER...and yeah. No. Just tell her that you can hear...

Teenage Problems: Moving out, highschool diploma, follow ups
highschool diploma, follow ups, age of majority: Legal questions should be asked in our legal area. However, as you know online experts do not know all the laws. So I recommend asking your local DA, or your library. I want to talk to you about moving out. The question is should you run away from your family?...

Teenage Problems: Moving out, errand girl, mum and dad
errand girl, mum and dad, arguements: Bad idea, you are looking at more trouble and you may end up doing the paying rather than your friend. Your friend has a third person to care for and may tend to use you as an unpaid babysitter and you may also be an errand girl. If you can save up as much...

Teenage Problems: Moving Out, stable job, old job
stable job, old job, associates degree: Hello Brie anne, I m not a big person on knowing what the laws are, but I don t think your mom can stop you. If you have a stable job, and other resources out back in NM I say just leave. If for some reason she can stop you, just try to talk to her about...

Teenage Problems: Moving Out, cerro gordo county, bad temper
cerro gordo county, bad temper, legal ethics: Hi, I m not a lawyer so I cannot really provide legal advice. I ran a fast search online and it turns out that if you move from your legal guardian in your state you need court approval before the age of 18. I can provide you a website if you want with this....

Teenage Problems: Moving out, family nest, bankbook
family nest, bankbook, installment payment: Everyone has to make the move out of the family nest but some do so after going to college and then because of financial problems end up moving back home. If you move out finances are a primary concern. If you have a job good then you must get your finances...

Teenage Problems: Moving away, ok heres, close friends
ok heres, close friends, ashley: I would tell her how you feel even though you are moving away. Because if you dont tell her you are right you will regret it and you will be left with the wonder how that would have turned out questions. The best thing to always be is honest no matter what....

Teenage Problems: Moving out, hospital emergency room, false accusations
hospital emergency room, false accusations, misdeameanor: Brooke, it sounds like you have a stepfather and of course he has become first in her life now. Its very difficult to move out unless your parents agree to let you live with someone else. I do not mean a boyfriend . Some kids move in with trusted friends...

Teenage Problems: Moving out.., reverse psychology, part time job
reverse psychology, part time job, work part time: Hi, Yes, you need to be more patient until you finish High School, Meantime, why not you have a talk with school counselor or a social worker, they may be able to help you with many services available to assist you in your hometown. Other suggestion, speak...

Teenage Problems: Moving out issues, mental anguish, legal guardian
mental anguish, legal guardian, legal custody: Hey Anna, I know personally how frustrating it can feel to be trapped in somewhere where you really don t want to be, but you have to be careful and not do anything rash. In most countries of the world, you are under the care of your legal guardian until...

Teenage Problems: Moving out, transportation school, resistance
transportation school, resistance, coffee: Hi Kyle: If you want to prove that you re ready, thean you should make out a detailed budget showing the expenses you will have balanced against the money you ll be bringing in. In addition you also might want to make sure you ve checked out rent and...

Teenage Problems: MY MUM IS A CONTOL FREAK!, white roses, tiome
white roses, tiome, boyfreind: I am not happy you are living with this boyfriend of yours. Yet, onto your question. I was 12 and he was 15. --- This is not good. In fact it s illegal in some areas. sex --- You cannot have sex. You should not have sex. You are risky your health by doing...

Teenage Problems: I'm Asian. Deal wit it, boo., deal wit, haha jk
deal wit, haha jk, stupid asian: It s all your fault Pearl Harbor got attacked! You stupid asian! America hates you! I hope you drown in a pit of donkey crap!!! EVIL EVIL ASIAN!!! haha...jk jk Tell your friends you re sorry you killed thousands of people. They ll understand. (RATE...

Teenage Problems: I'm all alone..., positive peace, social anxiety
positive peace, social anxiety, shy girl: Regina, This was not long at all, and if it was I wouldn t mind. You might be suffering from some sort of social anxiety, and this is a tough thing to overcome. Have you ever seen a therapist? If not I would recommend it. They could help you move past your...

Teenage Problems: I'm becoming jealous of my bf's female friends!, long distance relationship, female friend
long distance relationship, female friend, female friends: Ana - That s really upsetting that he s not taking your side of the matter. As your bf, he should be trusting you and believing your side of the story and not hers. You need to have a serious talk with him and explain how you feel. He needs to be believing...

Teenage Problems: I'm So Confused, After What Happened Today, real jerk, half court
real jerk, half court, ball game: Well if he came to you and told you himself that he doesn t want to go out with you then he really mut not like you in the way that you like him and i agree with what you said, i m beginning to believe that his friends has something to do with it, they re...

Teenage Problems: I'm Confused!, long distance relationship, girl alot
long distance relationship, girl alot, one of these girls: David, Well firstly there s no need to get scared, things will work out--you just need to take some time out to figure out who you re really in to. Relax your mind and look at the cirsumstances..which one of these girls do you really think would make you...

Teenage Problems: I'm not confident, great personality, breaking the ice
great personality, breaking the ice, stammering: Hey, Don t put yourself down so much, be confident! Thats the first step in getting girls, is being confident with yourself. You have to make people know you for you, and you have to be comfortable with that. As for breaking the ice, what I would do...

Teenage Problems: I'm depressed......and scared, homecoming dance, gaurdian angel
homecoming dance, gaurdian angel, new girlfriend: Hey Anna, You need to realize right now that he is deliberately trying to HURT you. Anyone, like that friends of yours, who does the same is not someone you need to associate yourself with. They have no regard for your feelings and need to be forgotten ASAP....

Teenage Problems: I'm gay and I think I'm depressed, doctor asap, first girlfriend
doctor asap, first girlfriend, term depression: It s OK being gay. There is nothing wrong with being gay. I am worried about your depression. I think you should talk to a psychologist about this. FYI--- 13 year olds may not know if they are really gay. You won t know until you are a little older for...

Teenage Problems: I'm homeschooled and need Friends, HELP!, homeschooling groups, finishing school
homeschooling groups, finishing school, going back to school: Dear Stacy, I profusely apologize for not writing to you sooner. My email address changed and I forgot to let all experts know that my other account was void. I would be more than happy to help you with your question. In fact it is right...

Teenage Problems: I'm lost.., punk emo, romantic type
punk emo, romantic type, horror movies: Hello my friend, She s hyper --- I won t label anyone here. I m not for pushing the label of ADD or ADHD. Some girls are more hyper than others, and putting that label on them is wrong. Sometimes we must however. Without knowing Holly, I won t do such....

Teenage Problems: I'm so lost..., low self esteem, one of the girls
low self esteem, one of the girls, pretty girls: Hey Rochelle, I think all of this does stem from low self confidence and low self esteem. You need to realise that you have just as much right and chance of getting a relationship and getting a genuine guy as much as everyone else. IF you realise this then...

Teenage Problems: I'm being molested, wonderful marriage, marriage help
wonderful marriage, marriage help, proper authorities: Hi, You need to talk to your aunt regards possible molestation by your uncle. If she does not believe you, then you need to report it to proper authorities. My question, how often he did it and when was the last time he had done it to you? If he does...

Teenage Problems: I'm moving away, family psychologist, 7th house
family psychologist, 7th house, move to the city: Is there any way to prevent from moving? This may not prevent the move, yet it could. See a family psychologist with them. I know how hard moving is. I would like to talk to you more about this. Your life is very important so if you have those thoughts...

Teenage Problems: [i'm not really sure if this is in your category] how do i know if he really likes me?, middle name, nice guy
middle name, nice guy, gf: If you really think he s a player than maybe it s a good thing not to go out with him, but I would try going out with him and if he acts bad then you can always dump him and such but I would at least try going out with him cuz you never know he could suprise...

Teenage Problems: I'm scared, neon lights, wall mart
neon lights, wall mart, sugestions: Amanda, Go to the police and tell them that you and your boyfriend have done nothing wrong. Tell them that you know for a fact that your boyfriend is not a thief or a car wreaker. Also, tell the police that you are a good person, and that there is no...

Teenage Problems: I'm scared, neon lights, best guess
neon lights, best guess, wall mart: Hello, sorry to hear about the trouble. First, if your boyfreind didn t do these things, there is no proof he did plain and simple. The cops may not think he is telling the truth but at the same time Wal-mart records the store to stop shoplifters so he s not...

Teenage Problems: I'm scared, neon lights, little lies
neon lights, little lies, wall mart: Hi Amanda: Usually the police don t beleive people becasue the story they tell is not consistant. In other words, they get causght in little lies. Police are VERY good at this and they KNOW when some one isn t telling them the truth or giving them the whole...

Teenage Problems: I'm sick of pessimists., nat king cole, current boyfriend
nat king cole, current boyfriend, prosperous life: Kali, Nat King Cole had a song titled Too Young about they try to tell us were too young, too young to really be in love .... Its about people who are really in love and it does not matter their aage. You can certainly be in love at your age. Your friends...

Teenage Problems: I'm too smart..... and it makes me feel dumb, battling depression, varsity time
battling depression, varsity time, overbearing parents: I am glad the weather isn t bad there. Today is is very wet here. I didn t know we were going to have such a storm. What a pain, I had a big hike planned too. Had to call it off with my psychology friend. One of my professors when I was in college moved...

Teenage Problems: I'm trying really hard to get through this..., problem occured, loving feeling
problem occured, loving feeling, queston: Dear Cathy I think that you should go to the psychologist as they will help you talk through your feeling and may help you find the problem for yourself. As an outsider I think that you still and always will have some sort of feelings towards your ex, they...

Teenage Problems: I'm trying really hard to get through this..., problem occured, loving feeling
problem occured, loving feeling, queston: Hi Cathy, Thanks for your very open and honest question. I think that your question comes from a misunderstanding of what true love is....and it is a common one. You seem to believe that you know if you are in love, because of a certain feeling. You...

Teenage Problems: marcus the boy i love, hotmail, true feelings
hotmail, true feelings, teenage crush: I think that you need to get into another relationship and try to make it work so that you can see if you are holding onto the past or if you really have true feelings. If he does like you than he will wait for you and if you LOVE him then it will happen...

Teenage Problems: marcus the boy i love, teenage crush, utha
teenage crush, utha, nothing works: Ok, first of all I would just like to say how sorry I am about what you have been though, being raped is a big ordeal, I know from experience and I would like to congratulate you on getting on with your life so soon, It took me a lot longer! I think I can...

Teenage Problems: masterbation, sexual excitement, google search
sexual excitement, google search, difficult transition: Sara, no it is not a fetish. A fetish is something a person needs or uses to generate sexual excitement. There is nothing more common, usual or normal than a teen practicing masturbation. Boys will do so once or twice or three times a day. Its the high...

Teenage Problems: is masterbation like a fetish, orgasam, sexual practices
orgasam, sexual practices, young guys: Hey there Sara, Firstly, I ll just explain what a fetish is to answer your question. The term fetish refers to anything that repeatedly causes sexual arousal and possibly climax. A fetish usually involves a situation, equipment or sexual practices that...

Teenage Problems: masterbation, guys masturbating, group of teenagers
guys masturbating, group of teenagers, gay porn site: Hi, I am pretty sure it is embarrassing for you to have him caught masturbating. It is normal for teenagers to masturbate at times. I am not sure if he is gay or learning masturbation techniques. Most of times, it is not gay behavior if he masturbate...

Teenage Problems: how do i masturbate, parentingteens, wet dreams
parentingteens, wet dreams, party websites: I don t endorse doing this, however I cannot stop you. I recommend asking in our Masturbation area of this site. I also recommend those third party websites. I do not own those websites, and you should go to them at your own risks. http://sexuality.about.com/od/masturbation/?once=true&...

Teenage Problems: How to masturbate?, many different ways, self discovery
many different ways, self discovery, puberty: Hey Ronniee, Masturbation is about self discovery and at its simplest is about stimulating your penis by touching it. There are many different ways in which to do this and the fun of it is actually discovering how to do it. People masturbate at different...

Teenage Problems: masturbating = sin?, bed undefiled, 2 corinthians 10
bed undefiled, 2 corinthians 10, casting down imaginations: Hi Chrostopher, Thank you for that question. THere is one kind of sex that God condones and has designed us exclusively for...sex between a husband and a wife. Hebrews 13:4 4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and...

Teenage Problems: masturbation, spontaneous erections, peak years
spontaneous erections, peak years, teen guy: Yes its normal. You are nearing the peak years of your budding sexuality. Its completewly normal for teen boys to masturbate. Every teen guy in the world does it. Its harmless and its how God has provided for single people to release the pent up energy...

Teenage Problems: erection n enlargement pills, enlargement pills, waste of money
enlargement pills, waste of money, sex drive: John, Taking any type of pill that has not been medically prescribed for you is not only dangerous but possibly a waste of money. If you have brought these pills over the internet, chances are they have not been clinically tested and therefore may cause...

Teenage Problems: masturbation, young guys
young guys: Hey Ken, Masturbation is incredibly normal and common between young guys all across the world. The amount and number of times that you do depends entirely upon you and what you feel comfortable with, just as long as you do not start to push things out of...

Teenage Problems: masturbation, half an hour, orgasm
half an hour, orgasm, anticipation: Hey Bob, There are techniques that you can try, for example, when you masturbate do so but get yourself to the point where you feel like you will cum and then stop. Have a break for half an hour then go back and get yourself to that point. Keep doing...

Teenage Problems: masturbation, marriage partner, sexual pleasure
marriage partner, sexual pleasure, teen males: You did not start masturbating too soon. And there is nothing wrong with this activity. Its how you learn about your body and what feels good to you. Every guy you know and no matter what their age they all masturbate even married guys. Its the most common,...

Teenage Problems: masturbation, physical reason, self discovery
physical reason, self discovery, foreskin: Michael, In terms of masturbation, there is no physical reason why you should or should not do it; some people say it is even healthy. Masturbation is done by a lot of young men, for relieving tension, for self discovery and for pleasure and it involves...

Teenage Problems: what is masturbation?, white stuff, masterbation
white stuff, masterbation, sperm: Masterbation is when a guy or a girl pleasures themselves sexually. And when a guy does it the white stuff that comes out of the guy is called semen. That semen contains the sperm that when in contact with the egg of the female, fertilizes the egg to produce...

Teenage Problems: ,,, mean KID, mean girl, greasy hair
mean girl, greasy hair, self confidence: Since this girl has continued to insult you, and you can t get her to stop, report her to the principal of your school. Don t tell her you ve reported her, though. Once you ve reported her to the principal, let him/ her handle it from there. If the girl makes...

Teenage Problems: this mean kid..., superficial attention, greasy hair
superficial attention, greasy hair, self confidence: Hey Alexandra, People who pick on and bully other people do so to look big and cool in front of other people; and that shows you what sort of people they are. They are superficial, attention seeking nobodies who will surround themselves with people who...

Teenage Problems: meeting girls and dating, t rush, sister school
t rush, sister school, safety experts: Hi, OK this is a different question. I recommend our experts in our Places to Meet People . State your age and also check with your parents about internet safety. I recommend our internet safety experts also. Be careful online. Please ask follow up...

Teenage Problems: memory loss?, cornell note taking system, bad grades
cornell note taking system, bad grades, memory loss: Hi Tristy, First of all I d like to commend you for not using drugs or drinking thats awesome!!! It could be that you aren t getting enough rest or maybe you aren t paying close enough attention. You need to eat breakfast it s the most important meal...

Teenage Problems: men, having a wonderful time, being a teenage girl
having a wonderful time, being a teenage girl, girls night: Hi Krys, When it comes to college life being a teenage girl thrown into an environment with plenty of males can be complicated. On your side of the story, it sounds like you found someone whom you gained feelings for, but on his behalf im not exactly sure...

Teenage Problems: menatl illness, mental illness, mental retardation
mental illness, mental retardation, many thanks: mental illness can affect the youth and the community in many ways but it also depends on what kinda of mental illness that takes place because such things like mental retardation can affect the school system where kids are placed in a regular classroom and...

Teenage Problems: menstruation, being a woman, person to person
being a woman, person to person, tylenol: Yes there can be pain when you menstruate it s just part of being a woman and it varies how long the pain will last from person to person but if it has last more than a week than I would say talk to your doctor just try drinking plenty of fluids and take asprin/tylenol...

Teenage Problems: mentally abusive parents, guidance counselor, emmancipation
guidance counselor, emmancipation, abusive parents: Dear Columbia I have one question for you, do your parents drink alcohal regularly? If so, then I do believe that mentally abusive parents could become physically abusive. What you should do is (if you go to school) talk to your guidance counselor. They...

Teenage Problems: messed up, shan shan, hi shan
shan shan, hi shan, grade 6: Hi Shan Shan: Well if he doesn t know, you ll never have much chance. You need to tell him you like him and would like to know if you and he can stay in touch. The ask him what works best for him? email, letters phone etc. Now .... a touch of reality...

Teenage Problems: might be kicked out, attitude problem, darkest hour
attitude problem, darkest hour, tbh: Dear Kay, Been there done that... I couldn t stand high school and dreaded waking up everyday. For starters I happened to go to a really cliché school and was never able to find my own place between the jocks, the drama people and the geeks etc. In addition...

Teenage Problems: my mind iz blank????, pastor don
pastor don: Hi Lashay, Thanks for your question. I think that the best way to approach this is to be honest and tell him exactly what you are feeling and why. Don t let him guess or try to fill in the blanks. I hope that this helps you. In Christ Pastor Do...

Teenage Problems: I have the mind of a nine year old, puberty stage, barbie dolls
puberty stage, barbie dolls, friend charley: Hi, As I m not a doctor I cannot tell you if there is anything wrong with you. If you want talk to your doctor about this and be tested as I see this worries you. Note we cannot give medical advice here and the above is not medical advice. I will tell...

Teenage Problems: i miss him., jelous, girl friends
jelous, girl friends, bf: Hiya Claire, it sounds to me like this guy is just trying to make you jelous with whatever he does, and to me, it sound like it is working. If the guy is showing no interest then try to move on .. have some time with your girl-friends with no boys allowed....

Teenage Problems: I miss them!, chill, last time
chill, last time, anxiety: Chey, Chill. They will be fine!! Are you constantly worried about things? If so you might be suffering from anxiety, has that ever crossed your mind? Anything else I can give you advice with? Anything else you have been worried about. Don t worry about your...

Teenage Problems: i miss him., friend don, time don
friend don, time don, bf: Claire, The best advice I can give you right now is to probably decide to get over this guy. If you dated for almost a year and he gets over you in a few weeks, he s not worth your time. Don t be jealous of the girls that go to him, that s what he wants....

Teenage Problems: mite be pregnet, pregnancy termination, doctor tomorrow
pregnancy termination, doctor tomorrow, going to the doctor: first of all you can tell your doctor you want this to be confidential and they HAVE to by law keep it confidential you can get a pregnancy termination now this is NOT abortion, if you find out that you are pregnant early enough then you can go to a clinic...

Teenage Problems: All mixed up, lil girls, mad cause
lil girls, mad cause, being friends: Just reiterate to him that you love him so much and don t want to lose him but there is too much drama and maybe ask him if there is anyway that he can put an end to it. You shouldn t be bothered by those girls, you have what they want and thats the end of...

Teenage Problems: my mom, baptised, hard time
baptised, hard time, dee: Hey Dee, Your mother probably regrets a lot of stuff she did, and maybe she can see herself in you and that s why she s distant from you. I guess what you could do is try just being near her and asking if she s ok, coz maybe then she ll realise you care and...

Teenage Problems: my mom, close friends, little sister
close friends, little sister, nice day: Hi, I tends to agree with you about smaller group of close friends, it is better than many. She does not understand today time, she is thinking old fashioned way, her time is different than today (our time). She has her own issues, nothing do with you...

Teenage Problems: My mom, legal counselor, berks county
legal counselor, berks county, weekend job: Violett - I suggest you try to find some kind of legal counselor who can help you move out. I can t really give you any help from where I m at. You could also try going and talking to someone at school and see if they could help you out at all. Ashle...

Teenage Problems: my mom is annoying!, desition, youth fellowship
desition, youth fellowship, alredy: Milena, first of all do not try to harm yourself. You are in an age where you have feelings and moods that can change often and often do. You do not say anything about your father so he may not be there with you. In order to get more friends in your life...

Teenage Problems: My mom is a bitch!, social security money, fucking bitch
social security money, fucking bitch, parents and their children: Jane, Ultimately, once your 18 your life is your own. Sometimes parents and their children just don t get along, and it seems like staying in even minimal contact with them is pointless. It also can seem like being out on your own is extremely easy, but...

Teenage Problems: My mom is crazy, watching the waves, woman of god
watching the waves, woman of god, dirt road: This is NOT your fault your mom is MANIPULATING you, what she did is wrong and she is making YOU feel like if you tell someone YOU will be doing something wrong, with out a doubt in my mind you SHOULD tell your dad .. who is your dad going to believe you a...

Teenage Problems: My mom's crazy, absolute ruler, playing volleyball
absolute ruler, playing volleyball, crazy question: Hi, Can I ask for your state? I am glad you don t do drugs, swear or drink. I am glad you were a top student. I just wish you still are a top student. Grades B and above? Hope so. Anyways how come your grades went down? Can I ask this? It sounds like your...

Teenage Problems: mom .. and hate, dead shrimp, drug overdose
dead shrimp, drug overdose, acoma: Hi, Is she still dating this person who abuses her? How old are you? You are still living with your mother? Where is your father? Have you contacted child services for help? Have you talked to a psychologist about this? Please ask follow ups Please list...

Teenage Problems: mom/me/school=ick and arg, teenage daughter, bribe
teenage daughter, bribe, drip: Hey I m sorry about what your going through, it can be hell living with someone who can t control their temper, which is what it seems like your mom can t do. It seems like the best thing for you to do would be basically to get your work done. I know it s...

Teenage Problems: Is my mom being too strict?, little baby, living at home
little baby, living at home, paychecks: Sounds like your mother just really cares about you and doesn t want her little baby growing up. Try telling her what you ve just told me and how you want some independence. I reckon the money thing is because she just doesn t want you to end up spending it...

Teenage Problems: Is it me or my mom?, sexuly, mom and dad
sexuly, mom and dad, guy alot: Brittany, At some point you need to tell your parents the truth about your boyfriend s age. While I am surprised that his parents are okay with your lying to your parents about their son s/your boyfriend s age, they ll probably tell you at one point to...

Teenage Problems: My moms issue, enormous load, crazy things
enormous load, crazy things, felons: Hey Dave, For someone so young you have a lot of different things to deal with. Firstly, I would recommend that you tell the school what is going on if they don t know already. They don t need to know all the details if you don t want to tell them but just...

Teenage Problems: this morning i woke up i thought..., best wishes, honey
best wishes, honey, brenda: Hello brenda it sometimes happens... that we feel like something has come out, but isnt actually... ! it happens.. its just normal.. relaz.. there isnt much thing to worry about!! RELAX HONEY..! if u need more help please ask me regards and best wishes...

Teenage Problems: mother, straight talk, teenage daughter
straight talk, teenage daughter, bribe: Hi April, I am sorry you had to go through all of that with your mother, I believe she should back off little bit with you. You need to sit down and have a honest and straight talk with your mother about what going on and it been giving you stress and...

Teenage Problems: my mother, getting a job, freinds
getting a job, freinds, barley: Hi, How old are you? Why should you hate anyone? What makes you hate people? That s my question. Do you like your father? Why your mother? She cares about you, right? Why do you need a cell phone? How far are you from your school? 1 mile? Please ask follow...

Teenage Problems: my mother and hell, believing in god, god so loved the world
believing in god, god so loved the world, horrible person: Hi Michelle, I am very sorry for my late response. I am sorry that you are having a conflict with your mother and sister. They love you and now that they see certain things from the Bible, they want you to see them too.. because they passionately believe...

Teenage Problems: mother, school, life=ick, mother school, fealing
mother school, fealing, teenage daughter: Hey April, Firstly, I know how difficult it must be to live in a situation where you feel like no matter what you do you cannot win; it is difficult and is a pain, but for the time being it is something you are going to have to work around until you are...

Teenage Problems: my mother, school education, 17 years
school education, 17 years, good luck: Hi, You are 17 years old and soon will be 18 yrs old, you need to tell your mother how you feel and she cease yelling at you. You need to stand up. If you do not, she will keep putting all up with you. My only suggeston is to yell her back really...

Teenage Problems: like a movie, having dreams, neice
having dreams, neice, sweet kind: Hello there Anna, The best love stories in the world have some unforeseen twist and turns and very rarely does the happen ending we all dream of actually occurs. This does not mean that you won t get your happy ending, but perhaps this guy is not supposed...

Teenage Problems: moving on, boyfriend matt, different girl
boyfriend matt, different girl, awkward moments: Dear Chelsea, Well, I understand your situation, but there isn’t really too much you can do. This Alana girl sounds like trouble and I d most definitely keep my distance from her. As for Matt, it s a pity that he can t see the difference between his real...

Teenage Problems: moving out at 17, high school sweetheart, marital strife
high school sweetheart, marital strife, wise idea: Emily, long distance romances do not have a good record. You are also at a time inyour life when you are seeing rapid changes in your life. You see how boys and girls breakup quite often in high school. You say you are engaged to be married. Now theres...

Teenage Problems: moving out at 18, stupid little things, follow ups
stupid little things, follow ups, court approval: Hi, I highly recommend to speak to a lawyer in your area about the laws. I pulled up some information from third party websites. Information does change, so double check this. According to what I see you cannot move without your parents or court approval....

Teenage Problems: moving out, local area, good luck
local area, good luck, parents: Hey Amanda, it all depends on who you want to move in with, and where abouts you live. There are different laws in different countries and states, so it s hard to know. If its not family, and if its a boy, then your parents might cause trouble, especially...

Teenage Problems: moving on, boyfriend matt, different girl
boyfriend matt, different girl, awkward moments: Chelsea, In a situation like yours, to me what I find best to do is to find out everything now than to be worrying about it later on. Soo he s told you that he doesn t wanna talk to you, and that you shouldn t call, text anything...but you still wanna talk...

Teenage Problems: moving away, mom and dad, crazy thoughts
mom and dad, crazy thoughts, sucide: Hey again, I m glad you decided against suicide. The idea of the nice dinner and anniversary is good, and I think that d be a really nice way to do it. Just make sure you let her know how much you care about her. Just be there and be gentle, let her react...

Teenage Problems: moving ASAP!!, 7th house, move to the city
7th house, move to the city, academic clubs: First of all, I understand how you feel partially. I have moved many times. I m in my eleventh house.Thankfully, I ve never had to leave any friends. While there isn t much of a way to prevent from moving, you can still try to visit friends during holidays...

Teenage Problems: moving out at my age, how do i cope with money situations, money situations, mum dad
money situations, mum dad, nasty place: Hey Amy, What you can do is go and see someone at the council s social services department. I know it has a stigma of being a nasty place, but if you talk to them, there is a chance they can find you your own place pretty swift if they think you need it....

Teenage Problems: We are moving in a few months and teenage daughters are so upset?, school clubs, band director
school clubs, band director, teenage daughters: Hi Adriana, Moving is never easy! Unfortunately for your twins Jr. High to High School is a HUGE transition and moving to another state away from all that is familiar to them is going to be very tough for them.....My suggestion to you is get them interested...

Teenage Problems: moving from home!!, 7th house, move to the city
7th house, move to the city, academic clubs: unfortunately you can t prevent the moving ... I would find one person (and that can be me if you want) that you e-mail on an everyday basis to keep you in contact ... and just in your town your in now try to get everyone s e-mails and such and as far as depression...

Teenage Problems: moving away from home, moving away from home, 7th house
moving away from home, 7th house, move to the city: Athena, I will answer in CAPITALS so you will easily see my answers. Im not SHOUTING. Through my life I was raised in small towns. I m now in the middle of my highschool years and my parents just ruined my life and decided that we were moving to a city....

Teenage Problems: moving from home, 7th house, move to the city
7th house, move to the city, academic clubs: Hello there Athena, It is always difficult for any young person who moves around a lot to try and meet friends, good friends anyway, because of the insecurity of the possibility of moving again. The problem that you face now is that unless you are old enough...

Teenage Problems: moving please answer ASAP!!!!, 7th house, move to the city
7th house, move to the city, academic clubs: Athena? Bianca? You asked me this question 3 times. Relax. There isn t anything you can do to not move. See it as fresh opportunity. You can overcome depression by looking on the bright side of life, or by seeing a therapist, and possibly medication. ...

Teenage Problems: moving out, dropping out of high school, fiance
dropping out of high school, fiance, ups: Hi, Can we talk more about this? I recommend asking your local DA and library for the age information on moving out. Now, I do not think you should rush into marriage. I am very worried about your suicide comment. I want to talk to you more about this. ...

Teenage Problems: mum, baby of the family, siter
baby of the family, siter, paying attention: Floyd, for five years you were the only child and all attention was lavished on you. Then your siter came along and sometimes parents focus on the new child. This is quite normal since the new child needs more care and is totally dependent upon the mum or...

Teenage Problems: myspace, myspace, feelings
myspace, feelings: Aniak, I might be the wrong expert to ask about wanting a myspace. I will tell you that I think they are pretty lame. The whole thing turns me off, your cool because you are different and you don t have one. And you defiantly don t need one. Be yourself, being...

Teenage Problems: myspace, safety concern, myspace
safety concern, myspace, ups: Hello, I do not promote Myspace as a safety concern. Now, 15 is a tough age to be at. It s not uncommon to see teens turn depressed at this age. I think peers near you are promoting Myspace. And I think you have a small case of depression. Now, I am not a...

Teenage Problems: Names, stepdad, lorelei
stepdad, lorelei, disrespect: well your parents named you that for a reason. so that would almost be a disrespect towards them that thier child doesn t even respect the fact that they named you that for a reason. (not trying to offend you just saying) but as long as your friends go EVERYONE...

Teenage Problems: Naturism, nudists naturists, sexual implications
nudists naturists, sexual implications, yahoo groups: Hey Jamie, The human body is beautiful. It s a genetic miracle and people put too much emphasis on the sexual implications of it. Honestly, people probably won t understand. Try googling or searching on Yahoo, I know there are a few Yahoo groups for young...

Teenage Problems: Need Advice, one of my best friends, christian perspective
one of my best friends, christian perspective, abby: Hi Daniel. I wasn t raised Christian so I can t answer this from a Christian perspective. All I can say is that experimenting and fantasizing about members of the same (and opposite sex), masturbating, etc. is completely normal for someone your age. That s...

Teenage Problems: Need Advice, choices in life, one of my best friends
choices in life, one of my best friends, psychological problems: Hello Daniel, A lot of questions!! It sounds like you have a lot of concerns. Let me be clear, I am not judging you nor do I have that right. Every individual makes their own choices in life and needs noones approval for their actions. We ll take this one...

Teenage Problems: Need Advice, sexual experience, nineteen years
sexual experience, nineteen years, youth ministry: Hi Collin, I am very sorry that I was not able to answer right away. I hope that these answers will help you. 1. Over the past few years, I have fantasized about what it would be like to have a sexual experience with another guy. I never have and I...

Teenage Problems: Need Advice, christian god, nineteen years
christian god, nineteen years, sexual experience: 1. You need to focus on other things. Its perfectly normal for people to fantasize about sexually things, even forbidden ones. So get your mind off of those thoughts and think about other things. 2. Where in the New testament have you read that you wouldn...

Teenage Problems: Need Advice, nineteen years, sexual experience
nineteen years, sexual experience, youth ministry: Dear Colin, Let me put your mind at rest, you are not the only guy to have fantasies about being with another guy; and you are not the only Christian to have these feelings either. They part of your development and will help to form your sexuality; it will...

Teenage Problems: Need Advice, one of my best friends, maturbation
one of my best friends, maturbation, sexual experimentation: Dear Daniel, I will answer your question point by point, so it is easier to understand and read. 1) Yes, a lot of guys do go through a phase of sexual experimentation at a young age. Experimentation is completely normal and will help you to understand...

Teenage Problems: Need help!, height and weight, eye contact
height and weight, eye contact, best friends: Hi Zoe: I think you really need to talk to someone professionally .... like a school councilor or Pastor/Minister. Go and see some one as soon as you can. Now here are some of my toughts on the items you mentioned (although I m no expert ... and don...

Teenage Problems: Need A little advice please, puppy love, 10th grader
puppy love, 10th grader, gf: Hi your ex will get over you, i wouldnt worry about it too much. She sounds to me very immature, losing a friend because she would prefer to be nasty to you and your gf. I don t think she can still love you if it is so easy for her to hurt you and your...

Teenage Problems: Need Parents Trust Back, loving favour, pastor don
loving favour, pastor don, will take some time: Hi Laura, Thnks for this honest and heart felt question. I tell my kids, Forgiveness is commanded, trust is earned. Trust takes a long time to regain. Trust is slowly built as you obey and honor your parents, even when they are not watching. Little...

Teenage Problems: Need Skin Protection, spf sunblock, little sun
spf sunblock, little sun, skin cancer: Jennie, It s great that you spend a lot of time outside, that is really healthy. I m sorry but I don t know of any other forms of sun protection other than sunblock and clothing. A little sun is actually good for you, it gives you vitamin D. Everything is...

Teenage Problems: Nervous Teen, butterfiles, dr pepper
butterfiles, dr pepper, girl 2: Hi Sandy, You seem did a right thing by calming her down by allowing her to feel more comfortable during the pre-shows and during the shows. You need to remember, she is a young teenager who have responsibility tending with the animals, you need to reassure...

Teenage Problems: Night clubs and pubs, lap dancer, pole dancer
lap dancer, pole dancer, hiv and aids: Hey J-Lee, Promosiscuous sex, that is sleeping with lots of different people increases your chances of not only getting pregnant, if you don t use protection, but also increases the risk of you getting a sexually transmitted disease, the severity of which,...

Teenage Problems: Non-Christian School, bullys, peer pressure
bullys, peer pressure, classmates: hey vic, dont let others destroy your beliefs or make you feel ashamed of them, because teens can be just as cruel to non christians. Mostly everyone will come across some form of bullying in high school, you have to overcome bullys in your own way. Be strong,...

Teenage Problems: Non Conformity to Societal norms, galatians 6, apathetic attitude
galatians 6, apathetic attitude, societal norms: Hi Angelo, Thanks for that great question. There are ways that one s behavior can be modified: 1. One can learn and live. He hears teaching and wisdom, and adjusts his choices and course in life based upon the input he receives. Proverbs 4:1-4...

Teenage Problems: me n my bf, getin, doing the right thing
getin, doing the right thing, heya: If you think you re doing the right thing in your heart, then you are.If you truely love him dont let anything get in the way from you being happy with him. You should still be focused on the main things: which is respecting your parents and what they ve go...

Teenage Problems: My name is Cherish., social anxiety disorder, e mail address
social anxiety disorder, e mail address, traumatic stress disorder: Cherish- (that s a pretty name) Hi, I am going to look up information as well as tell you what I know of this disease. I know enough to have gotten me through the tough times with my mother. From what I know, the disease (yes it is a disease) that...

Teenage Problems: my name is kelli. im 13 yrs...., kelli, wit
kelli, wit, parents: kelli, you should tell your parents whats going on with you. they are the only people who know you well enough to help you. a doctor could try to help you, but unfortunately, he doesn t know the real you. talk to your parents, they can help you. Yes,...

Teenage Problems: hi remember me bob, little willow, getting a job
little willow, getting a job, red hair: Hi Corey. Congratulations on a healthy baby girl. A very pretty name too. A red head like me, thats nice to hear also. I m glad everything is working out, and i hope everything continues to go well, im sure you ll be a great dad. Good luck to you and Amy,...

Teenage Problems: need some advice, first kiss, voice change
first kiss, voice change, jelous: Dear Ivett, Well for starters you have to decide what you want to get out of the relationship with Israel - if you want to be just friends or romantically involved. Once you made your mind up, stick with your decision. If you have decided you just want...

Teenage Problems: need some advice, having a baby, honesty
having a baby, honesty, girlfriend: Hi Tyler, I understand you got your girlfriend pregnant, but how old is she? Do you love her? Does your mother know she is your girl? In my experience, honesty is best rule if your mother trusts you, there is no reason to hide or be scared to tell...

Teenage Problems: need advice, first and last time, gynocologist
first and last time, gynocologist, patient doctor: honestly, that doesnt sound quite normal. id get it checked out at a gynocologist if i were you. tell your mom your periods are irregular and just go into the appt by yourself and without your mother. tell your doctor the truth about things sand by law there...

Teenage Problems: need advice, bathroom stall, private bathroom
bathroom stall, private bathroom, urinal: Hi, It is pretty rare among young men who have some issues using a urinal in public, my suggestion go in alone a real quickly in and out or use the regular private bathroom stall with a door lock. It should solve his problem. My question how long did...

Teenage Problems: I need some advice if you are in the mood, foodstamps, unexpected complications
foodstamps, unexpected complications, middl: valerie, I really wish that I knew exactly what to tell you, but I don t. All I can say for right now is that I m here for you to vent to or talk to any time you need someone to. Honestly, don t hesitate to email me anytime you need to get anything out. Although,...

Teenage Problems: i need some advice, teenage problems, dissagree
teenage problems, dissagree, shr: hey, these sound like common teenage problems. Your fighting with your parents because now your getting older, your wanting to do more things, change things and expect everyone else to deal with it, yeah? Its normal for teens to be like that. Think about how...

Teenage Problems: i need friend advice, little princess, guy friend
little princess, guy friend, dance party: Farah, (Love your name) This girl sounds really pathetic. It is obvious that something shitty is going on with her otherwise she wouldn t be belittling you the way she has been. When people try and controll others it is only because they don t like them selves,...

Teenage Problems: i need some one to help me, hired help, little brother
hired help, little brother, mother daughter: Amina, I can honestly say that I had the same problem when I was 13. Life s not easy, sweetie. It never really will be, but it s worth it. It s worth pushing through the hard times. I m 17 now, and when I was 12, it seemed like I would never reach this...

Teenage Problems: I need help, 20 questons, step mom
20 questons, step mom, personal time: they might be over-protective but isn t over protective better than not protective at all, believe me I ve been there I know you want your freedom, your abilility to come and go when you want but the fact is you are 15 until you are 18 you need to stay at...

Teenage Problems: i need help, miscarrage, boyfreind
miscarrage, boyfreind, old girl: sorry.......I say ur an IDIOT. Honey, I m 16 right now. Being a sixteen yr old girl-our hearts are fragial at this point. Youare giving away to a person who has no future for himself and could NEVER provide a future for you. You are too good for a sex-active,...

Teenage Problems: i need help, old boyfriend, latin girl
old boyfriend, latin girl, kiss: Honestly, you will never leave him no matter what he does because you are too caught up in all this but I would at least tell him that if he does the drugs not to do it around him and also as much as i don t like to say this you should really just focus on...

Teenage Problems: need help, cheater, psychologist
cheater, psychologist, ups: Thanks for letting me know the problem is being solved. I do recommend to be careful near a cheater. I would never date a cheater, yet that s your choice. I am glad you took my advice about the psychologist. Please ask follow ups whenever needed. By the...

Teenage Problems: I need help, having sex with animals, sexual fetish
having sex with animals, sexual fetish, sex with animals: No dogs cannot get humans pregnant. BUT HAVING SEX WITH ANIMALS IS WRONG. It s rape. Your poor dog didn t want to have sex with you. Please end this act now. And if you want to get over this sexual fetish talk to a therapist. Best wishes and PLEASE DON T DO...

Teenage Problems: I need help, extreams, medicne
extreams, medicne, counseler: Hello, My name is Expert Dan. Your father put you in the hospital for what reason? You were recently labeled bipolar, yet you do not see any psychologist at this moment due to costs? You want to see a psychologist? Have you talked to any of the hotlines out...

Teenage Problems: i need help, good relationship, neva
good relationship, neva, couple of days: Hey ... you have only been with each other a week ... trust me you don t love him... and he doesn t love you ... AND THAT IS NOT A BAD THING. Love takes a really long time. And as far as not being able to talk to him openly that could be a problem. The key...

Teenage Problems: I need help, http www myspace, stressful situations
http www myspace, stressful situations, taco bell: Was your work experience at Taco Bell a good one? Or was there a lot of stressful situations? Sometimes that can cause people to be scared of doing things. However, I am not sure why it would affect this and make it hard for you to say hello. Have...

Teenage Problems: i need help, religious persuasions, ept test
religious persuasions, ept test, ebf: Stacie, I wish you had given me your age. But I ll skip the sermon and not tell you You should have done this which is meaningless if you are pregnant. First of all i would get an EPT test kit from a drug store and read it and call the toll free line before...

Teenage Problems: i need help, puppy love, responsible person
puppy love, responsible person, distrust: Sup Ali, You have to understand that the reason why her parents are being strict with her is because she lied to them. It hurts especially when someone as close as your family lies to you. You get this feeling of vulnerability. She has to regain her trust...

Teenage Problems: i need help 2 find a group, nervous stomach, da library
nervous stomach, da library, da group: Just don t be afraid of talking to people. Introduce yourself to people who don t know you. Try sitting with that group again where you have two friends. They should be polite and introduce you to everyone; you could ask them to do that as well. Don t try...

Teenage Problems: i need help 2 find a group, nervous stomach, da library
nervous stomach, da library, da group: hey , Well maybe these ppl that u are tryin to hang out with are ppl that arent really your freinds....maybe you should try to meet someone new at school and just be freindly and nice...be yourself around new ppl. Maybe you shouldnt focus so...

Teenage Problems: i need help, faily, pain and suffering
faily, pain and suffering, docter: Hi Laura As far as I m aware psychologists are like doctors; most of the time they don t need parent s permission and they will keep all the information private so you have nothing to worry about. I think you should try this clinic; Admiral Way Doxford...

Teenage Problems: i need help, rapist, 13 years
rapist, 13 years, job: Did you know that he was 21? If you did then you should because if you don t then you are going to allow for him to ruin the rest of his life. It will be very hard for him to get a job because he will have a record as a rapist. That isn t something that you...

Teenage Problems: In need of help, height and weight, eye contact
height and weight, eye contact, best friends: Hello Zoe, I think that the you have low levels of self esteem and these people are starting to get to you and break you down that is probably why you won t make eye contact with anyone any more and probably why you are so worried about your height and...

Teenage Problems: i need help, 1 corinthians 7, romantic relationships
1 corinthians 7, romantic relationships, physical attraction: Hi Mayra, Thanks for this question. Interpersonal romantic relationships are complecated and unpredictable, however, I do have some strong advice for you. You asked if you should make a move and by that you meant show some kind of physical attraction...

Teenage Problems: need some help!!, saxophone lessons, aquantances
saxophone lessons, aquantances, bowling club: You are fine just the way you are. If you are quiet that s fine, if you are shy that s fine, but just don t shut out people which by the sounds of it I don t think you are. That s great you have two best friends and other friends and aquantints. As far...

Teenage Problems: I need help on an article, super skinny models, unreal models
super skinny models, unreal models, low self esteem: The fact is that unreal women being the model of what a woman should be is ridiculous. Looking at unreal models as what a women should be gives normal women low self-esteem. Models should not be looked at as normal, but rather as abnormal. We all have...

Teenage Problems: need help on how to ask this girl out, question pool, venessa
question pool, venessa, girl name: Hello, We need more information including ages. This question was put in the question pool maybe because it didn t include enough information. How come you like her? How come you want to date her? Is it because of looks only? Not a good reason. Please ask...

Teenage Problems: I need help BAD!!!, sleeping pills, first love
sleeping pills, first love, retraining: Megan, I m so sorry to hear everything that you went through. All of those people who have treated you terribly over the years must have given you a low self esteem. But I want you to know that the way all of these horrible people treated you wasn t your...

Teenage Problems: I need help in learing to let someone go......, brittany, mom
brittany, mom, relationship: Brittany, First of all, are you pregnant? Just curious. I know how you must be feeling. My 3rd ex was just like that guy you told me about. He went from nice to down-right mean and controlling. He said that I wasn t mature enough for him, that he still...

Teenage Problems: I need help in letting someone go......, brittany, abby
brittany, abby, mistake: Hi Brittany! Yes, this is perfectly normal...trust me, I ve been there too. It takes time to get over someone. here s a good example-- this past summer, I had a very short lived relationship with a guy (it was more like a fling). After about a month of...

Teenage Problems: I need help moving on....., girly girl, voice messages
girly girl, voice messages, first love: Yours was not a match made in heaven from your letter. You will get over him for sure. But right now from all you wrote you seem to actually want to rekindle the relationship. He sounds bitter. You did not say which of you chose to end it. You probably...

Teenage Problems: I need help with a step-son, juvenile detention center, stay in trouble
juvenile detention center, stay in trouble, trouble in school: Hello Dana, Thanks for this great question. I am sorry for my late response. I am afraid that I do not have anything revolutionary or new to tell you, but I can remind you of something you probably already know. We are all motivated to modify our...

Teenage Problems: i need help, communcation, good luck
communcation, good luck, best friend: Hi Sandra You re definately in a difficult situation. But communcation is the key. Trust me. this will pass and soon you will look back on it. But for now, I think you should talk to your friend. No matter how hard she makes it or how much you dont want...

Teenage Problems: i need to know, corinthians chapter 13, first corinthians chapter 13
corinthians chapter 13, first corinthians chapter 13, transalations: Megan, no do not ask such a question of anyone. if someone loves you they will make it known to you in small ways. Like a phone call, a small gift, a smile, letting you know where they will be. Planning something. Suggesting where you both can go like...

Teenage Problems: need to know if i may have OCD, health insurance plan, doctor of psychiatry
health insurance plan, doctor of psychiatry, care doctor: Cerissa, Only a doctor of psychiatry should make the determination of whether you have OCD or not. You seem to have some of the characteristics associated with OCD . Ocd ers seem to fall into three general categories. One is the washers, another is the...

Teenage Problems: i need to know, 10th grader, chelsea
10th grader, chelsea, good luck: Hey ... i say this to a ton of kids on here YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE! Sorry i know it is blunt to say but it is true. If you have any hesitations on whether or not you love someone and they love you, than you don t. And there isn t anything you can ask him to make...

Teenage Problems: I need to learn to work diligently, high school grades, education regulations
high school grades, education regulations, college grades: Hi Stephen: The simple answer is to get yourself a room that has no distractions in it. So if you study in your bedroom, time to make some changes. Move the following items out of the room. TV, radio/stero/ computor. Set specific times for study...

Teenage Problems: why do we need love?, 1 corinthians 7, whole lotta
1 corinthians 7, whole lotta, pastor don: Hi Tiff, Thanks for this great question. The answer may suprise you. As far as romantic love, you do not NEED it. Some people have been given the gift of singleness. They have no internal need to have a romantic love. Read 1 Corinthians 7 and you will...

Teenage Problems: why do we need love?, tiny thread, whole lotta
tiny thread, whole lotta, dodgy: Hey sorry it took me a couple of days, I tried to do this yesterday but the computer went all dodgy. Anyways, I think I understand completely what you re saying. My boyfriend and I just broke up after 11 months and it really hurt. I agree, it seems like love...

Teenage Problems: I just need someone to talk to :(, general anxiety disorder, blood boil
general anxiety disorder, blood boil, self mutilator: Far out, that sounds really hard. I d hate living like that! It s completely unfair on you. Have you tried pointing all this out to them? Like actually telling them what they do and how it feels from your point of view? It s complete rubbish that you should...

Teenage Problems: I need someone to talk to about these things, true happiness, universal truths
true happiness, universal truths, meaning of life: Hi Neha: I m not sure I can tell you the meaning of life grin as I m still learning myself. I think the answer to that question is in the journey itself. As human s we do know some universal truths about life though. They are: - true happiness...

Teenage Problems: i need ur help please, mom and dad, parents
mom and dad, parents, yahoo: hey bob, well i think youre going to have to ask her even if it isnt easy and uncomfortable to do. if she is pregnant and its your child then you should know.dont worry about telling your parents yet because you arent definately, 100% sure that she is pregnant....

Teenage Problems: just need to vent..., real jerk, steady boyfriend
real jerk, steady boyfriend, right move: Hi Nickie: Experience predicts the future. The short answer is that your old boy friend has already demostrated what he s capable of when he doesn t like things. Do you want to go back to the fighting etc?? The answer to my question above should solve...

Teenage Problems: just need to vent..., real jerk, steady boyfriend
real jerk, steady boyfriend, right move: Hey Nickie it is ok,for me this letter is not long because I have had 4 pages or more of letter of people asking for help and I read each and everyword. Now I have had these problemas where I want to decide weather decided between 2 guys and it is ha then...

Teenage Problems: just need to vent..., real jerk, steady boyfriend
real jerk, steady boyfriend, right move: Nickole, Ugh! I know how you feel, and I just hate it that you re going through it cause I know from personal experience that it is NO FUN! I ve been in this situation many times over, and there are always going to be times when you wonder if you did...

Teenage Problems: Just need to vent..., real jerk, steady boyfriend
real jerk, steady boyfriend, nickie: Nickie, get this i just had the same thing happen to me........weird i must say......just a little different scenerio........well heres what i think.....Craig broke up with u and really didn t care that he was hurtin u cuz like you said he u weren t feelin...

Teenage Problems: Just need to vent..., real jerk, steady boyfriend
real jerk, steady boyfriend, right move: Hey! I know how confusing this can be, especially as Craig was your first proper boyfriend. But I think subconsciously you ve already decided yourself who you want to be with. You and Craig were together for quite a long time, so obviously there are...

Teenage Problems: needed to hear what a parent thinks, full time job, smart kid
full time job, smart kid, good kid: Hi Melessa, Thanks you for this great question. I am a father of 4 and my oldest is in college at NYU right now.... sometimes I get scared for her even though she is a very smart kid and has a black belt too! I do have the following thoughts about your...

Teenage Problems: My nephew is OUT OF CONTROL..., leaps and bounds, mild retardation
leaps and bounds, mild retardation, staring at the wall: Hi Kayrin, Thank you for this very personal and sad question. My heart goes out to you and your family. This must be very difficult for you all. You are doing almost everything right. You are not just trying to teach behavioral change, but you are...

Teenage Problems: nerves, freshman year, 10th grade
freshman year, 10th grade, nerves: Hi Alana: Sorry I don t have anything special I can pass on to tell you re your nerves, but I can say that it will be alright. Don t worry so much. The year will unfold as it should. You ll met lots of new people and the year will be filled with lots...

Teenage Problems: nerves, freshman year, 10th grade
freshman year, 10th grade, going back to school: Hi Alana, Times have changed, it is normal to have nerves about going back to school. I wonder why you said you had a horrible year? If you can explain to me reasons, maybe I will be able to assist you how to relax and ideas how to settle your nerves....

Teenage Problems: net frnd, meaningful relationship, steady boyfriend
meaningful relationship, steady boyfriend, awkward age: No net friends are not bad unless you have someone who seems to be obessed with meeting you. Watch out for peope who say they love you on the internet thats nice but its not realistic and probably not true. You can learn from other people as long as you...

Teenage Problems: net frnd, country india, frnds
country india, frnds, board exams: Simi, What you need to start doing is taking control of your life, you need to start getting out of this depression state because its making you feel that you need to be dependant upon him. Try figuring out your problems on your own, if you give yourself...

Teenage Problems: net frnd, country india, frnds
country india, frnds, board exams: My friend just checking to see how you are. Questions unanswered end up sometimes on my desk, and I have to click to get them removed from the desk. I recommend asking questions here, so don t worry if they end up on my desk. I m just saying they sometimes...

Teenage Problems: net frnd, suffering from depression, country india
suffering from depression, country india, frnds: Hey Simi, It is normal to build up friendships over the internet and to divulge information that you wouldn t normally to someone over the net. We do this because they do not know who we are and this is a protection from them judging us or rejecting us...

Teenage Problems: net frnd, country india, predator
country india, predator, personal info: Hey again ... i don t know how safe it is for you to be talking to him. But other than that ... don t let him get you down when he doesn t want to talk. Maybe he is just feeling weird about the whole online friendship thing. Maybe he is just bussy. Or maybe...

Teenage Problems: net frnd, country india, frnds
country india, frnds, board exams: Dear Simi, Just remember that he is not there for you in a literal way. You should concentrate on your friends at school and your schoolwork. In a few short years you will be out of school and you can then concentrate on boys. Just try now on getting...

Teenage Problems: net frrnd, children obey your parents, country india
children obey your parents, country india, pastor don: Hi Simi, THanks for this great question, and I am sorry for this late response. You are engaged in a very dangerous activity. You have no way of knowing that the person that you are sharing all your close feelings with is actually a 16 year old boy...

Teenage Problems: new guy, how to overcome shyness, shy guy
how to overcome shyness, shy guy, classmate: Well I always think that the best thing to do is to be yourself... However, just kinda add into a conversation... or ask someone a question and then introduce yourself... Find some people that you think have the same interests as you and try to talk to them......

Teenage Problems: new in luv, girl at school, courage
girl at school, courage, conversations: Udechukwu, Well since you re shy it would be best to build up the courage to go up to her and talk to her, whenever you see her just wave or go up to her and say hi, ask how how she s doing and stuff like that, if you do it often enough you guys can actually...

Teenage Problems: new relationship, attitude problem, man of my dreams
attitude problem, man of my dreams, war game: Hi, I see one simple solution to this problem is to speak with your fiance regards his daughter about her behaviors. She is causing you unhappiness. I am certain he will try to fix it in order to keep you. both of you need to consider to attend family...

Teenage Problems: a new me, malls, exercise
malls, exercise, girls: Start making friends. Go up to people and just say, Hi, how are you today? Be nice, not mean, and smile a lot. Be yourself though. Dress how you want, and don t change to fit anyone s expectations, because no one will like you if you do that. If you need...

Teenage Problems: non christian woman rights in islam, women of islam, islam women
women of islam, islam women, woman rights: hello amy, i honestly dont know anything about the women of islam, but just go to a search page and type in islam women and see what you find out. or you can type in rights of islam women and see what you find there. well good luck, if i had more time on...

Teenage Problems: is this normal, different reasons, erection
different reasons, erection, orgasm: Hey Ken, Some young men can cum unexpectedly for a number of different reasons, but that was probably a one off for you. If you get over excited because of the lead up, it means that when you have sex, you will come a lot quicker. Some tips to ensure...

Teenage Problems: What is a normal level of anxiety at work?, pshycologist, sense of urgency
pshycologist, sense of urgency, last job: hey a while back you were talking about having anxiety at work and was just wondering how you were doing and such. I hope everything is relatively okay!...

Teenage Problems: is this normal, average size penis, average size of penis
average size penis, average size of penis, kyjelly: what does your semen look like? it looks whitish colcor but may be clear and it becomes clear if you do not wipe it up. It may come out clear or white and will usially be kind of thick. A boy may masturbate by grasping his penis with his dominant hand and...

Teenage Problems: nothings the same, prissy girl, africa africa
prissy girl, africa africa, funny girl: Hi, Thank you for this great question. Based on your letter, I do have some advice and observations for you to consider. 1. Friends often drift apart due to the constant changing nature of life. You said that things are not the same... you are right....

Teenage Problems: My nutty friends, nutty friends, desk drawer
nutty friends, desk drawer, cellulite cream: Hello Debbie, Women usually have self-esteem issues. One negative remark can make them very self conscious. I think Kathy, Mimi and Mary are very lucky to have you as a friend. The media and magazines are also used to sell a product or a look just like...

Teenage Problems: my OCD, obsessive compulsive disorder, cuboards
obsessive compulsive disorder, cuboards, ocds: Hey Kay, We all have to some point, small OCD factors within us; for example, double checking the door is locked, checking the oven is off etc but for some people, these become not only routine but something more significant. OCDs are common but can...

Teenage Problems: OCD, obsessive compulsive disorder, food containers
obsessive compulsive disorder, food containers, old newspapers: Ray, OCD ers seem to fall into a few categories . Checkers like checking if they did something over and over again like turning a light on and off many times to make sure it is turned off. Or washers they may wash their hands a hundred times per day or...

Teenage Problems: Odd Names, http www myspace, odd names
http www myspace, odd names, having anal sex: Like what type of things? Guys sometimes say weird things but unless it just totally freaks you out I wouldnt worry about that. It may just be something that he does to get off, who knows with guys these days. And the best way to get around to having anal...

Teenage Problems: OMG OMG OMG, weirdo, gah
weirdo, gah, what the heck: OMG! You re such a freaking weirdo, Megan! What the heck is wrong with you? Waking up and sleeping like that!?!?! GAH!!! You need psychological help! Go get a counselor...! I m gonna like...never speak to you again, you freak! (lol) ((RATE ME 10s PLEASE!!!...

Teenage Problems: Oops, exact same thing, 18 year olds
exact same thing, 18 year olds, predicament: Dear Nickie, I profusely apologize for not getting this to you sooner. My computer has not been working correctly and I answered you a couple of days ago but it did not go through. Your question is not a problem at all. If fact I am...

Teenage Problems: Oops., personal decision, masturbating
personal decision, masturbating, teenagers: C Masturbating is actually perfectly normal. Especially in teenagers. It s a private thing that your friends don t really need to be invovled in deciding for you. It s a taboo, meaning people do it (lots of people in this case) but nobody ever really talks...

Teenage Problems: Oops, 4 of july, breana
4 of july, breana, 18 year olds: Ok wut you should do is tell him.If he is your friend then he will stay your friend even if your not the age he thought you were.But if you don t wantto tell him.I geuss it wouldn t be considered lying if he doesn t ask your age.If he asks then you can tell...

Teenage Problems: Oral sex/using hands, dakoda, dental dam
dakoda, dental dam, skin to skin: Hello there Dakoda, STIs can be spread from skin to skin contact, if for example she has herpes, which leads to warts on her vagina and she touches your penis with her hand, the virus could be transmitted. If you put your vinger inside her and it has...

Teenage Problems: Oral sex, marriage song, sex in the bible
marriage song, sex in the bible, song of solomon: Hi Hector, Thanks for this great question. Sex is God s gift to married couples. It is pure and beautiful within the confines of marriage. Song of Solomon is a book of love and sex in the Bible. There is much that can be learned about a proper physical...

Teenage Problems: Orgasms, open relationship, clitorous
open relationship, clitorous, maturbation: Liz - Yes, it s possible that you may not be able to orgasm by masterbation, but are you SURE you ve tried everything? Have you ever thought of buying a vibrator? The G spot is a spot located up inside the vagina and the clitoris is located externally...

Teenage Problems: Orgasms, open relationship, clitorous
open relationship, clitorous, maturbation: Yes you can still have the ability to have an orgasm! Some people take longer than other to reach it. A g spot is a particular spot inside you that when having sex your boyfriends dick or penis (whatever you call it) hits that spot and you will have...

Teenage Problems: OVERPROTECTIVE, barwick, cow
barwick, cow, balls: Everyone is so different. No two people in this world are the same. Every person has a different family life, everyone was brought up differently. Some people are brought up to eat cow balls, some people are brought up to not eat any meat at all, some people...

Teenage Problems: OVERPROTECTIVE, simple answer, good question
simple answer, good question, parenting: Hi, You ask a good question. Sadly there is not a simple answer there. Each case is different. I assume you are asking because of your parents. Do you want to talk about it? Please ask follow ups James Windell our Parenting Teen expert is also goo...

Teenage Problems: OVERPROTECTIVE, protective parents, barwick
protective parents, barwick, colton: Cameron, Usually, parents are more over-protective when they have had protective parents themselves. Either that, or their parents didn t care at all, and they want to lead a better example. It just depends on the parent s personality too. If they are...

Teenage Problems: OVERPROTECTIVE, lord jesus christ, pastor don
lord jesus christ, pastor don, barwick: Hi Cameron, Thanks for your question. I am sorry that it has taken me so long to respond to you. I find your choice of words interesting. Some people are overprotective in the eyes of others while they do not view themselves to be overprotective. ...

Teenage Problems: OVERPROTECTIVE, childhood experiences, obsessive behavior
childhood experiences, obsessive behavior, culture community: Any sort of obsessive behavior (and some overprotection borders on obsession) originates from FEAR. In general, overprotective families behave this way because they FEAR what will happen if the person being protected is left alone or left able to act freely...

Teenage Problems: OVERPROTECTIVE, protective families
protective families: Actually I can answer this question because my family is the type that is OVER-PROTECTIVE. If you have an over-protective family they re only that way because they want the best for you they don t want you to get hurt or anything. I understand you want to...

Teenage Problems: OVERPROTECTIVE, proper parenting, wsy
proper parenting, wsy, barwick: Cameron Well some parents get over protective because they fear that their children are not ready for the outside world, like they can;t handle the dangers and hurt tht are out there, some do this because it s their only knowledge of proper parenting which...

Teenage Problems: Overbearing Mother, tutor kids, store clerks
tutor kids, store clerks, overbearing mother: Hello again, Just checking to see how you are. Really let me know if I can offer anymore help. I can give you my private email address if you want. Hello, I am going to recommend this third party website for help also: www.nineline.org I am so...

Teenage Problems: Overnight trips for teens, sea sun, overnight trips
sea sun, overnight trips, unacceptable behavior: Hey Mary, Well this comes down to how much you trust your son and indeed his girlfriend. He is getting older and developing into a young man and in order for him to become an adult, he has to be allowed to make his own mistakes, make his own choices and...

Teenage Problems: Owing a debt, harsh realities, navy
harsh realities, navy, parents: Hello Karen, Your son did something wrong and you had to compensate everyone else for his wrong doing because he was too young and not financially sound enough to do it himself. Now he is big enough and old enough to join the Navy, it s about time that...

Teenage Problems: WHY! oh WHY!!!, shy guy, guy friend
shy guy, guy friend, guyz: Hey sweety, thanx for picking me. ok so shy guys. wow they can be pretty confusing lol. now with your situation im thinking that he s shy to you because he likes you witch also explains the reasons to why he always looks your way.What i think you should...

Teenage Problems: ok well i am not sure how..., counsellor, ama
counsellor, ama, personality: Hey Katie, You don t have a bad personality, it just sounds like you are either stressed or board with your life at the minute. You need to start getting involved more and I know you are probably shy, but get yourself into some clubs or societies that share...

Teenage Problems: okay-way too much to let out..., mood swings, medication
mood swings, medication, stress: Okay, first off, all teens pretty much have stress. it s a normal thing. It just happens in your teens years. but you ll make it through it, don t worry about it. As for the bi-polar, you might want to see a doctor to be officially tested, and if you do...

Teenage Problems: omg, heared, cute guy
heared, cute guy, travis: Okay, this sounds really confusing, can you please restate the question, it soudns liek i can help, you just need to clarify it, but try not to worry about it until i reply to your reply, it sounds like you needta tell everyone you were just doiung your assignment?.....

Teenage Problems: online long distance relationship, long distance relationship, friend jim
long distance relationship, friend jim, pros and cons: Hey there Jennifer, In response to your question I was going to send you a copy of a paper I have just had to submit for University on this very issue; looking at whether or not internet and long-distance dating works and the pros and cons. Although it...

Teenage Problems: What is your opinion on Skinny Models?, super skinny models, girls
super skinny models, girls: Hey ... i honestly like that look. I have always been super skinny and tall myself because I used to do modeling, and i have always found that look beautiful. I know some of the girls are unhealthy but I was always =healthy about it and a lot of other girls...

Teenage Problems: oral sex, using a condom, gusy
using a condom, gusy, tho: Sorry, but im a guy, so i dont really know how to give it. I know how to receive it as most gusy do, and i m sure if you ask him what to do he ll probably know, if not write back and i can explain more, i guess. Just FYI: be extremely careful, and think about...

Teenage Problems: overdose, heat exhaustion, cause dizziness
heat exhaustion, cause dizziness, faintness: Emma, I m sorry but I can t answer this question because I m not a doctor and I think you need to see one. Here are a few things that it could be though ... It could be because of your ears, sometimes if they have an infection it does something to the water...

Teenage Problems: overwhelmed, teen problems, getting into college
teen problems, getting into college, academic level: Hello, thnanks for your question. You don t have to take advanced classes to go to college. In fact, I know many people that have had average grades and gone to community college. After doing well there, they have went on to a major university and done well....

Teenage Problems: my own problems, legal adult, rough time
legal adult, rough time, nastiness: Hey Kelys, It sounds like you are having a bit of a rough time at the minute and that you are thinking and feeling like you should give in. You should not. Sometimes, things like this, all the nastiness and cruelty you have experienced will only serve to...

Teenage Problems: MY PARENTS, family psychologist, stage in life
family psychologist, stage in life, family time: One thing I learned is that friends rarely last forever. Families do however. I may recommend you to see a family psychologist with them so you can both work out the problems at hand. I also recommend James Windell our Parenting teen expert. Please ask follow...

Teenage Problems: my PARENTS, old adage, rough time
old adage, rough time, job interview: Hey there Tommy, I am sorry to hear that you are going through a rough time with your parents. You are by no means the only young person to have problems with their parents and this is a problem that I recieve a lot of. Parents have the responsibility...

Teenage Problems: My PARENTS!!, physical intimacy, youth outings
physical intimacy, youth outings, middle daughter: Hi Allie, Thanks for your question. I understand that you want your freedom and that you feel that your parents just don t get it. First of all, who is paying for the cell phone? If they are paying for it, then it is very reasonable that they would have...

Teenage Problems: Parent Problems, dr martin, age 18
dr martin, age 18, girlfriend: Hi Jon, First of all, Don t worry about her parents, they can not do anything about it because your girl is legal age 18 which it means she is an adult, she can make her own choices... however she lives with her parents and she follow their rules. ...

Teenage Problems: Parent(s) finding out about sex, appologise, jessie
appologise, jessie, appologizing: Hey Jessie, Your mom is probably disappointed because her little girl is becoming a woman; and she probably would have wanted you to wait until you were a little bit older and a little bit more settled before you decided to have sex with someone. But never...

Teenage Problems: Parental issues, benefit of the doubt, midpoint
benefit of the doubt, midpoint, summer time: Hello, im glad that you came to me for help. This question is not really a difficult one. Did you ask your parents why they are not attending? If they did then maybe they just had something important to do on that day, which they could not cancel. It doesnt...

Teenage Problems: Parental problem, long periods of time, attiude
long periods of time, attiude, rarly: Bipolar or not it s clear that this woman has issues with her son having a girlfriend. Being bipolar simply affects how she emotionally responds and expresses those feelings. My ex fiance s mother was a psycho pain in the butt woman who wanted nothing...

Teenage Problems: Parents, free periods, girl 2
free periods, girl 2, excuse: Hey Madina, Parents usually try and look out for us but instead end up making us get annoyed at them or not understand what they are trying to do. I think your parents are just trying to keep you focused on your school work and they think that anything...

Teenage Problems: Parents, super nintendo, responce
super nintendo, responce, chores: Hey Jenny, I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that it was because your mother is Mexican. Parents often lead by the way in which they were taught, i.e. their background and the memories of how their parents were with them. This means that...

Teenage Problems: My Parents, mature approach, living my life
mature approach, living my life, little sister: Hello Simone - Thank you for writing to me. What you and your family are going through is fairly normal. Teenagers begin to want independence - parents may not be ready to let go, etc. In your note, you state I have changed - what did you mean by...

Teenage Problems: Parents and body mods, surface piercings, collarbones
surface piercings, collarbones, body mods: Hi Cat: I think I m the wrong person to ask, as I m against that sort of stuff myself. In fact I threatened my daughter with I d rip it out if she went forward with a lip piercing grin I m not sure what age is legal in the UK, but assuming it...

Teenage Problems: Parents complaining about my looks, short sleeved shirts, person dresses
short sleeved shirts, person dresses, growing a beard: Dwayne, It sounds like you have parents like mine and it really sucks. I had that same discussion with my parents a couple years ago, but mine was with my mother wanting me to dress up all the time when I went to things like family reunions, church, and...

Teenage Problems: Parents dating, dealing with divorce, strange person
dealing with divorce, strange person, showing affection: Dear Danaka Drush, Hmmm....this seems like a hard situation to be in I can tell. Well.....I ve had somewhat the same thing happen to me...my mom re-married and I don t like her new husband at all....he s a slob.....anyways back to your problem lol...I know...

Teenage Problems: Parents and movies, forensic scientist, rational arguments
forensic scientist, rational arguments, mutilated bodies: Tori, I wish I knew how to help you with this issue. I would say do what you feel is best for you. If you know that in the long run studying this sort of thing will be good for you, than continue to do research on it with out the help of your parents. Sorry...

Teenage Problems: Parents & a puppy, guinea pig, toy poodle
guinea pig, toy poodle, getting a job: Hi Laura Thanks for the question. Let me first ask, has your mom often had to tell you to feed, change the papers, or pick up after any of the animals? If so, that may be why your mom is hesitent to let you have another pet. Or maybe she doesn t want...

Teenage Problems: Parents and relationships, parents and grandparents, hey sarah
parents and grandparents, hey sarah, confi: Hey Sarah, Good, lasting relationships build up from a spark but last over time. If you want a relationship with this guy, or even just friendship, then because of the distance it will take time and trust on both your parts. If you want to know how...

Teenage Problems: Parents walked in, john thanks, instant messager
john thanks, instant messager, hi john: Hi John, thanks for writing. Well first, after you go off to college are you still planning to date her? Just let her parents cool off a little. The best thing is try to respect them and their home by behaving-at least when there is a chance you can get...

Teenage Problems: Parents won't let me be my age, party all the time, lived life
party all the time, lived life, choice school: Its time to talk to your parents, if you haven t already. Tell them you are a very responsible person and old enough to be on your own. Let them know just because you are in college does not mean you are there to party. Let them know they cannot compare...

Teenage Problems: My Parents!!, youth outings, underage boys
youth outings, underage boys, boyfriends: Hi Allie, I think your parents is protective of you because present time, many boys are using girls for one thing S E X! That is why they are concerned about underage boys , If you are my daughter, I would not allow you to speak with boys on phone or...

Teenage Problems: Past issues, eating disorder, 8 years
eating disorder, 8 years, expert advice: If you have an eating disorder you NEED to seek treatment and as fast as possible. You should also seek therapy for some of the things that happened in your past. It will be really healthy for you to talk about what happened to you, to a trusted person. They...

Teenage Problems: Peniso, Erections, Homosexuality, small penis, average penis
small penis, average penis, math problem: Dear Mike, I am a girl and not to familiar with these subjects, but did a little research for you. From what I found, the average penis is about 3-4 inches in a non-erect situation and 6-7 inches while erect. I d say you’re doing pretty well in this...

Teenage Problems: My Perents!!, youth outings, perents
youth outings, perents, allie: Allie, In my opinion, you should be able to call your boyfriend on the phone, maybe using the one hour a day your parents have given you to use the phone. Also, explain to your folks that you d like to be able to see your boyfriend more often then just...

Teenage Problems: Periods, stress diet, gynecologist
stress diet, gynecologist, girl friend: Liam, One thing you may want to ask your girlfriend is at any point has she skipped a day of taking the pill? Just one day of skipping even if she makes it up (by taking two the next day) there is a chance. It is unusual for someone who is taking the...

Teenage Problems: Peroid, gynocologist, some girls
gynocologist, some girls: most girls dont start their period until they are thirteen. some girls start before than but not many. then other girls dont start until between the ages of 14 and 16. at 16, if a girl still hasnt started her period, then she can talk to a gynocologist. but...

Teenage Problems: Personality conflicts, personality conflicts, hi chris
personality conflicts, hi chris, being a christian: Hi Chris: You have to keep looking in Christian places eg. churches etc. Having said this, my gut tells me that you re in search of something that isn t compatible with your Christian walk. I think what you really have to do is come to terms with the...

Teenage Problems: No Perticular Subject, hockey player, track field
hockey player, track field, grandparents: Hi Caine First of all, thanks for this question. I ve been in a similar situation myself. It sounds like you are getting burned out of hockey. Too much of a good thing can become a bad thing. What I would do is take time off from hockey and pursue other...

Teenage Problems: Pessimistic, personal experiences, negative thoughts
personal experiences, negative thoughts, having fun: Russell, Thank you for choosing me to help you out. Your problem isn t as rare as you may think. A lot of people in serious relationships are scared about what their love is doing (or what others are doing to their love) when they re not around. Don...

Teenage Problems: Pessimistic, self centeredness, being a christian
self centeredness, being a christian, negative thoughts: Hi Russell, Thanks you for this great question. I have prayed over this question, and I believe that God has helped me find the answer that you need from scriptures. What you call pessimism is more than that...it is self centeredness. In other words...many...

Teenage Problems: Being Pessimistic, arguements, negative thoughts
arguements, negative thoughts, insecurity: Hi Russell, thanks for writing back! I m glad you re doing better. I found one more site, it may or may not relate to you. http://www.allexperts.com/asp/articlev.asp?ArticleID=28 If I can be of anymore help, feel free to write back anytime. Good...

Teenage Problems: Pessimistic, sound sort, negative thoughts
sound sort, negative thoughts, things that matter: Hey Russell, In my own experience, pessimism stems from uncertainty about the future because of too much planning. What I mean is this, when we do something, we expect that we do it because it is purposeful and that there is a need to do it that ties in...

Teenage Problems: Phsyics, cencer, clairevoyant
cencer, clairevoyant, sex etc: Hey Nikki, Psychics have been around for hundreds of years and although many of them have been found to be fakes and fraudulent, there have been some who science cannot fault. For example, Nostrodamus, a French clairevoyant and psychic in about the 1600...

Teenage Problems: PLEASE HELP!!, couple problems, doubt in my mind
couple problems, doubt in my mind, light switch: Emily, well the best thing for you to do is come straight out and tell him the truth before he finds out on his own. iif you want a converstion starter, when you guys are alone just casually ask him what he think ab out someone his age dating a girl below...

Teenage Problems: Please give me suggestions.. awnsers., family law attorney, unnecessary abuse
family law attorney, unnecessary abuse, school counselor: Hi, Yes there are few things you can do to protect yourself from unnecessary abuse. First of all, you can go in Child Protection Services Agency to report this problem, they will be able to assist you from there. If they are unable to help you, I...

Teenage Problems: Please Help!, boat bottom, scars
boat bottom, scars, ribs: I was in the same boat -- bottom line -- this is sad but YOU can t do anything about it except what you have already done ... tell your friend you are praying for her and your dad and if ANYONE is abused they need help and you need to get them to go to counesling...

Teenage Problems: Please help!, o level, 4 months
o level, 4 months, ringer: Mr. Mushtahid HI my name is Lauren sorry if it seemed like awhile to get back to you. But you know really the only person that can change things is you. I mean how else are things going to get done if you don t change them? I mean you have to discipline yourself....

Teenage Problems: Plz help, worthwhile time, special time
worthwhile time, special time, 2pm: Dear Danielle, thanks for writing me. I personall have had the same feeling/thoughts after my dad died. I was afraid if I went off to school or even down the road, something would happen to her while I was gone. When she was suppose to be back at a certain...

Teenage Problems: Plz help!, school counselor, separation anxiety
school counselor, separation anxiety, older sister: YOU MAY SEE YOURSELF AS A PARENT AS IF YOUR ROLES ARE REVERSED. SHE SHOULD BE LOOKING OUT FOR YOU NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND. DID YOU SUFFEWR SOME LOSS IN YOUR LIFE AND IS THAT MAKING YOU WORRY THAT SOMETHING WILL HAPPEN TO YOUR MOM? THIS SEEMS TO MEAN THAT...

Teenage Problems: Pornography Addiction, adult hardcore pornography, internet porn addiction
adult hardcore pornography, internet porn addiction, child protection software: Hi, It is serious issue because if you are 18 years old, adult hardcore pornography is fine as long you are alone and not around the children. You may be aware child porn are illegal in USA. You could go jail for that crime. I suggest you do see a...

Teenage Problems: Possible depression, hygiene problems, thick blanket
hygiene problems, thick blanket, dvice: Hi Hannah, It sounds like one of the issues you have already identified- self esteem. If you are being bullied at school, then that is going to impact your self image in a HUGE way. When you describe the thick blanket I get the sense that you are talking...

Teenage Problems: Posting, advice website, advice giver
advice website, advice giver, pastes: Hello, If I understand this correctly, someone is posting the same question over and over again on many different question sites. They receive basically the same answer... But, keep posting. Are they posting to abuse the websites? I have to ask. I think...

Teenage Problems: PROM DATES!!!!!, prom dates, boyfriends
prom dates, boyfriends, first date: Hey. Ok well first you gotta consider the first guy s girlfriend. I know you really like him, but if you had a boyfriend and found out he was taking someone else to their prom, you d probably feel a bit betrayed and upset. So unless his girlfriend for...

Teenage Problems: Praying= God won't Hear Me out if I am a sinner, o lord god, servant moses
o lord god, servant moses, holy spirit of god: Hi Natasha, THanks for this great question. There is a Biblical foundation for the idea that we must get right with God in order for Him to be inclined to hear our prayers. We know that a person can cause God to grieve because of that person s sin....

Teenage Problems: Pre-marital sex, pre marital sex, virginity
pre marital sex, virginity, worth the wait: Jackfook, Virginity is incredible important as you only have one of them, and once it s gone, it s gone for ever; that is why the person you decide to give it to, should be someone special. There is no best age for sex; it is when you are ready and the...

Teenage Problems: Pregnancy, delaying your period, pregnancy tests
delaying your period, pregnancy tests, hormone production: Hey Neka, If two tests have come out as being not pregnant then that s good but you have to take precautions next time you have sex. The reason you haven t had your period could be down to worry...if you ve been panicking that you re pregnant it can...

Teenage Problems: Pregnancy, local health department, parental consent for abortion
local health department, parental consent for abortion, health sevices: Hello, thanks for your question. Yes, there is such a thing. Here in Virginia if you are under 17 you need parental consent for abortion services. Since I don t know what state you live in I can t be 100% certain. To make sure go to plannedparenthood.org under...

Teenage Problems: Pregnant, pregnancy test, having sex
pregnancy test, having sex, couple of days: First you need to calm down. Then you need to wait a couple of days, and then take a pregnancy test, because that would be the good thing to do. If you really are pregnant, you re gonna have to tell your parents. Maybe you ll think next time before having...

Teenage Problems: ProBlem! hELp!, hey angel, boyfriend girlfriend
hey angel, boyfriend girlfriend, romantic days: Hey Angel, Relationships are like fireworks, sometimes it takes a full blown flame or just a spark to set them off and send them into the sky. The little thing that has caused the argument may be small to you, and perhaps it is, but he is using it to keep...

Teenage Problems: Do You Have a Problem, lord jesus christ, beloved brethren
lord jesus christ, beloved brethren, 1 corinthians 15: Hi Jasmine, Thanks for your questions. I do not get too bothered when unbelievers get it wrong on TV. I understand that without the Holy Spirit, spiritual truths will seem foolish to them. 1 Corinthians 2:14 14 But the natural man receiveth not the...

Teenage Problems: Problem, worthwhile job, having dreams
worthwhile job, having dreams, being an actor: Hey there Lucki, I am sure you will be aware that being an actor is a tough and worthwhile job and it is very difficult for you to succeed unless you are seriously commited; which could be why your mom is so against you doing it. Having dreams and ambitions...

Teenage Problems: Problem with my dad, easiest thing, perfect body
easiest thing, perfect body, taking a shower: Hello there Alisha, Thank you for getting in touch with me, I know it can t have been easy to make the decision to contact me with this type of query, but you have done a positive thing by seeking to get some information. I know it is the easiest thing...

Teenage Problems: Problem with a peer, thanx laura, sexual advance
thanx laura, sexual advance, school counsellor: Hi Laura, I suspect that this guy has thrown off your confidence a little bit. If he is hassling you, you need to speak with a teacher or the school counsellor. I would also let him know that you are not interested. Some guys are REALLY immature and the...

Teenage Problems: Problem Son, final option, step mother
final option, step mother, duty of care: Hey there John, Thank you for getting in touch. I used to work for the Connexions Direct service which deals a lot with what you have asked so I hope that what I say can help. Bearing in mind, if you are outside the UK, things may be different. Parents...

Teenage Problems: Problem, morning boner, morning erection
morning boner, morning erection, casual language: It is absoultely normal to wake up with a morning erection. Its called a morning boner in more casual language. Dont worry about it, it just shows a sign of your masculinity. All boys and even men go through it very often..sometimes every day. If you would...

Teenage Problems: Problems, woh woh, getting over a breakup
woh woh, getting over a breakup, losing my faith: Rob, I guess you re just going to have to take it easy then, if her friend is freaking out about it. I m pretty sure that her friend was just saying that she doesn t like you because she doesn t want you two to be together, so don t worry about that. Just...

Teenage Problems: Problems with Mom and Stepdad, step mothers, dosent
step mothers, dosent, mean time: Hello Mike, Well that s actually a common problemw ith teenagers who live with their step mothers/fathers. Theres really not that much you can do in the meantime but I m sure it will all work out for the best when your daughter moves in with you, I think...

Teenage Problems: Problems With Parents, becoming a paramedic, math english
becoming a paramedic, math english, honor role: Rachelle, you seem to know exactly what you want to do in life and your parents seem determined to block you. Its rare person who knows what they want to do.You have a goal and thats great. It slaos good to have a number of goals. I think in your case you...

Teenage Problems: Problems with son, satanic worshiper, signs of the devil
satanic worshiper, signs of the devil, king diamond: Hi Anne, THanks for this very heart felt question. I can see that you love your son very much. THere is no easy solution to what you are faceing...there is no quick fix, but I Think that I can give you a Biblical principle that will help you understand...

Teenage Problems: Problems with son, satanic worshiper, signs of the devil
satanic worshiper, signs of the devil, king diamond: Anne, Sorry to say this, but your son needs help....PSYCHIATRIC help and FAST!! You need to confront your son about finding drugs in his pants pocket. Tell him that the next time he comes home drunk, he s on house arrest, except for school and church,...

Teenage Problems: Problems with son, satanic worshiper, signs of the devil
satanic worshiper, signs of the devil, king diamond: Honestly I don t know how to handle this. However, it seems like you have done the best you can on your own. Maybe you should look into some kind of family counseling. But I will make a suggestion, don t compare your son to your daughter. If anything it...

Teenage Problems: Problems with son, satanic worshiper, signs of the devil
satanic worshiper, signs of the devil, king diamond: Hello Anne, It sounds like all your family is going through a rough time at the minute and I am not surprised you appear to be at your wits end. Your son has taken the opportunity of being at high school to begin to experiment, with drugs, clothing,...

Teenage Problems: Problems with son, satanic worshiper, signs of the devil
satanic worshiper, signs of the devil, king diamond: This is actually more common than you probably think. Most likely, it s just a phase he s going through. My ex boyfriend went through one himself. It wasn t as in depth as your son s, but it was still a rebel/goth/satan worshipper stage. I would say just let...

Teenage Problems: Problems with son, satanic worshiper, signs of the devil
satanic worshiper, signs of the devil, king diamond: Anne, I am only eighteen-years-old, so please remember that this answer is coming from a college student s perspective. I ve never been a mother, but I can imagine the stress you re going through. The most important thing is to be patient. You do not want...

Teenage Problems: Problems with son, satanic worshiper, signs of the devil
satanic worshiper, signs of the devil, king diamond: Hi, I am so sorry it took me awhile to get back to you. I ve been a busy girl as well. Well first of all let me say I am so sorry about what you re going through. I mean I love the Lord so much, and I can only imagine what it must be like and not only that....

Teenage Problems: Problems with son, satanic worshiper, signs of the devil
satanic worshiper, signs of the devil, king diamond: I do not think you did anything wrong. The worst thing a kid can feel is to be left out of a group or clique. The kids today join a punk group, goth group, stoners, or they may be studious and serious (geeks) or (ducks). They want to belong and don t want...

Teenage Problems: Problems with Teen Son/Father - Divorce., unresolved anger, support god
unresolved anger, support god, wonderful father: Hi Tracy, Praise the Lord for how things worked out! I believe that we should not be afraid of acting like parents and setting the rules from time to time. These boundaries make kids feel safe. Let me know if I can be of further help. In Christ...

Teenage Problems: Problems, mental stress, passing grades
mental stress, passing grades, nosedive: Hey Kit, Depending upon the severity of diabetes depends upon the outcome that could happen. If you have mild diabetes that has been caused as a result of over eating then it may be that losing weight takes the pressure of your body and the diabetes may...

Teenage Problems: Proposal, honest opinion, loser
honest opinion, loser, best wishes: Loser (I m sure your not) in Love, First I am glad that you do want to decline this proposal. You are both WAY to young to get married. Or even to be thinking about it in the first place. Why don t you talk to him about it before he goes ahead and does it....

Teenage Problems: painful process, waiting game, plunder
waiting game, plunder, would make sense: Hey there Corey, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling emotionally torn and tortured by this young girl. Love is one of the most difficult emotions to deal with, simply because we never know when we re in it or out of it. It could be that this girl...

Teenage Problems: paranoia, paranoia disorder, paranoid delusions
paranoia disorder, paranoid delusions, disorder diagnosis: Hi, I advise you to seek professional help as soon as possible because your current social life is in chaos. I strongly suggest you to see psychologist or psychiatrist for possible OCD or Paranoia disorder diagnosis. It appears that it is quite serious...

Teenage Problems: paranoia, paranoid delusions, innermost secrets
paranoid delusions, innermost secrets, hidden cameras: Hey Ant, I don t think you re crazy, or a freak. Just a possibility, has something happened to you in your past? Like something bad I mean, and maybe you blame yourself for it? Maybe you don t either. That could be triggering all this without you even realising...

Teenage Problems: paranoia, psychology area, types of paranoia
psychology area, types of paranoia, paranoid delusions: Hello, To be honest I never did talk to my parents about paranoia . So my advice is not from the first hand look. I am not sure if you have schizophrenia, yet because it relates to paranoia, this booklet in the PDF file tells people how to talk about it...

Teenage Problems: am i just paranoid?, short skirts, gramps
short skirts, gramps, first move: Hi Mira: I don t know you well enough to answer the question you re really asking ... which is why people don t chose you? You might want to ask a close friend (female) to give you some insight .... but if you want the truth you should be prepared to...

Teenage Problems: parent arguements, mum and dad, arguement
mum and dad, arguement, stephanie: well,this isnt that easy to answer because i dont have that much experience in these cases but i can try to help. when they start arguing i would just go to my room close the door and put some music on and try to do something like cleaning my room just to...

Teenage Problems: my parent's, real feelings, sweet kind
real feelings, sweet kind, stomache: I think that you have a crush it is when you have butterflies in your stomache and you get so happy when your around your boyfriend and your smiling and laughing and everything seems great and that s good that you like him but make sure that he doesn t overtake...

Teenage Problems: parental conflict/forgiveness, child out of wedlock, parental conflict
child out of wedlock, parental conflict, disobedient child: Hi Latoya, Thanks for these questions. I am having a little trouble following exactly what is happening.... is your mother having you watch these children, or is it your sister telling you to watch her children? Do you live on your own? How old are you?...

Teenage Problems: parental issues, asian parents, social butterfly
asian parents, social butterfly, familial support: One last thing, he must respect your parents for receiving approval from them. He cannot rush anything and either can you. This can take time if you do it this way. Friends if allowed and I assume it s allowed. Ok I do recommend to ask James in our Parenting...

Teenage Problems: parenting, steering wheel cover, abag
steering wheel cover, abag, brother sister: Hi Helena, Thanks for this very heartfelt question. There are two ways that children can be motivated to change their behavior. They can learn and live... they hear our wonderful wisdom and then adjust their actions accordingly, or they can live and learn......

Teenage Problems: parenting, penis masturbation, locker room
penis masturbation, locker room, parenting: Hi Anna, I will give you a non-medical opinion as I am a therapist not a doctor. If he continues to have concerns you should take him to a doctor to reassure him. There has only been 2 years from 12-14 so the growth may not be noticed by him. For some reason...

Teenage Problems: my parents, ur parents, little freedom
ur parents, little freedom, none of my friends: hiya laura!! I can understand how u feel as u want to have sum freedom and do what u want for a change but ur parents are only trying to do the best for u! they feel its right for them to set u times and they obviosly dont understand how u feel!! The only...

Teenage Problems: parents, abd, melissa
abd, melissa, mom: Melissa, I personally don t think its right that Your mom does that. It s like she doesnt trust her or something. And thats not cool. And your mom making fun of you isnt right either!!! Wow, she is actually making fuin of you?? Thats a little mean, dont...

Teenage Problems: parents, teen advice, cyber sex
teen advice, cyber sex, one more thing: Hi, How is it going? I m just checking to see if you have found out a way to handle this problem. I hope James gave you good advice. Please feel free to come back to us with any other problems you have. Thanks for using this site. I know this goes against...

Teenage Problems: parents, mature person, serious conversation
mature person, serious conversation, ebay: Hiya Lisa~ Boy oh boy can I relate to you! I remember back in my teenage years my mother and I did not get along at all! From what you wrote to me, you sound like a very mature person. I am glad that you have previously attempted to talk to your mom...

Teenage Problems: parents, put downs, hard time
put downs, hard time, tutors: Shaina, First of all, your parents should not be calling you a failure, for ANY reason. My parents are tough on me too, especially my mother. She constantly gets on my case, just like your parents. First of all, sit your parents down and tell them how...

Teenage Problems: parents, clever men, hard time
clever men, hard time, tutors: Hey Shaina. I m really sorry to hear about your problem. But firstly, don t let your learning disorder get you down. Having any kind of learning disorder doesn t automatically mean you re less clever that everyone else. You know what?! Einstein - one of...

Teenage Problems: parents, whole time, best friends
whole time, best friends, parents: Bethy, Have you asked your parents why they re refusing to let you go on a supervised trip with your friends? If so, what have they said? Tell your parents that the whole time you and your friends are on the trip, there will be an adult with the three of...

Teenage Problems: parents..., play board games, mom and dad
play board games, mom and dad, money solution: Hey Hul, We all love our parents and sometimes we push them in the wrong direction and sometimes they push us in the wrong direction; it s how being a family works. The thing to remember though is that you may love your mom and dad but do you show it?...

Teenage Problems: parents., siblings clothing, bad moods
siblings clothing, bad moods, strict parents: Hey There, Wow, some of those rules are crazy. It sounds like you have really strict parents. 1. Not to drink soda on the weekdays - soda s are expensive, and with 6 people in the house, that can add up, and it s not healthy 2. Not allowed to stay...

Teenage Problems: how can i get my parents to let me be with him, viginity, virginity
viginity, virginity, darlene: hey samantha there really is no way just to get your parents to like a guy. did they know of him b4 they found out that you lost your virginity to him? have they met him? let them see what a great guy he is. have them meet in some sort of way. maybe once...

Teenage Problems: parents dissaproval, smoke pot, serious conversation
smoke pot, serious conversation, peircings: Sorry it took me awhile to reply I didn t recieve this question until later ... they are just trying to protect them but I would sit down with them and have a serious conversation ask them what specifically do they not like about you or your styles and your...

Teenage Problems: My parents dont trust me, bunch of lies, hi john
bunch of lies, hi john, trust issues: Hi John, My suggestion for you to sit down and have a serious talk with your parents, explaining how you feel and why they should believe you have changed? How come, they suspect you doing and buying drugs in the first place? Was it based on lies? ...

Teenage Problems: my parents are getiing divorce!!, getting a divorce, need money
getting a divorce, need money, classmates: There really is an answer as long as you are not put off by where it is found. You cannot look to man (or woman) for answers. You have to go to the source and the source of marriage and of love is God. This will require a great deal of work on your part....

Teenage Problems: my parents HATE the way i dress, artistic influences, confusing time
artistic influences, confusing time, form of art: Hey ... I m sorry that your parents don t accept the way that you dress, that must be frustrating. People spend there whole lives trying to gain acceptance from there parents, and it s terrible people should spend there whole lives trying to make themselves...

Teenage Problems: parents keep fighting, school counselor, togeter
school counselor, togeter, sleepover: Well hi, Jillane how are you? Well me I am alright. Well I want to try to help you as best as I can. The first thing I want to tell you my parents have been married for a long time and I am twenty one now. About a month ago they had a fight and I couldn t...

Teenage Problems: parents,school and social life, night shifts, art teacher
night shifts, art teacher, parental controls: Hey Caitlin. I think you should just have a talk with your parents, try to explain to them that you want to prove that you re responsible. Just talk it over with them and see what their problem is. Also, point out that you ARE a teenager, and you re just trying...

Teenage Problems: parents smoking, nightmares, prescriptions
nightmares, prescriptions, grandmother: Your mom needs to see a doctor since they will be the only ones able to help. They can give out prescriptions to help decrease smoking or try products at stores that might help her. Otherwise your mom has to do this herself. Confront your mom to stop smoking...

Teenage Problems: My parents are too strict, decsions, decsion
decsions, decsion, nice guys: Hi Alexandra, You need to take a stand to tell her what you want. She cannot control your life entirely. You are considered an adult now. It s time for you to make a decsion to keep a job and move out. You need to tell her the truth, you don t want...

Teenage Problems: my parents do not trust me., occasional c, sip
occasional c, sip, abortion: Well, they still see you as you were two years earlier and the fact that a 13 yo friend of yours became pregnant is something they do not want to happen to you. The teen years are big risk taking years. They know this and they also love you even if their...

Teenage Problems: How do I get my parents to trust me?, play mate, bad grades
play mate, bad grades, grand daughter: Hey jenny, wow GRANDparents are always more strict your there little grand daughter that they care more about then anything that s why there being so strict with you. even thought they have a reason they have no reason to be unfair to you about you and your...

Teenage Problems: my parents, sarah fischer, coolest guy in the world
sarah fischer, coolest guy in the world, dear sarah: Also be willing to help them out. When I need something from my mom I try to put her in a happy mood before I ask her. So I clean our whole house before she gets home from work and then she usually has no problem getting me what I asked for. I m not saying...

Teenage Problems: my past is making things hard, guy friends, mormon
guy friends, mormon, psychologist: Hi, Taking it slow is important. I know how hard it is to talk about such things to people. In person is better than online, yet yes it s hard. I know. You don t want to rush it out of you. I would recommend that you ask them not to mention it to anyone else....

Teenage Problems: peggy, thin person, ladies room
thin person, ladies room, loose weight: Yes, I would have said the same thing. After an illness especially food poisoning it isn t unusual for a person to have a significant weight loss. As during that time it is very difficult to keep anything down....When people loose weight especially a relatively...

Teenage Problems: penis, work relationships, psychological problem
work relationships, psychological problem, relationships friendships: Hello there Manmadan, There could be a lot of reasons why your penis is not coming erect, but mainly, because of your age, it is more likely to be a psychological problem than a physical one. If you are worried about anything, work, relationships, friendships,...

Teenage Problems: penis discharge, pre mature ejaculation, burning sensation during urination
pre mature ejaculation, burning sensation during urination, water infection: Hey Plum, If this young guy isn t sexually active, then it could just be ejaculate that has not been ejected but is getting washed out when he urinates. This would result in a slightly uncomfortable burning sensation during urination because of irritation...

Teenage Problems: penis problem, health area, men s health
health area, men s health, medical advice: Hi, Handjobs? You mean with another person or by your self? You should ask your doctor about this, and also our Teen health area and Men s Health area. Note we cannot give medical advice here. Our urology area can also maybe offer some advice. I don t...

Teenage Problems: my penis, sex with my girlfriend, aswell
sex with my girlfriend, aswell, tiny bit: Hey clinton, There are these little tiny whitish, yellow bumps that appear all over the penis and are called pustules. They develop naturally, are harmless and may disappear over time. If you do get any itching or uncomfortableness then it may be something...

Teenage Problems: period, answer sheet, playtex
answer sheet, playtex, tampons: hey. no tampons dont hurt. but start out with regular ones. dont start out with super unless the regualrs seem too small. you will be able to tell. in the tampoon boxz there is a instruction sheet with question and answer sheet in case you dont know how to...

Teenage Problems: periods, ed teacher, sex ed
ed teacher, sex ed, young lady: Anna, hey there!!! There is NO problem what so ever Anna. TRUST ME. When i got my period the same thing happened.Even to my freinds.Its a natural thing.Dont worry about this.Everything that you are experiencing is Normal. Just make sure that you...

Teenage Problems: a by person going out with a by person, kelly xxx, chick
kelly xxx, chick: Hi, I would say that this girl doesnt feel satisfied with the boy and needs comfort from a girl, as to whether or not she likes her, I would say yes she does but I dont know her so I cant really say. Why cant she hold hands and kiss the boy?? Luv Kelly...

Teenage Problems: Is this just a phase?, sweet sixteens, wealthy doctors
sweet sixteens, wealthy doctors, persistent sadness: Hey Stacey, It is true that during your teenage years most people go through a phase of mild depression that they cannot explain. It does start off out of nowhere and varies from person to person. In most cases, it does disappear within a few months but...

Teenage Problems: physical attraction, conceided, muscular bodies
conceided, muscular bodies, physical attraction: Hi! Well some girls dont really care for that kind of stuff and then others do because you know, its natural. People might say that they look for personality more than looks, but we all know the first thing that attracts us to a person is their looks,...

Teenage Problems: The pill, http www myspace, yesterday morning
http www myspace, yesterday morning, http www myspace com: If this is the only pill that you have missed this whole month you should be ok, even if he came inside of you. I have missed 5 in one month before and never used protection and I haven t gotten pregnant, not to say that you cant but the less pills that you...

Teenage Problems: the pill..., local health department, health departments
local health department, health departments, phone book: most health departments will have a way to get the pill and they re bound to privacy so your parents don t have to find out. You can check your phone book for your local health department, there s typically one in each county, sometimes more than one...

Teenage Problems: pixie stix, pixie stix, pixie sticks
pixie stix, pixie sticks, chest infection: Hey Adam, Yes there is. The lining of your nose is very thin and sensative and produces mucus that filters out dirt and stops it getting into your lungs and causing you an infection. By snorting anything you may actually block your sniuses ending up with...