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Teenage Problems: parent problems, school guidance counselor, baseball parents
school guidance counselor, baseball parents, crude remarks: Hi Chris, I totally understand how you feel about it and do concur with your sport choice and you indeed made your decision to play football next year. That is fine. I see nothing wrong with it. Problem is not you. It is your parents who does not...

Teenage Problems: my parents are over the top, religious conviction, different girls
religious conviction, different girls, double date: I totally understand where you are coming from in this. My parents are the same way. I had to do the sneaking around thing with my boyfriend too. It s not very fun. Just curious, but what religion are you parents? I get where they are coming from. Just...

Teenage Problems: period pains, pain killers, period pains
pain killers, period pains, aleve: Lauren - Try taking some pain killers like ibuprofen or naproxen sodium (aleve here in the states) if your cramps are so bad that over the counter medication doesn t work...consider going on birth control. They lessen the flow of your periods and greatly...

Teenage Problems: Relationships and loneliness, state of depression, roller coaster ride
state of depression, roller coaster ride, open relationship: Hi James, Thanks for this great question. I feel your pain! I went through something very similar in my Senior year of College. I was dating a girl I was madly in love with, even engaged to, but the relationship ended, plunging me into deep depression...

Teenage Problems: race, nice girl, good friends
nice girl, good friends, friendships: Hello D, Yes race is still a factor but no such much as it was 30 or more years ago. would it affect her? i cannot say but teens listen to their parents and to other teens. Yhe only way to find out is to ask her out and see what her response is...

Teenage Problems: relationship with boyfriend, last of august, romantic couple
last of august, romantic couple, water park: Hi Cierra, Thank you for this great question. I am so sorry for my very late response. In some cases, your story is very typical. Young people do go through struggles as they learn what being a romantic couple is all about. There is something however...

Teenage Problems: Getting Out Of My Shell, math problem, scare
math problem, scare, little bit: Don t worry about high school. I had the same worry. I was never really close to people in my middle school so high school was going to be kind of scary. But don t worry about it. If anything, go with the people who feel the same way as you. You ll be fine....

Teenage Problems: Sinful and sex-related?, committing adultery, having sexual intercourse
committing adultery, having sexual intercourse, sexual fantasy: Hello Robert, Thank you for this very clear and appropriate question. You have no need to be ashamed of your question, you worded it very well. I am very sorry for my late response to such a good question. I will try to answer these many questions one...

Teenage Problems: sibling rivalry, sibling rivalry, night club
sibling rivalry, night club, thanks for your help: Hi Kalvin, well its good that you beat your brother out. He will get over it. Its ok to flirt but this girl is from an area where the girls are typically shy and reserved and not at all like the american girls. She obviously already has goals for the future...

Teenage Problems: my son, mail post, full custody
mail post, full custody, verbal agreement: HI, Thank you for your follow e-mail post. Well, it is up to his father to allow him to visit you or live with you. If it were me, I would not do it due to risky legal issues that he may create problems with you and use it against you even he verbally...

Teenage Problems: son's pushing sports on grandson, softball bats, inflated ball
softball bats, inflated ball, walmart: Hi Belinda, His dad wanted to spank him because he did not want to play basketball? This dad has a real problem. Your son would probably be better served not forcing or pushing him into something he is not ready for. At 3 thats a little early to handle...

Teenage Problems: Teen penis.., dry lubricant, inchs
dry lubricant, inchs, pubic hair: Hi Mike, Everything is normal. It is supposed to get hard and this is due to the fact that blood is flowing into it at a faster rate than blood is flowing out of it until after a boy masturbates or just allows it to go down on its own. It may stand up at...

Teenage Problems: Teenager and his penis, sexual thing, erect penis
sexual thing, erect penis, couple days: I guess my levels, I meant ways of being aroused. Some ways are really fast and others take a while but they are well worth the wait. I m sure you ve had some of each but there are certain ways to get what you want each time. Just playing with yourself usually...

Teenage Problems: teenage love, friends zone, love interest
friends zone, love interest, sports events: Hi Matt, thanks for your kind words. I looked at my answer and see a small mistake. The sentence that begins with But you are letting... should have read But you are letting her (your mom) know your love interest IS OUTSIDE YOUR IMMEDIATE FAMILY. ...

Teenage Problems: Uncircumcised problems, male family member, sex organs
male family member, sex organs, extra skin: Hi, It may hurt afterwards just little. Doctor will cut small part of extra skin off and it may be sore but it should not interfere with urinating, I am pretty sure doctor may put you to sleep for this small surgery. It is up to you, but today modern...

Teenage Problems: I Want to Die all the Time Because of my Mom, grandma lives, droor
grandma lives, droor, vet school: Hi Amber, Your mother appears to be taking out her frustrations on you because you are the nearest person who she can do so with. If you are feeling like killing yourself over this abuse and if you are or were being hit then you can call or visit an office...

Teenage Problems: So, this is what's up, ladies man, t text
ladies man, t text, lateness: Hey there Sarah, Firstly, sorry for the lateness of this reply; my computer has been having some technical problems so I can only apologize, sorry. Secondly, you mentioned this guy may be a ladies man...maybe he is...but he s after you to be his lady....

Teenage Problems: So this is what's up, relationshiop, pastor don
relationshiop, pastor don, t text: Hi Sarah, Thanks for this question. I am very sorry for my very late response. It is very hard to tell what the guy is up to. I find the best way to approach matters like these is head on. Ask him where the two of you stand. Are you a couple? Perhaps...

Teenage Problems: my younger senior ., goodlooking guys, lateness
goodlooking guys, lateness, awkwardness: Hey there Kalvin, firstly, sorry for the lateness of my reply; I have been having a few technical issues with my computer, so I hope this finds you in good time and I am sorry for the delay. From reading your answer and from what you have written, it...

Teenage Problems: my younger senior ., goodlooking guys, bad books
goodlooking guys, bad books, capital letters: Hi Kalvin, I willmake some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting, Forgive any typos as i do not have time to proofread. hey thanks for your time. am 15yrs old, a freshmen.i have a big liking for this girl who s a...

Teenage Problems: 10 yr old daughter lazy?, positive reinforcement, train up a child
positive reinforcement, train up a child, pastor don: Hi Trigger, Thanks for this great question. I am very sorry for my late response. Proverbs 22:6 6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. The King James Version, (Cambridge: Cambridge) 1769. ...

Teenage Problems: my 11year old son has started caving things into his legs, james windell, angry all the time
james windell, angry all the time, mental disorder: Hi, James Windell Parenting Teen expert should be asked this. Your doctor needs to be called in. Ity sounds to me like your child has some type of depression. It s not unheard of and not being a psychologist I cannot legally label him with any type of mental...

Teenage Problems: My 3 year girlfriend, going to college, breaking point
going to college, breaking point, couple times: Why did you ignore her or push her away? That s the big problem here. Girls know how they want to be treated and after a while, we won t take the guys back if they do it. I don t know what she s going to do but if she does take you back, don t do it again....

Teenage Problems: Should ask her out or forget about her?, face book, tennis pro
face book, tennis pro, country clubs: Hi Logan, She may be struck on herself or just be snobbish. pm that case her looks can never make up for that. Its not that she does not like you it may be she does not want a boyfriend now. All guys need to get used to rejection because the people we...

Teenage Problems: Best Friend, carrying a torch, better success
carrying a torch, better success, meam: Hi Meredith, First of all you have to learn to never waste time on anyone who does not retunr the interest you have in them. This guy has not returnred your interest. As a result you have nbeen carrying a torch hoping he will change. This has caused you...

Teenage Problems: Big Breast Obsession, breast obsession, casting down imaginations
breast obsession, casting down imaginations, spiritual weapons: Hi Faren, Thank you for this great question. You are up front and honest about your problem and your sincere desire to overcome it. This is battled like any other sin pattern. If you are a born again believer, you have been given spiritual weapons and...

Teenage Problems: Breast obsession, breast obsession, female breast
breast obsession, female breast, attractive female: First of all stay off your computer for a while and delete any sites you go to. Second you need to realize that most males are attracted to the female breast. Does this stem from being an infant? Who knows. Does it represent an obvious difference from...

Teenage Problems: bad teenage relationship, co- dependancy
co- dependancy: Hi Susan, Thanks for this great question. I am very sorry for my tardy response. It sounds like your daughter needs to be needed. She will allow herself to be brought down if she thinks that she is the only hope the guy has... she will put up with a...

Teenage Problems: Is my boyfriend cheating? Please help me!, dear louise, older girls
dear louise, older girls, blah blah: Delaney, The first thing I ll say is I m sorry that you are so upset.....I was a teen myself many years ago so I kinda know a little about how you are feeling.......As a parent now to teens I have to say this......You are much to young to care so much about...

Teenage Problems: cleaning, dial soap, mild soap
dial soap, mild soap, soap and water: Hi Nixon, No you do not need an erection to clean under the foreskin. Just wash it with soap and water and peel back the foreskin and make sure you use soap and water and rinse the area throughly. You should do this everyday. You may notice a white foul...

Teenage Problems: confused, stis, breaking the law
stis, breaking the law, rapes: If you have intercourse with him someone may be breaking the law. Follow the law. It s clear to me you aren t ready for intercourse. Talk to a doctor about sex risks like STIs and AIDs, and even having a child ASAP. If he rapes you report it. Get tested. Please...

Teenage Problems: confusedd, sexual diseases, sex the first time
sexual diseases, sex the first time, woamn: Hi Rhea, First of all you should not be dating someone older than yourself. At this age he is much more advanced than you are. Another question you need to ask yourself is why is this guy seeing a 15 year old. Why is he not seeing a 17 year old? Of course...

Teenage Problems: Depression and loss., doctors point, question pool
doctors point, question pool, motorcycle accident: It s normal when you loose someone to go into depression. I had the exact same reaction when I lost my pet cat. Couldn t leave my room for a week. My parents took me to a psychologist and well I got better just by talking about it. Now, of course a cat is...

Teenage Problems: dealing with presure, junior collage, classmates
junior collage, classmates, mid term exams: Hi Shrestha, I am very sorry for this late response. I am sorry for the pressure that you are feeling. I assume that you contacted me because you are a Christian. If you are a believer in Jesus Christ, His Spirit lives in you. You can do things through...

Teenage Problems: Feeling guilty, first sexual experience, great companions
first sexual experience, great companions, sexy kind: you should NOT feel guilty, because they initiated it you probably feel guilty because you felt like you were taking advantage of them or you were morally against doing it but you gave into peer preassure, I would NOT bring it up just admit it was a mistake...

Teenage Problems: Feeling Prideful..., science olympiad, incoming freshman
science olympiad, incoming freshman, study sessions: Hi Andrea, Thank you for this great question. I agree with you that pride is a very nasty sin. God lists it in the seven things that He hates. Proverbs 6:16-19 16 These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him: 17 A proud...

Teenage Problems: Friendships, social paria, social butterfly
social paria, social butterfly, time kind: I understand what you mean about you being shy. I am the same why. It takes a while for you to warm up to people but then when you know them, you re comfortable to be yourself. A lot of people are like that and you just have to shove that aside and start out...

Teenage Problems: i feel selfish., attitude tests, psychology area
attitude tests, psychology area, latly: Well you think you have a problem. Maybe it s not selfishness, but attitude as calling people such is wrong and also being mean to a parent is wrong. I don t know if this will help, but I am including a third party website called Wikipedia for you: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attitude_(psychology)...

Teenage Problems: i feel selfish., guilt trip, secondary gain
guilt trip, secondary gain, gaming features: Hi T, You seem to get some secondary gain out of making yourself embrace this guilt trip. You need to get yourself involved with other people. You seem focused upon yourself and are excluding others. If you can I suggest try some volunteer work at a...

Teenage Problems: i found some guys that want to bullly me, zheng yan, coals of fire
zheng yan, coals of fire, romans 12: Hi Hanks, Thank you for this great question. There are two responses that work for bullies. 1. Walk away. Ignore stupid things that people say... words are just words.... the reason most bullies continue is because their victims seem to be bothered...

Teenage Problems: friends, mothers dream, dream girl
mothers dream, dream girl, student government: You ve built a bond with her because she was there for you. No matter what she does now, you ll find a way to overlook it because she did that for you. It s probably not the best thing, but it s normal. Don t take this the wrong way, but it s kind of like...

Teenage Problems: Help, children obey your parents, pastor don
children obey your parents, pastor don, hot weather: Hi Nathan, Thank you for this great question. I am sorry for my late response. Remember moms can be very emotional. Her first reaction was one of surprise and anger. Perhaps now that things are calmer she may have a different attitude. Stay out of...

Teenage Problems: height, girls all over the world, increasing height
girls all over the world, increasing height, bone density: Hello Hanna12, Hanna is that 4 feet and 10 inches tall or are you giving me metric system meansurements as in 2.54 cm equals 1 inch USA measurement? Drinking milk is the best you can do and its VERY VERY important for all females to drink milk or eat yogurt...

Teenage Problems: hi im 12, going through puberty, prostate gland
going through puberty, prostate gland, whole milk: Hi John, It has no effect on your height at all. Anyone who tells you otherwise is kidding or does not know anything. Its like saying that smoking will stunt your growth. It will not. Your height is already determined by your genes. You may be as tall...

Teenage Problems: what do you do when your hopeless, vacuming, custody agreement
vacuming, custody agreement, pothead: Hi Amanda, Sounds like you are between a rock and a hard place. His wife hates you because you are competition for her and her daughter. You did not say how you go to be in georgia unless this is part of a custody agreement. In the circumstances you are...

Teenage Problems: kicked out, department of social services, insurance bill
department of social services, insurance bill, fire science: Hi Paige, Your mother cannot tell either of you to leave your house. She is legally obligated to support you and your brother until each of you reaches the age of 21. If she is unhappy that you do not do chores or because she feels you do not appreciate...

Teenage Problems: Loss of erection, birth control pills, loss of erection
birth control pills, loss of erection, adult man: Hi Josh,Yes your worry and loss of your erection can make it go away. You probably did not make her pregnant if she started her period. If she had missed her period now thats another story. Since you are not using condoms every time you are risking had...

Teenage Problems: my life, due time christ, mad at god
due time christ, mad at god, stupid life: Hi Franky, I am sorry for my late response. I am sorry for the bad things that you have had to endure, but may I say that you do not have it as bad as you think that you do. For example... you say that you are poor, yet you type to me on a computer on...

Teenage Problems: life....., gut feeling, friends family
gut feeling, friends family, good bye: 13 is a little young to go on a date. I d wait for a while so you can enjoy it. You seem a little busy and you want to have time to go on a date. Dating and doing things you shouldn t don t go together. You can just go to a movie and have fun on a date....

Teenage Problems: love, bestfriend, mean time
bestfriend, mean time, jerk: do not propose if you truly love her and care about her then you want her to be happy and right now she has verbally told you what she wants .......... to be your friend at least for right now the next move is up to her the only thing you can do in the mean...

Teenage Problems: Moving Schools, valid reason, yess
valid reason, yess, bullies: Ok email me at Batmancatdog@yahoo.com, again it s Batmancatdog@yahoo.com and I ll send you some information about changing schools. Subject should be Changing schools... Allexperts and also you should include a copy of this post in it. I ll start on...

Teenage Problems: misunderstanding, odd reason, pacifist
odd reason, pacifist, serial killer: Hi, Try this website also for help: www.covenanthouse.org/nineline I want to know where those thoughts people have are coming from. Talking to someone live can help out. Hi, What state do you live in? And when did those thoughts start to come...

Teenage Problems: mom, childhood and adolescence, alcohol problem
childhood and adolescence, alcohol problem, getting a divorce: Hi Alex, It sounds like your mother is manipulating you by saying in front of others that you do not love her. She also is using yo to justify her behavior. There is no simple way to help her since it sounds like she is an alcoholic. Each day an alcoholic...

Teenage Problems: My mother is bitchy., exact situation, personal problems
exact situation, personal problems, old girl: Hello Nikki, My guess is you maybe aren t being very helpful at home....Maybe your mother has to constantly ask you for help and maybe you ignore her...Maybe you don t keep your room clean or maybe you leave a mess in the kitchen or bathroom.....There could...

Teenage Problems: my nephew is stealing, rebellious teen
rebellious teen: Hi Hanna, Thanks for this great question. I am very sorry for my very late response. Unless your nephew is living with you, you do not have any ability to punish him. It is not your jurisdiction... it is not up to you. The only recourse you have is...

Teenage Problems: Obsessed with death?, continuous problem, bullet for my valentine
continuous problem, bullet for my valentine, death and destruction: Hi, I ve been doing online advice for a while now and I have seen such questions before and I ve seen signs in those questions that hint at a form of depression. If you re just asking how come your parents think that, I recommend James Windell Parenting Teen...

Teenage Problems: Old friend..Please read, pro stuff, myspace
pro stuff, myspace, old friend: Hi Danielle, She probably did not forget. I suspect she is busy with something or someone else. Maybe someone she does not want you to meet. This could be another girl and the other girl may be jealous and there may be a relationship going on that you...

Teenage Problems: ME AND MY PARENTS, child molester, sexual orientation
child molester, sexual orientation, stright: Hi Juan, I will answer in lower case letters so you will easily see them. HEY, WELL I M 15 AND MY NAMES JUAN. I HAVE THIS PROBLEM WHERE MY MOM JUST RECENTLY FOUND OUT ABOUT ME BEING BISEXUAL. SHE COMPLETELY DISAGREED AND TOLD ME SHE WAS GOING TO LOOK...

Teenage Problems: PLEASE HELP ME, attractive girl, talking about sex
attractive girl, talking about sex, cute guy: Your mother is right not to rush into dating. He is not the right person for you. He might have raped someone if you are talking about sex. I recommend you to talk to your doctor about sex risks and do not date right now. Please ask follow ups. If he tried...

Teenage Problems: Prostate Gland, hospital emergency room, worst case scenario
hospital emergency room, worst case scenario, sexual intercourse: Hi Sam, In persons who have to frequently urinate it sometimes means they may be becoming diabetic. If you have no family history of diabetes and are not overweight then thats probably not your problem. If you are a large consumer of cola drinks or coffee...

Teenage Problems: parent problems, church youth group, friend relationship
church youth group, friend relationship, god jesus: Hi Jake, Thanks for this great question. I am sorry for this late response and I am very sorry that you have had to grow up like this. You are doing what you should do. You are showing her unconditional love be doing these things. Keep on doing them...

Teenage Problems: Me and my parents, legal adult, eye to eye
legal adult, eye to eye, old girl: If you are going to flip out or do harm to anyone legally I must say contact the police and a psychologist. Now onto your question, I m older than you and I have a similar problem with my parents. They don t want me to have my freedom and they get mad at me...

Teenage Problems: parents don't let me do anything, 3 sisters, moving to florida
3 sisters, moving to florida, cute guy: Do you understand that I cannot help you put your life in danger. I just had a case where a 12 year old used Myspace and almost got picked up online by someone. You should be happy right now and shouldn t need Myspace or Facebook to be happy. Your parents...

Teenage Problems: my parents fighting, family psychologist, nineline
family psychologist, nineline, ups: If you think he is in danger contact the police for help. I recommend a family psychologist for your family and also talking to a trusted teacher. I also recommend for you the following third party website: www.nineline.org Please ask follow up...

Teenage Problems: penis, self pleasure, underclothes
self pleasure, underclothes, bacteria: This could be just an infection of some sort. You should always wash your hands because your penis is a good way for bacteria to get inside you. When you cum, everything is open so anything can get inside. It s also very warm and moist inside you so the bacteria...

Teenage Problems: penis size., totv, con games
totv, con games, muscular tissue: Hi Richard, your erect size is usual and common for your age. Your thinking is what is wrong. There is nothing wrong with the size. You should not fall into any traps or con games about making your penis larger. Any other means to do so is likley to...

Teenage Problems: plz help me., faults, love
faults, love: I don t know if this is the right place for you to ask this but I ll try to help you. You do have your faults too so whenever you think too highly of yourself, think of 3 of them. When you talk to people, think about that too. Try to talk about them if...

Teenage Problems: Relationship w/ MOM, single mom, jessy
single mom, jessy, better life: Hi Jessy, You are probably exactly correct about your mom. She may have gotten pregnant to get out of her house. she wants a better life for you and you see it as her being over protective. Perhaps she became sexaully active at an early age and is...

Teenage Problems: reg:my penies hgas lost hardness and bent alway right side, rock hard erections, erect penis size
rock hard erections, erect penis size, sexual medicine: This could be happening because you have been masterbating for so long and so often. It also could have something to do with not having sexual intercourse. Sometimes when there isn t any sexual drive there to keep you erect, it doesn t happen anymore. ...

Teenage Problems: SEX, t rush, gay sport
t rush, gay sport, safety experts: Ben meeting someone online from a chat room is super risky. You are putting your self in danger by doing such. I ve seen predators online and I worry about this person. About sex, talk to a doctor about sex risks ASAP. I wouldn t rush into sex if I was you....

Teenage Problems: Step dad sexual abuse, step dad, serious drinking
step dad, serious drinking, family parties: Hi Ruby, Thanks for this great question. I am so very sorry for my late response. I am sorry for the things that you have been through. I strongly suggest that you get with a youth worker at your church that you can trust that you can share all of your...

Teenage Problems: Swimming., james windell, hot weather
james windell, hot weather, teaching parents: If he can t help you you can ask a follow up here, but he is known for teaching parents how to have good children and well from that point of view he should help you out Hi, Good question. I feel James Windell Parenting teen expert here would be better...

Teenage Problems: My stepdad asked me to drink with him.....I kind of want to but I'm not sure?, incest taboo, natural mothers
incest taboo, natural mothers, adult kids: Thank you for your kind comments. I am happy you did not go through with this. A girl of 16 has nothing in common with a step parent of a much older age. I believe he saw an opportunity to get you in a situation where your defenses would be non existent....

Teenage Problems: Too strict parents, strict parents, s driver
strict parents, s driver, outgoing person: Hi Mae, Thank you for this great question. I am very sorry that I took to long to answer you. This is a great example of the truth that you can choose your sin, but you cannot choose your consequences. Here are a few things that may help you. 1. ...

Teenage Problems: I think my boyfriend is either cheating or falling out of love with me....i need HELP!!!!!!, boyfriends name, pastor don
boyfriends name, pastor don, briana: Hi Briana, Thanks for this great question. I am sorry for my late response. I cannot tell you for sure what is going through his mind, but I can say that he probably needs some time to sort things out. Perhaps it is time for both of you to end this until...

Teenage Problems: Uncontrolled erection, uncontrolled manner, sexual energy
uncontrolled manner, sexual energy, sexual activities: Hi Kvlt, Theres nothing wrong with masturbating more than once a day. When you stop doing it and retunr to doing it you have built up a lot of sex drive that you are artificially blocking. Its normal to have sex drive and to satisfy it. Those who are...

Teenage Problems: underwear.., panty liners, old girl
panty liners, old girl, panties: This is called discharge. It s perfectly normal and every girl and woman has is. I wouldn t worry too much about it unless it bothers you to have it on your panties like that. If that s the case, you can get panty liners. They are kind of like a pad but for...

Teenage Problems: What should i do?, word of advice, curiousity
word of advice, curiousity, serious trouble: Hi Destiny, Have as little to say as possible. Just tell the person if anyone asks you about him tell them you found out he likes boys and leave it at that. Let them draw their own conclusions. Yes he probably does like boys and girls just like a girl...

Teenage Problems: What did he do to me?, raging hormones, youth pastors
raging hormones, youth pastors, innocent kid: Hi Sam, Thank you for this very personal question. It sounds like your cousin was a very sexually charged young man with raging hormones. You were an innocent kid. I do not believe that you did anything wrong, you were the victim. I am not sure what...

Teenage Problems: 16 and want to live elsewhere, social services group, step dad
social services group, step dad, youth fellowship: Hi Jamie, The easiet way is to keep this informal. Your mom is ok with you living with her friend who is an adult woamn I assume? Because you did not say. Your moms friend would not be out of line in asking your mom to help with your expenses like food...

Teenage Problems: 17 year old daughter, james windell, follow ups
james windell, follow ups, ups: Hi, I don t like how you hit your daughter. This may be child abuse and may be illegal in your area. Legally I must say this. I recommend asking James Windell Parenting Teen expert here for help. Also ask follow ups stating your state. Please ask follow up...

Teenage Problems: ask a girl out, musical talents, girl at school
musical talents, girl at school, cute girl: Well depending on what you re talking about or what the situation is, you can say that you liked what she said in a class or how she sings or something like that. You can start off by catching her in the hall and saying that you wanted to tell her that you...

Teenage Problems: Boyfriend, open relationship, getting the girl
open relationship, getting the girl, one of the guys: All guys aren t like this. Most of them really care about you and will do anything that you want. But for some reason, some guys just picture their girlfriends as one of the guys but much much prettier. And it usually is the first boyfriend. I think that he...

Teenage Problems: Boys, friend matt, girly girl
friend matt, girly girl, mixed messages: Hello Morgan, All I can really say is just be yourself. When you are young sometimes you are called a tomboy when you are just adventurous or athletic. A girl can be feminine and athletic at the same time. Your friend Matt may like you as a friend...

Teenage Problems: Brother's smoking issues, hubble bubble, physical proof
hubble bubble, physical proof, type i diabetes: Hi, I don t do this for a rating, however wondering how come such a rating? How can I improve here? There is no magic word I can say that can solve this issue, sorry. Ah good question. This brings back my family issues. As your brother is 19 and out...

Teenage Problems: my best friend, bf, best friend
bf, best friend: Talk to him about it. Talk to her about it. She might not realize that she s doing it as much as she is. Make sure you tell your boyfriend that you care about him and don t want him to leave you for her. But I wouldn t worry about it too much. If he cares...

Teenage Problems: My boyfriend and I are not the same religion, but we see a future together...., followers of the way, relig
followers of the way, relig, family kids: It s great that you want this to work out. I m not sure about converting for each other though. I think it would be best if you converted because you began to want to be part of another religion, not just to please each other and make it easier. It could actually...

Teenage Problems: How Do I Cope?, long walks, self harming
long walks, self harming, playing music: Hey there Lauren, Sorry for the delay in getting back to you, I ve been having a few technical problems with my computer that are now sorted but I ve not forgotton about you. Life is difficult at the best of the times but not least when you are growing...

Teenage Problems: Cutting and Teachers, youth fellowship group, squealer
youth fellowship group, squealer, youth pastor: You do not want to see a therapist. You feel if you talk to a teacher they will send a note home. You do not want to talk to a pastor or youth pastor. What about an aunt or grandmother who you can ask not to tell on you. Is there a aunt or grandmother...

Teenage Problems: Is he my christian soul mate?, christian soul mate, 1 corinthians 7
christian soul mate, 1 corinthians 7, godly relationship: Hi Jessie, Thank you so much for this great question. How can you know if you have found the perfect man to marry? There are several principles that you can employ to help you find God s will in this matter: 1. Make sure he is a Born Again Christian...

Teenage Problems: concern., signs of pregnancy, being a girl
signs of pregnancy, being a girl, daniella: Hi Daniella, You are right, everyone gets paranoid about these kind of things. The signs of pregnancy do not show so early, they would not show the day after. As you used protection i am sure that you will be fine. What i suggest is that you wait...

Teenage Problems: my crush , follow up, breath mint, how to make the first move
breath mint, how to make the first move, clean clothes: Hi Leesha, Just make sure that you always be yourself and do not try to be someone else. When you talk to him make sue you look into his eyes. Do not look away. Always be neat and wear clean clothes, carry a breath mint with you all of the time and make...

Teenage Problems: dating, lack of knowledge, misunderstanding
lack of knowledge, misunderstanding, parents: Hey there Jeremy, Parents will always have an opinion about the person you are dating and the friends that you have, as well as most other aspects of your life. As your parents they see it as their job to look out for you and to protect you, but sometimes...

Teenage Problems: Have i got depression problems?, depression problems, doctor asap
depression problems, doctor asap, medical expert: Hi, Legally I have to say talk to your doctor ASAP. This problem is very common and your doctor can help. I can also help, but as I am not a medical expert I cannot cure your issue. Can I ask where you live? When exactly did this problem start? And have you...

Teenage Problems: getting over my ex-boyfrend, o levels, 5 months
o levels, 5 months, hard time: I m kind of in the same situation you are in. I just broke up with my boyfriend and I m still having a hard time getting over him. It s okay to still feel like you love him or want to be around him. I think you re missing him more than anything. Try to talk...

Teenage Problems: Feels good but not masturbation., penius, thrusts
penius, thrusts, somthing: Hi, Due to the law, I really can t get too involved with answering this. It appears to me like you are trying to masturbate and I think that s the most I can say. It s not unheard of and is very common. I don t recommend it however. Please talk to your doctor...

Teenage Problems: Friends may have stolen my money ?, police report, important things
police report, important things, whole time: Hi Katt, The dog did not take it abnd chew it up. Thats an old excuse kids use to explain why they did not have their homework to turn it in. My dog chewed up my homework . It is a lie. If they had not found it they should have called you right away....

Teenage Problems: HELP ME CONTROL MY EMOTIONS., psychologist, emotions
psychologist, emotions, ups: Hi, This is a complex topic. I cannot replace a psychologist and do recommend one. I do also recommend this following third party website: www.nineline.org/ If you want please ask a follow up with more information in regards to your question like exactly...

Teenage Problems: Help me, bad girls, cute guy
bad girls, cute guy, bad stuff: Hi Stella, If i were in your shoes i would speak to the boy you like and tell him how you feel. Honest is always the best policy in these kind of situations. Tell him that you like him alot but that you are too young to get into anything serious. Ask...

Teenage Problems: Help Me!!!, teen relationships, clasmates
teen relationships, clasmates, ackward: Hi Anastasia, Is it possible you want a boyfriend because some or many of the other gilrs your age have one and you therefore feel you must also? This could be true or it may not be true. I think you need to sit down and write down some of the reasons...

Teenage Problems: Help., getting a girlfriend, words of encouragement
getting a girlfriend, words of encouragement, facebook: Hi Hank, I will make some suggestions you can try. You are far from being alone. But in talking online unless you know the person its not really a good way to get to know anyone. You sound like you are trying to use the internet as a buffer between...

Teenage Problems: I hate my stupid senseless uncle, hell hole, knd
hell hole, knd, s gross: Hi, Please email me at: Batmancatdog@yahoo.com ASAP. Again it s Batmancatdog@yahoo.com . The subject should be Disliked Uncle... Allexperts. I do recommend talking to your doctor and if anyone s life is in danger contact the police. Legally I must say this....

Teenage Problems: help?, boyfriend girlfriend
boyfriend girlfriend: Like out, as in dating and a boyfriend/girlfriend kind of out? Well, you have to go out on dates first to make sure it s what you both want. After you ve gone on about 3, depending on how you feel and how things are going, then you can just ask. Say you really...

Teenage Problems: high school, rest of the world, game
rest of the world, game: Try to just go with people. If someone asks you to go with them, go. If your friends or someone is talking about going to a game, ask if you can go with them. I understand the shy part but don t be scared to be yourself. You ll be fine. No one will make fun...

Teenage Problems: kissing, first kisses, relation ship
first kisses, relation ship, first kiss: It s perfectly ok to never have kissed someone. You re young. I had my first kiss when I was 16. It was with my first boyfriend. You have time to get to this. It s a good time when you feel it s a good time. I know that sounds dumb but you will know when you...

Teenage Problems: A little scared., unprotected sex, cramps
unprotected sex, cramps, asap: Hello Kim You need to see a dr. asap you have had unprotected sex? So you may have contracted a disease or yes you very well could be pregnant.....I d be more concerned over getting a sexually transmitted disease......Either way you need to see a dr.........

Teenage Problems: looks, fear of rejection, tricky topic
fear of rejection, tricky topic, fitness plan: This is a tricky topic. I can be funny, but some women don t like this. Some women don t like when I am serious. Some women don t like me being the strong person. Everyone has somebody in this world. And the personality of you will help you find that someone....

Teenage Problems: MOTHER!, shes a liar, alcohol and other drugs
shes a liar, alcohol and other drugs, silicone rubber: Hi Amy, You sound well on your way to a sucessful life as long as you stay away from alcohol and other drugs even though the most abused and dangerous drug in history is alcohol. Now for your mother. She is using you as a sounding board because you are...

Teenage Problems: Moms & Thongs..., pastor don, having sex
pastor don, having sex, tiffany: Hi Tiffany, Thank you for this interesting question. The first question is, are you asking her to buy it for you? If you are old enough to just try it without being promiscuous, then you are old enough to buy it yourself. If you want her input, be open...

Teenage Problems: Mother having affair, having an affair with a married man, best bet
having an affair with a married man, best bet, strong feeling: Hey there Confused , Sorry for the delay in getting back to you, I ve been having a few technical problems that have stopped me getting back to you as quick as I would like. But I ve not forgotten about you and I hope my advice helps. You are in a difficult...

Teenage Problems: Mother/Daughter Disagreements, james windell, boyfriend lives
james windell, boyfriend lives, playing video games: Hi, First legally you should check to see if you can be dating him in your location. Some locations, the answer is no. Also you should talk to a doctor about sex risks. Next, I recommend James Windell Parenting Teen expert to see what he says. Please ask...

Teenage Problems: I'm in a rut, friends at school, time on my hands
friends at school, time on my hands, freshmen: Go talk to your counselors at your college and they will be able to fill your schedule with classes that actually interest you. You shouldn t be taking the same classes twice. Try something totally new and out there for you to keep you interested. I think...

Teenage Problems: i'm in a rut, peer mentoring, peer mentor
peer mentoring, peer mentor, volunteer job: Hi, Thank you for your question. I recommend that you join some local college clubs. Be safe.. be careful at college as some clubs do get a bad crowd, but many are good too. I also recommend you to check into : Peer Mentoring or Tutoring. Either having...

Teenage Problems: I'm in a rut, community outreach program, pastor don
community outreach program, pastor don, vainglory: Hi Ryan! Thanks for this great question. I believe that you need to find some way to help others. If you volunteer in some kind of community outreach program, you will be able to get your mind off of yourself, occupy your time, and sweeten your disposition,...

Teenage Problems: masturbation, sexual tension, male friends
sexual tension, male friends, married men: Hi Ankit, No there is not going to be any hindrance to the growth of your penis because of masturbation. If anyone tells you they are wrong. masturbation is completely harmless and serves as a release of the sexual tension that occurs during adolescense....

Teenage Problems: my mom is the biggest bitch ever, stupid bullshit, cusses
stupid bullshit, cusses, going to jail: Hey there Justine, Sorry for the delay in replying, I have been having a few technical problems that has meant I have not been able to get back to you as quick as I would like, but now these are sorted so please don t think that I have forgotten about you....

Teenage Problems: mom problems, family psychologist, single mom
family psychologist, single mom, good relationship: Hi, You shouldn t end your life. I can tell you are a very smart, caring, good person. And the world needs more people like you. I have the same issue with my mother. I do recommend that you get your mother to go to a family psychologist with you. This helped...

Teenage Problems: should i move in with my boyfriend and his mom and younger sister?, mom lives, step dad
mom lives, step dad, praise god: Hi Lynsey, Thank you for this great question. I am very sorry that you have had such a tough time this early in your life. Praise God that you have some grandparents that love you! It sounds like you are pretty serious with this boyfriend of yours. ...

Teenage Problems: moveing in with my real dad, step dad, follow ups
step dad, follow ups, mother and father: Does your father have a lawyer? Did the judge ask you what you wanted? I am not going to give you legal advice. DCS can maybe offer some advice, but you still need to ask a lawyer. I did run a check on Yahoo for help and this came up with this third party...

Teenage Problems: need ur opinion badly, vaginal lips, green discharge
vaginal lips, green discharge, medical advice: I don t give medical advice. She needs to talk to a doctor about sex risks. It could be some type of an STI, but I m not sure. If you had intercourse with her, get tested ASAP. TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR ABOUT SEX RISKS. If any sperm gets inside of her she could...

Teenage Problems: new school new country...., sporty types, schooling system
sporty types, schooling system, math and science: I ver never heard of a sport record. It might just be so they could get you into the same sport you were playing before you moved so it s more fair to you. 94% is an A here in America for most schools. It could be a little higher or lower but and A is...

Teenage Problems: new school new country...., sporty types, schooling system
sporty types, schooling system, 10th grade: Hi Furti, I will make some comments in capital letters and also make a few corrections in some of your words if you do not mind. Im not shouting hey! you are an american right? well I am from india and I sall(SHALL) be shifting to Los Angeles by...

Teenage Problems: Obsessed with death?, continuous problem, bullet for my valentine
continuous problem, bullet for my valentine, death and destruction: Ok I am not a psychologist and it s clear to me you should talk to a psychologist for at least one hour and see what they recommend. They may meet you weekly or biweekly, but that s if they think it s a big issue. I am an expert on this site but we do...

Teenage Problems: Odd worries, casual bystander, looking in the mirror
casual bystander, looking in the mirror, weird idea: Hi Hannah, It is absolutely impossible to get pregnant without having sex. There is nothing to worry about. Periods can sometimes be late for all sorts of reasons the main reason being stress! So while you are stressing about becoming the next virgin...

Teenage Problems: Parents and boys, secret relationship, guy friends
secret relationship, guy friends, bad idea: I ve done the secret relationship thing. It s not so fun. It s fun just because you re sneaking around but after a while it s kind of annoying and it hurts the relationship. Ask your parents if there is some way to compromise with them on the dating and hanging...

Teenage Problems: Problems with my son., huff puff, parent child relationships
huff puff, parent child relationships, open relationship: Hi Maria, THank you for thiese great questions. I do not have a magic formula when it comes to understanding parent child relationships, but I can tell you that I too am a parent of adult children. Here are some observations I have made: 1. Often...

Teenage Problems: pls help, losing my control, writing poems
losing my control, writing poems, summer vacations: Hi Niki, First of all your parents are making the same mistake most parents do. Comparing one child to another. Everyone is different. Your parents probably are like many families in that they favor sons. Since he seems to have done well they are bragging...

Teenage Problems: am i pregnant?, contraception pill, stopping the pill
contraception pill, stopping the pill, pregnancy test: Hi Katie, By the sounds of it you could be pregnant. Your best option would be for you to go to your doctor and have a test done there. Not only will it be more accurate but its free. You will also receive alot more advice and information if the test...

Teenage Problems: Relationships, emotional ties, first kiss
emotional ties, first kiss, 11 years: I hadn t kissed anyone when I was 14 either. My first kiss was when I was 16 and a junior in high school. The guys that you want around you will appreciate that you don t go around making out with every guy you see. If anyone says they don t want to go out...

Teenage Problems: relationships, heavy drinker, shelter clothing
heavy drinker, shelter clothing, incidentals: Hi Kyle, Well first of all how do you expect to pay for living expenses and electric and food and all the other incidentals? Being 17 no landlord can enforce any lease you sigh. Contracts signed by people under 18 cannot legally be enforced. You feel...

Teenage Problems: Scared..., freshman year, capital letters
freshman year, capital letters, miracle: Hi Nichole, I will make some comments of what you can do to help yourself. will make them in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I need help. I am 15 years old and I am going to be a junior in high school. I have never had...

Teenage Problems: Stress, family psychologist, emotional person
family psychologist, emotional person, ups: Hi, Are you from the UK? Just need to ask. It appears your family is making you depressed. This is very common. I can work with you a little bit to relieve some of the feelings but I do not replace a psychologist. Please ask follow ups. Due to the other issues...

Teenage Problems: my step dad, step dad, emotional abuse
step dad, emotional abuse, cps: Hi, Can I have your age and your state? If it s emotional abuse, CPS in your state may be able to help. Because of how you are acting due to this, you need to also talk to your doctor. If you hurt your self, see your doctor ASAP. Please ask follow up...

Teenage Problems: stepson, sole guardian, dirty panties
sole guardian, dirty panties, ample moisture: That is a concern. Maybe you could throw him a party and have it almost like a date night for him and his friends. Then he could be around girls his own age and maybe start liking them. Teenage boys have a very mercurial mind and it shouldn t take much to...

Teenage Problems: Teenage son, no girlfriend, james windell, heart of hearts
james windell, heart of hearts, follow ups: Hi again, I don t do this for feedback, however I am wondering why such a low rating? I m wondering how to improve on helping people here. Let me know how I can help you better. Thanks, Dan Hi, I handle a lot of cases over here where people are setting...

Teenage Problems: Typical Teenage Question., likes and dislikes, sugar coating
likes and dislikes, sugar coating, nuts: Hi Jessica, If a guy says I ll think about about it . I would say well I won t hold my breath waiting for your answer . I think he said no in a nice way but I think he just did not have the ability to say no on the spot. I think he did not want to go...

Teenage Problems: what teen girls like, hottest guy, shy guy
hottest guy, shy guy, old girls: Girls like guys who are confident and funny and who make them feel comfortable. You can be the hottest guy around but if you make girls unsure of themselves, nothing will happen. But you can be the shy guy who gives her compliments and just talks to her and...

Teenage Problems: teenage mom out of control, babies clothes, teenage mom
babies clothes, teenage mom, mom and dad: Hi, You may want to contact family services in your state and see if they can be involved with her. I think the other option is for her and your parents to go to a family psychologist ASAP. And I am worried about how the child is being put in danger, so I...

Teenage Problems: trust, possesion of marijuana, family psychologist
possesion of marijuana, family psychologist, drugs and sex: Hi, Can I ask how come you smoked weed and also had intercourse? How did you even meet that person and what age were they? I recommend you to go with your parents to a family psychologist. This can help repair the issues. I also recommend talking to your...

Teenage Problems: watching other people have sex, girlfriend lives, vaginal sex
girlfriend lives, vaginal sex, grade 8: Hi, This is a question I sometimes do see posted online. I recommend talking to your doctor. You should not be watching your brother do those acts. You also should tell your parents that your brother is putting him self in danger. Talk to a doctor ASAP. ...

Teenage Problems: watching other people have sex, girlfriend lives, vaginal sex
girlfriend lives, vaginal sex, grade 8: Hi Emily, Thanks for your question. First of all i would like to say that generally it is not a good thing to spy on people having sex as it is a very private act, although in this case, your brother should really have a bit more respect for you and not...

Teenage Problems: watching other people have sex, girlfriend lives, vaginal sex
girlfriend lives, vaginal sex, grade 8: Hi, This is a question I sometimes do see posted online. I recommend talking to your doctor. You should not be watching your brother do those acts. You also should tell your parents that your brother is putting him self in danger. Talk to a doctor ASAP. ...

Teenage Problems: Does he like me?, jet skis, trip to new orleans
jet skis, trip to new orleans, lake madison: Hi, I am sorry I didn t answer your question. I can t answer a question that is posted in the wrong area however. Please post the question in the correct area and someone may be able to help. Ask our : How to know if he or she likes you experts. No...

Teenage Problems: to be with her, or not to be with her?, choice point, lovely girl
choice point, lovely girl, right direction: do not get back with her you BOTH need space to regroup, I would definitily would give it at least two months without any contact if you have ever seen friends seems like you both are ross and rachel, always on and off again this time you need to be of...

Teenage Problems: Anorexia, stomach acid, sophomore year
stomach acid, sophomore year, novmeber: Your friend needs to be seen by a psychiatrist who is familiar with binging and purging. She risks damage to her esophagus from the action of stomach acid on it. This is not normal behavior for anyone. She needs to develop a postive self image of herself...

Teenage Problems: Attraction in teenage and adoloscents age, jaime lee, strange attraction
jaime lee, strange attraction: Hi It is completely normal to have attractions towards older people. I don t think that you have anything to worry about unless your attractions become unhealthy. If you have any other concerns please don t hesitate to write me a follow-up. Thanks!!!...

Teenage Problems: age gap, age gap, urgent advice
age gap, urgent advice, div1: I think that at the moment this should only be referred to as a hookup. I m not sure what his friend is implying. He may have been interested in you or else he may have just been looking for a good time. I think that you should be straight up with his friend...

Teenage Problems: Boyfriend, older guys, mates
older guys, mates, mom: You have to tell her. He s old enough that it s illegal for you two to be together. But if you haven t met yet, it s kind of hard for him to be an actual boyfriend. You might just want to bring up that you talk to people online and see what your mom says....

Teenage Problems: bi-curious, low self esteem, judge books
low self esteem, judge books, confusing situation: hi Daniel, I know what situation your in! Dont worry about it, its perfectly normal and I think pretty much every person will go through the same thing. Maybe you should try starting a relationship with another male and see if it feels right, then you ll...

Teenage Problems: blunder by me, futile things, hard feelings
futile things, hard feelings, mental stability: Hi, I have to ask your state. I also have to ask have you talked to a doctor about the above? I recommend doing so as I think you may have some type of depression. You need to talk to your doctor asap. Depression can be treated and is not your fault. I...

Teenage Problems: body image, self concious, extreme lengths
self concious, extreme lengths, flawless skin: Hi Michelle Well as I would always say, everyone is beautiful in their own way. You should never ever put yourself down because there isnt a single person in this world who is perfect. About the whole eating thing... These days everyone is trying to look...

Teenage Problems: boyfriends, self esteem issues, low self esteem
self esteem issues, low self esteem, looking in the mirror: Hi laura, Well to start with, just because you might not be the most popular in the school, or the girl with the perfect body or whatever, it doesnt mean you cant get attention from the boys. Confidence plays a huge part in this. You have to be able to talk...

Teenage Problems: breakup, jaime lee, back answer
jaime lee, back answer, right job: Yes, I think that it would be better if you waited for her response. I d say that you should give it about a week and if you don t hear from her again then you could contact her about it because she should ve calmed down by then. Don t talk to her over the...

Teenage Problems: breakup, breakups, gentleman
breakups, gentleman, relationship: It sounds like you are trying too hard. She sees you as being needy or clingy and being desperate. Perhaps you were too possessive with her and she felt smothered or unable to be herself around you. I suggest you lighten up somewhat and do not keep contacting...

Teenage Problems: breakup, thorn in the flesh, 2 corinthians 12
thorn in the flesh, 2 corinthians 12, messenger of satan: Hi Kichha, Thank you for this great question. I am sorry for your hurt. Break ups can be devistating and even life changing, but sometimes they are designed by God to draw you closer to Him. Instead of hounding after her every day, perhaps you need to...

Teenage Problems: Classed as 'Sexual activity',but isn't it ok if I know I wont have sex?, ireland law, sexual intercourse
ireland law, sexual intercourse, hand jobs: Hi, I don t know Ireland law, but I know in the US(I think all states) any sexual activity such as that you listed above for your age is illegal. Now, I recommend asking a lawyer in your location. I would have to assume it s illegal in your location. ...

Teenage Problems: cps and high school, english proficiency exam, jaime lee
english proficiency exam, jaime lee, school question: Ok. Well, if the government officials were concerned then they might contact the school or else contact a psychologist who specialises in working with adolescents (could be referred to as an adolescent psychologist). I hope that this helps. Thanks Jaime-Le...

Teenage Problems: crush problems, grade 9, good luck
grade 9, good luck: Hi Ellen, The best thing to do is to talk to him. obviously dont just go up to him and go hey, i like you, go out with me? !!! just gradually get to know him more and more, so that you both feel comfortable around each other. Just act yourself around him,...

Teenage Problems: Dealing with an over possessive boyfriend, chrisitian family, relationship god
chrisitian family, relationship god, perfect match: Hi Jennifer, Thank you for this great question. My father once told me years ago that if I cannot accept everything about a person, the good and the bad, I cannot marry her. It has been my experience that when a boyfriend shows jealousy and mistrust......

Teenage Problems: Depression.., teenage children, anorexic
teenage children, anorexic, counsellor: Hi Thank you for this great question!!! I am sure that you are not fat. Many people use food as a way of comforting themselves and even though it is good to not eat too often, the reaction that you have taken is completely normal. I think that it would be...

Teenage Problems: My dad, rest of my life, psychologist
rest of my life, psychologist, first night: Hi, It was not your fault what your father did to you. You enjoyed it because you were forced into it and didn t know how to speak up. This has to be reported to allow you to feel better. You may want to talk to a psychologist regarding this to relieve some...

Teenage Problems: I like my ex again, and i don't think that i should've broken up with him., closest friend, second opinion
closest friend, second opinion, 4 months: Hi This is definitely a dificult situation that you are in. I think that you should express the way that you feel about your ex to him because the feelings that you have told me about the way that you feel about him should make him feel happy. Then, if you...

Teenage Problems: Feelings of hatred, curse god, spiritual advice
curse god, spiritual advice, housemaid: Hi Nel, Thank you for this question. I am very sorry that you have gone through these things. I cannot begin to understand why things happen the way that they do, but I do have some spiritual advice for you. You cannot control what your dad does toward...

Teenage Problems: Friend Issue, talk to your daughter, religious school
talk to your daughter, religious school, privet: Talk to your daughter and ask what what they say. Tell her to not get involved with it and to just leave it alone. If someone says something that she gets upstet about, talk to her about it. There s not a whole lot you can do about the other girls except try...

Teenage Problems: familly issues..., polish translater, english at home
polish translater, english at home, wireless provider: Hello Christina, sorry for the delay but my wireless provider was not working. I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. I am not shouting. I am an 11 year old girl and i am bilingual.I speak polish and English.THATS...

Teenage Problems: family stuff, good luck, dad
good luck, dad: Hi well everyone has a right to see their dad. So im pretty shocked that your denied access to see him! im in a pretty similar situation, my family have rejected my sister and im not allowed to meet her, or speak to her without getting yelled at from my mother....

Teenage Problems: Heart in two, first love, back of my mind
first love, back of my mind, fella: Hi Bella, Ive been in a similar situation. Its hard isnt it. In my case, I was with this boy that I thought I d love forever. everything just seemed so right and I knew he was the one. But when he broke up with me it hit me really hard. He got with this girl...

Teenage Problems: Help with a lot of things, concusions, docto
concusions, docto, dance team: Hi, Let me know if there is anything else I can do to help you. I recommend you to speak to a lawyer and also your doctor about sex. Get tested. I recommend following the law. I am one that turns my self in when I violate the law, even if I get in big trouble....

Teenage Problems: help please, workout center, wait training
workout center, wait training, jaime lee: Hi I don t completely understand...I don t think that you have made a mistake. Do you want to have a way of doing some weight training??? If so...the following link has tips for weight training: http://exercise.about.com/cs/exerciseworkouts/a/workout_center.htm...

Teenage Problems: Lies ruining our lives, big lie, discord
big lie, discord, tape recorder: Hi Lesa, Thank you for this great question. I am very sorry for my late response. There is no easy way to deal with this especially since it has gone on for so long. There are two ways that we are motivated to change our behavior. We could learn and...

Teenage Problems: looks, fear of rejection, tricky topic
fear of rejection, tricky topic, fitness plan: This is a tricky topic. I can be funny, but some women don t like this. Some women don t like when I am serious. Some women don t like me being the strong person. Everyone has somebody in this world. And the personality of you will help you find that someone....

Teenage Problems: lost.., home answer, bordum
home answer, bordum, pregnancy test: Hi, Before I answer those questions I need to ask the following: 1. When did the sex start? 2. Who was the first to ask to do it? 3. How often does it happen? 4. Do you know the psychology behind this? What country are you located in? Just wondering....

Teenage Problems: lost & confused, losing my virginity, s wave
losing my virginity, s wave, being a doctor: Hi Nelly, Thanks for this great question. I cannot tell you who you should choose, but I can give you some things to consider. The 30 year old knew how to take advantage of a young girl. He knew that you wanted to be a virgin, but he knew how to seduce...

Teenage Problems: Memory loss, suffering from depression, math homework
suffering from depression, math homework, jaime lee: Hi Your doctor will know more about this than me, however I think that sometimes when people are forgetting things on a regular basis it is because they have too much on their mind. I once had a friend who was always forgetting things and even starting to...

Teenage Problems: Moving out., 4 months, 17 years
4 months, 17 years, marines: actually you can just explain it to your parents and tell them first so they don t report you a run away and tell them exactly what you said just make sure you sit down and have an adult responsible conversation with them but legally they could if they really...

Teenage Problems: Movinq outt., jaime lee, hi thanks
jaime lee, hi thanks, kno: Hi Thanks for your great question! In Texas, you can legally move out at 17 if you have your parent s permission or if you are legally emancipated. Otherwise, most people wait until they are 18 to move away from home. I think that it is fine for you to move...

Teenage Problems: masturbation, multiple orgasms, sexual tension
multiple orgasms, sexual tension, sexual pleasure: Hi I m happy that you have come to me for advice. I believe that everyone has to masturbate to relieve sexual tension and so masturbation is definitely healthy. Poking is when a woman inserts her finger(s) (usually index and middle finger) into her vagina...

Teenage Problems: NOT the mother, mum and dad, drink alot
mum and dad, drink alot, unhealthy environment: Hi This sounds like s very serious and concerning problem. First of all I want you to know that everything will eventually get better because this can t go on forever. I know that it must be very difficult to live in a house with so much anger and of course...

Teenage Problems: Name in vain, pastor don, king james version
pastor don, king james version, 1 john: Hi Laura, Thank you for this great question. Taking the Lord s name in vain is not an unforgivable sin. If you come to Jesus for forgiveness, you will receive it. 1 John 1:9 9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins,...

Teenage Problems: need help, jaime lee, affairs of the heart
jaime lee, affairs of the heart, question thanks: It could be severely difficult to transfer a crush, because affairs of the heart are hard to interfere with. You could pay more attention to some boys to attempt to stop you having these feelings, however I doubt that any success will come of that and it is...

Teenage Problems: a new boy in school, new kid in school, cristal
new kid in school, cristal: You have to talk to him. There has to be something about class that you can ask him about. Maybe ask about an assignment or what he s reading or if he knows something that would be good to read. Then after a while of doing that, start talking to him. Ask him...

Teenage Problems: Problems with me, everyday situations, good luck
everyday situations, good luck, celebrities: Hi Kion, I was quite confused by this question.. im not entirely sure what you mean but I think i have a fair idea. I think everyone has thought the same thing as you.. you see a celebrity and think wow, id sure love to be like him or her.. and you start...

Teenage Problems: my penis, showers, rugby
showers, rugby, ashley: Hi ashley, Everyone grows at different speeds and times. Its nothing you should be worrying about because in time, it will grow.. sometimes it just takes a while. Ignore the boys at rugby, dont react back to them or show that your upset by what they are...

Teenage Problems: penis size and doctor visits, doctor need, jaime lee
doctor need, jaime lee, masturbation techniques: Hi The size of your penis is completely normal for a 15 year old. It is also normal for it to be perpendicular to your stomach. Your sperm count should increase as you get older. Increasing the intensity of your orgasms and ejaculations could possibly come...

Teenage Problems: please, i cant take this anymore, nineline, second brother
nineline, second brother, little brother: Hi, You need to contact the police and child services ASAP. They should be able to help you. If they don t, please ask a follow up. Let me know how it goes. Because of the abuse this needs to be reported asap. I can t do any report for you due to your location....

Teenage Problems: Quitting Sports, playing basketball, 9th grader
playing basketball, 9th grader, winter league: Hi Barb, Lot of things had/has changed since our times in high school. Being 9th grader, will be difficult for him, new teachers, new environment, new schedule, and of course lots of schoolwork/homework. It may effect his decision to not play basketball...

Teenage Problems: Read this instead it has the dialogue, dialogue question, educated guess
dialogue question, educated guess, specialty store: I did read your question and I gave you an answer. I also just sent you an answer to this very question so please read that. Also, I don t know why you keep sending me the same kind of questions when they re not what I deal with. I ve given you my answers...

Teenage Problems: Relationship issues, relationship issues, seven months
relationship issues, seven months, laugh: I d be careful with this. I did almost the same thing as you have and I ended up getting hurt. It didn t end very well with my boyfriend and I. Take it slow. You can still go behind your parents backs but I don t recommend it. Talk to them. Explain why you...

Teenage Problems: relationship, hes, old girl
hes, old girl, liking: Hi Amee Hmmmmm. thats a tough one. Well, for a start, there are ALOT of people who are unsure about their sexuality, some people think theyre gay, or bisexual, then infact they realise they arent. sometimes it can be confusing. but it does happen. Thats...

Teenage Problems: relationships, fear of relationships, jaime lee
fear of relationships, jaime lee, feelings: Hi Yes, these feelings are normal and you have nothing to worry about. I am not judging you, but they may be due to a lack of experience in relationships. In time you should get over these feelings. If you have any other concerns then please write me a...

Teenage Problems: rumors, life at school, cool head
life at school, cool head, bestfriend: Hi Taylor Well to start with, a similar rumour got sent round about me a while back so I know how your feeling... It can be hard trying to convince everyone your telling the truth when you say the rumour isnt true, so what I did is made sure that whenever...

Teenage Problems: Sex, planned parenthood, trust issues
planned parenthood, trust issues, problem child: Hi, Can I ask your state? I recommend you to check the laws in your area. I also recommend Parenting Teen expert James Windell. I also recommend a sex talk with a doctor for both of them and also to be both tested. Legally I may have to say someone should...

Teenage Problems: Sexuality, space and time, sexuality
space and time, sexuality, parents: Tell your parents that you are serious. It might take them a while to get used to the idea so give them time. When they see that you don t grow out of it, they will take you seriously and know what this is for real. Just give them some space and time and keep...

Teenage Problems: The Smell And Taste Of My Pussy, taking a nap, vaginal sex
taking a nap, vaginal sex, logical conclusion: Hi It is fine with me if you ask me all of the questions that you need to. Could you please just write them as follow-up questions because I m writing to another Sophia at the moment too and I don t want to get confused between the 2 of you. Thank...

Teenage Problems: The Smell And Taste Of My Pussy, taking a nap, vaginal sex
taking a nap, vaginal sex, logical conclusion: I think you need to get a new boyfriend number one. Second his interest is a little unusual. He sounds like he has some extraordinary interest in this type of sexaul activity. Therefore there may be some other interests he has as well that you have yet...

Teenage Problems: The Smell And Taste Of My Pussy, taking a nap, vaginal sex
taking a nap, vaginal sex, logical conclusion: Hi, I highly recommend you to learn about sex risks. I am not only talking about STIs, STDs. I m talking about a whole lot more, which I am not trained to answer. This is why you both need to talk to a doctor and get tested. Learn the risks by talking to...

Teenage Problems: Stepdad, last nerve, little sister
last nerve, little sister, hard time: Talk to your mom about it. Tell her that you can t respect her because of what she s done. Maybe she had a reason for doing it that you don t know about. I m not saying cheating is okay but let her explain things to you. Then you tell her how you feel and...

Teenage Problems: I sent you I want a baby, sign of depression, ways to prevent depression
sign of depression, ways to prevent depression, gothic art: I am glad I am helping. I wish I can help more, but I have my limits. This is why a psychologist is required. Talk to your doctor asap and meet with one asap. Now, let me say this, strong people are those that ask for help when needed. You are strong....

Teenage Problems: Too shy....., girlfrend, frend
girlfrend, frend, 17 years: Hi Nate, The answer to this is a simple one. Whenever you want to ask a girl out just think to yourself.... If i die tomorrow will i regret not asking her out today? Life is far to short to put these kind of things off. There is no need to be scared....

Teenage Problems: my son - 16 yrs old, school mentor, starter questions
school mentor, starter questions, family stress: Hi, Just checking to see that you got an answer from James Windell. If you need anymore help, let me know. Lots of possible theories, so hopefully with those we are able to find a cause to the issue and help him. Hi, As I am not a medical doctor, I...

Teenage Problems: step son conflicts (teenage theft), pastor don, teenage issues
pastor don, teenage issues, posession: Hi Robert, Thanks for this great question. I am sorry that you are going through a difficult situation with your son. The best way to handle this is direct confrontation. Get all your facts straight and then call him to account for how he got possession...

Teenage Problems: What am I supposed to do?, full time job, younger brothers
full time job, younger brothers, anniversaries: Hi, What will child services do? It depends on your state and exactly what you report to them and what they can find out. If you want I can email a connection I have over here and they can list some possibles . Based on the above, I do recommend talking...

Teenage Problems: Teen Advice, friends, popularity
friends, popularity: Hi Krishna, Thanks for this great question. I am sorry that you had such a bad day at school! I do not have a magical formula how you can get people not to hate you. Sometimes people can be jerks. It would seem that High School girls are just plain...

Teenage Problems: what do u think, sports club, homework
sports club, homework: After school programs are one of the best ways to get yourself motivated though, or even just any sort of club at all, it doesnt have to be with your school. Just anything thats going to keep you active and that your going to enjoy. there must be something!...

Teenage Problems: I got used 3 months ago and I'm still not over it., high school sophomores, biological father
high school sophomores, biological father, cool guy: Dear Peyton, whenever girls or guys are away from home there is always the temptation to do something with someone else. They feel its ok since the other person like their boyfreind or girlfriend will never find out. So they let down their guard. This...

Teenage Problems: i want a baby, doctor asap, mum and dad
doctor asap, mum and dad, 4 friends: Hi, My questions were regarding a scale system, however the good news is I can also go by yes and no in this type of case. The answer is I cannot state anyone has depression legally online as I am not a psychologist, however my theory that I stated before...

Teenage Problems: working through a friendship, one of my best friends, guy friend
one of my best friends, guy friend, rest of the night: Hi Jessica, Straight away, in my opinion I think that this isnt your fault. You developed feelings for the guy and that really cant be helped. It isnt your fault who you fall for. After reading that I dont think your going about it the wrong way, I just...

Teenage Problems: so..., long term relationships, genuine friend
long term relationships, genuine friend, facebook: Hi Al, Thanks for this great question. I have no way of helping you predict what secrets may be locked away in her heart. If you really are close, then ask her directly. If she has friended you on facebook, then this is not a secret. Just ask how it...

Teenage Problems: so..., facebook, committment
facebook, committment, good friends: Hi al, For a start its always better to tell someone how you feel about them otherwise sometimes you miss out then regret not ever telling them. The reason she isnt telling you is probably because she has realised that you are both getting really close and...

Teenage Problems: so..., internet type, internet friend
internet type, internet friend, facebook: Hi Al, If she talks to him on the phone and online and text messages him he probably is not local unless you or a friend of yours has seen her with him. As for you getting together with her you need to move quickly as I said before. Do so before you...

Teenage Problems: 17 year old daughter., low self esteem, back bone
low self esteem, back bone, doing the right thing: Hi Dee, I will make somments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I have a 17 teen year old daughter, that has many talents, singing,writing and education. She attends a school that offers the IB program, very smart young...

Teenage Problems: 18-yr old dropped out of college, road to disaster, household duties
road to disaster, household duties, supervisor position: Hi Terry, Yes, I believe your 3 options are reasonable sound and logically right thing to do for your son. It is time for him to take on his own responsibilities as man and take care of himself. You need to stop making choices or make decisions for...

Teenage Problems: Atheist, abrahams bosom, rich mans table
abrahams bosom, rich mans table, father abraham: Hi Anne, Thank you for this great question. It seems that you want your mom to be comfortable with your decision. Let me help you understand her perspective. If she is a devout Christian, then that means that she believes what the Bible says. Truth...

Teenage Problems: addicted to facebook and other hacking, addication, follow ups
addication, follow ups, curious person: Hi, This is a very common problem, believe it or not. Hacking or as I like to call it cracking is of course illegal. You can get in serious trouble for doing so. So please don t do such. As it s out of your control, as you admit, you need to talk to your...

Teenage Problems: advice on what to do, saddness, time cause
saddness, time cause, capital letters: Hi Victoria, I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Imnot shouting. hi my name is victoria and i have a question . how can my big sister get custody of me i am 15 years old is that possible?YES IT IS POSSIBLE. HOW OLD...

Teenage Problems: Boys?, sex stage, trouble with boys
sex stage, trouble with boys, bowling alley: The follow-up was a bit confusing for me. Good, you re going out with people your age...but guess what age 14 or 15 means that their at that prime age that is known as the hurry, scurry, screw stage. Basically, between ages 13-16, boys will be boys. Their...

Teenage Problems: CLEANLINESS ISSUES OF MY SON, understanding concepts, feeling the same way
understanding concepts, feeling the same way, psychological disorder: Hi Jayapal, I do not think he has any psychological disorders based on your information provided here. May I suggest to set up at least one to three chores daily, starting with one chore a time, train him what to do, if he does well in one chore then gradually...

Teenage Problems: I have a crush on my teacher!, languages teacher, last night i had a dream
languages teacher, last night i had a dream, embarassed: It s very common to have a crush on a teacher. You don t need to feel weird about it. I can tell that you know there are boundaries with him and you so that s a good thing. Just remind yourself when you se him that he s off limits. Make sure you re around...

Teenage Problems: Depression/suicide/self harm, depression suicide, pediatricain
depression suicide, pediatricain, contemplating suicide: Hi Nolan, First of all how old are you? Yes there is help for you and its easy to get. The problem ith most people suffering from depression is that they are unable to reach out to get help. Most depressed people do not get help. This is because depression...

Teenage Problems: dating, child support
child support: I don t know what kind of charges you mean but it is possible that she could file for child support but it might not happen. Also, depending on where they live, there could be other charges. But it s really up to the girl and where you live what can happen...

Teenage Problems: daughter leaving home, pastor don, leaving home
pastor don, leaving home, disagreements: Hi Jennifer, Thank you for this great question. I am sorry for the hurt that you have been experiencing. It is normal to feel anxiety when your child starts to act independently and make decisions that you you disagree with. The important thing is that...

Teenage Problems: I dont seem to be motivated to do anything, lift weights, lifting weights
lift weights, lifting weights, algebra ii: Hello, Thank you for this great question. Life and hunger is a great motivator. If you will not do what it takes, you will miss out on life s opportunities. You will learn when the consequences of your actions come crashing down around your ears. You...

Teenage Problems: Erectile disfunction, peditrician, definetley
peditrician, definetley, sexual thoughts: This is not erectile dysfunction. ED is when you cannot get an erection or you need to take Cialis or Viagra to help you get an erection. If your penis is bent forward that can mean downward or upward. If is bent slightly to the right , you need to know...

Teenage Problems: Foreskin doesn't roll all the way back during erection?, medical disease, follow ups
medical disease, follow ups, foreskin: Anthony, The inability to retract the foreskin during an erection is common and it is actually classified as a medical disease or disorder. Generally by age 18 your foreskin should fully retract, if in fact you have the syndrome, it may never retract and...

Teenage Problems: Should I feel bad?, asexual people, pacifist
asexual people, pacifist, girl friend: Hi ..., For future reference, please include an actual name (even a fake name) it makes it easier for me address you and makes my responses more professional. Well, no one deserves to be hit. Arguments can cause more arguments and fights can cause more...

Teenage Problems: Should I follow my heart, international actress, mom and dad
international actress, mom and dad, life long dream: Hi Hileen, I will make some comments in capital lettwers so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Well here it goes I have a dream to become an international actress someday. It been my life Long dream. I never ask my parents for anything ever I...

Teenage Problems: good day ms.jaycie :) im from the country of philippines and were having a investigatory report about suicide. i'm hoping you can answer me back.thank you, effects of suicide, investigatory report
effects of suicide, investigatory report, attempt suicide: I ll answer your questions in order so it s less confusing. Attempted suicide can be worse than actual suicide because you have to live with whatever problems you will now have. Suicide is wrong, according to me, and it shouldn t be an option. Suicide...

Teenage Problems: Health, self pleasure, aloe vera
self pleasure, aloe vera, dry skin: Hi Joe, What you have is most likely not an STD. Do you masturbate? This seems to be a chafing issue or a dry skin issue. Chafing is whenever friction causes it to become rough and dry. Dry skin is from friction but it is usually causes from self pleasure....

Teenage Problems: Help., new best friends, mid school
new best friends, mid school, mental breakdown: Hello ...., I feel you have just taken it too long and far. I will give you some tips, just try them 1. On a piece of paper(s) write down all the complaints you have against people(father, mother, brother, Friends, School, Teachers, ....all), Life,...

Teenage Problems: Help me please!, question pool, proof of income
question pool, proof of income, dirty names: Hi Amir, I have pulled your question out of the question pool, hope that was OK. Yea, being a teenager can become complicated. You have conflict with parents, school, relationships, etc. Being a teenager is actually a difficult task. I, myself, have...

Teenage Problems: High school transfer, james windell, sorry excuse
james windell, sorry excuse, florida government: Hi, If you want I can give you a contact in the human service area of the Florida government. Maybe they can help. Or you can always email James Windell Parenting Teen expert. I think you will get a good high school experience if you stay where you are....

Teenage Problems: i hav a question about my penis, warm water rinse, body soap
warm water rinse, body soap, hand soap: Hi Francisco, Being uncircumcised is a complication position to be in. Many studies show that being uncircumcised actually is healthier than being circumcised, while other studies strongly disagree. One thing that is agreed upon is that it is very important...

Teenage Problems: health/prayer/faith, prayer god, answer prayers
prayer god, answer prayers, waiting for god: Hi Daniel Thank you for this great question. The story is told about a guy who fell off a cliff into the river and passed a tree branch on the way ... Help me God! He cried, but would not take the branch, he wanted to trust God. Some folks on the shore...

Teenage Problems: help with 13 year old, florida virtual school, last saturday night
florida virtual school, last saturday night, alcohol and drugs: Hi Jessica, Thank you for this very heart felt question. I am so sorry for what you are going through. It does sound like you need help with your daughter. Where is her dad, your husband? If you are alone, it does seem that you need some help. You...

Teenage Problems: help!!, pastor don, school holidays
pastor don, school holidays, australia day: Hi Russul, Thank you for this interesting question. If I am understanding you, you lied to your Mum, she became upset and now you are mad at her?? I know that you want to do more, but you must earn that. You have just proven to your mum why you should...

Teenage Problems: Jealousy, grade girl, tolerance policy
grade girl, tolerance policy, harrassment: Brooke - You need to tell another counselor or a teacher or a parent...someone who will listen to you and do something about this. You don t deserve to be harassed like this and your school should have some kind of zero tolerance policy against it. ...

Teenage Problems: Lock On My Bedroom Door, open relationship, legitimate reason
open relationship, legitimate reason, private person: I totally understand where you re coming from. I was the same way and I still am now. But you also have to think of where they are coming from. They want you to be safe and have an open relationship with them without secrets and they will only think the worst...

Teenage Problems: MONO, eating utensils, drinking glasses
eating utensils, drinking glasses, romantic relationship: Hi Monique, This is a tough one. Your son is seeing her as a friend or as a girlfriend . In any event he needs to know that the disease is spread by contact with saliva or mucus and that includes tears. It is a viral illness so antibiotics are of no...

Teenage Problems: Moving out, valid reason, ups
valid reason, ups, happiness: Hi, I am sorry to hear about your friend s issues. There is not much I can say as I am not a lawyer, besides speak to a lawyer in your area. Also I can suggest you check more into child services as you admit she is not happy in her house. Child services...

Teenage Problems: Mum, mother, relationship
mother, relationship, divorce: Hello Claire, these arent stupid thoughts. many girls grow up without a connection whatsover with their mother. you ve told your mum how you feel and nothing has changed. if she wont make it work dont bother. let her know how you REALLY feel using body...

Teenage Problems: Mum, heart god, stupid thoughts
heart god, stupid thoughts, perfect design: Hello ... Thank you for this great question. It is unwise and unbiblical to allow jealousy and envy darken your heart. God gave you this mum because you need her and she needs you. This is His perfect design for you. When envy creeps in, you can be...

Teenage Problems: my mom, bitch, mom
bitch, mom, relationship: Hello sean, I donot have email of your mom so i can only advise you. i must acknowledge your commitment to your relationship with your mother. See stop labeling your mother as ......It is just that your opinions and her opinions are not matching in one...

Teenage Problems: my mom, best behavior, sounding board
best behavior, sounding board, capital letters: Hi Hannon, I am assuming you are female. I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. my mom has always been really cool and nice up until about a year ago.WHAT HAS HAPPENED A YEAR AGO? DID SHE BREAK UP...

Teenage Problems: I need some advice..., being a dad, emotional relationship
being a dad, emotional relationship, facebook: honestly I think it is just hormones ....... I think you need to give him a little leeway and space and just trust him because not only is this a big deal for you it s a big deal for him so maybe how he deals with his frustrations, anxiety, etc. is by just...

Teenage Problems: i need your help, good answer, committment
good answer, committment, virgin: I don t really know what you re asking here so I can t really give you a good answer. But being a virgin isn t a bad thing. A lot of people have the idea that they needs to have sex a lot to be accepted but that s not true. I have never had sex and I m fine....

Teenage Problems: On my own, moral conflict, afraid to go home
moral conflict, afraid to go home, emotional abuse: Hi Megan, Thank you for this very difficult question. In cases like this, it is easy to jump on your side and vilify your parents, but there are two sides to every story. The best thing would be for you to get your pastor or youth pastor involved. Perhaps...

Teenage Problems: Parents relationships, nuclear physicist, science and philosophy
nuclear physicist, science and philosophy, education in england: Hi, Firstly when i said for you to be responsible for your complaints i never meant it as a blame, responsibility is not a blame, it is a way of being, it is made of two words response + ability that means once you take responsibility of some thing / some...

Teenage Problems: My penis, going through puberty, extra skin
going through puberty, extra skin, soap and water: Hi Alex, Im not sure a picture is necessary. Besides you are a minor and it might look like you are sending pornography even though its not. if you have msn messenger you can talk to me on msn messenger its scussetbeach@hotmail.com. Since I am an adult...

Teenage Problems: please help., new years eve, especialy
new years eve, especialy, puberty: I hope everything works out okay. I don t think it s something to be really worried about but I don t want you to be hurting all the time either. Just ask your doctor. Please tell me what he/she says. I like to know what happens to people on here. Good luck!...

Teenage Problems: puberty problems, fever blister, fever blisters
fever blister, fever blisters, laundry detergent: Hi Tommy, first of all do not touch it. It may be relater to laundry detergent especially since this part of your anatomy is in contact with your clothing and if its a little wet from urination it may mix with some of the detergent residue. Check with your...

Teenage Problems: rape, rapists, rapist
rapists, rapist, virginity: FOLLOWUP TO YOUR COMMENT. Hi Madeleine, here is a toll free number for a rape hotline. 1-800-656-4673. Talk to the person who answers the telephone and tell them exactly what happened to you. They will ask you what city and state you are in and will be...

Teenage Problems: revenge, coals of fire, highschool student
coals of fire, highschool student, lieth: Hi Alex, Thank you for this great question. It is easy to want to take a combative stance in a situation like this. If you do, you will be blocking God out of the play. You see, God wants to deal with this guy... he can do that better than you can. ...

Teenage Problems: Sensitive penus head, soap and water, foreskin
soap and water, foreskin, secretions: Hi Navdeep, It sounds like you need to first see your family doctor or pediatrician and get his opinion as to whether you need to have to be circumcized or if some skin may need to be cut to allow the foreskin to retract upon erection. It should not hurt...

Teenage Problems: Sex, ethics and morals, serious relationship
ethics and morals, serious relationship, harms way: Hi, First you need to talk to a doctor about sex risks. I don t recommend masturbation. I understand why a lot of teens think sex is cool and such, but the media and such is putting those teens in harms way. You shouldn t have sex at your age. The media is...

Teenage Problems: Sexual Health, maturbating, facial cleanser
maturbating, facial cleanser, clearasil: Hey Tony, maybe I m not the one you expected to get an answer from but there is nothing wrong with you. There is no correlation between maturbating and acne. Acne and the uncontrollable erections are both due to teenage hormones. Depending on you religious...

Teenage Problems: Sexual Health, sexual tension, prostate gland
sexual tension, prostate gland, pimples: Hi Tony, First of all theres nothing wrong with masturbation. Every guy in the world does it and many girls also. They just do not talk about it. Getting pimples? Is that on your face? If so I do not think it is related. There is no pint in trying to...

Teenage Problems: Son can't get job due to semi-pornographic pictures from high school..., boys will be boys, businesswoman
boys will be boys, businesswoman, barrister: Hi Marie, I would keep all the details and all the names of people involved especially the person who said they could not hire your son and what he or she gave as the reason. You also need the schools name and whoever it was who said they refused to take...

Teenage Problems: Stress, family christmas party, immigrating to america
family christmas party, immigrating to america, christmas eve: Hi, I recommend our online safety experts and your parents about Facebook risks. I don t promote such. As for his family issues, it depends. Any abuse? Than maybe child services. I recommend Parenting Teen expert James Windell. Please ask follow ups ...

Teenage Problems: a serious problem, friends mom, altercations
friends mom, altercations, little brother: Hi Lianna, Thank you for this great question. I am sorry that you are going thorugh such a bad time. I strongly suggest that you speak to your pastor about this situation. You could use his wisdom. Taken at face value, it would seem that you actually...

Teenage Problems: My son's obsession with studying..., loving boy, disrespect
loving boy, disrespect, ups: Hi, I recommend my coworker Parenting Teen expert James Windell. To be honest I am glad he is taking a big interest in learning, but yes there are risks if you overdo such. I don t know if he is on the line, or pass the line. I am afraid that you may be...

Teenage Problems: My son wants to meet his online friend in person with us..., james windell, random stranger
james windell, random stranger, radio presenter: Hi, My advice is don t have him meet this person that he met online if possible. I have had too many cyber predator issues. I recommend James Windell Parenting Teen expert and also his school about online risks and how to talk to him about such. Please ask...

Teenage Problems: My son wants to meet this woman offline..., random stranger, radio presenter
random stranger, radio presenter, sexual chat: Hello Claire, Well about your last question I do not know the answer to that one. On the meeting I think both you and your husband should go along. If there is to be a meeting. But why does she want to meet your son? And what is her age? Has she...

Teenage Problems: My son wants to wear a bikini in public..., male body builders, bikini underwear
male body builders, bikini underwear, girls bikini: Hi John, Well, he may have some reason unknown to you or that he does not want to share with you. He may also not be gay but perhaps he is looking to pursue some feelings he has or has had about being bisexual. He will likely attract attention from other...

Teenage Problems: My son wants to wear bikinis... follow-up, eddie izzard, little consolation
eddie izzard, little consolation, family counselor: Your son seems to have found this person to be someone he wants to emulate. Hence the desire to wear a bikini. Its unlikely he is going to give up this desire. I think all three of you need to get counseling. Ask around for som recommendations for a family...

Teenage Problems: Talking to sons about oral sex, condoms, shaving, and masterbation, midwest usa, teenage sons
midwest usa, teenage sons, old mother: Oh wow. OK first I recommend as always their doctor for health information. Second oral sex and intercourse have a lot of risks and someone needs to tell them about such. Now, I also recommend Parenting Teen expert James Windell here. He can tell you how to...

Teenage Problems: Teasing and bullying, 5 more minutes, pee
5 more minutes, pee, panties: I don t think you re a baby or anything else and the only reason the other people think that is because they re not very old so that s what they think about everything. I know you didn t do it on purpose so don t worry. It s okay. Sometimes it happens. ...

Teenage Problems: Teenage School Confusion, ap classes, jaycie
ap classes, jaycie, minor question: I ve felt like you before. I think I took 6 AP classes in high school and it was miserable. Don t feel bad for dropping them. They are really hard. I think all my classes got down to 10 students in each of them because so many people dropped them. Don t feel...

Teenage Problems: i can't seem to find an accurate answer and i don't have a way to the PD for the law answers...help?, navy nurse, statutory rape
navy nurse, statutory rape, intelligence level: Hi , Im not able to answer your question. My only advice is to keep the government out of your life as much as you can and preferably for your whole life. And that applies more to cops and courts. You never want to call the police and you never want to...

Teenage Problems: teenage problems, step dad, teenage problems
step dad, teenage problems, brothers and sisters: Hi, Can I ask your state? Legally and ethically you need to report this abuse and also you may need to report this rape (if it is). This depends on your state. Please speak to a lawyer. If you are in danger contact the police asap. Please ask follow ups...

Teenage Problems: How do I tell my 16-year-old son his father is not his biological father?, paternity test results, biological father
paternity test results, biological father, happy life: Hi Lauren, Thank you for this painful question. I am so sorry that you have gone through this. Has your husband changed his relationship to this son? Is there a reason to disclose this now? If there is my best advice to you is to make sure that he knows...

Teenage Problems: Valentine's day, valentines day card, valentine s day
valentines day card, valentine s day, box of chocolates: Hi Carry, I have had something like that on my birthday but I was not sure i liked it. I would have preferred a quiet dinner out rather than having others see that it was my birthday. It was rather expensive as well. I think a Valentines day card carefully...

Teenage Problems: Valentine's day, valentines, present
valentines, present, presents: Dear Carry: It is endearing that you are thinking about Valentines Day in advance instead of half-heartedly doing something for your boyfriend. I donít know anything about him, so hopefully you will have some useful ideas from what I have given you. Here...

Teenage Problems: Valentine's day, valentine s day, suprise
valentine s day, suprise, 18 years: It sounds like he s the type of guy who wouldn t mind you leaving things for him all over the place or having things delivered for him. But most guys would rather have this done in private. I d be careful about doing things at his work just for that reason...

Teenage Problems: vaginal probelms, green discharge, light flow
green discharge, light flow, heavy flow: Hi, Unfortunately, this is just an aspect of growing up. As a teenager, your hormones are very different than they will be later in life. This creates unpredictable periods. Some months you ll miss one (and oh no, you think you re pregnant...but you...

Teenage Problems: Why do i want to be abused?, abusive relationship, perfect boyfriend
abusive relationship, perfect boyfriend, affection: you want to be abused because you NEED affection by someone even if it is negative it is still affection there is nothing wrong with you in fact I was the same way until I actually got myself into an abusive relationship it almost feels wierd to be treated...

Teenage Problems: i want a boyfriend., aggressive side, drug alcohol
aggressive side, drug alcohol, chief problem: Hi Shannon, First of all forgive yourself and stop running yourself down. We all made errors in judgement. Of course any drug especailly the drug alcohol can interfere with judgement and decision making. Thats its chief problem. Its a sad fact of life...

Teenage Problems: what do you make of wendys remarks, quotas, wendy
quotas, wendy, garments: She is right. Each manufacturer has different sizes that they go by and you can t just say that you ll always be a small or a size 6. It doesn t always work. I don t really know what you want me to say but I think she s right and she knows you are thin. Just...

Teenage Problems: wtf is wrong with me, curious person, wits
curious person, wits, addiction: Get away from computers. If that s how you re getting the info, don t get near them until you know you can stop it. If you have a problem with people, you need to be open with them and talk to them about it. Don t go behind them and hack into their stuff....

Teenage Problems: Yiffy, weird drawings, cartoon erotica
weird drawings, cartoon erotica, sweet personality: Hi, I said most teenage males do masturbate, I just don t promote it. As for the internet, it s good, but overusing it, is bad, and that s my fear. My fear is also making the internet a social place which could put people in danger if used without safety...

Teenage Problems: MY 14 YEARS OLD SON, older adults, peer groups
older adults, peer groups, new partner: Hi there Kelly, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. From my own dealing with young people I have found that a lot of bright young children do tend to prefer the conversation and company of older adults rather than...

Teenage Problems: my 14 year old son keeps cutting himself, anxiety and depression, coping mechanisms
anxiety and depression, coping mechanisms, fatal consequences: Hi Tenille, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. Young people who self-harm usually do so as a way of gaining some sense of control in their life when they feel like all over aspects of it have been controlled by other...

Teenage Problems: None of the adults really help., social science teacher, school psychologist
social science teacher, school psychologist, one of the boys: Have you and the others talked about drawing up a petition and presenting it to the principal, or having a little demonstration and all going to the principal at once during class when it starts, just getting up and walking out when it gets too bad? Maybe...

Teenage Problems: B.O.R.E.D., play video games, boring days
play video games, boring days, stupid games: Hi Carissa, Wassup! I know exactly how you feel. In fact I am here laughing, not at you but because I have been there. I feel like maybe you should try to be more social and branch out so that you can have people to spend those boring days with. I know...

Teenage Problems: B.O.R.E.D., play video games, stupid games
play video games, stupid games, sleeping till noon: Hi Carissa, Thanks for this great question. I am sorry for my late response. As I read this, it seems that you have done everything you can do to entertain yourself... and are running out of ideas. All around you are hurting and lonely people. I suggest...

Teenage Problems: B.O.R.E.D., bored
bored: Dear Carissa: You might want to think about getting some books that you might be interested in, including, motivational books, videos or audio tapes at the library. Use your valuable time to learn. Are you bored or do you just not want to do anything...

Teenage Problems: Blackmail and Pregnancy, legal job, stable environment
legal job, stable environment, getting a job: Hi Sharra, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. Going through a pregnancy at anytime must be difficult but it is made more difficult when you do not have the people around you who you need to support you. Add also...

Teenage Problems: Emo, pride and prejudice, skinny jeans
pride and prejudice, skinny jeans, phantom of the opera: Hi Nathan, thanks for coming to me! I m actually kind of honored to know an actual emo. There aren t many real ones in my backwater little valley town. I m actually glad you came to me, because I can tell you that emo is not necessarily a bad label. Emo...

Teenage Problems: Emotional distress, wrong place at the wrong time, head of the family
wrong place at the wrong time, head of the family, emotional distress: Hi there Sonny, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. Firstly, I cannot condone any action where you let someone get suspended and fired from a job for the sake of trying to please your friends. I know that you are...

Teenage Problems: Friends, goth, friends
goth, friends, freinds: Hi Sophie: Try not to worry too much about not having too many friends. By what you have said, it seems like you know who you are and are independent of others. Most friends do have arguments, but if they are too frequent I don t blame you for choosing...

Teenage Problems: So fed up, free periods, college in england
free periods, college in england, aquaintances: Dear Fraser, When you moved to a new college where you don t have any friends you must have expected this. But in any case this is a very simple matter. You need to start making friends, don t let the people you have met stay at the acquaintance status,...

Teenage Problems: So fed up, free periods, college in england
free periods, college in england, aquaintances: Well, now that you re legal, have you thought about going places to meet people, like a mixer or something? I do know how hard it is to meet new friends. Even though I m only 16, I know what it s like to have no friends. Only difference is; I ve never worried...

Teenage Problems: So fed up, meeting new friends, free periods
meeting new friends, free periods, college in england: Hi Fraser, I completely understand. It can be difficult arriving somewhere foreign with no friends to keep you company and everyone seems to have there own cliques, but college is about meeting NEW friends and making new experiences and memories. You need...

Teenage Problems: are we just friends?, girlfriend boyfriend, romantic relationship
girlfriend boyfriend, romantic relationship, great friends: Wassup Hannah, I don t speak for everyone but I think that close friends have the most potential for a good romantic relationship. I m just saying. You two sound like you have a lot of fun together and a lot in common and there could be something there....

Teenage Problems: Guys, subtle signs, expressing your feelings
subtle signs, expressing your feelings, biology: Dear Tia, Only you can tell how he feels towards you as you are the one experiencing the situation. If you would like to know how he feels it s best that you show him that you are interested in him, whether you do it by flirting or subtle signs. If...

Teenage Problems: i hate my mom, friends at school, wasting time
friends at school, wasting time, mom: Dear Rahul, You should never say bad things about your mom. The Bible says we must Honor our parents so that our days may be long upon the earth. All moms tend to stress about school work and wondering if you are doing enough. Because they see things that...

Teenage Problems: idk what to do, first move, right moment
first move, right moment, first kiss: Hey, Don t worry too much about that. Get comfortable with him, make the scene and setting right so you won t be too nervous. At that perfect moment move in close and tilt your head slightly. Hopefully that would let him know that you want to kiss him and...

Teenage Problems: important, facebook, guy
facebook, guy, meet: Dear C: In the times that we live now, you have to be very cautious. The picture this guy has posted could be anyone. He could be a perv and you would never know it. I don t want to sound like a lecture, but I guess I m going to anyway. You should never...

Teenage Problems: How can I be sure he likes me?, daphnee, danie
daphnee, danie, kisses: Wassup Danie, He s most likely shy. Try to take the initiative to ask him if you can, or build your friendship and allow him to get comfortable so he ll ask you. You can even get someone to talk to him for you. If I didn t answer you question please...

Teenage Problems: love, boyfriend, trust
boyfriend, trust, bad grades: Dear Maria: The choice is really yours but it sounds like your asking permission to let go of this relationship. It sounds like you already know what is best for you. Heís a player , scared to trust him , etc. It is okay not to have a boyfriend and...

Teenage Problems: masturbulation and pain, sexual feelings, sexual attractions
sexual feelings, sexual attractions, slef: Hello Umerwahid, It is normal to have sexual attractions and feelings and it is also normal to want to masturbate. After having your semen secrete it is also normal to feel weak and you should be feeling relaxed. I do not think you need to try to keep...

Teenage Problems: mom, sad cause, little sister
sad cause, little sister, good luck: Hi Kayley, Firstly, this is something I shouldnt really be answering as it can be taken as a far more serious matter, not just something you should ask a stranger advice on over the internet... Telling someone could result in your mother getting into...

Teenage Problems: My mother is keeping me from growing up, insurance times, facewash
insurance times, facewash, own insurance: Hi Kelly, Firstly, thank you for taking the time to write to me and tell me about your problem; I am just so sorry to hear about how you are feeling and the problems that you are having. Secondly, I want to say outright that no matter what your mom...

Teenage Problems: i need help, masturbation addiction, understanding addiction
masturbation addiction, understanding addiction, medicinenet com: Thanks for contacting me with this! Ok, here s the deal. Addiction to masturbation is a not-so-good, but not necessarily uncommon thing. I ve got it, in a mild form, you ve got it, in a super-form, and I m sure there are other people out there trying to fool...

Teenage Problems: Out of Place!!!, princess chick, mediocre grades
princess chick, mediocre grades, step advice: Honestly, thereís really not too much I can do to help you out with this. It s one of thse things that has to either work itself out or not. But I can analyze it for you. If I may be frank, your so-called friend sounds like a bitch. I donít think you should...

Teenage Problems: Please help me, girlfriend, cheating
girlfriend, cheating, sex: Hi Justin: Missyís absence of wanting to have sex with you makes me wonder if she is having an affair whether it being male or female. During these break ups, are you both having sex with other people? She may be breaking up with you to satisfy her own...

Teenage Problems: How can i recieve mail from my girlfriend without my parents realising?, mail account number, royal mail
mail account number, royal mail, mail website: Hi Julius, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I am hoping that I can help. I was in a similar situation to yourself and I did not want mail going to my home address because of problems with my parents I had to come up with an alternative....

Teenage Problems: School, private tutor, open platform
private tutor, open platform, taking the time: Hi Bill, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. Your son sounds like he would benefit from one to one tuition and I think you should speak to the school to see if they have provision for this to happen, even if this...

Teenage Problems: sexuality, faith god, having faith
faith god, having faith, homosexuality is a sin: I m bisexual myself, and being this way is perfectly alright. If you don t feel comfortable with the thought that God doesn t condone what you do, then you just don t. I m sure that since God is supposed to love everyone, no matter who they are, then you...

Teenage Problems: is he too shy to talk to me?, breaking the ice, shyness
breaking the ice, shyness, hallways: Hey Jenna, You can t be shy in this situation. No matter how scared you are, put that out of your head and just go for it. Usually guys like a girl who comes off confident. Also, maybe you re right. Maybe he just has been too shy to approach you lately....

Teenage Problems: Troubles at home, child abuse laws, state child abuse
child abuse laws, state child abuse, guidance counselor: Depending on how old you are, you could get your own place pretty easily if you have enough money. If you re 18 or over, you could definitely get your own place. Now, your mom knows about this? If she doesn t, tell her. If she does and she s not doing anything...

Teenage Problems: Understanding Feelings for Friends, whole time, birthday party
whole time, birthday party, sophomore: Hey Joseph, Maybe you should make time to build your friendship and try to wrap your head around these feelings. In time you can figure out how she feels about you or even ask her if she is not making it obvious, only if you guys have a comfortable relationship....

Teenage Problems: urination problem, bladder, ultrasound
bladder, ultrasound, calcium: If it hasn t stopped, and it isn t showing any signs of slowing down, you might want to take him to the hospital while it s still going on and see if they can t do something if he s there while it s happening and they can see for themselves why you re so upset....

Teenage Problems: I want out!..... but not in the expense of my little brother...., drugs, teenager
drugs, teenager, 16: Brittany: I am so sorry that you dealing with these types of things, even worse, as a child. You sound like you are really smart, loving and caring. Those Teachers who told you to get pregnant, are definitely not who you should be listening to. Getting...

Teenage Problems: what do i do?, lying, rumors
lying, rumors: Dear Maria: You shouldn t start rumors. When you were asked directly, you should have confessed. You need to drop the issue with this guy. He probably doesn t want his friends talking to you because he is concerned you will make up more rumors about...

Teenage Problems: what do i do?, school becuase, 10th grader
school becuase, 10th grader, makeout: Hi Hannah, I feel like if you guys are kissing and hanging out everyday, then there is more to your relationship than just a friendship. However, if he doesn t seem interested in developing into something more you probably shouldn t fall to hard for him and...

Teenage Problems: 12 year old caught viewing porn, long term relationship, internet pornography
long term relationship, internet pornography, molestor: Hi there Kay, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. With the Internet pornography has become readily available and unfortunately, even with all of the parental controls in the world, it is not always avoidable. What...

Teenage Problems: 12 year old viewing porn, molestor, computer access
molestor, computer access, nice day: Hello Kay, I think he is not a sexual deviant, just being curious about sex. You need to not be concerned as long you took care of your end. He no longer able to access it online. I suggest you sit down and have a good talk with him, but be direct...

Teenage Problems: Abused by my dad, lit cigarettes, mail web
lit cigarettes, mail web, free organization: Hi there Lexi, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. Firstly, if anyone is hurting you, be this your dad or a stranger, this is not acceptable and it is against the law. If your dad is burning you with lit cigarettes...

Teenage Problems: Advice, telling me the truth, kind person
telling me the truth, kind person, boyfriends: Ok, that is... not so good. I gotta say that first. I know it s not what you want to hear, but it s the truth. You are right; if 16 isn t the age of consent for your state (that just means that you can legally agree to having sex with someone over 18), then...

Teenage Problems: boyfriend problem, friend danny, classmates
friend danny, classmates, 10th grade: Dear Nikki, You need to have a talk with your boyfriend and let him know how you feel. Also you should let him know what is and not expected in your relationships. He needs to treat you better not treat you as if you are not there. Because if you did the...

Teenage Problems: My brother abused, abusive, dad
abusive, dad: Hi there Ellen, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. Firstly, regardless of whatever someone has done that deserves punishment, whipping them with a belt or striking them with a weapon of any type is not acceptable....

Teenage Problems: Confusion, heart breaker, mixed messages
heart breaker, mixed messages, last hope: Hi there Tanya, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. It sounds to me like you see this boy as being a friend but he wants you to be more than just friends. When you are spending time with him, it is because you enjoy...

Teenage Problems: Cutting/hurting myself I need help to stop, negative emotions, emotional pain
negative emotions, emotional pain, laxatives: Dear Jessica, Cutting may be a way of releasing all ypur negative emotions, or a distraction from emotional pain, as the only way for you to relieve might seem to feel more pain on the outside than on the inside. Most people who cut themselves are usually...

Teenage Problems: constant wet-dreams and more, nocturnal emissions, sex hormones
nocturnal emissions, sex hormones, camel toe: (Grin) Nice profiling, dude! You re perfectly right about me! I m about as open-minded as it gets. I m kinda flattered you came to me, even though I am only a year older than you. It also tells me a little bit about you, which is always a good start! Ok,...

Teenage Problems: Out of control teenager, troublesome, son
troublesome, son: Hi Jon, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. It seems like you do have your hands full with your son and from what you have explained to me, it is completely understandable that you must be feeling both annoyed and...

Teenage Problems: dont know what to do, guy friend, grl
guy friend, grl, little chance: Ok, wow, this is a mess. First, do you identify as lesbian or bisexual? If you re bi like me, it will make my job a whole lot easier. If not, that s difficult to work with, but still ok. This friend of yours, are you at all interested in him romantically?...

Teenage Problems: I dunno what to do, hardcore metal, taking your time
hardcore metal, taking your time, playing music: Hi Josh, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. I completely understand how you must be feeling and in some ways you must be happy that you have a girlfriend who loves you but really sad that you have had to give up...

Teenage Problems: Effects of wasting semen, sexual organs, premature ejaculation
sexual organs, premature ejaculation, sper: Hiya! I don t think there are going to be any kind of effects when you marry, unless you get an STD. Use a condom, every time, and be careful about who you have sex with, alright? As for the other thing, you ejaculate within two minutes? That could be a...

Teenage Problems: Goofy Girl wants in, and a boyfriend, bad boyfriends, michelle jones
bad boyfriends, michelle jones, kimora: Oh, I see. Interesting family you have! Hm. Maybe he doesn t remember your face, but he may remember your name. Say hi to him on facebook, and in that same message tell him your real name, and tell him how you know him. He might remember you then. See how...

Teenage Problems: Hello, random instances, female presence
random instances, female presence, vaginal area: Rachael, I am SO sorry that it has taken me so long to respond. I ve just been very busy with work and school. I think that seeing your Mom like that is not necessarily you being attracted to HER, but just being attracted to a female presence, and reacting...

Teenage Problems: Incest? Hope not?, cause conflict, inappropriate behavior
cause conflict, inappropriate behavior, being friends: Hi there Tasha, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. It does sound to me from what you have explained that your cousin is being unusually close and exhibiting inappropriate behavior. As a family, it is perfectly normal...

Teenage Problems: so lost it's unreal, term friends, maddie
term friends, maddie, twitter: Hi there Maddie, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. Firstly, it must be difficult to have to move from Germany having made so many friends and having lived a large proportion of your life over there. Moving is always...

Teenage Problems: love, 2 girls, instances
2 girls, instances, friendship: Dear, It sounds like you will be fighting for two things. 1. This guy and 2. The friendship of the other girl. You said that you guys are close which I assume means she is your friend. Normally when 2 girls end up liking the same guy sometimes that causes...

Teenage Problems: How can i make her love me again?, two poems, sensitive girl
two poems, sensitive girl, country china: Don t worry, Ryan, AE is super easy to use, and all of the people on here that I ve personally asked questions of are really friendly. Asking questions to other experts is actually how I got into this. I realized that this is a great way to help people, and...

Teenage Problems: Masturbation, bed undefiled, pastor don
bed undefiled, pastor don, whoremongers: Hello Agape, Thank you for your honest and open question. I am very sorry for my late response. There is no specific scripture about masturbation. Here is what we know: Sex inside marriage is blessed by God, and sex outside marriage is not. Hebrews...

Teenage Problems: my mother. *NSFW: language*, spoiled brat, drug addict
spoiled brat, drug addict, bearded dragon: Wow. Your mom and brother both sound like total bitches. But I don t have to tell you that, obviously. Bipolar is a bitch, too. I recommend you find out who her psychiatrist is (who she gets the medication from) and tell them that she isn t taking her meds....

Teenage Problems: moving out, home untill, mum dad
home untill, mum dad, elder brother: Hi there Sam, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. It sounds to me from what you have explained that things are pretty tough where you are and it is not difficult to see why you would want to leave. Bullying at home...

Teenage Problems: Need advice abot step son!, positive and negative reinforcement, galatians 6
positive and negative reinforcement, galatians 6, train up a child: Hi Bianca, Thank you so much for this great question. I am very sorry for my late response. I am very sorry that you are going through such trials. You are not alone in your frustration. Many many parents speak of their frustration of having told their...

Teenage Problems: Parents, protective parents, parental guidance
protective parents, parental guidance, simplest thing: Hi Jennifer, Wow, that sounds like you have some really protective parents there! Really, I think the simplest thing to do is to talk to them both. Ask them if they could just spare even a few minutes to talk to you, since you are their daughter and...

Teenage Problems: peer pressure, childhood friends, exchange students
childhood friends, exchange students, personal level: I see no reason you can t hang out with all of them. Have your friends spent time with them and gotten to know them on a personal level? I don t think you should have to choose who you are friends with. If you re not completely abandoning your friends then...

Teenage Problems: Social Anxiety and Shyness, social anxiety, obsessive thoughts
social anxiety, obsessive thoughts, ed school: Ugh, I know exactly what all of that is like. You re not at all comfortable with yourself, are you? I used to be that way, but then I started developing my own identity and started overcoming that problem. Other kids our age stil hate me, the only difference...

Teenage Problems: sex sux, sex sux, sexual feelings
sex sux, sexual feelings, sex with a guy: Hey, no problem, sis! That s what I m here for! You shouldn t wonder who you are and why nothing works out for you. It may be just a phaase, or it could be something permanent. Either way, it s you, and you should accept you for who you are. If it means being...

Teenage Problems: social life, using a condom, drink alcohol
using a condom, drink alcohol, boy friends: Dear Amy, You can have a social life without the drugs, sex and alcohol especially sinec you are at such a prime time in your life. Enjoying life does not necessarily mean that you have to try drugs and drink alcohol or have sex. Condoms does not mean 100%...

Teenage Problems: stepdaughter, ugly duckling, biological daughter
ugly duckling, biological daughter, dirty clothes: There is harm in your continuing to use her panties though. You engaging in that behavior will still keep the temptation and pleasure of thinking about your step-daughter strong in your mind. It would be best in your interest if you could try to slowly cut...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Problem - High sex drive, high sex drive, friends mother
high sex drive, friends mother, sexual person: Hi Segran, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. I think that before you can address this problem you need to know whether or not your son is actually aware of what he is doing when he is drunk or whether or not this...

Teenage Problems: Worried About My Teenage Son, school counselor, low self esteem
school counselor, low self esteem, most teens: Hi. Your concerns are right on the money. I do expect most teens have some type of adjustment for a brief period of time when they are going through changes. Based on your information, it seems to me that he is suffering low self-esteem. You can do two...

Teenage Problems: 14 yr old brother. wants to drop out of school and work!!!, drill sargent, cocky attitude
drill sargent, cocky attitude, allergy shots: Hi Sarah, Your ideas are intrigued and very good. Yes, I will need more details and how long have he been considering it and where did he get that idea from? Want to quit the school and get job ? BAD IDEA. I think his current counselor is not working,...

Teenage Problems: 17 year old, problems, with
problems, with, son: Hi there Lisa, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. Firstly, I agree that you son is not a bad kid; it just sounds like he is going through a lot at the moment and does not really know how to deal with it. At 17,...

Teenage Problems: Adhd, highs and lows, latin class
highs and lows, latin class, note taking: Actually, I was able to find a couple good things! I m glad to be able to help! http://www.addresources.org/ This really looks like a good site. http://www.addresources.org/?q=node/487 This is a page that features all sorts of screening tools. Here http://www.addresources.org/?q=node/491...

Teenage Problems: such a bad habit., class girls, bad habit
class girls, bad habit, sexual desire: Well, I think you re part of your own problem, if I can say so. Sexual desire is perfectly okay, and it drives a lot of people crazy until they learn to accept it for what it is. Lots of people have sexual thoughts about their friends. It s totally normal....

Teenage Problems: bad person?, finding your identity, social situation
finding your identity, social situation, bad person: Hi there Zoe, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. Finding your identity is always a difficult thing to do when you are going through your teens as so much can influence and change how you view yourself and how you...

Teenage Problems: bj's, deep throating, eating fruits
deep throating, eating fruits, full proof: Hi Suzy :] Don t worry these aren t dumb questions. It would take a couple days to a week for his cum to start tasting better, he should also start drinking more water, and him eating fruits that are high in sugar and other sweet things that would be something...

Teenage Problems: brother, self defense course, self defense classes
self defense course, self defense classes, pinky finger: Hi, Kelly! Thanks for coming to me! If I may be so bold, what your brother said is complete and utter bullshit. Take a look at any military woman. Any woman in any branch of the military, especially a Marine woman, could kick his ass and he wouldn t even...

Teenage Problems: Christmas, pokemon fan, dark wolf
pokemon fan, dark wolf, pokemon card: I would recommend getting him that Beyblade that he wants, first of all. http://www.tisinc99.com/bey335078.html This is a link of it and what it looks like. You said he s a Pokemon fan, right? Fantastic! There just so happens to be a site where you can design...

Teenage Problems: confusion, best bet, tiff
best bet, tiff, honesty: Well, I don t think you should propose to her, at least not right now. I m not saying that this is foolproof, but your best bet is probably this- Ask to talk to her. Say that you don t want anything you say to ruin your friendship. Tell her how you feel,...

Teenage Problems: Daughter, natural aptitude, second hand smoke
natural aptitude, second hand smoke, best buds: Hi Bud, I hope you do not mind me responding to your problem but I have just seen it and thought I might be able to help. Your daughter sounds like she is incredibly intelligent and has a natural aptitude for succeeding at school; whereas her friend...

Teenage Problems: Friends, high school sophomores, sleepover
high school sophomores, sleepover, such good friends: I can COMPLETELY understand how you feel but there s no easy way on this one you just need to talk to him I would go up to him and ask him if he wanted to see (then name a specefic movie) just you and him and get him alone and it will remind him of how cool...

Teenage Problems: my first time, first, time
first, time, sex: Hi there Al, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. Al, the first bit of advice I would give you is not to make this into a big deal. Sex is a way of showing your partner that you love them and it is an extension of...

Teenage Problems: My friend keeps losing weight !!, friend, problems
friend, problems, with: Hi there Jen, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. It must be difficult for you to see your once healthy friend become a shadow of her former self but in her eyes, with everything that she has wrong with her, it is...

Teenage Problems: friends, closest friend, boy friend
closest friend, boy friend, misunderstanding: Hi Ankur You can always try to address the situation and work on fixing things and getting them back to how they were if it is making you so upset. If you cant change the way your relationship is right now with your friend, it s okay to expand your circle...

Teenage Problems: Goofy Girl wants in, and a boyfriend, bad boyfriends, michelle jones
bad boyfriends, michelle jones, kimora: Oh, I see. Interesting family you have! Hm. Maybe he doesn t remember your face, but he may remember your name. Say hi to him on facebook, and in that same message tell him your real name, and tell him how you know him. He might remember you then. See how...

Teenage Problems: Many Issues, teenagers life, decent number
teenagers life, decent number, better friend: You need to find something to kick the laziness out of you! For example, you want the girl to love you, right? Well, you have to look the part first. As much as I d love to say that how a man looks has nothing to do with the way a girl responds to him romantically,...

Teenage Problems: Many issues, teenagers life, decent number
teenagers life, decent number, better friend: Hi there, I don t really understand how I can help you... Do you think you are doing poorly in school because you don t understand the curriculum, or are you just not applying yourself. Also, why do you think you are not able to continue on with losing...

Teenage Problems: no one likes me, class mates, best of luck
class mates, best of luck, 17 years: I understand that all too well. No matter how hard you try to fit in, it doesn t work, right? I m sorry that I can t help you out with that. I suffer the same thing and I still haven t found a solution to it in 16 years. If you need to talk, though, I ll...

Teenage Problems: masturbation, going through puberty, stress levels
going through puberty, stress levels, habbit: Wow, three times a week? You re doing better than I am. Don t worry, it s completely normal, and it s not a problem. No, it absolutely not going to affect your learning or your health. Well, it will affect your health, but in a good way. You re 15, and your...

Teenage Problems: need advice with teenage smoking pot/stealing, stage 4 cancer, wii controllers
stage 4 cancer, wii controllers, old video games: Hi there KC, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. From what you have explained it seems like you all have a lot going on and it cannot be easy on any of you; with this making it worse. The first thing I want to say...

Teenage Problems: Pathological Liar, pathological liar, inappropriate photos
pathological liar, inappropriate photos, step dad: Hi there Karen, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. Firstly, let me apologize for the delay in replying to you. I have been meaning to get back to you since you first posted your problem but I have had a few technical...

Teenage Problems: Penis care, penis, clean
penis, clean: Hi there Steven, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. Circumcised or not, the head of the penis under the foreskin (called the glands ) is usually the most sensitive part of the penis because it contains the majority...

Teenage Problems: pppsmile45@yahoo.com, friend, talks
friend, talks, about: Hi there Tasha, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. It sounds to me like you really like this girl and what she is doing is not fair or right. Not only is her repeatedly talking about this guy hurting you but it is...

Teenage Problems: relationship, sponsored events, one moment
sponsored events, one moment, hamburgers: Isn t it amazing that we can humble ourselves to tell a complete stranger how we feel about someone but we lack the freedom to tell the one we love or like how we feel? I have always lived by the rule that I would rather date the same person for a year, to...

Teenage Problems: self defense, self defense class, kelly kelly
self defense class, kelly kelly, small girl: Kelly - If it s something that makes you happy then you should absolutely keep doing it. Don t let your jerk of a brother keep you down. You re right about being able to take someone down if done properly. I think every woman should know how to defend...

Teenage Problems: size., young lads, penis growth
young lads, penis growth, traditional style: Hi Simon, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. The type of underwear you wear should be what you feel comfortable in and it is common for young lads to wear boxers or trunk-boxers opposed to wearing the traditional...

Teenage Problems: Talk About Self Injuring, self harming, self harm
self harming, self harm, taking the time: Hi there Pat, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. Self-harming is a common problem that I receive a lot of questions about but this is usually teenagers who do it and feel that they cannot talk to anyone else about...

Teenage Problems: Talking to My Parents, school counselor, team coach
school counselor, team coach, good experience: I m sorry that your family is the way it is, but as said earlier there are alternatives like your school counselor, and I will talk to you more about that. When I was younger I actually found it beneficial to talk to my school counselor, they are there...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Problems, autism spectrum, spectrum series
autism spectrum, spectrum series, step mom: I m so sorry it took me so long to get back to you. I m having a tough time at home right now, and I actually think he might be autistic. because he sounds a lot like this boy I know. He s around your son s age and he behaves in a lot of the same ways. ...

Teenage Problems: what you think i should do with this guy i like?, little white lie, hey maria
little white lie, hey maria, facebook: Hi there Maria, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. Sometimes a little white lie here and there can lead to something huge that we cannot get out of and consequently, we have to keep lying so that people do not know...

Teenage Problems: what you think i should do with this guy i like?, hey maria, facebook
hey maria, facebook, good friends: Hi Maria, You need to talk to him in person and not on internet sites. And not on the phone either. Apologize to him in person and ask him if he wants to go out or go to a sporting event or a movie or a play or a concert or a show. and stop making up things...

Teenage Problems: what you think i should do with this guy i like?, hey maria, facebook
hey maria, facebook, friens: Why do I think his friens tease him when they see you? Because you made things up about the two of you going out. I don t know if there s a way for you to fix this, and I m sorry I don t have one for you. It sounds like you brought this on yourself. He s...

Teenage Problems: A variety of issues, freshmen year, stupid in school
freshmen year, stupid in school, sophomore year: You know what? I think I can help you. You sound exactly like me. In order to properly help you, I d need to get to know you over a series of emails or back-and-forth responses here (preferably private so you can talk openly), but I m fairly confident that...

Teenage Problems: wanting a baby, costs of having a baby, church youth group
costs of having a baby, church youth group, school counselor: Hi Bexii, Bexii I know what you are saying and I also know how you are feeling. I also know you are thinking of a solution to the problem but this solution is really not the kind of solution that is going to make your life better or solve your problems. ...

Teenage Problems: getting her back, get, my
get, my, girl: Hi Miguel, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. Relationships are always difficult to maintain because they require a sense of balance; we take from it, what we put in. If one person is doing all of the giving and...

Teenage Problems: Big problem. Please help., inappropriate places, school projects
inappropriate places, school projects, bad person: honestly you just have to stick with it and just try your best to get rides from other people and such and maybe just sit down with your dad (just you and your dad) and just tell him from the bottom of your heart how you feel who knows he might surprise yo...

Teenage Problems: from bridie, friends, freinds
friends, freinds, boyfriend: Hi Bridie: I have a couple of questions for you. What do you mean that there are five other girls that he is closer to? Do you mean better friends than with you? Is he dating anyone now and how old is this guy you are in love with? What makes you think...

Teenage Problems: coping with issues / friends, studying, vs
studying, vs, friends: Hi there Justin, Firstly, let me apologize for the delay in getting back to you: I have been having a few technical problems with my laptop that has meant that I have been unable to respond within my usual three day period. I have not forgotten about you,...

Teenage Problems: coping with problems / friends, guidance counselors, top priorities
guidance counselors, top priorities, ap classes: I was in your exact situation in high school. I would never tell you to drop your classes because I know what they mean to you. Trust me. I didn t really have close friends until my senior year because I took a break from a lot of my hard classes. I also...

Teenage Problems: crush problems..., shy, guy
shy, guy: Hi there Alyss, Firstly, let me apologize for the delay in getting back to you. It usually takes me three days or less to get back to you but due to a technical problem with my laptop, this has not been possible. I have not forgotten you and I apologize...

Teenage Problems: cutting and emotional, capital letters, alcohol
capital letters, alcohol, dad: hHi Kristen, I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. hi, i am 14 years old and i have cut before but i got out of that stage.. but recently i have been getting upset my dad died when i was nine IM SORRY...

Teenage Problems: My dad keeps hurting me, embarassing, dad
embarassing, dad: Hello there Justine, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can offer some reassurance and assistance with your problem. I know it is often difficult getting older and it is not helped when the people around us do not seem to have...

Teenage Problems: Explicit photos!, adolescent behaviour, bad feelings
adolescent behaviour, bad feelings, explicit photos: Hello Lynda, those pictures. perhaps he was with another female who asked to see the pictures? i mean you could always put parental controls on the computer to see what hes been doing. the 14 year old sounds like a good boy for telling you! i believe...

Teenage Problems: Family problem, legal guardianship papers, legal guardian
legal guardianship papers, legal guardian, father didn: Hey Joelle, There are several factors to consider. 1, you need to check your local laws and see what it says. 17 is the legal runaway age in a lot of states but everyplace is different. If it is the legal age then you can just leave. No papers and no one...

Teenage Problems: Friends?, male friends, female friends
male friends, female friends, being friends: Hi Brian, I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Im 17 years old and i dont understand one thing. I dont know at what point my friends all start making fun at me for no reason.IT MAY BE THEIR WAY OF...

Teenage Problems: My family is making threats because im moving out., step dad, security officer
step dad, security officer, brainwashing: Hi, As I am not a lawyer, I can t give you legal advice. I will say any threat/s needs to be reported to the police. You may need to have an order put in to keep your family away from him for his safety. They may need to file the reports due to the hear...

Teenage Problems: My family is making threats because im moving out., step dad, security officer
step dad, security officer, brainwashing: The police should help you. That s their job. Make sure you re moving out for the right reasons. I m not sure why your family would react like this unless they seriously had a problem with it. So maybe think about where they re coming from and how they re...

Teenage Problems: The future..., parents, dreams
parents, dreams, back up plan: Hi Brian: Everyone worries about what can happen in any situation. We just have to make sound choices with what is given to us at the time and go from there. However, you can t let yourself be frozen from the possiblities of what can go wrong otherwise...

Teenage Problems: Girl, question pool, cool scene
question pool, cool scene, teenage problems: Hi Miguel, I m Nick and have pulled your question out of the question pool of Teenage Problems. I ll try and help you the best that I can. If you are unable to understand part of it (due to a language barrier) please let me know so I can rephrase it for...

Teenage Problems: Guys, sex, teen
sex, teen, virgin: Given the information that I have from you, I donít think that you should have sex with this boy. What concerns me is that he has a girlfriend. If he is cheating on his girlfriend with you that means that he would do the same thing behind your back as well....

Teenage Problems: my girlfriends past, past, girlfriend
past, girlfriend, boyfriend: Hi Ryan: You seem very perceptive. Please be careful about listenting to these other guys wholeheartedly. When i hear comments like thought she was dead , never did anything or just laid there, tell me that the person they are talking about was either...

Teenage Problems: HELP!!!!, sex, thirteen
sex, thirteen, 13: Hi Racheal: You said it, your human and thatís why you are feeling this way. You are absolutely normal. There is nothing wrong with you. At your age your hormones are going crazy because of all the changes that your body is going through. We all go...

Teenage Problems: Help, depression, parents
depression, parents, 15: Hi Jenn: It sounds like your parents are willing to help you and are really understanding. The first step is to see your Family Doctor and let him or her know what has been going on. Depression is a peculiar thing, usually people don t always recognize...

Teenage Problems: Home/Family Problems, getting a divorce, bedroom apartment
getting a divorce, bedroom apartment, coffee table: Talk to your teachers about what s going on. You don t have to give them details but they should work with you. You re too young to have to deal with all of this on your own. I think your family needs to open up about what s going on. They are trying to hold...

Teenage Problems: HURRY!, pastor don, pedofile
pastor don, pedofile, old boyfriend: Hi Lily, Here is the truth... sex feels great the first time... for the guy... not for the girl. If you have sex for the first time, you will never be able to be pure again. You could regret this decision for the rest of your life. In many states your...

Teenage Problems: I hate my parents, dad works, school grades
dad works, school grades, younger brothers: Hi Tyler, Your school grades seem fine for someone who works but I suspect you are working to support your car. They lecture you because they think thats the right thing to do. Of course if you did not work you could get higher grades but you seem to have...

Teenage Problems: help, insatiable appetite, sexual fantasy
insatiable appetite, sexual fantasy, older guys: I am glad I can help you. Please remember, God will give you escape from the temptation, but do not expect the temptation itself to go away. If you give in, the temptation will grow stronger.... just always look for the way of escape. 1 Corinthians 10:13...

Teenage Problems: its simply all about my present life, school, parents
school, parents, boyfriend: Dear Anupriya: If you are not happy with your boyfriend because he does not have the qualities that you desire then maybe you should consider terminating the relationship. You are not married so don t have to stay with someone if your not happy or seeing...

Teenage Problems: How to keep a friend?, guy, friend
guy, friend, jealous: Hello Renea: Does she like this guy? What is going on that she doesn t want you to talk to him? Listen you need to do what you feel is right for you. Don t let anyone hold you hostage by their threats or words. I don t know anything about this guy...

Teenage Problems: Lonliness, sling shot, head girls
sling shot, head girls, breaking my heart: Hi Emma, Yeah, I m not saying that you should not expect nor want a deep and meaningful friendship but if you go with the flow and see what happens without the expectancy, then chances are one will naturally develop. If you go into a friendship expecting...

Teenage Problems: am i being lead on?, time thanks, phone texting
time thanks, phone texting, lovealways: Hey again Bethany, yes, he is OBVIOUSLY into you! i doubt he would admit to fancying you before though so that answers that but now, he may think there is a chance so hes giving it a go. your sister has a fair point. however i think hes trying. he buys...

Teenage Problems: My life, abortion, girlfriend
abortion, girlfriend, liar: Hi Emma, First, lets deal with the abortion. I am sorry for your loss. You will never really get over having an abortion, but you will learn to live with the choices that you have made. As time passes it will get a little bit easier to get through the...

Teenage Problems: Major problems with my family life, sasy, harsh criticism
sasy, harsh criticism, water bill: Hi Konan, I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. I m not shouting. Hello! My name is Konan, Iím 16 (female), and I really need some help. I have had major issues with my parents, specifically after my brother was born...

Teenage Problems: Masturbating??, lot of nerve, nerve endings
lot of nerve, nerve endings, sexual acts: First, I have to know your age. I won t give any detail until I know that. But I will give you some general information. I m sure you know that this is just touching yourself. The spot you rubbed is called the clitoris and girls usually find it just like you...

Teenage Problems: Middle School Dating, good sense of humour, dark horses
good sense of humour, dark horses, different girls: hello thomas, i see your problem. but your only 14, still quite young. try to have a bit of fun for now! personally i think (because your in middle school!) that ive always liked those dark horses. that dont talk much, but are really deep.... though back...

Teenage Problems: Middle school dating, new friend, emotions
new friend, emotions, how to start a conversation: Hi Thomas, More and more teens are entering the dating world at younger and younger ages...Expectations are high as are emotions. I have two sons and a daughter. My daughter and one son are in college and my other son is a senior in high school. Don...

Teenage Problems: Mum, stupid thoughts, showing affection
stupid thoughts, showing affection, feelings: Hi Claire, I will make some comments in capital etters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Hello, I m not entirely sure this is a problem.. more of a confused thing i guess. My parents split when I was 5 and am a teenager now. For...

Teenage Problems: masterpation, religious standpoint, alternate days
religious standpoint, alternate days, types of cancer: Hi abhinav, Is that you re real name? If not, it is much easier for me to respond to you when you use your real name...or a name that appears real anyway (remember, I m American :)) Also feel free to request a follow-up for further questions. One thing...

Teenage Problems: masturbation and increase in height, height increase, adult height
height increase, adult height, masturbation: Hi Raj, masturbation has nothing to do with a persons height. all guys all over the world masturbate. If some guy says he does not you can be sure he is lying. You will not reach your adult height until you are 21 or 22. In the meantime make sure you...

Teenage Problems: I miss them., life hell, george connor
life hell, george connor, thoughts and feelings: Hi Laura, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and to share your thoughts and feelings and I only hope that I can help and offer some practical advice and reassurances. I think it is perfectly natural and understandable that after having been...

Teenage Problems: Party Problem, silly girl, abortion
silly girl, abortion, dad: Oh thankgod Gina! your mother knows!!! i told you it would be so much better. im glad you will keep in touch. and yes, be sure to tell the father. in the end. you made completly the right descision! im so glad! and yes be sure to keep in touch! i want...

Teenage Problems: Please answer soon!!!, doubt need, pervert
doubt need, pervert, guts: I have been there unfortunately --- bottom line is that you do NOT want another kid to have to go through this, what if you turned on the news and you saw a young girl raped and even worse killed by this man you DO without a doubt need to tell the police,...

Teenage Problems: Please help me with this, I really need it, friend, ?
friend, ?: Hi there Milan, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and to share your thoughts and feelings, I hope that I can offer you some reassurances and practical advice. It sounds to me like you do really like (possibly love) this girl that you have...

Teenage Problems: Problem with 18 year old, large screen tv, drinking beers
large screen tv, drinking beers, smoking weed: Hey, It sounds like your son has pretty much already made up his mind. He doesn t listen, hasn t even made an attempt to change even after being sent to boarding school several times. I highly doubt that he s going to change and in a month he s going to...

Teenage Problems: Problem with father's choice of punishment, smoking weed, theatre plays
smoking weed, theatre plays, couple friends: Hi Rudolph, I am sorry to hear that your father has adopted this approach in tackling the issue of drugs with you, but maybe he feels that he is doing what he thinks is right to protect you. Put yourself in his position and look through his eyes and things...

Teenage Problems: Problems with parents, college, parents
college, parents, remarks: Hi Simona, I am happy to hear you are continuing your education. Regardless of where you go to school you should look for scholarships, grants and loans. Why should you or your parents pay for your education if you qualify for any of these programs? ...

Teenage Problems: party problem, whitish discharge, poundland
whitish discharge, poundland, pregnancy test: oh Gina... this must be really REALLY difficult for you. the only advice i can give without feeling bad is for you to tell your mum. i know your dad will be getting into trouble but mothers can help with the devastation. you cant do this alone for ever....

Teenage Problems: penis, circumcision
circumcision: Hi Lawrence, Circumcision is the removal of the skin covering the head of the penis; in most cases, the foreskin is completely removed and this is done at birth for cultural or religious reasons. Being circumcised is not proven to have any additional benefits...

Teenage Problems: problem...?, belly button, one tree hill
belly button, one tree hill, tv programmes: hello julia. BELIEVE ME every girl gets these feelings. your a teenager and your body is going through hard times at the moment. ive never had the liquid experience before. so i would suggest seeing a doctor, or i know how embrassing this is but tell a...

Teenage Problems: problem...?, follow ups, time thanks
follow ups, time thanks, belly button: Because of what I believe, I have to say that it would be wrong. But it is a personal choice. I have done it myself and it does feel good but I wish I hadn t done it. I think that this is something that you should share with someone you care about and will...

Teenage Problems: Relying on external appearance, external appearance, confident person
external appearance, confident person, putting on weight: Dear Veronica, i understand completly...! i was the same. i used to be quite skinny and really quite pretty if i say so myself! and i worried that i was going to lose all my looks and be left with nothing. but the truth is. just look after yourself! dont...

Teenage Problems: reporting being molested, doctor asap, pervert
doctor asap, pervert, ups: Hi, How old are you? Reporting this is needed, but can the police use your information due to when it happened? Some areas have limits to when a report can be filed due to when the crime happened. I recommend talking to a lawyer, but I also recommend talking...

Teenage Problems: reporting being molested, hotline phone number, rape hotline
hotline phone number, rape hotline, question pool: Hi Holly, I pulled your question out of the question pool, I hope that s OK. I ll try and be of assistance. Basically, you have most likely missed the golden opportunity to report it. After a few years have passed, then you go in a report it...the cops...

Teenage Problems: SAVE ME !!!!, board exams, question thanks
board exams, question thanks, porn websites: The addiction might not go away. Most people are always going to look at it if it s there. The key is making it unavailable to you. Just stay focused on other things and you should be great even when your exams are over. When you study, make sure you take...

Teenage Problems: SAVE ME!!, school counselor, free counseling
school counselor, free counseling, board exams: You are never trapped. Since you are immersed in the issue at hand sometimes it is difficult to retract yourself from the situation at hand and see clearly that things will not always be this way. Everyone has a choice of what path to follow in his or...

Teenage Problems: SAVE ME !!!!!!!!!, porn, boy
porn, boy, stop: Hello Kartikeye, hmm, this does sound like quite the dilema. but i DO want to help your future. so i recommend that when on the computer in your room, sit with the door OPEN, and you might feel a bit embarassed to go on the porn sites. i suggest you also...

Teenage Problems: SAVE ME !!!!!, local psychologist, advice giver
local psychologist, advice giver, board exams: Hi, Porn addiction is a serious issue. I want to help you out, but I highly recommend you to see a psychologist. Your local psychologist is more able to help one out in these type of cases than an online advice giver. If you can t see a psychologist, can...

Teenage Problems: Sagutory rape/CPS., statutory rape, legal age of consent
statutory rape, legal age of consent, old boyfriend: Hey, well at this point moving to separate rooms is about all you can do. Tell your sister to take back what she said and keep telling them that yall arent having any type of sexual relationship. But the truth is, they CAN put him in jail. It s not fair...

Teenage Problems: Severe Memory Problems, stress
stress: Hi Michael: What is going in in your life? Do you have a lot of stress in your life right now? A lot of pressure and you are thinking a lot about different things? Let me know the answers to these questions and we can talk a little bit more about what...

Teenage Problems: Sex and male private parts, using a condom, mild soap
using a condom, mild soap, swallowing semen: Hi Phillip, Ok I understand now. Another guy your age had a similar problem and his foreskin was not allowing his glans to retract fully and was still adhereing on the left side. It was also a great concern. It was very sensitive and he actually sent...

Teenage Problems: Son's issues concerning private parts..., sexuality issues, personna
sexuality issues, personna, professional person: Hi Karen, I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I am a 45-year-old woman with a 16-year-old son and 19-year-old daughter, I ve been married for 22 years now. My 16-year-old son is now in his final...

Teenage Problems: Son's worries trouble us... very worrying., sexuality issues, professional person
sexuality issues, professional person, sexual identity: We ll I would definitely recommend seeing the a counselor. As far as a doctor goes, does it physically hurt when he does things, like when he stretches for instance, does it cause him physical pain, otherwise there are some underlining issues that are occurring...

Teenage Problems: self confidence, self confidence, time don
self confidence, time don, old girl: I m not sure how to make yourself confident because it comes from inside you. But try to make sure you don t compare yourself. Think of all the good things about you. Some people say to stand in front of a mirror and think of everything physical you like...

Teenage Problems: son, dirty looks, cheap motel
dirty looks, cheap motel, girlfriend: Hello Debra, Your in a tough situation BUT your son is 18 you can show him the door....He is not showing you respect he is using your home like a cheap motel....As for his relationship with his father well his father brought that upon himself he lost his...

Teenage Problems: stepmom, dirty panties, football hero
dirty panties, football hero, embarassing: Hi Trevor, First of all do not say anything to her about what you have been doing in the shower and with her undergarments. She will NOT BE FLATTERED. Do not say anything about thinking about her sexually. Lets say somehow you and her had sex when your...

Teenage Problems: students living in dormitories., far eastern university philippines, far eastern university
far eastern university philippines, far eastern university, journalism class: I ll answer you the best I can. Living in dormitories can help students feel independent because they are finally having to clean up after themselves and pay bills. Most students haven t had to do that before so it s a good learning experience before they...

Teenage Problems: Teen and abusive ex, gas vouchers, foster parents
gas vouchers, foster parents, baby on the way: Dear Melissa: It is great to hear that you have communication with the Foster Parents that are taking care of your son. Your son may not think that he is acting out because he is in the midst of everything that is going on in his life including the tug...

Teenage Problems: Teenage Behavour, behavour, daughter age
behavour, daughter age, acccess: Hi, I am assuming your daughter is 13 and this boyfriend is 18 ? If that is correct then there is obviously something very wrong about this much difference in age. As you know what does an 18 year old have in common with a 13 year old? Nothing unless they...

Teenage Problems: TROUBLE!, maths tuition, extra curricular activities
maths tuition, extra curricular activities, dere: You know what you want so stay with it. If you don t want to like the girl or you think she will take most of your focus, tell her that if that s how things go. Right now, focus on what you want. Having a girlfriend or something like that isn t a bad thing...

Teenage Problems: teen problems, pastor don, teen problems
pastor don, teen problems, writing a book: Hi Kaylin, Thank you for this great question. I am sorry for this late response. I will list a few subjects that seem to be the major questions teens ask. 1. What does the Bible say about masturbation? 2. How far is to far to go sexually before...

Teenage Problems: Uncircumcised Penis, best route, general practitioner
best route, general practitioner, penis: Dear Jalexis, Do you visit a general practitioner (doctor) frequently to have physicals to ensure your completely healthy? This is the best route to ensure your cleaning properly and he may show you how to clean it. Generally, to clean it you need to...

Teenage Problems: Valentine's day, valentine s day, coupons
valentine s day, coupons, pilot: I don t know your boyfriend very well so I can t really say much about being original. I also don t know your age so I don t know what to tell you about where to go. But the things that mean the most are small things. You can leave him passes or coupons...

Teenage Problems: Valentine's day, valentines, boyfriends
valentines, boyfriends, presents: Hello, yes Valentines day is coming up very soon! if you re that kind of person a sexual surpise can always be a good one. on a budget and fun! you can always cook him something original. what kind of food does he like? i would recommend some wine, you and...

Teenage Problems: I've ruined 4 lives, new years eve, dilemna
new years eve, dilemna, vasectomy: Toby i apoligise for my late reply, i had no internet accsess for a few days as i was at my mothers! and thankyou SO much for telling Suzy! i told you it wouldnt be that bad. Suzy sounds like a lovely women and affectionate. im very glad you told her...

Teenage Problems: www.shawanparks@yahoo.com, freshman sophomore, balance beam
freshman sophomore, balance beam, network of friends: Hi kayla, First of all you think he is cheating. You must have some reason for thiniing that. If someone told you this thats something that may not be true or it may be someone who wishes to sabotage your relationship if you have one. You do not...

Teenage Problems: ?, 1 corinthians 7, doing hard time
1 corinthians 7, doing hard time, erect penis: Hi Lucy, I am curious why you would ask a pastor a question like this. I cannot tell you what your feeling was from a clinical or experential standpoint nor would I if I could. One thing I do know is that your boyfriend could go to jail in many countries....

Teenage Problems: Anger., office bathroom, chanelle
office bathroom, chanelle, strenuous activity: Hello Jake, i understand. you want to get a grip of your anger before it ruins you life? well if so. i will help you. firstly when something makes you angry just think of these tips STRAIGHT AWAY. remove yourself from there. just breathe a bit. just remember:...

Teenage Problems: My anger., problems, with
problems, with, anger: Hi there Abby, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can offer some reassurance and practical advice. Anger is an emotion that is there to protect us from getting hurt, physically and emotionally. It is there to show that we...

Teenage Problems: My Best Friend is scaring me, dilemna, chanelle
dilemna, chanelle, rough patch: Hello Tori, (you have a lovely name by the way!) i see your dilemna. it seems her boyfriend, is the one who has provoked all this. i have an idea, have a girls night with her, or just a day when she comes to your place, and talk to her about it. start...

Teenage Problems: My best friend tried to kill herself, smoking pot, mental hospital
smoking pot, mental hospital, extremly: Hello Amelia, please forgive me for not replying sooner, i did not receive the email telling me there was a question waiting. i see, you need to understand that she doesnt like people telling her what to do. so telling her something, she will just do the...

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Teenage Problems: Confidence trouble and boy bother.., school homework, tennis lessons
school homework, tennis lessons, days of the week: Hi Lesley, This boy seems to be testing the waters to see how easy or how difficult it is to get a date with a girl. he sounds like he was not sincere at all. I would drop him from my thoughts quickly. There is nothing wrong with you going up to a boy...

Teenage Problems: Crush getting to hard to deal with., first kiss, stronger every day
first kiss, stronger every day, 2 girls: hey michelle, let it get stronger! i can guess he likes you too! he may be just saying hes been out with a few people in front of others to maybe seem a bit cool, or to make you think hes not too deseparate. just keep playing it like you do, and it seems...

Teenage Problems: Crushes, long distance relationships, sigmund freud
long distance relationships, sigmund freud, head over heels: Hi Steven, Its ok to tell her you like her but be careful with the word love. She may just think you are infatuated with her. Never try t bury your feelings for anyone. Since you think about her constantly that pretty much means you are in love with her....

Teenage Problems: I cant get over him, tease, boy
tease, boy, friend: Dear Hamina: First, accept the fact that he most likely knows that you have a crush on him. After five months, he keeps putting his feet in the water to see if you still feel the same way about him. Toying with your emotions is a thrill. You are the...

Teenage Problems: counselor won't talk to me, school counselor, superintendent of schools
school counselor, superintendent of schools, athelete: Hi Ashley, If he has failed to notify the police then he is himself in trouble. He like any other teacher, nurse, doctor, etc is required to report instances of abuse of minors which you are. If whoever assaulted you was also known to him like a student...

Teenage Problems: cowerdliness, capital letters, summer camp
capital letters, summer camp, testosterone: Hi Miko,I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Hello,I m a 16-year-old boy.I don t know how to begin..I think that I have issues,that I shouldn t have..Sometimes I get scared from other boys.HAS...

Teenage Problems: dating, older, date
older, date: Hi there Chrissy, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help you. Age difference in a relationship is not so much of an issue when you get older, but when you are younger it is a major legal and social issue. It is a controversial...

Teenage Problems: desperate mother, troublesome, son
troublesome, son: Hi there Normoon, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and share your problem with me, I hope that I can help. At 16, your son is well aware of what is right and wrong and acceptable, and if he is pushing the boundaries then he is doing so because...

Teenage Problems: i just dont get it., mixed messages, eachother
mixed messages, eachother, fun time: Boys are really shy about things like this. They don t want to feel rejected and then still have to see you so they decide to torture you with mixed messages. I think he still likes you but he may be too busy for a girlfriend. Maybe he s the good guy and...

Teenage Problems: emotions at home, minor depression, step dad
minor depression, step dad, mmom: Hi Mandy, Thanks for this great question. I am sorry for my late response. You are correct, many teenager struggle with this kind of depression. It is probably not a chemical depression that must be medicated, but it is something that can be helped by...

Teenage Problems: Not enough physical contact, thoughts in your mind, having some sort
thoughts in your mind, having some sort, holding hands: Hi Sammy, I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I m a girl, and I m 16 years old. I have a serious problem of not getting enough physical contact. As weird as that might sound,it s a big problem for...

Teenage Problems: my ex boyfriends :@ :@ :@, mixed signals, hachet
mixed signals, hachet, private moment: Hello Katie, hm, i see your dilemna. i think... your boyfriend made a mistake with that girl. and i think he regrets it. of course i could be wrong. but, its like he made a mistake. now he is trying to get at you, play hard to get, so eventually, you may...

Teenage Problems: Friend issues, friend, fight
friend, fight, glare: Hi Anna: J is trying to intimidate you. It sounds like you have tried to act civil to J but she still wants to bring drama into the situation. I donít know what the fight was about, so I donít know the severity the issues are. Holding a grudge and the...

Teenage Problems: Friend issues?, church youth group, sunny climate
church youth group, sunny climate, tennis coach: Hi Hayley, I suggest you make the effort to join a club or two even if you have little interest in it. This will bring you into a social group and that will help you from being isolated by those whom you consider friends. I also suggest you join a church...

Teenage Problems: girl i asked to prom, gossip gossip, anwser
gossip gossip, anwser, chanelle: Hi Chang, i would advise : ASKING HER! say to her, so, are you going out with ... and see what she says. i mean if its true, find someone else, i wouldnt waste your time. your friend, who told you this, is he/she a close friend? if so, you know you...

Teenage Problems: Help, high school diploma, final option
high school diploma, final option, graduate from high school: Hi Jennifer. The legal age would be either at age 18 or you graduate from high school or both. Depending on each state law. Because most states says that parents are still responsible for you up to 21 of age, or until you complete high school diploma....

Teenage Problems: hello, children obey your parents, vainglory
children obey your parents, vainglory, christ jesus: Hi Shay Thank you for this great question. It seems as though you want to do the christian thing, but you are conflicted with what seems to be your mother s lack of love. Here is what we know: 1. Your unconditional obedience and honor is required...

Teenage Problems: help, scratch, self
scratch, self, harm: Hi there Margaret, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and share your issue with me: I hope that i can help by offering some reassurance and practical advice. Firstly, if your daughter is doing this to herself then it is good that you have found...

Teenage Problems: help!my boy friend i broke up, now im al torn!, boyfriend, best-friend
boyfriend, best-friend, girlfirend: Hello: I am one for trusting your gut instinct. If I understand you correctly, you thought your boyfriend and best-friend who was previously his girlfriend were a little to chummy for your comfort. If that is the case, you better listen to your gut and...

Teenage Problems: Kill me now, child abuse hotline, town national hotline
child abuse hotline, town national hotline, national child abuse hotline: Hi Emma, Call the Girls & Boys Town national Hotline 1-800-448-3000 someone there will help you. They are in Nebraska. Many a troubled young boy or girl has gone there. Do not run away without a plan of where to go. You will easily fall victim to predators.If...

Teenage Problems: what kind of character i want to choose???, shyness
shyness: Hi there Rafeek, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and share your problem, I hope that I can offer you some reassurance and practical advice. It sounds to me like you have gone from being an outgoing person to being someone who does not want...

Teenage Problems: Lacross or me?, sports or me, sports
sports or me, sports, lonley: Hi Mischka: I know he eats, sleeps and breathes lacrosse right? When people love a sport or something they have found in life that they are good at they strive for excellence and want more and more of it. There is nothing wrong with him wanting to be...

Teenage Problems: am i being lead on?, having a good time, cant move
having a good time, cant move, lateness: Hi Liz, just leave it, honestly in the end everything will shape out. i promise you. if you were meant to be she will see that. dont wait for her. shes having a good time and you re just there waiting for her. go out there and enjoy yourself! believe...

Teenage Problems: life, dating, hurt
dating, hurt, mentally rapped: Hey Molly: First of all donít worry about fitting in. Dare to stand out and shine. I know it sounds corny, but its true. ďYou seem smart enough to realize that you canít just start dating and doing things you normally wouldnít just to forget about...

Teenage Problems: life, living with boyfriend, living with girlfriend
living with boyfriend, living with girlfriend, 15: Molly: Figure out what you want to do and do it. Just because your friends have nothing to do doesn t mean you have nothing to do. Do you like to write and make up stories? Do that. Do you like to draw? do that. Do you want to learn a new language,...

Teenage Problems: Mother Issues, troublesome, mom
troublesome, mom: Hi there Lacy, Thank you for taking the time to write to me and I hope that I can help. I think it is very positive that you want to become (and have become) independent as it means that you are now beginning to stand on your own two feet and take responsibility...

Teenage Problems: Moving Out of My Parents Home, household expenses, teen mom
household expenses, teen mom, graduate from high school: Hello Ashley, I am glad you are proud young mother for your son. It depends on what state you are from? Usually, you need to either reach age 18 or graduate from high school legally to move out from your parents without their permission. If you wish...

Teenage Problems: my mom, school, gay
school, gay, mom: Hi AJ: Since you just told your mom that you are gay, I am assuming that the comments are being made by your mom unintentionally as a way of her dealing with it. Iíll bet she cringes inside every time something nasty comes out of her mouth. Most women...

Teenage Problems: Getting nothing :/, delayed response, flirts
delayed response, flirts, 13 years: Hey, sorry about the delayed response. I think your only problem is that your friend is probably more out there than you. As in she flirts more and is more playful and etc... And to tell you the truth I bet she feels that your prettier than her.. Its just...

Teenage Problems: Getting too old for this!, son, jail
son, jail, prospects: Hi there Donna, Sorry to hear that you are having so many problems with your son. I ve been meaning to get back to you for the last couple of days but as with most technology, it has a habit of working when we least want it to. I hope that my advice will...

Teenage Problems: Parental Problems., temper tantrums, bible thumpers
temper tantrums, bible thumpers, institute of higher learning: Hello. I am impressed you are handling pretty well yourself and you didn t give up. That is wonderful. At this time, it is for the best to leave your family alone and spend tons of time with your girlfriend, soon to be fiancee, finish your local college...

Teenage Problems: Peer pressure doing my head in, popular crowd, smoking weed
popular crowd, smoking weed, friendship group: Well good for you Fraser, I was the same way. Only in my home every night was new years eve. My father was an alcoholic and I never understood the desire of my friends to get a hold of some alcohol and drink it. I could have had all i wanted anytime. No...

Teenage Problems: Peer pressure doing my head in..., college, friends
college, friends, drugs: Dear Fraser: WOWÖ.I am really impressed with you. You are in the right frame of mind. Donít ever cave into their mentality. You donít need to drink or do drugs because you know who you are and are happy with the person that you have become. You have...

Teenage Problems: Penis issues, pubic hairs, whitish color
pubic hairs, whitish color, smegma: Hi Jake, Ok then you wil eventually see pubic hairs spring from them. You may or may not already have some pubic hair already. But if not then this is the beginning. Most people do not know why we have pubic hair but the reason is that it acts as a dry...

Teenage Problems: Periods., period, teen
period, teen, doctor: Dear Confused: Since you have been getting your period you should be seeing a GYN or Family Doctor once a year for a yearly check up and pap smear. You can discuss this issue with them at that time. Your mom simply probably didnít think anything of...

Teenage Problems: Pregnant..., current boyfriend, court house
current boyfriend, court house, free advice: You might have to look up the laws for Florida but I just looked online and it said that you can emancipate yourself if you re pregnant but I m not sure if your mom can kick you out and have it be legal unless you emancipate yourself. She still is the guardian...

Teenage Problems: Caught masturbating, ipod headphones, twin sis
ipod headphones, twin sis, chanelle: Hello Niall, your mum is a woman, she finds it disgusting and believes that you shouldnt be doing in because you were circumcised. then your sister thinks its unfair, but i dont think she understands the situation. she doesnt know your mothers reasons for...

Teenage Problems: penis position, underwear, penis
underwear, penis: Hi there Dajsa, Thank you for taking the time to write to me. Depending upon the type of underwear that you wear will depend upon the answer to your question. In any aspect, your penis should feel comfortable and be allowed to receive cool air to prevent...

Teenage Problems: Over pretective mother :/, paige, mom
paige, mom: Hey Kayla, I suggest you try showing her how mature you are and maybe aske her if SHE would take you and him to a movie.. Or ask if he couls come over while she s home. It ll be easier and she ll be more likely to agree if you include her. Paige =...

Teenage Problems: relationship, jokey, first love
jokey, first love, perfect time: Hi Jennifer, ah. yes. alot of people have this same problem. telling their partner they love them. first of all. make sure you love them. you shouldnt just put it on. now i will tell you how to tell them: to be honest... you dont even have to say....

Teenage Problems: self asteem, self asteem, random person
self asteem, random person, higher self: Hi Nikki, i really apoligise for the lateness of my reply. i was at my mothers, and she has no internet! i was not excepting that! the question confused me a bit, but you dont need to be sorry, its part of my job to answer the question! i think i understand....

Teenage Problems: Why sleepovers are a bad thing, verizon network, technical crew
verizon network, technical crew, walmart: Hi Rios, Thanks for this great question. I am very sorry for what you are going through. I cannot give you a magic fix for your situation but I can help you a bit with seeing their perspective. I am a father of 4 3 girls and a boy ages 16-21. I know...

Teenage Problems: son's behavior toward a girlfriend, sex partners, nice girl
sex partners, nice girl, heartbroken: Hi Sylvana, Your husband is correct, it is better to do nothing because your son needs to learn his own consequences for his behavior. However, if he constant to do this with many sex partners, yes you should intervene. For now, not need do anything...