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Teen Dating Issues: too far??, bad boyfriend, kk
bad boyfriend, kk, sorta: Marik, Well see you what you re doing is not a problem. If you were doing something wrong she would usuallytell you right?? Well if she doesn t complain or get angry at you when she does it then she s enjoying it. So don t start thinking you re a bad boyfriend,...

Teen Dating Issues: How far to go?, first sexual encounters, dry sex
first sexual encounters, dry sex, playing video games: Cheryl, Since you re only fourteen, I think that s something you really need to think about. I honestly think that dry sex is not at all a bad step to take. You have to understand that it will make not having sex at all a lot harder. I m glad the two...

Teen Dating Issues: going to fast?, dating tips, first date
dating tips, first date, having sex: I m going to be honest. I think your moving too fast. You should slow down and ask your self what you want. Dating at your age is to learn about dating. Don t follow the movies. Those movies are not made to be real life. Talk to your parents about dating....

Teen Dating Issues: fed up, eggs in one basket, cockiness
eggs in one basket, cockiness, bloke: Dominic- I m very sorry to hear about what happened with this female. It happens to the best of us, trust me, I know. The best thing for you do to, is to start looking in different places. The reason that you feel so heart broken about this particular...

Teen Dating Issues: fed up, coffee shoppe, bloke
coffee shoppe, bloke, southampton: Well, first of all, stay away from this girl because she is poison to your self-esteem. She also seems to be using you by acting as though you are good enough until someone else comes along. This is not true--you are always good enough and you deserve someone...

Teen Dating Issues: fed up, long distant relationship, shop malls
long distant relationship, shop malls, successful relationship: Hey, I hope you are having a great day. First off you need to relax. You will find someone, stop being so hard on yourself. You are just upset because things have not been going your way in the woman department lately. As for the girl, it is understandable...

Teen Dating Issues: How does he feel and what should I do?, confusing question, story question
confusing question, story question, truble: Hey Jasmine- Well honestly I can t really tell you how he s feeling. But the only way to find out is to just talk to him when you can. But in my opinion I really think he does love you and isnt seeing any other girl. I mean no guy would just joking ask...

Teen Dating Issues: How does she feel?, asnwer, lovebirds
asnwer, lovebirds, having fun: call her again and ask her out! what do you have to loose? if she says no then you will know for sure how she feels about you. keep calling her until you get a hold of her. can you email her? does she have a cell phone? just try to get her on the phone and...

Teen Dating Issues: How does he feel?, boy behavior, bad boy
boy behavior, bad boy, screws: It looks to me like he still likes you Bethany, he s just afraid of what he might do. Guys feel like they have to be alone to deal with their problems and some times they do. Give him some time, and then if you still really like him i would suggest talking...

Teen Dating Issues: How does he feel?, boy behavior, arent
boy behavior, arent, bad boy: Bethany, This guy seems to have his priorities twisted. I hate to break it to you, but when he says you re too good for me he probably means I spend too much time thinking about fooling around with other girls . I think you two arent together for a...

Teen Dating Issues: Why do I feel like I'm not good enough?, judo master, art exhibitions
judo master, art exhibitions, sensitive girl: if your with someone that does not make you feel good then i think you should move on. maybe find someone closer to where you live. dating is about finding the right person that you connect with. it sounds like you initially connected but maybe there was something...

Teen Dating Issues: what do i do i feel so down all the time, separate ways, 4 months
separate ways, 4 months, chloe: Chloe, I wouldn t send you straight off to just break up the relationship with him, ask him about it, tell him how you felt about the incident that occured in the past and how it makes you feel..and if he still does not take you on then give yourself some...

Teen Dating Issues: I feel so used, waste of space, free house
waste of space, free house, arguement: You are better than him. He s a jerk. Loser. You are special and someone that does this to you, they are well worst than losers. My advice is take a break from dating. Talk to your parents, and a trusted teacher about this if you feel stressed or depressed...

Teen Dating Issues: feel so wierd???, weight height ratio, 13 years
weight height ratio, 13 years: Caroline, 13 years old is not an age where you should worry. There is nothing wrong with you, most people at this age don t date, those that do shouldn t be lol. 5 7 and 124 lbs is a perfect weight height ratio, you are not over weight, trust me, you have...

Teen Dating Issues: I feel worthless., chubby side, old girl
chubby side, old girl, freak: Sylvia - I don t know what you look like so I can t really say but it s probably because you re shy and not going out of your way to make friends. Don t freak out if no one likes you. Throughout your life you re going to run into unrequited crushes and...

Teen Dating Issues: does she feel the same about be as i do for her, different girl, type of girl
different girl, type of girl, holy shit: Steve, I can t say for certain but all signs indicate that yes, she does like you. I mean, she is giving you signs. She trusts you, she talks to you, she is affectionate toward you. We ve all been hurt in the past, that s part of life. Love is partly...

Teen Dating Issues: does he have feelings for me and if so will he ever admit it?, lil bro, backgorund
lil bro, backgorund, ugly girl: sorry i took so long to mail back! my computer crashed! i found it very hard to understand your e-mail! but i will try and help with the bits i did understand ok? this boy is a watse of space, he is obviously so immature because he said he is 16 when...

Teen Dating Issues: feelings, girlfreind, sex questions
girlfreind, sex questions, older guys: Should she be friends with jerks? Now someone needs to talk to her about the sex risks. I recommend you to see a doctor with her and talk to them about the risks. I also have to state it is illegal in many states for a 15 year old to have sex. I cannot answer...

Teen Dating Issues: She feels lonely, loneliness, good luck
loneliness, good luck, alot: i dont think there is anything you can do other then just let her know again that you love her and you do not want the relationship to end. the same thing might happen to her with another guy. she might find someone else she likes and he ends up going away...

Teen Dating Issues: I fell in love with the girl of my dreams on vacation, long distance relationship, girl of my dreams
long distance relationship, girl of my dreams, best girl: Adam - The key to a long distance relationship like the one you re in is communication. Communicate often and well. Try and call her every day and if not every day then at least several times a week so you can keep up on what s going on in eachother s...

Teen Dating Issues: female signals?????????confused, girls point, intrested
girls point, intrested, sweetest thing: Hey Az, I think this girl really is seeing someone else. A lot of girls say there seeing someone, when they really like this certain guy that there trying to catch. Ive had to say it lots of times, and i really mean it! When im seeing someone, either...

Teen Dating Issues: A few Q's, cute joke, ice breakers
cute joke, ice breakers, good humor: Bill- Thanks for your question! I must say, you are very smart and well prepared! Let me answer those questions in order... (1) It sounds like she likes you although it is difficult for me to confirm based on the current circumstances (2) I think...

Teen Dating Issues: A few Q's for you...., good humor, ice breakers
good humor, ice breakers, gut feeling: Hey Bill! To answer your questions: 1) Hmm, sounds to me like she is interested! I could be wrong, however. She could just be being friendly. I m just saying this in case I m wrong, lol. But in situations like this its best to go with your gut feeling.....

Teen Dating Issues: fights, hwat, happy holidays
hwat, happy holidays, blurr: Hello Sam!! And man am i sry for taking so long to answer your question, Christmas has been way to crazy this year, and my best friend suddenly pasted away...but anyways im so!! So about your fights. A relationship can only succeed if you have trust. Sure...

Teen Dating Issues: where can i find teen guys, cofee shops, internet places
cofee shops, internet places, 13 year olds: Why do you want to date? What part of Alaska can I ask this? Please post this question as private due to your age. Thanks Please note it is illegal for 13 year olds to date in some locations. I do not promote online dating. I have handled predator...

Teen Dating Issues: finding out, great personality, school dance
great personality, school dance, good evening: Hey Park, I have great news for you, you re in a very good position! Chances are she s feeling just as clueless as you are right now because she has also never dated anyone. Therefore, do not worry about what you say or do, just be yourself! I m sure she...

Teen Dating Issues: finguring, abnormal menstrual bleeding, true leaf
abnormal menstrual bleeding, true leaf, size 3d: this is not a subject i am very familiar with but i found a website that may help you: http://www.healthline.com/search?textBox=%3CP+ALIGN%3D%22Center%22%3E%3CFONT+FACE%3D%22Arial%22+SIZE%3D%2213%22+COLOR%3D%22%23000000%22%3E%3CB%3EIncidence%3C%2FB%3E%3C%2FFONT%3E&searchterm=Abnormal+Menstrual+Bleeding+Incidence&hmnode=gyga01&clicked=true&leaf=01%2D02...

Teen Dating Issues: first boyfriend, late bloomer, move to the beat
late bloomer, move to the beat, grade dance: hey KATIE i think it would be a good idea to go to the dance with your boyfriend. you dont have to know how to dance to go to a dance not everyone that goes knows how to dance, if you decide on going all you have to do to dance good is listen to the beat...

Teen Dating Issues: my first boyfriend, paretns, togather
paretns, togather, befor: Whoa, first things first Katelyn. Calm Down! Don t get all nervous over this. Nerves are not a good thing. Just let things flow. Thats the biggest advice i can give to new daters, just let things flow. If you worry about something like the first kiss you are...

Teen Dating Issues: My first boyfriend, gibberish, molly
gibberish, molly, hobbies: HI Molly, Well I think you need to figure out what attracted to you to him. Was it just his looks? Or are there other qualities about him you like. Ask him about his hobbies, and what he does for fun. Maybe what he wants to do for a living one day. And...

Teen Dating Issues: first boyfriend, late bloomer, grade dance
late bloomer, grade dance, slow dancing: Hi Katie, Well you defiantly should talk more than once a day. But I wouldn t end it just because of that. Just get his phone number or something, and call him. About the dance you should go with him, but if you cant fast dance then you cant no big deal....

Teen Dating Issues: first date, good conversation topics, comedy club
good conversation topics, comedy club, good date: That sounds like a wonderful first date! You two will definately hit it off on that date. Yes it is okay to bring flowers on the first date, thats always a plus! You should make the date up to 3 hours or so, but you can always go over that limit. As...

Teen Dating Issues: first date, good conversation topics, conversation topic
good conversation topics, conversation topic, red roses: Wow I think that s an amazing first date idea! Very original, and girls always like that. It s ok to get her a few flowers, just don t make it a bouquet of red roses or you ll freak her out and scare her away! Maybe pick her some flowers from the garden. ...

Teen Dating Issues: first date, first date, fun time
first date, fun time, cheek: Well, You should deffinatley buy her ticket but don t bring roses or anything to the first date. You can hold her hand when your walking places and slip your arm around her in the movie, but don t try to make out with her or anything on the first date. Make...

Teen Dating Issues: my first date what to do!!!!!, first date, dating
first date, dating: dating is for finding out more about the person. you should ask her questions about herself. see interested in her. ask her what she would like to do. if she doesnt know or doesnt care then have a plan in mind. maybe you could take her out to dinner before...

Teen Dating Issues: My first date, first date, savannah
first date, savannah, best friends: Hey Tammy- Well I wouldn t lie. Once you lie there s more lies following right behind you. I would just talk to you parent about it and tell then your just going on a date and that s it. If they seem to get weird about it then tell them where you two...

Teen Dating Issues: first date alone w/ her, swings and slides, future thanks
swings and slides, future thanks, dats: Hey there, Luke. I understand your situation perfectly - I m faced with this problem every day. Its great that you and your girlfriend are getting to go out alone, it really is. If you re definately going to a movie, thats gonna be the main part of your...

Teen Dating Issues: first date/hangout, girlfried, first date
girlfried, first date, little bit: Dear Megz, The main thing to do on a date such as this is be yourself! I know that sounds like dumb or duh kind of advice, but it s true! Be yourself, and if he likes you, then he might ask you to be his girlfried, but if not, then he isn t worth your...

Teen Dating Issues: first date and second date, second date, good date
second date, good date, first date: Well to answer your first question, it all depends on the girl. If you think shes into you and you had a good date, its definately okay to kiss her on the cheek, but if the date wasn t that great, i would steer clear. and for the second question, if i were...

Teen Dating Issues: first date and second date, second date, bad time
second date, bad time, first date: It is ok to kiss her on the cheek as long as she looks like she is enjoying your company. If she looks like shes having a bad time you can try to kiss her on the cheek but it might end bad. You can ask her on the second date whenever you want. All is fair...

Teen Dating Issues: first date and second date, hey thomas, second date
hey thomas, second date, first date: Hey Thomas- The answer for you first question I would have to say yes its alright to kiss your date on the cheek on the first date when it has ended. I would think that would be the appropiate thing to do really. The answer for the second I would just...

Teen Dating Issues: first date, good conversation topics, comedy club
good conversation topics, comedy club, hey thomas: Hey Thomas- Well to answer your first question I think that would be a great first date. I think she would really have fun. Also its something totally different than your normal first date would be. For your second question I think you really should bring...

Teen Dating Issues: first kiss, lip kisses, first real kiss
lip kisses, first real kiss, first kiss: Put your hands on her face and don t force your tongue down her throat right away. Lip kisses can be EXTREMELY hot. If you want to use your tongue, gently use it to stroke hers or run it over her lips. Be creative just make sure you don t slobber on her....

Teen Dating Issues: first kiss, one don, girl friend
one don, girl friend, good luck: Hey there, Everyone goes through this and all you can do is just go with the flow. Just relax and let it happen. It will happen when it s meant to happen and it will be special either way. Trust me on this one. Don t fuss about it. Just let it happen. Good...

Teen Dating Issues: a first kiss, http www myspace, first kiss
http www myspace, first kiss, http www myspace com: Since I don t know the guy I would suggest that you ask him if he minded you giving him a kiss. Some guys like that a woman takes charge and kisses him first and others dont like that, they feel that it isnt time for that yet. So, I would talk to him about...

Teen Dating Issues: first kiss?, tongue
tongue: As much as I want to be able to tell you how i can t. There really is no way to tell a person to kiss. Before I got my first kissed my friends all told me to just go with it. When it happened I did (not even 2 years ago). It all turned out well. Markeisha...

Teen Dating Issues: first kiss with my girlfriend now what?, first kiss, first move
first kiss, first move, holding hands: Don t take if offensively Matt, most people just aren t into PDA (public display of affection) but some are. Maybe she just isn t used to at as you said. Be mature, don t look too into the situation or else you ll make yourself go crazy. It s hard, but you...

Teen Dating Issues: her first kiss, first kiss, whole lot
first kiss, whole lot, ashley: Todd - Just make sure she s comfortable and make sure she s into it. I really don t know how else to describe it. Chances are it s not going to be that great because it s going to be her first kiss and it s probably going to be awkward for her but just...

Teen Dating Issues: first love, jen jen, long long time
jen jen, long long time, keegan: Jen, Hey hun. First off drinking is not a way to settle anything. Not only that, but it leads to an addiction of using alcohol to solve your problems. So for your own sake, stop with that. You have to understand that you deserve better than Matt. If...

Teen Dating Issues: first moves, t rush, nervous smile
t rush, nervous smile, first kiss: Hey Aaron, How in depth do you want this answer to be? To simply answer your questions... There isn t a specific right age for a first kiss, make out, or sex. It s whenever you re ready... for all of these. Don t rush something just because you feel...

Teen Dating Issues: first time for everything right?, latex condoms, lubricant
latex condoms, lubricant, somethin: Shaun - First of all, you should NEVER set a date for this kind of thing. That puts way too much pressure on it when it should be relaxing and comfortable and passionate and spontaneous. It should happen when it happens but you should both be prepared...

Teen Dating Issues: how to flirt, girl on the bus, cute girl
girl on the bus, cute girl, savannah: Hey Mark- Well to start a conversation just say something like how her day was at school. Or talk about how you hated going to some class or something like that. Also just a little something for you to keep in mind the bigger the risk the greater the...

Teen Dating Issues: flirting, twin bro, congrats
twin bro, congrats, little bit: lol i know weve covered this before so im glad you told her bro. so... the question is how do we tell her... well first off congrats on not wanting him to tell or to tell over the phone thats a way to be a man. if i remember correctly she put her hand...

Teen Dating Issues: flirting, twin bro, flirting with girls
twin bro, flirting with girls, cute pick up lines: How does one flirt? This question is answerable only by the person doing the flirting. Everybody has his or her own strengths and weaknesses. I am comedic, therefore I use laughter and cheesy (but cute) pick up lines to break the ice. You could be very suave,...

Teen Dating Issues: flirting, twin bro, insensitive jerk
twin bro, insensitive jerk, good sense of humor: Cman, It may sound weird, but one of the worst things you can do is tell her that you like her. You must show her THROUGH flirting. There isn t any one way to flirt with her. You just have to be relaxed, be sure of yourself, and have a good sense of...

Teen Dating Issues: flirting, twin bro, best of luck
twin bro, best of luck, waste time: Hey Cman. Thanks for getting in touch. I will try and help the best I can. I think you should tell this girl that you like her the next time you see her. You only have one life, and it goes fast, so don t waste time. Tell her how you feel, she might feel...

Teen Dating Issues: flirting, twin bro, flirting techniques
twin bro, flirting techniques, cheeky smile: Hi there im glad your making the effort to show this girl your interested rather than waiting around for her to make the first moves! now, one of the best ways of flirting with someone, without making it wildly obvious to her and everyone around you...

Teen Dating Issues: flirting, hunn, twin sister
hunn, twin sister, jerks: When I was your age I didn t know how to flirt either. That s ok and with practice it ll be very natural to you and just happen. Keep the following things in mind: -look interested in what she has to say -smile at her -look her in the eyes when she...

Teen Dating Issues: follow up, long distance relationship, gist
long distance relationship, gist, best of luck: Zack-- You should tell her exactly what you told me, which is to say the truth. Tell her that you still love her, but that you feel she isn t doing her part in the relationship, and that even though it breaks your heart to say it, you want to break up....

Teen Dating Issues: football player that cant pick up signals..., freind, football player
freind, football player, good friends: Hey Louis, Alright, it seems like either she isn t into you that way, or you just aren t getting the signals. Let s hope its just your male density kicking in and you just aren t getting the signals. Her friend could just be teasing you, or she could be in...

Teen Dating Issues: I forgot to ask my question, first move
first move: Jane, I think this Kyle guy probably likes you, but you still shouldn t invest a lot of hope into the situation. What I mean by this is that you should feel things out before trying to get anywhere near serious with this guy. Try going to another movie...

Teen Dating Issues: found out she has a boyfriend, fear of rejection, 2 hearts
fear of rejection, 2 hearts, fealings: Well I wouldn t blame you for scared of rejection, but your going to HAVE to face that fear if you want to try getting to this girl. As in the story, I m pretty sure she doesn t have a boyfriend, and thats good news for you. I think you should ask Jerry s...

Teen Dating Issues: my freind treating her boyfriend like he is a prick, freind, prick
freind, prick, reputation: All you can really do is be there for the guy. Some people just aren t nice. They take advantage of other people because of their social status, their money, or their reputation. It s just the way they are. If she used him without him noticing it, how...

Teen Dating Issues: freinds and boyfreinds, boyfreinds, immature behavior
boyfreinds, immature behavior, freinds: Ok, well, first of all, your friend isn t acting like a friend at all. The way to stand up to immature behavior like that is to be straightforward with it. If I were you what I would say to your friend who is dating the person you don t like would...

Teen Dating Issues: freinds and boyfreinds, boyfreinds, freinds
boyfreinds, freinds, summer holidays: Hey there, First of all, you have to set your priorities. Do you really love this guy? Can you see him with you in the long run? It sounds like you are choosing the guy over your girls which is why this ex is so easily turning your friends against you. Tell...

Teen Dating Issues: does he like me more then a friend?, guy friend, otha
guy friend, otha, just friends: Hey Katie, Has he always done things like this? If so then I would say maybe its just how he is. If your not real comfortatable with it then I would sit down with him when its just the two of you and be honest with him. Ask him how he actually feels about...

Teen Dating Issues: more than a friend?, purpous, time untill
purpous, time untill, cool names: aw im glad i helped a little for you! when you are talking to him i think you should talk to him as a boy friend, not a boyfriend but a friend thts a boy! then you can suss out if his relationship with his gf is serious, it may not be, it could be just...

Teen Dating Issues: my friend, guy friend, good luck
guy friend, good luck, girlfriend: wait....if you really like this guy and think he likes you as well then just wait. your right, you dont want to be the one who breaks them up. i know its easy for me to say but you really just have to wait and see what happens. good luck and please let me...

Teen Dating Issues: my friend and I.., best friend, feelings
best friend, feelings, just friends: Since she s your best friend it makes some things easier and some things more complicated. The easier thing is that your comfortable around her, the hard thing is that you have been just friends for so long. But, she is your best friend and I think she probably...

Teen Dating Issues: friend, best of both worlds, mixed feelings
best of both worlds, mixed feelings, keegan: Hello, I ve already had 3 messages from a girl talking about Matt and Keegan with this same situation. I am assuming you are her friend, but I ve already told her everything that I can regarding this situation. I wish you all the best of luck and refer...

Teen Dating Issues: My friend(I like him), ed team, awkwardness
ed team, awkwardness, e mail: unfortunantly there will probably be more times in your life when you will have to deal with rejection. i think you should continue to flirt and talk with him for a bit. see if anything changes and see if he makes a move first. if nothing happens then i think...

Teen Dating Issues: my friend, 17 years, several times
17 years, several times, girlfriend: Hi James. My reply to your question will be quick because it s 4:41a.m. and I ve been busy and sometimes gone all day/night. I am tired, and I am in a VERY bad position with my girlfriend and her family right now. Therefore; I m setting my status to Vacation...

Teen Dating Issues: friend, guy friend, good luck
guy friend, good luck, friendship: Hey there, Hmmm, that s awkward ground. Maybe she does just want to be friends, she values you guy s friendship. Talk to her, ask her what you guys are and that you value your guy s friendship, afterall, having her as a friend is better than not having her...

Teen Dating Issues: my friend, losing a friend, happiest day
losing a friend, happiest day, guy friend: Hey Matt. Thank you for being so patient with me! I have been swamped lately. I m sorry to tell you that the answer to this question really, truly depends on the girl. If you tell your best friend how you feel and she has the same feelings for you, it could...

Teen Dating Issues: My friend, savannah, girlfriend
savannah, girlfriend, best friend: Hey Nick- Well just talk to her about all of this and see whats going on through her head and everything. Ask her everything you want answers on then take it from there. I hope this helps. If you need anything else im always here. Take Care, Savanna...

Teen Dating Issues: friend, best of both worlds, mixed feelings
best of both worlds, mixed feelings, keegan: Hi Jessica, well, I really think your friend should write to me herself so I can understand her feelings about each guy. I do tend to agree with you that she really should just dump both of them and find a guy who appreciates her and treats her well. However,...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me as a friend or more?, one friend, good friends
one friend, good friends, little bit: Lisa- I can t give you a difinitive answer on what it sounds like b/c I haven t seen the situation. The best advice I can give you is to talk to him. Invite him out for a soda, movie, or something like that. If there s an interest, go for it. The main...

Teen Dating Issues: my friend and i, one of those guys, friend henry
one of those guys, friend henry, ups: You may like this girl because of your friend. I assume you however are her friend, am I correct? You should respect your friend by not asking her out if you know he will do so. If you can get her to date him, it will make his day. Your job as a friend is...

Teen Dating Issues: That one friend, occasional party, dinner time
occasional party, dinner time, deep breaths: Ryan-- I know it will be hard your first time, but once you get over it, it will get easier and easier every time. Just take deep breaths before you do. You don t really have to give her a specific date-- if you don t, it makes it harder for her to say...

Teen Dating Issues: more than a friend?, sexual tension, actully
sexual tension, actully, wifey: ok well what i would say to do, is still looking for other guys that you like, still talk to him, but if things dont work out with his current reationship then go for him, but if he ends up going with this other girl for a long time your not just waiting around...

Teen Dating Issues: more than a friend?, thankx alot, ill act
thankx alot, ill act, spending time: Hey there, I m sorry it s taking me so long to get back to you. My computer went completely haywire at me. I think the fact that he has a girlfriend is a sign that you need to let him go, at least for now. I m not going to say there might not be a chance...

Teen Dating Issues: more than a friend?, weird cuz, awkwardness
weird cuz, awkwardness, freind: hey beazzybea sorry i took so long to respond to your question. the weekend of the 4th was so busy for me and i was out of town. wow you were right thats a big long questoing so ill try to help out the best way i can. hate to say it b ut i think he...

Teen Dating Issues: friend and boyfriend, true friend, bf
true friend, bf, butt: a true friend would not act like she is. she should respect the relationship you have with your bf and not try and intrud on that. i think you should talk to her and see how she feels. let her know its not right for her to be acting like this. let her know...

Teen Dating Issues: a friend, a boyfriend and me., one of my best friends, jealous type
one of my best friends, jealous type, close friends: Linny- You are very smart by being the bigger person and not ripping her head of. My suggestion is to talk to the both of them, explain your feelings and make the moment about you being the victim. It s wonderful that you console your friends but don...

Teen Dating Issues: friend is in crisis, 7 months, relationship
7 months, relationship: Well in this case This is going to sound dumb but she should make a list of both the guys qualities And who ever has the most qualities that she likes she should be with them But tell her not to wait long because if Im correct he wont wait for a relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: My friend/crush, marege, rejection
marege, rejection, savannah: Hey Kayla- Well don t be so scared. I mean your never going to know what he would say unless you give it a try. I mean if he likes you too then why wouldn t you ask him. I mean if anything he would say yes if he likes you too. But what I always tell people...

Teen Dating Issues: How can i be friend with the girl in my class?, new girl, e mail
new girl, e mail, sociology: Sorry this took so long to get to you. I never received an e-mail telling me I had questions waiting. Anyway, you should just say hi and smile at her. Chances are, she needs a friend. Ask her questions and then talk to her about the things you have in common....

Teen Dating Issues: friend problem with a guy, breaking up with your boyfriend, ell
breaking up with your boyfriend, ell, andi: Hey Michelle. I remember you. Very well. I will try and help again, aswell as your friend, as best as I can. Firstly, I think you did the right thing breaking up with your boyfriend. I think it was right as it sounded to me you were clearly not strong enough...

Teen Dating Issues: Should my friend tell her boyfriend about this?, current boyfriend, time to go home
current boyfriend, time to go home, deedee: Hi Ethal. This us actually a fairly simple answer for me. She should tell her boyfriend. Honestly this is the perfect test of trust. If he breaks up with her over it then obviously he does NOT, by any means, deserve her. And also, I do agree that this guy...

Teen Dating Issues: friend troubles with dating, sandi, whole time
sandi, whole time: let your friend know if this does happen. if she is ignoring you and you tell her about it and she still does not change then i think you should dump her and find another friend. friends do not forget about their friends when they get a bf. sandi ...

Teen Dating Issues: friend vs. girlfriend, good relationship, bf
good relationship, bf, ashley: David - You don t want to break up someone s relationship with their bf or gf. It ll only be bad for you because if she leaves him for you, is that something you really want to live and deal with? I wouldn t do anything that could ruin your friendship....

Teen Dating Issues: friend vs girlfriend, long term relationship, friends to lovers
long term relationship, friends to lovers, romantic relationship: David, Zach and I started dating after an afternoon he spent at my house. We were hanging out in my garage just talking, and he got me a red popsicle out of the freezer. When he turned around, he asked me if I ever thought of being more with him. I told...

Teen Dating Issues: friend that i want to date, hotter girls, math club
hotter girls, math club, school math: i think you need to let her know how much you like her. tell her how comfortable you always feel around her and ask her if she is ready to have a boyfriend. no its not bad to go for her, she sounds really sweet. but the first step to getting her is to simply...

Teen Dating Issues: friend zone, friend zone, year one
friend zone, year one, strange reason: Honestly John, the friend zone is a hard one to escape. But by no means is it impossible, especially if you ve taken some time away from each other. Just go up to her and ask her out. If you ve changed that much then theres no reason why she should say...

Teen Dating Issues: i have a friend..., time paul, heaps
time paul, heaps, good friends: Hello Paul, Well if you are really scared of her playing then I think you shouldn t set yourself up for getting hurt. But if you are not afraid to take a risk then I would go for it and see what happens. And about your friends if they were really good friends...

Teen Dating Issues: friends, joining the army, new best friend
joining the army, new best friend, final blow: hey John, hmm.. you are taking on alot of stress it seems. you really need to relax. just take things one at a time. i m really sorry you lost friends due too crushes that you had. if you do really feel like your taking on too much look into a therapist. that...

Teen Dating Issues: friends?, hard to be friends, being friends
hard to be friends, being friends, good friends: its hard to be friends with someone you once dated, especially if you still like him. if you asked him to stop flirting with you and he has continued to do it then its your call. if you has a gf then i would not try to kiss him or anything like that. maybe...

Teen Dating Issues: friends?, facial expressions, being friends
facial expressions, being friends, uncertain terms: Hey Nicole, I understand that you don t want your friendship to become awkward, but I really think you need to put your foot down on the whole flirting thing. He has to understand that such behavior is not only unfair to his girlfriend, but it s also unfair...

Teen Dating Issues: friends?, girlfriend nicole, girlfreind
girlfriend nicole, girlfreind, boy friend: Nicole, You said that the guy has a girlfriend, no matter how much you like him it would not be right to force him to cheat on his girlfreind.Think how you would feel if your boy friend cheated on you? If I were you I would wait until they break up,or...

Teen Dating Issues: More than friends, common interests, good friends
common interests, good friends, amount of time: listen my friend. If you like this girl , than ask her out .. go to a disco .. and there .. when the time is right .. you say her what you feel. Dont worry .. she wont get upset with you ( if she ll say no ) i guarantee you that you still will be friend. Believe...

Teen Dating Issues: How to get his friends to like me, great relationship, occassional
great relationship, occassional, eachother: I would start with your boyfriend. Sit down with him and tell him that you dont mind him seeing his friends and that you are just feeling that they dont like you or they cant relate to you, he may can say something to them about that and can give you some...

Teen Dating Issues: friends, good luck, travis
good luck, travis: Hi Travis. I think you might be mistaken when you say he wants her for her looks. I find it hard to believe he d date her for a year solely for her appearances. The best thing is to move on. If they break up you can try again but I highly suggest you don t...

Teen Dating Issues: friends, good relationship, 19 years
good relationship, 19 years, empathy: Hi, You answered your own question. According to you, they don t respect you and for this they shouldn t be your friend. Friendship is a two way street. Sorry, Dan P.S. Don t you just love how I answered this question by asking you to answer the question:...

Teen Dating Issues: friends, joining the army, new best friend
joining the army, new best friend, final blow: John, honey, we all get this way sometimes. There are times that I think about getting in my car and driving until I hit the ocean. Then, I ll just spend days on the beach, staring at the water and feeling sorry for myself. It s really hard to feel like...

Teen Dating Issues: friends, having such a hard time, joining the army
having such a hard time, joining the army, new best friend: Hi John, I m sorry you re having such a hard time. I m thinking that maybe you shouldn t be such good friends with the opposite sex anymore. You seem to be developing these crushes that aren t shared and as you said, ruin the friendship when they come out....

Teen Dating Issues: friends, joining the army, new best friend
joining the army, new best friend, asap thanks: John- Based on what I m reading you sound like you re doing 100% better. You need to keep that up! Sticking with this girl as a friend sounds like a great thing for you! Maybe it s best to wait until the right girlfriend comes along before you try to...

Teen Dating Issues: just friends, feelings, just friends
feelings, just friends, girls: Hey Aaron, thanks for getting in touch. I ll try and help you the best I can. You say a friend has already asked you out for you but she said she only likes you as a friend, maybe this is really how she feels and maybe you have to accept that. But then...

Teen Dating Issues: just friends, little teddy bear, romantic gesture
little teddy bear, romantic gesture, spending time: Hey Matt, You might want to show her an unexpected romantic gesture, like bringing her flowers or leaving a little teddy bear along with a note from you somewhere where only she d find it. Even something as simple as an e-card can mean a lot when you do...

Teen Dating Issues: More than friends, start of something new, senior prom
start of something new, senior prom, start of something: Kristina, Aww that s great then. A great start. Because it s not until 4 weeks away. You could still ask him if he would like to catch a movie together! Get to know each before the Senior Prom :) I hope I ve helped. If you need any further advice I m...

Teen Dating Issues: My friends betrayed me and im not sure what to make of it,, head over heels, jessie
head over heels, jessie, jess: Hello Jessica! I am so sorry to hear how a friend betrayed you. I would talk to her and ask her if she met to hurt you and if she realized how much you really liked him! If you feel she doesn t care, why should you? Let them be, and soon enough she will show...

Teen Dating Issues: my friends boyfriend wants to break up with her, best interest, good friend
best interest, good friend, savannah: Hey Jessica- Wow that is a hard one. But to be honest with you I d try to stay out of all of this between them too. I know you want the best interest for both of them but your not in this. It s between him and his girlfriend. All you can do is just be there...

Teen Dating Issues: friends breakup, guilt trip, aim profile
guilt trip, aim profile, dominant person: Nate, Some people might say this is none of your buisness that it shouold just be between the two that broke up BUT you re they re friend and because you care for them you need to talk to them both, of course the girl needs more talking to cause she is...

Teen Dating Issues: friends and dating, girl of my dreams, being friends
girl of my dreams, being friends, different things: Girls love to be desired! They love when a guy is always giving them attention, and when you happened to have too many things happening in your life you unfortunately shut people out. This should also teach you that even when things are getting too much, you...

Teen Dating Issues: friends i don't llike, shy kid, jerks
shy kid, jerks, own skin: Josh, In order to gain respect, you must like yourself and be comfortable in your own skin. You are only controlled when you allow yourself to be controlled. What would you rather have? Friends that like you for who THEY want you to be, or be yourself...

Teen Dating Issues: How can i be friends with the girl in my class?, new girl, sociology
new girl, sociology: Well you could start with Hi . Just introduce your self, try simple conversation. You usually become friends with the people you spend a lot of time around, so spend time with her. If you can choose your seats in class try picking a seat closer to her. Just...

Teen Dating Issues: How can i be friends with the girl in my class?, great first impression, approaching women
great first impression, approaching women, romantic relationship: Dani, First off, you dont want to be friends if you want to pursue a romantic relationship with her. Theres a difference between dating and hanging out with your buddies. If you want to be her buddy, then you just be the really nice guy. If you want...

Teen Dating Issues: How can i be friends with the girl in my class?, new girl, sociology
new girl, sociology: I m so sorry that this has taken so long. My computer has been acting up and I couldn t find the time to get anywhere else. Just strike up a conversation with her. Just say something like Hey, what s up. and if she s interested, it should take itself...

Teen Dating Issues: How can i be friends with the girl in my class?, new girl, pretty girl
new girl, pretty girl, sociology: You are lucky this girl is right there with you in class! You can be friends with her and talk to her just like you do with anyone else. Talk to her about any topic , ask her about something in sociology , tell her you can study together. When you get to know...

Teen Dating Issues: My friends girlfriend, posessive, bestfriend
posessive, bestfriend, gas station: Hi there Jason, Uh, okay first things first, why would you date your best friend s girlfriend? That s like breaking the friendship code is it not? If you really want to know, then ask her. But be aware that she may tell her boyfriend and he may flip out on...

Teen Dating Issues: How to get off the friends list, friends zone, evil friends
friends zone, evil friends, boy friend: Ah, the friends list. The most dreaded thing for a guy. LOL. Okay, well, I hate to tell you, but once you re in the friends zone, you have a tough chance getting out. Next time, meet a girl and flirt with her, but don t hang out with her every day of every...

Teen Dating Issues: friends after a relationship ends?, heartbreaks, medium speed
heartbreaks, medium speed, being friends: Dear Catherine, It is possible to be friends after a breakup, especially since you were friends before. It really depends on how far the relationship went. In general, whenever there is something sexual going on in a relationship that ends, it s harder...

Teen Dating Issues: friends vs. boyfriend, bestfriend, bf
bestfriend, bf, mason: Hey Sarah, This happens alot, your girls are just feeling a bit replaced by the guy. You need to set a few days a week for it to be a GIRLS ONLY day. Like get together every other weekend to have a movie night, just girls. Then set time apart for you and...

Teen Dating Issues: To go as friends or not at all, friend don, boy friend
friend don, boy friend, do the right thing: A good friend would do the right thing in such situation... If you know & u re so sure about the guy s intentions why don t you talk to your friend & tell her what really this is all about...Since she s not like that , which is great, she won t be able to...

Teen Dating Issues: friendship ending?, whole time, best of luck
whole time, best of luck, good friends: Honestly, yes, she is changing. Not necessarily from angel to devil, just from kid to teenager. She and a lot more of your friends are eventually going to go through things like this. I m not saying that she is going to come back and be the same friend...

Teen Dating Issues: friendship problems, friendship problems, afraid of change
friendship problems, afraid of change, popular group: Dear Bell, As you re growing up, you tend to change quite a lot. I look at myself right now and I m not the same person I was at the beginning of the year. Your entire perspective on life and interests can change within a year, or an even shorter time....

Teen Dating Issues: friendship, naked person, sexual interest
naked person, sexual interest, firend: Mike - At your age, it would be uncommon to want to see eachother naked out of educational curiosity. I d say it s more due to sexual interest and flirting. Most people s friendship never crosses the line that yours has of sexual interest. I d say you...

Teen Dating Issues: frozen up, physical intimacy, questio
physical intimacy, questio, last tuesday: Dear Waine, Congrats on the 5 months together. I was married to my wife just over a month the first time I saw her in person. I hope that you two are laying a good and Godly foundation for your relationship that is built on what the Lord has for you...

Teen Dating Issues: What to do now after our fun night, homecoming dance, history test
homecoming dance, history test, questioners: Will, Glad to know I have a high “questioner retention percentage,” I have answered many returning questioners questions this weekend (if that makes any sense). As for you question, I am not really entirely clear on what you wanted to know, but I am...

Teen Dating Issues: Does she like me, and if so can I take it further?, homecoming dance, little signs
homecoming dance, little signs, half sisters: Honestly your guess is probably better then mine as to if she likes you. But she went to the dance with you that must say something right? Try asking her to the next football game, but don t call it a date. You guys will go as friends and there you can really...

Teen Dating Issues: AbouT GaLs..., intiative, text messages
intiative, text messages, gals: Whenever I like a guy, I will try to talk to him as much as possible. While I prefer to do it face-to-face, it might also include calling, text messages, and IM. I want to be around him as much as possible and try to go to places I know he will be at. Contact...

Teen Dating Issues: GF, signs of cheating, phone conversations
signs of cheating, phone conversations, person to person: Hello Mike, I don t think there s enough evidence here to suggest that your girlfriend is cheating on you. I m not saying that it definitely ISN T happening, but the text messages and conversations she had with her ex don t really prove anything other than...

Teen Dating Issues: GF, gut feeling, bf
gut feeling, bf, text messages: Hey Mike- Well usually if they start to act differently and usually you ll have some type of gut feeling that they are. But also if you were to ask them something and they were to not look at you right in the face but somewhere else. Like basically were...

Teen Dating Issues: GF, trust issues, bf
trust issues, bf, text messages: Hey Mike, Sorry, I was gone to Edmonton so I couldn t answer your question. Anyways, it seems like you are having some trust issues. You gotta tell your girlfriend that you aren t comfortable with her talking to her ex too much. Just say you aren t ready...

Teen Dating Issues: GF, million times, bf
million times, bf, text messages: Mike, It s possible that she might be, or I might be wrong. However, IF SHE IS, and you probably heard this a million times, forget her, you re 18 life goes on. Bottomline is, better find out now that she may not be as clean as you thought than later...

Teen Dating Issues: GF, must be a reason, bf
must be a reason, bf, text messages: Mike, The only thing you can do in this situation is trust what she is telling you. If you start to question her and show her that you are jealous of her texting her ex, she s going to start resenting you and the fact that you don t trust what she s saying....

Teen Dating Issues: GF, bf, text messages
bf, text messages, good luck: i dont know for sure but what i do know is that she is not ready to be dating you. its obvious she doesnt have it in her to totally break it off with her ex. since that is the case i think you should move on from her. i also think you should let her know how...

Teen Dating Issues: GIRLS, plan a trip, nice guy
plan a trip, nice guy, best friend: Hey 13yearold, THis is a very vague question that you ask of me, the answer really depends on what grounds you two are on. Basically here is my advice; don t TRY TO IMPRESS girls, just act natural. Treat them as if they were your best friend, ask things like...

Teen Dating Issues: Gift, peanut butter balls, long term relationship
peanut butter balls, long term relationship, gift experts: Hi, Preprints are copies of autographs. Now, to some it looks like a real hand written autograph if done by a good company. The thing is if you know what to look for you can tell it s a preprint. The ink may be too solid or such and that s one sign it s...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl i like, relationship god, couple days
relationship god, couple days, out of the blue: First of all, there sure is alot of she said . What do you say? I would suggest that you do send those roses. All girls feel special with roses. Yes, the relationship seems a little immature on her part b/c she is making a decision not to talk to you on...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl i like, candy roses, happy valentine
candy roses, happy valentine, alil: hi, well i think you should just get her a bear and some candy , roses are reallyfor a relationship, and you can get your friends candy and a bear ad its okay, so i think you should do that and in the card wish her a happy valentine s ay an tell her she...

Teen Dating Issues: About A Girl..., awesome personality, boating license
awesome personality, boating license, mixed signals: Hey Mike, Okay, love the date idea, but, don t ask her out right before the summer time, ask her out now! If you wait until summer, she could lose feelings for you or not date you because she wants to be free for the summer. Why wait to do something tomorrow...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl, savannah
savannah: Hey Michael- The only way your going to find out if she likes you if you do ask her. There s no other way to find out unless she makes it real noticiable that she does. So just ask her and find out. I hope this helps. If you need anything else im always...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting The Girl, good sense of humor, getting the girl
good sense of humor, getting the girl, girl at school: Bobby, There is no reason to really worry right now about whether or not she has a boyfriend or what moment you should approach her. As long as you approach her with confidence and with a good sense of humor at a time that she appears to be open to talk,...

Teen Dating Issues: Just the Girl, friendly school, naughty thoughts
friendly school, naughty thoughts, hot babe: Hi Kevin. You seem like a really nice guy, and it seems that you know that. But you said it yourself that she s not interested. Just because you like her doesn t make you a stalker at all, unless you do strange things lol...I don t think you re in love, I...

Teen Dating Issues: This Girl......, girl friends, saying things
girl friends, saying things, superbowl: Cody, Seeing her ex last night could of reminded her about how she got hurt by him and put her off getting into a relationship with you. She might like you because you re acting like you re dating. But because she s scared of getting into a relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl with boyfriend said, current boyfriend, big trouble
current boyfriend, big trouble, 7 months: Hey again, Well when a girl/woman says that she likes to keep her options open it simple means that if she doesn t like the way you re acting, or if at anytime she stops liking you then she will have someone else to go to. It s like having another option...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl in Choir Class, choir class, best bet
choir class, best bet, glare: Well Mikey, that s a pretty small bit of information to judge from. Your best bet would be to talk to her whenever you get the chance and see what signals she might give off then. If you need any more help after that you can get back in touch with me. ...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl i am into doesn't want to hurt our friend by going for it., long term relationship, mutual friends
long term relationship, mutual friends, bit of fun: The fact of the matter is she gets to choose who she wants to date. Not you, not her family, her. They can voice their thoughts, yet she gets to go with who she wants to date. It appears she just doesn t want to hurt her friend according to what you state....

Teen Dating Issues: Girl Friend HELP!, true feelings, vulnerable state
true feelings, vulnerable state, one trust: J.P., I hate to break it to you, but you re taking this WAY too seriously. You can t know she is the one. Trust me. I was in 8th grade once too, and now here I am almost 19 and I was amazed by how much I changed through high school. You have to stop...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl issues!, private time, kind person
private time, kind person, girl 2: Hi there, my name is Lauren. Well Mr. Mike I hope I can help as best I can. To be honest with you Im going to respond as if you don t mind talking to either girl. Try talking to both girls in case one gives you well some...like whatever attitude (tude). Now,...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl i know, nice guy, sweetheart
nice guy, sweetheart, good luck: Well your off to a good start! All girls love a sweetheart, one that doesn t try to immediately get into a girls pants, but instead listens and talks to her. So most likely shes already started feelings for you, or thought about you a couple of times....

Teen Dating Issues: Girl likes me but doesn't want a relationship, freshman girl, spending time
freshman girl, spending time, relationship: I would say to keep your options open while still spending time with her and letting her know that you re interested. You re right, it s not fair to wait for her so you should stay available to other girls but that doesn t mean you have to stop hanging out...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl Mystery, oppertunities, grade 9
oppertunities, grade 9, second semester: Hey Agin Bobby, Yep its very hard first time i did it i felt very sick becuse i did not want to be rejected an yes i am shy very shy accutly, an i had the same excact problems your having now thats what you fear you don t wanna be rejected an thats ok...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl Mystery, oppertunities, grade 9
oppertunities, grade 9, second semester: Bob, If talking to her at school isn t happening then you have to find another way of communicating with her. Over the phone, internet, even walking her home after school, or catching her bus. Let me tell you a little story Bob. When I was 17 I liked...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl Mystery, oppertunities, grade 9
oppertunities, grade 9, second semester: Bobby, Hello sweetie. Lol, that is really cute. You are really falling for this girl. But yes, you have to say hello. :) If you do not then you two will never talk. Does she look at you or anything? Say hey to her! :D You will do fine, just make yourself...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl Mystery, oppertunities, grade 9
oppertunities, grade 9, second semester: Bobby, Well I am afraid I cannot help you on this one. Your all on your own. I can help encourage you, but what you have is a mental block. You re the only one who can fix that. You just have to remember you have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to lose by just saying...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl Mystery, oppertunities, grade 9
oppertunities, grade 9, second semester: Dear Bobby, There doesn t seem like a whole lot of opportunities these days since you do not have classes with her right now.Otherwise I would tell you to ask to borrow her notes or something and say something like I do not believe we have ever talked and...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl mystery, oppertunities, grade 9
oppertunities, grade 9, second semester: hi, well i think you should get over being shy simply b/c you have waited long enough alittle embarassment, isnt all you could get if you wait, whos to know f this coule be your girl you go to prom with or whatever, so you really need to think of that..she...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl mystery, oppertunities, grade 9
oppertunities, grade 9, second semester: Bob, We have all been this situation before, I promise you. I think every high schooler has had a crush they can t act on, and we all have acted in ways that we didn t want to around them. To me it seems you are putting yourself through more misery by not...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl mystery, oppertunities, grade 9
oppertunities, grade 9, second semester: JUST DO IT!!! you may never have the chance to talk to her!! and then she ll be going out with someone else!! please just work up the courage to do it or maybe you could get one of your friends to talk to her and then report back to you! hey atleast youll...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl I like Please send asap, cute card, boquet
cute card, boquet, carnations: I would say maybe send her some flowers if you want, but not roses yet, thats a lil too romatic-like. send her a cute boquet of like carnations or a variety of defferent with a cute card saying something like, im glad were getting to know eachother, or ...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl I like Please send asap, valentine s day, couple days
valentine s day, couple days, out of the blue: If you re willing to be in a relationship with this girl you should show her that you care abt her & you wanna be with her...Talking on the phone cannot really do that which is why i advice you to see her before valentine s day which is coming soon.She said...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl i like please send asap, couple days, out of the blue
couple days, out of the blue, good friends: of course send her roses!!! shell love them!! knowing girls for i am one myself, and about the card,just tell her a little bit about you feel about her and if she doesnt respond about it or talk to you about it, then u know that she doesnt really like you....

Teen Dating Issues: Does This Girl Really Like Me?, kelton, holding hands
kelton, holding hands, fling: Ok Kelton, honestly this is more of an issue centering around you then her. There are a couple of possible reasons why she doesn t want to throw the dating label on this thing. As for her cheating, all i can say is second chances never third. But it...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl in School, her hyper, me, overload hyper!, hyperness, calmness
hyperness, calmness, infront: You made me laugh reading this :) but try practicing infront of a mirror, and try sounds cool, calm, and collected. Try balancing your hyperness with your calmness. Then if you think your ready then try asking her out! She s bound to say yes so don t worry....

Teen Dating Issues: Girl I still like, nick nick, ashley
nick nick, ashley, girlfriend: Nick - Try and talk to her and tell her that it s unfair to say that she didn t feel anything when you guys hardly saw eachother. Tell her that maybe you guys should start hanging out some more and become better friends before you start dating again. ...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl Trouble E-mail# 20,912, likable personality, typical teenager
likable personality, typical teenager, girl trouble: Shawn, Hey you! :) How are you doing? First off I want to yell at you for being so hard on yourself! Just from reading this email I can tell that you are very smart and you have a great personality (despite the fact that you often hide it from...everyone)....

Teen Dating Issues: Girl I think might like me., discreat, beautiful girls
discreat, beautiful girls, eye contact: Hello Josh! It is great when you two make eye contact, she smiles! That is always a good sign. Why don t you ask her to lunch? It would be great! I am not sure if she is just being friendly or if she likes you, be I would offer her lunch and see how it goes!...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl at work, friend zone, invitiation
friend zone, invitiation, quiet type: hey bryant, i think that your approach should depend on what kind of girl she is. if she s a shy and kinda quiet type, you need to make her comfortable first so that you can ease in an invitiation to hang out. the best way to do this is to find out what interests...

Teen Dating Issues: Girl i like, smile on her face, awile
smile on her face, awile, happy valentines day: Hey Sam, Sorry for the delay i been kinda busy with school an stuff ok now back to your question. Thats fine you guys should take things easy never rush love biggest mistake anyone could do when first starting a relationship. I think she...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend, negative feelings, wile
negative feelings, wile, begining: Hi Redd, Well you have to think about it, she just got raped and that is a very traumatic thing. You have to understand that she will be more reluctant to get close to someone for a wile because of her fear. I think you should just be a little more understanding...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend's 16th Birthday, dollar guitar, meaningful gift
dollar guitar, meaningful gift, true gifts: Good name by the way. Ok lets get onto your question. The best gifts I have learned are from the heart and are not worth money per se. Now this could be poems, photos, or something like this. It could be something you built for her. The thing is you...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend's 16th Birthday, columbus nebraska, surprise party
columbus nebraska, surprise party, 16th birthday: I like what you have so far, but I might try and give you a couple of suggestions to ensure that this is something she will never forget. -Many high schools (at least in IL) have a cappella groups that are far from traditional. It is not your barbershop...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend, 4 months, dillon
4 months, dillon, girlfriend: Dillon, If you re happy with your girlfriend and you feel strong for her and don t want to loose her, than I think you should talk to this other girl and tell her to stop flirting with her as you have a girlfriend and you only like her as a friend, and...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend?, dear ryan, those girls
dear ryan, those girls, monthes: Dear Ryan, Why would you be shallow like that? Do you really care that much about what your supposed friends think that you won t go after what you want? If they are your friends they won t even care as long as you are happy. Don t be controlled by reputations...

Teen Dating Issues: me and my Girlfriend, legal advice, girlfriend
legal advice, girlfriend, lawyer: Hi, You are asking for your state s dating laws. Can I ask exactly what city you are in? You should talk to a lawyer for any legal advice. How indepth is your relationship that causes you to fear her parents? It s important not to break any dating laws, so...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend, internet conversations, hugs and kisses
internet conversations, hugs and kisses, christmas holidays: Dear Mike, About Internet conversations, I understand how you feel. Internet conversations with someone you like are boring sometimes because it feels boring, eventually you ll get used to it. I think you feel the way you do because you d rather be with...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend broke it off, voice mail, mind games
voice mail, mind games, time and space: Hello Jordan! People must realize good things when they come around and if not you must move on and realize you gave her more than she was willing to give you. I can tell you are trying to keep her but she is not fighting back to keep you. I believe you should...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend has friend who wants her physically., honie, jealous boyfriend
honie, jealous boyfriend, hotmail: Sweetie, I didn t even know I had this question pending I am so sorry. I had, had my Hotmail account broken into. Well sweetheart if you know you trust her and she trust you that is all that matters. That is all the relationship you guys need. Now, I won t...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend Help, spontaneity, girlfriend
spontaneity, girlfriend: HI Dustin, well considering your under age, I am not going to give you advice on sex. But I can tell you that if your interested in kissing, when your watching a movie, and cuddling, lean over and just kiss her. That s the best way. Once you start, if she...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend hating friend, romantic intentions, ulterior motives
romantic intentions, ulterior motives, different perspective: Evan - Have you tried talking to your girlfriend and getting her to reconcile with her friend? Have you explained your side of things? You re right, she shouldn t make you choose but sometimes, you just gotta do what s best for the relationship. You have...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend help, emotional bonds, girlfriend
emotional bonds, girlfriend, relationship: You re 16 and you guys have only been dating fr a month. Honestly what else could you want. At this point in the relationship it s really more important to grow the emotional bonds between the two of you. Everything else just kind of flows man, if you have...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend help., trouble sleeping, girlfriends
trouble sleeping, girlfriends, girlfriend: It is natural to to be jealous to the point that you can t concentrate on College and are having trouble thinking. Though it s not ok for your girlfriend to have a crush on another guy. If she feels the same way you feel about her it should be impossible....

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend Issues, baseball game, ups and downs
baseball game, ups and downs, field trip: you have to trust her that she will be faithful to you. its ok to be jealous to a point. its also ok for you to let her know that you are a little jealous. it doesnt mean you dont trust her. its this guy you know nothing about and he might be trying to work...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend Kiss, snog, instincts
snog, instincts, thanks in advance: Daz- Thanks for the question, I appreciate the repeating people! You probably won t mess the kiss up, so don t worry. Just go with the flow and follow your instincts. As for when, try to find a good moment and give her a peck on the cheek. That works...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend problem, girl friends, 4 months
girl friends, 4 months, cliche: I can t give you much more than the cliche advice of just be yourself. But I can suggest you that you ask her of her intentions. Tell her that she s not acting like she wants to be with you anymore and ask her if she still considers you her boyfriend. Good...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend tells me she needs space, is she going to leave?, close to your heart, being friends
close to your heart, being friends, girlfriend: Hey. It s okay, I m here to help. I ll always be here, I m not going anywhere. First of all, please don t go making yourself ill or do anything worse, don t do anything stupid, please. It s not the answer. And you ll hurt all your family more than you...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend trouble! : (, bad situation, reality check
bad situation, reality check, 4 months: If she doesn t appreciate you, and everything you do for her, than she doesn t deserve you. I m not saying you guys need to break up, but she needs a reality check. Just try talking to her. Wait it out. If the same thing keeps happening, then take a break...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend, acting this way, roller coaster
acting this way, roller coaster, 4 months: Drear John, When you really care so much about someone you truly love don t let something bad happens as loosing that someone... Your girlfriend got sick and than she was grounded for a while ( did you ask her why?? ) so that doesn t make her feel any...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriends 16th Birthday, memories of yesterday, happy anniversary
memories of yesterday, happy anniversary, 16th birthday: Daniel, Well I don t think you need money to do something special for your girl friend after all its the thought that counts.If she s not a materialistic girl then she should really love whatever you do for her. I m guessing here that you need some ideas...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriends parents and me, disrespect, close friends
disrespect, close friends, adult chat: Both of you sit down with her mother, Be respectful of her mother and let her know how what she is doing is hurtng you both since you two are close friends if anything. Her mother should nt even trying to be controlling her life i mean she is turning 18 but...

Teen Dating Issues: Girls, talking to girls, time step
talking to girls, time step, inquisition: Hey Taran, Girls talk alot, and I m gonna say that her friend definetly told her what you said. Maybe she isn t acting like she likes you because you don t act like you like her! Ever think of that? haha, Okay, so now, when you ask her out, this is what you...

Teen Dating Issues: Girls, places to go on dates, real girlfriend
places to go on dates, real girlfriend, psychology course: There is nothing wrong with being shy. It s normal to be shy at certain times of your life. I would ask her online or in person if she can introduce you to her friends. (is a wave and or a smile from her and sometimes her friends, an invitation to join their...

Teen Dating Issues: Girls, girl girls, one of the girls
girl girls, one of the girls, infatuated: Firstly, I think you should pick just one girl. Girls don t like to be played! If you like one girl more than the other, then just pick one of the girls. If she said study and she s coming over with a friend to actually study, I doubt she means something anything...

Teen Dating Issues: Girls WTF, something girls, soap operas
something girls, soap operas, anwser: In this case, I d be a little careful, just say hi occassionally, nothing too serioustly, let her come to you, don t give her any atention, pretend you re mad at her or something, girls want their lives to be like soap operas LOL, she ll love you if you give...

Teen Dating Issues: About Girls, straight forward answer, what to do on a date
straight forward answer, what to do on a date, favorite color: Taran, Hey sweetie; how are you? I hope you are having a great day! I know that you are wanting a straight-forward answer that will tell you exactly what to do in order to get this girl to go on a date with you, but nobody knows how she feels about the...

Teen Dating Issues: Givin bf space when living together, space girls, stupid stuff
space girls, stupid stuff, actions speak louder then words: actions speak louder then words. Instead of telling him that you ll do better show him. If that doesn t work then you may want to consider letting him take his space for a while. maybe it s what you two need. -remember, keep life in-between the lines Bryan...

Teen Dating Issues: Giving her the right amount of time...., valentine s day, happy valentine
valentine s day, happy valentine, second date: Don t rush into dating. And respect her. Don t rush into sex. Now, you said you are her friend. Friends talk, yet if you think she needs some room, the question is how much? And the question is from dating or both from dating and friendship? I would start...

Teen Dating Issues: Good Friend, long distance relationship, true friend
long distance relationship, true friend, close friends: hello! i totally know how you feel because this guy who happens to be one of my very best friends, i like. and i m so scared to tell him because i don t want things to be weird between us. are there any signs that show you that she MIGHT be interested in you....

Teen Dating Issues: Good Friend, long distance relationship, close friends
long distance relationship, close friends, good friend: hi, well i think you hould slow down and see how things go dont push yourself up on her cause you dont want to damage yalls bond, this is normal for you to be close to someone that was your friend and you get those feelings.so dont feel ashamed, but i think...

Teen Dating Issues: Good Friend, long distance relationship, close friends
long distance relationship, close friends, instincts: Drew, Only you can decide if you should ask her out or not. Follow your heart and your instincts and decide what is best for you. Maybe talk to her and tell her how you feel but let her know that you don t want things to get weird...just handle it in a...

Teen Dating Issues: Great, being friends, pansy
being friends, pansy, wierd: Dear M. you are soooo funny, you crack me up. I guess yeah that is a little wierd but I didn t mean right now. Just wait until you re comfortable and it will just feel right. With Sarah, it seems like it never felt right and you had a tough time even thinking...

Teen Dating Issues: Great, starsky and hutch, o clock
starsky and hutch, o clock, cosmetic surgery: Hey M, I know you ll have a great time. I forget if you ever told me where you live, but I m guessing it s warm there. I live in New York and when you said, zoo I shivered! It sound like you are much more comfortable with her. Hey, what are you doing...

Teen Dating Issues: Great, wacky weather, norman oklahoma
wacky weather, norman oklahoma, fifties: Dear M. I thought that was where you lived but wasn t sure. It was gorgeous here to day but tomorrow it s supposed to snow. Very wacky weather. Also, I forgot Spring Break is here. When you work at home, every day is a work day...or a holiday, depending on...

Teen Dating Issues: Great, little signs, going to dallas
little signs, going to dallas, electronic stores: Dear M. Things seemt to have gone well. I love these questions you ask because you really, really care about it all you know and some guys don t really care what the girl wants at all. I think it s been pretty clear that this isn t just 2 friends getting...

Teen Dating Issues: Great, harry potter muggle, daily prophet
harry potter muggle, daily prophet, letter deals: Hi M. well, lots of questions and I will try to get them all in, if only by answering in a general sense. I think the main question of the first letter deals mostly with this: how do you know if you re dating Ola and how and when should you make your move....

Teen Dating Issues: Great, jewish boy, friends houses
jewish boy, friends houses, afte: Dear M. The fact that you are so nervous is sweet to me and would be sweet and flattering to any mature woman you told. A younger girl, well, unfortunately thinking back when I was younger (not sooo long ago after all) you want a guy to be confident and sure...

Teen Dating Issues: Great when she doesn't know, friend zone, quick sand
friend zone, quick sand, girl gifts: Blake, It is usually pretty hard to have a relationship with someone that you have been friends with for a long time. Once you are in the friend zone you usually have a better chance of crawling out of quick sand. However, you can always keep your options...

Teen Dating Issues: Great, starsky and hutch, nice thing
starsky and hutch, nice thing, michal: Dear M. I m so glad you are seeing the how easy a process dating can be when you know and truly like each other. I m so happy that it went well. Starsky and Hutch is supposed to be very funny. Go with the moment and just be you. It s a nice thing to be. When...

Teen Dating Issues: GUY FRiEND, guy friend, decent guy
guy friend, decent guy, being friends: Hey there, Even if he doesn t like you, if the teasing is really making you feel uncomfortable, you have to tell him. If he is a decent guy, he ll stop. Anyways, yeah, usually when a guy pokes fun at you, just play fun, nothing serious, it usually means...

Teen Dating Issues: GUYS!!!!, delema, sophmore
delema, sophmore, last friday: Stephanie, I think that you should just go with it, do not try to pressure him in to anything. Do what feels natural in the situation. If it feels right to kiss him again then do it. Try just talking and being together first, then move on to your relationship....

Teen Dating Issues: GUYS!!!, ahold, stephanie
ahold, stephanie, kiss: Stephanie, You have to get ahold of yourself about this. So you like the guy. That s cool, but you have to remember that if you don t keep your cool you could scare him away. That s just how people are. Be patient and confident and just hope things work...

Teen Dating Issues: GUYS!!!! Please reply ASAP!, converations, having dreams
converations, having dreams, asap thanks: Stephanie, What you boyfriend needs is space. Give him a couple of weeks to unwind. In about two weeks start to get serious with him again. It will be hard but you need to do it. When you start getting closer to him again tell him how you feel. ...

Teen Dating Issues: GUYS!!!!! please reply ASAP!, slow reply, anywho
slow reply, anywho, perfect solution: Steph, Sorry for the slow reply. I m graduating next week and things have been a little hectic. Anywho, if you want this guys attention then you cant be so eager to get it right away. Just play it cool and let him come to you. It s your best chance for...

Teen Dating Issues: GUYS!!, weird messages, body language
weird messages, body language, ups: Why do you like him? Ages? Why does he like you? Where do you see him? Where did you meet? wanted to wait before getting into a relationship --- Why? he s sending me weird messages --- I don t study body language, yet did you ask our experts here who do?...

Teen Dating Issues: GUYZ, worth a shot, pot
worth a shot, pot, doubt: If you don t have a big problem with it, then it s worth a shot. But if while you guys are dating, he tries to pressure you into doing it too, then that s an automatic sign to break-up. Just be calm though until then. But really, if you have a lot of doubt...

Teen Dating Issues: GUy Troubles, little brother, whole life
little brother, whole life, rejection: Jen- First off, I would have a talk with him. Ask him what s going on. If he just likes to flirt or if there s something more to it. About asking him, I can t answer that. You know more than me about the situation. If you re going to, then I would...

Teen Dating Issues: My Guy, self consious, sorry in advance
self consious, sorry in advance, countless times: What I mean by first move doesn t necessarily mean kissing. I mean telling him how you feel. When the time comes, say that you like him and ask him if he feels the same way. The actual act of doing it may be tough at first but you ll always be wondering...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting the Guy, foster parents, different things
foster parents, different things, savannah: Hey Leshana- Well just go up to him and try to start a conversation with him where his answers wont be a yes or no answer. Try different things to talk to him about. Stuff like that. I hope this helps you. If you need anything else im always here. Take...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy Friend, guy friend, good friends
guy friend, good friends, alex: Hi Alex! Well I suggest that you should just start flirting with him. Try just being overly friendly with him like laughing with him, poking him and just being really girly with him. Ask if he d like to hang out and spend one on one time with you so you...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy Friends??, absolute trust, 2 girls
absolute trust, 2 girls, guy friend: No you shouldn t feel threatened at all. Jealous is something that only happens when you find something you really really care about. So while jealous in it s self is a VERY bad thing the presence of jealous can sometimes be a good thing. Don t feel threatened...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy being too full-on, barbee, little bit
barbee, little bit, just friends: This about how he is acting now. he is probably going to act like this in the relationship too, is that what you want. There is an old saying that goes, what it takes to get them is what it takes to keep them . If he s doing this now he s most likely going...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy help., guy friend, holding hands
guy friend, holding hands, close friends: Hey Lola. I have to say, I love your name, I ve always liked it. Sorry, just thought I d say. I really think you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him what you ve told me, how you re feeling and everything. I think you ll feel much better getting it...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy issues!, napoleon dynamite, orlando bloom
napoleon dynamite, orlando bloom, analogy: Hey there, Haha, nice analogy of Orlando and Napoleon! That s natural that you are this nervous. It s your first time, just treat him like your friend until you get confortable on that level, then move forward. Act like you are talking to one of your friends,...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy Problems, bunker hill wv, definite sign
bunker hill wv, definite sign, reading class: Jesse, All these signs from this boy are a definite sign that he likes you, so just because he said no when you asked him out last time, it doesn t mean to say he ll say no again. So, I really think you should follow your feelings and ask him out again,...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy Problems, good luck, relationship
good luck, relationship, guy problems: Hi Amanda, I think if you legitimately still like him, and vice versa, give it another shot. You need to decide if the fights you were getting into are issues that really warrant a Fight or if you can reasonably discuss them and find answers in a civil...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy Problems, guy friends, close friends
guy friends, close friends, second time: Well, this is a difficult situation because you all are close friends. If you really want to get over him, you are just going to have to force yourself to do it. Try to find another guy to be interested in and then pursue that relationship. If you want...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy problem =[, different things, athlete
different things, athlete, 3 years: Hanna - I ve been where you are before and it s not easy. If you re having all these feelings then I think it would just be best if you took a break for now and see how things are once you date around. You are young and you should experience different things...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy Troubles, mixed signals, cuddling
mixed signals, cuddling, couple weeks: hi tiffany, tell him what you told me. tell him you want to make sure he understands you like him and that communication is very important. it worries me that he told you all this stuff after he had been drinking. i would watch that very carefully and make...

Teen Dating Issues: My Guy, self consious, sorry in advance
self consious, sorry in advance, countless times: hi, ask him how he feels about you. be open and honest with him and let him know how you feel. be prepared in case he just wants to be friends and tells you that. if he just wants to be friends then you have to decide if you can handle just being friends....

Teen Dating Issues: Guys, guinea pigs, guy friends
guinea pigs, guy friends, senoir: Hey Claire, I understand what you mean and how you feel, i have couple guy friends who s seventeen and have never had a girlfriend before. But nothing is wrong with that. You just need a little boost, some confidence to push you, to show others a side of...

Teen Dating Issues: Guys, word answers, lexie
word answers, lexie, texting: Hi Lexie! Thanks for your question. Personally, I m not a big fan of texting. I think it s hard to get what the other person means all the time! That said, when it comes to guys they can be pretty simple creatures. ;) His one word answers tell me he’s...

Teen Dating Issues: Guys!, grade 8, hime
grade 8, hime, pros and cons: Hey Sarah, It s not uncommon for girls to ask guys out nowadays, and if you know for sure that he likes you then I think you should go for it! You COULD wait for him to ask YOU out, but there s no telling when that might happen, especially if he s not quite...

Teen Dating Issues: Guys, inportant, guy friend
inportant, guy friend, female friend: Hey Sara, Let me start by thanking you for being so thorough with your question. :) It s impossible for me to know exactly what your crush is thinking, BUT...based on what you ve described to me, it does sound like he still likes you. I think the best thing...

Teen Dating Issues: Guys, braket, point of view
braket, point of view, personality: depending on the guy he could be quite upfront or he could hardly speak to you, admiring from afar. from my point of view i like to look for (in this order): 1. body, is she well shaped? 2. face, is she pretty and does it match her body (it doesnt always)?...

Teen Dating Issues: Guyz, good luck, pot
good luck, pot: Hey there, Well, if you aren t comfortable with what he is doing, you shouldn t date him. You don t want to get into that stuff, and if you date him, chances are you re gonna be exposed to it. That stuff just isn t cool, try and find another guy. Sooner or...

Teen Dating Issues: gaming boyfriend., violent game, shooting game
violent game, shooting game, wii: I recommend to talk to our psychology experts and also the experts I recommended before on this topic. I also want to remind you they may deny the addiction. It s not uncommon for them to get mad at such. You must be peaceful and respectful. Talk in a public...

Teen Dating Issues: geting the girl for me.., words of wisdome, horrible luck
words of wisdome, horrible luck, agao: Mike, Well firstly you can continue showing her that you care for her and that you ll treat her right, respect her and love her the way she s supposed to be. Don t try to get in between her boy friend because that can make a girl quite annoyed. Do your...

Teen Dating Issues: gift?, favorite sports team, free kiss
favorite sports team, free kiss, free hug: Hey Anie, I m not sure what your price range is for this guy or what kind of stuff he is into, but I ll do my best. Some of these might be too personal for you, but you can always keep them in the back of your mind for later on. 1)A watch is a really...

Teen Dating Issues: gift., worth money, bad idea
worth money, bad idea, valentines: Ok from the psychology view any gift that is worth money is a bad idea. It could be looked at as buying their love. Which we do not want to do. This is why I recommend something personal. Something that means so much for both of you. If you buy their love,...

Teen Dating Issues: my gilrfriend actin a bit weird, realtionship, good luck
realtionship, good luck, girlfriend: Hey Christian, Well, she may be doubting something, or there may be something going on at home. Sit her down and be there for her and say that you will be there for her and if she needs to talk, you will listen. Explain that she matters. Good luck! -Jo...

Teen Dating Issues: A girl i like, hour and a half, wierd
hour and a half, wierd, emotions: Steve, Wait a while and see if anything changes. She may just want to be friends with you. But she needs to let you know that. Its not right for her to just let it go like this. Maybe she really does still like her ex or maybe she did just tell you that...

Teen Dating Issues: there's this girl I like..., upperclassman, quality advice
upperclassman, quality advice, unresolved issues: Chris- Thanks for your question! The best thing for you is to be yourself and be there for her. If it was a bad breakup, she probably has some unresolved issues that she has to work through, which you can help her with. Be there for her and do what your...

Teen Dating Issues: How to get that girl., school priorities, first girlfriend
school priorities, first girlfriend, high iq: Hey Chris- Well if you feel her friends are going to make that decision for her then just talk to her about it while she s not around her friends. If she s around them then just go up to her and say can I talk to you for a sec then walk away from her friends...

Teen Dating Issues: this girl, different things, ashley
different things, ashley, msn: Kenny - I think you definitely need to get to know her first before asking her out on a date. Some people take dating to mean different things. Do you want to be exclusive with her? Do you want to casually date and be able to date other people? These...

Teen Dating Issues: I like this girl but........, something simple
something simple: try and find out more about her. what she likes and doesnt like. if you kind find some of things out then you can approach her and start talking to her. do you think you could just go up to her when she is alone and say hello? maybe if you start with something...

Teen Dating Issues: I like a girl. Does she like me back?, math home work, math english
math home work, math english, english science: Hey there, Well, maybe she hasn t quite grown to really like you yet. I think that she has a bit of intrest in you, but it s not like fireworks or anything. Try talking to her more, and dropping more hints that you like her. After doing that for a while,...

Teen Dating Issues: A girl, savannah, laugh
savannah, laugh, feelings: Hey Tyler- Well before you try anything you should really make sure that all these feelings you think she has that she really has and everything. Then maybe after the fact try asking her out again but be serious. I mean you wont ever know until you really...

Teen Dating Issues: this girl, flag football team, good personality
flag football team, good personality, girls: try and find out more about her. what she likes and doesnt like. start off slow by just having a little longer conversation then normal with her. see how she respondses. see if you think she may like you or not. if it seems like she does then talk to her a...

Teen Dating Issues: A girl, hebrew school, savannah
hebrew school, savannah: Hey Max- Well if she does say yes just go somewhere where you two would have fun and it wont be to stressful for you two to make you feel like you have to be someone else. Just somewhere confertable for the two of you. Where you can actually have fun but...

Teen Dating Issues: girl i like, microbiology class, zoologist
microbiology class, zoologist, story 1: Good choice. Biology is a neat subject. I have a friend who works at the local zoo who is a zoologist. He enjoys it a lot. I am sure you will too. Their is actually only two boys in the class the rest are girls. ---- Lucky you. ;) For question one:...

Teen Dating Issues: A girl i like, hour and a half, wierd
hour and a half, wierd, emotions: Steve - 1. Don t tell her you spent hours crying over her. It s liable to just freak her out. 2. You re only 17. Chances are she s not the person you re going to marry (I m not saying there isn t a chance) so you shouldn t be putting all your energy...

Teen Dating Issues: this girl....., e mail address, coal eyes
e mail address, coal eyes, valentine s day: That was a good thing to write. My suggestion now is to approach her. She might be testing if you like her enough to talk to you her yourself. Then after about a week of becoming friends, ask her out. You dont want to wait too long. Some girls get tired of...

Teen Dating Issues: girl, joke thing, friend connection
joke thing, friend connection, mutual friends: Casey, I d use the best friend connection you ve got to find out what you can. You could even try asking her friend to ask her if she likes you (without telling her that you wanted to know), and then have the friend report back to you. Other than that,...

Teen Dating Issues: This girl.., female friends, ashton
female friends, ashton, jess: Hey Keary, If it s true that Ashton likes you, then I don t think you have to anything to worry about by revealing that you like her, too. If you don t feel comfortable telling Ashton directly, you could tell Jess and let her pass the word along for you....

Teen Dating Issues: girl, virgia, open ended questions
virgia, open ended questions, bad behavior: Dear Chris, Well, my would you want to call her if you think she is being mean and not contacting you? Do not mistake someone’s bad behavior for “Flirting.” But she may not be being mean, you may just think she is being that way, you probably will...

Teen Dating Issues: there's this girl......., bad situation, alot
bad situation, alot: i dont the law where you are at but normally if you have sex with someone under the age of 18 if you are 18 then that could be bad. until she gets to be maybe 16 or 17 i would not date her yet. you dont want to get in a bad situation right now. can you just...

Teen Dating Issues: girl, second date, sandi
second date, sandi, skool: you dont want to get her parents mad at you before your second date. so i would just obey her rules for now. how long before she can date? can you maybe meet her parents and see if they will allow you to at least take her out for a certain length of time....

Teen Dating Issues: this one girl, scary movie, dimitri
scary movie, dimitri, cousins: Hi James, Given the circumstances and the signs she has been giving you, she is at least interested and thinking it over. You must also understand that girls are confused at all times, it s funny but true. So don t be upset at the fact that...

Teen Dating Issues: A girl., daniel age, mths
daniel age, mths, wonderful day: Daniel, Age should not be a big deal for you at all with this girl as long as you know that she s probably going to have slightly different expectations than you. If you are sexually active, just make sure that you do not push her to be as well. As long...

Teen Dating Issues: This one girl, lunch period, serious relationship
lunch period, serious relationship, wasting my time: Kevin, You are a little younger than I am so you may be a little intimidate to sit near a group of girls especially one you like. Don t be, walk by their table and say hi to her, be yourself, they are ONLY girls, they are human beings, just like...

Teen Dating Issues: this girl, cacoon, weird kid
cacoon, weird kid, ninth grader: Joe, you have to break out of the cacoon, start talking to her. She is only a girl, don t be afraid she won t eat you. Get to know her, just go up to her and say something, you already talk, that s good, TALK MORE! You can t ask her out without knowing her...

Teen Dating Issues: like a girl, long term relationships, knock off
long term relationships, knock off, right decision: So the girl has an overprotective brother.... Well, it does make things more challenging. If the guy is 6-5 and 300 pounds of solid muscle, I would tell you to proceed at your own risk. Just remember that just because a girl has someone close to her that...

Teen Dating Issues: the girl i like, romantic gestures, break ups
romantic gestures, break ups, single rose: Hey Nick, I m sorry to hear that you re going through this difficult and frustrating situation right now. Different people require different amounts of healing time after break-ups, sometimes even years if the break-up was particularly painful. I d suggest...

Teen Dating Issues: A girl, great relationship, good luck
great relationship, good luck, lunch: Any great relationship has to start off as a Friendship Jack. You have to get to be her fried first. Just start spending more time around her, talk to her in the halls or sit next to her at lunch. Something like that. Then maybe ask her if she wants to hang...

Teen Dating Issues: a girl i like, two occasions, wonderful day
two occasions, wonderful day, affection: Josh, Hey sweetie. I hope you are having a great day. I m sure she cares about you but there is something that you have to understand: she has a boyfriend. You cannot be holding her hand, kissing her, etc while she is with him. That is just wrong....

Teen Dating Issues: A girl.., odd occasion, self confidence
odd occasion, self confidence, mentality: D, You need to get out of the mentality of wondering whether she likes you and just assume that she does. If you project a lot of self confidence and are so sure in yourself that she likes you, she will pick up on that and become attracted because of it....

Teen Dating Issues: How to get the girl back, emotional wreck, couple times
emotional wreck, couple times, caitlin: I m sorry to hear! It really is best to let go. You need to remember what you deserve. Hopefully she remembers the memories you two shared and the times you spent together, and smiles. Let her have her time, call her on her birthday, maybe give her flowers...

Teen Dating Issues: getting over a girl, getting over a girl, playing video games
getting over a girl, playing video games, street hockey: Hey Kyle, Alright, well, it s gonna take work but you should be able to do it. First things first, don t talk to her, or talk about her. Get her out of your everyday life and your mind. Then surround yourself with buddies and do normal very guy things like...

Teen Dating Issues: this girl, t rush, generic questions
t rush, generic questions, lateness: Dear Mike, Sorry about the lateness of this reply. Well if you go to school together, that makes it somewhat easier. Do you share any classes together? If so then it ll be easy to get to know her, as you can sit with her in class and such. If not, then...

Teen Dating Issues: this girl, mixed signals, smooth sailing
mixed signals, smooth sailing, initial move: Hello Joe, I don t think it d be weird to ask her out. I can t guarantee that she ll say yes, but it definitely wouldn t be weird. Many people s first dates are often spent doing things that allow them to get to know each other better, such as going out...

Teen Dating Issues: this girl, time id, pick up line
time id, pick up line, dance team: Hi John, I wouldn t worry too much about the difference in age. Some girls don t mind it. Have you even had any regular conversations with her before? If not, start talking to her and make friends before you even ask her out. If you have had conversations...

Teen Dating Issues: getting a girl to like you, cute girl, new friends
cute girl, new friends, math: It sounds to me like you guys are kind of new friends. So ask if she wants to hang out out side of a school area. But don t call it a date. Maybe invite some more friends along. Just something that she would be comfortable with. If you more too fast you might...

Teen Dating Issues: girl, relationship status, drama teacher
relationship status, drama teacher, shoelaces: You d be surprised how often guys fall for their best friends. Your in good company here. If she didn t have a boy friend i d tell you to go for it, but she does. You have to respect that. I say give it some time, trust me. Soon she ll realize what a great...

Teen Dating Issues: This girl I like, varsity football, pothead
varsity football, pothead, football star: no i dont think you should try and get her to breakup or cheat on her bf. just be her friend and hopefully something will happen between you two. if not then i think you just have to let it be. i know it sounds easier then doing. but you dont want to let her...

Teen Dating Issues: girl, out of the blue, youth group
out of the blue, youth group, good luck: hi, go up to her and say hello. try to find out what she is in to and talk about it. start with small talk and see how it goes. you dont have to ask her out right away. just start talking to her and see if she seems interested too. after talking to her...

Teen Dating Issues: This girl..., hallway, good luck
hallway, good luck, courage: hey there, from what you ve told me about her actions and behavior toward me, i kinda think that she may just like you. don t conclude too much about what her friend told - girls don t usually blab to a lot of people about who their friends like. we like...

Teen Dating Issues: about a girl, short time, chemistry
short time, chemistry, exercise: I don t see why you wouldn t here. Go for it, if you felt there was some chemistry then heck yes you should message her. I mean honestly what do you have to lose? And what do you have to gain? there you go question answered. -remember, keep life in-between...

Teen Dating Issues: a girl, friend tyler, being friends
friend tyler, being friends, closer to home: Unfortunately she is with someone else. The problem is that, you two do not live comfortable distance between each other. So, the most I can say is stay friends with her. Unforunately she s with someone else at this point and for the time being, just as I...

Teen Dating Issues: This girl, second time, relationship
second time, relationship, just friends: She was probably all over you to grab your attention. That s sometimes how girls strategize. They become very open and start flirting with the guy. After they have locked the guy into what they want, they tend to lose the desire and determination because they...

Teen Dating Issues: like this girl, questioneers, humiliation
questioneers, humiliation, puppy: Pete, Stop thinking of it as breaking the news to her, like it s something bad. You like the girl, it s not like her puppy died. The fact that you like her isn t bad, but the fact that you want to just come out and tell her IS. You don t just come...

Teen Dating Issues: I like this girl, cuddles, firstly
cuddles, firstly, hobbies: Hey there Sean. Firstly before you just ask her out , talk to her. Get to be friends, and learn about eachother. Get to learn about eachother, and similar interests/hobbies. This way; when you DO ask her out, you can decide WHAT to do, based on what...

Teen Dating Issues: a girl i like, luck mike, being friends
luck mike, being friends, judgement: If you know her well enough in your perception and find that you two are compatible as just friends, then yes, definitely ask her out! I usually recommend being friends before developing a relationship, because for all you know you two could not like each...

Teen Dating Issues: getting over a girl, getting over a girl, easy girl
getting over a girl, easy girl, apologised: Hey Mark- You seem like a great person and you don t have to worry about finding someone else. There s a lot of great girls out there and you ll find one that will be just right for you. Also don t look at it as you missing out on her she s missing out...

Teen Dating Issues: this girl what should i do, good friends, jerk
good friends, jerk, hard time: Hi James! Well, from what it sounds like, this girl wants to go back to her ex who she dated for 3 years, but was a total jerk to her and has you on the side waiting...? That s what I got from it so I know where you re coming from..It s up to you whether you...

Teen Dating Issues: girl, religion school, time cases
religion school, time cases, youth group: How old are you? Depending on your age, you may just want to start off as friends. If you are already friends and want to date, you may want to talk to her one day about this. In any relationship, talking is important. But, if you see she is not ready for...

Teen Dating Issues: girl, interested move, friend level
interested move, friend level, casual conversation: The best thing that you can do is to talk to her more often. Try to get to know her on a friend level before you ask her out. This will better your chances. If she starts to seem more interested, just simply ask her out. You ll never know until you ask....

Teen Dating Issues: Getting a girl to like me, mounths, old boyfriend
mounths, old boyfriend, good friends: hi, if your already friends with her then thats a good start. continue to be friends with her and talk to her about how she feels. she will like it if you are there for her when she wants to talk about anything, including her old boyfriend. ,aybe you could...

Teen Dating Issues: A girl i like..., element of doubt, 7 months
element of doubt, 7 months, feelings: i would not try and get together with her right now. if its meant to be then it will happen. let her find out for herself what she really wants. you dont want to be the one who breaks them up. if you think you cant just be friends with her then maybe you should...

Teen Dating Issues: Does this girl actually like me?, different reasons, wally
different reasons, wally, joanne: Hey Wally! Hmm, I hate to say it, but it seems as if she just didn t want to turn you down and hurt your feelings. I think she just thinks of you as a friend. There isn t much you can do, sadly. There are many other girls out there, not to worry. Best wishes!...

Teen Dating Issues: The girl I like ................alot, shy side, homeroom
shy side, homeroom, molly: HI Roy, Well I m glad I was able to help someone out. If your a little on the shy side, try writing her a note. Tell her you think she is cute, and you would like to hang out with her outside of school sometime. See how she reacts. If you say hang out...

Teen Dating Issues: Which girl to ask out, final girl, science class
final girl, science class, social studies classes: First off, you re in 7th grade. That means you have plenty, and I do mean PLENTY of time before you have to get into serious dating. I dont even think I went on anything close to a date until I was at least 2 years older then you. With that said, I...

Teen Dating Issues: girl asking a guy, psychology area, ups
psychology area, ups, mormon: Hi, Adrienne is open right now on that part of the site. I think they don t accept many questions per day, so it opens up the next day if you miss it. Try our psychology area if that doesn t work. Mormon s I think have a rule they cannot date until...

Teen Dating Issues: A girl that i like but has a BF and doesnt go to my school, freind, bf
freind, bf, heart: John, sometimes things just aren t meant to be. Maybe she was just being nice, either way she has a boyfriend which means that the door is closed right now. Who knows though, maybe in the future things might get brighter for the two of you. Just be her friend...

Teen Dating Issues: a girl who i cant stop thinking about, corner of my eye, convo
corner of my eye, convo, stares: Jason, You just have to stop taking this whole deal so seriously. Why be nervous? What s the worst that could happen? It sounds like she s even more nervous then you. So be the comfortable confident one, approach her, and just start up a conversation....

Teen Dating Issues: girl in my class, two and a half years, good friends
two and a half years, good friends, emotions: Ok thank you for your follow up. I asked those questions for a number of reasons. Age: Tells me if she is ready to date. Religion is sometimes the reason for saying no to someone. And of course if she is dating someone else, it will cause a problem....

Teen Dating Issues: There is this girl I like but she doesn't like me, wasting your time, rest of my life
wasting your time, rest of my life, feelings: First off, I m sorry this took so long to get back to you. I never got the email saying i had a question. Second, this is kind of a hard one, and you re really not going to like what I m going to say, but maybe it s time for you to try to move on. A lot...

Teen Dating Issues: I like this girl but don't know why., true feelings, sexual object
true feelings, sexual object, sexual activities: Greg, I dont really see the problem, dude. Maybe you like her for both? If you have true feelings for her you will eventually find out. If you don t, then it is probably just your hormones getting worked up, which is okay. You re young and young men...

Teen Dating Issues: I like a girl but i dont know i she would date or go out., football guy, being friends
football guy, being friends, best friends: The truth is, football guy, girls will almost never be best friends with a guy they wouldn t want to go out with. There are exceptions to this, of course, but in this case I don t think it s an exception. And about the age difference: it s not really an issue...

Teen Dating Issues: girl i like but i dont know if she likes me anymore, hard girls, committment
hard girls, committment, jerks: well if she doesn t want commitment then she doesn t want it. If you ve talked to her about it thats all you really can do. If she doesn t want to go on a date with you but she still says she likes you then maybe she just needs time. If you re willing to...

Teen Dating Issues: How to get with the girl of my dreams?, girl of my dreams, car nut
girl of my dreams, car nut, shy type: Dale, man you gotta get over being shy. You have to have self confidence, I am arrogant, and that helps me maintain control of the conversation with girls, now that she is in a relationship, make her want you, avoid HER A LITTLE BIT, and sometimes flirt with...

Teen Dating Issues: girl of my dreams, girl of my dreams, wonderful feeling
girl of my dreams, wonderful feeling, good luck: Matt, The main thing you have to change is how you view yourself. NOBODY is out of your league. Seriously, I used to think like that, and once I stopped, you know what happened? I started getting women that I once thought I wouldnt have been able to get!...

Teen Dating Issues: How do I get the girl of my dreams, girl of my dreams, last boyfriend
girl of my dreams, last boyfriend, school doesn: Ok I recommend you to stay her friend for a while. Become her best friend. And when she sees you are taking it slow and treating her well, she may be ready to date you. Of course this slow way does have it s flaw that she could be taken by than, yet it s important...

Teen Dating Issues: Is the girl flirting with me ?, genuine friend, playing with my mind
genuine friend, playing with my mind, dani: I defiantly don t think she s messing with your head Dani. Is there a chance you re reading into it, yeah. But it sounds to me like this girl at least notices you which is a big first step. If you like her, then go talk to her. I know it might feel uncomfortable,...

Teen Dating Issues: Is the girl flirting with me ?, playing with my mind, possibilty
playing with my mind, possibilty, stairs: umm both of your answers are a possibilty Dani, you cannot tell exactly what she wants. This is flirting for sure , but the intention behind it is still unknown. It could be that she likes you , it could be that she is messing with your head, maybe she is...

Teen Dating Issues: Is the girl flirting with me ?, playing with my mind, allexperts
playing with my mind, allexperts, eachother: Hello Dani. Well well well. It seems that you re at the point where you are beginning to question what girls are thinking about you. First or all; the area of How to tell if he/she likes me isn t my best area, so I suggest you ask our Experts in that...

Teen Dating Issues: Is the girl flirting with me ?, playing with my mind, compliment
playing with my mind, compliment, stairs: She is definitely interested. You have to show her that you re different, more fun than all the other boys trying to get friendly with her. Start talking to her, when you do, be yourself, present yourself as the prize, as if she is trying to get you, don t...

Teen Dating Issues: Is the girl flirting with me ?, playing with my mind, stairs
playing with my mind, stairs, mates: It seems like she is interested in you. Next time she smiles at you go up and talk to her. Just have a conversation with her and next time you see her, talk to her again. Eventually you ll start sitting with her at lunch, or being partners in math, etc. Good...

Teen Dating Issues: Is the girl flirting with me ?, playing with my mind, stairs
playing with my mind, stairs, mates: I think that this girl likes you. As you said she is very pretty and has a lot of guys trying to get friendly with her. She has already taken the first step in showing that she notices and likes you, but you can t expect her to tell you up front. Don t take...

Teen Dating Issues: Is the girl flirting with me ?, playing with my mind, convo
playing with my mind, convo, stairs: Hello Dani! It is unsure if she is just being friendly or not. If you want, get her attention! But do it in a good way. Ask to carry her books and walk her to class, dont fight every guy she smiles at! Or simply strike a convo. with her! This will help you...

Teen Dating Issues: Get a girl friend, great relationship, girl friend
great relationship, girl friend, girlfriend: You should take it slow if you don t want to ruin the great relationship you have with her now. Try to pick up on hints she gives out if you think she may be interested. First try to go on a date where you re not officially going out. See how it goes...

Teen Dating Issues: girl friend?, 12th grade, girl friend
12th grade, girl friend, good friends: hey, My advice would be to give her some room for now and then when you are good friends again just sit down and talk and ask her why she lost interest and if there would ever be another chance to try again because you still feel as strongly as you did when...

Teen Dating Issues: girl friend to girlfriend, one of my best friends, great eye
one of my best friends, great eye, girl friend: Dave, Well if she s been eyeing you latying that means she has some sort of interest in you. But you wont know exactly how she feels unless you pursue her. I mean you dn t have to be direct about it but you can leave hints or show her that you re interested...

Teen Dating Issues: My girl friend now loves someone else. Help me get her back, t rush, sweet things
t rush, sweet things, step at a time: Ok, first off, I can NOT tell you a way to make her love you. It is impossible to make someone love you. I can tell you some good ideas, though. What you could do, is find out why she loved you to begin with, and be like that a little more often....

Teen Dating Issues: girl friend, places to go on dates, real girlfriend
places to go on dates, real girlfriend, first kiss: Hey there, Okay, a wave and a smile usually is a green light! Go and hang with her group once in a while. Hmm, well, she is a shy girl, so you re gonna have trouble telling when she wants to talk and be with you. I d say to hang out with her as much as you...

Teen Dating Issues: girl/guy friendship, one of my best friends, girl friends
one of my best friends, girl friends, generalization: Kelsey, I do not think that this is entirely true. I believe that guys can be your friend, and want to. I know that I have many girls that are friends that I would not want to be my girlfriend. One of my best friends is a girl i have known her since...

Teen Dating Issues: girl help, friend christy, stairing
friend christy, stairing, trampoline: I recommend people to become friends with people before dating because it usually works out better in the long run, yet it is hard to make the leap because of the chance of loosing a friend. Now, who likes who? Sometimes, the best way is either to ask the...

Teen Dating Issues: girl help, good sense of humor, song of solomon
good sense of humor, song of solomon, sense of humor: Dear Jason, Glad you are having a good 2007 thus far. The best way to know if someone likes you is to ask them. Do not rely on what others are saying or have said, go and talk with her about it. Do not guess, do not play mind games, open your...

Teen Dating Issues: girl help, approaching women, complements
approaching women, complements, gesture: Ken, The poem is a nice gesture, but keep it to yourself. Trust me, it s just not a good idea. You need to be more subtle when approaching women. If you come on too strong, you scare them away. Here is a link to a website that will set you up with a bunch...

Teen Dating Issues: girl help...., friend christy, stairing
friend christy, stairing, sticky situation: Rickie - It sounds like Christy was flirting with you and Jenette got jealous. This can be a sticky situation because guys come between girls quite often so you have a situation on your hands. You need to sit them down and call them out and see what...

Teen Dating Issues: Is girl interested by looking back at me ?, corner of my eye, eye contact
corner of my eye, eye contact, lunchtime: hi dani, it s difficulty to gauge someone s feelings by just one incident, but generally looking back at someone is considered a good thing. you should be on the look out in case it happens again. and if it does, you could try to make eye contact and give...

Teen Dating Issues: Is girl interested by looking back at me ?, corner of my eye, lunchtime
corner of my eye, lunchtime, crowd of people: Hi Dani, If I had to take a guess, since I wasn t there to witness it, I would say yes, she thinks your cute. Most people don t bother making the effort to look at someone unless there is something about that individual that catches their eye. I hope that...

Teen Dating Issues: Is girl interested by looking back at me ?, verbal message, corner of my eye
verbal message, corner of my eye, crowd of people: It might, and it is possible, but you and she are really the only two people who can interpret a glance. Still, if you felt it, she may have been trying to tell you something. It sounds like you might be interested in her, so next time, make eye contact,...

Teen Dating Issues: Is girl interested by looking back at me ?, corner of my eye, lunchtime
corner of my eye, lunchtime, crowd of people: Hi Dani It s possible that this girl thinks you re cute. Most girls like looking at guys that are cute; but how are you going to find out for sure? You need to talk to her! So get out there and start a conversation and see how it goes. I wish you all the...

Teen Dating Issues: Is girl interested by looking back at me ?, first encounter, corner of my eye
first encounter, corner of my eye, lunchtime: I ve been told girls are tricky in the way that we handle ourselves. If I were a guy, I m sure I would find this to be true. With regards to your question based on the situation, it sounds like a possibility, but I don t want you to get your hopes up for...

Teen Dating Issues: Is girl interested by looking back at me ?, girl eyes, corner of my eye
girl eyes, corner of my eye, crowd of people: Dani, It is a possibility, but if a girl eyes you up, and you think she looks good, you look right back. It shows confidence on your part. It shows that aren t afraid of making eye contact. Wait until SHE looks away. That establishes power. It seems...

Teen Dating Issues: Is girl interested by looking back at me ?, corner of my eye, lunchtime
corner of my eye, lunchtime, crowd of people: Hey Dani! The answer is yes , she might think you are! However, it might have been anything else. She could have been looking at something else, another person , a pen she left behind, the possibilities are endless. Also , you might have not been very accurate...

Teen Dating Issues: every girl ive been with so..., freinds, affection
freinds, affection, kisses: Brad, Although you ve only been together 2 weeks, it is still a new relationship. Depending on how close you two were before you started going out, she may be just taking some time to get to know you. Relationships while in high school/middle school...

Teen Dating Issues: Why does this girl keep annoying me ?, little kid, abrasive
little kid, abrasive, crotch: Hello Dani, To be honest with you, I m just as confused as you are on this one. While it s true that some people flirt by being playfully mean, some of the things you described just seem a bit much for a crush...not to mention the fact that she already...

Teen Dating Issues: Why does this girl keep annoying me ?, little kid, crotch
little kid, crotch, aggression: hmm... if this was grade school, i could ve sworn that she had a crush on me... my guess is that she just wants to play around. if you re a little bit serious, she probably gets a kick out of annoying you... some guys are like that to a few girls i know......

Teen Dating Issues: Why does this girl keep annoying me ?, crush syndrome, definite possibility
crush syndrome, definite possibility, tiny baby: This looks like classic crush syndrome (I just made that up, it s not actually a syndrome). It just seems like maybe she s a) just joking around and wants to poke some fun or b) has a tiny baby crush on you. Which is a definite possibility. When a guy doesn...

Teen Dating Issues: Why does this girl keep annoying me ?, inappropriate places, childish things
inappropriate places, childish things, mr ms: Dani, My advice is to not give her too much leverage. She s trying to get a reaction out of you. She s trying to make you mad. So what do you do? I suggest that you grin and laugh it off. If she sees that it doesn t bother you, then she doesn t get...

Teen Dating Issues: Why does this girl keep annoying me ?, time boys, showing affection
time boys, showing affection, boys and girls: HI Dani, I do need to ask how old you and this girl are. Normally, for younger kids, this is an absolute show of affection and that she does like you. Most of the time, boys and girls aren t going to bother being mean to someone if they don t like them....

Teen Dating Issues: if a girl likes me/how do i approach, old boyfriend, last friday
old boyfriend, last friday, hallway: Blair- From what you ve told me I can t be conclusive one way or another. Girls that age can be very funny, saying one thing and meaning something completely different. My advice, make conversation and find out if she s interested. The only way to...

Teen Dating Issues: A girl that i love, abusive boyfriend, sixth grade
abusive boyfriend, sixth grade, good friend: Wow James, it seems as though your feelings for this girl are real strong. Well the problem is that she is in a relationship now. You HAVE told her before so I assume that if she wanted to be with you or she was ready to be with you , she would say. However,...

Teen Dating Issues: Why is this girl being mean / cheeky to me ?, eye contact, different things
eye contact, different things, good luck: Hey there, It could be a number of different things really. Maybe she just wants your attention, it s hard to say. All I can really tell you is that she wants you to notice something, or do something to give her your attention. Catch up to her after school...

Teen Dating Issues: Why is this girl being mean / cheeky to me ?, block theory, ups
block theory, ups, eye contact: Hi, I really need to know more facts. These are not limited to: 1. Ages(yes both of your ages) 2. Do you think she likes you? 3. Wants to be your friend? 4. How would you react if she wants to be your friend? 5. How does she treat her friends? 6....

Teen Dating Issues: Why is this girl being mean / cheeky to me ?, eye contact, motives
eye contact, motives, dani: Dani, Sometimes you just can t tell for sure what a woman s motives are. They think differently then us. My guess...she s challenging you. If she makes a crack, u crack back, my friend. Even if she doesnt like it, at least you maintain a certain level...

Teen Dating Issues: Why is this girl being mean / cheeky to me ?, eye contact, dani
eye contact, dani, mate: Hi Dani! Well since you asked this question in the teen dating category , I assume that you have a feeling that this girl likes you. People usually think so when others start teasing them for no reason and I agree with that. First, try to look carefully...

Teen Dating Issues: MY MOM'S REATION, laughing in your face, worts
laughing in your face, worts, leah: Austin, Talk to her again and tell her you can feel this way at any age and you feel really horrible having someone, especially your own mother, laughing in your face about it. Tell her you really want to date her, and it would make you really happy. Tell...

Teen Dating Issues: girl prob., christmas eve, man friends
christmas eve, man friends, crouse: Hey Matt, It seems to me that you my friend are WHIPPED with a capital W. Sorry to break it to you my man but that s just the way I see it. This girl seems to be dishonest, untrustworthy, rude and unfaithful. Let me tell you this, from what I see you need...

Teen Dating Issues: girl problem, palm of her hand, girl problem
palm of her hand, girl problem, good mood: Brooklyn, Not necessarily ignore her, but rather take the time to look into your other girl options. If you spend more time exploring your other options you will in turn spend less time worrying about her. You shouldn t have to actually try to ignore...

Teen Dating Issues: girl problems, girl problems, to extremes
girl problems, to extremes, happy birthday: Andrew, Well it seems that she s letting that immature attitude get the best of her and if she does not realize that she s losing someone as you for a friend and the possibility of a boyfriend then yes she s going to throw away your relationship. Right...

Teen Dating Issues: girl problems, girl problems, savannah
girl problems, savannah: Hey Donny- Well just keep being yourself. Don t change just because you think she may like you being someone else. Just stay the way you are and continue being her friend and being there for her. That way you two will get to know one another better and...

Teen Dating Issues: girl problems, girl problems, whole time
girl problems, whole time, to extremes: She was very abusive and known for creating drama.. --- This sign shows to me she has a mental disorder. Now mental disorders are hard to name online and ALSO I am not a psychologist and for this I am not allowed to do this. Without help, I would not want...

Teen Dating Issues: girl problems, girl problems, just friends
girl problems, just friends, girlfriend: Well I think youre best bet considering all this is to leave her alone a while and give her time. You know what they say If you love something let it go and if it comes back its yours. Sometimes the best things for these type of people is to let them know...

Teen Dating Issues: girl problems., girl problems, whole time
girl problems, whole time, to extremes: Hey Andrew. First of all, it isn t true that you ll never get over her. You re only young and you are going to meet lots of people throughout your life. This girl seems to be very confusing. I say that she was attracted to you, but there was no love, that...

Teen Dating Issues: girl problems, girl problems, whole time
girl problems, whole time, to extremes: Honestly, I have no idea why your still questioning yourself. She seems completely out of control with her feelings, and seems childish with her ways. I think you would be much better off without her. Even if it doesn t seem like it now, I promise you will...

Teen Dating Issues: this girl i really like, biblical perspective, sense of humour
biblical perspective, sense of humour, lazy eye: Dear Rob, Ok, I hope I can help, and I want you to know that I am coming from a Biblical perspective and my own experience; I know the Word of God can help you Rob, and I hope I can too. Rob, I know that the feelings inside you can be very intense....

Teen Dating Issues: girl from school, girl talks, l8er
girl talks, l8er, facebook: Hi John. My reply to your question will be quick because it s 4:30a.m. and I ve been busy and sometimes gone all day/night. I am tired, and I am in a VERY bad position with my girlfriend right now. Therefore; i m setting my status to Vacation for at least...

Teen Dating Issues: girl at school, girl talks, girl at school
girl talks, girl at school, l8er: Hey John, Well you re shy because you really like her and you don t want to embarass yourself, that s normal. She could just be good friends with the other guy, don t let that bug you, just make sure they aren t dating, you don t want to interfere. As for...

Teen Dating Issues: this girl at school, girl at school, feelings
girl at school, feelings, expression: Luke, Well before you start thinking about getting into a relationship you ve got to gather up the confidence to go up to her and saying hi more often so she could atleast know that you re still there and that you want to be her friend. When you ve done...

Teen Dating Issues: About girl I am seing :), girl jenny, couple dates
girl jenny, couple dates, smile on her face: give her time and space to open up to you. she will respect you for that. dont keep asking her what it is or anything like that. be a gentlemen and respect her. just have fun with her and show her that you like her. give her little gifts and notes. stuff like...

Teen Dating Issues: Is the girl shy, or is she flirting with me ?, eye contact, good luck
eye contact, good luck, smile: Hey there, She s looking at you alot it seems and typically that means shes interested. Smile back and say hi in the halls and see how she reacts. If she doesn t smile and such to other guys, then she is definetly interested in you. Good luck! -jo =...

Teen Dating Issues: Is the girl shy, or is she flirting with me ?, signs of attraction, lucky card
signs of attraction, lucky card, allexperts: Hello there. Wow, this question is similar to one I just recieved a couple days ago, and with the same name also.. Either you re the same person, or it s just a very random lucky card drawn. Since it s soo similar, I ll just say what I did with that...

Teen Dating Issues: Is the girl shy, or is she flirting with me ?, hall cross, physical sports
hall cross, physical sports, walking down the hall: I m sorry for two reasons: 1. I took so long to respond 2. I know exactly how you feel. I just had a girl do something similar to me recently. She wanted to be serious, I didn t. But, when I did want to be serious, she decided it wasn t the...

Teen Dating Issues: Is the girl shy, or is she flirting with me ?, eye contact, time of day
eye contact, time of day, smile: HI Dani, I would say she is definately interested. In my experience, girls do not smile or give most guys the time of day if they are not interested, unless your already currently friends. I m not sure how old you are, because there is a big difference...

Teen Dating Issues: Is the girl shy, or is she flirting with me ?, eye contact, nerve
eye contact, nerve, smile: I think that she does like you, or has some kind of interest in you. Looking away when you see her and smiling at you is a sign of like. If you can work up the nerve ask her. I know this is a big step but think about it what s the worst that can happen? She...

Teen Dating Issues: Is the girl shy, or is she flirting with me ?, single thing, eye contact
single thing, eye contact, smile: Dani I have gotten this question so much and frankly , I am as confused as you guys are. I have no idea why many girls do this. My advice is , do not over-analyze and focus on every single thing a girl does. She might like you by the way , but do not do anything...

Teen Dating Issues: "About a girl" I can't believe I'm actually this confused..., new feelings, adicted
new feelings, adicted, bestfriend: Dillion - It sounds to me like she s been in a bad relationship before and she s afraid of getting close to you. I d try to find out what happened before and reassure her that you re not going to do whatever it is the other guy did to her. But I think...

Teen Dating Issues: A girl who i can't stop thinking about her, math class, mean girl
math class, mean girl, art classes: I recommend talking about school, life, or the news. Start off as her friend. If she doesn t give you her phone number, you can maybe pull it up in the school book or online. Or maybe even from another friend at school. About this girl who is mean, understand...

Teen Dating Issues: A girl with some terrible twists, morning bus, i pod
morning bus, i pod, early afternoon: I think a good way to start a conversation would be to ask her what music she s listening to, then you can talk about what kind of music you like, etc. She ll probably stop listening to music. You could have tiny conversations with her each day, every talk...

Teen Dating Issues: this one girl i thought loved me :(, myspace, gf
myspace, gf, hannah: i think you should confront her about this. if she is posting stuff on myspace then its really not private. you need to let her know that in order for a relationship to work both people have to be open and honest with each other. she cant be saying negative...

Teen Dating Issues: this one girl i thought loved me, gf, hannah
gf, hannah, point of view: HI Kyle, I can tell you that if she knows you went through her Myspace emails, that s most likely going to be a deal breaker right there. People don t like when their privacy is violated, even if they don t have anything to hide. If you want to approach...

Teen Dating Issues: girl trouble, how do i get a girlfriend, girl trouble
how do i get a girlfriend, girl trouble, world trust: Levi, I too went so a small school. I dated women from other schools. Now I didn t really start dating until after I got my license. And even then I didn t have a serious gf until my senior year. My point is, don t be in a hurry to get a gf. Not having...

Teen Dating Issues: girl trouble., real good friends, beast man
real good friends, beast man, proof plan: Nick, They re really isn t a way fool-proof plan for you to get out of this. One of the main things you have to ask yourself when dating someone that is already a friend is am I willing to lose her as a friend if things don t work out? . Sometimes people...

Teen Dating Issues: girl i like, t rush, couple days
t rush, couple days, out of the blue: okay, well i think you should not send her roses because that just maybe a little too forward. yes you like this girl but in time, things will get better and go your way. don t rush things. otherwise you ll loose out on a lot of oppurtunities with this...

Teen Dating Issues: i like a girle and am very confused, one of my best friends, girle
one of my best friends, girle, bestfriend: YOU ALREADY KNOW WHAT TO DO, LET HER GO. SOMETIMES IT TAKES ANOTHER PERSON TO LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU ALREADY KNOW WHATS BEST. TO BE FRIENDSHIP IS MORE IMPORTANT, CAUSE IF YOU DID GET WITH HER, YOUR BESTFRIEND MORE THAN LIKELY WILL NOT LIKE YOU. AND IF THINGS...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfiend lied about her age..., girlfiend, age of consent
girlfiend, age of consent, sexual activity: Doug, I admit that I am not familiar with Florida state laws, but generally speaking, simply kissing someone underage is not considered illegal. A similar question was asked on a website dedicated exclusively to discussions of law, and one attorney gave...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfreind is dating my best freind, old memories, new girls
old memories, new girls, girlfreind: Well you did the right thing, but everyone knows that the right thing doesn t always make you feel so good in the end. I ve actually gone through this very same scenerio a year ago, so I know what can help. I know it doesn t seem like it, but there ARE...

Teen Dating Issues: How to get a girlfriend, how to get a girlfriend, good luck
how to get a girlfriend, good luck, love: You like the girl...that u wanna know if she feels the same way towards you...She seems to like you & enjoy your company but the question is...does she like you as simply a friend or as smth more than just that???Well why don t you go ahead & talk to her telling...

Teen Dating Issues: i like him, but he has a girlfriend., one of my best friends, girlfriend
one of my best friends, girlfriend, best friend: Lora, From all the information you have given me, it sounds like he goes like you. By the looking at you, flirting with you, grabbing your hands, playfighting, laughing and talking on the phone and things, it really sounds like this guy likes you. But right...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend, vagina, oral sex
vagina, oral sex, girlfriend: Dear Brad, Well all girls give off a scent. Some stronger than others. she could ve just been getting off her period or simply eaten a food that made the smell strong! Dont worry about it unless you cant stand it or it gets worse. Then you need to ask...

Teen Dating Issues: getting a girlfriend, getting a girlfriend, unusual sports
getting a girlfriend, unusual sports, school environment: I think you should hang out with her outside of school and see if you get any signals from her that make you think she might be interested and go from there. When you get people out of the school environment, they can seem like completely different people....

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriend, shallow guy, romantics
shallow guy, romantics, virginity: Just do things that neiter of you have done (or one of you hasn t done) and you really want to do. Like sky diving. That s always fun. And you know, a lot of girls dream of going to the mall with their boyfriends, or ice skating. Or dancing. Surprise...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend, fellin, realtionship
fellin, realtionship, beggin: Christian, it sounds to me like you guys are transitioning out of the everything is new phase of your relationship. Nothing is going wrong, it s just becoming a daily thing, a part of your lives. This is where couples fail the most because they think that...

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriend, private problem, fellin
private problem, fellin, private matters: Well do you tell her everything that goes on in your life? Do you tell her about family problems and private matters that would get her worrying even if she didn t have to know? She may be trying to save you from having to worry too much. I don t think your...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend, compromise, girlfriend
compromise, girlfriend, parents: To Lance, Well I must say her parents are pretty unreasonable! Unfortunately, a lot of parents are like this with their children. They don t trust their kids with dating because they re afraid of what could happen. What your girl should do is talk to her...

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriend, advice giver, 13 year olds
advice giver, 13 year olds, fyi: Hello, The law that I must go by as an advice giver states that 11 and 13 year olds should not be dating. In many areas this is illegal. The problem with dating at this age also reflects cultures. Many cultures do not like this. My advice is talk to your...

Teen Dating Issues: getting a girlfriend, getting a girlfriend, girl 6
getting a girlfriend, girl 6, eight months: Hello Colin! It sounds like you are not comfortable around her or you just don t know what to do! Why hasn t it worked out before? Do what feels right, I haven t made out with my boyfriend yet and it has been eight months! I would keep things slow, but show...

Teen Dating Issues: I like him but he has a girlfriend, guilt, girlfriend
guilt, girlfriend, feelings: Jen, The only way that you are ever going to get over him is to try and find another guy, hopefully one who is available to you at the time. Since it sounds like you are friends with him and his girlfriend, it would be very difficult to try to break them...

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriend, going psycho, sexual tension
going psycho, sexual tension, brick wall: Hey Austin- Well try talking to her again about this and let her know how she s making you feel with her being so distant from you. I mean there s got to be something going on with him to be like that towards you. So talk to her about it and be honest...

Teen Dating Issues: I like him, but he has a girlfriend., single guy, vibes
single guy, vibes, half years: Regina, I always say , if there is a girlfriend then this guy has gotta go. He has a girl which he has been with for long so why is he trying to mess with you? If he is unhappy , then he should break up. THEN he should start being with you , not the opposite....

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend, places to go on dates, real girlfriend
places to go on dates, real girlfriend, lengthy letter: Many relationships that start at school start out very casual, but it seems to me that you guys need to spend more time together. If you see her standing with her friends go over and say hi, any type of verbal communication is good. And get to know her friends...

Teen Dating Issues: I like him, but he has a girlfriend., two and a half years, vibes
two and a half years, vibes, cheek: I can t tell you what he is thinking either, but I can say that maybe you should take a chance with him. It seems that he likes you but, if you think about it, if you and him are going out for two and a half years will he do this to you? Do you know this...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend, great relationship, freshman year
great relationship, freshman year, day time: Friendship comes with time. It s not something you build in one day. Time is the main factor in a friendship. The more you guys talk to more you ll get to know each other and the closer you guys will get. Just be your self. -Remember, keep life in-between...

Teen Dating Issues: I like him but he has a girlfriend, new girlfriend, playing it by ear
new girlfriend, playing it by ear, hook up: Hello Rozee, Does this guy know how you feel about him? I know you said that you flirt all the time and see each other everyday, but does he REALLY know that you re REALLY into him? If not, you might want to try to talk to him before the beach trip and...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend, time girls, honest conversation
time girls, honest conversation, scary time: Well I think it s important to tell her how you feel, and have an open and honest conversation about everything. Let her know that it s important to you that she fully understands how she makes you feel, and that you really do care about her. Then find out...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting my girlfriend back, rough times, human beings
rough times, human beings, clue: Hello Mr. Jay, how are ya? Well you know I m going to be honest cause that s my job (as a person). I want to tell you the truth. The first thing I am going to be really honest with you, you must really need to care about her because once I tell you what I...

Teen Dating Issues: getting my girlfriend back, streached, perfect couple
streached, perfect couple, rough times: hey jay, i wish i could just say that things are going to be alright and tell you how to get her back but icant. i went through this on a much deeper level a year ago. things were fine with me and my fiance, we were happy, living together, everyone thought...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting my girlfriend back, words of encouragement, rough times
words of encouragement, rough times, sudden change: Hey Jay. I m really pleased all has gone well so far, and well done for talking to her. I hope you ve realised it was the best thing to do. I do hope all the best for you and that she realises she has feelings for you. I wish all the best in so many ways....

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriend of 8 months wants a break, break time, stupid stuff
break time, stupid stuff, best of luck: Hey Blake. Thanks for getting in touch. I will try and help the best I can. If you re girlfriend and you have been arguing a lot, I can see why she wants a break. Time apart will do you both good and make you realise what you feel for each other and could...

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriend, stis, girlfriend
stis, girlfriend, aids: You do not know what love is. You mean like. Please review this word. When we started dating, she was sixteen and had had sex with SIX guys before me ---- Be careful. I recommend her to be tested for STIs and AIDs. And I recommend you to too. You should talk...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend, long distance relationship, difficult transition
long distance relationship, difficult transition, seven months: I am in a similar situation as you in regards to the long distance relationship. Distance causes a problem for all couples no matter how long you have been dating. Arguments are bound to occur, often more now because you cannot see each other as often, yet...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend is abused by her family, tricky situation, biblegateway com passage
tricky situation, biblegateway com passage, hot day: Dear Mark! Man, this is a tricky situation. If he really is beating his daughter then the police needs to be called. I would go to talk to some law enforcement about this. But, if you push this and your girlfriend does not then it could destroy your...

Teen Dating Issues: Me and my girlfriend argue, and need to way to settle them healthier, right move, tention
right move, tention, salvage: Is this really love? How to Know if You re Really in Love --- Include ages How to Make the Right Move How to Work Out Arguments With a Loved One These are areas I recommend on this site I can also help with the other problem at hand...

Teen Dating Issues: me and my girlfriend arguing, long term relationship, girlfriend
long term relationship, girlfriend, good luck: Nick, I understand your situation and it s normally to take things out on people, especially when you re in a long-term relationship and have family problems. Maybe you and your girlfriend should consider taking a break, just while you try and get through...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend is boy crazy and im to clingy, latley, histroy
latley, histroy, cheerleading: i think you should find some friends to hang out with more. that way you are not always with her. if you keep hanging around her all the time you may drive her away from you. give her some space but continue to act the same way you always do. hope that helped!...

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriend has changed..., lunch time, last november
lunch time, last november, dismay: Hello, This is Exper Dan. I received your question in the Question Pool area. Let me review your question. First off I am glad that this site exists also. It has helped saved a lot of people. I know for a fact. A number of years ago one of the people who...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend is interested in sexual things but I'm not., emotional connection, rest of our lives
emotional connection, rest of our lives, girlfriend: Have you told her all of this? That you feel like you don t have to be intimate all the time to make things work? You should tell her that you find her attractive and you love her more than anything and this has nothing to do with you not wanting to be...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend needs to find herself., mixed signals, talk to girls
mixed signals, talk to girls, those girls: I would understand why her mixed signals are confusing you because it s making you feel like at some point she wants to be with you, wants you to hold her and stuff and then she just suddenly starts pushing you away, to me this only shows that deep down there...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend only wants to be friends now, first kiss, shy girl
first kiss, shy girl, eachother: Harris, well first of all hi, my name is Lauren, and I m sorry if it took me awhile to get to you. Well first of all to understand her feelings you kind of already did. You said she is a sensitive, energetic, and shy girl which hasnt been in a close relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting over my girlfriend's past problem, last september, girlfriend
last september, girlfriend, smile: being jeoulis is a normal feeling. you havent been dating for that long so the trust of a long relationship is not there. and this whole is based on trust. do you trust her? thats the question you have to ask yourself. people make mistakes. some people can...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend and a problem, one of the boys, different boys
one of the boys, different boys, bad thoughts: hi dylan, to be honest, these seems like a pretty heavy burden for someone so young - i m just glad that you re reaching out and finding someone to talk too. i know that it s hard to open up to your girlfriend about these things, but no matter how hard you...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend problems, girlfriend problems, chantell
girlfriend problems, chantell, little bit: Hey Max, It sounds to me like you guys don t really know each other, which is probably why it feels awkward. You guys wouldn t be dating if she didn t like you, but you both need to give the relationship a little bit more effort if it s going to work out....

Teen Dating Issues: He has a girlfriend sholud i like him, breack, girl stuff
breack, girl stuff, bad person: hey jade, from what you ve told me, i think you should be careful around this guy. i m sure he s a good person and all, but his actions could prove otherwise. he has a girlfriend yet it seems like he s flirting with you. that s not the kind of person you...

Teen Dating Issues: get back with my girlfriend....that is taken already, groupd, close friends
groupd, close friends, friendships: I mma start answering from the bottom questions come up. If you really want to find out who she feels about him it s best to go to the direct source and ask her, if you do choose to do that you will need her alone away from her friends and him. Somewhere...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend and her trip., friend nicole, out of the blue
friend nicole, out of the blue, old friend: Dear Michael, I understand why you would be nervous. However, you truly need to trust your girlfriend. She shouldn t be influenced by others and if she is than she may not be the kind of girlfriend you want. You should definately tell her how you feel regarding...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend trouble, little poem, handmade card
little poem, handmade card, cheeck: This is a tough situation and I am very sorry that you and her are going through this. I understand your pain and I also know what it is like to want to end it all, I have been in both of your shoes. When she says that she doesnt think that you dont care about...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend vs. best friend, exsisting, asking this question
exsisting, asking this question, girlfriend: No you re not out of line. If something your boyfriend is doing bugs you then you have the right to talk to be upset. If it bugs you that there spending so much time together then you should really talk to your Boyfriend about this. Maybe he doesn t realize...

Teen Dating Issues: My girlfriend and her weight, healthy lifestyle, eating habits
healthy lifestyle, eating habits, girlfriend: Marcus, I can t say that I have dealt with an issue like that before, but my advice is that if you aren t already active, start becoming active yourself and try to get her involved. Eat healthy yourself and hope that it influences her. The worst thing...

Teen Dating Issues: How to get a girlfriend, volenter, how to get a girlfriend
volenter, how to get a girlfriend, gurl: 1. You very well could be in love with her. It wouldn t suprise me. 2. Me personally being a gurl I like the old fashoned type. Be really sweet, but not fakey, and most of all, be yourself. I know that sounds lame but seriously, dont change for anyone,...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriends parents, resposible, girlfriend
resposible, girlfriend, parents: Luke- Having been in a similar situation before, try hanging out together in front of them more and more. Once they see that you can be trusted things will hopefully change. Make sure that your girlfriend says good things about you to her parents, that...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriends, good relationship, 10th grade
good relationship, 10th grade, mackenzie: Hey Mackenzie- Well to have a good relationship just respect the girl your with. I mean if she doesn t want you to do someting dont do it. Also be honest with her.. Most importantly just be a gentlemen. I hope this helps. If you need anything else im always...

Teen Dating Issues: girlS?, places to go on dates, real girlfriend
places to go on dates, real girlfriend, first girlfriend: Well Mr. Taran hi, (like ur name) my name is Lauren Jeff, and I am really so glad that you asked me this question as your first girlfriend. Ok, well I know there is a difference between love and a first girlfriend. My friend I think she s 24 now just had her...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, places to go on dates, real girlfriend
places to go on dates, real girlfriend, lengthy letter: Taran, I believe that it is up to you to take this relationship to the next level. Even though you have little expereience in the dating field, it sounds that she is in a smiliar situation. Holding hands should be something that can be done almost right...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, places to go on dates, real girlfriend
places to go on dates, real girlfriend, 6 flags: hey taran, okay ill try to answer each and every one of your questions a wave and a smile from her and her friends is a way to acknowledge you and yes it could be taken as a sign to go join them. you should try it. cant hurt. you ll get to spend a lil...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, initial conversation, hellos
initial conversation, hellos, good luck: well hopefully she will not be into your body as much as your personlality. i think you should try and find out more about her. think about what you want to say to her before hand. start off by asking her some questions about herself. just think about how...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, bad person, savannah
bad person, savannah, girls: Hey Dylan- Do you mean go out with them as in as a date or what? If you mean as in going out with all 3 I don t think that it would be a good idea. Not only will it hurt all 3 girls but it could really make you look like a bad person for doing such a thing....

Teen Dating Issues: girls, relation ships, foot ball
relation ships, foot ball, wile: Nick, Well I wouldn t say there s something wrong with you..it s more like she needs to figure out who and hat she wnats...not because other guys like her means she has to like them back. She has to make a decision and if she chooses you then she nees to...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, instant messanger, mall restaurants
instant messanger, mall restaurants, food place: Well, these are very good questions. To your first one, I think some good places to hang out are at the mall, restaurants, bowling alleys, and a good place to hang out without it being awkward is the movie theatres. There, you don t have to talk, but you can...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, homework, relationships
homework, relationships, girls: Hello Bob! You both are very young and you both still have your high school and college years to find relationships! But I would say ask her if she needs help with the homework or if it is possible you two could go out to dinner. How are you so sure she doesn...

Teen Dating Issues: Two girls, two girls, inner circle
two girls, inner circle, choose one: well you dont want to try and get a girl into any relationship. it has to happen naturally. there is nothing wrong with dating both of them at the same time to find out which one you like better. you may find out you dont want to date either one. just dont...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, sense of humor, initials
sense of humor, initials, laughter: I know that for me me and my boyfriend met over laughter and we ve going out almost 6 months. I feel that it is important basically because I love to laugh and smile. Many girls do enjoy a guy that can make them laugh, because when you think about it there...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, clean slate, new girlfriend
clean slate, new girlfriend, serious relationship: Hello Joe, Serious relationships often take a lot of time to get over, even after we ve decided to move on. It s understandable that you still have strong feelings for your ex at this point, so try not to feel too guilty about it. That being said, I think...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, first hope, good luck
first hope, good luck, courage: Hi Anthony, Don t use drinking as a way to talk to girls. Your friends must be insecure if they have to dring in order to talk to girls. Can you start off slow and just say hello to a girl. You dont have to ask one out right away. Maybe be friends with...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, talking to girls, comfy spot
talking to girls, comfy spot, dear john: Taran- Relax and take a deep breath! Girls are one of the most confusing species around. To figure out what they are thinking would be a miracle! If her best friend mentioned something, your answer will go right back to the girl, not matter what. ...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, dession, girls
dession, girls: You are going to be scared either way, so you just need to go for it. Dont second think it, it wont help. And dont look in her eyes when you talk to her look at her nose or something just dont make it noticable. You are scared because you like her, it is perfectly...

Teen Dating Issues: girls, cuz, dedication
cuz, dedication, alex: Joe- I think guys that play any kind of instrument are interesting. It takes a lot of dedication, time, and practice to perfect your skills. I think girls will find thta cute- that you take time to pursue something. ...

Teen Dating Issues: what to do with girls, places to go on dates, real girlfriend
places to go on dates, real girlfriend, answering your questions: Hi Taran, (that s a nice name..very unique) Nothing is wrong with the letter its quite short, plus I don t mind answering all your questions. I will try my best in answering your questions one by one. First let s start with you re shyness (both of you)...If...

Teen Dating Issues: Do girls like boys who try hard or not ?, romantic feelings, different girls
romantic feelings, different girls, gorgeous girl: Hello Dani, Different girls like different things; some girls hate it when guys really go out of their way to show that they re interested, others love getting all the attention, while still others enjoy some effort but not too much. So I d say that it...

Teen Dating Issues: Do girls like boys who try hard or not ?, gorgeous girl, skl
gorgeous girl, skl, pretty face: Hey Dani, first of all, i thought your story was pretty cool. :-) about your question... girls always find attention from boys flaterring, but sometimes that attention can be a bit much and it gets downright annoying. from the way you described the guys...

Teen Dating Issues: Do girls like boys who try hard or not ?, keep your distance, gorgeous girl
keep your distance, gorgeous girl, skl: Well, it s usually said that girls like the asshole type of guy. The type that doesn t give them their full undivided attention and this could be drawing herself to you. However, something else could be drawing attention from you. Maybe she just finds that...

Teen Dating Issues: Do girls like boys who try hard or not ?, gorgeous girl, skl
gorgeous girl, skl, those guys: Well, I d say it s obvious she likes you, but it depends on which girl it is. Also, trying too hard works in some cases and IS embarrassing in others. It s not that trying too hard to not at all is the difference. It s how much confidence is...

Teen Dating Issues: Do girls like boys who try hard or not ?, straight answer, gorgeous girl
straight answer, gorgeous girl, skl: Depends on the girl. i know you re probably hating me right now because i can t give you a straight answer, but thats the truth. Some girls find it amusing and pretty much demand it that a guy tries hard and gives her attention and then other girls just want...

Teen Dating Issues: Do girls like boys who try hard or not ?, gorgeous girl, skl
gorgeous girl, skl, high expectations: Dani, I wouldnt think into what happened between you and her too much. Im glad that you dont try TOO hard, because, well, that s the mistake that all kinds of men make. You re right about not having high expectations, but don t make that about his girl...

Teen Dating Issues: Do girls like boys who try hard or not ?, gorgeous girl, skl
gorgeous girl, skl, those guys: I tell people to be them selves. But, you can ask in our psychology more about your above question. State ages in the future. Dating at certain ages could be illegal. I question why you like this person and without more information I won t say anything...

Teen Dating Issues: Do girls like boys who try hard or not ?, personal goal, gorgeous girl
personal goal, gorgeous girl, anythin: Well, i always have a lot of guys on me because I am a jock, I am a great one at that and people see and like that. Not to mention that I have a full figured body. I met my boyfriend when I got switched from Chemistry to Integrated Science II A ( which...

Teen Dating Issues: girls and dating, question thanks, rough times
question thanks, rough times, little respect: Andrew you need to leave it alone. I don t know how many times I can tell you this. She wants to hurt you, thats what she s always wanted. Clearly it s working and getting your attention which is exactly what she wants. Leave her alone. Ignore her and just...

Teen Dating Issues: girls! lol, friends talk, oppurtunity
friends talk, oppurtunity, bad mood: Because I don t have past questions or answers, I m going to say this: If you are her friend, your job is to support her. If she broke up with someone and she is in a bad mood, talk to her about this. Do not abuse your friendship to get her to want to date...

Teen Dating Issues: girls! lol, tensions, chill
tensions, chill, good luck: Hi Gerard, I reread your question, and I understand the situation more now. Start going out with her with her just as friends, just hanging out. Chill with your friends, meet her friends. It eases the tensions a little, and you will have some fun. Then, take...

Teen Dating Issues: girls lol!, bf, 3 years
bf, 3 years, good luck: sounds like your doing a fine job. wait a few days and then ask her again. if she keeps making accusses then maybe she knows and doesnt want to date. once you start dating keep in mind that if things dont work out its sometimes hard to remain friends. good...

Teen Dating Issues: girls! lol, bf, savannah
bf, savannah, 3 years: Hey Gerard- Just give her time.. I mean she did just break up with her boyfriend and Im sure she s still trying to get over him. So just give her time to do just that. I mean you still can be there for her as a friend but don t push it she needs this time...

Teen Dating Issues: girls! lol, easiest thing, good friend
easiest thing, good friend, compliment: Gerard, I m glad that even you are taking the fact that she just got out of a relationship into consideration. Because of the circumstances, I would definately continue to take things slow. It s hard to tell how she really feels about you, but one...

Teen Dating Issues: girls! lol, eachother, bf
eachother, bf, 3 years: Gerard - I think you should wait a little bit and build more of a friendship with her before making a move. Keep talking to her about whatever and when you guys get more familiar with eachother then it would be appropriate to make a move. Ashle...

Teen Dating Issues: girls only school?, girls school, e mail
girls school, e mail, lol: Ingrid, I would just try to strike up a conversation with the guy first. If things go well, either get his e-mail or phone #. It s better to get to know somebody before actually asking them out. That way, you know what it is that you re getting into....

Teen Dating Issues: girls, hey jay, breaking the ice
hey jay, breaking the ice, hey mr: Hey Jay, Way to go man! You got her number, that s great. I think that if this girl gave you her number than that s a sign of her wanting to pursue a friendship with you. Who knows after that you might want to go and catch a movie at the cinema. DOn t worry...

Teen Dating Issues: girlss, places to go on dates, real girlfriend
places to go on dates, real girlfriend, lengthy letter: Ok well lets see here...She likes you oviously!! and if shes your girl friend she wants you to come and join the group!! and she wants to talk to you!! and she wants to get to know you better!! i think that talking on the phone is a good idea!! because that...

Teen Dating Issues: girlss, places to go on dates, real girlfriend
places to go on dates, real girlfriend, things to do on a date: i think communication is very important in any relationship. if she is saying its ok to join her group of friends then i would. just dont over do it and give her her space as well. take it slow and dont worry about the little things right now. have fun and...

Teen Dating Issues: girrll, yesturday, exclusiv
yesturday, exclusiv, tho: Hey Andrew- Well just let it be her day and find out where and what she wants to do.. Just make the date revolve around her. So things she may like to do. Also take her to her favorite places. Things like that. I hope this helps. Take Care, Savanna...

Teen Dating Issues: what has he given me., warts, eachother
warts, eachother, lice: Hi, If he cared about you, he would have told you about this. And than not done that stuff. In my state if someone gives someone else AIDs and didn t tell them before hand, they could be charged with a crime. Maybe it s the same where you are and if so I...

Teen Dating Issues: gonig to college, first love, plenty of time
first love, plenty of time, girlfriend: Bryan, Wow, honey, you are intense. The first thing you need to do is calm down and realize that you are only 16. I know that, at that age, you think that your first love is the truest and the only one for you. And while that is the case for the select...

Teen Dating Issues: What am i gonna do now?, using computers, waste of time
using computers, waste of time, best time: Jason - I think you should listen to her and move on. You can still talk to her and hang out with her but you shouldn t be passing up good opportunities that could come by. You shouldn t make a move on her now because she might just be using you as a...

Teen Dating Issues: having a good conversation, bad car, good conversation
bad car, good conversation, personal issues: Well, there are different kinds of loves that one can have for another. But loving someone and being in love with someone is different. In my opinion, loving someone is where you love the person for who they are and you ll always love that person. Being in...

Teen Dating Issues: good conversations, awkward silences, phone conversations
awkward silences, phone conversations, convos: Katie, Some people just arent good at talking on the phone. So that means u have to make the most out of the conversations that u have in person. U cant make someone good at talking on the phone, really. Alot of ppl just dont like it, and they dont even...

Teen Dating Issues: Being good enough, guardian angel, ups and downs
guardian angel, ups and downs, boy friends: WEll, I understand you have had some difficulty, and not every therapist is the best. But you should find another one. And I m sure the therapist had no idea that guy would rape you. Try to find someone else, and work with your boyfriend, your other adult...

Teen Dating Issues: am I not good enough?, judo master, art exhibitions
judo master, art exhibitions, sensitive girl: I met this girl online a few months ago --- I do not promote online dating due to safety issues. How old are you all? bisexual girl --- I m not a bisexual relationship expert, yet I will attempt to help you. I do recommend our special bisexual relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this a good way to ask her out?, becca, pencil
becca, pencil, laugh: I think that it is a corny kind of cute. I think that it will work. It made me laugh and that s always a plus with girls being able to make them laugh. I like how you have it all figured out. Markeisha Barbee P.S. Go for it...let me know how it goes...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this a good way to ask her out?, becca, pencil
becca, pencil, good luck: Hello Paul, It certainly sounds like you ve given this plan a lot of thought! I like it, and the only suggestion I have would be to have an answer prepared in case she says yes when you ask for pencil A back. For example, if she says yes, then you could...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this a good way to ask her out?, becca, pencil
becca, pencil, creativity: I think it s pretty creative. A lot of guys don t factor in creativity into asking a girl out but it sounds to me like you ve got things handled man. Just make sure to deliver it with confidence and honestly and i think you ll do great. -Remember, keep...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this a good way to ask this girl on a date?, school dance, sophomore
school dance, sophomore, savannah: Everything sounds good except one thing. Maybe for now you should leave out the you re definitely broken up with your boyfriend. I am not so sure that sounds good and she may not want to be reminded of that because the pain may still be too fresh. Relationships...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this a good way to ask a girl to go on a date?, school dance, convo
school dance, convo, savannah: Hey Paul- I wouldn t really start the convo with asking her if she s definitely broken up with her boyfriend. Just simply ask her if she wants to maybe hang out and everything. Then take it from there. I hope this helps. If you need anything else im always...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this a good wayt to ask her out?, open invitation, wayt
open invitation, wayt, exact words: Paul, You seem to have most of this down. You seem pretty good at flirting, but as far as going on a date goes, I don t suggest calling it a date outright. Just maybe an open invitation. For example... Aside from all of this pencil business, just say...

Teen Dating Issues: is he good for me?, other crap, loving relationship
other crap, loving relationship, offence: Emilee, you can t let something like this control you. Our past does not define us, our present does. I can understand your trust issue, and i don t for a second blame you. But you can t do this alone. You have to let people in to get over this, as ironic...

Teen Dating Issues: great friends, should we go out?, heart break, great friends
heart break, great friends, best of luck: Do you only like her because of her body, and the hook-up, or did you like her before all of that? It s against me to date some one purely for those reasons, but I also think it makes for terrible heart break and pain. In all honesty, I am going through...

Teen Dating Issues: great looking guy but single, wrong girl, wrong impression
wrong girl, wrong impression, paris hilton: Hass, girls are human beings too, don t be afraid to approach girls you like, just be yourself and you won t make the wrong impression, you may wonder how to ask them out, all it takes is getting to know each other, as soon as she s comftable with you, just...

Teen Dating Issues: Does all great things need to end?, eigth grade, eleventh grade
eigth grade, eleventh grade, little hope: Hi David, Thanks for your question. I can only imagine how hard it must be for you. I think that through the time you were dating, you forgot to work on building attraction with her...and that may be the root cause of the situation at hand. Don t...

Teen Dating Issues: group date, guy friends, saw 4
guy friends, saw 4, sophomore: If it s just you, her, and a bunch of your guy friends then NO. Thats a huge mistake. But if they do bring along some girls and it is more of a group date type thing. if not it screams friend. If you want to ask her out then go for it. See if she wants...

Teen Dating Issues: we may grow apart from each other!, long distance relationship, relationship work
long distance relationship, relationship work, trust issue: Carven, Hello. 30-60 minutes apart is really not that bad. Chances are you will not have classes on the weekends, so as long as you are both willing to travel on weekends to see one another, there shouldn t be a major issue. If you are used to seeing...

Teen Dating Issues: Are we growing apart?, romantic feelings, going to mexico
romantic feelings, going to mexico, back of my mind: Dominique, You are on the right track yes..he may have been getting tired of waiting on you so i definitely do not suggest that you wait till February to see what happens, that may be TOO late. This need to be done as soon as possible, before you do it though...

Teen Dating Issues: just some guidance, time heidi, sweet talks
time heidi, sweet talks, rough time: people make mistakes.....sounds like you know you did and thats good. if you tought it was no big deal then that would be more of a problem. since you know you made a mistake i would just move on and learn from it. stop talking to the guy and dont give him...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting the guy back, own time, girls
own time, girls: hey Lisa, well i would talk to him and possibly show him the time of his life with you like a date or something just to show him what he is missing ;). but good could come out of it he would get his time to think and figure out everything he needed too. i...

Teen Dating Issues: there's this guy, leadership role, shy guy
leadership role, shy guy, girl power: Hey Kate! I will try and help you the best I can. First of all I don t suggest that you ask a guy out. Its much better if you let the guy take the leadership role in the relationship (I mean I m all for girl power but we deserve to be romanced). THe only...

Teen Dating Issues: This guy....., kind of hurt, happends
kind of hurt, happends, backstory: I hate to tell you this but I think you have feelings for this guy. And the only thing you can do, if hes not a terrible guy is allow him to get close to you if he wants to. You kind of blew it before (no offence everyones done it) so hopefully its not...

Teen Dating Issues: This guy....., kind of hurt, backstory
kind of hurt, backstory, nice girl: To me it sounds like the point of having all these crushes IS to get you jealous! You probubly did hurt him when you turned him down, and he wanted to test your feelings. Apparently it worked, because you have realized that you do like him. Try explaing things...

Teen Dating Issues: There's this guy..., personal questions
personal questions: Hi! Its normal for people to feel this way when they meet someone online, you should ask him whatever you feel you need to know, and let him know that you need to know more about him. I do that all the time. I let them know I need to know more, and we go...

Teen Dating Issues: There's this guy..., slow reply, home doesn
slow reply, home doesn, boundries: Eveline, Sorry for the slow reply, my computer at home doesn t seem to be sending my answer back to you, since I have tried it a couple times already. Anywho, different women want to know different things about a guy. What you expect from him and what...

Teen Dating Issues: guy, band competition, friend doesn
band competition, friend doesn, adn: Well it might not occur but some guys do recognize those things like you having your foot on his and leaning on him, he probably just played it off, played it cool. In some way I can say with surety that he does have some sort of feeling for you because you...

Teen Dating Issues: this guy, easiest thing
easiest thing: hi mya, first you should ask yourself if you think he likes you...for example does he get nervous around you? does he sound like hes talking to you as if you were just another friend of his? and then the easiest thing to do would be too just tell him that...

Teen Dating Issues: this guy, sense of humor, curiousity
sense of humor, curiousity, 17 years: Sharny, Don t worry about whether or not you have a chance with him. You can t think like that, you have to think When am I going to start up a conversation with him? Just approach him sometime and start up a friendly conversation. It doesn t have to...

Teen Dating Issues: This guy..., kiss on the lips, niceness
kiss on the lips, niceness, homeroom: Sarah, The only way he ll get over you is if you cut him off completely. Stop talking to him, don t even look at him, just be really cold. He s feeding off of your niceness and for some reason he takes anything you give him as a sign of interest. If you...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting a guy, relationship relationships, true friend
relationship relationships, true friend, martial arts club: Elise, the best way to get a guy is just to be his honest and true friend. There s a saying it goes You marry your best friend and i can t count how many times I ve seen it. Just get to be his friend first, maybe hang out with him as friends somewhere, then...

Teen Dating Issues: there's this guy . . ., times sake, hes
times sake, hes, good luck: Hey there, Hum, do you know what it was that caused you two to drift apart? Call him up again and ask if he wants to go see a movie or something for old times sake. Then flirt like MAD! Have fun with it. Laugh, giggle, punch his arm when he says something...

Teen Dating Issues: There's this guy . . ., straight truth, akward
straight truth, akward, hes: Hi Emily. This situation actually pretty welll for you. Because you re both inexperienced you both may feel kind of akward and new for you, which will make it easier on your part. It will probably be difficult for you, and you ll have to muster up some courage,...

Teen Dating Issues: this guy, small stuff, convo
small stuff, convo, comfort zone: Lori, You have to estabish a comfort zone with this guy when talking to him in person. You cant always necessarily get somebody to do something for you. It s not always going to be that easy. So you make the move. Just find a chance during the day...

Teen Dating Issues: The guy, mutual friend, definatly
mutual friend, definatly, free time: Hello again Samantha, Thanks for posting the follow-up. :) The first thing I d suggest would be to ask your mutual friend (if you haven t already done so) to tell you as much about this guy as she can. Her boyfriend might also be a valuable source of information,...

Teen Dating Issues: There's this guy I like..., childhood crush, band bus
childhood crush, band bus, guy friends: Hi Breanna, I would say he definitely likes you. I remember a childhood crush I had on a girl I grew up with, and one night I was at her house, and we were lying on the floor watching TV, and I started holding her hand, and intertwining it like he does...

Teen Dating Issues: this guy, hook up, boyfriends
hook up, boyfriends, proactive: Even text messaging is a little much if he has a girlfriend. The girlfriend may take that a little be offensive especially since you KNOW that he s with someone. You can still talk to him on e-mail, hang out as friends with people though. You have to see...

Teen Dating Issues: There's this guy..., standing in the hallway, southern gentleman
standing in the hallway, southern gentleman, strange mood: If your parents, your best friend, and a trusted teacher all who see you tow interact say that they think he likes you then chances are he probably likes you. You have to remember, their objective, and they see more form different angles then you do. If...

Teen Dating Issues: This guy..., band trip, frusterated
band trip, frusterated, sounds silly: Andrea, First off I would not disregard what everyone has told you about this boy, but I would not base everything on that either. I think you should try to get to know him. If it turns out that he is the way that everyone says he is, then you need to...

Teen Dating Issues: This guy...., daughter stephanie, lawnmower
daughter stephanie, lawnmower, flea market: First let me say I cannot tell you if someone likes you or does not like you. I can say what you told me may only be half the story and for this I do not even want to guess if he likes you or not. It s a special type of bias. It goes into the field of psychology....

Teen Dating Issues: a guy, sakes, gurl
sakes, gurl, liking: Hello there this is Lauren, sorry it took me awhile to get to you, I ve been busy trying to get school started. Ok, well first of all I REALLY know what liking somebody means, but gurl if you don t have to stick with this guy then don t. Well first of all...

Teen Dating Issues: a guy and me, homecoming dance, dating girls
homecoming dance, dating girls, guy friend: I guess you could ask him if you wanted but i think you should just wait for him to ask you. Flirt and stuff to make sure he knows you like him back, but if he cant find the guts to ask you to the homecoming dance, he probably wont be a very good boyfrien...

Teen Dating Issues: guy i like, savannah, dreams
savannah, dreams: Hey Sarah- Well just maybe try calling him or texting him asking him about how he asked you to the movies and everything and see whats going on with him. I mean ask him why he asked you to the movies and wouldn t even call you or texted you back. If you...

Teen Dating Issues: A guy, elbows, conversations
elbows, conversations, sophomore: Hey Eva! Well, it looks like this guy has finally woken up and smelt the coffee! I think that maybe he s starting to actually like you better as a friend. So just keep doing what your doing and see how he reacts, if he gets more touchy feely, then go for...

Teen Dating Issues: i like this guy, friend cristina, little kids
friend cristina, little kids, good luck: Hey Michelle. I m pleased your friend Cristina has moved on and with someone else now, but the main thing is that she s happy, and she is, so that s great! If you like this guy, then you should wave and say Hi, and in time, proceed to actually make conversation...

Teen Dating Issues: A guy's advice..., secret feelings, current boyfriend
secret feelings, current boyfriend, guy friends: Well, you re right, it s not really a question. But I see what you re getting at and I have a good idea how you feel. It s not really a paranoia since, as much as you ve told me, no one is trying to hurt you. However, it can be a little frustrating...

Teen Dating Issues: my guy cant kiss, first kiss, chickens
first kiss, chickens, lola: Hey there, Hmmm, now let me ask you something. Do you love him for him, or for a guy you can kiss and etc.? If you do love him for him, then you should be okay with waiting for him to get comfortable, but if you really think you can t wait, then maybe it...

Teen Dating Issues: Going out with a guy you dont know that well, myspace, olivia
myspace, olivia, savannah: Hey Olivia- Well just stay with him and everything. Don t stop going out with him just because you really don t know him.. Just while you two are going out just start asking him about himself that way you do get to know him better. I hope this helps. If...

Teen Dating Issues: How do i get the guy of my dreams?, sad love songs, girlies
sad love songs, girlies, best of luck: Brittany- You should let this whole thing blow over. Give yourself an ultimate boy break. Also, let him see that you re fine, and that you re super confident. It takes a lot of guts to tell a guy how you feel about him, especially something as personal as...