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Teen Dating Issues: Where is our relationship/friendship heading?, ordinary couple, candy bars
ordinary couple, candy bars, space and time: Sam- Thanks for the question and for including all the details! Since your question is more complex to tell than answer, I can provide you with some rapid information. What are are doing is great. Stay open with feelings and communication and do what...

Teen Dating Issues: Where is our relationship/friendship heading?, ordinary couple, candy bars
ordinary couple, candy bars, space and time: sam- im sorry, i m pretty sure that i already answered your question last night! maybe something went wrong, i dont know. i dont mind answering it again, though. i think that you re going about things the right way. i think if you really wanted to start...

Teen Dating Issues: Where is our relationship/friendship heading?, ordinary couple, candy bars
ordinary couple, candy bars, space and time: Sam, This is absolutly wonderful. You are doing everything you possible can, there isn t much more that you can do. You give her space, and respect. You care about her and you show it. Theres nothing else you can do. But if you truly like her, since you...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship issue, relationship issue, facebook
relationship issue, facebook, homecoming: Well, you have quite a situation. If he won t talk to you or respond to you, you ll have to go around him. Try talking to one of his friends. Tell one of them the words you told me that convey the misunderstanding (without em / with adam ). At the...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship jealously, guts, ex girlfriend
guts, ex girlfriend, relationship: Nikki Thanks for having the guts to talk to another guy! Honestly, I don t think he has any right to tell you who to talk to. When my ex-girlfriend and I were dating, she talked to other guys all the time and I didn t mind at all. I trusted her as she did...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship problem, gypsy girl, relationship problem
gypsy girl, relationship problem, suprise visit: Beth, If he doesn t seem happy to see you, or even give a damn, why spend time with him? I mean a relationship is work, they all are, but you should get some reward out of it. If he doesn t seem to be interested, and bugs you to do things you don t want...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship problems...., little poem, bad mistake
little poem, bad mistake, relationship problems: Katie, I dont think its a big deal if he forgot two months. But dont forget about it either. If he forgets 6 months and 1 year then dump him. Take it slow with him. Your only 14 and dont need to be in a serious relationship. Go have fun with your friends...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship problems, relationship problems, guy friend
relationship problems, guy friend, good friends: Ok- I m surprised you let your girlfriend meet this guy in the first place without going with her. Something dangerous could have happened. To tell you the truth, by saying yes to her meeting him, you can t go and tell her no now. She can t change how...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship problems, relationship problems, voicemails
relationship problems, voicemails, bad mood: Hey Rachel, first off don t worry the long question. Well this is a tough one, I think the best thing to do is make him feel really special. Leave sexy voicemails on his phone (sexy not whorish, lol), talk to his friends about how you feel for him because...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship problems, friend mallory, relationship problems
friend mallory, relationship problems, powerful thing: Maybe this boyfriend of yours isn t very mature seeing as how he got your friend to tell you that he loved you. Love is a very powerful thing to say anyways, shouldn t he be saying this to your face? You should re-think this relationship otherwise you both...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship problems...., girls with boyfriends, little poem
girls with boyfriends, little poem, bad mistake: katie~ i ll start with your second question; not wanting a boyfriend is totally fine! i mean i m almost 18 and i ve still never had an actual one, and that s mostly because i m not gonna just go out with some random shmo just to say i have a boyfriend....

Teen Dating Issues: relationship problems...., little poem, bad mistake
little poem, bad mistake, relationship problems: Katie, Two months is a big deal when you are new to the whole relationship thing, but the marking of each month kind of fades with age. However, you will always find that most guys don t remember dates. If you want to celebrate that sort of thing, you...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship problems...., little poem, bad mistake
little poem, bad mistake, first kiss: I like my famous joke about someone asking why an anniversary is every year. The joke goes like this if it s every month, why not make it every week, instead why not make the anniversary every day. You should treat them like it is an anniversary every single...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship problems...., little poem, anniverseries
little poem, anniverseries, bad mistake: Hey, Ok well about your first question, don t worry about it. Guys aren t too great with remembering dates, it s really hard to find a guy that will remember anniverseries, esp. a 2 month. A 2 month anniversery is a big deal for us girls, but most guys...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship problems...., little poem, bad mistake
little poem, bad mistake, hey katie: Katie, Hey :) You wrote this in your original question: And I know it would rip my heart in two if he took down that sweet little poem about me in his profile and his I love Katie icon on aim. *sigh* Since you said he has a profile that says...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship problems, forthcoming exams, relationship problems
forthcoming exams, relationship problems, stupid little things: Hi there Sarah, Okay, well, as you probably already know, most relationships start to break down after awhile. What I would say, is sit your boyfriend down and explain to him that you are doing tests and studying, and if he still complains, then what you...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship problems, forthcoming exams, relationship problems
forthcoming exams, relationship problems, stupid little things: Hey Sarah- Well here s what to do... Just talk to your boyfriend about how your really stressing about your exams and how you really want to do well on them. Then tell him that you need time to study and everything and that you know you two havent been...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship problems...., little poem, bad mistake
little poem, bad mistake, first kiss: Hi Katie, No 2 months really inst that much of a big deal. Espashly to guys. It would be different if it was 6 months but 2 well, that not much. And about the stress, everyone has to go through it at one point, and you can never fully be ready. But if you...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship and sex problems, pubs and discos, proper sex
pubs and discos, proper sex, current boyfriend: Hi Divya, First of all, you should hever feel pressured to have sex even if your boyfriend had it a lot with a previous girl. You need him to understand that your just not comfortable having sex yet. After all, you ve only been dating a couple months. That...

Teen Dating Issues: The relationship is sour but neither of us can end it., successful relationship, winter break
successful relationship, winter break, 7 months: Jake- Thanks so much for your question! You are feeling almost exactly what I was feeling with my past girlfriend except your relationship was a lot longer. You may feel guilty at first but trust me, the guilt goes away and quickly become relief. ...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship w/flirty girl, aim convos, fencing club
aim convos, fencing club, love texts: Danny, Part of the problem is her age. There is a big difference between 14 and 16 years old. At 14 girls and boys are just starting to become aware of themselves and others. She is having fun now, and is certainly not looking for anything serious. My suggestion...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship, long distance relationship, awkward situation
long distance relationship, awkward situation, last two months: Hi Rebecca, This is an awkward situation! There are a few things to consider. First of all, do you know the type of girls he s usually interested in? If so, do you fit this criteria? Secondly, how far away is his college? If it s a long way, could you...

Teen Dating Issues: relationships, dear sarah, must be a reason
dear sarah, must be a reason, loose end: Dear Sarah, In relationships communication is key. Lack of communication is how relationships end and I can tell you don t want to end this one. You re going to have to do something very difficult. Open up to him and let him know EXACTLY how...

Teen Dating Issues: relationships, beating the odds, different woman
beating the odds, different woman, first love: Lwazi, Relationships that start out very young like yours statistically don t last. You are going to be a very different woman 5 years from now than you are now. And your going to be even more different when you hit 30 or so. You may want different things,...

Teen Dating Issues: relationships, first kiss, 14th birthday
first kiss, 14th birthday, alysha: Dear Alysha, Honestly, I think that the age difference is to much. If your friend was 27 and the girl he liked was 24 then it wouldn t matter that they were 3 years apart. But right now, it does matter. I m sure you remember what 14 felt like and if I were...

Teen Dating Issues: relationships, first kiss, 14th birthday
first kiss, 14th birthday, guy friend: Hey there, It s great you re looking after your friend. Sit him down and tell him that it makes you uncomfortable and you aren t the only one. Chances are, he ll freak out and feel hurt. But, just tell him that you are looking out for him and you will accept...

Teen Dating Issues: relationships, heart ache, lucky one
heart ache, lucky one, 12 year olds: You feel like your the only one with this problem, i m here to tell you that you re not. Not even close. Believe it or not a lot of people don t really start dating until they graduate high school or even later. There is nothing wrong with you i promise. ...

Teen Dating Issues: relationships, late bloomers, 12 year olds
late bloomers, 12 year olds, 17 years: HI kayla, I find it a little hard to believe that you have never had a crush on a guy. Maybe you did, and didn t realize it. I would say at 12 years old, not to worry. Your still very young, and emotionally and mentally you may not have developed in that...

Teen Dating Issues: relationships, loose end, first move
loose end, first move, stupid things: Hey Sarah, I m sorry to hear that you re going through this difficult time right now. I think you should seriously consider going back to college. I know you want this relationship to last and be as strong as it once was, but you seem so unhappy right now....

Teen Dating Issues: relationships, dear sarah, loose end
dear sarah, loose end, first move: dear sarah, the answer seems pretty clear. acting it out might not be you should go back to college and move on from your boyfriend it seems pretty obvious to me that he doesnt love u as much as u love him and i think it was pretty selfish of him to not...

Teen Dating Issues: relationships, gut instinct, sweet kind
gut instinct, sweet kind, makin friends: Ashley, well if you feel that the other guy is wasting your time then move on i mean it s not like you re moving into a relationship you re makin friends with him- so get to know this new guy he might soon become your byo friend, don t pass out on a chance...

Teen Dating Issues: relationships??, real jerk, french class
real jerk, french class, boy friend: Jenn I think you, and a lot of younger people who start dating, always try to make relationships and dating a lot more serious than it has to be. Dating is supposed to be fun, and not exclusive, so you can go out and meet a lot of new people, find what...

Teen Dating Issues: relationships, brother and sister, stupid thing
brother and sister, stupid thing, eachother: I don t think he used you. If he was going to use you, he wouldn t have waited until you were drunk. You probably wanted it too, and probably said some things to get started. It s really not a big deal. Being drunk just gives you an excuse, which in my...

Teen Dating Issues: relationships with girls, virginity, and porn, long distance relationship, overjoyed
long distance relationship, overjoyed, infact: Hey Matt. Don t worry that you re not a teenager, loads of guys in there twentys write to me so it s cool. What you had with this girl sounds really nice. Then you say, she started calling you less just because you have maturity problems is harsh. Very...

Teen Dating Issues: relationships, futher, ashley
futher, ashley, few days: Sarah - Talk to him and tell him that you feel this way. You have every right to feel this way and you NEED to communicate this to him. Let him know that you aren t comfortable with going any further than you already have and that whenever you hang out...

Teen Dating Issues: relatioship and kissing, baby kiss, open mouth
baby kiss, open mouth, saliva: Liz - The big thing about kissing is that it comes naturally. Don t immediately shove your tongue down his throat and monitor the amount of saliva that s being produced and you ll be fine. Just remember that there s nothing wrong with open mouth lip kissing....

Teen Dating Issues: religious tensions, religious tensions, friend kris
religious tensions, friend kris, 10 months: I don t want to get personal... but are you athiest? or do you just not want to get into the religions? Yes, when you re christian, it s harder to be with some one who isn t, but that doesn t mean it can t work. Try learning more about christianity, it may...

Teen Dating Issues: religous reasons, muslim patients, getting a girlfriend
muslim patients, getting a girlfriend, muslim families: Hey Mike, Your mom may be upset a little bit, but just be sure to be polite and respectful during the conversation. That way if she gets out of control you can tactfully let her know she has no reason to yell. I know it is easier said then done, but confrontational...

Teen Dating Issues: reltionship, freinds, brandi
freinds, brandi: Stephen, If you really like this person, then it shouldn t matter what your friends think. Explain to them that you care about this person and hope that they can respect that, but if not, then they need to keep it to themselves. If they are really your...

Teen Dating Issues: reply asap, psychology area, safety risks
psychology area, safety risks, myspace: Hello, Using someone s Myspace account without them knowing is illegal. Be careful with Myspace due to the safety risks. You shouldn t mention to her what you did, however, Myspace messages do not mean she really wants to date someone else. This didn t say...

Teen Dating Issues: I am doing a research paper, teen relationships, school doors
teen relationships, school doors, freshman year: well sounds like you got a good online site --- Thank you. I feel this is one of the best sites online for all around help. I ve been working here for years, yet I also worked on another site. The other site went out a few years ago. The only problem...

Teen Dating Issues: research, teenage relationships, physical relationship
teenage relationships, physical relationship, phenomenom: Clare, How are you? I hope you are having a good day. This website is centered around actual teenage relationships, not online relationships. So 99% of the questions I get are from people that are in relationships that evolved without using the internet....

Teen Dating Issues: Last resort, posessive, psychologist
posessive, psychologist, last resort: Hello, I feel you should talk to a doctor about sex risks and be tested. Next, I would like to help you out, yet honestly you may need more help than I can give you online because of the OCD. OCD needs professional help(psychologist/doctor) according to the...

Teen Dating Issues: Why did she respond this way to my date? Insight needed from a girl!, dartmouth college, thoughtful response
dartmouth college, thoughtful response, mature girl: Well like I said she could just need some space and time to get over her last relationship before she jumps right into dating, ask her to hang out like not on a date, and see if you can get her to be more comfortable around you. Just make sure she knows that...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting rid of guys, honest truth, boyfriends
honest truth, boyfriends, those guys: First off Happy Birthday. To be honest truth sometimes hurt. There however are ways to say it in a kind easy way. For an example, do you want to be their friend? Maybe tell them you want to be their friends still, yet are not ready for dating. Say this in...

Teen Dating Issues: did i do the right thing?, wierd noises, kourtney
wierd noises, kourtney, band performance: Hello Kourtney, In my opinion, breaking up with your boyfriend was the right thing to do. I know it s difficult to think about the three months you ve already invested in the relationship, but chances are that things would ve only gotten worse had you stayed....

Teen Dating Issues: The right thing to say, christmas card, good friend
christmas card, good friend, compliment: I am soooooooo sorry it took me awhile. Well Mr. Pleasing (haha) thaaank you so much for your compliment. Well you know what, you pretty much answered your own question. I mean I have some ideas for you. You told me how special she is and how thankful i am...

Teen Dating Issues: Did I do the right thing?, invader zim, trust issues
invader zim, trust issues, do the right thing: Hey Karen- Well I think you did do the right thing. No one should be something to run to and be with if there relationship goes bad. So it s going to hurt for awhile and your of course going to want to be with him. But like I said no one should be something...

Teen Dating Issues: is he the right one for her, adivce, pretty boys
adivce, pretty boys, little respect: To Sarah, Firstly I apologize that it s taken such a long time for me to answer your question. My internet has been messed up for a while, and I haven t been able to get it fixed. Right now I m sending this from a internet cafe. You should tell your friend...

Teen Dating Issues: risk's, class mates, play cards
class mates, play cards, one girl: Marcel Sounds to me that you like this girl, you said that you never notice when she wants you to kiss her. This is very easy to determine if you know how. Try to play with her hands, look in to her eyes, talk to her and make her feel comfortable. If...

Teen Dating Issues: I rly like this girl but i think she likes someboyd else., anythin, rumour
anythin, rumour, dimitri: Hi Dani, It could be that she is trying to make you jelous by flirting with the other guy, since she heard the rumours, she wants to see what you would do. If you like her, try to make it obvious to her, just go ahead and tell her the rumours are...

Teen Dating Issues: I rly like this girl but i think she likes someboyd else., anythin, rumour
anythin, rumour, time 2: Hey, Well i cant really tell if she likes him she might or she may just want attention but the real advice her would be just to become friends with her and then maybe tell her how you feel bout her alwayz take a risk even if it doesnt turn out how you would...

Teen Dating Issues: I rly like this girl but i think she likes someboyd else., anythin, rumour
anythin, rumour, time 2: Hey there, Alright, she may just be flirting with the Jack guy to get your attention. Id say ask her if she likes you, and ask if the rumour is true. If you don t want to do that, then ask her out for a date and see what she says. If she says yes, then at...

Teen Dating Issues: I rly like this girl but i think she likes someboyd else., anythin, rumour
anythin, rumour, time 2: Dani- Well, it sounds to me like Becky really is into Jack. You ll need to ask yourself some questions. How well do you and Becky know each other? Do you know each other well enough that there is even the possibility of a relationship between you two. She...

Teen Dating Issues: I rly like this girl but i think she likes someboyd else., hiar, anythin
hiar, anythin, rumour: Dani, It s safe to say that yes you re right..she likes the guy Jack instead sorry to say that...every thing you ve been seeing..her touching his shoulder..stroking her hiar..biting her lip..yep all that s flirting..Also you re also right when you said...

Teen Dating Issues: I rly like this girl but i think she likes someboyd else., shy girls, those girls
shy girls, those girls, shy girl: oh shit , you re caught up in a bad jealousy game. what i mean is that ... she likes you , but .. you made a mistake when you denied that you like becky , so somehow ... she s trying to make you jealous .. i cant say that she doesnt like jack but ... i m convinced...

Teen Dating Issues: rocky realationship:S, wont answer, realationship
wont answer, realationship, guy friend: You should break it off with him before you get too deep into the relationship. I don t advise you having your guy friend kiss you because as you said you may want to get back with him in the future. I don t seem like a slut you are just looking for the things...

Teen Dating Issues: rocky relationship with high school boyfriend, rocky relationship, ap classes
rocky relationship, ap classes, school clubs: You pretty much answered your own question there. Talk to him like he s just another one of your friends. Yeah he s your boyfriend, but he s also your friend. You should feel comfortable around him and be able to have a friendly, light conversation. Not every...

Teen Dating Issues: Saying I Love you differently, hundred thousand, good luck
hundred thousand, good luck, emotions: Hey Amber. I understand what you mean, sometimes you feel those three words loose there meaning after saying it a lot of times. However, it really doesn t. But you could write him a letter telling him how you feel about him, or how happy you ve been since...

Teen Dating Issues: Saying I love you!, freak, good luck
freak, good luck, little bit: Dear Kc, Wait a little bit if you are hesitant. Saying I love you should be a spontaneous thing that just hits you and you can t help but tell the person. Wait and figure out how you feel and wait until you can better understand how he feels too. Good luc...

Teen Dating Issues: Scared to try.., date girls, adivce
date girls, adivce, life experience: hey anna sorry for the wait well in your situation I would say that maybe in time your mom could accept you for who you are but for now don t worry too much about it I mean you can t hold ur life back for one person you shouldn t care what others think...

Teen Dating Issues: Scared and want to take things slow, thanks a million, rational manner
thanks a million, rational manner, introverts: Sasha, I think first and foremost you two need to figure out if there are even feelings there. If you can t tell if you like him, you probably don t have those types of feelings right now. But you re right, they could come up later on. You might spark well...

Teen Dating Issues: School Ball, friend doesn, stupid things
friend doesn, stupid things, good friend: Hey Hamza- Well its not really stupid things that girls do. Some friends will do the hole I wont go unless she goes thing. It just makes them feel a hole lot more comfortable with going out with someone if there friend is right there with them. So just...

Teen Dating Issues: School Ball, pacts, hamza
pacts, hamza, stupid things: Dear Hamza, Sometimes girls stick together and make little pacts. They probably just didn t want to be left behind if the one was asked and the other wasn t. They might not stick to it and who knows the other girl could get asked too. But no I don t think...

Teen Dating Issues: SEX, vaginal walls, medical doctor
vaginal walls, medical doctor, vagina: Well, hmm. Not having a vagina myself, this is kind of a tough question. I don t think that your vaginal walls will neccessarily collapse if you have a lot of sex, since that is what a vagina is for, but if you have this problem, you should probably consult...

Teen Dating Issues: SEXUAL URGES, question pool, sex talk
question pool, sex talk, ups: Hello, I m Expert Dan. I noticed this question on the question pool. Can you retype your question and explain your question a drop better. Please ask follow ups 11 year olds cannot legally have sex in most locations. Talk to your parents and have them...

Teen Dating Issues: Secret lover, secret lover, best of luck
secret lover, best of luck, hard time: Stop right there. Sneaking him in is the worst thing you can do. If you get caught, you will never talk to him again, and that is ten times worse than this. Just tell your parents you are going to a movie, and meet him there. You could even go while he...

Teen Dating Issues: Selfish Girlfriend?, time tom, team sport
time tom, team sport, 7 months: listen my friend you re right , she is selfish .. this really hearms a relationship. I think you should put her on a dead end .. what i mean ? i mean that , you should talk to her and say: listen , i know this all sport thing is somehow important to you...

Teen Dating Issues: Selfish Girlfriend?, time tom, team sport
time tom, team sport, 7 months: Hey Tom, Having these sort of committments are definately hard on a relationship! However, I can understand why she can t skip them. Her team relies on her, and I know that at least where I live, if you miss practices you can play in games. It s good that...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex, when women ovulate, getting your period
when women ovulate, getting your period, time of the month: Melissa, I m not positive if your hips and breasts grow when you start having sex - you may want to ask someone else in the Health experts category on this website. But I personally do believe that girls do start to mature in their hips and breasts at a faster...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex!!!!!!, current boyfriend, having sex
current boyfriend, having sex, penetration: Hey Hayley, First off, I m gonna tell you that you are too young to be having sex. WAYYYYY TOO YOUNG. Second, it s normal for it to hurt the first time, so you are normal. I guess it just takes time for you to get used to it. I m sure eventually it will stop...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex, parents and grandparents, right time
parents and grandparents, right time, second time: hi he is probably afraid to get into another relationship again. give him some time. a month is not that long. only you can decide how long you want to wait. it could 6 months or it could be a year. persoanally i would not wait longer then a year. sandi...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex, hymen, intercourse
hymen, intercourse, lub: hi im not a doctor so i cant give that kind os advice. but could it be a lubrication issue? maybe you need some extra lub to get going. does he perform oral sex on you before you have intercourse? thats a good way to start and it usually makes you wet enough...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex, bf, nerves
bf, nerves, condom: was it the first time you two tried to have sex? its normal for guys to get nervous and go limp. its hard sometimes for a guy to stay erect. most guys like oral sex and i think if you would try that he may get hard again. i think you should talk to him about...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex, girld, 17 years
girld, 17 years, ashley: Josh - If she won t even talk to you about it then she s probably not ready to have sex anyways. Keep trying to bring up the subject but if she won t even talk about it (let her know that talking about it doesn t mean you have to do it) then I would leave...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex, new girlfriend, abstinent
new girlfriend, abstinent, having sex: Dear Kevin, Don t try to hide it from her any longer. The longer you wait the more mad she will get. Just tell her that you made the mistake of doing that and tell her that you are completely fine with her being abstinent. Do not pressure her to do anything...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex, new girlfriend, child of god
new girlfriend, child of god, biblegateway com passage: Dear Kevin, by your e-mail I am not sure that you are a Christian. Are you? If you are then you may know that 1 John 1:8-10 says “If we claim that we re free of sin, we re only fooling ourselves. A claim like that is errant nonsense. On the other...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex, new girlfriend, better chance
new girlfriend, better chance, having sex: first off i would not lie to her. if she asks you about your past relationships or whether or not you are a virgin i would definently tell her the truth. if you dont and she finds out later on then there is a much better chance she will break up with you....

Teen Dating Issues: Sex, sexual health clinic, long term boyfriend
sexual health clinic, long term boyfriend, sex etc: The best thing i could tell you to do is go to another clinic and get a second opinion. Also try to not to start out thinking it s going to suck, because if you re not up to it and open and willing, it will NO DOUBT suck. Also, make sure there s build up...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex with my boyfriend..., safe sex, having sex
safe sex, having sex, conversations: First of all I think if you were really comfortable with your situation you wouldn t have asked for my advice. You would be comfortable with it and that would be that. So, my opinion is that you really aren t comfortable with your relationship moving too fast....

Teen Dating Issues: Sex... help!, sexual health clinic, long term boyfriend
sexual health clinic, long term boyfriend, current boyfriend: Hi, My advice is don t have sex if you don t like it. It s not uncommon to not like sex. You may feel pressured to have sex and that s why you are having it. My advice is also to be tested to see if you are pregnant, or have an STI. Talk to a doctor and be...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex Problems, using a condom, dry sex
using a condom, dry sex, loving sex: There could be many reasons for that. She may not want to get pregant, even if you are using a condom. She may just be possibly afraid, but doesnt want to tell you. You should really talk to her about it. Maybe you should suggest for you two to do any kind...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex In A Teen Realtionship???, intimate level, realtionship
intimate level, realtionship, hypocrite: Well, it s always possible to get an STD. He could be a carrier and not know it. Or it could be an STD that only shows up in women but men have it yet show no signs of having it. The consequences are high if you have sex outside of marriage. If you get pregnant,...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex, deside, rest of my life
deside, rest of my life, nephew: Okay well since im the same age as you, and i havent had sex either, i know how you feel... so okay ill just give you my advice from my point of view, it seems that you want to have sex with him because you love him so much but you dont want your mom to be...

Teen Dating Issues: Sexual Issue, girls body, issue question
girls body, issue question, nice time: Arthur, I understand this is hard for you. And it is understandable that you feel fustrated. When you give something physical to a girl, you feel you d really like something physical back, every guy would so it s understandable. But I have a reasonabal...

Teen Dating Issues: Shakespearian Romance?, goodie two shoes, class clown
goodie two shoes, class clown, popular girl: Katherine- Your situation is not hopeless!! Since you are Caroline s Cousin , use it to your advantage! Find some way to get Caroline to give you some spotlight with him. Get some confidence, and talk to him! Trust me, you ll be happy you did. :-...

Teen Dating Issues: Shy Boyfriend, girlfrien, romantic figure
girlfrien, romantic figure, shy boy: Let s go with a little of both. I don t think he will lose interest, though. First girlfriends at an age like 17 is not something you lose interest in. He most likely thinks about the first kiss a lot, but it might be something he doesn t know how to...

Teen Dating Issues: Shy boyfriend, outgoing person, sophmore
outgoing person, sophmore, okward: Just be yourself around him, make awkward comments so that he loosens up! It tends to happen like that because you re older and he s intimidated, he probably doesn t want to lose you either considering you are the older one. So, since you have the upper hand...

Teen Dating Issues: Shy Chick, shy person, blushes
shy person, blushes, freind: Well its probably good that you really like her because she s different, that makes her special, but sometimes it takes a little more work to get speicial girls. You may just notice her flirting with every other guy because you really like her, thats normal...

Teen Dating Issues: Shy Girl, opposit, shy girl
opposit, shy girl, freind: I think shes just flirting with all those other guys just to get your attention and make you want her more. Just tell her you have feelings for her and see what she says, because I honestly think she does share the same feelings. Good Luck, Nicol...

Teen Dating Issues: Shy guy(and me), young couples, frezzer
young couples, frezzer, shy guy: Well Church can be kind of a somber place, one where it might not be that appropriate to carry on a conversation all the time, so that gives a little better understanding to your situation. I would definitely suggest meeting some place a little more relaxed...

Teen Dating Issues: Shyness/Rejection, beautiful girl, rejection
beautiful girl, rejection, christian rock band: Hey Zack! Wow, you re in a band?! Now that is totally awesome! Anyways, lol, it s okay to be afraid of rejection, everyone is. What you can do, so that you are sure she likes you back, is check with her friends and see if she has noticed you at all! Okay?...

Teen Dating Issues: Shyness., personnality, pitched voice
personnality, pitched voice, pple: While some people consider shyness a negative side of a person i consider it as a positive side, a quality in a personnality that could differenciate someone from others. People like you the way you are & enjoy being with you as YOU ... So why don t you enjoy...

Teen Dating Issues: Signs that a girl likes you, dimitri, eye contact
dimitri, eye contact, good luck: Hi Kyle, Various signs you can look for are as follows, looking is a big sign, eye contact is even bigger. If she tries to talk to you, if she becomes nervous when you try to talk to her, playing with her hair, anything like that. Good Luck! Dimitr...

Teen Dating Issues: Silly...I know, frusterated, immediate connection
frusterated, immediate connection, friends houses: Hi Nickie, What s going on here is a guy that wants a relationship and does like you but can t seem to find the time to do anything about it. Doesn t mean he s not a good guy or that he doesn t care, just means that he needs to categorize his time affectively!...

Teen Dating Issues: Silly...I know, nickole, frusterated
nickole, frusterated, immediate connection: Nickole - I don t think you should jump to conclusions just yet. I think he still likes you. Why don t you talk to him about your feelings and get some stuff out on the table so you can be reassured that he s not gonna go anywhere anytime soon. Good...

Teen Dating Issues: Silly..I know, frusterated, first moves
frusterated, first moves, immediate connection: Hi Nickie, Slow down.....you just met the guy and you just got out of another relationship. If you think you like him to much then back off a bit. Dont wait for his phone calls and go have fun with your friends. When he calls then decide if you want to...

Teen Dating Issues: Single in College...still, magical cure, freshman year
magical cure, freshman year, guy friends: Hello Alice, You said people tell you that you exude confidence and high self-esteem, and I m inclined to agree, knowing only what you ve written in your question here. I believe there is a very good possibility that what you consider being unappealing...

Teen Dating Issues: Sister, mucher, season greetings
mucher, season greetings, disrespect: Matt, Sorry to hear about what you re sister is going through But I Hope these Questions would help out n some way. You can ask things like? What does he do for you that make you happy? How does he show that he loves you? If he loves you why does he...

Teen Dating Issues: SK8r Boys, sk8r boys, convos
sk8r boys, convos, bf: Hi Rachel, I think it s great that you want to learn to skate and share your bf s passion. I m not really sure if you should or not because I don t know him. If you feel comfortable, I think the best thing to do would be to tell him EXACTLY what you ve written...

Teen Dating Issues: Sorry about last night..., acquanted, nice gal
acquanted, nice gal, screw: Dear M, sorry it took me so long to get back to you but I was unable to access the All Experts site for a few days. Very annoying. Anway, please don t ever worry about hurting my feelings or unloading on me. That s what I m here for and I have a very tough...

Teen Dating Issues: Split Decision, split decision, dud
split decision, dud, asshole: Something like that you can t rush, you ve got to let her play out whatever it is she s doing, you wouldn t want to go with her and she still has left feelings for him, when you re someone s first it s hard to let go and move on. SO you ve got to just be there...

Teen Dating Issues: Starting to date a friend..., awkwardness, acquaintances
awkwardness, acquaintances, good friends: Sometimes thats what labels do. They make things awkward. Honestly I m sure this happens to all couples who were good friends before hand. How do you ease the awkwardness? Just act like you did before you guys become official. I know this sounds easier...

Teen Dating Issues: Starting out..., easy conversation, favorite color
easy conversation, favorite color, girlfriend: Tyler, You should start out with the intentions of getting to know her better. Just be yourself and just make easy conversation. What does she like to do, what is her favorite color, what her hobbies are, etc. Anything you are interested in. You can start...

Teen Dating Issues: Still have feelings for my Ex, mixed emotions, good relationship
mixed emotions, good relationship, intimate moments: I hate the just friends thing. It usually never works. Both of you have to be really mature about it(and you have to have A LOT of control). With past girlfriends, we have never had any mutual friends that we both hang out with, so it s easier just not to...

Teen Dating Issues: Still haven't kissed my girlfriend..., long distance relationship, being a gentleman
long distance relationship, being a gentleman, first girlfriend: Hello Cody, I feel your frustration; I ve been in a few similar situations where I wanted to kiss my date (or girlfriend) but couldn t do it for some reason, and then later I d be mad at myself for not doing it. I do believe the fact that this is your first...

Teen Dating Issues: Strange self, oppertunities, grade 9
oppertunities, grade 9, second semester: OK Listen to this.... You said you had so many chances to talk to her but everytime you try, you just find it so hard to be done... But there could be another solution... You sure do have your own friends & so does she, so when you guys meet or happen to...

Teen Dating Issues: Strengthening Lost Love, e mail my heart, wonderful girl
e mail my heart, wonderful girl, reading music: hi john, you only met the girl for one day and talked after that. john, you really dont know this girl. how can you be in love with someone you really dont know? i understand how you feel. believe me i do. but you cant keep going for something that isnt...

Teen Dating Issues: Strengthening Lost love, e mail my heart, wonderful girl
e mail my heart, wonderful girl, reading music: It is okay you were black.Let s not get into this psychology topic. The thing is online relationships are hard. I would say talk to her on the phone about your feelings. She may like you, yet know online relationships are too hard. Be her friend online than....

Teen Dating Issues: My Strict Asian Parents VS. My Boyfriend, asian parents, pharmacist
asian parents, pharmacist, having sex: Dear Amy, I had to give this one a bit of thought, hence the late reply. Firstly, your parents dislike of your boyfriend has no foundation. To judge someone as inferior simply due to the fact they didn t attend university is very narrow-minded indeed....

Teen Dating Issues: My Strict Asian Parents VS. My Boyfriend, asian parents, sick in the head
asian parents, sick in the head, family counseling: Hi Amy, I am glad that you found the information that I passed on to you helpful. The thing about counseling is that if people do not want to participate then it will not be very constructive to force folks into receiving help. I do agree with your...

Teen Dating Issues: My Strict Asian Parents VS. My Boyfriend, asian parents, pharmacist
asian parents, pharmacist, having sex: Dear Amy: You have no idea how many times i read your question, you said talking was not happening with your parents and waiting was not something you thought your heart could do but when two people love each other they can overcome anything. I know that...

Teen Dating Issues: Subjects, word answer, favorite color
word answer, favorite color, recent history: Despite what anybody says, conversations do flow naturally. I actually find forced conversation to be annoying. It could be that you two are simply talking TOO much. Get it a rest and allow some other things to happen in your life so that you have new things...

Teen Dating Issues: Suff to do at home with your bf?, horrible weather, friend with benefits
horrible weather, friend with benefits, christmas shop: Dear Ruthie, Hmmm well I ve got a few ideas...How about taking some pictures together? That ll be fun and a great way to start memories! And why do you have to stay at home? You could go to the mall together and Christmas shop or go bowling! Get together...

Teen Dating Issues: Suicidal Friend & Forbidden Love - Advice needed!, suicidal friend, love advice
suicidal friend, love advice, correct person: No, I d say this is in the right section. And wow, this is a really rough one. Not very often people get them selves trapped in-between a rock and a hard place like this. I think you should tell him. Living in a lie is something that no one should ever...

Teen Dating Issues: Summer crush..., long distance relationships, self confidence
long distance relationships, self confidence, whirl: Hello Janessa (I love your name, by the way), Some people will be quick to tell you that long-distance relationships NEVER work. Personally, I m not that cynical...I ve actually been in a couple of long-distance relationships myself that later turned into...

Teen Dating Issues: Sweatshirt?, sweatshirt, good luck
sweatshirt, good luck: Hey Paige, I think you should keep it. By saying he doesn t know what s going to happen, he could mean that you might get back together (so you might as well keep the sweatshirt) or that he wants you to have something to remember him by in case you don...

Teen Dating Issues: Sweet!, good luck, signals
good luck, signals, pleasure: Dear M. I like it. The art of subtle flirting is very hard to master but you re learning. Don t pour your heart out, don t push or scare or be too much. Read the signals after you make the comment. She may be shy but if she isn t interested after you say something...

Teen Dating Issues: sadden, girls night, starla
girls night, starla, guyz: hey starla. well first of all if he has to pick a woman that is 40 years old just to make himself feel good then he obviously doesn t have very much self-esteem. just remind yourself that he would be lucky to have you because you would give him everything....

Teen Dating Issues: sado, nerd, girlfriend
nerd, girlfriend, courage: Maybe it s the way you ask them out. If you re all smug about it or ask in a I-know-you ll-say-yes-so-just-do-it way, then they ll see that, and think that s how you act all the time, so they ll say no...Instead, be kind of shy about it. Not fake-shy, but...

Teen Dating Issues: saving my relationship, serious relationship, open doors
serious relationship, open doors, romantic date: Shaun, Hey sweetie. How are you? I hope you re having a great day. First off there could be a number of reasons why she is wanting this break . She probably feels like she has given you a year and she is afraid that she is missing out on what might be...

Teen Dating Issues: saving my relationship, great relationship, precious thing
great relationship, precious thing, juniors: Shaun- This is a tough situation for the both of you. She isn t sure if she s going to be around or free enough to have a boyfriend and you re unsure about losing a great relationship. Unfortunately, I cannot tell you how to rekindle your relationship....

Teen Dating Issues: saving my relationship, precious thing, juniors
precious thing, juniors, ashley: Shaun - If you break up over the summer you run the risk of her finding someone else and then your heart getting broken. If firm rules aren t established between both parties about what is and isn t allowed then there can be BIG problems. Tell her...

Teen Dating Issues: what should i say?, few more minutes, sandi
few more minutes, sandi, asshole: hi, forget about her. she sounds like an idiot anyway. if it will make you feel better then you can call her and ask her why she was acting like that. maybe she wanted to break up with you and this was her way of doing it. but i wouldnt try and get back...

Teen Dating Issues: What should I say?, few more minutes, gf
few more minutes, gf, asshole: Hi Joey, well I have to say that no matter what your gf says, you cannot ever leave her alone outside again. You have to walk her home and see that she s safe. Also, many times when people fight, the person who s angry is often angry at something entirely...

Teen Dating Issues: what to say?, mom and dad, whole life
mom and dad, whole life, cousins: Mandy- I completely understand EXACTLY what you mean! Try this experiment: Pick a wide open topic like relationships or how you feel about each other and start a timer. For 30 seconds you or he needs to say whatever comes to your mind. This has worked...

Teen Dating Issues: what to say..., clue, good luck
clue, good luck: Hi there, Well, we all have these problems, what you got to do, is talk to him, just act like he is a friend. You might want to ask him who he likes then that gets him wondering and he might clue in. Pay lots of attention to him. Punch him (lightly) in the...

Teen Dating Issues: what should i say?, playful manner, expecting an answer
playful manner, expecting an answer, confusing situation: Shane, This does seem like a pretty confusing situation. Being a girl, though, I think that what she wants to hear from you is how you feel about her. Girls are always wanted to know what guys are thinking. Sometimes we don t realize that guys aren t...

Teen Dating Issues: What should I say?, niether, eachother
niether, eachother, girlfriend: Hi Johnny, The best way, of course, would be face to face. Before you ask her to be your girlfriend, why don t you ask her out on a date first? That would be much easier, than to dive right into it! If she agrees to go on a date, then that should let you...

Teen Dating Issues: What to say......, easiest thing, good friends
easiest thing, good friends, extent: Hello Kyle. A nervous-shyness problem you re facing here it seems? I know the feeling. Shyness is a common problem many people have; expecially with girls, myself included to an extent. Once you do it though; most of the time, you ll be glad you did because...

Teen Dating Issues: should i say anything?, guilt, relationship
guilt, relationship: You should tell him. It may hurt him a lot but it s also hurting you to hold it in. I know that it will be hard because I ve had to to the same thing. I couldn t bring myself to tell him in person so I wrote him a letter explaining what I did. I decided that...

Teen Dating Issues: what can i say to ask a girl out, girl friend, beutiful
girl friend, beutiful, girls: Ok well its not veery complicated!! lol all you have to say is will you be my girl friend!! you could say will you go out w/ me but most girls perfer will you be my girl friend!! it sound sweeter!! just be like i have enjoyed getting to know you better and...

Teen Dating Issues: Did he just say it to make me feel better?, heart balloon, lunch period
heart balloon, lunch period, chance cause: Ashley I hesitated in answering this question since it is outside my expertise , but you are so polite that I could no say no! Natural flirts are hard to understand . However, try to compare his behaviour if he acts with you a bit more differently than other...

Teen Dating Issues: what to say to a girl, favourite sports, instant messager
favourite sports, instant messager, spare time: Hi Jeff, I think most girls just want guys to show an interest in them, so really any kinds of questions about what she likes to do in her spare time - what films she likes, favourite sports etc (anything not too personal!) are all good starting points....

Teen Dating Issues: what to say to a girl, personal stuff, definately
personal stuff, definately, conversations: jeff~ instant messanger...well let me just say that it can get you into a lot of trouble so be careful. instant messanger can be great because you don t have to look at the person but that can end up real bad. anyways. start off with a nice hi, like hey...

Teen Dating Issues: what to say to a girl, guilty pleasures, turn offs
guilty pleasures, turn offs, music sports: Jeff, I don t really know what to tell you to compliment a girl because they should come naturally out of the conversation. Girls like when guys comment on the smaller things however. If she tells you an instance where she did something for a friend,...

Teen Dating Issues: what to say to a girl, instant messager, beautiful eyes
instant messager, beautiful eyes, spare time: Hi Jeff, First of all as long as you re polite and interested in her there s nothing you can say that would be wrong. Ask her questions about herself, nothing too personal of course, but maybe about her interests, and what she likes to do in her spare...

Teen Dating Issues: What to say to a girl, corny jokes, talking to girls
corny jokes, talking to girls, time walk: Donald, First thing you need to do is figure out what your strength is. I am comedic. I actually use corny jokes in a cute way that makes girls say, “awe…” and then laugh. I have gone around with a packet of sugar (that is labeled as such) and asked girls...

Teen Dating Issues: What to say to a girl, good sense of humor, perfect thing
good sense of humor, perfect thing, magic words: Kyle, there are no magic words to say to her. Just relax, man. Be yourself. Be confident and have a good sense of humor. It s not what you say, but how you say it. If you always come across as being nervous and worrying about saying the perfect thing,...

Teen Dating Issues: what to say to a girl, cant answer, instant messager
cant answer, instant messager, compliments: Hi Jeff, I really cant answer that question because all girls are different. The best thing to say is that you really like them, that works for pretty much everyone. I recomend not to complament more than 2 times in a converstain, because if you do it looks...

Teen Dating Issues: what to say when talking to a girl and how do i know if she likes me, she s all that, romm
she s all that, romm, tobi: Hey Tobi- Well really I don t think she s all that interested. I mean if she was she wouldn t be blowing you off and always gone. Also the fact she has a boyfriend. So really what you should do is just leave her alone and go on with your life and find...

Teen Dating Issues: should i say yes, bad person, best of luck
bad person, best of luck, new friends: Hey Tiffany. Thanks for getting in touch. Well, if you ve only just started this school and hardly know this guy then of course you shouldn t go out with him. If you ve only just met him and hardly know who he os, what sort of guy he is etc then...

Teen Dating Issues: what to say, pets dogs cats, good looking woman
pets dogs cats, good looking woman, all kinds of girls: Hi Dan, you seem like you are doing okay in the getting attention department. I think the easiest thing to do with a girl and the things she likes the most, is when a guy asks her questions about herself. He also need to really be interested and listen to...

Teen Dating Issues: scared and just dont know, heritages, mutual friend
heritages, mutual friend, green tea: Sasha, If you are somewhat interested in him but are afraid of moving too fast then you should tell him you want to slow things down, simple as that. It is you choice with where this goes. If he lacks confidence and you still like him, then you can just...

Teen Dating Issues: scared/unsure/?, afraid of commitment, warning signs
afraid of commitment, warning signs, heritages: You re having doubts, and these doubts could be warning signs. Sometimes its good to trust your instinct with these things. Listen to what it s telling you. Perhaps you re scared of getting into a relationship right now, or you don t feel ready for it....

Teen Dating Issues: going back to school :(, successful relationship, going back to school
successful relationship, going back to school, little space: Sometimes a little space ( a little is the key phrase here) is what ends up bringing two people even closer together. Just make sure to keep in touch as much as possible, and control how much you see each other. You don t have to -always- be together to have...

Teen Dating Issues: school dance, e mail address, school dance
e mail address, school dance, dovey: Hi, Mariah. There are a couple things you can do to ask him to dance, but no matter what you do you should be calm about it. The simple way would be to ask him to dance, but it shouldn t be the first thing you say. Try to talk a little bit before you ask,...

Teen Dating Issues: school dance, e mail address, school dance
e mail address, school dance, shall we dance: Mariah, It s hard asking the guy you like to dance. But, try this. At the dance, when you see him, wait until he s alone, and go over to him, chat to him a little, in general about the dance, then when a song comes on, say something like Oh I love this...

Teen Dating Issues: school dance, e mail address, smile and wave
e mail address, smile and wave, laugh and smile: Hey there, Alright, well, at the dance, kinda just dance close to him, then smile and wave or say hey. Then just slowly get closer and closer, and eventually, you ll be dancing with him. If you slowly go in towards him, he can t really turn you down at all....

Teen Dating Issues: school dance, e mail address, school dance
e mail address, school dance, dovey: Be cool about it. Just be real subtle and ask him to dance really easily. 7th grade guys are usually really imature about the dance thing, so why don t you ask him to do something after the dance. Maybe go to starbucks or something. Have fun and good luck...

Teen Dating Issues: school dance, e mail address, school dance
e mail address, school dance, dovey: Well, when you get to the dance just make sure you hang around him and compliment him on something then just flirt with him and when a song comes on you want to dance to say hey, you wanna dance? this is all very casual so he shouldn t get any ideas. Then...

Teen Dating Issues: school dance, e mail address, school dance
e mail address, school dance, dovey: Mariah, Starting up a conversation with somebody makes any question easier to ask later on. Just don t make it seem like a big deal. Just ask him to dance and if you have been having a nice conversation for a while, simply ask him for his e-mail. If...

Teen Dating Issues: school dance, language arts class, course lol
language arts class, course lol, g story: hey mariah sorry once again for taking awhile to respond. okay guys are confusing. thing is they never get any easier to understand as time goes on. dont question him about why he acted like he did. may put huim off. if you want you can ask him in a non-accusing...

Teen Dating Issues: school dance, lovey dovey, e mail address
lovey dovey, e mail address, school dance: Hi Mariah, just relax your just asking him to dance not to marry him lol. have fun with him. Make him enjoy being with you, then he will want to spend more time with you. About his email, i would pretty much just ask him for it. Once again its not like a...

Teen Dating Issues: school dance, e mail address, school dance
e mail address, school dance, dovey: i hope i wasnt to late in answering your question. im sorry if i was. i dont think there is any certain way to ask him to dance other then just going up to him and asking him. try and ask him when there is no one around him just in case. let me know how it...

Teen Dating Issues: school dance, e mail address, lighthearted approach
e mail address, lighthearted approach, school dance: Hey Mariah, It s become more common and accepted for girls to make the first move nowadays; I don t think he d laugh at you for asking. To avoid sounding mushy, you might want to try a simple, lighthearted approach. Just go up to him, smile, and say,...

Teen Dating Issues: school dance, e mail address, school dance
e mail address, school dance, slow dance: Hey Mariah- Just be honest and up front with him. Just ask him to the dance just say would you like to go to the dance with me and explain to him it doesnt have to be a slow dance or anything like that just to go and have fun. Something like that. Im sure...

Teen Dating Issues: school dance, e mail address, mail message
e mail address, mail message, school dance: People do that all of the time, so I d say it s okay. If he asks how you got it, just say you found it in an email forward and decided to say hello. He probably won t think much of it. Have fun at the dance tomorrow, and don t worry too much about asking...

Teen Dating Issues: school+dating, last boyfriend, hallways
last boyfriend, hallways, thanx: Emily, Okay well what I really tell people is to always act their selves and never try to impress anyone but yourself. But it would be best to move confidently and just make it seem like you ve been in all many relationships...always smile...you know you...

Teen Dating Issues: school dating!!!, good luck, homework
good luck, homework, dad: Hey Emily, It sounds to me like he IS flirting with you. Especially considering he asked if you were dating someone else, he s probably interested! Maybe you can ask him to hang out with you and your friends again outside of school. That way you can...

Teen Dating Issues: school friend, girl at school, school friend
girl at school, school friend, deputy head: Tom, Perhaps you could just try talking to this girl. Tell her how you feel and why don t you actually ask her out. When you re both alone, why don t you go over to her and ask if she d like to catch a movie with your or something like this? See what she...

Teen Dating Issues: school, educational standpoint, sylvan learning center
educational standpoint, sylvan learning center, learning disability: Michael- After everything you ve told me I think you may have some of the same issues I had in high school. I was smart, etc, but I was very lazy. That s my best guess. Also, don t be afraid to let your girlfriend help you. It can actually make your...

Teen Dating Issues: i screwed up., best friend jacob, maddie
best friend jacob, maddie, new girl: Well, to be honest, this situation would suck to be in and no offense, but I m glad I m not in it. You are in kind of a complex situation that doesn t look good from any angle. There s always a way to recover lost friendships, though, so there s still a...

Teen Dating Issues: sean, adn, busses
adn, busses, bf: Rachel- Thanks for the question, it s a great one! Honestly, you should do what YOU think is right. Warning: guys tend to be funny about these things. Some guys say they will always be there and, quite frankly, are NOT. Some guys say they will be and ARE...

Teen Dating Issues: been searching, dating sights, hospital library
dating sights, hospital library, separate ways: sounds like you live in an area with few options. First, how busy are you? Do you belong to any clubs, organizations, classes outside of school? Do you have girlfriends with whom you do things? Secondly, are you friends with these guys for a while...

Teen Dating Issues: second base?, breasts, good time
breasts, good time, good luck: the time has to be right and the girl has to want it. it usually starts with kissing and goes from there. you can start moving your hand in the direction of her breasts while kissing her and see what she does. if she says no then its probably not a good time....

Teen Dating Issues: second date, second date, double date
second date, double date, first date: Pretty much anywhere really. There is no real designated 2ed date spot. try this, ask her where she wants to go. that completely takes the pressure off of your shoulders. Also, the kiss thing is just going to be something you ll know. It ll come with time...

Teen Dating Issues: second date, http www myspace, second date
http www myspace, second date, http www myspace com: Since you too are not offically dating, at least you didnt say so, then she probably feels that she is free to come and go as she pleases and she probably didnt think about telling you that she was going away for the weekend. So I really wouldnt read too much...

Teen Dating Issues: He seems mostly indifferent to me, busy schedule, means of communication
busy schedule, means of communication, goodnight: Every single thing that you just told me, tell him. A lot of times guys don t even realize they are messing up because girls seem to think we re psychic and should just know how their feeling. Thats not it works. tell him that you re feeling a little left...

Teen Dating Issues: self esteem in my relationship, low self esteem, confidant
low self esteem, confidant, 9 months: hey lacy: seems to me like you are an amazing girl and this guy is a loser who cant see what an amazing girl he has right in front of him you need somebody who deserves you I know u really like him and that its hard on you I understand that perfectly however...

Teen Dating Issues: senior chicks in highshcool and im a freshman, bold personality, freshman girl
bold personality, freshman girl, highshcool: Chris, I think you should stick with your current gf, and here s why... You think that looking older and having a deeper voice makes you qualified to date an older woman. Well that s good and all, but those things really dont help that much. Ive dated...

Teen Dating Issues: senior dating a freshmen, maturity levels, age is just a number
maturity levels, age is just a number, worth a shot: If you like her then it s definitely worth it. When I was a freshman, I dated a senior and since girls mature faster than boys, it was pretty equal. Sure I was a little less mature, but not by much, he was definitely the more selfish and goofy one, but I...

Teen Dating Issues: He's too sensitive for me!, carive, tatto
carive, tatto, stalker: Hey, You seem to have a bit of a stalker on your hands, I would deffinately brake up with him asap before anything else goes wrong. You have to tell him why, tell him all the things you just told me and exactly how you feel about them, and then tell him that...

Teen Dating Issues: I sent him an e-mail!, msn delete checker, mail message
msn delete checker, mail message, addy: Well if he blocked u then there s a possibility that he doesn t but it would be best to ask him about it first than jump to conclusion...just ask him why he didn t reply to your mail and see what he says. If he s avoiding it then he probably doesn t like u...

Teen Dating Issues: I sent him a message!, myspac, exact message
myspac, exact message, reply: I think this is very well written out. He will probably reply and only he can tell you what he thinks. There is no way Ill be able to tell you what he thinks because all boys are different. I m sorry for the late reply. Let me know if you have any other questions...

Teen Dating Issues: I sent him a message!, myspac, exact message
myspac, exact message, email: I need past question with answers to really help people. I recommend you to be careful with Myspace. I wouldn t have done a message like this, and I wouldn t blame your self for everything, yet I think he may respond. You re using the idea of making your self...

Teen Dating Issues: I sent him a message!, myspac, exact message
myspac, exact message, honest attempt: Hey Mariah, I think the message you sent him is great; it s very clear and well-worded. I would be remiss to speculate on exactly what he ll think when he reads it, but I do believe that he ll see it as an honest attempt to reach out to him, and I think...

Teen Dating Issues: I sent him a message!, language arts class, court basketball
language arts class, court basketball, myspac: Well Mariah, The truth is...is that he s not that into you. But don t worry it isn t the end of the world. You ll be fine...I promise. You guys are only 13 and you will grow and continue to grow and you will learn more things about yourself and what you like...

Teen Dating Issues: I sent him a message!, myspac, exact message
myspac, exact message, login date: Hmmm, I m not sure. But I think the best way to find out if he read it or not would be to check his last login date See if he s been online to read it, and if he has been online, chances are he either read it and deleted it, or just plainly deleted it...

Teen Dating Issues: seriously heartbroken, noght, breakups
noght, breakups, few days: Meagan - First off, you should know that you WILL get over him as hopeless as the situation seems now. This guy was a jerk to break your heart the way he did and the fact that you lost your virginity to him didn t help. What helps to get over guys...

Teen Dating Issues: seriously heartbroken, noght, breakups
noght, breakups, few days: Meagan- These feelings you have are typical for someone your age who experienced heart break. It sounds like he didn t care about you nearly as much as you felt he did which tells me that he isn t worth your time and you should move on to better things....

Teen Dating Issues: seriously heartbroken, noght, breakups
noght, breakups, few days: You are too young for sex. You need to learn the risks of sex at your age. Talk to your doctor. Get tested to see if you are now a mother, or have STIs. Talk to your parents about this also. You need to print this out, show this to your parents, and talk...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, sexual intercourse, orgasm
sexual intercourse, orgasm, hard time: Andy - Have you tried giving her oral sex? A lot of women cum this way. You should know that most women can t orgasm from sexual intercourse alone and usually need clitoral stimulation to cum which can be achieved by either fingering her and stimulating...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, long distance relationship, relationship status
long distance relationship, relationship status, sitting in a room: James- First off, I would ask her why she wants to take a nap, etc and what she means when that happens. As for spicing things up, each couple has their own buttons that they like to push. Half the fun of dating is finding them. The next time you are...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, hymen, foreplay
hymen, foreplay, amanda: Amanda - If it hurts then you should probably hold off on the sex for a while or go slower while he s going in. He may not have broke the hymen completely the first time or you re just really tight down there. Make sure you invest in foreplay before...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, ashley, some girls
ashley, some girls: Tessa - I can t tell you whether you ll bleed during sex again because everyone s bodies are different so some girls may bleed while some may not bleed at all. If you re worried about it, I d suggest laying a towel down before you have sex so you don t...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, self concious, dear kate
self concious, dear kate, wiz kid: Dear Kate, Think long and hard about the consequences of having sex. I wish someone had talked to me about this before I did anything at your age. I lost my virginity at 14. I wish so much that I had waited. I m almost 19 now and married with kids....

Teen Dating Issues: sex, anwer, tiffany
anwer, tiffany: I don t quite understand your question but if you want to know what to do with a cheating boyfriend then you should deffinately break up with him cheating is not acceptable. If thats not what you meant please rephrase the question and I ll give you a different...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, baby babies, enormous responsibility
baby babies, enormous responsibility, having a baby: hey Brittany, first id like to thank you for asking me I really do appreciate you trusting me with this. Do you know why you want to get pregnant? most girls our age do it because they want to feel loved, they want to have someone depend on them but they...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, pregnancy test, spermicide
pregnancy test, spermicide, good kid: Hey, Well to be honest with you I really don t think that she could get pregnant just from having your penis in her for 5 seconds. But just to be on the safe side just have her go take a pregnancy test and take it from there. But I really don t think it...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, condums, planned parenthood
condums, planned parenthood, niop: Niop - Has your girlfriend considered going on birth control? There s lot of options available and they re 99.9% effective if used/taken correctly. She should go onto Planned Parenthood s site and look into the different methods and make an appointment...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, embarrassing questions, vaginas
embarrassing questions, vaginas, fellatio: hi Shelby, There are a couple things you can do besides a blowjob, something that both of you can enjoy. If you want to experience sex, and want to stay a virgin you can have anal sex with him or use a dildo. You can try masturbating together or each other,...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, sexaholic, thnx
sexaholic, thnx, alot: Hi Mike, Do you think that maybe she thinks you just want her for the sex because she knows you re addicted to sex. I would just do something nice like send her flowers or write her a letter telling her how much you lover her. But you can t make her have...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, embarrassing questions, sex question
embarrassing questions, sex question, florida law: Legally I am not allowed to give legal advice per se online, so I cannot say if it s legal for you to date. You really have to talk to a lawyer. I will say it s sometimes assumed legal because no one enforces it, yet it s illegal if it says no in the books....

Teen Dating Issues: sex, michaelle, post coital
michaelle, post coital, ovulation: Michaelle, there can be many causes for post coital bleeding. It could be caused by a sexually transmitted desease, or some women can spot prior to having their period. This happens during ovulation about 2 weeks prior to your period arriving, and can be...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, wrong person, sixth grade
wrong person, sixth grade, freshmen: Hi Tyrel Thank you very much for your letter. First of all; are you ready for sex? You mentioned that you and your girlfriend are both freshmen; I suppose you re about 14-15? Am I right? Teenagers often want to have sex as soon as they get together with...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, sex before marriage, thinking about sex
sex before marriage, thinking about sex, having sex: Hi Jason. I d say if your girlfriend is starting to consider sex now, when she was against it a year ago, then that s her decision. If she is set on having sex before marriage and you two really love each other, then that is your guys decision. Make sure...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, teenage pregnancy, accurate answer
teenage pregnancy, accurate answer, pre cum: Chrissy, I found this guy with a M.D. He is an OBG-YN. I suggest that you ask him. Here is the link: http://www.allexperts.com/displayExpert.asp?Expert=1248 Chrissy, I would take this question to the catagory about pregnancy, they would be able...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, minor details, paying attention
minor details, paying attention, clitoris: Joe, I don t usually answer these questions because they are kind of pathetic most of the time. But I will give you a few minor details... Girls like it when guys mix it up. Work on kissing the entire body, especially the back of the shoulders, thighs,...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, boyfreind, honry
boyfreind, honry, jenny: Hi Jenny, Well if he really cares about you, then you should be able to just tell him that you arnt ready and need to waite. He should understand and not even try to have sex with you. That way you wont have the problem of trying to stop him when your honry....

Teen Dating Issues: sex, boyfreind, having sex
boyfreind, having sex, jenny: Hey Jenny, Dont see him when your horny. Thats the only way I can think of that would keep you fromo having sex with him. And if you tell him and he doesnt understand then hes really not a good boyfriend. I think you should just tell him the truth. Tell...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, loving relationship, boyfreind
loving relationship, boyfreind, ur body: hey Jenny, well if u dont too anymore then tell him u changed ur mind and that u dont think ur ready, he might complain cuz hes a guy but its ur body not his. if ur afraid u might change ur mind then dont put urself in the situation where u would be tempted...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, jenny jenny, boyfreind
jenny jenny, boyfreind, having sex: Jenny - Why don t you just say no? Why CAN T you say no? If you don t feel comfortable having sex with him or being intimate then you have the right to say no. No one should force you to do something you re not comfortable doing. Don t let yourself...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, realtionship, having children
realtionship, having children, having sex: You as well as me know your not ready for sex. He is trying to peer him into this and than when you do do it, he will drop you and date someone else. Be careul. Also learn about STIs, AIDs and having children. You should use protection if ever you do such...

Teen Dating Issues: sex problems, dry sex, loving sex
dry sex, loving sex, shez: Chris - Have you tried using lubricant or lubricated condoms? Using lube can help A LOT in getting her wet enough so that you can slide in easily. That may be a large part of the problem. I would suggest trying that and make sure you go slow and if it...

Teen Dating Issues: sex with him is worrying me too much i don't know wat to do, current boyfriend, lvoe
current boyfriend, lvoe, living in the uk: It says I already answered this but I don t remember even getting the question. Maybe I ve become senile. Anyway, I hope you get this before you decide to sleep with this guy. Yes!!! It will hurt much more if you break up if you have slept with him. I...

Teen Dating Issues: sex, sex under 18, teenage relationships
sex under 18, teenage relationships, local theatre: My mom said no, it wasn t acceptable to have sex under 18. Also they courted back then, meaning just going to the local theatre or town dance. More time was spent at the house with her parents than anywhere else. You had to be married to have sex, yet that...

Teen Dating Issues: sexual, but a phobia. help?, weird question, long long time
weird question, long long time, hemline: Don t do something just because you will have to eventually. That isn t the greatest way to solve things. However, if you want to and are comfortable with him to do these things, then, it s your decision. Like he said, not his! This isn t much of a fear, just...

Teen Dating Issues: sexually frustrared BF, handjob, blow job
handjob, blow job, having sex: Lillith- My opinion is that you shouldn t go farther than you re comfortable with and it s good that he respects that. You re also a little young to be having sex. I wouldn t worry about screwing up, though. In my experience, when I try something...

Teen Dating Issues: sexually frustrated BF, blue balls, handjob
blue balls, handjob, first person: Lillith - I think your bf seems very mature and seems genuine about not wanting to pressure you to do anything. Just make sure you let him know (and you know) that him being sexually frustrated isn t your fault. If you re making out and then suddenly stop...

Teen Dating Issues: sexually frustrated BF, handjob, first person
handjob, first person, decisions: Lillith, Hey hun. First off I am glad that you have decided to ask me about this. I really suggest that you just stand firm to the decisions you have already been making. I would not suggest going any further than you have. You are 13 and you will regret...

Teen Dating Issues: sexually frustrated BF, lillith, handjob
lillith, handjob, first person: Lillith, Sweetie, you are 13. And I know that you think that you are ready for all this, but I can guarantee that you re not. In fact, no matter what you think, you re probably not even ready to be dating someone that is 16. I know that I thought I was...

Teen Dating Issues: shes a little bit older..., freshman class, advice giver
freshman class, advice giver, beng: Hi, I am sorry to see that you left such poor feedback. I try very hard to give great advice. Understand you did not state your state, and as a general rule I have found it to be illegal to date at this age. I have seen a number of locations with written...

Teen Dating Issues: shoul i or should i not?, valentine s day, heart to heart
valentine s day, heart to heart, imagination: I think that you should have a heart to heart chat with him. If he says he does not want to get back together, give back the ring and move on. If he does, then good for both of you. Giving back the ring will deffiniatly signal to him that you are don...

Teen Dating Issues: How to show a girl your interested without coming on too stron, boundries, extra step
boundries, extra step, being friends: If you like her, and i mean really like her, then you should tell her. I get these questions more then you would think. I like this girl, but i don t want to endanger the friendship It s a difficult thing to do. I went through something like this and...

Teen Dating Issues: What shuold I do?, guy mason, distain
guy mason, distain, group situation: I didn t realize that you had been with Mason before, but since you love him, there is nothing you can do about it if you truly want to be with him. Tell your friends that you appreciate their concern and love them for it, but this is what is going to make...

Teen Dating Issues: Does this shy girl like me?, shy girl, eye contact
shy girl, eye contact, heaps: Hi Matt. Because I haven t actually witnessed your situation it s hard for me to say whether she likes you or not. The best advice I can give you is to try and make it obvious that you like her, and if she doesn t seem to take the hints then you may have to...

Teen Dating Issues: Does this shy girl like me?, shy girl, eye contact
shy girl, eye contact, heaps: Matt, This girl could really like you, but as you say she might just be really shy, especially around you if she likes you, this will make her even more shy. Maybe when you re at school, you see her on your own and your not with anymore you could go over...

Teen Dating Issues: shy guy, great memories, shy guy
great memories, shy guy, hes: Dear Jasmine, One thing I think would be kinda cool would be something like going to a playground together and taking pictures so you can always have them when you guys aren t together. No matter what you do, make sure you are creating alot of great memories...

Teen Dating Issues: shy guy, biology class, proper relationship
biology class, proper relationship, mixed signals: hey nina, i read your question twice and i just want to say - don t ever apologize for asking for help, especially from me :P anyways, based on what you told me, i think that danny may care about you. he may even have a crush on you. you see, when we like...

Teen Dating Issues: shy guy, shy guy, best of luck
shy guy, best of luck, laugh: Hey Nakita. Thanks for getting in touch, I will try and help you the best I can. Many girls find it hard to talk to guys, and visa verser. So, it s not uncommon, it happens to all of us. You don t feel you can talk to someone you like incase you make a...

Teen Dating Issues: shy or not interested?, beatle songs, shy sort
beatle songs, shy sort, grade girls: Hi Michelle, It does sound like he likes you, since if he just thought of you as a friend, he d probably treat you just like his other friends. But I don t know why he d say he didn t like you when you asked him. He may just be afraid that you won t like...

Teen Dating Issues: shyness, talking to girls, postition
talking to girls, postition, pretty girls: Dear Ryan, You sound alot like me. Im very shy but thank god guys come up to me so im not in your postition. If I were you Id just start talking to a girl who you like. It doesnt matter if you think you have a chance or not. Then get to know then as...

Teen Dating Issues: shyness, hair stylist, hair cuts
hair stylist, hair cuts, boldness: Hi again Chad, I know what you mean. You will have to develop your boldness. Remember that when you are asking someone to do something that you are giving them your time, energy and resources, and if they do not want to accept that then it is on them,...

Teen Dating Issues: shyness!, shy person, small steps
shy person, small steps, common interests: To Gerard, Thank you for emailing me your question. I m sorry that it has taken me a while to get onto it. My computer decided to be evil, and I only now got it fixed. It s good that you ve pinpointed the cause of your shyness. That makes it a lot easier...

Teen Dating Issues: my one sided love.., sweet words, frend
sweet words, frend, heartbreak: its always hard being friends with someone that you like more then that. it sounds like this guy is confused and thought maybe he did like you. i would pull back from him and consider making new friends. if he cant still talk with you and be friends then he...

Teen Dating Issues: *sigh* ex boyfriend, convo, single day
convo, single day, good friends: Hello Sarah, Based on what you ve told me, it sounds like your ex-boyfriend DOES still have some feelings for you. That s not to say that the feelings he for other girls are necessarily fake per se, but he seems to be struggling between letting you go...

Teen Dating Issues: signals, rich thanks, market stall
rich thanks, market stall, good friends: Hey Rich. Thanks for getting in touch, I will try and help the best I can. I know it s hard as this is your first attempt at asking a girl out and you re shy and don t have much confidence. But as you do it more, your confidence will improve. I think you...

Teen Dating Issues: signels, confusing situation, girl call
confusing situation, girl call, new girl: This is a confusing situation. But this is my advice, beofre you get involved with this new girl call up the girl you first had a crush on. Take her on a date and see if you still like her. If you start spending time with the new girl and still have feelings...

Teen Dating Issues: His sister doesn't like me, brother sister, little brother
brother sister, little brother, older sister: I m starting to worry now that if my parents find out, they will not take kindly to that and soon I won t be able to see Dan at all. --- ????? Explain please. By the way I know you use the term love, yet I rather see you use the term like her. Please in...

Teen Dating Issues: sisters boyfreind, statutory rape, young woman
statutory rape, young woman, ashley: Hi Ashley, Honestly, I think you should stop sleeping with him. For one thing, it is illegal. You are under age, and he is not. If you are ever caught, he could go to jail for statutory rape. Secondly, he is your sister s boyfriend, and pregnant with his...

Teen Dating Issues: What would you do in my situation?, beronica, successful relationship
beronica, successful relationship, trust issues: Beronica- You ve both cheated and you re still together?! That in itself is impressive. Be proud of your committment to each other! The key to any successful relationship, no matter how long, is communication. You both have to trust each other and communicate...

Teen Dating Issues: size, taking pills, health area
taking pills, health area, teen health: Hi, I am told those creams and such do not really work. Penis size is really not as important as some teens think. I recommend talking to your doctor, and also our Men health area and also teen health area . They do not replace a doctor. Please...

Teen Dating Issues: slow relationship, fear of rejection, true emotions
fear of rejection, true emotions, male population: Hi Tyler, It seems to me like you are in the perfect position to advance with the relationship. Be careful doing this because once it is done you can never go back to the way things were. The absolute best way and quite possibly the only way to speed...

Teen Dating Issues: smart move?, first kiss, situtation
first kiss, situtation, gf: i think you should talk to her about it first. ask her if you can kiss her. if she says yes then kiss her and then talk about it. tell her you were really nervous and didnt want to screw it up. it will make the situtation less tense and open up communication...

Teen Dating Issues: sons breakup, dealing with a breakup, trustworthy partner
dealing with a breakup, trustworthy partner, responsibilty: Always remember that you have always been his mother, Kim. Think back to helping him grow up and all the hardships it involved. All you could ever be to your son was a mother. (Not that it isn t the biggest responsibilty and the most important job in the world,...

Teen Dating Issues: My sons girlfriend breaks up with him all the time, private art school, experience college life
private art school, experience college life, long distance relationship: Judy, Long story short, there is absolutely nothing you can do that will help sway his mind and change the way he feels towards her. In fact, if you meddle in his personal affairs and tell him that you don t like his girlfriend, you ll put a wedge between...

Teen Dating Issues: why is he soo shy?, good friend, good luck
good friend, good luck, smile: Hey there, Alright, it could just be that he doesn t want to embarass himself in front of you. Try and make him comfortable. Smile to him in the halls, say hi every now and then. Treat him like a really good friend then he ll open up to you. Good luck! ...

Teen Dating Issues: sooo confused, first kiss, strangest thing
first kiss, strangest thing, 15 year olds: SOME PEOPLE WOULD RECOMMEND YOU TO WARN THEM ONCE BEFORE REPORTING THEM WITH CERTAIN TOUCHES AND SUCH. THAT S YOUR CHOICE. IF THEY KISS YOU WITHOUT APPROVAL, IT S GROUNDS FOR REPORTING IN MY MIND. IF THEY TOUCH YOUR PRIVATES GROUNDS FOR REPORTING. THE LIST...

Teen Dating Issues: sorry its so long..., boyfriend girlfriend, breast cancer
boyfriend girlfriend, breast cancer, mutual friend: since his mom died of breast cancer, this will most likely have some effect on how he reveals his feelings. My only suggestion is to do your best to talk to him, get him to reveal his feelings to you and go from there. Unfortunately, there really isn t an...

Teen Dating Issues: sorry long question, monster mash, homecoming dance
monster mash, homecoming dance, halloween dance: In my opinion, I would ditch him. Girls dont need all that drama in their lives and that is all he seems to be. I mean he tells you one thing and then does another, sending you mixed signals and all, that isnt cool. That isnt what a smart girl like you deserves....

Teen Dating Issues: sour relationship but we are in love and neither of us can end it, calm down, 7 months
calm down, 7 months, eachother: Hey Jake- Well if you two are always breaking up with eachother then that s not good for the relationship. I mean think about it, if you two get married lets just say and you two get into a fight what are you two going to do seperate till you two calm...

Teen Dating Issues: sour relationship but we love each other and neither of us can end it, 7 months, guilt
7 months, guilt, untill: Hey Jake, Well, okay, think of it this way, if you only date her out of guilt,it will hurt her more than not dating her. Explain to her how you feel, and just tell her the truth. Tell her that you are tired, and you just can t take it anymore. Things like...

Teen Dating Issues: Is space all he needs?, emotional woes, sized football
emotional woes, sized football, halloween season: First and most importantly, Avery is an amazingly pretty name that is also unique, so props to your parents for picking a good one! Now returning focus to your question, I will attempt to explain why I believe he is acting this way so that you can better grasp...

Teen Dating Issues: spanish class is my favorite part of the day....., little spark, spanish class
little spark, spanish class, undescribable: Hey, Yup there are a lot of little things you can do. Not so much with your eyes though. Just holding eye contact can produce maybe a little spark. I know when I would have a crush on a guy and I was pretty sure he liked me when he would keep eye contact...

Teen Dating Issues: spanish class is my favorite part of the day....., spanish class, undescribable
spanish class, undescribable, tottally: We have an old saying that may help. It is better to try and fail than to have never tried at all. Also another saying is You may be a fool for one minute if you ask a question, yet you may be a fool for your whole life if you don t. This quote is posted...

Teen Dating Issues: spanish class is my favorite part of the day....., cute smile, spanish class
cute smile, spanish class, u care: dear Katie, well just start being really polite back and when u do something like passing back papers turn around to hand them to him while looking at him and flash him a cute little ur cute smile. actually talk to him alittle bit before or after or during...

Teen Dating Issues: spazzzz, bf
bf: Well sounds like he regrets that he broke up with you, so I wouldn t worry about getting back with him because he s just going to hurt you again. Just start hanging out with other guys, flirt and be extra friendly..he ll take notice and feel stupid that he...

Teen Dating Issues: back to square one?, second chance, mona
second chance, mona, bad news: Brian, Well like i think i said there is nothing wrong with giving someone a second chance. But think about it before you make that decision, you re putting yourself out there with the possibility of getting hurt/disappointed again, can you handle that?...

Teen Dating Issues: how to start and keep a conversation, comedy
comedy: Hey J.C. Hmm, well, why don t you just ask her to check out a movie with you. Say like a comedy. Then you guys have something to laugh about for the next little while AND you get to go to a movie with her. Try it! It s easy to find things to talk about, all...

Teen Dating Issues: Where to start., confidence issues, talking to girls
confidence issues, talking to girls, nervous guy: You should be proud you never had sex yet. I am proud of you.I can give you some sites that help shy people if you want. I also recommend talking to your parents. Now onto asking those girls out: Dinner and a movie is usually the first idea I recommend...

Teen Dating Issues: Just started dating a girl..., reply thanks, sweet kind
reply thanks, sweet kind, negative thoughts: hard to say what she will like. just be yourself and i think you should back off a bit. dont be clingy! and dont worry about what may or may not happen. your young and should be having fun right now. if you relax and dont hang around her so much then things...

Teen Dating Issues: getting started, cute blone, ups
cute blone, ups, year book: The second you stopped and asked am I going to fast , you know something may be wrong. Your 16. 16 years old was not really a real dating age. Now, today more and more teens date at age 16. Easy? You shouldn t play hard to get. You shouldn t just jump...

Teen Dating Issues: starting a relationship, age gap, flirting with men
age gap, flirting with men, commitment problem: i think the fact that you are less experieced then him is probably why he asked you at. he is 6 years older then you, its ok that you are less experienced. i would make sure you dont have sex for awhile with him too. that is a good way to judge how a guy really...

Teen Dating Issues: Do i stay with him?, long distance relationships, heart to heart
long distance relationships, heart to heart, unfortunantly: i think you both need to have a heart to heart conversation and be totally open and honest with each other. long distance relationships can be hard. i think its ok to give it a try and see what happends. if it looks like there are other guys you might want...

Teen Dating Issues: stay together or split up?, chicago song, independent lives
chicago song, independent lives, couple days: Hey Crystal, I think you hit the nail on the head with your own analysis of the situation: you guys are smothering each other and not allowing any time for your respective independent friends and/or interests. Have you ever heard the Chicago song Hard...

Teen Dating Issues: Going out or staying home, picinic, taking your time
picinic, taking your time, staying home: Michael, Hey! How are you? I do not know much about Columbia, but here s my suggestion: You two can go out to eat and then go see a movie. This way you two will be out but you also have the cuddling moments during the movie. If you want to have...

Teen Dating Issues: A sticky situation, cute love notes, sticky situation
cute love notes, sticky situation, actions speak louder than words: To your first questions yes it is legal to date a 19 year old girl, although it IS illegal for you to have sex together. I don t really understand your second question so I ll just go to your third question. Actions speak louder than words, so try showing...

Teen Dating Issues: A sticky situation, sex laws, sticky situation
sex laws, sticky situation, girl 2: Zak - To find out the sex laws for your state I recommend going to www.sexlaws.org I would recommend not dating someone you work with but if it s just a co-worker then there s probably nothing wrong with it. You should just gain her trust as a friend...

Teen Dating Issues: A sticky situation, sticky situation, girl 2
sticky situation, girl 2, old girl: im not sure about the age thing. i would assume that it is not legal for you to have sex with someone under the age of 18 but i dont know for sure. as long as she is not a supervisor to you then i think it would be ok to date in the workplace. you may want...

Teen Dating Issues: does she still like me?, music tastes, stupid subject
music tastes, stupid subject, shy guy: Maybe she s waiting for you to rescue her Sebastian. I mean you said it your self, she s shy. So maybe she doesn t quite know how to refuse the guy. If you like this girl then this very well might be your last chance to be with her. Tell her how you feel...

Teen Dating Issues: does she still like me?, music tastes, stupid subject
music tastes, stupid subject, shy guy: Sebastian, You need to not be so insecure about this whole situation. If she maintains this eye contact with you, then I would say there is a chance that she could be interested. But don t sit off on the sidelines and observe this situation and just get...

Teen Dating Issues: I still fancy her!, boyfriend and girlfriend, school friends
boyfriend and girlfriend, school friends, good friends: Hey Daz, Well, there is no way to get someone to like you. You can t control who she likes, so don t ask her out again...yet. If you really do like her, then wait for her and as soon as she starts showing signs of liking you, go for it. Just be there for...

Teen Dating Issues: I still fancy her!, boyfriend and girlfriend, school friends
boyfriend and girlfriend, school friends, eachother: A few questions Daz. You asked a girl out, how long were you together before she broke up with you? If you were only going out a short time, (a month or less) I doubt that what you are feeling is love. I m not trying to put down the feelings you have...

Teen Dating Issues: I still fancy her!, boyfriend and girlfriend, friend relationship
boyfriend and girlfriend, friend relationship, school friends: Daryl- Thanks for your question! The best thing to do right now is just go with the flow. Girls at that age tend to change their mind quite often. She probably likes you as a friend and maybe even more but doesn t want to wreck the friend relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: does he still have feelings for me?, virginity, homecoming
virginity, homecoming, ex gf: Christina, i know that you cared about this guy. But not being able to let go is really going to hurt you in the long run. I know it seems like you guys were perfect for each other but sometimes things just don t work out. He s ignoring you, if that doesn...

Teen Dating Issues: I still have feelings for my dumb ex!, bald head, disrespect
bald head, disrespect, redskins: you should not talk to him. any guy who is going to disrespect you like that you should stay away from. things will get easier as time goes by. hang out with friends and even go out on some dates. but just stay away from him. dont take his calls, im s, emails,...

Teen Dating Issues: i still am in love with my ex, long distance relationship, mixed signals
long distance relationship, mixed signals, wonderful girl: hi dean, first of all, i think you deserve a lot of credit for trying to clean up your act and be a good guy for the girl you love. i can tell you that a long distance relationship works but it will definitely be hard at times and will require a lot of love...

Teen Dating Issues: I am still in love with my ex, new girlfriend, private number
new girlfriend, private number, new girl: Dear Tasha, I don t fully understand your question. I m assuming you and this guy broke up and then he got with this new girl. Clearly there was a reason why you two broke up and since he is with a new girl maybe you should try moving on too. However, if...

Teen Dating Issues: What do i do...i still love her and she loves me, girlfriend, relationship
girlfriend, relationship, suggestion: Bob- Thanks for your question! It sounds like you might have been a little too pushy this early in the relationship, although I could be wrong in that I don t know either of you that well. My suggestion is to talk to her. Advise her that she s never...

Teen Dating Issues: Is he still in love with me, or tired of me?, south harrison high school, heavy metal music
south harrison high school, heavy metal music, smart mouths: Sarah, Sorry if this response is coming late but for the past few days i have been restricted not to use the PC from my eye doctor. I now have my glasses so I can see much better. Hope my response is still accepted.Now to answer your questions or at least...

Teen Dating Issues: Does she still love me?, hockey game, word of advice
hockey game, word of advice, fist: Hi there, Looks to me like you two might not know each other very well yet and aren t quite sure how to read each other. She seems to be shy around other people but can be her real self around you which is great. Perhaps you two just need to grow more comfortable...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he still wanna date?, kelly kelly, going all the way
kelly kelly, going all the way, movie theatre: Kelly - I think you should take this second chance and just slow down and just get to know eachother better and spend more time hanging out and going on dates. Go to the movie theatre or go the nearest play ground. Stuff like that gives you more of an...

Teen Dating Issues: Could it still work?, good chance, good friends
good chance, good friends, girlfriend: Brian, From what it sounds like to me you still have a pretty good chance of getting back together with your girlfriend. What you need to do is to give her a little bit of space. Give her until about a week or two in to the summer. When you are giving...

Teen Dating Issues: does he still like me?, short answer, atleast
short answer, atleast, wad: the only advice i can give you about this is that you need to talk to him and see whats up with that. It doesn t seem to me like he still likes you; but you can see how he feels...that won t hurt anything. Another advice i could give would be to tell your...

Teen Dating Issues: I got stood up? or did I stand someone up?, freshman year, good mood
freshman year, good mood, mums: well it seems your mum is very protective of you and doesnt want to see you get hurt! but at the time all you can think is what a b****! isnt that rite? lol. your mums doing it for your own good! well its pretty weird that you didnt mention that you had...

Teen Dating Issues: how to stop "screwing" up, head cheerleader, football guy
head cheerleader, football guy, state solo: well Leslie.. really if u can t keep yourself from being w/ these guys drunk then maybe u should try going to bars and dancing being sober and see how things go w/ them. see if they still are interested see if they still want to fuck. if they want to fuck...

Teen Dating Issues: how to stop "screwing" up, head cheerleader, football guy
head cheerleader, football guy, state solo: Les - I think you need to take a look at why you re getting drunk all the time and hooking up with guys you don t even know. Besides the fact that it s not healthy emotionally, it s not safe for your physical well being. You don t know how many people...

Teen Dating Issues: how to stop "screwing" up, head cheerleader, football guy
head cheerleader, football guy, state solo: Stupid your right. Drinking is a serious problem on colleges and it s sad. It s dumb. I am speechless with words. I know your a smart person, yet dumb is dumb. I know you don t want sex at your age and yet you were tricked into it. You should get tested for...

Teen Dating Issues: how to stop screwing up, head cheerleader, football guy
head cheerleader, football guy, state solo: Yeah ok your being a full on whore. Why dont you just stop. Why dont you try not getting drink for once. If all the guys want is to get into some drunk girls pants then they dont care about you at all, the point is to get into a drunk girls pants. It doesnt...

Teen Dating Issues: stressed out, boyf, mid teens
boyf, mid teens, bf: Hi Peyton and thanks for your question. A guy shouldn t really expect it, but I don t think it s entirely right to take without giving. Honey, if you re not ready to do that for him, then I would take it slower. You don t want to rush straight into it...

Teen Dating Issues: too strict mom?, muom, bad grades
muom, bad grades, strict rules: Melissa, I understand your situation but you are correct, your Muom only cares for you and wants what is best for you. I think maybe 18 is a bit to strict and maybe you really should talk to her and tell her that you feel untrusted and like you re not very...

Teen Dating Issues: stuck between a rock and a hard place, little white lies, lucky girl
little white lies, lucky girl, rock and a hard place: Hi! First of all your parents, however annoying, are only trying to look out for you. That said, they can often take this over the top! They want to protect you from being hurt or getting used by anyone and you have to keep this in mind. They re only painful...

Teen Dating Issues: stuck., dumb stuff, sweatshirt
dumb stuff, sweatshirt, good luck: Hey there, Well, he s just helping out his friend so that means he s a good guy. You aren t dating him so you technically don t have any rights over him. But if he starts flirting with other girls and leading other girls on, THEN you can call him an a-hole....

Teen Dating Issues: i like my student teacher, student teacher, jessie
student teacher, jessie, good luck: Michelle, I believe it s ok for you to see your student teacher, because he s also a student after all. Before you persue it, though, I d check just to make sure he can t get into any trouble over it. I know that if a student teacher goes to...

Teen Dating Issues: The stupid things people say..., things to say to a girl, different girls
things to say to a girl, different girls, stupid things: Jackson, The main thing I can tell you is to not try too hard to impress a girl. Just be relaxed and be yourself. It s understandable if your nervous, but you dont have to be. Don t think of every girl as your next potential gf. Just have a good time and...

Teen Dating Issues: summer time, final experience, mature person
final experience, mature person, first love: Ashley, I believe that the greatest maturity we find in life is often how we deal with love. If you are to commit yourself to this boy 100%, then you need to stick to it. If you know what you want, stick to it. If you don t think that you need to go...

Teen Dating Issues: My super shy girlfriend is blocking me out, first girlfriend, fear of commitment
first girlfriend, fear of commitment, serious relationship: I ve been through a lot of relationships where it feels like my partner isn t trying as hard. It s a very difficult situation to work with. If you are her first boyfriend, then it could be something like her not knowing exactly how to act. The idea of P.D.A....

Teen Dating Issues: My super shy girlfriend is blocking me out, first girlfriend, fear of commitment
first girlfriend, fear of commitment, serious relationship: I think you and her should sit down and talk. You have a lot on your mind and I am sure she does also! Don t overwhelm her, just tell her you love her and you always want her in your life. Ask how she feels where the relationship is going, mention how every...

Teen Dating Issues: ...What am I supposed to do?!?, popular guy, eye contact
popular guy, eye contact, flashback: hey Katie: flashback hehe ive been in this situation myself and its a pain. add him on AIM or some sort of instant messenger and talk to hima a bit at school keep making friends with his friends but dont seem desperate. flirt with him a little give him...

Teen Dating Issues: sweettalk, nice things, seh
nice things, seh, two guys: hi, just say nice things to her. how pretty she looks or that her hair smells good or that you really like something about her. be open and honest with her. if she is young then she may think she loves two guys but eventually she will realize who the...

Teen Dating Issues: sweettalk, happy thanksgiving, sweet talk
happy thanksgiving, sweet talk, nice things: Hello, jaxnicegirl how are you? Happy Thanksgiving!!! Sorry it took me awhile. My name is Lauren, and I am 22 yrs. old. Ok, well it depends on if she likes you or if you all are going togther. I suggests she likes you because she wants you to sweet talk her....

Teen Dating Issues: WHY IS HE TAKING FOREVER?, countinue, stares
countinue, stares, 6 years: You basically answered your own question. He probably hasn t asked you out because he is shy. If you love him the way you say you do you will swallow your pride and approach him in spite of his friends. Remember you already said that his friends say he likes...

Teen Dating Issues: Taking a break, breack, tricky situation
breack, tricky situation, virgen: Hmm. That s a tricky situation to be in, the I need to date other ppl before I work out what I want thing. This guy can t make up his mind. And whilst it s no fun for him, being torn between things, you don t have to be on the end of it! If you truly...

Teen Dating Issues: Taking a break?, long distance relationship, blink of an eye
long distance relationship, blink of an eye, e mail: I m sorry to hear about your situation. However, people change. It can happen in the blink of an eye without you ever expecting it. He doesn t want to talk about it, you said, so it gives the impression of a) he is very confused and doesn t know what he wants...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting to Talk to a Certain Girl, good posture, eye contact
good posture, eye contact, posture: David, buddy, you re thinking into this WAY too much. Just go up and talk to the girl like you would talk to a friend. Just be cool, confident, and carry yourself like a man that can get ANY woman he wants. Meaning, just have good posture, dont talk to...

Teen Dating Issues: Talk things out, main objective, writing letters
main objective, writing letters, kenji: Kenji - First of all, it s very unprofessional for students and teachers to be dating. Most teachers will lose their jobs if put in that position. Second, I think you need to get over her and stop being so obsessive and back off. You ve gone past the...

Teen Dating Issues: Talk things out, professional boundaries, main objective
professional boundaries, main objective, writing letters: Hi Kenji, I can understand that you have had a really difficult time. Your lecturer realises that she overstepped the professional boundaries and so did the right thing. You have to accept that it s unlikely she will reply to you after all this time....

Teen Dating Issues: Talking, sence, age group
sence, age group, bf: Paige, You just have to talk about whatever is on your mind. You dont even have to talk about important stuff. Its just about enjoying the time that you spend with someone. Starting a conversation with your bf shouldnt be hard for you. You know him,...

Teen Dating Issues: Talking Everyday?, interesting things, gf
interesting things, gf, conversations: Justin- What you are referring to happens very often in relationships and it s a very natural part of dating. I wouldn t fake being excited just to make her happy. I would, however, tell her how you are feeling and that you care for her and respect her...

Teen Dating Issues: Talking to a girl, pretty girl, conversations
pretty girl, conversations: start with small talk. you want to become friends with her first before asking her out. talk to her about what ever you would talk to your regular friends about. her likes and dislikes. school. movies. whatever. just keep the conversations short to gegin with...

Teen Dating Issues: Talking to girls, talking to girls, face turns red
talking to girls, face turns red, girls name: Chad, Either way it s going to be hard to be in a relationship with her. Maybe she really is busy, but then again she might not be. I would suggest spending maybe $5 on a small gift for her. See how she responds to it. That way you are not spending all...

Teen Dating Issues: Talking, wonderful day, smile
wonderful day, smile, girls: Chad, Just be yourself! You have to be confident in yourself or everything will come out wrong. Try not to stress over the things you say too much. Also, the more you get to know her the more relaxed you will become around her. There is not anything you...

Teen Dating Issues: TEEN DATING, blood relatives, blood relation
blood relatives, blood relation, young man: To be honest, this is probably the weirdest question I have ever received. I hope this is legit. The people who told you forbidding them to be together will just fuel their passion are 100% right. If they weren t blood relatives, I would tell you to actually...

Teen Dating Issues: TEENS, stis, ups
stis, ups, aids: Not all teens do. Is this for a school project this question? A lot of teens do not want sex. The TV makes us think it s more than it is. TV promotes this, yet they shouldn t be. The TV is not real life. It does not talk about STIs and AIDs. It does not talk...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating, place in my heart, rest of my life
place in my heart, rest of my life, close friends: I m not going to lie Robert, this kinda problem holds a special place in my heart. Believe it or not, a couple of months ago i posed a problem pretty much exactly like this on here and the response i got encouraged me to become an expert. You know what,...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating, rest of my life, close friends
rest of my life, close friends, sophomore: It sounds like you want to rush into dating. There is no need to rush. Remember most teen dating does not end up in marriage. My advice is wait right now. I also recommend our How to know if he or she likes you area . Good luck Please ask follow ups I...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating, female perspective, true feelings
female perspective, true feelings, facebook: Hello Clark! It seems like everyone has facebook now! If she is dating someone, let them be. I know it may be hard but it would be terrible to break apart true feelings! It would be best to just accept her as a friend. If they do break up, it would be great...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating, facebook, beautiful girl
facebook, beautiful girl, 3 years: Hi Clark, Well you certainly are in a difficult situation. I would like to know how old you are first. But, it can t hurt to tell her how you feel and see how she responds. Always remember that when your friends with a girl your attracted to and a girl...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating, rape charges, law degree
rape charges, law degree, legal advice: Hi, I don t have a law degree, yet I do believe that having intercourse at 15 with a 21 year old in Canada is illegal. Now, not being a lawyer, this is just a theory based on some facts I have heard over the years. I recommend talking to a lawyer in your...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating/Love, rest of my life, good friends
rest of my life, good friends, instinct: Robert, we re always fearing that if we leap no one will be there to catch us, figuratively speaking, no one will be there to return our feelings. But remember that you can t prevent what you can t predict. Don t worry so much if she ll feel for you what you...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating, crazy friends, serious conversation
crazy friends, serious conversation, weird reason: Dear Chris, You sound so sweet! Im pretty sure she feels the same way about you or atleast she thinks she could feel that way with time. You should ask her to hang out with you but dont call it a date . Get to know her better before you make the decision...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen dating, dear mom, parental advice
dear mom, parental advice, improper behavior: Thank you so much Dorothy for your question. I have had some problems with the internet here, and very sorry about the response time but I am very thankful to have the opportunity to help if I can and that this answer comes to you in the moment you...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen dating, rebound guy, aswell
rebound guy, aswell, relationship: There s a chance Trayton that you could have just been the rebound guy. But i don t think so. Something tells me shes interested in you Trayton, but you have to give her time to get over her past. Listen to your friend, step abck a bit and let her deal with...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen dating, look in the mirror, good luck
look in the mirror, good luck, lunch: When no one is around at your house look in the mirror or at something it doesn t matter. Pretend that she is there and practice saying exactly what you want to say to her. I know it may seem silly but it works. If you don t say anything to her then you really...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen dating, 16 year olds, breakups
16 year olds, breakups, holding hands: Dominique- Great questions! I would honestly have to say that it depends on the area and age group. I ll give you the top few that I ve heard the most. -Cheating issues -Wanting to see other people -Not interested anymore The age in which teens...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Love, successful relationships, romantic relationship
successful relationships, romantic relationship, romeo and juliet: Andrew, You sound like a really sweet guy and I m sure that any girl who dates you will be very lucky. Dating a friend and having a romantic relationship can be one of the most rewarding things, or it can be one of the most painful. Let me explain.... ...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Relationships, ultimate frisbee club, friend megan
ultimate frisbee club, friend megan, teen relationships: If i had to take a guess, yeah it sounds like he likes you. But you have to remember that i don t know him or you so it s really hard for me to make an accurate guess. I m saying yes because it does sound like he flirts with you more then other girls. There...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen relationship, teen relationship, having children
teen relationship, having children, girlfriend: I d say that if you re still in high school to not worry so much about settling down until you get out. You have plenty of years ahead, enjoy yourself for right now. If you wanted to break up with her I d just be honest with her and tell her that in the...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen relationships, ultimate frisbee club, friend megan
ultimate frisbee club, friend megan, teen relationships: Hi Kaila, It s hard for me to tell if he likes you truthfully. It helps me to know how old you both are. It sounds like he s much more of a flirt, but the only way to find out is to ask him. I know it takes guts, but it s the only way to really find out...

Teen Dating Issues: Teenage relationship, william paterson university, green river community college
william paterson university, green river community college, mr watson: Olga- I would be more than happy to assist you with whatever you need. The following is some of my experience: Undergraduate degree in music education from William Paterson University specializing in k-12 vocal and instrumental. I have been an expert...

Teen Dating Issues: Telephone or in person?, good luck, confidence
good luck, confidence, girls: Hey there, Well, if you ask her in person, it shows that you have confidence and are independant. Confidence matters to a girl. If you ask her on the phone, it makes you seem more shy and timid, not all girls like that. Do what makes you comfortable. Good...

Teen Dating Issues: Tell me..., last question, women studies
last question, women studies, girls: One of my favorite courses I ever taken was a women studies course. It taught people what women really want is men to respect them for them and not to treat them as an object, yet as a person. Please feel free to keep asking us questions. Thanks for using...

Teen Dating Issues: Telling Your Boyfriend You Love Him, hundred thousand, savannah
hundred thousand, savannah, emotions: Hey Amber- Well you could always just tell him how much he means to you and how you really don t want anything to happen to your relationship with him. Something like that. Just take what your feeling in your heart and just come out with it to him. I hope...

Teen Dating Issues: Terminology problem..., romantic gestures, terminology problem
romantic gestures, terminology problem, clearify: Alex - Well first of all it s spelled flirting and it s defined as making playful romantic gestures. Basically it s the way you act around someone you have a crush on whether it s laughing at everything they say or touching them every chance you get...

Teen Dating Issues: Thanks but I need more help, darlene, new friend
darlene, new friend, second chance: hey tiffany, lol hey i could always use a new friend.. never can get enough. well what was it that you heard about your ex that made you break up. was any of it true? if u had a great boyfriend but decided to split there had to be a pretty good reason (at...

Teen Dating Issues: Theres no point in my life no more, friend angela, watch tv
friend angela, watch tv, whole life: Hey Frankie. Thanks for getting in touch, I ll try my best to help you. Please don t feel so down, and don t feel there s no point in life anymore or anything like that. You shouldn t feel like that, it makes it worse, you re 15 and have your whole life...

Teen Dating Issues: What Is He Thinking?, slow dances, formal dance
slow dances, formal dance, c student: Tracy- I would love to tell you exactly what he s thinking and why, but I can t. What I can tell you to do is talk to him. You will not sound snobbish or anything if you ask him how he feels about you. This way you can get him to open up and communicate...

Teen Dating Issues: Three girls...one guy., intense feelings, three girls
intense feelings, three girls, sweet things: Hi Jennifer You need to choose between your friends or getting a boyfriend. Does Sheridan like you as well? If he knows that you love him; and so do your friends; I don t think he would do anything to hurt any one of you. But since he has already went out...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting Back Together, everlasting relationship, heartfelt letter
everlasting relationship, heartfelt letter, message saying that: Hi Matt, Sounds like she may have needed some space to figure things out too. Perhaps dating another guy was way to see if you really were the one for her. You said you have realized why she broke off your engagement so now think about how you can show...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting Back Togther, everlasting relationship, message saying that
everlasting relationship, message saying that, month and a half: Dear Matt, I am sorry for the pain and problems that you have in this situation. God Bless you. I am going to tell you right off that it is heard to be good friends with someone that you have been intimate with if you break up after. This is why the...

Teen Dating Issues: Tolo?, high school dance, age gap
high school dance, age gap, lil crazy: Well first of all let me appologize for taking so long to get to YOU. My financial aid was messing up and my teacher s have been acting a lil crazy. Well if the dance has already passed please exscuse me, but if not I would still like to write to you. I think...

Teen Dating Issues: Tolo?, high school dance, age gap
high school dance, age gap, school friend: Alana- I say to totally go for it. You don t want to miss a chance where you can have the time of yout life. I don t think it s odd at all... it gives you a chance for him to also figure out that you re trying to get to know him better. ...

Teen Dating Issues: Tolo?, high school dance, school dances
high school dance, school dances, age gap: Alana, It kind of depends on the person. Some people don t mind going to high school dances when they have already graduated, and some people find it uncomfortable. If you can t read him well enough to tell then just ask him. I m sure he would be flattered...

Teen Dating Issues: THIS IS A TRAVESTY!!, romantic tension, new girlfriend
romantic tension, new girlfriend, spelling bee: Dear Mike, Well, I put off answering this for a while so I could give it some thought. Don t worry about it seeming long.. I actually enjoyed reading your senior thesis :P Well Mike, I think the issue here is that you re comparing yourself to your...

Teen Dating Issues: Trouble meeting girls, low self esteem, breaking the ice
low self esteem, breaking the ice, how to approach girls: Hey Mike! Well, back when I was in HS too I had very little confidence as well. What would be useful is trying to figure out the cause of your low confidence, then you can better deal with the symptoms. Of course, teenagers all suffer from low self esteem...

Teen Dating Issues: Trouble meeting and talking to people. Want to have a true girlfriend., real girlfriend, talking to girls
real girlfriend, talking to girls, dead silence: HI Eddie, First of all, I want you to know you are certainly not alone. I had the worste time in high school talking to girls. I had very little self confidence and self esteem, even though I was a good athlete and fairly popular. I just never knew what...

Teen Dating Issues: Quentin, sentimental times, mutual time
sentimental times, mutual time, relationship work: Hi Jordan. As much as I really would love to help you guys and be a mediator in your relationship, this is between the two of you. You guys really need to communicate with each other and talk about it. Now that you know each other s feelings it won t be as...

Teen Dating Issues: Troubles, sex with my girlfriend, same couples
sex with my girlfriend, same couples, distracting thoughts: Hey Brian, I apologize for the brief delay in getting back to you. Keeping in mind that I am not a medical doctor, it does seem to me that your problem may be some kind of mental block, as you stated. Has anything happened recently, anything at all that...

Teen Dating Issues: Troublesome girlfreind, pet peeve, girlfreind
pet peeve, girlfreind, vulgar language: Wow, the first thing I can say is, leave her. Unfortunately, no matter how much you love someone, they should never treat you like that. With love, you re supposed to sacrifice things, yes of course! Conflicts do arise, of course! Relationships are suppose...

Teen Dating Issues: True love, lovey dovey stuff, happy holidays
lovey dovey stuff, happy holidays, cuddling: Happy New Year!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Jessie, I m sorry, your questions require me to think (smiles). Well I think by him saying that he is going to drink, and he knows it makes you upset and hurts you I think that is kind of childish....

Teen Dating Issues: Who To Trust, infront, dik
infront, dik, close friends: Find the truth. And remember a friend is not suppose to attack you in the back. If they are hurting you, than they may not be your friends, and I know you can do better than those people if what you said is true. Talk to your parents. Good luck and sorr...

Teen Dating Issues: Trust, distance relationships, open relationship
distance relationships, open relationship, school person: You need to talk to him about how distance relationships are new to you. How you feel this will be hard. How you feel trust is important. How you feel you need to build trust. Talk often. Things such as this. I also recommend our Distance relationships experts....

Teen Dating Issues: Trust Issue, boyfriend scott, low self esteem
boyfriend scott, low self esteem, trust issue: Leah- I personally don t know your boyfriend but with comments like let s just make out and in due time it doesn t sound like he truly cares about you and your feelings. He should be listening and offering you emotional help which should then be turned...

Teen Dating Issues: Who to Trust, nicly, saying things
nicly, saying things, infront: hi i think its important to know for sure if your gf is saying things behind your back. if she has done it before then she could be doing it again. if you sak her nicly then she should be ok with you asking. if she gets all upset then maybe she really is...

Teen Dating Issues: Trying again, awkwardness, right moment
awkwardness, right moment, great time: Ok I feel you are rushing to find someone to replace her in theory. Is this correct? You re comparing everyone to her. Now, what made her so special? It s not uncommon for people to want something when they cannot have it. For an example I compare this...

Teen Dating Issues: Trying to ask a girl out., nice girl, girl friend
nice girl, girl friend, rest of the day: Phillip, I don t think you even need to be asking for my advice. You already know what you have to do and the only thing left is to DO IT!! Yes, women like confidence, probably more than any other quality in a man. Don t worry about your lack of experience...

Teen Dating Issues: Trying to date my ex again, special person, good friends
special person, good friends, savannah: Hey J- Well just talk to her and let her know that your going to be there for her for anything that she may need.. Even if it s just talking let her know. Also let her know how you feel about her and that you don t want to lose her to anyone else.. I hope...

Teen Dating Issues: Trying to get a girlfriend, heart races, girl fall
heart races, girl fall, one of these days: Hi, well from what i m seeing you re looking for ways to make a girl fall in love with you. Okay i ll give you couple ways. But having crushes is nothing special I mean they come and they go. But finding that girl that makes you smile everytime you think...

Teen Dating Issues: Trying to regain interest of a girl, friend zone, information worth
friend zone, information worth, year one: John, Here is an article from Askmen.com and I think it will be of use to you. Also explore the rest of the website. It has alot of great information worth reading over, but here is a link to help you with your current issue http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_150/176_dating_advice.html...

Teen Dating Issues: Trying again, awkwardness, right moment
awkwardness, right moment, great time: Jeff - I think you definitely need to tell her how you feel some time because it s going to eat you up inside until you let her know. Just be honest with her. Either way, you ll feel better once it s done. Maybe it s just not meant to be. Who knows. ...

Teen Dating Issues: Twot things, poeple, perfect time
poeple, perfect time, eachother: It s hard to know when to ask someone out. The perfect time I mean. This is why I recommend you to to become friends before dating. However, why is she afraid to date you when she likes you? Family reasons or religion or school? I am not sure. Good luck and...

Teen Dating Issues: The Typical Unsure About A Girl, general chit chat, female advice
general chit chat, female advice, dinner times: Play it however you want Matt, this isn t a mind game. If you like her, you like her, there isn t anything you can change. If she has given you the wrong impression, she will tell you. Otherwise, as of now, you are probably clueless as to how she feels about...

Teen Dating Issues: I can't get over him., spoiled brat, first kiss
spoiled brat, first kiss, pranks: Well, you did the right thing to begin with by rejecting the first time. It s apparent that he doesn t want a relationship and has many internal issues dealing with self-confidence. Guys who wish to have more than one girl at a time generally are just trying...

Teen Dating Issues: I Can't Chose!, http www myspace, fun things
http www myspace, fun things, whole life: What you need to do is sit down and make a list about what you like and dont like about each guy. Include in that list what you like that they do for you, who do you do more fun things with, who treats you better, who gives you more romance, etc. Then you...

Teen Dating Issues: i can't dance, self conscience, delima
self conscience, delima, teen club: Joe, Interesting that you ask this question, I was just considering this question last night. My girlfriend was having a dance party at her house, so I got to look around and see all sorts of guys in your position. They re normally very outgoing and have...

Teen Dating Issues: I like him but we can't date!, help with homework, own religion
help with homework, own religion, teases: Hey Devyn- What you should do is talk this over with him. See if he does infact like you back then see how he feels about if you two were to date when he can. Also if you really feel like this guy is worth it then wait for him. Wait until he can date and...

Teen Dating Issues: i can't be JUST FRIENDS, depression anxiety, guy joe
depression anxiety, guy joe, friend lives: Hi Lizz, before I answer your question I would like to applaud your bravery in dealing with your incident a while back. If you want him to really start developing feelings for you, deny yourself to him, lol. Denying the hug was great! Now he knows he can t...

Teen Dating Issues: Can't figure out this guy..., coffee place, couple blocks
coffee place, couple blocks, couple weeks: That s a common error. I understand. It s the How to Know if He/She Really Likes You . I do not like to answer such questions for unknown biases and one sided facts. Sometimes people try to make me admit that someone likes them for they only put in the proof...

Teen Dating Issues: I can't get a girl., hunch, virgins
hunch, virgins, whole life: Brian, Relax, you re 16. There s nothing wrong with being a virgin at you re age. I was a virgin at age 16. I have friends that are respectable people and are successful with the opposite sex and are virgins. It sounds cheesy, but you SHOULD wait until...

Teen Dating Issues: Why can't I get a girl?, right girl, single girl
right girl, single girl, first move: Dean, I wouldnt say that you sit around and wait for the right girl to just appear, if it seems that this girl is interested in you then it s best for you to make the move seeing that you ve been havng bad luck in that area. I wouldn t agree to her making...

Teen Dating Issues: Why can't my parents be happy for me, type situations, otu
type situations, otu, best of intentions: Hey Mel, I m sorry to hear that you re going through this difficult and frustrating time right now. How old are you? I know some parents are extremely protective of their teenage children, especially the younger ones, so that may be part of their reasoning...

Teen Dating Issues: I can't stop thinking about this girl, part time job, happy holidays
part time job, happy holidays, walk in the park: Happy Holidays. I joke with people when I tell them I work on this holiday. I try never to take a break. OK now onto your question after this off the topic note above. I have never had a girlfriend --- It s fine not to have a girl friend at your age....

Teen Dating Issues: I can't stop thinking..., math class, mean girl
math class, mean girl, art classes: Bryan- Something tells me you might be looking at this whole situation the wrong way. If this girl didn t give you her number and responded the way she did, she may not be interested after all and her friend might be telling you that in a mean way. I...

Teen Dating Issues: why can't i talk?!, playing poker, list html
playing poker, list html, dating tips: Chris, The first thing you need to know is that you should be relaxed and comfortable in your own skin. Don t worry about saying the wrong thing. It s not what you say, but how you say it. If you talk like a fearful little school boy, women won t find...

Teen Dating Issues: I can't talk to a girl I like a lot., happy holiday, biblegateway com passage
happy holiday, biblegateway com passage, rest of my life: Dear Joe… So of the reason you may not be able to talk with her is what you have imagined about her, how she makes feel, what you think about her, and what you see when you think about the two of you…but that is a good place to start talking with her! ...

Teen Dating Issues: I can't tell what shes thinking, alot, courage
alot, courage: Hey there Jim, You gotta understand this, you can t make a person like you, you can only make yourself more likable. Try asking her out at the dance, and judge her actions or reactions, and if she gets uneasy at your question, just back off, and be like:...

Teen Dating Issues: Can't think of things to say!, talkative person, new boyfriend
talkative person, new boyfriend, girlfriends: Well hi, my name is Lauren, and I m sorry it took me so long to get back to you! Well...I want to first tell you that communication is a very important part in a relationship. You know, many guys won t even talk and if this guy is telling you to talk that...

Teen Dating Issues: should't it be done by now?, never been kissed, cold shoulder
never been kissed, cold shoulder, human eye: I can not say why guys do not seem to like you, but maybe you are missing them. So you can not have the guys you want right now, ut broaden your horizons and see what is out there. Many people have not kissed, gone out with, or had sex with anyone until after...

Teen Dating Issues: taken, wate, savannah
wate, savannah: Hey Daniel- Well just tell her how you feel and everything. Just let her know then just see what happens from there. You really can t break anyone up. If you were to then that person would find out what you did and really not like you from it. Just just...

Teen Dating Issues: what do i talk about, dislikes, good luck
dislikes, good luck: Hey there, That s easy! Talk about likes, dislikes, things that annoy you, ask some things about him, just go with the flow. Don t centre things all around you, make sure you ask him some things and find things out about him! Good luck, and have fun! Just...

Teen Dating Issues: How to talk to her?, onli
onli: Hi Jason, Ask her about things she likes, her favorites, things like that. Talk about what s been going on, or something interesting that happened that day. I m sure as soon as the conversation goes on, you will find more things to talk about. Talking online...

Teen Dating Issues: how to talk to here, tea kwon, monthes
tea kwon, monthes, e mail: hey ernesto, you might want to try to ask her for her Screen Name, Messenger or e-mail if you get nervous talking to her in person you might find it easier to talk to her through the internet another thing girls find really cute are letters try writting her...

Teen Dating Issues: how do i talk to him about it?, distant future, feelings
distant future, feelings, jelously: i think its important to be open and honest with him. that doesnt mean you are right about her jelously but that you want to talk to him about it. tell him how you feel. he should acknowledge that you feel this way and try to resolve the issue. if you are...

Teen Dating Issues: how should i talk/approach her?, screen names, new girl
screen names, new girl, screen name: Well, maybe a good idea to start talking and becoming friends is through the internet. If you and this girl both have myspaces, or have screen names it makes it a lot more easy to break down awkward-ness. If you don t have myspace or a screen name then...

Teen Dating Issues: how should i talk/approach her?, new girl, buddies
new girl, buddies: Dear Jared, If you dont feel comfortable talking to her in person then give her a note or something. Just find a time to talk to her and get to know her. Maybe ask her to hang out with you and your friends sometime so you guys dont feel weird. SIncerely,...

Teen Dating Issues: how should i talk/approach her?, conversation starters, easy conversation
conversation starters, easy conversation, new girl: Hi Jared! It seems like you just have to keep talking to her to make her get out of her shell. Some easy conversation starters for you are to ask her about her day, talk about school, what she likes to do for fun, her favorite things. The more you get to...

Teen Dating Issues: how should i talk/approach her?, good sense of humor, sense of humor
good sense of humor, sense of humor, new girl: Mr. Davidson, You shouldn t worry about whether or not she likes you first. You just need to make sure she is comfortable around you. Don t make talking to her such a big deal. If you show a good sense of humor and not care so much about whether a girl...

Teen Dating Issues: How do I talk to a girl?, anything in this world, being friends
anything in this world, being friends, committment: You can t exactly give someone a note and expect to be friends from there. Being friends is really important, probably more important than being in a relationship. Mainly because, you start from friendship, and with friendship comes trust, honesty, communication....

Teen Dating Issues: How to talk to this girl i really like, sexual desire, first move
sexual desire, first move, hallways: You re probably going to hate my advice, but it s the best thing i can tell you. GO TALK TO HER! I know your nervous and shy but sometimes you just have to MAN UP to get what you really want. If this girl is what you want, then go for it. Don t hold your self...

Teen Dating Issues: how to talk to a girl, male population, body language
male population, body language, how to talk to a girl: Hi Michal, Thanks for your question. You are shy, but don t feel bad so is 95% of the male population. Some more then others. I have been in your situation before, and I have also assisted a lot of people in your situation. First of all when meeting...

Teen Dating Issues: how to talk to the opposite sex, signals, confidence
signals, confidence: this is a very commonly asked question with litte answers! just be yourself! think to yourself that you dont fancy him, dont show this physically as you may give the wrong signals! act like he is a friend and then you will be able to build your confidence!...

Teen Dating Issues: what do i talk about, family friends, ty
family friends, ty: ask him about his family friends interests and anything you think he may like. then once youve got a bunch of information you can use that to talk about those things. dont forget to do some talking yourself as well but dont get carried away so as to bore him....

Teen Dating Issues: talkin, cell phone ringtones, talking to girls
cell phone ringtones, talking to girls, random girls: hi marcus... im so so sorry ive taken way too long to respond to you. so ill try to make this quick and helpful. to keep a convo going it depends whats around you .. say your at the ma.., easily find out what they are shoppng for, what stores they like...

Teen Dating Issues: talking to my girlfriend, one million dollars, awnser
one million dollars, awnser, deck of cards: Dear Nathan, Thank you for asking me this question. I want to let you know that this question is one of the most important “?´s” men can deal with in themselves in regards to all relationships, but most importantly the one with the woman you choose...

Teen Dating Issues: talking to girls, cell phone ringtones, talking to girls
cell phone ringtones, talking to girls, convo: hey aaron, so ill try to make this quick and helpful. to keep a convo going it depends whats around you jsut ask the basics. she what she likes, and expand about that.. say your at the mall, easily find out what they are shoppng for, what stores they...

Teen Dating Issues: talking to girls, talking to girls, funny things
talking to girls, funny things, best of luck: Aaron- There are many things you can talk to her about... just remember, never ask questions that can be answered with one word, because then the conversation will die off.. 1. School. Hey you re both going to the same place. Talk about new things...

Teen Dating Issues: talking to girls, talking to girls, converstation
talking to girls, converstation, stupid things: Well the kid who use to sit next to me (much like a you himself) use to say random (not stupid) things to get a converstation going. Or ask about her day or what she does outside of school talk about her she will love it. If she seems irrated like not saying...

Teen Dating Issues: talking to girls, talking to girls, converstions
talking to girls, converstions, last question: Hi Taran, I would just go with the flow. Talk about school, common intrests, foods ect. You can tell if she looks into your eyes, maybe looks away really fast when your not looking, laughs at your jokes, ect. Couples dates, dinner and a movie always works...

Teen Dating Issues: talking on phone, comunication skills, hes
comunication skills, hes, rehab: Dear Jessica, Well if you guys cant talk then you dont have good comunication skills which are needed when dating someone. You guys need to work through that. Maybe write down some topics you could bring up and try to start a conversation from there....

Teen Dating Issues: talking subjects, awkward silences, music bands
awkward silences, music bands, free time: Dan - Find out what she s interested in and start talking about that. Ask her what kind of music/bands she s into, what she likes to do in her free time...those are all pretty good icebreakers. If you have anymore questions don t hesitate to email me...

Teen Dating Issues: talking, enjoyable conversation, shy one
enjoyable conversation, shy one, sole reason: Yes I have almost the same problem too. People in my classes think I m the shy one, but in my group of friends it s the exact opposite. When you have an opinion, go ahead and say it. In middle school I was too scared to even raise my hand to ask the teacher...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, pre marital sex, virgin ears
pre marital sex, virgin ears, unplanned pregnancies: Hi Claire, Good question, what are acceptable dating behaviors for boys and girls of the older generation. By older generation I assume the past generation ie (1980ish and further back). Well, there hasn t been much of a radical change in the past twenty...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, girls on top, da mall
girls on top, da mall, differnt: Well, for starters you could talk to him. Tell him that you like him, but don t appreciate the fact that he has four girlfriends and still tried to make a move on you. Tell him that if he wants to do anything with you (like kiss or somethin) that he needs...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, girls on top, da mall
girls on top, da mall, differnt: you are not the one to blame in this situation. He let this happen and it is his fault. Think about whether you actually like him or not. It was wrong of him to do this to you and other girl involved. If he really cared, he would ve told you the truth,...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, girls on top, da mall
girls on top, da mall, differnt: Ok, first, I just want to say I m going to be as blunt as possible in a few seconds and I don t want you to be offended or surprised. You really have quite a few options here, but I m going to lay them out for you. If you like him, which I m not sure if...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, does she like me?, friends zone, problom
friends zone, problom, game of poker: Andy, If you are interested in this girl, stop talking to her on myspace and start getting to know her in person. It sounds like you are getting dangerously close to being stuck in the friends zone, and if you keep proceeding the way you have you will be...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, mixed signals, friend guy
mixed signals, friend guy, rare breed: Colette, It is possible that he s too shy, but I m not getting that kind of vibe. It seems like this guy is a rare breed. As shallow as it soudns, guys rarely do get extremely close with a girl without wanting something romantic as well. At least in...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, advice giver, 15 year olds
advice giver, 15 year olds, law degree: Hi, The legal laws vary per each state. I will tell you that having intercourse or any type of sexual activity is against the law usually at age 15. Jail time varies. I will also state that dating at age 15 in some locations is ILLEGAL. I recommend to...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, age gap, smooth sailing
age gap, smooth sailing, bf 3: hi kaylee, i ve never been in your situation but i m going to be honest with you. i think that at 13, there is so much stuff that you don t know or understand just yet. right now, your parents know this and that s why they re being so strict about you and...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, continual problem, legal adult
continual problem, legal adult, best of luck: HI Sherry, This is one of those situations where you have to establish your role as a parent, and establish rules and guidelines in the home. This is not about discouraging your daughter, it s about setting a rule, that basically she has no choice but to...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, kiss on the lips, hug kiss
kiss on the lips, hug kiss, first move: Well, if I were in this position, I wouldn t make a move just yet, since he is inexperienced. If you really like him a lot, you should wait until you feel that the time is right to make a move on him, and until you know that he feels the same way. It s VERY...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, how to make the first move, insecurities
how to make the first move, insecurities, sara: Hi Sara, So you re getting with an inexperienced guy and you want to know how to make the first move without it getting wierd. Sounds simple enough. Okay, you may or may not know this but guys have natural insecurities around women. That s why you see alot...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, fish in the sea, relly
fish in the sea, relly, first move: Hey Sara, Yes I am =D.. Well its all according on the situation if the girl never makes the move an the guy relly likes you he will make the move first but its better that a guy dose it it shows respect but if you wanna make the move go ahead. Well...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating?, stanley cup, oilers
stanley cup, oilers, gestures: Hey Gerard! Alright, here s what you do: Step 1: Before you do anything, start catching her eye a for a couple of days, just so she knows you exist. Step 2: Start smiling to her in the halls and stuff like that. Just friendly gestures. Step 3: After about...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, freindship, freinds
freindship, freinds, awww: Hey. Awww that s really nice to here. I m really pleased for the both of you. That s totally gorgeous. I wish all the best to the both of you in the future. Thankyou for letting me know, I love to know how people have got on, and you re more than welcome....

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, sweet note, teen dating
sweet note, teen dating, good friends: First of all, don t listen to people that give you crap about having a girlfriend unless its your really good friends and they are telling you that she s not good for you. Second of all there are lots of things you can do. Write her a sweet note and give...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, time and space, 5 months
time and space, 5 months, feelings: Jim, I think you should just give her some time. If she said she loved you and wanted to be with you, those feelings can t of just gone, so she must still have those feelings, just maybe a bit unsure about them and want to take time to think about what...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating adult, sexual relationship, legal questions
sexual relationship, legal questions, 17 years: Hi, Legal questions need to be asked to a lawyer in your area. As a general rule I don t give legal advice. I will state it depends on your location with the law. I will also state the age difference is too big for you for our culture and I recommend you...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating problems, friend kayla, marysa
friend kayla, marysa, milatary: I do not like the age difference either. 95% he is probably messing with her head to get to something, but Kayla has no right to be like that. Tell Marysa that she has to choose , the guy or the girl. If she wants the guy , she has to let go of that girl for...

Teen Dating Issues: teen dating, wit, feelings
wit, feelings, best friend: okay, here s the thing. this boy is known for cheating on you with your sister. and yes people do change but if this guy has cheated once before, i don t think i d go out with him again. but then again people can change. if you want to, you can go out with...

Teen Dating Issues: teen love, freshman year, hi thanks
freshman year, hi thanks, first date: I wouldn t tell her you love her before a first date, but you should probably just ask her to go see a movie. Get there early or stay late so you two can talk, unless you don t think you can keep a conversation going. Sometimes, at least in my past experience,...

Teen Dating Issues: teen problem, teen problem, realtionship
teen problem, realtionship, love is a choice: Dear April, I hope I can be a help to you, and I thank you for the opportunity to be of some assistance. April, Love is a Choice and a Process. If you cannot trust him now then think about all the time that you will (And have already) pour into this relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: teen relat., mutual friend, kinds of music
mutual friend, kinds of music, youth group: Well, I may be late, but no. If he s there, then it wouldn t be weird, you re all there to have fun and make friends. Just talk to him about something small and then talk about how football is going and what kinds of music he likes. Just make small talk...

Teen Dating Issues: teenage dating and behaviour changes, teenagers life, teenage dating
teenagers life, teenage dating, counsiling: Laura- Teen dating is a rough issue these days. Based on my experience teaching at numerous high schools, I have seen all different ages of teen dating. My personal idea is that you should not say you can t date until you re (fill in age number) years...

Teen Dating Issues: teenage love, snog, hasnt
snog, hasnt, virginity: Your two lost your virgity lots of guys get weird after that, he could be geting weird because he feels more for you but doesnt want to let on since he is a guy and his friends might take the micky out of him so to speak. Try ignore him for a while if he...

Teen Dating Issues: teenage relationships, teenage relationships, first kiss
teenage relationships, first kiss, simple answer: ...simple answer...no. No i don t see why it would be wrong to date him at all. If you like each other well then thats all that really matters. If his cousin has a problem with that then thats really his problem. -Remember, keep life in-between the lines...

Teen Dating Issues: how to tell her?, thinking about sex, physical attraction
thinking about sex, physical attraction, having sex: Carven, If you ve only been dating for a couple months and you ve only been on three dates, get the sex out of your mind. I know as a guy that is just something that comes naturally, but if you want this girl to like you, and you like her, stop thinking...

Teen Dating Issues: to tell or not, mixed signals, gorgeous girls
mixed signals, gorgeous girls, one of the girls: Hey Renee, It sounds to me like this guy is the classic flirt. I know so many guys like that. They will be extremely friendly and very flirty to any girl they find attractive. I read somewhere that flirting is a natural instinct and without flirting a person...

Teen Dating Issues: How do I tell her?, first move, good luck
first move, good luck: Justin, I think you should just go over to this girl, and make conversation. Chat to her, ask her interests and about the program your doing, if she likes it or not for example. Making a conversation flow between you too is the first big step. Then, once...

Teen Dating Issues: Should i tell him i like him ?, taking drugs, question thanks
taking drugs, question thanks, time t: Hi Melissa, Obsessive boyfriends or girlfriends can be a problem. Unfortunately sometimes love and/or sex can be very much like a drug, and be addictive. Just like it s difficult to quit taking drugs, sometimes it s tough giving up a relationship, especially...

Teen Dating Issues: How do I tell him?, 2 friends, one friend
2 friends, one friend, best of luck: Hello Laurie. Wow, it sounds like a bit of a mix-up for you all. To learn more about him? Simple: talk to him when you can, find out what he s like, etc. As for telling your other 2 friends about their dating disabilities -- I m not 100% sure....

Teen Dating Issues: how can i get him to like me, how can i tell if he already does, how can i keep a conversation going, coversation, morgan morgan
coversation, morgan morgan, signals: Morgan, There really isnt such thing as a complete coversation. If this guy is talking to you on a regular basis and you think this is the stage before dating, then there should be something there. Try going out with him sometime and see what kind of...

Teen Dating Issues: how can i get him to like me, how can i tell if he already does, how can i keep a conversation going, basketball game, school basketball
basketball game, school basketball, hallways: Hey Morgan, If you want to get to know him better, the best way to do that is to hang out with him! Walk up to him in the hallways and say hi, ask him what classes he has, and after you get to know him a little more ask him if he wants to hang out sometime...

Teen Dating Issues: should i tell him how i feel, quiet person, guts
quiet person, guts, jokes: hi it sounds like he may like you too. i think you should start talking to him now and then and see what happends. just a hi to start and maybe more after that. take it slow and see if he likes you too. if he does like you and sees that you may like him...

Teen Dating Issues: how can you tell a girl likes you, droplets of water, water droplets
droplets of water, water droplets, plenty of fish: if you think that this girl is interested in you then just try flirting with her somethimes. cant hurt. even if she doesnt, what have you got to lose? theres plenty of fish in the sea. i spent my entire middle school career droning over one girl. i didnt make...

Teen Dating Issues: How to tell if a guy reaaaallllllly likes you, emotional relationship, t zero
emotional relationship, t zero, having sex: Julia - Maybe you should stop having sex with him and then see how he treats you. If he treats you nicely and whatnot then chances are he really likes you but my advice is to hold off on the sex for a while and concentrate on having an emotional relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: how can i get him to like me, how can i tell if he does like me, how can i keep a conversation going, eye contact, signs
eye contact, signs, relationship: Hi Morgan! Well if you feel comfortable around him, then it should be easy to talk to him. Talk about what s going on at school, or what you two are going to do the following weekend. Ask him about his favorites, and see if you two have anything in common!...

Teen Dating Issues: how can i tell if he likes me, how can i keep a conversation going and how can i get to know him, morals and values, favorite sport
morals and values, favorite sport, good friends: Well, if you’re ready for a relationship, then tell his 2 friends to tell him to make a move (make them act as if they just *have a feeling you’ll say yes*). If you want to talk first, perhaps you can talk about relationships, like maybe over a game of basketball,...

Teen Dating Issues: how can i tell if he likes me, how can i keep a conversation going and how can i get to know him, little smile, dead giveaway
little smile, dead giveaway, behavior changes: hey Morgan sorry for the wait....A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality. well lets see to check if he likes you you if hes shy then these tips should help:Shy Guys These are tough to crack sometimes... He ll look at you, until...

Teen Dating Issues: how can i tell if he likes me, how can i keep the conversation going and get to know him, myjellybean, body language
myjellybean, body language, interruptions: hey Morgan, call him during his free time there he wont have any interruptions and you can have a longer conversation if you want to know about him and you feel comfortable with him chances are he feels comfortable with you too, so ask him what you want to...

Teen Dating Issues: How do I tell If he likes me?, nice guy, cousins
nice guy, cousins, good luck: Hey there, alright, well, if he treats you different from other girls and makes you feel very special, then he probably likes you. Be careful though, he could just be acting nice because he is a nice guy. You can drop hints that you like him by flirting,...

Teen Dating Issues: How to tell if she is single or likes you, fish in the sea, cold shoulder
fish in the sea, cold shoulder, new girl: Well, wearing those type of diamonds could mean that she does have a boyfriend, but it could also mean that her mother or any other family member gave it to her too. Just go for it, your going to regret it if you dont! If it turns out she does have a boyfriend,...

Teen Dating Issues: How to tell if she is single or likes you, fish in the sea, cold shoulder
fish in the sea, cold shoulder, new girl: Dear Alan, Well the necklace could ve been a birthday present from her parents or something. Its not a for sure sign that shes seeing someone. I think you really should just ask her if shes seeing anyone and if she is don t make it awkward by stopping...

Teen Dating Issues: How to tell if she is single or likes you, fish in the sea, cold shoulder
fish in the sea, cold shoulder, new girl: Hey Alan, The only way to tell if the jewelry is of any significance is to ask. Sure, boyfriends give jewelry, but we also buy our own! lol Although those necklaces are kinda expensive, I can t really tell you that. Just seem casual about it when you ask...

Teen Dating Issues: How to tell if she is single or likes you, microbiology class, story 1
microbiology class, story 1, eye contact: Yes, there is a chance that she likes you but you ll never know unless you ask her out. If you really are too nervous for that get to know her as a friend, and ask her to hang out w/ you and some other ppl this way you can find out if shes single w/o putting...

Teen Dating Issues: How to tell if she is single or likes you, fish in the sea, cold shoulder
fish in the sea, cold shoulder, new girl: Hey Alan- Well not always when a girl wearing that type of necklace means theres a guy involved. I mean I have friends who where those type of necklaces all the time. So not always does it mean she s not single when something like that is involved. So...

Teen Dating Issues: Should i tell her?, pam, poem
pam, poem, feelings: Dear Thomas, They Say That When You Fall In Love And Find That Someone That Would Really Make You Happy, You Should Do Everything In Order To Protect This Love And Make It Stronger & Stronger By Each & Everyday & Try To Never Loose It For Love, At Some...

Teen Dating Issues: Is it a test., 12 tribes, oldest religion
12 tribes, oldest religion, question pool: I should add, I don t know if you should marry her. Understand friends sometimes last for a long time, does this mean marry a friend? No. Sometimes you will know people for a long time. It s not uncommon. But, marriage just because of this? I won t say ...

Teen Dating Issues: A test?, humerous, playing a game
humerous, playing a game, big hug: Dear M. you need to stop worrying so much and obessessing so much. Remember the hard and fast #1 RULE I told you about? I ll tell you again: When someone pulls away from you, pull away too. Pushing forward will only push them further away. This rule...

Teen Dating Issues: thanks alot, caitlin, best wishes
caitlin, best wishes, confidence: Hello Bob! I am unsure of your question. It seems you might be a little insecure about yourself. I can tell you, you must have confidence! If you don t believe in yourself how do you expect other girls to? Show them you are proud of who you are and the person...

Teen Dating Issues: theres this boy..., eye contact, good luck
eye contact, good luck, relationship: Rachel, If you really like this guy then go for it. When you see him on his own, go over to him, make general conversation, try and flirt a bit and see what kind of reaction you get back. If he seems really happy and flirty back then he obviously still...

Teen Dating Issues: you see theres this girl..., clows, getting the girl
clows, getting the girl, popular guy: Treva, So you re a funny guy and a popular guy. You have good things going for you. Just make sure that you re clever and witty, and not just a clown. If you dont know what I mean, think of the difference between Ryan Reynolds (Nationaand Lampoons Van...

Teen Dating Issues: theres this girl i like, caitlin, confidence
caitlin, confidence, heart: Hello Taylor! First, you need confidence, make sure she knows you are sure you want to ask her out! When someone asks someone else out there is a chance she will reject, but it is always worth the shot if your heart likes her a lot! Best wishes, absolutely...

Teen Dating Issues: theres this guy..., sophmore, grl
sophmore, grl, dais: Dear Ginna, Haha wow! It sounds like this guy is really into you. He s dropping all the hints. When a guy won t tell you who he likes but you get the feeling its you then its just best to tell him right out that you like him! But at the same time it doesn...

Teen Dating Issues: i thiiink he likes me...HELP., silly remarks, serious conversation
silly remarks, serious conversation, serious relationship: Tara, It sounds like he s not worth your time and he s just trying to get into your pants. If he really wanted to hang out, he wouldn t have got upset when you said you weren t going to have sex, and would have still come over. The fact that that s all...

Teen Dating Issues: i thiink he likes me..., silly remarks, serious conversation
silly remarks, serious conversation, honest advice: My honest advice is he just wants sex but im not here to make your choices for you. Just got to think how it will be if you do sleep with him will he be all distant and cold etc You should ask him if hes into relationships you will be able to tell by...

Teen Dating Issues: two things, poeple, eachother
poeple, eachother, ashley: Terry - You should probably spend more time around her to get a good feel on things you know? That s not exactly a question you can just come out and blatantly ask. If you spend more time around her you should be able to tell whether she really likes...

Teen Dating Issues: When will things just fall into place, relation ship, prom date
relation ship, prom date, first dance: Hey there! Haha, I would be silly to refuse such a nice and funny guy like you! Anyways, here s your problem, you re trying to make things happen, and that never works. Here s a cliche for you: Love will find you when you AREN T looking. So stop looking for...

Teen Dating Issues: What are some things i need to know about tee relationship?, holding hands, spending time
holding hands, spending time, clue: There really isn t much to dating. Just do what feels good and right! Now, you can t use the phone, nor can you go out, why don t you talk on msn or something like that? You will get by don t worry. Oh yeah, and about dating: usually it s just holding hands,...

Teen Dating Issues: two things, poeple, eachother
poeple, eachother: Terry, If she likes you Terry, then it does not matter if she is tired of people asking her out . That would be referring to people that she does not like. Things are weird between you two because you like one another. You need to start talking to...

Teen Dating Issues: What do you think?, bottom of my heart, million things
bottom of my heart, million things, e mail: Anna - It sounds like he s still fond of you. I would just flat out tell him that you miss him and would like him to visit over the summer. That doesn t necessarily imply anything right? Friends visit eachother. Let me know how it goes Ashle...

Teen Dating Issues: What do you think?, bottom of my heart, million things
bottom of my heart, million things, e mail: Anna, Hello. I hope you are having a great day. I am sure that he still cares about you and misses being with you as well, especially if her keeps emailing you and/or talking to you over the phone. You have to be yourself, Anna. If you want him to come...

Teen Dating Issues: i think i like someone else!!!, current boyfriend, mesage
current boyfriend, mesage, smart guy: Alex, If you don t think Eric is as great as Charles, then it doesn t matter what your mom thinks, right? If he s as great of a guy as you say he is, she will learn to accept and like him just as much as you. It s going to be hard to tell Eric that you...

Teen Dating Issues: what do you think i should do?, mom and dad, good luck
mom and dad, good luck, freshman: Hi Kayla, I think you should firstly just introduce this guy to your parents as your friend. So before you go out one night just be like oh mom and dad this is my friend so and so. Then once they get to know them maybe they will grow to like him. This way...

Teen Dating Issues: What does he think of me?, school tomorrow, what this means
school tomorrow, what this means, isabel: Hello Isabel, It s hard to say exactly what this means, but it s rather odd that he wouldn t acknowledge you at all during school. Perhaps he has feelings for you but is simply too shy to express them in person. I d recommend asking him about it the next...

Teen Dating Issues: i think my-ex cheated, freind, toghether
freind, toghether, hugg: Well I don t really have a way of knowing whether or not he cheated, but by the way you describe him it doesn t sound like you shouldn t even be dating this guy. He sounds like bad news and I think you could find a much better guy. The way I see it is that...

Teen Dating Issues: I think the girl I like is undercover liking one of my bf's, cute couple, bday party
cute couple, bday party, girl 2: OK, take a step back, take a deep breath, and go on with your life. Their affairs are of no concern to you if this is so hard on you. If this is really that rough on you then maybe you should just take a step back and let them handle things. Just focus on...

Teen Dating Issues: I think he likes me?, spanish class, sophmore
spanish class, sophmore, first move: hey mista! you know what, your letter made me smile :) i m pretty old fashioned myself so i completely understand how you feel. in fact, your letter could have been me talking back when i was in high school. let s see, one thing i ve learned about guys is...

Teen Dating Issues: I think he likes me, but he has a girlfriend. What do i do?, stares, best friends
stares, best friends, girlfriend: Hey Mary. Thanks for getting in touch. I will try and help the best I can. Personally, I think this guy does like you. But because you turned him down once, he took this sign as a signal that you really didn t like him more than a friend. That s why he...

Teen Dating Issues: i think she likes me but shes not talking to me, hobbie, bf
hobbie, bf, cheers: Love? This isn t love. Please don t abuse that word. How old are you all? You cannot nor should not date someone who is dating someone else. It s up to her who she wants to date. It appears she wants to stay with her boyfriend. I am not sure why. Yet, at least...

Teen Dating Issues: I think love is not for me, better luck, ladys
better luck, ladys, peace: Well there isn t much i can tell you because honestly i don t know why these girls are rejecting you!! But i mean you can have peace in knowing there is somebody for everybody!! so there is hope!! just wait i promise there is a girl out there just for you!!...

Teen Dating Issues: i think i love him, boyfriends, mates
boyfriends, mates, relationship: Kristy, Hey sweetie. Okay, here s the deal. You need to talk to him. You need to tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him that you want someone that is there for you at all times, someone that is willing to come out with you and your friends sometimes,...

Teen Dating Issues: I think we're both confused!, mixed signals, school dance
mixed signals, school dance, funny things: if i were you i would try and talk to him alone. when no one else is around. maybe he is being preassured by his friends or something like that. he may like you but doesnt want to let his friends know. it sounds like he is giving you very mixed signals and...

Teen Dating Issues: do you think it s ok......., 12 year olds, younger men
12 year olds, younger men, alwayz: Hey, A lot of people are stuck on the old idea that it is ok for guys to date younger women, but not for women to date younger men. That whole thing to me is bullshit. If you you like someone you can t exactly help that. You should feel free to like someone...

Teen Dating Issues: I think I want to break up with her., emotional engagement, awkward situation
emotional engagement, awkward situation, time problem: Aslan, I cannot tell you that this girl will not be upset once you tell her; but I can tell you that you definately need to tell her how you feel. Tell her that you really care about her as a friend, but that you don t see the relationship going anywhere....

Teen Dating Issues: What do you think?, bottom of my heart, million things
bottom of my heart, million things, e mail: Hi Anna, it s hard when you meet someone for such a short time and feel close to them and then have to leave. But I dont think you really get to know the person fully but still feel like you re in love because it s so exciting. I think you could casually...

Teen Dating Issues: We were thinking different things!, friend zone, facebook
friend zone, facebook, true problem: Hey Chris, Hmm, looks like you re in the friend zone . Say something like, Yeah, next time you come home, we have to go on another date. See how I added in the another ? That shows you thought it was a date, then see how she responds to see what she thinks....

Teen Dating Issues: What is she thinking, look into her eyes, french kiss
look into her eyes, french kiss, luo: Hello Silas, Answer to your question: I, myself, am a girl - and I exactly what she is thinking. She is too shy to hold your hand, etc, etc. The girl you are with may think she is too forward if she kisses you or does anything normal coumples do. Advice:...

Teen Dating Issues: she thinks our relationship is falling apart, rough patches, rough patch
rough patches, rough patch, physical therapy: Simply, everything happens for a reason. If she can t make time for you, then she doesn t appreciate the relationship your giving her. Tell her you love her, and if she loves you two, then you can work it out. If she doesn t, its just time to move on. Good...

Teen Dating Issues: thugg boyfriend, plenty of fish, fish in the sea
plenty of fish, fish in the sea, plenty of fish in the sea: Hey meggan, it sounds like your b/f s turned into a big jerk. if he all of a sudden thinks hes too good for you, that jus proves that ur too good for him. i know you love him...but are you in love with him? if you are then maybe you should try to keep ur...

Teen Dating Issues: Is it time?, 3 years, alot
3 years, alot, relationship: it sounds like maybe you both have some growing to do. from what you just told me i would yes you should probably break up. you need to be happy with you with no one else in your life. once that happens then you can share your life with someone else. maybe...

Teen Dating Issues: Is it time to break it off?, falut, freshman year
falut, freshman year, realtionship: Hi Elizabeth, It sounds like you need to get ried of this guys, hes mean to you, and puts you down. So dont even feel sorry for him. Just do it. I dont think things will be bad next year beacause of it, everyone has to dump someone sometime, its only normal....

Teen Dating Issues: Is it time to go?, long term relationship, life coach
long term relationship, life coach, newness: Hi Sarah, In any long-term relationship, people change: they lose weight, they change how they dress, etc. But if your boyfriend was really concerned about your appearance, there are more tactful ways for him to express himself. It definitely sounds like...

Teen Dating Issues: tired of being single, good girls, work in texas
good girls, work in texas, hookup: Listen Matt, you ll find the perfect someone. It sounds to me like you re having trouble dating because you refuse to settle.....GOOD. Thats the right attitude to have. There is no point in entering relationships that aren t right for you with girls who don...

Teen Dating Issues: toby and adam! which one!, hott guy, u date
hott guy, u date, monthes: Hi Jessica, Ok well Adam is the best choice. You don t just dump someone because they are hot. And you don t make out with people you barley know, apishly at work. Do you know you can get fired for that? Hmm I don t mean to be rude but that s pretty dang...

Teen Dating Issues: Get over her or get back together, whole time, bf
whole time, bf, girlfriend: Dalen, this all depends on how much you like this girl. If you really like this girl and really think that you two can have a future together then go for it. Talk to her about it and see what she says. Otherwise it may be best to try and get over her. -Remember,...

Teen Dating Issues: Can we get back together?, drunken kiss, rude messages
drunken kiss, rude messages, exgirlfriend: I honestly believe that you need to give her some space and let her know you are available and love and care for her deeply but will accept whatever decisions she makes. If you love & care for her that much, you ll respect her decision. Your only seeing...

Teen Dating Issues: I took the plunge..., person type, laser show
person type, laser show, stone mountain: Shaun - I don t think she s being insincere by saying that. I think it s a very noble move on her part to want to wait to make sure before just saying it. So many kids just repeat it back because they feel like that s the thing to do (whether they actually...

Teen Dating Issues: tough or sensitive?, unhappy relationship, alpha male
unhappy relationship, alpha male, wonderful day: Augusto, Hello, how are you? Well, here s how most women see it. Of course most women when posed this question would say that they would rather be with the nice and self-doubting man, but in reality women want what they cannot have. So if the man acts...

Teen Dating Issues: transatlantic life, boys boarding school, boarding school in england
boys boarding school, boarding school in england, male friends: Hello Charles. Yes, facebook and myspace can help find some local friends. There is no real way to find out is some old man is pretending to be a twelve year old girl. Of course that is a danger. I would talk to your other male friends, I m sure they are looking...

Teen Dating Issues: trouble with this girl..., couple days, text messages
couple days, text messages: Daniel, it seems like she does like you especially since she asks for your number, she probably just forgot to call you that day, or got busy and couldn t. I suggest that you give her a call maybe once every couple days, and ask her on a date so she ll get...

Teen Dating Issues: troubles, 9 months, nice day
9 months, nice day, butterflies: Adam, With the way you through around the Love word so much in the email, I m going to make an assumption and base the rest of my response on that; you ve been smothering her. A lot of relationships start out good even if there is a little bit of excessive...

Teen Dating Issues: how does she truly feel, bad idea, best friends
bad idea, best friends, ashley: Chris - You probably made a mistake by dating her the same day she broke up with her boyfriend. She had no time to be upset about it or have any emotions from it. Ending one relationship and jumping into another one is a bad idea. Give her time to be...

Teen Dating Issues: trust, stairs, feelings
stairs, feelings, mom: Parents are mainly worried with what you ll do with your boyfriend. It s not that she doesn t trust you as her daughter, she just doesn t trust the concept of you having a boyfriend at this age. Especially because 14 is still pretty young to be dating. But,...

Teen Dating Issues: What do i do? And how can i trust her after this?, shobe, future kids
shobe, future kids, freshman year: I dont want to upset you but chances are if she cheated on you and is coming to the defensive all the time then more than likely she doesnt love you as much as you think that she does because if she did then she would have never said those things or would...

Teen Dating Issues: truth or dare, embarrising, hand job
embarrising, hand job, wile: I honestly can t help you with your problem, but I would like to give you a bit of advice. Only being 12, I don t think it wise to be doing things like this. You will be entering high school soon, and things like this can have a big effect on your social status....

Teen Dating Issues: should i try again?, jealous cause, good friends
jealous cause, good friends, ups: Ok he gets to choose who he wants to date, right? Not your friends. Now when a friend like someone and you like them it could cause problems, yet people must understand who has the choice. It s him, not you. Now, I do not know your ages. I will say I do not...

Teen Dating Issues: try to get him back, little space, good luck
little space, good luck, long time: It s important to know what the fight was about. People say bad things during a fight. I think you should call him and tell him how bad you felt about that fight. Maybe admit to a point you were wrong on some of the fight. But, if he wants space, give him...

Teen Dating Issues: trying get back my ex, rich thanks, living in chicago
rich thanks, living in chicago, breakups: Hey Rich. Thanks for getting in touch, I will try and help as much as I can. This must be really hard for you, but I do understand how you feel. I m sorry I have to say this but I really feel you should move on. She keeps cheating on you, dumping you for...

Teen Dating Issues: what is he trying to tell me?, mutual decision, old boyfriend
mutual decision, old boyfriend, being friends: My first question is, has he ever texted you back? You could do a little research with your friends to see if he texts them (or doesn t) too. Secondly, who knows what his feelings are about this breakup? Often times, it is the male in the relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: What is he trying to tell me, basketball games, mutual decision
basketball games, mutual decision, fiance: hey lisa, i knwo exactly where you are coming from. ive been there actually not too long ago. when my fiance and i split it hurt me but i understood why it was happening. we said we d still be friends and tried to keep up something. i mean i still called...

Teen Dating Issues: Ugh God The Ex Boyfriend, new girlfriend, one of my best friends
new girlfriend, one of my best friends, friend katie: How did he hurt you last time? Why like him? Age of him? I need more information. he has a new girlfriend --- Tell me exactly how this feels. You gave me a summary, yet I want at least a paragraph on this topic. Tell me how this feels talking about this....

Teen Dating Issues: Umm...Yeah....Just Read it and answer it Please!, twenty three years, low self esteem
twenty three years, low self esteem, douch: Well my name s Lauren, and I don t judge people and as corny as this may sound I am a Christian WOMAN. Well I am twenty three years old, and I am just like you. Meaning, I don t care what people think of me either. The only thing is when you re dealing with...

Teen Dating Issues: Uncertian, first dance, last dance
first dance, last dance, niagara falls: Ben Carlos emailed me. Can I ask how you know him? Does he live near you? I want to help him out. I am wondering if you know of his problem, and can tell me more about this. Please post this question as private. Ok I do not know Ontario law and a lawyer...

Teen Dating Issues: An Uncommon Question, uncommon question, allexperts
uncommon question, allexperts, question question: Well, do you have any siblings? Brothers or sisters who are at least semi-close to you in age? Maybe you could talk to them about it. They probably know more about you than your friends, after all, they have been living with you. Or you could talk to your...

Teen Dating Issues: Underaged Dating after Long Committed Relationship, citzen, legal trouble
citzen, legal trouble, mutual friend: Telling anyone about what he s doing would be selfish, and would come from jealousy. It would do no one good for her to report the authorities or his mother of his actions, because all it would do is get him into legal trouble. Then she d feel even worse than...

Teen Dating Issues: Understanding the opposite sex, teen relationships, understanding the opposite sex
teen relationships, understanding the opposite sex, communication situations: Rachel- In my experience, there are several factors that involve communication difficulties between males and females. The first one being that women tend to assume men understand subtleties better than they do. Most women, for some reason, are far...

Teen Dating Issues: Unsure, being friends, yo yo
being friends, yo yo, girlfriend: I think being friends until he s done with his girlfriend is the best way to go. You would never want to be that girl that he cheats on his girlfriend with. It isn t emotionally reassuring, because, in the end he goes back to the girlfriend and why would you...

Teen Dating Issues: Unsure, communication issues, ditzy
communication issues, ditzy, mutual friends: Hi Paul, I think you should just be a little more straight forward. Absolutely call her up and ask her to lunch. Just tell her you would like to have lunch alone. If she isn t interested, she will probably come up with an excuse why she can t go alone,...