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Teen Dating Issues: confused, kisses, good luck
kisses, good luck, relationship: Well first off you need to figure out which one you care about more. Are you sure your ready to give up your relationship with your boyfriend? If not, maybe this is gods way of testing you wether or not you two are meant to be. If you care about the other...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, kisses, loyalty
kisses, loyalty, good luck: Well its always bad when you have two people involved especially when you are dating one of them. I ve been one of the people that the person had to choose between and its a very difficult situation. I suggest that if its not working out with your boyfriend...

Teen Dating Issues: confused!!, trouble at home, old friend
trouble at home, old friend, bad news: hEY BRENDA WELL IN YOUR SITUATION HIS CHANGES COULD BE ALOT OF THINGS MAYBE HES HAVING TROUBLE AT HOME OR AT SCHOOL SOMETHING COULD BE BOTHERING HIM MAYBE HE FOUND OUT SOME BAD NEWS FROM AN OLD FRIEND OR RECENT ONES....SO I SUGGEST MAYBE YOU TRY TO ASK...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, boy friend, virginity
boy friend, virginity, bf: Ivy, Well what you need to decide is whom you love more?? Really think about it before you decide which one also which one you want to be with? If you figured all those things then you won t be so confused, believe me. All you really need to do is decide...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, trust issue, virginity
trust issue, virginity, couple days: Hey Ivy- Well first off what you need to do is talk to you boyfriend about this situation with him being this way towards you. He s got a trust issue. Maybe try asking him why he doesn t trust you and things like that. Then tell him that he needs to trust...

Teen Dating Issues: confused..., better relationships, virginity
better relationships, virginity, bf: Hey Ivy, My best advice is to follow your heart, but listen to your head. I know you love your boyfriend, but it seems that there are some things he does that really irritate you. It s more than likely that these habits won t change, and that s something...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, friend jeanette, friend megan
friend jeanette, friend megan, jeanete: Dear Nella, Thank you for the question! I hope that I can be of some help to you in your situation. Before we get started please look at this link, which is on love. You said that he told you he loves you and that your relationship was going well....

Teen Dating Issues: confused, good friends, girlfriend
good friends, girlfriend, good luck: Brenda, Well, I personally think you should talk to this guy and tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him how much you like him, but how you feel about getting involved etc. Tell him that he s confusing you because he says he loves you and then he s still...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, akward, jerk
akward, jerk, courage: Matt- Ah, well, in one aspect you are very lucky. You ve got her friends on your side. If they truly like you as much as they claim to, they will be able to convince her to give you another chance. But only if you work with them to help prove that you deserve...

Teen Dating Issues: She is confused., cuss, second time
cuss, second time, good luck: Dear Ray, Sometimes people need to figure things out for themselves. I think this is one of those times where that is applicable. If you help her figure things out she could end up doing what she feels you want her to do which might not be what truly makes...

Teen Dating Issues: So confused on what to do, cant sleep, second chances
cant sleep, second chances, 7 months: Hi Cory, I m sorry to hear what s happened. It is a difficult time. It comes down to whether you think that, in time, you can trust her again. I personally believe in giving people second chances but do you? You would need to make it clear that if...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, side bench, supper time
side bench, supper time, school dance: She s playing games as usual. I would ask her to be forward. She probably just thinks of you as a friend, as girls do that a lot. Maybe prod a little more in the whole boyfriend thing, see how she feels about the whole thing. She seems to be digging you, but...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, side bench, supper time
side bench, supper time, school dance: She s playing games as usual. I would ask her to be forward. She probably just thinks of you as a friend, as girls do that a lot. Maybe prod a little more in the whole boyfriend thing, see how she feels about the whole thing. She seems to be digging you, but...

Teen Dating Issues: So confused!!!, predicament, companionship
predicament, companionship, good luck: Hey Adriana, Many, many people feel the same way you do - they like being single but feel the need for companionship from time to time. The easiest and most common way to remedy this predicament is to go out on dates but don t date anyone exclusively. If...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, serious relationship, yesturday
serious relationship, yesturday, going to a party: if he says he loves you and all he wants is to kiss you this guys sounds like hes new at dating. i wouldnt worry about other girls especially his virginity. guys love kissing, dont think that he doesnt take yous eriously, it should pass im due time. i wouldnt...

Teen Dating Issues: So confused!!!, time thanks, ups
time thanks, ups: Please in the future before leaving feedback, ask a follow up with the included information. I cannot help you without more information. This feedback was uncalled for at this time. Thanks for using Allexperts, Dan How old are you? Why do you think...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, nine months, feelings
nine months, feelings, heart: its normal to have those feelings for your ex. they will eventually go away as long as you try and forget about him and move on. dating other people is a good way to do that! :) are you sure you were ready to break up with him? maybe there are some feelings...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, having a great time, two and a half years
having a great time, two and a half years, e mail: Hello again Sarah. I Canceled your last Follow-Up Question before this; so I don t answer the same question 2 times, which I m guessing you can understand my reasons for it. Also: After today: I may put my status to On Vacation for at few days because...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, head over heals, 7 months
head over heals, 7 months, kayla: Your girlfriend probably wishes you wouldn t talk to your ex but would never tell you that because she trusts you. That s how girls are. They expect you to know what s right and what s wrong and think they don t need to tell you anything. You re going...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, youth minister, fact of life
youth minister, fact of life, right decision: Chase, this is a rough one man i know. And like i said before, you are going to hurt one of them. There s no real getting around that. If i was in your shoes though, i d stay with Kayla. Why you ask? Because it s an established relationship that I m happy...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, witty personality, x girlfriend
witty personality, x girlfriend, powerful thing: Just try to be their friends stiff. Complement them, say nice things, be witty. Personality is a powerful powerful thing you know. as for your ex...call her and tell her to leave you alone. problem solved. -remember, keep life in-between the lines...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, 7 months, gf
7 months, gf, kayla: i will have to refer this back to you and ask you, what does your heart tell you to do? . i dont know you or these girls so its hard for me to tell you what to do. do you see a furure with your current gf? maybe you broke up with your old gf for a good reason....

Teen Dating Issues: confused, one good friend, mixed feelings
one good friend, mixed feelings, heat of the moment: Being a girl, I can tell you that this behavior sadly is normal. There is a difference between being in the heat of the moment and thinking that you like someone, then actually liking them. The first may be what you re getting from her. She might be the kind...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, craziness, half the time
craziness, half the time, 9 months: Sounds like hes just leading you on i mean one minute hes good as can be then the next hes ignoring you for some stupid computer game. Talk to him again and tell him how you are feeling and that if he cant show he loves you etc then its over and see how he...

Teen Dating Issues: confused :[, silly remarks, serious conversation
silly remarks, serious conversation, serious relationship: As much as i hate to say this, if i had to take a guess, I d say this guys isn t interested in much more then your body. I know thats probably not what you wanted to hear, but he fits the profile. Naturally, you could try talking to him about a relationship....

Teen Dating Issues: confused, be4, do the right thing
be4, do the right thing, eachother: That s definately what it seems like. Now you have to ask yourself Do I want to get back with this guy when things didnt work out before? Was us breaking up a mistake? Or would getting back together be more of a mistake? You have to ask yourself these...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, logical explanation, occassionally
logical explanation, occassionally, undies: Hello Suzy, I can t know exactly what your friend is thinking, but it seems to me that the most logical explanation is that he IS attracted to you and wants to see you in as little clothing as possible, perhaps so he can masturbate to the pictures. Forgive...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, going to college, girl friend
going to college, girl friend, msn: Hi, If she enters college, this will add a LOT of stress onto your relationship. Help her as a friend find a goal for her self and become successful. After she is settled down you can think about dating her. You don t want to rush it. And there are a few...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, kid chris, trustworthy person
kid chris, trustworthy person, little break: Sorry it s taken so long to answer you. But simple answer to make up for it. Ok, from what you say, I m pretty sure he ll get around to it. He likes you that s for sure. If he didn t like you, he wouldn t have said what he said. If you think he...

Teen Dating Issues: confused or whatever, followup questions, weird thing
followup questions, weird thing, sophomore: Hello Rachael. Well at first I was somewhat confused by this question; but I believe I got it now. First of all; I want to comment. You live in Minnesota? You re SOO lucky. I ve ALWAYS wanted to go to Minnesota because it s my favorite state, but I...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, shoelaces, sure things
shoelaces, sure things, last spring: Mark, Im afraid this doesn t look good for you. Is she flirting with you? It seems like it, BUT she also tells you about her bf. That s a red flag. You can be playful and flirt back a little bit, but if you re looking for something a little more promising,...

Teen Dating Issues: confused!, blushes, freaks
blushes, freaks, whole lot: Jennifer, there s honestly not a whole lot i can do for you here to be honest. this is something you have to decide for your self. You just have to look deep and see if you really like him. Because if you do, then nothing else really matters when you think...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, couple dates, obiously
couple dates, obiously, sad face: I m so sorry for your luck. But, obiously if this guy told this other girl that you guys are just friends than you are just friends, and thats what he wants to be. Move on and if he comes back great and if he doesnt oh well. Keep ignorging his calls and...

Teen Dating Issues: confused., time time, rebound
time time, rebound, demons: To answer your question, no. This is one of those things that is just going to take time. Time really does heal ALL things. Whatever demons he s currently fighting, in a while those fights won t matter and if you re still in the picture then he s going to...

Teen Dating Issues: confused..., mixed signals, schoolyear
mixed signals, schoolyear, mixed messages: If you liked him enough you would already be in a relationship with him. If you aren t sure, don t send him mixed messages, but as you said, you didn t even notice that you were flirting with him. So, that could show that you have some sort of an attraction....

Teen Dating Issues: confused, happy belated birthday, law enforcement agency
happy belated birthday, law enforcement agency, arizona law: Hi Thomas, I m not sure what Arizona law is first of all. Technically, if you engage in sexual activity while she is under 18, you could get in trouble. As far as dating, I think your okay. It certainly can t hurt to make sure her parents are okay with...

Teen Dating Issues: confused about him...., apartment building, happy holidays
apartment building, happy holidays, mind games: Hi, It sounds like you are his girl friend, yet he is cheating on you. He s using you by having intercourse with you. I recommend to be tested for STIs and such. Talk to a doctor about sex risks. Sorry, Dan Happy Holidays It wasn t your fault. He...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, independance, squeeze
independance, squeeze, drift: Joseph, I know you don t want to screw this up, but if she isn t interested then she isn t interested. You should wait for her to call you and in the meantime don t wait around for her. Go out and meet other women. Even if things did start out great,...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, last fight, hand job
last fight, hand job, 4th of july: Hey Krystal. Thanks for getting in touch. I will try and help you the best I can. I think you ve, in a way, answered all this yourself. You and I can both see what this guys wants. Only texting you when he s horney, and IM s you when he s horny. It s all...

Teen Dating Issues: confused, awkward silences, friend relationship
awkward silences, friend relationship, hugs and kisses: Dating at age 16 is still young. I recommend people to wait until at least age 16. You may feel you are rushing it and you are too young. There could be other things too. Lets start off at the top: I recommend to see a psychologist to people with such a...

Teen Dating Issues: confused : /, friend whos, risky business
friend whos, risky business, playfully: Well...despite your feelings for this girl, i hate to brake it to you but she s not that great of a girl. She might be ok for you, but its very risky business, because if she cheated on other guys with you, that probably means she ll cheat on you. I suggest...

Teen Dating Issues: confused and at a brick wall, hey sally, brick wall
hey sally, brick wall, serious conversation: Hey Sally, Have you talked to your boyfriend about how much this bothers you? If not, I think it d be a good place to start. Have a serious conversation with him, preferably in person, and let him know that you really enjoy being with him but don t want...

Teen Dating Issues: confused.. cant choose, girl of my dreams, true feelings
girl of my dreams, true feelings, follow ups: Based on the above facts, I think you need to take a break from dating altogether. I do recommend a psychologist to find truth. About breaking up I believe we have an area here about breaking up. Good luck and please ask follow ups. That s if you want to break...

Teen Dating Issues: confused and cheated, hot tub, girlfriends
hot tub, girlfriends, kiss: Hey Jess, Wow, that is harsh. Sorry to hear that. Hmm, you need to explain to him that you can t trust him anymore. Take a break, just be friends for a bit, until you can trust him again. If he really wants you and wants to truly be with you, he will wait....

Teen Dating Issues: confused and cheated, hot tub, girlfriends
hot tub, girlfriends, kiss: I do believe it is true that after a guy cheats once, he is more likely to do it again, but then there are some that cheat once, realize how terrible it is to do it and never do it again. You have to use your own personal judgement on this. Make him earn...

Teen Dating Issues: confused and cheated, hot tub, mona
hot tub, mona, girlfriends: Jessica, First I guess I m gonna start off with what I would do. Now what I say here you DO NOT HAVE TO FOLLOW. The decision is yours to make. But if i was in that same situatin , me being the difficult person that I am, i would find out why he did...

Teen Dating Issues: confused about college, north hollywood california, north las vegas nevada
north hollywood california, north las vegas nevada, aptitude test: My philosophy is that a person should love the work they do, because if they live a long life, they ll be doing it a long time. It doesn t sound like you have decided what you want to do. I would take an aptitude test at the local college. They should offer...

Teen Dating Issues: confused emotions...college!, two choices, back into my life
two choices, back into my life, happend: Hey John- Really what I think what you should do is talk all this out with your girlfriend. I mean let her know as far as you feel and everything that s just going on for you. Then just go from there. But really in my opinion what I think you should...

Teen Dating Issues: confused of what to do with this girl, rebound guy, honest advice
rebound guy, honest advice, having sex: it really depends on how much you like this girl. it sounds like you really want to try and have a relationship with her. but....there is the fact that you are probably a rebound guy. set a time frame in your head (dont let her know about it) as to how long...

Teen Dating Issues: confused about girl, mixed signals, couple times
mixed signals, couple times, affection: Hey Jason, Well the only for sure way of knowing whether or not she likes you is just by coming out and asking her how she feels for you and let her know how you feel for her. Then just take things from there. If she says she doesnt like you in that way...

Teen Dating Issues: confused help?!?, three girls, school trip
three girls, school trip, school dance: Mark, she might like you, if I were you I would start dropping hints that you like her, flirt with her, ASK HER OUT but before you do you have to flirt a little, touch her hair, HER FACe lol, anything but you have to let her know you re interested WITHOUT...

Teen Dating Issues: confused...important, room mates, good luck with everything
room mates, good luck with everything, friend don: Elizabeth- Ok, first off, don t make any decisions when you are drunk, especially impulsive ones! Number 2, you need to sit down with your boyfriend and talk this thing out. Tell him your feelings, ALL OF THEM, and find out how he feels. You can make 3...

Teen Dating Issues: confused majorly, 3 words, majorly
3 words, majorly, girl friends: okay, well, i have 3 words to tell you. HE LIKES You. he has to. i mean, why else would he look at you and when you look back he looks away? I mean, that s pretty obvious and when he s going to your party and he doesn t mind being the only guy, then there...

Teen Dating Issues: confused majorly, majorly, girl friends
majorly, girl friends, ims: Hi Emily, Im sorry but I really cant help you very much. All that doesnt give me much info. It sounds like he could like you, but he also could just be a good friend. Cant really tell. Maybe you should have one of your friends sometime, ask him what he thinks...

Teen Dating Issues: confused please help, hey sarah, pool party
hey sarah, pool party, guy friends: hey sarah~ judging by all of his actions, i would say that he at least sorta likes you...but you re right, it could be as a friend or more. anyways...i don t think there s a surefire way to find out if he likes you without either you asking or him coming...

Teen Dating Issues: confused please help, pool party, guy friends
pool party, guy friends, girl friends: Hi Sarah, I get this question more than any other one. It s always confusing trying to figure out if someone likes you. I guess that s why so many people ask their friends to find out for them, although that does seem a little immature. From what you are telling...

Teen Dating Issues: confused please help, pool party, guy friends
pool party, guy friends, girl friends: Sarah- Hearing stories like this one always happily remind me of meeting my current girlfriend. The funny part is, she claims to this day that she went after me! Am I making a point? Yes, believe it or not! You don t have to go up to him and say, do...

Teen Dating Issues: confused please help, pool party, guy friends
pool party, guy friends, girl friends: Unfortunatley I am not a psychic. Trust me I wish I was. So I don t know for sure if this guy likes you. But it seems to me he is definatley interested and I can imagine a few sparks are flyin. :) Now, no one can know someone s feelings for SURE unless...

Teen Dating Issues: confused please help, pool party, guy friends
pool party, guy friends, girl friends: Sarah, Falling for your best friend is one of the most exciting things that can happen to a girl. I was with my best friend for two years before he moved, and it was the best relationship I have ever had. It s hard to say whether or not for sure if he...

Teen Dating Issues: confused please help, pool party, guy friends
pool party, guy friends, girl friends: well, this is the second type of question i have answered today. well, it really sounds like this guy likes you. i mean, why else would he be excited about being near your locker and most of your classes. i think you should definitely mention to him that you...

Teen Dating Issues: confused relationship, highschool days, boyfriend girlfriend
highschool days, boyfriend girlfriend, suker: Michael - She might be calling you because she misses you, who knows, but the take home point is that she has a boyfriend so it s probably time you moved on. You ve been in love with her for 5 years and that s a lot and if she hasn t realized it by now,...

Teen Dating Issues: confused about my situation with this girl, fromer ex girlfriends, beeter
fromer ex girlfriends, beeter, trash: WELL THERES NOT TOO MUCH YOU CAN DO, YOU TOLD HER HOW YOU FEEL, IF SHE CAN T REALIZE WHAT SHE HAS NOW IS WAY BEETER THAN WHAT SHE HAD BEFORE, MAYBE SHE DON T DESERVE YOU. I HAD A FRIEND IN THE SAME SITUATION, SHE GOT BACK WITH HER EX OVER AND OVER, AND I WAS...

Teen Dating Issues: confused :(, using a condom, pre cum
using a condom, pre cum, random question: Hi Bena, You can get pregnant even if he cum s near your virginal area. You can t get pregnant from pre-cum but like I said before if it near you it can get you pregnant. And yes you can get pregnant if you re on your period. Not using protection is the stupidest...

Teen Dating Issues: confusing signals, confusing signals, mixed signals
confusing signals, mixed signals, being friends: Hi Karla, I can see why you re confused. He s sending very mixed signals! But, you can always tell he likes you if he s always making eye contact and flirting. He s more than likely playing it off, because he isn t really sure you really like him...AND his...

Teen Dating Issues: confusing situation, one friday night, lunch table
one friday night, lunch table, confusing situation: Colin this is hard man. You put your self out there and got knocked down for it. But truth be told this is going to happen to you in life. Life is gonna knock you down and you re just going to have to dust your self off and get back up. Just give it time,...

Teen Dating Issues: confusing, no hard feelings, embarassing moments
no hard feelings, embarassing moments, namesakes: Amanda, To me it sounds like Bob still likes you. He kinda just had to see what would happen with Lucy first since he d liked her. It sounds like you two hit it off pretty well, so if you would like to persue something with him I don t think he d...

Teen Dating Issues: confussed, current boyfriend, jesses
current boyfriend, jesses, togeather: HI Lizzy, well you ahve been dating Jesse for a year which is a pretty large committment of time. It can be very easy to get sidetracked with other boys no matter how much you love or care about your current boyfriend. My advice is to stay loyal to your...

Teen Dating Issues: confuuused :[, silly remarks, serious conversation
silly remarks, serious conversation, serious relationship: heh. Not at all. I usually get questions longer than this! Anyway, guys these days, mainly all they want is sex. There are hardly any decent guys out there. (decent guy - someone who wants to go out with you for more than sex) This guy that you like, or...

Teen Dating Issues: confuzed!!!!!, dating tips, eye contact
dating tips, eye contact, compliment: OK Jay ... You say she liked you too. How did she show you? By flirting? Flirting is just teasing. But ... I have a few pointers: 1. Make eye contact with her and hold it for just one second. If you hold it for longer, she ll get creeped out....

Teen Dating Issues: controling boyfriend, stupid whore, comfused
stupid whore, comfused, frusterated: i suggest that you be as blunt and truthful as possible dont go for a revenge type road though. thats just immoral. id say tell him really the reason that he is playing mind games and its making you depressed and stressed out and u dont want to live your...

Teen Dating Issues: controlling relationships, controlling relationships, anger problem
controlling relationships, anger problem, classmates: ok Jayrah , this is what she should read from me: A boyfriend should indeed have all the nice qualities which you mention about this guy. However, there are some things that a guy should not do. Some of these are too small to mention and can just be ignored....

Teen Dating Issues: How do I be more controlling?, queston, garret
queston, garret, buddies: Garret, I don t think that this is necessarily a matter of your girlfriend wanting you to be more controlling , but rather a matter of her wanting you to be more confident. You don t always have to worry about saying something that may upset her a little...

Teen Dating Issues: from the couch to the bed, sex stage, sexual experiences
sex stage, sexual experiences, glass of wine: Hey Pepo, Initiating sex tends to be a follow my lead process that goes back and forth between partners. For example, if the night is going well and you move in for a kiss, you ll know that she s agreeable to your advance if she kisses you back. You started...

Teen Dating Issues: A couple different issues, ending relationship, 6 shots
ending relationship, 6 shots, relationship advice: well that was a long question lol! well, in my opinion i have picked up that the first girl was feeling distraught after breaking up with her sour bf! she probably wasnt getting any , so she saw that you were such a nice guy and fell for you.. unfortunately...

Teen Dating Issues: A couple of more questions...., space girls, anwser
space girls, anwser, time issue: Sam, Girls are very different. We all think way different. Time and Space to us is so we can think about things without guys huvoring over us and hounding us for an answer, or just wont let the subject go. Girl like there space. But all girls are different,...

Teen Dating Issues: my cousin, life style, having sex
life style, having sex, cousin: um...yeah i think she should stop. Thats not only stupid but very dangerous. Honestly you might want to consider telling your parents or hers because the life style she s engaging in is incredibly dangerous. If she won t listen, what choice do you really have?...

Teen Dating Issues: is it crossing the line?, lil sisters, boundries
lil sisters, boundries, brother and sister: May, if you re asking me rather i think your brother s friend likes you or not i can only say that it sounds like he is at the very least a bit interested in you. First i would suggest talking to your brother about this. Run it past him just to get you...

Teen Dating Issues: does she have a crush on me, someting, 12a
someting, 12a, booty: Hi Jessica, It sounds like she may have a crush on you. Do you know if she is bi or gay? Would be interested in her? I ask because if you think you would be interested in her then why not just ask her. Maybe start a conversation about being bi or something...

Teen Dating Issues: My crush, 5 months, close friends
5 months, close friends: Hi Salam! It seems that she likes you, but it also seems that you two make better friends. If you ve dated 2 times, and broke up each time, then that should tell you something. But like they always say, 3rd time s a charm. So..just ask her if she would like...

Teen Dating Issues: crush, long distance relationships, guy friend
long distance relationships, guy friend, sophomore: Hi Given the fact that he knows you like him and he invited you to go out somewhere means he s interested also, if he wasn t before, he is now. Long distance relationships do work sometimes but you ll learn to grow apart from him in time. Good luc...

Teen Dating Issues: crush, health class, loyal friend
health class, loyal friend, personal experience: Tanya, from personal experience, you should stay his best friend FOR NOW. Trust me when I say this, guys and girls can never be JUST FRIENDS. He trusts you and you re there for him, when they break up and they will, something is bound to happen between you...

Teen Dating Issues: a crush, freshman year, good chance
freshman year, good chance, good friends: Honestly Tom, this kind of questions have a spot in my heart because i too went though a situation just like this. Trust me when i tell you, you ll never know until you talk to her about it. I know it s scary, and i know the last thing you want to do is...

Teen Dating Issues: crush, freshman year, best of luck
freshman year, best of luck, good friends: Hello Tom. First off, everyone gets acne, don t worry. You choose like a great guy. Love is a risk, if you choose take the chance! I would hint in questions if she is looking for a relationship and things like that. I would hang out with her, maybe even invite...

Teen Dating Issues: crush, followup question, two friends
followup question, two friends, sara: Hello Sara. I m sorry about this question-delay, yet I ve been busy. Okay before I can really help, I ll need you to help me first. I need you to ask a FollowUp Question answering me: -How old are you both? -Have you two spoken before? -Are you two...

Teen Dating Issues: crush
Hello again. You don t have to say anything TOO much. Mainly all you need to do is just find a way that you two can talk more and get to know eachother. To write a note to him is no big deal. Just ask him how he is, and how it s doing. Ask what he...

Teen Dating Issues: my crush, expensive gift, gf
expensive gift, gf, bro: Hello Vipul, well if you re breaking up with your present girlfriend, you should date this girl, she seems nice. Just approach her and ask her if she wants to go out on a date with you, make sure you say date. So it s up to you, she does like you, that s...

Teen Dating Issues: crush, klehr, new girl
klehr, new girl, best friends: Julie, I ve been in a situation kind of like this where i developed feelings for my female best friend. Trust me when i tell you, it s worth it. I eventually told her how i felt and she felt the same way. Is the risk huge? Yeah, but so is the reward. If...

Teen Dating Issues: does she have a crush on me, someting, 12a
someting, 12a, hormones: Jessica- Just to make sure I m understanding this, you currently have a boyfriend and you re wondering if another girl has a crush on you, yes? It sounds like she definetly has feelings for you and that her hormones are raging! If you want to find anything...

Teen Dating Issues: Just another crush..., eye contact, tiny bit
eye contact, tiny bit, nice guy: hi regina! thanks for sharing your story with me... dan sounds like a nice guy (and i m sure he s cute too!) i know you feel a little shy yourself but that s normal. when we like someone, we get all self-conscious and we re afraid that even just talking to...

Teen Dating Issues: crush, dark clothes, lunch table
dark clothes, lunch table, punk emo: Well, you can start by making eye contact. Try and get his attention smile at him and make strong eye contact. Then, walk away with poise and confidence. That should make him notice you! After that, hopefully he comes up to you and talks to you... see s...

Teen Dating Issues: crush, dark clothes, lunch table
dark clothes, lunch table, punk emo: Well Kat your friend was being funny and obviously it was not to your advantage, but I would not focus too much on that. How was his reaction? Are you sure he knows you like him? If he does, he will show some interest at least and then you can start making...

Teen Dating Issues: crush, dark clothes, lunch table
dark clothes, lunch table, punk emo: hey kat, it s not the easiest thing in the world to get close to someone you like. since you don t know him, i think your best bet would be to get within his line of vision if you know what i mean. you don t have to talk to him directly, but maybe say hey...

Teen Dating Issues: crush, tlk, nina
tlk, nina: Hi Nina. Unfortuanely, I think your ex is trying to either move on, or make you jealous. Every guy does this to try to make their ex gf jealous so don t get down on yourself...There s no rules that say you can t have fun either, so start opening yourself...

Teen Dating Issues: More than one crush?, afraid of commitment, stress
afraid of commitment, stress: Hey Amelia, Dont stress about it. Your young and its ok. Maybe you should go out with a few guys and see what kind of guy you are wanting to date. Im sure all the guys you have a crush on are not ones you would want to date after going out with them. ...

Teen Dating Issues: crush?, lonely girl, boy friend
lonely girl, boy friend, peps: It s normal for a 17 year old to date. Sometimes I tell them however to wait. Your case it s your choice. Now, you like him I feel because I think he showed he liked you to a point. Is he the type of person I would recommend you to date? Probably not, yet...

Teen Dating Issues: crush, midinight, thursady
midinight, thursady, friend don: No tips off the top of my head for French Kissing, sorry. However about your friend, your job is to respect her. If you push her to date, she will run away from you. Be her friend. Stay her friend. Don t rush her. Respect her. Please ask follow ups It may...

Teen Dating Issues: I have a crush, favorite things
favorite things: Hi Joseph Sorry it took me so long..my computer is acting up! You can t make someone have a crush on you, but you can get noticed! Try to spark up a conversation with her, ask her about her favorite things, or about school. Make it interesting! Hope this...

Teen Dating Issues: crush, waiting 4, first move
waiting 4, first move, deep breath: Well first of all you need to take a deep breath. You may be crazy for this guy right now but time is the test of true love, and you can t get anywhere unless you calm down. If all your friends know he probably knows to trust me its the way highschool is....

Teen Dating Issues: crush, clarinet lessons, student advisory council
clarinet lessons, student advisory council, lunch times: Well, telling you that she was afraid probably meant that she wanted you to hold her hand or something, so thats a good sign. And if i were you while you see her for a minute at school one day, ask for her phone number. And then a few days after you get...

Teen Dating Issues: i have a crush, but behind a shield, cross country team, nice guy
cross country team, nice guy, freshmen: Hi Brianna. All that I can tell you is to flirt a little bit and open his eyes up to the idea and then casually just drop it in the conversation. If he is the nice guy you think he is then he will still be friends with you regardless of whether he likes you...

Teen Dating Issues: crush on a coworker, socializer, coworker
socializer, coworker, good chance: Hey Amanda, Based on what you ve told me, it s hard to say for sure whether he really likes you. However, all the signs are good - the flirting, the laughing, his willingness to stand up for you, and especially him staying after he s off the clock to wash...

Teen Dating Issues: crush on a coworker, t rush, socializer
t rush, socializer, coworker: Well since you don t know him very well theres a chance that he could just be a flirt. But, it sounds to me like he really likes you, and that s sweet. My advice to you would be just keep flirting with him and don t rush things, maybe ask him to hang out...

Teen Dating Issues: crush on a coworker, socializer, coworker
socializer, coworker, first move: Are you sure he overheard you talking? Does he know that you like him now? If he does know, chances are if he feels the same way he ll act upon it. Let him make the first move now. He knows you like him, so if he likes you what s going to stop him, right?...

Teen Dating Issues: crush on a coworker, socializer, coworker
socializer, coworker, whole time: i really dont know. i think the only way to find out is to ask him out. but you have to be prepared in case he says no. you will have to still work with this guy either way. some guys flirt and it means nothing and others flirt because they do like you. instead...

Teen Dating Issues: crush on a friend, friend relationship, guy friend
friend relationship, guy friend, best of friends: Krissy- Honestly, if you are that best of friends I would leave things the way they are and just leave it to heavy flirting to show your affection. If you are comfortable, I would express how you feel to make him feel good but otherwise, keep it to...

Teen Dating Issues: crush help? does he like me?, guy friends, school year
guy friends, school year, best friend: Obirie, don t be shy. Hang out with him and his friends, I know it s hard but your friends might help you, ask your friend to set up these little dates where you two can hang out, I mean with all your friends, and eventually if you drop him enough hints, he...

Teen Dating Issues: crush/jealous, one nite, new girl
one nite, new girl, new man: D, You seem like a pretty confident guy...usually. I say that becasue you seem to be successful in getting women and you know that you are capable of getting women BUT you allow this other girl to bitch at you and try to boss you around. You like her...

Teen Dating Issues: crush, but she knows, baseball team, freind
baseball team, freind, taylors: Well, first of all you should make sure that she s over Taylor. If she isn t and he randomly starts liking her then it will be disastrous for both of you. Once she is over him, take it very slow. Don t move faster than she wants to. Remember, she just had...

Teen Dating Issues: a crush, casual time, kiss
casual time, kiss: Hey, I say if you are interested in this guy go for it. If you believe you should get to know each other first then justh ave a casual time you guys can hang out and not really an exclusive date. Maybe you can get your friends together and his friends together...

Teen Dating Issues: crushed...and still fighting pt2, emotional way, issue at hand
emotional way, issue at hand, previous question: WOW. Long long question. I am getting a lot of those this week. Big delays are expected because of those long questions. But, I got the reason why. OK let me look over this. You can ask however many follow ups you want. I meant a break from the relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: crushed, step sister, stepsister
step sister, stepsister, honesty: That s good to know: Until then; until the point he tells you he has feelings for his step sister, just ask him how he feels about her compared to you. And who he would choose out of the two. I don t think you would be comfortable with being second best...

Teen Dating Issues: crushes, class clown, deep feelings
class clown, deep feelings, popular guy: Hey Ian, I don t know if she s necessarily trying to make you jealous. Maybe she was already dating that other guy before she started liking you and just hasn t broken it off with him yet. Does she know that you like her? I mean, have you actually asked...

Teen Dating Issues: crushes, sara, glance
sara, glance, lunch: Hello Sara! Your friends should be able to listen to you! What are friends for?! It is not good you are desperate for a relationship, don t settle for anything but the best. If you settle for anything the relationship can be abusive, controlling, and very...

Teen Dating Issues: Two crushes, one person!, one of the guys, best friends
one of the guys, best friends, best friend: Well...i have so questions for you. which one do you like more? and which one likes you more? Which one do you have more fun w/? which one gives you butterflys? which one shows more interest in you? these are all good questions to ask yourself. i can t pick...

Teen Dating Issues: crushes, mixed signals, bump
mixed signals, bump, excuse: HI Alex It seems as if she is givng you mixed signals. Maybe she likes you, but is starting to get scared. At least I hope that s whats wrong. Try talking to her..and ask her when she IS availabe so you two can do something. If she declines or comes up with...

Teen Dating Issues: crushin on andrea, quiet girls, top 12 on myspace
quiet girls, top 12 on myspace, crushin: Dear Andy, I guess you really do like her. She might feel like your too popular for her and it could intimidate her. Quiet girls need extra reassurance that you like them. Giving her a hug from behind is another good way to show her that you like her....

Teen Dating Issues: crushing, dear emily, casual friends
dear emily, casual friends, bad boyfriend: Dear Emily, I think you should ask one of your friends to ask him or ask a mutual friend if he has a girlfriend already. From the way hes acting, he either doesnt have a girlfriend and likes you or hes a bad boyfriend. lets hope its the first guess! Before...

Teen Dating Issues: to many crushs, honesty, savannah
honesty, savannah, feelings: Hey Alycia- Well Im not saying to tell him what happened with you and that other guy. Im just saying that you should tell him that you need a break right now. Just to figure things out with yourself. Then try and figure out what you want in your life....

Teen Dating Issues: cud i be pregnant?, planned parenthood, taking a pregnancy test
planned parenthood, taking a pregnancy test, cud: Brinda, I honestly don t know the answer to this question. I don t think that you are probably pregnant, the chances are pretty slim. However, if you are highly fertile, you might be. As for the test, it usually takes at least two weeks for them to be...

Teen Dating Issues: a cute boy at school, school question, lonely spot
school question, lonely spot, sweet heart: Why would you go with his best friend rather than him ? listen , you donít have to be embarrassed to ask him out. You could have been embarrassed if you didnít knew that this guy likes you , but you know that he likes you , so thereís no need to go around...

Teen Dating Issues: cute way to ask a girl out, cute ideas, yers
cute ideas, yers, homecoming: Hey James. Thanks for getting in touch, I will try and help the best I can. I think you re right checking with her parents to see if it s okay before you ask her out. If they say it s okay then just go for it. At the homecoming, when you re alone, tell...

Teen Dating Issues: cutting......, deep breath, scars
deep breath, scars, encouragement: Cody, I guess I should start off with ways in which you can help her stop cutting. I mean if she really wants to stop the time is now, because when you start cutting yourself the scars are there to remind you of your bad days, and she s been doing this...

Teen Dating Issues: DATING/CRUSHES, facebook, eye contact
facebook, eye contact, first date: I m not female, but I will still answer your question. Just look for extra flirting, maybe eye contact, ect. Dinner is a start, because you can talk to her easier as compared to a movie where you can t talk. Find her on facebook or something, and go from there....

Teen Dating Issues: DATING/CRUSHES, time loss, first date
time loss, first date, dimitri: Hi Mu, Various signs to look for are eye contact, if she keeps looking you in the eyes while holding the conversation. If you notice her get shy from time to time, loss of words, smiles at you a lot, flips her hair back while looking at you. Other...

Teen Dating Issues: DATING, definately worth, good luck
definately worth, good luck: Will, First you have to talk to her. See how she responds, and then work from there. It sounds like you may have several underlying questions, so Im going to recommend a website that I give to all kinds of questioneers. It s called askmen.com. It has...

Teen Dating Issues: Dad forced us to break up, step dad, dear john
step dad, dear john, mature adult: Matthew- It sounds like the big issue is the age difference and her real father trying to control too much of his daughter that he can t. If you talk to him like a mature adult, that may work but be prepared for the worst. I m also not recommending...

Teen Dating Issues: Datin my girlfriend, change of attitude, fellin
change of attitude, fellin, person experience: Hello Christian, I apologize for the brief delay in getting back to you; my wife and I just bought a house and have been very busy with all the details. Now on to your question. Because I know so little about your relationship and what s causing your girlfriend...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, solid group, going to a party
solid group, going to a party, one of the guys: Hi Alexander, Man, this certanly has been one heck of a ride huh? So this one girl you pick up gets the wrong impression of you, gets angry at you, doesn t want to be anything more than a distant friend and now things are okay? Am I touching anywhere near...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, bad idea, savannah
bad idea, savannah, girlfriend: Hey Justin- Why wouldn t you want to talk to your girlfriend online? I would think you would want to talk to her as often as you want to. Sure you two may run out of things to talk about but don t worry about it right now. I mean you never know you two...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, class assignment, feelings
class assignment, feelings, heart: ok, heres what i think you should do. first, ask your friend if it would be ok to go out with his ex, if he says its ok, say thx, and go find that girl. if says no, then i wouldnt recommend you goin out with her, cause its probably just a crush and your friend...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, soccer team, mom
soccer team, mom, relationship: well since ure the parent you can tell her not to see him or date him and moniter that relationship...as long as shes under 18...if shes over 18 and still lives under your roof you can do the same thing. But, if she doesn t live with you and shes over 18...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, bowling alley, fun board
bowling alley, fun board, snow man: Hey Mike, Haha, I know what you mean, I come from a small town and all we have is the theatre and the bowling alley. Anyways, here s some simple stuff you can do and have fun, why not hang out at one of your guy s house and play a fun board game, or go out...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, nerves, savannah
nerves, savannah, dating: Hey Becky- Well really when asking a guy out just go up to him let him know how you feel about him and ask him out. I mean there s really nothing to it. Now with getting a guy well really there s no way of getting a guy to ask you out. I mean they just...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, favorite tv show, conversation starters
favorite tv show, conversation starters, actor actress: hEY JOSH WELL CONVERSATION STARTERS COULD BE : What do you think of (a teacher, a class)? Who s your favorite teacher at our school? What makes them your favorite? What do you think of schools that make the students wear uniforms? What do you...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, reasurance, friend jessica
reasurance, friend jessica, false hopes: Hi Scott, Well first, just keep flirting, and ask her to hang out with you outside of school, then you ll be able to tell if she really does like you. Then when it becomes clear that she does, don t have any worries, just go for it. I hope this helped. Feel...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, good luck, parents
good luck, parents: Dear Matt, You could ask her to just hang out with you on the weekend sometime. Or if her parents do not want you going out then get a bunch of your friends together, including her, and go out in a group. This way it won t be just you and her, so your parents...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, good luck, feelings
good luck, feelings, suggestion: Hi Jameaka. Believe it or not people have this kind of problem every day. We want to have our cake and eat it too. Truth be told there really isn t some secret to this question. This has to be decided by you. You have to evaluate your own feelings and figure...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, good sense of humor, guyz
good sense of humor, guyz, sense of humor: hey tia. well i think the key to getting guyz to pay attention to you is confidence. you need to be confident in youself. just keep reminding yourself that you are just as good as any other girl out there. if you are interested in a guy then find out what...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, sensitive topic, complement
sensitive topic, complement, 10 years: first off thanks for your kind words. They make the job all the worth it. Secondly, i can only tell you what i did. One night i was on AIM with her and i just kinda blurted it out. I m not really sure why i just did. Now this may or may not work with you...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating., http www myspace, 5 months
http www myspace, 5 months, ashley: The best way to find out if he still likes you is to ask him, and there is always a reason for what people do so you need to ask this guy what he broke up with you for. I mean he owes you that much. And if you want to ask him back out then you just have to...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating/does he like me, school dances, chemistry class
school dances, chemistry class, couple days: HI Kate, WEll some people believe in the rule of 3. Meaning they wait 3 days before they call so that they don t appear to be desperate over over zealous. Wait a couple days, if he doesn t call, talk to him in your class and see what he says. There isn...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, dating
dating: well tia i think the best way is to tell them to their face. but if your to shy then you could write him a letter. there s nothing wrong with a letter just make sure you tell him in the letter that you were just scared of him sayin no so that s why you wrote...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating a 30 year old?, long long time, relationship
long long time, relationship: I don t endorse someone who is 17 dating a 30 year old. In most cases it is a bad type of a relationship. Our culture also does not usually like this. I had a friend who dated someone about twice her age and well she said all he wanted was sex. Be careful...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, spring br, random conversation
spring br, random conversation, few suggestions: Chad, Hello! How are you? I hope you are having a great day. Unfortunately, most girls your age are not allowed to date yet. Although, you should definately improve your communication skill! I have a few suggestions: 1) If you want to get to know a...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, exact methods, clue
exact methods, clue, good luck: Well Mr. Nik, I know it took me awhile, but I m sorry. Ok, this might sound real crazy, but I would say practice on your arm. Not your hand your arm. I mean I know there are no exact methods to learning how, but why don t you try that one? I got that from...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, good kisser, wrong way
good kisser, wrong way, clue: Nik, If you both like one another then you need to ask her out. There s not really a wrong way to kiss. It just happens...really. Just be passionate about it...aka do not rush things. You can always let her lead it. So my advice for you is to ask...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, instinct, cheek
instinct, cheek, clue: nik- It is very difficult to kiss incorrectly. The best thing to do is start slowly, lead a little with your tongue when AND ONLY WHEN the time comes for it, and let instinct take over. Also, when you kiss her, gently rest your hand on her cheek. Most...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, mean time, clue
mean time, clue, parents: While I am not for dating at age 14, kissing just happens. So you shouldn t not date her because you never kissed anyone. But, I do recommend waiting with dating, yet in the mean time be her friend. I however will say she may be taken in the future if you...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating..., guy friends, good job
guy friends, good job, good luck: Looks do not matter to many guys. What s on the inside counts. You should make friends with guys before dating them. I am glad you are in college. Good job. Don t be sad you haven t dated yet. Many girls do not date until 20 years old. Ask your friends if...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating and Age Differences, age differences, age of consent
age differences, age of consent, 17 years: Vicki- Last time I looked up the laws, the age of consent was 16. Of course, this is regarding the laws in NJ and I don t know where you live. I would absolutely encourage you to date him once you ve hit legal age! As long as you and him are happy,...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Age, memories
memories: It s normal, don t worry. There isn t anything to worry about. At least you can enjoy your first boyfriend (when you get one) and the memories will be better, normally if your under 13 (average) you don t remember as much as when you are over 13. So enjoy...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Ages, cuddle, ohh
cuddle, ohh, thanks for your help: Ashleigh, Ohh so then seventeen is the legal age in Texas..wow that s pretty young, so then that would make you underaged for him...hmm When it comes to lgal stuff to me they re more pushed forward towards sex, I don t think it would be that big of a deal...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating at age 15, walt disney world, romance today
walt disney world, romance today, t girls: I know how you feel. The good news is you should pay no attention to this. You re going to be blessed with a girl who will need your shoulder to cry on and you will take care of her the way that she needs to be treated. In adolescence, girls want a little...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating/Boyfriends/Boys on the side, steady boyfriend, boys on the side
steady boyfriend, boys on the side, roomie: Lila- Thanks for the question! How far cheating stretches depends on the couple s definition of cheating. Some couples are very conservative when it comes to relations with the opposite sex while others are more liberal. If she says it was ok, then it very...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating/Cheating/Trust, blah blah, different situation
blah blah, different situation, little break: well tad i think that maybe you should just take a little break from her. i understand that your not comfortable with her hanging out with him and if she really cared for you then she would understand and she would stay away from him because she cares about...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating with different ages, legal ethics, legal advice
legal ethics, legal advice, lawyer: Hi, You may want to ask Paul in our Legal ethics area. He of course cannot really give legal advice, so it s good to also ask a lawyer in your state. If you want I can give you a contact for child services there that can maybe offer advice. Please talk...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Friends, bad time, great friends
bad time, great friends, nice things: Feelings are going to be hurt, no way around that. The goal is to minimize the amount of potential hurt. Don t beat around the bush and tell him nice things about him self. Set him straight the first minute of the date . Let him know that he s a nice...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating *Getting a girlfriend* reply, getting a girlfriend, dirty dishes
getting a girlfriend, dirty dishes, rest of the night: Look, Matt. You re getting this silly satisfaction every time she responds to you, but the truth is, remember what you know. She is not interested. Face the facts. You re going to be friends, never anything more. So you re going to have to learn to be...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Issues, solid group, going to a party
solid group, going to a party, one of the guys: hi, well it seems like she is actng shady even though you appologized to her, i think you should go after another girl, cause sh s alil confused.. maybe yall did have a good time on yalls date but the date was alil forceful, and maybe you tried to hard and...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Issues, solid group, going to a party
solid group, going to a party, one of the guys: Hey Alexander, Hey i am very sorry for takeing so long i had somethings going on that kinda got in the way so here we go with your question. Alright bud to me it sounds as if she dose like you but you gotta to ask her don t just ask to go to the concert...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Issues, solid group, going to a party
solid group, going to a party, one of the guys: Hi Alexander, I liked what one of your friends said. Just take it slow and dont push anything with her. If something is going to happen between the two of you it will. It also sounds like maybe you should not tell your friends everthing, they have big...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Issues, solid group, going to a party
solid group, going to a party, one of the guys: Sorry that I am late responding to this. My computer has been down. I believe that it would be best if you tell her how you feel. If she does not like you as more than a friend, then you are going to have to get over her. I am sorry to be so blunt, I just...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Issues, solid group, going to a party
solid group, going to a party, one of the guys: One of your friends has to many girlfriends and is not right for her. The other would lie to her and betray her and that is not right for her either. You were in the middle and you were in theory forced to lie to protect a friend and keep your friendship with...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Issues, solid group, going to a party
solid group, going to a party, one of the guys: Hi Alexander, Well, first of all, no, I perhaps wouldn t trust this other guy. If he likes her then he could easily have said something about you. Don t make a big deal out of it though, as she s still talking to you, so it s possible that he didn t say...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Issues, solid group, going to a party
solid group, going to a party, one of the guys: Hi Alexander, well you do sound like you re in a tough spot. On the one hand, you don t want to push and make her angry again, but on the other hand you don t want to just give up. Hm. I don t know if you re in a position to do this but could you maybe...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Issues, solid group, going to a party
solid group, going to a party, one of the guys: Hey Alexander, Wow it sounds like you have a real probelm on your hands! My advice to you is just go for her, but take your buddys advice take it slow. And dont push her. Find out if she really likes you. Dont be narrow minded look for the signs, if there...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating issues, real friends, friendships
real friends, friendships, relationships: Well, you could just come right out and tell him that you like him. Or you could try becoming real friends with him first. All great relationships start off as great friendships. Maybe sit next to him and get to know him. Just become his friend and then things...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating and getting to know eachother better, good answer, crazy stuff
good answer, crazy stuff, better time: Oooh thank you I like dat. Hello there my name s Lauren, and I am so sorry it took me awhile to get back to you. There s been so much crazy stuff at my house. Well anyway back to your question. Well first of all did the dance happen yet? Because sometimes...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating A Minor, parental consent, sandi
parental consent, sandi, 9 months: Hey Jared, I have no idea what the laws are. I dont live there and I am young myself. I would think that if she wanted to get you in trouble later on down the road she could. I think there is nothing wrong with you dating her but unfortunently the law says...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating Problem..., 6th grader, younger ones
6th grader, younger ones, big brother: Ok fine, we ll look at it from a different angle. Right now her older brother doesn t trust you. maybe you should work on that. if her older brother trusts you then there will be no need for him to interfere in her life like that. So work on getting him to...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating problem, followup question, great time
followup question, great time, typo: Hey Joey, Her agreeing to see a movie with you is certainly a good sign; I don t think she d say yes if she didn t like you. If you want to let her know how you feel without saying anything, then you might want to try holding her hand (not right away, but...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating problems, solid group, going to a party
solid group, going to a party, one of the guys: hey, i dont think this other guy is a big threat, he probobly wasnt telling the truth. if he said that this girl didnt like you at all, it probly means that she was talking about you and he couldnt stand it and wants you out of the way. about the girl..it...

Teen Dating Issues: A Dating Question, and i need advice..Mostly about ages., age restriction, math class
age restriction, math class, th birthday: she drank and smoked --- Shouldn t date her. And i sorta started liking this girl that added me to MySpace --- Don t promote Myspace. Predator risks. She s single, and is 14 --- too young Sex is of couse illegal Dating varies with location....

Teen Dating Issues: It's Me again.I hope you're not too tired of me., couple words, type of girl
couple words, type of girl, girl thing: Thank you very much for the feedback. I don t ask for feedback usually on the basics that I don t do this for feedback, however, I noticed the more feedback that I have will cause more people come to me for advice. I remember a while back when I worked...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, religion, and age...ughh, muslim religion, frineds
muslim religion, frineds, ughh: I m no expert on the Muslim religion. But i would suggest that you just talk to him about it. You ll never know if you don t talk to him and honestly whats the worst he says? Either way i m sure you guys will still be friends. Maybe do some research your...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating and Talking, girl friend, interesting things
girl friend, interesting things, gf: There are a couple of things I want to say. I talk to people every day online. I talk to my friends every week online. I learned one very important thing over the years about talking online. DO NOT TALK TO YOUR FRIENDS EVERY DAY LIKE WHAT I DID WHEN I STARTED...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating a teen..., consequences, mom
consequences, mom, lawyer: im not a lawyer (nor do i want to be one) :) i would say even if his mom is ok with you that is still not ok to have sex with him. i would be careful even if you dont have sex with him. his mom or him could accuse you of something. try and be friends for...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating younger guys, seceret, whole life
seceret, whole life, having fun: i dont see a reason why you shouldnt go out with him. the issue might be if you continue to date and you turn 18 and he is 15. but for now i say go for it! :) who cares that he is 12 right now. i do not think you should keep it a secret either. you are young...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, short end of the stick, caue
short end of the stick, caue, girsl: hi, well i dont think this is right she should be yours andyours onlyyou shouldnt hve to share!!!tht s first off..if she is your girl then just yours, she is being selfish having hr cake and eating it too, has not right at all..caue i bet wheneva she get...

Teen Dating Issues: My Daughter, Krystina 19, blue healer, good luck
blue healer, good luck: A break up is rough Thomas, especially after a year and a half of dating. You feel like you ve lost a part of your life because you kind of have. Time is the only true blue healer in these situations. But if you want to help her along then do something with...

Teen Dating Issues: Daughter in trouble, church youth group, strong girl
church youth group, strong girl, espically: tuff situation. it sounds like you relaly tried to make her understand that she is young and it will not last forever. its important that she does try and make friends and get out as much as possible. we all know its very hard breaking up with someone, espically...

Teen Dating Issues: How to Deal/What to do?, quiet type, mutual friends
quiet type, mutual friends, bear hug: I admitted in the posting that your area question is not my area of help. I however felt that you should get the best possible advice possible and this is why I recommended the other area. You did not need to leave me bad feedback for being honest, and recommending...

Teen Dating Issues: Dealing With A BreakUp, dealing with a breakup, ups
dealing with a breakup, ups, family reunion: Hi, One way to repair the damage done from a relationship is to talk about it. Now, I m not a psychologist, yet, I m here if you want to talk about it. I do recommend talking to your parents and a psychologist about it. Let me ask you those questions:...

Teen Dating Issues: Depression and a close friend., long distant relationship, feelings of depression
long distant relationship, feelings of depression, best friend in the world: Hey Tom! Don t worry about the length of the question. I enjoy reading and helping as much as I can! As for your problem, I truly think that because of your depression you see things differently from what they truly are. When you re depressed, you tend...

Teen Dating Issues: Desperate, private chats, love poetry
private chats, love poetry, discos: Listen Bill Now , if you really like this girl there are some things you can do to increase your chances to have a future relationship with her. I only know these ways : 1 Ė you can talk to her on private chats like ( msn messenger , yahoo and stuff )...

Teen Dating Issues: Desperately need help!, weirdest girl, time girlfriend
weirdest girl, time girlfriend, mood swings: Hi Deniece, I m very sorry that it has taken me so long to respond. I had a family crisis and had to leave very last minute. But to your question I think if you can t get over Kevin, then you should call him or something and say you can t get over him and...

Teen Dating Issues: Desperately need help!, weirdest girl, time girlfriend
weirdest girl, time girlfriend, mood swings: hey deneice, i think the best way to get over kevin would just be to try to forget about him. I know it sounds compleatly impossible, but whatever obsession you have with him is bound to go away once you find a guy who fills the place he left in your heart....

Teen Dating Issues: Desperately need help!, weirdest girl, time girlfriend
weirdest girl, time girlfriend, mood swings: hey deneice, i m so sorry about your story. and i m sorry he was like that and it affects you so much. god i m going through kinda what you are right now.. but mine is alittle different. i dont want to tell you that you should think of all the things that...

Teen Dating Issues: Desperately need help!, weirdest girl, time girlfriend
weirdest girl, time girlfriend, mood swings: Dear Deniece, I m so sorry that you re sad and in pain. I don t know if you re depressed but if you think you are, you should a doctor. If you think you re just sad because of the breakup then know that all of these feelings are very normal. Know also that...

Teen Dating Issues: Desperately need help!, weirdest girl, time girlfriend
weirdest girl, time girlfriend, mood swings: Hey, Wow I am sorry you have had to go through all of this. What you have gone through is absolutely not fair. This guy has done to you what several other guys have done to other girls. He has manipulated you into liking him. And you fell for him hard....

Teen Dating Issues: Desperately need help!, weirdest girl, time girlfriend
weirdest girl, time girlfriend, mood swings: Hi Deniece, Well that certainly sounds like a sticky situation. I think it is best for you that you and Kevin broke up - he seems to have suppressed anger and emotions that probably stemmed from a bad childhood. People like that can get VERY violent and...

Teen Dating Issues: DIFFICLTY, james windell, teen area
james windell, teen area, ups: This is a big topic that I do not like to get into. Do you talk to him about this? Probably not, for why did you go in his pockets? I would tell your parents that you thought you saw condoms in his pocket, yet have them not tell him who told them this. They...

Teen Dating Issues: Different dates, one of those guys, racing go carts
one of those guys, racing go carts, open doors: Andrew, Hey! How are you? I hope you are having a great day. If you want to make a lasting impression I would honestly suggest that you buy her a single rose (not a red one because that symbolizes love...maybe white). This will show her that you are excited...

Teen Dating Issues: Two Different People..., jake smith, physical fights
jake smith, physical fights, piece of paper: Dear Kaelie, okay well first off i m terrible sorry about taking so long, my internet has been very difficult lately so i m very sorry. i did get confused about how he changes every other day, you said i know people change, but not everyday, i just didn t...

Teen Dating Issues: Different thoughts about "us", different thoughts, good conversation
different thoughts, good conversation, lil bit: hey katelyn, i think the best thing to do, bc he is starting to think of you as..mom..w/e, would be to do somthing romantic. go somwhere really nice together and have a great time, not seeing eachother for a while can be hard on a relationship. i hope i...

Teen Dating Issues: Difficult friendship, being friends, brainless
being friends, brainless, close friends: Hey Ben, Alright, here, try this: Buy her a card for her birthday, nothing special, just a card a friend would get. And inside, leave her a note that explains that you love her friendship and would hate to loose that. And say that you don t want to pressure...

Teen Dating Issues: I JUST DONT GET IT., being friends, older guys
being friends, older guys, intrested: Seeing as how she s coming from a rough past, you have to understand that pressuring her into having sex with you is definitely not the right thing to do. As well, do not call girls chicks. We aren t chicks, we are ladies. Girls. Seeing as how you refer to...

Teen Dating Issues: I DONT KNOW IF IM A VIRGIN!!!! HELP PLEASE!, teen age sex, adult decision
teen age sex, adult decision, having sexual intercourse: HI Julie, if your boyfriend broke your Hymen, then technically you are no longer a virgin, and yes you can get pregnant. There isn t always blood present the first time a girl has sexual intercourse. I do not advocate teen-age sex, however, if your going...

Teen Dating Issues: WHAT DO I DOOO?, single girl, ahold
single girl, ahold, texting: Matt - If they just recently broke up and there s drama then maybe that should have been your red flag. The fact that she s still seeing him and since she s seen him again she s avoiding you tells me that she s not completely over him so it s probably best...

Teen Dating Issues: Doc, nerves, heck
nerves, heck, good luck: Hey there, He seems like just a flirty guy. There are some guys out there who just flirt for the heck of it. It s hard to say, but if he flirts with everyone (which would be very obvious) he may not be worth your time. Just kind of judge how he acts, if it...

Teen Dating Issues: Domestic Violence(Emotional), state of confusion, domestic violence
state of confusion, domestic violence, zachary: It is ok your question is long. I understand why it is. You do explain Domestic Violence very well. I am not even an expert on Domestic Violence for I don t deal with enough cases to be and I am not in trainning for this, yet from what I know of it you...

Teen Dating Issues: Don't Know How To Catagorize This., sex before marriage, kenan
sex before marriage, kenan, orgasm: Hi Kenan, Well you ve kind of ruled out lots of options for making her orgasm but I can give you a few tips nonetheless. If she doesn t want you actually touching her try and get the chance to be alone with her in a spa, a shower or even a bath (although...

Teen Dating Issues: Don't know what to do, dunno what advice to receive..., personality problem, 16 going on 17
personality problem, 16 going on 17, suffering from depression: Hey Moby, I d say that the best way to avoid sounding obvious would be to casually invite her to join an activity you ve already planned. For example, if you and some friends (or even just one friend) are going to a movie on Friday night, you could ask...

Teen Dating Issues: Don't know what to do (girlfriend), longest time, first period
longest time, first period, sex drive: Hi Sam, welcome back. Didn t we talk a bit a while back? Well, this is a difficult issue because I m sure you know that many women have sexual issues. Women sometimes find it difficult because it is, in some circumstances, harder to receive than it is to give....

Teen Dating Issues: Don't know what to do (girlfriend), longest time, first period
longest time, first period, sex drive: Sam- It sounds like she s afraid and/or disgusted by what she doesn t know or understand about sex. She probably doesn t recognize what it s like to be horny or anything like that. You and her need to discuss this because you can help her get through...

Teen Dating Issues: Don't know what to do (girlfriend), longest time, first period
longest time, first period, sex drive: Sam, You want sex, she doesn t. She was raped. It seems to me that she needs to get help to get past this because she obviously isn t. If you love her, you need to tell her that you have a problem. Tell her you are worried about her and worried about...

Teen Dating Issues: Don't know what to do (girlfriend), longest time, first period
longest time, first period, sex drive: Sam, First off some girls do not like giving blow jobs and/or being eaten out . It s just not for them. In that respect, you two have to compromise. It is obvious that your girlfriend needs to go get psychological help. She also needs to get an OBGYN...

Teen Dating Issues: Don't know what to do., quiet guy, strong word
quiet guy, strong word, crowded room: Hi Adam It looks as if Caitlyn couldn t answer your question (probably because she is overloaded) But I would be happy to answer it for her. It looks like you have really done your homework, you seem to know a lot about what kind of signs are good, and...

Teen Dating Issues: Dont know what to do, intense relationship, emotional abuse
intense relationship, emotional abuse, head over heels: Look Julia, this guy is clearly a pig, he left you on the fucking ground with an injury, you CRAWLED! Shit, pigs won t do that. You have nothing to be curious about, you can;t possibly tell me that you re still interested in him. In all honesty, my military...

Teen Dating Issues: Dose she like me??, fealings, becuse
fealings, becuse, web surfing: Hey Bobby, Alrighty i am pretty sure this girl likes you alot you just need to ask her if she likes you in that way becuse if you wait too long she will go with another guy witch i hope don t happen since you both sound like a good couple. Well to tell...

Teen Dating Issues: Dose she like me??, fealings, web surfing
fealings, web surfing, good friend: Hi Bobby, I would ask her how she feels about you. It sounds like you may be in love with her a little to soon. I would back off a bit and just let jer know that you like her alot and see what she does. She may want to date different guys and not be with...

Teen Dating Issues: Dose she like me???, fealings, goodluck
fealings, goodluck, web surfing: Bobby, I cannot email you this because I do not have a copy of your email address. All-Experts forwards the emails to me. I cannot tell you if the girl truely likes you more than a friend or not, because I cannot see how she acts around you. You really...

Teen Dating Issues: Dose she like me??, fealings, beleiver
fealings, beleiver, l word: hey bobby, first things first, i dont want to sound like a non-beleiver in love at first sight but you seem to be using the word love very loosely. thats fine, but when u approach this girl..which is my advice for what u should do, you probobly shouldnt say...

Teen Dating Issues: Getting My Dream Girl., psychology area, heart races
psychology area, heart races, sentances: How old are you? How old is she? I recommend to stay her friend for a drop longer. And I recommend writing notes in a note book to your self before talking to her. Try to use those notes as guides when you see her next. Don t let others find this note book....

Teen Dating Issues: Dreams, psychology section, 16 year olds
psychology section, 16 year olds, ups: You re asking what does your dream mean? I recommend our psychology section. Please understand many 16 year olds do not date. Please ask follow ups No need to rush with dating I rather not get into the dream topic as most experts in this area are not...

Teen Dating Issues: Drew (need help SOON!!!!!), friends with benefits, bff
friends with benefits, bff, cuz: Hi Caroline This Drew guy does seem like he likes you but he s not exactly sure of his feelings right now. It s very common with guys to be confused when they find out that someone likes them. They often need time to figure out how they feel themselves. Give...

Teen Dating Issues: Drives me crazy! need help (deep issues), converstation, stunning girl
converstation, stunning girl, great girl: Hey You reinforce her trust in you by not braking up with you even though your relationship with her is frustrating. And in that situation just make sure you talk to her alot but also try to involve her in converstations with your friends. I hope everything...

Teen Dating Issues: Driving problems, mr man, liscence
mr man, liscence, happy man: Wow Matthew, I didn t know people could still get their liscences at sixteen (smiles). Ok, well uh...for me at 16 It d be a little strange because if I was driven around it would make me feel like I was on top of the world and like it s a scene from a movie....

Teen Dating Issues: Drowning, mom and dad, hope and faith
mom and dad, hope and faith, careing: Amanda, First off I would like to reassure you that everything will work out. Hang in there okay? I know you are going through a lot right now, but you will be okay. As for the guy you currently care about, just know he feels the same way about you....

Teen Dating Issues: Drugs, exact category, health area
exact category, health area, men s health: You do not state your ages. You do state you love him, yet I know you do not love him. In a relationship you need to have trust, respect, and have eachother be honest with eachother. He s not respecting you, and the question is is he honest with you? And can...

Teen Dating Issues: Drunken Honesty Or Drunken Mistake?, bunny boiler, crap outta
bunny boiler, crap outta, ryhme: hi you need to talk to her in person. let her know your really sorry and you want this relationship to work. ask her how she feels about you. ask her what she would to changer about you. maybe she just doesnt want a relationship with you anymore. if so...

Teen Dating Issues: Drunken Honesty or Drunken Mistake?, bunny boiler, crap outta
bunny boiler, crap outta, ryhme: James- Thanks for the question, it s a great one! To be honest, I would back off for a few days and let things cool down. Nubmer one, this proves that you are NOT too clingy and that you can get along on your own. Number 2, it will prove to herself how...

Teen Dating Issues: Dunno what to do, girlfrind, yahoo co uk
girlfrind, yahoo co uk, right moment: I think a kiss is necessary, no matter what place, what time. It s always nice for a guy to lean in and just kiss the girl unexpectedly. Don t plan it, if you feel the right moment has come, just do it! From the 3 weeks, what have you picked up on her personality?...

Teen Dating Issues: how to date, life coach, simple answer
life coach, simple answer, girlfriend: Hi David, You re asking a very broad question here! There are some many little, individual things to do when you re dating. Are you talking about things to do? Or what to say around her? Basically, you want to just be yourself. Talk about things that you...

Teen Dating Issues: how do i get a date?, barbie doll, pointers
barbie doll, pointers, ashley: Emily - Attracting guys is a hard thing. There s not really one thing you can do to attract a guy. Just be yourself and eventually a guy will like you. I know that sound like stupid advice but it s true and I used to be in your position when I was your...

Teen Dating Issues: A date, church relationship, good relationship
church relationship, good relationship, safety in numbers: Small word my friend. I too am also kind of dating my pastors daughter (Long story ^_^). Anyway, her Dad and i have a pretty good relationship so i haven t really run into any problems. So that would be my very first suggestion to you, start a real relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: a date?, self concious, exes
self concious, exes, first move: Mattie, Just relax, sweetie. Everything is going to be alright, TURST ME. The guy is obviously into you. Have fun, you ve talked to the guy before. The only time people have trouble talking on a date is when they feel like they need to talk about certain...

Teen Dating Issues: Going on a date soon with crush, brie, 5 months
brie, 5 months, girlfriend: Brie - If he has a girlfriend you shouldn t be going on a date with him OR flirting with him. Convincing someone to cheat on their significant other is wrong and if he leaves her for you he ll only leave you when something better comes along. Ashle...

Teen Dating Issues: She has a date, valentine s day, valentine s day card
valentine s day, valentine s day card, 10th grade: Well Matthew first of all sorry it took me awhile to get back to you. I mean...I didn t know she was dating this guy. I mean the way you sounded made it seem like she was...just dating (around). Well at least the note said how much you care. Well at this point...

Teen Dating Issues: Never dated, own pace, alexandra
own pace, alexandra, feelings: Rameez- You don t need to rush into dating, it will come to you at it s own pace. Maybe waiting this long will pay off, and you ll find someone perfect for you on your first try. Some people don t start dating until they re in college anyway, when...

Teen Dating Issues: dateing someone younger, legal sex, sex age
legal sex, sex age, newzealand: BE EXTRA CAREFUL WITH ONLINE RELATIONSHIPS. I don t promote them. Check into online safety. About dating I am not sure your location laws, yet it may be illegal to date her at this age. Even if it s not illegal to date her for her age, I don t recommend...

Teen Dating Issues: datin, ok cuz, thinking about sex
ok cuz, thinking about sex, reciprocation: Hi Danny, First of all at 14 and 15 years old you shouldn t be thinking about sex. Your both too young, and sex is not what keeps a relationship together. Sex is a show of affection between two people, and/or for the purposes of making a baby. Relationships...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, good luck with everything, friends with benefits
good luck with everything, friends with benefits, relationship: Well, it sounds like he wants to be more than friends with you, BUT he doesn t want to be in a relationship so that he can try to be more than friends with other girls too. If I were you I would either stay away from him, or tell him how you feel about him...

Teen Dating Issues: dating.., dating, just friends
dating, just friends, love: hi karyn, i guess it depends on the people involved. some may just want to go out as friends and not think of it as a date. others will think of it as dating . dating to me means you like the other person as more then just friends and you are dating...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, last november, out of the blue
last november, out of the blue, bias: I think from the information you gave me he likes you, however I am sure your leaving out information because of the bias of you liking him. I do have to say he likes you at least as a friend. I am sorry this is all I can say with this information. Good luck...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, last november, out of the blue
last november, out of the blue: Em, In a case like this there is not a way to know for sure. I would suggest that you let things keep going like they have been. If he is interested he will let you know. So just have fun hanging out with him for now. If he wants it to go anywhere I m...

Teen Dating Issues: dating...., losing my virginity, intellectual conversations
losing my virginity, intellectual conversations, touchy feely: Holly- You shouldn t have to bear all the emotional weight in the relationship! It should be an even 50/50! It sounds like you had better sit down with him and tell it like it is, no matter how much it might hurt. If he can t be mature about your relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: dating..., losing my virginity, intellectual conversations
losing my virginity, intellectual conversations, touchy feely: Holly, Hey sweetie. First off know that if you truly cared about him you would not be doubting this much. Yes, you did make a mistake of sleeping with him after only knowing him for a week, but you have to accept that and move along. You cannot go back...

Teen Dating Issues: dating...., losing my virginity, intellectual conversations
losing my virginity, intellectual conversations, touchy feely: Holly - He was your first so you ll always remember having sex with him and he ll always be a part of you. If you don t like him, you don t like him. There s nothing wrong with that. Just tell him that this isn t working out and break it off. Let me...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, feelings, marriage
feelings, marriage, game: Maria- It sounds like your boyfriend is moving ahead a little too fast. Being that you both are only 16, you might want to wait a few years before even THINKING about marriage. You 2 probably have very strong feelings for each other but marriage is probably...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, intimate time, starbucks
intimate time, starbucks, coffee: Dating has a wide definition. It s usually when a guy and a girl (or it can also be same-sex dating) decide to see each other socially and flirt, etc. It can be from getting a coffee at Starbucks, hanging out and seeing a movie, or much more than that. ...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, mutual feelings, date girls
mutual feelings, date girls, google: Devin- Congrats on the mutual feelings between you 2, that s great to hear! Being that I live in New Jersey, I am not fully aware or qualified to provide you with legal advice for your state. I am aware of the laws of New Jersey, however I am still nowhere...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, hottest guy
hottest guy: i know what its like being shy and not knowing if a guy likes you. but really the only way to know for sure is to ask him out. try and find a time when he is alone and you can talk without others around. is there someone you know that knows him. maybe they...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, going to college, taking chances
going to college, taking chances, last two months: Hi Rebecca. It s a risk! But the way I look at it, if he s a true friend then telling him that you have feelings for him shouldn t RUIN a friendship. It may put it on hold for a bit until he can figure out his feelings or get used to you having feelings,...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, mackenzie, savannah
mackenzie, savannah: Hey Mackenzie- Well you can take her maybe to the movies or something if you have a way to get there and back. Or what s always good is to just go somewhere where you two will have fun. So there s not so much pressure on you too. Now with the kissing just...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, pushover, sweet guy
pushover, sweet guy, savannah: Hey Terrance- Okay to answer your questiong in number 2 about how to get this girl. Well just forget about her. I mean apparently she doesn t want to be with you because she s got feelings for someone else. I know its hard to hear this but its really ture....

Teen Dating Issues: dating, good relationship, restaraunt
good relationship, restaraunt, boat ride: Kate - Some people may announce it s a date when they ask you out and some may not. It can be very confusing. I wouldn t assume that he s in it for the sex unless he starts acting fishy. If he starts getting pushy just put him in his place and tell...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, awkward silence, ty
awkward silence, ty: you cant talk about anything. remember that there should neer really be an awkward silence because that makes you both nervous and could begin to lose interest. just talk about anything and everything. even is its totally random. treat it like a normal friend....

Teen Dating Issues: dating, rebound girl, true relationship
rebound girl, true relationship, willed person: Aceed this depends on what you want if you want it to be a real true relationship and not just a fling, or his rebound girl. then i suggest you find out if he wants that or not. dont make this more complicated than it has to be. if you want him go...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, will you be my girlfriend, good luck
will you be my girlfriend, good luck: If you want to ask a girl out then ask her out by saying will you be my girlfriend ; will you go on a date with me or will you go out with me depending on ure prefernce. If a girl likes she she will flirt with you alot and look at you in the eyes....ask...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, school dance, girls
school dance, girls: Heya, Whoa! Slow down...he likes you, just not on the night where he can be dancing with other people...sound fishy? Consider that. If nothing changes, then ask him out to check out a movie and then make your move! Haha, have fun with it, okay? But dont forget...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, ashley
ashley: Dupe - You should start talking to her and become friends with her again and get to know her and then eventually tell her you like her or start to drop hints. If she s not really interested in you there s really nothing you can do because you can t make...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, savannah
savannah: Hey Katrina- Well what he should do is make time for the both. For you and his friends.. Like maybe one weekend he spends time with you and the next with his friends. He just needs to make time for the both of you two his friends and you... I hope this...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, romeo and juliet, realtionship
romeo and juliet, realtionship, school dance: Dear Chris, Wow its like a real life Romeo and Juliet! If you really have feelings for her you have to stick with her or you ll always wonder what could ve happened. I d say set a day that you can go to her house and confront her parents. This is the...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, friction, bf
friction, bf, dating: Summer, Here s my policy on the customary post-breakup exchange: -If it was a gift, keep it if you can handle it. If you think it will only make it worse, either pack it up for a later date when you have moved on OR just give it back. -If it just...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, freak out, school dance
freak out, school dance, sumtimes: Chris, I can honestly say that I ve been that girl in a very similar situation before, so I will help you to the best of my ability. First of all I want to encourage you with the fact that parents don t last forever, and there will come a time when there...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, sense of humer, verbal exchanges
sense of humer, verbal exchanges, boyfreind: Hey Chad, Do you know any of her friends? If so, you might want to check with them just to confirm the breakup. But either way, I think it d be best to strike up a general conversation with her first, and then ask her out after a few verbal exchanges. Don...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, sense of humer, boyfreind
sense of humer, boyfreind, word of god: Dear Chad, Ok, I hope I can help. 1. Do not base anything on rumors; go talk with her bout this yourself. 2. Talk to her like you talk about her, let her know where you stand, be a gentleman. 3. You do not have because you do not ask, or because...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, name dropping, patronising
name dropping, patronising, good luck: Start name-dropping. Trying to just tell them is incredibly difficult, not to mention embarassing! So, just try to mention him without saying who he is, and then wait for them to ask and then say. If you can t do that then you will have to be really brave...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, bestfriend, bf
bestfriend, bf, good luck: Hey Dan, In my opinion, you should wait until her and her boyfriend break up to say anything. Otherwise, it could end up making everyone mad at each other. You re in an especially difficult position because you re friends with her boyfriend. Wait for...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, bestfriend, second opinion
bestfriend, second opinion, ups: You I feel are too young to be dating. We cannot promote dating below the age of 16. Also because you are both of their friends, it s probably better just to be her friend right now. Just be both of their friends, and do not talk about dating right now. Please...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, bestfriend, second opinion
bestfriend, second opinion, bf: I PROBABLY TELL YOU THE SAME THING THE OTHER PERSON TELL YOU. IF SHE REALLY LIKES WHO SHE S WITH THERES NOT MUCH YOU CAN DO. RESPECT THE FACT THAT SHE RAPPING TO SOMEONE AT THE MOMENT. AND THE FACT THAT YOU ARE FRIENDS WITH HER BF IS SORT OF DISRESPECTFUL...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, intersted, wether
intersted, wether, gf: i think you should let him know you like him after he breaks up with his gf. just be prepared for whatever he might say. he might not be ready to date anyone right now. but the only way to find out for sure is to open up to him and let him know how you feel....

Teen Dating Issues: dating, boy of my dreams, ups and downs
boy of my dreams, ups and downs, good relationship: I am just like you. I do the exact same thing. I guess that all I can tell you, is that it will get better. Just wait it out a little bit and you ll see. Relationships have their ups and downs and this is one of the downs. I m currently dating the perfect...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, boy friend, hes
boy friend, hes, best friends: Well Colette, you could just take the high road and ask him to be your boy friend. Maybe he s not sure where you guys fall either. If thats the case then i defiantly think that you should either just bite the bullet and ask him to be your boyfriend or at least...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, valentine s day, lol thanks
valentine s day, lol thanks, goodluck: when your not that serious the best things to get them would be a small stuffed animal or their favorite chocolate. come up with some cheesy way to find out what their favorite candy is and give that to them and a small stuffed animal. thats what i did with...

Teen Dating Issues: dating., 16 going on 17, sister brother
16 going on 17, sister brother, sexual content: I am not sure about the exact laws of Illinois but it is probably legal as most states don t have restrictions earlier then 18. However, unless these people have something directly to do with you (i.e. you are one of them, they are your sister/brother)then...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, picnic in the park, girl friend
picnic in the park, girl friend, thankyou: Tylor, Thankyou for contacting me and I m more than happy to try and help you. I understand your situation and how you feel, but thing is you ve just got to do it. This girl you like, when you see her and she s on her own and whilst you are alone too,...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, expert area, srry
expert area, srry, 17 years: Helo there, thanks for follow-up. Well the area of How to tell if he/she likes me , isn t exactly my expert area, so I suggest checking out that area, and asking someone there for that answer. However; I guess you could just talk to her, see if she looks...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, gr 10, bads
gr 10, bads, bf: Hi, How old are you and what do you want in a relationship and why? Is the problem you? NO. It doesn t sound like it. I would like to help you out with your problem. Can you tell me a drop about past relationships? Goods and bads and why? Please ask follow...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, sex teenagers, consequences
sex teenagers, consequences, adults: Teenagers don t need to have sex, they just want to. For the question of why do teenagers want to have sex, it s because it is another way for them to try to show that they are grown. Sex is originally reserved for adults and when teens engage in sex they...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, weekes, rejection
weekes, rejection, myspace: Just sit her down and ask her out. I know this sounds horrible, and i know you re afraid of rejection. But no risk/no reward am i right? Sometimes you have to be willing to let your self be hurt, otherwise we miss out on what s really important in life. I...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, valentine s day, race cars
valentine s day, race cars, lol thanks: Meg, Hey! If you ve only been going out for about a week I would suggest just getting him some candy. Next year you can get him a great gift if you two are still together. But at this stage of the relationship, I would seriously just suggest something...

Teen Dating Issues: dating..., acoustic set, eachother
acoustic set, eachother, jerk: Break up with him again because he deserves more than what you can give him. Sometimes, the feelings just aren t there. And since you could both be moving on with people that feel the same about you as you feel about them, then you need to be selfless enough...

Teen Dating Issues: dating ., 15 months, aswell
15 months, aswell, good luck: If he controls you when dating, think about marriage? He will do the same. Because your a teen, you may want to mention this to his parents so they give him a talk about how to respect women. I would recommend you to break up with him in a public place for...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, teen relationships, maturity level
teen relationships, maturity level, break ups: Wilfred- This is an interesting idea. I disagree that television is the main source of some of those beliefs. My thoughts on why teens believe in teen relationships is for quick gratification and the need to feel loved and appreciated. We all know...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, homework questions, school essay
homework questions, school essay, google: HI Geoff, I m afraid I haven t done any research on this subject. I think you should check the library and the internet for studies that will give you solid information. My telling you would just be my opinion. I don t really take homework questions so I m...

Teen Dating Issues: dating advice, good foundation, building trust
good foundation, building trust, agian: hey kiddo, it sounds to me like your crush is a pretty mature 14 year-old. the fact that she values your friendship enough to sacrifice dating you for a little while says a lot about her. i know that it sucks not to be with the one you want but sometimes...

Teen Dating Issues: dating ages, legal ethics, u kno
legal ethics, u kno, state laws: This information does not replace a lawyer. There is not enough information for me to state any state laws. Ask Paul in our Legal ethics area. I need ages and state. Understand you do not know what love is. Dating below age 16 in many areas is semi illegal...

Teen Dating Issues: dating ages, http www myspace, two and a half years
http www myspace, two and a half years, heart to heart: Steven, Have you tried sitting down with your parents and having a heart to heart about how much this girl means to you and why you would like to date her? If not that would be the first place that I would start. If they really know how you feel and they...

Teen Dating Issues: dating ages, maturity levels, idk
maturity levels, idk, 35 years: Hey Ethan, In the real world, 2 years isn t that big of a difference. My parents were 35 years apart (very true). However, when you re your ages 2 years can be a lot just because of maturity levels. Your mom probably thinks that you re too young to even...

Teen Dating Issues: dating is my biggest problem, dear emily, t rush
dear emily, t rush, first kiss: Dear Emily, When I was your age (only a few years ago) I was extremely boy-crazy too. I really wanted the experience of having a boyfriend too! Sooner or later, you will have that experience. You re 12 years old, you have plenty of time and like you said,...

Teen Dating Issues: dating a freshman, freshman, girlfriend
freshman, girlfriend, parents: Age is but a number my friend. I know thats a overused saying and you re probably shaking your head at me for using it right now but in this instance it really does stand firm. if two people like each other and are with in reasonable age, why should age...

Teen Dating Issues: dating a friend, sadie hawkins dance, relationship problems
sadie hawkins dance, relationship problems, serious relationship: Amanda, That s not necessarily true. Guys are strange. Well, actually they re a lot like girls in that if they have two girls that they like, but the one they like more doesn t do anything, they re likely to settle for the girl they sort of like. I m...

Teen Dating Issues: dating a friend?, sadie hawkins dance, relationship problems
sadie hawkins dance, relationship problems, serious relationship: Hi Amanda, It sounds to me as though your beginning to feel that your friendship should progress, and he might feel the same way too. But you need to consider how far you want to go, or even how far your feelings already go for him. I think it would...

Teen Dating Issues: dating a gilr odler than me by 1yr and change, odler, apoligies
odler, apoligies, sum time: Christian, My apoligies. I replied to this question a couple days ago but it must not have sent. My advice to you in this situation is to not overpursue this girl. She has a bf right now so she has something to fall back on, but what you have to do...

Teen Dating Issues: dating this girl, meaningless sex, honest opinion
meaningless sex, honest opinion, dilema: Well, you should know that there aren t 100% answers but I can give you my honest opinion. There are numerous ways you can approach this. One, you can easily just forget about this and just move on with your life, even though it may be hard. And try and convince...

Teen Dating Issues: I have been dating this girl for about five months..., sexual intercourse, intimate moments
sexual intercourse, intimate moments, big hug: Ken- In this case, I would talk to her about the situation outside of the intimate moments. In other words, don t try to talk about it when you are both lying there naked and...well you fill in the blanks. The next time you are hanging out and feel the...

Teen Dating Issues: dating a girl you have never met, internet relationship, good luck
internet relationship, good luck, shell: What do you mean? You are seeing a girl but you aren t dating her? Is it like an internet relationship? If so, just say Hey, I like you, will you date me or something to that effect. I know it s kinda easier said than done, but that s what you need to do....

Teen Dating Issues: dating a girl, friends zone, girlfried
friends zone, girlfried, high fives: Colin, You ve been dating her for a few months, have only gone on 4 dates, and have never done anything more than hug her? It sounds to me like you two are just friends, if anything. YOU NEED TO MAKE A MOVE NOW, AND DO IT QUICKLY. If you keep treating...

Teen Dating Issues: dating help, dating help, bf
dating help, bf, nah: Hey there, Nah, he s not too old for you, don t worry. And, if his parents don t let him date, then it s their choice. You ahve to respect that. Maybe if you and him show that you two are both responsible enough to have a gf/bf, then they might reconsider....

Teen Dating Issues: dating help, afraid of commitment, horrible situation
afraid of commitment, horrible situation, dating help: Sorry I took so long to get a response back to you. My season just started and I have had seven games in the last 10 days. Thank you for being patient. As much as you may hate to hear it you have to let her be. She has come to a difficult place in her life....

Teen Dating Issues: dating help, dating help, seven games
dating help, seven games, barbee: Sorry I took so long to get a response back to you. My season just started and I have had seven games in the last 10 days. Thank you for being patient. I don t know where you live but in most of the United States it will become illegal once he turns 18...

Teen Dating Issues: dating help, awkward silences, genuine air
awkward silences, genuine air, stupid thanks: Girls like it when guys are interested in finding out about their lives. What they want to do, their families, their friends, what they love. Girls like guys that notice the little things, like a new skirt or a haircut. Girls like guys that go out of their...

Teen Dating Issues: dating issue, cell phone number, x mass
cell phone number, x mass, message saying that: okay, theres something about this guy that doesnt sound good. swearing at your dad is not on(even if he deserved it) its so disrespectful. and the i love you bit after he knew you about a day seems a bit weird. if you havent slept with him yet then id say...

Teen Dating Issues: dating issues, developes, 17 years
developes, 17 years, good friend: Jordan, It s best that you do tell her how you feel, it would make you feel a lot better once you ve got it off your mind. You don t want to live your days hoping that she hints on you liking her and she starts a relationship with you. So you ve got to...

Teen Dating Issues: dating issues, boyfriend girlfriend, having fun
boyfriend girlfriend, having fun, bowling: Allyee, Unfortunately there is no way to make sure that the two of you stay friends if things don t work out unless you choose not to date him. If you want to date him, you have to risk the fact that you might not make it out if you break up and lose that...

Teen Dating Issues: dating issues, personal thing, boyfriends
personal thing, boyfriends, girlfriend: Well I have been in that situation many times before. I try to divide my time up equally, so as to be fair to both. Many girls lose sight of their friends when they get a boyfriend. They will spend all their time with him. Other girls will continue to hang...

Teen Dating Issues: dating issues, sexual tension, first kiss
sexual tension, first kiss, drunken night: It is in my theory if love was meant to be it will be. I think you love him. I think he loves you. While I am afraid you both had intercourse earily and while I recommend getting tested for STIs, I know you will. Understand 3 years of friendship usually does...

Teen Dating Issues: dating laws, parents friends, serious trouble
parents friends, serious trouble, having sex: Dear Taylor, I looked for any laws against dating in Idaho and the only thing I could find was that if you are having sex and theres proof of it then someone who feels uncomfortable with it (ie. parents, friends) could take you girlfriend to court for...

Teen Dating Issues: dating ,love, trust, signs of an abusive relationship, throwing fits
signs of an abusive relationship, throwing fits, article one: Wow - age difference, cheating, and trust issues in the same relationship? No girl should ever have to go through that! I read an article one time in a magazine. It was about the early signs of an abusive relationship - and cheating/throwing fits are two...

Teen Dating Issues: dating an older girl, state parties, suden
state parties, suden, sophmore: Hello Ryan. Three years isn t too bad. My boyfriend and I are almost three years apart. Understand because she is older, she may be going off to college somewhere out of state, parties for the older kids, you need to think about this before you try and stir...

Teen Dating Issues: dating an older girl, suden, sophmore
suden, sophmore, good luck: Ryan, you havent given me any proper details, so i cant even guess whether she likes you or not. However, just because you are younger doesnt mean she wont be interested in you. I know plenty of girls who date below their grades, and its not a big deal. ...

Teen Dating Issues: dating an older girl, suden, sophmore
suden, sophmore, kudos: Ryan, First off, you re name rocks. Kudos to you. Second, you dont have that much of an age difference with this girl. I m 18 and my last girlfriend was 20. It didnt effect our relationship at all. Usually, the only way an age difference will effect...

Teen Dating Issues: dating an older girl, suden, sophmore
suden, sophmore, nice girl: In high school, age plays much less of a role in the dating scene. Continue to be friendly with her and then see what happens. If you like her a lot then ask her out. If she s truly the nice girl you say she is she won t say no JUST because of your age. Good...

Teen Dating Issues: dating an older guy..., hey nicole, sensitive situation
hey nicole, sensitive situation, world 3: hey Nicole, this is a pretty sensitive situation here. I can understand that you love your boyfriend, but you kinda have to look at things from your family s point of view. They are worried and i don t blame them because i would be too. Try to talk to your...

Teen Dating Issues: dating older guy, pretty good guy, cant beleive
pretty good guy, cant beleive, sweet things: Hi Jenna, you don t really say why your friends object to you dating Cody. Is it just the age difference? I d like to know if they have other objections such as the way he treats you or that they have reasons not to trust him. If it s only the age and...

Teen Dating Issues: dating no other expert has answered!!!, first kiss, own pace
first kiss, own pace, interset: there is normal not normal when it comes to dating. you just have to go at your own pace. now if you think its a social problem or something else like that then it coul be an issue. but if your just into schoo land hanging out with friends and just dont have...

Teen Dating Issues: dating problem, closeness, boyfriends
closeness, boyfriends, brittany: Hello Brittany, Honestly, 16 isn t very old at all! Most people haven t had boyfriends since that age, I know it may not seem like that because everyone around you is dating, but you have no idea exactly how many people HAVENT dated. In fact, people usually...

Teen Dating Issues: dating problem, bf
bf: Well, what does age have to do with it? If he broke up with you simply because you can t spend time with him, why does waiting until your 18 matter? Will you be allowed to hang out with him more when you turn 18? It s really up to you if you want to wait...

Teen Dating Issues: dating problem!!!! major, sory, begining
sory, begining, good friends: Dear Emily, When first getting into a relationship make sure you aren t too forward but also make sure you don t seem standoffish. Before getting into the relationship, spend time with him alone just to hang out so you can see how he really is. Also...

Teen Dating Issues: dating problem, holiday season, hindu
holiday season, hindu, buddies: Mr. Mansoor, hi my name is Lauren, and sorry it took me awhile to get back to you. Um...well I am sorry you have to give her up. Well, one thing is that it s going to be hard to forget her especially if you see her in school or one day with a guy. But...you...

Teen Dating Issues: dating problems, chance cause, beautiful girl
chance cause, beautiful girl, aj: i think she probably thinks you are just kidding around with her when you tell her those things. try and just get to know her as a person. talk to her about stuff she likes and try to find out more about her. compliments are good but save those for after you...

Teen Dating Issues: dating probs., sticky situation, school dance
sticky situation, school dance, sumtimes: Dear Chris, Sounds like a sticky situation do her parents pick her up right after school? maybe you can get to her school before they do and you can spend some time together tell her to put your phone under a girlfriends name that way if her parents decide...

Teen Dating Issues: dating probs., school dance, sumtimes
school dance, sumtimes, quater: Hey Chris- Well her parents are just really thinking about her and want her to do well in school and not to mess things up just because she has a boyfriend. You know those sort of things. So maybe if she can have her talk to her parents and have her tell...

Teen Dating Issues: dating/ how can i tell if she likes me?, mixed messages, futher
mixed messages, futher, instinct: hey, my instinct would be to ask you if you have talked to your best friend about this, but now im just worried that you arent sure if she really likes you. i think you should make sure she defenetly has a thing for you first. then before you get into anything...

Teen Dating Issues: dating trouble, afraid of commitment, horrible situation
afraid of commitment, horrible situation, virginity: This one is rough, because this is a decision she has to make on her own. The very best thing you can do for her is just to be there for her. Be the shoulder she can rest her head on. I m sure she ll come to her senses and you guys will get back together,...

Teen Dating Issues: dating troubles, hole thing, girl in the world
hole thing, girl in the world, january 1st: Chris, you never want to regret not talking to this girl so I suggest that you just talk to her everytime you see her and have a casual conversation, maybe even ask her to hang out with you and some friends. And once you get to know her better ask her out...

Teen Dating Issues: About dating.. Well, a girl mainly., legal ages, math class
legal ages, math class, e mail: This question is on the question pool. If still valid ask a follow up with more information. Thank you Please understand I don t promote 14 or 15 year olds to date. Also I don t promote drugs or such. Talk to a doctor about how to help someone like thi...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, best flirting tips, boyfriend and girlfriend
best flirting tips, boyfriend and girlfriend, girlfrind: well tia. i think you should just be yourself because you shouldn t change yourself for a guy. if you enjoy doing the things guyz like to do then you should keep doing them. i think if you want this guy to think of you as a girlfrind then you should tell him...

Teen Dating Issues: my daughter is torn between 2 boys, james windell, moral questions
james windell, moral questions, school grades: Where is the past question? Please include the past question with the follow up. Thanks How are relationships with you and her? How are they with her father? Do you think she is too young to date? Maybe she needs time away from dating. How are her...

Teen Dating Issues: deadraindown@yahoo.com, occasional drink, choir boy
occasional drink, choir boy, wonderful father: Justin, Hello. I hope you are having a great day. First off you need to know that she has a lot of trust issues. She does not like how her father was/is and she also just went through a divorce. When people (especially girls) have to go througha divorce...

Teen Dating Issues: how to deal with girlfriend, girlfriend, little bit
girlfriend, little bit, blair: Blair- If you re not interested in the person you re going out with, especially if it s a setup, then I would nicely explain that you would rather be friends than be in a relationship because someone ELSE wanted you to be in one. After that s over,...

Teen Dating Issues: how to deal with jealousy?, how to deal with jealousy, best bet
how to deal with jealousy, best bet, bad news: Ebony, When I was in high school I had a crush on the same guy for 4 years. He was an athlete, but wasn t that popular. He had never had a girlfriend, but had tons of friends. My very best friend knew how much I liked him, and helped me try to get closer...

Teen Dating Issues: how do you deal with pressured sex, good luck
good luck: Hi Jessica, Well there s really not any other way to do this except to say no. Just remember no one can make you do something you don t want to do. If they are trying to talk you into it, just say no and it s not even worth it for them to try to get you to....

Teen Dating Issues: How do deal with this?, bad kisser, shy girls
bad kisser, shy girls, ur time: hi, you should be open and honest with your gf. tell her that your shy and feel uncomfortable. if you open up to her then there is a good chance she will open up to you. i believe being open and talking about issues in a relationship is very important....

Teen Dating Issues: I am in so deep!, basketball courts, dance two
basketball courts, dance two, school dance: Well because his face was turning red that probably just means hes really shy. But, you still shouldn t get your hopes up just in case he s a jerk. But, just keep flirting with him and talking to his friends and hopefully he will eventually get brave and...

Teen Dating Issues: I am in so deep!, real jerk, half court
real jerk, half court, ball game: It sounds to me he just wants to be friends at the moment. I don t think you should say anything like that to him, though. It makes it sound as if it s a big deal. I would just simply make sure he knows that his friends were trying to set you guys up, and...

Teen Dating Issues: I am in so deep!, school spelling bee, msn delete checker
school spelling bee, msn delete checker, district spelling bee: Mariah, Wow, then you re his perfect girl. So he must really like you honestly, don t think he doesn t because he deleted you, as I said it might of been an accident. Why wouldn t he like you? He must do..So think positive and ask him about the email thing...

Teen Dating Issues: I am in so deep!, school spelling bee, msn delete checker
school spelling bee, msn delete checker, district spelling bee: Mariah, Well, I think you should try and talk to your parents about this and how you feel about it. Ask them about what they mean about this, if they mean an arrange marriage etc and just see how it goes. Make sure you make it clear how you feel about this,...

Teen Dating Issues: I am in so deep!, language arts class, course lol
language arts class, course lol, g story: Dear Mariah, It sounds like you two have a lot in common which is a really good thing. He seems to be interested in you by the way you guys talk with each other. Don t look into everything too deep because one day he might act like he doesn t like you but...

Teen Dating Issues: I am in so deep!, language arts class, course lol
language arts class, course lol, guest speaker: Hi Mariah, another great and long winding tale of well documented information. Please do not be discouraged by all the drama that this boy has given you. Stay encouraged! You have a lot going for you and the ability to write about it. Sometimes...

Teen Dating Issues: I am in so deep!, e mail address, msn delete checker
e mail address, msn delete checker, chain mail: Mariah, I think, if he really didn t want to talk to you then he would of blocked you. I think he s accidently deleted you off his messenger list, and doesn t know your email address to re-add you. When you next speak to him at school, I think you should...

Teen Dating Issues: I am in so deep!, basketball courts, dance two
basketball courts, dance two, school dance: it sounds like he might like you. i also think he could have been very embarrassed because of his friends and your friends making such a big deal out of everything. if you can find a moment alone with him i would go up to him and apologize for everything that...

Teen Dating Issues: I am in so deep!, e mail address, language arts class
e mail address, language arts class, chain mail: Well yea e-mail him, but in the e-mail say I got your addy from a friend and decided to chat you up . Since you guys are always cracking jokes together you can say something funny and still ask him wats up, and hope he doesn t mind that you added him. Then...

Teen Dating Issues: I am in so deep!, basketball courts, dance two
basketball courts, dance two, school dance: Hey Mariah, Just writing to let you know that I received your questions (both this one and the one that was a little bit longer), but I haven t had a chance to respond yet because I ve been sick this weekend. I ll get back to you later this evening. ...

Teen Dating Issues: I am in so deep!, basketball courts, dance two
basketball courts, dance two, school dance: Hey again, Hmmm, I don t think you should have lied to them in the first place, when you said you just wanted to dance with him because there was nothing else to do. You come off as a person who isnt truthful, exspecially since you said you liked him before...

Teen Dating Issues: deeply hurt, mental hospitals, sacrafice
mental hospitals, sacrafice, virginity: Hey Brittney- Well your parents are just trying to look out for you. Your only 16 you still a child to them. Also young to be thinking about getting married. So there just doing what any parent would do looking out for you. What you should do is just talk...

Teen Dating Issues: depo, sleep etc, i pod
sleep etc, i pod, happend: Hey Deon- Well maybe just try getting involved in different things around school if there is anything.. Or just things around to keep your mind off things. Just get into stuff that you like doing. With your girlfriend just try talking to her about all...

Teen Dating Issues: desperate question about ex, catholi, sophmore year
catholi, sophmore year, initial plan: I m sorry to hear about your breakup but I ve been through a very similar situation before. And I think that she really does still love you very much she just needs what she said she needed, time. But, she really does want to be with you, and thats why she...

Teen Dating Issues: It didnt work., wont answer, relationship
wont answer, relationship: I m starting to think that maybe she s looking for reasons to end your relationship. Maybe she s afriad of the distance, or maybe she just wants to move on. I think it s time for you to tell her that you two have to move on. I m sorry my other advice didn...

Teen Dating Issues: disaster!, different girls, friend andy
different girls, friend andy, stuf: Hey Marie- Well just tell him how he never said you two were really offical or anything like that. I mean he can t really tell you whether or not to sleep with someone else if you two aren t offically going out. Also just tell him the truth as to why...

Teen Dating Issues: dnt know why, lack of self esteem, kindergarden
lack of self esteem, kindergarden, good question: Carissa, Girls often feel this way for some reason and it is mostly a lack of self-esteem that makes them think this way. But the truth is, if he didnt love you and want to be with you, he wouldnt be wasting his time. Just dont let how you are feeling ruin...

Teen Dating Issues: doctors, pap test, check ups
pap test, check ups, routine check: Hi Kelly, If you re just going for a routine check up then it should be just like the last one. If you re having problems with those private areas then of course the check up will involve those areas. If you re going in for a pap test then he will be...

Teen Dating Issues: doe he like me, relationhips, forhead
relationhips, forhead, mates: Tiffany, To me it does sound like he is just scared and things going wrong again because of his past. I still think you should talk to him and tell him how you wouldn t treat him the way other girls have in the past and you like him too much for you to...

Teen Dating Issues: Why doesn't he call back?, everyday thing, forgetfulness
everyday thing, forgetfulness, laziness: Laziness or forgetfulness. Just start mentioning it to him that he is being weird about this and to talk more. Guys also don t like talking on the phone (at least most guys), so that could be a issue. Just talk to him, or maybe spend more time with him. Have...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he or doesn't he?, lunch line, lunch hour
lunch line, lunch hour, sweet girl: The question is does he like you? Sadly one online cannot answer this with those facts. I can make theories and I can base them on what you tell me. But, sometimes there are things called unknown biases and this causes a problem. With those facts, I rather...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't get it..., psychology area, abusive relationships
psychology area, abusive relationships, abusive relationship: Hello, First I would like to say I don t promote 15 year olds to be dating and to date at this age MAY be illegal. You know for a fact that he hits people? Talk to your parents and a trusted teacher about this. They should know what to do. If they have...

Teen Dating Issues: ...it's like i don't EXIST., gracie, 6 years
gracie, 6 years, clue: Well as far as striking up a conversation goes, you will actually have to work up the courage to talk to him. If he seems interested, go for it. If he doesn t, then look elswhere. Simple as that. The main thing you have to keep in mind is that the longer...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't get guys., sexy clothes, older guys
sexy clothes, older guys, 10th grade: HI Kayla, you have the same name as my niece. Love your name! I m thinking that if you re that pretty, you are probably intimidating some guys. I m not sure why the younger guys like you. It is easier I think to write to someone than to talk to them. I always...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't get guys., greatest director of all time, tim burton
greatest director of all time, tim burton, carrollton ga: To be popular does not mean you are popular. I mean you could be popular, yet they may not be good friends. You may not even want them as friends. Hmm. By the way because the principal dislikes you and your mother at the school, you could ask them to send...

Teen Dating Issues: i don't know what to do!, relationship aspect, asap thanks
relationship aspect, asap thanks, aswell: Rachel, Hello. I hope you are having a great day. Here s the deal, you have to find out if you miss him, or if you miss being in a relationship in general. Do you miss the way you two acted around one another, the way he looked at you, the way he kissed...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know what to do with myself!, boyfriend and girlfriend, alexandra
boyfriend and girlfriend, alexandra, three times: Sometimes it can be a little awkward going from friends to something more . But heres the truth Alexandra, thats a very good thing. The fact that things feel awkward means that there s something to feel in the first place. Be your self, if you want to...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know what I did, facial expression, pissed off
facial expression, pissed off, freshman: I dunno, it sounds to me like maybe his maturity isn t up to par with yours. Don t get me wrong, if you really like this guy then i say talk to him about things. Sit him down and ask him what he wants out of this relationship. Otherwise maybe you should move...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know what to do, facebook, tall pines
facebook, tall pines, instant messages: Hi Seth, If your really interested in her, I would go up to her. There are many people, especially girls that will not respond to emails, instant messages, or friends requests on the Internet, simply because there are so many strange people out there. She...

Teen Dating Issues: don't know what to do..., long distance relationship, girl worth
long distance relationship, girl worth, guidence: Steve, Hello. I hope you are having a good day. First off, do not cheat. She deserves better than that. But, this is what you need to do. Is going on a date with this girl worth the risk of losing your current girlfriend? If not, then do not go. I think...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know what to do..., pre marital sex, carefull
pre marital sex, carefull, next level: Ok first how old are you? and i know you have heard this alot but please just make sure u feel this way about him. Another thing God will not hate you for trying to be faithful to who you are. He will love you no matter what. Make sure u gradually take things...

Teen Dating Issues: i don't know what to do?, relationship
relationship: Hey there, Okay, in order for you and him to have a healthy relationship, you must trust him and he must trust you. So you need to ask yourself if you can trust him fully. If you can, then go with it, if you can t then let him go and don t lead him on or...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know what to do, boyfriends, 9 months
boyfriends, 9 months, hallway: Dear Rolando, Firstly, she shouldn t be discussing her exes with you. What happened in the past doesn t matter. I realize that she was burned in the past, but she s with you now and shouldn t be talking about her exes with you. Nobody wants to hear their...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know what to do..., compliments, personality
compliments, personality: Hi Gabi, Im just as confused as you are!! It seemed like he liked you, but he was kinda unsure..because you two met online..so maybe he s a little iffy on the online situation. I can t really explain why he deleted your comments and ignored you..have you...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know what to do..., long distance relationships, highshcool
long distance relationships, highshcool, new girl: Then honsetly i think you should move on. Long distance relationships never work unless you know that very soon youll be seeing each other more often. Like if your a senior in high school then you can go to the same college in a few months other than that...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know what to do!!!, serious thing, barbee
serious thing, barbee, 5 months: Your going to have to accept his decision of not dating anyone now. You have to realize (I m guessing your age) it s going to be illegal for you to date him in a little bit if not already. Going in to the marines is a serious thing and i think it wise of him...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know know how to start taking to a girl, good luck, personality
good luck, personality: Hey there, Alright, well, talk to her like a friend. Start by saying hi in the halls and smiling at her. Then progress to asking questions about her, and things she likes. Let things go from there. You just need to get to her on a friends level first. Good...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know if i'm ready for a boyfriend, separate ways, jitters
separate ways, jitters, great time: First of all I want to say that I am sorry for how long it has taken for me to get back to you. We have been having some pretty bad storms here and have been without power so I am now just getting to where I can write back. Now on to the question. You...

Teen Dating Issues: don't know what to think, savannah, garbage
savannah, garbage, relationship: Hey, Well what you should do is just talk to this guy who you like and let him know what someone had told you about him and ask him if its true or not. Just tell him your just wondering since you heard it from someone else and you didnt want to believe...

Teen Dating Issues: don't know what to put here so.... the title is France, (related to name), frieds, convo
frieds, convo, ashley: She probably isn t lying. Maybe her parents have some bogus rule where she can t date unless her grades are really good. I know some people who are like that. You shouldn t tell people you re dating if you re not. That s lying and if she finds out she...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know what to do?, self concious, kind of girl
self concious, kind of girl, embarassed: Well Miriam you must somehow let him know that you are falling for him. It s obvious that he s falling for you, but I m sure he s too afraid to say anything until he knows how you feel. So let him in on what you re feeling, I mean you don t have to tell...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't want her to get bored, favorite restaurant, compliments
favorite restaurant, compliments, flowers: Hi Al, There is more to dating someone than complimenting them, although it s very sweet, and definatlely a must do. However, you don t have to compliment all the time. You need to find out what she likes; i.e. does she likes sports? Does she like to...

Teen Dating Issues: don't want to end up getting burnt, few days, attitude
few days, attitude, god: been home sick the last few days...& --- Hope you are feeling better. Include ages. We ve had sex 3 months into the relationship & pretty much have done it every weekend. --- Please get tested. Talk to a doctor about sex risks. You shouldn t have had sex...

Teen Dating Issues: don't want to hurt her!, taking your time, new girl
taking your time, new girl, 7 months: Steve, First off you should have broken up with her BEFORE you started dating this new girl. With that being said, you have to be honest with her. You have to tell her that it is too hard for you two to be in a relationship with one another when you barely...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't want I NEED him back..., nieghbor, great relationship
nieghbor, great relationship, prespective: Sarah. Honesty is always the best tactic. My advice would be to tell him exactly what you just told me. Explain the situation from your prespective, and see what he says. If he really doesn t have any more feelings for you, then there truly is nothing you...

Teen Dating Issues: why dont they like me?, conceided, cute boys
conceided, cute boys, cute guys: Vanessa, Hello! How are you? Guys are so confusing! ;) Serioulsy though, guys are afraid of rejection. You need to become friends with guys/people away from your school. Those guys will feel more comfortable talking to you, because if they are rejected,...

Teen Dating Issues: I dont get it, bad luck, bf
bad luck, bf: sometimes people just have a streak of bad luck. i would say you should find out first if they have a bf before getting involved with them and liking them. in fact that should be one of the first questions you ask them. dont worry, your luck will turn around...

Teen Dating Issues: i dont no, 31 flavors, ok cya
31 flavors, ok cya, emotional damage: Samy, I have met people like you. Now when I say people like you , I dont mean that in an offensive way. I just know people that have seen multiple people at the same time. And my advice for people in your situation is to be rid ALL of the people your...

Teen Dating Issues: Just dont know what to do with myself., personal life coach, wierdo
personal life coach, wierdo, setas: Hi Will, Does she sit in the same seat all the time? If so, try getting to class early and sit in the seat next to where she usually sits. When she comes in, give her a smile, and she ll probably sit next to you. At that point, you ve basically said you...

Teen Dating Issues: i dont know what to do, school sounds, gf
school sounds, gf, girlfriend: sounds like lust more then anything. i wouldnt give up a good thing you have now just because you think this other girl is hot. you dont even know her and may find out she is not your type. so i say stick with your current girl and remember, if you think you...

Teen Dating Issues: i dont know what to do, savannah, cuz
savannah, cuz, girlfriend: Hey Chris- Well don t cheat on her. That will hurt her way more than you just breaking up with her. Just tell her that you want to break up with her just to see if there s other people out there for you before you two get way to close. Just do is as gentle...

Teen Dating Issues: I dont know what to do., steph thanks, staying friends
steph thanks, staying friends, great friends: Steph- Thanks for the question! It s great that you found a nice guy that understands and respects you and I m very proud to hear that you re concerned about the age difference. Before you jump to any conclusions, I strongly suggest staying friends with...

Teen Dating Issues: i dont know what to do, dance place, parents
dance place, parents: Luke- Thanks for your question! Talk to her and find out! As difficult as it sounds, the best way to get past all the shy stuff is by simply talking to her. That also shows her that you are interested and willing to work a little to get her. Trust me, it...

Teen Dating Issues: I dont know what to do, playing basketball, two choices
playing basketball, two choices, virginity: Ashlie, thanks for getting in touch. I will try and help the best I can. I think it s a bit harsh to break up because you weren t supporting him in sports. I know you have been together for two years, and still love him and he will always be your first...

Teen Dating Issues: i dont know what to do, good heart, hi chris
good heart, hi chris, slapper: Is your boyfriend depressed? Did he threaten someone? Did he hack your account? First off if your boyfriend is saying he will die without you, contact the police. If your boyfriend hacked your account and threatened someone, report him to the police. I recommend...

Teen Dating Issues: dont know what to do, stupid answer, adivce
stupid answer, adivce, jokster: Tia, Ive been in similar situations to urs myself, and I personally believe that you should just completely detatch yourself from the situation and let your head clear. It may take a while, but I think it s whats best for you. Besides, if you kinda avoid...

Teen Dating Issues: i dont know what to do, physical self, somtimes
physical self, somtimes, girl friend: That isn t cool Heather. He shouldn t do that considering the fact that what you deserve is respect. That is not respect. Set that straight with him! You have to be in control of this relationship if you do love him. It is fun to mess around SOMETIMES but...

Teen Dating Issues: i dont know what to do, good relationship, beautiful girls
good relationship, beautiful girls, beautiful woman: Hello Chris, I could never in good conscience recommend that someone cheat on their girlfriend for any reason. I understand what it s like to be in a relationship and have another beautiful woman catch your eye, so I m not judging you by any means. However,...

Teen Dating Issues: I dont know what to do about my Ex., pretence, adn
pretence, adn, crap: I wouldn t recommend staying with him, he s good with words which manipulates you to believe that he will change. But, he treats you badly infront of his friends which is important because, his friends are the people that see him all the time and are important...

Teen Dating Issues: I dont know how she feels, basketball practice, custody battles
basketball practice, custody battles, saturday nights: Honestly Jake, sounds to me like it s you buddy. Think about it, look at all the signs. I m a guy, so i know how it feels to second guess your self at every little thing you see. Truth is, we re both smart guys and we both over think things. Instead of looking...

Teen Dating Issues: I just dont know how to handle it., time heals, time time
time heals, time time, bff: There is no way to really get over someone, it just takes time. Time heals all! So the most I can say is, keep yourself occupied, be with friends a lot and over time, time will takes its place and you will learn from this experience and move on. We can only...

Teen Dating Issues: I dont know if he likes me?, trombone solo, close friends
trombone solo, close friends, gf: The most important part is to remember that he has a girlfriend. No matter how annoying or hard that may be, you still have to remember not get in between that, you would be devestated if you were the girlfriend and another girl was trying to get in between...

Teen Dating Issues: I dont know if i she likes me or jsut be a freind, exchange phone numbers, freind
exchange phone numbers, freind, sophmore: Marino, Hey! The only way that you can find out how she feels is by making a move . I would suggest asking her for her phone number before school is out. You can do it casually or straight-forward, the choice is yours. But basically I suggest that you...

Teen Dating Issues: i dont even know whats up, internet relationship, internet relationships
internet relationship, internet relationships, freshman year: Dear Marcus, Well your really sweet! Haha now anyways, Its seems the only way to win her over is to really show her that you ve changed. Not just say it. DOn t pressure her to make a decision or you might loose her. Internet relationships hardly ever work...

Teen Dating Issues: i dont know how to win her heart, benefit of the doubt, boyfriend material
benefit of the doubt, boyfriend material, decent guy: Dear Luke, Sorry about the lateness of the response!! I think that everyone seems to feel they say stupid things around a person they like. It s because when we talk to someone we re interested in, we get ourselves into such a state that we almost lose...

Teen Dating Issues: dont know...., edvice, freinds
edvice, freinds, jess: hey hunny, i know what you are talking about. you need to stop and see if he likes you for you or for the sex. tell him how you feel about his behavior and see what he has to say. it might also help to tell him no once and a while. you should call him or see...

Teen Dating Issues: i dont wanna lose her, stupid joke, lyrics to songs
stupid joke, lyrics to songs, mates: Hey charles- Well just talk to her about it and let her know how you feel and how you regret that joke you did. If she doesn t want to be with you anymore than I wouldn t keep pushing it with her. She s going to get even more annoyed with you. So just...

Teen Dating Issues: why dont they like me?, conceided, furture
conceided, furture, cute boys: Hi! Well, first off, I think you are looking for a relationship. What you need to do is get phone numbers first. Talk to them and know them some. Then go out as friends. You can date different people and not be exclusive. So date some and see if you like them...

Teen Dating Issues: What to doo???, flirty, flirts
flirty, flirts, vibe: Hey Dan! I think you need to take her aside one night and talk to her straight out, from your heart. Tell her you really don t want to hurt her and you don t want to get hurt either. Just let your emotions talk, because if it is from your heart, you cant go...

Teen Dating Issues: dose he still love me?!?, strong feeling, point in time
strong feeling, point in time, good luck: If he s your boyfriend, why doesn t he talk to you? Break up with him, love has nothing to do with this at this point in time, but more like, if he doesn t even share a like with you then you shouldn t be with someone like this, he doesn t deserve and isn...

Teen Dating Issues: In doubt., new neighborhood, going to college
new neighborhood, going to college, limbo: How old is he? Why does he like you? Why do you like him? Talk to a doctor about sex risks. I think right now he just wants sex and if this is true he is a jerk. Please ask follow ups. I wouldn t date him if it s true. Please ask in our How to know if...

Teen Dating Issues: dreams, high school psychology, psychology department
high school psychology, psychology department, good luck: Jackie, Many times dreams have no significant meaning. It could mean that you want to be with a guy. It could mean something else. I am no expert, for I don t even have a full semester of high school psychology under my belt. Perhaps you should ask...

Teen Dating Issues: drugs, druggie, 5 months
druggie, 5 months, best interest: Dear Jamie, Thank you for your question and very detailed information. Think of this like a court situation and the standards for entering evidence. If you were the jury, listening to someone that said a person knew that someone had done X but did...

Teen Dating Issues: a dude, lots of girls, sophmore
lots of girls, sophmore, couple hours: Mary, I hate to say it, but it s true. If a guy is into you, he ll call ahead of time. The next time he does call the same day in order to make plans, just go. Go out, have fun, hang out. You guys will probably have a great time. The problem is that,...

Teen Dating Issues: dunno what to do, one of the girls, rejections
one of the girls, rejections, second choice: Hello Anonymous. I d normally spend more time with this question with details, ect. However; I currently have several questions today that I have waiting to be answered so I ll get to-the-point. Lets see what I can do though.. Don t feel too bad about...

Teen Dating Issues: dunno what to do, early bird gets the worm, bird gets the worm
early bird gets the worm, bird gets the worm, second choice: hey there, Well, take it as a learning experience, the early bird gets the worm. Since they are both taken, there really isnt anything you can do. You don t want to cause anyone to break up, you ll get a bad name for yourself. Just enjoy being single, flirt,...

Teen Dating Issues: dunno what to do??, oponion, light music
oponion, light music, 7 months: Shaun, Hello! How are you? I hope you are having a great day. You can approach this in several ways: If you want it to be romantic you can light candles and arrange them in a pathway that leads to you. You can be holding a rose and simply ask her out....

Teen Dating Issues: duno what to talk abt wid him, fri, cuple
fri, cuple, minz: Hey Rose- Well if you two are going to be watching a movie wouldn t you think that you would just sit there and watch it? Im just saying cause usually thats what you do. I mean you don t sit there and have a movie going and talk. But here s some things...

Teen Dating Issues: Eh is this wierd or going to far?, wierd, sorta
wierd, sorta, savannah: Hey Marik- Well the only way your really going to know is if you just talk to her about it. I mean just ask her if she doesnt like it or does. I mean she will tell you if she doesnt or does so just ask her and tell her if she doesnt like it you will stop....

Teen Dating Issues: !!!EMERGENCY!!!, graffitit, boys room
graffitit, boys room, moron: Well try going out and getting her some flowers, and maybe bring over a movie to her house so you two can hangout, and maybe she ll talk to you about it and let you know that she really was hurt. Just be with her, that ll make her happy. Good Luck, Nicol...

Teen Dating Issues: Engagment problems, yahoo instant messenger, suspicous
yahoo instant messenger, suspicous, comptuer: Wow thats a whole load your dealing with. In almost 95% of cases like theses, one of the best choices are to just leave the man, because even if things like this are popping up now what do you think will happen down the line? Most likely it ll be more than...

Teen Dating Issues: Ergh! Helpme understand., magic solution, successful relationship
magic solution, successful relationship, confusing time: Hello Lizzie, You could start the conversation with something like, I ve been thinking about us a lot lately, and there are some things I really need to tell you. You don t have to respond to everything I say, but this is really important to me, so I hope...

Teen Dating Issues: EX-GIRLFRIENDS, girlfiend, school friends
girlfiend, school friends, solace: Hello Bailey, As hard as this might sound to do, the only thing that you can do is to just let it go. If your relationship is as great as you think it is you need to take his word on the situation when he tells you he is not interested in her at all. If...

Teen Dating Issues: EXTREMLY CONFUSED!, mom lives, taking time
mom lives, taking time, text message: Wow, thats quite the story you typed out for me huh? As to what i think you should do, just talk to him. tell him how you feel and what you think should change. he might not even know that there is a problem unless you tell him Sorry i can t make my answer...

Teen Dating Issues: My Ex, first move, sandi
first move, sandi, 4th floor: i dont know, maybe he was there to just talk to his friends. either way if he likes you he needs to make sthe first move and let you know this. he was the one who cheated on you so the ball is in his court. just continue to be nice to him and leave it at that!...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex Boyfriend, staying friends, exes
staying friends, exes, friendships: Kyamryn, Is your name pronounced like Cameron ? It s a cool name. Anyway, there is nothing wrong with your ex and you staying friends. Everyone that says there is is just plain crazy. I stayed friends with most of my exes, we just grew apart. No guy...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex Boyfriend, allexperts, hand books
allexperts, hand books, good advice: Because of his drinking problem, your job is first to protect your self(I wouldn t go near him unless in a public place with a lot of people). Your job is also to be his friend and get help for him. I feel you care about him, yet he will pull you down until...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex-boy, messengers
messengers: Hi Deniece, I m sorry that you are having to go through something so painful. I m a little confused as to why he is sending his friends as messengers: does he want to get back with you? If he does, why is he dating your friend? I need to know what he is hounding...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex boyfriend, nasty things, psychics
nasty things, psychics, tho: Ok, for one thing, in my experience NEVER trust a psychic. I have not met a good one yet. Never trust their answers, especially regarding a relationship. Plus, if he hasn t replied back, I think that he s saying he doesn t want to be with you anymore...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex boyfriend issues....., boyfriend nick, perfect thing
boyfriend nick, perfect thing, 5 months: Manuela- As much as I want to, I can t tell you the perfect thing to do in a situation like this one. If he did all that stuff and still wants to get back together, it may be for only one reason, and you know what that is. I would suggest looking into...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex boyfriend issues....., boyfriend nick, 5 months
boyfriend nick, 5 months, real player: Manuela, Hello. I am going to be very honest with you about all of this. Regarding the boy that is at a boy s ranch because he is on probation, avoid him at all costs...seriously. I think your ex might be trying to protect you for a reason. Now, about...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex boyfriend issues....., boyfriend nick, 5 months
boyfriend nick, 5 months, real player: Manuela - I don t know your ex so I can t speak on his behalf but I mean, if he did a lot of things to hurt you, you shouldn t ignore that. It s up to you whether you want to give him another chance or not but discuss this with HIM. Don t be getting everything...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex boyfriend issues....., boyfriend nick, 5 months
boyfriend nick, 5 months, real player: hey Manuela, well i would say stay away from Nick. i ve been in that situation and trust me, no guy ever changes. he will be exactly who he was when he was with you the first time. the things you two did while you were going out and during the break up will...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex-boyfriend won't leave me alone!, depression issues, first break
depression issues, first break, 7 months: Dear Heidi, The best thing in this situation for you to do may be to contact him one more time and tell him that you broke up, that you romantic relationship is over, moved on, and ask him to not contact you or you will go to the police. I am a little...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex boyfriend, louser, boyfriend james
louser, boyfriend james, muddle: hi, i would stay away from him. he sounds like a louser and a user if he has cheated on his gf 5 times. whats to say he wont do the same with you? if you think you can just be friends then thats ok but i would just stay away all together. sandi ...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex-Girlfriend, graduating high school, stupid reason
graduating high school, stupid reason, female friend: Hey Ahmad- Well I m glad that you two are friends and that you don t want anything happen to her. But you can t just keep tabs on her 24/7. You need to give her, her space and everything. When she s ready to talk to you she will call you. Sure you can...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex Girlfriend, nick nick, ashley
nick nick, ashley, ex girlfriend: Nick - You should tell her that you re not going to wait around forever. And it s not fair to you and you shouldn t have to. Tell her that if she needs time to herself that s fine but don t use that as an excuse to keep you waiting and treat you like...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex gf - good friends??, rough childhood, heart back
rough childhood, heart back, paul london: Hello Paul.. Well; it seems like you re in a little bit of a hole right now; so I ll see if I can help you out here. Although; I m not certain what all I can be of assistance with. However; lets begin just the same.. I m sorry to hear about your rough...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex girlfriend, instincts, ex girlfriend
instincts, ex girlfriend, heart: Dear Chris, Well it depends who you like more, the ex or the friend. Also your ex might be trying to get you back just to break your heart, and maybe the friend was going along with it. Just trust your instincts and do what you want. Sincerely,...

Teen Dating Issues: My Ex, shy type, happiest girl in the world
shy type, happiest girl in the world, girl in the world: Dear Sarah, I have read your story several times and I want to approach this prayerfully. I am a Pastor, so I am going to be looking at what I can see in your thoughts you wrote and then will approach it from a Biblical perspective, in Jesus name. ...

Teen Dating Issues: Exboyfriend confusion, 2nd thoughts, exboyfriend
2nd thoughts, exboyfriend, sumthin: Hello. I think that he still likes you, but I don t think you two should worry about going back out. You are about to be moving, so there is no sense in it. Just keep going with the way things are, flirting and all...I think he likes you, but from now...

Teen Dating Issues: Extremely Confused, good friends, good friend
good friends, good friend, cheek: Sean, I guess it all comes down to how much you like her. If you feel too awkward around her tell her what you heard and tell her how that made/makes you feel. Tell her that you really like her and that you don t want to be putting all this effort into...

Teen Dating Issues: e-mailing issues, share your feelings, virgia
share your feelings, virgia, loose contact: Dear Khiara, You need to talk to him about this. He probably got the wrong idea, but people need to be flexible, and he did not know exactly what was going on. I hope that he has enough maturity to listen to you and not hang on you every moment of every...

Teen Dating Issues: eh..., social anxiety disorder, bisiness
social anxiety disorder, bisiness, bad time: Some psychologists use the term SAD, yet most probably do not, for it confuses people. SAD is really the seasonal thing. Can you create this question to be private by clicking the private button. I have this theory that this person is 50 years old and goes...

Teen Dating Issues: em i her type?, anythin, usally
anythin, usally, bf: Hey Quentin- Well Im not sure about the whether or not your her type but im sure that she s just worried about another guy coming into her life right now. She s probably thinking that your going to hurt her as well as her boyfriend did. So take things...

Teen Dating Issues: I emailed recently about a..., light kisses, soft kisses
light kisses, soft kisses, girlfrend: Conor - I would suggest dinner and a movie not just a movie because you can t really talk at a movie but you can cuddle. I don t know your girlfriend so I can t really tell you what to get her. Yea, girls like to have guys put their arms around them...

Teen Dating Issues: it's embarassing but., 7 months, kisses
7 months, kisses, butterflies: Chelsea - One thing you should know is that there is NOTHING wrong with having never kissed (or made out) with anyone at your age. I know people that are 22 and never having kissed anyone so don t feel bad. You shouldn t throw your kisses away on people...

Teen Dating Issues: emsmith225@yahoo.com, iron bowl, band competition
iron bowl, band competition, science fair project: Emily, If you find that he s lookin at you an awful lot then there s the possibility that he may like you..which is good yes. If you want to know whether or not he likes you then if you re brave enough you can go to him and tell him how you feel, you don...

Teen Dating Issues: How to end a destructive relationship, professional soccer club, club chivas
professional soccer club, club chivas, first sexual experience: Good question. Education is very important. There are a number of factors to think about. If he is having a problem in school, he may want to try a distance education program. American School of Corr is a US school that is very well known in this world for...

Teen Dating Issues: ending a bad relationship, professional soccer club, first sexual experience
professional soccer club, first sexual experience, ending a bad relationship: David, The more you press the issue, the more he s likely to want to resist. Its a sad thing to see someone become so wrapped up in someone else, but it happens. I ve been a victim of one of these kind of things. My best friend became so fixated on her...

Teen Dating Issues: ending a destructive relationship, club chivas, first sexual experience
club chivas, first sexual experience, chivas soccer: David- At the boy s age, parental advice will only turn him away. He needs to realize for himself how much it is hurting him. Right now, he feels cool because he s making out, etc. with a girl and he doesn t care about the schoolwork. There are...

Teen Dating Issues: My ex and me, life relationships, decesion
life relationships, decesion, long distance: hello, okay. well i think that you should give it a shot with your ex boyfriend. try going out with him again. i mean what will it hurt? everyone in a relationship s have fights and differences. but it s life. relationships wouldn t be fun without the...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I get back with my ex or get over him?, brick wall, teagan
brick wall, teagan, right decision: Dear Teagan, This is your first breakup, and as they always say the first cut is the deepest. In other words, this will be difficult and I know you will contine to have doubts that you did the right thing. That s normal. But I think you made the right decision...

Teen Dating Issues: my ex, new girl, rhetorical question
new girl, rhetorical question, becca: Hello Becca, I m sorry to hear that you re going through this difficult time right now. I d like to begin by asking you a rhetorical question: have you considered the possibility that your ex may have had his eye on this new girl towards the end of your...

Teen Dating Issues: ex, maturity level, time constraints
maturity level, time constraints, stupid friends: Hi Molly, Well it s always tough to know what s going on in someone s head because everyone reacts to situations especially break-ups differently. Part of what I need to know is who broke up with who? And if you broke up with him, how did he take it when...

Teen Dating Issues: getting my ex back, t rush, exboyfriend
t rush, exboyfriend, last time: I was in your situation before. For this to work, you have to start your relationship with him all over. Work on your friendship with him and make sure he doesn t feel uncomfortable. If possible, give you and him some space to breath for a bit..don t rush...

Teen Dating Issues: My ex!!!, break ups, serious conversation
break ups, serious conversation, ups: HI Shar, my suggestion is to move on. I know that s hard to read, and I know life seems bad at the thought of him not being in your life, but that s the way most break ups are. You will get over him, but the only way to do that is to spend time away from...

Teen Dating Issues: My ex and me, long term relationship, decesion
long term relationship, decesion, baby cake: Hey Nickole, Whats up? Well my advice to you is dont go out with this guy. To me, it sounds like you love being single, and love the freedom of flirting with other guys, and not being tied down. Just remember IF you do go back out with him the pros and...

Teen Dating Issues: My ex and me, decesion, right girl
decesion, right girl, nickie: Hey Nickole, I would like to say that i am very sorry for takeing so long to help you out i been exetremly backed up on school an work life sucks = ok back to your question. Ok yhea sometimes people need a brake from ones they love its part...

Teen Dating Issues: My ex and me, old feelings, decesion
old feelings, decesion, thegood: hi, well if possible i think the two of you should try to go out somewhere like to the movies or anywhere to spend time together, or whatver, and see if the old feelings come back, if they dont and you really really are just feeling the free live single...

Teen Dating Issues: My ex and me, decesion, right decision
decesion, right decision, good luck: Nickole, I believe that if it did not work out the first time, then it will not work out the second. The same problems will eventually come back around and you will be dealing with the same things that you were dealing with before. Maybe after a few years...

Teen Dating Issues: his ex!!!!!!, attion, mths
attion, mths, fone: probably nothing. just ignore her. or dont let it bother you. shes just looking for attention and possibly could be wanting you two to not work out. shes just trying to make you doubt him. he hasnt done anything wrong yet, and im not saying that he will. just...

Teen Dating Issues: My ex, shy type, happiest girl in the world
shy type, happiest girl in the world, girl in the world: First loves always take you over the edge, and usually they always end up breaking someones heart at the end. I don t think its a good idea to ask him back out, because you don t know how he feels and he is probubly stressed out about whatever it is. Try giving...

Teen Dating Issues: my 'ex', long lost friend, mixed emotions
long lost friend, mixed emotions, good luck: Hey there, Hmmm, well, if you think its worth it. Then maybe stop by just to say hi and see how it goes. Talk to her as a long lost friend, kinda. Don t go in and ask if she still has feelings for her, but just ask her to go hang out as friends. If you want...

Teen Dating Issues: my ex....., 5 months, savannah
5 months, savannah, ashley: Hey Ashley- Well what you need to do is just talk to him about all of this and let him know how you feel and everything. Also tell him to be honest with you about his feelings. If he doesn t like you that way then tell him to tell you. That way you will...

Teen Dating Issues: ex bf, expressing feelings, new girl
expressing feelings, new girl, rest of the night: If he kissed you he still has feelings for you. The new girl excuse maybe just a load of crap because that s called the push pull technique, he pulled you in by expressing feelings like holding your hand, and he pushed you away by making up stuff about the...

Teen Dating Issues: ex bf, drunken kiss, new girl
drunken kiss, new girl, rest of the night: Alcohol does horrible things to your brain. It wrecks your decision making part of the brain and while sometimes it just releases the walls that hold you back from doing something you want to do you have to realize something. A drunken kiss doesn t really...

Teen Dating Issues: ex bf, intense fear, psychological studies
intense fear, psychological studies, deepest secrets: Hi Kate, I appreciate the follow up. It sounds as if the relationship is over, that doesn t mean that you don t care about him though. There is only one remedy for getting over something like this, and that is time. Over time you will meet new people...

Teen Dating Issues: ex-bf, 13th birthday, playing guitar
13th birthday, playing guitar, sry: It means that money is something you can give to pretty much anybody. That s what half of your relatives give you on the holidays. Ur bf wants to get you something that has a little more thought in it. For example, if you liked playing guitar, he wouldnt...

Teen Dating Issues: ex bf, bf, couple of days
bf, couple of days, christina: First off, i m very sorry this took a couple of days. I never got the email saying i had a pending question. Yeah, it sounds to me like that could be very much how he feels. Like i sad, try talking to him about it. Who knows what might happen? Maybe he...

Teen Dating Issues: ex bf, guy adam, soccer game
guy adam, soccer game, agian: Okay this was difficult to answer until he hit you, and the pattern of sex and abandonment became overly apparent. My expert advice: LEAVE NOW! Avoid him, ignore him, don t give him the time of day. Based on what you have said this guy strikes me as...

Teen Dating Issues: ex boyfriend, overprotective dad, last boyfriend
overprotective dad, last boyfriend, old boyfriend: Hi Melissa, You seem to be in a difficult situation, but you are a smart girl to be able to pick up everything that is going on so well. There are a few questions you need to ask yourself: 1)Are you trying to convince yourself one way or another? 2)Are...

Teen Dating Issues: ex boyfriend, those girls, mad cause
those girls, mad cause, two girls: It sounds like he is going through some things in his life. How are things at his house? He may still have feeling towards you but the question is do you really want to get involved with him again? I know that it s hard getting over love because I ve had to...

Teen Dating Issues: ex-boyfriend, strong word, spanish class
strong word, spanish class, corner of my eye: Love is a strong word. He s probably played it over and over in his head and when he is staring at you he is yet again thinking about it. Your the one one broke things off so your going to have to patch it back up. You also are going to have to sit down with...

Teen Dating Issues: ex boyfriend, great relationship, out of the blue
great relationship, out of the blue, 5 months: Guys tend to be sacrificial and worst of all they tend to be over dramatic. He clearly still has feelings for you he just decided it would be easier on your if he broke up with you now instead of waiting until he leaves or putting you through the hardship...

Teen Dating Issues: ex boyfriend, overprotective dad, last boyfriend
overprotective dad, last boyfriend, old boyfriend: Melissa, After reading your question, I made the conclusion that neither sounds like a very good choice. Guy #1 should have never cheated on you, and no guy that does that deserves a second chance. Guy #2 is obviously not that reliable if he had a child...

Teen Dating Issues: my ex-boyfriend, stupid mistake, relationship problems
stupid mistake, relationship problems, stis: You hug him and kiss him and you are his friend. My theory is you are dating him, yet without the title. I hope he isn t dating anyone else because that in my mind would be cheating. Your friendship is on a different level. In fact I think it makes it to dating....

Teen Dating Issues: ex-boyfriend, wrong idea, last two months
wrong idea, last two months, cuddling: Michelle, I can see how you might be sitting there thinking about how things use to be, the cuddling, and the kissing, and wonder if he might come back to you. The fact is (you wrote this, so I have to think that you can see it yourself) you did not treat...

Teen Dating Issues: ex-boyfriend, break ups, things take time
break ups, things take time, wrong idea: Michelle, I m sure he remembers the good times you had, but you will probably have to give him some time, especially since you had a couple of sour break-ups. For the time being you should at least keep your options open to other guys. It is very possible...

Teen Dating Issues: ex boyfriend, playing with my mind, things happen all the time
playing with my mind, things happen all the time, touk: Caroline, Unfortunately these kind of things happen all the time. Does that make it right? no, but nevertheless it happens quite a bit. Try not calling him or texting him, even if you really really want to. He will respect you more if you are independent...

Teen Dating Issues: ex-boyfriend, saying goodnight, new girlfriend
saying goodnight, new girlfriend, wrong idea: Hey Michelle! A way to find out inderectly is through a friend, you could tell them to milk him for information, or you could pretend to be someone else on msn, (i ve done this before, it works) and it s a way for him not to find out about it. I think you...

Teen Dating Issues: ex-boyfriend, new girlfriend, new boyfriend
new girlfriend, new boyfriend, good luck: Tori, thanks for getting in touch, I will try and help the best I can... The best thing you can do is force yourself to move on. I know it s hard to just let go like this when you still feel for him a lot, but thing is you have too, you have to tell yourself...

Teen Dating Issues: ex-boyfriend blues, boyfriend blues, stupid excuse
boyfriend blues, stupid excuse, msn: Rosie, pardon me but your ex boyfriend is an idiot. Nobody ends a relationship over msn. I ll tell you, there is nothing wrong with you, if there was he would dump you in person. He was afraid and insecure for some reason. believe be there is nothing wrong...

Teen Dating Issues: ex- boyfriend--- new boyfriend, sophmore, year one
sophmore, year one, school year: You re not being fair to your boyfriend by making him think that you like him that much. I know you re not trying to be unfair but that s just how it is. I think you should tell him you want to take a break because of that reason. Make sure he knows that you...

Teen Dating Issues: ex--boyfriend Q2, new girl, birthday party
new girl, birthday party, girlfriend: Michelle, If you are comfortable with him bringing his girlfriend to your birthday party, then encourage him to bring her. I would not suggest, however, trying to befriend her if you are trying to get your ex-boyfriend back. Everything else is really...

Teen Dating Issues: ex-boyfriend Q3, pink eye, wrong idea
pink eye, wrong idea, crossing the line: Michelle, It sounds like you actually have all the answers you need. I don t need to affirm what you think. He s going to do whatever he feels is best for him. There s no way for you to really decide that. It seems like he would like to stay friends with...

Teen Dating Issues: My ex-boyfriend won't leave me alone!, depression issues, background info
depression issues, background info, 7 months: Dear Heidi, This could mean one of three things, he could either want you to confess that you still love him or he could need closure from your relationship OR this could be part of his depression. He might just want to know that someone who he cared for...

Teen Dating Issues: should i go back with my ex boyfriend, ouchie, 2 girls
ouchie, 2 girls, nsync: dear nene, wow thats actually what my family and friends call me out here. but im straying away from what you asked. im sure you ve heard this a million times, if he s cheated once he ll do it again. and so you did see, he cheated on you twice!! i mean...

Teen Dating Issues: My ex brok up with me but still says she loves me., child of god, biblegateway com passage
child of god, biblegateway com passage, witch: Dear Matt, Check this link out on love: http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20cor%2013&version=65 Man, you have to go and talk with her. How can you two trust each other if you do things in your relationship that are not base on communication...

Teen Dating Issues: my ex GF, peer pressure, samson
peer pressure, samson, 4 months: dear anthony samson: give her space she needs time to think about this well you broke up with her over peer pressure so she probably feels she can t trust you give her time and show her you made a mistake and that she CAN trust you hope this helps solve...

Teen Dating Issues: Me and my ex girfriend still tell eachother we love eacother..., first mate, ups and downs
first mate, ups and downs, jealous guy: Hi, You can ask follow ups if you want. I m not annoyed at those posts. I m annoyed that you raped a 15 year old. Legally in MOST areas this is rape. I don t care if her parents approve. That s still usually rape. That s degrading the opposite sex and puts...

Teen Dating Issues: ex girlfriend, nice bloke, new boyfriend
nice bloke, new boyfriend, friendships: Hey Ben- Well maybe what you should do is just talk to her about this. Let her know how you feel about her and everything. But also let her know that if she s happy with her boyfriend now that you would back off. You just wanted to let her know how you...

Teen Dating Issues: ex girlfriend, holding hands, skool
holding hands, skool, wit: Wow this is a tough one, but I would say that she just needs some time to breath for a bit. She has her strict mom telling her what to do 24/7 and at the time, she had you to worry about, making sure you both were happy, which I m sure was difficult being...

Teen Dating Issues: an ex girlfriend, story question, shy kid
story question, shy kid, eachother: Hi Billy, First off, I m so sorry to hear about this mess! It seems like you guys have had a really great relationship and that it fell apart in an unfortunate situation. Honestly, as much as you love this girl and have known her and been with her...

Teen Dating Issues: ex girlfriend who i still love, sadness and happiness, first girlfriend
sadness and happiness, first girlfriend, those memories: You just need to realize that you re young and you ll move on and you re going to date lots of people in your life who you probably can t imagine being without but somehow you keep finding people that were better for you than before and eventually you ll find...

Teen Dating Issues: ex irlfriend, irlfriend, rude attitude
irlfriend, rude attitude, tnks: have you told her how you feel? be open and honest with her and let her know how she is acting to you. put it all out there on the table for her. then if she doesnt change forget about her. i wouldnt change your number or anything like that. just stop calling...

Teen Dating Issues: My ex is pregnant, but I am in a wonderful relatinship until now. What should I do?, follow ups, wonderful girl
follow ups, wonderful girl, 4 months: Everyone who has sex needs to see a doctor and be tested. You may want to check into the law with seeing the child. How did the relationship end? Sure it s your child? When did she get pregnant? Age? Legal age for this state? You need to also talk to a doctor...

Teen Dating Issues: does my ex still like me, girlfriend andrea, new girlfriend
girlfriend andrea, new girlfriend, little break: He has another girlfriend andrea, i think it s safe to say that he s moved on. He might act close with you while he s around you but this happens sometimes between couples that have broken up. I really do think that it might be in your best interest to move...

Teen Dating Issues: Does my ex still have feelings for me?, good ol days, blah blah
good ol days, blah blah, serious relationship: Hi Dan, It seems she was unsure if she wanted to continue to stay in a serious relationship for such a long period of time. Whether you are in high school or college, she wanted a chance to have some options, without a boyfriend. That said, men and women...

Teen Dating Issues: My ex is being sweet, and my bf doens't seem to care about me....but one of my relaly good friends says she likes him too! What should i do?, sensitive guy, frined
sensitive guy, frined, type of girl: Well what I say is that you should break up with your bf and go out with your ex. But that is my opinion. Your bf seems like a dick! and your ex seems so much more caring and giving. Now you say that your friend likes your ex. Well if your ex really loves...

Teen Dating Issues: My ex- I want him back.., emotional ties, sex buddy
emotional ties, sex buddy, share classes: Bringing things up slow helps. Don t prod him about his past much. Maybe if you really care, talk to him about it since you care about him and your relationship. Friends getting involved doesn t help, and I wouldn t talk to her about this since it s a very...

Teen Dating Issues: My ex, heart to heart, breakups
heart to heart, breakups, neways: Hey Tracey! Man breakups suck dont they?? Well first off if someone if threatening to kill you seriously report it, thats not kool to be scared by someone like that...dont be shy!!! Neways if i was in your position i would tell the guy my point of view...

Teen Dating Issues: how to get my exboyfriend back, exboyfriend, goodnight
exboyfriend, goodnight, text message: Hi Sabrina, I wouldn t beat around the bush with him. If your still interested in a relationship then tell him. If he doesn t care so much about whatever you did, then just ask him if he is willing to give it a second go-around. Avoid the text messaging...

Teen Dating Issues: exgirlfriend trouble, 3rd anniversary, being friends
3rd anniversary, being friends, laugh: How did you meet her? Ages? How long did you date(3 years)? Why like her? Why did she like you? What was the problem that ended the relationship(anything besides this phone call)? Should you still date her? This is not love. I can tell you this. I have a gut...

Teen Dating Issues: no experience, guy friends, kisser
guy friends, kisser, being friends: CJ - First off, there s nothing wrong with you. Second of all, if you keep thinking that you re a terrible kisser then that s the image you re going to project when you do start dating people. You need to be more confident in yourself. Plenty of people...

Teen Dating Issues: exs best friend, aim profile, latley
aim profile, latley, thing thing: hey yeah i wouldn t read much into that. Just because he doesn t IM you every 3 seconds doesn t mean he s not into you. The whole I love her star thing thing that he did sounds just kinda childish to me. I wouldn t read too much into that either. Guys...

Teen Dating Issues: exs best friend, latley, girls and boys
latley, girls and boys, best friend: Kate, I think that the best friend likes you and is using the joke method to gauge how you really feel about him. Your responses are supposed to tell him how you feel, and when you don t respond, he tells you that he is joking to hide it and perhaps make...

Teen Dating Issues: exs best friend, latley, companionship
latley, companionship, girlfriend: Katie- It sounds like he s reaching out for some companionship whether it be serious or casual. If you re in doubt and want to know, talk to him. Ask him what he means and make sure he s honest. Remember, rule #1 in ANY relationship: COMMUNICATE! :-...

Teen Dating Issues: exs best friend, t rush, latley
t rush, latley, wonderful day: Katie, There s a possibility that the guy really likes you....but there s also a chance that he feels free to I guess be himself. Either way, if you do not like him like this then I would say something to him about the way he s been acting. Make it really...

Teen Dating Issues: exs best friend, aim profile, latley
aim profile, latley, good luck: It s hard to say. My advice is really no more than to ask him. And if he shows signs of a lie or a joke, than question this more. Understand it s hard for me to give advice without seeing all. Good luck and sorry. He may like you, yet he may also be afraid...

Teen Dating Issues: exs best friend, shy sort, instint
shy sort, instint, latley: Dear Katie, they sound like a bunch of idiots! no offence but they are acting like little kids. u know what u have to say no i dont think hes hott i dont have those kinds of feelings for him hes just my friend. so they ALL know how u feel *if that is how u...

Teen Dating Issues: the extent of being intimate after 5 months of a relationship, 5 months, intimacy
5 months, intimacy, having sex: i wouldnt think to deeply about this. have you had sex with him yet? maybe talking this way on the phone is his way of getting turned on. maybe he is hoping that it will lead to having sex with you. i dont know for sure but i think its important you be open...

Teen Dating Issues: eye contact, genuine smile, atmost
genuine smile, atmost, shy guy: L.J. I am so sorry, with the holidays coming up it s really busy. Ok, ok...I m thinking maybe he s one of these types of people that says things, and doesn t follow up with them. Maybe he really likes you and is shy. I mean if a person doesn t like you at...

Teen Dating Issues: F*** FRIENDZ, friend angela, u care
friend angela, u care, friendz: Hey there, Alright, there s nothing you can do to make a person like you. If she doesn t like you, then move on, start scoping out for other people. It seems like she is leading you on because she likes the attention you give her. So don t give her that extra...