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Teen Dating Issues: relationship trouble, sunset picnic, relationship trouble
sunset picnic, relationship trouble, emotional wreck: Hi Devin, I m not sure what s troubling your girlfriend. What you need to do is sit down and just subtly talk to her asking her what s up . In this situation, a relationship is based on trust and safety in a relationship. What I think would be really...

Teen Dating Issues: sex unfortunately, seventeen years, having sex
seventeen years, having sex, bf: wait...so your currently having sex with your ex and dating your current bf? isnt that cheating? if thats the case then i would say STOP!!! :) i think you should try other options with your bf if he is not ready for sex. have you talked to him about other...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Love/ Confusion, boyfriends girlfriends, third girl
boyfriends girlfriends, third girl, best girl: yeah its hard when you like someone who is dating someone else. but for now you really just need to stay away from him as much as possible. be nice to him and say hello if you want but the more you are around him the more you are going to have feelings for...

Teen Dating Issues: Torn between decisions..., avail, thanks in advance
avail, thanks in advance, best friends: how do you think it would go if you told your friend that you think you might have some feelings towards her besides just friends? i dont think there is anything wrong with letting her know how you feel as long as you dont think it would ruin your friendship....

Teen Dating Issues: What's going on?, new boyfriend, close friends
new boyfriend, close friends, 9 months: Hi Brian, I don t actually know why she left you, only your ex knows that. But what I can see is that she does still like you. I suggest you go to her house and take her out for a friendly date and talk things through (it will show that you care for her)....

Teen Dating Issues: What should I do now?, new boyfriend, exact words
new boyfriend, exact words, 9 months: Well for starters in a relationship something you REALLY need is trust. You shouldn t check her messages and facebook; it s intrusive and rude and I wouldn t dare do that to a person I m together with. what happens with that is that it just leads to stressful...

Teen Dating Issues: how to get over him? :(, crying all night, cutest couple
crying all night, cutest couple, happy song: Hi Maya, This is a tough one, but I think you should distract yourself from the topic. Try something that I like to call music therapy; listen to a sad song then a happy song and repeat. You have to listen carefully to the words. When you listen...

Teen Dating Issues: 0 to 2, butterflies, two guys
butterflies, two guys, affection: I can t say for sure (because I don t know you) but it sounds to me that you only like boy B as a friend, but you like the affection. And you like boy A alot. Don t go for the guy only for what they can give you physically, sort yourself out and decide who...

Teen Dating Issues: Absence makes the heart grow fonder?, boy problems
boy problems: Hi Jessica. It seems like you both crossed a stage that wasnt meant to be crossed until you two were in a good enough relationship. What ruined it so much was the fact that you just decided to use each other for the sexual desire of it. That doesn t give him...

Teen Dating Issues: Age Differences, age differences, old boyfriend
age differences, old boyfriend, younger girl: Well, I ve always said that at that age boys are actually younger than they seem (mentally speaking). So your 12-year-old boyfriend may seem 10 to most people and that s why they make fun of you. If you say that he behaves exactly as you do, then he must be...

Teen Dating Issues: bleugh., unnecessary stress, 10 months
unnecessary stress, 10 months, neglect: There s two things I could suggest you do: The first one is to try to hang out with him and your friends at the same time. By this I mean going out to eat with your friends and boyfriend a couple of times a week, but also leaving some time alone for you and...

Teen Dating Issues: Boy trouble..., date girls, boy trouble
date girls, boy trouble, second thoughts: Hello Jenny =) Well, I think he is playing games with your head. I think he probably likes his girlfriend alot, but also has a slight crush on you. So, I m thinking that maybe he cancelled on you because of his girlfriend. Something she said. Or maybe you...

Teen Dating Issues: Boyfriend Issues, strict parents, relationship work
strict parents, relationship work, freshman year: Talk to your boyfriend, if he says he can t date you because of your conditions it could be a sign that he s not as committed as you are. Been there too, I m living in the phase when it s over and I m realizing I shouldn t have changed my ways just to meet...

Teen Dating Issues: Boys... -sigh-, messy relationship, team mates
messy relationship, team mates, wrong idea: i think you should only stop hanging out with him if after you tell him your just friends and he doesnt get it. if your really good friends with him then i would tell him the truth. tell him you dont have feelings like that for him. tell him you are not going...

Teen Dating Issues: I cant find anybody, personal secret, white kids
personal secret, white kids, white boys: Thank you for your patience with me. When you are young, the world seems like a little place. Children count on adults to get them places, so you are limited to the world your parents can expose you to. When you get older, the world gets bigger, but...

Teen Dating Issues: Commitment, long term relationship, afraid of commitment
long term relationship, afraid of commitment, serious relationship: yeah its normal. :) anything new is going to give you some level of apprehension and being afraid and scared is normal. i think this is a great opportunity to talk to him about how you feel. communication is very important in any relationship and it sounds...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused, incompatibility issue, woman in my life
incompatibility issue, woman in my life, honest man: Vanessa, your mother sounds wise, but all the wisdom in the world will not lead you to love - or to an honest man, for that matter. Flattery is a natural part of dating. Please, please, please do not equate it with lying. The two are very different. ...

Teen Dating Issues: confused., amount of time, jealousy
amount of time, jealousy, bf: I think that a relationship shouldn t be based on the amount of time that you ve been going out. You should base your relationship on what makes you happy, on whom you love. If he isn t going to make you happy then what is the point in putting yourself through...

Teen Dating Issues: my crush, juniour, idk
juniour, idk, good luck: yeah i think you should talk to him. you got nothing to loose and you wont really know if he likes you unless you start talking and see what happens. i would just take it slow and begin a friendship first to see if you even like him. good luck! :) sandi...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating problems :'(, shud, time at home
shud, time at home, gf: Well, I think that maybe she is going through a hard time at home/school. Don t get too paranoid about it. Ask her what s going on with her, but don t sound like you are accusing her, be interested in how she is. Ask her how she is, how she really is. Make...

Teen Dating Issues: The day before was so perfect, why would he break up with me?, horrible day, personal life
horrible day, personal life, best wishes: He probably wants whats best for you, he wants to protect you against feeling neglected. And he probably wanted the day before to be special because he doesn t want you to end the relationship with a horrible day. Keep you chin up, Flower! Best wishes. ...

Teen Dating Issues: How to deal with what happened, first kiss, absolute certainty
first kiss, absolute certainty, firsts: If you want me to be honest with you, her not wanting to tell you what she did or didn t do could be an indicator that she did, in fact, kiss someone else. You have to face this, or rather you have to face not knowing with absolute certainty. You also need...

Teen Dating Issues: How to deal with what happened, first kiss, hiya
first kiss, hiya, cami: Hiya Eli, So, you were apart for 4 months. Its not like you were dating apart for those months. Girls are allowed to date other boys when they are single, and its not fair for you to be angry with her if she did kiss someone else. It was her choice. And...

Teen Dating Issues: How to deal with what happened, first kiss, 4 months
first kiss, 4 months, feelings: hey! You obviously feel very strongly towards her. She may or may not have kissed a guy, and you are very botherd by this. But unfortunatly, the past is the past and cannot be changed. You should tell her your feelings and take it from there. Just don t dwell...

Teen Dating Issues: Different Highschools, Long Schedules, No Time for Anything Anymore., relationship work, hectic schedule
relationship work, hectic schedule, breaking point: Well while you have to understand that him not having time to talk to you is not a conscious decision but rather a condition, I don t see a reason why he shouldn t be able to reply to your texts. It doesn t take long. And I do understand that you are left...

Teen Dating Issues: Different Highschools & Trying to Make it Work, freshmen year, highschools
freshmen year, highschools, different city: hey! I once had a boy friend that was in a different high school to me. It is perfectly fine but there are a number of things to take into account. Such as: As much as he says he wont, guys are still tempted easily. And even the most reliable guys gets tempted....

Teen Dating Issues: two girls, caming, facebook
caming, facebook, school trip: Hiya Matt, Long distance relationships almost never work. Its a harsh fact. I mean it could, but not likely. And Madi seems more like the best choice because shes closer, and you have strong feelings for her. Sometimes you just gotta jump off the cliff...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy friend or Crush, guy friend, homecoming
guy friend, homecoming: your in a tuff spot. i guess you have to figure out if you really want to go to the homecoming or not. the right thing would be to tell your guy friend that you wanted to go with so and so. and if so and so doesnt ask you then i guess your out of luck. but...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, yeast infection, sinus infection
yeast infection, sinus infection, social reasoning: Laurel, if you have had a yeast infection for 3 to 4 years, do NOT engage in any kind of sexual activity. I hope you have been to a doctor about this. If you have, then the infection should be under control. And if you have not, go. It is not uncommon...

Teen Dating Issues: Hmm..., ditsy, bestfriend
ditsy, bestfriend, couple of days: You need to decide whether a guy is more important to you than a boy. At the moment it sounds to me like a boy is more important to you. (I m sorry but it s the truth) I think that you should tell her that you like him. But also tell her that you won t...

Teen Dating Issues: im dating my cousin, twin cousins, weird questions
twin cousins, weird questions, days of my life: Mari, you are messing around with your own family. STOP! It is incest. If that word doesn t stop you, how about JAIL? Incest is illegal. You would BOTH go to jail, and you might get your aunt into trouble, because now she knows. And imagine the strain...

Teen Dating Issues: Kissing help!, Kissing boy
Kissing boy: Hi Emily, everyone is new at the very same thing. The best thing to do is either try and take the date very slow, or just tell him straight out. Say something like, Sorry, but Im not very good at this. and it should loosen the mood and he might even try...

Teen Dating Issues: Long-Distance Relationships, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, boy friend: hello! I know for a fact that it is hard for a 6ft girl to find a taller boy friend. I, myself, am 5ft 10.. So no, height isn t an issue in my point of view.. Other people may have an issue but my boyfriend is shorter than me so it s fine for me. Long distance...

Teen Dating Issues: Mixed Feelings, mixed feelings, friend thanks
mixed feelings, friend thanks, question thanks: If you told him, that s probably enough. You ve put all your cards on the table. He knows that you have feelings, and I assume he knows that the feelings are for him. So enough has been said. If you keep bringing it up, you are pressuring him. One...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help i'm very confused, firends, facebook
firends, facebook, 17 years: Marissa, This is more of what you can do then what I can do. All I can say is don t think about it and don t even think about not thinking about it (if that makes sense). Hang out with friends and do other things and hopefully the problem shouldn t bother...

Teen Dating Issues: Please help me, firends, facebook
firends, facebook, 17 years: hi marissa. well, it just sounds like this guy is not bf material anyway you look at it. even if he was lying to you to break up with you thats real crappy on his part and not someone you want in your life anyways. ive met people who just dont communicate...

Teen Dating Issues: My Problem in the Relationship, outgoing guy, play 2
outgoing guy, play 2, sport football: it is difficult not to compare yourself to other people, particularly those whom you love. Sshe isn t perfect at all. You just love her so much that you look past her faults. And she does the same to you. Don t bring yourself down. She see s something special...

Teen Dating Issues: Not quite sure what to think, long term relationship, faith issues
long term relationship, faith issues, afraid of commitment: If someone truly cares for you, loves you, they fell into that love knowing you aren t/weren t perfect. As a matter of fact, I think it s smart to start any relationship putting all your cards on the table. Be 100% honest with him about your fears, and explain...

Teen Dating Issues: situations for teens, dun dun, sticky situation
dun dun, sticky situation, sticky situations: Hey Selest, (Cool way to spell your name btw, I really like it. :D) Anyway, down to your question! Well, one sticky situation could be about a girl who likes her best friends, ex boyfriend. The ex boyfriend had a messy breakup with the best friend,...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I text my ex?, boy, love
boy, love, problems: Hi Gabby! Yep! I think you should try and rekindle the friendship!Go ahead and send the first message, it should show that you really do want to talk and be friends again since he is always messaging you first. :) And unless you outright tell him in the first...

Teen Dating Issues: what should i do?, two girls, gf
two girls, gf, good luck: dating is all about figuring out what and what you like. i think you should ask the closer one of because you will be able to date her and find out if you like her as a gf. it might not work out and then maybe you can ask the other one out. good luck! ...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I ask my ex boyfriend to hang out with me??, t text, rough time
t text, rough time, exact same thing: You would have to consider, first of all, how the relationship ended. The exact same thing happened to me not long ago, that we broke up because he didn t have the time. And I understood that completely. Still, it didn t end well and it s an awkward situation....

Teen Dating Issues: my best friend, friend school, guy friend
friend school, guy friend, fourth grade: i guess you have to figure out if dating a bisexual guy is something your ok with. think about how you would feel if he decides to date another guy. dating is all about figuring out what you like and dont like. if your unsure just go for it and date him. see...

Teen Dating Issues: boyfriend problems, boyfriend problems, red cloud
boyfriend problems, red cloud, question number: Well I have a couple of questions. First of all, do you even know this guy? because if you do, I don t see the problem with sending him photos of yourself... unless of course you re naked in them but if you wanted to do it, you would even if I told you no...

Teen Dating Issues: can an ex regain feelings?, acquintance, rule of thumb
acquintance, rule of thumb, awkward situation: You would have to consider, first of all, how the relationship ended. The exact same thing happened to me not long ago, that we broke up because he didn t have the time. And I understood that completely. Still, it didn t end well and it s an awkward situation....

Teen Dating Issues: Helpppppp, volunteer firefighter, long wait
volunteer firefighter, long wait, having sex: First off Cassie, my name is Joe. I m a new expert here to this category. Sorry for the long wait. Now, I m not usually for teens hooking up especially just meeting each other. It s not healthy. And usually in this case, it s just the guy wanting to get...

Teen Dating Issues: Im so confused!!, friendship group, sleepover
friendship group, sleepover, holding hands: Hey Well, I think at your age and maturity, he wouldn t have just held your hand because you were there. I think he does like you. I would relax and just go with it, flirt with him a bit and just be like flirty friends. He will most probably ask you out...

Teen Dating Issues: I Like Him, He Likes Her, speak chinese, homeroom
speak chinese, homeroom, being friends: how would you feel if you could only be friends with him? you or i cant predict if this guy will like you or not. you just have to think about whether or not you can handle just being friends. if you cant then i wouldnt ask him to help you record a cd. if...

Teen Dating Issues: I Like Him, He Likes Her, speak chinese, speaking english
speak chinese, speaking english, homeroom: first of all, don t feel strange about speaking english! I used to only speak french then i moved to an english school! But you speak english perfectly! Ok, so there is nothing that you really can do, flirt a bit, bit that is about it. Sorry! But it s the...

Teen Dating Issues: I Like Him, He Likes Her, question game, romantic life
question game, romantic life, speak chinese: Hahaha it might just be a dumb and a little obvious, but you can do like... I d like to get to know you better let s play a question game! and ash him where he s from, about his pets and music, his school, favorite color, etc. and then build up to and what...

Teen Dating Issues: I Like Him, He Likes Her, speak chinese, cute guy
speak chinese, cute guy, homeroom: Well, if they are still friends, that is fine. But, I say try and pursue asking him out if his relationship is over with this other girl. Maybe ask him to just do something with friends, and you two can have a no pressure group date thing. Most guys go for...

Teen Dating Issues: i need help with my crushes!, arabian country, those girls
arabian country, those girls, boyfriends: Hello Dana! Well, firstly, you don t need to have a boyfriend! Many girls may have boyfriends but you are still young. They are being stupid and you should use boys just so that you can be cool, like what they are doing. Find the guy that you hav alot in...

Teen Dating Issues: Percussionist, harsh truth, cami
harsh truth, cami, hiya: Hiya Christyna, It probably most likely means that he cares for you as a friend. :) If he asks to hang out with you outside of band, then he probably likes you more than a friend. Seems like a bit of a harsh truth, but from what youve told me thats definitely...

Teen Dating Issues: relaitionships, smile on her face, hand shake
smile on her face, hand shake, hallways: Hello. :) You should get to know her more, and be able to sense if she really likes you or not. Romance doesnt just appear in the first couple of days or few weeks. And to get her to respond somehow that she likes you, just ask her out on a date. Thats...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen dating, bummer, bf
bummer, bf, good luck: Hello :) Well, you sound as if you have everything planned out for yourself. So I can t help you that much, to be honest. Just be careful with what you want. I am also a teenager and I have been your age a few years ago and you should really be careful with...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen-dating, lunch table, hair light
lunch table, hair light, straight hair: I can t tell you that because I don t know what he s thinking, and if you don t decide to break out of your shell a little, you might not find out either... Seriously, I say go for it. And it s not like you can do this without people finding out. At least...

Teen Dating Issues: Trust, cami, lyn
cami, lyn, liar: Hi again. :D Sorry, on this site Im a little terrified to give my phone out, but you can always reach me on here. ^^ Anyway, if you caught him lying, the boys a straight up liar. No questions asked. Its your choice to go on further with him or not, cause...

Teen Dating Issues: Age, statutory rape, boyfriend nick
statutory rape, boyfriend nick, two and a half years: Emily - If you haven t had sex, he can t be prosecuted for statutory rape especially if your family is ok with him. I wouldn t be too worried or maybe consult a local lawyer about how this falls under the law. Otherwise, you re probably better off waiting...

Teen Dating Issues: Amazing guy but having doubts??, friend tomorrow, right decision
friend tomorrow, right decision, 4 months: I think that any girl is going to go through this anytime in their life when they feel that they have found a guy that they really like. You soon start to question if this is what it really feel like. You then start to worry and wonder if this isn t really...

Teen Dating Issues: Amazing guy but having doubts?, friend tomorrow, time teens
friend tomorrow, time teens, doubts: It s all psychological really. When you re young, you re not sure what you want and sometimes things can get nerve racking. A lot of the time, teens go through this and that s why they break up off and on all the time with one person or more. Girls and guys...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, sexual situation, right move
sexual situation, right move, nervousness: Sounds like hormonal nervousness. Common issue with guys. You stress out about what to do with a girl because you don t wanna make the wrong move. Cause you feel if you do, she ll hate you and you ll lose her forever. Which would suck. Trust me, all guys...

Teen Dating Issues: Fear of the first relationship, heart breaks, cousin
heart breaks, cousin, 18 years: First of all, it is okay if you have yet to have your first relationship until now. All it means is that you have had to deal with less heart breaks which makes things a lot easier. Second, first relationships are always hard. Your not sure what it s really...

Teen Dating Issues: Was it a good idea for me to accept my ex girlfriend's friendship even though I still love her?, dealing with insecurities, emotional happiness
dealing with insecurities, emotional happiness, guilt trip: Hi Robin, I think that it is totally fine to try to be friends with her again. This may even help you get over her and stop thinking of her as more than a friend. However, if it does get too hard for you to be around her, or you feel yourself wanting more...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy/friend problem, horrible friend, friend lauren
horrible friend, friend lauren, friend julie: Okay, first of all, don t feel guilty about it, it s not YOUR fault that they changed both their minds, and it s not your fault he likes you. You can only do one thing: Be understanding towards Julie. She was by the looks of it heartbroken when their relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy/friend problem, horrible friend, friend lauren
horrible friend, friend lauren, friend julie: Reading this question only three words came to mind: Girls Night Out! Go hang out with her and hang out like you guys did before the guy came into both of your lives. Making sure that the foundation of your friendship is still there and strong, you guys...

Teen Dating Issues: Guy/friend problem, horrible friend, friend lauren
horrible friend, friend lauren, friend julie: hi maddie. it sounds like your friend is really not a friend. if she was a true friend she wouldnt have ignored your feelings and went out on a date with this guy knowing you like him. now i am not one to say get revenge on her since she did the same to...

Teen Dating Issues: Two guys..., long distance relationship, new feelings
long distance relationship, new feelings, facebook: Really, it s best to do what makes you happy and not worry about everyone else. I know having someone else s opinion matters to you, which is fine. But ultimately you need to what makes you the happiest. If the younger guy is making you happy, stay with...

Teen Dating Issues: It's hard to explain, dictionary word, touchy subject
dictionary word, touchy subject, asian woman: I have to agree with you 110%, it is completely crazy how someone can be judged just by there skin color. I think what you should do is try and set some time up where you, your family, and your boyfriend have dinner or something in that sense. It may be...

Teen Dating Issues: My heart is mean and is in pain. Advice please!?, unresolved pain, 5 months
unresolved pain, 5 months, gf: Hi Angel. It seems to me that you definitely have unresolved pain from the past. The easiest way to move on in life is to get closure which you did not get. You could call him, ask to meet him in person, or even write him a letter and pour your emotions out....

Teen Dating Issues: Help, funny name, alphabets
funny name, alphabets, 7 months: She may be pulling away so she doesn t get attached to anyone before leaving. While I am not from the Australian area, I can safely say I know it well enough to know those two areas, while considered close in comparison to places here in America, are no where...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, funny name, alphabets
funny name, alphabets, 7 months: this is what i would do. stop asking others to tell her things. stop the secret stuff and talk to her! let her know how you feel. its not like your talking all the time now and are great friends. what do you have to loose? she will either say she likes you...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, funny name, alphabets
funny name, alphabets, 7 months: When a girl loses her mother, everything just turns upside down in her world. After all, it hasn t been that long since her mother has passed away. Right now she is just trying to sort out her feelings and see what she really wants out of life. Right now,...

Teen Dating Issues: Help, funny name, alphabets
funny name, alphabets, 7 months: Talk to her about how you feel and ask her out, have courage! If you don t tell her anything there s a big chance you might lose her because you don t show her you re interested. And if she says no, then at least you have one burden off your shoulders....

Teen Dating Issues: Help, funny name, alphabets
funny name, alphabets, 7 months: Hi Jia, it really seems from what you ve told me that she has previously liked you and wanted to get to know you better. I would stop asking your friends to help you and straight up go and ask her if she wants to catch a movie with you sometime or something...

Teen Dating Issues: Help?, car door, 10 months
car door, 10 months, girlfriend: Brandon, I feel for you in this situation. We have all been there. It really sucks. In this case it seems like she is young and, after almost two years of a relationship, wants to be single. I have tons of friends who have had this done to them or have done...

Teen Dating Issues: Im confused, worth the risk, guy friend
worth the risk, guy friend, 17 years: Hi Niyati, I think that if this guy is such a good friend you may have a chance with him. You can start by telling him that you don t want this to ruin your friendship and he doesn t have to feel the same way but it s been on your mind. Then follow by explaining...

Teen Dating Issues: How to kiss a boy??, first kiss, how to kiss a boy
first kiss, how to kiss a boy, bf: hi katie. your question is actually a really hard one to answer. :) its difficult to explain here how to kiss. what i usually tell people is to let your bf or gf know that you really havent kissed before. that way you can relax a bit more. ask your bf...

Teen Dating Issues: How to kiss a guy??, freak out, bottom lip
freak out, bottom lip, kisser: Well first off, try not to freak out. It s a common problem for those with little experience, to be intimidated about doing it. The best thing to do would be to have him help to teach you. A lot of people will tell you to just pucker up and go for it....

Teen Dating Issues: Lying, chat logs, split personality
chat logs, split personality, sexual conversation: Hi Wyatt, This girl seems like really bad news. If i were you I would avoid all contact with her. She lied to you, cheated on you, spread rumors about you, and broke your heart. I think the reason she spread rumors about you was because you began to talk...

Teen Dating Issues: Puzzled, honest truth, girl at school
honest truth, girl at school, good friends: Honestly, it was the right thing to tell her that you still had feelings for her. Lying about it would have probably put you in a much worse situation. Girls go through more than guys know when they start dating someone or if they have. When you told her...

Teen Dating Issues: Did I make the right choice in accepting my ex girlfriend's friendship if I still love her?, dealing with insecurities, emotional happiness
dealing with insecurities, emotional happiness, guilt trip: What you should realized about your friendship with your ex is that it s going to be hard not to try and get her to like you back and go out with you again. There are going to be times that you are just going to want to maybe ask her out or even make a move...

Teen Dating Issues: Does it sound like he only likes me as a friend?, peppermint coffee, soccer teams
peppermint coffee, soccer teams, coffee shop: One thing that will save you a lot of trouble in the future is that you cannot read every movement that a guy makes to see if he likes you more than a friend or not. Yes, they will give you signs that can help you determine if they like you, but (especially...

Teen Dating Issues: Does it sound like he only likes me as a friend?, peppermint coffee, soccer teams
peppermint coffee, soccer teams, coffee shop: hi tasha, i think you already wrote me before? i sent you this response... is it a company policy that you can not date him? if not then i would ask him out. if it is then i would play it cool for now. maybe continue to hang out with him and go get coffee...

Teen Dating Issues: Taking a break, long distant relationship, mope
long distant relationship, mope, senior year: Well, if you feel that the college that you are currently attending is not what you need to progress in life then you should consider transferring. One really great way to get you mind off of things is to get involved into some club or find a group of friends...

Teen Dating Issues: I thought I was gay, but now I have other problems...?, girls locker room, jess lewis
girls locker room, jess lewis, male anatomy: Hey Jess, quite the story but I may be able to help you out. So many teens nowadays struggle with their sexuality because the mainstream pop culture tells them to basically experiment to figure things out. You thought you were a lesbian because you never...

Teen Dating Issues: Truth, good relationship, loser
good relationship, loser, honesty: The most important key to a good relationship is trust and honesty. If you want your relationship to last, which it sounds like you do, you must be open with your boyfriend and tell him the complete truth. I don t know what your hiding but whatever it is you...

Teen Dating Issues: Have, sophomore year, positive signs
sophomore year, positive signs, school trip: No problem, that s what I m here for. I think that since you have already told A that you like him you should not tell him again. I would try asking him if he wants to hang out, maybe go to a movie or grab a bite to eat. This way you too can really connect...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm so Clingy, bf, long time
bf, long time, friendship: your young and shouldnt be so determined to have a bf. yeah i know its easy to say and hard to do. :) i dont know why your so clingy..could be stuff that has happened when you were younger. you might want to see a therapist and talk about that with them....

Teen Dating Issues: I'm so Depressed, mutual friends, girlfriend
mutual friends, girlfriend, feelings: Hi, You should try talking to him, maybe leaving hints about how you really feel. If you have some mutual friends you can ask them how he feels about you and whether he has feelings for you too. If you know how he feels about you it will help you decide...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm torn...How do I feel?, grade homeroom, friend samantha
grade homeroom, friend samantha, great situation: first let me say that you DO need someone to talk to about this. i wouldnt keep this in and away from your mother if you think she will listen and give you some good advise personally i think its not cool for your bf to have said yes to matt. she knows...

Teen Dating Issues: Past Relationships, good liar, freshman year
good liar, freshman year, current boyfriend: was this guy your first bf? if so that can explain a lot. i also think part of the reason your feeling this way is because you didnt get any closure on why you broke up. he just broke up with you and that was it. kind of a cowardly thing to do on his part....

Teen Dating Issues: My bf do i have anything to worry about., trust issues, bf
trust issues, bf, 3 years: yes trust is very important in a relationship. you have to trust him. yes he might cheat on you or leave you for someone else. thats dating..these things sometime happen. if you really think you cant trust him or anyone else then you need to leave. you need...

Teen Dating Issues: Me & My boyfriend, virginity, marriage
virginity, marriage, relationships: Hi, You have been going out for only 3 months and are too young to be thinking about marriage. If you don t want to talk about marriage with him now you should talk with him and explain its too early or if you don t want to talk about this directly you...

Teen Dating Issues: i feel he likes me, firends, infatuation
firends, infatuation, bro: this guy sounds like someone you should just stay away from anyways. if he cant communicate with you and tell you how he is feeling then you dont want to continue a relationship with him. i would stop talking to him. maybe write him a letter or email and tell...

Teen Dating Issues: I guess i'm Jealous, bad neighborhood, jealous cause
bad neighborhood, jealous cause, best friends: have you talked to your gf about this? if you communicate with her about this and let her know that you trust her but at the time your jealous then hopefully she will be understanding to this and maybe communicate with you more. maybe you both can come to...

Teen Dating Issues: puzzled...how do i make my guy feel secure again ??, relationship work, serious relationship
relationship work, serious relationship, good luck: you cant make anyone like you or love you. communication is key in a relationship. if you want to try and make the relationship work you should try and sit down with him and find out whats really going on. maybe he just wants to breakup and is using this as...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex and advice, dry sex, self conscience
dry sex, self conscience, sexual tension: what a person calls sex and not sex is a personal choice. if you both think doing this is ok then sure why not. but dont try to convince her or force her to do anything she doesnt want to. she will resent you later on for it. but do be honest with her....

Teen Dating Issues: Getting to third base, short periods, sophomores
short periods, sophomores, handjob: hey bri...great questions! :) your right, communication is key. i dont think talking about it ahead of time obligates you to do it next time. i would talk to him about and just let him know what you would like to do and how its going to happen. when the...

Teen Dating Issues: Trying to talk/get to know this girl again., out of the blue, good luck
out of the blue, good luck, right off the bat: hi peter, i wouldnt just ask her out or tell her you like her out of the blue. i would start talking to her slowly and gradually pick it up if things go ok. maybe start a conversation about how things seem a bit awkward with you two. nothing like being...

Teen Dating Issues: I want him back, school stuff, being friends
school stuff, being friends, good friends: Hi Lydia, Maybe you should just be friends with him and see how it goes? Do you think you could handle just being friends with him if he doesnt want anything more? If not then maybe you should just continue on without being friends. Whatever you decide...

Teen Dating Issues: Boredom in a relationship, word answers, wits end
word answers, wits end, nice guy: hi emily, welcome to dating and relationship! :) communicate, communicate, communicate. thats very important in a relationship. that doesnt mean things will change either. you need to talk to your bf about this. if he doesnt want to talk or just gives...

Teen Dating Issues: Would this be inappropriate? In dire need of your help., highschool class, sweetest girl
highschool class, sweetest girl, awkard: Anders, your question is very long. I m going to touch on a few outstanding points and your list of questions. First, regarding confidence, most people feel exactly as you do. The BEST way to deal with confidence issues is this: Be 100% true to yourself....

Teen Dating Issues: Is there something more I should be doing to get her back, or is it just up to time and fate now?, freshman sophomore, true feelings
freshman sophomore, true feelings, initial response: Basically, yes. You put the ball in her court. You can still be loyal to YOUR feelings while respecting what she has clearly said, as well. BE HER FRIEND. The best romances spring from solid friendships, but not all are meant to go to the next level. ...

Teen Dating Issues: How to win her back, but she overseas.., merry christmas message, long distance relationships
merry christmas message, long distance relationships, stable relationship: She sounds like a realist, and in that regard, realists know that long distance relationships are VERY risky and lack a good track record. Almost all cheating in a good, stable relationship happens when the two stable lovers are apart for any length of...

Teen Dating Issues: asdfjlkla;, long distance relationship, burning passion
long distance relationship, burning passion, different town: First of all this guy smokes pot and drinks beer. Do you really want to be with a guy who does this stuff? If you are okay with this then the next think you have to think about is how many times you actually see him. Do you think you could handle not seeing...

Teen Dating Issues: is it me or something bigger?, sister carol, friend richard
sister carol, friend richard, yesterday and today: if your bf is not responding to you and acting different and distant then you need to find out whats wrong. if he doesnt want to talk about it then you need to decide if its time to break up. i just got finished telling someone else that communicating is very...

Teen Dating Issues: Boy Buds, boyfriend and girlfriend, life mate
boyfriend and girlfriend, life mate, college graduation: Brenna, your parents warnings are because, in many cases, friends who date do find it awkward to return to just being friends in case of a break up. In your case, you are both still very young, so a break up is almost inevitable. So they are genuinely concerned...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, sweet moments, eighth grade
sweet moments, eighth grade, bad news: First of all, you need to forget about Brandon. He is wasting his life using drugs and getting high. This is no way for anyone to live their life. Also, he ks rude to you and you deserve WAY better. Every guy has there sweet moments but you shouldn t have...

Teen Dating Issues: The Dreaded Friend Zone, friend zone, same time period
friend zone, same time period, casual friend: Ah, darn friend zone. Been there. Well, you re in a catch 22. You can tell her how you feel. She can either feel the same or not feel the same at all. And if rejected, who knows? Would you still be friends or would she back away? Thing is, to end the...

Teen Dating Issues: Emotional Melting Pot, long distance relationships, deep feelings
long distance relationships, deep feelings, melting pot: Alison, I can definitely relate to your situation. When I was leaving for college my girlfriend and I had to make a tough decision of whether to stay together or not. She had one more year of high school left and her mother was advising her to end it. Ultimately,...

Teen Dating Issues: The Friend Zone, weight on my shoulders, overwhelming desire
weight on my shoulders, overwhelming desire, friend zone: Hi Haden, okay first off this feeling of the world imploding is your overwhelming desire to have her as your girlfriend! It is very common and just means you REALLY like this girl. I know it may seem scary but the only way this will move further is if you...

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriend's parents (well one) don't approve, mom and dad, one don
mom and dad, one don, gf: You know, it s a tough situation here. Obviously she finds something in you that she doesn t care for. Which neither one of us know what is up. The dad usually is the one you have to worry about in most occasions. But, her Mom may be ok with you personally...

Teen Dating Issues: girlfriend problem, minuets, hand job
minuets, hand job, orgasm: being in a relationship requires both people to communicate. it doesnt sound like she is communicating with you about sexual stuff. maybe the next time you two are being intiment you should ask her to finger herself in front of you. tell her you want her to...

Teen Dating Issues: Not gonna date, but..., affection, ruby
affection, ruby, good luck: you could hold hands when your together and talk on the phone when your not with him. you could hug him when you see him and when you leave. i think those are all good beginner dating kind of stuff :) good luck and let me know how it goes! sandi ...

Teen Dating Issues: What should i do about this guy who likes me alot but i dont like him that way?, cute smile, sweet heart
cute smile, sweet heart, sweet guy: Angelica, As a guy I can tell you that I have made a similar mistake before. I was best friends with this girl and we mutually cared about each other. We both told each other that we loved each other. It was as true then as it is today. That said, we never...

Teen Dating Issues: idk if before sent... boy issues, brain cells, drugs and alcohol
brain cells, drugs and alcohol, embaressed: I would stop the smoking and drinking especially. Very bad for you. A lot of teens think weed is fine, but it actually causes several problems in the long run such as damaged brain cells and lung troubles. Cigarettes are worse in that they cause several issues...

Teen Dating Issues: I like him, he likes my best friend., asking a girl on a date, older guys
asking a girl on a date, older guys, thanks for your help: Well the thing is, if he doesn t know how you feel and a girl comes up that he likes, can you be mad that he goes for them? No. Because he doesn t know how you feel. So, why would be not move on, even if he may feel the same as you? Now, your friend is...

Teen Dating Issues: Need advice bad :/, hugs and kisses, arguements
hugs and kisses, arguements, out of the blue: Joan, I m so glad you contacted me. Your question is very typical of all ages, all daters. It s about a girl and a guy who like each other but don t really know how to make it work. Rather than being honest about the state of the relationship or rather than...

Teen Dating Issues: Troble dating, good friends, acquaintance
good friends, acquaintance, best friend: Sara, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you! I am 16 as well and I just got my first boyfriend. I was lucky enough to find a guy that I get along with well and we were really good friends before we started dating. You just haven t met the right guy yet...

Teen Dating Issues: Why won't he ask me out???, good luck, girlfriend
good luck, girlfriend, long time: Well there are a few reasons that he may not have asked you out yet. One, he doesn t want a girlfriend. Two, he doesn t feel the same way about you. However, if your friends says he likes you then he probably is just shy and nervous that you may say no. Do...

Teen Dating Issues: Not your average questions from a 17 year old.., student athlete, first kiss
student athlete, first kiss, guy friends: Sorry for the late response Audrey, been quite the busy week. Well at 17, obviously you have your whole life ahead of you and have plenty of time for guys and kissing. Ya know? So don t feel pressured to get started on that. It s very good to be a...

Teen Dating Issues: Me and my best friend, best of luck, beats
best of luck, beats, girlfriend: Well do you think she still has feelings for you? Does she encourage her friend to try and get together with you? I think that you should tell her how you feel. I don t think that you would lose her again. Things may temporarily become awkward, but sooner...

Teen Dating Issues: dating, freedoms, texts
freedoms, texts, relationships: Nikki, He is most likely a little annoyed. He really wants to see you but your parents are making it very hard. This is making him discouraged and he is taking it out on you. Getting around restrictive parents is not something that I really know too much...

Teen Dating Issues: First Date...Ever, time to say goodnight, everyday basis
time to say goodnight, everyday basis, inkling: No your not the only teenager out there who thinks they awkward with dating. There s nothing wrong with fearing the unknown. I understand where you are coming from win not wanting to be official since you are getting ready to graduate. Since he is your friend...

Teen Dating Issues: Friend-Zone?, friend zone, holding hands
friend zone, holding hands, close friends: Cody, Let me just tell you I have, and continue, to feel your pain. I have been in a very similar situation. I am going to tell you a quick anecdote about that just so you know where I am answering this from. Girl transferred to my school and I knew I had...

Teen Dating Issues: GF is neglecting me - what can i do?..,, romantic relationships, asian families
romantic relationships, asian families, phone battery: Thanks for contacting me, Dan. First, take texting out of the equation. Texting is an emotionless way to pass on bits and pieces of information. It should NEVER be used to gauge how a person feels (unless she says it clearly in the text). I get more...

Teen Dating Issues: GF is neglecting me - what can i do?.., telli, phone battery
telli, phone battery, personal life: It sounds like she is very self conscious around her family and doesn t want them judging her or getting into her personal life. This is nothing against you. I am very much like this myself and so I understand where she is coming from when she expresses that...

Teen Dating Issues: GF is neglecting me - what can i do?, phone battery, aunts
phone battery, aunts, uncles: So sorry for the late response, Now, I m willing to bet that due to her being around her family, and because she s from another country, she knows her family does things in a different way and you do not fit that. She may feel that her family will not...

Teen Dating Issues: GF is neglecting me - what can i do?., family leaves, reevaluate
family leaves, reevaluate, phone battery: i think you might be overreacting. her family should come first and 2 months of dating is not a lot for you to meet her family yet. i would see how things go after her family leaves and reevaluate then. it may also be that she just isnt the right person for...

Teen Dating Issues: Guilt, red flags, addiction issues
red flags, addiction issues, romantic relationship: Trust is the foundation of ANY romantic relationship. You trust this girl to be who she says she is, but you are not giving her the same consideration. If you lie about drinking or drug use, many experts agree that the lie, itself, is the beginning of a...

Teen Dating Issues: Help with a guy, benefit of the doubt, best of luck
benefit of the doubt, best of luck, conversations: Hi Sarah I think that the best thing for you to do is confront him about it. If you really want to be with him then try telling him how you feel about him and ask him why he acts the way he does. If he likes you or respects you, hopefully he will come out...

Teen Dating Issues: help plz...bf trouble, wrte, ok ive
wrte, ok ive, christian families: oh sorry :) yeah i think kissing is ok. sure you can sick from kissing someone but its not going to be anything serious. i mean i guess you need to make sure this guy doesnt have any serious diseases but people kiss all the time. and no you shouldnt wait...

Teen Dating Issues: mistake., eye contact, deep breath
eye contact, deep breath, close friends: think about a few subjects you can talk to him about ahead of time. have some questions ready when you see him. you dont have to spend a lot of time around him at first. just take it slow and see how it goes. hopefully he will show some interest in you and...

Teen Dating Issues: I need your advice!, worst case scenario, first girlfriend
worst case scenario, first girlfriend, friend with benefits: I m very sorry it took me so long to reply. I had a hectic week. I really do think she likes you, especially if you two talk until 1 am!!! Just go for it! Definitely go to a movie for the first date, and the second hang out at your house. It will give you...

Teen Dating Issues: Pregnancy, home pregnancy test, fingers
home pregnancy test, fingers, ashley: Haley No you cannot get pregnant from fingering. I guess if there was sperm on his fingers but I would say it s highly unlikely . You might be late from worrying about all this. If you re really concerned, I would get a home pregnancy test. Ashle...

Teen Dating Issues: How do I rebuild attraction with an ex girlfriend if we're friends right now?, first loves, mid winter
first loves, mid winter, winter break: It seems to me that she doesn t exactly know how she feels about you right now. I don t know why the two of you broke up so I ll assume that when she blocked you for those months it was because she was deeply hurt. Now that the two of you are friends again,...

Teen Dating Issues: Do I say yes or do I say no?, initial intention, top of my lungs
initial intention, top of my lungs, fealings: Hey Rose, sorry for the late response. We get a lot of questions here and sometimes we get to people late. Now, you didn t go wrong suddenly anywhere. You liked him initially and then things were found out about him that you did not know before. The...

Teen Dating Issues: Sperm in my eyes, open eyes, eyelids
open eyes, eyelids, bf: Alright, well I am not an expert on sperm but I am pretty sure that will really hurt you if it goes into your eyes. That is very unusual... Talk to him and tell him you love him but ask if it is really necessary to do this as it will not hurt him but that...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen relationship issues,, teen relationship, popular girls
teen relationship, popular girls, two and a half years: Alright well for starters I think the fact that Rachel s ex-boyfriend was a drug addict is a signal for you to stop using drugs. You seem like an extremely intelligent guy with a LOT of potential in life and drugs are just messing you up and you could become...

Teen Dating Issues: Trust Issues., major depression, yahoo answers
major depression, yahoo answers, lump in my throat: I didn t see your age, so judging some things based on age will be tough. But, under teen issues I d guess 18 and under. Now, what he needs to do is go to see a psychologist. The reason being, he is not mentally stable. His depression may have already been...

Teen Dating Issues: To be or not to be..., long distance relationship, anger issues
long distance relationship, anger issues, anger management: hi emmie, i wasnt sure which of the guys was the one who has an anger issue. i think it was the long distance one. anyway, i think you should break up with the one that has an anger issue. if its the long distance guy then even better. its really hard to...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me?, heart to heart, friends with benefits
heart to heart, friends with benefits, holding hands: sounds like he might yes. i would have a heart to heart with him and find out where he is at. just a simple i m having some feelings for you, how do you feel about me kind of thing is fine. find out from him if he is ready to date or does he still feel the...

Teen Dating Issues: ask a girl out that i dont know, bf, good time
bf, good time, conversations: be yourself. i wouldnt just walk up to her and ask her out either. see if you can find a good time when you can spend a few minutes around her. say hello..ask her her name..just make small talk with her. keep it short and simple. do that a few times and make...

Teen Dating Issues: Blind dating, random guy, blind date
random guy, blind date, dating sites: Hi Charlie I think that it’s okay for you to blind date to an extent. I think that it’s fine for you to do so, as long as these are friends you trust and they know the guy at least to an extent. Do not go if it is just a random guy, because you never know...

Teen Dating Issues: Boys, liar, bad news
liar, bad news, wit: Hey MeMe, To me, this is one of those teenage times, ya know? What do you do? Well, I cannot tell you what to do of course. You need to make this decision on your own. But based on the information you have given me, I can tell you that it seems like...

Teen Dating Issues: Boys-help, fake girl, girls school
fake girl, girls school, girl friends: I m assuming you go to an all girls school as your asking where you can meet guys, but if not, just talk to them at school! Go to the mall and start flirting! It s not too hard, all you have to do is...BE YOURSELF! A guy doesn t want to get to know a fake...

Teen Dating Issues: couple questions, sexual relationship, couple questions
sexual relationship, couple questions, eyeballs: Alright, well eating you out on your period isn t safe. You have your period because you are expelling waste out of your body. You should tell him that it s not safe for him, he could get very sick. Also, don t let him ejaculate into your eyes, that is unsafe...

Teen Dating Issues: Crush, thanks a bunch, taekwondo
thanks a bunch, taekwondo, dad: Hi Anna I think that you need to decide if you want to take the chance of pushing him or not. It may be that he just really wants to be left alone or it could be that he just needs a push to get started. If you want to keep trying I think the only thing that...

Teen Dating Issues: I have a crush on someone I don't know, drug addict, sweet things
drug addict, sweet things, nice guy: Hi Layla, I think if you want to talk to him just go for it! It sounds like it ll be one of those things you will regret if you don t. If I was in your position I would maybe send him a message saying sorry for deleting him in the first place, just explain...

Teen Dating Issues: crushing on a guy, thanks a bunch, taekwondo
thanks a bunch, taekwondo, good luck: Well if you are very outgoing and talkative he may not be the guy for you. But you never know, he could just be really shy at first. Try talking to him about something he is interested in as this will make him more comfortable when speaking to you. Have you...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating for the first time., going to the dentist, social anxiety
going to the dentist, social anxiety, beign: Well dating is not anything to worry about, just make sure you re interested in the guy and that he is a person you can see yourself being with for a while. Not every date has to be full of pressure, trying to find the guy to spend your life with. BUT, it...

Teen Dating Issues: Dilemma, whole time, online game
whole time, online game, next morning: Okay I think you two need to talk through your feelings completely. Obviously there is a lot that has been left unsaid and you guys can t continue to communicate over blogs and facebook messages. If you really were as close as you say you were you should be...

Teen Dating Issues: Dilemma., whole time, online game
whole time, online game, next morning: Hey Zhi, You have quite the dilemma here and I might have an answer for you, I ll try my best! So it s certainly obvious from the way you explained your situation to me that you liked this girl and I think she certainly had feelings for you as well....

Teen Dating Issues: Dilemma............., whole time, online game
whole time, online game, next morning: hi zhi, if you really like this girl then you need to find the courage to talk to her in person. no more Facebook or anything else like that. go to her and tell her how you feel. she may still like this other guy but your the one standing in front of her...

Teen Dating Issues: My ex, hard time, long time
hard time, long time, love: hi emily. you said something that made me really wonder why you would want to date him again. you said that he got mad at you for not hanging out with him after your mothers death. instead it seems like he should be concerned about you and make sure your ok....

Teen Dating Issues: My ex started texting me, then suddenly stopped...why?, texted, convo
texted, convo: Text him first! That will show him that you are interested in him and if he was mad at you at all for not being able to come over he will forgive you when you text him!! He most likely wants to get back together with you too so give it a shot because you could...

Teen Dating Issues: False hope, likeable person, false hope
likeable person, false hope, hand knowledge: Hi Jascha, so I am thinking the most logical explanation as to why this girl posted the status about you is because she exactly that, misses you. This may not mean as more than a friend but merely just misses talking to you and wishes you guys could hang...

Teen Dating Issues: Finger-fucking, hymens, hymen
hymens, hymen, 9 months: Hi Daniel, Yes it is possible to finger her without breaking her hymen, just remember to do it very carefully and slowly. By doing it to deep or hard there is a chance you can break it. If your girlfriend starts to feel pain stop, this can be a sign...

Teen Dating Issues: This "friend" of mine sort of stood me up. I'm confused now... what do you think?, message exchange, comedy show
message exchange, comedy show, couple days: It seems to me that he might be holding off a bit because he s leaving for 2 months. I mean, if I was going to be away for 2 months, I probably wouldn t want to develop serious feelings for someone or establish a relationship when I won t even be able to see...

Teen Dating Issues: More than friends?, friendly relationship, 7 months
friendly relationship, 7 months, best of luck: Hi Varun Personally I think that it is your decision to make, however if I were you I would tell her. If you feel that strongly and are willing to take the risks that you would be taking, then I think you have already made your decision. If there is anything...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this friendship with my ex girlfriend a smart idea? I'm starting to have second thoughts..., church youth group, sophomore year
church youth group, sophomore year, best year of my life: Hi Robin, It sounds to me like she does want a friendship with you but you have to be careful your not going to fall into the same trap. Don t always be the first to text, just think to yourself she is capable of texting and if she wants to speak to be...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I give him a chance??, false hope, crazy girl
false hope, crazy girl, being friends: Hi Kat I think that you have a few options. You can just turn him down, nicely though. Explain why you are turning him down. This way he knows from the source that nothing will happen and maybe he can start to move on. If you really want to give him a chance...

Teen Dating Issues: Help!, doesnt work, thanks a bunch
doesnt work, thanks a bunch, taekwondo: why? lol..i mean why would you want to try and get to know someone better who seems to have an attitude and doesnt want to talk to you? i guess you could joke around with him and see if you can get him to at least smile. if that doesnt work then i would forget...

Teen Dating Issues: help with boys, first move, shyness
first move, shyness, favour: Hi Amy, I think that your friends probably did you a favour, although it may not feel like it at the moment! Now you r feelings are truly out in the open, the best place for them. I think your next step is to tell him to his face. Text him and arrange...

Teen Dating Issues: help me my parents make my life a living hell!!!!!!!!!, living hell, honest opinion
living hell, honest opinion, good advice: Hi Shelly Unfortunately I am not really sure how to answer this, because in the end I think it should be what you want, need, and feel is right. No matter what you decide I think you need to just think long and hard about this because this is a major decision....

Teen Dating Issues: Should I keep this friendship with my ex girlfriend?, church youth group, sophomore year
church youth group, sophomore year, best year of my life: Hey Robin! I apologize for my untimelyness, I ve been swamped with school, but here I am! Alright so, I m going to begin by being straight forward. She s no longer romantically attracted to you. So that right there is a clear indication that she is no...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I keep this friendship with my ex girlfriend if I still love her?, church youth group, sophomore year
church youth group, sophomore year, best year of my life: Hi Robin I think that you need to think about this. Just sit back and try to decide if this is a friendship that you are willing put the work in to try to save it or if you think you feel better off without her. Unfortunately I can t answer that for you,...

Teen Dating Issues: I like her and she likes me too. But what should i do when she needs time and space before considering a relationship?, badminton player, real sisters
badminton player, real sisters, smses: Brandon, two things: Why on earth would you ask her friend what the girl you like is thinking or feeling? Why not just ask the girl who HAS THE FEELINGS? Her friend is not a relationship expert, a counselor, a babysitter. She s a friend. She s going to...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm tired of not being aloud!, having a great time, perfect moments
having a great time, perfect moments, casino slots: Okay first off, you are 18 years old and technically your parents cannot tell you what to do any longer. You need to bring it to their attention that you are an adult and they need to start treating you like one and if they don t like that maybe you should...

Teen Dating Issues: I need your help!, bakesale, helpp
bakesale, helpp, facebook: Hi, Luce. I m well, thank you. I hope you are doing the same. I wonder how it is that I get so many letters from young people in Egypt. Very curious! You probably know that I am in the United States. If you were here, I would tell you to simply take...

Teen Dating Issues: What should i do when she needs time and space?, badminton player, real sisters
badminton player, real sisters, smses: Hey, So from what I ve gathered from this, she s definitely scared and not ready for another relationship after everything thats been going on in her life, which is fair and understandable, she doesn t want to get hurt again after shes still recovering...

Teen Dating Issues: please help mee!!, bakesale, helpp
bakesale, helpp, facebook: Hi Luce, From my point of view it does sound like he has a thing for you. If I was in your shoes I would just see what happens, if your friends are right and he is just trying to make you jealous then don t let him see that you are bothered by what he...

Teen Dating Issues: almost raped, custidy, rare occasions
custidy, rare occasions, youth group: okay I would definitely try to hang out with them and make an effort to show you love them and be around them because even though at the moment you may not you still need to secure a place to live for yourself. Your family is being very selfish in that they...

Teen Dating Issues: almost raped, mom and dad, man points
mom and dad, man points, bed frame: I don t think it s wrong to still be mad at him because considering everything you have gone through it is clear that you are scared from the sexual trauma as your having nightmares and memories of what has happened to you. So it is justified that you would...

Teen Dating Issues: almost raped, switch blade, two and a half years
switch blade, two and a half years, blind side: April, I am so very sorry for what has happened to you and I am happy that I can be here to help you through this. I think the first thing you need to do is to tell your therapist and/or parents about how you were almost raped. This is not something you should...

Teen Dating Issues: This sort of "friend" sort of stood me up. Now I'm really confused about everything. What do you think?, message exchange, comedy show
message exchange, comedy show, couple days: hi tasha, i think it was really rude that he didnt even bother to message you and confirm your date , or whatever it was :) i would try to forget about him and move on. if he is interested in you then let him make the first move. i dont think you...

Teen Dating Issues: Stuck Between My Boyfriend And His Friend, best of luck, vent
best of luck, vent, relationship: Hi Camellia What you need to do is sit down and adress the situation and decide which boy it is that you really want to be with. If you want to continue to try with your boyfriend, then you need to confront him. Talk to him about how/what you are feeling...

Teen Dating Issues: what should I do about her?, personal things, t text
personal things, t text, mutual friend: I think it is mainly attention based, girls like to know they are wanted and if they feel a guy is no longer interested they will try and make him like her again... it s stupid but its an ego thing. I know this sounds harsh but I know many many girls that...

Teen Dating Issues: what should i do???, bakesale, what should i do question
bakesale, what should i do question, words in my mouth: Well in that case, I d say next time you see him at school, YOU say hey instead! And smile at him when you see him. After doing this a couple times, if you see him ask him if you can talk to him for a minute and ask him if he would want to hangout one day,...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me back?, large group, spending time
large group, spending time, little bit: Jessica, From what you have said I would not be surprised if he likes you, a lot. Guys, like girls, do things for a reason. He is investing a lot of time talking to you, spending time with you, and annoying you, or trying to by blowing on your face, that...

Teen Dating Issues: 18 years old & my father refuses to let me date, aim screen names, computer service provider
aim screen names, computer service provider, cell phone provider: Your father obviously has some attachment issues with you being his little girl and not accepting the fact that you are a grown adult, capable of making your own decisions about who you will associate with. I would suggest sitting him down and telling him...

Teen Dating Issues: Awkward Conversations, dance cruise, constant conversation
dance cruise, constant conversation, dinner dance: friends or dating, there doesnt always have to be constant conversation. some silence is good. do you know everything about him? think of some question you can maybe ask him during those times when maybe the conversation has gone dry. hopefully he is asking...

Teen Dating Issues: Backstabbed, bestfriend, couple weeks
bestfriend, couple weeks, couple days: Hey Liana, No, Natasha s actions are not justifiable at all. If she was really a good friend, she would have confronted you about it and asked you if it was okay, ATLEAST. If she was really a good friend she wouldn t have done that at all. I did the...

Teen Dating Issues: Why Does he bother me..., bundle of nerves, trust your heart
bundle of nerves, trust your heart, time bomb: Well I can t make this decision for you. But I can tell you to go with your gut. Which one makes you feel happier? Which one would you rather be with on a Saturday night? Don t just base your decision off which one is sweeter or cuter, base it off of which...

Teen Dating Issues: boy trouble, boy trouble, bad news
boy trouble, bad news, girls: I would let him know that you really do like him and want more than just sex. I could understand if you feel like you were being used as he doesn t want to be more than friends with you. If he doesn t try to fight for you and tell you he will either just be...

Teen Dating Issues: Boy trouble, friendship cause, boy trouble
friendship cause, boy trouble, relationship: Okay the reason it has been awkward between you two is because you just told him that you like him and this information is new to him, even though it is not new to you (i m assuming you ve liked him for awhile). Just give it time and things will go back to...

Teen Dating Issues: how to communicate with boyfriend, bf, phone calls
bf, phone calls, lol: Hi Suzy, to me it seems like your family is a little too religious. I know about the Christian side of religion very well as both my mother and step-father are ordained ministers. Neither have had a problem with me dating or my sister doing so. My sister...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know what to do... Please help, best friend, love
best friend, love, ex boyfriend: Hi Kendra, Thanks for writing in and sharing issues in relationship which is troubling you at present. It takes a lot to pen down feelings and express what you going through, but I must say you seem quite disturbed and wanna resolve it at the earliest....

Teen Dating Issues: My ex is being so much different, minute conversation, hypocrite
minute conversation, hypocrite, couple days: James, Very sorry about your situation. It is never fun to deal with something like this. I know, personally, my ex girlfriend saw me at a party and I did not see her. She commented to somebody that I was obviously ignoring her , which was furthest from...

Teen Dating Issues: Does my ex girlfriend still love me after 15 months?, ex gf, sustain
ex gf, sustain, relationship: Hello Robin, Apologies afront for delay in reverting back to you. I appreciate your gesture of dropping a word and sharing your heart felt feelings and it takes a toll on a person while penning down. But really shows, your strong desire to make things work....

Teen Dating Issues: I like the my ex's little sister, little sister, older sister
little sister, older sister, hell: Hey David! I d say before you go for your ex s little sister, talk to your ex and tell her Hey, I ve been seeing your sister, and I m not doing it to get back at you or anything like that, I genuinely like her. So would it bother you if I see her? if...

Teen Dating Issues: Falling Apart, having a great time, good conversation
having a great time, good conversation, good luck: hi justin. well its hard to say why she is acting like this. do you like her back? would you want to date her? i think you need to talk to her in person. find some time when you can sit down and not be distracted. tell her how you feel. be open and honest...

Teen Dating Issues: Falling Apart, distract, first kiss
distract, first kiss, dating: Hello Justin, Apologies afront for delay in reverting back to you. I appreciate your gesture of dropping a word and sharing your heart felt feelings and it takes a toll on a person while penning down. But really shows, your strong desire to make things...

Teen Dating Issues: Falling Apart, having a great time, honest answer
having a great time, honest answer, good conversation: Hey Justin! So I can definitely see why you re confused. Girls are amazing at confusing themselves and the people around them. I d say talk to her at school, after class just say Hey, can we just talk for a few minutes, you re one of my closest friends...

Teen Dating Issues: does she like me or just as a freind or not at all, friendship, love
friendship, love, impress: Hello Matthew, Apologies afront for delay in reverting back to you. I appreciate your gesture of dropping a word and sharing your heart felt feelings and it takes a toll on a person while penning down. But really shows, your strong desire to make things...

Teen Dating Issues: im in love with my cousin, first cousin, corner of my eye
first cousin, corner of my eye, rest of my life: Well you cannot stop yourself from feeling the way you do so I wouldn t try to suppress any of your feelings. However, the way he acts around you may just be because you are family and he honestly doesn t notice that he is doing these things to make you feel...

Teen Dating Issues: Knowing the Parents, perfect boyfriend, naughty boys
perfect boyfriend, naughty boys, boyfriends: Ritz, I do not recall your question about dating a polar opposite. I don t think I was the one who advised you, but I m happy to help now. Regarding dating a person who is VERY different, that s not exactly a problem. The think that is MOST important...

Teen Dating Issues: Has he lost intrested in me does he only wanna be my friend, t text, facebook
t text, facebook, fiend: I completely understand what your saying and totally agree. I think if you can t trust him or feel that he is lying to you it is not even worth trying it out with him. You should be with a guy who you feel comfortable around and know he is being honest and...

Teen Dating Issues: love issue, insecurity, friendship
insecurity, friendship, expressing: Hi Alisha, Thanks for writing in and sharing your personal life experience. It takes a lot to pen down heart felt issues and appreciate your gesture in taking a step ahead and seeking help regarding relationship issue, you facing at current stage in life....

Teen Dating Issues: I'm gay for my friend, what do I do?, reading the signs, long periods of time
reading the signs, long periods of time, one of my best friends: Hey Rob, I see your dilemma. My best friend is gay and he went through a very similar experience. I d say if you haven t told your friend that you are bisexual, then tell him. My best friend had the biggest crush on his best friend and he finally came out...

Teen Dating Issues: Mixed signals, what do i do?, mixed signals, facebook
mixed signals, facebook, heaps: Justin, it sounds as though your friend may be in one of two places: One, she s frustrated that you haven t acted on the feelings you both had, and now she feels the time has passed. Or, Two, she HAD strong feelings for you, but now she s realizing she doesn...

Teen Dating Issues: Need Help!, keep your distance, aww
keep your distance, aww, good reason: hey alex. it sounds like she really hasn t given you a good reason for breaking up. i guess she could just want some time away from you and any guy to think about stuff. its not unheard of :) either way i would keep your distance from her. say hi on occasion...

Teen Dating Issues: The Date was Awesome!, share experiences, common interests
share experiences, common interests, magic tricks: It s good news she wants to get to know you better! I would talk to her more at school, ask her questions about herself and casual bring up getting together outside of school. Maybe to a movie? Dinner? or just hanging out. But something that involves activity...

Teen Dating Issues: Parents Found Out of Long Relationship, disarray, fling
disarray, fling, apology: I think you and your girlfriend should sit down with her parents and first, apologize for keeping it a secret. But explain to them why you did so (because you love each other and were worried if you told you wouldn t be allowed to be together.) If she feels...

Teen Dating Issues: almost raped, paronia, target
paronia, target, music arts: Try to focus your mind on the future, and cleanse yourself of the past. What happened happened but now you can choose to change your future to be what you want! Whether that would be focusing really hard in school, finding your interests, music, arts, sports....

Teen Dating Issues: How soon should we...?, long distance relationship, baseball game
long distance relationship, baseball game, makeout: Rusty, starting something new while knowing it will be long distance probably isn t wise. If you had been dating her for a long time and then moved, sure, try the long distance thing. But as of right now, you don t really have anything invested in the relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating?, soccer team, two games
soccer team, two games, second time: I can definitely tell that he probably likes you. He s dropping a lot of hints, especially asking to be partners for warm up and looking out for you on the field. So I think next time you and him have a game or practice, ask for his number and text him...

Teen Dating Issues: Wall of Friends, freaks, good luck
freaks, good luck, girlfriend: I don t think you are doing anything wrong. It seems as though she wants some space which is understandable considering you guys have been dating for awhile. However, it is not healthy that you two cannot talk about this with each other if you ve been dating...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this an acceptable relationship?, legal ties, mom and dad
legal ties, mom and dad, real sisters: hi sarah. thats a tough one. i can understand both sides. she has been around for a long time and probably really does feel like this is her family. but i can also understand how you feel. if it was me i think i would try and trust my bf and not make a...

Teen Dating Issues: age problem, legal age of consent, romantic experience
legal age of consent, romantic experience, successful relationship: I cannot condone a man dating a girl who is underage. My husband and I are 8 years apart, but we met when we were both experienced. Maturity is great, but experience is mandatory for a successful relationship. I doubt a 16 year old has enough experience...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused.., social networking site, true love
social networking site, true love, melissa: hi melissa. without meeting someone and dating them you really have no idea who this person really is. i would pull back a bit and remain friends with him if thats what you want. if not i would stop talking to him. i know you think you are in love with him...

Teen Dating Issues: Confusing signals, confusing signals, social gatherings
confusing signals, social gatherings, heartbreak: I m afraid and sorry to say that guys often lie to get with girls. Now I m not sayif this guy doesn t like you but he seems like bad news from the start that he wouldn t tell you he has a girlfriend. To save yourself heartbreak and hours of crying/anger I...

Teen Dating Issues: crush, us history class, facebook
us history class, facebook, summer time: There are a few ways to go about it. I personally would try to find out where she will be at a certain day and time, and find a way to be there. Then, find a way to talk to her and ask her out. One idea would be to get your friends to possibly have a cook...

Teen Dating Issues: dating advise, step foot, bad car
step foot, bad car, drunk driver: Hello Alyssa, yes being alive today after such an incident is wonderful and you are very lucky to be here. Did your bf take a shot to the head or have any major injury to the area, like a concussion maybe? I ask just to see if psychological things may be to...

Teen Dating Issues: DATING HELP!, dating help, trust issues
dating help, trust issues, rest of your life: hi michele, you cant help what someone else might do or not do. if you think you like him and want to date him then go for it and see whats happens. maybe he is really a nice guy and wants to be there for you. if he is mean to you at times thats another...

Teen Dating Issues: I just dont know what to do, pms, boundaries
pms, boundaries: Hi Katie, if there is anything that you aren t feeling comfortable with or if you are doubting doing anything, then don t do it! I know it may be hard to tell him but if he loves you he will respect you and your boundaries. Don t do anything you don t want...

Teen Dating Issues: ex-boyfriend troubles, boyfriend troubles, ashley
boyfriend troubles, ashley, interaction: Sara, It sounds like, to me, this guy is embarrassed about what happened not because of you but because of your past with him. He may not want to be in a relationship again and does not want to sound like bad guy, even though his actions suggest that. All...

Teen Dating Issues: First Date with a complicated shy guy, what to do on a first date, first girlfriend
what to do on a first date, first girlfriend, shy guy: Maddie, I definitely remember being very apprehensive and scared when I was taking my first girlfriend out on a date. If memory serves me correctly, it was in 7th grade. I asked her what she wanted to do because I did not want to make a mistake. That is probably...

Teen Dating Issues: My guy friend, baby show, things take time
baby show, things take time, guy friend: Honestly, in this situation you may need to avoid a lot of contact with him as to not give him the wrong idea. That doesn t make you a bad person, He just needs to understand that your not interested. Then slowly you can start to talk to him like you used...

Teen Dating Issues: guys, kiss, relationships, two different things, scumbag
two different things, scumbag, funny way: Julie Is he hitting you or playfully smacking you around? Two different things If he s hit you, he s a scumbag, don t waste your time. If not and you actually like him then tell him that. Being honest is the only way you ll find the truth out...

Teen Dating Issues: Helping someone who "cannot" love or care, right direction, emotion
right direction, emotion, full time: hi grace. some people like to be the helper of others and to fix people. i have been there and i eventually decided i didnt want to be the one that always got hurt by tying to change someone else. this guy has been completely open and honest with you and...

Teen Dating Issues: Honesty, random guy, shreds
random guy, shreds, couple days: Hi Carissa, not sure what you mean by hook up . Would love to have you help me with that one to better answer this further. It means different things for different people. If you broke up for a while from your bf, you have nothing to be sorry about in...

Teen Dating Issues: Please help!!!!, finding an apartment, great distance
finding an apartment, great distance, dorms: Well, the best thing to do would be to find a way to be closer. Say you get 18 and he is too, you could go off to college in the same place and live close to each other. Or say, he goes off to college, and you don t want to go, you can find a job near him...

Teen Dating Issues: Relationship help, relationship help, opions
relationship help, opions, 15 year olds: relationships are about give and take. it sounds like your gf needs some give from you. if you really love her and want to see how things work out then give her your attention and support. if things dont get better then you might have to consider moving on....

Teen Dating Issues: Sex issue with new guy, loose girls, sex issue
loose girls, sex issue, hand jobs: Hi Madeline, sorry for the late response. Yes, it seems that if he went right for the boobs, he thinks all girls are fine with it and he s met some, shall we say loose girls in the past. lol. That said, from the get-go, you need to tell him that certain...

Teen Dating Issues: Third Chance, emotional relationship, third chance
emotional relationship, third chance, little break: Hi Katrina, with everything you ve told me, it seems like he cannot be trusted. Trust is the biggest part of any relationship. It is the cornerstone and rock for which is stands. Without trust, the whole relationship can come crashing down. He knows you...

Teen Dating Issues: third chance, emotional relationship, third chance
emotional relationship, third chance, little break: i would not give him a third chance. i am all for second chances but a third is pushing it a little too far. especially when you have found all this out about him AND he has the nerve to call you a slut. i would try as hard as you can to forget about him....

Teen Dating Issues: Am I being unreasonable?, legal ties, real sisters
legal ties, real sisters, mom and dad: Sarah, I read your letter today while I was away from my desk and could not respond. I could not WAIT to get back. Your letter filled me with something similar to panic. You do not have this right. You cannot walk into a person s life and demand that...

Teen Dating Issues: Am I being unreasonable?, legal ties, mom and dad
legal ties, mom and dad, real sisters: There must be some reason why she has been partially living at their house and has her own room since kindergarten, something with her own parents that you may not even be aware of. They really do seem like pretty much family so I wouldn t be concerned. She...

Teen Dating Issues: afraid of regret, luster, old girl
luster, old girl, taking the time: hi saige. dating is about finding the guy that is right for you. your young and shouldn t feel like you need to stay with someone because you dont want to hurt him or your afraid you will make a mistake by breaking up. two things i want to tell you...one..when...

Teen Dating Issues: Best Friend Crush, birthday dinner, frien
birthday dinner, frien, next level: so what do you think you would do if you just met this guy and wanted to date him? would you date him knowing that you are leaving for college in a few weeks? i think right now you should probably just stay friends. continue to talk to him while at college...

Teen Dating Issues: Blowjobs, mouthful of cum, unhealthy diet
mouthful of cum, unhealthy diet, seaman: Hi Ayla Every boys seaman is different, some better than others, this is down to a boys diet. Discuss this problem with you re boyfriend. Has he got an unhealthy diet? Maybe he could introduce more fruits into his diet? This should make his seaman a better...

Teen Dating Issues: cheating, choice words, wile
choice words, wile, doing the right thing: Cody, It may be tough but you probably should tell her. You would be doing the right thing by doing that. She will most likely find out regardless. Just remember, you will have to deal with the consequences so use choice words. Promise, and show, that you...

Teen Dating Issues: Cheating, romantic aspect, different perspective
romantic aspect, different perspective, wile: No worries. Have you ever spoke about the romantic aspect of your relationship? After the amount of time you have been dating,I would assume that some form of romance would have been there. If not, there must be a reason why. Is she shy? Not confident...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused :(, bf, best friend
bf, best friend, good luck: hi mikayla, dating is all about finding that right person for you. if you are unsure if your bf is the right guy then you owe it to your self and him to breakup. i wouldnt tell your bf that you want to date other people or that you like your best friend....

Teen Dating Issues: confused, spending time, age 18
spending time, age 18, rubbish: Hi, I think both are possible. You consider whether you want to be with him or not and if he can make you happy rather than if he is missing you. Break-ups are always hard on everyone but if you feel that you are not happy in a relationship it is better...

Teen Dating Issues: I like my friend, friend tori, close friends
friend tori, close friends, just friends: it sounds like he probably does like you more then friends. it could also be that he just wants to get in your pants! :) either way you just have to realize that if you start dating him and things dont go well it might ruin your friendship. its possible...

Teen Dating Issues: I am friends with my ex girlfriend, but I still love her?, female friends, romantic partner
female friends, romantic partner, awkwardness: Hi, Thanks for the question. I believe it is normal to have some lingering feelings towards your ex-girlfriend after coming out of a long relationship. Maybe you are just feeling lonely and missing her which you might be mistaking for love. You should think...

Teen Dating Issues: I am friends with my ex girlfriend, but I still love her. How do i get her back?, female friends, romantic partner
female friends, romantic partner, awkwardness: Hey Robin. My advice is simple. You need to be friends with her for a while longer, you mentioned that your friendship has gotten progressively better over the past few months (with getting the awkwardness out of the way) and this needs to continue...

Teen Dating Issues: my girlfriend is bulimic, anorexic, doing the right thing
anorexic, doing the right thing, psychologist: i think your doing the right thing for now, but...you need to make sure she gets help if it doesnt stop immediately. im not a doctor but i dont think it matters if she is doing what a bulimic would do or not. she is still doing something that can cause her...

Teen Dating Issues: I'll kill myself if I loose her!, conservative family, silent mode
conservative family, silent mode, blade: first let me say that you shouldnt kill yourself over anybody. no person is worth being so desperate over. be happy with who you are. second, if you want to get to know her then take it slow. say hello and smile. ask her how she is doing. keep it to small...

Teen Dating Issues: please help me, good sense of humor, bestfriend
good sense of humor, bestfriend, t text: Hi, It might be possible that he is playing with you. You can try avoiding him for a while and see how he reacts. You might also talk with some of his to know about him better and whether he likes someone. It might also be possible that he is trying to...

Teen Dating Issues: I really love her from the core of my heart! She is the most sweetest girl I have ever met! Please help!, sweetest girl, shy guy
sweetest girl, shy guy, lovely girl: Hi Akash Just from what you have said, i am not able to tell you if she likes you or not. It does sound like a possibility though if she is talking to her friends about you. It is obviously not an option for you to go and talk to her as like you said you...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating, facebook, straight answers
facebook, straight answers, period class: Hey Juan, thanks for your question. Are you sure you read her actions correctly? You may have mis-judged the situation and she might just like to stare at people. Hence her not replying on facebook and being awkward. Either that, or she s just real shy....

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating Issue, hair etc, couple seconds
hair etc, couple seconds, freind: it sounds like you have tried all you should try for this girl. she doesnt sound very friendly and actually sounds kind of rude if she cant even say hello to you and talk to you. i would say hi to her in passing but dont go out of your way to talk to her....

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Sports Decision, teen sports, competitive sports
teen sports, competitive sports, irish dancing: hi rose, hmmm....i think any sport you do you should do because you like it and not as a competition. any sport you do can be turned into a competition. i think i would just sign up for any and all sports you possibly can and find something you like. you...

Teen Dating Issues: Advice needed..., great memory, new lover
great memory, new lover, gas bills: Not a huge obstacle. I d suggest saying, I was wondering if I could speak with you alone for just a moment. Then take her aside and say that you ve been interested in getting to know her better and were wondering if you could spend some time with her just...

Teen Dating Issues: Advice needed, new lover, new girl
new lover, new girl, own eyes: i think just a simple hello in passing to start. take it slow..dont be afraid to talk to her with her friend around. if she blows you off and is not interested then just back off and move on. if she acts interested then just start talking more to her. good...

Teen Dating Issues: Advice needed., new lover, new girl
new lover, new girl, own eyes: Hi, I think its entirely possible that you became attracted to the new girl because she resembled your old crush. It is hard to completely get an old crush out of your mind. If thinking about the new girl makes you think of your old crush, it may be harder...

Teen Dating Issues: Boyfriend's Parents, menstrual periods, college freshman
menstrual periods, college freshman, awkward questions: hi skye, what does your bf say about all this? i am just wondering why he hasn t had a talk with his family and polity ask them to stop questioning you like that. your right, it is very rude of them to ask you these things. if a talk with your bf and...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating an older guy, possiblity, sandi
possiblity, sandi, 10 years: i understand. here is the thing, if you live with your parents and your 16 then they can pretty much tell you to stop seeing him. it might a little hard for them to enforce it but they could also get this guy in trouble too. i still think you should stop...

Teen Dating Issues: Double Standards, sex before marriage, sexual acts
sex before marriage, sexual acts, pecks: if your bf believes that strongly in no sex before marriage, including not touching your breasts, then hopefully he would not loose interest in you because of it. i understand everyone believes differently about this subject but personally i think its...

Teen Dating Issues: First Base Forever, conservative environment, sexual acts
conservative environment, sexual acts, pecks: Hi, Thanks for the question. I don t think you need to worry about your relationship being in danger because of this. As long as both of you are okay with not getting physical it does not affect your relationship. He might be coming from a conservative...

Teen Dating Issues: forbidden love, talking to a brick wall, great relationship
talking to a brick wall, great relationship, loving guy: Vanessa, I would not give up. Talk to your mother and tell her you respect her wishes, but explain that you need to know when you will be allowed to date. If she can t give you an age, then ask her what she needs from you. What can you do to show her you...

Teen Dating Issues: issues with seeing my boyfriend, long distance relationship, brother works
long distance relationship, brother works, true loves: Hi, Thanks for the question. I think the best thing would be to talk to him about this and tell him you feel that you two don t see each other often enough. You two should work out ways how can meet. It is possible that he might be ignoring you for some...

Teen Dating Issues: Jealousy, control freak, low self esteem
control freak, low self esteem, boy friends: hi amber, i am not a therapist so i really cant give you ideas like a therapist might be able to. i wonder if talking to a professional about this would help. it sounds like you are already doing one of the things i was going to mention, which was spend...

Teen Dating Issues: New boyfriend???, intimate relationship, new boyfriend
intimate relationship, new boyfriend, saying things: i think the only way to approach it is to be completely honest with him. if you have been friends first then this usually makes saying things like this much easier. i know its easier said then done but i think you just need to go for it and tell him. also,...

Teen Dating Issues: New boyfriend???!, relationship websites, intimate relationship
relationship websites, intimate relationship, intimate experience: Hi, Thanks for the question. Its completely normal to feel nervous about your first intimate experience. You should not worry too much about it. If you are really scared you can talk with your friends or look up some relationship websites while will help...

Teen Dating Issues: please i need advice, traumatic situation, nightmares
traumatic situation, nightmares, different ways: hey april. i would think that even though you weren t raped, you probably were in a very traumatic situation. i would recommend you get some professional counseling to help. i dont know your age but if your young and living with your parents i would say talk...

Teen Dating Issues: problems, kerry ann, broken girl
kerry ann, broken girl, magic answer: hi, if you dont think you can trust him then i would breakup. sounds easier said then done, i know. but you dont want to be with someone you cant trust. you need to work on your trust issues before being in a relationship. if that means being single...

Teen Dating Issues: Triangle, random funny facts, courting alex
random funny facts, courting alex, childhood crush: if you think alex would be really upset that you asked him out then i wouldnt even go there. just be friends with him. if you think she would be totally cool with it then maybe you should give liam a little nudge. maybe bring up the topic about how you...

Teen Dating Issues: Troubled Teenager...., troubled teenager, early girl
troubled teenager, early girl, female friends: Aman, all you can do is try to talk to her yourself. Girls appreciate courage, and while her friend has told you the girl doesn t LIKE boys, perhaps she ll like one who cares enough to at least try to be her friend. It does sound, however, like she needs...

Teen Dating Issues: Where do I stand?, random funny facts, courting alex
random funny facts, courting alex, childhood crush: Kat, the first thing I would do is speak to Alex. Ask her how she feels about Liam. Ask her if she plans to reciprocate his courtship IF he ever makes a move. If she isn t crazy about him or doesn t plan to reciprocate, then tell her how you feel. Otherwise,...

Teen Dating Issues: Advice needed - will this work?, boys with boys, friendzone
boys with boys, friendzone, back massage: Thank you, Anders, for that sweet compliment. I hope my advice to you is as professional. First, I do not think giving a girl a massage is a good ice breaker. I agree with your friend that it is a little creepy, at least early on. I think it might be...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating, senior prom, talking to girls
senior prom, talking to girls, good sense of humor: Hi, Will. I appreciate your straightforward question. I hope I can help. It sounds like you are already talking to girls, so that s a huge hurdle that many boys can seem to clear. Now, to go from there to asking a girl out, what is missing? 1. Build...

Teen Dating Issues: Does my ex girlfriend still love me after a year and a half?, emotional roller coaster, erratic behavior
emotional roller coaster, erratic behavior, early dismissal: Hi, I guess that her hanging out with you could mean that she still loves you but I would that its more possible that she has started accepting you as a friend. You two were close for around a year so its no surprise that she likes being with you, though...

Teen Dating Issues: lost in love, relif, believ
relif, believ, separate ways: Hi, Vanessa. It may be a cop out, but I m a big believer in What will be, will be. It s an old saying that means that you can t really write your fate; you can only control yourself, so what happens BEYOND that just happens. You have to accept that....

Teen Dating Issues: Please help me out with this girl..., early girl, female friends
early girl, female friends, fantasized: it sounds like you will need a lot of patience with this girl. i would just take it really slow and try to talk to her little by little. a simple hello and a smile to start. see if you can just spend a few minutes talking to her. nothing complicated just simple...

Teen Dating Issues: Am I being unreasonable?, legal ties, mom and dad
legal ties, mom and dad, real sisters: Hi, I think that since your boyfriend had known her for a long time and thinks of her as a sister, there is nothing to be jealous of. Since, she is almost a sister to him there is nothing to be jealous of. You should try to explain to him that you don t...

Teen Dating Issues: What should I do?, obstacle course, good eye
obstacle course, good eye, 1on1: i dont think you said or did anything wrong. hanging out is perfectly fine to start with. i think you should go to her work and spend some time there. maybe before your ready to leave ask her again for her number and tell her you would like to take her out...

Teen Dating Issues: What to do?, toilet seat, friends birthday
toilet seat, friends birthday, drinker: this guy doesnt sound like much of a friend if he dogs on you when your not around. especially to the girl he knows you like. i would confront him about saying these things to your crush. i think its also time to let him know you dont appreciate him saying...

Teen Dating Issues: should I ask her, trip to spain, mutual friends
trip to spain, mutual friends, financial implications: James, I don t think it s weird, not if you explain it to her like that. Just say, My other friends backed out, but I still have my reservations. I know we are still kind of early in our dating, so I m not trying to rush anything, but I d like it if you...

Teen Dating Issues: my best friend's crush likes me?, sara sara, friend sara
sara sara, friend sara, fake names: your in a tuff spot. personally i dont think any guy should come between a friendship. what do you think sara would say if you asked her if you could date jack? maybe she would be ok with it? it sounds like she realizes she doesnt have a chance with jack....

Teen Dating Issues: BF + BFF problem!, boy friend, bestfriend
boy friend, bestfriend, best friend: have you talked to your bff about this? im just wondering if would mind you dating him. if your not that close to her then i would maybe just continue to date him. if you want to be friends with her then i would have a talk and see how she feels about you...

Teen Dating Issues: boy/parent troubles, sudden deluge, female relatives
sudden deluge, female relatives, baggy clothes: Being Muslim is important. One of my best friends is Muslim, and I am not, and we do things very differently. I don t try to pretend I understand any religion, not even my own, so I stay clear of advising people on how to deal with issues in their lives...

Teen Dating Issues: boy troubles, time hope, haired girl
time hope, haired girl, first move: Hi, From what I could understand you two more of drifted apart than broke up. You should let him know that you are interested in dating him. I guess you can text him more often and suggest meeting up sometimes or have a talk in your school. If you don t...

Teen Dating Issues: Boyfriend, awkward silence, vin diesel
awkward silence, vin diesel, fantasizing: Cayla, first, it is normal for both guys and girls to fantasize about attractive, famous people. What is NOT normal is to do it while you are with your guy in a romantic setting. THAT is simply a form of mental cheating. If your boyfriend cannot turn you...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused!, high school sophomore, pet names
high school sophomore, pet names, third time: i think its time to break up. she is saying these things for a reason. dating is all about finding what you like and dont like in a person. since this is your first relationship i think its time to find someone else to date and see what else is out there....

Teen Dating Issues: Should I invite her with me?, purity of heart, church volunteer
purity of heart, church volunteer, cancer ward: It sounds like you need to find meaning in your life, something you can truly feel proud of. It will take the focus off of those surface characteristics, like looks, and put the focus on life meaning, what you are doing to contribute to a better world, your...

Teen Dating Issues: Relationships, sandi, best friends
sandi, best friends, hasn: friends can tell each other things. or at least they should be able to. sarah just needs to let jane know whats going on. jane is going to find out sooner or later anyways. its better she finds out from sarah and not from someone else. jane doesnt need to...

Teen Dating Issues: showering together, communication key, next level
communication key, next level, time period: how old are you? if you want to shower with her then i would assume you are wanting to take your relationship to the next level? i dont know how well you both communicate but this is something you just need to talk about. have you talked about sex at all with...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating, math class, nasty things
math class, nasty things, one of the guys: Do you know if your ex is saying nasty things about you? all you can really do is be yourself and let this guy make his mind up. if he is really that stupid to listen to what his friend says and not find out for himself then you probably dont want to date...

Teen Dating Issues: I want him back!, cyber sex, good luck
cyber sex, good luck, relationships: you cant make him want to get back with you. why would you want him back anyways? he doesnt believe you or trust you. relationships should be about trust and communication. it doesnt sound like he trusts you. you can only do or say so much to him. i would...

Teen Dating Issues: What to do, girl friends, hardships
girl friends, hardships, whole life: Delilah, first, I would never advise you how to have a relationship without your mom getting suspicious. Honesty is the foundation of ALL relationships, including you and the boy and you and your mother. If this boy allowed you to sneak behind your mother...

Teen Dating Issues: What are we?, waiter, golf course
waiter, golf course, shoulders: yeah i think i would consider the two of you dating. im kind of surprised he hasnt kissed you though. maybe he doesnt want to get too attached to you since he is going away. do you want to get any closer to him since he is going away? i guess you could try...

Teen Dating Issues: What to do?, 4 months, cousin
4 months, cousin, good luck: i think you should just leave her alone for now. when she gets back i think you deserve an explanation from her as to why she just stopped talking to you. maybe she found someone else in Europe..who knows. either way she needs to be open and honest with you....

Teen Dating Issues: what to do?, t text, 4 months
t text, 4 months, cousin: Hi there Kevin! hope you don t mind me answering your question! It is so darn confusing when this happens! well if you are sure that she liked you before, then feelings like that don t usually go away so quickly, so try not to doubt them..unless perhaps...

Teen Dating Issues: Boys
Hi Kiara, It sounds like your doing the right thing. I would find a good time when you can catch him alone. spend a few minutes talking to him. Nothing big or special, just a little hello how are you. That way he can get to know you better in person. Let...

Teen Dating Issues: i dont know if he likes me or not
Hey Maddie, sorry for the late reply. I can see your dilemma. I know the awkwardness must have been high and your heart possibly decided to be 100 miles per hour at the time. You might have been feeling weird all over. So trust me, we ve all be here at...

Teen Dating Issues: Hard to move on
Hi Jade, In general its hard to think about what could have been. It probably would have been easier for you if you had dated him. You might have found out that you really didn t like him as a bf. But the end result is that you really have no choice. You...

Teen Dating Issues: helping daughter with great inner turmoil
Hey Kim, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: Have boyfriend don't know how to tell people about him
Hey Kaitlyn, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in...

Teen Dating Issues: Boys
Hey Colleen, Well you are really thinking a lot and am happy atleast you sat back and struck off one name from the list. Now you are in win-win situation. Go ahead with elder brother and confess your feelings to him. Don t become an easy prey for him, else...

Teen Dating Issues: Did I creep her out?
Hi Tom, I doubt you freaked her out, but, I would start having a normal conversation with her. Spend a few minutes a day getting to know her better. Ask her questions about herself..hopefully she will ask you some questions too. Try and do this away from...

Teen Dating Issues: two guys
Hey Avada, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: i really need help
Hi How would you feel if you asked him to be bf and gf and he said yes? How would it be having a bf all the way across the usa? If your fine with it then i think you should pursue it. I have a feeling he is thinking the same thing. He may want to be more...

Teen Dating Issues: Son embarrassed by present he received
Hey Julie, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: what do you think?
Hey Maria, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: Am I too young to be in Love?
Hi Emily, Personally I think 17 is to young to truly be in love with a boy. You should be dating and finding out what you like and dont like. It doesnt mean you shouldnt or wont have feelings towards a guy. But just dont think he is the only one for you....

Teen Dating Issues: Crush jealous
Hey Tyvon, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: What's my ex doing here?, homecoming dance, o clock
homecoming dance, o clock, empty chair: Lydia, the only way to find out what he wants is to ask him. Or, you can just continue to hang in there and see where it goes. The important thing is what do YOU want? If you want something out of this, then make it happen. Some of what you describe...

Teen Dating Issues: This guy is so confusing!, friend ashley, outer shell
friend ashley, outer shell, friend jim: well it sounds like he maybe expects you to not like him so he is putting up this mean front so he doesn t get hurt. i would actually be open with him and ask him this question. it sounds like he trusts you and tell you a lot of stuff. it might also be...

Teen Dating Issues: So lost.., dirt bike, physical fight
dirt bike, physical fight, glovebox: Number one, always use condoms for sex. Only fools don t use them unless married or trying to have children. The pill is not 100% effective, even the shot. Condoms aren t either, but it s better than nothing at all. If you re not having sex at all and he has...

Teen Dating Issues: love problems, ears, couples
ears, couples, relationship: Talking to him can never hurt, he needs to know how you feel in order for him to know how to get better at something or fix any issues. If you feel neglected, he needs to know. You need to tell him that, it feels as if he isn t into the relationship as...

Teen Dating Issues: Marko..., girlfriend stephanie, insurance premiums
girlfriend stephanie, insurance premiums, capible: Hi Evan, first off, we at AllExperts do not make decisions for people. Ultimately, it s up to the person. We re just here to help shed light on stuff. Now, as you may have noticed from other questions I answered or my profile, I don t mince words. I am kind...

Teen Dating Issues: Money vs GF, girlfriend stephanie, insurance premiums
girlfriend stephanie, insurance premiums, capible: My initial response: A relationship is about trust and support. If you don t trust her enough to drive your car, why are you with her? And if you really worry about her needing you, then either allow her to use the better car or convince her it s too risky....

Teen Dating Issues: myboyfriend and i are drifting apart, different town, serious relationship
different town, serious relationship, single day: once or twice a week doesnt sound all that bad. your young and have so much more to go through in life. i dont believe he is the only person or thing that can make you happy. if thats really true then i think you should break up with him now and find yourself....

Teen Dating Issues: I need advice, eachother, 7 months
eachother, 7 months, best friends: You re very welcome! And the best thing to do is just say it naturally and in the moment, because if you plan it it could come out a bit wrong, but do whatever works and feels comfortable for you, and anyway don t worry about how you say it I m sure she...

Teen Dating Issues: I need an answer, marriage and kids, age gap
marriage and kids, age gap, power sex: Number one, while this may seem harsh, never look to heavy into every action, text, thing said, etc. Girls that are clingy or overbearing, or those who are overdramatic throw guys off. By getting rid of all that, you then can think with a clear brain, mind,...

Teen Dating Issues: I need your opinion, eachother, 7 months
eachother, 7 months, best friends: hey kevin. i understand how you feel. you are in a tuff spot. i think being open with her is a good idea. you two sound close so i think she would appreciate you telling her how you feel. now..what you need to decide is do you want to continue to try and be...

Teen Dating Issues: relationship issue, relationship issue, open conversation
relationship issue, open conversation, network chat: Hi Kumarika! Thanks for the question, really like your name by the way! Well the good thing is you know it s not a problem with you or your relationship that s causing him to act like this with you, which is more then most people know anyway! I can see why...

Teen Dating Issues: Going steady, 19 years, good luck
19 years, good luck, confidence: Hi there Alberto! Thanks for the message, So I m guessing if you re onit you both like each other, use this as your source of confidence, this girl likes you, and depending on how long you ve been onit for she probably wants you to ask her out, otherwise...

Teen Dating Issues: Weird 'Friend', weird friend, facebook
weird friend, facebook, high grades: Hey Sumerijah! Thanks for the question, love your name by the way! and your very welcome it s what I m here for :) and don t worry your English is great, understood everything perfectly! So first off, you help this guy with his problems online, but in...

Teen Dating Issues: What should I do?, what should i do question, lucky escape
what should i do question, lucky escape, face and body: Something that might help calm your nerves is to know that she is probably feeling just as nervous too so it s not just you, use this as something to help you calm down, that she s not going to judge you or anything like that because it s normally hard for...

Teen Dating Issues: Boy Trouble, old flames, boy trouble
old flames, boy trouble, 10th grade: Try flirting - not super obvious stuff, but subtle things, like using his name when you speak to him. Hold eye contact with him just a little longer than is comfortable. Smile with your eyes, or reach out and touch his arm. Those are all little things that...

Teen Dating Issues: Communication issues, communication issues, lack of communication
communication issues, lack of communication, flirty: hi hannah, it sounds like you have done everything you probably should. you confronted him and asked him whats up. at this point you need to decide how you want to precede. you can either break up and try to just remain friends or continue to see how things...

Teen Dating Issues: Communication Problems, decent guy, communication problems
decent guy, communication problems, layla: Hi Layla, It could be that he is just very reserved and doesn t like to open up to people. Or maybe he is a little shy. Either way I think its important to have that open dialog with him, which it sounds like you do. A month seems like a decent amount of...

Teen Dating Issues: Jealousy in Long Distance Relationship, long distance relationship, long distance relationships
long distance relationship, long distance relationships, guy friend: Long distance relationships are hard enough, bringing another girl in the mix who is just a friend can only make it more difficult. If you really believe that this girl is just a friend and nothing more then you just have to trust him. I know its hard....

Teen Dating Issues: I need advice on a girl i'm going to the junior prom with and need help finding out what happened here, junior prom, prom date
junior prom, prom date, lollipop: no girl is worth getting depressed over and cutting yourself. i dont know how old you are but things will get better. you will find the right girl trust me. everyone goes through some depression and hurt when they get rejected, its normal. you will get...

Teen Dating Issues: Sex stuff, using tampons, hymens
using tampons, hymens, couple questions: Hi Jared, Everyone is different and hymen size and how easy it can be broken varies. Its completely possible that your gf already has broken it especially if she is using tampons. If not then fingering her can break it as well. Being a virgin does not always...

Teen Dating Issues: Can't get her off my mind, math class, great friends
math class, great friends, tough times: That is noble, but if she jumps from one relationship to the next with no break in between, you won t get a break unless you take one. Perhaps you should explain that you ve been wanting to tell her for a while, but the time was never right, and fearing...

Teen Dating Issues: Advice, 14 year old boys, math algebra
14 year old boys, math algebra, algebra ii: Clara, I d say work on the friendship for now. If he s had a girlfriend, then he is definitely interested in girls (some 14 year old boys are not, yet). So, show him via your friendship that you share his values and would make a good girlfriend. Practice...

Teen Dating Issues: my best friend's girlfriend, clear proof, romantic interest
clear proof, romantic interest, hearsay: Rose, your only business is your relationship with this guy, not his relationship with another. That would be your business if you were dating, but as his friend, and especially as someone who has a romantic interest in him, any interference would appear...

Teen Dating Issues: break it to my parents, alowed, illegal act
alowed, illegal act, age of consent: Celia, I apologize. Your question was short, so I shouldn t have been confused, but I admit I was. I often get questions about people dating WAY outside their age range, and I simply jumped to conclusions. If your boyfriend is 13, as are you, then you are...

Teen Dating Issues: CONFUZZLED!, friend taylor, worth the risk
friend taylor, worth the risk, taking a risk: Hi, You obviously really like this guy and would like to go out with him. I think that its always possible that things may not work out between you two but there is a probability that they will. You should decide yourself if you like this guy enough to...

Teen Dating Issues: A crush, female friend, bestfriend
female friend, bestfriend, boys and girls: Don t rush it. Let time do its thing. You just stay true to yourself while building a friendship with him. Good romances are built on solid friendships; if it grows to something stronger than that, great. If it doesn t work out, don t curse it or wish...

Teen Dating Issues: Why is ex bf doing this?, sandi, feelings
sandi, feelings, insight: Hi April, My opinion is who cares if he still likes you. He is not being consistent with his messages to you. He is hot and cold. Be his friend if you think you can. If not I would be nice to him and say hello but move on. Find someone else to date. If...

Teen Dating Issues: Friends, math algebra, algebra ii
math algebra, algebra ii, lunch table: Hi Clara, I think you should try and have more contact with him outside of school. Try and get his phone number. Text him and call him on occasion. Do you think you could do that? I wouldn t just ask him out. Get to know him better outside of school first...

Teen Dating Issues: It's getting hard, cassius, gf
cassius, gf, girlfriend: Hi Cassius, Yes you are young and will have different girlfriends. I wouldn t be so caught up in this one girl. And unfortunently your GF needs to respect what her mother says even though its probably completely wrong. Can your GF talk to her mother...

Teen Dating Issues: kiss question, kiss question, youtube
kiss question, youtube, first move: Hi, You don t need to over think about this. Kissing is just a way of expressing your love and you can do it when both of you feel ready. If you feel that he also wants to kiss you but is too shy you can make the first move but you don t need to plan it...

Teen Dating Issues: i need adivce on this girl i like., concession stand, project presentations
concession stand, project presentations, period class: Next time, instead of asking for her number, ask if you can give her yours. That way there is no mistaking getting the number right or her intentions. It puts the ball in her court, and if she doesn t call, you know. And I ll be honest...I don t think...

Teen Dating Issues: I need advice on this girl i like., concession stand, project presentations
concession stand, project presentations, period class: Hi Dakota, Yes it sounds like she has an interest in you. I would call her and see how things go. Take it slow and just think of her as a friend for now. Get to know her better. Ask her questions about herself and her family. Talk about her friends and...

Teen Dating Issues: i need advice on this girl., flowers and gifts, sandi
flowers and gifts, sandi, affection: Hi Dakota, You should listen to your family and friends and me! :) Tone it down. Girls like to be surprised. If your always giving her gifts then its no longer a surprise. Stop giving her gifts for awhile. Then if you want to give her something now and...

Teen Dating Issues: i need advice on this girl., signs of affection, flowers and gifts
signs of affection, flowers and gifts, little space: Dakota, I agree with your teacher. The girl is telling you as nicely as she can that she s not interested, at least not now. The best way to impress her is to show her that you are listening. This will mean standing up to yourself. You are attached, so...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help deciding on what to do., t rush, meaningful activities
t rush, meaningful activities, rule of thumb: Girls give guys the wrong number as a way of getting rid of them. It s an old trick, but it is an easy way to avoid having to tell a guy, I m not into you. I think she tried to tell you that by saying no a couple of times, but you were persistent, so she...

Teen Dating Issues: Obsession, mixed signals, school trip
mixed signals, school trip, bestfriend: Hi Salma, There is only one way to know how he feels about you, ask! :) I know you want him to make the first move but it doesn t always work out that way. I think you should find a good time when you can talk to him alone. Spend some time just chatting...

Teen Dating Issues: SOOO CONFUZZLED!, question pool, ill feelings
question pool, ill feelings, bffl: Wendy, it seems like I ve answered this question before, but it showed back up in my question pool, so I ll give it another go. How do you feel about this boy? Does he share your values? Would you be proud to hang out with him with your family? Could...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Dating Issues/Parent Issues, statutory rape, tae kwon
statutory rape, tae kwon, law changes: Bailey, your mom is not the only one who has a say in whether or not you can date this boy. It is very much against the law. The law changes from place to place, but in most places in the US, it is illegal for someone to date another who is 2 years younger...

Teen Dating Issues: Approaching a Girl, female perspective, attractive girl
female perspective, attractive girl, new girl: The best way to approach a girl is NOT as an admirer but as a friend. This especially true if your current attraction is based on just thinking she s attractive. This means you probably don t know anything about her, her values, interests, etc. If you...

Teen Dating Issues: How do i ask a girl to hook me up with a girl?, some girls
some girls: Hi Dakota, Honestly I have no idea..lol :) I have never asked someone to hook me up before. Does Taylor really know what your asking? I am assuming you are wanting a girl to have sex with? Why not just start asking some girls out? Sandi ...

Teen Dating Issues: I attracted only to men over 30s, mental health system, mental health care
mental health system, mental health care, old boyfriend: Nikki, I can t tell you why, but I think you already know. You need to talk to someone, a therapist or a psychologist. You describe a young woman who is struggling with father issues, and that s not something you and I can fix by email. It s very dangerous....

Teen Dating Issues: A girl I met online, mixed signals, vhs tapes
mixed signals, vhs tapes, music games: Hi Luke, Short answer..hard to say :) Why haven t you met? I would set a date to meet and see how it goes. Nothing crazy, just coffee or a quick lunch maybe. Have you asked her to meet? I think that s the only way to really see where things go. You...

Teen Dating Issues: Lying? Judging?, cute things, great don
cute things, great don, last question: Hello, It s always possible that he could be lying. I would follow your heart and instinct. If you really feel he is not lying and is sincere then great. Don t listen to your friends, they might just be jealous. I would also consider who is a true friend...

Teen Dating Issues: I need advice on this girl i saw at prom. Please Help!, cedra, having a good time
cedra, having a good time, ticket machine: No, Dakota, I don t. I don t ever think asking a friend for info on a friend of theirs is wise. As for the girl, don t rush it. Just be her friend, and also, don t hover. Let her know you are friendly but busy with your life, but you will make time for...

Teen Dating Issues: i need help figuring out girls., dealing with rejection, typical beauty
dealing with rejection, typical beauty, outer core: Hi, Dakota. I d recommend going back to a therapist, because you ve grown and matured, and your needs today are different than they might have been even a few months ago. The fact that you pressure yourself to rush into a relationship even though you know...

Teen Dating Issues: Not sure, sandi, rebecca
sandi, rebecca, feelings: Hi Rebecca, Have you dated him at all? If your not sure then I think you should be honest with him and let him know your not sure how you feel about him. Nothing wrong with that. Dating is about getting finding out what you like and dont like in a person....

Teen Dating Issues: boy problem, summer vaction, one of my best friends
summer vaction, one of my best friends, facebook: Hi Shayna, I think you should back off a bit and trust what he says. It doesn t sound like he has given you any reason to not trust him. Give him some space and let him get through these tests. If things dont change after that then you will have to decide...

Teen Dating Issues: Crushed Crush, thts, facebook
thts, facebook, good luck: Hi, Do you plan on talking to her in person? I think that would be the best option for you. Just keep it simple and light. Say hello..ask her hoe she is doing. Think of a topic you can bring up that might allow to talk to her for a few minutes. Just enough...

Teen Dating Issues: Crushing, couple times, jacqueline
couple times, jacqueline, confidence: Hi Jacqueline, If he knew you liked him and he showed signs that he liked you as well, and then goes out and starts dating someone else...not cool on his part. I think you should either just be friends and stop thinking of him as anything more. Or talk...

Teen Dating Issues: I got a girl extremely pissed at me., asking for forgiveness, close friends
asking for forgiveness, close friends, prick: Hi Daniel, Wow...her response seems a bit over the top. She did basically ignore you for no good reason. She could have least told you why she didn t want to add you and why she did not respond at all. Honestly I would leave her alone and don t talk...

Teen Dating Issues: Is this girl for me or should i go for any girl at all?, class vice president, having a good time
class vice president, having a good time, first kiss: Hi Dakota, I understand you have low self esteem but you just have to go for it! :) Find a good time when you can talk to her alone and give your phone number and tell her you would like to hang out sometime. Now the ball is in her court. If she wants...

Teen Dating Issues: helppppp, job
job: Hi Yasmine, I think you need to tell him who you are and just start a conversation with him. Does he know what you look like? You just have to keep putting yourself out there and see what happens. He might not be interested but that s ok too. Sand...

Teen Dating Issues: Is it infatuation?, back of my mind, infatuation
back of my mind, infatuation, alexis: Hi Alexis, Probably because you really don t know anything about him. Who knows, if you got to know him you might not like him and he would eventually get out of your mind. :) Do you have any way of contacting him to see if he wants to hang out? That...

Teen Dating Issues: Have i messed it up with this girl? Is it worth trying again? Please reply soon!, boring conversation, girl thing
boring conversation, girl thing, crazy guy: Hi, It s too hard to judge if she is into you or not. She could be smiling for any reason, but since you are obviously into her and tomorrow s the last time you will see her I think you should ask her out. You have nothing to lose anyway and it s better...

Teen Dating Issues: Mom vs. Bf?, sleep 2, magnetic pull
sleep 2, magnetic pull, honest guy: Best thing is to work with your mom, NOT Nana. Sorry to assume, but that sounds like sneaking, and you don t sound like that kind of person to me. I really respect your relationship and your honesty when it comes to your mom. It s a rare and admirable thing,...

Teen Dating Issues: Is my boyfriend moving to fast physically?, sex lol, mutual friends
sex lol, mutual friends, tiny bit: Hi Nabilah, Well guys like sex..lol. I m sure he likes you. That doesn t mean you should have sex with him though. You need to do what you feel comfortable doing. If you don t want to move this fast then make sure you let him know. You are in control of...

Teen Dating Issues: Former Best Friend and Now Friend With Benefits, friend kat, high school football
friend kat, high school football, sophomore year: Hi, You have to decide if you want to wait around for her or not. You cant force her to be in a relationship with you. Maybe just being friends is the best option right now. If I were you I would have a open and frank discussion with her. Tell her how you...

Teen Dating Issues: Is there a girl for me soon?, graduation test, first girlfriend
graduation test, first girlfriend, puppy love: Hi Dakota, You shouldn t force anything. If you see a girl you like then start talking to her. Take it slow and dont worry so much about finding someone to date. Eventually someone will come along and you will click with her. Then when you feel the time...

Teen Dating Issues: My Girlfriend's Mother, multiple personality disorder, perfect teeth
multiple personality disorder, perfect teeth, time stress: Hi Vinnie, Any parent is going to be very protective of their son or daughter. I m sure because of your history of getting into trouble this is not helping. You need to spend some time around her mother so she can get to know you better and see what kind...

Teen Dating Issues: hey, closed doors, new girl
closed doors, new girl, cloths: Hi Steve, My opinion is she might like you and might even want to get physical with you...but...I wouldn t do anything if I were you. How would you feel if she was your gf and another guy was pushing to have sex with her? It s not cool for her to be flirting...

Teen Dating Issues: Long distance relationship and college, long distance relationships, long distance relationship
long distance relationships, long distance relationship, many different things: Hi, It s great to see you are dealing with this maturely. The most important thing that I think you two should discuss is the rules of your relationship. College is full of new experiences and its easy to get carried away specially if you haven t discussed...

Teen Dating Issues: Love/Cheating, slap in the face, lucky guy
slap in the face, lucky guy, distaste: Hi Greg, Sounds like you have a gf that doesn t really care about your feelings. I find it very disrespectful that she would give him her number. Dating is about finding the person that has the qualities you are looking for. She doesn t sound like that...

Teen Dating Issues: At a StandStill, confusing mess, what will happen this year
confusing mess, what will happen this year, facebook: Hi Bianca, Dating is all about finding the person that best fits with you. It just sounds like maybe this is not the right guy for you. You don t want to try and change anybody. If this is how he is and your not ok with it then I think you should breakup...

Teen Dating Issues: Boyfriend's mother is tearing us apart, old boyfriend, 9 months
old boyfriend, 9 months, old girl: Hey Katelyn, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in...

Teen Dating Issues: boyfriend problems, boyfriend problems, facebook
boyfriend problems, facebook, different girls: Hey Amber, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: He doesn't want to commit yet, boyfriend and girlfriend, high school football
boyfriend and girlfriend, high school football, angry messages: Hi Gabby I dont think its wrong for him to not want a serious relationship right now after getting out of one. I think you should respect that. I also think if he doesnt want to be in an official relationship with you then you should stop being physical...

Teen Dating Issues: why does a ex need space and time to think?, marital bond, possessiveness
marital bond, possessiveness, mind games: Hey Maria, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: Ex wants space, space and time, feelings
space and time, feelings, few days: Hi, It might be that he still has feelings for you and finds it difficult to be your friend. Or he might just not be comfortable thinking about you as a friends and needs some time to adjust. You can try talking to him about it and try to work out a solution....

Teen Dating Issues: Falling in... And out of love., shallow person, skinny guys
shallow person, skinny guys, sixpacks: Hi Merida, Wow..umm..I think the only thing I can really say here is break up with him and take some time to better understand what your looking for in a relationship. Why would you want to stay with such a shallow rude person? Dont have sex with him just...

Teen Dating Issues: In love with brother's friend, mature gals, brother my brother
mature gals, brother my brother, marital bond: Hey Jade, Well in my view I would advice you to spend time with the person and have some nice moment, in case you are emotional person , then would advice not be physical. But, we don t get to be with person whom we like or love as we keep worrying about...

Teen Dating Issues: I like a much older coworker, old hope, coworkers
old hope, coworkers, good time: Hi Tash, My first concern would be any legal issues. I m not a lawyer and don t know the laws but it may not be a good idea to do anything. My second concern is his age. No 30 year old guy should be pursuing a 17 year old. I understand you having feelings...

Teen Dating Issues: The slowest relationship ever, studying medicine, astounding number
studying medicine, astounding number, guy friend: Hi, I can understand exactly how you feel. You really like him and must feel restless if you don t talk ever for a day. But you are not sure how he feels about you and are reluctant to talk about it since it might come in between your friendship. I wish...

Teen Dating Issues: Won't commit to me yet, boyfriend and girlfriend, high school football
boyfriend and girlfriend, high school football, angry messages: Hey Gabby, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: There is this close friend that I like, but she lied to me, plastic animals, toy animals
plastic animals, toy animals, europe trip: Hey Joe, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused, mid term exams, smart guy
mid term exams, smart guy, messes: Hi Aria, Talk to him about it. Its completely unfair for him to ignore you like he did. You deserve to know why and whats going on with him, especially if your that close. Find a time when just the two of you can talk without interruption. Just be open...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused, mid term exams, smart guy
mid term exams, smart guy, messes: Hi, I m glad to see you dealing with the problem in a mature way. I think you are right that he is confused about his feelings for you and maybe he is not ready for a relationship. You should think about if you are ready to wait for him to decide if he...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused, mid term exams, smart guy
mid term exams, smart guy, messes: Hey Aria, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating/Guys, relationship counsellor, mental peace
relationship counsellor, mental peace, emotional way: Hey Olivia, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in...

Teen Dating Issues: Would dating her make me a jerk?, relationship counsellor, lame excuse
relationship counsellor, lame excuse, grade 9: Hey Jackson, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. Kudos to you !!! Well the...

Teen Dating Issues: I dont know what to do!, practical world, helping hand
practical world, helping hand, kudos: Hey Erin, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: Homecoming Problems :/, mixed feelings, homecoming
mixed feelings, homecoming, hc: Hi Bree, I think its fine to be jealous he is going with another girl. I don t think it means you like him in a boyfriend type of way. What girl wouldn t be a little jealous if a guy picked another girl. I also don t really like this guy..lol. Its not...

Teen Dating Issues: Homecoming Troubles :/, mixed feelings, homecoming
mixed feelings, homecoming, hc: Hey Bree, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I keep trying to get my crush?, bestie, insecurities
bestie, insecurities, school year: Hi It shouldn t be about him giving you a second or third chance. If he likes you then he shouldn t care what you might say or do because your nervous. I think you should get to know him better. I think you should find a time to go up to him when he...

Teen Dating Issues: love tri, love triangle, lab partner
love triangle, lab partner, true self: Hey Jacky, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in pouring...

Teen Dating Issues: What should i do in order to get her?, pep rally, cheerleader uniform
pep rally, cheerleader uniform, cheerleaders: Hi Dakota, You should do what your doing and keep it going. Go up to her and say hi. Carry on a conversation with her for a few minutes. Smile, be polite and nice to her. If things go well then eventually you should ask her for her phone number and if you...

Teen Dating Issues: Are we ready?, walking on eggshells, having sex for the first time
walking on eggshells, having sex for the first time, sure things: Thanks...My advice would be to follow your heart. Your young and the chances of you staying with this guy are not great. Sorry to say that and I realize you are in love with him. I also don t think you should have to convince someone to stay with you. That...

Teen Dating Issues: still has feelings?, physical pleasure, msot
physical pleasure, msot, wordings: Hello Maria, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in...

Teen Dating Issues: still likes me and has feelings?, msot, good friends
msot, good friends, complement: Hi, There is possibility that he still likes you but he might just be saying this as a friend. I think this is too little to decide anything. You should think if he says these kind of things to you or others regularly and did he say them when you were together....

Teen Dating Issues: I told this girl I had feelings for her, and no response, question pool, share my thoughts
question pool, share my thoughts, chase: Hi Mike, here at AllExperts.com we have a question pool where duplicate or multiple questions are sent when someone cannot or does not have the time to answer them. I came across your question, and thought I d share my thoughts on your situation. Now I...

Teen Dating Issues: What do I do now??, fabulous relationship, soul mates
fabulous relationship, soul mates, bumpy roads: Hi Brittani, Sorry to hear things are so bad for you right now. I understand you are very close with Andy. But....you need to be ok with not talking to him for awhile. You need to get things straightened out in your life if possible. You only have a couple...

Teen Dating Issues: What do I do now?, fabulous relationship, soul mates
fabulous relationship, soul mates, bumpy roads: Hey Brittani, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in...

Teen Dating Issues: Should i break up with him
Hey Diamond, I saw your feedback and wanted to clarify a few things. You don t know how old I am or how old the picture is in my profile. I am not trying to change your moral views at all. I am simply telling you that people change, especially in...

Teen Dating Issues: How can i tell her how i feel?
Dakota, it sounds like a friendship - and a good one at that. Since she is taken, I d suggest that you keep it at just that, friends. Anything else could ruin the foundation of what you do have in an effort to build something you aren t even sure is right....

Teen Dating Issues: What does this tell you about a man?
It tells me he s selfish. He is preying on females who are half his age because he lacks the confidence to be with someone nearer his age. Girls at 16 are just trying to figure out their identities. They don t understand sex or relationships. They don...

Teen Dating Issues: I think I'm in love with a Junior
Hi Justin What is your gut feeling on how she feels about you? Do you think she likes you more then friends? I think after 4 months you should simply ask her out. Dont make it some big thing. I would just say something like, we have been talking for 4...

Teen Dating Issues: I've been pretty much dating a 20 year old for almost a year.
Haley, this is a tough situation you are in. First, I ll address the age difference. Depending on where you live, you might have to wait to date this guy until you are older. There is something called the age of consent. It can vary depending on the state...

Teen Dating Issues: Boy Troubles!!
Hi Forget about all the stuff other people are saying. You will need to get over the whole jealous thing too. Even if you get together with him you dont want to be that jealous girl. No one likes that. Why dont you start talking to him? Find some time...

Teen Dating Issues: Confused , help
Sheila, I think you are both being a little unrealistic. At your age, VERY FEW girls find the man of their dreams. Let me give you a little metaphor: All kids grow up on an island. The island is their family and those people their family allow onto their...

Teen Dating Issues: i like this guy, but
Yes, you should talk to her. She is putting all of her effort into making it look like she s with him when in reality, she isn t making any real effort to get to know him. A romantic relationship is very much like a friendship. How creepy would it be...

Teen Dating Issues: Help me
You are both still very young. There is nothing wrong with having a boyfriend, but he s going away for a while. Are you sure you want to make a commitment at your age to someone you won t see for that amount of time? You say you don t date. Ask yourself...

Teen Dating Issues: Did I really have friends?
Your friends are being very childish. Still, you can t let that become part of the conversation. Yet again, it always helps to hear that YOU, my dear, are NOT the problem. Your friends are just uptight about something. I completely relate to what you are...

Teen Dating Issues: What if he's the right person, and its just the wrong time?
Why don t you tell him your concerns and ask him if there is a 4 or 5 hour time slot once a week where the two of you REFUSE to let anyone or anything come between you? For example, Sunday evening from 5 to 10 PM, it s just the two of you or maybe you and...

Teen Dating Issues: How do I talk to this guy?
Hmmm....How would you feel if you were his girlfriend and you saw another girl talking to him and trying to get to know him? I m not saying you shouldn t do this but just want to make sure you understand how his girlfriend might feel. Who knows, she might...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating
How do you get him to like you? You can t. What I mean is YOU can get him to. That s beyond your control. All you can do is be yourself. If he likes you, great. If he doesn t, nothing you can do will change that. What makes a person likable? Being understanding...

Teen Dating Issues: Dorm Guy
He sounds a bit like my son, who has Aspergers Syndrome. I m not saying this young man does, but Aspergers comes with social anxiety, and maybe this guy just doesn t have the same social skill set you do. He may be extremely quiet, a bit nervous about talking...

Teen Dating Issues: How to shake this feeling for a girl
That s the problem with regret. It s baggage. Until you open it up and unpack, you ll always have baggage. ASK HER OUT! Ask her to grab a coke or a coffee or a pizza. Don t ask her as a date; ask her as a friend. Then, when you are out, tell her about...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he really like me or is he a ladies man?
It is good to know he s serious about his studies. He actually sounds a bit like me. I have a hard time being serious. I find the humor in everything, even when it s inappropriate to be funny at that moment. I like to keep things light. So in that...

Teen Dating Issues: meeting a long distance 'friend'
Hi Charlie Just tell him you want to meet him and you have it planned out. Ask him to commit to it. Set a date. If he cant or wont then i think you should probably move on and find someone local. There is no good or bad way to ask but to just do it. I am...

Teen Dating Issues: Teen Age Difference Advice?
Myaa, there is something called age of consent, which means the age at which leaders in a community believe a young person is ready to make romance choices for herself. It varies from state to state, and I believe cities might even have some changes to...

Teen Dating Issues: Do you think he likes me?
He sounds very kind-hearted. It is nearly impossible to tell if a boys likes a girl or not, even if I could see all the things your describe. Boys are very mysterious, and they don t always realize that they are sending signals or that those signals are...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me or not?
Hi Liana, Not sure if he likes you or is just plane weird..lol :) Its kind of strange that he just stares at you like that. I guess you could go up to him and ask him why he is staring at you. Maybe find a time when he is alone and go ask him? Sandi...

Teen Dating Issues: Help
Hi Sarah, I am not big on playing games like that but maybe in this situation it might be ok :) It could be that he is playing hard to get as well. Maybe before ignoring him I would talk to him in person and ask him why he doesnt respond to your texts....

Teen Dating Issues: Help me
I m not sure about the Whatsapp thing, but I m guessing it s a dating or social app for your phone or computer. It sounds like you have strong opinions about whether or not it s right. since I m not familiar with it at all, I m also naive about why it...

Teen Dating Issues: long- distance relationship
Hi Mari, Long distance relationships are very hard. I think its a good idea to break up and just be friends. I don t like the fact that he is putting this all on you though. This needs to be a decision you both agree to. The next time you talk to him I...

Teen Dating Issues: Why did she say this?
Robi, that makes more sense. I apologize for being so blunt before. I would NOT write her a letter because I still do not know the laws there, and letters are evidence in legal cases. Phone calls are, as well, but unless she records yours, it is the...

Teen Dating Issues: Trying to get over an abusive relationship
Jasmine, you need to see a therapist. They are experts - face to face experts - at helping people get over mental and emotional humps like this. After my divorce (and a break up is very similar to a divorce), I started doing everything for myself. Even...

Teen Dating Issues: Him
Hello, Is this your first boy you have liked? Your young and really its normal to feel this way. It will get easier and better the more you hang around him and the more you start dating. I would try to keep your conversations short to begin with and think...

Teen Dating Issues: The boyfriend
Hi Fran I think it sounds like it might be time to dump Dean. This is what dating is about, finding the person that shares your likes and dislikes. He might grow up but he may not. Either way I think its time to let him know you are growing apart and should...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm completely lost and frightened.
Hi Krista Sorry to hear this. You sound very intelligent for a 15 year old! :) You may have heard this before but its the truth. Your young and shouldnt worry about dating anyone. Someone will come along in your life and it will feel right and happen...

Teen Dating Issues: Help me
I would move on, and if he does contact you again, ignore it. To me, friendship is the basis of ALL good relationships, romantic or not romantic. So, if a guy wants to be friends, he needs to treat you like a friend, and if a guy wants to be a partner,...

Teen Dating Issues: Help me 2
I do remember you, Sarah. A poem is her thing, not yours. What is your thing? What are you good at? Do you bake, draw, sing, what? Don t let this guy manipulate you into trying to compete with this other girl. Be your own Sarah. He s either going...

Teen Dating Issues: Help me 3
I wouldn t get him a cake. That s a privilege reserved for mothers. A nice cookie or a book or music CD would be thoughtful. I do think he is a player. You just have to decide how that fits into your own values. Personally I don t have room for a player...

Teen Dating Issues: How to tell my parents about my online boyfriend?
Becca, talking to a guy on the internet isn t a replacement for counseling. If you are feeling so distraught that you honestly feel like A, B, C, or D might have happened, then you need to seek counseling. Those are all signs that you are trying to deal with...

Teen Dating Issues: Do you think he likes me
Hi Maria Do you think this is a guy you would want to date if you could? Dating is about finding the person who best matches with your personality. And finding someone who can respect you and holds your values. Is that guy? If the answer is no then I think...

Teen Dating Issues: A crush
Hi Jamie I think before you start flirting you should just have a talk. Find a good time when its the 2 of you. Come out and ask him if he has any feelings towards you other then friends. Becoming friends first is a good thing to do before dating. It shows...

Teen Dating Issues: Long distance relationship
Hi, There is no reason that your relationship cannot go on if you trust and love each other. IT is natural to feel frustrated when you haven t met for so long. You need to think about why you are feeling this way, is it because you cannot meet him or if...

Teen Dating Issues: Youth Dating
Hi Jacob. Thank you for contacting me. Here are my answers and opinions to your questions 1. One pro would be that most tomboys are into sports and doing things most guys would do. I think for a guy dating a tomboy this would be beneficial if the guy is...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I just talk to him about my dating fears and inexperience?
You are definitely over thinking it, and that causes stress. First, if he likes you, he likes you. If he doesn t, he doesn t. You want him to like you when you are at your very worst and when you are at your best, so relax. Be yourself. Be quirky, and by...

Teen Dating Issues: LDR
Hi, Staying in a relationship or not is purely your decision. Who say that your boyfriend is caring and sweet. So you should ask yourself why you want to break up with him. If it is just because you feel you might get someone better then there is a chance...

Teen Dating Issues: How to talk to a girl that I barely see anymore?
Hi Tom This sounds pretty easy, just find her and go up to her..lol :) Say hello and ask her if she remembers you. Hopefully she does, if not maybe you can refresh her memory. Talk to her a bit, doesn t have to be long. Ask her for her phone number and...

Teen Dating Issues: How do I talk to a girl not in any of my classes?
You put the ball in her court. Now keep smiling and saying hi, but wait. Once you put the ball in someone s court, it s their ball. If she calls, awesome. If she doesn t, she can t (is dating someone or isn t allowed to date) or isn t interested. Either...

Teen Dating Issues: Worth Waiting?
Hi Rebecca Too bad this guy didnt tell you he was really busy..lol. Not a good start on his part. Since he didnt tell you I would call him (not message him) and just say hello. Talk for a few minutes and then leave it as that. Maybe say something like ...

Teen Dating Issues: I don't know what to do anymore
Trust is the foundation to a healthy relationship. If you cannot trust, you cannot truly love. I m not sure who is telling the truth; there would be no way for me to determine that. However, the guy obviously comes with some baggage. Either he s dating two...

Teen Dating Issues: Tragic Confusion over his love
Hello Priya, Thanks for writing in and dropping a word. It takes a lot to open up about issues in the back of the mind and when its related to our heart, it takes guts to pen down left alone talk with someone about the same. I appreciate your gesture in...

Teen Dating Issues: My Ex
Hi, You have written what your ex wants, but not what you want. You should think if you still have feelings or him and how is your relationship with him currently. Also, are you ready to go out with him while he still has a girlfriend. Think about what...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help please, what to do?
Hi John This is completely normal. Your young and should be dating different girls to find out what you like and dont like. But dont do it behind her back. As hard as it will be you need to tell her that you want to take a break. I wouldnt tell her you...

Teen Dating Issues: Minor dating online
I can t give you legal advice, but it s not safe. Flirting can be interpreted, and it toys dangerously with both sides emotions, tempting them from the safe side to the dangerous side without you realizing you ve crossed it. And here s another thing...

Teen Dating Issues: Mixed feelings :(
You sound like a romantic, and yes, there are still great, old fashioned romantic men who do like and appreciate women who value those qualities, as well. Don t let the pressure from anyone else change you. You are perfect the way you are and should never...

Teen Dating Issues: Thank you!
Kelsey, I was so surprised to hear from you, and I remember your question. I m very glad to hear you are doing well and that you ve built a healthy self-esteem. I hope you don t mind that I shared your above paragraph with my FaceBook family. I altered...

Teen Dating Issues: Dating with aspergers
Hi Mike Sorry for the late response. My advice would be to try and build a relationship with your family. Friends are great to have and I would continue to build those as well. But your family should be your first priority if possible. Do you have any brothers...

Teen Dating Issues: Should my parents let me go on vacation with my boyfriend?
Trust is the foundation of all relationships, and it sounds like you have earned your parents trust. So that should be the bottom line of all your negotiations. Yes, I think you should be allowed to go. Make a list of all the reasons YOU have earned their...

Teen Dating Issues: Crush
Yes, I think I can help. It is awkward when you feel like too much time has passed, and now an introduction almost seems, well, awkward, right? So let him know. I would say, You know, we see each other all the time, and I feel kind of bad that I haven t...

Teen Dating Issues: Need advice before I make a stupid mistake
Hi Sebelle Please don t take this the wrong way but you were drunk and ended up naked in a room with a guy. Thats not normal everyday stuff that happens. If you dont want other people talking about you then dont give them things to talk about. Of course...

Teen Dating Issues: She says she loves me but she is with someone else
I can t say for sure. What I know is that in all relationships, when you reward someone for how they treat you, they think that is desirable behavior and keep doing it. For example, if a child cries and pitches a fit over a toy you won t buy her, so you...

Teen Dating Issues: Crush problems
Very simply, NO. You should NOT take his advice. Is he some sort of relationship expert who has a PhD in dating or has published a best seller on the topic? No. He s a horny kid who would like to take advantage of you with no strings attached. Period. ...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm getting mixed signals from a crush
Hi Vanessa Sorry for the late response. Guys can be really stupid, lol. I dont know if he likes you or not but either way he sounds do immature. I would forget about him. Stop talking to him and ignore him. If he is going to be so disrespectful as to tell...

Teen Dating Issues: How to get her back?
I m glad I could help. If it were me, I d probably cut her off completely. She is using you as a distraction, which keeps her from dealing with the real problem. If I were you, I would tell her that she seems to be comfortable with people mistreating her,...

Teen Dating Issues: This girl I like has past relationship problems
It is at this point that I would sit her down and explain that she s sending mixed signals and that you need clarification. Babe is a term reserved for romantic relationships (most of the time). Next time she calls you that, ask her how SHE sees the word....

Teen Dating Issues: Girlfriends parents
Hi Tommi it sounds like either your girlfriend said something to her parents or they overheard a conversion between you two. Long distance relationships are hard and this is one reason why. Do you feel you can talk to her parents on the phone to find out...

Teen Dating Issues: Help understanding a guy's behavior
You say you hope he hasn t noticed you looking at him, but it also sounds like you like him. Flirting isn t something you do and hope no one notices. It s something you do - like a private type of communication - that you HOPE the other person WILL notice....

Teen Dating Issues: Being Ready for a Relationship
Hi Ian I think you need to give her all the time she needs and let her make the decision when she is ready. That doesnt mean you should wait around for her either. There is nothing wrong with dating. If you feel you want to date other people than you should....

Teen Dating Issues: relationship
Hi, Drew. College is probably stressing her out. Women go through these pretty extreme biological cycles (I m sure you ve heard!), and while some people want to brush it off as hormones, it s actually a bit more involved - and should not be simply labeled...

Teen Dating Issues: I told him I like him
Hi Destiny Do you think you can just be friends with him if he doesn t show any interest in a relationship? If so than I would just act normal like you would any other time. Dont say anything more about liking him or dating. Just act like he is a friend....

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me
Hi With guys it s just hard to tell sometimes. Lol. If I were you I would slow down on how often you communicate with him. Maybe once a week send a quick text saying hello. If the conversation goes on for more than 5 minutes say you have to go and we talk...

Teen Dating Issues: 2nd chance?, 2nd thoughts, smart man
2nd thoughts, smart man, second chances: A very smart man once told me; second chances NEVER thirds. People do change Brittany and it happens a lot more then people think. ON the same note there are those people who will never change. So in reality this decision is all about rather or not your...

Teen Dating Issues: 2nd date, first kiss, local beach
first kiss, local beach, romantic date: It sounds like you already had a great first date. My advice would be to do something fun like go bowling (which I always enjoy), or golfing, or something outdoors. Find a nice area and plan a picnic for her. On the kiss thing, different situations mean different...

Teen Dating Issues: 2nd date, kiss girls, picnic on the beach
kiss girls, picnic on the beach, wee golf: Hi Billy, Cool, Im glad to here you both are having a good time. First let me say that I think a first kiss is fine on the second date. Maybe ask her if you can give her a kiss. Girls like that sometimes. As far as what to do on a date, well i guess...

Teen Dating Issues: 2nd date, having a picnic, first kiss
having a picnic, first kiss, local beach: Hello. It s hard to give a good answer when I m not familiar with the town. I would suggest maybe having a picnic at the park. That way you guys can talk and also be somewhere pretty laid-back and relaxing. I bet she wouldn t mind walking on the beach with...

Teen Dating Issues: 2nd date help..., friend whos, friends mom
friend whos, friends mom, good time: A date doesn t have to be the usual dinner/movie affair. Just hanging out at each others houses is cool with me usually and i d be willing to bet it would be cool with him too. This way your parents can meet each other too. -remember, keep life in-between...

Teen Dating Issues: 2nd date help..., friend whos, friends mom
friend whos, friends mom, comfortable place: Why not just at your houses? That seems like a comfortable place, don t have to get him to pay for you again. This way, you can tell your parents you ll just be in the living room where they won t be too anxious. Very mature way to approach this, getting...

Teen Dating Issues: 2nd date help..., friend whos, friends mom
friend whos, friends mom, first dates: HI Taylor, Well it depends on what you both like to do for fun. I think movies are actually bad first dates, because rather than spending time together talking and getting to know each other, you sit there for 2 hours and watch a movie, then go home. I...

Teen Dating Issues: 2nd date help..., one of your guys, friend whos
one of your guys, friend whos, friends mom: If you want a good place to hang out and talk, watch a movie and one of your guys houses, and just hope that the parents don t insist on spending the entire time around you. You just have to relax and talk as if you re talking to a friend, otherwise you...

Teen Dating Issues: 2nd date, thebeach, first kiss
thebeach, first kiss, second date: Well, i live in a ridiculously boring area, and we dont even have a beach, so youre luckier than me ;) I would say, however you spend time together is great, just the fact that youre together should be the important thing.Whether its hanging out with each...

Teen Dating Issues: 3 girls which 1 2 ask out, hav, b4
hav, b4, these girls: Trust me steve, there s no way you can like all three of these girls. Thats just not how it works. There must be one you like more then the others and if there isn t then maybe you should keep getting to know them until there is. Once you figure out which...

Teen Dating Issues: 3 month anniversary and x mas present, buying gifts, freshmen
buying gifts, freshmen, 3 month: Honestly, these questions are rough for me because i don t know your BF. But anything, and i mean ANYTHING from the heart he s going to love. Really, it s not what it is so much as it is who it is giving it. He s gonna love anything you get him, really anything....

Teen Dating Issues: No 50/50 Love, head over heels, rest of my life
head over heels, rest of my life, true love: Tesha, thanks for getting in touch. I will try and help as much as I can! I personally think that you should tell him how you feel. I think you should talk to him, and explain everything to him like you just have to me. I think if he knows everything and...

Teen Dating Issues: 6 Month Anniversary Present, flowers and candy, safe bet
flowers and candy, safe bet, sun set: Honestly Emily this one is a hard one because i don t know your girlfriend and therefore don t really know what she would like. But if you guys are really that close then i m pretty sure she ll love pretty much anything you get her. Thats the thing about loved...

Teen Dating Issues: 6 month anniversary!, renaissance fair, typical guy
renaissance fair, typical guy, getter: I m not gonna lie to you, I m no expert at gift giving. In fact this is a hard question for anyone to field who doesn t know your boyfriend. However if there is one thing i know it s that he s gonna love whatever you get him. I was at the Renaissance Fair...

Teen Dating Issues: 6 months..., nice day
nice day: well- rest well because if he s been with you for that long, then he s not going to find anything that you get him cheesy. as long as you put alot of thought into it, he will love it- simply because its from you. as far as something to get him...i would suggest...

Teen Dating Issues: 8 year age differance, sex issues, hi john
sex issues, hi john, strong opinions: Lindsey- First off, I applaud you having the guts to have a relationship with someone who is older than you. It s difficult, especially in todays society. People are going to look at it funny because of sex issues. I m just going to say be careful...

Teen Dating Issues: Not Able to hang out, photography class, allexperts
photography class, allexperts, study time: Hello, Cool name by the way. Matt told me he was going to refer a question over to me, and I remember that I asked for the above information from him. However, I cannot pull up the email Matt sent me at this time with your question. Can you post your question...

Teen Dating Issues: Advice, second chance, ex girlfriend
second chance, ex girlfriend: Tell him that this time, you will forget about it. Tell him that this time is the only time you will accept this. Everyone deserves a second chance, in fact, in my opinion, everyone deserves an unlimited amount of chances, but in this situation, you have...

Teen Dating Issues: Advice for the Hopless Romantic, world of confusion, sensitive guy
world of confusion, sensitive guy, afraid of commitment: Van, I understand how you re feeling. But, please don t be depressed about this, I really don t think you should be. I know it s hard, but you have to try and think positively. You re great to be of those nice guys, there s not many about these days and...

Teen Dating Issues: Advice on my life, long distance relationships, dinner and a show
long distance relationships, dinner and a show, going away to college: Maxton, thanks for being patient. First of all, how far is you girl moving? Also, when and why is she moving? Is she going away to college or is it because of her family? I will need more details to be able to tell you whether or not she has lost interest...

Teen Dating Issues: Advice Needed, basketball courts, dance two
basketball courts, dance two, school dance: Mariah, I apologize again for the delay in responding. I m glad to hear that the dance went well, even if you didn t actually dance with your guy. :) I think he likes you. The events you described were mostly positive (and I only say mostly because...

Teen Dating Issues: Advice Needed, basketball courts, dance two
basketball courts, dance two, school dance: Hey Mariah, first off dont worry about long questions. Well it is sort of hard because it is a 50% hes just shy and a 50% chance he is not that into you. But I am 95% sure he does like you. He was probably just shy. My suggestion is that when you chat with...

Teen Dating Issues: Advice plz, bad idea, easy access
bad idea, easy access, lol: Mikey, Yes, it s a bad idea, and you know it s a bad idea. You are just using her, and that s never cool. If it is a mutual situation in which you are using each other, then that s one thing. But something tells me that this isn t the case. My input...

Teen Dating Issues: Advice, first date ideas, nice guy
first date ideas, nice guy, ashley: Nick - Just talk to her. Be a nice guy. Find out what she s into and let her talk about herself and become interested in her. As for first date ideas, go someplace where you guys can talk and get to know eachother better like going out someplace to...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he like me? (Afraid to be rejected), fear of rejection, ed team
fear of rejection, ed team, awkwardness: Chloe, You CANNOT fear rejection. The fear of rejection is what keeps people from going for, and often getting what they want. The reward far outways the risk in the situation if you ask me. Now instead of telling him that you like him, show him. Hang...

Teen Dating Issues: Age, age of consent, talking about sex
age of consent, talking about sex, good luck: Hey. I think it s fine for you to date this girl, it s 4 years, and she s 16 which is the age of consent, and if her Mum is cool with it, then I think it s absolutely fine! As long as it s only dating, I think it s fine. I wish all the best to you both...

Teen Dating Issues: Age conflict, maturity level, sophmore
maturity level, sophmore, conflict: It is a decent different Leonard, but if you guys really like each other then I say go for it. Just be advised that it s probably not going to be easy. You may very well notice a difference in maturity level quick. -remember, keep life in-between the lines...

Teen Dating Issues: Age Difference..., speedy reply, girl problem
speedy reply, girl problem, sexual relationships: hi it very well could be love. yes she is young and i would be worried about the sex part. you could get in trouble for that. but i think you should start dating if you think it wont effect her family or yours. i also think you should tell her how you feel...

Teen Dating Issues: Age Difference, statuatory rape, romantic relationship
statuatory rape, romantic relationship, old boyfriend: In the us, any one under 16 can not be in a romantic relationship with anyone 16 or over. Anyone 16 can only be involved with those 16 or 17 17 year olds only with 17 or 18 year olds and anyone over 18 can not be involved with some one under 18. This means...

Teen Dating Issues: Age Difference, grade 9, whatnot
grade 9, whatnot, big picture: You are very mature, I can tell. Boys are very different from girls, aside from the obvious reasons. For one (and this is very generally speaking), girls think about love earlier than boys, but boys think about sex earlier than girls. The greater the...

Teen Dating Issues: Age Difference..., speedy reply, girl problem
speedy reply, girl problem, sexual relationships: Oh Justin, Justin, Justin. HAPPY NEW YEAR! How are you? Well I am ok, my name is Lauren, and I believe you gave me enough info. Uh...well I think it truly is love. If you re willing to wait for her you are a terriffic guy for her. I think with your willingness...

Teen Dating Issues: Age difference., legal ethics, contact clause
legal ethics, contact clause, 15 year olds: One last thing that I wanted to add is that I cannot promote 15 year olds to be dating(as a general policy). Also I do not know if a 15 year old should be able to date an 18 year old. Even if no law, I have seen problems with this. Good question. Paul...

Teen Dating Issues: Age difference, long distance relationship, age gap
long distance relationship, age gap, steady relationship: Hi, I understand you want to date her, yet should you? Is it healthy for her to date someone who is now a college student? My answer is it s not recommended. Think about what s best for her, not what you want. Please ask follow ups and remember the law...

Teen Dating Issues: Age difference, three months, suggestion
three months, suggestion, relationship: Hi Samantha, I m assuming he is freaking out because of the age difference because of the legalities of sex with a minor. Am I correct? Are you both sexually active? My suggestion is if you both want to continue a relationship, go to both sets of parents...

Teen Dating Issues: Age difference in dating, statutory rape, realationship
statutory rape, realationship, fake id: Dear Danielle, Unfortunately when you are 15 or even 16 and the guy is 25, age does matter because if he has sex with you, he can go to jail for statutory rape. When I was 16, I dated a guy who was 22 whom my parents also knew. We went out for 3 years and...

Teen Dating Issues: Age difference problem.., yahoo msgr, minute bell
yahoo msgr, minute bell, hi lauren: Well mr. mr. Matt I know you probably think it s insane for me to write to you like...ten days later, but I really didn t know I had questions. Allexpert.com was supposed to email me. Ok, well you know my name is Lauren. Well I am so sorry I am just a little...

Teen Dating Issues: Age difference, sexual activity, close friends
sexual activity, close friends, good luck: Hey Libby, It s not illegal for you guys to date; it s just been illegal for him to engage in sexual activity with you since he turned 18 (and you re still a minor). But honestly, I wouldn t worry about it. People have these kinds of relationships all the...

Teen Dating Issues: Age,feelings problem..(it's me again..), absent from school, lack of trust
absent from school, lack of trust, good friend: Matt Sorry for the second day response, I do try to get back to people on the same day or the latest by the second day because I know you guys are waiting for answers. Let’s start off with the easy question… “Don’t overdo your compliments” means do...

Teen Dating Issues: Age issue, 16th birthday party, kind of girl
16th birthday party, kind of girl, father figure: Jon- Being that you are 18, be extemely careful and take it very slow. Make sure that if you get involved it s on a peer-to-peer level and she s not looking for a father figure in her life. Just be very careful, take it slow, and do what you think is...

Teen Dating Issues: Age issue, high school freshman, 16th birthday party
high school freshman, 16th birthday party, gay consent: Jon - Being 18 and dating a 14 year old is a BIG difference, not only in age but maturity. She s a high school freshman and you re about to graduate this year. It s not a good idea to engage in a relationship with her for a variety of reasons. 1. You...

Teen Dating Issues: Age problem and issue here.., class period, new girl
class period, new girl, frustrations: Matt - If you like her you should tell her before it eats you up anymore. You shouldn t be taking your frustrations out on her when you could be doing something about it. You should ask the girl you like out or at least tell her you like her because...

Teen Dating Issues: Age?, intimate relationship, arent
intimate relationship, arent, savannah: Hey Lauren- Well for me it would be a big difference to date someone who is five yrs apart from me. But if it doesnt bother you or him then I wouldnt worry about it. But just try talking to him about it if you two do deside to date or something like that....

Teen Dating Issues: Agenn, best of luck, feelings
best of luck, feelings, mistake: I m so sorry that this took so long. My computer was acting up and I couldn t find the time to go anywhere else to log on. I honestly don t think it s stupid coming from a 14 year old. I really think you should talk to him about how you feel. It s hard,...

Teen Dating Issues: Agrivation and Confusion, getting a divorce, friend girl
getting a divorce, friend girl, spending time: Until a girl gets married, her best friend is everything to her. Everything and everyone comes in second to the best friend. Reason is, if you come first, you will be her everything. Now what would happen if she lost you, if you broke up? She would have nothing....

Teen Dating Issues: Ah., graduating high school, individual training
graduating high school, individual training, school tomorrow: Dear M, Well your letter to the military blew me away. Just from your writing, in our letters and this one, I can see that the army is not the place for you. What a waste that would have been. So, I guess you tell I agree with what you ve written and am very...

Teen Dating Issues: Ah., mail time, polish families
mail time, polish families, lunch dinner: Dear M, I knew this would be about a girl!! I m so confused about the army and basic training???? You are so young and I can t figure out how all this happened before you even graduate high school. You ll have to give me more on this. Anyway, yes, I think...