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Teen Dating Issues: lost the "spark"....., intamate, favorite quotes
intamate, favorite quotes, spanish class: Because so many guys go for girls who are so nice, they made one of my favorite quotes for this. However, this is not only guys who go for looks in other people. Girls do too. So maybe this will help answer your question. If you want to be happy for your...

Teen Dating Issues: lost the "spark"....., intamate, hot guy
intamate, hot guy, spanish class: Hi Kate, Well look is not what matters in the end. You should never judge someone because of it. But if you dont feel a spark anymore there in no reason to stay in the relationship. But first you need to find out if the reason there isnt a spark anymore is...

Teen Dating Issues: i lost my virginity, losing your virginity, old girl
losing your virginity, old girl, having sex: Hello Steven, Losing your virginity (and having sex in general) is something very personal that doesn t have to be shared if you don t want to share it. I didn t tell my parents when I lost my virginity because (1) I didn t feel any need to tell them, and...

Teen Dating Issues: I am so losts right now (answer asap), thinking of suicide, break ups
thinking of suicide, break ups, little break: Hello, Thanks for using Allexperts. How come you feel a 15 year old should be dating? How come you want to date? Why like this person? She should be tested because of her having sex. Please get tested too. 2 out of every 5 teens have an STI. Safety please....

Teen Dating Issues: a lot of issues at once, low self esteem, teen issues
low self esteem, teen issues, target: You should ask him about it. He may say that you don t trust him but in all reality you asking so that you don t have a reason not to truts him. Your always worried about what someone else will think you have to worry about yourself sometimes. Markeisha Barbe...

Teen Dating Issues: I like him a lot,but it won't ever work out....i think, help with homework, muslim woman
help with homework, muslim woman, own religion: Yes that did clear it up. You need to think about what you are getting yourself into. Being in a relationship with two different beliefs is very hard. Your going to need to sit down and talk with him at some point. I hope this advice has help. Feel free to...

Teen Dating Issues: love, otherside, soulmate
otherside, soulmate, waste time: My advise to you dear, is to leave the situation alone. If it wasn t this girl, it would be another. He has already explained that you two don t connect so no matter what, he isn t interested. So please, give someone else the opportunity to be with you....

Teen Dating Issues: love, otherside, soulmate
otherside, soulmate, mimi: Dear Mimi, I know this might be hard on u but trust me it s for ur best...Now u may be feeling bad about but it s just coz u got somekinda attached to him but by the time this will change...I don t wanna seem to be like everyone else who s just telling you...

Teen Dating Issues: love, right girl, sexy outfits
right girl, sexy outfits, otherside: There s always a chance of backfire. But you sometimes just gotta take risks. Personally I think acting like it doesn t bother you would be better than switching over to the other alternative of being a depressed moping around mess. He would think you were...

Teen Dating Issues: love, otherside, million miles
otherside, million miles, soulmate: hey mimi~ i m not going to tell you to let go because the same thing sorta happened to me a little bit ago and i understand how you feel. i m jewish and this guy i like(d?) is catholic and i didn t know that was a problem for him until he started telling...

Teen Dating Issues: love, suicidal thoughts, keegan
suicidal thoughts, keegan, unbareable: Jen, First off do not get on anti-depressants, they make suicidal thoughts a reality for most people. Jen, you need to think about why you and Matt broke up. Those things will not change if you get back together. The fact that he is pressuring you without...

Teen Dating Issues: love, how do you know when your in love, good luck
how do you know when your in love, good luck: Hi Najah, There really isn t any way to describe love, it s just when you think about them and always want to be with them and you know you could live the rest of your lives together. If you were truly in love you would never do anything to hurt that person...

Teen Dating Issues: love, right on the money, face value
right on the money, face value, paranoia: Rene, You can do one of two things: 1. You can listen to your heart. Your heart is telling you something is up, and from my experience, my heart s instinct is usually right on the money. I try to listen to my heart as much as possible because it...

Teen Dating Issues: does he love me?, psychology area, long term relationship
psychology area, long term relationship, first girlfriend: At around well this age people question what is love. He doesn t know what love is and for this he cannot say this. You need to take your relationship slow. Talk more with him. This could help. I recommend asking in the psychology area for more help. Mention...

Teen Dating Issues: love, age matters, boyfriend girlfriend
age matters, boyfriend girlfriend, good friends: Andrea- Just because most people your age date, doesn t mean you have to. As long as you are not so uncomfortable not dating him that you have to be with him, then keep doing what you re doing. Remember, the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing is just a label,...

Teen Dating Issues: does she love or like me, girl cuz, congrats
girl cuz, congrats, friday night: Ok Andrew, I m sure you ve heard this before, but I am going to repeat it because I ve been through it myself. Being she is 14, she probably does not love you. Now I m not saying she doesn t like you or have a crush on you. But at 14 she probably doesn...

Teen Dating Issues: love, otherside, gurl
otherside, gurl, soulmate: Hey Mimi, i dont think you should let go. you gotta try hard to get something you really want. in this case, since you guys have broke up try to be his friend. evena best friend. hang around with him more and talk to him. Bring up this gurl that he likes...

Teen Dating Issues: love, boyfriend girlfriend, mutual friend
boyfriend girlfriend, mutual friend, shelby: Shelby, I m sorry but I don t have either the time or the emotional energy to answer questions at this point. This is not just your question, but all questions. After I send you this I m putting up Expert Vacation Dates that will have a start date but...

Teen Dating Issues: love, breasts, skirt
breasts, skirt, savannah: Hey Mitchel- Well first off your not in love with your mother s friend. You just think you are because of the fact you think she s attractive. Also this women is way older than you are im sure. There s no way your mom s friend has any feelings for you...

Teen Dating Issues: love, savannah, love
savannah, love: Hey Lexi- Well when your really in love you will know that you are... I mean everything will change with you. That one person will be the most important to you. Also your going to want to spend time with that person all the time. I hope this helps. If...

Teen Dating Issues: love, stares, love
stares, love: well i don t know how old you are but from my experience, boys will flirt and tease if they like you. i don t know how comfortable you are, but why not just ask? if you ve went out or dated, what happened where you broke up? i think if you like him and...

Teen Dating Issues: love, question pool, stares
question pool, stares, ups: Please understand I was not the person you asked at the beginning. I answered from the question pool and I am wondering if you still need help. If so please ask follow ups Please ask follow ups if you need advice on the above problem still. Please...

Teen Dating Issues: My love, sweet side, brother sister
sweet side, brother sister, holding hands: Hey there, Alright, you have to set him straight. Sit him down and explain to him that you are dangling your heart in mid air and he isn t noticing. It seems like he is using you and you guys are just friends with benifits, if you want this, then you re on...

Teen Dating Issues: In love, freshman year, dimitri
freshman year, dimitri, aj: Dear Aj, First, you have to realize that she is human too so you do not need to be afraid of her, you already talk to her from time to time and that s good. Stop being afraid, hang out with her, after class just find a dumb excuse to approach her...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he love me too?, simple friends, how to impress girls
simple friends, how to impress girls, friend gary: Hello, Why do you like him? Why does he like you? Where did you meet? Why do you claim this is love? This is not love. I hope you see a doctor about the sex and get tested and learn about the risks. Please ask follow ups Please state one question you...

Teen Dating Issues: love, happy all the time, monthes
happy all the time, monthes, best interest: Hey Taylor- Well when you start knowing you love someone you will know. It s hard to explain but you will sure enough know. I mean you will be happy all the time that your will that person and just want to be with them all the time. Also you ll always...

Teen Dating Issues: love, older guys, good luck
older guys, good luck, love: Hi Mark. I find it hard to believe you love her if you barely know her. I think it would be okay for you two to date once you got to know her better. She might be nervous around you because older guys can be intimidating. Talk to her and wait until she s...

Teen Dating Issues: love, everyday activites, otherside
everyday activites, otherside, soulmate: hi mimi, well yes, i am like all the others and you need to let go. however, if you really like him, and i mean really like him, then try to make it look like the break up isn t bothering you by doing everyday activites and try new things. you never...

Teen Dating Issues: love, connec, otherside
connec, otherside, soulmate: Hi Mimi, So you recently broke up with your potential soulmate. I m sorry for your loss. You must be going through a lot of pain right now but perhaps the best thing is to look at this from an observational standpoint. I think that if you really love this...

Teen Dating Issues: love, otherside, soulmate
otherside, soulmate, hundreds of miles: Mimi~ Ive been in your shoes so heres what im gonna tell you... and no im not going to tell you to let go because thats the last thing you need to do. I dont want to let go of my bf either but think about it, why would he dump you for another girl that like...

Teen Dating Issues: love, otherside, soulmate
otherside, soulmate, mimi: Mimi, A difference in religion does cause problems. Although he told you that he is over that matter, I really do not believe that he is. I am about to be very straight-forward with you so please do not get offended by anything that I am about to say....

Teen Dating Issues: love, otherside, soulmate
otherside, soulmate, mimi: Mimi, I certainly don t want to sound like everyone else but they do have a point. I don t want to hurt you more than you ve been hurt either. BUT...yes, the but . In my experience, when someone breaks up with you, it s really not about someone else but more...

Teen Dating Issues: love, otherside, soulmate
otherside, soulmate, mimi: Well, in the end you might have to let him go but.....all you have to do is try and prove to him that you can connect with him. I don t know exactly how to tell you to do that b/c I don t know him or you. But ask him out and tell him he has to choose what...

Teen Dating Issues: love, sitation, likly
sitation, likly, otherside: hi, well i mean if he lost interest in you, oh well you have to move on and be a survival, cause more tha likly from the looks of it he is bring real immature, and selfish, ad you already said he isnt what you expected your soulmate to be , so you need to...

Teen Dating Issues: crush on best friend, smile alot, social gatherings
smile alot, social gatherings, schoolyear: Hi Chris, You re on the right track, what I would do is spend the day with her as you mentioned. Be her friend, do what you normally do with her. Just ask her to hang out, that s all so she won t be hesitant or intimidated to go along with it,...

Teen Dating Issues: in love with my bestfriend., bestfriend, donovan
bestfriend, donovan, alot: Donovan- I had the same issue in high school with my best friend! I fell deeply in love with her but she only loved me as a friend and wouldn t date. Unfortunately, I have feelings for her to this day but I know I can t have her so I moved on to other things...

Teen Dating Issues: I love my Cousin, holding hands, boner
holding hands, boner, thr: well i dont think dating your cousin is the right thing to do. it can cause issues down thr road with family members as well with the two of you. this world kinda frowns down on this type of thing. not to mention that if you ever got married or had kids that...

Teen Dating Issues: love confused!, perth, cousin
perth, cousin, dad: You should turn the tables around. Like how he said 1000 guys would be after you, but I would be the first. You should turn it around and say 1000 guys could be after me, but you d be the only one I d see. I hope this advice has helped you. Feel free to ask...

Teen Dating Issues: love dating teens hellpppppppppppppppppp, relationships friendships, uve
relationships friendships, uve, prolly: So, seeing as how I m a lady I can help you with very little things because most of this is just going with it. You can t always get answers in life. I m in a relationship now and he broke with his girlfriend two years ago, and that idea still scared me...

Teen Dating Issues: love/dating, savannah, truth
savannah, truth: Hey Teasha- Well it would be by the way he acts or by the way he talks to you. Also you could just one day ask him if he does if he s acting kind of like he does like you. Or just tell him the truth on how you feel. There s nothing wrong with that. I hope...

Teen Dating Issues: love my ex? <3, 1 corinthians 13, plain as day
1 corinthians 13, plain as day, eloquence: Dear Alyssa, Thank you so much for your question. I deeply apologize for not responding to you sooner, here in Brasil we have been having some drama with the internet, so I have not been able to get on a lot in the last few weeks. I think the answer...

Teen Dating Issues: I love my ex boyfriend., winter depression, 4 months
winter depression, 4 months, gf: Krista - I would tell him how you feel and explain everything that you explained to me. Tell him how you were kind of temporarily insane and you really miss him and you love him and you still want to be with him. He may not want to be with you anymore...

Teen Dating Issues: love i guess, boyfriend matt, different girl
boyfriend matt, different girl, awkward moments: Hey Chelsea: sorry for the delay my computer is busted and i couldnt get online so this girl Alana seems like a real pain that sucks i know matts is your friend but you learn from mistakes you should wait for him to realize what an amazing girl you are you...

Teen Dating Issues: Does he love her more than he loves me?, real girlfriend, realtionship
real girlfriend, realtionship, possiblity: Hey Devina- Well its not fair to either of you that he s doing this to you two. What you should do is ask him to make a choice whether to be with you or this other girl. He can t be with both. If he wants to be with you well you have a choice to make yourself...

Teen Dating Issues: love is a painful thing, nikki nikki, weird terms
nikki nikki, weird terms, best time: Nikki, This guy does not seem like the guy for you. Even if you do love him, you need to respect yourself before anything else. You deserve a guy that will try to work things out if he really wants to be with you. It sounds like this guy is really lame....

Teen Dating Issues: I love her but she said no., time heals, good friends
time heals, good friends, bridges: Time heals all and when i say all i really do mean all. I know it hurts now but in a couple of months it wont i promise. Be a man about this, don t sever ties or burn bridges, just deal with the pain. You ll get through it i promise and I d be willing to bet...

Teen Dating Issues: I love her & it seems she loves me but she is never clear., messanges, best of luck
messanges, best of luck, good friends: Well, personally, this sounds like good friendship. You used to talk on the phone and sms frequently when you spent more time with each other which sounds like you were just good friends. Then, because she has gone to university so you can t see each other...

Teen Dating Issues: do i love him or do i just think it, msn addy, firends
msn addy, firends, time of need: Hey Jess, You may be falling for his friend, but you can t leave Ben at such a time of need. He needs you to be at his side right now. Try to get involved and be there for him, you can t leave him right at this moment. Spend more time with him, then see what...

Teen Dating Issues: is it love or just the thought of someone wanting me, face of the earth, auntie
face of the earth, auntie, adn: Phyllis J, It sounds like this boy knows a former boy that I was once interested in because he played the same maddening game. In my case, I kept trying to make it work with the boy before I realized that he was only playing games. He wanted me when it...

Teen Dating Issues: love triangle?, love triangle, art class
love triangle, art class, messes: I really think that he hasn t changed for good..I think he s going to act like the good boyfriend for about a month or so and then it s going to go downhill again, but you have to watch yourself though. If this keeps on happening, she s going to keep you...

Teen Dating Issues: love, serious relationship, otherside
serious relationship, otherside, soulmate: hey mimi, this is complicated...have u ever thought that this guy just made an excuse because he was afraid of getting into a serious relationship..like a really serious one?? give him a couple days to realize that he was better off with you...call him just...

Teen Dating Issues: he loves me..... : /, little word, cya
little word, cya, whole lot: hey, i think the best thing to do here would just tell him that your not ready for the word love yet. tell him that you really like him very much but your not really clear with what love means. im sure he was just saying it so he didnt make you feel like...

Teen Dating Issues: he loves me..... : /, little word, cya
little word, cya, whole lot: Katie- First of all, let me applaud the fact that you weren t stupid enough to say yes when you don t feel it. Here is my advice if that should be said again: If you don t love him yet, say simply that you care about him a lot and you love him as a...

Teen Dating Issues: He loves me...and everyone else too., attenion, female friends
attenion, female friends, guy friends: Rachel, It sounds to me like it is time to call it quits. If you have confronted him about the situation and he plays it off like it s not a big deal, then he probably isn t that concerned about being with you anyways. It is possible that he just really...

Teen Dating Issues: Not sure if he loves me....., current boyfriend, club house
current boyfriend, club house, half hour: That is rather sketchy behavior. More than that, it s suspicious as well. As I m sure you know, it hurts relationships badly to be over-jealous or paranoid. However, I don t think it s too much to ask that your boyfriend spend more time talking to...

Teen Dating Issues: She loves me as a brother....is it normal?, brother sister, girlfriend
brother sister, girlfriend, relationship: Shawn, You do have a good point. It is a bit peculiar, but on the other hand, it doesn t sound like this girl is wanting to leave you or anything. Sometimes things that people say are simply misunderstood. Haven t you heard that women sometimes tend...

Teen Dating Issues: she loves me, her parents don't, girlfriend mary, datin
girlfriend mary, datin, infatuation: Hello, This is Expert Dan. I saw your question on the question pool. I cannot promote a 15 year old to date you under my policies. I however will ask you why you like her and also can you contact James Windell in our parenting teen area with the above question....

Teen Dating Issues: He loves me as a sister?, football games, little sister
football games, little sister, homecoming: Theresa, In a situation like this, it is best to just cut your losses and move on. I know this can be REALLY REALLY hard, especially when you have strong feelings for somebody, but the longer you hold on, the more and more of a strain it becomes on your...

Teen Dating Issues: He loves me as a sister?, sister theresa, little sister
sister theresa, little sister, homecoming: Theresa, Anything is possible. But sometimes guys just don t look at girls who are friends in a romantic way. but you two are young, and who knows he might change his mind in time. But, he knows you like him, and now the ball is in his court. If he begins...

Teen Dating Issues: He loves me as a sister?, football games, little sister
football games, little sister, homecoming: Hi, You didn t include ages here and all I can post are theories based on the facts above. It s possible he likes you MORE than a friend and would want to date you, yet is afraid that if he dates you, he would LOOSE you as a friend. Common fear. I...

Teen Dating Issues: he loves me..... : /, little word, cya
little word, cya, whole lot: Hi Katie, That was a very good thing you did for not saying it when you didn t want to. If I were you I would just say, well we haven t been dating long enough for me to know just yet but I have a good feeling I will. So pretty much you re saying you don...

Teen Dating Issues: lovesick ., third grade, good friend
third grade, good friend, bf: Hey there, It seems like you guys have such a strong relationship, do you really want to risk all that for a chance of lasting with him as a bf? I say you guys should just stay friends, be real close, best friends sort of. You re friends are going to have...

Teen Dating Issues: lucas, abusive behavior, second chance
abusive behavior, second chance, hes: Hey Lucas- Well I would talk to him about it and tell him how you really don t put up with his actions and the way he s been treating you lately.. If he doesnt stop even if he still saying your cheating and so on then you need to end it before it gets...

Teen Dating Issues: i lyke a guy, matty, good friends
matty, good friends, girlfriend: Hello Yienessa. Well, because I am unaware of where you live, I can t really say if your two ages will get in the way of a relationship between you two. I am also unaware of what your parents are like, so I can t say much about what they might think...

Teen Dating Issues: I'M TO SHY!!!, casual date, li ke
casual date, li ke, darlene: hey haz, i say dont go straight out and ask him out but try to get a feel for how he feels about you first. does it seem like he likes you like that? are you guys friends? get a feel for that and t hen ask him out on a casual date. like hey there s this...

Teen Dating Issues: Major issue!, trouble with the law, good luck
trouble with the law, good luck, alot: i think its fine to give the relationship a try but maybe you should hold off on sex for a bit. your right, you dont want to get yourself in the trouble with the law if she decides she doesnt like you anymore and wants to cause trouble. i think you should...

Teen Dating Issues: Makeup question, prettiest girls, prettiest girl
prettiest girls, prettiest girl, honest answer: Hi, Emma. I am not the best in this subject, this is something you should talk about with your mom, but if you want a boy s opinion you can take my advise. I personally think that you should not wear makeup, but the decision is entirely up to you. If you do...

Teen Dating Issues: Making Out or French Kissing, different point of view, time andrew
different point of view, time andrew, first move: Andrew - I think you need to have a serious talk with your girlfriend and see what s up because it seems odd to me that she doesn t even what you holding her hand. There might be abuse in her past that you don t know about which is why it s important you...

Teen Dating Issues: Making Out or French Kissing, first move, 7 months
first move, 7 months, savannah: Hay Andrew- Well just because she wont kiss you or makeout with you doesn t mean she doesn t love you. But what you should do is talk to her about all of this and find out what s going on with her with all of this and why she feels this way. That way you...

Teen Dating Issues: Maturing in a relationship, immaturity, hes
immaturity, hes, overtime: Hey Kate, Ok I think I may need a little bit more information to know what to really think. What kinds of things make you think you are immature? Ok and just for the record it s ok to be immature sometimes. Hell I am the immature one of my relationship....

Teen Dating Issues: Maturing in a relationship, queen of england, little mistakes
queen of england, little mistakes, better person: People tell me all the time you are what you eat. I like to tell people you are who you are by how you act . If you want to be like The Queen of England, all you need to do is act like her. Now, I admit I am not perfect. No one is. It s the little...

Teen Dating Issues: Maturing in a relationship, wize, u sound
wize, u sound, sense of humor: Kate, u sound like its a horrible thing to be ur age.. why does ur bf get mad when ur immature sometimes or something? u have to be immature soemtiems or u just dont have a life to live. u lose all humor if u try to mature or grow up. why skip childhood. hes...

Teen Dating Issues: Men + Love + suicide/depression + confusion = ???, curfew, knack
curfew, knack, dread: hi shari, i think that the best thing you can do right now is to talk to someone who knows your boyfriend and your friend. it s obvious that they re going through a lot of issues right now and while it s great that you want to be there for both of them, this...

Teen Dating Issues: Might this girl be playing me??, college cafeteria, doubt in my mind
college cafeteria, doubt in my mind, cheeck: Osvaldo, It seems very likely that she could in fact be playing you and was just being nice by offering you a ride to help clear her conscience. It might also be the case that she was interested in you when you were in person because of how you presented...

Teen Dating Issues: Me and Mike, own worst enemy, dry sex
own worst enemy, dry sex, kissin: Laura - Mike doesn t know what he wants and until he commits to you and ONLY you, you should stop being intimate with him. Ever heard the saying, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? It means, why should he stay with you or commit to you...

Teen Dating Issues: Minor dating, women raping men, rape laws
women raping men, rape laws, rape charge: Hi, Without checking up the exact laws, my theory is that you could be charged with raping someone because her age was 15. I recommend speaking to a lawyer in your area. I m not a lawyer and cannot give legal advice. Understand online lawyers do not replace...

Teen Dating Issues: Mistakes?, lots of girls, figure of speech
lots of girls, figure of speech, how to pick up women: Okay Brad I will teach you how to pick up women. Here we go. - FUNNY IS GREAT, keep doing it. - When you talk to a girl, you have to maintain control, you have to ESTABLISH YOURSELF AS THE PRIZE, tease her, laugh, laughter is MAGIC! -When you re talknig...

Teen Dating Issues: Mistreated, union city california, sorry baby
union city california, sorry baby, poor choice: Okay, Taneka - first off, don t let anyone tell you you re a hoe or a slut or a bop because of a poor choice you made. Sure, it probably wasn t the wisest thing in the world to do by going out with two friends and therefore(either indirectly or not) breaking...

Teen Dating Issues: Mixed Feelings..., mixed feelings, anythin
mixed feelings, anythin, one of the guys: Agnes, It is possible that you re making too big of a deal out of this. My advice is that you just relax, play it cool, and see how things play out. It s possible that this guy just has a lot to deal with right now and just doesn t want to be hassled...

Teen Dating Issues: Mixed Feelings, ups and downs, mixed feelings
ups and downs, mixed feelings, singing voice: Dear Mack, I understand you when you say that you are feeling so down right now coz there s nothing more painful than seing the one you wanna be with, with someone else... But my dear think about it this way... They used to go out a while before, and...

Teen Dating Issues: Mixed Signals? (the 'i love you' issue?), mixed signals, writing notes
mixed signals, writing notes, bell rings: Alec, I am going to sound really old right now and it kind of bothers me, but I am going to be honest with you about this so that it doesn’t bite you in the butt later in life… Neither you nor her actually love each other. You may have feelings for each...

Teen Dating Issues: Mixed Signals?, allexpert, mixed signals
allexpert, mixed signals, first timer: Ok, sorry for taking so long, but quickly, yes. What your current plan is is probably the best one. Like your friends said, just be nice, but don t be terribly pleasing. Don t do anything you wouldn t do for any other guy. Just make him a regular....

Teen Dating Issues: Mixed signals?, mixed signals, writing notes
mixed signals, writing notes, bell rings: Alec, Okay I don t think that when she says I love you she means it in a friendly way but she must really love you. It s just that she s acting really friendly about it. But if you really want to know how she feel it s best that you ask her about it. Ask...

Teen Dating Issues: Moments dont last forever....., advice hotline, first love
advice hotline, first love, free advice: He cheated on you? You cheated on him? Are you ready to be dating? Just because he cheated does not mean you should cheat on someone? Is he right for you? Are you right for him? You love him? I feel you do not know what love is. If your having problems...

Teen Dating Issues: Moments dont last forever...., online dictionary, quinceanera
online dictionary, quinceanera, first love: Dear Andrea, Thank you for letting me know how things went and are going. Remember what the Bible says… 1 John 4:18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect...

Teen Dating Issues: Two Month Anniversary. What gifts are good?, olivia, anniversary
olivia, anniversary, photos: Honestly Olivia, anything you give him will make him smile i promise you. Guys just really like to know that you care. You can never go wrong with something sports related along with a nice card though. Try talking to some of his friends -Remember, keep...

Teen Dating Issues: Move on?, boyfriend matt, different girl
boyfriend matt, different girl, awkward moments: Dear Chelsea, I m not sure what you want me to answer cause there does not seem to be a question. I can see why you are frustrated but life is unfair and there is always going to be people like that. You unfortunately have to learn to deal with it and try...

Teen Dating Issues: Moved on and confused, school stress, arguements
school stress, arguements, backbones: I question why he dumped you: Other women? Depression? School stress? ETC I think he misses you and knows what he did was wrong, yet I don t know if he wants to date you again. I see half the picture. I don t see the full picture. I wouldn t...

Teen Dating Issues: Moving away from The gut you love most, long distance relationships, boy of my dreams
long distance relationships, boy of my dreams, nice guy: Long distance relationships very very VERY rarely work out. It s probably better for both of you if you guys move on for now. I m not saying it couldn t work out, just that it probably wouldn t by the sounds of things. But if you really love this guy then...

Teen Dating Issues: update, friend carrie, gonna focus
friend carrie, gonna focus, coura: Dear Chantell Well im accully feeling a bit better about it everything. i think maybe if i dont talk to Matt like he wanted, and give him the space we probably need, we can be close later on; maybe when alana isnt in the picture anymore. its my next plan....

Teen Dating Issues: Multiple Partners, multiple partners, judgemental
multiple partners, judgemental, prude: Erin, you re 16 years old, I don t want to be a hypocrite or judgemental but you re 16 and he s 32! You think you re in love with him but you probably aren t, see you re not the only one that has the compulsion to think you re in love so don t worry. I m sorry...

Teen Dating Issues: i'm not sure what to do, cuddle, 19 years
cuddle, 19 years, dilemma: hi, i guess you have to decide if he is worth waiting around on or not. he sounds confused right now and the last thing you want to do is push into makeing a decision when he is not ready. i think you need to give yourself a time frame as to how long you...

Teen Dating Issues: I;m 16 she 14, 3 years
3 years: A two year age difference isn t much at all unless you re somewhere around 19 and 21. You may be a little more mature than her, but don t worry, it should balance out because girl mature faster. There s nothing wrong with it though. When I was 14, I dated...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm 18, he's 20, game works, dating game
game works, dating game, grabs: hi, its normal to be horny and want to have sex. by the 4th date i think you know if this is something you want to keep dating or not and i think its fine to have sex now. if you want to just give him a blowjob then thats ok too. im sure you would like...

Teen Dating Issues: i'm not sure what to do, casual relationship, friends with benefits
casual relationship, friends with benefits, cuddle: Robyn - Unfortunately you re finding yourself in a position that many girls find themselves in, the friends with benefits position. You end up falling for him because girls associate sex with love and use sex to get love whereas guys use love to get sex....

Teen Dating Issues: i'm not sure what to do, cuddle, 19 years
cuddle, 19 years, instincts: Robyn- Guys can be weird about this type of thing. One minute, they might want a relationship, the next minute they might get scared. I would do the same thing you guys have been doing and let time pass. Whatever happens will happen, just let it...

Teen Dating Issues: i'm not sure what to do, different girl, two friends
different girl, two friends, two boys: Rebecca, Well first what you need to start thinking about is who you like more..this boy or your present boyfriend. You have to have a sure answer no doubts about it. So who do you care about more-who do you want to be with more? Give yourself time to think...

Teen Dating Issues: ..i'm confused., playing basketball, image problems
playing basketball, image problems, half the time: Ok well, boys are known to have image problems. He might be the sweetest guy when you guys are alone and the meanest when you are in school. That is very common. They feel that being all physical with a girl somehow makes them less man. And perhaps his friends...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm confused about a guy..., friend thanks, separate ways
friend thanks, separate ways, ellie: Ellie, Well you need to confront this guy about how you feel and find out if he likes you. But from what you described he may really like you. But being one of those faithful boyfriends he won t leave his girlfriend because he does not want to hurt her...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm SO confused right now., cards on the table, heart to heart
cards on the table, heart to heart, bad person: hey max, i know it sounds cliche but you and your girlfriend really, really need to sit down and have a heart to heart. i m sure you re not a bad person and even though you made out with another girl, it stems from the fact that you were upset and confused....

Teen Dating Issues: I'm so confused.., casual date, girl friends
casual date, girl friends, cool guy: I m so sorry about that! Unfortunately a lot of girls flirt without meaning to come across as liking the person their flirting with. Maybe she does have feelings for you, but likes her boyfriend a lot. Just stick in there, and maybe when their relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm not sure if this fits..., double date, actully
double date, actully, first kiss: Im really sorry, but all the people you have asked are right. There is no step by step way to go about your first kiss. That would completely defeat the purpose. A first kiss is supposed to be unplanned, your not supposed to know what your doing. Really, it...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm not sure if this fits..., own pace, double date
own pace, double date, actully: There s really no step by step instructions. It does come naturally but here are some pointers: 1. Don t use too much tongue. No one enjoys choking. 2. Don t slobber all over him. 3. If you re not comfortable kissing him just yet then don t. Not everyone...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm having some issues with this guy.., magnet school, aquaintence
magnet school, aquaintence, self confidence: well I understand what you are goin through. Now, since you are only 13, I don t know what ya feel for him, say if you love him, really like him, just like him, something like that, but you should like stick up for him. Show him that you care. Tell them, you...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm Jealous, jealousy problem, dumb things
jealousy problem, dumb things, begining: Hi Katie! You just need to learn how to trust him, if you think he s hiding something from you, then you need to confront him and tell you how you feel. In the nicest way possible! Don t blow up at him if he hasn t done anything wrong. I can see how he gets...

Teen Dating Issues: i'm jessicas friend, share friends, keegan
share friends, keegan, self respect: Hi Jen, I m glad you wrote. I know how hard it is to love yourself and to demand that others respect you. It takes a lot of bad experiences and growing and learning to get there. I think some people are just born in that place, but others, like you and I,...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm Lonely, perfect girls, social animals
perfect girls, social animals, invisible barrier: Hi Eleanor. The answer is : there is nothing at all wrong with you. There IS something wrong with people. They are complex and hard to understand. This applies to all of them , including me and you! However, we get along well with some people for a certain...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm In Love With My Friend....., senior prom, open heart
senior prom, open heart, fun night: Hey Matt- I don t know if you ment this question to be for me or not but I saw that you have Jullian on here. So if not then that s okay. If so then I ll be glad to help you. I just want to make sure that you ment the question for me before I read it and...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm In Love With My Friend....., senior prom, open heart
senior prom, open heart, fun night: dont tell her your in love with her. that would probably scare her off. play it cool for now and see what happens. the fact that she said no to the prom tells me she is not ready for dating you. maybe she just really likes you as a friend and nothing more....

Teen Dating Issues: I'm In Love With My Friend....., senior prom, open heart
senior prom, open heart, fun night: matt- since you re friends with her, i really think that you should just sit her down and be completely honest with her about everything. it sounds like you guys have a really good relationship, it s definitely worth explaining all of this to her. and since...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm in love, but she's not, wrong decision, strong feeling
wrong decision, strong feeling, second chance: You will never know a 100% and people can give you two different answers from two different sides of the fence. Go with your gut feeling, no matter what, you will never know and may even regret it if you don t try again. If it does ruin the friendship, it...

Teen Dating Issues: i'm the problem, not him., ashley, rebecca
ashley, rebecca, relationship: Rebecca - If you were doing things you didn t want to be doing then it s probably best that you broke up. Only you know what is best for you and sometimes explaining that the problem is you and not the other person is more complicated than it sounds. If...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm in quite the predicament, talk to my friend, fact of the matter
talk to my friend, fact of the matter, predicament: Steve - If we re speaking strictly ethics then you should not go out with this girl because it wouldn t be fair to your friend because you know he likes her and whether she likes him or not is not the fact of the matter. But on the other hand, she is...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm Really Unsure..., e mail address, best bet
e mail address, best bet, drama club: Well, one way to go about it would be to get to be closer friends with him and things have their way of working out from there. You could also talk to him about it, just as long as you understand that situations like that can become awkward. If some one...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm really confused about this guy..., real girlfriend, rejection
real girlfriend, rejection, hasn: No this isn t confusing at all. You want to know where you stand in this relationship, i don t blame you. Communication in a relationship is important, so talk to him about it. Sit him down and just ask what you two are. Ask if your his girlfriend, if he says...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm in a relationship, but I have crushes. Is this normal?, smoking weed, kitchen floor
smoking weed, kitchen floor, boyfriends: Hello Kailey. I was JUST about to sign off All-Experts when I realized that I must have been questioned by you while answering another question. So before I get off; I ll answer yours. To be honest; this question is a little over me in a way, yet I ll see...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm running out of patience., meaningful relationship, attractive girl
meaningful relationship, attractive girl, flings: Hi Nicole, I know your problem. The guys (I believe) actually think that you are a try-hard. You THINK you re an attractive girl? Has anyone ever told you face to face? Move things along. Don t wait for a guy to ask you. YOU can ask a guy...

Teen Dating Issues: i'm scared, gf, good friend
gf, good friend, mom: You should ask her what she has against gay/bi people then ask does that apply if one of your daughters was gay/bi and see what she says. If she says she would disown them etc etc hold back from telling her Intoduce your gf as a good friend you have...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm secretly in love with by x's best mate :(, 9months, carra
9months, carra, friends mike: Hello again Stephanie. You re welcome for the 3 options, yet I m sorry if they were all 3 useless/dumb. I agree with you.. I think that Adam seems to be insecure.. And you leaving him for Mike, don t help much.. **Don t take that the wrong way, please.**...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm sorry this is so long but I need ur help badly..., friend amanda, backgorund
friend amanda, backgorund, friend josh: Heather, You re going to hate what I have to say, but I have a feeling that this is one of those instances in which you already know what is going on and just don t really want to accept it. Or maybe you just need confirmation of what you already know....

Teen Dating Issues: I'm sorry this is so long but I need ur help badly..., friend amanda, backgorund
friend amanda, backgorund, friend josh: Heather, Yes, you need to leave this guy. He is mentally abusing you. There is no excuse for what went on the other night. If he was seriously helping his friend move stuff around, then he could have at least called you back and tried to explain things...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm sorry this is so long but I need ur help badly..., friend amanda, backgorund
friend amanda, backgorund, friend josh: Hey sweetie, I am so sorry about all of this! And I am so sorry for this being so late. With homecoming, my birthday and a funeral I haven t had much time for anything.. Anyways i m sorry to say but your boyfriend (ex?) is an ASSHOLE. You did the right...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm sorry this is so long but I need ur help badly..., friend amanda, backgorund
friend amanda, backgorund, friend josh: Heather you were right hes an asshole! this guy doesn t deserve your love or your time. u dont need to approach him just say hey you lied to me ur friends lied to me your an asshole fuck off. if he treats you like that forget this kid. you deserve so much...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm going to start from the..., two different directions, holding hands
two different directions, holding hands, mean time: Hi Andie, you seem to have your head in two different directions. I don t think you should try to get together with the first guy unless you re absolutely sure you like him. you ve hurt him once already and don t want to hurt him again. Why not concentrate...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm going to start from the..., holding hands, mean time
holding hands, mean time, good friends: Andie, Hey! How are you? I hope you are having a great day. I am going to address this question opposite from the way you asked them. As for ths new guy, I really cannot tell you whether you like him or not. Nobody can tell you that; you have to...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm still not sure, contemporary worship service, strict upbringing
contemporary worship service, strict upbringing, real good friends: Beth, well you did say that he was nervous when he sang in front of you and was nervous around you. I don t think you said your best friend was there then, was she? If not, I think it s pretty clear that it is you he likes and is nervous around. Some guys...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm stupid as hell., first signs, good fight
first signs, good fight, good stuff: Finchous - If you go in with that attitude you ll probably psychosomatically mess things up. You should try being more positive about these kinds of things. Sometimes you got to go through a lot of pain to get to the good stuff. Trust me Keep fighting...

Teen Dating Issues: i'm a tad confused..., embarassed, jerk
embarassed, jerk, bf: I m not sure why guys do that.. although, many people change infront of different people. The best way to figure this out is to talk to him and tell him how you feel, because if hes acting like hes embarassed about you with his friends, maybe hes a jerk that...

Teen Dating Issues: Where do i go from here? m i being used?, cant promise, friends with benefits
cant promise, friends with benefits, amazing sex: with and age bracket like that there could be a million different reason why he doesnt want to get exclusive. and youre never gunna know till you ask him. tell him how you feel and let him know that what hes doing is bothering you and you feel used. hopefully...

Teen Dating Issues: I'm whipped!!, sandi, complete control
sandi, complete control, girlfriend: let her know how you feel (sounds like you already have) and what you think she should do to make things different. you have to commnicate and both come to an agreement on what needs to change. does she boss you around too much? ask her to stop. stuff like...

Teen Dating Issues: i'm not sure what to do, straight answer, ofcourse
straight answer, ofcourse, cuddle: Hi Robyn! How are you? Well my name is Lauren, and I am 22 yrs. old. Ok...well I used to deal with guys like that...ofcourse we didn t agree to anything and...we just did our thing. But I had feelings for the guy(s), and I knew nothing was ever going to come...

Teen Dating Issues: should i be mad?, vaction, 7 months
vaction, 7 months, luc: How old are you? When someone dies, their friends and family should support the person until they are in the right shape. They should support them at a higher level. Wouldn t you do the same for a friend? Please ask follow ups I need more information besides...

Teen Dating Issues: I made a mistake, realationship, realtionships
realationship, realtionships, good friend: It may be because of that night. If it is, all you can do is talk to her about it. Tell her that you didn t mean to (though she might overreact at that) and that if she would ve told you to stop, you would ve. Other than that, all you can do right now is...

Teen Dating Issues: maintain girlfriend interest, girl friend, dustin
girl friend, dustin, girlfriend: maybe she feels like she needs to talk to both you and her friends. i would give her the space to do this. be romantic with her when its just the two of you. listen to her more then talking. be her friend as well as her bf. hope that helped! :) sandi ...

Teen Dating Issues: I have a major guy problem., dunce, wrong idea
dunce, wrong idea, straight to the point: Well either this guy is really completely dense and doesn t get it or is avoiding the situation. That s for you to decide because you know him best but just tell him how you feel..again it s up to you to say I love you or not, but most guys do get a little...

Teen Dating Issues: major issue, barly, savannah
barly, savannah, relationship: Hey Emily- Well just give it a try for a little while longer and if you still feel the same then just tell him the truth that you don t think its going to work out. Also that you think that you two will be better as friends. Sometimes you start to feel...

Teen Dating Issues: I am having major problems..., having sex, 3 years
having sex, 3 years, feelings: HEY SORRY FOR THE DELAY IF BOTH OF YOU GUYS FEEL SO STRONG ABOUT EACH OTHER, SHE EITHER NEED TO LEAVE HIM OR LEAVE YOU ALONE. SHE CAN T HAVE HER CAKE AND EAT IT TOO, ITS SO NOT FAR TO YOU AND YOUR FEELINGS AND YOU NEED TO TELL HER THAT. JUST THAT SIMPLE...

Teen Dating Issues: makeing out after effects, weired, different things
weired, different things, instincts: Dear hojo, New things and experiences make everyone feel different things. She maybe feeling weird now because she might not have been ready and was caught up in the moment. Or perhaps she was always told that that kind of behaviour was inappropriate. If...

Teen Dating Issues: makeoutt, question type, little brother
question type, little brother, month and a half: Hello again Naomi. Once again; sorry for the delay in writing back to you.. It was my mistake because yesterday was the funeral viewing. Then today I had a dentist aptment AND and the funeral itselt, was TODAY.. It was my gf s dad s dad (my gf s grandpa)...

Teen Dating Issues: making out, playful attitude, followup post
playful attitude, followup post, first move: Hey Jack, Since you like her, my first suggestion would be to ask her out again; your chances of getting to make out with her (on a regular basis) will greatly improve if you re actually dating. Aside from that, you ll need some time alone with her to get...

Teen Dating Issues: making out, boy friend, first move
boy friend, first move, college grad: Agatha, wsell there are two ways u can deal with this and they are as follows, the next time you guys r making out you can either make gestures as to carry on the kissing longer--u know when you feel he s about to pull away hold on to him and keep kissing...

Teen Dating Issues: Does making out involve the tounge??, touge, tounge
touge, tounge, boyfriends: hey, yes making out does involve tounge. an easy way to avoid it would probobly be to get alot to eat and drink..keep your mouth full so he knows its not gonna happen. it sounds stupid but he ll get what your doing. thanks for the question - Meliss...

Teen Dating Issues: Does making out involve the tounge??, touge, tounge
touge, tounge, boyfriends: Hi Kate, No, making out doesnt always involve the tounge. Most likely your boyfriend will try to use his tounge though because he probably thinks all girls like it. If you dont want him to then just tell him as nicely as you can. I guess the main thing...

Teen Dating Issues: Does making out involve the tounge??, touge, tounge
touge, tounge, boyfriends: kate~ i guess the definition of making out depends on the individual person, but i don t think it has to involve tongue. although gross as it sounds, it s kinda fun. like, if you do feel his tongue in your mouth, don t flip out. i m not sure if you can avoid...

Teen Dating Issues: Does making out involve the tounge??, touge, tounge
touge, tounge, boyfriends: Making out does not have to include the tongue, its just that as you get into a heated make out session, the tongue is usually a natural step in the process. If you are really worried, I would talk to your bf about it! Let him know that you are compfortable...

Teen Dating Issues: Does making out involve the tounge??, touge, tounge
touge, tounge, holding hands: Hi Kate, Making out is usually just kissing with tongue. Sure people touch and feel but the best part of making out is supposed to be the kissing. If the thought of his tongue in your mouth grosses you out then you re not ready to be making out with him....

Teen Dating Issues: Does making out involve the tounge??, touge, tounge
touge, tounge, wail: Hi Kate, Yes it does have to have tongue. Making out is pretty much just frenching for a long time. The only way to avoid it is to just not make out entirely. There s nothing that can really go wrong wail making out, except don t let him touch you anywhere...

Teen Dating Issues: making plans, bf, few days
bf, few days, job: Okay first of all from what ive learned is that....you have to give guys space and let them work things out on their own terms, i think that you exprct too much from him (ive done it alot too) but just wait and see....hes obviously with you for a reason so...

Teen Dating Issues: making out, dear sarah, dimitri
dear sarah, dimitri, compromises: Dear Sarah I don t want to judge, but I don t think you love him nor do I think you have a reason to. If he is worthwhile he should not be making these compromises like make out with me, I have never done it before or else we can t be together...

Teen Dating Issues: this man..., friendship work, e mail
friendship work, e mail, good friends: Hey Ashley, I m sorry to hear that you re going through this difficult situation right now. I ve experienced a very similar situation in the past myself, so I know how you feel. Unfortunately, I think you ve already answered your own question: you just...

Teen Dating Issues: me and the man ive been living and sleeping with, boyfriend and girlfriend, good relationship
boyfriend and girlfriend, good relationship, main key: Wow, um, thank you for the block letters...ahem, anyways. I know you and him are not boyfriend and girlfriend, but you still have to talk to him and see what he wants. I would suggest you start going out and meeting new people because he s not all you got....

Teen Dating Issues: man so stupid, apishly, beating around the bush
apishly, beating around the bush, current boyfriend: Hi Mystee, First of all, you re not the first allexperts volunteer to seek help in this field, so don t feel so bad. So you left your first boyfriend because he was a jerk and now you met another guy and have been pretty good for two months now. Currently...

Teen Dating Issues: this man..., good friends, good luck
good friends, good luck, ashley: Dear Ashley, I think you answered your own question. You said he still wants to be friends and I can t do it. So don t do it. Things like this are too hard and it s no one s fault that they didn t turn out the way you wished they had but I think it s time...

Teen Dating Issues: marriage as a teen, bf, monica
bf, monica, girlfriend: Hey Monica, You should feel the love inside. When you think your ready but i would not rush things like that yet. Its normal for a human to have feelings for other people while with your bf or gf it don t mean you like that particular person your with...

Teen Dating Issues: My mates sister, pub quizzes, sorry bout
pub quizzes, sorry bout, twin sister: Hello again James. Actually, even with this info you gave me. You two seem to be good friends and hang-out a bit, so I don t know for sure why she didn t accept your offer. The next time you two talk, you can ask her why she won t go out with you.. Ask...

Teen Dating Issues: I'mdying for my daughter, mind games, blah blah
mind games, blah blah, boyfriends: Pat, Hello, how are you? I hope you are having a good day. Okay, this boy could be doing a number of things. I honestly think he wants to be in a relationship and once he gets into one he gets scared and bails. He is probably afraid of being with only...

Teen Dating Issues: What does it mean, out of the blue, good chance
out of the blue, good chance, half hour: hi, dont read anything in to it. take it slow. i think there is a good chance she likes you and may want to date you but who knows. women are funny! :) let her make the moves and maybe call in a few days to say hello and thats it. after that maybe...

Teen Dating Issues: What does it mean?, mr watson, guidence
mr watson, guidence, better with time: Emjay- Sorry to hear about your immature boyfriend...whoops...did I acutally type that? It s true, though. It sounds like you might have hurt his confidence a little by pushing him away and now he feels that you may not like him. He, however, needs to...

Teen Dating Issues: What does it mean?, rough spot, emjay
rough spot, emjay, doing the right thing: Emjay, Hey sweetie. I hope you are having a great day. He does not want to settle down into a relationship right now because he wants to make sure that he is doing the right thing. If he really likes you as much as you like him then he will realize that...

Teen Dating Issues: what does he mean, good luck, feelings
good luck, feelings: Hey, Okay, well, I think he was just saying that to you as a friend, it doesn t seem like it means anything much. Just take him as a friend. If he does more things that shows he has feelings for you, then go on and ask him what s up, good luck! -Jo =...

Teen Dating Issues: What did he mean?, sister nikki, wrong idea
sister nikki, wrong idea, unprotected sex: Hey there, I think he misinterpeted what you meant. I think he is pushing to ask you if you want to have unprotected sex. Sit him down and set him straight so he doesn t get the wrong idea. And really think it through, unless you are really really ready for...

Teen Dating Issues: ..what does this mean..., couple weeks, best time
couple weeks, best time, thanx: Probably nervous. Just give him some space and see how he feels. You have to talk to him in person to take care of this issue. Just talk to him, see how he feels. Call him at night, before he goes to bed it s the best time to call and he won t be busy. Have...

Teen Dating Issues: what does this mean?, rist, daniel radcliffe
rist, daniel radcliffe, notch: Well Bob, I say you flirt with her regardless. Be outgoing. Be confident. Keep being funny. If she likes you, she will probably kick it up a notch. If she doesnt, then you will probably start getting the I just want to be friends vibe from her. Either...

Teen Dating Issues: Does this mean he likes me now?, new girlfriend, dumb thing
new girlfriend, dumb thing, personal things: Is there a chance that your over thinking this? yeah. We do it far more then we really realize. But if he s acting in the way that you describe then you really can t push it all into the realm of it s all in my head It sounds to me like he may still...

Teen Dating Issues: What did he mean when he said that., one of my best friends, band friends
one of my best friends, band friends, year book: Amanda- Thanks for your question! If it was signed in a yearbook, who knows the meaning behind it. The best way to find out, is to ask him. Guys are generally pretty honest with their feelings, when they actually start talking. Talk to him and find out...

Teen Dating Issues: What does that mean?, stupid jokes, extracurricular opportunities
stupid jokes, extracurricular opportunities, awkward situations: Mike- Since you re both of a good mature age and you both sound like friends, I would casually lead into the fact that you re interested during a conversation. Try asking her to do something and if she shys away from it, joke around that she always says...

Teen Dating Issues: What this means, what this means
what this means: Thomas, What you think is correct, when she said as of now she does not want to see you she means that she wants to see you no more, she wants nothing to do with you. I m probably guessing that she was not ready to hear that you love her, may be it was...

Teen Dating Issues: What this means, good luck, little bit
good luck, little bit, what this means: Dear Thomas, I agree with your friend. She may just mean that she needs space and would like to go on a break to figure things out. Sometimes a relationship needs to be put on hold for a little while so both people can figure out if this is really what...

Teen Dating Issues: Where to meet?, long term relationship, maui hawaii
long term relationship, maui hawaii, right girl: Hey Victor. Thanks for getting in touch, I will try and help you the best I can. Normally, you would find girls in bars and nightclubs like you said. But you could meet the right girl anywhere, they say the right person for you is only a few blocks away....

Teen Dating Issues: Where to meet?, long term relationship, maui hawaii
long term relationship, maui hawaii, intrests: Bars and night clubs are a place to meet woman but the girls that will come up to you at these places might not be quite long term material...i sugguest you meet woman while pursing your intrests on the weekends. This way you can get to know the girl while...

Teen Dating Issues: Where to meet?, long term relationship, maui hawaii
long term relationship, maui hawaii, laundromat: It depends on what you are wanting here. Most people go to bars and nightclubs to have a good time and not for serious relationships; they don t even consider it. In order to meet someone with whom you re seeking a relationship, it s best to meet someone...

Teen Dating Issues: How do I meet people outside of school, state religion, how to meet girls
state religion, how to meet girls, private school: Can you tell me a drop more about your self and location. Thanks Please note we cannot promote dating here for anyone below the age of 16, so I will just be telling you locations for making new friends. I recommend becoming friends before dating. Please...

Teen Dating Issues: Where to meet?, long term relationship, maui hawaii
long term relationship, maui hawaii, party city: Sir, this is Lauren J. I am so sorry it s taken me a little while to get back to you trying to get back into school is a pain, and I know that s not your fault, but it s 12:03 AM right now, and I promise you I will get back to you later in today, and I REALLY...

Teen Dating Issues: meeting a girl youve never met before, likes dislikes, good friend
likes dislikes, good friend, joanne: Hey Mike, Alright, first off, when you meet the gal, say hi :P I know you can manage that. After that, ask questions about likes, dislikes, and things like that. Discuss hobbies, and just get to know the girl before you make any decisions about liking her...

Teen Dating Issues: meeting girls?, live in canada, guy friends
live in canada, guy friends, something fun: Hey Mark, Hmmm, small town. BUT! You live in Canada like me, so, why don t you get a group together, like your guy friends and some other girls and do something fun. Like skating! That s always fun to do. You don t have to ask anyone out, just have fun...

Teen Dating Issues: meeting mum and dad, mum and dad, familey
mum and dad, familey, arguement: Hello Ok this is a really good question. Now with me, I don’t like meeting parents either, I have had several bad experiences when it comes to meeting parents, so when I have to meet my girlfriends parents and I get really nervous. So what I believe the problem...

Teen Dating Issues: meeting new girls, attractive girls, physical relationship
attractive girls, physical relationship, dating girls: Hey, Okay, I would say, you give her your number, IF she doesn t give you hers, and yeah, give her a couple of compliments and talk, just don t act like a creeper/pervert! Alright? -Jo =) p.s. you can ask her on a date, then get to know her there...

Teen Dating Issues: meh, doin somethin, frapp
doin somethin, frapp, frap: you shouldn t feel guilty. technically you and that guy aren t going out. so why feel guilty about something that you didn t do wrong. i think you need to figure out who you like and take it from there. don t lead these two guys on when you don t want that...

Teen Dating Issues: i messed up, easy girls, talking to girls
easy girls, talking to girls, friend jessica: I can try and help! First things first, if you re a genuinely nice guy she would rather that, than any other guy in the school considering she is a cheerleader and most guys that probably like her are in fact JOCKS, the cliche type of scenario. The one thing...

Teen Dating Issues: She has messed up my head, 16th birthday party, one of my best friends
16th birthday party, one of my best friends, last question: Hi, This is not love. How come you would want to date her? How come you like her? Please understand dating at 15 may be illegal One last question, what were you feeling when she came onto you and why? I want to ask this to prove a point this is not love....

Teen Dating Issues: messed up,...help., game question, mind game
game question, mind game, head over heels: This is what happened to me, and I was confused and had no idea what was causing this default. It s only because, you look for the wrong things in these boys. You may be too much into their looks or something that draws you to them. That always, you are more...

Teen Dating Issues: messeddd uppp, game question, mind game
game question, mind game, uppp: Well, it could be any number of things. If it s because you like the mystery of a new relationship, then once you find out they like you, it s not a mystery anymore. Or, maybe you like the challenge. Several guys that I know are like that, it s slightly...

Teen Dating Issues: messing my chances, goodbye rachel, quiet guy
goodbye rachel, quiet guy, quiet girl: I don t fully promote Facebook or Myspace yet they help out sometimes in cases like this. My problem with them is safety. You can check if they have a Facebook or Myspace account and contact them. Be careful about them however. Please ask follow ups. Good...

Teen Dating Issues: i met a guy at camp..., aol screen name, camp security
aol screen name, camp security, o clock: Hi Lynn, sorry it took so long but I ve been on vacation and forgot to put me dates in. Of course it sounds like he liked you. He broke curfew for you and kissed and hugged you. Did you ever give him your screen name? You don t say if you live near each...

Teen Dating Issues: mimi, otherside, soulmate
otherside, soulmate, mimi: Well crap! I never really thought about that one.... it just didn t seem to cross my mind. Um..... Well you are right, he could either be happy for you, think that you never needed him, or that you are better off without him.... If I were you, I would become...

Teen Dating Issues: What is this? My mind's going crazy!, college orientation, blind sight
college orientation, blind sight, awkward moments: It sounds to me like you really like this girl Bobby. Sometimes who we re meant to be with can just come out of nowhere and blind sight us. But we really do just kinda have to reach out and grab those moments. Go for it man. If you think this girl is special...

Teen Dating Issues: I miss her, couple times, having sex
couple times, having sex, best friends: hi and thanks, there is nothing you can do to get her back. in fact if you keep trying to you will probaly push her away. i think you need to move on and start dating other people. if it will make you feel better then maybe you should not see her at all....

Teen Dating Issues: I miss my ex-bf, stubborness, good times
stubborness, good times, mona: Squeeks, Well you ve got to show him that some where deep down inside he did really like you, I mean who could stand going with a girl they didn t really like for almost a year just to make his ex-girl jealous...somewhere along the line he fell for you,...

Teen Dating Issues: Did I just miss something?, confusing business, awkward moment
confusing business, awkward moment, communication problem: It could be one of two things...either she likes you, or one of her friends likes you. Girls try to be very sneaky like that...watch for clues! If she s flirty with you, then she s interested in you...if you notice one of her friends always being extra nice...

Teen Dating Issues: mix signals, jump the gun, time thing
jump the gun, time thing, personal things: Eight, You re confused because of only one reason: You re thinking way too much about the situation. Relax. Breathe. I understand that girls can be a hassle sometimes, and that they can fill your head up with smog. Don t ever let someone, whether...

Teen Dating Issues: mixed signals., mixed signals, little hope
mixed signals, little hope, senior year: No problem, I m happy to help. :) College is a completely different ballpark; there ll be SEVERAL girls there your age and one is bound to catch your interest. Before you know it, this girl will be a distant memory. I know you think that you ll never find...

Teen Dating Issues: mixed signals, mixed signals, second date
mixed signals, second date, deep breath: Kate- First off, take a huge deep breath. Now, guys can be funny especially when they are as confused as you are. If they are interested in a second date, and you are showing an interest in a second date, then a second date will happen. Until then, relax...

Teen Dating Issues: mood swings, sudden mood changes, swing thing
sudden mood changes, swing thing, mood swings: Ahmed - It could possibly be her period. Does it happen about the same time every month? I would NEVER mention this to her though because it ll just piss her off. If it IS caused by her period you ll just have to stick it out or break up with her. ...

Teen Dating Issues: My mother && boyfriend, i don t know, close friends
i don t know, close friends, ashley: Lauren - I don t know what caused your breakup(s) but maybe if you told me then it would give me some insight as to why your mom suddenly dislikes him. I think you should probably sit down with your mom and have a talk with her about your boyfriend and...

Teen Dating Issues: should i make a move, fun tests, blah blah
fun tests, blah blah, anythin: We have an area on this site called How to know if someone likes you . You should ask there. The online tests I can give you are just fun tests and many don t work well. You should treat her how you like to be treated in theory, and you lost her by giving...

Teen Dating Issues: should i make a move?, positive signs, ashley
positive signs, ashley: Kate - If he doesn t like you then I d hold off for a while until you get more positive signs from him. If you want to make a move, then I d suggest asking him if he d like to hang out sometime and then asking for his number. It s casual yet flirty and...

Teen Dating Issues: Should I just move on?, whatnot, out of the blue
whatnot, out of the blue, courage: Heartbroken- Thanks so much for your question! It takes a lot of courage to ask for help in a situation like this! Sometimes when guys say they need time, they really need you to be there for them. I would ignore the label meaning, forget your dating...

Teen Dating Issues: when to make a move, girl friends, sleepover
girl friends, sleepover, first kiss: well dont feel pathetic b/c its completely natural to feel like that- me and my g/f felt like that sometimes when we first started going out..but i finally just sat down and we talked about it and i told her that sometimes i didnt know how she felt- cuz she...

Teen Dating Issues: How do I move on from this BIG problem, teenage guy, retarded children
teenage guy, retarded children, terrible person: Hey Charles- Well you need to stop beating yourself up. This is normal for someone to do this type of thing. I mean I know your feeling bad about what you have done and all but you can t keep beating yourself up for what you have done. Also maybe if you...

Teen Dating Issues: does she like me?/should i make a move?, computer class, bad experience
computer class, bad experience, school year: Michael, Yeah, see I warned you about this. I said a) she might start acting weird around you and you ll lose what you had with her. You should have really thought about it. You cannot bring it back up or things will continue to be weird. Let it go....maybe...

Teen Dating Issues: movie date, first date
first date: Hi Katie, Yeah it can nervous on your first date. Just relax and enjoy. If he wants to hold your hand or put his hand around, let him. That is of course if you want him to. If he tried to kiss you then kiss him back. Just let it happen. You can always...

Teen Dating Issues: am I moving too fast?, homecoming dance, wednsday
homecoming dance, wednsday, square 1: if she is not ready then she needs to basically let you kow when she is ready. let her know that you are fine with slowing things down and you will leave it up to her to let you kow when she is ready to date. that way you dont have to guess about it. its also...

Teen Dating Issues: Is he moving too fast?, long distance relationship, little break
long distance relationship, little break, 4 months: Ashley- Relax, you have every right to wonder what the heck is going on with this guy. From what you ve told me, it sounds like he is attracted to the feeling of a different relationship itself, rather than the actual person. Bear in mind, he probably likes...

Teen Dating Issues: moving forward w/ my bf, best intrest, sexual activity
best intrest, sexual activity, crotch: I don t think that it is in your best intrest to engage in sexual activity with your partner if you don t want to go all the way. Trust me I wanted the same thing that you did but my bf wasn t able to do that because he didn t want for it to go to far. You...

Teen Dating Issues: mystee help me please!, random groups, math class
random groups, math class, peoples names: Hi Andrew, Well its really seems like she is a very nice girl. It aslo seems like, if you belive in fate, you are deffanetly being brought together somehow. But sadly it I really think that the best thing to do is just as her to the movies or somthing. Girls...

Teen Dating Issues: my mystery guy.., mystery guy, self asteem
mystery guy, self asteem, trusted friend: sounds like this guy needs a little boost of self asteem. i guess its up to you on whether or not you want to continue to date a guy who is like this. he may grow out of it as he gets older. do your personalities fit together? if so then i would stick with...

Teen Dating Issues: I NEED HELP, spelling mistakes, sleeping problem
spelling mistakes, sleeping problem, technology class: Hi, I recommend to ask her for her screen name and email address online and start off talking to her there. It s easier usually. Be careful online. Remember online safety. I also recommend to become friends before dating. Please ask follow ups Talk to...

Teen Dating Issues: I NEED HELP REAL BAD..., long long time, fling
long long time, fling, close friends: Hi, If you deny the truth, you are having a lie in your relationship. The thing is if your relationship was meant to be, it should be able to handle truth and sooner or later he should know about how you cheated on him. The longer you wait, the harder in...

Teen Dating Issues: I JUST NEED HELP T_T, adult supervision, legal adult
adult supervision, legal adult, dillema: She, and her parents for that matter, need to realize that though her parents are probably trying to do what s best for her, she s old enough to know what is okay for her to do. She is a legal adult and no longer living in her parents home, unless they threaten...

Teen Dating Issues: NEED HELP!!!, girlfriend, starters
girlfriend, starters, good time: Eric, I hate to break it to you, but I dont think that this girl is very interested, but there s still hope! Just not for this girl. I never had a girlfriend when I was 14. I never even had a serious girlfriend when I was 16. Be confident in yourself....

Teen Dating Issues: Need Advice, indirect result, naysayers
indirect result, naysayers, counterattack: Hello Alex, In my opinion, the most important thing here is how you feel about this girl. The nasty (and by nasty, I mean disrespectful and mean-spirited ) rumors you ve been hearing are most likely the indirect result of one of her past relationships....

Teen Dating Issues: Need some advice, earler, ok guy
earler, ok guy, cafeteria: i dont for sure but if i had to take a guess i would say he just wanted to get some from you. i wouldnt be to quick to sleep with him yet if you are really looking for a relationship. if you think you just want to have sex with him and thats it then go for...

Teen Dating Issues: Need some advice, weird cause, random times
weird cause, random times, boy friend: She is using you because she just wants a boyfriend? Its easy to know , be very noticing ( not suspicious though) in any public situation. If she acts differently in front of people and does not like hanging out alone with you as much , then she might be using...

Teen Dating Issues: Need Some Dating Advice, wise advice, chat services
wise advice, chat services, life thanks: Matt- I ll tell you what my teacher told me when I said to him, I need a girlfriend . He said, if you are not happy alone, you will never be happy with someone . It s wonderful to have a person there, however, depending on them too much can be unhealthy....

Teen Dating Issues: I Need Some Help Please...., older girls, language reading
older girls, language reading, sam sam: Sam- Thanks for your question! To be honest, the age of girls that you are talking about aren t looking for the type of relationship you are. Also, the body language reading is usually found through experience. If you are interested, there s a great book...

Teen Dating Issues: Need help, boy friend, type of personality
boy friend, type of personality, relationship: Just be her friend man. I know it kinda sounds weird, but the more you hang out with her and be her friend then closer you two will get and the more chances there are for her to end up liking you. Just try to get to know her better and things will flow naturally...

Teen Dating Issues: Need help with my girl.., mixed emotions, heyy
mixed emotions, heyy, bestfriend: Hey Joey, It sounds like your relationship has a lot of things working against it. That doesn t mean it CAN T work, but I think you need to address these issues with your girlfriend. I d recommend having a serious, heartfelt conversation (preferably in...

Teen Dating Issues: Need help with girls, akward, conservative approach
akward, conservative approach, e mail: Connor, It s a fairly conservative approach. It won t be awkward, but don t expect alot of sparks to fly either. But if you need time to get comfortable with the girl, then that s what you have to do. Just dont wait too long until you try to hang out...

Teen Dating Issues: Need some help...., personal life coach, wise advice
personal life coach, wise advice, college girls: Hi Sam, Unfortunately, it s not easy to tell if someone is dating someone. When someone is married, it s usually easier to tell (they will be wearing a wedding ring, in most cases). But if they are dating someone, there really is no way to tell, unless...

Teen Dating Issues: Need just a lil more advice, forgetfulness, eye contact
forgetfulness, eye contact, little bit: Nak, If you can wait until the next day that you will be able to see her that would be better. If you do not have enough time, then you can ask the friend to deliver it. But only do that if there is no way you can get it to her. Regarding the parent...

Teen Dating Issues: Need a little advice, asking out a girl, open doors
asking out a girl, open doors, anwser: Nak, Hello! How are you? I hope you are having a good day. I agree with your friends, you should ask her out. The only problems that will arise based on age is if you make them problems. For example, she is probably not sexually active and if you are,...

Teen Dating Issues: Need an opinion from someone, kiss on the lips, one of the girls
kiss on the lips, one of the girls, friends at school: okay heres the thing if she uncomfortable making out in front of ppl thats her thing, it doesnt matter what other people say because its like if other ppl are comfortable doing it it should have no effect on wether you two are comfortable doing it. Its your...

Teen Dating Issues: Need ur advice., psyco ward, macho type
psyco ward, macho type, mail: Hey Minna- Your welcome. But yes I do believe in what comes around goes around. Trust me it s happened to me before. Also look you deserve so much better than this guy. Look at what he has done to you. The way he s treating you right now. You shouldn t...

Teen Dating Issues: I Need Her Back, soulmates, baby girl
soulmates, baby girl, ashley: Kellee - Unfortunately, if she doesn t want to be with you, there s nothing you can do about it. You can keep trying to convince her that you two should be together but unless she believes it herself, you might have to get used to being single again. ...

Teen Dating Issues: Nerdy guy that needs help!, fish in the sea, confident man
fish in the sea, confident man, nerdy guy: Mr. Crane, The only reason you are nerdy and weak is because you THINK you are nerdy and weak. When you approach a woman you have to be CONFIDENT and FUNNY. Im sure deep down there is a confident man inside of you dying to get out. Bury your insecurities...

Teen Dating Issues: Nerves., nerves, cousin
nerves, cousin, courage: Cassie- Thanks for your question! If I could provide an answer to that question, I would be the happiest man alive! The best thing for him to do is get a friend to go with him up to the girl and then fall back a little while he talks to her and does his...

Teen Dating Issues: So Nervous. I dont get it., cute guy, nervousness
cute guy, nervousness, whack: It s perfectly normal tat in situation changing events that you wish something hasn t happened. If you continue to feel nervous, as I have said before, I do suggest seeing a counselor or therapist. I suggest that maybe let things cool down a little before...

Teen Dating Issues: New guy in my life?, long term boyfriend, body shape
long term boyfriend, body shape, gut feeling: I do not promote online dating. You are putting your self in risk. I have handled predator cases here. Please talk to the police about online dating risks. Photos do not mean much online. I had people lie about photos. I do not recommend to go to his...

Teen Dating Issues: New relationship dating advice., tennis match, television art
tennis match, television art, sports school: Wow, you should definitely ask her out! By now she certainly knows that you care about her, by turning up at her tennis match. So yes, I absolutely think it s a good idea to ask her out on a date. If you re not comfortable maybe you could go with a group somewhere,...

Teen Dating Issues: Nicole help me please, random groups, math class
random groups, math class, peoples names: Andrew, Hey again. :) Thank you for the kind words. If she is around friends you can approach her by simply saying hello and yes...asking her how her summer went is a great way to start a conversation. Seriously, just talk to her about anything that you...

Teen Dating Issues: Nudism, sister mom, mom and dad
sister mom, mom and dad, ronno: i think your friend should have told you this before hand. anyways, i think you are at an age that you dont have to tell your parents everything. you are not doing anything bad or wrong. nudism is a normal thing for a lot of people. how do you think your parents...

Teen Dating Issues: Numb?, lots of girls, savannah
lots of girls, savannah, personality: Hey Mike- Well in my own opinion I would have to say that it is normal to feel that way now. I mean you ve been hurt by people that you liked and everything. But trust me you will get out of that stage and you will find someone. Give it time. You have...

Teen Dating Issues: need advice, sixth grade, bf
sixth grade, bf, tho: Hey Jezzy- Well here s the thing with this. You like this girl your with and everything but you have stronger feelings for this other girl and to be honest it s not fair to the girl your with. I mean she thinks everything is okay with you two and that...

Teen Dating Issues: I need some advice..., couple weeks, 5 months
couple weeks, 5 months, instincts: no thats not wrong at all. the problem i see is that he may use the fighting between the two of you to make some excuse that he doesnt want to date you anymore. so just be careful of that. i would try and not let him know you are upset either. play nice with...

Teen Dating Issues: need advice, cheys, kiss on the lips
cheys, kiss on the lips, one of my best friends: Ya pretty much just move on from the situation. It s gonna hurt but in time it will get better. It s good that it took you two six months to kiss, if that bothered him so much then it shouldn t bother you. You have enough respect for yourself snd that s something...

Teen Dating Issues: i need advice, good sense of humor, fish in the sea
good sense of humor, fish in the sea, informative book: Johnny, I don t see a point in even finding out why she wasn t answering your calls. If she doesn t answer your calls, then don t call her anymore. She shouldn t be worth your time. As a matter of fact, if you call a couple of times and get no answer,...

Teen Dating Issues: need some advice, army cadets, wether
army cadets, wether, pointers: Hey Jack, I hope I caught you in time. Well, if she wants to switch units, them I m pretty sure she s interested. Start dancing with her and get closer each time. Then when a slow song comes on, make your move! Don t ask her to the dance, you don t want to...

Teen Dating Issues: need some advice, changing the subject, guy friends
changing the subject, guy friends, barley: Girl you are so young! I wouldn t put up with a guy who obviously doesn t care. I promise you will meet plenty of guys and be on plenty of dates! I mean, maybe it was just a bad day for him and he really does love you, but if you can t work it out, move on,...

Teen Dating Issues: I need advice ASAP on long distance relationships.., long distance relationships, wrong decisions
long distance relationships, wrong decisions, crazy parties: I m very sorry it took so long to responsd! I had my vacation status up and somehow your question got through. First word of advice, do not choose a college because you feel you want to be closer to a guy! I know now it seems like the only option, but believe...

Teen Dating Issues: I need advice to keep my relationship alive, mom and dad, hey girl
mom and dad, hey girl, mates: Latasha, Hey girl. I have been through all of this myself. First off you need to know that the divorce is not your fault. I am positive that your parents are acting very strange towards you and one another. They are more than likely putting the problems...

Teen Dating Issues: i just need some advice, joining the air force, valentine s day
joining the air force, valentine s day, sharper image: Amanda- You re idea doesn t sound too girly at all. For Valentine s Day, my girlfriend bought a picture album from Sharper Image that you could record sound bites along with the pictures. If you sent him that, he would have pictures and sounds so he could...

Teen Dating Issues: need alittle help, sholder, savannah
sholder, savannah, relationship: Hey Jesse- Well just be there for her. She may just need someone to have a sholder to lean on while she s going through this break up. So just be there for her and let her know that if she just needs to talk or anything that your there for her and that...

Teen Dating Issues: i need the answer fast (datin emergency), first kiss, futher
first kiss, futher, begining: Well, it doesn t sound like youre very into this guy and your first relationship should be something special because it will probably be where you get your first kiss, etc. So, you want that to be with someone you really care about not with someone youre...

Teen Dating Issues: I need to break-up with a guy who, painless way, physical attraction
painless way, physical attraction, nice guys: im sorry that you didnt quite enjoy what i had to say but you have to remember that im just some random guy that you will never meet. youre the one that decided to confide in me and i gave you my opinion. you cant really ask for more than that. and i cant...

Teen Dating Issues: i need some dating help, th grade, dating help
th grade, dating help, nerd: Hey there, Okay, slow down, you re just 12. Doing that pot and oral sex stuff isn t good! Okay? Forget about him, he doesn t deserve you. And as for that other guy? Okay, if you like him, then it shouldn t matter if he is a nerd or not, if he likes you, then...

Teen Dating Issues: need to end this, sexual tension, head thanks
sexual tension, head thanks, time heals: All I can say is that, time heals all. There is nothing I can possibly say that will make you stop thinking about her. She is a girl that has indented herself into your heart, your mind. And until that indentation slowly decreases with in you, that s when...

Teen Dating Issues: I need feedback, serious relationship, amazing sex
serious relationship, amazing sex, great sex: Well, first of all, it s never good to lie to your parents, and you doing so just proves to them that you aren t ready for that kind of responsibility (aka, being able to have a serious relationship and make correct choices, etc). Tell your boyfriend that...

Teen Dating Issues: I need this girl back, offish, 19 years
offish, 19 years, girlfriend: i think you need to give her some space and pull back. do not call her and text her anymore. if you see her say hello, smile and keep walking. believe me, this is the best thing you can do right now. the more you try and get her back the more she will pull...

Teen Dating Issues: i need my girlfirend back!, arguement, gf
arguement, gf, half years: Firstly, I think that getting engaged at this age is very soon. Especially since, she s still only 17! She isn t even legal yet. She is right about something, she needs to figure out who she is without you there. Although she may love you, she needs to know...

Teen Dating Issues: i need some good advice, 10th grade, classmates
10th grade, classmates, good advice: Hello Kaitie! Girl, I was the same way! The guy who dumped you, wonderful, he lost something that could of been good for him. Why are you shy?! Its good a lot of people don t know you, here is your chance to talk to them, considering some people are more mature...

Teen Dating Issues: i need help!!, new years day, realtionship
new years day, realtionship, weekdays: Charley, I think you should slow down first. You already seem a little mad at him, so that question is taken care of. I think you should call him to see what is going on. Ask him if he s been too busy to call or see you lately. Do it in a sincere rather...

Teen Dating Issues: i need help..., college atmosphere, minute train
college atmosphere, minute train, scary experience: Hello Leeanna, I understand your concerns. College can be both an exciting AND somewhat scary experience for relationships like yours, and it s perfectly rational to feel the way you do about it. However, I d caution you not to be too quick to follow the...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help!!, temptations, relationship
temptations, relationship: Hi Max. Because your girlriend is moving, you re both going to have temptations because your partner isn t around. Before she moves, you should set some guidelines. I suggest going with an approach of trying to stay together and not specifically looking for...

Teen Dating Issues: i need help..., savannah
savannah: Hey Laura- Well it s really up to you and this guy if you two would want to date and everything. I mean also if he were to do some stuff with you such as sex and everything he could get into some trouble from the law because of it also. So if you wanted...

Teen Dating Issues: need help, hug goodbye, move man
hug goodbye, move man, bold man: Matt, Think of it as hanging out, but see how things work out at the concert. See if she gives any signals. But whatever you do, DO NOT tell her that you like her. Bad move, man. All that does is make yourself vulnerable. Don t tell her, SHOW her....

Teen Dating Issues: i need your help!!!, rollercoaster ride, second person
rollercoaster ride, second person, unresolved issues: He seems to have some unresolved issues that you need to let him work out before you start a relationship with him or you will be on a wild rollercoaster ride. He seems to still like his ex and until he is over her he will be completely into her and you deserve...

Teen Dating Issues: i need help, being friends, negative aspects
being friends, negative aspects, fiends: Don t force something with her if it isn t mutual, take your time. Start being friends and maybe it can develop into something as more than friends. But, as of now, you have to respect her and her decisions. She only wishes to be friends right now, and sometimes,...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help, school counselor, good luck with everything
school counselor, good luck with everything, consistantly: In this situation, I really can t help you much. People like your friend...they refuse to see the truth behind it all. She won t be leaving him anytime soon. What you can do, as her friend, is to seek professional help for her. A Psychologist, or Psychiatrist,...

Teen Dating Issues: i need some help, fellings, guy friend
fellings, guy friend, 10th grade: Hi Jackie, Just go for it! What s to be shy about? If you have feelings for him tell him! You just have to see if he likes you more than a friend as well. Talk him up, hang out alone, with your friends, with his friends. Just take it slow, and see how he...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help., two guys, tiffany
two guys, tiffany, fool: Hey Tiffany, thanks for getting in touch. I ll try and help as much as I can. First of all I m going to say three words, Follow your heart. I can t decide this one for you, I can advise you what to do but I can t tell you what to do as only you and your...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help..., one of those guys, good looking guy
one of those guys, good looking guy, millhouse: Hi, I m sorry to hear that. I use to be that way too actually. Because I was a tomboy, I was usually considered one of the guys! The best thing to do, would be to show girls that you are boyfriend material. You hear about how bad guys can be..prove to them...

Teen Dating Issues: i need help, girlfriend, jonathan
girlfriend, jonathan, jelouse: Jonathan, It is normal to be worried about loosing a signifcant other. All you can really do about it is realize that she s your girlfriend and completely trust her not to cheat on you. Also tell her that your lucky to have her so she knows that. I hope...

Teen Dating Issues: need help, sri lanken, sensative
sri lanken, sensative, skin colour: give it some time and see if she writes you. if not dont worry about it and move on. if she stops just because of something you said then you really dont want her as a friend anyways. if she is that sensative then she probably isnt someone you want as a friend...

Teen Dating Issues: i need help, one of those guys, heartbreak
one of those guys, heartbreak, nice guy: Ok well, you really like him don t you. He is probably one of those guys who likes chasing girls. If you re always there, he ll just think of you as a really good friend, he wont even consider you as more. That kind of sucks. So I don t think you should...

Teen Dating Issues: i need help, hallways, myspace
hallways, myspace: Be careful with Myspace. I cannot promote it. 14 years old are too young to date. Ask in our How to know if he or she likes you area if your wondering how much she likes you. I cannot promote dating, so just be her friend. You however must tell her your...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help on how to break up with my boyfriend, getting revenge, guilt trip
getting revenge, guilt trip, own medicine: Jessica, Hello hun. How are you doing? I am going to be very straight-forward with you so please do not be offended by anything that I m going to tell you. First off yes, you DO need out of this relationship. But at the same time, you cannot blame him...

Teen Dating Issues: i need help on dating, good relationship, cliche
good relationship, cliche, best time: Dear Dylan, The best time to do those things is when you feel them. You can t force yourself to say I love you and you can t force yourself to go to a level you aren t ready for yet and she isn t either. My best advice is to go slow with her and when you...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help gettting her back., probation, new friends
probation, new friends, thanks in advance: Hey Jantsen- Well just talk to her about all of this and find out what s going on with her and all. See what she wants and just let her know how you really feel about her and how you have done a lot of stuff for her and all. But just talk to her about...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help with this girl please:), grade 9, time don
grade 9, time don, gentleman: Kyle, It sounds like she could likely be interested in you, but you need to man up!! That means not treating her like a friend, and treating her like a lady. Now that doesnt mean taking her out to dinner every night or buying flowers, but you should still...

Teen Dating Issues: need help getting over a girl, chocolate ice cream, getting over a girl
chocolate ice cream, getting over a girl, chocolate works: Well, you could have a random party. Invite your closest friends (guys, not girls). Have a slumber party or something. Whatever guys do. or go to a movie.Do something to get your mind off her for a while. Read a book. Go to a concert. watch random shows on...

Teen Dating Issues: need help with my girlfriend, leech, out of the blue
leech, out of the blue, girlfriend: Hi Tyler, I m extremely sorry it took me so long to answer your question, but my computer has been acting crazy! I m sorry that she thinks you re annoying all of a sudden, but maybe you re right. Now that she has a friend, it seems she s becoming more distant..and...

Teen Dating Issues: i need help with girls, boy friend, friendships
boy friend, friendships, good luck: Hi Sean. The best way to go about this is talk to her. Be as helpful as you can as she may be still hutring over her recent breakup, and once you know that she s okay again, tell her your feelings. The best relationships come from friendships, so you re off...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help moving on....., hey nicole, girly girl
hey nicole, girly girl, voice messages: hey Katey, well you can t force him to be friends with you, and he made it clear he didn t want to be. dont try to be his friend when he is going to treat you like that. if he wanted to be your friend he would of shown it. later in life when he is able, he...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help moving on....., girly girl, first love
girly girl, first love, jerk: Bridget- You did the right thing to call him and tell him off . What he was saying to you was uncalled for. It s basically a defense mechanism on his part to chase away things that might hurt him. The best way I ve found to get over someone is to...

Teen Dating Issues: i need help please~!, freaks, pointers
freaks, pointers, best friends: The first thing that you need to do is have your dad sit down maybe across from you and tell him that you need to talk to him about something important. Tell him that you love him and that it is nothing bad. Be honest with him about how you feel and tha you...

Teen Dating Issues: I need help on my problem..., problems at home, first love
problems at home, first love, girl friend: If you want to see him happy then stop messing around with him. Be his friend, thats all that it takes. Forsake the rest of it and just be his friend. Friendship is the corner stone of happiness so just be his friend and let the chips fall where they will....

Teen Dating Issues: i need help on my relation ship, breakups, ellie
breakups, ellie, lad: Ellie - If you don t feel the same way as he does there s nothing you can do about it. If you don t think you ll ever feel the same way maybe it s best if you did break up. I know you say he gets moody but a lot of people get upset over breakups. You can...

Teen Dating Issues: need help talking, nerves, self esteem
nerves, self esteem, laugh: James be yourself. The easiest way is to establish yourself as the prize, imagine she already likes you, and she is trying to get you, you should try to make her laugh, taese her a little, dude she s just a girl, she won t bite lol, well she might, trust me,...

Teen Dating Issues: i need help, god sister, advie
god sister, advie, lastnight: Hey Sunshine, I would date him. If he likes you and you like him then go for it. If he really doesnt like your god sister then its not like your getting in the way of them dating. Just be homest with your god sister and tell her that you like him and you...

Teen Dating Issues: i need to know, keep your distance, dood
keep your distance, dood, good luck: Hey there, Well, it seems like they have been talking about you! Maybe he likes you and his friends are teasing him about it. If you like him back, then sit by him more often, but if you don t then kind of keep your distance for awhile. Good luck! -Jo...

Teen Dating Issues: I need to know, afriad, tone down
afriad, tone down, fling: Hey there, Hmmm, maybe she isn t as serious with you as you are with her. Perhaps just tone down the seriousness a bit. Talk to her about it, ask her if she s in for the long run, or if it s just the fling. It could just be her feeling a bit pushed and things...

Teen Dating Issues: I need to known how to ask someone out, good luck, comedy
good luck, comedy: Hey there, Ask her to check out a movie with you. Try like a comedy, something you guys can laugh about together later on in the week or something. It s like little inside jokes! You don t have to specify if it s an actual date or not. Just see how it goes,...

Teen Dating Issues: I need a lil help, question pool, point in time
question pool, point in time, girlfriends: hey, I found your question in the question pool and i think i may have some advice for you...Just take a chance you will never know if a girl you dont know could possible have a small thing for you.Alwayz take a risk everybody has to at some point in time...and...

Teen Dating Issues: I need a lil help, girlfriends, good luck
girlfriends, good luck, girls: Chuck, I m more than happy to try and help you. I understand your situation, I come across many guys like this. It doesn t matter that you find it hard to talk to girls. The thing to do is, just push yourself. I m guessing when you see a girl who s good...

Teen Dating Issues: I need reassurance..., kiss the fact, friend alex
kiss the fact, friend alex, first mistake: hey jessica, i think that you did the right thing. even if nobody else had seen the kiss, the fact that you love your boyfriend so much would have been enough reason for you to come clean. i think that when you really love someone, it s hard to keep secrets...

Teen Dating Issues: I need serious help, kiddy area, baseball game
kiddy area, baseball game, dead battery: I m sure you can live without her, it just won t be very enjoyable, right? And are you on speaking terms with her family or anyone else she is close to and listens to? Like her mom or her best friend? If so, you could ask them to talk to her about why she...

Teen Dating Issues: i need someones honset opinion..., t rush, girl friend
t rush, girl friend, good luck: Hey there, Alright, well, if you really want to be with her, you have to trust her. If you really feel that connection with her, then you should trust her and let her be the different one. As for saying the three little words, well, it should just happen....

Teen Dating Issues: needed reassurance, friend alex, first mistake
friend alex, first mistake, names jessica: Jessica, what you did was the mature and responsible thing to do. You HAD to tell him, it wasn t a matter of IF or WHEN, you had to. That s what people do in relationships when they ve done wrong. They confront the situation and take care of it. Unfortunately...

Teen Dating Issues: nervous......., directness, pervert
directness, pervert, persistence: Hahaha yes I see your point. Well you could form it more as a question maybe like... And if it s okay with you, I would like to date your daughter. This isn t the only way, you can change it however you see fit. But I think this way isn t so pervert-ish....

Teen Dating Issues: after getting a new b/f, best of luck, vibes
best of luck, vibes, friendships: Valentina, Hello! You have to be straight-forward, there s no way around it. Tell them that you would really like to keep them as friends. Maybe they will understand and accept it, but honestly most guys don t just want to be friends. It s hard for them...

Teen Dating Issues: after getting a new b/f, vibes, friendships
vibes, friendships, sweetheart: hey, probobly the easiest way to let other guys know that you re taken is to ask them somthing like so, have you ever seen that new movie with so and so in it? and they l answer either yes or no and you can be like oh, me and my boyfriend were dying to...

Teen Dating Issues: new boy in my life, relashionship, anie
relashionship, anie, open communication: Anie - I think the only person who can tell you what kind of relationship you may or may not have is the guy you re involved with. You should sit down and talk with him and see what his intentions are and just lay everything out on the table in the open....

Teen Dating Issues: My new boyfriend, new boyfriend, boyfriends
new boyfriend, boyfriends, bridget: Bridget, First off, I just want to say that this guy doesn t seem like that great of a person if he was treating you like his girlfriend when he already had one. Also, if you don t know if you can trust him, that s another sign that something is wrong. Try...

Teen Dating Issues: A new gameplan..., light of hope, gameplan
light of hope, gameplan, tardies: Will, You give me too much credit, and put too much stock in my ability to solve things for you. I can only lay down the rails; it is up to you to drive the train… I will do my best to help you, but I am not cupid, and I sincerely hope that things work...

Teen Dating Issues: new girl, conversation starter, simple hello
conversation starter, simple hello, new girl: Austin, The easiest conversation starter is a simple Hello. You don t need a long scripted conversation starter to talk to her, more likely than not if you did write something out you d stumble half way and show her it was all an act. The easiest way...

Teen Dating Issues: A new school year and I'm still confused, mixed signals, sweetest things
mixed signals, sweetest things, being friends: Hey Jack, well first of all I think that you should just let it go..I mean personally dont even stress about having 4 classes with her and all that other stuff. Truthfully I think that you should just let her know that there is something that you want to get...

Teen Dating Issues: A new school year and I'm still confused, mixed signals, sweetest things
mixed signals, sweetest things, being friends: First thing you need to do is figure out how you feel. If you decide you really do like her as more than a friend, you need to do something about it! There is nothing worse than not knowing how someone feels about you, and you don t want to let this pass by...

Teen Dating Issues: A new school year and I'm still confused, mixed signals, sweetest things
mixed signals, sweetest things, being friends: Hey, I m so sorry that you have to be going through this, I know how it feels to be confused about liking someone. Well i ll try my best to help you out.. From what you have told me you said she keeps stressing the friend part, may be she does that because...

Teen Dating Issues: A new school year and I'm still confused, mixed signals, sweetest things
mixed signals, sweetest things, being friends: Jack- Maybe this girl doesn t realize that she s sending you mixed signals. I don t think that she s trying to hurt you intentionally. there are a few things I want to address: 1. The school year; this may be a good opportunity to make better friends...

Teen Dating Issues: A new school year and I'm still confused, mixed signals, sweetest things
mixed signals, sweetest things, being friends: Jack, I have gone through similar problems and the best advice I can give you is to start looking for other options. I know you like this girl, but if she is already using the f-word (friends), then things might not go the way you like. It s good that...

Teen Dating Issues: A new school year and I'm still confused, mixed signals, sweetest things
mixed signals, sweetest things, being friends: hey jack. sorry for taking so long to respond to you. it was my birthday weekend and i took off with friends for the weekend. as for your question. i so sympathize with you here. it seems like this girl wants you as nothing more than a friend. she loves...

Teen Dating Issues: A new school year and I'm still confused, mixed signals, sweetest things
mixed signals, sweetest things, being friends: Hi, I was in a similar situation. Just play it out as friends for now and see where it goes. Most likely if you are that good of friends, feelings change. Usually fast. Try also playing the field - it would see if she is really into you and could give you...

Teen Dating Issues: A new school year and I'm still confused, mixed signals, sweetest things
mixed signals, sweetest things, being friends: Hey Jack. Thanks for getting in touch, and I will help you to the best ability I can. This is a hard situation, and I understand how you feel, believe it or not. This girl sounds confused herself, like she doesn t know how she feels or what she wants. However,...

Teen Dating Issues: A new school year and I'm still confused, mixed signals, sweetest things
mixed signals, sweetest things, being friends: Hey Jack, hum,Well, have you tried talking to her about it? Maybe she does like you, but is afraid that you don t like her, so she keeps on hinting at friend in hopes that you will correct her. Try talking to her about it. If she really doesn t like you,...

Teen Dating Issues: A new school year and I'm still confused, mixed signals, sweetest things
mixed signals, sweetest things, being friends: i think you should talk to her about how you feel. dont let her know that your falling for her or anything like that. just let her know that you think you may be liking her more then friends and she what she says. just be prepared for what she might say...

Teen Dating Issues: A new school year and I'm still confused, mixed signals, sweetest things
mixed signals, sweetest things, being friends: Hello. This is actually a rather common issue, one i have dealt with myself. Does she like me? Should i put my emotions on the line for her? What i suggest to you is to ask her how she feels. At least, at the end of one possibly awkward conversation you will...

Teen Dating Issues: new years dilemma, absolute honesty, dilemma
absolute honesty, dilemma, cigarette: Lindsey- Warning: Absolute honesty is about to take place. Since the guy is your boyfriend s best friend, I would tell your boyfriend everything that happened and let HIM decide what do to. Since you weren t in a good state of mind when the event occcured,...

Teen Dating Issues: what next?, separate ways, couple weeks
separate ways, couple weeks, mona: Ron, Well what you guys need not to do is keep in contact with each other because if you keep meeting up falling for each other and then going your separate ways you guys will never get comfortable with each other. So now you have to keep in contact. Get...

Teen Dating Issues: What next?, relationship
relationship: Stephen, Well what you do next is up to you-it s good that you ve told each other how you feel now all you can do is go out and have fun, spend time with each other, talk to each other. If you re worried about the kissing part that s something that comes...

Teen Dating Issues: me again!, looking into your eyes, new girl
looking into your eyes, new girl, 3 years: Hey, good for you! I think you are handling this situation perfectly. Maybe the next time you guys are together, you could take his hand in yours to show him that you did not mean for him to stop touching you, just that other guy : ) I think you should keep...

Teen Dating Issues: What should I do next? She said, dartmouth college, thoughtful response
dartmouth college, thoughtful response, mature girl: Hey Matt, It s possible that she s playing hard to get. Again, I don t know what she s thinking and can t speak definitely on it, but from what you ve told me, it IS possible. Here s a description from wisegeek.com: As with many activities in life,...

Teen Dating Issues: When should I take the next step?, flirty, good luck
flirty, good luck, relationship: Let him make the move. But if you want it to, make it. He might respect you a lot, and not want to push anything so early. Show how much you like him(extra flirty) and discuss it. You can also be spontaneous and surprise him. They always love it. Good luck...

Teen Dating Issues: next thing?, tae kwon, tekken 5
tae kwon, tekken 5, email works: No, this is fine. Well, I think that he wants to be in a relationship, but maybe not right now. Just wait for him. He ll come to his senses soon enough and ask you out. I hope. But yes, I definately think he likes you as more than a friend. And to your...

Teen Dating Issues: What to do next, homecoming dance, ok whats
homecoming dance, ok whats, realtionship: Will, Your letter did receive a couple of chuckles on my end; you have a very unique way of getting to the point. You need not bow down to me or anything of that sort, a simple rating and comment will suffice. Beginning with the flame analogy, although...

Teen Dating Issues: Was too nice, now in friend zone, friend zone, year one
friend zone, year one, strange reason: Ah, the dreaded friend zone. It s possible yes, I ve seen it happen. I ve also done it, but on accident. Yet, I think I can tell you how it s done based on what I ve experienced. To start off on a light note before we get too serious, the friend...

Teen Dating Issues: Was too nice and want to fix it, friend zone, year one
friend zone, year one, strange reason: Sometimes I wonder if you would just be wasting your time but a lot of wise people have told me that you never know what can happen till you try again so I would say go with that route first. But only once. If you try to contact her again and she says no then...

Teen Dating Issues: nicknames, hey babe, nicname
hey babe, nicname, nicknames: How about babe? or baby? I myself call my boyfriend babe although he isn t much for nicknames I still call him it from time to time. You could be casually talking on the phone with him and then be like, hey babe . Markeisha P.S. There is also:...

Teen Dating Issues: nicole i'm back and need advice, grade 9, two girls
grade 9, two girls, beautiful thing: Andrew, Sweetie relax. Ask the girl at your locker out on a date. You will know after the first few dates if you really like her or not. You don t know either of these girls well enough to know if you like them or not. Do things with them to find out....

Teen Dating Issues: Am I normal?, teenage dating, most teens
teenage dating, most teens, heartache: I receive this question every once in a while. The fact is when I grew up, and my parents grew up, they were taught that 13 was too young to date. Today I think 13 is too young to date too, however with more and more TV promoting dating on teens, some people...

Teen Dating Issues: notice me!, eye contact, cliches
eye contact, cliches, myspace: FLIRT! We re all flirting a lot without knowing it anyway, but if you ever want to tell soemone you like them, without making it blatantly obvious, flirt like hell with them. Talk to him a lot more, ask questions, smile a lot at him, keep eye contact, touch...

Teen Dating Issues: notice me!, hallways, eye contact
hallways, eye contact, myspace: hey nicole, I think a good way of letting him know that you are interested in him without actually saying it might be making some eye contact with him when you see him in the hallways then smile this should hint him that you are nice available and you are...

Teen Dating Issues: notice me!, open invitation, free time
open invitation, free time, myspace: Nicole, If you want to get this guy s attention you have to carry yourself well. Be confident in the way you flirt with him without coming on too strong. Don t be afraid to ask him to hang out. Make it seem like an open invitation, so it sounds like...

Teen Dating Issues: how should i get him to notice me?, mysterious behavior, sluty
mysterious behavior, sluty, intrest: Why can t you talk to him? I guess you could write him a note if you wanted to, but that would probably be a little more forward than you want to be. Just say hey to him around school and try to flirt with him. But, if not then you can write him a note...

Teen Dating Issues: how could i get him to notice me??, baby steps, little bit
baby steps, little bit: Hi Danielle, Truthfully, only he will ever know how he really feels about someone, so I can t tell you that. But getting him to notice you probably won t be too hard. Are you friends with him? Have you ever talked to him before? If so, ask him to get together...

Teen Dating Issues: notice me!, myspace, good luck
myspace, good luck, freshman: i also believe in just telling it like it is. i think you should just approach him and start talking to him. see how he reacts and maybe even ask him out. think about what you want to say before hand and just do it! :) think about what you want to say and...

Teen Dating Issues: nt sure, noes, dere
noes, dere, skool: Just talk to him about it Angelina. Sit down with him and ask him where you guys stand. If you both like each other then shy shouldn t you date. Things won t get better until you are both on the same page. -Remember, keep life in-between the lines Bryan...

Teen Dating Issues: Obsession, central cali, beating around the bush
central cali, beating around the bush, acceptable answer: hi, if your really scared of him then i would not see him before you go. it sounds like your a pretty smart girl and can judge what kind of guy this is. i would make sure you tell your close friends and or family about this guy just in case he tries to...

Teen Dating Issues: Obsession, central cali, beating around the bush
central cali, beating around the bush, acting this way: Hi, how are you doing? My name is Lauren, and I am 22 yrs. old. I live in DC. Um...so the guy you want to be friends with is acting this way? Well...you know this may sound silly, but I went to couseling for awhile and they gave me pamphlets on signs a guy...

Teen Dating Issues: Odd feelings, teen problems, taking your time
teen problems, taking your time, colton: Colton, I m a bit suprised getting in a question at this time it s 12:08 a.m here but it s not a problem. What s happening to you I wouldn t go as far as caling it full depression..it s more to say that you re obviously in love with her and that being...

Teen Dating Issues: Odd signs, odd signs, school stuff
odd signs, school stuff, bestfriend: Xavier - If you really like her, I d ask her to hang out outside of school so you guys can get to know eachother better and talk without the pressures of school or the other guy around. You can find out what interest you guys have in common and start talking...

Teen Dating Issues: Oh Boy!!!, aspiring actors, relationship
aspiring actors, relationship: The best thing to do is to just tell her now that you don t want the relationship anymore. It will hurt her but its better to get the pain over with then have her wait for you and you not want her. She ll be ok. And about the other girl, just ask her to...

Teen Dating Issues: Oh man..., sophmore, readin
sophmore, readin, time right: Dear M, I don t think the age is a problem but I don t know if she will think it is or not. You just have to bite the bullet and ask her out. If she s with her friends, just go over and say Hey Reynee, could I talk to you for a second so that she ll move...

Teen Dating Issues: Oh man..., happy birtday, math class
happy birtday, math class, good person: Dear M, I think you have to start reading girl s signals better. I would think that if this girl were the least bit interested in dating she would not be telling you her sob story of how she doesn t have any time. If she can t get a break on her birthday,...

Teen Dating Issues: Ok Ashley this is the deal..., jack pot, girl at school
jack pot, girl at school, shy around women: Jake - Tell her she makes you nervous. Tell her how much you like her and how you feel as if your nervousness is pushing her away and you don t want that. Hopefully if you talk to her about it she ll be more willing to make the first move and understanding...

Teen Dating Issues: Ok tell me what you think..., eye contact, laugh
eye contact, laugh: Damir, Hey! I hope you re having a great day. It is possible that she likes you but the only way to find this out is by asking her out. I would suggest getting to know her better first. Try to talk to her more and make eye contact. If you re still convinced...

Teen Dating Issues: Ok tell me what you think..., bias, good luck
bias, good luck, laugh: Your telling me your one sided review and that shows bias. I assume you like her and for this that s why I am saying that. I am sure there may be things she does that says otherwise. However, from the information you gave me, yes she could like you. Good...

Teen Dating Issues: Okay., math test, e phone
math test, e phone, occasionaly: Hey M, I m glad she finally replied although I didn t care for the tone of her letter. I m getting the vibe that you are crowding her. I would reply to her email with something like this: Hey Ola, sorry if it seemed like I was hunting you down, I just got...

Teen Dating Issues: Old boyfriend, old boyfriend, ex boyfriends
old boyfriend, ex boyfriends, fiance: Madison - This guy has a kid. A kid is that is always going to be a part of his life and as young as you both are (especially you) that s not something you should have to deal with at this point in your life. I would say to stay clear of any new relationships...

Teen Dating Issues: Old School Parents, school parents, losing sight
school parents, losing sight, morals: I really sympathize with your situation as my parents are the same way. But, if you are still under their control (under 18 years old) there s really nothing that you can do about it. But, if you like a guy you can fill him in on your parents standards....

Teen Dating Issues: Older Girlfriend, bad idea, girlfriend
bad idea, girlfriend, relationship: Justin, This is a decision that only you can make. Is it worth going through all of it again just to find out that it might not work out? If so, then go for it. If not, then don t. Basically you ll have to decide exactly how you feel about her. If...

Teen Dating Issues: Older Girlfriend, happy holidays, bad idea
happy holidays, bad idea, good reason: It s really your choice. I wouldn t without a good reason. The thing is you may not know what love is. She didn t love you enough to stay with you for longer. Do you want to get hurt again by asking her back out, and in a little time getting dumped again?...

Teen Dating Issues: Older Girlfriend, jahova, merry christmas
jahova, merry christmas, bad idea: Justin, Justin, Justin. First of all it s 1:07 AM, so Merry Christmas. You re the first person I said that too. How are you? Well, my name is Lauren, and I am 22 yrs. old. Ok Justin I know you are younger than her but that doesn t mean you are less smarter....

Teen Dating Issues: Older Guy..., great time, relationship
great time, relationship, older guy: While i really can t condone a 16 year old dating a 21 year old it is your life. If you think that he might like you and you think that the relationship could actually work out then talk to him about it. Maybe he does? -remember, keep life in-between the...

Teen Dating Issues: Older girl.., real girlfriend, first kiss
real girlfriend, first kiss, weird thing: If you want to ask her out, then go for it. real simple. Yeah you are risking the friendship, but lets be honest here. No risk, no reward. If you really like her then you know that it ll be worth it if she feels the same way. Ignore the age issue, age...

Teen Dating Issues: Older girl likes me but I don't like her back..., http www myspace, pretty girl
http www myspace, pretty girl, jerk: To be honest I am not sure if there is a less hurtway way out other than telling her the truth. I dont think that she would fault you for being honest but the sooner that you do tell her the better. Just tell her that you are flattered that she likes you but...

Teen Dating Issues: Older guy...., july 31st, 23 august
july 31st, 23 august, having sex: i completly understand. its hard when your just not sure whats going on. i still say, your young and in 10 years you will look back and say, wow, why did i do that! . i think you should continue to be friends with this guy but maybe keep it at just friends....

Teen Dating Issues: Older guys., romantic feelings, parents ages
romantic feelings, parents ages, infatuations: Due to the ages it may be illegal to date. I am here if you want to talk about why you are getting those crushes, yet I do recommend a psychologist because you mentioned the self esteem topic. It s very common for girls of your age not to date. Never to...

Teen Dating Issues: Older men, friendly church, church member
friendly church, church member, nice stuff: Kate, Well eventhough you re eighteen, i think he would still see that as wrong, sixteen year difference is a lot,..may be when he came to you telling you those nice stuff he was doing it as a friendly church member, and not someone who has feelings for...

Teen Dating Issues: Older men, serious relationship, 18 year olds
serious relationship, 18 year olds, older men: Hey Kate, Okay, he s 34 and hes not married or in a serious relationship? And you don t find that strange? (Maybe im just strange, LOL) Anyways, he may think that you guys are good friends because you just turned into a legal (well, where I am from) adult....

Teen Dating Issues: Older men, sad thing, older men
sad thing, older men, jerks: You should not and cannot date a 34 year old at the age of 18. Guys who date such young girls are jerks. You ever wondered what people would think about you dating him? You admit to your depression. What you are going through is a common thing called ...

Teen Dating Issues: Older men, older men, begining
older men, begining, good friends: listen , i dont think he likes you because otherwise he would have shown you some signs that he did. You cant make someone to like you if he doesnt like you just a little bit at the begining. I think you should stay friends , and for you .. to start liking...

Teen Dating Issues: Older men, hey kate, young adult
hey kate, young adult, older men: Hey Kate, What I wonder is why you want this guy to like you. Is it because he treats you well? Is it because he is older? It looks like he just wants to be friends with you. And it may be because of the age difference. It may not be the fact that he thinks...

Teen Dating Issues: Older men, dating older men, age gap
dating older men, age gap, maturity level: Kate, I know it may seem like you instantly become an adult when you turn 18, but I ll be honest with you. It is all just a major misconception. 18 is just a number. I m 18 and the only thing that really changed is that I can sign a few things that I couldn...

Teen Dating Issues: Older men, sixteen years, older men
sixteen years, older men, good friends: Kate- Sixteen years is a big difference. While you may not understand right now, there are things that you will make it extremely hard for you to be in a relationship with someone that much older. Also, it sounds as if this man may not be quite as in to...

Teen Dating Issues: Older men, relationship problems, older men
relationship problems, older men, good friends: Hey Kate- Well technically you are a kid to him. He s 34 and your just 18. That s a huge age difference. I mean sure you may want him to like you and everything. But what you can do is just be friends with him. There s nothing wrong with that. I have a...

Teen Dating Issues: Older men, adult responsibilities, old person
adult responsibilities, old person, infatuation: Hi Kate, My opinion, to him you might be a kid, but you re not. See in this case you have a 34 year old person who has work, and further adult responsibilities, whereas you are just entering your adulthood. Infatuation from him is next to impossible,...

Teen Dating Issues: Older men, love potion number nine, older men
love potion number nine, older men, good friends: Hello Kate, I m sorry to hear that you re going through this frustrating situation right now. You re right: 18 is definitely not a kid anymore, but perhaps the problem isn t your age. Maybe he just doesn t feel the same way about you that you feel about...

Teen Dating Issues: Older relationships, straight to the point, half year
straight to the point, half year, having sex: No, no it s not. Not even close. Not only is it legal, it s also perfectly ok. Theres a what, 2 and a half year age difference, thats nothing. Age really is just a number trust me. Go for it, don t pass up on something that could make you both really happy....

Teen Dating Issues: OMG I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO, algebra class, adorable girl
algebra class, adorable girl, emanuel: Hang out with her more, tell more funny jokes, don t show any interest in her, act cocky lol, girls oddly find that attractive, but every once in a while do something like put her hand into yours or put your arm around her but don t be too intimate, trust...

Teen Dating Issues: OMG Nicole, compacter, best day of my life
compacter, best day of my life, group projects: Andrew, I am glad that you have a class with her. There are some things you need to understand. One is that you cannot change this girl. Just because her friends act one way, does not mean she s like them. Second, don t worry about what will happen if...

Teen Dating Issues: OMG what is wrong with me!, confidence problem, second nature
confidence problem, second nature, paying attention: Sounds like just a small confidence problem to me. Just try talking to one, maybe the one you feel the most comfortable around. After you get comfortable with things like this they come second nature. It s just like getting into a pool. Some people find it...

Teen Dating Issues: OMG what am i going to do??, fertile days, odd time
fertile days, odd time, friend matt: Firstly, i must say that 19 and 15 is a HUGE age difference and both of you should really look for someone your ages. I can understand the physical attraction but really it sounds wrong. Secondly, Are you sure that he likes you? Just becaue he slept with...

Teen Dating Issues: Oops! One more thing...., currious, sam sam
currious, sam sam, young girls: Sam, you are just one currious boy. It s fine, im here to help. Well that means to all girls that she needs the time to herself to think about things, and what she wants. Shes getting her prorities straighted out. When a girl takes her time and space,...

Teen Dating Issues: Oral Sex, intimacy level, manual sex
intimacy level, manual sex, penitration: Hey Blake, I m kinda wondering if you ve both decided to not have sex because you re saving the whole intimacy thing until after you get married, or if it s more of a virgin thing. I mean some people decide to wait until they re married because of religion...

Teen Dating Issues: Oral Sex, intimate issues, rest of your life
intimate issues, rest of your life, intimacy: Hi Blake, it doesn t matter how you old. You can write to me any time. Congratulations on your engagement. First, I think many people try to twist the oral sex thing and say they don t consider it to be sex . Well, it s not called oral touching, or oral...

Teen Dating Issues: Oral Sex, sexual intercourse, marrage
sexual intercourse, marrage, virginity: Blake- The great thing about oral sex is that it s not sexual intercourse. When your and your girlfriend say no sex until marrage you mean no sexual intercourse. Oral sex is not considered sexual intercourse. My best advice is to talk to her about...

Teen Dating Issues: Orgasm, female orgasm, approximate time
female orgasm, approximate time, sandi: all females are different. it can take some a long and a lot of stimulation to have an orgasm. others can have one quickly with not muxh stimulation. you really need to communicate with your gf and talk about this with her. find out what she likes and doesnt...

Teen Dating Issues: Where od i ask her at, phone number, lunch
phone number, lunch, coffee: Hi TJ, I don t have enough info to advise you. I guess you and the girl go to school together. Can you get her phone number from someone who won t tell her? Don t do it writing whatever you do. That can be embarrassing if she shows it to people. Do you...

Teen Dating Issues: is it ok??, guy friend, savannah
guy friend, savannah, cuz: Hey Ashley- No its not bad for him to teach you but it will probably maybe things weird around you and him after he does teach you. Maybe just talk to him and let him know how you don t want a relationship with him but you would like him to help you out...

Teen Dating Issues: ok, good friends, jerk
good friends, jerk, best friend: The most you can do right now is just be friends with her, she s with someone and you wouldn t want to get in the way of that. To be the good guy just talk to her again slowly as friends and soon enough maybe in the future you two can be in a relationship...

Teen Dating Issues: ok so ive known this guy for..., spending time, good friends
spending time, good friends, wit: You basically show signs of already having a long distance dating relationship, yet this means he was cheating on someone else with you. I don t want to say this is a fact because of how I know nothing else besides what you said. I assume however you are good...

Teen Dating Issues: ok i kno this might b kinda..., mom cuz, bro
mom cuz, bro, daisy: hey daisy. well i think that the reason that your feeling like you don t like him is because maybe your really afraid of getting serious with someone but you just don t realize it. so you just push people away when you get close to them. cuz that s what i...

Teen Dating Issues: ok i kno this might b kinda..., mom cuz, skating rink
mom cuz, skating rink, bro: Hello Daisy, Well hun, you got ME confused. So you dont really like this guy anymore as more than a friend but you loved the kisses? Well apparently you must like him a little if ya like the kiss. Even if you are starting to lose interest in him, dont...

Teen Dating Issues: ok i kno this might b kinda..., mom cuz, fish in the sea
mom cuz, fish in the sea, bro: Hey Daisy, I am Sorry to keep you waiting like that I had something to do this week but on with your question =D. No its not long, Daisy your problem seems to be that you can t hold on to a guy you louse interest with him an its like a on going...

Teen Dating Issues: ok i kno this might b kinda..., mom cuz, bro
mom cuz, bro, daisy: My Dear Daisy, When we like someone so much & when he doesn t know about it or do not feel the same, we try hard & do our best to get his attention & let him know about how exactly we feel... So you see, we start to like him more & more & get more attached...

Teen Dating Issues: ok i kno this might b kinda..., mom cuz, challage
mom cuz, challage, serious relationship: hey Daisy, hmm so you sound like you stated you had two problems, one your not sure if you like him as much as you did and two you dont want to ruin your friendship. wow that sucks lol. first why do you think that always happens, are you into challages, you...

Teen Dating Issues: ok i kno this might b kinda..., mom cuz, being friends
mom cuz, being friends, one of these days: Well, this is one that you may have to go with the flow which will obviously lead into more than a friendship. Give it a try and if you decide that you just want to be friends then tell him. You said that you like kissing him, but you don t want to ruin...

Teen Dating Issues: Is it ok.., aquantance, girls point
aquantance, girls point, aquantince: Hey John- No I don t think thats weird.. Really if your just asking her our as an aquantance and possibly just to get to know her. Then no I don t think so. There s a lot of people out there that do that sort of thing if they want to get to know someone...

Teen Dating Issues: is it okay to date someone ....................., dating younger men, women dating younger men
dating younger men, women dating younger men, graduating high school: Era - I m 19 and I dated a guy that s 16 for 6 months and it didn t work out because he was too immature. High school boys mature slower than girls so an 18 year old girl and a 16 year old boy have a lot of differences. You re graduating high school (if...

Teen Dating Issues: He's older, long term relationship, physical attraction
long term relationship, physical attraction, l word: hey Emma, well it seems to me here your scared because you dont know the seriousness of your situation. ur scared that maybe hes more serious than you or hes less. you seem very confused. what i got out of ur letter was you like an older man, you two are very...

Teen Dating Issues: He's older, long term relationship, physical attraction
long term relationship, physical attraction, l word: Emma - It worries me that you ve slept together after only being together for a couple weeks (to me this implies under a month) and after a month he s telling you he loves you (after you ve slept together). I mean, it seems kinda shady that he would tell...

Teen Dating Issues: older boy, sister aunt, graduating high school
sister aunt, graduating high school, molester: Hannah- It worries me a little to know that you are going out with a boy that you never met. And although, you know that he may not be a molester, you may not know how he really is in person- he may be puting on a front for you, that you may not be able...

Teen Dating Issues: older boyfriend, sexual relationship, sex help
sexual relationship, sex help, sophmore: Thats a thoughy! I can t tell you how to ingore the other people except by saying ingore them. Alot of comments about you and your boyfriend could be jealous. I think its great that there is such a level of comfort in your relationship. I think that 6 years...

Teen Dating Issues: me and my older brothers friend, baing, good luck
baing, good luck, long time: Hi, I would be straight forward with your brother about it. Maybe gauge his reaction. If you don t know, then find out. Sit him down and tell him how you feel. But, I feel your brother should know because this does involve him somewhat. Have fun and good...

Teen Dating Issues: going out with an older girl, shallow guy, strange pair
shallow guy, strange pair, sum time: idk really. usually you should try to avoid these situations but tey do happen so you gotta deal. if shes two years older you could be considered cute which may seem good but its not. you want hot not cute. also 13 and 15 is a strange pair. im saying that...

Teen Dating Issues: older guy, homecoming dance, age gap
homecoming dance, age gap, dating girls: i dont know where you life but he should be very careful because he could be breaking a law if you to have sex. even if you dont i think he should be dating girls a little closer to his age. you can ask him to the dance if you want. i think that would be fine...

Teen Dating Issues: older guy, homecoming dance, age gap
homecoming dance, age gap, silly thing: Hey there, Hmmm, he is legal, so somethings come into play there. Make sure it s okay with your parents first, you don t want to be breaking any laws by dating someone you re not supposed to be. If you re just asking him to come hang out with you at the dance,...

Teen Dating Issues: He's older, long term relationship, physical attraction
long term relationship, physical attraction, l word: Emma- This nervousness is perfectly natural, especially considering the age difference. However, I applaud your sticking it out, despite the number of years. I ve been dating my girlfriend for over 2 years and four months, and she s 18 while I m 23! ...

Teen Dating Issues: omg..., smile alot, mood swings
smile alot, mood swings, bad stuff: Hey there, Okay, set him straight. Tell him, I don t know what you are doing, but it s not cool. Either you like me or not. It shows you aren t going to take crap from him and his mood swings. You have to tell him that the things he is doing is making you...

Teen Dating Issues: omg., offline message, sleepover
offline message, sleepover, close friends: It would hurt anyone, you re not alone. If it happened to someone else, they would be experiencing exactly what you re feeling. If Matt decides not to talk to you, that s his choice. You can t FORCE him to do anything. All you can do is be the best Chelsea...

Teen Dating Issues: online dating, italian restaurant, sandi
italian restaurant, sandi: hi i dont believe you have talked it all out. if you really like her and respect her and think you want to date her then you should be able to find something to talk about. if not then maybe she is not the one and you shouldnt be dating her. sandi...

Teen Dating Issues: online relationship, dating site, bullshit
dating site, bullshit, conclusions: Zack - Did you give her time to respond? Don t immediately jump to conclusions. Sometimes people don t change their profiles on websites because they re hardly on there. This has happened to me before so if that s the case don t take it personally. ...

Teen Dating Issues: she only likes me as a friend, volleyball tournament, weird thing
volleyball tournament, weird thing, good friends: Sam, The main thing you have to do is try not to show you like her. She probably knows that you do already, but women need to be able to pursue a little bit, instead of you just putting yourself out there for her to do what she wants with you. Try to...

Teen Dating Issues: Am I the only one In love?, lifes problems, logical explanation
lifes problems, logical explanation, rare occasion: Dear Matt, Thanks for the questions. Do not worry about asking along question, I hope that I can be of some assistance to you. I am a Christian and a Pastor, so my response to you will be coming from my understanding of the Bible, which I believe has...

Teen Dating Issues: i am only shy near him and i hate it!, outgoing person, convo
outgoing person, convo, homework: Hello Niki! The fact you two are in class together is great. I would pretend to forget the homework, and ask him what it was. That would be a great way to start off a convo. The best way to get someones attention is really to go ahead and talk to them! Best...

Teen Dating Issues: oops, seperate, good luck
seperate, good luck, girlfriend: Hey, I turned down your other question because you asked two seperate ones. Anyway, this guy seems like he just wants a girlfriend. Don t date him unless its only you he wants. Then you know it will be worth it for the long haul. Good luck! -Jo =...

Teen Dating Issues: how to get her to open up, person relationship, one person
person relationship, one person, ashley: Andrew - Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Tell her that you feel like you two haven t been spending that much time together and you re in no way making or asking her to choose between her friends or you but tell her you think she can spend time with...

Teen Dating Issues: opening up, things take time, little time
things take time, little time, aj: AJ, girls are complicated creatures...I am one so i know :) When we get hurt, its hard for us to open up to guys, which im sure she has told you. As you have only been dating for one month her behavior is perfectally rational. If you really care about this...

Teen Dating Issues: is there another option?, volunteer place, age gap
volunteer place, age gap, youth confrence: Is there anyone you can talk to that can try and help you out? Unfortunately since you re under 18 your parents have control over you and can decide what you can and can t do and who you can and can t see so beyond getting someone else involved and you...

Teen Dating Issues: What if she's never had an orgasam?, orgasam, doubt in my mind
orgasam, doubt in my mind, no doubt: Hi Sam, Well why don t you just tell her that you are pretty sure that sex and everything will be better if this happens. Tell her you know you wont hurt her but if it starts to she can just tell you to stop and she will. But just remember that you should...

Teen Dating Issues: What if she's never had an orgasam?, clitorios, masturbation section
clitorios, masturbation section, posision: WELL ur better asking the guys in teh masturbation section they have tips for that. all i can say is try a different posision like doggy style. dont pressure her into it but tell her that fingering shouldnt hurt her as shes had sex. be gentle and take your...

Teen Dating Issues: What if she's never had an orgasam?, eatting out, orgasam
eatting out, orgasam, doubt in my mind: Hey, So lemme get this straight. You guys have had sex, but no foreplay? No fingering or eatting out? Interesting.. lol Ok keep trying to convince her to let you finger her! I think that would be the best way to give her an orgasm. In my experience...

Teen Dating Issues: What if she's never had an orgasam?, bargaining approach, orgasam
bargaining approach, orgasam, doubt in my mind: First, realize that is normal for her to never orgasm, it is very hard for a girl to orgasm with only vaginal stimulation. I am going to tell you something very personal. I went through the same thing when I first lost my virginity. It can be very hard...

Teen Dating Issues: What if she's never had an orgasam?, orgasam, doubt in my mind
orgasam, doubt in my mind, no doubt: sam, basically, if you have to convince someone to do something sexually, it s not right. if she wanted to do it, she would. the only thing you can really do is tell her to trust you and promise her that you would be gentle and that you want to do it...

Teen Dating Issues: What if she's never had an orgasam?, orgasum, orgasam
orgasum, orgasam, doubt in my mind: hey Sam, ok so she wont let you do anything but sex.. well it might also be shes too young to have one. but i dont see how you can give her one unless you do the other things.. why dont you try to explain that to her that to have an orgasum you have to start...

Teen Dating Issues: Re: What if she's never had an orgasam?, bad taste in my mouth, orgasam
bad taste in my mouth, orgasam, short end of the stick: Sam, I really think she views you as different than the other guys she has been with. She wants this one to be different. She doesn t want the type of relationship where she gives the guy everything. She wants you to wait for it until she is ready. Talk...

Teen Dating Issues: The other girl, feburary, mardi gras
feburary, mardi gras, savannah: Hey Lynnette- Well In my opinion he may just like her a lot more that what he does you. I mean yes I know that hurts to hear that from me and everything. But that s really the only way that he would keep thinking about her even though he likes you too...

Teen Dating Issues: If we like each other this way, will love start to blossom?, night dance, cool girl
night dance, cool girl, slow dance: Devin - Love is never a definite possibility but it s always a possibility. Chances are you two will have a nice future together. If she wanted to kiss you on the first date then that s up to you whether you want to kiss her back or be like hey, I...

Teen Dating Issues: what others will think, couple weeks, good luck
couple weeks, good luck, personality: Brandon- The first question to ask yourself is why you care about what other people think. If you want to date this girl because you have strong feelings for her and/or are interested in getting to know her better, than do it! If I listened to what...

Teen Dating Issues: ouch bad., first kiss, fine girls
first kiss, fine girls, don t cry: Awe, Luke, I remember you. I m so sorry this happened, I really am. A first kiss is almost always special, whether its your VERY first kiss, or just the first one in a new relationship. She says she enjoyed it, and she probably did. The thrill was there,...

Teen Dating Issues: overanalyzing??, friend dave, mutual friend
friend dave, mutual friend, possiblity: Hey Telia- I really don t think if peter did like you well there is a possiblity that he never told his friend. I mean some people just rather not tell people about how there feeling like guys sometimes. So maybe try talking to Dave first about how your...

Teen Dating Issues: am i overanalyzing??, overanalyzing, friend dave
overanalyzing, friend dave, mutual friend: maybe he has said something to dave but doesnt want him saying anything to you? i would straight out ask dave if he thinks peter likes you. i dont think there is anything wrong with doing that. or you could just tell peter you like him and would he want to...

Teen Dating Issues: overprotected mom, descent grades, horrible experience
descent grades, horrible experience, overprotected: hey Michelle i think you need to talk to your mom. everything you wrote in this letter you should just tell her. my parents where the same way with me for a long time but it was mostly my dad. i think you should be able to date if you want your almost...

Teen Dating Issues: I am overwelmed!!!, 2006 nissan murano, nissan murano
2006 nissan murano, nissan murano, savannah: Hey Sandra- Well Im not sure what your asking for help. But I think it might be the fact that his parents buy his love with the money Well maybe since you two are getting married well that is if you two are then I think you need to tell him and talk to...

Teen Dating Issues: Pain, cure for a broken heart, loyal person
cure for a broken heart, loyal person, child protective services: Dear Scott, It is always difficult to survive a breakup especially when you are the person who got broken up with. Unfortunately though it is something everyone goes through and is actually something people need to go through to become stronger. There is...

Teen Dating Issues: Pair of dating questions, play board games, romantic walk
play board games, romantic walk, transportation problem: Ben, yes, normally when young people begin to date, they count on their parents for support both with the driving and with the finances. At the same time, it s also common for kids to wait to start dating until they drive. It s possible to date without driving...

Teen Dating Issues: Parent Issue, mother daughter relationship, harsh rules
mother daughter relationship, harsh rules, follow ups: MANY HIGH SCHOOLERS don t drink. Only the fools drink. You should talk to a doctor about sex, and the risk of drinking. Be tested for STIs and such. Questions before I attempt to answer any such question: Ages Why do you party and drink Why did you...

Teen Dating Issues: Parent of a teen daughter, unhealthy relationship, frinds
unhealthy relationship, frinds, teen daughter: I can give you some advice, yet I have an expert on this site who I feel would be better for you. He is a Parenting Teen expert, and he wrote some good books. I highly recommend him. His name is James Windell. Tell him I sent you. If you want my advice I will...

Teen Dating Issues: Parent who would like a teen's opinion, steady relationship, great relationship
steady relationship, great relationship, anythin: June, Well I know you don t want to confront her but it s best that you do...I mean you don t have to come straight out and say eventhough you rea girl and you re bi that means you ll be free of the rules...NO just say that whatever she s into, but she...

Teen Dating Issues: Parental Ruling, old girl, ashley
old girl, ashley: Lacey - Unforunately because you re under 18 your mother has control over you because you re not legally emancipated. If she tells you that you can t date a 19 year old, you have to respect her wishes. I know it s hard, but you only have another year to...

Teen Dating Issues: Parents, grilfriend, parents
grilfriend, parents, relationship: Hey Matt. First about your grilfriend, yes you should ask her to do something outside of school. The more you see each other the more your relationship will blossom. Don t be scared to ask her, you are going out already. About your parents. If they...

Teen Dating Issues: Parents., temper, good luck
temper, good luck, parents: Dear Kyla, Present this situation to your parents in a grown up, mature way if you want to get the idea across that you are mature and responsible enough to stay with him. Have them talk to his parents before if that would reassure them. Let them know you...

Teen Dating Issues: Parents, backround info, loving brother
backround info, loving brother, freinds: How old is she? If she is below 16 I cannot promote dating under the law. But lets get onto your driving problem. I handle sometimes this type of problem on this site. Not exactly this problem per se, overprotective parents. I do not recall them saying cars...

Teen Dating Issues: Parents/BF, awkward silences, difficult parents
awkward silences, difficult parents, trust issue: Being in a relationship at a young age could be difficult. Parents are in fact more worried at the teenage years because of the issue of sex. If you are far from that point, the only thing you can do is just be yourself. If you trust yourself, your parents...

Teen Dating Issues: Parents Hate Boyfriend, family psychologist, boyfriend matt
family psychologist, boyfriend matt, coworker: Hi, Matt is a good friend of mine. Also a good coworker. I hope I can help you out with the below problem. Please let me review it for a few minutes... Can I ask for what type of jobs your parents have?What type of job that your parents want you and...

Teen Dating Issues: Parents omg!, practicing abstinence, last boyfriend
practicing abstinence, last boyfriend, 13 years: I was in your situation, I couldn t date until I was 18. But, that s just dads for you. Maybe compromise on a different age less than 20, because well, that s a little bit ridiculously old. Mothers are more understanding because they know how it feels to be...

Teen Dating Issues: Parents and trust issues, good luck with everything, trust issues
good luck with everything, trust issues, spending time: Hi Sally, Well, what you need to do is sit down and talk to your parents and explain to them that you have morals and tell them why you want to wait until you re married to have sex. I know it will be awkward, but give them a reason to trust you. And it...

Teen Dating Issues: Parents vs. Bf, explination, gas bills
explination, gas bills, beggining: Dear Kate, Firstly I cannot tell you wether you are too young to move out or not and if you should. In that aspect I do not have much knowledge in your situation and it depends on your maturity level and etc. It seems like you aren t ready simply because...

Teen Dating Issues: Parents won't let me date!, bad kid, mixed race
bad kid, mixed race, little sister: Amanda- You sound like a very intelligent and wonderful 16 year old young lady! I happen to be a teacher and I know of many relationships around your age that don t go well due to many circumstances. However, your relationship sounds like a healthy one....

Teen Dating Issues: Parents won't leyt me date!, james windell, leyt
james windell, leyt, bad kid: Tell James I sent you. With parent problems, sometimes you need to go and ask someone who is a parent for advice. Your parents need to gain your trust. They don t trust you fully enough, and this is a problem. I wish you luck. Good luck By the way your...

Teen Dating Issues: Parents, mother daughter relationship, studio city california
mother daughter relationship, studio city california, mom cuz: Honestly, it sounds as if she s trying to put her life through yours. You need to have your own life and learn from her mistakes but she also can t control every single thing you do. It s a fine line. The way to solve these issues is to approach them calmly...

Teen Dating Issues: Past girlfriend indirectly causes current girlfriend trouble, first love, virginity
first love, virginity, night stand: i think she needs to stop being so jeoulous. if she really loves you then she should not be insecure about your relationship. i would talk to her one more time and let her know this: your past relationship was just that, in the past. you love her (if you really...

Teen Dating Issues: Past girlfriend, great girl, first love
great girl, first love, virginity: Adam- It sounds like you have to make your current girlfriend feel like SHE is the one for you. Leave the past behind you and focus on the great girl you have in front of you. Move on with your life and make sure you have your current girlfriend in your...

Teen Dating Issues: Peer pressure, shy girl, peer pressure
shy girl, peer pressure, acquaintances: Hey Blake, Peer Pressure: Don t ask your friends what they think about her xD! Just date her and who cares what they think! If they are truly your friends, they will respect the fact that you are having such a great time with her! Dating: ...

Teen Dating Issues: Period Problems?, period problems, hormones
period problems, hormones, susie: I think you could see him on your period. Try it and if you feel too nervous then just don t. If he insists on knowing why just tell him that you re not feeling well, which is true. I think that now you have gotten to know him better you might be more calm...

Teen Dating Issues: Pet names, pet names, good luck
pet names, good luck, love: Lexie, Thanks for getting in touch. I will try my best to help you. I understand you would like to call your boyfriend some new pet names. You could call him Honey, Darling, My Dear and these general type of names. By calling someone these pet names,...

Teen Dating Issues: Phone Conversation?, feelings and things, phone conversation
feelings and things, phone conversation, current events: i dont what to do tell you then to just try and open up to him. communication is very important in a relationship. tell him how you feel about him. tell him how yo ufeel about life or current events. i know its easy for me to sit here and tell you this but...

Teen Dating Issues: PLEASE HELP ME!, wifey, clutches
wifey, clutches, baby girl: You can simply say this maturely and rationally, you just want to have some time to yourself to think. If you respect me, you will grant me what I m asking you. It s nothing against you personlly, I just need some time to myself. Maybe afterwards, we can...

Teen Dating Issues: PLEASE help me, nervous reck, science class
nervous reck, science class, grade 9: Ok Mr. John I will TRY To help you. Im sorry it took so long to write you, I ve been dealing with some stuff. My name is Lauren, and I am 22 yrs. old. Ok, well...I m sorry about your first question do you mean go out of town on the bus or take a girl out on...

Teen Dating Issues: PLease help me!, brother and sister, savannah
brother and sister, savannah: Hey Coley- Well what you should do is try and figure out which one you want to be with more. It s not fair to your boyfriend with you going around secretly liking some other guy and possibly thinking about maybe going and being with him. So you should...

Teen Dating Issues: PLZ respond soon!!!!, music theory class, religious education class
music theory class, religious education class, weird thing: Steph, Hopefully you get this, because to be honest, I dont even really know for sure how to put this on the website. I think it might just do it automatically?? Anywho, I dont really know if being a musician makes somebody a bad person. I think there...

Teen Dating Issues: Places to meet girls, sister school, new girls
sister school, new girls, music drama: Joseph, I understand your situation must be difficult. But maybe you could try going to more parties or going to a few clubs, just have a few nights out with your friends could help you meet some new girls :) I hope I ve helped. If you need any further...

Teen Dating Issues: Being Played?, school slut, telling time
school slut, telling time, having sex: sounds like he is using you for sex. dont be so easy to sleep with a guy. go out for awhile with the guy first. make sure you respects you and likes you for you and not your body. stop having sex with this guy and move on! sounds easy i know but its not, i...

Teen Dating Issues: Players.., 2 girls, time heals
2 girls, time heals, little kid: Time heals all. Honestly thats the best advice i can give you. I know it sucks now, and it ll probably suck tomorrow, but eventually you ll get to that point where you ll suddenly realize that you re over it. Heart break is never easy and it s never fun...

Teen Dating Issues: Please Any More Advice, christmas present, choice in the matter
christmas present, choice in the matter, deep shit: Hey, 1) It might be that she feels guilty and mad at herself for getting caught up in the moment. It is not completely your fault. I am sure she is just as mad at herself as she is at you. 2) The whole donate thing is very odd to me. Next time just...

Teen Dating Issues: Please, Any Advice, 3 sisters, days of the month
3 sisters, days of the month, friend of the family: MC, Hello. How are you? First off I just want you to know that I am going to be very straight-forward with you. Everyone, including you, has their bad days. I mean, there are going to be times with anyone that you are not going to want to be around them....

Teen Dating Issues: Please Give Any Advice You Can, mc well, 3 sisters
mc well, 3 sisters, friend of the family: well MC, the whole family bit sounds like a bitch. if my family said that to me i would say fuck you. sorry for my language. but when she gets like that i know its not great to be a bitch back because that usually provokes it. but if she has no reason to be...

Teen Dating Issues: Please Help, christmas present, choice in the matter
christmas present, choice in the matter, deep shit: MC - 1. Talk to her. Tell her that you feel guilty when she acts this way. 2. You do whatever you want to do. You shouldn t have to donate it if you don t want to. Giving a gift isn t about receiving one in return. She asked you to donate her present...

Teen Dating Issues: Please Help!, payphone, next morning
payphone, next morning, cell phone: Deja- To be honest, it sounds like you both need to come to a happy medium. You may need to calm down a little. Since he is 19, he s probably mature and old enough to make his own decisions. It s nice that you re showing your support for him, just don...

Teen Dating Issues: Please Help, illegal sex, eachother
illegal sex, eachother, what this means: Hi, You want to move further . Can you explain what this means? If he touches you in the privates this is probably illegal and I recommend reporting this. Talk to a doctor about sex risks. Dating at 14 may be illegal. Sex is illegal in MOST areas at this...

Teen Dating Issues: Please Help me OUT FAST!!!!!!, wasting your time, last moment
wasting your time, last moment, bad news: Hi Monica, Well, this certainly is a very complex issue you have. So you asked a guy out...sort of, and he said sure, only to find out later that he has a girlfriend most likely and now you don t know what to do. I suggest that you stop wasting your time...

Teen Dating Issues: Please Help, friends family, couple of days
friends family, couple of days, girlfriend: Courtney, Hello. How are you doing? Okay sweetie, I am going to be VERY straight-forward with you. One of your main problems is the fact that you still think that something might be able to work out. You really have to let go of that. He has a girlfriend,...

Teen Dating Issues: It's me, AGAIN.. Please help, certified nursing assistant, nursing as a career
certified nursing assistant, nursing as a career, funny fun: Hey Mat, I think you re being way too hard on yourself. Many, many people face (on a daily basis) a lot of the uncertainties you re experiencing right now. Take me, for example; I m 26 years old and STILL haven t found what I d consider to be my calling...

Teen Dating Issues: Please help, recovering from anorexia, maturity levels
recovering from anorexia, maturity levels, massive damage: Hi Jillian, first of all, if you want my opinion, your too young for sex or sexual activities. Physically your ready, but mentally and emotionally your not. Your also dating a guy that is two years older than you, and there is a large difference in maturity...

Teen Dating Issues: Please help, physical aspect, eachother
physical aspect, eachother, anorexia: Hi Jillian. The first thing I have to tell you is that this guy might just be using you for the physical aspect. The fact that you re not dating sounds like he doesn t want commitment. Before he even kisses you I would suggest you talk about what exactly he...

Teen Dating Issues: Please help me!, guilty conscience, mild case
guilty conscience, mild case, seventh grade: Hey Katie- Well I would just be honest with him. Just let him know you do like him and everything but you feel like you two are better off as just friends. Also just let him know since you just got out of a relationship you feel it s not far to him if...

Teen Dating Issues: Please, help my friend., suicidal impulses, mood stabilizers
suicidal impulses, mood stabilizers, odd relationship: Ok I want to help you out. The first posting said tramatic near-suicide experience --- In any of those cases a psychologist/doctor has to be called in. You may feel Ok right now, yet ever asked why you are dating a 21 year old when you are 16? You feel...

Teen Dating Issues: Please help! Reply soon!, high school freshman, lots of girls
high school freshman, lots of girls, guy friends: Most likely their ignoring you more because they have made more friends, and it probubly is because of those other popular, stylish girls. Although, they probubly do both want to be your friend so you should try talking to them more often. P sounds like...

Teen Dating Issues: Please help me.., freshman year, guy friend
freshman year, guy friend, cool guy: Hey I m sorry to hear about your relationship trouble, but the story was very entertaining, thank you lol. But, anyway, you have to understand that in realtionships people screw up and treat the other person badly its your fault, but I mean everyone has messed...

Teen Dating Issues: Please please please i need someone, one of my best friends, confidence building
one of my best friends, confidence building, jealousies: Ok, I can understand how hard this is to deal with. I also admire you for going through the effort to keep it working. It takes a lot, I know. Your paranoia and jealousy are deep-rooted and for good reasons, too. It s going to take a good bit...

Teen Dating Issues: Plz give me advice, bustop, iron bars
bustop, iron bars, walke: Hi there, Well it is up to you with what comfort level you need to be at with this guy. If you would like to wait longer to kiss him or hug him, that is completely up to you. There is no such thing as being too conservative because everyone is different....

Teen Dating Issues: Plz help!, burglery, sweet guy
burglery, sweet guy, thr: Danielle - You shouldn t be with someone you don t have feelings for, regardless of how nice they may be. You should spare Jason s feelings and break up with him before he gets more involved. You probably will hurt his feelings but it s better for the...

Teen Dating Issues: Plz help!, burglery, sweet guy
burglery, sweet guy, thr: I wouldn t date either of them. Jason you don t have feelings for, which means you are only his friend in theory, if anything. You shouldn t be wasting both of your times with eachother than like this. And Vince, well he is not the type of person you should...

Teen Dating Issues: Plz help!, burglery, sweet guy
burglery, sweet guy, 22 years: Hi, I am so sorry it took me so long. My name is Lauren, and I am 22 years old. Well...Danielle this is a tough question. And it reminds me of questions my cousin used to ask me (haha). Well the thing is, and I honestly feel really bad for this Danille, but...

Teen Dating Issues: Plz help!, burglery, sweet guy
burglery, sweet guy, thr: Danielle- Sadly I cannot tell you what to do. Vince sounds like a good guy that you can be comfortable with. If he has some rough spots, and you are ok with that, then be with him. If that doesn t work for you and Jason does, then go for Jason. I have...

Teen Dating Issues: Plz plz Help, time down, hallways
time down, hallways, hmmm: Hmmm well you have no way of knowing unless you ask her. Be brave and ask her on a date - it s totally the only way. You ahve no other option I am afraid, unless you gfet one of your friends to ask her, or ask one of her friends. That s all I can suggest I...

Teen Dating Issues: Possessiveness, chill pill, living in california
chill pill, living in california, close friends: Warning: I m going to be very honest with you! I don t care how much you love him, if he s THAT controlling, he needs to either take a chill pill or find another girl! He probably feels that he doesn t have control over anything else in his life and you...

Teen Dating Issues: Potentially Long Relationship Falls Short., best time of my life, doubt in my mind
best time of my life, doubt in my mind, senior trip: You know, ex-boyfriends are evil people. Usually, when they break up with the girl, they break their heart, and the girls keep hanging on in case the guy changes his mind. Then the girl FINALLY lets go, or thinks she does, and the guy either gets a gf, talks...

Teen Dating Issues: My Pregnant girlfriend wants a break...., jack rabbits, pregnant girlfriend
jack rabbits, pregnant girlfriend, having a great time: You shouldn t have had sex like this with her. Now there is a child in the picture and you may not be the father. You should talk to a lawyer about this. You may need to pay child support, yet are you the only one who had sex with her? My advice is get tested...

Teen Dating Issues: Premarital Sex, emotional ups, tuff time
emotional ups, tuff time, ups and downs: ah, i get it. but im still gonna stick to my point: if he wants to keep the relationship going because he wants to be with YOU, he has to settle for showing you he loves you in all those other ways and vice versa. they are just as, if not more pleasurable...

Teen Dating Issues: PreTeen Dating, soul mates, chaperone
soul mates, chaperone, maturity: Thomas - I think it probably all depends on the maturity of the child and individual basis. At 12, I don t think they re really going to fall in love and become soul mates. It s probably more of a case of he really thinks I m cute and I think he s cute...

Teen Dating Issues: Probably common, but advice on moving it forward, high school teens, mid high school
high school teens, mid high school, outgoing person: hi, im always one for being open and honest. why cant you just ask her out? find a time when its just the two of you and ask her out to a movie or to coffee. that way you are letting her know you are interested in being more then just friends. if she says...

Teen Dating Issues: Probably common, but advice on moving it forward, high school teens, mid high school
high school teens, mid high school, ok friends: Good question. An answer is easier than an action, meaning I can give you an answer, yet it s not always easy to act it out. I know. I have given my self answers millions of times, and had problems following them sometimes. As for another thing I like to...

Teen Dating Issues: Problem, drug addiction help, health area
drug addiction help, health area, ashame: Hello, I recommend talking to your parents, a trusted teacher, your doctor, and our drug area, as well as the teen health area. These people can sometimes give advice on how to handle pot cases. This is a third party website that can maybe help you:...

Teen Dating Issues: Problem...
Theo this suck i know. But you got to move on man. Lingering on a situation like this will do nothing but continue to make you feel bad and you deserve better. When the time is right you ll find the right person for you. And i know you probably hate me for...

Teen Dating Issues: Problem with the future, computer college, ake
computer college, ake, 10 months: Hey There, Sometimes it isnt easy to discuss the future, because some people will keep you to your word. It s best to always be optimistic about things. Plus at 17 and getting out of high school is the point where it s time to live life. I can t really...

Teen Dating Issues: Problem, long term relationship, best of luck
long term relationship, best of luck, apologies: Hey Rachel. Thanks for getting in touch, I will try and help the best I can. This is one of the most hadrest things you ll ever have to do in your life, but what is needed right now is...Time. I know this is going to be hard. But I ve been in your position,...

Teen Dating Issues: Problems after going to college., age gap, thanksgiving morning
age gap, thanksgiving morning, relationship work: Unfortunately these things happen, and they happen to good people all the time. Part of the reason she has been acting so strange is because, a year and a half is a huge amount of time for a 16 year old that is just getting into her high school scene. She...

Teen Dating Issues: Problems with everyone really, fake smile, deffinetly
fake smile, deffinetly, eye contact: First off i just want to say that it s really not your fault. A lot of guys have this problem. But i want you to think about things real quick. What do you have to lose besides a little face? What do you have to gain. Life is all about calculated risks....

Teen Dating Issues: My Prodigy of a Boyfriend, maturity levels, intelligence level
maturity levels, intelligence level, play seven: Don t worry about what people say. I have a boyfriend now that s a few years older than me. We were talking about his friend s girlfriend previously and I asked how old she was, he said, OUR age. Meaning, he didn t see me younger, he saw me at his intellectual...

Teen Dating Issues: Prom date....., freshman year, guy friend
freshman year, guy friend, seriousness: Stephanie, I think that this guy really wanted to ask you to prom. He probably jumbled his words because he likes you. Guys get really nervous when they are around girls that they like. I know that when I asked the girl that I took to prom I was really...

Teen Dating Issues: Prom Night, better hope, cute girl
better hope, cute girl, biggie: Hey Tom, Man, let me tell you I ve been there plenty of times before its not even funny...well it s sort of funny but I ll save my story for later. So you wanna ask out a girl to prom but you never see her except for in the hallways and that s when her friends...

Teen Dating Issues: Prom Night!, cute girl, skool
cute girl, skool, heap: hey i think you should start of by talkinto her, casually, maybe getting to know her friends too and from there talk about prom and how ur excited... casually ask her hows she gonna get there, what her plans are after prom... if she asked you tell her you...

Teen Dating Issues: Prom Night, cute girl, skool
cute girl, skool, heap: Well...... What I can tell you is, go up to her, and just start talking... say hi, and ask her how her classes are, what classes she has, how school is going for her, do something to that effect. And be very polite and patient about it ok? and then after all...

Teen Dating Issues: Prom Night, cute girl, skool
cute girl, skool, heap: Well heres what i would do, just atleast ry and talk to her more before you ask her becasue if you just randomly ask her with out her not really knowing you im guessing that she probably wouldnt go with you so i d talk to her a little more and then ask her...

Teen Dating Issues: Pursue, christmas carol, honest opinion
christmas carol, honest opinion, being friends: I think that you should respect what she has said because she told you her honest opinion. So, from what she told you, you can take that and yes, continue on being friends with her that way and seeing wehre things go. Unfortunately, not everything goes our...

Teen Dating Issues: in pain, puppy love, true dedication
puppy love, true dedication, sudden appearance: hey colin, i think you could start off with something simple like being friendly and asking her about herself and her life. get to know her a bit more and establish a foundation before you ask her out. it would probably make her feel more comfortable because...

Teen Dating Issues: pain, loyal person, child protective services
loyal person, child protective services, rest of our lives: Hey Scott Im really sorry about what happened I think she broke it off because she might need some time to think to grow as a person you should talk to her about remember that before you decide to give yourself to someone you need to love yourself to know...

Teen Dating Issues: painful process, savannah, feelings
savannah, feelings, torture: Hey Corey- Well I would talk to her about this. Ask her if her feelings for you are real and if so then ask her why she s still with that person shes dating. Then just take it from there. If she says she s got feelings for him also well then just tell...

Teen Dating Issues: parent issues, getting a girlfriend, muslim families
getting a girlfriend, muslim families, defenitely: Hello, I don t promote Facebook for safety issues. Dating in some locations is illegal at certain ages. The general rule I follow is below age 16 I shouldn t answer dating questions. I understand about how religion has played a role in dating. I m Jewish...

Teen Dating Issues: parents, backround info, loving brother
backround info, loving brother, freinds: Dear Jim, First of all I want to warn you that I may seem like I am being inpolite but hearing about situations like these really enrage me, so I apologize in advance and I am not trying to be rude. You are not asking too much. You are 16! You are allowed...

Teen Dating Issues: parents, backround info, loving brother
backround info, loving brother, freinds: Your question was long, so I hope I can answer all of your issues. The thing with the parents is a maturity thing. Say that you have shown the trust with them, and having your license is something of a help than a burden. You have done your share of things,...

Teen Dating Issues: parents, mom and dad, old girl
mom and dad, old girl, good luck: Hey there, Okay, you have to understand from your parents perspective, their 14 year old girl dating an 18 year old guy. They don t want you to have bad influences and they don t want you to get hurt. Maybe they think that you just aren t mature enough. They...

Teen Dating Issues: parents, step mom, mom and dad
step mom, mom and dad, step sister: This is a complicated situation because once a parent has set in there mind that a guy is bad then there isn t much you can do to change that. Have you tried sitting down with her family and telling them all that you just told me. If it were my dad he would...

Teen Dating Issues: parents, first 9 months, football team
first 9 months, football team, ashley: Rach - Have you tried talking to his parents? Have you told your parents about what s going on? Maybe they have some good ideas. But my suggestion would be to try talking to his parents and see what s up and see if you can t reach some sort of resolution....

Teen Dating Issues: parents, backround info, loving brother
backround info, loving brother, freinds: Your question was long, so I hope I can answer all of your issues. The thing with the parents is a maturity thing. Say that you have shown the trust with them, and having your license is something of a help than a burden. You have done your share of things,...

Teen Dating Issues: parents, backround info, loving brother
backround info, loving brother, freinds: Jim All I can say is WOW. Your parents seem to be extremely protective or they have serious problems with your girlfriend. I do not know which. From what you said I do not think that your parents are being fair at all. If my girlfriend and I were forced...

Teen Dating Issues: parents, backround info, loving brother
backround info, loving brother, freinds: Dear Jim, Thank you for your question. I apologize for the response time, we have had some drama with the internet here in the last few weeks, I hope these words come at a good time for you to receive them Jim, WOW!!! I read all the parts...

Teen Dating Issues: parents, backround info, loving brother
backround info, loving brother, freinds: Jim, It sounds like your parents are pretty strict, but maybe if you sat down with them and made them a deal that if they gave you some more freedom in your social life and let you get your license that you would improve your performances in school and sports....

Teen Dating Issues: parents, backround info, loving brother
backround info, loving brother, freinds: Jim, Well I know both you and your parents are probably frustrated and tired of talking about this relationship issu.e But sometimes you have to take on frustration to get what you want... Okay so this is going to be the last and final time your parents...