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Brooklyn: MANHATTAN BEACH, kingsborough community college, kbcc cuny
kingsborough community college, kbcc cuny, manhattan beach: Dear Joe: After much research into the matter the best I can tell (And I m 99% sure on this one) is that the base you were stationed at was at the Easternmost section of Manhattan Beach. Kingsborough Community College sits at that site now, and has since...

Brooklyn: My Old Neighborhood, queen of all saints church, all saints church
queen of all saints church, all saints church, family dwellings: Regina: You actually answered most of your questions. Washington Avenue & the Clinton Hill/Fort Greene area of Brooklyn are both gentrified, and extrememly pricey. I can t really answer your question as to whether or not the homes on washington have been...

Brooklyn: Question for a newbie, brooklyn heights, subways
brooklyn heights, subways, internship: If you are moving to Whitestone, and have no car, presuming you re not taking taxi s all over the place, you ll be taking buses and subways from Whitestone to Brooklyn. The problem there is that the subways lines go from Queens into Manhattan and then to Brooklyn....

Brooklyn: Renting, outer boroughs, brooklyn heights
outer boroughs, brooklyn heights, newark nj: Brooklyn Heights might be slightly cheaper in price than certain sections of Manhattan, but probably not all that much. It is an extremely safe neighborhood. The outer boroughs and NJ are normally cheaper and safer alternatives, however Newark is not generally...

Brooklyn: re:your reply, shoestring budget, hoyt street
shoestring budget, hoyt street, lunch price: Okay shoestring budget in Bay Ridge or Park Slope here goes: Bay Ridge: Thre is a terrific little Greek restaurant on the corner of 4th avenue & 86th Street, excellent value, tasty food. If you go there on a Saturday and you like lamb, ask if they made...

Brooks, Garth: Bibliography/ Family, 60 million, siblings
60 million, siblings, believer: The only pictures I ve ever seen were some old issues of The Believer, here s the two links:: On this page towards the top are pictures from the 60 million party, his family is in one of those http://pages.sprint.ca/ElliesGarthSite/Volume5Issue2.html...

Brooks, Garth: contact?, e mail address, believer magazine
e mail address, believer magazine, kelly brooks: There is no way to contact Garth directly. You might want to try through his management company - GB Management. His brother Kelly Brooks works for Garth and I believe he has a voice mail. Another place to try would be through Capitol Records but I think...

Brooks, Garth: Garth Brooks
Brooks, Garth: Garth Brooks

Brooks, Garth: Movie Frequency - When You Come Back Again, scarecrow, garth fan
Brooks, Garth: Movie Frequency - When You Come Back Again, scarecrow, garth fan, new cd

Brooks, Garth: Pseudo Names, yukon jack, cover songs
Brooks, Garth: Pseudo Names, yukon jack, cover songs, gigs

Brooks, Garth: song, dance
Brooks, Garth: song, dance

Brooks, Garth: THE THUNDER ROLLS, thunder rolls, dresser drawer
Brooks, Garth: THE THUNDER ROLLS, thunder rolls, dresser drawer, sleepless night

Brooks, Garth: Garth Brooks accepting outside material, capitol nashville, south nashville
capitol nashville, south nashville, garth brooks: Hello, This is what I got...... GB Management, Inc. 1111 17th Ave. South Nashville, TN 37212 fax: (615) 327- 9407 .....and I got this from Capitol s official site: http://capitol-nashville.com/email.cfm I hope this helps and...

Brooks, Garth: Garth Brooks cloths?, garth brooks, cloths
garth brooks, cloths, allison: Most of Garth s shirts are made by a company named Mo Betta . I checked out their website but this shirt wasn t listed, however it may have been a specially made shirt. I d check out their website and contact them and see if they actually did make it. http://www.mobetta.net...

Brooks, Garth: Garth Brooks' Homepage, garth brooks homepage, troyal garth brooks
garth brooks homepage, troyal garth brooks, garth brooks: Garth does not yet have an official website, BUT the closest you will find is PlanetGarth.com which Garth *is* actually aware of and approves of it! then there are other fansites like: GarthB.com SimplyGarth.com Troyal-Garth-Brooks.org ....and so...

Brooks, Garth: Garth Brooks information, hollywood bowl, garth brooks
hollywood bowl, garth brooks, birthday concert: Well, sorry i can t help because it is not known at this time if he will appear, but it is a strong possibility, however he will be at The Hollywood Bowl in California because he will be inducted in their brand new Hollywood Bowl Hall Of Fame, and he is...

Brooks, Garth: Garth Brooks, garth brooks, napster
garth brooks, napster: The song Garth wrote and sang for the movie Frequency is called When You Come Back To Me Again If you are trying to find the song on a cd or single you won t be able to at this point because Garth did it solely for the movie, Garth may release it in the...

Brooks, Garth: Garth moving., address thanks, food shopping
address thanks, food shopping, favorite restaurant: Yes Garth did move back to Oklahoma but he did not sell his Nashville home. A friend tells me he moved somewhere just outside Tulsa, and as for an address i don t think many, and if any very few people know exactly where he lives, i m sure it will come out...

Brooks, Garth: Garth and Trisha, garth and trisha, garth fan
garth and trisha, garth fan, studio musicians: Hi Michelle, So nice to talk to a fellow Garth fan. Garth himself has said that he and Trisha are together now and I would assume that Garth wouldn t admit that unless it were serious for them. I too agree that I also thought they were much better suited...

Brooks, Garth: GB, garth brooks, eyes and ears
garth brooks, eyes and ears: Hello, Garth is not touring right now and there are no plans for a tour that has been released to the public but there is a rumor that Garth may go on a short tour in support for his next album (his next album will be released later this year) and I am...

Brooks, Garth: general, music pop rock, garth fans
music pop rock, garth fans, loving music: Well, his songs have crossed over to the pop charts and he DOES get ALOT of flack for it, as for why do his country fans still like him? Well i have found alot of Garth fans like a variety of music(pop, rock. ect) and don t mind it but there are those of his...

Brooks, Garth: Movie Frequency - When You Come Back Again, garth brooks cd, garth brooks
garth brooks cd, garth brooks, ebay: Hi Ray, I know that the song will not be put on any of his CD s at this point and not on a soundtrack. I do not know the reason for this, but have heard Garth say that he only did the song for the movie, not for release. Many radio stations obtained a...

Brooks, Garth: Pseudo Names, garth brooks, chris gaines
garth brooks, chris gaines, rock cd: Hello, Well there is the 1999 pop/rock cd Garth recorded called Garth Brooks In The Life Of Chris Gaines it was supposed to turn into a whole movie project and stuff, that is still being worked out. But I think you must be looking for the Chris Ganies...

Brooks, Garth: Soundtrack?, beautiful song, tuttle
beautiful song, tuttle, napster: Hi Gennifer, The song is called When You Come Back to Me Again. It is not available on any soundtrack or album unfortunately and there is no plan to release it. Most people have downloaded it from www.napster.com (if it is still up and running). It...

Brooks, Garth: song, bearshare, sister in law
bearshare, sister in law, napster: Hello, There are a lot of services like Napster still available, you might try Kazaa , Bearshare and there are lots of others. All you have to do is download the service; it is free and you can download The Dance and songs by any other artists...

Brooks, Garth: THE THUNDER ROLLS, wife abuse, thunder rolls
wife abuse, thunder rolls, abusive husband: The controversy over the song The Thunder Rolls did have to do with the subject matter of abuse. They did ban it when it first came out years ago, but due to pressure of fans, etc. put it back on the air. It can be seen regularly on CMT. Garth didn t particularly...

Brooks, Garth: where is it??, fresh horses, diamond logo
fresh horses, diamond logo, extra track: You have the original copy of Fresh Horses, which was released in 1995. When The Limited Series was released in 1998 one extra track was added to each of the first six CD s, for Fresh Horses that song was To Make You Feel My Love By this time, production...

Brother & Sister Problems: 2 sisters fighting 24/7, weird show, youngers
weird show, youngers, 2 sisters: Dear Kristie. Babysitting youngers is tough stuff. Especially if they fight. I think you should try and bring them together, and help them to become better friends. Play a game tat they both like, anything, even if it is a bit weird. Show how much fun doing...

Brother & Sister Problems: Annoying twin sister, asignments, freinds
asignments, freinds, other ones: Natalie, You seem like a very mature person. I enjoy finding people with brains, you are one of the few. I mean no offense to anyone. Before I say anything, i would like to know, is she your identical twin? That kind of has a bearing on how I go...

Brother & Sister Problems: My Brother, plant pots, g money
plant pots, g money, serious situation: This is a serious situation keiran. This is abuse and can be illegal in certain areas of the world. There are a few options- -talk to your brother if you feel safe about it -call the police yourself -talk to your parents about what they should do - call...

Brother & Sister Problems: bickering brothers, neices and nephews, brother lives
neices and nephews, brother lives, brothers and sisters: Hey Shawn, I really don t know what you are going through. I m the youngest in my family so I did things to my brothers and sisters, not the other way around. But I do have 5 neices and nephews so I can sort of give you some advice. Talk to your parents....

Brother & Sister Problems: brother, little brother, good luck
little brother, good luck, one thing: This is very common, little brothers/sisters can be very annoying. One thing you can do is be nicer to him, so he doesnt feel the need to act out. Another is ignore him in a different sense, e.g. when he says something rude like, you re ugly ( which you arent!),...

Brother & Sister Problems: My little cousin ( not really a silbling though) Was I wrong, female cousin, great friends
Brother & Sister Problems: My little cousin ( not really a silbling though) Was I wrong, female cousin, great friends, love and affection

Brother & Sister Problems: My sister drives me nuts and my mom does nothing about it, happy things, living daylights
Brother & Sister Problems: My sister drives me nuts and my mom does nothing about it, happy things, living daylights, going to college

Brother & Sister Problems: My little cousin ( not really a silbling though) Was I wrong, family meeting, violent manner
family meeting, violent manner, watery eyes: It is understandable that you feel annoyed about your cousins actions but it was wrong to tell her in that manner. What I suggest you do is to make it up to her somehow. Get her something that shows you are sorry and that you care for her, (even if you dont)....

Brother & Sister Problems: need advice on how to about see my bro and sis, time heals all wounds, hurt and pain
time heals all wounds, hurt and pain, brother and sister: Nicole, I sympathize with your plight and feel your pain. But I am sure at your young age, you realize that you are a victim of your parents separation/divorce. Your Mum may not be necessarily angry at you, more probably at your Dad. Take hold...

Brother & Sister Problems: Stealing, male influence, empty threat
male influence, empty threat, driving in my car: You re in a tough situation being the caring sister that no longer wants to enable your brother to continue his behavior. First of all, don t take it personally. He may not even consider stealing from friends and family wrong. Drinking and stealing...

Brother & Sister Problems: My sister drives me nuts and my mom does nothing about it, mood disorder, older sister
mood disorder, older sister, going to college: Dear Amanda, Sometimes parents, especially ones in your parents situations, get fed up with the stress and drama for lack of a better term. They may also be trying to defend your little sister since as you put it, it s kind of apparent that she has...

Brother & Sister Problems: my sister and niece are leaving tuesday night, lanay, niece
lanay, niece, tuesday night: I don t know that you can convince them to stay. Rather than convince them to stay, you are going to have to learn how to handle your brothers. How do you do that is the better question. Your sister can t protect you from everyone. I recommend the following...

Brother & Sister Problems: my sister stole my soulmate, heart to heart talk, ong time
heart to heart talk, ong time, heart to heart: Ok, its a very hard time for you and i am sorry. but i must tell you it is not worth risking your life over a man. It may sound a bit cruel but i am sure you have a lot of talents and hopes that you can live up to. As for your sister, I think a heart to...

Brother & Sister Problems: my son hit his sister, sibling rivalry, nice baby
sibling rivalry, nice baby, negative behavior: It is clear to you and me that sibling rivalry and jealousy is the cause of your son s negative behavior. Why not try behavior modification? Start by explaining to him how much you love him and wish that he and his sister get along. Try to convince him...

Brother & Sister Problems: annoying sister!, sister my sister, older sister
sister my sister, older sister, immediate family: Tara, Have you tried asking either your Mom or Dad or both for help? Being the older sister you should be able to stop your younger sister from pinching you or going into a tantrum and worst, take your friends away. You need to put a stop to this....

Brother & Sister Problems: annoying sister!, fly swatter, swat
Brother & Sister Problems: annoying sister!, fly swatter, swat, fly

Brother & Sister Problems: help, poker chips, little brother
poker chips, little brother, matan: He might just be reacting to the divorce. That s tough for anyone and I m sure it was hard for you too. Then again, he might just be being a little brother. Try to talk to him and don t get mad. That just keeps things going. Talk to your parents and see if...

Brother & Sister Problems: help please, eagles nest restaurant, popular girl
eagles nest restaurant, popular girl, guy friends: You do not have to wish that you could break free from your sister s shadow, Candace. YOU CAN JUST DO IT. Start by focusing on your assets - your good traits. Look beyond good looks and try to develop your assets. Slowly, you will feel more and more...

Brother & Sister Problems: Living with my sister, self esteem problems, acting this way
self esteem problems, acting this way, money problems: Hello Betsy! I m sorry if this isn t the answer you were looking for but I will try my best to see that you get good advice. What I can suggest is talking to your sister. Before you think, wait a minute I told her that I can t ask for help, let me explain....

Brother & Sister Problems: MEAN EVIL SISTER, evil sister, game
evil sister, game: I m assuming she s younger than you. So that s how it goes. I m the youngest in my family and I m sure I did the same thing to my older sisters even though I can t remember it. Tell her to stop and maybe spend some time with her so she is okay when she doesn...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sisters and Parents., annoying sisters, anger management
annoying sisters, anger management, little sisters: I did this to my older siblings too. I know it s annoying. Your mom is half right. You should ignore your sister. If she does something to you, you just ignore her. She wants to get your riled up so don t let it happen and she will stop. If that doesn t work,...

Brother & Sister Problems: sharing, breaking point, master bedroom
breaking point, master bedroom, 13 years: Simone, If you are sharing a room with your sister, I can only surmise that you have limited space in your house. The master bedroom is for your parents and there is just this one other bedroom that you and your sister have to share. Why not talk to your...

Brother & Sister Problems: My sister's boyfriend tried to kiss me?, loser boyfriend, older sister
loser boyfriend, older sister, liar: Hannah, when you tell me that your sister and her boyfriend got back together a week ago , does this mean that you told her of kissing incident in your house? Be that as it may, are you saying that your sister chose to believe her boyfriend s story...

Brother & Sister Problems: 7 y/o brat, ocasions, wits end
ocasions, wits end, last hope: Hello, thanks for writing in! What you need to do is reinforce that you are in charge. Take the time out to talk to your sister, tell her what you want and ask her what she wants. Write down a list of these things and find a way to negotiate fair ways so...

Brother & Sister Problems: Adopted - don't know what to do, big brother, simple answer
big brother, simple answer, older sister: Hi Glyn, No I don t think your thick, I think you re very sweet for wanting to be a good big brother. The simple answer is just treat them kindly, lovingly and friendly. Always remember that no matter what you re always brothers and sisters and nothing...

Brother & Sister Problems: Brother with Issues, head ache, uc berkeley
head ache, uc berkeley, university of california at berkeley: Zach, From the little you tell me about your 22-year old brother, he is in dire need of professional help. If this brother of yours earned his degree at UC, Berkeley and even had a paid internship at a bank, then he is no loser. Something must have happened...

Brother & Sister Problems: My brothers are driving me insane, sibling rivalry, speaking terms
sibling rivalry, speaking terms, teenage years: This a mix of sibling rivalry, teenage years, and hormones. They will get over it. It sounds like you re really close to them both so talk to them and tell them it s not fair for them to drag you through it too. You shouldn t have to pick sides. If they...

Brother & Sister Problems: dad, jaycie, question thanks
jaycie, question thanks, tough girl: Sorry for making that confusing for you. Tiffany did talk to your dad and made him have to ask to speak or wait until he was spoken to. That s kind of just stayed with him since then. I hope that makes more sense. If you want to know anything else, I think...

Brother & Sister Problems: Freinds, french kids, paretns
french kids, paretns, french children: Dear Mikayla Here s what I really think. If you really want friends, why not hang out with the french kids? If everyone else laughs at you, who cares? they aren t nice to you, so their opinion doesn t matter, right? See what happens with the french children....

Brother & Sister Problems: Mutual Masturbation, incest
Brother & Sister Problems: Mutual Masturbation, incest

Brother & Sister Problems: taking showers with my brother
Brother & Sister Problems: taking showers with my brother

Brother & Sister Problems: Gym, boys locker room, 13 year old boys
boys locker room, 13 year old boys, gym teacher: Jane, You can do either of 2 things: 1) in class tomorrow, pretend the entire incident never happened and make no mention of it at all to your boys OR 2) if it makes you feel better and more comfortable, apologize to...

Brother & Sister Problems: hi, mom and dad, polotics
mom and dad, polotics, obama: I just answered his question. I m glad that he s happy to write to me again. Talk to your dad about this stuff. I can t know everything behind why he does what he does. Ask him to stop. I told him how you felt about him telling you to do stuff and I think...

Brother & Sister Problems: Little sister, little sister, weather
little sister, weather, games: Tom, You are older and smarter than your younger sister. So, you can certainly persuade her to play other games instead of the usual ones that you find boring and annoying. And weather permitting, you can expand your play and games to outdoor activities...

Brother & Sister Problems: little add on, queen sized beds, friend tiffany
queen sized beds, friend tiffany, punishments: I told you in my answer that you shouldn t be thinking about sex right now at all because you aren t ready for it. I don t know how old you are but you re an adult. You need to act like it. I know you had a hard childhood but you can still move on from that....

Brother & Sister Problems: Mutual Masturbation, sexual feelings, mutual masturbation
sexual feelings, mutual masturbation, sexual pleasure: I understand that you and your brother are very close and that s a good thing. But the point of masturbation is to have a certain degree of sexual pleasure. If you do that for your bother and he does that for you, in a way you are pleasing each other. It doesn...

Brother & Sister Problems: Mutual Masturbation, sexual feelings, sexual intercourse
sexual feelings, sexual intercourse, mutual masturbation: Dear Jessica I believe this is a question you will have to answer on your own, though I will try to help. The dictionary describes it as :sexual intercourse between closely related persons. so if you are sure its nothing sexual it cannot be incest. But...

Brother & Sister Problems: problems with brother, brother my brother, proceede
brother my brother, proceede, family relationship: There is not much you can do if he is not communicating with you. I know this is hard to hear, but the more you fight it, the more he will pull away. All you can do is accept him when he does come around. Don t try to convince him the past is different...

Brother & Sister Problems: RE: Brother/Sister Rivalry, attention defecit disorder, high iq
attention defecit disorder, high iq, qwerks: Dearest Yvette, Thank you for your question and I will do the best of my ability to give you an answer that will help. First and foremost however I wanted to let you know I am glad you are doing better and I am so sorry how ill you were. I am glad you are...

Brother & Sister Problems: relationship, relationship question, destructive path
relationship question, destructive path, younger son: I wish there was a way I could consul him and possibly help him out. Would your son be willing to sit down and talk to your other son? I highly suggest the 30 year old see some counseling or maybe even a religious figure such as a priest or father. Counseling...

Brother & Sister Problems: taking showers with my brother, teenage brothers, backes
teenage brothers, backes, showers: It s more that you are teenage brothers. I don t know where you re from or anything so it might be okay there. You are brothers and you aren t too old, but in the future it might cause some problems. I guess I just look at it as improper and I don t know the...

Brother & Sister Problems: 10 year old sister, brother and sisters, center of attention
brother and sisters, center of attention, girl friend: Dear Dustin, Sounds to me she is just being a 10 year old. She seems to be craving your attention. Do you ever just spend one on one time with her? I think you should try setting at least a half hour a day and play or even just do school work with her....

Brother & Sister Problems: Addopted, siblings, relationships
siblings, relationships: Hi there, Being treated differently for a reason of circumstance like yours is very frustrating. Without knowing a little more detail, I will tell you this about siblings: If they know how to get to you, they will do it every time until you stop them....

Brother & Sister Problems: annoying mum, mom work, stage of development
mom work, stage of development, abigail: How old are you, Abigail? You wonder why I ask? Your irritation at your Mom may have to do with your present stage of development OR may be caused by something else. Tell me more about yourself. Do you have brothers and sisters? Does your Mom work...

Brother & Sister Problems: Child-Child conflict solution, child care situation, conflict
child care situation, conflict: Take the one aside and tell him that he did something wrong. He needs to know so he won t do it again. Let him sit in time out for a while by himself, you can judge the time. Then talk to him again and make sure he won t do it again. Then have him say sorry...

Brother & Sister Problems: Child-Child conflict solution, child care situation, conflict situation
child care situation, conflict situation, negative behavior: Hina, The first step, I think, in the situation you just described is to verify whether the hurting behavior really did occur. So, call the child who supposedly initiated the aggressive behavior and talk to the 2 children side by side to get an accurate...

Brother & Sister Problems: Child-Child conflict solution, child care situation, naughty time
child care situation, naughty time, eye to eye: Tell them that saying sorry is always the best thing to do and that if they don t they will get a time out because the other child deserves an apology. If they still refuse take them to the time out spot (this is what you should do when there) and not say...

Brother & Sister Problems: Controlling preschoolers, facial expressions, weird objects
facial expressions, weird objects, raising your voice: Hi Leyla, Itís unfortunate but true that preschoolers have no attention span. Through new studies and actual experience we learn that being as gentle to them as possible gains their trust and attention. Remember they are little and yelling or increasing...

Brother & Sister Problems: Controlling preschoolers, rhythm and rhyme, attention span
rhythm and rhyme, attention span, bright colors: You really cannot completely control preschoolers or any child for that matter, Leyla. But you can manage, direct and redirect their behavior and attention span by providing them with activities that they are interested in. In general, young children...

Brother & Sister Problems: Controlling preschoolers, snack times, little kids
snack times, little kids, recess: I don t have the most experience with this so you might want to ask around. But with how many little kids I am around, don t stay on the same thing too long. Maybe get a treat bucket or do something that will keep them quiet for a long time and then they get...

Brother & Sister Problems: Did I crush her belief?, little kid, little girl
little kid, little girl, will take some time: You might have. She is a little young to know about Santa. I think she will get over it but it will take some time because Christmas is right now and that s all any little kid can think of. Talk to her and try to make it up to her. Maybe you can say you just...

Brother & Sister Problems: Evil twin sister, evil twin sister, running away from home
evil twin sister, running away from home, doesnt work: Dearest Madison, Our parents tend to not realize how they are making us feel. Your parents are not mind reader therefore have no idea how they are making you feel. You need to sit with your parents (or one of them) and tell them in a nice calm way how you...

Brother & Sister Problems: Nasty sister?, christmas fair, one christmas
christmas fair, one christmas, responsible adults: Dear Rose, If it were me in your shoes, I would think that sometimes my sister would be a bitch but just think are there any other times when she is good to you? Instead of focusing on the bad things she has done, have their been any good ones? I suggest,...

Brother & Sister Problems: Problems with my younger brother, development adolescence, quarrels
development adolescence, quarrels, time and place: For one, Corrin, you and your brother are in a difficult stage in your development, adolescence, which may partly explain the constant fighting. The other part is explained by the fact that he is only 2 years older than you are. But if you do not live...

Brother & Sister Problems: problem, side position, stupid person
side position, stupid person, wonderful weekend: Okay well again I do hope you find someone close to you to look at the two pictures. Remember just because in one photograph you may look similar doesn t always mean you will in person. I know several people who may look like something in a photograph may...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sisters, financial shape, debate tournament
financial shape, debate tournament, relationship problems: Hey Kenneth, I would have answered you yesterday but I had a debate tournament until 11:00 P.M. Sorry. Just to let you know, I usually work with teens and their families. I am more than happy to help you but you might want another source of help than someone...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sisters, financial shape, relationship problems
financial shape, relationship problems, sharla: Since you, Kenneth, are in the middle of the problem and know your sisters well, I would say - GO AHEAD - as I am sure you have thought out your situation in your mind over and over again. Be optimistic when you send out your appeal to other family members...

Brother & Sister Problems: sister's boyfriend, bad vibe, drugs and alcohol
bad vibe, drugs and alcohol, sister time: Well, you could get a restraining order against him. You can threaten to file charges on him for giving drugs and alcohol to a minor. I don t know if that will work, though, because he s a minor too. Talk to her and tell her that he s not worth it. Take her...

Brother & Sister Problems: I went to my sisterís wedding, little imagination, sibling
little imagination, sibling, girlfriend: Dear Jordan, Thanks for writing in! It may take your sister sometime to get over this, I mean after all it was her special day and like a sibling you should be there on time and your girlfriend should behave herself. What I would do is send her a note,...

Brother & Sister Problems: Thanks, wet dreams, special person
wet dreams, special person, undies: You need to do what you think is best. I know you don t really know that right now but you need to think for yourself. Sometimes what I say isn t right but you do it. You need to do what you think. Take advice and learn but be ready to use your own judgement....

Brother & Sister Problems: Thank you so much, question thanks, forehead
question thanks, forehead, tiffany: Girls can totally be the strong, silent type. I am usually like that. I don t talk a lot unless I have to or I think something needs to be said. Lots of girls are the same way. Tell Brooke that you want a second opinion from an outside source. She said...

Brother & Sister Problems: Younger siter issues!!!!, periods of development, siter
periods of development, siter, genders: While it is true, George, that siblings do fight quite often at certain periods of development, it is equally true that the more the difference in ages, the less likely they will quarrel. And more so if the siblings are of different genders, like you and...

Brother & Sister Problems: my younger brother, basement bathroom, simple answer
basement bathroom, simple answer, puberty: Dear Kristina, There is a simple answer for this, puberty. You brother is going through some pretty huge changes and his hormones are all pent up and he s needing something to do. Hormones have different effects on the body, sometimes no effect, sometimes...

Brother & Sister Problems: my 16year old sister, mom and dad, pushing the limits
mom and dad, pushing the limits, older sister: Lauren, I understand your frustration. I too am an older sister that can see the pitfalls ahead of my younger sisters. It is really difficult to watch especially when they are so sure they know everything. Now, I know you don t want to hear this,...

Brother & Sister Problems: 2 sisters- night and day, nasty nancy, time nancy
nasty nancy, time nancy, sister nancy: Olga, I know you realize that at this stage in your lives, a personality change for your sister, Nancy is almost next to impossible. And hand and hand with this, is a complete reversal in the way your relationship has been these past years. In the same...

Brother & Sister Problems: my 3 year old brother, mom dad, twin beds
mom dad, twin beds, little brother: Hi Caleb, What you may have to understand is that your brother is young and does not know any better. He has to be taught what is right and wrong, just like you were. If he does something you think is wrong, tell your mom/dad/aunt/uncle/grandma/grandma....ANYONE!...

Brother & Sister Problems: Brother!, bad sister, chores
bad sister, chores, siblings: Hi Shayna! I am so glad you love your brother because sadly some siblings don t love each other. However, you can t wait on your brother hand and foot. Some of his chores are meant to be HIS chores. You have your own room to clean, and other chores to do....

Brother & Sister Problems: Evil Twin, evil twins, school clothes
evil twins, school clothes, heart to heart: dear brandie i have never dealt with evil twins, but iw ill try my best, hope i can make a good change, :) There could be two possible solutions. the first may be a bit hard and the second a bit extreme and harsh. i reccomend- either a heart to heart...

Brother & Sister Problems: my little bro 22, april april, nice girl
april april, nice girl, bro: April, so that you do not get so frustrated, you must realize that you and your brother are now at a different stage in your development. Your brother is at a stage, right now, when his friends (be they male or female) are very important to him It was...

Brother & Sister Problems: little to no communication with brothers, graduating high school, open door policy
graduating high school, open door policy, bad time: Hi Sara, They probably feel this way because you are the youngest and the only girl. Guys feel that it is the girl s responsibility to take care of the mom. They need to realize that you have your own life too. I know that you have tried to talk to them...

Brother & Sister Problems: I miss my sisters., touchy subjects, kia
touchy subjects, kia, good time: Hey Kia, Try to not bring up touchy subjects. I know that my sisters and I fight over me wanting to be independent and them wanting to help me all the time. We are all very stubborn and so that doesn t help at all. Just try to have a good time. Be willing...

Brother & Sister Problems: odd behavior., odd behavior, yr olds
odd behavior, yr olds, young kids: Hey Chris, I don t know if this is normal but it is common. A lot of little kids do it just because it feels funny and they think that it s cool or something. I am with you on this one. Try to keep telling them to not do it anymore. I guess the mom isn t...

Brother & Sister Problems: Not sure i can be the older sister, passiveness, 2 sisters
passiveness, 2 sisters, older sister: Marcy, When your older sister leaves for college, DO NOT EVEN TRY TO FILL IN HER SHOES. What you really need to do is work towards having your sister and your mom accept you as you are. If they do, they will also begin to respect you. You have your...

Brother & Sister Problems: pot smoker, pot smoker, smoking pot
pot smoker, smoking pot, tks: Your boyfriend s nephew is indeed in a very difficult situation. He can share his findings with his sister but the distance between him and his sibling further aggravates the situation. He can try talking to his Mom and see if she will listen . . ...

Brother & Sister Problems: Replaced, mom and dad, accurate answer
mom and dad, accurate answer, sad story: Dear Peidito, That is a very sad story. I m sorry that you re going through that. I need to know some information first. I will not be using for anything other than giving you an accurate answer. 1.) What is your age? 2.) Are you a legal resident...

Brother & Sister Problems: my sister, kingsley, deep breath
kingsley, deep breath, yell: Hi Kingsley! First of all, I am so sorry that I did not get to respond to you until now...this question was not available to me until now. Now, take a deep breath! Don t let your sister make you believe that life isn t worth living!! Now, yes...your sister...

Brother & Sister Problems: my sister, favorite music, deep breaths
favorite music, deep breaths, chores: Hi Elizabeth. First of all, I apologize for my late response. Now to your question: Have you ever thought that your parents have misunderstood you? They are probably just trying to prevent future arguments by punishing you for fighting in the first place....

Brother & Sister Problems: My sister's boyfriend, silly thing, phone bills
silly thing, phone bills, fiance: Hey Josie, Almost this exact thing happened with my sister and her boyfriend/fiance/ex-boyfriend/fiance again/whatever they are now. He also was very controlling. He would call all the time and ask where she was. He always looked in her room for who knows...

Brother & Sister Problems: a sister fight, mom and dad, piece of crap
mom and dad, piece of crap, abusive relationship: Hey Raven, I know that you don t want to hear this but getting in a physical fight with your sister isn t going to help anything. It will probably only cause her emotional distress. That s not what she needs right now at all. But you can tell her that she...

Brother & Sister Problems: sister issues, new roommate, fist fight
new roommate, fist fight, new car: Hey Dianarivera, First, I m sorry I ve taken so long to respond. I ve been really busy right now and I m so sorry. Anyway, talk to her. Tell her that it s not fair to just leave you hanging when you ve helped with everything. It s not right that she...

Brother & Sister Problems: sister trouble: 7 year diff, sister trouble, help with homework
sister trouble, help with homework, minor trouble: Miranda, The height difference should present no problem to the relationship between you and your sister. Give her time to mature (after all, she is still in her adolescent years) and with maturity will come a diffrent perspective. Now, that she is a teenager,...

Brother & Sister Problems: sisters, fist fight, time 2
fist fight, time 2, good friends: Emma, Did you apologize to your sister after the incident? Do you want to try apologizing again? If she refuses to talk to you, perhaps you can give her a card or letter saying how sorry you are . .. and asking for a reconciliation between the 2...

Brother & Sister Problems: brother, daugther, visitation rights
daugther, visitation rights, half sister: Hey Doris, I know that you can get them visitation rights. Go to the court house and ask them how to do it. I m not exactly sure. Tell them why you want them and the stuff about the dad. I don t think that they will deny the rights but it might take a while...

Brother & Sister Problems: my brother, brother seth, vaction
brother seth, vaction, little brother: Hey Candace, In my family I am the annoying little sister. I am the youngest by 6 years. I can tell you a bunch of stuff about being the youngest but I m not as experienced with other ages but I ll try my best. First off, don t get mad. You will probably...

Brother & Sister Problems: hey my name is shawnkaria, older sister, barge
Brother & Sister Problems: hey my name is shawnkaria, older sister, barge, parents

Brother & Sister Problems: younger brat sister, step sister, brat
Brother & Sister Problems: younger brat sister, step sister, brat, sophie

Brother & Sister Problems: hey my name is shawnkaria, bruse, bloody nose
bruse, bloody nose, becouse: Your situation needs drastic, immediate action as you cannot let your brother bully and hurt you. He has to be stopped! Talk to your parents about this as soon as possible. If you cannot get to your parents, talk to your pastor or counselor or a teacher...

Brother & Sister Problems: humans, human kids, opion
human kids, opion, fiction books: Jim, Thank you for asking my opinion. I honestly do not think aliens eat children for dinner. In fact, what you and I know about aliens is gathered from fiction - books, movies, TV shows - which are not based on facts but are a product of man s imagination....

Brother & Sister Problems: Older Sister Problems, random times, little brother
random times, little brother, point of no return: You realize that your sister, you and your brother are entering or have entered one of the more difficult stages in your delevopment - adolescence. This is why you see your siblings displaying behavior that is strange, unexplainable and sometimes, downright...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sibling Rivalry, sibling rivalry, age gap
sibling rivalry, age gap, whol: Caitlin, There s quite an age gap between you, so I imagine your sister probably looks up to you quite a bit. Of course, you shouldn t be faulted for spending more time with your friends and what not, but I imagine she is striving for your attention at...

Brother & Sister Problems: sisters love life, txt messages, boyfriends
txt messages, boyfriends, jock: Hey Ryan, I m glad that you care about your sister that much. I can totally understand where you are coming from. My brothers are the same way with me. They are the ones that I m scared to have my boyfriends meet, not my dad. Anyway, sorry to say this,...

Brother & Sister Problems: younger brat sister, temper tantrum, step mom
temper tantrum, step mom, ingore: Hello Aslinn there are three basic rules to your situation. 1- Ingore 2- respond 3- be kind The first one is simple enough when she copies you ignore it, when she has a temper tantrum ignore it and so on so forth. Tell your parents about this...

Brother & Sister Problems: aggrivating sister, bad dreams, high paying job
bad dreams, high paying job, middle sister: Juli, From what you tell me about yourself in your e-mail, I can only say you are a good sister and an equally-good daughter. In fact, I applaud your maturity at handling the special close relationship that existed between your mother and middle sister...

Brother & Sister Problems: brother, parents, brother
parents, brother, e mail: Sam, My last e-mail to you made no mention at all of getting your parents involved in any fight between your brother and yourself. All I am asking you is to be strong and stand up to your brother. This is far from fighting and your parents will have...

Brother & Sister Problems: elderly father & siblings obligations, younger siblings, family interaction
younger siblings, family interaction, elderly father: To begin with, Susan, I would encourage you to persist in your attempts to call Dr. Laura. Once you are able to get in touch with her and talk her, it will give you the much-needed emotional and psychological relief you badly need right now with your family...

Brother & Sister Problems: Little annoying brother, mom talks, annoying brother
mom talks, annoying brother, workable solution: Samantha, The main reason, I think, that your younger brother continually starts a fight with you is you ran away crying when he does. Young as he is, he has now concluded that he has power over you. Try this: (it may or may not work as I do not...

Brother & Sister Problems: Older sister's boyfriend, heart to heart, rude remarks
heart to heart, rude remarks, strange one: I think the best thing for you to do is talk to your sister and tell her what you think. But not to rashly or harshly because then she will feel threatened or get angry. You just have to sit down with her in private and talk to her heart to heart. Tell her...

Brother & Sister Problems: Quintuplets, stay calm, weird names
stay calm, weird names, situtation: Dear Xtayautae-Megoura Your problem can be solved with honesty and a face to face conversation. You need to get your sister, Xjhena-Paoiuhlaomn, and tell her you don t like what she is doing and you want her to stop. Just make sure you don t raise you voice...

Brother & Sister Problems: Step siblings making fun of health problems., step siblings, step mom
step siblings, step mom, playing soccer: Your frustration must be immense. I m sure all you want to do is go about your business without having to play adult every evening. I understand your Dad and Step mom leaning on you, but they re going to burn you out. Maybe you can take a hands off approach...

Brother & Sister Problems: siblings mismatch, heart talks, those memories
heart talks, those memories, braket: Going back in time can sometimes be hard. Depending on how much time has passed, your siblings may have blocked that part of their memory out (depending on how traumatic it was for them). They may also just be used to closing themselves up and hiding away....

Brother & Sister Problems: my sister, mom and dad, juts
mom and dad, juts, baby sitter: I suggest you either tell your sister it makes you uncomfortable, or if you can t do that, tell your parents about it. If you dont talk about it, your sister will keep doing it. Maybe you could ask for a baby sitter or go to a friends house. You might want...

Brother & Sister Problems: sister, twin sister, one of these days
twin sister, one of these days, close friends: I think you are a good sister with a heart and have gone out of your way to help your twin. You can try to be close to her always, keep communication lines open between you, show a lot of understanding and sympathy, especially when she talks about topics...

Brother & Sister Problems: talking to my sister about her kids, child rearing practices, pediatric nurse
child rearing practices, pediatric nurse, play video games: Aside from you and her husband, is there a relative or a friend or a pastor that is a credible source for your sister when it comes to parenting and child-rearing practices? If such a person exists, then appraoch this person, confide to him/her your concerns...

Brother & Sister Problems: Younger sister, silly things, grandparents
silly things, grandparents, elbow: Hey Amy, I think that this is a normal thing for pretty much all girls to go through. I know that it bothers you but your sister probably is just going through a stage that she has to go through to get over something. Just love her and don t give up on her....

Brother & Sister Problems: 16 years old sister, sister my sister, hannah
sister my sister, hannah: Hannah, To be able to help you, I need more information from you. How old are you? Tell me some of the things your sister is able to do which you really believe is unfair. Are they good or bad? How does your sister s behavior or action affect you? ...

Brother & Sister Problems: a basic need or just a want??, younger siblings, younger brothers
younger siblings, younger brothers, seaman: Hello John, It is totally up to you if you want him to read what you wrote. I think it would draw you closer together if you did but it might be too personal to share with him. That is your own decision. I can t make it for you. I think it is a good idea...

Brother & Sister Problems: a basic need or just a want??, younger siblings, younger brothers
younger siblings, younger brothers, seaman: It s wonderful you had such a connection with this little boy. Here my advice for your two questions. One. You should let the little boy read your writing, you should even read it with him, so that he knows he is very special and he will feel loved. It...

Brother & Sister Problems: a basic need or just a want??, younger siblings, younger brothers
younger siblings, younger brothers, seaman: To your first question, John, the answer is Certainly. You can let your 10-year old friend read the writing you did. It appears that you and him have developed a real, genuine friendship and he will appreciate the affection you have for him. He personifies...

Brother & Sister Problems: brother and baby brother, brother down, baby brother
brother down, baby brother, teamup: Why not sit down quietly in your room and ask yourself exactly what it is your brother does that annoys you? If the response you get is a trifle or something insignificant, then do something about it. Work on it so that it does not get to you. Outsmart...

Brother & Sister Problems: my brother and sister, misery loves company, easy target
misery loves company, easy target, brother and sister: Emily, You didn t do anything. Some people just lash out because you are an easy target in which to take out their frustration. Your sister s problems are of her own making. Next time she says something to the that effect, agree with her only by...

Brother & Sister Problems: family, brother don, good friend
brother don, good friend, family members: I m not really sure why they would do that to you. What you could do is just tell them how you feel about this. Don t become offensive to them, simply state that from now on, you d like to be notified when things like this happen. Perhaps you could ask...

Brother & Sister Problems: about age gap, sibling relationships, sibling relationship
sibling relationships, sibling relationship, age gap: Elson, You must have your own personal reasons for your interest in age gap between siblings. I just wanted to give you a heads-up on the topic. If you go to your school or public library, you will find that a good number of psychologists/psychologist...

Brother & Sister Problems: my brother is ruining my life, guidance counselor, school counselor
guidance counselor, school counselor, inner feelings: Sam, I honestly think that your brother s behavior would improve with counseling and/or psychotherapy. It appears that your brother has a lot of rage or anger within him which is causing him to behave badly. Sessions with the guidance counselor at school...

Brother & Sister Problems: Jerk SIs, twin sister, siblings
twin sister, siblings, twins: Hey Daniel, It just because she is your sister. Most siblings are like this to each other and being twins doesn t help. Tell her that you don t like it and you want her to stop. If you really want to and nothing else works, find something that she does that...

Brother & Sister Problems: sibling rivalry, sibling rivalry, stepson
sibling rivalry, stepson, step mother: You are so right in your assessment of the situation. The 17-year old is jealous of this half-sister as she gets to spend all her time with the Dad while the stepson doesn t. Either you or his Dad should speak to the 17-year old and explain how his teasing...

Brother & Sister Problems: sisters, loveable person, fun activities
loveable person, fun activities, whole life: Chantal, do you know of any reason why your younger sister should hate you? If not, then I would not worry about it. If your parents dote on you and you have friends who are quite fond of you, then it means that you are a loveable person. Respect...

Brother & Sister Problems: younger brother, school homework, lack of motivation
school homework, lack of motivation, schoolwork: First of all, I think you are a wonderful sister to try helping your brother in a positive manner. If you tell a bird it can t fly, it never will. That s what your parents are doing. You have the opportunity to tell him that if you want something, it...

Brother & Sister Problems: I am not getting along with Katharine, sports video games, barbie dolls
sports video games, barbie dolls, barbie doll: Hey Austin? Your narration makes me think you are in the moon? Do you have no understanding of gender differences? Boy vis-a-vis Girl. Try very hard to be tolerant of your little sister and put up with Barbie and the rest of her dolls. When you feel...

Brother & Sister Problems: Birthday Present, shirt tie, games cd
shirt tie, games cd, krizia: Your question, Krizia, is difficult to answer. Why? I do not know your brother. A lot depends on how old he is. Questions you can ask yourself to help you decide what gift to give him: What is his favorite sport? his favorite pastime? Does he like...

Brother & Sister Problems: The Book of Mormon, mormon faith, shame and guilt
mormon faith, shame and guilt, book of mormon: I think that looking at those websites, you think that those are strong women and you get pleasure from looking at them. It s the same thing with the underwear. What do you think about when you look at them? Depending on what your thoughts are, I think that...

Brother & Sister Problems: big sisster, must be a reason, big sister
must be a reason, big sister, e mail: I felt real sad for you, Marichey, as I was reading your e-mail about your big sister hitting you sometimes. Do some homework for me. Think of all the times that your big sister has hit you in the past. Can you recall why? If you can remember the reason...

Brother & Sister Problems: getting eaten, aligater, bear territory
aligater, bear territory, oceon: Hey Tiff, No, a shark will not eat you if you are just in the ocean. If you are bleeding in the ocean, that s s different story but that s not likely. Aligators don t really eat people if they are left alone. They leave us alone and they don t really like...

Brother & Sister Problems: Four Feud, barbie doll, tattling
barbie doll, tattling, kailey: Dear Jackie, While I was reading your narration of the incident among you and your brother and sisters, I could not help but ask, Where are your parents? Did your father or mother not hear the crying and the screaming? Perhaps, they are at work. If...

Brother & Sister Problems: Older Brother, childish behavior, kindness
Brother & Sister Problems: Older Brother, childish behavior, kindness, brother

Brother & Sister Problems: Little Brother, nickelodeon cartoon, cartoon network
nickelodeon cartoon, cartoon network, little brother: Hi Jesse, He might to this just because it s more of a habit now. Maybe you could ask him to go do something with you. I don t know how old he is but do something that he would like. That should get this going and he should talk to you. He might think that...

Brother & Sister Problems: I'm the youngest, and need some help., girlfriend annie, barbie dolls
girlfriend annie, barbie dolls, brother austin: Katharine, I am sure your brother, Austin is very fond of you, being his little sister. Try not to irritate him by asking him to play with your Barbie dolls; instead, once in a while do something together that both of you will enjoy. Remember, boys are...

Brother & Sister Problems: middle child, jealousy problem, patience
jealousy problem, patience, syria: Wissam, A good dose of love and patience from you will certainly go a long way towards helping your 12-year old brother overcome his jealousy problem. As he is a middle child, encourage him to go out and make a lot of friends be it in the neighborhood...

Brother & Sister Problems: Older Brother, annoying brother, gap year
annoying brother, gap year, disorderly behaviour: Brothers can tend to be annoying. My older brother usually did those things to me. I know you ve probably heard this a lot, but ignoring is key. When he calls you names, ignore it and move on, if he begins becoming more aggressive talk to him in a calm...

Brother & Sister Problems: problems with brother, siblings, hatred
siblings, hatred, anger: My opinion on this situation is a hard one. I have to say your brother does need some straightening out and you will have to move on. It is not wrong to feel bad towards brothers and sisters who have caused you grief. I feel that you should move on. Tell...

Brother & Sister Problems: step-siblings, step siblings, half brother
step siblings, half brother, fiance: It is obvious, Meredith, that you have a real problem on your hands - the 6-year old daughter of your fiance. It is aggravated by the fact that your fiance is very protective towards her. From your narration, it appears that your six-year old needs...

Brother & Sister Problems: My younger brothers and sisters, younger siblings, burger place
younger siblings, burger place, younger brothers: Hey Crystal, I know what you are talking about but I am on the opposite side. I m the youngest in my family so I did this to my 4 brothers and sisters all the time. We do this because we feel left out because you can do things we can t. (We meaning the younger...

Brother & Sister Problems: My Boy-Crazy Little Sister, girl getting fucked, sexual education
girl getting fucked, sexual education, lucky girl: Well, I can honestly say you don t have to be paranoid about it. She is growing up and some girls just get into it more than others, even if you think you weren t or were never like that, everyone is different. I would keep my eye on her and ask her to honestly...

Brother & Sister Problems: My Boy-Crazy Little Sister, girl getting fucked, easy target
girl getting fucked, easy target, sexual education: I hope this is okay but I didn t look at the clip. I just don t feel comfortable with it. I would be worried about your sister. She needs to be careful about what she thinks she wants. It is normal to be boy-crazy but not to the point of watching porn....

Brother & Sister Problems: he never believes me, chance encounter, innocent act
chance encounter, innocent act, little angel: Maggie, You should not be surprised that your brother does not see his girlfriend for what he is - HE IS IN LOVE. No matter what you say to him right now about his girl , especially if they are bad, he will not believe you as he will always take her...

Brother & Sister Problems: brother and sister problems, watching the clock, game night
watching the clock, game night, sisters and brothers: My family took us kids on a road trip every once in a while. It got us to know each other and we had good times. Have family night or game night or do something fun and just talk. Make sure there is time set aside so no one is watching the clock. It s not...

Brother & Sister Problems: Dominant Younger Sister, physical blows, small steps
physical blows, small steps, one don: What you need to do is make yourself seem like the more mature one. Talk to your parents and make sure you ask them to hear you out. Plan out what you are going to say, so you don t get caught short. Just make sure they understand what you are talking about....

Brother & Sister Problems: My Boy-Crazy Little Sister, cute boy, boy girl
Brother & Sister Problems: My Boy-Crazy Little Sister, cute boy, boy girl, porn

Brother & Sister Problems: My Boy-Crazy Little Sister
Brother & Sister Problems: My Boy-Crazy Little Sister

Brother & Sister Problems: help! my sister is dating my boyfriend's brother!, mr face, boy friend
Brother & Sister Problems: help! my sister is dating my boyfriend's brother!, mr face, boy friend, hello friends

Brother & Sister Problems: My older brothers, little brother, middle child
Brother & Sister Problems: My older brothers, little brother, middle child

Brother & Sister Problems: um ?, light bills, early pregnancy
Brother & Sister Problems: um ?, light bills, early pregnancy, baby formula

Brother & Sister Problems: HELP!!!, anger problem, little anger
anger problem, little anger, black sheep: Paige, Hats off to you for recognizing your problem, admitting it and even asking your parents for help. I agree with you when you say you have an anger problem and it is not just a little, it s a lot. And do not label yourself as a total black sheep;...

Brother & Sister Problems: help! my sister is dating my boyfriend's brother!, exes, little sister
exes, little sister, boyfriends: Dear Monica. The main thing I can suggest is talking. Communication is the key. Talking to your boyfriend, sister and his brother can solve a lot more than you think. When you talk to your sister, you have to make sure she hears you out. Tell her what...

Brother & Sister Problems: Little Bro Problems, sox game, deaf ears
sox game, deaf ears, getting a job: Dear Sad in Mass , By all means, go to the Red Sox Game with your family. Do not let the fear of your brother behaving badly at the game deter you from an enjoyable time with your parents. Besides, your brother may become too absorb with the game....

Brother & Sister Problems: my little brother???, mom dad, lazy thing
mom dad, lazy thing, little brother: Well, maybe you should sit down with them in private and talk to them seriously, a real heart to heart chat. Or send them a note, if you dont think they ll listen. Tell them you need their help, because he is realy starting to hurt you. If they don t respond,...

Brother & Sister Problems: My little brother, brother my brother, football moves
brother my brother, football moves, sister kate: I think you need to be the one to go to him. He needs that right now. Tell him you are there for him. Ask him if he wants to do something. He probably feels a little rejected at the moment with your parents. Just be there for him and try to not do anything...

Brother & Sister Problems: n/a, one night stands, boyfriends
one night stands, boyfriends, whore: I wouldn t call it normal but it s not uncommon. He s old enough to know what goes on in the world and he uses that against you. He needs to stop or he will end up being an abuser and he could really hurt someone other than you. Is there any reason for him...

Brother & Sister Problems: My nasty older sister, talking to a stranger, age gap
talking to a stranger, age gap, sister my sister: My sister and I are 6 years apart too. We have our differences and it s hard sometimes. I think your sister looks at you just like a little kid and not so much like a sister. You need to sit down with her and tell her exactly how you feel. You are both adults...

Brother & Sister Problems: My older brothers, male friend, due time
male friend, due time, brunt: Yes, Tiffany, my 3 brothers were as annoying as your twin brothers when they were teenagers. I got spared from all their teasing and banters because I was the eldest in a family of 8 but my younger sisters got the brunt of their mischief. Brothers are...

Brother & Sister Problems: older sister!, heart to heart talk, good comebacks
heart to heart talk, good comebacks, adolescent stage: Courtney, When your sister tattletales, your parents readily believe her OR give her the benefit of a doubt because she is the older sibling. This I can understand looking at it from your parents point of view. I am hoping that there will be less and...

Brother & Sister Problems: older sister&younger brother probs, secret diary, heart to heart
secret diary, heart to heart, angry letter: Hi Jessica What I suggest with your younger brother is if he beats you up and acts lazy, ask him calmly to stop or do as he is told. If he says something back or mouths off inappropriately, tell your mom or dad, and they will handle it. If they don t believe...

Brother & Sister Problems: problem, different perspectives, baby pictures
different perspectives, baby pictures, sibling: Parents are good because they are around you all the time. They can see differently than other people that only glance at you. But sometimes other people see similarities that parents cant see because of being around you all the time. It s kind of like when...

Brother & Sister Problems: sisterly problems, kids birthdays, current church
kids birthdays, current church, first daughter: I didn t mean for you to apologize. That s not what I meant at all. You should be proud of where you and your family is right now and that you have a comfortable life with money. I didn t mean to sound like that was a bad thing. I just meant that your sister...

Brother & Sister Problems: my sisters, sibling, sisters
sibling, sisters, rewards: Hi, Sweetie, you mom does need help from you but, you have to remember that you are still a child, not a parent. When you and you mom are alone tell her that if you have to watch your sisters sometimes that she needs to have a talk with them about listening...

Brother & Sister Problems: how to treat younger sister ?, age gap, teenage years
age gap, teenage years, excuse: Hi, First of all, you need to have a conversation with her. Just say something along the lines of, I was thinking and I realized that when I was a teenager our parents treated me like a child. I m just wanting to make sure I don t treat you like that. If...

Brother & Sister Problems: um ?, sisters and brothers, aunts
sisters and brothers, aunts, uncles: Hi, At this point you just need to give her information. Make sure she knows how to protect herself because she will need to know one day. Let her know that she should only have sex when she is ready. Make sure she knows that her boyfriend cannot force her...

Brother & Sister Problems: Annoying little sister, narrations, little sister
narrations, little sister, older sister: Let me start, Anna, by reminding you that you were once your little sister s age and must have been fixated in TV shows/movies similar to the one she likes. This may gave you more patience in putting up with her repetitive narrations. You can also be...

Brother & Sister Problems: aliens eating children, existence of aliens, fear of the unknown
existence of aliens, fear of the unknown, paranormal activities: Dear James, I can assure you aliens do not exist in the real world; only in movies and comics and children s imagination. SO YOU WILL NEVER BE EATEN FOR DINNER BY AN ALIEN. Let me make a suggestion: Get books for your age on the topic of outer space,...

Brother & Sister Problems: My brother is daing this girl that hates my guts, peace of mind, first love
peace of mind, first love, follies: Have you heard the saying, Meghan, Love is blind and lovers cannot see the pretty follies they themselves commit . This is a line from one of Shakespeare s play. This may very well apply to your brother, especially if this girl he is dating now is his...

Brother & Sister Problems: out of control sister, spare time, hormones
spare time, hormones, good luck: Hi Selina, Thanks fro writing in. Your sister is just growing up, her hormones are going a bit funny and she may be getting grumpier etc. What I suggest is talking to her. I suggest talking to her when she has spare time and is feeling calm, and getting...

Brother & Sister Problems: Hateful relationship with, t rush, dear charlotte
t rush, dear charlotte, troubled relationship: Dear Deidre Sorry about you not getting an answer the first time. Thanks for writing in. What I may suggest is having an afternoon of and thinking about what you really want to do. I cannot tell you what to do but I can give you this: If you feel...

Brother & Sister Problems: little sister, nieces and nephews, tolerant person
nieces and nephews, tolerant person, baby of the family: I ve had entire conversations on this website so you are no where near annoying. And I m a very tolerant person. Ask me all you want. I think her attitude is a combo of her age, being in jr. high, and being the youngest. That s a hard time for a girl. But...

Brother & Sister Problems: picking fights, stupid quiz, kinds of behavior
stupid quiz, kinds of behavior, unpleasant situation: Laurin, Surprisingly, I agree with the way you are handling your brothers fights - simply ignore them. This way, your older brother will also leave you alone. I do not think you are lazy. I think you do not react to your brothers fights and annoyances...

Brother & Sister Problems: Step SiblingsNot getting along, sister kim, gain insight
sister kim, gain insight, drug addiction: Kim, Instead of just seeking help for your husband s 11-year child, why don t you all go as a family to a professional who will help each and everyone of you straighten out the rough edges , in a manner of speaking. This way, no one is put in the hot...

Brother & Sister Problems: My sister hates her, silly string, big brother
silly string, big brother, little kids: This happens to a lot of people. I did it with my sister s boyfriend a couple years ago. I just didn t like the guy. Then a few years before that, I did it with my brother s girlfriend. I didn t want to lose my brother to someone else. Now I understand that...

Brother & Sister Problems: Using each other, younger siblings, younger brothers
younger siblings, younger brothers, brother: How is he using you? I can t really tell you how to make it stop until I know that. Younger siblings so this for lots of reasons. They see someone close to them that s older and can do more stuff for them and they take advantage of that. Your brother is...

Brother & Sister Problems: annoying brother, adolescent years, annoying brother
adolescent years, annoying brother, mature adult: I am happy to tell you, Ashley that once your brother gets out of his teenage years and becomes a mature adult, he will no longer behave like a 2-year old. Your problem NOW exists because your brother is in his difficult adolescent years. There are many...

Brother & Sister Problems: My brother is destorying my life!, heart to heart, broken leg
heart to heart, broken leg, lizzie: Dear Lizzie, What I think you need to do is ignore him. It sounds stupid but it really does work. Basically anything he does that annoys you or hurts you, you just breathe in and out calmly and walk into another room. If he keeps going you just pretend...

Brother & Sister Problems: my mom is always takin my sisters side, good advice, yell
good advice, yell, mommy: I think it s more of an age thing. She knows she s younger so she can get what she wants. You can try to flip things so she stops. Sometimes it works. When she asks for something, give it to her, like the computer. Eventually she will stop being rude to you....

Brother & Sister Problems: Sibling Boundries, girl in the magazine, brother tom
girl in the magazine, brother tom, identical twins: Dear Jacob, The truth is if you felt comfortable with it and he did then all is well. You don t have to feel strange just because you re wondering if you have to or not. If you feel cool with it in the first place then there is not a thing to worry about....

Brother & Sister Problems: Stephanie, jaycie, beautiful weekend
jaycie, beautiful weekend, swim camp: I think you know this is something new and you are kind on your own. Or that s how it feels. It s like you are going out to a place where you have never been before and you want to stay, but it s so much easier to just go back home. That s why you get worried...

Brother & Sister Problems: My sister doesn't like my boyfriend, older sister, boy girl
older sister, boy girl, 3 years: I am convinced that your sister is just being solicitous when it comes to this older boyfriend matter. I understand that you are in love and trust your boyfriend. But, think about it - your sister is 3 years older than you are and if only for the age difference...

Brother & Sister Problems: son and daughter rivalry, stress and anxiety, immature behavior
stress and anxiety, immature behavior, negative direction: As a Mom, Alicia, you are certainly sitting on One Hot Volcano! I suggest you hold a dialogue between your son and daughter with you acting as referee as soon as feasible. Let them air out their anger/pain about the incident, each other, your son...

Brother & Sister Problems: An issue, new year resolutions, issue question
new year resolutions, issue question, happy new year: Like I said before, you can t just learn from one person. Ever heard it takes a village to raise the child ? Well, it s true. Tell Stephanie that you will pay more attention to Brooke and to listen to what she says more. But you do have to have more than...

Brother & Sister Problems: Thank you, weakling, big trouble
weakling, big trouble, right time: You can write me any time you need something. I m usually here. When I am, feel free. If you are really okay with how things are, you can have it stay that way. It s up to you. But make sure it s on your terms and no one is pushing you into something you...

Brother & Sister Problems: emails, friend tiffany, babysitter
friend tiffany, babysitter, connie: I don t want you lying to him. I m totally against this whole situation but I m helping him because it s best for him. Don t lie to him, especially about what I tell him. You can be just fine with your own work while he does his. He doesn t need you watching...

Brother & Sister Problems: how to improve, brother sister problems
brother sister problems: Hi Amiee, It must be a very difficult situation to be a part of, living in those tense circumstances and feeling rejected by your brother. Your ego probably does play a big part. You were the number one girl in your brother s eyes for a very long...

Brother & Sister Problems: little sister trouble..... big time!, sister trouble, bad behavior
sister trouble, bad behavior, little sister: Lance (Cool name by the way), You sound very frustrated and I don t blame you one bit. Younger sisters somehow know just what to do to push your buttons, but I ll tell you a secret. Your younger sister doesn t pick on you for any other reason other than...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sister Problems, drunk friends, last boyfriend
drunk friends, last boyfriend, dirty secret: You need to talk to your sister first. I think she might be a little insecure with your relationship because of hers. She is older than you and she might want the connection you have with your girlfriend. Talk to her and make sure she s ok first. Then keep...

Brother & Sister Problems: My sister, naked 11 year olds, espically
naked 11 year olds, espically, 15 year olds: If you re not okay with it, don t do it. It s up to you. He is kind of old to be doing it and it s normal for you to feel this way. Talk to your parents about it and see if you can work something out. You are getting older so you might want to stop being so...

Brother & Sister Problems: Advice, jaycie, corporal punishment
jaycie, corporal punishment, religious family: You can tell her if you want to. It might help but it might not. I don t think it would hurt anything but it might not improve anything with her. You can just try it to see what happens. Just say what you want to say. But make sure you re honest. Don t just...

Brother & Sister Problems: taboo or not?, half brother, brother and sister
half brother, brother and sister, 37 years: I think it s great that you can talk about this with him. Be careful with what you say and what you do when you talk about it but as long as you just talk about what s going on, I think you re fine. I don t know details of what you re doing but I think talking...

Brother & Sister Problems: Angry brother!, rotten apple, apple core
rotten apple, apple core, puberty: Try to not provoke him at all. I know it might be hard to tell what will set him off but really try to not do much of anything. Also, this is a hormonal thing. Most guys go through this when everything changes. They have more testosterone so they feel angry...

Brother & Sister Problems: help! itz my sista!!, guy adult, strange kind
guy adult, strange kind, cud: Hi Adrija, I can see why you are upset. It is difficult to support something you do not believe in or feel isn t right. I ve found in such situations there really isn t anything you can do. She will ignore you, accuse you of jealousy or begin to...

Brother & Sister Problems: Step-Sister Soap Opera, sole caregiver, sister soap
sole caregiver, sister soap, tattle tale: I understand your frustration. I am a sister that seen my younger sisters make terrible mistakes. It is really difficult to watch especially when they are so sure they know everything. I used to stress and worry over them even though there were times...

Brother & Sister Problems: annoying brother and sister, annoying brother, sister my brother
annoying brother, sister my brother, brother and sister: It s because your brother is your brother. Your sister will listen because you re the boy but your brother won t because he s a boy too. Get your mom to talk to them. If that doesn t stop it, just walk away whenever they get like that until you can just talk...

Brother & Sister Problems: my brother is really annoying?, feelings, brother
feelings, brother, parents: This is how a lot of older brothers are. He does it because he loves you and that s what brothers do. Talk to him about what he s doing and tell him that you don t like it. If you have to, talk to your parents and they ll help you too. He s just doing it to...

Brother & Sister Problems: Family Invitation Etiquette, stake my claim, invitation etiquette
stake my claim, invitation etiquette, dad: Don t cause a problem with anyone but just ask what your family is doing for Christmas and what their plans are. If they bring up doing something with your dad, ask if it would be okay for you to come. It could be a little of both of you causing stress on...

Brother & Sister Problems: Fight over TV, stupid fight, calling me names
stupid fight, calling me names, half an hour: She might just need time to get over it herself. She will get over it but I think she ll have to do it on her own. A lot of girls are like that. Just let her be mad for a while and then ask her how her day was or something. She ll get over it, I promise...

Brother & Sister Problems: my brother is really annoying?, mum and dad, steels
Brother & Sister Problems: my brother is really annoying?, mum and dad, steels, teeth

Brother & Sister Problems: Fight over TV, sibling love, shud
Brother & Sister Problems: Fight over TV, sibling love, shud, prob

Brother & Sister Problems: Sister Troubles, club promoter, abusive relationship
club promoter, abusive relationship, 16 year olds: Talk to her and to your parents about it. You re 16 and there s a reason why 16 year olds don t usually have babies and you re figuring that out all on your own. You have too much going on in your own life to worry about a baby right now, let alone someone...

Brother & Sister Problems: Weird brother/sister relationship..., boxer briefs, weird brother
boxer briefs, weird brother, sister relationships: To a point, this is normal. I understand him trying to get her attention because growing up, he had her attention 100%. Now you re around and he has to share you. Most people would be able to handle that but maybe he s having a hard time with it. He s way...

Brother & Sister Problems: bad nightr, drunk person, spankings
drunk person, spankings, tiffany: I kind of answered this in the last question so read that. I think it will help on this one too. I don t know how much Brad would help. I don t like how he helps your dad. All he wants is power and that won t help your dad now. Talk to your dad and go...

Brother & Sister Problems: My brother and I never got along, brother and sister, grudges
brother and sister, grudges, blizzard: He needs help from someone who knows how to do it. I know he doesn t like hearing it, all guys don t, but it s true. He neesd help to get over whatever he needs to. He s going to tear your family apart. You can let everything die down a little bit before you...

Brother & Sister Problems: brother and sister fighting, brother and sister, natalie
brother and sister, natalie, instances: Natalie, Sit back and take time to recall the many instances that your brother got mad at you or you and he got into a fight. I do not believe that the fights happen without any reason. See if you can come up with the reason for the fights or the cause of...

Brother & Sister Problems: My brother's verbal abuse, lazy cow, army vehicle
lazy cow, army vehicle, female soldier: It is pretty obvious, Audri, to you and me that if you want peace of mind and totally get away from your brother s (X) verbal abuse, you have to move out of your parents house. But since your present circumstances won t allow this, you need to help yourself....

Brother & Sister Problems: Cummed On, cum on my face, hijab
cum on my face, hijab, sleepovers: Dear Fatimah. You definitely have to talk to someone about this. If you talk to her brothers, do it calmly or angrily, whatever you feel is best. You have to tell them exactly how it made you feel and that you think they should never do it again, it is...

Brother & Sister Problems: dad, matres, hes
matres, hes, tiffany: That s my fault. I forgot to set up vacation dates for this weekend because I wasn t going to be home. I was home for about 2 hours the last three days. Sorry. Everyone is different when they drink. Sometimes they get mean, sometimes they re funny, sometimes...

Brother & Sister Problems: dad, hes, cuffs
hes, cuffs, tiffany: I think your dad kissing her feet makes her feel powerful and in control of something. So she does like it when your dad kisses her. I think your dad s been left too many times so he doesn t know what to do when he s alone or with a bunch of people. Either...

Brother & Sister Problems: we dont know what to do with my sister, home environment, little sister
home environment, little sister, tantrums: Joanna, How old exactly is your little sister? You and your parents may want to bring her to the pediatrician to be diagnosed; her problem could be physiological and/or emotional and nothing at all to do with her home environment. This way, a remedy...

Brother & Sister Problems: Cummed On, two boys, habit
Brother & Sister Problems: Cummed On, two boys, habit, attitude

Brother & Sister Problems: Help ASAP!, favorite tv show, trip to the ice cream parlor
favorite tv show, trip to the ice cream parlor, new dress: Debbie, You need to motivate your sister to learn and do her schoolwork. Be aware of the fact, though, that she is quite young and you will need to be very flexible. Have you heard of the phrase, dangle the carrot . this means that when you want someone...

Brother & Sister Problems: Help me with my sibling please!, young adult, sibling
young adult, sibling, relationship: She probably doesn t wan to tell you because you get angry. I wouldn t want to admit to something if it made someone mad. Have a girl s night out and just talk. Eventually she will learn to tell you everything and you can both help each other through hard...

Brother & Sister Problems: I hate my sister, private place, dear mr
private place, dear mr, nerves: Dear Jack, First of all, feel free to call me charlotte, I am a woman :) Now, as for your sister. What I suggest is talking to her or your parents. Tell them how you feel and that you want help in making the relationship between you and your sister better....

Brother & Sister Problems: jealousy, five simple steps, younger siblings
five simple steps, younger siblings, set boundaries: Dear Taylee, Thank you for writing in! There are five simple steps to helping your child with jealousy: 1) You have to teach them as individuals. Instead of treating your kids the same, treat them as they truly are, individuals. Giving them the same...

Brother & Sister Problems: Do i have a legitimate concern?, how to french kiss, slasher films
how to french kiss, slasher films, brother mike: I am so sorry that I haven t gotten back to you before now. I ve been busy this week my birthday stuff and school tests. I am so sorry and this question deserves better. I would be a little worried. That s not normal brother behavior. My brothers and I...

Brother & Sister Problems: Am I looking too far into it or do I have a legitimate concern?, how to french kiss, slasher films
how to french kiss, slasher films, brother mike: You have a legitimate concern, Stacy. If I were you, I would not put myself in harm s way by seeing a movie with your brother all by yourself. Convince him to see the movie with his friends, Sean and Johnny and you. Tell your brother how much more fun...

Brother & Sister Problems: Older borther., wearing his clothes, own medicine
wearing his clothes, own medicine, borther: You are not annoying, Sam, just someone with a real problem concerning a sibling. If you have tried a number of things to avoid being bullied by your brother and none of them have worked, then I suggest you do something drastic. Talk to your Mom and...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sibling Fights, stress ball, mood swings
stress ball, mood swings, heart to heart: Dear Megan. Thank you for writing in. You ve been doing the right thing by pretending you don t care. What you really need to do is ignore them and find an output for all your anger or sadness. Find something that grabs your attention and makes you feel...

Brother & Sister Problems: steph, aa group, aa meetings
aa group, aa meetings, theyre: I understand. Personally I don t think she s going about this the right way but I can t really do anything about that. I know your dad wants to do what Tiffany says. And he should. But he won t ever get better if he just lets it go like he is. He needs...

Brother & Sister Problems: Another apology, wimp, chores
wimp, chores, apology: I think a lot of this has to do with them wanting you to grow up and know what you did was wrong. And I think it has to do with them having even more power over you and kind of being mean about it. But you do have to learn not to do it. Everyone else who drives...

Brother & Sister Problems: visitation rights, step dad, emotional bond
step dad, emotional bond, visitation rights: Dear Kasaundra. I m afraid I don t know much about this subject but you can probably find out more about it through the net, books, and even visiting a court house and finding out. I found this site, I hope it helps: http://www.divorcesource.com/research/dl/visitation/97may85.shtml...

Brother & Sister Problems: attraction, attraction question, self pleasure
attraction question, self pleasure, sibling: I don t think a lot of them act on them with the person. Usually the sibling doesn t ever know about it. But some of the people think about it while they re pleasing themselves. I don t really know of anyone that I ve talked to or helped that has actually...

Brother & Sister Problems: my bro annoys me a lot!!!!, taking time, personal space
taking time, personal space, bro: Dear Tamanna Thanks for writing in. I think you should explain to your brother that you love him dearly but you need personal space and some time alone. I suggest taking time to spend with your brother each day so he doesn t feel the need to hand around...

Brother & Sister Problems: dressing slutty, low rise jeans, mini skirts
low rise jeans, mini skirts, mini skirt: Dear Julie, Don t you feel that you got on a roller coaster ride a month ago and never got off? Unlike your classmates in your present high school, I am not going to pass judgement on you. Instead, I would like you to slow down, find time to talk to...

Brother & Sister Problems: dressing slutty, low rise jeans, mini skirts
low rise jeans, mini skirts, mini skirt: Dear Julie, Thanks for writing in. May I just add at the beginning that you never have to dress this way for boys attention, love. I know you re probably rolling your eyes at this right now but you sound like a wonderful girl and it seems a shame that you...

Brother & Sister Problems: Siblings, sister relationship, precious energy
Brother & Sister Problems: Siblings, sister relationship, precious energy, relationships

Brother & Sister Problems: HELP!!! older brother problems, silent approach, major mood
silent approach, major mood, mood swings: Dear Rebecca, Thanks for writing in. I can honestly say this is how my brothers acted when they grew up. They are changing a lot and having your dad in hospital can t help. He s got a lot of changes that can give him major mood swings, it will subside eventually....

Brother & Sister Problems: how to handle my 4 years sister, true love, good luck
true love, good luck, mistake: A 4-year old is easier to handle, Gopesh, than you think. This is true of your sister. Try and win her love by doing things for her. For example, ask your mother to buy a book for her and read it to her. Another, invite her to the park on a weekend and...

Brother & Sister Problems: hi, question tha, whole life
question tha, whole life, tiffany: I think it s a good iead to get him off of being so dependent. It takes some time. Kind of like getting off drugs. You can t do it all at once, most of the time. You have to slowly get off them. Your dad needs to slowly get away from everyone so he is able...

Brother & Sister Problems: Jealousy/Loss of sibling(moved out), new mom, baby of the family
new mom, baby of the family, step sister: Hi Gaby, Thanks for writing in. What you need to do is also talk to your new mom and your sister and perhaps even your dad again. Tell them how you really feel and how you really want to get along with your new sister but this is making it hard. Stay calm...

Brother & Sister Problems: older sister issues, door mat, doormat
door mat, doormat, older sister: Okay, you have to tell her that this has to stop. She will keep doing it as long as you let her. I have a sister that does the same thing, to a point, and she does it when I don t stand up to her. She s 12 years older than me so that has something to do with...

Brother & Sister Problems: problem, two sisters, siblings
two sisters, siblings, e mail: Hi Steve Unfortunately I am unable to release my personal email address to you. Rather your kids look alike or not they are still your children. To be quite honest with you I have 6 siblings and none of us look alike, some of us share some common characteristic...

Brother & Sister Problems: Siblings, sibling relationships, adult sibling
sibling relationships, adult sibling, dysfunctional family: You need to talk to them and give it another try. I don t know what they have done so I can t say too much. It is hard when kids are involved so maybe you should stay in it for a while longer for their benefit. I know what it s like to have aunts and uncles...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sister's Boyfriend, last straw, squatter
last straw, squatter, trouble with the law: Dear Katie, Thanks for writing in. The truth is, yes. He isn t a part of your family, if he doesn t do anything towards the rent etc he really is just a squatter and can be removed anytime the true occupants wish, it is YOUR house, not his, YOU make the...

Brother & Sister Problems: sad, jaycie, cut lip
jaycie, cut lip, isit: I don t know for sure what will work and what won t anymore. He needs to handle himself but he does need help. I think the pills will make him not drink but I don t think that it will help him get to where he needs to be. Your dad isn t ready to be on...

Brother & Sister Problems: thanx, jaycie, going to jail
jaycie, going to jail, best choice: I don t think your dad knows how serious what he did is and what could have happened. I think Tiffany is just looking for someone to be over and when you dad is gone, she needs someone else. She can t handle doing things on her own. It s not fair for you to...

Brother & Sister Problems: Unrelenting older siblings, bad influence, older sister
bad influence, older sister, eachother: Talk to them. Have a long talk with them about why they don t want you with their sister. Don t fight with them. That won t help anything. Figure out why they don t like you and maybe you can help them get over it. Treat her really well all the time and talk...

Brother & Sister Problems: clash between my father and my brother!, fragile relationship, man act
fragile relationship, man act, stupid ideas: While your concern for your father and brother is commendable and sincere, Soraya, I am convinced that reconstructing their fragile relationship is entirely up to them. It is also up to your father to decide what he wants to do in order to right a situation...

Brother & Sister Problems: Favoritism!, journalism class, theoretical side
journalism class, theoretical side, interview results: I hope this reply is not too late, Janelle. As you are doing a paper on the topic, I can only presume that you have done exhaustive research. The theoretical side of Favoritism I will leave to the books. This is my opinion of it based on experience....

Brother & Sister Problems: hi, umm brother&sister hatred., little brother
Brother & Sister Problems: hi, umm brother&sister hatred., little brother

Brother & Sister Problems: hi, male dominance, question thanks
male dominance, question thanks, timeout: It s a very good possiblity that Brad could do something sexual with your dad. That s one reason why I don t like him. I don t think it s a good idea in the long run to have your dad learn from Brad. He s going to learn the wrong things. And Brad could just...

Brother & Sister Problems: hi, umm brother&sister hatred., mental health, anxiety
mental health, anxiety, stress: Elle- I think your family may be correct in believing that your brother may have a mental problem . I volunteered in High School in the Special Education Department. Your brother s behavior is on-par with that of some of those students. And you made plenty...

Brother & Sister Problems: I need your help!, help my brother, question thanks
help my brother, question thanks, being friends: You need to at least talk to the guy first so he doesn t freak out when he has two girls freaking out on him. Tell him why you can t do anything with him but that you would be more than happy to be friends. But try to do it without your friend knowing first....

Brother & Sister Problems: problem, poor personal hygiene, personal preference
poor personal hygiene, personal preference, dads side: Hun, this is the last question I will answer from you, you re pushing it just a bit. You look related, you have similar bone structure. There are subtle cues such as the shape of your faces, lips and eyes, as well as skin tones that suggest you might be...

Brother & Sister Problems: another question, happy at home, riding crop
happy at home, riding crop, role model: I m not the right person to ask this because I don t like Brad. I don t like what he thinks and how he thinks and what he made you and your dad do before. So I m kind of biased. But your dad does need someone there. I guess you can all decide who is best...

Brother & Sister Problems: My sister doesn't like the guy I like, jokes, extent
jokes, extent, relationship: You must have heard the saying, Love is blind . . . Ask yourself the question: Does it apply to you? If not, then you can continue your relationship with your boyfriend. As time passes, you will get to know him better and confirm/disconfirm the...

Brother & Sister Problems: sister's undies, girls panties, girls underwear
girls panties, girls underwear, victoria s secret: Like I said, it s very common so I m going to say it s normal. I don t really know a reason for it but a lot of guys do the same thing. I think with you wanting that girl s underwear, it s just the same thing. She s really cute, like you said, and having...

Brother & Sister Problems: my sisters, latly, vagina
latly, vagina, underwear: What do you mean by she touched you? Where exactly? Anyway, I m not going to say you should or shouldn t do something. It s all up to you. But you do have to be careful that you don t get too far away from what you want and are willing to do and the same...

Brother & Sister Problems: Brothers, brother and sister, bathtub
brother and sister, bathtub, old girl: Hi! In a world without privacy, you have to create your own privacy. Adopt a hobby you can do alone, or find a nice place outside where you can relax with headphones and a book; Summer s here, so hopefully that gives you some sun! When there s no privacy...

Brother & Sister Problems: older sister bullies me, errr
Brother & Sister Problems: older sister bullies me, errr

Brother & Sister Problems: phisically maturing sister, social taboos, cousion
Brother & Sister Problems: phisically maturing sister, social taboos, cousion, closeness

Brother & Sister Problems: My sister, trolls, sleep
Brother & Sister Problems: My sister, trolls, sleep

Brother & Sister Problems: gift, graduation gift, nephews
graduation gift, nephews, ample opportunity: Hi Alexis, Considering this is your husband s nephew, you don t really need to feel guilty about not doing the same for your nephews/nieces. The situations are totally different. Your husband isn t allowed to be there for his nephew like you are able to...

Brother & Sister Problems: gift, graduation gift, handwritten letter
graduation gift, handwritten letter, ample opportunity: Hi there, I don t think you re wrong, when you can t afford the gift to begin with. I would suggest to your husband maybe a check of a lower denomination if it really means so much to him. $20 is just as appreciated as $100; it s the thought that counts....

Brother & Sister Problems: I need your help!, help my brother, question thanks
help my brother, question thanks, being friends: You can talk to the guy without your friend knowing about it. That might be the best so she doesn t get hurt. Tell the guy that you don t mind being friends, if that s true, but you just don t feel anything the way he does. Then maybe work in the fact that...

Brother & Sister Problems: older brother problem, stop fighting with brother, brother won't leave me alone
stop fighting with brother, brother won't leave me alone, sibling rivalry: Sounds like your brother enjoys picking on you. This is common, and I used to fight with my sisters in much the same way as you two do. My father said we fought like animals :), and if it is at all reassuring to you, we all love each other very much and...

Brother & Sister Problems: older sister bullies me, embaressing, 12 year old boy
embaressing, 12 year old boy, older sister: Someone has to put a STOP to your sister s bullying. Try talking to your parents AGAIN about this problem. If nothing comes out of it (they stick to their idea that your sister is disciplining you and not bullying you,) then look around your relatives...

Brother & Sister Problems: phisically maturing sister, sexual feelings, intimate relations
sexual feelings, intimate relations, physical attraction: Karan, I read your question again and my response stands except for the minor misunderstanding about your mother being wary of your close relationship with your 11-year old cousin (not sister) and when it actually is her mother. Her mother is just being...

Brother & Sister Problems: problem with phisically maturing sister, sexual feelings, gentle manner
sexual feelings, gentle manner, little sisters: Karan- As this is your sister, just try to be there for her, but do allow her space to make female friends, and give her space when she is with them. If you are having sexual feelings towards her, consult a physician or psychiatrist, but if it s just other...

Brother & Sister Problems: My sister, morality, pleasure
morality, pleasure: I m going to put aside the morality of this as much as I can and just answer the question. Why is it that you want to have sex with her? That could help you either get over it or put your attention on other things. You need to at least tell her that you...

Brother & Sister Problems: my sister, sibling rivalry, mature individuals
sibling rivalry, mature individuals, personal attack: Patrick, since you have kept your interaction with your sister at a minimum for a long time, it would make sense to stay away from her if only for your happiness and peace of mind. It is surprising, though, that two mature individuals - you and your sister...

Brother & Sister Problems: sister, sister problem, protect my child
sister problem, protect my child, negative attitude: Hi Laura, Sounds like you already have your answer. No one will be mean to your babies. You may not have to wipe her out of your life totally, but you can certainly limit the amount of exposure she has to you and your children. Talking to her obviously...

Brother & Sister Problems: sister attraction, exact situation, feelings
exact situation, feelings: I m not sure if it s normal but it s common. I m not really sure why it is but lots of guys feel like this. I don t know your exact situation so I can t really say too much about it. But don t talk to her about it. It will only either scare or confuse her....

Brother & Sister Problems: thanks, time dad, girls clothes
time dad, girls clothes, good hands: I have my own opinions about gay people and I don t want to hurt you or confuse you any more than you already are. So I ll keep that to myself. But I don t think your dad is gay. I don t agree at all with what is going on. It s all wrong. You can rant...

Brother & Sister Problems: classes, having fun, tiffany
having fun, tiffany, stephanie: Just be careful with what she decides for you. I would like to have you pick and then just have her help you with it but you will have to do what you think is best. Just do what you think is best with the classes. I m not sure what you re up for and you...

Brother & Sister Problems: kids, question thanks, biological mother
question thanks, biological mother, kids ages: I think that it s okay for them to do this. I don t think the judge can do anything about it. If they feel that close to you, let them call you mama. It s their choice. I kind of agree that they shouldn t do it around their mother just to be nice to her. They...

Brother & Sister Problems: lost, nice girl, dads
nice girl, dads, dad: I know how you feel. It s like you ve been the only one and now you have to share. It s perfectly normal for you to feel like this right now. It will eventually go away but you have to give it time. Everyone will have to adjust and your dad will have to do...

Brother & Sister Problems: My new brother!, black labs, trouble in school
black labs, trouble in school, eye contact: I think that he could be reacting to moving. It might have been delayed for a couple of months for some reason. Was there something going on at home where he didn t get to hug people? I know that sounds dumb but he s young enough to just want someone to be...

Brother & Sister Problems: Advice please, aptitude test, great break
aptitude test, great break, t pay: Think of things that you can do without money. Those are the best gifts. I know you do a lot already but just to do something extra that you don t usually think about or that you don t do very often. Sorry this is kind of short again. It s really late...

Brother & Sister Problems: showers, second thought, nudity
second thought, nudity, family member: Hi Mike, I know what you mean about feeling weird about nudity. I used to be very self conscious about it myself, particularly when I was just becoming aware of my body. Up until your age now, you probably didn t give it a second thought, being nude...

Brother & Sister Problems: my sister has ISSUES., twin fighting, sibling rivalry
twin fighting, sibling rivalry, dealing with bully: Hi Donna, Sounds like your sister is incredibly insecure, particularly when it comes to you. She can t take it when anyone else has the spotlight. That s too bad since people tolerate this kind of behavior less and less. She may get away with this now...

Brother & Sister Problems: Classses, middle school teachers, provo utah
middle school teachers, provo utah, jail time: I like online classes. You can still talk to the teacher, it s just through email and messages. Just tell her that you want to still be able to work at home but get an education too. You like being around her and you want her help with them so it would be...

Brother & Sister Problems: AAHHHHH!!!!!, parents, game
parents, game: I think I understand but if I don t, ask me again. Tell your parents that they have to leave. I don t know what you re talking about but they probably shouldn t be hearing it anyway. See if you can have some time with just them so they don t want to be...

Brother & Sister Problems: Annoying Big Sister, spoiled brat, home doesn
spoiled brat, home doesn, big sister: I m so sorry this took so long to get back to you. I was having some problems with my computer at home. I m sorry. My parents kind of do this with one of my brothers. It s kind of because they want them close. She s really not that old to be out on her...

Brother & Sister Problems: I am being attracted to my sister, naked girl, good boy
naked girl, good boy, guilt: I m not sure how old you are but I m going to say that this is a common thing. It s not the best thing, but boys usually can t get a naked girl, no matter how old or how they are related, out of their head for a while. Try to stop yourself from doing anything...

Brother & Sister Problems: Brother elderly & children not caring for him, can sister step in?, time care, immediate family
time care, immediate family, spite: I m not sure where you are from or which state you are in but I m sure that this can be possible. Just look of the laws or regulations on it and see who is allowed to step in to take care of him. Your mother is still immediate family in most cases so she should...

Brother & Sister Problems: my brother, brother alex, easy target
brother alex, easy target, brother my brother: One thing that this could be is just your ages. I think that s mostly what it is. You re the little brother still. My brothers did the same thing for a while until they grew out of it and were friends again. Now we can t separate them. There could be something...

Brother & Sister Problems: Education, education question, how to prevent pregnancy
education question, how to prevent pregnancy, question thanks: Cold baths and showers just help make it so you re not physically turned on . It s not good to be in there for a very long time but it does clear your head for a while because it s so cold. Sexual fantasies can involve anything. Sometimes it s not having...

Brother & Sister Problems: my brother, insults, bully
Brother & Sister Problems: my brother, insults, bully, parents

Brother & Sister Problems: Need advice about exchange student, arkansas state government, straight person
arkansas state government, straight person, australian exchange: I think he s just embarrassed that you caught him with porn. I would try to talk to him a few more times but that s it. If he can t get over it, you need to move on. Don t have him take you down with him. See if you can get him to get some counseling over...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sister, question thanks, t pay
question thanks, t pay, pay attention: I understand. I know it can be hard to ignore her but you have to do it. She s feeding off of how you act around her. If you have to and if you can, just leave the room when she s being like this. She should get the point. You can always talk to her about...

Brother & Sister Problems: small thought, longest time, puberty
longest time, puberty, tiffany: It s okay to want someone to be there for you but you do have to have a certain degree of independence. You can always change. Never think it s too late for that. You feel safe for the same reasons anyone else does when they re being held. It s the feeling...

Brother & Sister Problems: watching other people have sex, people having sex, blow job
Brother & Sister Problems: watching other people have sex, people having sex, blow job, blowjob

Brother & Sister Problems: happy, personality puzzle, allexperts
personality puzzle, allexperts, long break: It s okay to want to feel safe and lots of men feel that way with their girlfriends or sisters or wives. It s normal. You can stay with that but don t let her run your life for you. You know what you want to do better than anyone so don t let people tell you...

Brother & Sister Problems: shy, anxious person, riding crop
anxious person, riding crop, tiffany: I kind of answered this is another answer but you will be ready when you start dating and getting closer to people and building better relationships with other people. Sometimes it comes at you when you don t want it or expect it. You can t plan on when you...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sexual feelings for my 20 year old brother, i'm 18, sexual feelings, brother don
sexual feelings, brother don, half brother: I think you feel this way because you think of him as the perfect guy, then as an after thought, you remember that he s your brother. He is a half brother too so as you said, you don t see him very much and he hasn t always been around. I don t think you ll...

Brother & Sister Problems: Being stupid, mature perspective, white pantyhose
mature perspective, white pantyhose, dumb thing: You need to tell her because it s her shirt and she might not get to wear it again. She s a girl. She s going to get tired of everything after a while. We grow out of everything really fast. That s what happened with the other girls. It wasn t as fun for...

Brother & Sister Problems: watching other people have sex, girlfriend lives, vaginal sex
girlfriend lives, vaginal sex, grade 8: You don t have an attraction to any of the people you mentioned. Like you said, it s just like porn but right in front of you. You re kind of young to do this but have you ever read a book with a sex scene in it? Or even a movie? That might get you excited...

Brother & Sister Problems: advice, friend connie, jaycie
friend connie, jaycie, scary sex: Talk to Tiffany about what everyone is telling you and see what she wants to happen. Maybe she can talk to Brad about it. You can do what everyone says but they might conflict with each other so it might not work all the time. Talk to her about it and see...

Brother & Sister Problems: ***MEDIA REQUEST***
Just so you know, I m only a teenager and not a professional. I don t know if my answers are what is actually true. I ll answer your questions in the order you asked them so it s easier to figure out. Negative relationships grow because when you are...

Brother & Sister Problems: I'm happy, being nosey, connie
being nosey, connie, tiffany: She might just need someone to talk to her so don t be scared to ask about it. She might need that. You can ask Connie whta she thinks but I think that you should talk to her. Just ask her how she is and if she wants to talk. If she does, she ll talk. If not,...

Brother & Sister Problems: I need help about my sister., adult games, fun day
adult games, fun day, downside: You have to talk to her about it but be careful. I m sure you know that already. Maybe you can even set up restrictions on your internet so she can t get to those kind of site. Then you can protect her without her really knowing. That way she has to stop....

Brother & Sister Problems: problem, facial structure, parents family
facial structure, parents family, isolated incidents: It s all a matter of opinion with people. Some people who aren t around you all the time might see that you look really alike but others who are around all the time can see more differences than most people. You can send me pictures if you want and I ll tell...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sister extremely upset., steady relationship, couple times
steady relationship, couple times, couple weeks: Let her deal with it. She ll come out of it when she s ready. He s not gone forever so she will get used to it. It might take her a couple weeks to get back to normal but she will. Give her time. I think that only he will be able to cheer her up right now...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sister hates my gf, gf, sister in law
gf, sister in law, 22 years: I am so sorry this is getting to you late. I thought I sent it but I guess something happened with the computer and it didn t go through. My cousins did the same thing with their sister in law. I m not sure why they singled her out but they did. It could...

Brother & Sister Problems: my sister is bugging me, perfect angel, parents
perfect angel, parents: First, talk to them about what she does. Don t do anything back to her so you don t get in trouble. If something happens because of her, make sure you go tell your parents and not handle it yourself. Make sure you don t do anything to her so you don t get...

Brother & Sister Problems: twins - brother and sister, acting this way, car polish
acting this way, car polish, wits end: I m not sure why he s acting like this but you have to figure that out before you do anything. There might be something he holds against the boyfriend that he doesn t like and he doesn t want his sister around him because of it. It could just be that he s...

Brother & Sister Problems: thanks, silly question, connie
silly question, connie, chatterbox: I think she calls you that just because you talk too much. It doesn t have anything to do with what she thinks about you. Tiffany is just kidding about the drinking thing. Don t take it seriously. She might just want to deal with it her own way or...

Brother & Sister Problems: Out of contact, first move, happy life
first move, happy life, guilt: It might be best to just say that you need to talk to him about something important and sit down with him and talk it all out. He can t hide anything when he s with you so that s the best idea. tell him that you are okay with it because you don t remember...

Brother & Sister Problems: months, connie talks, expert guidance
connie talks, expert guidance, panic attacks: You feel safe with her because she has been there for you and you need someone to let you know you ll be okay. It just happens to be here in this case. It probably could have been anyone as long as they helped you in some way. She can find out that you...

Brother & Sister Problems: Teenage Problems, self concience, teenage problems
self concience, teenage problems, nerves: What do you mean by backward learning ? It could just be because of his personality. He could feel a little self-concience about how he learns. You can put him into situations where he has to be with new people and make friends and just encourage him to...

Brother & Sister Problems: 18 older brother, groin area, kelly kelly
groin area, kelly kelly, headlock: Kelly, I m sorry to hear that happened. I know that you must feel sad and remorseful but what I would do is both apologize and tell your mom. 1st you should tell your brother you re sorry. I know that some siblings don t like apologizing to each other cause...

Brother & Sister Problems: me and my brother fight all the time, diffidence, friends at school
diffidence, friends at school, eachother: it s just sibling rival-ree. it is worse because you are at the age where you are starting to like boys and want to be with your friends at school and he wants to put frogs in your soup and soap on your toothbrush. right now its just not an easy time. I would...

Brother & Sister Problems: christmas manners, christmas merry christmas, aunts and uncles
christmas merry christmas, aunts and uncles, female twins: Merry Christmas Tony, I wouldn t be able to tell you exactly what order of who should call who. Also I don t think that calling people on Christmas has as much to do with Christmas Manners as it does with love and Christmas spirit. I can tell you based...

Brother & Sister Problems: annoying little sisters, naked barbie, naked parties
naked barbie, naked parties, little sisters: They are at a stage in life where they are curious about their bodies but they don t know what s going on. So the naked barbie thing is actually pretty common. You can talk to your mom about that at least so she can talk to them about that kind of thing. It...

Brother & Sister Problems: Brother & Sister plus Boyfriend, wits end, sugar coat
wits end, sugar coat, point don: If you co-signed, it means that both people have to be helping. When they don t hold up their side, technically, you shouldn t have to hold up yours. But then again, that might leave you without a place to live. You have to get rid of the boyfriend. He...

Brother & Sister Problems: Inappropriate behaviour for siblings?, scary coincidence, sexual tastes
scary coincidence, sexual tastes, inappropriate behaviour: Just start talking. You can have a secret sharing time or something not so cheesy like that. You might just want to start talking about his sister in general. Like ask about something she did or just ask about how they were when they were younger. Don t...

Brother & Sister Problems: my little brother that i really dislike!!!, stupid names, little brother
stupid names, little brother, boyfriends: Don t hit him. He s just being a 13 year old boy and no one really likes it but everyone goes through this stage. Tell your parents that you can t take it. Tell them everything that happens and tell them to do something or you ll leave. Whatever you do, don...

Brother & Sister Problems: pornstar sister, sister my sister, worries
sister my sister, worries, hell: Unfortunately, there s nothing you can really do to stop it from happening until she sees that she is hurting herself. you can talk to her about what goes on and that you don t want her to be hurt. Then it will at least let her open up to you about what actually...

Brother & Sister Problems: help with my 3yr old and step kids?, step kids, bed time
step kids, bed time, niece: He does this because he wants attention that is given to the other kids. That s why this only happens on the weekends that more people are around. He is really young and a lot of kids his age react like this with a new baby, especially after the mom starts...

Brother & Sister Problems: SISTER I CAN'T STAND HER!!!, high functioning autism, face book
high functioning autism, face book, smartest person: I think she does this because she s a 12 year old girl. A lot of girls do this. I did it to a point. It s kind of hard to say exactly why without knowing her but it might just be for attention. Try to be with her when you can so she s not trying to get attention...

Brother & Sister Problems: how to teach my older brother respect?, brother doesn't respect, fighting with brother
brother doesn't respect, fighting with brother, brother is a jerk: Cody, I understand your frustration. I am an older sister that can see the pitfalls ahead of my other siblings. It is really difficult to watch especially when they are so sure they know everything and don t share your way of doing things. Now, I...

Brother & Sister Problems: ????, boyfriends, doubts
boyfriends, doubts, feelings: I apologize for the tardy response. You already said it yourself, You can t help who U like... Sure, it can be a problem when other people object, but most times people object because they aren t used to the idea. Sounds like your sister got over...

Brother & Sister Problems: some advice please, trouble amy, connie
trouble amy, connie, punishments: There s nothing wrong with trying to make people happy or anything like that. That s why I do this. You get attention from good and bad things and when the good things aren t noticed enough, people turn to the bad things. That could be why you mess up...

Brother & Sister Problems: Perfect sisters, brother my brother, deffinition
brother my brother, deffinition, girl at school: I feel the same way in my family sometimes. It s hard to get along because all of your are in different stages of your lives and those stages don t always have anything in common. That s why it s hard to feel close to them. As for you being not as pretty...

Brother & Sister Problems: am I my sis keeper ?, sister betrayal, betrayed by sister
sister betrayal, betrayed by sister: Wow, Christina, that is quite the betrayal. The guy sounds like a player. Is she still seeing him? Sometimes siblings make the wrong choices, and you have every rite to be mad and hurt. As far as putting this behind you, consider what you get out of...

Brother & Sister Problems: Troubles with Sister, grade homework, stress levels
grade homework, stress levels, secret communications: We had a similar situation with a sibling that fell for someone older online. This guy lived over 200 miles away. My parents were at a loss as to how to handle the situation. They tried to band the relationship, so of course, secret communications occurred....

Brother & Sister Problems: 2 questions, riding crop, silly question
riding crop, silly question, connie: You can just ask him that you were wondering if you could go. Don t do more for him. Just ask him and then if that doesn t work, then do more. The purpose of the crop is to make it so it hurts and you won t do it again. I don t agree with it at all so...

Brother & Sister Problems: Long Lost Brother, brother shane, step dad
brother shane, step dad, selfish person: First of all, Shane wants to have a relationship so don t push him away. He probably won t ever be a brother kind of person but more like a really close friend, as long as you let him in. As for the Nathan, leave it open. Email him or call him or something...

Brother & Sister Problems: My sister and the ex!, creep, possibilities
creep, possibilities, dad: Both of you have moved on. I know it s probably really annoying to have to ride with him but you re done with him. Just let it go. If there really are no other options than staying with him at your sister s house, you have to deal with it but don t let it...

Brother & Sister Problems: Brother and Sister problems, sibling rivalry, love logic
sibling rivalry, love logic: Hi Leta, Siblings fighting is very heart breaking and frustrating, but it s good news that they aren t physically abusive. My sisters and I passed that boundary early on in our rivalry, and we are very close now. In other words, they aren t a lost cause....

Brother & Sister Problems: bratty little brother, anger issues, little brother
anger issues, little brother, stupid idiot: Ignore him. He s doing it for attention so don t give it to him. He also might be doing it to get you in trouble so if you can talk to your mom about that, it might help too. But ignore him first when he acts out and don t try to fix it. Leave the room if...

Brother & Sister Problems: Inappropriate Relationship, inappropriate relationship, weirdo
inappropriate relationship, weirdo, groin: I kind of think you re right. I would have to know more of the details that you left out to really know for sure but I m kind of on your side. I think that they re probably just interested or curious about each other s bodies and bodies in general. Also, the...

Brother & Sister Problems: Jaycie I still want your answer even if you dont think it is your expertise, petite clothes, floral print
petite clothes, floral print, french word: I don t appreciate you telling me that I m wrong when I m right. Just because it s not the answer you re looking for doesn t mean it s wrong. Look up the definition of petite in Webster s. It says a small, feminine figure. It can be someone who is short but...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sister fights, sister stephanie, bump in the road
sister stephanie, bump in the road, togather: I can give you some tips but you have to come up with the conversation. I don t know either of you very well so I don t know what would work best for either of you. Don t start with saying you need to talk to her. Just say hi. Ask what she s doing or if...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sister problems, job internship, part time job
job internship, part time job, awkward position: Hey Olivia, The transition that you and your sister are going trough is hard, people react to that stress differently. My advice would be to spend some sister time like you used to. Don t go talk to her straight out about the problem, ease her to it. Yeah,...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sisters Drama, touchy feely, hugs and kisses
touchy feely, hugs and kisses, quiet person: You need to do something with them. Like ask them if they want to go see a movie or even just have a girl s night at home and rent a movie and just have fun with each other. I m exactly like you are and it s not a bad thing. It s just how you are. That will...

Brother & Sister Problems: siblings are a major pain, sibling relationships, calling me names
sibling relationships, calling me names, good relationship: Talk to your mom about it. You do need to help with the younger kids but you still need to have your own life too. You will get closer to them and you will find out how much you love them but right now, you need to be doing some things on your own and not...

Brother & Sister Problems: teens fighting, kitchen table, living room
kitchen table, living room: Just let them handle it. It might drive you crazy for a little while but if you let it go, they should eventually get over it. If that doesn t work, make them talk it out. Have them sit in the living room or around the kitchen table and make them talk to each...

Brother & Sister Problems: bratty sibblings, tattle tale, mom cause
tattle tale, mom cause, mom works: Hello Samantha! having younger sibilings can be hard sometimes. When my little sisters were small we had a lot of problems, but the real problem was that I wouldn t know who to handle the cituation. I realized that I needed to get their respect first....

Brother & Sister Problems: My lil Bro makes Me so angry, brother and sister
Brother & Sister Problems: My lil Bro makes Me so angry, brother and sister

Brother & Sister Problems: happy, new email, riding crop
new email, riding crop, connie: I think you like the attention you get when she bosses you around. That s it. It could come from anyone and you would say you love them too. That s the reason why you like Brad and Stephanie too. They give you attention and that s what you want. Being...

Brother & Sister Problems: My lil Bro makes Me so angry, brother doesn't respect, fighting with brother
brother doesn't respect, fighting with brother, brother is a jerk: Yeah, little brothers can be a pain. Younger siblings try to test you over and over by pushing your buttons, and it may feel like nothing works. The truth is you can do something. My youngest sister was an expert at pushing my buttons to get me angry,...

Brother & Sister Problems: william, attitude changes, good cop
attitude changes, good cop, bad cop: I ve never told him what to do. I ve always told him to do what you say because that will make it easier on him. I don t agree with what you are doing because it s not helping him be able to take care of himself, which is the goal of real discipline. I can...

Brother & Sister Problems: My Brother >:(
It must be hard to work so hard and feel you have to compare yourself to your brother. I remember comparing myself to my sister, not in the school department, but in the looks department. I always had an awkward way about me in high school while my sister...

Brother & Sister Problems: My little brother, open ears, mum and dad
open ears, mum and dad, school tests: Hello Jacob, Sorry I couldn t answer soon, something was wrong with the system. Having a little brother is a joy but it can be really hard sometimes. When they are young they need you a lot, you have to try enjoy that because belive or not they grow up...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sister's betrayal, open you eyes, betrayal
open you eyes, betrayal, good luck: Hello, Anger is something every human has to deal with, it might not be easy. My family went through a similar situation. Yeah, it sure took a long time to forgive that person, but no matter what we were still going to be family. Just make sure she knows...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sister problems, living in australia, favorite girl
living in australia, favorite girl, selfishness: Hello Grady, Yeah it s hard to see your brother date, especially since you guys are the same age. That jealous wagon always arrives no matter what, but it s natural. She is your sister, but she ll learn with time that you have to be happy. Really talk to...

Brother & Sister Problems: back seat, weird question, playing a game
weird question, playing a game, brother: Sounds like your brother is doing his best to get to you, and I bet it works every time. You have to remember when he is picking on you, he is subconsciously playing a game of trying to get you to react to him. The only way you can win this game is by not...

Brother & Sister Problems: Big Sister problems, poop scooper, typical man
poop scooper, typical man, younger daughter: a long time ago i was told that if you are always trying to outdo someone you will never be what you wanna be. So if you are always trying to outdo your sister and be the better or cooler child than you will never be what YOU want to be. When I was younger...

Brother & Sister Problems: brothers fighting, siblings, punch
siblings, punch, couch: i don t understand this question?? your husband is 18?? so does that mean you got married young or is it your religion that made you get married that young? Also you should know that siblings (espically that close in age) will fight. no matter if they are...

Brother & Sister Problems: brothers fighting, point of view, brother
Brother & Sister Problems: brothers fighting, point of view, brother

Brother & Sister Problems: Need help with an 2yr old autistic child acting out beatin on siblings, autistic child, behavioral therapy
Brother & Sister Problems: Need help with an 2yr old autistic child acting out beatin on siblings, autistic child, behavioral therapy, autism

Brother & Sister Problems: Need help with an 2yr old autistic child acting out beatin on siblings, dealing with autistic children, autistic child
dealing with autistic children, autistic child, old fashion: I don t have that much experience in dealing with autistic children but I can tell you that a very affective way to get children to stop using their mouth (no matter if they are bitting or cursing or yelling or spitting)and it is very old fashion but because...

Brother & Sister Problems: Me & My Big Bro Seem So Distant, high school freshman, school hallway
high school freshman, school hallway, freshman 15: Dear Gabby, i m sorry to say but there are a couple things here that you need to understand. You and your brother are in the same school, he being a senior, his mind is definitely somewhere else such as graduation, where you as a freshmen are just starting...

Brother & Sister Problems: Panty Sniffing, dirty panties, vaginal discharge
dirty panties, vaginal discharge, pantys: Dear Kevin, You are not alone in your panty sniffing. Many men have the urge to sniff undergarments, so do not feel weird. But i would advise that you take precaution. When the panties get moist, it is due to the vaginal sweating and vaginal discharge which...

Brother & Sister Problems: Siblings problem, jealousy factor, son and daughter
jealousy factor, son and daughter, siblings: Dear Ary, To properly answer this question i need to know the following; Does he live at home? Did the Son and Daughter have a relationship at all? How old are you (in case you sincerely believe in intervening.) Are you close with the son? What all...

Brother & Sister Problems: what do i do, guinea pig cage, relationship problems
guinea pig cage, relationship problems, age differences: There really isn t any thing i can say to make you feel better . Since she is only seven, fighting is pretty common among this age. Your mother will probably expect you to be the more mature one in these situations. What i advise you to do if you ever get...

Brother & Sister Problems: My Sisters so ANNOYING HELP!!!, spoilt brat, stupid conversation
spoilt brat, stupid conversation, great sister: Hi Rocio, okay so your sister does seem to be in her very immature annoying state. However, you must force yourself, as hard as it may be, to not engage in the immature behavior. For example, if she says something about the show she just watched just respond...

Brother & Sister Problems: my 6 year old son problem, classmates, english language
classmates, english language, hard worker: If you want him to learn English I would suggest you enroll him in a school that has English speaking teachers and classmates. The best way for someone to learn a language is to be surrounded by people who speak that language. As long as he is trying his best...

Brother & Sister Problems: Little Sibling, new kid, older sister
new kid, older sister, recess: Well there are a few things you can do in this situation to be a good older sister. Try asking your friends if your sister can play with you guys every once in awhile. They may understand if you let them know your sister is having a difficult time making new...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sharing, arguement, something fun
arguement, something fun, doing the right thing: I would suggest making a weekly schedule which divides taking the dog out and playing with it between you two so you cannot argue who s turn it is because it will already be on a schedule. Show your parents that you can be responsible and take care of this...

Brother & Sister Problems: 17 year age difference between sisters 21/38, dogs mutts, pomeranian puppy
dogs mutts, pomeranian puppy, freshman year: I think your sister is old enough for you to be brutally honest with her Tell her how you ve been feeling and that you are going to take Kobe with you when you move out. Try to be very gentle when telling her this. Let her know that Kobe will visit but he...

Brother & Sister Problems: Brother troubles, reckless life, valuables
reckless life, valuables, 7 months: Hi Jared, I would just like to start by saying that I am very sorry that you have been put in this tough situation but I am here to help you get through it. I think the best way to approach this is to remember both that he did a terrible thing but also that...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sibling Issues, turning over a new leaf, sympathy card
Brother & Sister Problems: Sibling Issues, turning over a new leaf, sympathy card, brick wall

Brother & Sister Problems: Sibling Issues, sibling issues, party perspective
sibling issues, party perspective, own two feet: I definitely don t think you are overreacting. Many families have a child like this who is so dependent, it is called compliance. One uses it has a defense mechanism to handle their fears of being on there own and providing for themselves. Your brother must...

Brother & Sister Problems: Sister depends on me!, toyota corolla, graphic design jobs
toyota corolla, graphic design jobs, graphic design school: I would sit down and talk to her face her face warning her of her situation and how crucial it is that she needs to search for a job soon or she won t have a place to live. Let her know it may be hard at first but once she finds a job and finds a cheap place...

Brother & Sister Problems: i want my older bro to make something of himself, screw ups, lack of motivation
screw ups, lack of motivation, petty reasons: Well, you can t force him to do anything and it may be hard for him to get a decent job that pays well if he has never been to college. You said that college is a no no because he has no interests. part of college is to discover your interests and values...

Brother & Sister Problems: stepbrother/sister, disipline, ill health
disipline, ill health, ayers: I think you need to start by sitting them both down and clarifying that one: it was neither of their faults that you and your father split but you two just were different, etc. two: that you all are family and should love and respect each other and three:...

Brother & Sister Problems: I just want the big sister I respected back . .., playing video games, part time job
playing video games, part time job, pharmacy technician: Well if you really want to talk to her about this I would let her know it is only out of concern. Honestly, it may be a mentally exhausting conversation but you have to at least try to talk to her. Then, if the conversation doesn t go anywhere you can tell...

Brother & Sister Problems: problems with my sisters
Hey Renata! Are the shows both of you are watching are in the same time? If not, you could let her borrow the remote when the show she s watching is showing, and you get the remote if the show you are watching is showing. If it is at the same time,...

Brother & Sister Problems: my brother doesn't listen (Reply)
Boys often go through these types of things.Don t push him to get a girlfriend though, he will when he is ready. Hope this helps, if not feel free to reply back. Also if you gave me his age it may help. ...

Brother & Sister Problems: How can I deal with my brother?
Hello Revan! I want to start off by telling you, what you are doing is right. I m glad you didn t turn to violence. You should try to sit down with your parents and your brother and tell them how you feel. If that doesn t work talk to someone you can trust...

Brother & Sister Problems: Teenage Infatuation concern
Hello Ana, I think that you should try to talk to him about it. You should say what you just said to me, about how you know how it is and not to do it just to be cool. If there is a relationship, you should talk to your parents about it. I hope this helps...

Brother & Sister Problems: 4.5 year old and 10 year old, going through puberty, son alex
going through puberty, son alex, time adam: It is good that your youngest son loves his brother, much better than hate may I add, but you were right when you said Alex is growing, up and from my experience, Teenagers want more friends, less family. Lets start with bedtime, You must tell Alex you...

Brother & Sister Problems: 45 year old sister mooching for a lifetime, mental health facility, self neglect
mental health facility, self neglect, turning a blind eye: Maryellen, You are certainly beset with problems in your family and I sympathize with you. It is a wonder you can still keep your head on your shoulders in spite of all these difficulties. Your mother is certainly very ill and would profit from full-time...

Brother & Sister Problems: 6-yr old girl & 11-yr old boy, positive attitude, happy moments
positive attitude, happy moments, old girl: Tammy- This situation seems normal between kids in families, and I can see why you feel the way you do. I think you should talk to your older grandchild (11 yr. old) and tell him that he should have a positive attitude towards his sister, and that they will...

Brother & Sister Problems: 7 yr old daughter, younger siblings, home situation
younger siblings, home situation, negative behavior: Pam, I am sure you realize that your daughter s aggressive behavior is just the icing on the cake . It is an indication that something is troubling her about either your home situation or the visiting arrangement with her father. ...

Brother & Sister Problems: ANNOYING BROTHER EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, annoying brother, attention span
annoying brother, attention span, little kids: Wow, that s a really hard thing to have to deal with. I m sorry you have to go through it. I can tell you that hitting never works. All it does is get you in trouble especially since he s so much younger. Your brother is so young that he s trying...

Brother & Sister Problems: Anger management brother, anger management, arguement
anger management, arguement, common sense: Naturally I would tell you.. don t do anything he hates. Common sense, right? But I feel like there s more to this. I personally would talk to your parents even before you and your brother get into an arguement and let them know how he abuses you and you...

Brother & Sister Problems: Annoying sisters, annoying sisters, mum and dad
annoying sisters, mum and dad, freind: Ah year 6, I think the best you can do is be patient, and don t let her see your getting annoyed because that will make her more excited and she will continue. OK she may keep at it even if you do that, but she will have to get tired of it eventually. just...

Brother & Sister Problems: Arumentative sister, older sister, niece
older sister, niece, lad: heyaa dawn your older sister is probarley very over protective and she might think this lad is taking advantage..she might also be slightly jelous that you have managed to keep a relationship over the last 8 months..this is just her caring for you....try...

Brother & Sister Problems: is she acting normal?, natural affection, silly question
natural affection, silly question, little sister: It really varies from family to family. A lot of my friends have siblings that even though they have moved out, they still go over there and spend time and visa versa. If you guys were close when you were younger and atleast got a long for the most part,...

Brother & Sister Problems: annoying sister, sibling rivalry, untoward behavior
sibling rivalry, untoward behavior, attention seeker: Katie, You mentioned that your dad and mom do not live together. Are they in the midst of a divorce? If they are, I can only presume this is the reason your younger sister is acting up. She is highly anxious about your parents pending separation and...

Brother & Sister Problems: Big problems with my sister, sister my sister, arsehole
sister my sister, arsehole, sibling: Wow Jarred, I can see why you dislike your sister! She sounds as if there s something upsetting her, but seen as though I don t know her, I can t be sure. There might be something going on with her that is making her act this way, or she might just not be...

Brother & Sister Problems: HE IS SUCH A BRATT, nice game, bratt
nice game, bratt, squeals: When i was your age, I had a lot of friends andmyself had little siblings the same way! its not unusual. Force is not the way.you wereright to choose nice. The thing is, you ll have to use it again, but much nicer. play a nice game with him , use toys, board...

Brother & Sister Problems: Bratty annoying sister, tattle tale, little sisters
tattle tale, little sisters, bad stuff: Little sisters are all alike if something doesn t go their way.. they get mad! But hitting her is a negative way to reinforce who is boss and shut her up! what you have to do is be nicer to her, be patient (she is only little) and spend some quality time with...

Brother & Sister Problems: Brother, smoke weed, drug addict
smoke weed, drug addict, mom and dad: Your parents need to take a stand. They shouldn t allow the drugs, alcohol, and fighting be welcomed in their house. Especially with you around - Your shouldn t be thinking a positive thing to do. What needs to be done; atleast through my eyes. They should...

Brother & Sister Problems: Brother's friend?, serously, nintendo 64
serously, nintendo 64, jerks: Hi Ashley. Well, I can understand how you feel about when they call you names and stuff. It is hard not to take things like that personally. People say that it will only affect you if you let it. But I think that is a bunch of crap. How can you not let it...

Brother & Sister Problems: Brother PROBLEM, delicate situation, romie
delicate situation, romie, tattle: Dear Romie, that s kind of a delicate situation. If he knows that you saw condoms in his jeans, he might get angry with you. You wouldn t want him to react in a bad way that will get you both into trouble. I would say talk to your parents. don t tattle...

Brother & Sister Problems: Brother problem, brother chris, young teens
brother chris, young teens: Hey Monique, You could do either thing. If you tell him, you can clear up some things and you two will probably start talking again. But on the other hand he could get made at you for bringing it up. If it were me, I would bring it up once and if things...

Brother & Sister Problems: Brother-Sister Problem, brother nick, monthes
brother nick, monthes, brother sister: Alexandra, Hey girl. Thank you for such a good question. There isn t much you can do to get Nicks attention right now. You could maybe see if he wants to go get lunch with you, and just the two of you, or see a movie, or even go to the corner store. And when...

Brother & Sister Problems: Brother/Sister problems, concious effort, relatioship
concious effort, relatioship, calling me names: Jim, That sounds like a very hard situation to be in. I know that when two relatives, especially as close as you are, are so far apart for so long, it puts a strain on both parties. Many times what will happen is that the two will grow apart. You may...

Brother & Sister Problems: Brother trouble, getting into oxford, petty jealousy
getting into oxford, petty jealousy, oxford university: hello, I am really sorry to reply you rather very very late infact I was having some problems in my family and I was trying to solve them and work them out and thank God he has helped me a lot. He is great. I am really very sorry once again...Coming to...

Brother & Sister Problems: My Brother, half brother, couple of days
half brother, couple of days, clue: Wow, that s a tough question. I guess it depends on whether or not your father would want to know about him. You could mention it to see how it goes, but if it doesn t go over well, I would just drop it. that s a very hard situation to be in. Were you...

Brother & Sister Problems: Brothers fighting, consulor, desperate need
consulor, desperate need, best of luck: Jennifer- I m so sorry this took so long for me to get to my computer was down. I think you should let your parents your parents know. It s not your place to fix this. If they already know then I would speak with someone else about it. Like a school consulor...

Brother & Sister Problems: Brothers!, weird monkey, monkey noises
weird monkey, monkey noises, colored pencils: Dear S.O, That s a really tough place to be in and I m sorry. My older brother is always making weird monkey noises and being stupid and a lot of people think it s funny. I just think that it s stupid and he thinks I m stupid. My oldest brother is always...

Brother & Sister Problems: me and my big brother, adolescent years, keeping bad company
adolescent years, keeping bad company, big brother: Has your brother entered his adolescent years? What makes you think he is on drugs and keeping bad company? If you love him, do not judge him rashly. Perhaps, he has just become more mature and is now a teenager. Teenage boys, as a rule, do not like...

Brother & Sister Problems: me and my bother keep fighting, glory hog, mum and dad
glory hog, mum and dad, e mail: Well there are a few things you can do. But i am not sure how well they will work for you. I will try my best 1- let your brother win on purpose ( unless he likes to gloat, no one likes a glory hog) 2- When you win, don t make such a big deal out of...

Brother & Sister Problems: my brother, wile, underware
wile, underware, embaresed: Hello Kelly, Hes younger than yyou,.. he might be trying to discover something more. Relax a little.. talk to him about different things.. so that he could actually forgot what he saw.. Try takin him out.. and try to talk to him more. enuf... if u need more...

Brother & Sister Problems: brother, compramise, yunger
compramise, yunger, time lock: Since your brother has moved in to help out your mom, I d guess he thinks he s the ead of the house, your pseudo-dad. The top thing I do with my sister, and she s only a year yunger than me. Compromise wear a jacket then take it off when you get to your friends...

Brother & Sister Problems: my brother, brother my brother, councilor
brother my brother, councilor, maniac: From hearing your description, I d seriiously advise asking your parents to interviene and possibly get some help for your brother. He might be jealous of the amount of attention you get, he might be a complete maniac who loves pushing your buttons. Tell you...

Brother & Sister Problems: brother, new girlfriend, relationships
new girlfriend, relationships, relationship: Make sure oyu don t change too much in you r relationship - do teh same things yo uused to do, talk about the same things and make sure he KNOWS that he comes before the girlfriend. Tell him that she won t get in the way and keep telling him that until he...

Brother & Sister Problems: My brother and me, exact ages, teenage problems
exact ages, teenage problems, follow ups: My advice is to make your brother your friend. His behavior is to a point normal with some families, however, you don t want him to be your enemy. How do you make him your friend? You may need to hang out with him more. Ask for his help on homework(Out of...

Brother & Sister Problems: brother, brother my brother, little brother
brother my brother, little brother, emotions: I understand what your going through. I have a younger brother who I believe gets royal treatment. Despite the fact they might get annoying they are your LITTLE brother. He will soon mature and realize the things that he has been doing was so last year. :)...

Brother & Sister Problems: brother acting like parent, talking to girls, french lesson
talking to girls, french lesson, delayed response: sorry for my delayed response, i have been without Internet for a few days. Well after reading your question I believe that the only thing you can do is try and turn it on him maybe. Find something that he had does bad, nobody is perfect, and threaten to tell...

Brother & Sister Problems: my brother anoys me and hits me, good luck, brother
good luck, brother: Dear Mikey, One of the best things you can do is to just ignore him when he calls you a name or something like that. And whatever you do you can t hit him back, it will just make him hit you more because he knows you will react to it. Don t let his name-calling...

Brother & Sister Problems: my brother has changed lately, drugrehab, drug addiction
drugrehab, drug addiction, avice: Based on the information you supplied, this is my response. Its difficult, but you have to let your brother make his choices, right or wrong. The best thing you can do is be availiable to him when he needs you as far as emotional support. Asking for...

Brother & Sister Problems: brother difficulty, playing games, condoms
playing games, condoms, dilemma: Talk to him. Try to leave your parents out of the situation until all is resolved with your brother and you. It would only bring up conflicts that your probably not willing to deal with. Confront your brother though and tell him how you feel about the situation...

Brother & Sister Problems: my brother is driving me crazy, latex allergies, horrible song
latex allergies, horrible song, food allergies: Well actually recently i spent a week in the house of my cousin who sounds exactly like your brother. And i was driven crazy myself but you just have to keep telling yourself that hes young thats how they are. Aswell reverse physcology works very well. My...

Brother & Sister Problems: My brother hits me when my parents aren't home, immediatley, boss
immediatley, boss, brother: Hi Lorelle, No ages are mentioned, but in general it is very wrong for your brother to hit you, You must try to hold yourself from hitting him back, because it makes matters worse. If he playfully hits you, then ignore it and he will eventually get bored,...

Brother & Sister Problems: brother is getting married, prospective wife, sweet mom
prospective wife, sweet mom, clever guy: The very fact that you are asking me about how to change your attitude is a good sign. It is an indication that you love your brother and are willing to re-establish your good relationship with him. An attitude is a feeling or emotion towards something...

Brother & Sister Problems: brother needing help, sense of humour, angry voice
sense of humour, angry voice, older sister: You don t state your age. Or their ages. I think your sister has a behavior problem. Maybe an anger problem, maybe depression, bipolar, I m not sure. It s hard to say without more facts, ALSO, I m not a psychologist and cannot tell you legally what she has....

Brother & Sister Problems: brother/sister relationships compared to brother/brother and sister/sister relationship, sibling rivalry, sister relationships
sibling rivalry, sister relationships, sister relationship: wow!! your reading way into the brother and sister realtionship. your siblings are there to be your friends that never leave your side. remember that. as you have friends that are girls outside of school. Treat your sister like that but with a little more...

Brother & Sister Problems: my brother, brother and sister, funny way
brother and sister, funny way, good mood: I meant go to your parents. But I just realized that if you were fighting at that age you are being just simple the normal brother and sister. I m 13 and My brother 17, It s kinda hard to give you and your brother advise because if my brother hurt my feelings...

Brother & Sister Problems: My brothers and my relation., air planes, denny
air planes, denny, ditch: you need to find something you both can do thats fun.. I mean you have to like bowling or pool or some sort of game that you both can go out and do together. have you sat down and talked about hanging out. You both need to just sit down and find something...

Brother & Sister Problems: my brothers, star valley wyoming, different kinds of drugs
star valley wyoming, different kinds of drugs, kinds of drugs: okay I m sorry you have to be put threw all of it. But there are ways you can help your entire family. 1st lets start with you. No matter how much pressure is being put on you dont do drugs. If it bothers you that you brothers do drug and smell bad then...

Brother & Sister Problems: bulling problems (from my little sister), one of my best friends, eily
one of my best friends, eily, size pants: Hello Casey, This is a case that disturbs me. I will tell you something. I have struggled with my weight for a long time. I always feel overweight, ugly, all sorts of horrible things. What s worse is that my family members, and even some people who...

Brother & Sister Problems: Children's rivalry-fighting, continuous rivalry, sibling rivalry
continuous rivalry, sibling rivalry, family dialogue: Anastasia, At their stage of development - middle childhood - I honestly do not think that the rivalry between your daughter and son is an indication of a deeper problem. This happens very often between siblings. You are right in discerning...

Brother & Sister Problems: Children (sisters) will not stop fighting!, daughters ages, rare times
daughters ages, rare times, chronological age: Yes, you are right! your daughters will grow out of their constant bickering - it will come as they mature. Siblings who are of the same sex and are close in chronological age tend to fight/bicker more than those of opposite sex or distant age. Right...

Brother & Sister Problems: CRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, pardis, good enough reason
pardis, good enough reason, brother sister: Pardis, How old is your older brother? It would help me to figure out why he is treating you the way he does. I found out from you that your brother is 18 years old which means he is 4 years older than you are. Maybe, this is the reason he teases...

Brother & Sister Problems: I cant handle my sister, councilor, suicidal thoughts
councilor, suicidal thoughts, little sister: Hi Rachel, This is very serious; you shouldn t be having these suicidal thoughts. I think you should take a step back from all of this. You are too young to be making your younger sister s problem all yours. You are very lucky you have two parents it is...

Brother & Sister Problems: why cant i seem to get on with my younger brother?, rule of thumb, happy holidays
rule of thumb, happy holidays, siblings: I m sorry you are having such a difficult time. You may not believe it now, but it will get better. Sometimes you just go through stages with siblings. Have you and your brother always been this way together? I m betting he s just testing out new behavior...

Brother & Sister Problems: i cant stop my brother from fighting with me, school counselor, jealousy
school counselor, jealousy, sleep: Dear Lindsay, Your brother probably hits you because he feels jealousy over you or fears you in some way. Have you ever tried talking to him about it? i know it may seem hard, but maybe ask him why he does it, and it will help to express the hidden feeling...

Brother & Sister Problems: How to change her heart. (1), immediate family members, girl friend
immediate family members, girl friend, traffic accident: Sophara, Did I get you right? You are asking me how to change the behavior or heart of your sister s girlfriend? I think this is stretching the problem a little too much. Her immediate family members, primarily her parents, are the people...

Brother & Sister Problems: constant fighting of my kids, good spanking, modern approach
good spanking, modern approach, school of thought: Hitting others is a common problem of children, be they 2 or 4 or 6. If you have read enough magazines/book on this topic, you must have heard one school of thought dealing with Hitting . IGNORE THE BEHAVIOR AND IT WILL GO AWAY AFTER SOME TIME AS THE...

Brother & Sister Problems: How to cope with a younger brother, smartest person on earth, respect for elders
smartest person on earth, respect for elders, hundred times: I know as an older sister that I hated hearing this, but your brother obviously really looks up to you. As for his angering you, he s learning what buttons to push to get you to that state. My youngest sister was an expert at this, and I didn t learn till...

Brother & Sister Problems: how should i cope with this?, little prayer, hendric
little prayer, hendric, older sister: Dear Hendric, It is not silly you miss your sister, its wonderful you loved her that much. If you say a little prayer for her every night and keep her in your thoughts, she will never have really left. I know its not the same but still. Anytime you need...

Brother & Sister Problems: Dating Relationship and Kids Fighting, positive reinforcements, sending text messages
positive reinforcements, sending text messages, apple cart: Julie, If both your kids and your boyfriend s kids got along real fine before, I can only surmise that something happened to upset the apple cart . You need to dialogue /talk seriously with your son to find out the reason for his anger....

Brother & Sister Problems: my daughter, mid teens, brother and sister
mid teens, brother and sister, groin: Peter, As you give no information in your question as to the ages of your children, I am going to presume that both your children are either in their early or mid-teens. Your daughter appears to be full of energy. As long as the wrestling...

Brother & Sister Problems: dealing with young children, freshman student, school counselor
freshman student, school counselor, whines: Sayuri- I know this is not the answer your looking for but you shouldn t have to handle that responsibility. You should only have to focus on school and just be a teenager. I would recommend talking to a trusted adult like a school counselor. I hope this...

Brother & Sister Problems: I decided to send this for you!, little brother, grain of salt
little brother, grain of salt, chests: Hello Wesley, All I can say is maybe try and talk to them to discourage them from doing things that annoy, or disturb you. But, remember the Bible says to do all things with love and to say everything with a grain of salt, so, try to be nice. If they don...

Brother & Sister Problems: Exclusion, abuse and others, heart to heart talk, heart to heart
heart to heart talk, heart to heart, eldest daughter: Maria, Before you can address the problem with your siblings, I think you need to talk to your parents seriously. Have a heart-to-heart talk with them. As parents, your father and mother need to use their power to discipline and control...

Brother & Sister Problems: extremely annoying sister !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, next friend, little sisters
next friend, little sisters, good luck: Hi a.b Little sisters can be very annoying! Trust me I know! There are a few ways to get around this, 1- Try bonding better with your sister, play with her more often, talk to her and she may become your next friend! 2- Don t argue too much ( no matter...

Brother & Sister Problems: Familty Problems, zero power, twenty five years
zero power, twenty five years, psycology: Layla, I understand your problem and sympathize with the pain you are experiencing as a result of being part of a dysfunctional family. If I were you I would concentrate on making life more manageable and peaceful for yourself and your sisters. Why?...

Brother & Sister Problems: Feeling Left Out, spur of the moment, mature person
spur of the moment, mature person, good relationship: That s a really hard situation. I would say just give them time. My own mom does that to me as well as other members of my family. I just try to find something else to do. That s really all you can do. If they don t respond to anything, just apologize,...

Brother & Sister Problems: Fighting with my brother who is 22, good advice, personal space
good advice, personal space, migraine: Fighting with brothers is annoying and so can step parents too. I am not sure how to deal with the step parent part and I m dreadfully sorry, it is outside my area. But brothers I know plenty about. Wanting to stop fighting is perfectly normal too. Your...

Brother & Sister Problems: the FREAKY kid, arguement, sibling
arguement, sibling, viewpoints: It is really annoying what older brothers can do Hayden, especially teenage ones, but that is no reason to give up. I am not quite sure how to handle this but I will try anyway. two ways i think may work for you- - try to spend more time with him and...

Brother & Sister Problems: ANNOYING BROTHER EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, kiss
Brother & Sister Problems: ANNOYING BROTHER EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, kiss

Brother & Sister Problems: Annoying sisters, boundries, comfort zone
Brother & Sister Problems: Annoying sisters, boundries, comfort zone, serious attitude

Brother & Sister Problems: annoying sister, little sisters, siblings
Brother & Sister Problems: annoying sister, little sisters, siblings, nuts

Brother & Sister Problems: Bratty annoying sister, money food, little sister
Brother & Sister Problems: Bratty annoying sister, money food, little sister, god

Brother & Sister Problems: big problem with sister, extra marital sex, bro sis
Brother & Sister Problems: big problem with sister, extra marital sex, bro sis, sperm banks

Brother & Sister Problems: my brother is driving me crazy, brother andrew, watching television
Brother & Sister Problems: my brother is driving me crazy, brother andrew, watching television, brown leather

Brother & Sister Problems: brother/sister relationships compared to brother/brother and sister/sister relationship, married life
Brother & Sister Problems: brother/sister relationships compared to brother/brother and sister/sister relationship, married life

Brother & Sister Problems: Children (sisters) will not stop fighting!, long hope, girl stuff
Brother & Sister Problems: Children (sisters) will not stop fighting!, long hope, girl stuff, parents

Brother & Sister Problems: why cant i seem to get on with my younger brother?
Brother & Sister Problems: why cant i seem to get on with my younger brother?

Brother & Sister Problems: How to cope with a younger brother, weakling, beggining
Brother & Sister Problems: How to cope with a younger brother, weakling, beggining, scarlet

Brother & Sister Problems: Fighting with my brother who is 22, brothers and sisters, video game
Brother & Sister Problems: Fighting with my brother who is 22, brothers and sisters, video game

Brother & Sister Problems: forcefull abuse., domestic violence shelter, counselor
Brother & Sister Problems: forcefull abuse., domestic violence shelter, counselor, parents

Brother & Sister Problems: Help!!!
Brother & Sister Problems: Help!!!

Brother & Sister Problems: My little brat sister., weight lifter, fashion magazines
Brother & Sister Problems: My little brat sister., weight lifter, fashion magazines, brat

Brother & Sister Problems: My little brother is a troublemaker!, bad sister
Brother & Sister Problems: My little brother is a troublemaker!, bad sister

Brother & Sister Problems: little siblings with no respect, super nanny, little brother
Brother & Sister Problems: little siblings with no respect, super nanny, little brother, little sister

Brother & Sister Problems: Major sibling Problem, little brother, discipline
Brother & Sister Problems: Major sibling Problem, little brother, discipline, video games

Brother & Sister Problems: I'm not sure what to do... I'm scared for him., legal age to have sex, liver
Brother & Sister Problems: I'm not sure what to do... I'm scared for him., legal age to have sex, liver, teenagers

Brother & Sister Problems: Older Brother, good luck, mom
Brother & Sister Problems: Older Brother, good luck, mom

Brother & Sister Problems: Older Sister Rejection, fuss, erands
Brother & Sister Problems: Older Sister Rejection, fuss, erands, friends in high places

Brother & Sister Problems: older child syndrome, enormous shadow, bekky
Brother & Sister Problems: older child syndrome, enormous shadow, bekky, converstion

Brother & Sister Problems: older sister that thinks she controls everything, cousens, excuse
Brother & Sister Problems: older sister that thinks she controls everything, cousens, excuse

Brother & Sister Problems: SEX, religious prejudices, family planning clinic
Brother & Sister Problems: SEX, religious prejudices, family planning clinic, peer educator

Brother & Sister Problems: Sister depressed and has anger issues...also my roomate!, good books, sibling
Brother & Sister Problems: Sister depressed and has anger issues...also my roomate!, good books, sibling, happiness

Brother & Sister Problems: My Sister, filthy mouth
Brother & Sister Problems: My Sister, filthy mouth

Brother & Sister Problems: Sisters, little sister
Brother & Sister Problems: Sisters, little sister

Brother & Sister Problems: my sister, steady job, brother
Brother & Sister Problems: my sister, steady job, brother, heart

Brother & Sister Problems: sister, mild violence
Brother & Sister Problems: sister, mild violence

Brother & Sister Problems: me and my sister fight a lot, cops
Brother & Sister Problems: me and my sister fight a lot, cops

Brother & Sister Problems: sister groin kicking, blood vessel, testis
Brother & Sister Problems: sister groin kicking, blood vessel, testis, testes

Brother & Sister Problems: Is my sister jealous?, bizarre torture, barbs
Brother & Sister Problems: Is my sister jealous?, bizarre torture, barbs, paces

Brother & Sister Problems: me and my sister has thwe same name, real friend, marche
Brother & Sister Problems: me and my sister has thwe same name, real friend, marche, truth

Brother & Sister Problems: stepsister, household
Brother & Sister Problems: stepsister, household

Brother & Sister Problems: My Twin Brother, twin brother, day dream
Brother & Sister Problems: My Twin Brother, twin brother, day dream, wit

Brother & Sister Problems: I WANT TO DESTROY HIM, groudon, charizard
Brother & Sister Problems: I WANT TO DESTROY HIM, groudon, charizard, pokemon game

Brother & Sister Problems: what to do ?, psychologist
Brother & Sister Problems: what to do ?, psychologist

Brother & Sister Problems: ?, legal age of consent, age of consent
Brother & Sister Problems: ?, legal age of consent, age of consent, places in the world

Brother & Sister Problems: Younger Brother with No Respect, prob, crowd
Brother & Sister Problems: Younger Brother with No Respect, prob, crowd, parents

Brother & Sister Problems: My Younger Brother, little brother
Brother & Sister Problems: My Younger Brother, little brother

Brother & Sister Problems: family......?, catorgory, scary world
catorgory, scary world, serious things: I can help you only a little. You only think you have no shoulder to cry on or that your family is falling appart. That 1 special friend will always be there to help. And guess what nobody is perfect. I m going threw the same thing right know. It just my brother...

Brother & Sister Problems: family......?, catorgory, scary world
catorgory, scary world, serious things: Katie, I understand you perfectly! That is the worst thing in the world when you feel alone. For me, because I am religious, I look up to G-d when things feel like that. But, I am not sure you are, so I will suggest something else. First, talk to your parents...

Brother & Sister Problems: fight, distant cousin, old toys
distant cousin, old toys, terrible two: Your 2.8 years old son is exhibiting behavior typical of the stage known as terrible two . In a few more months, he will become more manageable. In the meantime, it would benefit both your son and his 1.3 year old distant cousin if you introduce time...

Brother & Sister Problems: We always fight!, slamming doors, new girlfriend
slamming doors, new girlfriend, necklase: Crystal, Your second e-mail made me realize that you have a really serious problem with your brother. If he will not listen to you, then you need another mature adult to intervene. I still see your father as the best person to help you...

Brother & Sister Problems: fights and arguments between my older sister and myself, sense of humour, angry voice
sense of humour, angry voice, older sister: You do not have to be the one to ask her; talk to your father beforehand and he can be the one to ask the individual family members to convene for what some call a round table or others refer to as a family session . Another option is to get a family...

Brother & Sister Problems: forcefull abuse., whinney, parnets
whinney, parnets, abusive behavior: I can do very little by way of really helping you as the problem lies heavy with your brother, he being the abuser and your the victim. You need to speak to both of your parents seriously about your brother s abusive behavior as they are the only people...

Brother & Sister Problems: foster sister, metal folding chairs, foster sister
metal folding chairs, foster sister, little sister: You may be putting your hopes on something that hasn t happened yet. You don t know that things would be much different from how they were then. What if they were the same or worse? It could be that your foster sister still has some growing up to do. Her...

Brother & Sister Problems: i found out this year that..., teenage years, stupid things
teenage years, stupid things, becuase: Esther, Sadly, there isn t an awful lot you can do in this situation except tell her that you feel let down because she lied to you and also that the people she hangs around with are going to get her in trouble. I m afraid it sounds like she s going to have...

Brother & Sister Problems: Graduation, meaningful times, friend whos
meaningful times, friend whos, trubute: Well Actually I just wrote a song to my friend whos graduating and leaving this year. It took me awhile to write as well. I can only telll you is focus on the Really meaningful times you guyz had and make sure to add what you think of him and his personality....

Brother & Sister Problems: grouchy sister, teen friends, chating
teen friends, chating, family time: Have you tried asking your parents help as I suggested? You and your sister have only the weekends at home as you spend much of your time in school. Also, as she is older than you are she can always brush you aside. Asking your Dad or Mom s help to...

Brother & Sister Problems: Hate, attiude, softball games
attiude, softball games, bloody nose: Well She could have just been Saying that out of anger. Ive done this many times with my brother where ive screamed i hate you but i didnt. i really love him alot. so it could have just been said out of anger. if not though you might either want to back off...

Brother & Sister Problems: HELP, garbage, mom
garbage, mom, adult: Hey, Sorry I took so long. Okay when you guys talk and she s rude like that then dont tell her anything. she dosn t deserve to hear what you have to say. Also tell your mom or an adult, you know you can talk to. And ask her why she s so rude, and why...

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younger siblings, realtionship, common interests: A little more information would help. For instance, what do you most often fight about? Is he a protective older brother or does he pick on you? Sometimes protective older brother s worry that you will make mistakes. I know b/c I ve definitely fit into...